1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: Buggle up, Hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: It is subject so angry I'm seeing red. Dear Stephen Shirley. 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: I begin this letter by saying, I hate my husband 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: of twelve years. I feel as though he has made 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: a fool of me, and I feel stupid. The thought 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: of him makes me sick to my stomach. I want 7 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: to say, kiss my butt. I'm at the point in 8 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: which I don't even care to confront him for what reason? 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: Another stupid lie? Okay, you can tell me that he 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: lies to me because I am the one he doesn't 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: want to hurt. But when he lies, at which point 12 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: does a man realize that he is hurting me? He's 13 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,319 Speaker 1: still hurting me at this moment. It is not Uh 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: do I leave him? But how do I leave? And 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: this is why I am writing you. I know getting 16 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: even is not the right choice, but it would make 17 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: me feel better. I would like your opinion. Here's what 18 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: I came up with so far. Set him up. I 19 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: know he is meeting a woman in person that he 20 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: meets online. He doesn't even know one of the women 21 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: he's talking to is me. Do I talk to him first? 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 1: Ask him what I am lacking that makes him look elsewhere? 23 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: Do I just get my ducks in a row and 24 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: walk by the way. I would rather put a print 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: of his profile and put it over his side of 26 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: the bed while he is sleeping. What do you think? Uh? 27 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 1: I say, get some billboards. That's what we were talking 28 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: about earlier. Anyway, the latest trend. Right anyway, if you 29 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: got an extra two dollars laying around. But my favorite 30 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: line in this whole letter is when he says I 31 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: love you, I want to say, kiss my butt. Wow. 32 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: That says a lot about your relationship. You're that angry, 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: You're You're very, very angry and emotional. You want to 34 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: get him back, you want revenge, you want to feel better, 35 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: you said. But I gotta ask you, really, is it 36 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: worth all of that? Is he worth this? Do you 37 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: still love this man? Do you still want a relationship 38 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: with him? Can he beat trusted? Those are the kinds 39 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: of questions you need to be asking yourself once you 40 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: calm down and I get that you're upset right now, 41 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: I understand this, Uh. I kind of think you are 42 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: still feeling him because you asked the question, do you 43 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: talk to him first? And do you you want to 44 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: ask him what are you lacking in all of that? 45 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: So if you if there's still some feelings there that 46 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: you have for this man, go ahead and talk to him, 47 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: but you gotta ask yourself as he worth all of this? First, Steve, Man, Uh, 48 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: thank you, Shirley. Nice response to all that. YadA YadA YadA. 49 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: He go a deal. But I ain't got nothing to 50 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: say to this won't. My notes is all for the man. Oh. 51 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: First of all, when a woman in a letter opens 52 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: up by open, let me begin this letter by saying, 53 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: I hate my hoo man, he has no idea that, hey, 54 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: he feel I hate my husband. Then she says, I 55 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: want to say kiss my boy. That's my favorite lad. 56 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 1: Something to y'all. Let me say this to you right here, 57 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: right now, the word hate and but cannot go in 58 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: to sit saying since if a woman hate you, I 59 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: can assure you, but it's not the words she's using. 60 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: Part two, Steve, of your response to today's Strawberry letter. 61 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: Well so angry I'm seeing red, Steve. I have no 62 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: nothing to say to this woman because I'm afraid of scared. Yeah, 63 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: I don't want her to turn none of this on me. 64 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: This is for the dude, that's doing his girl wrong. 65 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: Listen to me. Hell hath no fury like a woman 66 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: school at the top of the letter when she said 67 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:55,119 Speaker 1: I hate my husband. This is not good for no man. 68 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: Once a woman utters them words, here, come to billboards, 69 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: come the inter net. Lies up. I got all that 70 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: once again, Charlette. I'm not saying anything to this woman. 71 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: I don't need to see my life. But listen, and 72 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: I'm serious. No, I'm very serious about this. If you 73 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: think you know who this guy is, please call his 74 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: brother and let him know. Because see, let me show something. 75 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: The Strawberry letter is meant to help people to solve problems. 76 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 1: Sometimes we laugh with the strawberry letters. This is the 77 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: first time we've ever had a strawberry letter. This is 78 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: not what the Strawberry letter is supposed to be about. 79 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: It's on here, by the way. I would rather put 80 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: a print of his profile and put it over it's 81 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: side of the bed. Why he's sleeping? What do you think? Yeah, 82 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 1: I take it literally, the print of his profile in 83 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 1: his profile. Oh you don't hear it. Hum, she's blowing 84 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: off some steam, Steve, Come on, blowing off steam in 85 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: a sheet that you're sleeping under. On your side of 86 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: the bed because in the print, blow off steam, take 87 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: a drink, don't for a walk. That's not how we 88 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 1: do it. Steve. Are you scared? Are you? Yes? Yes? 89 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: This woman here, I don't want her coming after me. 90 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: She's fed up with his lies. She's fed up with 91 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: his mess. That's why he somebody noticed. Man, Please, for 92 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: the love of God, tell him I'm not plotting murder. 93 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all think it is. But she 94 00:05:56,080 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: set him up though. All right, to the woman, he talked. 95 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: He talked to his wife. What you got on? All right, Steve, 96 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. You can email us 97 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at 98 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: my girl, surely and don't forget to Please join me 99 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: this coming Thursday at one thirty pm Eastern Time for 100 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter Live after show on Facebook. Okay, one 101 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: thirty pm Eastern time. Join me. You're listening to the 102 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.