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Speaker 1: Mary Fitzgerald joins me to recap this episode. This is

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Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season eleven, Episode eight, The Good,

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Speaker 1: the Bad, and the ugly leather Pants. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: Nice to meet you and thank you for being here.

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Speaker 1: How's it going in the entertainment world and your show

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Speaker 1: and your life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it just keeps going. It keeps blowing

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Speaker 2: up and still doing well. I think we're the longest

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Speaker 2: running show on Netflix.

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Speaker 3: And stop really yeah with yeah going on season A

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Speaker 3: and I think seven is the longest that it's run

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Speaker 3: and he shows run.

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Speaker 1: So that's amazing. Yeah, So that's amazing. Wow, that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: And it's been a good experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I mean, you know, there's always ups and downs.

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Speaker 2: There have been a couple couple of moments where.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I am not doing this anymore. It's not

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Speaker 2: And then and then you know, I cal him down

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Speaker 1: But who are the top five brokers in California? Not no,

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Speaker 1: it does enough to be famous, But who are are they famous?

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Speaker 2: I would say, Well, Frederick Ecklin is out here now,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that book was amazing. It was adult chaka bon

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So we go to Garcel's house. Also cute, charming house.

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Speaker 1: I like Garcel. I know Garcel, I've met Garcel. She

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Speaker 1: house with your actual wall behind you.

435
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 2: I am so jealous, Like that is the time to

436
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:42,120
Speaker 2: do housewives or any sort of reality show when there's

437
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 2: no social media, no haters every single day criticizing every

438
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 2: single thing you say and do.

439
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: No, and there's no glam. You were yourself. You actually

440
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 1: could be who you really were every day. You didn't

441
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 1: like walk in wearing a couture outfit pretending that that's

442
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 1: what you have lunch, and you just like were what

443
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 1: I'm wearing right now, like you're at you know what

444
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: I mean, We're just normal women in New York that

445
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 1: some of us had money, but even the ones who

446
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: had money were still wearing sweatpants. Now it's like an

447
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 1: exaggerated version. So I don't know how I would advise.

448
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: So anyway, I met Garcela at Mark Burnett's house. I've

449
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 1: always liked her, and that's when she asked me how

450
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 1: to navigate it. And I was just like, oh, oh,

451
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: you know, hey, you look great. You know, just like

452
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: probably just like skirting the issue. But I like garcel

453
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: and do we have any idea why her son is

454
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: studying Japanese in particular, it's a very specific language in

455
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,719
Speaker 1: high school to be studying. That's such a teenager expecting

456
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: his mom to be quiet in a kitchen, which is

457
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: the center of the house, when you could easily go upstate.

458
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 1: Like it was so ridiculous. She was like, shit, everybody,

459
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: like what are you talking about. You're in the middle

460
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: of the kitchen doing your homework, Like, go upstairs, what

461
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: are you doing?

462
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 2: Go to a different room, like in your room. You

463
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 2: should have like a desk in your room. Anyway, the

464
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: kids thinking count is not where you do homework or

465
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: you do something like go to your room, yeah.

466
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 1: Or do it here in too bad, like learn Japanese

467
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: while I'm cooking and while your brother's like what, I

468
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: don't even have That's such teen life, where like parents,

469
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: let the kids were on the show that it's not

470
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 1: the same thing.

471
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: I thought, well, maybe they just did that for show purposes,

472
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: like to give some sort of thing, because surely she

473
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: would have just been like, this is a kitchen.

474
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 4: We cook and we do dishes in the kitchen. If

475
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 4: you need to study in your room.

476
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 2: But if you'll like the noise, then don't be in

477
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 2: the kitchen.

478
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: So true, she wasn't doing like a cabaret show if

479
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: you don't like, yeah, she was. She was doing what

480
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: you do in the kitchen, like she wasn't having sex.

481
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: She was unloading the dishwasher and cook it exactly right.

482
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 1: That's what homeworking is not yet. Yeah, but that would

483
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: have been really this is exactly what. Here's me reenacting

484
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:48,959
Speaker 1: that with Brnn.

485
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 2: Mom.

486
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: She's like, are you are you okay? Right now? And

487
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: the kid actually said to the brother are you okay?

488
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: The kid, the kid doing the homework, because name is

489
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: Jack's said to the brother, are you okay? It's like

490
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: I would have said to Brinn, Hi, this is a

491
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: whole house, other people live here, this is the kitchen.

492
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 1: I was thinking about Lisa and Harry, and I was

493
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,160
Speaker 1: thinking about all of the homegrown tomatoes and how I'm

494
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 1: a fit I fiddle around the house like with organizing

495
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: and things like I'm a fiddler pack of gifts doing.

496
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: I was wondering if that's like, if he's like the

497
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: one who's fiddling around in the garden. It just seems

498
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: like a nice thing for people to take up like

499
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: golf where you could like just play around in the

500
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: garden then have fruits and vegetables.

501
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 4: I do, I have a garden.

502
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 2: You do tell me, Okay, So I have to be

503
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: honest about this though, because my husband is more like Harry,

504
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 2: where he's good at all those things. It's my ideas

505
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: to do these things. And I buy the step and

506
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 2: I plan it all out, and then he upkeeps everything

507
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: because I forget, so he is. He's got a green thumb,

508
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 2: and I don't, but I want to, so I go

509
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 2: check on him. I'm like, yeah, we've got all like

510
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 2: the plants, and I'll go pick them. He does all

511
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 2: the upkeep and he will actually plant them because he

512
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: knows how to do everything, and that's better at it.

513
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 4: And he's a much better cook too.

514
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 2: But I do make pasta, and I'm very good at

515
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 2: blonnaise and chili, but I'm very bad cook in general.

516
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 4: But my husband can cook quite well.

517
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: You're good with ground beef.

518
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 2: Like like Harry, and he's very he's very handy so

519
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 2: around the house, so that's nice.

520
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: I this is how crazy I am. I have two

521
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: but I have an apple orchard. And the problem is, well,

522
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: first of all. I had a dental issue this year,

523
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: so like I couldn't even eat the apples, and my

524
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: heart is broken. It's the first year we had like

525
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: the most gorgeous. They look like Fiji or Gala apples.

526
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: But I digress and they're so sweet. But the problem

527
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: is it upsets me because there's so many apples, and

528
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: what are we going to do? Like now I'm forcing

529
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: people to take apples home. We're forcing people to eat

530
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 1: apple sauce. I feel like I'm giving baskets of apple away.

531
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: So if I had all of these vegetables and things,

532
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: I would feel like a responsibility to the garden, not

533
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: just to take care of it, but to like distribute

534
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 1: its goods. And I think that'd be too much of

535
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: a job for me. Why can't you sell them well

536
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: that I don't need another job, that's a real job.

537
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like what are we doing with all these tomatoes?

538
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: Like I need one tomato tonight or two tomatoes. I

539
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: don't need seventy. So Harry, you know, thank God for

540
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: the show so he could cook and use all those tomatoes.

541
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: I would love to go pick a tomato and have it,

542
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: but then the other thirty are gonna go back. I guess, Yeah,

543
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 1: I guess, but it's compost. I tell everyone that works

544
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: to me, just go just do your food shopping outside there.

545
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I would have to do that too, because

546
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: I do. I've got avocados and tomatoes and well there's

547
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 2: a bunch of things out there, but I've let a

548
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 2: couple of them go bad because we just and I

549
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: don't mean to, and I get so upset when it

550
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: happens because I'm like, no, there's my homegrown ones.

551
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: That's what I'm say. That's exactly you're proving my point.

552
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: And like, if you have a giant thing a basil,

553
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: and you need just a little now, you got to

554
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: make jars of pest. Though it feels like a project.

555
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I tell people go take our basil too, because

556
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 2: the basil goes so fast.

557
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 1: Shit, all right, well here's what I think would be cool.

558
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 4: So I have to have everybody picket picket.

559
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 2: It still doesn't it's still not enough, Like there's still

560
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: extra all the time.

561
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: If I were shooting a show, what I would do

562
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: right now, and I might do it in my real

563
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 1: life anyway, is I would say to my whole team,

564
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: everybody decide one thing that you want. Because I have

565
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: a wee work building on this property, so my staff

566
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: works in a separate structure. So I would say to everybody,

567
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: what do you each want, and we'd each plant something

568
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: for us, and then everybody would get to take vegetables

569
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: and fruiton because I have a lot of people here,

570
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: I probably like six to ten people. So if everybody

571
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: took maybe I'm going to grow a garden. Based on

572
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,239
Speaker 1: the Spis and Harry and Lisen you okay, all right.

573
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 2: It's very satisfying though, like to be able to pick

574
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 2: your own things.

575
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 4: There is something very satisfying about it.

576
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: When do you plant?

577
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 4: I think it depends on the thing.

578
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, the thing.

579
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to look into this.

580
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 2: I'm not that good a mcgardner.

581
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 4: It was just that, like I want it on my property.

582
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: I had a nursery come like actually plant the different

583
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: types of trees, and then we bought the all the

584
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: herbs and of keeping them. But I don't know if

585
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 2: we did it at the right time of the year

586
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: or not.

587
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna find out. But you're also in Alla,

588
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: so that's a produce capital. So Dori, it's funny. She

589
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: was talking about her bridal collection. I don't know what

590
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: ended up happening with it, but Nectaria, they've reached out

591
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: to me. They actually reached out to me to make

592
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: me a wedding dress before, and I then connected that

593
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: that was someone that It sounds like Dorita is doing

594
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: like a collaboration with them for one collection. It doesn't

595
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: sound like Nectaria is going to be her company. It

596
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: sounds like one of these sort of housewives business things

597
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: where it's not really your business, but it's like a

598
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: thing to talk about on the show. And it's a

599
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: line kind of thing, right, Like Kyle had a store

600
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: Alien too, but it wasn't really her store. It was

601
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: Alien two store, but it was called Kyle. Because a

602
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: brand has come to you, you're on Beverly Hills, how

603
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: do we get involved? And so that's what this sounds like.

604
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: And I bet you it's beautiful. I'd love to actually

605
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 1: have a dress or see a dress. I don't know

606
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: if this comes to fruition, but I like the idea.

607
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought one that they they just showed the

608
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: picture of on the episode and it looked stunny.

609
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 4: So I don't know. I don't know either if if

610
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 4: it actually got made or I.

611
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: Don't know, what did you do for your wedding? What

612
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: did you wear?

613
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 2: You know? They actually they're not there anymore. It was

614
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: it was called floor Bear and it's atique beautiful boutique

615
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: bridal store on Meller's Place, so charming, and then the

616
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: dresses were just stunning, and so it was actually the

617
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,719
Speaker 2: opposite of what I thought I was going to do.

618
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: It was not this that I thought I was going

619
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 2: to pick. I had my mind, like I had a

620
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 2: vision of what I wanted, and then everything just kept

621
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: getting messed up, like it was our third venue like that.

622
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: We went through the first one production and the and

623
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 2: the venue could not get on the same page. So

624
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 2: I already kind of started deciding, like the whole vibe

625
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 2: of the wedding started picking things out, and I was like, guys,

626
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: come on, we had to get this locked in, and

627
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 2: we started doing stuff. I put down a deposit and

628
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: this happened twice and then and then they were like, no,

629
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 2: it doesn't work.

630
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god. And Sewn Elliott.

631
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 2: Actually helped me find us another one. It was this

632
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 2: gorgeous house in Malibu, and then the husband and wife

633
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 2: got divorced or they decided to get divorced, and the

634
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: wife it was still like it's it's fine, it's fine,

635
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: you can still do the wedding there. That husband was

636
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: really pissed and was like nope. He's like, I don't

637
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: want any wedding here. We're not doing it. So five

638
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: weeks before my wedding, what yes, five weeks before and

639
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: we're filming and they legit got made me. They would

640
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 2: not let him go. They're like, okay, wait, because he

641
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: called production for saying listen, we got a problem. They

642
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: just backed out and so you guys aren't gonna be

643
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: able to film there. She can't on the wedding there.

644
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: They're like, don't tell her yet, don't don't.

645
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 1: Call her because they wanted it for the show.

646
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: Wanted it for the show. So I I lugit.

647
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 4: Thought he was this was just for the show. And

648
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 4: they never do that.

649
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 2: But I was like, they never that would say don't.

650
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 4: Answer your phone too if we're filming.

651
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 2: And so, and I was sitting there and well and

652
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 2: my phone was rking. I just turned it over and

653
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: they're like, go ahead and answer it. Go ahead.

654
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 4: I was like.

655
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 2: And I just kind of like looked away and they're like, Mary,

656
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: go ahead and answer it. I was like, oh, what

657
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: are they doing? And so I pick it up. I

658
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: see it, Sean, I pick it up, and I'm like there.

659
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: But I didn't really buy it at first. I thought

660
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: they're just messing with me, just to see what I'm

661
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: gonna do, because no way, why would they have.

662
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: Now five weeks before?

663
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 4: They would never, but they they did.

664
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,239
Speaker 2: They were just like, please just wait until like this

665
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: time where we can catch her role.

666
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: Right of course that's gold.

667
00:32:58,680 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

668
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 4: And after we were done, like what that wasn't real?

669
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 4: But right? I was like, I mean why what and

670
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 4: They're like, no, that was real.

671
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 2: We just asked them to call while we were on

672
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: camera and I was like, no, no, Mary, that was

673
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: real and they backed out. Oh my, it was deposit.

674
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: Wait did you really pay for your Don't tell me

675
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: you paid for your own wedding and gave it away

676
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: for content. What you know. I didn't pay a goddamn

677
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: dime a my wedding.

678
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 2: I mean I got I got like things where a

679
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: trade out, Yeah, like trades. First off, I still wanted

680
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: to pay a good amount because the show was still

681
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: new at the time. I mean, but I still got

682
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 2: quite a few things I got discounts or or for

683
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 2: trade for things for it because I can't show that

684
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: I can't.

685
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine paying for a wedding that was

686
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: covered by a television show, not because of not only

687
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: because you're giving away something it's so valuable, because it's

688
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: not the same. Like it's like saying when I go

689
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: on vacation with Ramona to Mexico or somewhere, that I

690
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: would pay for that, Like that's it's it's like torture

691
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: going on show vacation.

692
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 4: Had had but the house rights been on when you

693
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 4: were on it?

694
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 2: Were you right?

695
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 4: At the beginning?

696
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: It was my own spinoff show was three seasons, and

697
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: then I had a spinoff that was Bethany getting Married.

698
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see so Orizonzo. We were at the beginning

699
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 2: of season two and it wasn't like there was anything.

700
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 4: It was a brand new show.

701
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: And we were just like we were just happy, like

702
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 2: second season.

703
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: I know, I just never would oh my god.

704
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, I know, and I say

705
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 2: yes to everything I know about that. I'm like, I'm

706
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: a team player.

707
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 4: Okay, I know, so I know.

708
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: But I did get a lot of stuff, like for free.

709
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 2: It would have cost triple what.

710
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 4: I paid at least, but I know, I don't know.

711
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: I'm still paid probably forty fifty grand or something. Yeah,

712
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 2: but I ended up doing it at a client's house

713
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,799
Speaker 2: and so it was able to sell. Everything worked out

714
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 2: because then so getting back to the wedding, yeah, it

715
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: ended up we just found out. It was this new

716
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 2: venue which was which is my dream house that I

717
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 2: was talking about, like where it was like one day

718
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 2: and it just matched the theme and I didn't I

719
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 2: never thought I would pick it. I saw it on

720
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: the hanger, I was like, nah, And my friend told

721
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: me to try it, and she's like, just just humor me.

722
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 2: Tried it on.

723
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: Oh pretty, it's like romantic and Victorian, where you would

724
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: have thought you'd do something more like this's gorgeous.

725
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 2: Though traditional, and then yeah that hew, yeah, oh that's funny.

726
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,280
Speaker 2: That's like looks like the same stand.

727
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: That's hysterical. That's stunning. Yeah, very pretty, that's very pretty.

728
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 2: Bridge I'm saying actually on my back, like no one

729
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 2: ever sees it or anything but the yeah, it's and

730
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 2: I got it before I ever met Romaine, and it

731
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 2: said the only thing real in life are your dreams

732
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 2: in love.

733
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: Oh nice, and you got to have a dress that

734
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: showcase that. That's amazing.

735
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 2: Okay, it happened to have that, and then it kind

736
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: of went along with a romantic vibe of.

737
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: Oh I got it guard, Yeah, it's beautiful. Okay. So

738
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 1: their table was gorgeous. Harry did a beautiful job. I

739
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: like that of not pretentious and fancy, like a homie vibe.

740
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 1: I like the whole vibe. I like what he's wearing.

741
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: I like that she's dressed casual during the scene. I

742
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: miss and prefer non costume Lisa. I like natural, normal Lisa.

743
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: She like leaned into the Erica Jane dor read of

744
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 1: it all, and so did Kyle. Everybody did. But the

745
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: show used to be a little more down to earth

746
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:26,359
Speaker 1: and I like that, Lisa. So then Sutton walks in,

747
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: and now the Tomasino thing is said, and I guess

748
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: it's in another language, peeping tom. So this is becoming

749
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: like a prodding of this issue and as a side

750
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: so that's an issue between Crystal and Sutton. And now

751
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: there's a side issue that seems to be getting resolved

752
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: between Garcel and Lisa Rinna, because you saw a throwback

753
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: to like something that happened and they're working on it.

754
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: But now Lisa's decided that's a very producer thing. Well,

755
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: why don't you have her birthday party as a show

756
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: of it was an olive branch. So she has the

757
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,280
Speaker 1: birthday party on her dime. Because we've talked about parties,

758
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: but this isn't like a fancy party. But she's got

759
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: a bartender. So Lisa throws the party for Garcel's birthday,

760
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: which seems like, like I said, an olive branch. But

761
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the pasta, and I'm thinking about when

762
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: I shot with Kyle a crossover episode years ago on

763
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills and Kyle said, none of these girls eat.

764
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: She said that to me, she said, no one eats

765
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: on the show. And I served grilled scallops and I

766
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,479
Speaker 1: forgot what else, like something very light, because I thought

767
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: this is Beverally. You know New York. We ate like

768
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 1: Marmona ate every sonya ate, I ate, Drinda ate like

769
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: we ate.

770
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 4: To tell me to stop eating.

771
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: And almost every scene they will wait to bring it

772
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 2: food out because they're like, Mary, can you stop eating

773
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 2: for a few minutes so that we yes, I'm this

774
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 2: conversation because no one wants to see you with food.

775
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm starving. I want.

776
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,320
Speaker 1: But back in the day before Izenviic, everybody used to like,

777
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: does Bethany even eat? She doesn't eat people assistance of mind.

778
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: Everyone used to say that was the number one question.

779
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: Just she eat.

780
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 1: It was like an obsession, and Dirinda would always look

781
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 1: at me. Dinda would tell Derinda would always tell everybody

782
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: like this girl eats, and she'd look at me and

783
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 1: she'd goes, I don't understand how that plate fits in there.

784
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 1: She's like, poked my body, A pointed to my body

785
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: and like the plate is like mounds of FOODGE like that,

786
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: how does that fit in there? So she's funny about it.

787
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: But I don't think anybody ate. I was looking at

788
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: if anybody ate Kyle apparently ate hers. I was thinking

789
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: bowl and yet's for this group like read the room.

790
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 4: I would have loved it the same.

791
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, oh my god, I

792
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 2: want to I wouldn't see how he makes it and

793
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: like it looks so good.

794
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 4: It made me crave fasta Actually, when I watched it.

795
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: It made I want past it out. It's so funny

796
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: you said that I want pasta tonight with Brent. I

797
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:50,720
Speaker 1: literally want I was thinking, I want to make homemade sauce.

798
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 1: There were a lot of like typical La things I saw.

799
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 1: There was the Ivy china that I have at Ivy Pottery,

800
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: and I saw what I would bet my life as

801
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 1: a Sweet Lady Jane cake, which is a place on

802
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 1: Melrose that looked like it wasn't.

803
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 4: That that I think it may have been.

804
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it looked.

805
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and like she did a nice Duckhorn wine

806
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 1: was a very nice wine, like and they're all giving

807
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,720
Speaker 1: each other all these lavish gifts, which I was thinking

808
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: about the holidays and how I give aways, give out

809
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: so many gifts, but that like a third of my

810
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: gifts are like in the little Aramas box or in

811
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: Bakara perfect wrapping, and a third of my gifts are

812
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: amazing gifts, but like they're not wrapped that well because

813
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: I buy gifts in bulk and stockpile them and then

814
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: at Christmas I'm giving them away, so I don't have

815
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: them like perfect in the bag like all the Beverly

816
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: Hills housewives do. And even they brought a bottle of

817
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: wine with a rose tied around, and I was thinking

818
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: everything like appearances, even the gifts. It might not be

819
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: like the most amazing gift, but it's gonna be in

820
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: the most amazing package.

821
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think a lot of people do do that

822
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 2: in LA. You know, I guess it's all almost everything

823
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 2: is presentation, though, But I.

824
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 4: Mean, I don't know. It's a very away thing. I'm

825
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 4: just wearing out LA.

826
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't know.

827
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: It's a status symbol. Coming in with that bag is

828
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: like coming in with an air mes berk and coming

829
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: in with a little shopping bag from the store is

830
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: a status symbol.

831
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 2: I was watching it and I'm like, oh, they give

832
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 2: good gifts. I was like, I just I do you

833
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 2: think I'm a horrible gift giver? And I so when

834
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 2: I do, I'm like, yes, I'm so fond of myself

835
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 2: because it's something personal. I like doing something if I'm

836
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 2: saying I want it to be personal where it's like

837
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: it's I really thought it through and when something is

838
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: meaningful to the person and and if I yeah, everybody

839
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 2: likes them whatever my bracelet or or something, and yeah,

840
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: and everyone's gonna be happy with it.

841
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: Yes, you like a personalization of thoughts. Same same with me.

842
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: I am an epic gift giver. It's a I give

843
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: about two hundred and fifty gifts over Christmas and everyone

844
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: is literally with the individual person in mind. I love

845
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: giving gifts. I love it, and like, it's just funny

846
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,919
Speaker 1: that Lisa has been friends with ourself for years because

847
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: she was friends with Denise for years. And Lisa, I

848
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: just want you to know, is a fixture in Hollywood.

849
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: Like She's a permanent fixture that knows everyone. Everyone, She's

850
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: been through every iteration of this business.

851
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 4: Good for her. Yeah, yeah, I think everybody knows who

852
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,479
Speaker 4: she is. I mean it's not just like.

853
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 2: When I watched it, I didn't know who a couple

854
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: other people were, the Sutton and I like, I couldn't

855
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: say Kathy Hilton of course, Yes, Well I just know

856
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 2: Crystal because of because of the show, because of like

857
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 2: them just seeing her out and stuff on on same panels.

858
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 4: And then who else? Oh, Kyle, of course I know

859
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 4: who she is Racio from from real estate and stuff too.

860
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: Kyle's a fixture to different than Lisa Rinna, but a

861
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: fixture too.

862
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 2: Before.

863
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 4: How is he such a picture?

864
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 2: Was she an.

865
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: Actress or Kyle? No, Lisa, she was a soap actress,

866
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: and then she really and she was she was a

867
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: soap actress, and then doing Dancing with the Stars really

868
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: like gave her a second chapter. Oh and then she

869
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: really capitalized that that she took. She Lisa knows how

870
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,400
Speaker 1: to take an opportunity and squeeze it and get it

871
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 1: all out. So that's good for her. Now she's doing

872
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,959
Speaker 1: fashion and she's got two model daughters and like she's

873
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 1: she knows how to reinvent.

874
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 4: She She's like Chris Jenner.

875
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 1: She's like another Chris Jenner, but in a way, except

876
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: she's not managing other people. And I don't think she

877
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: always makes like as strategic decisions. Lisa Chris Jenner is

878
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 1: like really looking at the chessboard. Lisa's just taking all

879
00:42:54,960 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: the shots she can take. Kyle's like that too, not asategic,

880
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: not his chess, but taking all the opportunities and not

881
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,720
Speaker 1: leaving any nickel on the floor of opportunity. And uh

882
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: knows all the same people, but yes, so and Lisa's

883
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: definitely takes and I mean this and this is gonna

884
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: sound bad, but like they say it, this is gonna

885
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: sound terrible, Like the most beautiful version of a cockerroach,

886
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: because cockroaches never like die like Lisa Rinna is the

887
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: most beautiful cockerroach ever. Like she you don't better, She's

888
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: not gonna die, like she'll be fashion the model. She'll

889
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 1: she'll she'll be ninety two years old then selling something somewhere,

890
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: so she'll be selling sunset at ninety two. Yeah, so

891
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:42,720
Speaker 1: their call. So then now I relate to Sutton a lot.

892
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: Derinda would relate to Sutton, And I'll explain why Ramona

893
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't relate to Sutton, because Ramona will just like laugh

894
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: off something. Ramona could say the worst thing about somebody

895
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: at a table, or make the biggest mistake of her

896
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: life five minutes later, have a glass of wine and

897
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: let it go. She literally doesn't care. She would forget

898
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: it happen. Dewinda, Sutton, myself were in a mood. Someone

899
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: has set us off. They've said us, they've said something.

900
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: Someone's irritating us. We can not shake it off. We

901
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: cannot taylor swift it. We will just like And so

902
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 1: Sutton is in the moment and she can't just go

903
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: with the flow. She just heard detest her detestment, which

904
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: is not a word, her detest. The way that she

905
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: detests Crystal is in her body and she cannot do it.

906
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: She can't avoid it unless she if she's in that environment.

907
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 4: That's it.

908
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 2: That's so I didn't know if there was something bigger

909
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: when I watched it. I just don't know the backstory.

910
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: But if that's it, I guess I'm trying to like that. Well, no,

911
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 2: like that with when Christine was on our show, like

912
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 2: because we had her friendship before, so that was a

913
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 2: personal thing for me, Like when something happened and I

914
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: would just shake, Like when when because I I was

915
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 2: just blown away by the behavior and things that were

916
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: said and I was just like it was a personal thing.

917
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 4: It just broke my heart.

918
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 2: Now things have happened since I just stay out of

919
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 2: people's business. So if something happened something like it, like

920
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 2: with Chelsea like or something like that, I'm just kind

921
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 2: of like okay, man, like and I do I forget

922
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 2: things like right afterwards, I'm like, oh, I don't well,

923
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 2: that's that's good. I don't care. I've moved on because

924
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 2: I'm like a bit like is a personal attack of

925
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 2: something that is changing my life? Fine?

926
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:32,879
Speaker 4: If not, I'm like, I don't care what they said.

927
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 1: Well, you're not taking the bait, and I'm sure you

928
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,919
Speaker 1: have taken the bait. Everybody makes a mistake of taking

929
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: the bait. Yeah, the name of the reality show game

930
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,439
Speaker 1: is to take everything personally and to take the bait.

931
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: So there could be a next scene, so it could

932
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 1: be an explosion then a makeup, like that's the name

933
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 1: of this game. And it also seems like this is

934
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: very inside baseball. But they're like into the season, they're exhausted,

935
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: You start to get stressed out. You think alcohol is

936
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 1: the best idea because you're dehydrated and you're tired, and

937
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: you just want and you get deeper into it. So

938
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: Sutton's been called somebody who violated someone else. She just

939
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 1: doesn't seem to like this person, which I totally relate

940
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: to also with certain people. And there is a smugness

941
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: to Crystal that is not taking the bait, but also

942
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: taunting and antagonizing. Like there's a little bit of a

943
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: taunting going on which is totally triggering Sutton, and she

944
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: wants to lunch for her and I can relate to that.

945
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:33,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was an interesting episode to an interesting scene

946
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 2: to me because knowing Crystal outside of that, she's like

947
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 2: he always seems like no drama at all and just

948
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 2: very sweet. And then I watched that and I was like, okay,

949
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: but there's a ways to I always believe there's two

950
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 2: sides to it too, where if you know that's something

951
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 2: personal and with the word violating, she was accurate on

952
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 2: the word. However, it can be taken a different way

953
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 2: the way it said it, if that's a triggering word

954
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 2: for for something, and it's like, Okay, I.

955
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 4: Don't I see both sides.

956
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: But well, first of all, knowing someone, knowing someone as

957
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: an acquaintance in LA is very different than being in

958
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: a pressure cooker with them on reality TV.

959
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't know anything.

960
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just and there's no it's just it was

961
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: an interesting thing, like like the watching that he was

962
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: just interesting.

963
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: I agree. I agree.

964
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know who Sutton is either, like this

965
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 2: is the person I've never heard of her, or know

966
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: who is she.

967
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: Sutton is friends with Kathy and she's just a popular

968
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: one on the show. She's good friends of Corsel. She's

969
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: was married, she has a beautiful divorce settlement, and is

970
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: very wealthy. Apparently she rented Kyle's house one season and

971
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: she seems like kind of real, like meaning she's very

972
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: you know, she's she's a wealthy woman who holds no punches,

973
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I haven't. I think this might

974
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 1: be the only first episode, full episode I've ever seen

975
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: with her, unless we've rewatched something else. I think I

976
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: rewatched one other one at a party with Crystal in

977
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: her But get get I get why she's on the show.

978
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,800
Speaker 1: She's like the Dirinda character of this show. She's abroad

979
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: and she's real and she's cool and she makes mistakes

980
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: and I like it. I don't think that the characterization

981
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: of her being irrational is correct, and I don't and

982
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: and Crystal doubles down with like, yeah, I'm not apologizing

983
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: and I'm not changing the word, and she basically says

984
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: the whole quintessential Housewives' apology, I'm sorry if if it

985
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 1: made you upset, which is not an apology. And more importantly,

986
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: I've always remembered this this this group doesn't have a

987
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: great sense of humor. They laugh and they laugh at

988
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: like partying and getting drunk, but like they're not particularly funny,

989
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: and for nobody to laugh when Cathy said, who is

990
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: hunky Dory? Fuck?

991
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 4: Thank you.

992
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 2: I am Literally when I watched it, I got I

993
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 2: started dying laughing, and I what the fuck up? And

994
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 2: my mom's here for a couple of days and I

995
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: took it and I was like, you've got to see this,

996
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: and I was I was absolutely crying.

997
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 4: I was laughing so hard, and.

998
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 2: My mom just starts She's like, she really doesn't, does

999
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 2: she not?

1000
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: Well, it's funny because like she said something in one

1001
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: of her interviews that made me realize, now the producers

1002
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: want her to be that person. And she said some

1003
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,279
Speaker 1: other thing that didn't land. It was around a Garcel scene,

1004
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,439
Speaker 1: but it was an interview and Kathy said something else

1005
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: that was like not that smart and dit see, but

1006
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: it didn't land. It wasn't like hockey Dory, which was real.

1007
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 4: Or was hilarious. Yeah, I thought.

1008
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 2: I was like, is it a Midwest thing? Is it?

1009
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 2: Or it's like just her like or like a country.

1010
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't know, but she just didn't get it, and

1011
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 2: I thought it was the funniest, funniest thing ever.

1012
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: Same it was something about with her what was in

1013
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: her purse that they were trying to make force another

1014
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: funny thing in the interview, but it didn't land Crystal said,

1015
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 1: you're just jealous. I hate the word what? Like what

1016
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: what upside? Okay? I tell you Mary, you're jealous of me?

1017
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: Like what why would I say that? What would I

1018
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: like even if even if you were jealous of me?

1019
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: Like what? What? What is me saying that to you?

1020
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,800
Speaker 1: Everyone else is gonna think I'm such a jerk because like,

1021
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,439
Speaker 1: why would I think anyone is jealous of me? Why

1022
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: wouldn't you be jealous of someone twenty four with like

1023
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: a tight ass or a billionaire or some like You're

1024
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: not jealous of me? And why would she say that

1025
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: out loud? You're jealous of what?

1026
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 2: I know? Yeah, that word is thrown around so much,

1027
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: I think, and I just don't And maybe people are

1028
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 2: jealous more than I realized. But I mean, I just

1029
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 2: I'm not a jealous person. So it's always I hear

1030
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 2: all the time, and I'm like, I don't know, Like

1031
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 2: if someone has it, I mean, yo, of course people

1032
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: have more. You're like, oh, I want that, But it's

1033
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 2: like you do it in a like not jealous, like

1034
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: an aspirational yeah, like where yeah you look up to them.

1035
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 4: You're like ooh, how do I do that?

1036
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 2: Okay, Like and it's like motivating. Yeah, like I don't know,

1037
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 2: I think on a front.

1038
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: No, me too. But even if let's say you were jealous,

1039
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: would you admit it like you're jealous? Oh, you're right,

1040
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 1: I'm jealous, But like why would you say, Like it's

1041
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: you have such a high opinion of yourself to say

1042
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 1: to somebody else you're jealous.

1043
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 2: Never gonna admit to it. And then that then the

1044
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 2: person that says it just seems like an ass totally.

1045
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 1: So Crystal said you're jealous, and she seemed like an ass,

1046
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: and she opened up to a comment about about your

1047
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: ugly leather pants, and that moment made me look at

1048
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:42,760
Speaker 1: everyone's outfit and like, this wasn't a good outfit party.

1049
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: We had one in the Hampton where we all just

1050
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: like clowns, but they were not. I didn't think of

1051
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: everyone's outfit Garcela any better.

1052
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 2: So I was like when she did that, then I

1053
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: did look at the outfits too, and I was like, oh,

1054
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put out outfits, but like considering question is gone.

1055
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,399
Speaker 2: But I was like, I don't know, I wasn't really

1056
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 2: paying attention to anybody else's outfit. It was just because

1057
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 2: there was a conversation between the two of them. Then

1058
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 2: it does it forces you to look.

1059
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: So I went to everybody's outfit and I thought, this

1060
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: is not a good outfit party, Like, this is not

1061
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't Ky, not Kyle, not Doriet, not Garcel. Garcel

1062
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 1: had like fur sleeves and a big F pat everywhere

1063
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 1: with f's everywhere, and Dorie was wearing like a ties

1064
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: Die rainbow outfit and the bolt belt was like all

1065
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: the way in the back tucked in a loop, and

1066
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: like maybe that's supposed to be like fashion. I don't know,

1067
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 1: it just it didn't land She had a Dio R Barrett.

1068
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 2: I remember that.

1069
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: I remember that, and her pink bag, which was a star.

1070
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 1: Kyle's outfit wasn't Landing. I don't remember Kathy's. I don't

1071
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 1: really remember Lisa's. Sutton's had like a lot of ornate

1072
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: AND's on them and crystal shirt and those leather pants

1073
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: also weren't great, Like nothing was that great.

1074
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't remember anything standing out to me like, oh

1075
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 2: that's cute.

1076
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 4: But I only remember that two because in that scene,

1077
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 4: I was like I just looked, and.

1078
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 2: I obviously they pan in on the pants and then

1079
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Speaker 2: and then they go back to to satin and I

1080
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 2: was like, oh, that wasn't really good choice either, but

1081
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 2: but yeah, no one else really stuck out.

1082
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 4: I remember the Findy hat. I do remember that one.

1083
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: This is the ABC d EFG show. They have all

1084
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Speaker 1: the letters all the time. There was another there was

1085
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: a throwback to a scene with Kyle where she had

1086
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: the G sweater. It has to always be like a

1087
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: bunch of There were two representations of letters in this episode.

1088
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: And I think like Erica's wearing like a Sergeant Pepper's

1089
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: Lonely Hearts band like jacket that had like shoulder pads

1090
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 1: a red why and I don't know, I don't remember.

1091
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't the best outfit.

1092
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 2: It just wasn't a black like leather jacket or something.

1093
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,919
Speaker 1: I think with gold or red. I just it's it's

1094
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: flashing before my eyes. I don't remember. But I liked

1095
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: her like plasticy interview look. And I liked Kyle's like

1096
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: for her and four Beverly Hills are own opening like

1097
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 1: yellow dress and Kyle had a big like geenie ponytail

1098
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: like sequins in the interviews the interview looks. I was

1099
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: always very very simple and did not take it up

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Speaker 1: a notch. For the interviews, they always were like, can

1101
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: you My interview looks were just very nothing because I

1102
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: just couldn't deal.

1103
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:22,240
Speaker 2: They wouldn't let me do anything different in the beginning,

1104
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: and I didn't know.

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00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 4: I just thought, Okay, we're supposed to look like ourselves.

1106
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 2: But then on interview day they do.

1107
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 4: They have someone for hair makeup. The rest of the

1108
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 4: time we just take her of our own.

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00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: Amazing Mary, So nice to meet you. Now we know

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Speaker 1: each other. Thank you so much for coming one, Thank

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00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: you for having me.