Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
Speaker 2: Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with
Speaker 2: an opinion who talks back.
Speaker 3: What's up y'all?
Speaker 1: A shit girl, a j and.
Speaker 2: It's team broke.
Speaker 3: As y'all can see and broke up.
Speaker 1: Shame y'all.
Speaker 2: I went to my Homegirl's way that I flew back
Speaker 2: from LA because y'all know I moved to LA kind
Speaker 2: of things. I'm back this much like there two weeks,
Speaker 2: came back and now I'm gonna be back in Charlotte.
Speaker 1: For at least six weeks.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: This is the second sign though after moving to LA. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because the second dayo ass was there. What happened?
Speaker 2: That was literally the first twenty four hours. There was
Speaker 2: an earthquake.
Speaker 1: We we were born in the intro for one of
Speaker 1: these episodes, and this bitch computer started shit and she's.
Speaker 2: Taking a nigga phil falling back like shit, that's the earthquake.
Speaker 2: I was ready to leave that. I was like, maybe
Speaker 2: I should go, but then everybody in LA was like, girl,
Speaker 2: that's La. You got that out the way, welcome, So
Speaker 2: I just got comfortable. I came back home from my
Speaker 2: friend's wedding. I was supposed to be flying out on
Speaker 2: Thursday to go back to LA and we had a time.
Speaker 2: I mean, it was so much fun. We had a
Speaker 2: great time at the wedding. Everybody was drunk, open bar everybody's.
Speaker 1: So I'm looking like there was knucking and bucket running
Speaker 1: out the bridesmaid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so much fun. They lit, they started
Speaker 2: the energy off. It was lit. So it's almost time
Speaker 2: to go. And I was like, Kema, you didn't do
Speaker 2: the bouquet tolls.
Speaker 3: You gotta do the bouquete, not you initiate.
Speaker 2: Yeah. She's like, oh I forgot Okay, Yeah, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do it. I'm about to do it. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: all right, y'all move out the way, bitches, because I'm
Speaker 2: getting this motherfucker bouquet.
Speaker 1: I was. I was leaving.
Speaker 2: I was like stretching on the dance floor like this.
Speaker 1: But you want the bouquet for a husband or you
Speaker 1: just as being goddamn competitive? Yes, very competitive competitive.
Speaker 2: You know, I just gotta be like I'm winning at
Speaker 2: all times. But I mean I also went the husband, like,
Speaker 2: don't get it twisted. I want the husband. But it
Speaker 2: is about me just beating everybody beating these bitches. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's the right, and I beat. I'm the bitch that
Speaker 2: I beat. Because I landed on my ankle. I jumped
Speaker 2: up like I really jumped ten feet. If y'all go
Speaker 2: to my Instagram, y'all see the video, I jumped ten
Speaker 2: feet in the air. I don't know who I thought
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 1: Obviously you thought you was damn Lebron Jeans.
Speaker 2: I thought I was Odell Beckham, bitch, and I bent
Speaker 2: it like Beckham for real. So I landed on my
Speaker 2: right ankle and then I hit the floor because that
Speaker 2: I heard the pop y'all, I heard that shait. I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, that don't sound good right there. And
Speaker 2: I laid on the floor and I rolled it and
Speaker 2: I laughed. I was wincing and laughing at the same
Speaker 2: time because everybody at the way that is looking, so
Speaker 2: I didn't look like I'm in severe pain. So then
Speaker 2: I my friend tried to help me up, and she
Speaker 2: couldn't even get me up because I couldn't put no
Speaker 2: pressure on this foot for real. So then she was like, dang,
Speaker 2: you heavy bitch. I was like, no, I just can't
Speaker 2: help you right now. So She finally got me up
Speaker 2: and I lived off the floor. Y'all's so crazy, like
Speaker 2: acting like I wasn't hurt. But then I was like,
Speaker 2: every time I try to apply some pressure to his foot,
Speaker 2: it just wasn't happening. I was doing a little something,
Speaker 2: but that liquor had me thinking you all right, yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like yeah, way, bitch, like a yeah, that
Speaker 2: liquor gave me wings.
Speaker 1: So I thought I was Okay, I'm trying to see
Speaker 1: what time this text message came through, because y'all, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to go to sleep, Okay. I had all intentions
Speaker 1: on getting up four o'clock in the morning driving to
Speaker 1: Charlotte's Cord Labor Day, Yeah, essentially, and I get a
Speaker 1: text message at eleven uh late, late as fuck. Okay, bitch,
Speaker 1: I think I broke my foot.
Speaker 2: Because it hurts so bad, like it was hurt and
Speaker 2: it was throbbing or whatever. I put ice on it,
Speaker 2: and then I went to bed and I was like,
Speaker 2: it's probably something a little sprain. I'll be fine in
Speaker 2: the morning. Baby. When I woke up, my foot was
Speaker 2: the size of up.
Speaker 3: I knew that's how it.
Speaker 1: Was going to be because the one time I sprained
Speaker 1: my fucking incle in Atlanta. Boy, I fell down that
Speaker 1: big ass held by what's the glub.
Speaker 2: Compound?
Speaker 1: Compound bitch and some niggas A nigga with a bunch
Speaker 1: of bitches in the car drove by.
Speaker 2: I was like, stupid, bitch.
Speaker 1: When I woke up the next morning, my fucking foot
Speaker 1: was so.
Speaker 2: Big and I could feel my heart beating my foot.
Speaker 2: It was like, you know, you all to be breaking shit,
Speaker 2: right girl. That's why I was saying, like, why didn't
Speaker 2: this happen when I was twenty five?
Speaker 1: That stupid an com back?
Speaker 2: What the problem was? I had on socks because I
Speaker 2: brought my heels. I forgot my slides when my friends
Speaker 2: let me wear her slides until her feet started hurting.
Speaker 2: And I had socks in my pocket book, and I
Speaker 2: was just like, I just slide these on for the
Speaker 2: uh the bouquet toss, just so I'm not barefoot on
Speaker 2: the floor. Mistake. I would have landed that ship if
Speaker 2: I had my bare feet. You know how rough my
Speaker 2: feet are. Ship? Yeah, shame. So I love y'all. I
Speaker 2: be saying that ship, but y'all need to know that
Speaker 2: I love y'all for real, because This is less than
Speaker 2: forty eight hours after this shit happened, and I'm here
Speaker 2: on it and I ain't supposed to do I'm supposed
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to be just resting.
Speaker 3: There's about these comments on social media.
Speaker 1: Lot one nigga was like dash, she must be single, single.
Speaker 2: And then it is here. Everybody kept on comparing me
Speaker 2: to different quarterbacks and what football team I need to be?
Speaker 2: All this ship Charla bade, did you hate humans? Man? No, motherfuckers.
Speaker 1: It's funny as hell. Man, I be running to the comments.
Speaker 2: My DMS went hammer, he went crazy.
Speaker 1: He's trying to carry you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of niggas in. That's the bitch
Speaker 2: is in there too, Like you don't even need no nigga,
Speaker 2: I'll come help you please. So I got six weeks.
Speaker 2: I got six weeks, well six plus weeks. So the
Speaker 2: doctor said, like because of where the break is, like
Speaker 2: something about the blood supply to my foot, and I
Speaker 2: gotta put no pressure on it and I'll go back
Speaker 2: to the orthopedic doctor in four weeks to see how
Speaker 2: it's healing and if I need a screw lord.
Speaker 1: So y'all pray for me that I don't need no
Speaker 1: screw on my foot. Yeah, cause that's gonna be six
Speaker 1: plus how many weeks? Yeah after for that shit to help?
Speaker 2: So hopeful, what you're gonna do? Now?
Speaker 1: You going back to La?
Speaker 2: No? I can't. I mean, I'm eventually all my ship
Speaker 2: is in La. You know, a lot of my stuff.
Speaker 2: I took a lot of things with me, so I
Speaker 2: have my because I was you know, I didn't pick
Speaker 2: up apartment yet. That was what I was going to do
Speaker 2: when once I got back, I was in the airbnb,
Speaker 2: which I had for another thirty days, but I went
Speaker 2: and got my my Homegirl is like, as we speak,
Speaker 2: going to take my stuff out of there and take
Speaker 2: it to her house, so I don't pay for a
Speaker 2: mom that I'm not gonna be there. So I'm just
Speaker 2: going to be living out of the stuff that I
Speaker 2: brought with me for the way, and so if y'all
Speaker 2: sleep and recording two weeks away dressed, you know the
Speaker 2: fuck why because I got no clothes and yeah, so
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go. I'm just so grateful for my mom.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go to her house and luckily I
Speaker 2: know y'all pray for me. No, my mama loved me down,
Speaker 2: is she But you know, yeah, grown women in the house,
Speaker 2: She's gonna.
Speaker 1: Be like, I don't give a fuck about that foot.
Speaker 2: You better wash that, dish out the mother, you out
Speaker 2: the fight.
Speaker 1: Where voys be coming from that you be putting on.
Speaker 2: I know, cause she don't even sound like that said
Speaker 2: in my head when you talking shit, you go, I
Speaker 2: would break the other one if you keep putting it on.
Speaker 1: My seat, So you know, I mean that'd be interesting. Yeah, y'all,
Speaker 1: we wanted to talk about daddy issues today. We talked
Speaker 1: about mom because you about to experience this bitch out.
Speaker 1: I've been there and.
Speaker 3: Never ever ever them people different.
Speaker 1: Man. You you see your parents uh as superheroes until
Speaker 1: you realize them. Nigga's a humans. They regular people and
Speaker 1: may be having all they little bullshit with them. So
Speaker 1: good luck.
Speaker 2: This ship look like a transformer on the bottom of
Speaker 2: my foot. I just hate this for me, just putting
Speaker 2: on clothes like you never realize how important two feet are.
Speaker 3: And losing limbs and losing stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just washing my ass was just such an obstacle
Speaker 2: today and not having like like I'm staying at my
Speaker 2: homegirl Sean house. Y'all shout out that Sean. Sean has
Speaker 2: been like an angel to me, like really helping me
Speaker 2: out so much. And I know she did not sign
Speaker 2: up for that, and I know I was like starting
Speaker 2: to get annoying because I downloaded the bell app and
Speaker 2: I started you know you didn't, I'm just playing. She
Speaker 2: was like, bitch, I would throw that phone over the
Speaker 2: motherfucker baptist. I was like, I just do one more thing.
Speaker 2: You put me some crippets. Morning when I woke up,
Speaker 2: she was like, are you hungry? Why don't you get
Speaker 2: yourself up and make yourself something? Then Christina, you gonna.
Speaker 1: Put your that bathtub. She's gonna put your ass in
Speaker 1: the bathtub.
Speaker 2: Bit you live. So I'm gonna get up out of
Speaker 2: there tomorrow because I war all about well.
Speaker 1: For you lose a friend, yeah exactly, But that's when
Speaker 1: you know who's your friend, when people come through in.
Speaker 2: Times like that, when you got one foot yeah, shout
Speaker 2: out to Sean, Shout out to Sean. For real, how
Speaker 2: was your weekend? Let's talk about your weekend.
Speaker 1: And what did I do this weekend? And I don't
Speaker 1: think I did much of anything for real. Kept so
Speaker 1: Monday was was damn labor day, and I was on
Speaker 1: the road Labor Day. Don't do much shine this ship.
Speaker 2: We hang out over the weekend prior to the Monday.
Speaker 2: He no age lying. AJ do not want y'all to
Speaker 2: know her businesspen.
Speaker 1: Was on Amazon buying a whole bunch of cat baby things.
Speaker 2: That was about it, you guys, she got a new
Speaker 2: kid of ya. It's cute.
Speaker 1: It's so cute, that's all. I didn't do shit this
Speaker 1: weekend for real money. Oh I'm lying, Okay, I do
Speaker 1: be lying. Maybe I'll just be forgetting like I do things.
Speaker 1: And so my homegirl, my best friend, Priscilla, her birthday
Speaker 1: was on the twenty eighth of August, so we did
Speaker 1: have a little shin ding celebration on Saturday. Crabs. We
Speaker 1: had some blue grab. I made my little stuff uh
Speaker 1: vegan stuff shells for the people. I'd be having to
Speaker 1: take my own food places just to make sure I
Speaker 1: got something to eat because I don't take it. So
Speaker 1: I brought a big ass pan of stuff shells. We
Speaker 1: had all just drunk.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 1: I was on shrooms. This is probably why I be forgetting,
Speaker 1: because y'all, I can't wait till Fridays to take shrooms
Speaker 1: Every Friday, I'd be on shrooms. Bitch. I'll be in
Speaker 1: here looking in the mirror, and.
Speaker 2: I realized that the mirror.
Speaker 1: I realized that I'm never still, you know, So when
Speaker 1: I'm on shrooms.
Speaker 3: It's just weird.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 1: I'd be writing a bunch of shit and I'd be
Speaker 1: looking in the mirror a lot, like like real shadow
Speaker 1: work type shit. You know what I'm saying, like scribing
Speaker 1: to scribe the mirror.
Speaker 2: Heavy birthday Priscilla.
Speaker 1: My friend, she went to where does she go out?
Speaker 1: Send Chroy or her in her little her little boot.
Speaker 1: She posts niggas on social medi it's serious saying that
Speaker 1: he was there too. Guys. She got a little New
Speaker 1: York little thing. I had that nice guy. I'm so
Speaker 1: happy for my friend. She deserves all the nice things.
Speaker 2: Amen. Amen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's what I did. We celebrated her this
Speaker 1: weekend on Saturday and then Sunday is just a big bulur.
Speaker 1: Let's get in this stupid internet news though. I want
Speaker 1: to start on a very great note.
Speaker 2: Did you see these.
Speaker 1: TSR daddies that the Shade Room posted with this?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 1: She want a big dog. She don't want no puppy,
Speaker 1: She want a big Dog, boss Man, Dilo song Girl Girl. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Series of black Men. Okay, yes, a black man's back
Speaker 1: is high. No, God is fucking real.
Speaker 3: Okay, these men.
Speaker 1: These I was smiling the whole time. One of my
Speaker 1: friends who got no business sending me this and dish
Speaker 1: it to me because she's very, very fucking married, and
Speaker 1: she was like, I got a ship this with somebody
Speaker 1: they are.
Speaker 2: I'm looking at it right now and it's just nothing
Speaker 2: but beautiful black man. Oh my god, my vagina dumping.
Speaker 1: The last nigga, though, I'm mad you were standing on
Speaker 1: some stool or something. Why you needs that far up
Speaker 1: the damn mirror, boy, you're standing on something. But these
Speaker 1: some nice looking men. I need I need to redo.
Speaker 1: We need to see what's the next group of men
Speaker 1: do this?
Speaker 2: Everyone?
Speaker 1: Gorgeous black men, y'all know, black men got like swat.
Speaker 1: That's why everybody loves black men, because it's just something with.
Speaker 2: The aura that everybody loves.
Speaker 1: Everybody want to touch.
Speaker 2: I'm about to go follow all.
Speaker 1: These uss you like them. I'm gonna telling you, I
Speaker 1: like that first nigga, oh, the first in the second, Yeah,
Speaker 1: just gorgeous, Like why you shape like that?
Speaker 2: How you look like that.
Speaker 1: If y'all man go to go to the shadroom. What
Speaker 1: day was that posted?
Speaker 2: That was all? If when this come out, it'll be
Speaker 2: seven days ago. Looks for seven days ago, ladies, and
Speaker 2: gets you an eye full of God's goodness.
Speaker 1: The Lord is my shepherd. He know what I want?
Speaker 2: Amen, ain't me?
Speaker 1: Missus? Sean Wells underscore number one.
Speaker 2: Yes, let's shot these niggas out bag visuals. Go ahead
Speaker 2: and say that.
Speaker 1: Again, Bam bam cam undercore visuals.
Speaker 2: I feel like that one for me. Bam. I'm tam
Speaker 2: bam and he bam cam.
Speaker 1: But I want to be bodied by Brandon underscore.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, follow him, follow him because he find two
Speaker 2: dominated four two sixty six. Oh we need to be
Speaker 2: terminator for too. Six six mm. Girl, we just sound
Speaker 2: like so thirsty out to you right now.
Speaker 1: It's not like them phone calls from prison.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up? Just your girl?
Speaker 1: I'm number four five to six, just looking for a friend,
Speaker 1: looking for one of these niggas. Let me stop.
Speaker 2: I get beat up girl. You're here.
Speaker 1: On the mic right, I'm just playing baby anyway. I'm
Speaker 1: a fatnizer nigga. Better know that fucking with me Okay,
Speaker 1: don't touch my phone and I won't touch yours.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I don't look at this. So I
Speaker 2: saw this over the weekend. A woman paid a man
Speaker 2: back with a foursome for buying her and her two
Speaker 2: friends VIP tickets to Usher concert and they went eleven rounds.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a good time.
Speaker 2: Somebody drugs? What kind of drugs y'all was on?
Speaker 1: It wasn't really eleven rounds or just eleven condoms? Oh, perhaps,
Speaker 1: because that's how it reads a little bit that that
Speaker 1: that makes sense to me, Like, nigga, you swapping condoms out?
Speaker 2: You ain't.
Speaker 1: You ain't went no eleven rounds with three bitches. I
Speaker 1: don't believe it.
Speaker 2: Oh no, she shared a photo of eleven open skin condoms,
Speaker 2: so it's just like he was switching up for each girl.
Speaker 2: I guess they were like keeping it safe. I don't
Speaker 2: want to see Usher that bad. I want to see Usher,
Speaker 2: but not that bad.
Speaker 1: And I wanted did she feel like she had? That's like,
Speaker 1: that's all you had to pay back with, like you
Speaker 1: just they just wanted to do a threesome. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: he didn't request that, because it's as a token of appreciation.
Speaker 1: For his consideration, his considerate gift to her and her friends.
Speaker 1: She planned to surprise him with a special experience that
Speaker 1: all the girls agreed upon. So he didn't say, hey,
Speaker 1: you holds will to see Usher.
Speaker 3: Y'all gotta hey pussy right.
Speaker 2: No, he didn't say that. He just was able to
Speaker 2: receive that as a gift for these Usher tickets. Damn.
Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine. They just some freaky, freaky frogs and
Speaker 1: they just needed a reason. Hell yeah, it says. She
Speaker 1: described this as one of her top three most best experiences,
Speaker 1: given it a perfect ten out of ten. She does
Speaker 1: recommend she provided additional crucial crucial information that was omitted
Speaker 1: in her first statements. She says, there was one man
Speaker 1: and three women. Yes, we ran a train on him.
Speaker 1: Yes it was consensual, Yes he enjoyed it. Condoms were
Speaker 1: switched between partners. Skin don't smell like rubber if you're
Speaker 1: if they're lubricated naturally or otherwise. I like skin condoms.
Speaker 1: Is it a train though, because men would have considered
Speaker 1: that a threesome. If you eating all these coochies, we
Speaker 1: ran a train on you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you hit everybody out and then everybody kiss
Speaker 2: it and shit, that's a lot of But if it was.
Speaker 1: One woman and three men, it would be a chew chew.
Speaker 1: We had an episode about that. Yeah, it's a train
Speaker 1: Why is that a double standard?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Because remember A. J. Johnson who played uh Tyrese's Mama
Speaker 1: and baby Boy. She said for her fiftieth birthday, she
Speaker 1: had a threesome with her good guy friends and she
Speaker 1: loved it.
Speaker 2: She had a train ran on her with I know
Speaker 2: women that enjoy it. I have a I say it often.
Speaker 2: I have a client who goes to Jamaica and annually
Speaker 2: to get trained.
Speaker 1: What is the psychology of that?
Speaker 2: She'd be like, oh, yeah, one dick in my mouth
Speaker 2: and one dick and mike pussy.
Speaker 1: Yes, you remember that. It was a girl on social
Speaker 1: media ones on a podcast saying how most women fantasize
Speaker 1: about that or have done it. Most women have had
Speaker 1: a train ran on them.
Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true.
Speaker 1: My closest friends I have never had a train ran
Speaker 1: on them. Ever.
Speaker 2: That don't even sound appealing to me. I do not
Speaker 2: describe to that. That sounds like hard work.
Speaker 1: Right, I barely concept one dick. Imagine he try to
Speaker 1: do the backhead bunks on two absolutely not.
Speaker 2: I yeah, but to Easter all. You know, whatever gets
Speaker 2: you all, Hey, more power to you. But it's to
Speaker 2: be at my house. No, yeah, so stop putting bodies
Speaker 2: in our couchie. Okay, we like to accumulate our ship
Speaker 2: one by one. Yeah, nobody doing two at a time,
Speaker 2: three at a time. That math is wild.
Speaker 1: Nobody, but shout out to old girl and her crew. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's what I want to know, right, He probably was hot.
Speaker 2: There was accusing Usher having a body double come out.
Speaker 1: That did not look like Usher.
Speaker 2: It did not.
Speaker 1: Got a good one beyond Beyonce got a good body double.
Speaker 1: Usher need to.
Speaker 2: Get a new one. Yeah, his body double? Look, what's that?
Speaker 1: I cann't even sing?
Speaker 2: Uncle? That's his uncle. His face was too small and
Speaker 2: his neck was too skinny. Something right? That was not.
Speaker 1: Not your? Not your?
Speaker 2: What other is ushers in the church? And what else
Speaker 2: is there?
Speaker 1: Girl?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: You go to church, you should know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pastor. That's the pastor. That ain't the Usher
Speaker 2: at all? Girl?
Speaker 3: Who was that?
Speaker 2: I don't know? But I hope that's not the show.
Speaker 2: They again, they pussy up for Usher.
Speaker 1: Bitch y'all just wanted to be old so badness. So
Speaker 1: fans are accusing Rashida and Kirk Frost of having a
Speaker 1: fake cheating scandal after Jasmine Blue, which is Kirk's baby mama,
Speaker 1: remember on one season of Love and Hip Hop he
Speaker 1: had a baby with this girl. Jasmine Blue shares labor
Speaker 1: day posts. They've been in kahoots the entire time, so
Speaker 1: it says, a thirty four year old Love and Hip
Speaker 1: Hop star known for her affair with Kirk Frost that
Speaker 1: led to the birth of their son, and recently posted
Speaker 1: a photo of a Labor day meal barbicue, chicken bake, Bee's,
Speaker 1: and mac and cheese prepared by Kirk and his Rashida.
Speaker 1: The caption read, she at them, She at Kirk, she
Speaker 1: at Rashida and said put their foot in this food.
Speaker 1: So Frost one one seven and Rashida and at Rashida
Speaker 1: put their foot in this food. The post has sparked
Speaker 1: doubts about the ongoing storyline on the show, where Jazz
Speaker 1: and Blue has been claiming that Kirk Frost is still
Speaker 1: attempting to cheat on Rashida, with her even providing a
Speaker 1: text message evidence is sup poor her allegations. It says.
Speaker 1: Fans are now questioning if the drama is being staged
Speaker 1: for entertainment purposes, with many voicing their concerns on x
Speaker 1: formerly Twitter. Given the seemingly friendly interaction between Jazz and Blue,
Speaker 1: Kirk Frost, and Rashida behind the scenes, one fan commented
Speaker 1: and said, it's the fake storyline for me. Why do
Speaker 1: they keep playing on their playing with their marriage like this?
Speaker 1: They aren't embarrassed. Another added, they've been in cahoots this
Speaker 1: entire time, believe it or not. Why might as well
Speaker 1: make a bad situation good. Keep getting the bag where
Speaker 1: she ain't going nowhere?
Speaker 2: And first of all, ain't the ship pre recorded? Y'all
Speaker 2: might see at the end of the season that they.
Speaker 1: Made up that part.
Speaker 2: Okay, it ain't like that recording, like we're doing this.
Speaker 1: Show last fucking minute. No, we actually been doing better.
Speaker 2: Okay we be Yeah, we do like like early it's
Speaker 2: just a sis. We can't do it in advance.
Speaker 1: So what I do know is that Kirk is an
Speaker 1: Aquarius and Rashida is a Gemini. Okay, she got a
Speaker 1: high tolerance with some bullshit. That's why she's stole with
Speaker 1: with Kirk and Kirk was that nigga. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So she probably stole Like that's that's her,
Speaker 1: that's her person.
Speaker 2: She ain't going to She's not going nowhere no matter what.
Speaker 1: So fuck y'all. Yeah, we're gonna be one big happy
Speaker 1: family because like it or not, this child exists, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: I got I got a step churned and got this.
Speaker 2: I take some at this point.
Speaker 1: So they're like, I've got no problem with the step chair, don't.
Speaker 1: I don't beat that nigga up a couple of times.
Speaker 2: Be all their life look nice.
Speaker 1: Okay, they're doing whatever they want to do. I just
Speaker 1: know Kirk is manipulative as a motherfucker. Boy.
Speaker 2: I don't watch the show no more. I start watching
Speaker 2: Love and Hip Hop many many years ago. I don't
Speaker 2: think I'm the target audience anymore. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The only time I really watched it is like for
Speaker 1: this podcast, like if we had to talk about something
Speaker 1: this ship and Real Housewives of Atlanta. I really don't
Speaker 1: watch reality TV like that.
Speaker 2: I don't watch reality t TV anymore either. I don't think.
Speaker 1: Because it's not reality I watched.
Speaker 2: I watched like those shows on Netflix, like The One
Speaker 2: or Love is Blind or you know, that ship love
Speaker 2: at first sight. I watch some of that, but then
Speaker 2: I don't really be getting into that like I used to.
Speaker 1: So all that shit is weird to me.
Speaker 2: I like scripted shows. I like Sisters. Sisters got me
Speaker 2: in the choke hold right now because Mama, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: like that. I watched that Your Honor. That was really good.
Speaker 1: I gotta find that series.
Speaker 2: So right now I am on Netflix.
Speaker 1: I don't have Netflix, so I gotta get in where
Speaker 1: I fit in. So right now I do have Disney
Speaker 1: Plus and Hulu through my Verizon cell phone.
Speaker 2: Oh, if you have Hulu, then you should watch Reasonable Doubt.
Speaker 2: That's good.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check it out. But I'm watching. I just
Speaker 1: got into the Handsmaid Tail series. Yes, well, you know
Speaker 1: I watched TV for educational purposes, not entertainment.
Speaker 2: This ship is deep as fuck, that TV show.
Speaker 1: And if anybody watched that shit and thought that was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, it's just entertainment. No, they showing you
Speaker 1: what could fucking be. Yeah, the future, that ship is
Speaker 1: weird to me, and it's actually really demonic to me.
Speaker 1: But I've already committed. I already started watching I Got
Speaker 1: to See You Through. But a lot of parts of it,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, I'm not watching this tomorrow. It'd
Speaker 1: be making me feel some type of way, like spiritually,
Speaker 1: I got to step away from that ship. Like the
Speaker 1: when that bitch took her to see her daughter like
Speaker 1: for the first time. Mm hmm, when they raped her
Speaker 1: when she was pregnant. I'm like, Yo, this is very wild.
Speaker 1: This it's dark as fuck. And then and then what
Speaker 1: also doesn't sit right with me? And this right quick?
Speaker 1: You got this white lady who took this black lady
Speaker 1: fucking husband had a baby with him like that that
Speaker 1: that that part of the story bothers me right there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she na have woman daddy issues, which brings me
Speaker 2: to her topic today. We're talking about having daddy issues
Speaker 2: and some of the signs and triggers and all those things.
Speaker 2: So y'all stay tuned and listen and see if you
Speaker 2: got daddy issues like me and aj.
Speaker 1: I got no daddy issues yet. Back Okay, y'all, we're back.
Speaker 1: And I couldn't really find a clear definition of what
Speaker 1: I don't know the signed to say daddy issues actually is.
Speaker 1: But I guess people display, you know, certain type of
Speaker 1: behaviors when they may have daddy issues. I feel like
Speaker 1: it's some scapegoat shit when a nigga playing with you
Speaker 1: automatically you got daddy issues. Well, men can have daddy
Speaker 1: issues too, No, absolutely, yeah, but with women. So men
Speaker 1: actually have daddy issues over mommy issues. I think they
Speaker 1: kind of blame mama for daddy not being there. But
Speaker 1: that's a whole other episode anyway. So the first thing
Speaker 1: is says dating older men.
Speaker 2: Oh that's how you know you?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that might be one of the signs of
Speaker 1: having daddy issues. My daddy, my daddy wife is like
Speaker 1: forty five, forty six.
Speaker 3: That nigga is seventy.
Speaker 1: Three, the same age as one of myself.
Speaker 2: My daddy in his seventies.
Speaker 1: Right, yes, my daddy is seventy three.
Speaker 2: That niggabo four list turn that your dad room. There
Speaker 2: ain't no.
Speaker 1: Way so smashing it ain't no fucking way my daddy.
Speaker 2: You don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know Viagara to fucked the game up, because
Speaker 1: I probably would have had me a seventy year old
Speaker 1: Viagara didn't exist.
Speaker 2: Listen youday seven, you would take somebody that much put
Speaker 2: a bag.
Speaker 1: They don't have to touch me for real, because dick
Speaker 1: don't work. But now like Viagara make they dick work.
Speaker 1: They don't want to just hold your hand, no one,
Speaker 1: all right, they really want to smash.
Speaker 2: I'm not even playing that game because you know how
Speaker 2: when you watching nigga walk away from you know, y'all
Speaker 2: doing the day. I need to see them so.
Speaker 4: To be looking funny, nigga be melting walking up all
Speaker 4: niggas wear from the back walking away, and you're like,
Speaker 4: but if it's it's a balls bagging real love walking away.
Speaker 2: Oh ya, what am I doing here? I can't play
Speaker 2: like that. Your ancestor is watching too, right. I gotta
Speaker 2: wait till my shit hanging that lovel to be with
Speaker 2: so well, hanging.
Speaker 1: That little But then they don't want you like they like.
Speaker 1: I can understand why older men want younger women, because
Speaker 1: I don't understand why young women want older men, like
Speaker 1: aside for money, Like, eh, they got that little gray
Speaker 1: line around there from the eye running pupil.
Speaker 2: Absolutely no, that's cateract.
Speaker 1: No, them niggas just going blind. And that's how you
Speaker 1: know with somebody. Oh, I had an old man trying
Speaker 1: to tell me he was forty forty at the time.
Speaker 1: I'm like, in my twenties. He's trying to convince me
Speaker 1: that he just forty something. But you got that gray line, sir,
Speaker 1: I know you like sixty, right.
Speaker 2: I remember when I was a little like it used
Speaker 2: to be old niggas in my family. I'm like, yo,
Speaker 2: I's pretty and didn't be that great sugar. That ain't
Speaker 2: pretty much. I can see.
Speaker 1: Gotta get that care. I just had to take my
Speaker 1: daddy a couple of weeks ago, like this, Why the
Speaker 1: fuck I had to take my daddy had a cataract surgery.
Speaker 1: He got a fucking wife in her forties. I'm confused.
Speaker 1: Remember she was busy that day and I had to
Speaker 1: take him four different times, like for the actual appointment
Speaker 1: for one eye, then an actual play for the other.
Speaker 1: Idea to follow up appointments. Was she at take off
Speaker 1: and work for your husband?
Speaker 2: But she said she was showing up.
Speaker 1: Yes she does. I'm grateful because listen, only I'm having
Speaker 1: one parent to probably take care of.
Speaker 3: Hopefully she stay around. Amen, Thank you, thank you girl.
Speaker 2: So MoMA all, that's one side that I don't have
Speaker 2: dairy issues because I typically don't they older men. What
Speaker 2: do they say about the younger man?
Speaker 3: I don't know a bitches at the schoolyard.
Speaker 1: Getting around. What's matching?
Speaker 2: It was two of them got arrested.
Speaker 1: For planning a threesome with a high school boy.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's disgusting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is up with y'all? Uh?
Speaker 2: Anxious attachment?
Speaker 3: What anxious?
Speaker 2: It says?
Speaker 1: You never knew what you expect from from your dad.
Speaker 1: Sometimes he was engaged, other times distant. He might have
Speaker 1: had a habit of venting to you. I've seen that
Speaker 1: my niece's dad does that. Like, man, you'd be trying
Speaker 1: to treat you like you his old lady.
Speaker 2: Mm hm.
Speaker 1: So like if they stare that they come in and
Speaker 1: not come and then don't don't show up things like that,
Speaker 1: which men Men do that without somebody having daddy issues people,
Speaker 1: So I do that, you know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: have told somebody I'm gonna do some shit and just
Speaker 1: don't follow up and don't answer the phone.
Speaker 2: Oh that's not nice. You've never done that. No, I
Speaker 2: try to, like, I try to show up if I
Speaker 2: make a if I make a plan with you, I'll
Speaker 2: at least be like I can't.
Speaker 1: But you never changed your mind, like you says you
Speaker 1: was going to show up for a dude, and then
Speaker 1: you don't, I ain't coming again, but I'll say something.
Speaker 2: Oh no, it may not be the truth. I'm sick, No, definitely,
Speaker 2: but I'll say something I don't like. I hate when
Speaker 2: I if don't ghost me because I don't like that,
Speaker 2: because I'm coming back. Like that bitch on that new.
Speaker 1: Movie delivery, maybe you got anxious attachment. Maybe not yet.
Speaker 1: I want to see it. I just started before.
Speaker 2: That part was hilarious, like I get to doll your day.
Speaker 1: That's what I mean with that on it. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that was a movie though.
Speaker 2: As they took me out, I was like, let me
Speaker 2: say my house and in there talking about.
Speaker 1: You stupid. But no, you said you don't like when
Speaker 1: people do that, Like I feel like, no, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't have to have to have an explanation every
Speaker 1: time from somebody you just.
Speaker 2: Don't feel like it.
Speaker 6: No, you need to tell me no, especially because if
Speaker 6: somebody does that, you just not for me. Good thank
Speaker 6: you for on me to date before I suck your
Speaker 6: dick like it takes just.
Speaker 2: A second to communicate that you can't be available when
Speaker 2: you said you would. That pisses me off so bad.
Speaker 3: But what if the person like something like I had
Speaker 3: an emergency something.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I've actually goes to people. But what
Speaker 1: if that person had an emergency? I have seen you
Speaker 1: jump to conclusions, dog real fast said that Nigga's paragraphs,
Speaker 1: So that might be a daddy issue.
Speaker 2: You're fucking you. I would jump to conah, because what
Speaker 2: are you doing? Are you in jail? Are you gonna
Speaker 2: go and die? Are you coming?
Speaker 1: I remember one time, don't.
Speaker 2: Tell me eight and then you it's something you're showing
Speaker 2: up at ten, or communicate that you're not coming at eight.
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem, but what if they died.
Speaker 2: Well, then they can't commune say anything, and then that's
Speaker 2: not a problem. But you gotta have that die. But
Speaker 2: you need to have me. You need to be dead.
Speaker 1: Nigga, Okay, got it. A fear of abandonment could be
Speaker 1: daddy issues.
Speaker 2: Oh I got that.
Speaker 3: I don't care ding ding ding ding, But what does
Speaker 3: that look like for you?
Speaker 1: Because I mean, I don't know the older I get,
Speaker 1: I don't care a lot about something.
Speaker 2: I think I'd be having trouble picking one person because
Speaker 2: I'm scared. Don't pick wrong, and they gonna leave me.
Speaker 2: I said that out loud. Because you never left somebody, right,
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever left anyone that I got
Speaker 2: serious with. They always like they'll break up with me,
Speaker 2: but they always try to double back and then they'd
Speaker 2: be like, nah, nigga, you thought the grass was greener
Speaker 2: over there, right, stay over there?
Speaker 1: Uh, your father is manipulative and controlling. My daddy don't
Speaker 1: even talk, my nigga.
Speaker 2: My daddy's so.
Speaker 3: Cool, man, you really don't even talk for real.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think which could be manipulate. Manipulation because
Speaker 1: you don't really answer questions like I have been with men,
Speaker 1: you ask them something they do not even. You gotta
Speaker 1: be real specific with the question do you have any kids?
Speaker 1: And do you have any kids on the way, because
Speaker 1: a nigga have somebody pregnant because the baby doesn't exist, right,
Speaker 1: I ain't got no kid. I don't got no kids,
Speaker 1: So I know people like men, you gotta be a
Speaker 1: real specific when you're asking these questions. And I feel
Speaker 1: like my daddy probably used to gass like my mom
Speaker 1: in that way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I think I don't like with my dad,
Speaker 2: the manipulative and controlling part. I can't speak to that
Speaker 2: with me. But I imagine he was like that with women.
Speaker 2: You know that he was daying, but our relationship wasn't
Speaker 2: They like, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you think you have daddy issues in any of
Speaker 1: your relationships? Like anything like that stems from your relationship
Speaker 1: with your father?
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Absolutely that what you were saying, where I will
Speaker 2: jump off, jump off the guns even on that Nigga,
Speaker 2: I see you jump on your daddy quick. Yeah, because
Speaker 2: he's supposed to be here. I don't know that, But
Speaker 2: I just think it's about communication for me, you know, like,
Speaker 2: just communicate. It's not I'm gonna not be mad at
Speaker 2: you for not being here. I'm gonna be mad at
Speaker 2: you because you didn't communicate that you weren't going to
Speaker 2: be here when you said it, right, That'll be my issue.
Speaker 2: They know the man, No, that's not for me. What's
Speaker 2: the other one? I don't know what avoided attachment and
Speaker 2: then the other one was.
Speaker 3: Oh, low self esteem could be one of them.
Speaker 1: Difficulty trusting men, if emotionally unavailable, jealousy, uh, become easily
Speaker 1: attached and clinging.
Speaker 2: If we have sex, we go together period.
Speaker 3: I'm confused why you think we don't ye depending on
Speaker 3: how we have sex. Bitches is not studying conon dit.
Speaker 1: But if you have sex with a woman without a conm,
Speaker 1: please know that's your girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Is even in the Bible, even contenis. I'll be attached.
Speaker 2: What do we do once I allow you to go
Speaker 2: there with me? We in love me? It used to.
Speaker 2: But that's how I'll be feeling. Like these young girls
Speaker 2: they different how.
Speaker 1: You get attached with that plastic in the middle, because
Speaker 1: I be so emotional off rubber.
Speaker 2: No, it don't just be like you're fucking that's rubber.
Speaker 2: Do the do I'm like, I'm emotional, I'm passionate. Like
Speaker 2: once we do that, no, I'm locked in.
Speaker 1: Nah, as long as there's a barrier, there's a barrier. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't fall in love with no condom dick. It's
Speaker 1: a daddy issue. If I can't fall in love with
Speaker 1: condom dick. Yeah, no, that's there. I don't have nothing
Speaker 1: to do with.
Speaker 2: My goddamn daddy condom dig is Wow that you call
Speaker 2: it that? It is what it is?
Speaker 1: Oh, so okay? This is it says you've never met
Speaker 1: your father. I can see somebody having daddy issues who
Speaker 1: never met their daddy. I mean absolutely, I'm trying to think,
Speaker 1: like what type of things like with my dad that
Speaker 1: I avoid and men.
Speaker 3: Because of him.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't really be laking ball had niggas.
Speaker 1: I love ballhead niggas when my daddy got here.
Speaker 2: But the older I get, the less I can avoid
Speaker 2: the losing their hair niggas.
Speaker 1: Going ball like niggas is in Turkey. I got a
Speaker 1: home word right now in Turkey, and he said, there's
Speaker 1: so many niggas over.
Speaker 2: There right now getting the airline that I'd be like
Speaker 2: sending him all the Turkish places like this.
Speaker 1: This guy to me and my phrase at MD. So
Speaker 1: he picked this place based off and he got like
Speaker 1: five million followers on Instagram.
Speaker 3: The places in Turkey like they does this. It's a
Speaker 3: lady runs in Yeah, send it to me yea. And
Speaker 3: the pictures before and afters.
Speaker 1: Look pretty good. I'm not against that, like I'm against
Speaker 1: them goddamn Lee's friends.
Speaker 2: I listened to do that. If it's done, yea, I
Speaker 2: don't care. You could get your lace front.
Speaker 1: I had an old friend who went to Benedict. Would
Speaker 1: us send me on Instagram?
Speaker 2: The other day?
Speaker 1: He was like, I got a surprise for you, So
Speaker 1: he sends me a recent picture of him and he
Speaker 1: cut his dreads off. But Nigga, the last time I
Speaker 1: seen you, which was probably like ten years ago, you
Speaker 1: ain't have no hair.
Speaker 2: Nigga was weird.
Speaker 1: Hats where does fucking hair come from? I said, if
Speaker 1: I see your ass at homecoming, I am dumping a
Speaker 1: bottle of alcohol in your head.
Speaker 2: You wouldn't want nobody do that to your hair. I'm
Speaker 2: here for I know that the lace front, if it
Speaker 2: looked good, if it looked nice, you would need my
Speaker 2: guy to be You need what I got to be.
Speaker 1: Baby, he gonna be trying to get you to do
Speaker 1: his damn here, and I it will. If that's my
Speaker 1: me and my me and my s I'm gonna be lifting.
Speaker 2: I don't like it.
Speaker 1: It's thick as fun. It's like not blended in the bag.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you gotta be good casting at to somebody
Speaker 1: who do here, and then I'm not gonna know that's
Speaker 1: my ship on your head.
Speaker 2: Listen as long as they look good, I don't care.
Speaker 2: I do not care. I'm here for it. Whatever make
Speaker 2: you feel confident and it looks nice, I'm here for
Speaker 2: it because I need you to feel the same way
Speaker 2: about me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know that's a weed. Just tell me
Speaker 1: that's a weave, Like, why are you trying to play
Speaker 1: on my intelligence? Or he ain't say it was no,
Speaker 1: Well he really want me to be like this is
Speaker 1: here and I'm like, no, nigga, you was wearing a
Speaker 1: fitted cap for many years because your dreads was out
Speaker 1: in the middle. So now you got like waves headline, Chris,
Speaker 1: I mean thick Steve har back when looking like uh
Speaker 1: Marcus Houton.
Speaker 2: It was the show where you robed the law.
Speaker 1: Oh god, oh man, that type of shit.
Speaker 2: He was the first one to do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, te Cat Williams said that nigga had a wig
Speaker 1: on he stopped.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it looked nice.
Speaker 1: That box speed looked.
Speaker 2: Nice to you back in nineteen ninety three. That shit
Speaker 2: was fire.
Speaker 1: Anxiety and relationships, excessive friendliness towards guys. You always in
Speaker 1: a nigga face smiling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, that's me. But I'm but I'm like that
Speaker 2: with women too, Like I'm just friendly or gig.
Speaker 1: People pleasing behaviors.
Speaker 3: No, what's another wings afraid of being alone?
Speaker 2: No, I'll stay in my house for days and yeah
Speaker 2: come out.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that people use like the like I said,
Speaker 1: they use that daddy issue shit to just to It's
Speaker 1: just another way to offend women.
Speaker 2: I think. Do you think most strips have daddy issues?
Speaker 1: No, because you know I can for my family as
Speaker 1: an example, Right, So, I don't know. Maybe my sister
Speaker 1: got daddy issues.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: But you can be raised in the same house, right,
Speaker 1: same parents. Why of no fucking siblings gonna be a
Speaker 1: whole other type of person. Like I'm I'm completely different
Speaker 1: from my family, right, but we are also alike in
Speaker 1: other ways that we have one that just can't fucking
Speaker 1: get right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I'm the wild card in my family.
Speaker 1: I know my mama seeing me putting cat shit because
Speaker 1: I've been using her Amazon. I know she's seen me
Speaker 1: putting cat shit in that card. I know she want
Speaker 1: to call me and actually, what you doing? I know
Speaker 1: it's itching her. I know is killing her not to call.
Speaker 3: Me a question because she don't even think you got
Speaker 3: a cat.
Speaker 1: No, she know I got a cat. She probably pissed
Speaker 1: about it, like, bitch, you don't need a cat. But
Speaker 1: I don't have daddy issues. I don't think zoom Man Jordian,
Speaker 1: I think aside from aside from just not being trust
Speaker 1: I'm not trusting. I remember one time my daddy he
Speaker 1: would go to this place called the Joint. It was like, no, bitch,
Speaker 1: not the chiropractice. I'm talking about, like hello, hole in
Speaker 1: the wall when you pick up some pussy like he
Speaker 1: was there. My mom would put us in the car
Speaker 1: to get him out of there, and they are getting
Speaker 1: in the parking lot that type of shit.
Speaker 2: Oh like, oh.
Speaker 1: Girls, yeah, away from my daddy trip. I literally yelled
Speaker 1: at the window once and that It was that day
Speaker 1: that I stopped calling my daddy daddy. I started calling
Speaker 1: him by his first name, like my sister.
Speaker 2: That sounds like a daddy issue right then.
Speaker 1: That nigga, not with the next nigga. Yeah, I had
Speaker 1: an issue with him, but not with the next person.
Speaker 2: But you don't think that it has manifested anyway.
Speaker 1: Leaving, I'm gonna tell you the one day that I
Speaker 1: knew that leaving not like breaking up with me, but leaving.
Speaker 1: I remember one day I told my dad I wanted
Speaker 1: to go with him wherever he was going. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to be where he at.
Speaker 3: And I'm like Harry I'm going with my shoes.
Speaker 1: I'm fighting to put my shoes, and I know he's
Speaker 1: getting his keys, he's leaving out the door.
Speaker 2: Bitch.
Speaker 1: I got to the carport and he had pulled out.
Speaker 1: My heart still hurt right now talking about how that
Speaker 1: nigga drove off without meaning and that ugly ass brown whatever.
Speaker 2: Back then, that's the first person to ever break your
Speaker 2: heart is your daddy.
Speaker 1: But a nigga did that to me one morning, like
Speaker 1: like yes, gym, yes, when we were and it took
Speaker 1: me back to that. It probably did come to him
Speaker 1: that morning because I'm still mad at my daddy from
Speaker 1: that one day.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If we had been working out the whole week, going
Speaker 1: to the gym, right, I wake up, I don't even
Speaker 1: brush my teeth yet, I don't take a shower yet.
Speaker 1: I'm getting you and your son together, right, So the
Speaker 1: last step for me already took my shower or whatever,
Speaker 1: and I finally pee up out of majoraw breakfast, all
Speaker 1: the shit. We going to the gym for the fifth
Speaker 1: day this week.
Speaker 2: It's routine.
Speaker 1: We have been routinely doing this the whole week. So
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on the stairs and put my shoes on
Speaker 1: and I walk over to the to the night standing
Speaker 1: to get my cellphone, and I hear the fucking door lock,
Speaker 1: Like I'm bending down out here, So I run to
Speaker 1: the door like a kid.
Speaker 2: I'm like, are you leaving me? He was like, you
Speaker 2: need to hurry up.
Speaker 1: Did y'all like the fucking lost it? No, absolutely not,
Speaker 1: And that was the beginning of the end. Daddy, the
Speaker 1: fuck up out of here, because that's disrespectful. Just say no, though,
Speaker 1: Just say you're not going this morning or something like that.
Speaker 1: Else say I don't know. He just wanted me to
Speaker 1: be on his time, which is still different from a
Speaker 1: daddy just wanting to go to cheating piece in his
Speaker 1: five year olds like I want to come.
Speaker 2: But still it affected you in a similar way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's that's that might be my daddy issue.
Speaker 1: So don't pull out, don't fucking leave me nowhere. That
Speaker 1: same nigga did that to me at the post office
Speaker 1: one day, like he kept triggering that that issue that
Speaker 1: ye don't go nowhere without telling me you leaving. If
Speaker 1: I walk outside of you not there, it's a problem.
Speaker 1: But is that really a daddy issue or just somebody
Speaker 1: really disrespecting you.
Speaker 2: Both because maybe you get so upset because it triggers
Speaker 2: a pain that you knew from a childhood trauma.
Speaker 3: But imagine, okay, that never happened. Your daddy never did
Speaker 3: that to you before.
Speaker 1: Right, Imagine you walking outside and you were supposed to
Speaker 1: be going with your man.
Speaker 2: And he imagine walking bitch, sh go ahead, you make
Speaker 2: me sick.
Speaker 1: But imagine like that happening. You don't have that particular issue.
Speaker 1: You didn't you didn't have that experience.
Speaker 3: But that's disrespectful. Yeah, as far as I'm concerned.
Speaker 1: But a man will say, well, why are you acting
Speaker 1: like that? You got daddy issues because you left me
Speaker 1: because you disrespected me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe you wouldn't have like blew up as
Speaker 2: much had you not had that experience. Why I've still
Speaker 2: been mad.
Speaker 3: I'm still disrespected. Yeah, I'm still blowing up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my daddy ain't never really disrespect me.
Speaker 2: I remember one time when I was little. You know
Speaker 2: that church is Chicken by Benedict, Well, it used to
Speaker 2: be churches. I think it's like a verre.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was churches with my mom and dad.
Speaker 1: Put a pan experience, I'd gained one hundred pounds. Yes,
Speaker 1: he was, what's the Chinese restaurant over there? Trying to no, no,
Speaker 1: trying to walk, trying to walk, Yeah, trying to walk
Speaker 1: every day, bitch, fifty pounds freshman year.
Speaker 5: That was me.
Speaker 2: So this was when I was a baby girl, and
Speaker 2: I can remember this. My parents were having like they
Speaker 2: came in separate cars, and they met at churches to
Speaker 2: get leut right, and they was arguing the whole time
Speaker 2: we was eating. And then my older sister was in school.
Speaker 2: I was too young to be in school, and they left.
Speaker 2: They were leaving, and I followed my mama's storm tried
Speaker 2: to store them off right, and I came running behind her.
Speaker 2: She said, go with your daddy, right. So then I
Speaker 2: went running toward my daddy car, and he was like,
Speaker 2: go with your mama. Oh. So then I went running
Speaker 2: back to where my mama car. She said, didn't I
Speaker 2: tell you to go with your daddy. So then I'm
Speaker 2: running to where his car.
Speaker 1: Go with your mama.
Speaker 2: I just stopped in the parking lot and they both
Speaker 2: stopped and stopped and they came together and they stopped
Speaker 2: arguing because they saw me and just standing in the
Speaker 2: middle of the church's parking lot, like, I don't know
Speaker 2: what to do.
Speaker 1: That is so sad. No, I ain't that same god
Speaker 1: parents be terrorizing the kids.
Speaker 2: Man, Well, maybe that's why, nigga, you need to be
Speaker 2: on time to pick me up.
Speaker 1: They let me know where you're at because follow through.
Speaker 2: Follow through. So baby, that's that's my trigger. And I
Speaker 2: won't eat no motherfucking churches.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 3: Them bitches to be cooking at chicken titties too big anyway.
Speaker 1: In the fryar.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know where the fuck else I'm going at
Speaker 3: with this, but.
Speaker 1: I love my dad, and if I have an issue
Speaker 1: with a man, it is not because of some shit
Speaker 1: my daddy did to me at all.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I'm still going to therapy and maybe
Speaker 2: I need to unpack some things. I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 2: that's why I'm not married yet, because I'll be I'll
Speaker 2: be hard on these men sometimes I feel like, all right,
Speaker 2: tell me, all right, I'm gonna tell you my daddy
Speaker 2: why I be. Man, I'm telling y'all they but I'm
Speaker 2: mad at my daddy right now because he wouldn't come
Speaker 2: pick me up from the airport. Is that me being spoiled?
Speaker 1: No, why would he not?
Speaker 3: My daddy would never not come get me.
Speaker 2: Guess what I said, like, why wouldn't you come?
Speaker 3: And that's when you know people love you when they
Speaker 3: come get you in the airport on time?
Speaker 2: It was I mean, now, granted he didn't know that
Speaker 2: I was gonna be in the airport. You know, I
Speaker 2: was like, I'm because it was a layover, so I
Speaker 2: wasn't even supposed to be in Chicago, but I got
Speaker 2: stuck in Chicago. And now I'm stuck in Chicago. Come
Speaker 2: get me and he would not come get me. So
Speaker 2: I'm mad at him. I'm still mad at him.
Speaker 1: And that was like you had to sit in the
Speaker 1: airport all night. No, I would have got me in
Speaker 1: a hotel room by the airport, but he did not
Speaker 1: come pick me up.
Speaker 2: You want to jump him? I would like to, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I would like to, but I can't fight that. That's
Speaker 2: a big grow man. It's like the feelings that he
Speaker 2: didn't come get me. But for you, yeah, maybe that's
Speaker 2: far he was. He did work late, and he like
Speaker 2: he would have had to come from Indiana.
Speaker 1: He still had to go home though, you know he
Speaker 1: lives in Chicago but works in Indiana. I mean, but
Speaker 1: it's right there though, like Gary, I know Gary is
Speaker 1: the train right away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm men and him still I love him,
Speaker 2: but I'm mad m hm.
Speaker 1: And you probably feel like, nigga, whatever I asked you
Speaker 1: to do, you need to be doing.
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't ask for a lot, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that's That's probably how I probably have some entitlement when
Speaker 1: it comes to my daddy.
Speaker 3: But even though I don't ask people to do a
Speaker 3: whole budget of ship.
Speaker 1: For me, if I were to call my daddy and
Speaker 1: he told me no right now, bitch, I'll probably kick out.
Speaker 1: I'll probably be on the floor kicking, like, no, nigga,
Speaker 1: you owe me.
Speaker 2: That's how I felt, like, No, what.
Speaker 1: You said, no you can't, but you mean no, you won't, right,
Speaker 1: So I'm well, no, maybe he didn't know he can't,
Speaker 1: and you took it as know.
Speaker 2: I want, well, why you can't.
Speaker 1: Cause it's too fucking far and I just got off
Speaker 1: from work and you're a grown woman.
Speaker 2: No fuck that, fuck that shit you talk about right,
Speaker 2: call your.
Speaker 3: Daddy, bitch.
Speaker 2: I still talk. Were still in the group chat and
Speaker 2: we'd say good morning every morning. Me my mom my
Speaker 2: dad and my sisters every morning when we say good
Speaker 2: morning to each other. And then he called me the
Speaker 2: other day he called me. We talked. Once I broke
Speaker 2: my foot, he called me, and I ain't act like
Speaker 2: a bitch. I was nice. But the time when I
Speaker 2: moved to La, he called me and see how I
Speaker 2: was moving in. I was like, you don't care.
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, are you good or not? That's how
Speaker 3: you do niggas.
Speaker 2: Yep, you don't care.
Speaker 1: Gil tripping, So you be guilt tripping the man.
Speaker 3: You be guilt tripping your daddy.
Speaker 2: Is that what we're gonna call it?
Speaker 3: Yes, that is Gil tripping them. Yes, absolutely, to find.
Speaker 1: That Gil tripping somebody like you making him feel bad
Speaker 1: about some sit they shouldn't have to feel bad about.
Speaker 1: Why he should like you don't care? Yes, he does care.
Speaker 1: He wouldn't have called if he didn't.
Speaker 2: If he cared, he would have picked me up from
Speaker 2: the airport.
Speaker 1: Oh my life, your daddy life, not mine, your daddy life.
Speaker 2: Y'all love my daddy. But I still think he should
Speaker 2: have came and got me. Period, I would come get it.
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody in my family that will call me and
Speaker 2: say hey, I'm stuck at the airport in your city,
Speaker 2: and I wouldn't show one time.
Speaker 1: You would have had to have been back to the airport.
Speaker 2: Early in the morning. That's my daddy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, be considerate. You gotta be considerate sometimes even though
Speaker 1: it is your dad.
Speaker 2: Considerate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I know how far the fucking the airports
Speaker 1: at two airports and Chicago. He's in a suburbswhere an
Speaker 1: outscore yes and me uber. Yeah, he could have done that,
Speaker 1: but I was like, that's okay, I just give me
Speaker 1: a hotel. Yeah, any doing it myself like I always do.
Speaker 2: Okay, So maybe I do have a little bit of
Speaker 2: a thing areas.
Speaker 1: Of improvement, little t I need to find me a
Speaker 1: new therapist. I haven't had therapy since my last relationship.
Speaker 1: Basically I got and stopped it, and.
Speaker 2: I I actually have.
Speaker 1: I bought this cat emotional support.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm heard of them, emotional support.
Speaker 1: People have cats for emotional support, right, cats.
Speaker 2: Give you the emotional support. First of all, cats are
Speaker 2: going magic though what they want to do.
Speaker 1: That's not true. They don't. You gotta raise them how
Speaker 1: you want them to be. They do, they live, They
Speaker 1: bounced to the beat of their own if they don't
Speaker 1: fuck with you. They will fuck with you one second
Speaker 1: and then scratch you the neck.
Speaker 2: They've seen it.
Speaker 1: Sounds like I felt it.
Speaker 2: All right, like I'm ready to be done with this conversation.
Speaker 2: I need to call my dandy.
Speaker 1: Well, I had it on this. I saw this post
Speaker 1: on Instagram and it was saying it basically said, calculate
Speaker 1: how many times you see your or how often you
Speaker 1: see your parent? Right, so, how many times you think?
Speaker 1: How often do you see your daddy? I don't get
Speaker 1: to see my dad a lot anymore because my daddy
Speaker 1: lived in my city and I don't see my parents enough.
Speaker 1: I don't think, so like calculate their age and things
Speaker 1: like you literally probably got twenty more times to see
Speaker 1: them this lifetime.
Speaker 2: Then that's dark, AJ, No, it's just go see you people.
Speaker 3: Oh, I see people?
Speaker 2: You know. I would see my mama every week.
Speaker 1: But how's that dark?
Speaker 2: What the times the girl that hurt my feeling? Yes?
Speaker 2: But and it should it should.
Speaker 1: So now make more effort to see you a bitch
Speaker 1: up from your airport.
Speaker 3: Maybe you need did not pop in.
Speaker 1: Maybe you actually schedule time with your daddy and fly
Speaker 1: a Chicago, not just you happen to see me because
Speaker 1: I pull up at the airport. I've done that.
Speaker 3: I do that, you know I will pull up. I'm
Speaker 3: just I've flown him to me too.
Speaker 2: That just happened to be one instance where I happen
Speaker 2: to be in your city, you know, in a layover
Speaker 2: going to Europe, and my flag got canceled in Chicago.
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do better and go see my Daddnymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah, your daddy right down the street talking about better,
Speaker 2: and I.
Speaker 1: See that Nigga system cataract appointment.
Speaker 2: You you you can't see your ass.
Speaker 1: And my mama took her house key for me, So
Speaker 1: I'm over there, girl. I'm not sitting in your driveway
Speaker 1: till you come home. I'd had a kid of your
Speaker 1: house my whole life, and you're just trying to be
Speaker 1: nasty right quick.
Speaker 2: So now you ain't going over there.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not take the advice. If I call her and
Speaker 1: she don't answer the phone, I'm not going to sit
Speaker 1: in her yard.
Speaker 3: So my mom like to act like she don't see
Speaker 3: you calling her.
Speaker 1: She's busy. She is watching all them Korean shows on
Speaker 1: Netflix and playing this game on her phone. I know
Speaker 1: she got her phone in her hand when I got
Speaker 1: the Korean there's something in there that that that that's
Speaker 1: programmed my mom at this point, she cannot not watch
Speaker 1: that ship. That's anyway, your daddy, if you possibly.
Speaker 2: Got daddy issues, not work on them, go to the
Speaker 2: therapy episodes, will never go hide plan in my mind
Speaker 2: what it is, we should bring them all again. We
Speaker 2: have them all once he did, let's do it for
Speaker 2: Father's Day next year.
Speaker 1: And all the niggas there was lie.
Speaker 2: Not my daddy, girl.
Speaker 1: Both of my daddies was lying.
Speaker 2: My daddy was not lying. My daddy lied.
Speaker 1: My daddy was like, ain't no woman never came between
Speaker 1: him and his marriage because these men and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say an these men in my daddy's mind, but
Speaker 1: I still think it's men right in his mind. If
Speaker 1: you're the one that left the marriage, then you know
Speaker 1: what he was doing wasn't the cause of the marriage ending.
Speaker 1: So even though he was fucking on bitches, you chose
Speaker 1: to leave, so you ended the marriage.
Speaker 2: Well, the vowel is for bitter or worse.
Speaker 3: Fuck that. And this is why fuck y'all statistics. And
Speaker 3: I always say this. Women just do the paperwork.
Speaker 1: Men leave the relationship and we do the people work
Speaker 1: just like everything else. That's it. But you you already
Speaker 1: left a relationship when you started violating and then I
Speaker 1: foul for divorce. Yeah, but you smashing women and doing
Speaker 1: all type of wild shit like he still to this day,
Speaker 1: seventy years old, like.
Speaker 2: That, nigga.
Speaker 1: Don't think that it was women that Nigga used to
Speaker 1: come home with blonde hair on his clothes.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, it's working on white bitches too.
Speaker 5: Well, be having blond hair. Then you had blond hair out.
Speaker 5: You had blond hair for four years twenty seven inch?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Long? And what club you dc on? All right, y'all? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Tell you people getting therapy if you if you possibly
Speaker 1: have any of these uh these issues?
Speaker 2: Right, do you have anything? If you were to say
Speaker 2: something to your daddy saying, now.
Speaker 1: Oh, I love my dad, and my dad ain't know
Speaker 1: not I love him.
Speaker 2: I look just like I love you, daddy. I love
Speaker 2: my dad. I respect you. I'm not a stripper because
Speaker 2: I respect you.
Speaker 1: So you would have been a stripper if he was absent,
Speaker 1: like for real, like you didn't know him, you'd probably
Speaker 1: be stripping.
Speaker 2: I probably would have like in my like college back then,
Speaker 2: I had asked when you couldn't buy it, Like I
Speaker 2: probably could have gotten rich, but I respected my father
Speaker 2: so much that I would never You know, so you're okay.
Speaker 3: That's a whole nother episode.
Speaker 1: What not about your respect? Respecting yourself?
Speaker 2: You weren't about what I would have been getting that
Speaker 2: bag in my twenties. I would have got that bag
Speaker 2: in my twenties. You couldn't buy it back then, you
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Oh, you know that, my brain skipped.
Speaker 1: But when you said maybe the strippers don't be having dads, nah,
Speaker 1: you could be. You could raise your people, however, and
Speaker 1: they end up doing what the fuck they want to do,
Speaker 1: like two parent household, went to.
Speaker 3: College, probably flunked down. Your parents send you to college,
Speaker 3: and now you're stripping or now you do well today?
Speaker 2: You know, strippers are like very much more celebrated than
Speaker 2: like when we were in our twenties, it was very taboo.
Speaker 2: You know what, you wouldn't have like no Instagram page,
Speaker 2: and if you called a girl by her Dan's name
Speaker 2: out in the street, it would be an issue.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now the prisoners is running in prison.
Speaker 2: Now the girl would be like, I'm candy dropped liquor.
Speaker 1: Well, everybody go by the Instagram name now too. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so we all strippers at this.
Speaker 2: Point, Like, yuess, you're right.
Speaker 1: One thing I might add, I probably would not have
Speaker 1: smashed as many people. And my daddy was on my
Speaker 1: fucking neck, you know what I'm saying. He just wasn't dead.
Speaker 1: He don't say much. And my mama always felt like
Speaker 1: he was co signing bad behavior, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because he ain't trying to beat your ass, like he's
Speaker 1: going to have a conversation with you, as opposed like her,
Speaker 1: she just want to jump on you.
Speaker 2: You know. So it's two differ. We were a good
Speaker 2: cop back cup, you know.
Speaker 1: No, I guess maybe he You parents be really they
Speaker 1: put themselves on pedestals.
Speaker 2: I didn't.
Speaker 1: They put the kids on pedestals sometimes, so they act
Speaker 1: like they forgot, like the type of shit they was on.
Speaker 1: My daddy just was stolen some bullshit. So he's like, damn,
Speaker 1: how can I reprimmand.
Speaker 2: You when I'm out here doing the same. Yeah up,
Speaker 2: if not worse.
Speaker 1: Oh, before we go, a bitch, my dad was smashing
Speaker 1: one time. My daddy had to be in his early
Speaker 1: sixties at the time.
Speaker 2: Listen here he might be made a right girl. Think
Speaker 2: it on me.
Speaker 1: Listen. Didn't listen to this show since last time he
Speaker 1: was on this bitch that was two years ago. This bitch,
Speaker 1: she was a tall what's the girl on Friday? Great girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Like imagine a bitch. L looked like that barrel curl
Speaker 1: update swoop, gold teeth, long nails, bats pretty though. My
Speaker 1: daddy was smashing this young girl. Don't you know that
Speaker 1: A bitch called myself because I was talking to the Niggah.
Speaker 2: That mean, you're grill.
Speaker 1: Telling me how she's gonna tell my daddy on me
Speaker 1: because I'm talking to somebody she want to talk to. Well,
Speaker 1: that is a mess, I'm gonna tell you, ghetto. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she would have been in her twenties at the time.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a high school and I got you.
Speaker 2: Messing with this girl man that I like, So I'm
Speaker 2: not messing just getting his car and gold teeth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Yeah, she wanted that dude, and she
Speaker 1: was telling me she was. She called myself on and
Speaker 1: told him she was gonna tell my dad. I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: you know you fucking my daddy?
Speaker 2: You said that?
Speaker 1: Yes, because who you?
Speaker 5: Who?
Speaker 2: You having a conversation.
Speaker 3: Anyway, let's get the fuck about it.
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