WEBVTT - Daddy Issues

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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<v Speaker 2>an opinion who talks back.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>A shit girl, a j and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's team broke.

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<v Speaker 3>As y'all can see and broke up.

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<v Speaker 1>Shame y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to my Homegirl's way that I flew back

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<v Speaker 2>from LA because y'all know I moved to LA kind

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<v Speaker 2>of things. I'm back this much like there two weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>came back and now I'm gonna be back in Charlotte.

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<v Speaker 1>For at least six weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the second sign though after moving to LA. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because the second dayo ass was there. What happened?

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<v Speaker 2>That was literally the first twenty four hours. There was

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<v Speaker 2>an earthquake.

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<v Speaker 1>We we were born in the intro for one of

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<v Speaker 1>these episodes, and this bitch computer started shit and she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Taking a nigga phil falling back like shit, that's the earthquake.

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<v Speaker 2>I was ready to leave that. I was like, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>I should go, but then everybody in LA was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>that's La. You got that out the way, welcome, So

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<v Speaker 2>I just got comfortable. I came back home from my

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<v Speaker 2>friend's wedding. I was supposed to be flying out on

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<v Speaker 2>Thursday to go back to LA and we had a time.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was so much fun. We had a

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<v Speaker 2>great time at the wedding. Everybody was drunk, open bar everybody's.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm looking like there was knucking and bucket running

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<v Speaker 1>out the bridesmaid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was so much fun. They lit, they started

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<v Speaker 2>the energy off. It was lit. So it's almost time

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<v Speaker 2>to go. And I was like, Kema, you didn't do

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<v Speaker 2>the bouquet tolls.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta do the bouquete, not you initiate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. She's like, oh I forgot Okay, Yeah, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do it. I'm about to do it. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, y'all move out the way, bitches, because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>getting this motherfucker bouquet.

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like stretching on the dance floor like this.

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<v Speaker 1>But you want the bouquet for a husband or you

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<v Speaker 1>just as being goddamn competitive? Yes, very competitive competitive.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I just gotta be like I'm winning at

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<v Speaker 2>all times. But I mean I also went the husband, like,

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<v Speaker 2>don't get it twisted. I want the husband. But it

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<v Speaker 2>is about me just beating everybody beating these bitches. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the right, and I beat. I'm the bitch that

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<v Speaker 2>I beat. Because I landed on my ankle. I jumped

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<v Speaker 2>up like I really jumped ten feet. If y'all go

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<v Speaker 2>to my Instagram, y'all see the video, I jumped ten

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<v Speaker 2>feet in the air. I don't know who I thought

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously you thought you was damn Lebron Jeans.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I was Odell Beckham, bitch, and I bent

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<v Speaker 2>it like Beckham for real. So I landed on my

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<v Speaker 2>right ankle and then I hit the floor because that

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<v Speaker 2>I heard the pop y'all, I heard that shait. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, that don't sound good right there. And

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<v Speaker 2>I laid on the floor and I rolled it and

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<v Speaker 2>I laughed. I was wincing and laughing at the same

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<v Speaker 2>time because everybody at the way that is looking, so

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't look like I'm in severe pain. So then

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<v Speaker 2>I my friend tried to help me up, and she

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't even get me up because I couldn't put no

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<v Speaker 2>pressure on this foot for real. So then she was like, dang,

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<v Speaker 2>you heavy bitch. I was like, no, I just can't

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<v Speaker 2>help you right now. So She finally got me up

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<v Speaker 2>and I lived off the floor. Y'all's so crazy, like

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<v Speaker 2>acting like I wasn't hurt. But then I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>every time I try to apply some pressure to his foot,

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<v Speaker 2>it just wasn't happening. I was doing a little something,

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<v Speaker 2>but that liquor had me thinking you all right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like yeah, way, bitch, like a yeah, that

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<v Speaker 2>liquor gave me wings.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought I was Okay, I'm trying to see

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<v Speaker 1>what time this text message came through, because y'all, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to go to sleep, Okay. I had all intentions

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<v Speaker 1>on getting up four o'clock in the morning driving to

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<v Speaker 1>Charlotte's Cord Labor Day, Yeah, essentially, and I get a

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<v Speaker 1>text message at eleven uh late, late as fuck. Okay, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I broke my foot.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it hurts so bad, like it was hurt and

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<v Speaker 2>it was throbbing or whatever. I put ice on it,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I went to bed and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's probably something a little sprain. I'll be fine in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning. Baby. When I woke up, my foot was

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<v Speaker 2>the size of up.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that's how it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was going to be because the one time I sprained

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<v Speaker 1>my fucking incle in Atlanta. Boy, I fell down that

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<v Speaker 1>big ass held by what's the glub.

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<v Speaker 2>Compound?

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<v Speaker 1>Compound bitch and some niggas A nigga with a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of bitches in the car drove by.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, stupid, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>When I woke up the next morning, my fucking foot

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<v Speaker 1>was so.

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<v Speaker 2>Big and I could feel my heart beating my foot.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, you know, you all to be breaking shit,

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<v Speaker 2>right girl. That's why I was saying, like, why didn't

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<v Speaker 2>this happen when I was twenty five?

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<v Speaker 1>That stupid an com back?

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<v Speaker 2>What the problem was? I had on socks because I

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<v Speaker 2>brought my heels. I forgot my slides when my friends

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<v Speaker 2>let me wear her slides until her feet started hurting.

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<v Speaker 2>And I had socks in my pocket book, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, I just slide these on for the

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<v Speaker 2>uh the bouquet toss, just so I'm not barefoot on

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<v Speaker 2>the floor. Mistake. I would have landed that ship if

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<v Speaker 2>I had my bare feet. You know how rough my

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<v Speaker 2>feet are. Ship? Yeah, shame. So I love y'all. I

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<v Speaker 2>be saying that ship, but y'all need to know that

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all for real, because This is less than

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<v Speaker 2>forty eight hours after this shit happened, and I'm here

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<v Speaker 2>on it and I ain't supposed to do I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 2>I'm supposed to be just resting.

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<v Speaker 3>There's about these comments on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot one nigga was like dash, she must be single, single.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it is here. Everybody kept on comparing me

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<v Speaker 2>to different quarterbacks and what football team I need to be?

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<v Speaker 2>All this ship Charla bade, did you hate humans? Man? No, motherfuckers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny as hell. Man, I be running to the comments.

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<v Speaker 2>My DMS went hammer, he went crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to carry you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a lot of niggas in. That's the bitch

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<v Speaker 2>is in there too, Like you don't even need no nigga,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll come help you please. So I got six weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I got six weeks, well six plus weeks. So the

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<v Speaker 2>doctor said, like because of where the break is, like

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<v Speaker 2>something about the blood supply to my foot, and I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta put no pressure on it and I'll go back

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<v Speaker 2>to the orthopedic doctor in four weeks to see how

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<v Speaker 2>it's healing and if I need a screw lord.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all pray for me that I don't need no

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<v Speaker 1>screw on my foot. Yeah, cause that's gonna be six

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<v Speaker 1>plus how many weeks? Yeah after for that shit to help?

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<v Speaker 2>So hopeful, what you're gonna do? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>You going back to La?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I can't. I mean, I'm eventually all my ship

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<v Speaker 2>is in La. You know, a lot of my stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I took a lot of things with me, so I

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<v Speaker 2>have my because I was you know, I didn't pick

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<v Speaker 2>up apartment yet. That was what I was going to do

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<v Speaker 2>when once I got back, I was in the airbnb,

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<v Speaker 2>which I had for another thirty days, but I went

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<v Speaker 2>and got my my Homegirl is like, as we speak,

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<v Speaker 2>going to take my stuff out of there and take

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<v Speaker 2>it to her house, so I don't pay for a

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<v Speaker 2>mom that I'm not gonna be there. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>going to be living out of the stuff that I

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<v Speaker 2>brought with me for the way, and so if y'all

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<v Speaker 2>sleep and recording two weeks away dressed, you know the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck why because I got no clothes and yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna go. I'm just so grateful for my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna go to her house and luckily I

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<v Speaker 2>know y'all pray for me. No, my mama loved me down,

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<v Speaker 2>is she But you know, yeah, grown women in the house,

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Be like, I don't give a fuck about that foot.

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<v Speaker 2>You better wash that, dish out the mother, you out

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<v Speaker 2>the fight.

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<v Speaker 1>Where voys be coming from that you be putting on.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, cause she don't even sound like that said

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<v Speaker 2>in my head when you talking shit, you go, I

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<v Speaker 2>would break the other one if you keep putting it on.

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<v Speaker 1>My seat, So you know, I mean that'd be interesting. Yeah, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>we wanted to talk about daddy issues today. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about mom because you about to experience this bitch out.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there and.

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<v Speaker 3>Never ever ever them people different.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. You you see your parents uh as superheroes until

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<v Speaker 1>you realize them. Nigga's a humans. They regular people and

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<v Speaker 1>may be having all they little bullshit with them. So

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<v Speaker 1>good luck.

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<v Speaker 2>This ship look like a transformer on the bottom of

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<v Speaker 2>my foot. I just hate this for me, just putting

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<v Speaker 2>on clothes like you never realize how important two feet are.

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<v Speaker 3>And losing limbs and losing stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just washing my ass was just such an obstacle

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<v Speaker 2>today and not having like like I'm staying at my

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<v Speaker 2>homegirl Sean house. Y'all shout out that Sean. Sean has

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<v Speaker 2>been like an angel to me, like really helping me

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<v Speaker 2>out so much. And I know she did not sign

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<v Speaker 2>up for that, and I know I was like starting

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<v Speaker 2>to get annoying because I downloaded the bell app and

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<v Speaker 2>I started you know you didn't, I'm just playing. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, bitch, I would throw that phone over the

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<v Speaker 2>motherfucker baptist. I was like, I just do one more thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You put me some crippets. Morning when I woke up,

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<v Speaker 2>she was like, are you hungry? Why don't you get

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<v Speaker 2>yourself up and make yourself something? Then Christina, you gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Put your that bathtub. She's gonna put your ass in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathtub.

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<v Speaker 2>Bit you live. So I'm gonna get up out of

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<v Speaker 2>there tomorrow because I war all about well.

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<v Speaker 1>For you lose a friend, yeah exactly, But that's when

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<v Speaker 1>you know who's your friend, when people come through in.

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<v Speaker 2>Times like that, when you got one foot yeah, shout

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<v Speaker 2>out to Sean, Shout out to Sean. For real, how

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<v Speaker 2>was your weekend? Let's talk about your weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>And what did I do this weekend? And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I did much of anything for real. Kept so

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<v Speaker 1>Monday was was damn labor day, and I was on

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<v Speaker 1>the road Labor Day. Don't do much shine this ship.

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<v Speaker 2>We hang out over the weekend prior to the Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>He no age lying. AJ do not want y'all to

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<v Speaker 2>know her businesspen.

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<v Speaker 1>Was on Amazon buying a whole bunch of cat baby things.

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<v Speaker 2>That was about it, you guys, she got a new

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<v Speaker 2>kid of ya. It's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cute, that's all. I didn't do shit this

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<v Speaker 1>weekend for real money. Oh I'm lying, Okay, I do

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<v Speaker 1>be lying. Maybe I'll just be forgetting like I do things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so my homegirl, my best friend, Priscilla, her birthday

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<v Speaker 1>was on the twenty eighth of August, so we did

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<v Speaker 1>have a little shin ding celebration on Saturday. Crabs. We

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<v Speaker 1>had some blue grab. I made my little stuff uh

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<v Speaker 1>vegan stuff shells for the people. I'd be having to

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<v Speaker 1>take my own food places just to make sure I

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<v Speaker 1>got something to eat because I don't take it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I brought a big ass pan of stuff shells. We

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<v Speaker 1>had all just drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on shrooms. This is probably why I be forgetting,

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<v Speaker 1>because y'all, I can't wait till Fridays to take shrooms

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<v Speaker 1>Every Friday, I'd be on shrooms. Bitch. I'll be in

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<v Speaker 1>here looking in the mirror, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I realized that the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that I'm never still, you know, So when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on shrooms.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be writing a bunch of shit and I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>looking in the mirror a lot, like like real shadow

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<v Speaker 1>work type shit. You know what I'm saying, like scribing

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<v Speaker 1>to scribe the mirror.

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<v Speaker 2>Heavy birthday Priscilla.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend, she went to where does she go out?

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<v Speaker 1>Send Chroy or her in her little her little boot.

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<v Speaker 1>She posts niggas on social medi it's serious saying that

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<v Speaker 1>he was there too. Guys. She got a little New

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<v Speaker 1>York little thing. I had that nice guy. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>happy for my friend. She deserves all the nice things.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen. Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that's what I did. We celebrated her this

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<v Speaker 1>weekend on Saturday and then Sunday is just a big bulur.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get in this stupid internet news though. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to start on a very great note.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see these.

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<v Speaker 1>TSR daddies that the Shade Room posted with this?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>She want a big dog. She don't want no puppy,

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<v Speaker 1>She want a big Dog, boss Man, Dilo song Girl Girl. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Series of black Men. Okay, yes, a black man's back

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<v Speaker 1>is high. No, God is fucking real.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, these men.

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<v Speaker 1>These I was smiling the whole time. One of my

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<v Speaker 1>friends who got no business sending me this and dish

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<v Speaker 1>it to me because she's very, very fucking married, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I got a ship this with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>they are.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking at it right now and it's just nothing

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<v Speaker 2>but beautiful black man. Oh my god, my vagina dumping.

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<v Speaker 1>The last nigga, though, I'm mad you were standing on

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<v Speaker 1>some stool or something. Why you needs that far up

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<v Speaker 1>the damn mirror, boy, you're standing on something. But these

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<v Speaker 1>some nice looking men. I need I need to redo.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to see what's the next group of men

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<v Speaker 1>do this?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone?

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<v Speaker 1>Gorgeous black men, y'all know, black men got like swat.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why everybody loves black men, because it's just something with.

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<v Speaker 2>The aura that everybody loves.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody want to touch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to go follow all.

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<v Speaker 1>These uss you like them. I'm gonna telling you, I

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<v Speaker 1>like that first nigga, oh, the first in the second, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just gorgeous, Like why you shape like that?

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<v Speaker 2>How you look like that.

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<v Speaker 1>If y'all man go to go to the shadroom. What

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<v Speaker 1>day was that posted?

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<v Speaker 2>That was all? If when this come out, it'll be

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<v Speaker 2>seven days ago. Looks for seven days ago, ladies, and

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<v Speaker 2>gets you an eye full of God's goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>The Lord is my shepherd. He know what I want?

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<v Speaker 2>Amen, ain't me?

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<v Speaker 1>Missus? Sean Wells underscore number one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, let's shot these niggas out bag visuals. Go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>and say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, Bam bam cam undercore visuals.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that one for me. Bam. I'm tam

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<v Speaker 2>bam and he bam cam.

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to be bodied by Brandon underscore.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, follow him, follow him because he find two

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<v Speaker 2>dominated four two sixty six. Oh we need to be

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<v Speaker 2>terminator for too. Six six mm. Girl, we just sound

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<v Speaker 2>like so thirsty out to you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like them phone calls from prison.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's up? Just your girl?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm number four five to six, just looking for a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>looking for one of these niggas. Let me stop.

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<v Speaker 2>I get beat up girl. You're here.

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<v Speaker 1>On the mic right, I'm just playing baby anyway. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a fatnizer nigga. Better know that fucking with me Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't touch my phone and I won't touch yours.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, I don't look at this. So I

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<v Speaker 2>saw this over the weekend. A woman paid a man

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<v Speaker 2>back with a foursome for buying her and her two

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<v Speaker 2>friends VIP tickets to Usher concert and they went eleven rounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody drugs? What kind of drugs y'all was on?

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't really eleven rounds or just eleven condoms? Oh, perhaps,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how it reads a little bit that that

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense to me, Like, nigga, you swapping condoms out?

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<v Speaker 2>You ain't.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't went no eleven rounds with three bitches. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, she shared a photo of eleven open skin condoms,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's just like he was switching up for each girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess they were like keeping it safe. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see Usher that bad. I want to see Usher,

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<v Speaker 2>but not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted did she feel like she had? That's like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all you had to pay back with, like you

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<v Speaker 1>just they just wanted to do a threesome. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't request that, because it's as a token of appreciation.

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<v Speaker 1>For his consideration, his considerate gift to her and her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>She planned to surprise him with a special experience that

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<v Speaker 1>all the girls agreed upon. So he didn't say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you holds will to see Usher.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all gotta hey pussy right.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he didn't say that. He just was able to

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<v Speaker 2>receive that as a gift for these Usher tickets. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't imagine. They just some freaky, freaky frogs and

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<v Speaker 1>they just needed a reason. Hell yeah, it says. She

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<v Speaker 1>described this as one of her top three most best experiences,

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<v Speaker 1>given it a perfect ten out of ten. She does

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<v Speaker 1>recommend she provided additional crucial crucial information that was omitted

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<v Speaker 1>in her first statements. She says, there was one man

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<v Speaker 1>and three women. Yes, we ran a train on him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes it was consensual, Yes he enjoyed it. Condoms were

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<v Speaker 1>switched between partners. Skin don't smell like rubber if you're

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<v Speaker 1>if they're lubricated naturally or otherwise. I like skin condoms.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a train though, because men would have considered

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<v Speaker 1>that a threesome. If you eating all these coochies, we

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<v Speaker 1>ran a train on you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you hit everybody out and then everybody kiss

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<v Speaker 2>it and shit, that's a lot of But if it was.

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<v Speaker 1>One woman and three men, it would be a chew chew.

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<v Speaker 1>We had an episode about that. Yeah, it's a train

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that a double standard?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Because remember A. J. Johnson who played uh Tyrese's Mama

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<v Speaker 1>and baby Boy. She said for her fiftieth birthday, she

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<v Speaker 1>had a threesome with her good guy friends and she

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<v Speaker 1>loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>She had a train ran on her with I know

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<v Speaker 2>women that enjoy it. I have a I say it often.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a client who goes to Jamaica and annually

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<v Speaker 2>to get trained.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the psychology of that?

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<v Speaker 2>She'd be like, oh, yeah, one dick in my mouth

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<v Speaker 2>and one dick and mike pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you remember that. It was a girl on social

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<v Speaker 1>media ones on a podcast saying how most women fantasize

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<v Speaker 1>about that or have done it. Most women have had

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<v Speaker 1>a train ran on them.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not true. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>My closest friends I have never had a train ran

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<v Speaker 1>on them. Ever.

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<v Speaker 2>That don't even sound appealing to me. I do not

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<v Speaker 2>describe to that. That sounds like hard work.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I barely concept one dick. Imagine he try to

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<v Speaker 1>do the backhead bunks on two absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 2>I yeah, but to Easter all. You know, whatever gets

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<v Speaker 2>you all, Hey, more power to you. But it's to

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<v Speaker 2>be at my house. No, yeah, so stop putting bodies

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<v Speaker 2>in our couchie. Okay, we like to accumulate our ship

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<v Speaker 2>one by one. Yeah, nobody doing two at a time,

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<v Speaker 2>three at a time. That math is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody, but shout out to old girl and her crew. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to know, right, He probably was hot.

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<v Speaker 2>There was accusing Usher having a body double come out.

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<v Speaker 1>That did not look like Usher.

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<v Speaker 2>It did not.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a good one beyond Beyonce got a good body double.

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<v Speaker 1>Usher need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Get a new one. Yeah, his body double? Look, what's that?

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<v Speaker 1>I cann't even sing?

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<v Speaker 2>Uncle? That's his uncle. His face was too small and

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<v Speaker 2>his neck was too skinny. Something right? That was not.

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<v Speaker 1>Not your? Not your?

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<v Speaker 2>What other is ushers in the church? And what else

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<v Speaker 2>is there?

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<v Speaker 1>Girl?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You go to church, you should know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's pastor. That's the pastor. That ain't the Usher

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<v Speaker 2>at all? Girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Who was that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know? But I hope that's not the show.

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<v Speaker 2>They again, they pussy up for Usher.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch y'all just wanted to be old so badness. So

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<v Speaker 1>fans are accusing Rashida and Kirk Frost of having a

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<v Speaker 1>fake cheating scandal after Jasmine Blue, which is Kirk's baby mama,

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<v Speaker 1>remember on one season of Love and Hip Hop he

0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:41.320
<v Speaker 1>had a baby with this girl. Jasmine Blue shares labor

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<v Speaker 1>day posts. They've been in kahoots the entire time, so

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<v Speaker 1>it says, a thirty four year old Love and Hip

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<v Speaker 1>Hop star known for her affair with Kirk Frost that

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<v Speaker 1>led to the birth of their son, and recently posted

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of a Labor day meal barbicue, chicken bake, Bee's,

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<v Speaker 1>and mac and cheese prepared by Kirk and his Rashida.

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<v Speaker 1>The caption read, she at them, She at Kirk, she

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<v Speaker 1>at Rashida and said put their foot in this food.

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<v Speaker 1>So Frost one one seven and Rashida and at Rashida

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<v Speaker 1>put their foot in this food. The post has sparked

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<v Speaker 1>doubts about the ongoing storyline on the show, where Jazz

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<v Speaker 1>and Blue has been claiming that Kirk Frost is still

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<v Speaker 1>attempting to cheat on Rashida, with her even providing a

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<v Speaker 1>text message evidence is sup poor her allegations. It says.

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<v Speaker 1>Fans are now questioning if the drama is being staged

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<v Speaker 1>for entertainment purposes, with many voicing their concerns on x

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<v Speaker 1>formerly Twitter. Given the seemingly friendly interaction between Jazz and Blue,

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<v Speaker 1>Kirk Frost, and Rashida behind the scenes, one fan commented

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<v Speaker 1>and said, it's the fake storyline for me. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>they keep playing on their playing with their marriage like this?

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<v Speaker 1>They aren't embarrassed. Another added, they've been in cahoots this

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<v Speaker 1>entire time, believe it or not. Why might as well

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<v Speaker 1>make a bad situation good. Keep getting the bag where

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't going nowhere?

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<v Speaker 2>And first of all, ain't the ship pre recorded? Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>might see at the end of the season that they.

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<v Speaker 1>Made up that part.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it ain't like that recording, like we're doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>Show last fucking minute. No, we actually been doing better.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay we be Yeah, we do like like early it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a sis. We can't do it in advance.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I do know is that Kirk is an

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<v Speaker 1>Aquarius and Rashida is a Gemini. Okay, she got a

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<v Speaker 1>high tolerance with some bullshit. That's why she's stole with

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<v Speaker 1>with Kirk and Kirk was that nigga. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. So she probably stole Like that's that's her,

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<v Speaker 1>that's her person.

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<v Speaker 2>She ain't going to She's not going nowhere no matter what.

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<v Speaker 1>So fuck y'all. Yeah, we're gonna be one big happy

0:23:52.720 --> 0:23:56.520
<v Speaker 1>family because like it or not, this child exists, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got I got a step churned and got this.

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<v Speaker 2>I take some at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're like, I've got no problem with the step chair, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't beat that nigga up a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 2>Be all their life look nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they're doing whatever they want to do. I just

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<v Speaker 1>know Kirk is manipulative as a motherfucker. Boy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't watch the show no more. I start watching

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<v Speaker 2>Love and Hip Hop many many years ago. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm the target audience anymore. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The only time I really watched it is like for

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, like if we had to talk about something

0:24:37.119 --> 0:24:41.480
<v Speaker 1>this ship and Real Housewives of Atlanta. I really don't

0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 1>watch reality TV like that.

0:24:43.600 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't watch reality t TV anymore either. I don't think.

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Because it's not reality I watched.

0:24:50.359 --> 0:24:54.800
<v Speaker 2>I watched like those shows on Netflix, like The One

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:59.040
<v Speaker 2>or Love is Blind or you know, that ship love

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:01.239
<v Speaker 2>at first sight. I watch some of that, but then

0:25:01.280 --> 0:25:03.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't really be getting into that like I used to.

0:25:03.320 --> 0:25:05.399
<v Speaker 1>So all that shit is weird to me.

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I like scripted shows. I like Sisters. Sisters got me

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:12.919
<v Speaker 2>in the choke hold right now because Mama, Yeah, I

0:25:13.000 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 2>like that. I watched that Your Honor. That was really good.

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:18.919
<v Speaker 1>I gotta find that series.

0:25:18.960 --> 0:25:21.040
<v Speaker 2>So right now I am on Netflix.

0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't have Netflix, so I gotta get in where

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I fit in. So right now I do have Disney

0:25:26.800 --> 0:25:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Plus and Hulu through my Verizon cell phone.

0:25:29.920 --> 0:25:34.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh, if you have Hulu, then you should watch Reasonable Doubt.

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 2>That's good.

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna check it out. But I'm watching. I just

0:25:37.880 --> 0:25:44.359
<v Speaker 1>got into the Handsmaid Tail series. Yes, well, you know

0:25:45.200 --> 0:25:48.119
<v Speaker 1>I watched TV for educational purposes, not entertainment.

0:25:48.400 --> 0:25:51.240
<v Speaker 2>This ship is deep as fuck, that TV show.

0:25:51.280 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>And if anybody watched that shit and thought that was

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, it's just entertainment. No, they showing you

0:25:57.040 --> 0:26:01.239
<v Speaker 1>what could fucking be. Yeah, the future, that ship is

0:26:01.320 --> 0:26:04.399
<v Speaker 1>weird to me, and it's actually really demonic to me.

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.960
<v Speaker 1>But I've already committed. I already started watching I Got

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>to See You Through. But a lot of parts of it,

0:26:09.840 --> 0:26:11.800
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, Okay, I'm not watching this tomorrow. It'd

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 1>be making me feel some type of way, like spiritually,

0:26:14.720 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 1>I got to step away from that ship. Like the

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 1>when that bitch took her to see her daughter like

0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:22.119
<v Speaker 1>for the first time. Mm hmm, when they raped her

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:26.560
<v Speaker 1>when she was pregnant. I'm like, Yo, this is very wild.

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.800
<v Speaker 1>This it's dark as fuck. And then and then what

0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>also doesn't sit right with me? And this right quick?

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:37.840
<v Speaker 1>You got this white lady who took this black lady

0:26:37.880 --> 0:26:43.879
<v Speaker 1>fucking husband had a baby with him like that that

0:26:43.880 --> 0:26:46.680
<v Speaker 1>that that part of the story bothers me right there.

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she na have woman daddy issues, which brings me

0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 2>to her topic today. We're talking about having daddy issues

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:01.000
<v Speaker 2>and some of the signs and triggers and all those things.

0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:03.520
<v Speaker 2>So y'all stay tuned and listen and see if you

0:27:03.600 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 2>got daddy issues like me and aj.

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:16.040
<v Speaker 1>I got no daddy issues yet. Back Okay, y'all, we're back.

0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 1>And I couldn't really find a clear definition of what

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:26.199
<v Speaker 1>I don't know the signed to say daddy issues actually is.

0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:29.560
<v Speaker 1>But I guess people display, you know, certain type of

0:27:29.600 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 1>behaviors when they may have daddy issues. I feel like

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:36.119
<v Speaker 1>it's some scapegoat shit when a nigga playing with you

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 1>automatically you got daddy issues. Well, men can have daddy

0:27:39.840 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 1>issues too, No, absolutely, yeah, but with women. So men

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:48.480
<v Speaker 1>actually have daddy issues over mommy issues. I think they

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:50.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of blame mama for daddy not being there. But

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:55.400
<v Speaker 1>that's a whole other episode anyway. So the first thing

0:27:55.480 --> 0:27:57.360
<v Speaker 1>is says dating older men.

0:27:59.119 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's how you know you?

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that might be one of the signs of

0:28:02.040 --> 0:28:05.719
<v Speaker 1>having daddy issues. My daddy, my daddy wife is like

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:07.160
<v Speaker 1>forty five, forty six.

0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 3>That nigga is seventy.

0:28:08.160 --> 0:28:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Three, the same age as one of myself.

0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 2>My daddy in his seventies.

0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Right, yes, my daddy is seventy three.

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:22.359
<v Speaker 2>That niggabo four list turn that your dad room. There

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 2>ain't no.

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Way so smashing it ain't no fucking way my daddy.

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 2>You don't know.

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know Viagara to fucked the game up, because

0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I probably would have had me a seventy year old

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:33.240
<v Speaker 1>Viagara didn't exist.

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:36.440
<v Speaker 2>Listen youday seven, you would take somebody that much put

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 2>a bag.

0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:38.719
<v Speaker 1>They don't have to touch me for real, because dick

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 1>don't work. But now like Viagara make they dick work.

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:42.720
<v Speaker 1>They don't want to just hold your hand, no one,

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:45.440
<v Speaker 1>all right, they really want to smash.

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm not even playing that game because you know how

0:28:48.000 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 2>when you watching nigga walk away from you know, y'all

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:53.920
<v Speaker 2>doing the day. I need to see them so.

0:28:56.160 --> 0:29:00.520
<v Speaker 4>To be looking funny, nigga be melting walking up all

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:02.960
<v Speaker 4>niggas wear from the back walking away, and you're like,

0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 4>but if it's it's a balls bagging real love walking away.

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh ya, what am I doing here? I can't play

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.960
<v Speaker 2>like that. Your ancestor is watching too, right. I gotta

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:18.800
<v Speaker 2>wait till my shit hanging that lovel to be with

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:20.080
<v Speaker 2>so well, hanging.

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 1>That little But then they don't want you like they like.

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I can understand why older men want younger women, because

0:29:26.680 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why young women want older men, like

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>aside for money, Like, eh, they got that little gray

0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 1>line around there from the eye running pupil.

0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely no, that's cateract.

0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 1>No, them niggas just going blind. And that's how you

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 1>know with somebody. Oh, I had an old man trying

0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 1>to tell me he was forty forty at the time.

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:47.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, in my twenties. He's trying to convince me

0:29:47.640 --> 0:29:50.720
<v Speaker 1>that he just forty something. But you got that gray line, sir,

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I know you like sixty, right.

0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 2>I remember when I was a little like it used

0:29:55.720 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 2>to be old niggas in my family. I'm like, yo,

0:29:57.520 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 2>I's pretty and didn't be that great sugar. That ain't

0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:04.360
<v Speaker 2>pretty much. I can see.

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 1>Gotta get that care. I just had to take my

0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:10.280
<v Speaker 1>daddy a couple of weeks ago, like this, Why the

0:30:10.280 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 1>fuck I had to take my daddy had a cataract surgery.

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 1>He got a fucking wife in her forties. I'm confused.

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 1>Remember she was busy that day and I had to

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:21.240
<v Speaker 1>take him four different times, like for the actual appointment

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:23.640
<v Speaker 1>for one eye, then an actual play for the other.

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Idea to follow up appointments. Was she at take off

0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>and work for your husband?

0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 2>But she said she was showing up.

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes she does. I'm grateful because listen, only I'm having

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:33.960
<v Speaker 1>one parent to probably take care of.

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 3>Hopefully she stay around. Amen, Thank you, thank you girl.

0:30:40.240 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 2>So MoMA all, that's one side that I don't have

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 2>dairy issues because I typically don't they older men. What

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 2>do they say about the younger man?

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't know a bitches at the schoolyard.

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 1>Getting around. What's matching?

0:30:57.520 --> 0:30:59.560
<v Speaker 2>It was two of them got arrested.

0:30:59.240 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 1>For planning a threesome with a high school boy.

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's disgusting.

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what is up with y'all? Uh?

0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:09.240
<v Speaker 2>Anxious attachment?

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 3>What anxious?

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:12.760
<v Speaker 2>It says?

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:16.520
<v Speaker 1>You never knew what you expect from from your dad.

0:31:16.600 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes he was engaged, other times distant. He might have

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>had a habit of venting to you. I've seen that

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>my niece's dad does that. Like, man, you'd be trying

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 1>to treat you like you his old lady.

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Mm hm.

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:30.680
<v Speaker 1>So like if they stare that they come in and

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>not come and then don't don't show up things like that,

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 1>which men Men do that without somebody having daddy issues people,

0:31:37.960 --> 0:31:39.960
<v Speaker 1>So I do that, you know what I'm saying. I

0:31:40.040 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 1>have told somebody I'm gonna do some shit and just

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>don't follow up and don't answer the phone.

0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's not nice. You've never done that. No, I

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:52.080
<v Speaker 2>try to, like, I try to show up if I

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:53.880
<v Speaker 2>make a if I make a plan with you, I'll

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 2>at least be like I can't.

0:31:54.920 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 1>But you never changed your mind, like you says you

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>was going to show up for a dude, and then

0:31:59.760 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you don't, I ain't coming again, but I'll say something.

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, it may not be the truth. I'm sick, No, definitely,

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 2>but I'll say something I don't like. I hate when

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 2>I if don't ghost me because I don't like that,

0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 2>because I'm coming back. Like that bitch on that new.

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Movie delivery, maybe you got anxious attachment. Maybe not yet.

0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to see it. I just started before.

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 2>That part was hilarious, like I get to doll your day.

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 1>That's what I mean with that on it. I didn't

0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:32.120
<v Speaker 1>know that was a movie though.

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:35.960
<v Speaker 2>As they took me out, I was like, let me

0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:39.720
<v Speaker 2>say my house and in there talking about.

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 1>You stupid. But no, you said you don't like when

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>people do that, Like I feel like, no, I don't.

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to have to have an explanation every

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:52.840
<v Speaker 1>time from somebody you just.

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Don't feel like it.

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:56.520
<v Speaker 6>No, you need to tell me no, especially because if

0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 6>somebody does that, you just not for me. Good thank

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 6>you for on me to date before I suck your

0:33:02.400 --> 0:33:03.880
<v Speaker 6>dick like it takes just.

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 2>A second to communicate that you can't be available when

0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:09.360
<v Speaker 2>you said you would. That pisses me off so bad.

0:33:10.040 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 3>But what if the person like something like I had

0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:12.880
<v Speaker 3>an emergency something.

0:33:13.040 --> 0:33:15.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you. I've actually goes to people. But what

0:33:16.080 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 1>if that person had an emergency? I have seen you

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>jump to conclusions, dog real fast said that Nigga's paragraphs,

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:27.200
<v Speaker 1>So that might be a daddy issue.

0:33:28.240 --> 0:33:35.480
<v Speaker 2>You're fucking you. I would jump to conah, because what

0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 2>are you doing? Are you in jail? Are you gonna

0:33:37.600 --> 0:33:39.200
<v Speaker 2>go and die? Are you coming?

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I remember one time, don't.

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Tell me eight and then you it's something you're showing

0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 2>up at ten, or communicate that you're not coming at eight.

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:49.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't have a problem, but what if they died.

0:33:49.320 --> 0:33:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, then they can't commune say anything, and then that's

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 2>not a problem. But you gotta have that die. But

0:33:54.360 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 2>you need to have me. You need to be dead.

0:33:56.360 --> 0:34:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Nigga, Okay, got it. A fear of abandonment could be

0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 1>daddy issues.

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh I got that.

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:07.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't care ding ding ding ding, But what does

0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 3>that look like for you?

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Because I mean, I don't know the older I get,

0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't care a lot about something.

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:16.320
<v Speaker 2>I think I'd be having trouble picking one person because

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm scared. Don't pick wrong, and they gonna leave me.

0:34:20.320 --> 0:34:26.640
<v Speaker 2>I said that out loud. Because you never left somebody, right,

0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:30.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I've ever left anyone that I got

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 2>serious with. They always like they'll break up with me,

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:37.399
<v Speaker 2>but they always try to double back and then they'd

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:39.520
<v Speaker 2>be like, nah, nigga, you thought the grass was greener

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 2>over there, right, stay over there?

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Uh, your father is manipulative and controlling. My daddy don't

0:34:48.600 --> 0:34:50.000
<v Speaker 1>even talk, my nigga.

0:34:50.080 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 2>My daddy's so.

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 3>Cool, man, you really don't even talk for real.

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't think which could be manipulate. Manipulation because

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:01.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't really answer questions like I have been with men,

0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 1>you ask them something they do not even. You gotta

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>be real specific with the question do you have any kids?

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:13.839
<v Speaker 1>And do you have any kids on the way, because

0:35:13.880 --> 0:35:17.200
<v Speaker 1>a nigga have somebody pregnant because the baby doesn't exist, right,

0:35:18.120 --> 0:35:20.280
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no kid. I don't got no kids,

0:35:20.920 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 1>So I know people like men, you gotta be a

0:35:23.040 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 1>real specific when you're asking these questions. And I feel

0:35:27.040 --> 0:35:28.799
<v Speaker 1>like my daddy probably used to gass like my mom

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:29.279
<v Speaker 1>in that way.

0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:31.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I think I don't like with my dad,

0:35:31.680 --> 0:35:34.320
<v Speaker 2>the manipulative and controlling part. I can't speak to that

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:37.560
<v Speaker 2>with me. But I imagine he was like that with women.

0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:40.439
<v Speaker 2>You know that he was daying, but our relationship wasn't

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:41.600
<v Speaker 2>They like, Yeah.

0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you think you have daddy issues in any of

0:35:45.120 --> 0:35:48.960
<v Speaker 1>your relationships? Like anything like that stems from your relationship

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>with your father?

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Absolutely that what you were saying, where I will

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 2>jump off, jump off the guns even on that Nigga,

0:35:58.160 --> 0:36:01.439
<v Speaker 2>I see you jump on your daddy quick. Yeah, because

0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:03.560
<v Speaker 2>he's supposed to be here. I don't know that, But

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 2>I just think it's about communication for me, you know, like,

0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:09.440
<v Speaker 2>just communicate. It's not I'm gonna not be mad at

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:11.360
<v Speaker 2>you for not being here. I'm gonna be mad at

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.920
<v Speaker 2>you because you didn't communicate that you weren't going to

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:16.840
<v Speaker 2>be here when you said it, right, That'll be my issue.

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 2>They know the man, No, that's not for me. What's

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:28.360
<v Speaker 2>the other one? I don't know what avoided attachment and

0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 2>then the other one was.

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:33.399
<v Speaker 3>Oh, low self esteem could be one of them.

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Difficulty trusting men, if emotionally unavailable, jealousy, uh, become easily

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:44.960
<v Speaker 1>attached and clinging.

0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 2>If we have sex, we go together period.

0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm confused why you think we don't ye depending on

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 3>how we have sex. Bitches is not studying conon dit.

0:36:55.120 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 1>But if you have sex with a woman without a conm,

0:36:57.239 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 1>please know that's your girlfriend.

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:03.160
<v Speaker 2>Is even in the Bible, even contenis. I'll be attached.

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:05.360
<v Speaker 2>What do we do once I allow you to go

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 2>there with me? We in love me? It used to.

0:37:09.920 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 2>But that's how I'll be feeling. Like these young girls

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 2>they different how.

0:37:13.120 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>You get attached with that plastic in the middle, because

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 1>I be so emotional off rubber.

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:25.760
<v Speaker 2>No, it don't just be like you're fucking that's rubber.

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 2>Do the do I'm like, I'm emotional, I'm passionate. Like

0:37:29.080 --> 0:37:30.719
<v Speaker 2>once we do that, no, I'm locked in.

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:36.399
<v Speaker 1>Nah, as long as there's a barrier, there's a barrier. Yeah. Yeah,

0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:40.359
<v Speaker 1>I can't fall in love with no condom dick. It's

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>a daddy issue. If I can't fall in love with

0:37:42.719 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 1>condom dick. Yeah, no, that's there. I don't have nothing

0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 1>to do with.

0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:51.319
<v Speaker 2>My goddamn daddy condom dig is Wow that you call

0:37:51.400 --> 0:37:53.800
<v Speaker 2>it that? It is what it is?

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh, so okay? This is it says you've never met

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:02.880
<v Speaker 1>your father. I can see somebody having daddy issues who

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:07.000
<v Speaker 1>never met their daddy. I mean absolutely, I'm trying to think,

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 1>like what type of things like with my dad that

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:11.359
<v Speaker 1>I avoid and men.

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 3>Because of him.

0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't really be laking ball had niggas.

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I love ballhead niggas when my daddy got here.

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.120
<v Speaker 2>But the older I get, the less I can avoid

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 2>the losing their hair niggas.

0:38:34.120 --> 0:38:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Going ball like niggas is in Turkey. I got a

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>home word right now in Turkey, and he said, there's

0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:41.320
<v Speaker 1>so many niggas over.

0:38:41.200 --> 0:38:44.440
<v Speaker 2>There right now getting the airline that I'd be like

0:38:44.520 --> 0:38:46.480
<v Speaker 2>sending him all the Turkish places like this.

0:38:47.280 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 1>This guy to me and my phrase at MD. So

0:38:50.160 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 1>he picked this place based off and he got like

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:53.840
<v Speaker 1>five million followers on Instagram.

0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 3>The places in Turkey like they does this. It's a

0:38:57.120 --> 0:39:01.880
<v Speaker 3>lady runs in Yeah, send it to me yea. And

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 3>the pictures before and afters.

0:39:03.440 --> 0:39:05.720
<v Speaker 1>Look pretty good. I'm not against that, like I'm against

0:39:05.760 --> 0:39:06.879
<v Speaker 1>them goddamn Lee's friends.

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:08.719
<v Speaker 2>I listened to do that. If it's done, yea, I

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:10.520
<v Speaker 2>don't care. You could get your lace front.

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I had an old friend who went to Benedict. Would

0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:16.080
<v Speaker 1>us send me on Instagram?

0:39:16.160 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 2>The other day?

0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 1>He was like, I got a surprise for you, So

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:24.040
<v Speaker 1>he sends me a recent picture of him and he

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:27.560
<v Speaker 1>cut his dreads off. But Nigga, the last time I

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:31.239
<v Speaker 1>seen you, which was probably like ten years ago, you

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:32.080
<v Speaker 1>ain't have no hair.

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:32.879
<v Speaker 2>Nigga was weird.

0:39:33.000 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>Hats where does fucking hair come from? I said, if

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I see your ass at homecoming, I am dumping a

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:40.759
<v Speaker 1>bottle of alcohol in your head.

0:39:41.560 --> 0:39:44.919
<v Speaker 2>You wouldn't want nobody do that to your hair. I'm

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:47.920
<v Speaker 2>here for I know that the lace front, if it

0:39:48.080 --> 0:39:53.279
<v Speaker 2>looked good, if it looked nice, you would need my

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:55.000
<v Speaker 2>guy to be You need what I got to be.

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Baby, he gonna be trying to get you to do

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:58.840
<v Speaker 1>his damn here, and I it will. If that's my

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:00.920
<v Speaker 1>me and my me and my s I'm gonna be lifting.

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't like it.

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>It's thick as fun. It's like not blended in the bag.

0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you gotta be good casting at to somebody

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 1>who do here, and then I'm not gonna know that's

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:10.560
<v Speaker 1>my ship on your head.

0:40:12.760 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 2>Listen as long as they look good, I don't care.

0:40:15.120 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I do not care. I'm here for it. Whatever make

0:40:17.040 --> 0:40:18.960
<v Speaker 2>you feel confident and it looks nice, I'm here for

0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:21.399
<v Speaker 2>it because I need you to feel the same way

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:21.800
<v Speaker 2>about me.

0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:25.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you know that's a weed. Just tell me

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>that's a weave, Like, why are you trying to play

0:40:26.680 --> 0:40:28.800
<v Speaker 1>on my intelligence? Or he ain't say it was no,

0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Well he really want me to be like this is

0:40:31.560 --> 0:40:34.279
<v Speaker 1>here and I'm like, no, nigga, you was wearing a

0:40:34.360 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 1>fitted cap for many years because your dreads was out

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:41.359
<v Speaker 1>in the middle. So now you got like waves headline, Chris,

0:40:41.640 --> 0:40:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean thick Steve har back when looking like uh

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Marcus Houton.

0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:50.759
<v Speaker 2>It was the show where you robed the law.

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh god, oh man, that type of shit.

0:40:57.640 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 2>He was the first one to do it.

0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, te Cat Williams said that nigga had a wig

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:01.520
<v Speaker 1>on he stopped.

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:03.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it looked nice.

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:05.800
<v Speaker 1>That box speed looked.

0:41:05.640 --> 0:41:07.759
<v Speaker 2>Nice to you back in nineteen ninety three. That shit

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:08.600
<v Speaker 2>was fire.

0:41:10.600 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Anxiety and relationships, excessive friendliness towards guys. You always in

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>a nigga face smiling.

0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:23.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, bitch, that's me. But I'm but I'm like that

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 2>with women too, Like I'm just friendly or gig.

0:41:31.680 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>People pleasing behaviors.

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:44.240
<v Speaker 3>No, what's another wings afraid of being alone?

0:41:44.920 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>No, I'll stay in my house for days and yeah

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 2>come out.

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:52.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think that people use like the like I said,

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 1>they use that daddy issue shit to just to It's

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:58.279
<v Speaker 1>just another way to offend women.

0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:01.200
<v Speaker 2>I think. Do you think most strips have daddy issues?

0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:06.920
<v Speaker 1>No, because you know I can for my family as

0:42:06.960 --> 0:42:10.439
<v Speaker 1>an example, Right, So, I don't know. Maybe my sister

0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:11.319
<v Speaker 1>got daddy issues.

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:14.399
<v Speaker 1>But you can be raised in the same house, right,

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:18.200
<v Speaker 1>same parents. Why of no fucking siblings gonna be a

0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 1>whole other type of person. Like I'm I'm completely different

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:25.279
<v Speaker 1>from my family, right, but we are also alike in

0:42:25.440 --> 0:42:28.320
<v Speaker 1>other ways that we have one that just can't fucking

0:42:28.400 --> 0:42:29.879
<v Speaker 1>get right, you know what I'm saying.

0:42:30.000 --> 0:42:32.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure I'm the wild card in my family.

0:42:35.760 --> 0:42:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I know my mama seeing me putting cat shit because

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:40.320
<v Speaker 1>I've been using her Amazon. I know she's seen me

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:43.040
<v Speaker 1>putting cat shit in that card. I know she want

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to call me and actually, what you doing? I know

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 1>it's itching her. I know is killing her not to call.

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:52.040
<v Speaker 3>Me a question because she don't even think you got

0:42:52.120 --> 0:42:52.399
<v Speaker 3>a cat.

0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:55.680
<v Speaker 1>No, she know I got a cat. She probably pissed

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:59.800
<v Speaker 1>about it, like, bitch, you don't need a cat. But

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't have daddy issues. I don't think zoom Man Jordian,

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:15.320
<v Speaker 1>I think aside from aside from just not being trust

0:43:15.719 --> 0:43:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trusting. I remember one time my daddy he

0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:24.080
<v Speaker 1>would go to this place called the Joint. It was like, no, bitch,

0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:27.960
<v Speaker 1>not the chiropractice. I'm talking about, like hello, hole in

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:29.840
<v Speaker 1>the wall when you pick up some pussy like he

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:31.600
<v Speaker 1>was there. My mom would put us in the car

0:43:31.760 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 1>to get him out of there, and they are getting

0:43:34.080 --> 0:43:35.479
<v Speaker 1>in the parking lot that type of shit.

0:43:35.719 --> 0:43:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh like, oh.

0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Girls, yeah, away from my daddy trip. I literally yelled

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:44.920
<v Speaker 1>at the window once and that It was that day

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:47.799
<v Speaker 1>that I stopped calling my daddy daddy. I started calling

0:43:47.880 --> 0:43:49.839
<v Speaker 1>him by his first name, like my sister.

0:43:50.000 --> 0:43:51.799
<v Speaker 2>That sounds like a daddy issue right then.

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:54.480
<v Speaker 1>That nigga, not with the next nigga. Yeah, I had

0:43:54.520 --> 0:43:57.320
<v Speaker 1>an issue with him, but not with the next person.

0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 2>But you don't think that it has manifested anyway.

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 1>Leaving, I'm gonna tell you the one day that I

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:10.040
<v Speaker 1>knew that leaving not like breaking up with me, but leaving.

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I remember one day I told my dad I wanted

0:44:12.960 --> 0:44:15.200
<v Speaker 1>to go with him wherever he was going. I just

0:44:15.239 --> 0:44:16.239
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be where he at.

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like Harry I'm going with my shoes.

0:44:19.440 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm fighting to put my shoes, and I know he's

0:44:21.120 --> 0:44:22.640
<v Speaker 1>getting his keys, he's leaving out the door.

0:44:23.040 --> 0:44:23.239
<v Speaker 2>Bitch.

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I got to the carport and he had pulled out.

0:44:26.960 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 1>My heart still hurt right now talking about how that

0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:33.359
<v Speaker 1>nigga drove off without meaning and that ugly ass brown whatever.

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 2>Back then, that's the first person to ever break your

0:44:36.560 --> 0:44:37.239
<v Speaker 2>heart is your daddy.

0:44:37.680 --> 0:44:40.800
<v Speaker 1>But a nigga did that to me one morning, like

0:44:41.600 --> 0:44:45.759
<v Speaker 1>like yes, gym, yes, when we were and it took

0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:48.520
<v Speaker 1>me back to that. It probably did come to him

0:44:48.560 --> 0:44:50.920
<v Speaker 1>that morning because I'm still mad at my daddy from

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 1>that one day.

0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:52.760
<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying.

0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:56.080
<v Speaker 1>If we had been working out the whole week, going

0:44:56.120 --> 0:45:00.440
<v Speaker 1>to the gym, right, I wake up, I don't even

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:02.799
<v Speaker 1>brush my teeth yet, I don't take a shower yet.

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting you and your son together, right, So the

0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 1>last step for me already took my shower or whatever,

0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 1>and I finally pee up out of majoraw breakfast, all

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:12.319
<v Speaker 1>the shit. We going to the gym for the fifth

0:45:12.360 --> 0:45:12.839
<v Speaker 1>day this week.

0:45:12.920 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 2>It's routine.

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:16.480
<v Speaker 1>We have been routinely doing this the whole week. So

0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:18.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting on the stairs and put my shoes on

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:21.480
<v Speaker 1>and I walk over to the to the night standing

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:24.000
<v Speaker 1>to get my cellphone, and I hear the fucking door lock,

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:29.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm bending down out here, So I run to

0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:30.680
<v Speaker 1>the door like a kid.

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:34.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are you leaving me? He was like, you

0:45:34.480 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 2>need to hurry up.

0:45:36.480 --> 0:45:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Did y'all like the fucking lost it? No, absolutely not,

0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:45.360
<v Speaker 1>And that was the beginning of the end. Daddy, the

0:45:45.480 --> 0:45:48.680
<v Speaker 1>fuck up out of here, because that's disrespectful. Just say no, though,

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Just say you're not going this morning or something like that.

0:45:50.600 --> 0:45:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Else say I don't know. He just wanted me to

0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:55.360
<v Speaker 1>be on his time, which is still different from a

0:45:55.440 --> 0:45:57.360
<v Speaker 1>daddy just wanting to go to cheating piece in his

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.719
<v Speaker 1>five year olds like I want to come.

0:46:01.200 --> 0:46:03.480
<v Speaker 2>But still it affected you in a similar way.

0:46:03.680 --> 0:46:05.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that's that's that might be my daddy issue.

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:10.440
<v Speaker 1>So don't pull out, don't fucking leave me nowhere. That

0:46:10.600 --> 0:46:12.800
<v Speaker 1>same nigga did that to me at the post office

0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:16.400
<v Speaker 1>one day, like he kept triggering that that issue that

0:46:16.680 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 1>ye don't go nowhere without telling me you leaving. If

0:46:20.320 --> 0:46:22.640
<v Speaker 1>I walk outside of you not there, it's a problem.

0:46:23.160 --> 0:46:25.120
<v Speaker 1>But is that really a daddy issue or just somebody

0:46:25.280 --> 0:46:26.360
<v Speaker 1>really disrespecting you.

0:46:28.000 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 2>Both because maybe you get so upset because it triggers

0:46:32.640 --> 0:46:35.160
<v Speaker 2>a pain that you knew from a childhood trauma.

0:46:35.200 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 3>But imagine, okay, that never happened. Your daddy never did

0:46:38.040 --> 0:46:38.640
<v Speaker 3>that to you before.

0:46:38.719 --> 0:46:42.360
<v Speaker 1>Right, Imagine you walking outside and you were supposed to

0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>be going with your man.

0:46:43.400 --> 0:46:51.920
<v Speaker 2>And he imagine walking bitch, sh go ahead, you make

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 2>me sick.

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:58.840
<v Speaker 1>But imagine like that happening. You don't have that particular issue.

0:46:58.880 --> 0:47:00.800
<v Speaker 1>You didn't you didn't have that experience.

0:47:00.960 --> 0:47:04.480
<v Speaker 3>But that's disrespectful. Yeah, as far as I'm concerned.

0:47:04.520 --> 0:47:06.880
<v Speaker 1>But a man will say, well, why are you acting

0:47:06.960 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 1>like that? You got daddy issues because you left me

0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>because you disrespected me.

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:13.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but maybe you wouldn't have like blew up as

0:47:14.120 --> 0:47:17.040
<v Speaker 2>much had you not had that experience. Why I've still

0:47:17.120 --> 0:47:17.600
<v Speaker 2>been mad.

0:47:17.800 --> 0:47:20.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm still disrespected. Yeah, I'm still blowing up.

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my daddy ain't never really disrespect me.

0:47:23.880 --> 0:47:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I remember one time when I was little. You know

0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:29.400
<v Speaker 2>that church is Chicken by Benedict, Well, it used to

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 2>be churches. I think it's like a verre.

0:47:32.680 --> 0:47:34.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it was churches with my mom and dad.

0:47:35.000 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Put a pan experience, I'd gained one hundred pounds. Yes,

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:42.160
<v Speaker 1>he was, what's the Chinese restaurant over there? Trying to no, no,

0:47:43.040 --> 0:47:45.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to walk, trying to walk, Yeah, trying to walk

0:47:45.960 --> 0:47:48.120
<v Speaker 1>every day, bitch, fifty pounds freshman year.

0:47:48.160 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 5>That was me.

0:47:50.160 --> 0:47:52.279
<v Speaker 2>So this was when I was a baby girl, and

0:47:52.480 --> 0:47:57.480
<v Speaker 2>I can remember this. My parents were having like they

0:47:57.520 --> 0:47:59.440
<v Speaker 2>came in separate cars, and they met at churches to

0:47:59.480 --> 0:48:02.359
<v Speaker 2>get leut right, and they was arguing the whole time

0:48:02.440 --> 0:48:06.200
<v Speaker 2>we was eating. And then my older sister was in school.

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:09.880
<v Speaker 2>I was too young to be in school, and they left.

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:13.120
<v Speaker 2>They were leaving, and I followed my mama's storm tried

0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:16.120
<v Speaker 2>to store them off right, and I came running behind her.

0:48:16.520 --> 0:48:19.200
<v Speaker 2>She said, go with your daddy, right. So then I

0:48:19.280 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 2>went running toward my daddy car, and he was like,

0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:24.520
<v Speaker 2>go with your mama. Oh. So then I went running

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 2>back to where my mama car. She said, didn't I

0:48:26.880 --> 0:48:28.640
<v Speaker 2>tell you to go with your daddy. So then I'm

0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:29.560
<v Speaker 2>running to where his car.

0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Go with your mama.

0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:37.359
<v Speaker 2>I just stopped in the parking lot and they both

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:39.720
<v Speaker 2>stopped and stopped and they came together and they stopped

0:48:39.800 --> 0:48:41.800
<v Speaker 2>arguing because they saw me and just standing in the

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 2>middle of the church's parking lot, like, I don't know

0:48:44.120 --> 0:48:44.560
<v Speaker 2>what to do.

0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:48.440
<v Speaker 1>That is so sad. No, I ain't that same god

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:50.439
<v Speaker 1>parents be terrorizing the kids.

0:48:50.560 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Man, Well, maybe that's why, nigga, you need to be

0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:53.880
<v Speaker 2>on time to pick me up.

0:48:54.000 --> 0:48:58.200
<v Speaker 1>They let me know where you're at because follow through.

0:48:58.320 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Follow through. So baby, that's that's my trigger. And I

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:04.760
<v Speaker 2>won't eat no motherfucking churches.

0:49:05.040 --> 0:49:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Man.

0:49:05.600 --> 0:49:08.480
<v Speaker 3>Them bitches to be cooking at chicken titties too big anyway.

0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:10.520
<v Speaker 1>In the fryar.

0:49:15.040 --> 0:49:15.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:17.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know where the fuck else I'm going at

0:49:17.239 --> 0:49:17.759
<v Speaker 3>with this, but.

0:49:19.760 --> 0:49:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I love my dad, and if I have an issue

0:49:22.120 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 1>with a man, it is not because of some shit

0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:27.839
<v Speaker 1>my daddy did to me at all.

0:49:28.040 --> 0:49:31.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure. I'm still going to therapy and maybe

0:49:31.120 --> 0:49:33.439
<v Speaker 2>I need to unpack some things. I don't know. Maybe

0:49:33.480 --> 0:49:36.839
<v Speaker 2>that's why I'm not married yet, because I'll be I'll

0:49:36.880 --> 0:49:40.560
<v Speaker 2>be hard on these men sometimes I feel like, all right,

0:49:40.640 --> 0:49:42.280
<v Speaker 2>tell me, all right, I'm gonna tell you my daddy

0:49:42.280 --> 0:49:45.520
<v Speaker 2>why I be. Man, I'm telling y'all they but I'm

0:49:45.560 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 2>mad at my daddy right now because he wouldn't come

0:49:48.600 --> 0:49:50.920
<v Speaker 2>pick me up from the airport. Is that me being spoiled?

0:49:51.600 --> 0:49:53.040
<v Speaker 1>No, why would he not?

0:49:53.200 --> 0:49:54.800
<v Speaker 3>My daddy would never not come get me.

0:49:55.080 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 2>Guess what I said, like, why wouldn't you come?

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:58.040
<v Speaker 3>And that's when you know people love you when they

0:49:58.120 --> 0:49:59.799
<v Speaker 3>come get you in the airport on time?

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:03.680
<v Speaker 2>It was I mean, now, granted he didn't know that

0:50:03.840 --> 0:50:06.120
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna be in the airport. You know, I

0:50:06.280 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm because it was a layover, so I

0:50:08.320 --> 0:50:11.680
<v Speaker 2>wasn't even supposed to be in Chicago, but I got

0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:14.319
<v Speaker 2>stuck in Chicago. And now I'm stuck in Chicago. Come

0:50:14.400 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 2>get me and he would not come get me. So

0:50:17.360 --> 0:50:18.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm mad at him. I'm still mad at him.

0:50:18.840 --> 0:50:20.279
<v Speaker 1>And that was like you had to sit in the

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:21.759
<v Speaker 1>airport all night. No, I would have got me in

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:25.840
<v Speaker 1>a hotel room by the airport, but he did not

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 1>come pick me up.

0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:30.239
<v Speaker 2>You want to jump him? I would like to, Yeah,

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:32.960
<v Speaker 2>I would like to, but I can't fight that. That's

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:37.719
<v Speaker 2>a big grow man. It's like the feelings that he

0:50:37.760 --> 0:50:44.080
<v Speaker 2>didn't come get me. But for you, yeah, maybe that's

0:50:44.200 --> 0:50:47.320
<v Speaker 2>far he was. He did work late, and he like

0:50:47.920 --> 0:50:50.160
<v Speaker 2>he would have had to come from Indiana.

0:50:51.360 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 1>He still had to go home though, you know he

0:50:53.280 --> 0:50:55.800
<v Speaker 1>lives in Chicago but works in Indiana. I mean, but

0:50:55.880 --> 0:50:58.000
<v Speaker 1>it's right there though, like Gary, I know Gary is

0:50:58.040 --> 0:50:58.919
<v Speaker 1>the train right away.

0:50:59.120 --> 0:51:01.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I'm men and him still I love him,

0:51:02.480 --> 0:51:05.080
<v Speaker 2>but I'm mad m hm.

0:51:05.600 --> 0:51:07.880
<v Speaker 1>And you probably feel like, nigga, whatever I asked you

0:51:08.000 --> 0:51:08.759
<v Speaker 1>to do, you need to be doing.

0:51:08.800 --> 0:51:09.479
<v Speaker 2>That's how I feel.

0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:12.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I don't ask for a lot, Yeah, that's

0:51:12.600 --> 0:51:15.319
<v Speaker 1>that's That's probably how I probably have some entitlement when

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 1>it comes to my daddy.

0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 3>But even though I don't ask people to do a

0:51:17.640 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 3>whole budget of ship.

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.520
<v Speaker 1>For me, if I were to call my daddy and

0:51:20.560 --> 0:51:23.520
<v Speaker 1>he told me no right now, bitch, I'll probably kick out.

0:51:24.360 --> 0:51:27.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll probably be on the floor kicking, like, no, nigga,

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you owe me.

0:51:29.719 --> 0:51:31.239
<v Speaker 2>That's how I felt, like, No, what.

0:51:33.840 --> 0:51:36.520
<v Speaker 1>You said, no you can't, but you mean no, you won't, right,

0:51:37.719 --> 0:51:40.320
<v Speaker 1>So I'm well, no, maybe he didn't know he can't,

0:51:40.680 --> 0:51:41.680
<v Speaker 1>and you took it as know.

0:51:41.840 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I want, well, why you can't.

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Cause it's too fucking far and I just got off

0:51:46.520 --> 0:51:48.359
<v Speaker 1>from work and you're a grown woman.

0:51:48.920 --> 0:51:51.960
<v Speaker 2>No fuck that, fuck that shit you talk about right,

0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 2>call your.

0:51:53.840 --> 0:51:54.399
<v Speaker 3>Daddy, bitch.

0:51:54.840 --> 0:51:56.719
<v Speaker 2>I still talk. Were still in the group chat and

0:51:56.800 --> 0:51:59.560
<v Speaker 2>we'd say good morning every morning. Me my mom my

0:51:59.680 --> 0:52:01.839
<v Speaker 2>dad and my sisters every morning when we say good

0:52:01.840 --> 0:52:03.880
<v Speaker 2>morning to each other. And then he called me the

0:52:03.920 --> 0:52:06.080
<v Speaker 2>other day he called me. We talked. Once I broke

0:52:06.120 --> 0:52:08.040
<v Speaker 2>my foot, he called me, and I ain't act like

0:52:08.120 --> 0:52:10.880
<v Speaker 2>a bitch. I was nice. But the time when I

0:52:10.920 --> 0:52:12.320
<v Speaker 2>moved to La, he called me and see how I

0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 2>was moving in. I was like, you don't care.

0:52:14.920 --> 0:52:18.239
<v Speaker 3>He's like, oh, are you good or not? That's how

0:52:18.280 --> 0:52:18.920
<v Speaker 3>you do niggas.

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Yep, you don't care.

0:52:22.920 --> 0:52:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Gil tripping, So you be guilt tripping the man.

0:52:25.000 --> 0:52:26.280
<v Speaker 3>You be guilt tripping your daddy.

0:52:27.640 --> 0:52:28.640
<v Speaker 2>Is that what we're gonna call it?

0:52:29.480 --> 0:52:34.560
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that is Gil tripping them. Yes, absolutely, to find.

0:52:34.360 --> 0:52:38.080
<v Speaker 1>That Gil tripping somebody like you making him feel bad

0:52:38.120 --> 0:52:39.959
<v Speaker 1>about some sit they shouldn't have to feel bad about.

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Why he should like you don't care? Yes, he does care.

0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:44.280
<v Speaker 1>He wouldn't have called if he didn't.

0:52:44.840 --> 0:52:46.359
<v Speaker 2>If he cared, he would have picked me up from

0:52:46.400 --> 0:52:47.000
<v Speaker 2>the airport.

0:52:47.440 --> 0:52:51.919
<v Speaker 1>Oh my life, your daddy life, not mine, your daddy life.

0:52:52.920 --> 0:52:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Y'all love my daddy. But I still think he should

0:52:54.520 --> 0:52:58.320
<v Speaker 2>have came and got me. Period, I would come get it.

0:52:58.400 --> 0:53:00.920
<v Speaker 2>Ain't nobody in my family that will call me and

0:53:00.960 --> 0:53:03.120
<v Speaker 2>say hey, I'm stuck at the airport in your city,

0:53:03.400 --> 0:53:04.520
<v Speaker 2>and I wouldn't show one time.

0:53:04.560 --> 0:53:06.279
<v Speaker 1>You would have had to have been back to the airport.

0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Early in the morning. That's my daddy.

0:53:11.760 --> 0:53:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be considerate. You gotta be considerate sometimes even though

0:53:15.520 --> 0:53:16.120
<v Speaker 1>it is your dad.

0:53:16.320 --> 0:53:16.840
<v Speaker 2>Considerate.

0:53:17.040 --> 0:53:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I know how far the fucking the airports

0:53:19.440 --> 0:53:23.239
<v Speaker 1>at two airports and Chicago. He's in a suburbswhere an

0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:26.120
<v Speaker 1>outscore yes and me uber. Yeah, he could have done that,

0:53:27.600 --> 0:53:29.040
<v Speaker 1>but I was like, that's okay, I just give me

0:53:29.080 --> 0:53:34.000
<v Speaker 1>a hotel. Yeah, any doing it myself like I always do.

0:53:40.080 --> 0:53:41.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So maybe I do have a little bit of

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:44.360
<v Speaker 2>a thing areas.

0:53:44.000 --> 0:53:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Of improvement, little t I need to find me a

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:50.840
<v Speaker 1>new therapist. I haven't had therapy since my last relationship.

0:53:50.920 --> 0:53:53.120
<v Speaker 1>Basically I got and stopped it, and.

0:53:55.160 --> 0:53:56.000
<v Speaker 2>I I actually have.

0:53:56.480 --> 0:53:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I bought this cat emotional support.

0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:02.440
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm heard of them, emotional support.

0:54:03.560 --> 0:54:07.440
<v Speaker 1>People have cats for emotional support, right, cats.

0:54:07.200 --> 0:54:11.440
<v Speaker 2>Give you the emotional support. First of all, cats are

0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:13.600
<v Speaker 2>going magic though what they want to do.

0:54:13.800 --> 0:54:16.160
<v Speaker 1>That's not true. They don't. You gotta raise them how

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 1>you want them to be. They do, they live, They

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:20.080
<v Speaker 1>bounced to the beat of their own if they don't

0:54:20.120 --> 0:54:22.359
<v Speaker 1>fuck with you. They will fuck with you one second

0:54:22.400 --> 0:54:23.399
<v Speaker 1>and then scratch you the neck.

0:54:23.760 --> 0:54:24.279
<v Speaker 2>They've seen it.

0:54:24.760 --> 0:54:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Sounds like I felt it.

0:54:28.160 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 2>All right, like I'm ready to be done with this conversation.

0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:36.120
<v Speaker 2>I need to call my dandy.

0:54:37.800 --> 0:54:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Well, I had it on this. I saw this post

0:54:40.760 --> 0:54:44.400
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and it was saying it basically said, calculate

0:54:45.880 --> 0:54:50.320
<v Speaker 1>how many times you see your or how often you

0:54:50.400 --> 0:54:52.759
<v Speaker 1>see your parent? Right, so, how many times you think?

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:56.000
<v Speaker 1>How often do you see your daddy? I don't get

0:54:56.040 --> 0:54:58.439
<v Speaker 1>to see my dad a lot anymore because my daddy

0:54:58.480 --> 0:55:01.000
<v Speaker 1>lived in my city and I don't see my parents enough.

0:55:01.520 --> 0:55:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think, so like calculate their age and things

0:55:05.040 --> 0:55:07.359
<v Speaker 1>like you literally probably got twenty more times to see

0:55:07.360 --> 0:55:08.320
<v Speaker 1>them this lifetime.

0:55:10.000 --> 0:55:14.319
<v Speaker 2>Then that's dark, AJ, No, it's just go see you people.

0:55:14.520 --> 0:55:15.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I see people?

0:55:16.120 --> 0:55:17.719
<v Speaker 2>You know. I would see my mama every week.

0:55:17.920 --> 0:55:19.000
<v Speaker 1>But how's that dark?

0:55:19.360 --> 0:55:23.040
<v Speaker 2>What the times the girl that hurt my feeling? Yes?

0:55:23.160 --> 0:55:24.680
<v Speaker 2>But and it should it should.

0:55:25.040 --> 0:55:29.439
<v Speaker 1>So now make more effort to see you a bitch

0:55:29.560 --> 0:55:30.520
<v Speaker 1>up from your airport.

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:32.600
<v Speaker 3>Maybe you need did not pop in.

0:55:32.760 --> 0:55:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you actually schedule time with your daddy and fly

0:55:34.920 --> 0:55:37.480
<v Speaker 1>a Chicago, not just you happen to see me because

0:55:37.480 --> 0:55:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I pull up at the airport. I've done that.

0:55:39.960 --> 0:55:43.160
<v Speaker 3>I do that, you know I will pull up. I'm

0:55:43.239 --> 0:55:44.560
<v Speaker 3>just I've flown him to me too.

0:55:45.440 --> 0:55:47.839
<v Speaker 2>That just happened to be one instance where I happen

0:55:47.920 --> 0:55:50.360
<v Speaker 2>to be in your city, you know, in a layover

0:55:50.480 --> 0:55:53.720
<v Speaker 2>going to Europe, and my flag got canceled in Chicago.

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:56.239
<v Speaker 1>What I'm gonna do better and go see my Daddnymore.

0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:58.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your daddy right down the street talking about better,

0:55:58.680 --> 0:55:59.400
<v Speaker 2>and I.

0:55:59.480 --> 0:56:01.920
<v Speaker 1>See that Nigga system cataract appointment.

0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:07.279
<v Speaker 2>You you you can't see your ass.

0:56:10.880 --> 0:56:12.719
<v Speaker 1>And my mama took her house key for me, So

0:56:12.880 --> 0:56:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm over there, girl. I'm not sitting in your driveway

0:56:18.440 --> 0:56:20.960
<v Speaker 1>till you come home. I'd had a kid of your

0:56:21.000 --> 0:56:23.759
<v Speaker 1>house my whole life, and you're just trying to be

0:56:23.920 --> 0:56:24.799
<v Speaker 1>nasty right quick.

0:56:25.000 --> 0:56:26.239
<v Speaker 2>So now you ain't going over there.

0:56:26.400 --> 0:56:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not take the advice. If I call her and

0:56:30.960 --> 0:56:32.839
<v Speaker 1>she don't answer the phone, I'm not going to sit

0:56:32.880 --> 0:56:33.399
<v Speaker 1>in her yard.

0:56:34.440 --> 0:56:36.640
<v Speaker 3>So my mom like to act like she don't see

0:56:36.719 --> 0:56:37.400
<v Speaker 3>you calling her.

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:42.520
<v Speaker 1>She's busy. She is watching all them Korean shows on

0:56:42.680 --> 0:56:45.279
<v Speaker 1>Netflix and playing this game on her phone. I know

0:56:45.440 --> 0:56:46.880
<v Speaker 1>she got her phone in her hand when I got

0:56:47.760 --> 0:56:51.480
<v Speaker 1>the Korean there's something in there that that that that's

0:56:51.600 --> 0:56:54.799
<v Speaker 1>programmed my mom at this point, she cannot not watch

0:56:54.880 --> 0:57:03.000
<v Speaker 1>that ship. That's anyway, your daddy, if you possibly.

0:57:02.680 --> 0:57:05.440
<v Speaker 2>Got daddy issues, not work on them, go to the

0:57:05.480 --> 0:57:08.040
<v Speaker 2>therapy episodes, will never go hide plan in my mind

0:57:09.000 --> 0:57:13.360
<v Speaker 2>what it is, we should bring them all again. We

0:57:13.440 --> 0:57:16.240
<v Speaker 2>have them all once he did, let's do it for

0:57:16.360 --> 0:57:17.360
<v Speaker 2>Father's Day next year.

0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:18.680
<v Speaker 1>And all the niggas there was lie.

0:57:19.480 --> 0:57:21.640
<v Speaker 2>Not my daddy, girl.

0:57:22.480 --> 0:57:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Both of my daddies was lying.

0:57:25.160 --> 0:57:28.000
<v Speaker 2>My daddy was not lying. My daddy lied.

0:57:28.120 --> 0:57:30.800
<v Speaker 1>My daddy was like, ain't no woman never came between

0:57:30.880 --> 0:57:36.120
<v Speaker 1>him and his marriage because these men and I'm not

0:57:36.320 --> 0:57:39.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna say an these men in my daddy's mind, but

0:57:39.720 --> 0:57:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I still think it's men right in his mind. If

0:57:44.720 --> 0:57:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you're the one that left the marriage, then you know

0:57:47.400 --> 0:57:51.200
<v Speaker 1>what he was doing wasn't the cause of the marriage ending.

0:57:52.880 --> 0:57:55.840
<v Speaker 1>So even though he was fucking on bitches, you chose

0:57:55.920 --> 0:57:57.920
<v Speaker 1>to leave, so you ended the marriage.

0:57:58.120 --> 0:57:59.919
<v Speaker 2>Well, the vowel is for bitter or worse.

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 3>Fuck that. And this is why fuck y'all statistics. And

0:58:03.200 --> 0:58:05.400
<v Speaker 3>I always say this. Women just do the paperwork.

0:58:05.680 --> 0:58:07.919
<v Speaker 1>Men leave the relationship and we do the people work

0:58:08.000 --> 0:58:11.480
<v Speaker 1>just like everything else. That's it. But you you already

0:58:11.600 --> 0:58:15.280
<v Speaker 1>left a relationship when you started violating and then I

0:58:15.360 --> 0:58:19.560
<v Speaker 1>foul for divorce. Yeah, but you smashing women and doing

0:58:19.600 --> 0:58:22.160
<v Speaker 1>all type of wild shit like he still to this day,

0:58:22.280 --> 0:58:23.440
<v Speaker 1>seventy years old, like.

0:58:23.640 --> 0:58:24.120
<v Speaker 2>That, nigga.

0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Don't think that it was women that Nigga used to

0:58:27.680 --> 0:58:29.880
<v Speaker 1>come home with blonde hair on his clothes.

0:58:31.040 --> 0:58:33.760
<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, it's working on white bitches too.

0:58:34.320 --> 0:58:39.640
<v Speaker 5>Well, be having blond hair. Then you had blond hair out.

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<v Speaker 5>You had blond hair for four years twenty seven inch?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Long? And what club you dc on? All right, y'all? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell you people getting therapy if you if you possibly

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<v Speaker 1>have any of these uh these issues?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, do you have anything? If you were to say

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<v Speaker 2>something to your daddy saying, now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love my dad, and my dad ain't know

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<v Speaker 1>not I love him.

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<v Speaker 2>I look just like I love you, daddy. I love

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<v Speaker 2>my dad. I respect you. I'm not a stripper because

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<v Speaker 2>I respect you.

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<v Speaker 1>So you would have been a stripper if he was absent,

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<v Speaker 1>like for real, like you didn't know him, you'd probably

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<v Speaker 1>be stripping.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably would have like in my like college back then,

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<v Speaker 2>I had asked when you couldn't buy it, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>probably could have gotten rich, but I respected my father

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<v Speaker 2>so much that I would never You know, so you're okay.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a whole nother episode.

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<v Speaker 1>What not about your respect? Respecting yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't about what I would have been getting that

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<v Speaker 2>bag in my twenties. I would have got that bag

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<v Speaker 2>in my twenties. You couldn't buy it back then, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you know that, my brain skipped.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you said maybe the strippers don't be having dads, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could be. You could raise your people, however, and

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<v Speaker 1>they end up doing what the fuck they want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>like two parent household, went to.

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<v Speaker 3>College, probably flunked down. Your parents send you to college,

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<v Speaker 3>and now you're stripping or now you do well today?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, strippers are like very much more celebrated than

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<v Speaker 2>like when we were in our twenties, it was very taboo.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, you wouldn't have like no Instagram page,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you called a girl by her Dan's name

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<v Speaker 2>out in the street, it would be an issue.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, now the prisoners is running in prison.

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<v Speaker 2>Now the girl would be like, I'm candy dropped liquor.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, everybody go by the Instagram name now too. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we all strippers at this.

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<v Speaker 2>Point, Like, yuess, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I might add, I probably would not have

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<v Speaker 1>smashed as many people. And my daddy was on my

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<v Speaker 1>fucking neck, you know what I'm saying. He just wasn't dead.

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<v Speaker 1>He don't say much. And my mama always felt like

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<v Speaker 1>he was co signing bad behavior, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>because he ain't trying to beat your ass, like he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to have a conversation with you, as opposed like her,

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<v Speaker 1>she just want to jump on you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. So it's two differ. We were a good

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<v Speaker 2>cop back cup, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I guess maybe he You parents be really they

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<v Speaker 1>put themselves on pedestals.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>They put the kids on pedestals sometimes, so they act

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<v Speaker 1>like they forgot, like the type of shit they was on.

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<v Speaker 1>My daddy just was stolen some bullshit. So he's like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I reprimmand.

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<v Speaker 2>You when I'm out here doing the same. Yeah up,

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<v Speaker 2>if not worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, before we go, a bitch, my dad was smashing

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<v Speaker 1>one time. My daddy had to be in his early

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<v Speaker 1>sixties at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen here he might be made a right girl. Think

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<v Speaker 2>it on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen. Didn't listen to this show since last time he

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<v Speaker 1>was on this bitch that was two years ago. This bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>she was a tall what's the girl on Friday? Great girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Like imagine a bitch. L looked like that barrel curl

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<v Speaker 1>update swoop, gold teeth, long nails, bats pretty though. My

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<v Speaker 1>daddy was smashing this young girl. Don't you know that

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<v Speaker 1>A bitch called myself because I was talking to the Niggah.

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<v Speaker 2>That mean, you're grill.

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<v Speaker 1>Telling me how she's gonna tell my daddy on me

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm talking to somebody she want to talk to. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a mess, I'm gonna tell you, ghetto. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because she would have been in her twenties at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm a high school and I got you.

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<v Speaker 2>Messing with this girl man that I like, So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not messing just getting his car and gold teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's it. Yeah, she wanted that dude, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was telling me she was. She called myself on and

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<v Speaker 1>told him she was gonna tell my dad. I'm like, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you fucking my daddy?

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<v Speaker 2>You said that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because who you?

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<v Speaker 5>Who?

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<v Speaker 2>You having a conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, let's get the fuck about it.

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