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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: Talk Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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Speaker 2: an opinion who talks back.

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Speaker 3: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 1: A shit girl, a j and.

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Speaker 2: It's team broke.

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Speaker 3: As y'all can see and broke up.

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Speaker 1: Shame y'all.

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Speaker 2: I went to my Homegirl's way that I flew back

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Speaker 2: from LA because y'all know I moved to LA kind

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Speaker 2: of things. I'm back this much like there two weeks,

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Speaker 2: came back and now I'm gonna be back in Charlotte.

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Speaker 1: For at least six weeks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: This is the second sign though after moving to LA. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because the second dayo ass was there. What happened?

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Speaker 2: That was literally the first twenty four hours. There was

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Speaker 2: an earthquake.

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Speaker 1: We we were born in the intro for one of

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Speaker 1: these episodes, and this bitch computer started shit and she's.

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Speaker 2: Taking a nigga phil falling back like shit, that's the earthquake.

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Speaker 2: I was ready to leave that. I was like, maybe

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Speaker 2: I should go, but then everybody in LA was like, girl,

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Speaker 2: that's La. You got that out the way, welcome, So

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Speaker 2: I just got comfortable. I came back home from my

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Speaker 2: friend's wedding. I was supposed to be flying out on

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Speaker 2: Thursday to go back to LA and we had a time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was so much fun. We had a

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Speaker 2: great time at the wedding. Everybody was drunk, open bar everybody's.

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Speaker 1: So I'm looking like there was knucking and bucket running

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Speaker 1: out the bridesmaid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was so much fun. They lit, they started

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Speaker 2: the energy off. It was lit. So it's almost time

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Speaker 2: to go. And I was like, Kema, you didn't do

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Speaker 2: the bouquet tolls.

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Speaker 3: You gotta do the bouquete, not you initiate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. She's like, oh I forgot Okay, Yeah, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: do it. I'm about to do it. So I'm like,

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Speaker 2: all right, y'all move out the way, bitches, because I'm

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Speaker 2: getting this motherfucker bouquet.

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Speaker 1: I was. I was leaving.

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Speaker 2: I was like stretching on the dance floor like this.

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Speaker 1: But you want the bouquet for a husband or you

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Speaker 1: just as being goddamn competitive? Yes, very competitive competitive.

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Speaker 2: You know, I just gotta be like I'm winning at

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Speaker 2: all times. But I mean I also went the husband, like,

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Speaker 2: don't get it twisted. I want the husband. But it

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Speaker 2: is about me just beating everybody beating these bitches. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the right, and I beat. I'm the bitch that

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Speaker 2: I beat. Because I landed on my ankle. I jumped

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Speaker 2: up like I really jumped ten feet. If y'all go

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Speaker 2: to my Instagram, y'all see the video, I jumped ten

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Speaker 2: feet in the air. I don't know who I thought

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: Obviously you thought you was damn Lebron Jeans.

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Speaker 2: I thought I was Odell Beckham, bitch, and I bent

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Speaker 2: it like Beckham for real. So I landed on my

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Speaker 2: right ankle and then I hit the floor because that

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Speaker 2: I heard the pop y'all, I heard that shait. I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, that don't sound good right there. And

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Speaker 2: I laid on the floor and I rolled it and

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Speaker 2: I laughed. I was wincing and laughing at the same

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Speaker 2: time because everybody at the way that is looking, so

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Speaker 2: I didn't look like I'm in severe pain. So then

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Speaker 2: I my friend tried to help me up, and she

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Speaker 2: couldn't even get me up because I couldn't put no

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Speaker 2: pressure on this foot for real. So then she was like, dang,

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Speaker 2: you heavy bitch. I was like, no, I just can't

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Speaker 2: help you right now. So She finally got me up

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Speaker 2: and I lived off the floor. Y'all's so crazy, like

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Speaker 2: acting like I wasn't hurt. But then I was like,

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Speaker 2: every time I try to apply some pressure to his foot,

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Speaker 2: it just wasn't happening. I was doing a little something,

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Speaker 2: but that liquor had me thinking you all right, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like yeah, way, bitch, like a yeah, that

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Speaker 2: liquor gave me wings.

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Speaker 1: So I thought I was Okay, I'm trying to see

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Speaker 1: what time this text message came through, because y'all, I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to go to sleep, Okay. I had all intentions

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Speaker 1: on getting up four o'clock in the morning driving to

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Speaker 1: Charlotte's Cord Labor Day, Yeah, essentially, and I get a

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Speaker 1: text message at eleven uh late, late as fuck. Okay, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I think I broke my foot.

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Speaker 2: Because it hurts so bad, like it was hurt and

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Speaker 2: it was throbbing or whatever. I put ice on it,

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Speaker 2: and then I went to bed and I was like,

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Speaker 2: it's probably something a little sprain. I'll be fine in

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Speaker 2: the morning. Baby. When I woke up, my foot was

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Speaker 2: the size of up.

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Speaker 3: I knew that's how it.

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Speaker 1: Was going to be because the one time I sprained

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Speaker 1: my fucking incle in Atlanta. Boy, I fell down that

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Speaker 1: big ass held by what's the glub.

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Speaker 2: Compound?

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Speaker 1: Compound bitch and some niggas A nigga with a bunch

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Speaker 1: of bitches in the car drove by.

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Speaker 2: I was like, stupid, bitch.

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Speaker 1: When I woke up the next morning, my fucking foot

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Speaker 1: was so.

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Speaker 2: Big and I could feel my heart beating my foot.

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Speaker 2: It was like, you know, you all to be breaking shit,

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Speaker 2: right girl. That's why I was saying, like, why didn't

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Speaker 2: this happen when I was twenty five?

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Speaker 1: That stupid an com back?

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Speaker 2: What the problem was? I had on socks because I

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Speaker 2: brought my heels. I forgot my slides when my friends

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Speaker 2: let me wear her slides until her feet started hurting.

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Speaker 2: And I had socks in my pocket book, and I

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Speaker 2: was just like, I just slide these on for the

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Speaker 2: uh the bouquet toss, just so I'm not barefoot on

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Speaker 2: the floor. Mistake. I would have landed that ship if

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Speaker 2: I had my bare feet. You know how rough my

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Speaker 2: feet are. Ship? Yeah, shame. So I love y'all. I

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Speaker 2: be saying that ship, but y'all need to know that

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Speaker 2: I love y'all for real, because This is less than

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Speaker 2: forty eight hours after this shit happened, and I'm here

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Speaker 2: on it and I ain't supposed to do I'm supposed

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to be just resting.

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Speaker 3: There's about these comments on social media.

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Speaker 1: Lot one nigga was like dash, she must be single, single.

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Speaker 2: And then it is here. Everybody kept on comparing me

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Speaker 2: to different quarterbacks and what football team I need to be?

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Speaker 2: All this ship Charla bade, did you hate humans? Man? No, motherfuckers.

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Speaker 1: It's funny as hell. Man, I be running to the comments.

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Speaker 2: My DMS went hammer, he went crazy.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to carry you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of niggas in. That's the bitch

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Speaker 2: is in there too, Like you don't even need no nigga,

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Speaker 2: I'll come help you please. So I got six weeks.

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Speaker 2: I got six weeks, well six plus weeks. So the

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Speaker 2: doctor said, like because of where the break is, like

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Speaker 2: something about the blood supply to my foot, and I

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Speaker 2: gotta put no pressure on it and I'll go back

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Speaker 2: to the orthopedic doctor in four weeks to see how

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Speaker 2: it's healing and if I need a screw lord.

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Speaker 1: So y'all pray for me that I don't need no

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Speaker 1: screw on my foot. Yeah, cause that's gonna be six

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Speaker 1: plus how many weeks? Yeah after for that shit to help?

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Speaker 2: So hopeful, what you're gonna do? Now?

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Speaker 1: You going back to La?

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Speaker 2: No? I can't. I mean, I'm eventually all my ship

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Speaker 2: is in La. You know, a lot of my stuff.

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Speaker 2: I took a lot of things with me, so I

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Speaker 2: have my because I was you know, I didn't pick

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Speaker 2: up apartment yet. That was what I was going to do

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Speaker 2: when once I got back, I was in the airbnb,

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Speaker 2: which I had for another thirty days, but I went

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Speaker 2: and got my my Homegirl is like, as we speak,

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Speaker 2: going to take my stuff out of there and take

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Speaker 2: it to her house, so I don't pay for a

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Speaker 2: mom that I'm not gonna be there. So I'm just

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Speaker 2: going to be living out of the stuff that I

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Speaker 2: brought with me for the way, and so if y'all

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Speaker 2: sleep and recording two weeks away dressed, you know the

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Speaker 2: fuck why because I got no clothes and yeah, so

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go. I'm just so grateful for my mom.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go to her house and luckily I

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Speaker 2: know y'all pray for me. No, my mama loved me down,

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Speaker 2: is she But you know, yeah, grown women in the house,

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Speaker 2: She's gonna.

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Speaker 1: Be like, I don't give a fuck about that foot.

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Speaker 2: You better wash that, dish out the mother, you out

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Speaker 2: the fight.

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Speaker 1: Where voys be coming from that you be putting on.

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Speaker 2: I know, cause she don't even sound like that said

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Speaker 2: in my head when you talking shit, you go, I

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Speaker 2: would break the other one if you keep putting it on.

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Speaker 1: My seat, So you know, I mean that'd be interesting. Yeah, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we wanted to talk about daddy issues today. We talked

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Speaker 1: about mom because you about to experience this bitch out.

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Speaker 1: I've been there and.

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Speaker 3: Never ever ever them people different.

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Speaker 1: Man. You you see your parents uh as superheroes until

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Speaker 1: you realize them. Nigga's a humans. They regular people and

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Speaker 1: may be having all they little bullshit with them. So

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Speaker 1: good luck.

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Speaker 2: This ship look like a transformer on the bottom of

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Speaker 2: my foot. I just hate this for me, just putting

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Speaker 2: on clothes like you never realize how important two feet are.

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Speaker 3: And losing limbs and losing stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just washing my ass was just such an obstacle

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Speaker 2: today and not having like like I'm staying at my

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Speaker 2: homegirl Sean house. Y'all shout out that Sean. Sean has

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Speaker 2: been like an angel to me, like really helping me

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Speaker 2: out so much. And I know she did not sign

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Speaker 2: up for that, and I know I was like starting

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Speaker 2: to get annoying because I downloaded the bell app and

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Speaker 2: I started you know you didn't, I'm just playing. She

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Speaker 2: was like, bitch, I would throw that phone over the

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Speaker 2: motherfucker baptist. I was like, I just do one more thing.

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Speaker 2: You put me some crippets. Morning when I woke up,

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Speaker 2: she was like, are you hungry? Why don't you get

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Speaker 2: yourself up and make yourself something? Then Christina, you gonna.

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Speaker 1: Put your that bathtub. She's gonna put your ass in

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Speaker 1: the bathtub.

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Speaker 2: Bit you live. So I'm gonna get up out of

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Speaker 2: there tomorrow because I war all about well.

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Speaker 1: For you lose a friend, yeah exactly, But that's when

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Speaker 1: you know who's your friend, when people come through in.

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Speaker 2: Times like that, when you got one foot yeah, shout

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Speaker 2: out to Sean, Shout out to Sean. For real, how

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Speaker 2: was your weekend? Let's talk about your weekend.

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Speaker 1: And what did I do this weekend? And I don't

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Speaker 1: think I did much of anything for real. Kept so

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Speaker 1: Monday was was damn labor day, and I was on

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Speaker 1: the road Labor Day. Don't do much shine this ship.

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Speaker 2: We hang out over the weekend prior to the Monday.

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Speaker 2: He no age lying. AJ do not want y'all to

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Speaker 2: know her businesspen.

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Speaker 1: Was on Amazon buying a whole bunch of cat baby things.

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Speaker 2: That was about it, you guys, she got a new

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Speaker 2: kid of ya. It's cute.

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Speaker 1: It's so cute, that's all. I didn't do shit this

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Speaker 1: weekend for real money. Oh I'm lying, Okay, I do

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Speaker 1: be lying. Maybe I'll just be forgetting like I do things.

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Speaker 1: And so my homegirl, my best friend, Priscilla, her birthday

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Speaker 1: was on the twenty eighth of August, so we did

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Speaker 1: I was on shrooms. This is probably why I be forgetting,

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Speaker 2: I realized that the mirror.

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Speaker 1: I realized that I'm never still, you know, So when

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Speaker 3: It's just weird.

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Speaker 2: Bitch.

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Speaker 1: I'd be writing a bunch of shit and I'd be

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Speaker 2: Heavy birthday Priscilla.

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Speaker 1: My friend, she went to where does she go out?

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Speaker 1: Send Chroy or her in her little her little boot.

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Speaker 1: She posts niggas on social medi it's serious saying that

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Speaker 2: Amen. Amen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's what I did. We celebrated her this

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Speaker 1: Let's get in this stupid internet news though. I want

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Speaker 2: Did you see these.

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Speaker 1: TSR daddies that the Shade Room posted with this?

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Speaker 1: She want a big dog. She don't want no puppy,

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Speaker 1: She want a big Dog, boss Man, Dilo song Girl Girl. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Series of black Men. Okay, yes, a black man's back

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Speaker 1: is high. No, God is fucking real.

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Speaker 3: Okay, these men.

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Speaker 1: These I was smiling the whole time. One of my

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at it right now and it's just nothing

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Speaker 2: but beautiful black man. Oh my god, my vagina dumping.

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Speaker 1: The last nigga, though, I'm mad you were standing on

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Speaker 1: do this?

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Speaker 2: Everyone?

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Speaker 1: Gorgeous black men, y'all know, black men got like swat.

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Speaker 1: That's why everybody loves black men, because it's just something with.

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Speaker 2: The aura that everybody loves.

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Speaker 1: Everybody want to touch.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to go follow all.

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Speaker 1: These uss you like them. I'm gonna telling you, I

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Speaker 2: How you look like that.

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Speaker 1: If y'all man go to go to the shadroom. What

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Speaker 2: That was all? If when this come out, it'll be

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Speaker 2: seven days ago. Looks for seven days ago, ladies, and

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Speaker 2: gets you an eye full of God's goodness.

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Speaker 1: The Lord is my shepherd. He know what I want?

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Speaker 2: Amen, ain't me?

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Speaker 1: Missus? Sean Wells underscore number one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's shot these niggas out bag visuals. Go ahead

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Speaker 2: and say that.

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Speaker 1: Again, Bam bam cam undercore visuals.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that one for me. Bam. I'm tam

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Speaker 1: But I want to be bodied by Brandon underscore.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, follow him, follow him because he find two

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Speaker 2: terminator for too. Six six mm. Girl, we just sound

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Speaker 1: It's not like them phone calls from prison.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up? Just your girl?

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Speaker 1: I'm number four five to six, just looking for a friend,

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Speaker 1: looking for one of these niggas. Let me stop.

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Speaker 2: I get beat up girl. You're here.

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Speaker 1: On the mic right, I'm just playing baby anyway. I'm

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Speaker 1: a fatnizer nigga. Better know that fucking with me Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't touch my phone and I won't touch yours.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I don't look at this. So I

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Speaker 2: saw this over the weekend. A woman paid a man

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Speaker 2: back with a foursome for buying her and her two

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Speaker 2: friends VIP tickets to Usher concert and they went eleven rounds.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a good time.

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Speaker 2: Somebody drugs? What kind of drugs y'all was on?

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Speaker 1: that makes sense to me, Like, nigga, you swapping condoms out?

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Speaker 2: You ain't.

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Speaker 1: You ain't went no eleven rounds with three bitches. I

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Speaker 2: Oh no, she shared a photo of eleven open skin condoms,

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Speaker 2: so it's just like he was switching up for each girl.

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Speaker 2: I guess they were like keeping it safe. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to see Usher that bad. I want to see Usher,

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Speaker 2: but not that bad.

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Speaker 1: And I wanted did she feel like she had? That's like,

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Speaker 1: just they just wanted to do a threesome. Yeah, because

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Speaker 3: Y'all gotta hey pussy right.

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Speaker 2: No, he didn't say that. He just was able to

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Speaker 2: receive that as a gift for these Usher tickets. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine. They just some freaky, freaky frogs and

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Speaker 1: they just needed a reason. Hell yeah, it says. She

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Speaker 1: recommend she provided additional crucial crucial information that was omitted

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Speaker 1: in her first statements. She says, there was one man

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Speaker 1: and three women. Yes, we ran a train on him.

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Speaker 1: Yes it was consensual, Yes he enjoyed it. Condoms were

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Speaker 1: switched between partners. Skin don't smell like rubber if you're

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Speaker 1: Is it a train though, because men would have considered

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Speaker 1: that a threesome. If you eating all these coochies, we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you hit everybody out and then everybody kiss

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Speaker 2: it and shit, that's a lot of But if it was.

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Speaker 1: One woman and three men, it would be a chew chew.

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Speaker 1: We had an episode about that. Yeah, it's a train

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Speaker 1: Why is that a double standard?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because remember A. J. Johnson who played uh Tyrese's Mama

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Speaker 1: and baby Boy. She said for her fiftieth birthday, she

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Speaker 1: had a threesome with her good guy friends and she

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Speaker 1: loved it.

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Speaker 2: She had a train ran on her with I know

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Speaker 2: women that enjoy it. I have a I say it often.

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Speaker 2: I have a client who goes to Jamaica and annually

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Speaker 2: to get trained.

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Speaker 1: What is the psychology of that?

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Speaker 2: She'd be like, oh, yeah, one dick in my mouth

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Speaker 2: and one dick and mike pussy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you remember that. It was a girl on social

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Speaker 1: media ones on a podcast saying how most women fantasize

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Speaker 1: about that or have done it. Most women have had

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Speaker 1: a train ran on them.

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Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true.

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Speaker 1: My closest friends I have never had a train ran

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Speaker 1: on them. Ever.

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Speaker 2: That don't even sound appealing to me. I do not

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Speaker 2: describe to that. That sounds like hard work.

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Speaker 1: Right, I barely concept one dick. Imagine he try to

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Speaker 1: do the backhead bunks on two absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: I yeah, but to Easter all. You know, whatever gets

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Speaker 2: you all, Hey, more power to you. But it's to

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Speaker 2: be at my house. No, yeah, so stop putting bodies

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Speaker 2: in our couchie. Okay, we like to accumulate our ship

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Speaker 2: one by one. Yeah, nobody doing two at a time,

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Speaker 2: three at a time. That math is wild.

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Speaker 1: Nobody, but shout out to old girl and her crew. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what I want to know, right, He probably was hot.

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Speaker 2: There was accusing Usher having a body double come out.

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Speaker 1: That did not look like Usher.

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Speaker 2: It did not.

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Speaker 1: Got a good one beyond Beyonce got a good body double.

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Speaker 1: Usher need to.

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Speaker 2: Get a new one. Yeah, his body double? Look, what's that?

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Speaker 1: I cann't even sing?

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Speaker 2: Uncle? That's his uncle. His face was too small and

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Speaker 1: Not your? Not your?

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Speaker 2: What other is ushers in the church? And what else

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You go to church, you should know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pastor. That's the pastor. That ain't the Usher

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Speaker 3: Who was that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know? But I hope that's not the show.

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Speaker 2: They again, they pussy up for Usher.

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Speaker 1: Bitch y'all just wanted to be old so badness. So

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Speaker 1: fans are accusing Rashida and Kirk Frost of having a

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Speaker 1: fake cheating scandal after Jasmine Blue, which is Kirk's baby mama,

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Speaker 1: remember on one season of Love and Hip Hop he

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Speaker 1: had a baby with this girl. Jasmine Blue shares labor

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Speaker 1: The caption read, she at them, She at Kirk, she

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Speaker 1: attempting to cheat on Rashida, with her even providing a

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Speaker 1: text message evidence is sup poor her allegations. It says.

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Speaker 1: Fans are now questioning if the drama is being staged

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Speaker 1: for entertainment purposes, with many voicing their concerns on x

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Speaker 1: formerly Twitter. Given the seemingly friendly interaction between Jazz and Blue,

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Speaker 1: and said, it's the fake storyline for me. Why do

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Speaker 1: they keep playing on their playing with their marriage like this?

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Speaker 1: They aren't embarrassed. Another added, they've been in cahoots this

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Speaker 1: entire time, believe it or not. Why might as well

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Speaker 1: make a bad situation good. Keep getting the bag where

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Speaker 1: she ain't going nowhere?

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Speaker 2: And first of all, ain't the ship pre recorded? Y'all

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Speaker 1: Made up that part.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it ain't like that recording, like we're doing this.

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Speaker 1: Show last fucking minute. No, we actually been doing better.

440
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:25,360
Speaker 2: Okay we be Yeah, we do like like early it's

441
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 2: just a sis. We can't do it in advance.

442
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: So what I do know is that Kirk is an

443
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 1: Aquarius and Rashida is a Gemini. Okay, she got a

444
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 1: high tolerance with some bullshit. That's why she's stole with

445
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: with Kirk and Kirk was that nigga. You know what

446
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So she probably stole Like that's that's her,

447
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 1: that's her person.

448
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: She ain't going to She's not going nowhere no matter what.

449
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: So fuck y'all. Yeah, we're gonna be one big happy

450
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: family because like it or not, this child exists, right, Okay,

451
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: I got I got a step churned and got this.

452
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 2: I take some at this point.

453
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: So they're like, I've got no problem with the step chair, don't.

454
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't beat that nigga up a couple of times.

455
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: Be all their life look nice.

456
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: Okay, they're doing whatever they want to do. I just

457
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: know Kirk is manipulative as a motherfucker. Boy.

458
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 2: I don't watch the show no more. I start watching

459
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 2: Love and Hip Hop many many years ago. I don't

460
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 2: think I'm the target audience anymore. Yeah.

461
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: The only time I really watched it is like for

462
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: this podcast, like if we had to talk about something

463
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: this ship and Real Housewives of Atlanta. I really don't

464
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: watch reality TV like that.

465
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 2: I don't watch reality t TV anymore either. I don't think.

466
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: Because it's not reality I watched.

467
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 2: I watched like those shows on Netflix, like The One

468
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: or Love is Blind or you know, that ship love

469
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,239
Speaker 2: at first sight. I watch some of that, but then

470
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 2: I don't really be getting into that like I used to.

471
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: So all that shit is weird to me.

472
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 2: I like scripted shows. I like Sisters. Sisters got me

473
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 2: in the choke hold right now because Mama, Yeah, I

474
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: like that. I watched that Your Honor. That was really good.

475
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 1: I gotta find that series.

476
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 2: So right now I am on Netflix.

477
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: I don't have Netflix, so I gotta get in where

478
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: I fit in. So right now I do have Disney

479
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: Plus and Hulu through my Verizon cell phone.

480
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 2: Oh, if you have Hulu, then you should watch Reasonable Doubt.

481
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 2: That's good.

482
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna check it out. But I'm watching. I just

483
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: got into the Handsmaid Tail series. Yes, well, you know

484
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: I watched TV for educational purposes, not entertainment.

485
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 2: This ship is deep as fuck, that TV show.

486
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: And if anybody watched that shit and thought that was

487
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 1: just like, oh, it's just entertainment. No, they showing you

488
00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:01,239
Speaker 1: what could fucking be. Yeah, the future, that ship is

489
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: weird to me, and it's actually really demonic to me.

490
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: But I've already committed. I already started watching I Got

491
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: to See You Through. But a lot of parts of it,

492
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, I'm not watching this tomorrow. It'd

493
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: be making me feel some type of way, like spiritually,

494
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: I got to step away from that ship. Like the

495
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: when that bitch took her to see her daughter like

496
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: for the first time. Mm hmm, when they raped her

497
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: when she was pregnant. I'm like, Yo, this is very wild.

498
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: This it's dark as fuck. And then and then what

499
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: also doesn't sit right with me? And this right quick?

500
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: You got this white lady who took this black lady

501
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: fucking husband had a baby with him like that that

502
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 1: that that part of the story bothers me right there.

503
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, she na have woman daddy issues, which brings me

504
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 2: to her topic today. We're talking about having daddy issues

505
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 2: and some of the signs and triggers and all those things.

506
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: So y'all stay tuned and listen and see if you

507
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: got daddy issues like me and aj.

508
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: I got no daddy issues yet. Back Okay, y'all, we're back.

509
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: And I couldn't really find a clear definition of what

510
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 1: I don't know the signed to say daddy issues actually is.

511
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: But I guess people display, you know, certain type of

512
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: behaviors when they may have daddy issues. I feel like

513
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: it's some scapegoat shit when a nigga playing with you

514
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: automatically you got daddy issues. Well, men can have daddy

515
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 1: issues too, No, absolutely, yeah, but with women. So men

516
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: actually have daddy issues over mommy issues. I think they

517
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: kind of blame mama for daddy not being there. But

518
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: that's a whole other episode anyway. So the first thing

519
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: is says dating older men.

520
00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: Oh that's how you know you?

521
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that might be one of the signs of

522
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,719
Speaker 1: having daddy issues. My daddy, my daddy wife is like

523
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 1: forty five, forty six.

524
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 3: That nigga is seventy.

525
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: Three, the same age as one of myself.

526
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 2: My daddy in his seventies.

527
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: Right, yes, my daddy is seventy three.

528
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 2: That niggabo four list turn that your dad room. There

529
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: ain't no.

530
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: Way so smashing it ain't no fucking way my daddy.

531
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: You don't know.

532
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 1: I don't know Viagara to fucked the game up, because

533
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: I probably would have had me a seventy year old

534
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: Viagara didn't exist.

535
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: Listen youday seven, you would take somebody that much put

536
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 2: a bag.

537
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,719
Speaker 1: They don't have to touch me for real, because dick

538
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: don't work. But now like Viagara make they dick work.

539
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: They don't want to just hold your hand, no one,

540
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: all right, they really want to smash.

541
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 2: I'm not even playing that game because you know how

542
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: when you watching nigga walk away from you know, y'all

543
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: doing the day. I need to see them so.

544
00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 4: To be looking funny, nigga be melting walking up all

545
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 4: niggas wear from the back walking away, and you're like,

546
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 4: but if it's it's a balls bagging real love walking away.

547
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 2: Oh ya, what am I doing here? I can't play

548
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 2: like that. Your ancestor is watching too, right. I gotta

549
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: wait till my shit hanging that lovel to be with

550
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 2: so well, hanging.

551
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: That little But then they don't want you like they like.

552
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: I can understand why older men want younger women, because

553
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: I don't understand why young women want older men, like

554
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: aside for money, Like, eh, they got that little gray

555
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: line around there from the eye running pupil.

556
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely no, that's cateract.

557
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: No, them niggas just going blind. And that's how you

558
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: know with somebody. Oh, I had an old man trying

559
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 1: to tell me he was forty forty at the time.

560
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, in my twenties. He's trying to convince me

561
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: that he just forty something. But you got that gray line, sir,

562
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: I know you like sixty, right.

563
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: I remember when I was a little like it used

564
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 2: to be old niggas in my family. I'm like, yo,

565
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: I's pretty and didn't be that great sugar. That ain't

566
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: pretty much. I can see.

567
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: Gotta get that care. I just had to take my

568
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: daddy a couple of weeks ago, like this, Why the

569
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: fuck I had to take my daddy had a cataract surgery.

570
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: He got a fucking wife in her forties. I'm confused.

571
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: Remember she was busy that day and I had to

572
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: take him four different times, like for the actual appointment

573
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: for one eye, then an actual play for the other.

574
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: Idea to follow up appointments. Was she at take off

575
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: and work for your husband?

576
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: But she said she was showing up.

577
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: Yes she does. I'm grateful because listen, only I'm having

578
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: one parent to probably take care of.

579
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 3: Hopefully she stay around. Amen, Thank you, thank you girl.

580
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: So MoMA all, that's one side that I don't have

581
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: dairy issues because I typically don't they older men. What

582
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: do they say about the younger man?

583
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 3: I don't know a bitches at the schoolyard.

584
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: Getting around. What's matching?

585
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: It was two of them got arrested.

586
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: For planning a threesome with a high school boy.

587
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: Yeah that's disgusting.

588
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is up with y'all? Uh?

589
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 2: Anxious attachment?

590
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: What anxious?

591
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 2: It says?

592
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: You never knew what you expect from from your dad.

593
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: Sometimes he was engaged, other times distant. He might have

594
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: had a habit of venting to you. I've seen that

595
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: my niece's dad does that. Like, man, you'd be trying

596
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: to treat you like you his old lady.

597
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

598
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: So like if they stare that they come in and

599
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: not come and then don't don't show up things like that,

600
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: which men Men do that without somebody having daddy issues people,

601
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: So I do that, you know what I'm saying. I

602
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: have told somebody I'm gonna do some shit and just

603
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: don't follow up and don't answer the phone.

604
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's not nice. You've never done that. No, I

605
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: try to, like, I try to show up if I

606
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 2: make a if I make a plan with you, I'll

607
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: at least be like I can't.

608
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: But you never changed your mind, like you says you

609
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: was going to show up for a dude, and then

610
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: you don't, I ain't coming again, but I'll say something.

611
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: Oh no, it may not be the truth. I'm sick, No, definitely,

612
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: but I'll say something I don't like. I hate when

613
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: I if don't ghost me because I don't like that,

614
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 2: because I'm coming back. Like that bitch on that new.

615
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: Movie delivery, maybe you got anxious attachment. Maybe not yet.

616
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 1: I want to see it. I just started before.

617
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 2: That part was hilarious, like I get to doll your day.

618
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: That's what I mean with that on it. I didn't

619
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: know that was a movie though.

620
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: As they took me out, I was like, let me

621
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: say my house and in there talking about.

622
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: You stupid. But no, you said you don't like when

623
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: people do that, Like I feel like, no, I don't.

624
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: I don't have to have to have an explanation every

625
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: time from somebody you just.

626
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: Don't feel like it.

627
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 6: No, you need to tell me no, especially because if

628
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 6: somebody does that, you just not for me. Good thank

629
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 6: you for on me to date before I suck your

630
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 6: dick like it takes just.

631
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: A second to communicate that you can't be available when

632
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: you said you would. That pisses me off so bad.

633
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 3: But what if the person like something like I had

634
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: an emergency something.

635
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I've actually goes to people. But what

636
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 1: if that person had an emergency? I have seen you

637
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: jump to conclusions, dog real fast said that Nigga's paragraphs,

638
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: So that might be a daddy issue.

639
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: You're fucking you. I would jump to conah, because what

640
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 2: are you doing? Are you in jail? Are you gonna

641
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 2: go and die? Are you coming?

642
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: I remember one time, don't.

643
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: Tell me eight and then you it's something you're showing

644
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: up at ten, or communicate that you're not coming at eight.

645
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem, but what if they died.

646
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 2: Well, then they can't commune say anything, and then that's

647
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 2: not a problem. But you gotta have that die. But

648
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 2: you need to have me. You need to be dead.

649
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: Nigga, Okay, got it. A fear of abandonment could be

650
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 1: daddy issues.

651
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: Oh I got that.

652
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 3: I don't care ding ding ding ding, But what does

653
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 3: that look like for you?

654
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: Because I mean, I don't know the older I get,

655
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: I don't care a lot about something.

656
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 2: I think I'd be having trouble picking one person because

657
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 2: I'm scared. Don't pick wrong, and they gonna leave me.

658
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: I said that out loud. Because you never left somebody, right,

659
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever left anyone that I got

660
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: serious with. They always like they'll break up with me,

661
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 2: but they always try to double back and then they'd

662
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 2: be like, nah, nigga, you thought the grass was greener

663
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: over there, right, stay over there?

664
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: Uh, your father is manipulative and controlling. My daddy don't

665
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: even talk, my nigga.

666
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: My daddy's so.

667
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 3: Cool, man, you really don't even talk for real.

668
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think which could be manipulate. Manipulation because

669
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: you don't really answer questions like I have been with men,

670
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: you ask them something they do not even. You gotta

671
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: be real specific with the question do you have any kids?

672
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 1: And do you have any kids on the way, because

673
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: a nigga have somebody pregnant because the baby doesn't exist, right,

674
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 1: I ain't got no kid. I don't got no kids,

675
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: So I know people like men, you gotta be a

676
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: real specific when you're asking these questions. And I feel

677
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,799
Speaker 1: like my daddy probably used to gass like my mom

678
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: in that way.

679
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I think I don't like with my dad,

680
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 2: the manipulative and controlling part. I can't speak to that

681
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 2: with me. But I imagine he was like that with women.

682
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,439
Speaker 2: You know that he was daying, but our relationship wasn't

683
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: They like, Yeah.

684
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: Do you think you have daddy issues in any of

685
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: your relationships? Like anything like that stems from your relationship

686
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: with your father?

687
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Absolutely that what you were saying, where I will

688
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: jump off, jump off the guns even on that Nigga,

689
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,439
Speaker 2: I see you jump on your daddy quick. Yeah, because

690
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 2: he's supposed to be here. I don't know that, But

691
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: I just think it's about communication for me, you know, like,

692
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 2: just communicate. It's not I'm gonna not be mad at

693
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: you for not being here. I'm gonna be mad at

694
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 2: you because you didn't communicate that you weren't going to

695
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 2: be here when you said it, right, That'll be my issue.

696
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 2: They know the man, No, that's not for me. What's

697
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: the other one? I don't know what avoided attachment and

698
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 2: then the other one was.

699
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 3: Oh, low self esteem could be one of them.

700
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 1: Difficulty trusting men, if emotionally unavailable, jealousy, uh, become easily

701
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: attached and clinging.

702
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: If we have sex, we go together period.

703
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 3: I'm confused why you think we don't ye depending on

704
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 3: how we have sex. Bitches is not studying conon dit.

705
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: But if you have sex with a woman without a conm,

706
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: please know that's your girlfriend.

707
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 2: Is even in the Bible, even contenis. I'll be attached.

708
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 2: What do we do once I allow you to go

709
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: there with me? We in love me? It used to.

710
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 2: But that's how I'll be feeling. Like these young girls

711
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 2: they different how.

712
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: You get attached with that plastic in the middle, because

713
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: I be so emotional off rubber.

714
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 2: No, it don't just be like you're fucking that's rubber.

715
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 2: Do the do I'm like, I'm emotional, I'm passionate. Like

716
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,719
Speaker 2: once we do that, no, I'm locked in.

717
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: Nah, as long as there's a barrier, there's a barrier. Yeah. Yeah,

718
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 1: I can't fall in love with no condom dick. It's

719
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: a daddy issue. If I can't fall in love with

720
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: condom dick. Yeah, no, that's there. I don't have nothing

721
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 1: to do with.

722
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 2: My goddamn daddy condom dig is Wow that you call

723
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 2: it that? It is what it is?

724
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: Oh, so okay? This is it says you've never met

725
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 1: your father. I can see somebody having daddy issues who

726
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: never met their daddy. I mean absolutely, I'm trying to think,

727
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: like what type of things like with my dad that

728
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: I avoid and men.

729
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 3: Because of him.

730
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't really be laking ball had niggas.

731
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: I love ballhead niggas when my daddy got here.

732
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 2: But the older I get, the less I can avoid

733
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 2: the losing their hair niggas.

734
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: Going ball like niggas is in Turkey. I got a

735
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: home word right now in Turkey, and he said, there's

736
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: so many niggas over.

737
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 2: There right now getting the airline that I'd be like

738
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 2: sending him all the Turkish places like this.

739
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: This guy to me and my phrase at MD. So

740
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: he picked this place based off and he got like

741
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 1: five million followers on Instagram.

742
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 3: The places in Turkey like they does this. It's a

743
00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 3: lady runs in Yeah, send it to me yea. And

744
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 3: the pictures before and afters.

745
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 1: Look pretty good. I'm not against that, like I'm against

746
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 1: them goddamn Lee's friends.

747
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 2: I listened to do that. If it's done, yea, I

748
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: don't care. You could get your lace front.

749
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: I had an old friend who went to Benedict. Would

750
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: us send me on Instagram?

751
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 2: The other day?

752
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 1: He was like, I got a surprise for you, So

753
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: he sends me a recent picture of him and he

754
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: cut his dreads off. But Nigga, the last time I

755
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: seen you, which was probably like ten years ago, you

756
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: ain't have no hair.

757
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 2: Nigga was weird.

758
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: Hats where does fucking hair come from? I said, if

759
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: I see your ass at homecoming, I am dumping a

760
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 1: bottle of alcohol in your head.

761
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 2: You wouldn't want nobody do that to your hair. I'm

762
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: here for I know that the lace front, if it

763
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: looked good, if it looked nice, you would need my

764
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: guy to be You need what I got to be.

765
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: Baby, he gonna be trying to get you to do

766
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 1: his damn here, and I it will. If that's my

767
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: me and my me and my s I'm gonna be lifting.

768
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

769
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: It's thick as fun. It's like not blended in the bag.

770
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, you gotta be good casting at to somebody

771
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: who do here, and then I'm not gonna know that's

772
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: my ship on your head.

773
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: Listen as long as they look good, I don't care.

774
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: I do not care. I'm here for it. Whatever make

775
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: you feel confident and it looks nice, I'm here for

776
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 2: it because I need you to feel the same way

777
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: about me.

778
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know that's a weed. Just tell me

779
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: that's a weave, Like, why are you trying to play

780
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 1: on my intelligence? Or he ain't say it was no,

781
00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: Well he really want me to be like this is

782
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: here and I'm like, no, nigga, you was wearing a

783
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 1: fitted cap for many years because your dreads was out

784
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: in the middle. So now you got like waves headline, Chris,

785
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: I mean thick Steve har back when looking like uh

786
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: Marcus Houton.

787
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 2: It was the show where you robed the law.

788
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: Oh god, oh man, that type of shit.

789
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: He was the first one to do it.

790
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, te Cat Williams said that nigga had a wig

791
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: on he stopped.

792
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it looked nice.

793
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 1: That box speed looked.

794
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 2: Nice to you back in nineteen ninety three. That shit

795
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 2: was fire.

796
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: Anxiety and relationships, excessive friendliness towards guys. You always in

797
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: a nigga face smiling.

798
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, that's me. But I'm but I'm like that

799
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 2: with women too, Like I'm just friendly or gig.

800
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: People pleasing behaviors.

801
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 3: No, what's another wings afraid of being alone?

802
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: No, I'll stay in my house for days and yeah

803
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 2: come out.

804
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that people use like the like I said,

805
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: they use that daddy issue shit to just to It's

806
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: just another way to offend women.

807
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: I think. Do you think most strips have daddy issues?

808
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: No, because you know I can for my family as

809
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,439
Speaker 1: an example, Right, So, I don't know. Maybe my sister

810
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: got daddy issues.

811
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 2: I don't know.

812
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 1: But you can be raised in the same house, right,

813
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: same parents. Why of no fucking siblings gonna be a

814
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: whole other type of person. Like I'm I'm completely different

815
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: from my family, right, but we are also alike in

816
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 1: other ways that we have one that just can't fucking

817
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 1: get right, you know what I'm saying.

818
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I'm the wild card in my family.

819
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: I know my mama seeing me putting cat shit because

820
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 1: I've been using her Amazon. I know she's seen me

821
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: putting cat shit in that card. I know she want

822
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: to call me and actually, what you doing? I know

823
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: it's itching her. I know is killing her not to call.

824
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 3: Me a question because she don't even think you got

825
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:52,399
Speaker 3: a cat.

826
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: No, she know I got a cat. She probably pissed

827
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: about it, like, bitch, you don't need a cat. But

828
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: I don't have daddy issues. I don't think zoom Man Jordian,

829
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: I think aside from aside from just not being trust

830
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm not trusting. I remember one time my daddy he

831
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: would go to this place called the Joint. It was like, no, bitch,

832
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: not the chiropractice. I'm talking about, like hello, hole in

833
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: the wall when you pick up some pussy like he

834
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: was there. My mom would put us in the car

835
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: to get him out of there, and they are getting

836
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:35,479
Speaker 1: in the parking lot that type of shit.

837
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 2: Oh like, oh.

838
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: Girls, yeah, away from my daddy trip. I literally yelled

839
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: at the window once and that It was that day

840
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: that I stopped calling my daddy daddy. I started calling

841
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: him by his first name, like my sister.

842
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 2: That sounds like a daddy issue right then.

843
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: That nigga, not with the next nigga. Yeah, I had

844
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: an issue with him, but not with the next person.

845
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 2: But you don't think that it has manifested anyway.

846
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: Leaving, I'm gonna tell you the one day that I

847
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: knew that leaving not like breaking up with me, but leaving.

848
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,919
Speaker 1: I remember one day I told my dad I wanted

849
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: to go with him wherever he was going. I just

850
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: wanted to be where he at.

851
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 3: And I'm like Harry I'm going with my shoes.

852
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: I'm fighting to put my shoes, and I know he's

853
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 1: getting his keys, he's leaving out the door.

854
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 2: Bitch.

855
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: I got to the carport and he had pulled out.

856
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: My heart still hurt right now talking about how that

857
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 1: nigga drove off without meaning and that ugly ass brown whatever.

858
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 2: Back then, that's the first person to ever break your

859
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 2: heart is your daddy.

860
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: But a nigga did that to me one morning, like

861
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: like yes, gym, yes, when we were and it took

862
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: me back to that. It probably did come to him

863
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: that morning because I'm still mad at my daddy from

864
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: that one day.

865
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:52,760
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

866
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: If we had been working out the whole week, going

867
00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: to the gym, right, I wake up, I don't even

868
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: brush my teeth yet, I don't take a shower yet.

869
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm getting you and your son together, right, So the

870
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: last step for me already took my shower or whatever,

871
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: and I finally pee up out of majoraw breakfast, all

872
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: the shit. We going to the gym for the fifth

873
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 1: day this week.

874
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 2: It's routine.

875
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: We have been routinely doing this the whole week. So

876
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on the stairs and put my shoes on

877
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: and I walk over to the to the night standing

878
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: to get my cellphone, and I hear the fucking door lock,

879
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: Like I'm bending down out here, So I run to

880
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: the door like a kid.

881
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, are you leaving me? He was like, you

882
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: need to hurry up.

883
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: Did y'all like the fucking lost it? No, absolutely not,

884
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: And that was the beginning of the end. Daddy, the

885
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: fuck up out of here, because that's disrespectful. Just say no, though,

886
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: Just say you're not going this morning or something like that.

887
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: Else say I don't know. He just wanted me to

888
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: be on his time, which is still different from a

889
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 1: daddy just wanting to go to cheating piece in his

890
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: five year olds like I want to come.

891
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: But still it affected you in a similar way.

892
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's that's that might be my daddy issue.

893
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: So don't pull out, don't fucking leave me nowhere. That

894
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 1: same nigga did that to me at the post office

895
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 1: one day, like he kept triggering that that issue that

896
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: ye don't go nowhere without telling me you leaving. If

897
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: I walk outside of you not there, it's a problem.

898
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: But is that really a daddy issue or just somebody

899
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 1: really disrespecting you.

900
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: Both because maybe you get so upset because it triggers

901
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 2: a pain that you knew from a childhood trauma.

902
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 3: But imagine, okay, that never happened. Your daddy never did

903
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 3: that to you before.

904
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: Right, Imagine you walking outside and you were supposed to

905
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: be going with your man.

906
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 2: And he imagine walking bitch, sh go ahead, you make

907
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: me sick.

908
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: But imagine like that happening. You don't have that particular issue.

909
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,800
Speaker 1: You didn't you didn't have that experience.

910
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 3: But that's disrespectful. Yeah, as far as I'm concerned.

911
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: But a man will say, well, why are you acting

912
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: like that? You got daddy issues because you left me

913
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: because you disrespected me.

914
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe you wouldn't have like blew up as

915
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 2: much had you not had that experience. Why I've still

916
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: been mad.

917
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 3: I'm still disrespected. Yeah, I'm still blowing up.

918
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, my daddy ain't never really disrespect me.

919
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 2: I remember one time when I was little. You know

920
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 2: that church is Chicken by Benedict, Well, it used to

921
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 2: be churches. I think it's like a verre.

922
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was churches with my mom and dad.

923
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: Put a pan experience, I'd gained one hundred pounds. Yes,

924
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: he was, what's the Chinese restaurant over there? Trying to no, no,

925
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: trying to walk, trying to walk, Yeah, trying to walk

926
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: every day, bitch, fifty pounds freshman year.

927
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 5: That was me.

928
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 2: So this was when I was a baby girl, and

929
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 2: I can remember this. My parents were having like they

930
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 2: came in separate cars, and they met at churches to

931
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 2: get leut right, and they was arguing the whole time

932
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 2: we was eating. And then my older sister was in school.

933
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 2: I was too young to be in school, and they left.

934
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: They were leaving, and I followed my mama's storm tried

935
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 2: to store them off right, and I came running behind her.

936
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: She said, go with your daddy, right. So then I

937
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 2: went running toward my daddy car, and he was like,

938
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,520
Speaker 2: go with your mama. Oh. So then I went running

939
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 2: back to where my mama car. She said, didn't I

940
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 2: tell you to go with your daddy. So then I'm

941
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: running to where his car.

942
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: Go with your mama.

943
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 2: I just stopped in the parking lot and they both

944
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,720
Speaker 2: stopped and stopped and they came together and they stopped

945
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 2: arguing because they saw me and just standing in the

946
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 2: middle of the church's parking lot, like, I don't know

947
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 2: what to do.

948
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: That is so sad. No, I ain't that same god

949
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 1: parents be terrorizing the kids.

950
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 2: Man, Well, maybe that's why, nigga, you need to be

951
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 2: on time to pick me up.

952
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: They let me know where you're at because follow through.

953
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: Follow through. So baby, that's that's my trigger. And I

954
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 2: won't eat no motherfucking churches.

955
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: Man.

956
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 3: Them bitches to be cooking at chicken titties too big anyway.

957
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: In the fryar.

958
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

959
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 3: I don't know where the fuck else I'm going at

960
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 3: with this, but.

961
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: I love my dad, and if I have an issue

962
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: with a man, it is not because of some shit

963
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 1: my daddy did to me at all.

964
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I'm still going to therapy and maybe

965
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,439
Speaker 2: I need to unpack some things. I don't know. Maybe

966
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 2: that's why I'm not married yet, because I'll be I'll

967
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: be hard on these men sometimes I feel like, all right,

968
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,280
Speaker 2: tell me, all right, I'm gonna tell you my daddy

969
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 2: why I be. Man, I'm telling y'all they but I'm

970
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 2: mad at my daddy right now because he wouldn't come

971
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 2: pick me up from the airport. Is that me being spoiled?

972
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: No, why would he not?

973
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 3: My daddy would never not come get me.

974
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 2: Guess what I said, like, why wouldn't you come?

975
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 3: And that's when you know people love you when they

976
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 3: come get you in the airport on time?

977
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: It was I mean, now, granted he didn't know that

978
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 2: I was gonna be in the airport. You know, I

979
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 2: was like, I'm because it was a layover, so I

980
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 2: wasn't even supposed to be in Chicago, but I got

981
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 2: stuck in Chicago. And now I'm stuck in Chicago. Come

982
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,279
Speaker 2: get me and he would not come get me. So

983
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 2: I'm mad at him. I'm still mad at him.

984
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: And that was like you had to sit in the

985
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: airport all night. No, I would have got me in

986
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: a hotel room by the airport, but he did not

987
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: come pick me up.

988
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 2: You want to jump him? I would like to, Yeah,

989
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 2: I would like to, but I can't fight that. That's

990
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 2: a big grow man. It's like the feelings that he

991
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: didn't come get me. But for you, yeah, maybe that's

992
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 2: far he was. He did work late, and he like

993
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 2: he would have had to come from Indiana.

994
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: He still had to go home though, you know he

995
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 1: lives in Chicago but works in Indiana. I mean, but

996
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: it's right there though, like Gary, I know Gary is

997
00:50:58,040 --> 00:50:58,919
Speaker 1: the train right away.

998
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm men and him still I love him,

999
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: but I'm mad m hm.

1000
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 1: And you probably feel like, nigga, whatever I asked you

1001
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: to do, you need to be doing.

1002
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:09,479
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.

1003
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't ask for a lot, Yeah, that's

1004
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: that's That's probably how I probably have some entitlement when

1005
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: it comes to my daddy.

1006
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 3: But even though I don't ask people to do a

1007
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 3: whole budget of ship.

1008
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: For me, if I were to call my daddy and

1009
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: he told me no right now, bitch, I'll probably kick out.

1010
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: I'll probably be on the floor kicking, like, no, nigga,

1011
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: you owe me.

1012
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 2: That's how I felt, like, No, what.

1013
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: You said, no you can't, but you mean no, you won't, right,

1014
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 1: So I'm well, no, maybe he didn't know he can't,

1015
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: and you took it as know.

1016
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 2: I want, well, why you can't.

1017
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: Cause it's too fucking far and I just got off

1018
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 1: from work and you're a grown woman.

1019
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 2: No fuck that, fuck that shit you talk about right,

1020
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 2: call your.

1021
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:54,399
Speaker 3: Daddy, bitch.

1022
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 2: I still talk. Were still in the group chat and

1023
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 2: we'd say good morning every morning. Me my mom my

1024
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 2: dad and my sisters every morning when we say good

1025
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 2: morning to each other. And then he called me the

1026
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 2: other day he called me. We talked. Once I broke

1027
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 2: my foot, he called me, and I ain't act like

1028
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 2: a bitch. I was nice. But the time when I

1029
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 2: moved to La, he called me and see how I

1030
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 2: was moving in. I was like, you don't care.

1031
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, are you good or not? That's how

1032
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 3: you do niggas.

1033
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 2: Yep, you don't care.

1034
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: Gil tripping, So you be guilt tripping the man.

1035
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 3: You be guilt tripping your daddy.

1036
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 2: Is that what we're gonna call it?

1037
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 3: Yes, that is Gil tripping them. Yes, absolutely, to find.

1038
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: That Gil tripping somebody like you making him feel bad

1039
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,959
Speaker 1: about some sit they shouldn't have to feel bad about.

1040
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: Why he should like you don't care? Yes, he does care.

1041
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 1: He wouldn't have called if he didn't.

1042
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 2: If he cared, he would have picked me up from

1043
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: the airport.

1044
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:51,919
Speaker 1: Oh my life, your daddy life, not mine, your daddy life.

1045
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 2: Y'all love my daddy. But I still think he should

1046
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 2: have came and got me. Period, I would come get it.

1047
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody in my family that will call me and

1048
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 2: say hey, I'm stuck at the airport in your city,

1049
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 2: and I wouldn't show one time.

1050
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: You would have had to have been back to the airport.

1051
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 2: Early in the morning. That's my daddy.

1052
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, be considerate. You gotta be considerate sometimes even though

1053
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: it is your dad.

1054
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: Considerate.

1055
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I know how far the fucking the airports

1056
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: at two airports and Chicago. He's in a suburbswhere an

1057
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: outscore yes and me uber. Yeah, he could have done that,

1058
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: but I was like, that's okay, I just give me

1059
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: a hotel. Yeah, any doing it myself like I always do.

1060
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 2: Okay, So maybe I do have a little bit of

1061
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 2: a thing areas.

1062
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 1: Of improvement, little t I need to find me a

1063
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: new therapist. I haven't had therapy since my last relationship.

1064
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: Basically I got and stopped it, and.

1065
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 2: I I actually have.

1066
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 1: I bought this cat emotional support.

1067
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm heard of them, emotional support.

1068
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: People have cats for emotional support, right, cats.

1069
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: Give you the emotional support. First of all, cats are

1070
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 2: going magic though what they want to do.

1071
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: That's not true. They don't. You gotta raise them how

1072
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: you want them to be. They do, they live, They

1073
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: bounced to the beat of their own if they don't

1074
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 1: fuck with you. They will fuck with you one second

1075
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 1: and then scratch you the neck.

1076
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 2: They've seen it.

1077
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: Sounds like I felt it.

1078
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: All right, like I'm ready to be done with this conversation.

1079
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 2: I need to call my dandy.

1080
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: Well, I had it on this. I saw this post

1081
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: on Instagram and it was saying it basically said, calculate

1082
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: how many times you see your or how often you

1083
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: see your parent? Right, so, how many times you think?

1084
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: How often do you see your daddy? I don't get

1085
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 1: to see my dad a lot anymore because my daddy

1086
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: lived in my city and I don't see my parents enough.

1087
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: I don't think, so like calculate their age and things

1088
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: like you literally probably got twenty more times to see

1089
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:08,320
Speaker 1: them this lifetime.

1090
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 2: Then that's dark, AJ, No, it's just go see you people.

1091
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I see people?

1092
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 2: You know. I would see my mama every week.

1093
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: But how's that dark?

1094
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 2: What the times the girl that hurt my feeling? Yes?

1095
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 2: But and it should it should.

1096
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 1: So now make more effort to see you a bitch

1097
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: up from your airport.

1098
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 3: Maybe you need did not pop in.

1099
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: Maybe you actually schedule time with your daddy and fly

1100
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 1: a Chicago, not just you happen to see me because

1101
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: I pull up at the airport. I've done that.

1102
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 3: I do that, you know I will pull up. I'm

1103
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: just I've flown him to me too.

1104
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 2: That just happened to be one instance where I happen

1105
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 2: to be in your city, you know, in a layover

1106
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,720
Speaker 2: going to Europe, and my flag got canceled in Chicago.

1107
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do better and go see my Daddnymore.

1108
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, your daddy right down the street talking about better,

1109
00:55:58,680 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 2: and I.

1110
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 1: See that Nigga system cataract appointment.

1111
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 2: You you you can't see your ass.

1112
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: And my mama took her house key for me, So

1113
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm over there, girl. I'm not sitting in your driveway

1114
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: till you come home. I'd had a kid of your

1115
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: house my whole life, and you're just trying to be

1116
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: nasty right quick.

1117
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 2: So now you ain't going over there.

1118
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely not take the advice. If I call her and

1119
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 1: she don't answer the phone, I'm not going to sit

1120
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: in her yard.

1121
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 3: So my mom like to act like she don't see

1122
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 3: you calling her.

1123
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: She's busy. She is watching all them Korean shows on

1124
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: Netflix and playing this game on her phone. I know

1125
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 1: she got her phone in her hand when I got

1126
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: the Korean there's something in there that that that that's

1127
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 1: programmed my mom at this point, she cannot not watch

1128
00:56:54,880 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: that ship. That's anyway, your daddy, if you possibly.

1129
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 2: Got daddy issues, not work on them, go to the

1130
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 2: therapy episodes, will never go hide plan in my mind

1131
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 2: what it is, we should bring them all again. We

1132
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 2: have them all once he did, let's do it for

1133
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 2: Father's Day next year.

1134
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: And all the niggas there was lie.

1135
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 2: Not my daddy, girl.

1136
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: Both of my daddies was lying.

1137
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 2: My daddy was not lying. My daddy lied.

1138
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: My daddy was like, ain't no woman never came between

1139
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: him and his marriage because these men and I'm not

1140
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: gonna say an these men in my daddy's mind, but

1141
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: I still think it's men right in his mind. If

1142
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: you're the one that left the marriage, then you know

1143
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: what he was doing wasn't the cause of the marriage ending.

1144
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: So even though he was fucking on bitches, you chose

1145
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 1: to leave, so you ended the marriage.

1146
00:57:58,120 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 2: Well, the vowel is for bitter or worse.

1147
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 3: Fuck that. And this is why fuck y'all statistics. And

1148
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 3: I always say this. Women just do the paperwork.

1149
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,919
Speaker 1: Men leave the relationship and we do the people work

1150
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 1: just like everything else. That's it. But you you already

1151
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: left a relationship when you started violating and then I

1152
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: foul for divorce. Yeah, but you smashing women and doing

1153
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: all type of wild shit like he still to this day,

1154
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: seventy years old, like.

1155
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 2: That, nigga.

1156
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: Don't think that it was women that Nigga used to

1157
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: come home with blonde hair on his clothes.

1158
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 3: Oh wow, it's working on white bitches too.

1159
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 5: Well, be having blond hair. Then you had blond hair out.

1160
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 5: You had blond hair for four years twenty seven inch?

1161
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Long? And what club you dc on? All right, y'all? Yeah?

1162
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: Tell you people getting therapy if you if you possibly

1163
00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: have any of these uh these issues?

1164
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 2: Right, do you have anything? If you were to say

1165
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 2: something to your daddy saying, now.

1166
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 1: Oh, I love my dad, and my dad ain't know

1167
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: not I love him.

1168
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 2: I look just like I love you, daddy. I love

1169
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 2: my dad. I respect you. I'm not a stripper because

1170
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 2: I respect you.

1171
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: So you would have been a stripper if he was absent,

1172
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: like for real, like you didn't know him, you'd probably

1173
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: be stripping.

1174
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 2: I probably would have like in my like college back then,

1175
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 2: I had asked when you couldn't buy it, Like I

1176
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 2: probably could have gotten rich, but I respected my father

1177
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 2: so much that I would never You know, so you're okay.

1178
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 3: That's a whole nother episode.

1179
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: What not about your respect? Respecting yourself?

1180
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 2: You weren't about what I would have been getting that

1181
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 2: bag in my twenties. I would have got that bag

1182
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 2: in my twenties. You couldn't buy it back then, you

1183
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

1184
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 3: Oh, you know that, my brain skipped.

1185
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: But when you said maybe the strippers don't be having dads, nah,

1186
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: you could be. You could raise your people, however, and

1187
00:59:58,120 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: they end up doing what the fuck they want to do,

1188
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 1: like two parent household, went to.

1189
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 3: College, probably flunked down. Your parents send you to college,

1190
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 3: and now you're stripping or now you do well today?

1191
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 2: You know, strippers are like very much more celebrated than

1192
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 2: like when we were in our twenties, it was very taboo.

1193
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 2: You know what, you wouldn't have like no Instagram page,

1194
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 2: and if you called a girl by her Dan's name

1195
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:22,440
Speaker 2: out in the street, it would be an issue.

1196
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, now the prisoners is running in prison.

1197
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 2: Now the girl would be like, I'm candy dropped liquor.

1198
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: Well, everybody go by the Instagram name now too. Yeah, okay,

1199
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: so we all strippers at this.

1200
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 2: Point, Like, yuess, you're right.

1201
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 1: One thing I might add, I probably would not have

1202
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: smashed as many people. And my daddy was on my

1203
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: fucking neck, you know what I'm saying. He just wasn't dead.

1204
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: He don't say much. And my mama always felt like

1205
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: he was co signing bad behavior, you know what I'm saying,

1206
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 1: because he ain't trying to beat your ass, like he's

1207
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: going to have a conversation with you, as opposed like her,

1208
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 1: she just want to jump on you.

1209
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 2: You know. So it's two differ. We were a good

1210
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 2: cop back cup, you know.

1211
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: No, I guess maybe he You parents be really they

1212
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 1: put themselves on pedestals.

1213
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: I didn't.

1214
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: They put the kids on pedestals sometimes, so they act

1215
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: like they forgot, like the type of shit they was on.

1216
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:19,080
Speaker 1: My daddy just was stolen some bullshit. So he's like, damn,

1217
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 1: how can I reprimmand.

1218
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 2: You when I'm out here doing the same. Yeah up,

1219
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:23,640
Speaker 2: if not worse.

1220
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: Oh, before we go, a bitch, my dad was smashing

1221
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: one time. My daddy had to be in his early

1222
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: sixties at the time.

1223
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 2: Listen here he might be made a right girl. Think

1224
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 2: it on me.

1225
01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: Listen. Didn't listen to this show since last time he

1226
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 1: was on this bitch that was two years ago. This bitch,

1227
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 1: she was a tall what's the girl on Friday? Great girlfriend?

1228
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 1: Like imagine a bitch. L looked like that barrel curl

1229
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: update swoop, gold teeth, long nails, bats pretty though. My

1230
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: daddy was smashing this young girl. Don't you know that

1231
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: A bitch called myself because I was talking to the Niggah.

1232
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 2: That mean, you're grill.

1233
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: Telling me how she's gonna tell my daddy on me

1234
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: because I'm talking to somebody she want to talk to. Well,

1235
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: that is a mess, I'm gonna tell you, ghetto. Yeah,

1236
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: because she would have been in her twenties at the time.

1237
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:21,240
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a high school and I got you.

1238
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,439
Speaker 2: Messing with this girl man that I like, So I'm

1239
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 2: not messing just getting his car and gold teeth.

1240
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Yeah, she wanted that dude, and she

1241
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: was telling me she was. She called myself on and

1242
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: told him she was gonna tell my dad. I'm like, girl,

1243
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 1: you know you fucking my daddy?

1244
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 2: You said that?

1245
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: Yes, because who you?

1246
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 5: Who?

1247
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 2: You having a conversation.

1248
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 3: Anyway, let's get the fuck about it.

1249
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:58,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go, y'all. If you enjoyed this episode, y'all

1250
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,600
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1251
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,000
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1252
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:08,000
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1253
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:12,240
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1254
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 2: Y'all Remember speaking him and never hold you.

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