WEBVTT - The Globetrotters: Flight Time and Big Easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Caroline. She's a queen and talking song you mind.

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<v Speaker 1>She's getting really not afraid to feel it's so so

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<v Speaker 1>just let it flow. No one can do with c Caroline. Caroline,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a really exciting podcast for me. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>It's takes me back to some of the best days

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<v Speaker 1>of my life when we were racing around the world

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<v Speaker 1>on Amazing Race and Flight Time and Big Easy, the Globetrotters.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like the bad ass guys representing the Globetrotters.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all are also the kindest people. Um, y'all are joining

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<v Speaker 1>me and y'are three time Amazing racers, three time losers.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having us song. We really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>We've we've missed you. It's been a while since we've

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<v Speaker 1>seen you. I know. Isn't that The crazy thing about

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing Race is you're in this like little bubble and

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<v Speaker 1>this little tiny little incubator with just these people, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're racing on around the world having these wild experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>You're getting so close to all these different teams, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it's just over and everyone disperses back to life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I had a little bit of a letdown. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a hard transition to go back into real life

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Did y'all struggle with that? Um? Not really,

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<v Speaker 1>I think because you know, we we continue to travel.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, what will we do for our job at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, you know, we would vote still on the

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<v Speaker 1>team and still traveling, and you know, we were actually

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<v Speaker 1>reliving the amazing race you know every night because when

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<v Speaker 1>we go do shows and stuff, you know people was

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<v Speaker 1>coming because you know they enjoy watching us on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>So um, it was cool to keep going. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to do it again, like on that

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<v Speaker 1>at that point and I was like, I want to win,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so on that point, yes, it's a letdown

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<v Speaker 1>from losing. I wished you know, I wish I could

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<v Speaker 1>do it again. It Yeah, I think. I think one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that we all experienced and we would

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<v Speaker 1>talk about amongst former races are the right the race mayors,

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<v Speaker 1>Like even on tour. Sometimes I know that I would

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, I think that I'm still running a race,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, thinking that I've yeah, yeah, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to wait, you know, wake big, easy up. But nobody

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<v Speaker 1>else is in the room except for me, for I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but that kind of think, that's something that happens like

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<v Speaker 1>a month or whatever afterwards, where you wake up and

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that you about the missile of something. I think

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of us have experienced that totally. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk a little bit about you guys

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<v Speaker 1>and your upbringing, how y'all got to the globetrotters, Herb.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just reading some of your book projects Popes

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<v Speaker 1>and Presidents. First off, I didn't know you're best selling author,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you just wrote this book and it just became

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<v Speaker 1>a national best bestseller, which is amazing. But you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how you grew up, um, the way you were raised,

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<v Speaker 1>how that impacted you, And I just sort of want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you all about your childhoods and what

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<v Speaker 1>what led you to basketball. And I know from your book, Herb,

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<v Speaker 1>you had a lot of overcoming and you saw some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that you didn't necessarily want to be, like even

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<v Speaker 1>like when it came to being father and um a

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<v Speaker 1>partner and all that, Like, you witness some stuff he

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<v Speaker 1>that made you go differently, but it was so important

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<v Speaker 1>to you from the life that you had, was so

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<v Speaker 1>important to you in shaping you. And I'm sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you have some stories too, So I just would love

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<v Speaker 1>to hear y'all upbringing what led you to basketball and

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<v Speaker 1>the Globetrotters, Well, I mean from I mean, as you

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<v Speaker 1>read the first chapter the book, that initial thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I remembered in my book is what led me to

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<v Speaker 1>the basketball. If you read more into the book, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>know that that person, you know, from that horible experience

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<v Speaker 1>with the person that led me to the opportunities that

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<v Speaker 1>I have right now. Yeah, yeah, and and so I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like all the experience and obstacles that I

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<v Speaker 1>face have actually given me opportunity to see things in

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<v Speaker 1>a different way, uh and not so negative at times.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that that's what's been one of the

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<v Speaker 1>best things about my life, being able to see things

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<v Speaker 1>that way and living that way and let people know

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<v Speaker 1>that at the end of the day, you know, things

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna be okay. I've learned to not complain about

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<v Speaker 1>certain things because at the end of the day, I

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<v Speaker 1>realized that there are people, especially from my travels, that

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot more you know, horrible things going on

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<v Speaker 1>in their lives than myself. You know, a former hollow

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<v Speaker 1>Blow will try to even growing up growing up in

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<v Speaker 1>the projects of Arkansas, there are people who grew up

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<v Speaker 1>a lot worse and are growing up a lot worse

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<v Speaker 1>than I did right now in different parts of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So that first memory that you talked about in your

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<v Speaker 1>book is your mom's boyfriend and he can't He's riding

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<v Speaker 1>up on a bike and then he just starts like

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<v Speaker 1>beating up your mom physically, and you were, yeah, yep, yep.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was about four years old. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that that taught me is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>never to put my hands on a on a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>because I remember, you know, those experiences happened over and

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<v Speaker 1>over again for a short period of my life. But

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<v Speaker 1>it just, you know, put me in the mindset to where,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if I gotta put my hands on somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to realize that, you know, that's somebody's mother,

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<v Speaker 1>that's somebody's daughter. And now I have a daughter now.

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<v Speaker 1>And it even put things in more perspective that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not right, it's not necessary, and you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>other ways to work things out. And I love that

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<v Speaker 1>used at it was just like, uh, you you well,

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<v Speaker 1>you had the reasons why you felt like that was happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Was just like not being educated, like he didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>any better basically, right, right, right, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was a cycle. You know that that person, he

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<v Speaker 1>it was something that he experienced growing up. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's something that continues to happen and you never

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<v Speaker 1>talked a different way, you kind of know that it's wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's hard not to reactive. And that's you what

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<v Speaker 1>you've been used to sing for a large portion of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Not to make it an excuse, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of opportunity and a lot of research out

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<v Speaker 1>there now for us as me and and women to

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<v Speaker 1>realize that there are other things that we can do

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<v Speaker 1>besides become physically violent with one another. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>But he also led you to basketball because he was

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible basketball player. So that's how you learned how

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<v Speaker 1>to play basketball and got into it, right, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>He led me, led me to the game of basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've had conversations with him even in the last year.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I still, uh, you know, reach out and

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<v Speaker 1>try to support him the best way that he can.

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<v Speaker 1>Because at the end of the day, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that he was a horrible person. He just didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>the education that I had up with the experiences I

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<v Speaker 1>was able to have in order that I can see

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<v Speaker 1>things in a different light. I totally agree. And so

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<v Speaker 1>is that what led you to write your book? You

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<v Speaker 1>said it was finally time for you to write your story.

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<v Speaker 1>You're retired from the Globe Trotters, which nate you still

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<v Speaker 1>are going strong. You're not retired, you're still rocking a

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<v Speaker 1>wrong Uh huh? Is that you? So? Her? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>retired from the Globe Trotters. You've been there eighteen years

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<v Speaker 1>and you finally said, Okay, I'm gonna write my life story. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's basically what happened, because I mean probably about five

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<v Speaker 1>years into my career, every time I would come home

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure they probably gets this as well, my homeboys,

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<v Speaker 1>my friends, whatever, they started asking questions and they would say, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you should write a book. And this happened for almost

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<v Speaker 1>twelve years, and then finally when it was over with,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, yeah, it's time for me to write a book.

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<v Speaker 1>In from writing that book, what I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>do and what I feel like I've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>do is give back, you know, to people who have

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<v Speaker 1>read it. What the world is given to me is,

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<v Speaker 1>which is some amazing experiences and That's what it's all

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<v Speaker 1>about for me right now. It's about giving back and

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<v Speaker 1>sharing my life stories and my life experien answers so

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<v Speaker 1>that some other people, when Facebook similar situations may know

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<v Speaker 1>how to deal with these situations. And that's my main

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<v Speaker 1>purpose now. Kind OF's is free, doesn't cost us a dime,

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<v Speaker 1>give it away knowing that we'll never run away, run

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<v Speaker 1>out of it, and and and just keep going. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. So, Nay, tell me a little about you.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you grow up? How did you get your

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<v Speaker 1>start in the basketball? Um? I was you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in New Orleans. I grew up in the

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<v Speaker 1>mail for me projects, UM, in New Orleans in the nineties. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>which was tough. You know, it was a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff I've seen that I wouldn't wishing anybody to see,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. UM, But everything I've been through and went

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<v Speaker 1>through they made me who I am to day. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why I'm as tough as I am as

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<v Speaker 1>the reason. UM, nothing really phased me. I always go hard,

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<v Speaker 1>never make excuses. I don't give up on nothing no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what. UM. Just for me, basketball still it was

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<v Speaker 1>it saved my life. It was this point Blake, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>growing up. I grew up seeing the things I've seen,

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<v Speaker 1>all the murders and and all the violence and different things.

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<v Speaker 1>It was part of growing up witness murders sometimes. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you see, you see some stuff that you

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to don't see growing up as a

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<v Speaker 1>as a kid. Yeah, you know, you you did, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>see some things and walking to school the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you see somebody still out there. You get

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<v Speaker 1>caught up. You know. The basketball court got shot up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. When I was younger, I was like nine

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<v Speaker 1>years old. Uman, one of my best friends, Wayne was

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<v Speaker 1>on the court watching the game, and UM, some guys

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<v Speaker 1>out another project came and shot the court up, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was just part of growing up. It was

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<v Speaker 1>part of the neighborhood we was in, UM and it

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<v Speaker 1>just made me tough. It made me like, wanna do better,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and in order to do better, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to know better. And I understood that being taller than

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<v Speaker 1>everybody coming up, this mean that I was gonna naturally

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<v Speaker 1>play basketball. I had to work hard and and and

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<v Speaker 1>and persevere and get through those things. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get a chance to play summer ball, au ball.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go work in the summertime, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, if I didn't work in the summertime,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be able to buy my school uniforms for

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<v Speaker 1>when school started, you know, and things like that. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I went through some stuff, and you know, um,

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<v Speaker 1>it made me who I am. My father got hurt

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<v Speaker 1>when now I was in eleven grade, I think. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was a long shore on the river. Um, he

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<v Speaker 1>saved some mother had to stop to take care of him.

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<v Speaker 1>And so instead of going straight to college, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened out? Sorry, yeah, you said your father got hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>He was on a river. He was he was a

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<v Speaker 1>long shoreman. Yeah, he was a long shoreman. He worked

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<v Speaker 1>on the river. We called it at the port, the

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<v Speaker 1>Port of New Orleans, we called it on the river.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, he was a long shoreman. He got hurt. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he saved someone as he was getting hurt. And um,

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<v Speaker 1>because of that accident, he had to stop working to

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<v Speaker 1>heal up. My mother had to stop her job to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of my dad because he was home. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, I went to work. I worked at

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<v Speaker 1>a place called achime Osha House. Um. I was washing

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<v Speaker 1>dishes and shucking oysters at six nine, Um, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just it made me understand like even more what I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do. I want to go to college. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get an education, and um, the vehicle for

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<v Speaker 1>me to do that was too basketball. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>if it wasn't for that ball, Um, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be in a position

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<v Speaker 1>that end the day. So I love that. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was telling her just a little bit before we started,

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<v Speaker 1>like I struggle with the brokenness of this world, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's really hard for me to accept that there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much pain and suffering in the world, especially with like

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<v Speaker 1>young children. And you you both witnessed a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>violence as young boys, and UM, a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>that you decided not to do, and you made decisions

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<v Speaker 1>to change your life and to change your mindset and

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<v Speaker 1>to have a different way of living. But I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you her how you said, a lot of it

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<v Speaker 1>is just not knowing, not knowing better, being caught in

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<v Speaker 1>this cycle. And I it just crushes my soul that

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<v Speaker 1>the cycle exist, because I agree with you, if we

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<v Speaker 1>if people could just learn a different way, it wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the violence wouldn't have to be like it is

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<v Speaker 1>or or the suffering would have to be like it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, how do you deal with a broken world

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<v Speaker 1>when you know in your heart things things should be

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<v Speaker 1>better and that everyone has a good spark in then

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<v Speaker 1>we just might not know how to how to be

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<v Speaker 1>the best version of ourselves? Like how do you not

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<v Speaker 1>feel sad about it? Because sometimes I feel sad that

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<v Speaker 1>there's just so much suffering going on. I think everything

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<v Speaker 1>starts at home, you know, I think, Um, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what you know, nothing is no, you don't inherit anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything you see at home. So whether it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being like herb said, being violent, you know, he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to break that cycle. You know, whether there's somebody being mean,

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<v Speaker 1>be a bully, being racist, being anything you you see,

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<v Speaker 1>it's at home. It's come from a time that they

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<v Speaker 1>was taught that any house. So my thing is I

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<v Speaker 1>try to break every cycle that I've been through. And

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<v Speaker 1>then it was poverty, whether it's the lack of education,

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<v Speaker 1>anything that is, and any everybody can do that at home.

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<v Speaker 1>If you start there, If you start there and you

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<v Speaker 1>teach your kids a different way, then you can break

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<v Speaker 1>the cycle. It starts with you. It starts at home,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we want to change the world. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>like herbs say, you know, you want to see conns

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<v Speaker 1>is free and that that engulf a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. He when he says that, that that that that

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<v Speaker 1>puts a dome on everything, because it is if you're

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<v Speaker 1>if you're kind, that's gonna eliminate a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from from the start, you know that. And I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think it starts at home. It's tough to

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<v Speaker 1>see certain things and stuff, to see people going through

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<v Speaker 1>things that that that you saw, and but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand if at home, you know, if I practice

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<v Speaker 1>and preach to my kids education and learning how to

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<v Speaker 1>balance a checkbook and and just getting your credit right,

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<v Speaker 1>this small little things like that that we didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity coming up, um, it could change it could

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<v Speaker 1>change the world. But I think everything starts at home,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's teaching them good things are bad things, it

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<v Speaker 1>always starts at home. You can think about anything that

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<v Speaker 1>happened in your life and how you look at other

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<v Speaker 1>people and things around you, and your parents had an

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<v Speaker 1>influence on that. And so as parents we gotta make

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<v Speaker 1>sure we we we we were saying the right things,

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<v Speaker 1>doing the right things, and having a popular influence with

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<v Speaker 1>all your kids. Carolina, I totally agree with what Nate says.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it definitely starts at home. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of what I feel like we're dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>now issue that we have that we're watching what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on on television. We're watching too much news, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting worked up about things that we really have no

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<v Speaker 1>control over, and we're letting that affect our homes, where

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<v Speaker 1>that is where we should be solving and letting our

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<v Speaker 1>people know that everything is gonna be okay. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>for myself, I saw myself getting caught up and what

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<v Speaker 1>was going early in the year, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>shift and realize that I need to be strong for

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<v Speaker 1>the people that I can start, you know, sought for

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<v Speaker 1>within my immediate grasp. So if we can start that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good point, because like sometimes I get overwhelmed

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<v Speaker 1>by the hugeness of it. You see all this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on the news and TV and all of this these

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<v Speaker 1>terrible things that are happening, and all this injustice and

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<v Speaker 1>all these things that need to change, and people who

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<v Speaker 1>are suffering and being the wrongdoing going on, and and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh my god, I feel so overwhelmed. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually feel like I can't do anything. But then, like

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying and what I'm really trying to grasp

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<v Speaker 1>as well, is where can I make a difference, Where

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<v Speaker 1>do I have an impact? Where can I actually have

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<v Speaker 1>a grasp to to reach people and focus on that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean absolutely, I mean and it's also about mental awareness.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Mental Awareness Month, and that's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that's being spoken on a lot, even in the

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<v Speaker 1>sports industry, one of the things that I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about and and discussing a lot. I'm taking part

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<v Speaker 1>in a mental awareness event just last month into Luca

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<v Speaker 1>Lake and Birdbank, and I'm having another one on October

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<v Speaker 1>twenty fifth, this Sunday. It's a virtual slash in person

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<v Speaker 1>event where we're just having people come out and meet

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<v Speaker 1>greed and and talk about you know, what we're dealing with.

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<v Speaker 1>Working with a few people, but mental awareness is important

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<v Speaker 1>in our community. Growing up, and I even now it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of frowned up on to go out and

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<v Speaker 1>skil I mean, I knew after my globetrot career ended

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<v Speaker 1>after eighteen years, I had to go and see see

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<v Speaker 1>a counsel to talk about the things that I was

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with in my head. You know, I've been used

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<v Speaker 1>to doing the same thing for eighteen years and that

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<v Speaker 1>was no longer happening. But when I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>realize that, I've learned so much. But yeah, go ahead, No,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're doing the same thing. And when you're a Globetrotter,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are traveling the world, you're treated like because

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You're this celebrity team that comes in and

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<v Speaker 1>makes people smile and happiness. You bring all this joy

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<v Speaker 1>to the world and it's like a huge event everywhere

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<v Speaker 1>y'all go. So probably to have that stop and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, you're just her, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're her, the Globetrotter, the amazing racer, the father, the author,

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<v Speaker 1>all that, but the whole, the whole um movement that

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<v Speaker 1>happens with the Globetrotters everywhere you go, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gone on. So what is that like, transitioning from being

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<v Speaker 1>involved with this team that is so loved and so

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<v Speaker 1>respected and has so much energy around it everywhere it

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<v Speaker 1>goes to being on your own. It's it's, uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's about recreating the experience, but recreating it in my

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<v Speaker 1>own way all the things that I've learned over the

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<v Speaker 1>kept course of that eighteen years. For example, branding, I

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<v Speaker 1>started my own brand, swag Ball. The Globe Trotters started

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<v Speaker 1>their own brand, as I mentioned to you. By building

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<v Speaker 1>a home, you know in Florida's being able to hold

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<v Speaker 1>retreats and teach kids as well as adults a different

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<v Speaker 1>way of living as well as a different way of thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just about being creative. I feel like God in

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<v Speaker 1>the universe showed me the whole world over that course

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<v Speaker 1>of eighteen years, so I can give back my perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, from my actual, real, none biased view of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I've seen, and I've seen a lot

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<v Speaker 1>and my experiences are all things that each one of

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<v Speaker 1>us can build upon. That's interesting. I'd love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>both of y'all's respective on this. Y'all have seen the

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<v Speaker 1>whole world from being in the Harlem Globetrotters and then

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<v Speaker 1>traveling the Amazing Race three times, so I know I

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<v Speaker 1>did it two times and I went to like twenty countries,

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<v Speaker 1>so y'all probably went to like thirty countries on the

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing Race, who knows. And then you traveled everywhere with

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<v Speaker 1>the Globe Trotters. And what I thought was interesting with

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<v Speaker 1>The Amazing Race is when we were on that show,

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<v Speaker 1>you really got into the life. They didn't like, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't go to The Amazing Race and do like touristy stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>They put you in the middle of real life living

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<v Speaker 1>of whatever country you're in, like you're One of the

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<v Speaker 1>things we did was like, um, you we were made

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<v Speaker 1>clothing at a at a clothing like a kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a sweatshop, and like you know that you're in

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<v Speaker 1>it doing that. Another one's like building a canoe, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you get in the middle of what's happening in that

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<v Speaker 1>culture on The Amazing Race, which I found very enlightening

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<v Speaker 1>to get to feel how people are living in those countries.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like probably you get that insight being

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<v Speaker 1>a globetrotter too, because you're welcome to these countries and

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<v Speaker 1>you get to meet people who, like your book says,

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<v Speaker 1>president's popes and all these people. You get to meet

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<v Speaker 1>people who your decision makers for these countries, and like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like you're really you really get a

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<v Speaker 1>glimpse of how life works that not many people get.

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<v Speaker 1>And y'all have seen that on such a big global level.

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<v Speaker 1>What have you learned from your experiences of knowing these

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<v Speaker 1>cultures and knowing these people who run these these countries

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<v Speaker 1>in these cities and getting to be with all these

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<v Speaker 1>incredible people, but then be with everyday people as well, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what have you taken from all of that? Well? I learned,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know I'm still traveling and still going. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned. You know, when I got with the Globe Trials,

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<v Speaker 1>I was coming from Hurricane Katrina. Um. I had just

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<v Speaker 1>lost everything in the hurricane and basically had nothing. And Um,

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<v Speaker 1>the first trip I went on with the Globe Trials,

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<v Speaker 1>wass to India with to China, India and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this third world country and there were it looked like

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<v Speaker 1>Hurricane Katrina. What's happening every day over there? Um? And

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<v Speaker 1>but they were the nice people. Uh. They smile, they

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<v Speaker 1>seemed happy, they appreciative of us being over there. And

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<v Speaker 1>another thing I've learned from doing amazing race and traveling

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<v Speaker 1>with the Globe Trotters is, um, the more the less fortunate,

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<v Speaker 1>the poor people. Um, the people who you don't you know,

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<v Speaker 1>quote unquote seem like have a lot going on, are

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<v Speaker 1>the most gracious and the kindness and the nicest people

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<v Speaker 1>you know were during the race. Men, when we first

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<v Speaker 1>did the major race, you can you can walk up

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<v Speaker 1>to people and ask them to, hey, buy me a hamburger,

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<v Speaker 1>give me two dollars for the you know, for the

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<v Speaker 1>get this taxi and you know, you know men man flight.

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<v Speaker 1>We used to do tricks in the airport to get

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<v Speaker 1>money then take pictures and stuff, you know, to help

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<v Speaker 1>us be able to get some food or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And the people who was driving the taxis are standing

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<v Speaker 1>on the corner just on the subway, regular hard work

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<v Speaker 1>and day to day people would offer us money and

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<v Speaker 1>food morging. The people with the suits on driving the

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<v Speaker 1>maserati's in the ferraris and the people who you know

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<v Speaker 1>who technically you know, you're on the same level as

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<v Speaker 1>and and that made me realize, like it's really true.

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<v Speaker 1>Never drudge it book by its cover because you're walking

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<v Speaker 1>like hey, like oh, I think they're they Oh he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna help us, and you know he's here. She might

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<v Speaker 1>shun this, but this person right here who might not

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<v Speaker 1>be addressed as much to impress and shoes are not

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<v Speaker 1>shining like that would be the one to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, let's go. I know where you I know

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<v Speaker 1>we need to go. And we'll run next to or

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<v Speaker 1>rickshaw all the way through India to help us get

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<v Speaker 1>to the next thing. And the person who was dressed

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<v Speaker 1>lavishly and it had all these things wouldn't even look

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<v Speaker 1>at us twice. So I've learned that, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>once you already knew, like everybody is a person, just

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<v Speaker 1>nobody by by what you see, you know, way today

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<v Speaker 1>show you who they are, and then you judge them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just because anything in life, it doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>where that person comes from, what they look like. You

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<v Speaker 1>have that conversation with them, you interact with them, and

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<v Speaker 1>after interaction, then you judge them. But other than that,

0:21:04.760 --> 0:21:07.440
<v Speaker 1>everybody is everybody. That love is love and just enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and I and I appreciate that as being a

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<v Speaker 1>globe trying to to get to see those things coming

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<v Speaker 1>from New Orleans, growing up in the projects and now

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to over ninety countries. So it's awesome, it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great experience. What about you, herb Well, for me, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what I learned is that the world is not as

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<v Speaker 1>bad as we thought it. Was from looking at television,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember my first couple of years of globe trotting,

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<v Speaker 1>I would tell people, don't believe everything you see on television,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because once you go to another country, you

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<v Speaker 1>get different perspectives. And also one of the things I

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<v Speaker 1>also realized that, you know, growing up, I was a

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<v Speaker 1>person who was impressed with people with their stature, what

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<v Speaker 1>they'd accomplished, and excited to meet. But one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that I've learned throughout the course of life and

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<v Speaker 1>travel in eighteen years of course amazing racing, is that

0:21:52.880 --> 0:21:55.720
<v Speaker 1>people are people, and we're all human. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>learned to not get overly excited about people that I meet,

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<v Speaker 1>because the people that I met at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the they are human just like me. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>met President Obama twice. I shook his hand and he

0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:06.960
<v Speaker 1>felt just like I did. You know, I saw him

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<v Speaker 1>take a couple jump shots he missed, just like I

0:22:08.880 --> 0:22:11.320
<v Speaker 1>missed sometimes, you know, I spun the ball when the

0:22:11.320 --> 0:22:13.960
<v Speaker 1>President's I mean, on the Pope's finger. His hand was

0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:16.479
<v Speaker 1>just as sweaty as mind was. He was human. You know,

0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:18.800
<v Speaker 1>he had a mom and dad back in Argentina, just

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, the President Obama had family that he

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<v Speaker 1>grew up with back in Hawaii. They're human, So talk

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<v Speaker 1>to people like they're human and don't be you know,

0:22:27.680 --> 0:22:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, over excited about people and the things that

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<v Speaker 1>they have accomplished. Be excited about the things that they're doing,

0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:37.159
<v Speaker 1>that they are doing to help the world. That is

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<v Speaker 1>so true. And Nate, you brought up a good point

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<v Speaker 1>that sometimes the people who have the least are the

0:22:45.040 --> 0:22:48.720
<v Speaker 1>most joyful and the most helpful, and sometimes those who

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<v Speaker 1>seemingly have the most materialistically are not as joyful and

0:22:55.160 --> 0:22:58.159
<v Speaker 1>as helpful. Why is that? Why is it when people

0:22:58.280 --> 0:23:00.960
<v Speaker 1>have so little? Because I noticed that too on the

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:05.600
<v Speaker 1>Amazing Race when we went to Sri Lanka. Sri Lanka,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was so nice and and there was a lot

0:23:10.520 --> 0:23:13.520
<v Speaker 1>of poverty and you know it's not a very wealthy

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:15.520
<v Speaker 1>country at all, but there's a lot of love. It

0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:19.440
<v Speaker 1>felt like in that country. What is that like? Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think people who have so little are sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>the happiest? I think it's because, um, what people value.

0:23:26.800 --> 0:23:28.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, what you consider rich? You know, what what

0:23:28.760 --> 0:23:31.040
<v Speaker 1>what you could consider are you rich? And what you

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<v Speaker 1>you wealthy? And what you know and like for example,

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>like growing up in the projects in New Orleans. I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't change any of that, except for you know, the

0:23:40.119 --> 0:23:43.600
<v Speaker 1>violence and emerges. Of course, I didn't know. I wasn't

0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I was poor, you know, I didn't. I didn't know

0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:48.920
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have anything. You know. I was fortunate to

0:23:49.080 --> 0:23:51.560
<v Speaker 1>me and my brother was the only two kids, you know,

0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:54.600
<v Speaker 1>in the project to have their mother and father living

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<v Speaker 1>in the house. So we were happy, you know, we

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:59.399
<v Speaker 1>we were. We were exciting until we got to age

0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.600
<v Speaker 1>so want different stuff and and and and try to

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:05.760
<v Speaker 1>get different things. So we realized, okay, we we are poor,

0:24:05.840 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 1>but everybody around us was poor, so we didn't know.

0:24:08.920 --> 0:24:11.360
<v Speaker 1>We felt like we were doing good. I think um

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:13.920
<v Speaker 1>people value different things, just like in Sri Lanka. They

0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:18.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, they they probably didn't value um money and

0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:24.320
<v Speaker 1>material things. They value family, uh, relationship, friends, love, you know,

0:24:24.480 --> 0:24:26.720
<v Speaker 1>and so to them. Now they're wealthy. You see it

0:24:26.760 --> 0:24:28.960
<v Speaker 1>all the time. The people with the most money have

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.280
<v Speaker 1>the most problems, you know, the people who are so

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:34.560
<v Speaker 1>wealthy they're happy. And sometimes you know, boom, you got

0:24:34.600 --> 0:24:36.480
<v Speaker 1>this big old house and all this money, but you're

0:24:36.480 --> 0:24:39.199
<v Speaker 1>sitting in that room alone. Who cares? Like you know,

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm from New Orleans. I grew up with this group

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:44.119
<v Speaker 1>of people who went through the stage with me when

0:24:44.200 --> 0:24:46.560
<v Speaker 1>we were younger. Those are my friends still to this day.

0:24:46.560 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I can call, text or whatever with them to this day,

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:52.520
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's about, you know, those relationships and those

0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 1>friendships and being being wealthy. Wealth that's the wealth you need.

0:24:56.440 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what some people look at. And also

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:01.560
<v Speaker 1>you can't and you're for nothing that you never had,

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, so you make the best out of the

0:25:03.080 --> 0:25:05.880
<v Speaker 1>situation that you're in. So like, of course, like now

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I can be like, oh man, I don't have this anymore,

0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:11.600
<v Speaker 1>that anymore, and then you're sad. But like, I'm happy

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 1>because of the friendships. I'm happy because of everything I've done.

0:25:14.800 --> 0:25:18.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm happy because of the role and the thing I'm

0:25:18.160 --> 0:25:20.760
<v Speaker 1>building for my kids in the next generation, you know,

0:25:20.840 --> 0:25:23.159
<v Speaker 1>like like yeah, like it's cool. Like I used to

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:25.720
<v Speaker 1>always want to buy sneakers and stuff. Now I can

0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:28.880
<v Speaker 1>get any sneaker out one and I refused to buy sneakers.

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I have to say I want a same pair of

0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Vans or team issue Nikes all the time. And you

0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>can get me to not have my mom try to

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:40.240
<v Speaker 1>go stand in line for those New Jordans for two

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>days when I was younger, But like I understand, like now, no,

0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:46.200
<v Speaker 1>it's about my kids being happy, it's about my wife

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:49.160
<v Speaker 1>being happy. It's about making others happy. It's about putting

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 1>smiles on other people face, you know, like that, Like

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:54.919
<v Speaker 1>that's that's what's important to me. And that's what I

0:25:54.960 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people figure out. You just gotta

0:25:57.320 --> 0:26:01.600
<v Speaker 1>figure out what makes you rich inside, what makes you wealthy? What?

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:04.720
<v Speaker 1>What's what makes you a billionaire in your heart? And

0:26:05.640 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>once you realize what that is, you're such a happier

0:26:09.000 --> 0:26:12.960
<v Speaker 1>person and so many things don't matter and we all

0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:15.360
<v Speaker 1>have to figure out what that is. You know, how

0:26:15.440 --> 0:26:17.840
<v Speaker 1>much is enough? You know what what you you know,

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 1>get what you need to give to with uncomfortable and

0:26:20.800 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 1>be okay with that, but you know, wake up every

0:26:23.080 --> 0:26:25.920
<v Speaker 1>day and enjoy yourself. Just like right now with the pandemic,

0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:28.480
<v Speaker 1>like you know, I haven't been able to travel as much,

0:26:28.720 --> 0:26:32.080
<v Speaker 1>but I got to coach my son's tea ball team.

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 1>That was I would get emotion now. I was so

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:37.520
<v Speaker 1>happy to be able to coach his tea ball team.

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:43.119
<v Speaker 1>Now it was controlled chaos, you know, but to be

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:45.919
<v Speaker 1>able to coach his tea ball team. I felt so

0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:49.959
<v Speaker 1>fulfilled and that was bigger than any truckload of gifts

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 1>I can give him for Christmas, his birthday to be

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 1>able to be on the sideline and coach his tea

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:57.399
<v Speaker 1>ball game. So I'm rich and I'm wealthy in in

0:26:57.440 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 1>that aspect. That means more to me than you mean hours,

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:03.119
<v Speaker 1>because that's something he's going to remember forever. So I

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:05.160
<v Speaker 1>think that's I think for me personally, I think that's

0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 1>what it is is what you considered, well, what what

0:27:08.200 --> 0:27:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you happy about, what makes you rich and heart is

0:27:10.680 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>that's why people without money are sometimes happening people with money.

0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I totally agree. What do you think her? Well, yeah,

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's hard to follow what he just said.

0:27:22.400 --> 0:27:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I agree with everything that he just said. But it's

0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>funny that we that you mentioned about you talk about

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 1>the things that we're rich in, because that's kind of

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 1>what you know. This book that I just wrote in

0:27:34.320 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 1>on September nine that came out, Cracking a Rich Code,

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:42.280
<v Speaker 1>Volume four, speaking and my chapter in the book. There's

0:27:42.280 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty other authors, but the authors there's Kevin Harrington, Jim Britt.

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 1>There's twenty other authors, but my chapters titled the kindest

0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 1>ridge to wealth. And it's not about how much money

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 1>you have, you know, And every person that has written

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:57.160
<v Speaker 1>the chapter in that book has different variations of what riches.

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:00.640
<v Speaker 1>And it's never really about money, you know, It's about

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:03.560
<v Speaker 1>finding your purpose. It's about finding your reason to get

0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>up and get moving every single day, which I found

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 1>post globetrot to career. You know, early on, for that

0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>first year, I didn't know what, you know, what to do.

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, I was in a in a world wind

0:28:13.840 --> 0:28:15.320
<v Speaker 1>in my mind trying to figure out how to put

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 1>together all the pieces of the things I had accumulated

0:28:18.520 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>over the course of that eighteen to twenty years. But

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 1>once I figured it out, I found my purpose. Now,

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:25.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, I went from a person used to sleep

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>to twelve o'clock in the afternoon who can't wait to

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>get up to see the sunrise. So these are the

0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>shifts that happened, you know, along the course of your life.

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:35.120
<v Speaker 1>And now you know, I would, you know, make make

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>a good living. I'm rich in that. I'm rich in

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>good health, you know, my kids are doing well, my

0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:42.239
<v Speaker 1>family as well. So these are the things that I'm

0:28:42.320 --> 0:28:43.880
<v Speaker 1>rich in, and these are the things that I value

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:46.720
<v Speaker 1>and when you're riching these things, the monetary things will

0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 1>come along. I love that. So how did you find

0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 1>your purpose? Because I feel like a lot of people

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>hit a spot like you did when you've had a

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:59.480
<v Speaker 1>very strong career, a very much of an identity career,

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>like being a Harlem globe trotter is an identity career,

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:05.560
<v Speaker 1>like when when they when people meet you and they

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>know your Harlem globe trotter, that's exciting. People are excited

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>to talk about that. It's definitely a defining piece of

0:29:10.920 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>who you are, but it's obviously not who you are.

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>So what do you do when you've been in this defining,

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:23.280
<v Speaker 1>defined career for so long and then you refined your

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:25.040
<v Speaker 1>purpose because you said it took you about a year,

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>And like, how how did you find your purpose in

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 1>that transition? Because I feel a lot of people get

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:31.360
<v Speaker 1>to that place and they don't know what to do

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:34.640
<v Speaker 1>or how to move to the next chapter. Well, A

0:29:34.640 --> 0:29:36.880
<v Speaker 1>big part of a big part of it was reflecting.

0:29:36.960 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was going back being grateful, being thankful

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 1>for the opportunity. You know, in the beginning, I was

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:44.840
<v Speaker 1>a little bit disappointed when it ended because I didn't

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 1>know where to go, but immediately being able to reflect

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.040
<v Speaker 1>is like saying, oh, when I came in, I took

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>somebody else position, What did they go through? I was

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:56.120
<v Speaker 1>lucky enough to hold that position for eighteen years, probably

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:58.080
<v Speaker 1>a few years longer than I should have. But once

0:29:58.120 --> 0:30:00.040
<v Speaker 1>I left, it opened up the door for some on

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 1>else to be able to come in and you know,

0:30:01.920 --> 0:30:04.440
<v Speaker 1>and sharing that opportunity. So I mean what I mean

0:30:04.480 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>that that's a blessing. That's a way to not be

0:30:06.560 --> 0:30:09.239
<v Speaker 1>selfish and realized that you do have a purpose. All

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:11.160
<v Speaker 1>the things that I learned along the course of that

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:14.040
<v Speaker 1>eighteen years are now things that I'm doing because I

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 1>enjoyed them. I figured out the way to do it

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:18.640
<v Speaker 1>my way. They gave me the blueprint. Now I get

0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 1>to make that blueprint bread for me, and I get

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 1>to make that blueprint print better for my family and

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 1>all those hosts to me. And once I take care

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:27.360
<v Speaker 1>of home, like Nate said, everything else will take care

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 1>of itself and it brenches out like a treat. Yeah,

0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 1>that's so true. It's all perspective, it's all getting right

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 1>in your mind. What did you guys? What was y'all

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 1>secret to success on being such a dynamic duel on

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>the Amazing Race, because a lot of people go on

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:52.680
<v Speaker 1>the Amazing Race and they com completely self destruct. They

0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:57.880
<v Speaker 1>each other apart, they hate each other, They're yelling at

0:30:57.960 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 1>each other the whole time, and they can't get on

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 1>the same page and work as a team. You guys

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:07.920
<v Speaker 1>were such a strong team, and y'all were such strong teammates.

0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>You were so good at respecting and working together and

0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:15.440
<v Speaker 1>playing off of each other's strengths. How did you get

0:31:15.480 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 1>to that mindset? Because I feel like that is so

0:31:18.640 --> 0:31:21.720
<v Speaker 1>crucial in life to be able to operate in that

0:31:21.760 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 1>way instead of in the negative way. I think um

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 1>our relationship UM was strong beforehand, Like you know what

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 1>we had in college. He went to school in Louisiana,

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>sitt Ary coach Billy Kennedy was his coach, UM. And

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:40.000
<v Speaker 1>when I went to you when little younger than her.

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 1>So when I went a lot younger than her. So

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 1>when I went to school, when I went to school

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>at UM South Eastern Louisiana, I had the same head coach, Um,

0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 1>and so I knew of her. I used to walk

0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:53.640
<v Speaker 1>in his office and I would see a globtry to

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 1>picture of her behind him in his office for two

0:31:56.760 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 1>and a half years. And then when I and so

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:06.120
<v Speaker 1>when I got the opportunity to come a home and

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 1>girl try to the first thing happened was HERB called

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 1>me and he was like, yeah, you know I was

0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>coach Kennedy called me, So you're gonna join the team.

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>And we build a relationship from there. Um natural, you know,

0:32:19.760 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 1>and we was friends well alone before the race, you know,

0:32:23.160 --> 0:32:25.520
<v Speaker 1>four or five years. You know, her was the best

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 1>man at my wedding. You know, so like we have

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:31.960
<v Speaker 1>a true like relationship, but beyond a friendship, like that's

0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:35.000
<v Speaker 1>that's what's my best friend. So, um, it was easy

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:36.719
<v Speaker 1>for us to go on there. We already know how

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:38.800
<v Speaker 1>to disagree. We know, we disagree in the locker room.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, we disagree on the court, We disagree on

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the bus. We did so we know, like at the

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, you gotta keep moving and and

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:48.720
<v Speaker 1>it's love. You know, it was love. It was never

0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:52.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, nothing he's saying during the race on you know,

0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:55.680
<v Speaker 1>in front of millions of people, what's gonna be something

0:32:55.720 --> 0:32:57.719
<v Speaker 1>he's trying to hurt. He's trying to help me, and

0:32:57.800 --> 0:33:00.840
<v Speaker 1>vice versa. No matter what he said, no matter how

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I felt um well, even if we had to stick

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:05.760
<v Speaker 1>a pin in it and talk about it when we

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 1>got back to the hotel when the camera was off.

0:33:08.440 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>But we and we know we was representing and kids

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>look up to us too also, so we would and

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 1>that's who we are, not you Like if you see

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>you know you got flight timing being easy. But if

0:33:19.720 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>you see Natan heard, you don't see the same thing

0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:24.720
<v Speaker 1>we don't put on the show. Anybody who knows personally,

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:27.479
<v Speaker 1>they know who we are personally. Now you're gonna get

0:33:27.520 --> 0:33:29.360
<v Speaker 1>the same thing no matter what. So it was easy

0:33:29.400 --> 0:33:32.160
<v Speaker 1>for us to transition to do it on TV because

0:33:32.200 --> 0:33:34.360
<v Speaker 1>we just no matter what, you gotta be yourself. And

0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I think people couldn't realize who's who's not authentic on

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 1>the show. Like from from when I watched the show,

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I could tell when somebody putting on for the camera

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and and they had people around us who would do

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 1>stuff to us, and then cameras that go off and

0:33:47.880 --> 0:33:50.120
<v Speaker 1>be like, man, I hope your fans are not mad

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:52.479
<v Speaker 1>at me, or they will apologize to us on screen

0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:56.800
<v Speaker 1>to just because you know they they they don't want

0:33:56.840 --> 0:33:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the fans to be mad at it. And I don't

0:33:58.320 --> 0:34:00.680
<v Speaker 1>think we did that. We did everything for real, like

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>I was representing my family. He was representing his family.

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, he was representing his mother. I was representing

0:34:06.000 --> 0:34:09.919
<v Speaker 1>my mother. If I did anything crazy disrespectful to heart,

0:34:10.440 --> 0:34:12.799
<v Speaker 1>my mother would slap me in my head. And his

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>mother went too. So there's no way I was taking

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.960
<v Speaker 1>that chance of doing that crazy like that. Also, I

0:34:18.960 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 1>think one of the things that they mentioned earlier about

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 1>uh like expectations and not. We never went into that

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 1>race counting that money as if, oh, we have to

0:34:27.000 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 1>win the million dollars and we when we in the

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:31.560
<v Speaker 1>million dollars, we're gonna do X, y and z. We

0:34:31.600 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 1>went into the race to you know, enjoy ourselves, having

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.240
<v Speaker 1>a good time, and if that money, you know, comes,

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:38.240
<v Speaker 1>then it would have come. Of course, we would have loved,

0:34:38.520 --> 0:34:40.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, to win the money. But that's not what

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:42.760
<v Speaker 1>it's all about. Some of those teams going there thinking

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>we have to win, we have to win, putting that

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:47.440
<v Speaker 1>added pressure on themselves, and once things don't start to

0:34:47.440 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>go the right way, they start to think, we're about

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 1>to lose the money. We're about to lose the money,

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>and then they start to yell at the part and

0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it just trickles down. So that's one of the first

0:34:55.200 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 1>things you have to think realize you have to go

0:34:57.040 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 1>in and expect him to enjoy the experience. And when

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you get to a certain point of the race, you

0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>do click into like we are getting close to the money.

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:06.800
<v Speaker 1>But me and him, we never went into it saying

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 1>that's our money. We gotta take it as whoever comes in,

0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, first place at the at the last leg

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 1>of the race, and we came close, but but still

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:16.839
<v Speaker 1>no cigar. But at the end of the day, if

0:35:16.880 --> 0:35:18.879
<v Speaker 1>we'd have won the first time or the second time,

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>we wouldn't have had an opportunity to do it a

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:23.279
<v Speaker 1>third time. And I probably wouldn't have an opportunity to

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>play for an additional eight years. And they's ugly face

0:35:25.960 --> 0:35:30.719
<v Speaker 1>probably wouldn't still be running up. True, Um, you you

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 1>brought You brought up a really great point, Nate and

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I would love to talk about this. You said, y'all

0:35:36.360 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>know how to disagree, And I feel like that's a

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:42.800
<v Speaker 1>part of life. We're not all going to get along

0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:45.279
<v Speaker 1>with each other. We're not all gonna see things from

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 1>the same perspective. There's a new different reasons why we

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 1>all have have a different thought in our mind on

0:35:51.800 --> 0:35:56.239
<v Speaker 1>how things should be. But learning how to disagree in

0:35:56.320 --> 0:36:01.400
<v Speaker 1>a respectful way truly a talent that I feel like

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>many people lack so and sometimes I even lack it.

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I find myself, I'm like, why did I just

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:10.000
<v Speaker 1>respond immaturely? Like I? Why am I not? Because? Like?

0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:12.839
<v Speaker 1>Why am I? I I? Disagreeing and having conflict in a

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:16.479
<v Speaker 1>more loving way? Because just because you're disagreeing doesn't mean

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>you want the other person to be wrong or they're

0:36:18.480 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>an idiot? Did you disagree? So? How do you guys

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:25.240
<v Speaker 1>disagree and how do you stay at a high energy

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:29.759
<v Speaker 1>level when you aren't seeing things out to eye? Um?

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I think for me, UM, when I was younger, my

0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:39.280
<v Speaker 1>my mother and father they could not disagree correctly. Um.

0:36:39.360 --> 0:36:41.399
<v Speaker 1>It was a lot of yelling and and a lot

0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:44.359
<v Speaker 1>of words you shouldn't probably be saying to someone you love.

0:36:44.520 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 1>And and you know, I love both of my parents.

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>My dad passed away right before we did the race

0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:53.239
<v Speaker 1>the first time. And I've always said, you know, when

0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:56.320
<v Speaker 1>I was As I get older, when my relationships, especially

0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:59.440
<v Speaker 1>when I have kids, I'm not gonna be disagreeing and

0:36:59.520 --> 0:37:02.279
<v Speaker 1>augentent fussing and fighting like that in front of my

0:37:02.360 --> 0:37:05.000
<v Speaker 1>kids are an ear shot. And I think in order

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:08.319
<v Speaker 1>to do that, you have to have uh, you gotta

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 1>talk to your partner, your friend, you your related whoever

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:14.400
<v Speaker 1>you have a relationship friendship with and have an understand

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:16.440
<v Speaker 1>it all. Just talk about you know, with me and

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 1>my wife. You know, my wife's a psychologe too, so um,

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 1>you know you you you have conversation, you say, hey, like,

0:37:23.200 --> 0:37:25.360
<v Speaker 1>this is what we want and in life, that's what

0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 1>we want in this great relationship, friendship, marriage, whatever. And

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you said you have to talk about it because you're

0:37:32.080 --> 0:37:34.920
<v Speaker 1>going to disagree. It's healthy to disagree. I think. I

0:37:34.960 --> 0:37:38.520
<v Speaker 1>think there's no way you should everybody should agree on everything.

0:37:39.080 --> 0:37:41.040
<v Speaker 1>No way. Like my dad used to always say, well,

0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:44.200
<v Speaker 1>if your girl, if your girlfriend, UM, don't fight with you.

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:46.440
<v Speaker 1>That means you fight with somebody else, you know, so

0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you need you need to leave her alone, you know

0:37:49.360 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. She loves somebody else. So I think

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:55.439
<v Speaker 1>you have to disagree. You have to um have those things,

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>but you have to talk about it. And when whenever

0:37:58.719 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you have a disagreement, and then was the way that

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:02.799
<v Speaker 1>you vote, don't like and you feel so bad about it?

0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 1>And he was yelling at each other whatever you was doing,

0:38:05.560 --> 0:38:08.879
<v Speaker 1>that's okay, that's a lesson. That's a lesson. You said,

0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I feel like this. I felt when

0:38:12.520 --> 0:38:14.399
<v Speaker 1>you said this, and then he or she say whatever

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:16.319
<v Speaker 1>they say in return. Then you said, you know what,

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:19.280
<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna fight. We're not gonna argue like that again.

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:21.840
<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna do this again. And I think for

0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:25.279
<v Speaker 1>me and her, like we chilled, you know, like her,

0:38:25.400 --> 0:38:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I never her never, you know, gets raised his voice

0:38:29.520 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 1>to get too crazy, you know, a few situations, and

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:35.720
<v Speaker 1>I did a little bit coming from my background, would

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>get a little rotting. And I think her helped call

0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:39.760
<v Speaker 1>me down my first couple of years on the team

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 1>with that um and I think it was just a

0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 1>match made heaven with us. I think it was. And

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:46.880
<v Speaker 1>we him talk. We also talked before the race. Even

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 1>though we never had a drag out for us out

0:38:49.480 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 1>fight argument, we still say, listen, if this happened, that

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:55.240
<v Speaker 1>is how we're gonna handle it. And I think that's important.

0:38:55.280 --> 0:38:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Even though we have never had an issue, we still

0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>communicate about it. And now it happens, you know, okay,

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:03.920
<v Speaker 1>we agreed to not do it this way, and I

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.719
<v Speaker 1>think you do it in your house, you know, trying

0:39:06.760 --> 0:39:09.640
<v Speaker 1>to have a blueprint of Okay, when things get tricky

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>or this gets hard and we're in the heat at

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 1>the moment, we're going to handle it like this. So

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:16.280
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go and go with this mindset that's smart

0:39:16.400 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 1>to prepare. Yeah, I mean, I love that that they

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 1>said we we learned how to disagree, because I mean,

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:26.000
<v Speaker 1>what's what what's happening in the world. We we all

0:39:26.040 --> 0:39:28.680
<v Speaker 1>have to learn to to disagree. Everything doesn't have to

0:39:28.719 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>go the way that we wanted to go. And that's

0:39:31.040 --> 0:39:33.280
<v Speaker 1>when I mean, I talked about that in my book.

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.360
<v Speaker 1>When people when you're not doing what people think that

0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:37.759
<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to be doing, you're an a hole. But

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're doing exactly what they want you to doing, Oh,

0:39:40.640 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 1>you're the best you know, supposed to be doing they

0:39:42.360 --> 0:39:44.120
<v Speaker 1>think you're supposed to be doing. You're the best person

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:47.279
<v Speaker 1>in the world. But everything doesn't have to go our way.

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 1>We have to be able to see things from other

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:52.080
<v Speaker 1>people's perspectives. And when you're able to actually see things

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:54.440
<v Speaker 1>from other people's perspectives, it gives you in a different

0:39:54.520 --> 0:39:58.239
<v Speaker 1>view and a different outlook on things, like different experiences

0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:01.160
<v Speaker 1>from the way people were raised. Like you know Nate's background,

0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:03.880
<v Speaker 1>my background, they were similar, but they were different. You know,

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:05.759
<v Speaker 1>Nate came from the projects. He had his mom and

0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:09.480
<v Speaker 1>his dad. I came up into projects. I had my mom.

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:12.239
<v Speaker 1>My dad was in Texas, but we still had some

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:14.560
<v Speaker 1>of the similar experiences. My dad was still there. It's just,

0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, so many things in life that we have

0:40:17.560 --> 0:40:20.239
<v Speaker 1>to learn to realize that we have to take other

0:40:20.280 --> 0:40:23.960
<v Speaker 1>people's perspectives and things, and things aren't always as comfortable

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:26.080
<v Speaker 1>as they may seem to us or as uncomfortable. And

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I think those are some experiences that we got from

0:40:28.600 --> 0:40:31.399
<v Speaker 1>the amazing race, as well as traveling around the world,

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:34.400
<v Speaker 1>being able to see different perspectives, being able to see India,

0:40:34.760 --> 0:40:37.400
<v Speaker 1>being able to see Sri Lanka. You know, I remember

0:40:37.480 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 1>Nate's first year traveling to India and him saying as

0:40:41.160 --> 0:40:43.040
<v Speaker 1>we're looking out, as we're looking out the window on

0:40:43.080 --> 0:40:46.280
<v Speaker 1>the bus in India, he's just come from Hurricane Katrina

0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:48.840
<v Speaker 1>and saying, man, I just came from Hurricane Katrina. And

0:40:48.840 --> 0:40:51.960
<v Speaker 1>it's like this every day, like I'll never forget that.

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:54.080
<v Speaker 1>That's one of the moments in my life. On the

0:40:54.120 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 1>bus in India that I will never forget that he

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:59.440
<v Speaker 1>could be that humble right after that experience and realized

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.600
<v Speaker 1>how fortunately he was at the and you knowing at

0:41:02.640 --> 0:41:05.040
<v Speaker 1>that time being one of the most unfortunate people in

0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:08.920
<v Speaker 1>America having to escape from American katrain them. That is

0:41:08.960 --> 0:41:12.480
<v Speaker 1>so true And Okay, that kind of leads me to

0:41:12.520 --> 0:41:16.759
<v Speaker 1>another question, why gratitude? Even in the worst situation, you're

0:41:16.800 --> 0:41:18.840
<v Speaker 1>finding gratitude, And I feel like that is such a

0:41:18.920 --> 0:41:22.719
<v Speaker 1>secret to happiness and everyone who's truly living a happy,

0:41:22.960 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 1>fulfilled life I feel like has immense gratitude and enjoy

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>and their gratitude basically it sees is able to see

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:35.360
<v Speaker 1>the good out of the bad situation. But sometimes situations

0:41:35.360 --> 0:41:38.040
<v Speaker 1>are just bad and you're just in the middle of

0:41:38.040 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>it being bad. But how do you get to where

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:45.719
<v Speaker 1>you can see their gratitude? Because right now you're saying

0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:48.400
<v Speaker 1>this to her, there is so much conflict in the

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 1>world right now, there's so much separation intention and I

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 1>for me, it really weighs on my heart because I

0:41:56.960 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>just don't I want everyone to be able to come

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 1>unicate sort of like we're talking about, and like, why

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 1>can't we all just talk? Why can't we all just

0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:07.520
<v Speaker 1>see what what needs to happen for the good of

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the whole and work together and like, but there's so

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:12.680
<v Speaker 1>many other things at play, and there's just it's just

0:42:12.719 --> 0:42:15.600
<v Speaker 1>such a big, messy world we live in. Why does

0:42:15.640 --> 0:42:18.480
<v Speaker 1>it have to be bad? Like? Why do we have

0:42:18.560 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 1>to go through these bad suffering periods? I feel like

0:42:22.160 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>it's just a common theme in life, Like there's just suffering.

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:28.759
<v Speaker 1>But then, like you're saying, you can see the gratitude

0:42:28.800 --> 0:42:30.360
<v Speaker 1>in your life, like, wow, I went through her a

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:33.560
<v Speaker 1>go Kntrina, But here's this situation that feels like even

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:36.520
<v Speaker 1>maybe worse, Like why does all this exist? I know

0:42:36.640 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>that's a really broad question, but like I just can't

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 1>grab my head around it sometimes why we live in

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 1>this world of so much pain and suffering? But then

0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.120
<v Speaker 1>it feels like it's a part of it too. Did

0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 1>that make any sense? I just totally rambled on the circle.

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:52.839
<v Speaker 1>Now I think it did. I think what what you're

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 1>saying is and how I look at it is, Um,

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:58.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, you gotta crawl before you walk. You know,

0:42:58.440 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>you you gotta in order to and the best thing

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>about winning anything is the journey. You know. I know

0:43:05.120 --> 0:43:10.799
<v Speaker 1>that sounds cliche, but yes, you know I yes, my

0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:14.399
<v Speaker 1>dad got hurt. Um, but you know I was. Now

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I know how to take care of my family for

0:43:15.880 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 1>the rest of my life because of those two years

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:20.879
<v Speaker 1>taking the responsibility to go and wash dishes and acting

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:25.200
<v Speaker 1>and watch your house. Yes, Hurricane Katrina hit, Um, I

0:43:25.280 --> 0:43:29.200
<v Speaker 1>lost everything. Um, but because of Herricane Katrina, the Globe

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Trials was doing at Churnity event in Houston for the

0:43:32.280 --> 0:43:35.200
<v Speaker 1>victors of Hurricane Katrina. I was in Houston. I got

0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 1>to try with the team. If I wasn't in, I

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:40.000
<v Speaker 1>would never try out with the Glow Triers. If I

0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:43.440
<v Speaker 1>it's Katrina didn't happen, So boom, that's a positive from that.

0:43:43.560 --> 0:43:46.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, you know, so many things happened, like yes,

0:43:46.840 --> 0:43:50.880
<v Speaker 1>this bad thing happened, but you gotta find out the

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:53.960
<v Speaker 1>good thing. Yes to the pandemic. I can't travel for

0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 1>six months. Um, and it's and people are dying and

0:43:57.239 --> 0:44:02.400
<v Speaker 1>all those bad things, which sucks so bad. Um, I'm home.

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I've never been home in twenty years. This is the

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:08.320
<v Speaker 1>first time I've been home for six months in twenty years.

0:44:08.480 --> 0:44:12.000
<v Speaker 1>You know. If Glove Trials in college, so it's like, oh,

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:14.799
<v Speaker 1>like I get to read my my son's a bad

0:44:14.840 --> 0:44:17.479
<v Speaker 1>time story. Every night I get to go have lunch

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>with my wife. Um, I get to you know, go

0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and play some golf. You know, like you guys that

0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 1>you have to look at the good and everything because

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:30.400
<v Speaker 1>if not, like like Herb said, like like mentally, you know,

0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you you you're gonna you're gonna be dowmbining yourself. It's

0:44:33.600 --> 0:44:36.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be tough. So you have to try to think

0:44:37.040 --> 0:44:39.879
<v Speaker 1>like no matter what, something's good is gonna happen out

0:44:39.960 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 1>or something bad, Like every in my life has been

0:44:43.200 --> 0:44:47.680
<v Speaker 1>bad good well quote not bad, but unfortunate, something come

0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:50.919
<v Speaker 1>out of it. It gives you the lessons you need

0:44:51.800 --> 0:44:54.839
<v Speaker 1>to appreciate everything you have and everything you went through

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:57.839
<v Speaker 1>to get those things. Like you know, I wouldn't appreciate

0:44:58.000 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 1>where I live and all the stuff that I have

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 1>if I didn't grow up how I grew up. You know,

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.680
<v Speaker 1>if if I grew up you know a different way

0:45:05.680 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 1>for me personally then you know, having uh you know,

0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:11.080
<v Speaker 1>like I was just the other day, I was sitting

0:45:11.120 --> 0:45:14.120
<v Speaker 1>down and I was sitting with my sons in their playroom.

0:45:14.280 --> 0:45:17.440
<v Speaker 1>You know, um, their playroom. It's the size of the

0:45:18.000 --> 0:45:20.160
<v Speaker 1>apartment I grew up in. You know, and I was

0:45:20.200 --> 0:45:23.320
<v Speaker 1>just sitting there by myself, messing with um P J

0:45:23.520 --> 0:45:25.719
<v Speaker 1>mask or something. You know, I was cleaning up and

0:45:25.760 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 1>I was like, wow, like they have a playroom, Like

0:45:29.160 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's awesome. You know. But if I wouldn't have

0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:36.160
<v Speaker 1>went through what I went through, I wouldn't even appreciate that.

0:45:36.400 --> 0:45:38.600
<v Speaker 1>If I grew up with a playroom, I wouldn't appreciate

0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:42.040
<v Speaker 1>that playroom. And you know, if I if I wouldn't

0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:44.359
<v Speaker 1>have been through through this, if I wouldn't have been

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:47.120
<v Speaker 1>through Katrina, I wouldn't mentally, I wouldn't be prepared for

0:45:47.160 --> 0:45:51.239
<v Speaker 1>the pandemic. I understand, like I lost everything, so if

0:45:51.280 --> 0:45:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I lose everything again, like it's okay, I know that's

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:57.840
<v Speaker 1>this material stuff. My family's here, you know, everybody's healthy,

0:45:57.920 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 1>like and and I think it goes back to that,

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 1>like everything is, yes, this bad stuff happening, you have

0:46:03.760 --> 0:46:07.520
<v Speaker 1>to figure out and understand and taking the bad stuff,

0:46:07.719 --> 0:46:10.080
<v Speaker 1>don't overlook it, don't act like it's not happening. That's

0:46:10.080 --> 0:46:12.360
<v Speaker 1>the part of dealing talk about it. I think the

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:14.959
<v Speaker 1>most important thing with me is being able to talk

0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 1>to someone about those things. Even when I said that

0:46:17.760 --> 0:46:20.960
<v Speaker 1>on the bus about Um, Katrina and being in India,

0:46:21.360 --> 0:46:24.920
<v Speaker 1>that was me getting that out talking to her about it.

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:28.400
<v Speaker 1>You know, like if something going on, but you you

0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:30.920
<v Speaker 1>have to go speak to someone and and and talking

0:46:30.960 --> 0:46:35.799
<v Speaker 1>to expert, going to a psychologist, psychiatrist. That's important when

0:46:35.800 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you're filling down when those bad things are happening. Like like

0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:41.439
<v Speaker 1>like you said, it's just bad, it's just bad. It's

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:44.520
<v Speaker 1>just bad. But it's been bad. It's been bad for

0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:47.799
<v Speaker 1>somebody forty years ago, four hundred years ago. It's been

0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 1>worse for other people. You know, it's it's going to

0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:53.440
<v Speaker 1>be bad. But what can we do to you know,

0:46:54.000 --> 0:46:56.239
<v Speaker 1>come out like this The other day, UM, one of

0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:58.640
<v Speaker 1>one of my person I met at a globe try

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to game and Denver. He's from New Orleans. UM, his son,

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:06.480
<v Speaker 1>his son has um diagnosed with autism. His oldest son,

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:09.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, five years old, six eleve years old. Now,

0:47:10.200 --> 0:47:11.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, we used to be the center of attention,

0:47:11.960 --> 0:47:15.320
<v Speaker 1>but now they had to dedicate so much to the kids,

0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:17.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, who had special needs. And I went over

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 1>there and you know, they and I just you know,

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I spent this some tricks and everything socially. This is

0:47:23.719 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 1>of course, and the mother she cried well when I

0:47:28.160 --> 0:47:31.080
<v Speaker 1>was leaving, because she was happy that we was able

0:47:31.080 --> 0:47:33.359
<v Speaker 1>to do that for her son. And so even though

0:47:33.400 --> 0:47:35.359
<v Speaker 1>all this bad stuff is going on, even though they're

0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:38.760
<v Speaker 1>dealing with all these things with their other son, she's

0:47:38.800 --> 0:47:43.399
<v Speaker 1>able to have a moment of yes, like, my son

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:47.160
<v Speaker 1>is happy, he's he's rich, he's wealthy in this moment.

0:47:47.200 --> 0:47:50.480
<v Speaker 1>And where now like Nate came over, did this with him,

0:47:50.560 --> 0:47:53.640
<v Speaker 1>and that's what that makes me happy. I can't travel,

0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't go and put on these shows, but I

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:58.400
<v Speaker 1>just did this one thing with this kid right now

0:47:58.440 --> 0:48:01.560
<v Speaker 1>in his backyard, and I see the reaction has had

0:48:01.600 --> 0:48:04.520
<v Speaker 1>to his mother, Like Okay, everything's gonna be all right.

0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Everything's gonna be all right. Every little small thing is

0:48:07.920 --> 0:48:10.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna equal to a big thing of everything's going to

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:11.879
<v Speaker 1>be all right. And you have to think that way.

0:48:11.920 --> 0:48:15.080
<v Speaker 1>If not, you're gonna stay still, you're going to be miserable.

0:48:15.600 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 1>That's so true. You have to think that way. You're

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:23.439
<v Speaker 1>gonna stay still and be miserable. And I love that

0:48:23.520 --> 0:48:27.440
<v Speaker 1>and I love hearing that perspective, and I think it's

0:48:27.480 --> 0:48:31.799
<v Speaker 1>so important. What are some tips that you guys do

0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:34.080
<v Speaker 1>to pull yourself out of funks? Like when you're starting

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:36.239
<v Speaker 1>to feel overwhelmed and like the world feels like it's

0:48:36.239 --> 0:48:37.960
<v Speaker 1>going to hell in a handbag and there's all this

0:48:38.520 --> 0:48:42.240
<v Speaker 1>shit happening. I love what you said that you you

0:48:42.239 --> 0:48:44.440
<v Speaker 1>you go back into your mind what you've overcome and

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 1>how it went from overcoming to a blessing, overcoming to

0:48:48.000 --> 0:48:49.960
<v Speaker 1>a blessing. But it's all about the mindset, and it's

0:48:49.960 --> 0:48:53.920
<v Speaker 1>all about the way you move through those situations. What

0:48:54.000 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 1>are some tricks and tips that you do when you

0:48:57.520 --> 0:49:01.759
<v Speaker 1>are in the middle of the overcoming, when it's not good,

0:49:01.800 --> 0:49:04.600
<v Speaker 1>when things are bad, when it feels like it's falling apart,

0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:06.799
<v Speaker 1>what do you do in your mind? Like, how do

0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:10.240
<v Speaker 1>you get right in your mind? Well for me, for me, Caroline,

0:49:10.239 --> 0:49:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I'll jump in on this. One of the things that

0:49:11.800 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I do is, and it may seem a little bit weird.

0:49:14.120 --> 0:49:16.319
<v Speaker 1>I reflect back to when I was a kid, you know,

0:49:16.360 --> 0:49:18.040
<v Speaker 1>when I'm like five six years old and there was

0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:20.480
<v Speaker 1>not really anything that I had to worry about. I

0:49:20.520 --> 0:49:23.239
<v Speaker 1>go back to that uh, creative space of mind where

0:49:23.280 --> 0:49:26.279
<v Speaker 1>I used to dream, you know, and envision what the

0:49:26.280 --> 0:49:28.120
<v Speaker 1>world would look like when I am, you know, at

0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:30.719
<v Speaker 1>this point of my life. And if you know, they

0:49:30.760 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 1>talked about the pandemic. Through the pandemic, one of the things,

0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:35.200
<v Speaker 1>a few of the things I started to do is meditate.

0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I meditate every day now at least fifteen to thirty minutes.

0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I walk, you know, when I'm not when i'm I

0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 1>walk every day. But that gives me time to clear

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.839
<v Speaker 1>my head and I turn off the TV. I give

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:49.360
<v Speaker 1>myself again five minutes of what's happening in the world,

0:49:49.360 --> 0:49:51.240
<v Speaker 1>and then I cut it off and I start solving

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:54.200
<v Speaker 1>for the things that I can solve for right there, immediate,

0:49:54.360 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, within my grass. So I mean, for me,

0:49:56.760 --> 0:49:58.359
<v Speaker 1>those are some of the tricks. We have to be

0:49:58.360 --> 0:50:00.920
<v Speaker 1>able to go back and reflect and clear head and

0:50:01.000 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>remember when we didn't have so much to worry about.

0:50:03.480 --> 0:50:05.160
<v Speaker 1>And we also have to remember the feeling that we

0:50:05.200 --> 0:50:07.320
<v Speaker 1>have when we're not worried, and we have to realize

0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:09.840
<v Speaker 1>that that feeling that we're having of anxiety, it's going

0:50:09.880 --> 0:50:12.200
<v Speaker 1>to go away, you know, it's going to go away.

0:50:12.280 --> 0:50:14.640
<v Speaker 1>For as painful as it may be in that moment,

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:16.680
<v Speaker 1>it's eventually going to go away. So you have to

0:50:16.760 --> 0:50:19.920
<v Speaker 1>change that that mindset, you know, in your mind as well.

0:50:20.280 --> 0:50:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Those are a couple of tricks that I use meditation, reading, walking, exercising. Yes, yes,

0:50:29.080 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>and I and I and I talked to people who

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:32.520
<v Speaker 1>make me laugh. I watch comedy. You know. I have

0:50:32.600 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>a hunt in Arkansas. I try to contact her every

0:50:35.280 --> 0:50:37.319
<v Speaker 1>day because I know that she's gonna bring me joy

0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:39.600
<v Speaker 1>in some kind of you know, a way when I'm down.

0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:41.479
<v Speaker 1>So reach out to the people who bring you joy,

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:44.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, help the people who are you know, down,

0:50:44.360 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, try to be around people

0:50:46.280 --> 0:50:48.360
<v Speaker 1>who are like minded like you and searching for the

0:50:48.400 --> 0:50:51.399
<v Speaker 1>same joy. And happens that you're that you're searching for

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:56.600
<v Speaker 1>love that do you have any tricks? Oh? Um? I

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 1>think the similar you know, I think, um this whenever

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:04.480
<v Speaker 1>something happened that's bad, something going on and you down, Um,

0:51:04.600 --> 0:51:06.520
<v Speaker 1>and it might be tough. Just remember when you got

0:51:06.520 --> 0:51:08.480
<v Speaker 1>through something else. You know that that's the main thing,

0:51:08.520 --> 0:51:11.239
<v Speaker 1>Like if you know, okay, like you know, he's not

0:51:11.239 --> 0:51:13.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna give you more than you can handle. So if

0:51:13.640 --> 0:51:16.279
<v Speaker 1>you've been through this, you've been through that, you went

0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:18.800
<v Speaker 1>through this stage to get to here, like not nothing

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:21.360
<v Speaker 1>is a pathway, no what, no matter if it's you know,

0:51:21.480 --> 0:51:24.680
<v Speaker 1>relationship was deathinitely your family and financial stuff. You know,

0:51:24.760 --> 0:51:28.279
<v Speaker 1>everybody's been through something, no one has. Nobody has been

0:51:28.280 --> 0:51:31.759
<v Speaker 1>perfect throughout So just go and dig into that and

0:51:31.920 --> 0:51:34.680
<v Speaker 1>and talk to your friends, talk to your family, give

0:51:34.719 --> 0:51:36.400
<v Speaker 1>yourself a break. And what we like to do with

0:51:36.560 --> 0:51:38.440
<v Speaker 1>my family and my wife, we like to go go

0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:40.520
<v Speaker 1>heights and I live in Colorado, so you know, we

0:51:40.600 --> 0:51:42.279
<v Speaker 1>go up to Boulder. You know, we were walking the

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:44.839
<v Speaker 1>mountains with the kids, and you just break away from

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 1>from the technology and everything. You're just being yourself. And

0:51:48.160 --> 0:51:50.319
<v Speaker 1>and for me, I like to, you know, sit and

0:51:50.320 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 1>just talk to my wife and just say, hey, like

0:51:53.360 --> 0:51:55.880
<v Speaker 1>this is going on, what you think about this? You know,

0:51:55.880 --> 0:51:57.879
<v Speaker 1>how can you help me? Even though she's a child

0:51:57.960 --> 0:52:00.520
<v Speaker 1>psychologist and she might think I'm a child so time too,

0:52:00.560 --> 0:52:02.400
<v Speaker 1>so it's maybe be easy, might be easy for her

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:14.120
<v Speaker 1>to diagnose me too. So so I just lean on

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:16.399
<v Speaker 1>I lean on her and and and just and just

0:52:16.400 --> 0:52:19.160
<v Speaker 1>just and just trying to just be appreciative stuff. When

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:21.080
<v Speaker 1>things are going good, Like he said, when things are

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:24.400
<v Speaker 1>going good, you gotta be thankful, You gotta be appreciative.

0:52:24.800 --> 0:52:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Find out how you can help somebody else in that moment,

0:52:27.480 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, and when things are going bad, you know,

0:52:29.760 --> 0:52:32.200
<v Speaker 1>think back to when they're doing good and and and

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:35.640
<v Speaker 1>just realize that it's gonna come full circles ups and downs.

0:52:35.680 --> 0:52:37.600
<v Speaker 1>You might be you know, might be at a downslope

0:52:37.640 --> 0:52:40.120
<v Speaker 1>at that moment, but you know you're gonna go up.

0:52:40.320 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 1>You know you're gonna go up. So just always know

0:52:43.040 --> 0:52:46.640
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna bounce back, and just just realize what's important

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:49.000
<v Speaker 1>to you, you know, like sometimes you can be down

0:52:49.120 --> 0:52:52.680
<v Speaker 1>by something that that's not really that that important in

0:52:52.960 --> 0:52:55.680
<v Speaker 1>the big picture, you know, and always put in perspective

0:52:56.040 --> 0:52:58.040
<v Speaker 1>what makes you happy, Like I know right now, what

0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:00.920
<v Speaker 1>makes me happy is being a around my kids, you know,

0:53:01.000 --> 0:53:03.200
<v Speaker 1>talking to my daughters on the phone, you know, like

0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:05.800
<v Speaker 1>hanging out. Like yesterday we just sat on the sofa

0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:08.879
<v Speaker 1>all day and did nothing. That was the best thing

0:53:08.920 --> 0:53:10.600
<v Speaker 1>in the world. Like always trying to go and do

0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:13.000
<v Speaker 1>something and have something planning. Sometimes you need to sit

0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:16.080
<v Speaker 1>down and just like her say, take a break, meditated

0:53:16.480 --> 0:53:19.279
<v Speaker 1>and rebook, you know, and you know, because you got it.

0:53:19.400 --> 0:53:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Like so many people lean on us, and I know

0:53:21.840 --> 0:53:23.400
<v Speaker 1>so many people lean on her, but I know from

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:26.000
<v Speaker 1>the years of being with her and as a friend,

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:28.960
<v Speaker 1>and so many former teammates lean on him for advice

0:53:29.040 --> 0:53:31.080
<v Speaker 1>and things that he do, but he has to make

0:53:31.120 --> 0:53:33.160
<v Speaker 1>sure that he's healthy. He got to make sure that

0:53:33.520 --> 0:53:36.040
<v Speaker 1>you know he's doing like like with the pandemic. My

0:53:36.040 --> 0:53:38.319
<v Speaker 1>my wife said, like who's gonna be the therapy for

0:53:38.360 --> 0:53:41.480
<v Speaker 1>the therapist? You know, like you know who's like the

0:53:41.480 --> 0:53:44.080
<v Speaker 1>therapist helping everybody right now, But who's gonna who's gonna

0:53:44.080 --> 0:53:46.080
<v Speaker 1>help them? So that's what you gotta look at. You

0:53:46.120 --> 0:53:48.880
<v Speaker 1>gotta make sure you're taking care of yourself just to

0:53:48.960 --> 0:53:51.719
<v Speaker 1>be unselfish and health care and help everyone, you know.

0:53:51.800 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 1>So and how do you being influential people like you?

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Both are y'all both are so um. So many people

0:54:03.360 --> 0:54:05.480
<v Speaker 1>lean on you, guys, so many people look to you

0:54:05.560 --> 0:54:08.840
<v Speaker 1>for their joy, for their guidance. How do you not

0:54:09.000 --> 0:54:10.680
<v Speaker 1>take on the weight of the world. How do you

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:16.719
<v Speaker 1>not take on every every every story and every heartbreak

0:54:16.800 --> 0:54:18.960
<v Speaker 1>that you hear? And how do how do you not

0:54:19.120 --> 0:54:20.839
<v Speaker 1>take it on in a negative way? How do you

0:54:21.040 --> 0:54:24.480
<v Speaker 1>hear all these things? See all these things um exists

0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:26.720
<v Speaker 1>with all these different people who are going through different

0:54:26.719 --> 0:54:28.880
<v Speaker 1>stuff and not carry that burden, Like how do you

0:54:28.920 --> 0:54:32.839
<v Speaker 1>make it a positive? Or I don't think that it's

0:54:32.880 --> 0:54:35.560
<v Speaker 1>not that you that you carry their burden? I mean,

0:54:35.600 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 1>it's there's so much going on. And also again I

0:54:38.680 --> 0:54:41.080
<v Speaker 1>think it goes back to what can you solve within

0:54:41.719 --> 0:54:44.239
<v Speaker 1>right there within your grasp, you know, it's you take

0:54:44.280 --> 0:54:46.640
<v Speaker 1>a minute, you reflect on things, but you figure out

0:54:46.640 --> 0:54:49.800
<v Speaker 1>a way that you know, whatever you're sad about doesn't

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:52.400
<v Speaker 1>happen to the people that you're close to, you know,

0:54:52.840 --> 0:54:54.799
<v Speaker 1>and if you're taking care of them, then they're taking

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:56.840
<v Speaker 1>care of their people. Again, it just branches out. But

0:54:56.880 --> 0:54:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's difficult. I don't think any of

0:54:59.520 --> 0:55:02.160
<v Speaker 1>us or what's going on in the world, we have

0:55:02.239 --> 0:55:05.239
<v Speaker 1>to put things in perspective, you know, because again, once

0:55:05.320 --> 0:55:09.840
<v Speaker 1>you get captured into certain images or faces or parties

0:55:09.880 --> 0:55:12.000
<v Speaker 1>that you see on television, these are things that can

0:55:12.000 --> 0:55:14.680
<v Speaker 1>trigger things within your body that you didn't even know

0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:16.640
<v Speaker 1>that could trigger you, you know, and why are you

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:19.480
<v Speaker 1>letting these things come into your home affect a relationship

0:55:19.520 --> 0:55:22.160
<v Speaker 1>with the people that you can actually solve for. So

0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:24.839
<v Speaker 1>so again, it just all reflects back to, you know,

0:55:24.960 --> 0:55:26.839
<v Speaker 1>taking care of what you can take care of at home,

0:55:27.160 --> 0:55:29.080
<v Speaker 1>and then you know, in the community, and then branching

0:55:29.080 --> 0:55:30.960
<v Speaker 1>out from there, because if you start at home again,

0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:40.959
<v Speaker 1>like Nate says, hey, it expands to where you can't help. Yeah, yeah,

0:55:41.320 --> 0:55:43.839
<v Speaker 1>I think like you said, when the burden of other

0:55:43.840 --> 0:55:45.719
<v Speaker 1>people the question you asked like how you how you

0:55:45.880 --> 0:55:50.080
<v Speaker 1>handle it? Um? I think you you When they when

0:55:50.120 --> 0:55:52.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody coming to speak to you and talk to you

0:55:52.680 --> 0:55:55.239
<v Speaker 1>about an issue that they're having, you might be the

0:55:55.280 --> 0:55:57.920
<v Speaker 1>first person that they ever had spoken a word about

0:55:57.920 --> 0:56:00.600
<v Speaker 1>what is going on to them. So in like you have,

0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:04.640
<v Speaker 1>you're helping them right there. Sometimes you know, you you

0:56:04.760 --> 0:56:07.319
<v Speaker 1>got something big enough on your shoulders to where you

0:56:07.360 --> 0:56:09.440
<v Speaker 1>can take that. You can take that, You can take that,

0:56:09.520 --> 0:56:12.440
<v Speaker 1>you can take that and you carry that because you

0:56:12.480 --> 0:56:15.000
<v Speaker 1>know it's gonna help that person and the moment in

0:56:15.000 --> 0:56:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the spot that they're in. In that moment, it's not

0:56:17.680 --> 0:56:19.520
<v Speaker 1>the same spot you in. So you can take on

0:56:19.560 --> 0:56:22.319
<v Speaker 1>that burden and talk to them and talk them through

0:56:22.320 --> 0:56:26.080
<v Speaker 1>that and carry that on. And now whenever you talk

0:56:26.120 --> 0:56:28.640
<v Speaker 1>to them about you helped him with, you use that

0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:31.240
<v Speaker 1>for the next situation, the bigger burden, you know, and

0:56:31.320 --> 0:56:33.959
<v Speaker 1>you can pull back on that situation that that person

0:56:34.080 --> 0:56:36.560
<v Speaker 1>been through and say, you know what, I had this

0:56:36.640 --> 0:56:39.000
<v Speaker 1>friend who did this, this, that, and this is how

0:56:39.040 --> 0:56:42.560
<v Speaker 1>they survived that situation and oh, you know, or you

0:56:42.600 --> 0:56:45.040
<v Speaker 1>direct them to the proper channels, you know, like and

0:56:45.280 --> 0:56:47.440
<v Speaker 1>and you you let them know like, hey, like I'm

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:50.279
<v Speaker 1>not this and that I don't know everything. Maybe you

0:56:50.280 --> 0:56:53.480
<v Speaker 1>should call this person to get this help. I don't

0:56:53.480 --> 0:56:56.359
<v Speaker 1>think it's a burden when you when you take all

0:56:56.400 --> 0:56:59.120
<v Speaker 1>other people's stuff. I do think you have to be

0:56:59.280 --> 0:57:01.720
<v Speaker 1>ready and there, and then you have to be healthy

0:57:01.760 --> 0:57:04.799
<v Speaker 1>yourself mentally healthy yourself. Like I said, make sure you

0:57:04.800 --> 0:57:06.839
<v Speaker 1>know you don't take it. You know it don't become

0:57:06.880 --> 0:57:09.400
<v Speaker 1>a bad thing. Make sure everything you do take on

0:57:09.920 --> 0:57:13.120
<v Speaker 1>is something you can handle. And you have somebody to

0:57:13.200 --> 0:57:15.640
<v Speaker 1>go put your stuff on too, you know, because you

0:57:15.680 --> 0:57:18.320
<v Speaker 1>can't just keep all your stuff inside when people are

0:57:18.360 --> 0:57:21.000
<v Speaker 1>unloading on you. And I think it's a blessing to

0:57:21.200 --> 0:57:24.520
<v Speaker 1>it's a blessing to be seen as the person who

0:57:24.760 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 1>you can under that people can unload on and they

0:57:28.120 --> 0:57:32.040
<v Speaker 1>trust you and and and they feel like you're positive

0:57:32.120 --> 0:57:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and and you're gonna help them. I think that's a

0:57:35.000 --> 0:57:38.160
<v Speaker 1>that's a honor, you know, I think that's an honor.

0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.720
<v Speaker 1>You take that as an honor, Like this person is hurt,

0:57:41.040 --> 0:57:43.680
<v Speaker 1>they wanna I need to call Caroline to talk about this, Like,

0:57:43.960 --> 0:57:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't take that as like oh man, here we

0:57:46.160 --> 0:57:48.440
<v Speaker 1>go again. I gotta listen to this. You take this

0:57:48.520 --> 0:57:51.040
<v Speaker 1>as you know what they believe in me. They trust

0:57:51.080 --> 0:57:53.280
<v Speaker 1>me that you know, one of your friends might call

0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you and study their husband or their wife to help

0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:58.919
<v Speaker 1>you help them. Like that's good. That means like, hey,

0:57:59.040 --> 0:58:01.920
<v Speaker 1>like my parents, ready is the person to that people

0:58:02.040 --> 0:58:06.200
<v Speaker 1>that trusted deepest darkens secrets with me and they want

0:58:06.200 --> 0:58:08.960
<v Speaker 1>me to help them go to the light. Like that's

0:58:08.960 --> 0:58:11.600
<v Speaker 1>not a bird, that's a blessing, you know. I think

0:58:11.640 --> 0:58:13.880
<v Speaker 1>that's how you look at it. That's so true. And

0:58:13.920 --> 0:58:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I think the key thing that you said for me

0:58:16.560 --> 0:58:20.000
<v Speaker 1>is that I really registered with is that you have

0:58:20.080 --> 0:58:22.280
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you take care of yourself so

0:58:22.360 --> 0:58:25.800
<v Speaker 1>that you can be that person for someone else. Like

0:58:25.960 --> 0:58:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't just take everybody's stuff in and then just

0:58:28.880 --> 0:58:31.200
<v Speaker 1>let it consume me and live with it. I have

0:58:31.320 --> 0:58:35.160
<v Speaker 1>to figure out how to hear it, be their support people,

0:58:35.520 --> 0:58:37.840
<v Speaker 1>support people, but then also let it go in a

0:58:37.840 --> 0:58:39.960
<v Speaker 1>way where it doesn't consume me and make me not

0:58:40.120 --> 0:58:45.040
<v Speaker 1>effective to be a helpful person. Mhm. So that's that's

0:58:45.040 --> 0:58:48.720
<v Speaker 1>a good piece of advice that I am gonna really internalized.

0:58:50.920 --> 0:58:55.280
<v Speaker 1>Amy is doing a good job with you Nate, But

0:58:55.400 --> 0:59:05.800
<v Speaker 1>what does it like being married? Psychologist? Right now? Bring

0:59:05.920 --> 0:59:10.360
<v Speaker 1>out Today's only a day. She's at the taking care

0:59:10.360 --> 0:59:13.480
<v Speaker 1>of herself. You know, she's going what she's practicing, what

0:59:13.600 --> 0:59:20.479
<v Speaker 1>she preaches. She she got just said he something. It's good.

0:59:20.600 --> 0:59:24.960
<v Speaker 1>It's good. You guys both are very enlightened. Y'all are

0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:31.360
<v Speaker 1>very wise, very um It's just a mix of probably

0:59:31.520 --> 0:59:34.840
<v Speaker 1>your entire lives. You have seen so much and you

0:59:34.920 --> 0:59:37.880
<v Speaker 1>have done so much, and on top of like just

0:59:38.000 --> 0:59:41.720
<v Speaker 1>your life experiences, the mental work that you both have done.

0:59:41.800 --> 0:59:48.840
<v Speaker 1>You all are both so aware of cycles and mentality

0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:55.920
<v Speaker 1>and mindset. It's really really a blessing for me to

0:59:56.000 --> 0:59:57.880
<v Speaker 1>get to talk to you all. I mean, obviously I've

0:59:57.920 --> 1:00:00.520
<v Speaker 1>loved you guys since the Amazing Race and I it

1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:03.720
<v Speaker 1>will be fans in a doory offer life. But to

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<v Speaker 1>be friends with you guys on this level and to

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<v Speaker 1>hear how your mind works and how you guys maneuver

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<v Speaker 1>this world and all the different situations that you both

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<v Speaker 1>have been in, it's really inspiring. And I just I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like y'all are such a blessing to this world

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<v Speaker 1>and I am so appreciate. I'm so lucky to know y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just find I find it so um amazing

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys are using your lives and shining in

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you are truly helping so many people

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<v Speaker 1>just by being the lights that you are. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>really awesome. Thank you. Appreciate you know, we we don't

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<v Speaker 1>get to speak to you enough. I mean it all

1:00:42.000 --> 1:00:45.480
<v Speaker 1>goes back to self self improvement. I mean we have to, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for myself. Once I retired, I begin to

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<v Speaker 1>read more. You know, I just finished reading Purpose Driven Life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm listening to the Four Agreements. I'm halfway through The Alchemist,

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<v Speaker 1>which I just got the other days. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>given me a different aspect and I just suffer and think. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I had all those times on the bus when I

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<v Speaker 1>really didn't read, and so much time that I wasted,

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess it wasn't wasting. I was taking in

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<v Speaker 1>and gathering things that they as they come. But now

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<v Speaker 1>I get to actually reflect and figure out, you know

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<v Speaker 1>now that I'm actually living because I'm living for others

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<v Speaker 1>and not for myself. I love that. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple more questions and I'll wrap up because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you'll have other things to do when your life

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<v Speaker 1>besides talk to me, although I've loved this conversation so

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<v Speaker 1>much all day, what are What is a moment that

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<v Speaker 1>has marked time in your life where when you think

1:01:31.000 --> 1:01:34.480
<v Speaker 1>about it, it is one of just a perfect moment.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a moment that just was perfect and it

1:01:37.360 --> 1:01:39.920
<v Speaker 1>made you feel everything you wanted to feel. What was

1:01:40.000 --> 1:01:43.680
<v Speaker 1>that moment um? For me, it goes back to I

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe my first ship with the Globe Triers losing Sacramento.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was doing and make a wid the event with

1:01:49.560 --> 1:01:52.600
<v Speaker 1>the Make a Witch Foundation at the Sacramento Kings Arena

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<v Speaker 1>and um a kid. I walked up to him. His

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<v Speaker 1>name was Michael, and me didn't say much, but me

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<v Speaker 1>and him went by on the side by herself and

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<v Speaker 1>we shot hoops. We shot hoops, we shot hoop, we

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<v Speaker 1>shot hoops and at the end he said thank you

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<v Speaker 1>when he walked off. And then next day we was

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<v Speaker 1>flying out and his mother walked up to me in

1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:13.360
<v Speaker 1>the airport and she was like, uh, you know, that's

1:02:13.400 --> 1:02:16.320
<v Speaker 1>my son and you know he been diagnosed with this

1:02:17.080 --> 1:02:19.920
<v Speaker 1>and that was his first time saying a word in

1:02:20.000 --> 1:02:24.160
<v Speaker 1>eight months. He hadn't he was he was for eight months.

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<v Speaker 1>He hadn't say the word. And and it's crazy now

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's like eighteen nineteen. We still keep in touch.

1:02:31.320 --> 1:02:34.680
<v Speaker 1>He built his first computer at fourteen, and and met him.

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<v Speaker 1>We tax, we talked, and that moment right there let

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<v Speaker 1>me know that, Um, it's it's bigger than anything you

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<v Speaker 1>can do accomplished for yourself. Life is about what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do for others. And no matter what I do,

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<v Speaker 1>that matter what I've done, and then and when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm gone, Um, nothing else mattered, not the money,

1:02:56.000 --> 1:02:58.800
<v Speaker 1>not the homes, at the cars, is the what is

1:02:58.800 --> 1:03:01.640
<v Speaker 1>what I've done of people? So when I leave, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want them to say, man, he did this, he

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<v Speaker 1>made this, he did this. I want them to tell

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<v Speaker 1>stories about the time that they spent with me, about

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<v Speaker 1>the time that I changed their life, and that that

1:03:10.760 --> 1:03:15.080
<v Speaker 1>right there with Michael um And and Sacramento is with

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<v Speaker 1>me forever, because that when I realized how special the

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<v Speaker 1>Globe Trials were and how how special you know, I

1:03:22.560 --> 1:03:25.120
<v Speaker 1>am as a person to where all I did was

1:03:25.360 --> 1:03:27.439
<v Speaker 1>got to pick up the ball and shot with this kid.

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<v Speaker 1>And and he you know, he hadn't spoken a word.

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<v Speaker 1>And in eight months and now we text all the time,

1:03:34.960 --> 1:03:37.760
<v Speaker 1>and he's building, and he's working out and all these things,

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<v Speaker 1>and um that that was an awesome moment. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>something that you know, I'll never forget and and and

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<v Speaker 1>try to um recreate um naturally and organically. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>any time I go anywhere and talk to anyone, I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that they can walk away with a good experience,

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<v Speaker 1>bad experience. And I want all this prayers to anybody

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<v Speaker 1>have with me to always be good. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to leave when I leave. That's

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<v Speaker 1>when I leave here. Like no matter what anytime Carolina

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<v Speaker 1>think about when she talked to Natan flight time, she

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<v Speaker 1>canna always smile and be like, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care what you say, what you think, you've been through,

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<v Speaker 1>what you've seen. I know that there was They're good

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<v Speaker 1>people and and and that's what's about that's my prayers. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome, that's awesome. What about you? I'd probably say

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<v Speaker 1>the birth of my kids and probably actually being there

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<v Speaker 1>for the birth of my daughter. Just then the whole,

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<v Speaker 1>the entire thing happened in realizing that I have bought

1:04:35.000 --> 1:04:38.360
<v Speaker 1>a new life into the world, and my responsibilities were

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<v Speaker 1>different and again. I mean it all goes back to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, dreaming as a kid of being a father someday,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some of the same advices I'm giving you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my son right now at this point. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just really a blessing to be able to see

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<v Speaker 1>them and know that you're living for a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for a different purpose. And you know, my purpose in

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation that I have with them is all always

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<v Speaker 1>to ask questions. You know, I'm not always right. Your

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<v Speaker 1>mothers always, you know, not always right. You get to

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<v Speaker 1>ask questions. I get to learn, you know, from your experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, you know, putting

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<v Speaker 1>a life into this world is a great responsibility. And

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<v Speaker 1>for me, that was the most memorable, i opening thing

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<v Speaker 1>that happened in my life. And I'm just excited that

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<v Speaker 1>even in my forties, you know, I've had a great

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years before, but I get to show that my

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<v Speaker 1>kids becau I'm still dreaming and still creating into my forties,

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<v Speaker 1>something that us older people tend to forget sometimes we

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<v Speaker 1>tend to go back and try to live vicariously through

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<v Speaker 1>our kids and telling what we used to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to do, what we could do, but we actually need

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<v Speaker 1>to show them what we're doing now, you know, take

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility for what we're doing now, and stop putting so

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<v Speaker 1>much pressure on them to live, you know, to be

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<v Speaker 1>what we were not because we still can't become what

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<v Speaker 1>we want to be. Love that. I love that. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are amazing. Y'all are so amazing. I feel so

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<v Speaker 1>thankful to have this bond with the offer ever from

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<v Speaker 1>the amazing race that was truly such a special time

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<v Speaker 1>of life and such a magical memory. Um. I wrap

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<v Speaker 1>every podcast up with leave your Light? What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all dropped so much wisdom. But what I want people

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<v Speaker 1>to know go ahead. I want people to know that

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<v Speaker 1>kindness is free. Contness is free. It doesn't cost you

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<v Speaker 1>a dime. I'm a kindness billionaire. I have more kindness

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<v Speaker 1>in the world than anybody, I feel, and if we

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<v Speaker 1>can all get on that level, we can all be

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<v Speaker 1>kind as billionaires and realize that if we give kindness

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<v Speaker 1>away with abundance, as we should, will never run out

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<v Speaker 1>of it because there's plenty of it. It doesn't cost

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<v Speaker 1>you a dime. So give it away a random act

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<v Speaker 1>of kindness today hash tag kindness is free. And let's

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<v Speaker 1>make this world a better place because we all get

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<v Speaker 1>to make it a better place. I love that. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome, that's real cool. UM. I just want everybody

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<v Speaker 1>know that. UM. No matter what's going on now, it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to get greater later. Um. Whatever you have going

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<v Speaker 1>on in your life, don't make an excuse, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>make a change, you know, try try to try to

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<v Speaker 1>be better that. Don't just sit down and be still

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<v Speaker 1>and think like, Okay, it's over, you know. Try try

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<v Speaker 1>to do something harder, work hard, be good. You know. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on Instagram now, check me out on Instagram now

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get him on Instagram forever. What's your handle?

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<v Speaker 1>I started following you right away when her everybody follow

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<v Speaker 1>What is your whatever? Buf of y'all's handles on Instagram?

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot my actually forgot my mind? Is Nate men?

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<v Speaker 1>I just got it a week ago. Uh let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, Let me tell you real estate date or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you. D A Trotter for the number four

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<v Speaker 1>at d A Trotter. Nate has the longest Instagram handled

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<v Speaker 1>anyone in the history of the world. It is at

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<v Speaker 1>Nate dot Big Easy dot lofton l O F T

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<v Speaker 1>O and underscore score. Really her, I mean a big one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a long one there like times is at Dad

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<v Speaker 1>Trotter d A t R O T t E R four. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>come tim Via Colorado. You need a house. Uh you

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm a real intiant to training kids. I might

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<v Speaker 1>start selling Dumbo to whatever y'all need. We can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, how let your board motivation speaking. You can

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<v Speaker 1>hire me, or you can hire me and Nate together.

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<v Speaker 1>You can get two for one. We're doing everything. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Carolina gig shout out to amazing race season third two

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<v Speaker 1>coming up right now. We have to show this love

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<v Speaker 1>because if we're not, then we wouldn't be talking as

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<v Speaker 1>well as the whole pro Globe Trotter. You know they're

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<v Speaker 1>not right now, but I know they're getting ready to

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<v Speaker 1>try to crank things back up. And as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>they get back uh you know, as soon as they

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<v Speaker 1>get the okay, So we have to give a shout

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<v Speaker 1>to the people who are part of the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>we're here. That's right. Yeah, get your get your big

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<v Speaker 1>easy jersey any other Globe trial jersey for Halloween. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't look this good, but you could come close.

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<v Speaker 1>They can put some makeup on you and make you

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<v Speaker 1>look like that. You'll scare a lot of You're starting

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<v Speaker 1>a whole another thing. It's a different thing. Get the

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<v Speaker 1>people what they want this Caroline. You tell Bobby Bones though, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>my wife, you know she's a big fan. As I said,

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<v Speaker 1>she is a psychologist and on her drop to cool

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<v Speaker 1>she worked ten hour ships for a week and her

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<v Speaker 1>job to work. I'm sorry to the hospital. She always

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's what she says, shes she loved Bobby Bones.

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<v Speaker 1>That gets happy and she gets too smile before she

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<v Speaker 1>walk in and do what you do. So you make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you weren't on the call because her is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be on the show with me. Yeah, I know he

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<v Speaker 1>was texting about that. Dude, hold on, we're talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby Bones now. I think that when I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>when her for me the email for the link y'all

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<v Speaker 1>missed the t in my name for the email. The

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<v Speaker 1>email was on the wrong so I didn't get the

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<v Speaker 1>email I saw in the one heard for me. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's all good. I could get on there with him

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<v Speaker 1>another time. Tell pick me up, happy white, happy life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll that's so true. I let him know that um,

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<v Speaker 1>if he ever wants to talk to you, the most

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<v Speaker 1>famous globetrotters already you're right here. Hello, Hello, you got

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<v Speaker 1>the best looking one ever? Well you know who that is.

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<v Speaker 1>You got me on that. Oh you guys. I love

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<v Speaker 1>y'all so much. I really feel blessed to have y'all

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<v Speaker 1>as friends forever friends when we when you have a

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<v Speaker 1>moment like amazing race that like makes you friends for

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<v Speaker 1>a lifetime and fire you both. I respect you both,

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<v Speaker 1>and I am grateful to know y'all and follow your journeys.

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<v Speaker 1>And thank you so much for coming on my podcast

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<v Speaker 1>and dropping all of this wisdom. Oh my gosh, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for having if. We appreciate you know that. Shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to you and your family and Poe Fall as well. Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Let's try to get a reunion one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say, like, let's do it, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We should. I'm with it, let's do it. I would

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<v Speaker 1>love it. I'm okay, love you guys. You'll have a

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<v Speaker 1>break today. EMM