1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: Hi. I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 3 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling, Railvalry, No, no, sibling. 4 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth, vely, that's good. 5 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: Hi poop, Hi. Hi? Are you wearing your fake glasses 6 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: with no actual prescription in them? Nope? So if it's 7 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: not fair, you look like hot and handsome and well, bam, 8 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: it's just it's the way it is, you know, I mean, 9 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? You're crazy hot. I just 10 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: talked to Jesse today, who's a good friend of my 11 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: oldest best friends and stupers, and he's like, I saw 12 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: your hot ass wife today. I'm like, was she looking good? 13 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: He's like Jesus Christ, He's like ten. You give yourself credit. 14 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 1: You're like ninety five years old and hot. Thanks. So 15 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: I'm hot for ninety five, right, But you're wearing Why 16 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: are you wearing your fake glasses right now? Because it 17 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: makes me feel a little, you know, smarter, and maybe 18 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: I'll be a little more articulate, just in case you 19 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: ever decide to like screenshot a picture of this then 20 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm covering. So I'm an Albuquerque and you're in LA. 21 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: I know you're almost coming home. I know I'll be 22 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: home on Friday, and you know, the long distance, I 23 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 1: guess it's not long distance. But you know, there's a 24 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: positive and a negative to that, And I think people 25 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: who have to work away from their families for periods 26 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: of time can sort of relate and understand. It's hard 27 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: to be away from your family. It's hard to be 28 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: away from you and hard to be away from the kids. 29 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: You know, but that sort of cliche of the absence 30 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: makes the heart grow fonder. You know, there is a 31 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: reality to that. I think you know. Well, also, don't 32 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 1: forget we're coming off of like COVID and quarantine, where 33 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: we were together for a year and a half, and 34 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 1: by together, I mean we were barely ever apart. I 35 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: mean I maybe did like a girls' night or a 36 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: sleepover or I mean that's it. A year and a half. 37 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: So this and you know, our family together, you together, home, 38 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: no traveling, no work, nothing, So now to be a part, 39 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: you know, I think it was a little more drastic 40 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: and sad because we're like, oh my god, wait, we've 41 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: been together but it is nice in the sense of, 42 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: like you miss each other. You don't take, you know, 43 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: things for granted. When you get your time together. It's 44 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 1: kind of you know. I mean, we're only a few 45 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: weeks in. I don't know if I can do this 46 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: all the time. I mean, but some people do, you 47 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like you have to put it 48 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: into perspective and think about you know, some of these 49 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: military families, honestly that have to deal with that going overseas, 50 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: you know for months and months at a time, you know, 51 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: their wives being pregnant and not having their husband around, 52 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: you know, for the pregnancy. I was just watching something 53 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: on that actually, so you know, you got to put 54 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: into perspective. You know, we're pretty lucky. But I will 55 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: say for us, you know, one of the one of 56 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: the sticking points with me being away and having so 57 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: much alone time is that I watch a ton of 58 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: shows and I know you like to watch shows with me. 59 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: And I think this is a point of contention in 60 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: a lot of relationships because I liked it. But you 61 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: started something without me. Oh I started and finished Mayor 62 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: of Easttown. Oh okay, well that was a little scary, 63 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: and for me it's good. It's really really good. But 64 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: there's definitely shows that I want to keep watching. Oh 65 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: and I finished White Lotus. It should be cut right 66 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: now because we already talked about that. I couldn't help 67 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: That's like I did it. I just said, whatever you do, 68 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: that's the only one, don't do it. I couldn't help it. 69 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, fucking watch the whole thing. You couldn't help it. 70 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: It's not like wasted and you're making a stupid decision. 71 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: This is like, I'm actually gonna watch it without her, 72 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: and I'm not going to care what she says. I 73 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: took a chance and I went for it, you know, 74 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: with the chances that's a fuck you. I really don't 75 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: care about you, which really means you don't love me. 76 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: That's absolutely not true. That's bullshit, and that's what I 77 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: think a lot of couples think. And I'm sure there's 78 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: a lot of fights over sort of the I said, 79 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: watch the scary things, watch the like Bloody and Gore, 80 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: and you know, the there's only so many things that 81 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: I can watch with that. Watch the Wire, you know, 82 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 1: let me watch the Wires one hundred and fifty years old, 83 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: Like I will rewatch it. But there's a lot of 84 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 1: good stuff right now, you know. But I watched Finished 85 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 1: White Lotus, but that's something we started together. Like you're 86 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 1: going to go and watch a show without me and 87 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: do the whole thing. Fine, but you're starting I mean 88 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: we started it together. Yeah I know. But I'll called 89 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: Jesse and see if he wants to watch with me. Well, 90 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: you can watch it now, but you don't watch TV, 91 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: watch TV unless I'm with you. Yeah, exactly. And I said, 92 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: last thing I want to do when I get into bed, 93 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm into I'm not turning on the TV when you're 94 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: not here, not the news and nothing. The only thing 95 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm watching is like Lisa and Lina with your Rio. 96 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: Oh god. And I'm sure some people understand what that is, 97 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: but it's a fucking first of all, the YouTube generation 98 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: is is I It doesn't crazy. You know. What's interesting 99 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: is our kids originally, like the first two are like 100 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 1: grew up on Nick Junior and like Cartoon Network and 101 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. And now Rio there's no real TV. 102 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,559 Speaker 1: Like she's not watching she's watching like her YouTube little 103 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: specials and things. And Darman, I mean, oh Darman, the 104 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: whole life is Darman is like on every day in 105 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,119 Speaker 1: the house. Oh my god, Darman. I get so locked 106 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 1: into Darman. Knew, that's what I mean. So now instead 107 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 1: of finishing my lotus, I'm watching Darmann episodes. Right. So 108 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: Darmann is a YouTube channel. I'm sure something know, But 109 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: Darman a YouTube channel with this guy who it's really 110 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: it's really a beautiful thing. I mean, he he is. 111 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: He is all about messaging, okay, And it has like 112 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: seventeen billion views on each on each YouTube video. And 113 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: it's this in your face terrible acting. I mean, that's 114 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: not nice. It's not it's just very you know, it's 115 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: it's it's over They're doing it for children, So I 116 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: think everything is a little overacted. Maybe, but I'm sure 117 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: those actors, you know, are decent actors. It's just so 118 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: you're saying, you're saying that's a they're making a choice. 119 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: They're like I'm They're like, i could probably win an 120 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: Emmy or an Academy Award, but I'm gonna really sort 121 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: of just no way, babe, No, no. Darman doesn't want 122 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: to spend money on actors because he's got to make 123 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: a living. So, you know, he has his his little 124 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: you know crew, say for people that watch Darman. You 125 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: see this same actors in all different episodes and they're 126 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: playing a person and then they're the nice person. And 127 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: I think there's a range, and I'm sure they're decent, 128 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: good actors. I'm sure they're great human being. And what 129 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: you say, here's what it is. This is how I 130 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: describe it. It's our generation like an after school special. 131 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: It is. It's the modern day after school special. Hold 132 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: on my hold, just give me a second. My foods here, 133 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: thank you. I had to take a bathroom break. I 134 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: was explaining Dharman and how it's like a modern day 135 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,679 Speaker 1: kind of after school special where there's a huge lesson 136 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: and message that these actors are portraying and the kids 137 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: get so sucked in and then so do we because 138 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: they're they're over exaggerated. So like remember where it used 139 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: to be like for drunk driving. You know, this is 140 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: your brand on drugs and like that because of you 141 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: see those episodes, and that's basically what it is. Yeah, 142 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: But my point is is I get so locked into it, 143 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,439 Speaker 1: Like Rio will be watching on TV and I'll just 144 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: sort of pass by, and then forty eight minutes later, 145 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm like watching eighty Darman episodes. I can't stop watching them. 146 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: I cannot stop watching them me too, So I'll be 147 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 1: caught up on Darman and you're caught up on White Lotus. 148 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: Should we go back to that A Zoona Fresh. 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I haven't told you this yet, 198 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: and I'm scrolling say, I'm like, wait, he's not public exactly. 199 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: I started scrolling around. I'm like, you know, who the 200 00:12:56,360 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: hell is this? Like real estate agent from South each 201 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: who's you know this health nutrition? I was it was, 202 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: And so I texted him and he actually switched it 203 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: to public. But he did it. He did it. He 204 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: didn't lie to me, you know, And I because I said, 205 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 1: you know how I feel about lying, which is a 206 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: whole other topic, because you know, with my kids, with 207 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: our kids, I don't care. It's not that I don't care. 208 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,559 Speaker 1: I will not be upset if you tell me the truth, 209 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is, you know what I mean, I don't 210 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: care what it is. If you come to me and 211 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: I or I ask you a question and you tell 212 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: me the truth, and I understand that kids lie, I 213 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: did you did? We all try to get away with shit, right, 214 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 1: But if you just tell me the truth, then you're good, 215 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: you know, then I will, of course, depending on what 216 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: it is, Well what what? What? What could what could 217 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: Wilder possibly tell you when he's being honest and truthful 218 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: that you would actually get angry about saying, I mean, look, 219 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: even plenty of things. But I'm just saying right now, 220 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: like he went, probably, I'll get back to that. But 221 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: even if Wilder came to us, right and I said, 222 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: have you smoked weed? Which of course he has not, 223 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like, even if I said have you 224 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: smoked weed before? And he goes and if he said, yeah, 225 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: you know, I did I tried it, would you get angry? 226 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. It's but I'm just saying, you don't know 227 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: what he's going to come. Who knows what the scenario. 228 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: My point is is that if you're truthful, you're good. 229 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: And I think for us it's about instilling that in 230 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: our kids, so then you can build that trust so 231 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: when you ask the questions, then you know that they're 232 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: being truthful. You know, I still have a child brain, 233 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: you know. It's like everything that he says or the 234 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: kids say, I am analyzing and going back to when 235 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: I was that age and being like that, even with you, 236 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: I was a member with the whole our whole situation, 237 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: and oh god, if you're honest or you tell me, 238 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: there's a chance right right, like hearing it right. But 239 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: you have to you have you have to adhere to that. 240 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: You know, you have to show him that, yes, when 241 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: he does tell the truth or when they the kids 242 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: tell the truth, there are no real repercussions because you 243 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: were honest and we'll deal with whatever the situation is. 244 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: And the more that can be repeated, then you build 245 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: that trust and then you're off to the races and 246 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: then you're good, you know, So you know, I looked 247 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: at it. I said, da da da, And he just 248 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 1: told me straight up, you know, he said, you know, however, 249 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: long like a week or two weeks ago, he went public, 250 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: you know, just for a little bit, and then he 251 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: sort of forgot about it and you know, didn't pay 252 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: attention to it, and that was that. And I said, well, 253 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: why did you now he's private again? But I said 254 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: why did you go public? I said, Dizzy, because you 255 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: were wanting more followers, and he says, yeah, you know. 256 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: At that point, I said, well, you know, that's empty, 257 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you know, the whole follower 258 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: thing is just all bullshit. Really, it's just a bunch 259 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: of random people who are you know, following you for 260 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: reasons for him, For me, it might be a little 261 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: bit different, right, but for him, they're following you for 262 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: reasons that don't really matter. I mean, what are you 263 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: what are you getting out of it? You know, it's 264 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: it's empty confidence, really, yeah. And I was trying to 265 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: explain to him how that is. Just it's there's no 266 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: calories in it, you know what I mean, there's no 267 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: health in that. It's just it's frivolous really, you know. 268 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: But also that like we understand that, you know, but 269 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: for kids these days, like that's you know, kids these days. 270 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: It's like social media is a really interesting question. I know, 271 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: it's sort of a beat a you know, a beat 272 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: up topic. I mean, everyone talks about it and they 273 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: have their opinions on it, you know, but it's a reality. 274 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: It's a reality in today's world. You know. It's like 275 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: our kids were kind of the you know, younger than 276 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: when it really first started coming out, you know, so 277 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: we didn't really have like when it was just a 278 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: thing and everyone was talking about it and you know, 279 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: social media and this and that, and now they are 280 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: they're getting to that age. Yeah, but it's how they 281 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: communicate now, I mean with Snapchat especially, that's how they communicate. 282 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: They don't even really text much anymore. It's just through 283 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: these through social media, you know, and you got to 284 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean again, it's the deprivation sort 285 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: of it almost births you know, this sort of desire, 286 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: this heavy desire to be a part of it if 287 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: you can give it to them in doses, meaning yeah, 288 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 1: you can, you can be a part of social media. 289 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: But there's a way to be a part of it. 290 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: You know, rather than just sort of cutting it off 291 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 1: off at the legs and having them wonder and become 292 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: sort of obsessive over it to the point then then 293 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 1: when they get it, it's like a drug addict, you know, 294 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: who has not been given the drug and now they 295 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 1: fucking overdose on it because they've never had it before. 296 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: They jones for it, you know, sugar toddlers or TV 297 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: and you know, little kids. I mean we've kind of 298 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: always struck, you know, a balance with that with our kids. 299 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I think again I said this lastast time, 300 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:34,479 Speaker 1: but you have to kind of know who your kid is, 301 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: and you know, each kid, each family is different. But 302 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:46,479 Speaker 1: our kids were you know, a balance worked, meaning like 303 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,439 Speaker 1: we gave it to them and then they weren't like 304 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 1: freaking out and you know, crying if we took away 305 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: iPads or well remember how remember how Wilder? Remember how 306 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 1: Wilder actually got Instagram for the first time. That was 307 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 1: so good, It was so good. So we were in 308 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: Colorado and he wanted it for his birthday? Right was 309 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: it his birthday when he asked for Instagram for his birthday? 310 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: Or was it Christmas? I can't remember. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 311 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 1: I think it was his birthday, he put it on 312 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: his list. He's like, you know, a fucking RC car 313 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: and Instagram. And I'm like, dude, like you're too young, 314 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And this was what two 315 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 1: years ago or something. So he was I don't know, twelve, yeah, 316 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: and said, you're too young for Instagram. It's just it's 317 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 1: just there's no reason why you need to be on it. Now, 318 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: some of his friends were on it, you know, but 319 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: I was like, there's no reason. Fine, and I come 320 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: home from whatever I was doing and he wrote me 321 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: a five paragraph essay because this is what he was 322 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: doing in school, learning how to sort of construct an 323 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: essay with a intro, some you know, body paragraphs and 324 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: then a conclusion. And so he wrote me a five 325 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 1: paragraph paper on why he should have Instagram. And it 326 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: was beautiful. It was fucking great, you know. And he 327 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: he was talking about sort of how he wouldn't abuse 328 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: it and it's just for him his friends, and he 329 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: would be you know, private, and you know, all of 330 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,439 Speaker 1: these all of these arguments, and I'm like, dude, you 331 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: know what you're in. You got it, you know, you 332 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: you took the initiative to write this paper, to take 333 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: what you've learned in school and construct it into an 334 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 1: essay and you know, I dig that and so far, 335 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 1: so good. Like he doesn't, he's not obsessed. It's going private, 336 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 1: like secretly on us. But yeah, I mean going public. 337 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: I know, I know. Well, look, you know, kids dabble 338 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 1: man like. I think that's what we have to understand 339 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: as parents too. We got to remember what it was like, 340 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: you know, and you and I get into that, not 341 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 1: get into it a little bit. But sometimes I feel like, 342 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: you know, you you forget sometimes and you expect the 343 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: kids to be not perfect, but to walk this line. 344 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: And I have to say, babe, like they're fucking kids. 345 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: They're gonna do these things. They're gonna lie, They're gonna 346 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: try to get away with shit. That's normal. If they weren't, 347 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: I might have a problem. I'd be like, dude, go 348 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: go go, go, go get in trouble, go go try 349 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: to get something by me. I mean that's nature, I think, 350 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: you know, And sometimes I think you feel like they 351 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: should be more on the straight path, you know. I 352 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: mean no, I would say, out of the two of us, 353 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: I think that, and I think our kids are pretty 354 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, amazing. Uh, you know, considering what they could 355 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: be doing. And then of course I go back to 356 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: our age, and I am very realistic with you know, 357 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: the stuff that I did and what they're doing. And 358 00:21:58,359 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of times I say that to you, 359 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, they're smarter than we than you think. You know. 360 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 1: Sometimes you're like, oh, Wilder would never and I'm like, 361 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: don't say that, like they're gonna do it. But I 362 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 1: just mind that comes more to me when it's I mean, 363 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: I think I expect a little more when it comes 364 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: to like safety and danger rather than you know, kids 365 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,679 Speaker 1: being well. I know, I know I get that, but 366 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: even you know I've been away and and you know, 367 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: you've been dealing all three kids in the morning, which 368 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: you know, by the way, it's amazing. I mean it's 369 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: like teenagers. Yeah, it's crazy, but but but you know, 370 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you're like, they're not getting up and they 371 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,199 Speaker 1: did this, and there are a lot of time and 372 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: they're angry. And then I'm like, I know, babe, but 373 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to say anything because I'm here, 374 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 1: you know, sleeping in till eleven because my call is 375 00:22:56,119 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 1: not till noon. You know, but I know what you're 376 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: saying at the same time, it's like, well, what do 377 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: we expect here? I mean, okay, so tell me this. 378 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: So when you're the parent that's in it, and this 379 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: goes back to like toddlers, babies, babies, Like if you're 380 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: a home alone with the baby and the partner is 381 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 1: out at work or away or whatever it might be, 382 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: when you're in it, it's always heightened. So and then 383 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 1: you're talking to the parent that is away or has 384 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: been at work all day and comes home your patients, 385 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: the one that's with the kids is maxed out, and 386 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 1: then the fresh parent comes in or the parent that 387 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: hasn't been around them and misses them or whatever comes 388 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: in and they're like relax, like they're just you know, 389 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 1: kids or oh my god, yeah, let me help. Like 390 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: there's that role, you know what I mean. It reverses 391 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: because you've been in the position where you're with the 392 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: kids and it's been three days and I'm away maybe 393 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: with my girlfriends or you know, doing something, and your 394 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 1: patience is up to hear and you're like I can't 395 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 1: do this and I'm over and you're quick and short 396 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff, and I'm like, babe, relax, 397 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: like take it easy on them. I mean, that's just 398 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: I think a role you know that you're in in 399 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: the moment, Like I'm tired, I'm cranky. I had to 400 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: try and wake them up, you know solo. You know, 401 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: one's extra slow, one forgot something whatever, all this stuff 402 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: and then I'm just venting to you being like they 403 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: stayed up too late and then they couldn't wake up. 404 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 1: It's one of those. Of course, it's all relative. But 405 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: you know, when you're doing that next week for me, 406 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: let's see how it goes. It'll be a weekend. So 407 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm good. No, But you make a good point. You 408 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: make a good point. It's a valid point. You know, 409 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: the parent who's been away sort of comes in and 410 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 1: it's like hey, rushed and patient and ready, and you 411 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,479 Speaker 1: know the other one is like I've been with them 412 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: all day. I remember it used to happen with the baby, 413 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,360 Speaker 1: like wild there is one baby if you're taking care 414 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 1: and I'm out, I come back in and you are like, 415 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm done. And then it's like the trade, 416 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I mean that started with 417 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: like babies and toddlers, and you know it's going even 418 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 1: to now, like with you gone, it's the chaos. Do 419 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: you have any Do you have any resentment towards me 420 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: for that thing? No, not at all, because I know 421 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: it's exactly what it is. But do you ever do 422 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 1: you ever have any that sort of you know, resentment 423 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 1: that comes up, but you know that you know it's 424 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 1: it's fine, You're not going to bring it up because 425 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: it's it's just your own stuff. You know, you're like 426 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: a You're a perfect human being, so it's impossible to 427 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 1: know honestly, like you're just you're so you know, rational 428 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 1: and centered and evolved. You don't have those kinds of things, 429 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: you know where I have that irrational resentment. You know, 430 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: we've had those discussions where I've had to get better 431 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: when you want to go see your girlfriends and you 432 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: want to have those weekends and I grit and bear 433 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 1: it or is it grin and bear it? I don't 434 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: know grin And there's a part of me that's like, 435 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: motherfucker can't And I know it's not right. You know, 436 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 1: we've talked about it because you you see my mood 437 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: change of course, you know, you know when when you 438 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: are going away and I don't deny it, like there's 439 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: a part of me that gets, you know, a little 440 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: funky where I'm like, oh, man, I right, And I 441 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 1: always I'm just like, is it jealousy that like, I'm 442 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 1: going to have a good time without you, or is 443 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: it jealousy that like I'm going to have I'm going 444 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 1: to be away from the kids and you have the responsibility? 445 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 1: Is it? You know what I mean, Like what's in 446 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: it there? Because I always I don't know. That's a 447 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: good question. You know, it's a lot of dads or 448 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 1: what husbands or partners, I'm sure feel that way. Most 449 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: of the time. It's wives that have like husbands that 450 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: are going on a you know, guys trip or golf 451 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,479 Speaker 1: for something and they're not happy about it. But I 452 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,239 Speaker 1: am very much like I love when you go and 453 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 1: do your things and I know you're happy and then 454 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: you're going to come back happy. I like a little 455 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 1: bit of my alone time too, So like you know 456 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 1: what I mean, there's that stuff, but I also feel 457 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,199 Speaker 1: like very deserving of the time that I take when 458 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: I go. So I don't really you know, well you 459 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: should not. You know, you don't have guilt. No, there's 460 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: no way you have guilt. I mean, that's why our 461 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: relationship is so great, you know, because you let me 462 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 1: do the things that I love to do, and you know, 463 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: I let you do the things that you love to do, 464 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: even if I have a little tinge of whatever, which 465 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: which is honestly like dissipated over the years, you know, 466 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: but I think I just want to be with you simple. 467 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 1: I like when you're around. Sorry, I love that too, 468 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 1: you know. And I also think, to be real, you know, 469 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 1: in a relationship, you get the good and you get 470 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,880 Speaker 1: the bad. You know, you get the really happy moments, 471 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: and then you get the sort of downside of whatever 472 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 1: that is, you know, whatever moods are happening, and the 473 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: fatigue and kids in school and whatever the fuck it is. 474 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: And I know that when you go with your friends, 475 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: they're getting the best of you. Every second is the 476 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: best of you. And I've seen it change, you know. 477 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: I've seen you go from moments of just when you 478 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,360 Speaker 1: get that you know, you do your face and you're 479 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: just you know, pissy mood and you're just like tired. 480 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: And then and then I'm like you, I can tell 481 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: like it exudes, you exude it. I can feel it. 482 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: And then Jackie calls and I was like, oh, my god, 483 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: Jackie bad and it's like boom, it's like a different 484 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: human being. And I'm like, well, what the fuck? You know? 485 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 1: And I get it, and I don't ever comment on 486 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: it because it's not comment on it. We talked about this, no, 487 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,360 Speaker 1: but I don't comment on it in the moment, meaning 488 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm not like you get off the phone. I'm like, 489 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: how come she gets all the positive stuff and you 490 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: or this and this and that, because I'm smart enough 491 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: to understand that it's your girl. You know, it's like 492 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: there's a release there. And also, don't forget because I'm 493 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: sure people feel the same way. We're using mine as like, 494 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 1: you know, a girl's weekend away, but a girl's week 495 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: and away is a break from all of the stuff, 496 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 1: right people whatever they're getting away from work, housework, kids, responsibility, 497 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: delegating cleaning projects, things, whatever it might be for me, 498 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: for other people, taking care of people, whatever it might be. 499 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 1: You're going to a place that is for me. With 500 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: my girlfriends that are moms, it's say, oh my god, 501 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: we're not needed, no mom, mom, mom, babe, babe. You 502 00:29:54,800 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 1: know it's like doing mahing how much how many times 503 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: have you heard this? Like er whoo. And then there's 504 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: there's I mean, you know, the best away, and it's 505 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: like it's a relief of like, oh my gosh, I'm 506 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: not needed. I don't have to feed people, I don't 507 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: have to keep people alive, my children are safe. I 508 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 1: can go and like literally decompress. Sometimes I feel like 509 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: you hear me and ignore me. Well, I'm also like 510 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 1: part deaf in one ear don't forget, so no I know, 511 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: but sometimes I feel like you hear me and ignore me. 512 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 1: But the best is when you're the best is when 513 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: you're you get angry. Now you get angry when you 514 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: hear me, you're like er or whatever. And then there's 515 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: always a pause. It's never right away, and then I 516 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: hear what I mean, like it gets angry. I'm like, 517 00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: oh Jesus, she's like angry. I'm like upstairs around the corner, 518 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,719 Speaker 1: and when I say what you don't hear me the 519 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 1: first time. So now I'm like I'm walking to get 520 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: over to him. But by the time I get to 521 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: where I can yell to you, you're yelling again, so 522 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: that I'm mad, and I'm like, I just need to 523 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 1: know where my wallet is. It's simple. I just need 524 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,719 Speaker 1: to answer with that, from now on, just where it is? 525 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 1: I never know where my wallet is. It's running wallet 526 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: sunglasses like keys and wile busses. Forget it. I know 527 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:48,800 Speaker 1: Home Economics. Okay, So there was lots going on this spring, 528 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: and you can be forgiven maybe if you've missed some things. 529 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: But if you missed the ABC hit comedy Home Economics, 530 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: you better catch up now. It's a hilarious show at 531 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: eighty two percent on Rotten Tomatoes, with critics saying it 532 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 1: hits all the right comedic notes. So here's the situation. Okay, 533 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 1: It's about three adult siblings with families on their own, 534 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 1: and each with wildly different economic situations from mega rich 535 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: to middle class to just getting by. And TV guide 536 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: says American vandals Jimmy tatraw Bluff City Laws, Caitlin McGee, 537 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 1: and that seventy show vet Toe for Grace, who have 538 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: known forever and wish he put me in his show. 539 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: They kill it as siblings. Plus add Carla Susa from 540 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 1: How to Get Away with Murder and SNL's so Shreszameita 541 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 1: to the cast, and this is a comedy you got 542 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: to check out. All of season one is streaming on 543 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: Hulu and season two airs Wednesday nine thirty eight thirty 544 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: Central after The Connors on ABC. So definitely check it 545 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: out and tell your siblings about it too, watch it 546 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: together and work through your own sibling rivalry or revelry. 547 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: This breakout hit show could be your breakthrough moment with 548 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: finally understand each other, or just half an hour where 549 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: you can laugh and I don't have to deal with 550 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: your brother or sister's issues of the week. Nobody has 551 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: time for that, right, just laugh together and watching Home 552 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 1: Economics after The Connors Wednesday, nine thirty eight thirty Central 553 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: on ABC. Then hug it out or drive home with 554 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: your significant other, venting about your siblings, whatever your relationship is, 555 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: and just being happy you at least had some laughs 556 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 1: watching Home Economics. Any you know, person can understand when 557 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: you are removed from let's say work or your family 558 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: life and getting that break is you do change your 559 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: personality because you're like, oh, I'm going to my girlfriends 560 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 1: like there's not a dirty sink there and at seventeen 561 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: loads of laundry and like you know, emails and delegating 562 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 1: and kids crying and I have to feed people. I'm 563 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 1: going to literally like not do any of that, and 564 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 1: it makes you and then you're laughing with your mom. 565 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's just worse. And I think I think 566 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: it's like when you used to leave the baby. You know, 567 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: I've got like one crying and one not sleeping this 568 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,919 Speaker 1: and then you would go golf. You're not gonna tell 569 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: me getting out there. If all of a sudden I 570 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: had to, you know, fly on the wall of you 571 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: on the golf course, like drinking beers, laughing with your friends, 572 00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,479 Speaker 1: and I'm home with like two kids. What the fuck 573 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: that motherfucker's out there having a good time. Of course 574 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: you are because you're not having to be dad and 575 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 1: having telling you to you know, change light bulbs and 576 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: like clean shit. Like it's your time away. We all 577 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: deserve it. It's just hard to be the person on 578 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: the other end. You just have to make sure that 579 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 1: you both have the time away, whatever that might be. 580 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: For some people, it's a workout, a meditation. We talked 581 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 1: about this before, you know, just something that is like 582 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: for you and it doesn't It can be something alone, 583 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 1: it can be with your friends, it could be with 584 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: someone else, Like you know, it's also about respecting each 585 00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: other's individuality, you know what I mean, And there need 586 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: to be alone or need to be separate, because I 587 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: think we get so involved with each other and I'm 588 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: speaking generally, not just you and I, but just involved 589 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: with what our lives are that when there's that separation 590 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,279 Speaker 1: of one doing something without the other and having a 591 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: good time, there can be that moment of like, oh 592 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 1: what the fuck? You know, but that's but that's but 593 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: that's healthy, you know. It's like you know, it's like 594 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: I've said this before. You know, two pillars holds up 595 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: a roof much stronger than one, and that's codependency. You know, 596 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: if you're codependent, you've got that one fucking pillar, and 597 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: that roof is now sitting on that one pillar and 598 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: teetering and will eventually fall and crash. If you've got 599 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: the two pillars holding up that roof, that shit is sturdy, 600 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 1: you know. And we are individuals, so we need to 601 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: have our own separate passions and loves and to be 602 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 1: accepting of the of the others, you know, And it's 603 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,879 Speaker 1: it's important, I think again, it's you know, every relationship 604 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,840 Speaker 1: is different, every partnership. But I think what can happen 605 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,800 Speaker 1: is if it doesn't feel equal and somebody is really 606 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: caring the bigger load. That's where a little resentment can 607 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:32,080 Speaker 1: build up. So that's very easy to happen. I think 608 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: we've all been pretty solid in the our roles right 609 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: of being you know, it's a great partnership and equal 610 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: in the parenting and you know, all of that kind 611 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,959 Speaker 1: of stuff. So you know, if somebody works all week 612 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: long and then also wants to you know, be having 613 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 1: their time, it's like, all right, well, where's the time 614 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: for your kids? Where's the time for us? I mean, 615 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 1: it's always about time and there's never enough. But I 616 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,240 Speaker 1: think it's also about effort and not you know, quality 617 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: over quantity. I think so. I think secretly people use 618 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: the credit system, you know what I mean. It's like 619 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 1: you build up credit. You know, you're like, you're building 620 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: up credit right now. I'm away. I've been waiting for 621 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,320 Speaker 1: what five or six days, and you're building up fucking credit, 622 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,919 Speaker 1: like you know, I'm not there. So now you've got 623 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: this awesome credit that you're like, all right, when am 624 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 1: I going to into town? Yeah, Robin's coming into town. 625 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 1: Robin's coming into town, and you're gonna fucking cash in 626 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 1: on that credit, and I'm like, all right, yeah, hey shit, 627 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: you know. And then when when I am home and 628 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: not working and you do a girl's weekend or whatever, 629 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, cool credit. But by the way, 630 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: I will say this too, as much as I love 631 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 1: you and as much as I love being with you 632 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: all the time, when you were away with your girlfriends 633 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: and it's just me and the kids, I I love it. 634 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 1: There's something nice about it when the kids are doing 635 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,319 Speaker 1: their thing and they go to bed and I'm in 636 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 1: my I'm in our bed all alone, and I light 637 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 1: up a big joint and I'm just like all right, 638 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 1: like I got my room to myself. I'm chilling, you know, 639 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,879 Speaker 1: like there's there's I like it. It's great as long 640 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 1: as you come home. But I love I mean sometimes 641 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,440 Speaker 1: like when you're away and you're working and it's just me, 642 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 1: like I don't have to worry about, you know, other 643 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: things that are going on. I can just kind of 644 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: can like manage the kids. I can feed them, you know, 645 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,759 Speaker 1: some mac and pees, make myself a bowlapasta. And it's 646 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 1: not like that's a good question. I have a question 647 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,440 Speaker 1: for you. What are we having for dinner? Yeah? No, 648 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: I know, And so here's my question, what are the 649 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 1: benefits of me being away? Like what and be honest earlier? 650 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: Like what? Yeah, okay, you got it. Yeah, I go 651 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 1: to sleep much earlier, and the house is maybe a 652 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: little bit cleaner. Are you saying a messy really, I 653 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: mean not messy but like messy. No, but just like 654 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: your side of the bed and the clothes around and 655 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 1: the coffee. You know, there's just a little extra stuff 656 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: in a way to be taken care of. And you know, 657 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:28,919 Speaker 1: the baseball hats and the golf things and a little 658 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,240 Speaker 1: sun like that, I would say, golf teas and different 659 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 1: replacers and in the morning next to your bed. Random, 660 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: I feel like I keep it a little cleaner. But 661 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,920 Speaker 1: other than you know, maybe going to bed earlier, I 662 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:51,320 Speaker 1: would one hundred percent before you here any day. Of course, No, 663 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,120 Speaker 1: I know that, but I'm saying sometimes I love like 664 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: there is no TV on and it's like, oh I 665 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: can do wordscapes or I'm going to read or because 666 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of our hang time is at 667 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,839 Speaker 1: night and it's the best. It's like the kids go down, 668 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:08,759 Speaker 1: that's us, whether it's talking show sex, but hanging out 669 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: like but it is that late night hour. So when 670 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: you're not there, I get into better go to bed 671 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:18,840 Speaker 1: when the kids go to bed. So it's kind of like, 672 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 1: I know, well that's what we differ. You know, you're 673 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 1: a night out. I'm a night out. I'm a night out, 674 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: you know, and you are not. So I'm ready to 675 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: party and you are fucking six feet under. I'm so 676 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 1: ready to like snuggle. I know. That's so thank god 677 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 1: we have a lot of like daytime situation and we're 678 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: lucky for that. But I mean sex, yeah, I just yeah, 679 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: I mean yes, I meant like in LA, I like 680 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 1: daytime sex. I like, you know, school session sex, it's good, 681 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,760 Speaker 1: but I like nighttime sex. It's like I love nighttime 682 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 1: just because of the lighting and it's just so much better. 683 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 1: Like well, that's all other, that's all, and that's all. 684 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 1: Other topic of conversation is sex lighting because it matters, 685 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,359 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, where I'm like fucking put 686 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: the lights on. But I will say though that when 687 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 1: the lighting is like not only lights, but you want 688 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,880 Speaker 1: like a window with sunshine like literally shining into like 689 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: like a you know, gynecological example. No, I know, I know, 690 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 1: but I think I've changed now. I like I like 691 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 1: the candle, I like the flicker. Yeah, why did it 692 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 1: change because me? No, no, no, no, I are you 693 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 1: getting insecure now about your body? Will say no, no, 694 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:44,920 Speaker 1: not always about the lighting. And then I do remember 695 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 1: semi recently one night you being like, oh, yeah, like 696 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,880 Speaker 1: it's all about like the candles and the angles, and 697 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 1: then yeah, I'm per forming a little bit better because 698 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: well exactly, And that's what happens is it's if you 699 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 1: feel secure and comfortable, then everything is better, you know 700 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,280 Speaker 1: what I mean. That's so true. No, but it's sexy. 701 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 1: It's creating, it's creating the sexy mood, which you know, 702 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: which happens. But a lot of the times is that 703 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: daytime that's fun though time it's hot, but when the 704 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: kids go to school and all of a sudden, it's like, yeah, 705 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, but you know, no, I know, 706 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, but the candle light's good. I like 707 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 1: the flicker, you know, of the candlelight. But sometimes the 708 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: candles will be too far away, you know, and then 709 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 1: I'll be like, I'm gonna move this candle on my 710 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: nightstand so I can see a little bit more. I 711 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: don't like not to see you know what I mean. 712 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: As I said, I'm a visual person and so that's 713 00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: part of it, you know what I mean. Like, if 714 00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 1: it's pitch dark, I'm like, what's happening right now? I 715 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:54,160 Speaker 1: want to see my wife. We should see this for 716 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 1: like a sex episode, because now I think it's getting 717 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: a little too detailed. I don't know. Oh my gosh, babe, 718 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna have our own podcast. By the way, for 719 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 1: those of you listening right now, Aaron and I are 720 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 1: launching our own podcast. We don't know when yet, but 721 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,799 Speaker 1: it's happening. Coming up with names. I think I found 722 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 1: a good one. Not gonna reveal it quite yet, but yeah, 723 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna. We're gonna. We're gonna get after it. Because 724 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,720 Speaker 1: I have too much fun with you doing this, honestly. 725 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 1: You know, whether people like it or not, great, but 726 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 1: it's fun to just talk to you with a microphone 727 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: in my face. Honestly, it's weird. Things come out. You 728 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 1: get a little bit more honest. You know, you are 729 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 1: able to reveal things that in normal conversation you kind 730 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 1: of don't. So it's an experience not only for the listener, 731 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: but also maybe for us. It's kind of fun. I 732 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,640 Speaker 1: love it. Well, you're good at it. I mean, everyone 733 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 1: loves you. About what you're going to say? What is it? 734 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 1: I get a little bit nervous about what you're going 735 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: to say. But yeah, but that's that's, that's part of it. 736 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 1: I keep you on your keep you on your toes. 737 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: You do. We'll come into a close. But where are 738 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:24,720 Speaker 1: the kids right now? The kids are they in their rooms? Oh? Ours? 739 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 1: What do you mean ours? No? Milo and g oh 740 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: it was just with John last night. That's so funny. Actually, 741 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,440 Speaker 1: Rio and Wilder are here, but body is up at bings. 742 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: Oh still, Okay, I didn't know we were doing this. 743 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't get stuck in traffic. Yeah no, I know. Ight, 744 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,320 Speaker 1: so I gotta go get well. That that that little 745 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: twenty eight seconds, it is a bit of a window 746 00:44:54,239 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 1: and like real life. All right, pooh, well, I love you. 747 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,839 Speaker 1: Two more days. I love you. I miss you. I'll 748 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:07,879 Speaker 1: see you. I'll see you very soon. I can't wait. 749 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: I miss you. I love you. I love me too. Okay, 750 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:20,719 Speaker 1: i'll call you after this, okay. Bye. Sibling Revelry is 751 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:24,120 Speaker 1: executive produced by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson. Producer is 752 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:28,560 Speaker 1: Alison President. Editor is Josh Wendish. Music by Mark Hudson 753 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 1: aka Uncle Mark. If you want to show us some love, 754 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,799 Speaker 1: rate the show and leave us a review. This show 755 00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,040 Speaker 1: is powered by simple cast