1 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: How did you feel about the style of the group 2 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: and how that sort of evolved. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was I was definitely the outsider of 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 2: the Outsiders just because like they called me tiger Beat 5 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: because I was I don't have any edge, right, like 6 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: like Todd Allen and and even Jimmy, you know, like 7 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 2: they all kind of grew up in a I don't know, 8 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: there were military kids, and they grew up in around 9 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 2: with different culture than I did. 10 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: This right here is Jason Dowdy. When Aaron Kane and 11 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: his brother Noel left Sudden Impact, which by then was 12 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 1: called the Outsiders, Jason is one of the new guys 13 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: who took their place, and for the rest of the group, 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: the first order of business was to dirty him up 15 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: a little. 16 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 17 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: So when I joined the group, they kind of had 18 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 2: to give me a makeover, you know a little bit. Yeah, 19 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: and like what like how oh, like you know, get 20 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:00,639 Speaker 2: like Jibo jeans and Iceberg and I don't know all 21 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:01,319 Speaker 2: this stuff in the. 22 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 4: Time, sure, all giant giant jeans. 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I had my jeans that I had at 24 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 2: the time were more Jimko than Chirpo, you know what 25 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: I mean. 26 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, But what I got there, I got there. 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jason didn't know he'd be a part of the 28 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: version of Sudden Impact that came the closest to fulfilling 29 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: the promise of the Motown Philly Moment, the version that 30 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: finally got a whole song on a movie soundtrack, The 31 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: version that finally appeared in music videos for its own music. 32 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 1: These Outsiders for live videos are on YouTube, by the way, 33 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: And in the one I'm looking at right now, the 34 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: one that you will not believe me when I tell 35 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: you who directed it, Sweet Tiger Beat, Jason is definitely 36 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: all decked out and bad boy tank tops and do 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: rags and wide leg jeans. He exhales blunt smoke and 38 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: when you look, you don't even have to look that closely, 39 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: you see it. The blunt smoke is cgi. We'll talk 40 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: to Sweet Jason Dowdy Tiger Beat, the new guy in 41 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: Sudden Impact, about his life in the group's final stretch, 42 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: the Outsiders for Life years. He'll take us into the 43 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: inevitable tragic drug chapter of the story. 44 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 4: Every group has one. 45 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: And since we're taking some big swings lately, if we 46 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: are really chiseling out Mount Rushmore of early nineties music 47 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: video special guest performers. I have found the daddy of 48 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: them all. No, I have found the zaddy of them all. 49 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: I've reached out to an unforgettable face from a nineteen 50 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: ninety one music video, someone I have always wanted to 51 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: track down, and baby, Baby, you will not believe who 52 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: I have got for you. This is Waiting for Impact, 53 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: a Dave Holmes pasion project. By the late nineties, the 54 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: group that had started as Two Special became White Hot Empty, 55 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: famous as Sudden Impact, got renamed White Guys, and later 56 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: rebranded themselves. 57 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 4: The Outsiders began to implode. 58 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: After being pulled off of Capital and then dropped from 59 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: BIV ten Records. Their third record label, Stone Creek, just 60 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: folded entirely, putting them right back to square one. Brothers 61 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: Aaron and Noel Kine left the group to start a 62 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: new one, and their empty seats got taken by two 63 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: young singers, Jimmy Marble and Jason Dowdy. 64 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 4: How are you good, Dave good good? 65 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 5: Where are you in well OneD Ontario where we have 66 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 5: free healthcare? 67 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 4: Oh? Come on, good thinking. 68 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: When we talk, Jason Dowdy is freshly vexed and ready 69 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: to talk about his adventure with a group he already 70 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: knew a little bit about. Did you remember having seen 71 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: the Boys to Men Motown, Philly video and the sudden impact? 72 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely, Yeah, Okay, I remember. Let's see that 73 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: was in ninety I want to say one or two 74 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: somewhere around there house, still in high school when I 75 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: saw that. Yeah, And of course I was like what 76 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 2: I was like cause, you know, new addition Viv like 77 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: all that. There were my heroes growing up. So yeah, 78 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: I was like, what's gonna happen with this? 79 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 4: What was the Outsiders for life lifestyle? 80 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 3: Like? 81 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 4: For you, what was a typical day? 82 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 5: Hurry up and wait? 83 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: So it depended on the day, right, Yeah, Like I 84 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: would say, most of my time spent with the Outsiders 85 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 2: was downtime because we were waiting on this or that 86 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: to happen before we could you know, tour or record 87 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 2: or that type of thing. They put us up in 88 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 2: a really nice apartment. You know, we were at this 89 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 2: we were definitely vampires, so you know, we were staying 90 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 2: up all night. 91 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 5: I would say Tim probably worked the hardest out of 92 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 5: us all. 93 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 2: Like I would go sing my little bit and then 94 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: I would be, you know, walking the streets with Jimmy 95 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 2: or ordering Chinese food, or we'd play ping. 96 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 3: Pong or whatever. 97 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 2: Right, Like a lot of a lot of weed being smoked, 98 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: a lot of that going on. I wasn't I wasn't 99 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: a weat smoker, but a lot of that happening people 100 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 2: in and out of the studio all the time. Like 101 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 2: you know, we'd run into Kenny Loggins and I remember 102 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: Queen Latakifa stopping by at some point. So it's a 103 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: little bit of like surreal, you know what I mean. 104 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: That is the entire tragic drug chapter of the story. 105 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: By the way, you're safe now. Like I said, if 106 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: you do some digging on YouTube, you can find some 107 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: of the videos from the early Outsiders for Life era. 108 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: There's one called college Degrees spelled with a Z, just 109 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: like Outsiders. 110 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 3: Those God, the. 111 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: Guys are a little thugged up in this one. They're 112 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: in low riders. They're smoking blunts for Jason and I'm 113 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: just gonna repeat this in case his parents are listening. 114 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: The blunt smoke is cgi. This video is a wild ride. 115 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 1: But I was not prepared for what Jason told me 116 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: about it. 117 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 2: That one that was a hype Williams one. So first 118 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: of all, we got like the best director. 119 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 4: Wait a minute, Hype Williams directed. 120 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 5: That college degree. 121 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, wow, yeah, Okay, yeah, I can send over 122 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 2: like a picture. 123 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 5: I think we have a picture of us with him. 124 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,559 Speaker 1: Okay, gather round, kids. Hype Williams was the music video 125 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: director of the late nineties. Every hip hop video cliche, 126 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: he did it first, fish eye lenses, hype, artists bathed 127 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: in deep red or vivid blue lighting, hype. All those 128 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: early Missy Elliott and Buster Rhymes videos, all hype. Name 129 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: an iconic nineties hip hop or R and B video, 130 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: and I bet he directed it. No scrubs, getting jiggy 131 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: with it, MO money, more problems, Hype, hype and hype. 132 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: It's no exaggeration to say that he single handedly changed 133 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: the visual language of music, video and film. In two thousand, 134 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: he directed videos for jay Z, No Doubt, DMX, and 135 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: Outsiders for Life. Jason has a YouTube channel where he 136 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: hosts a bunch of Outsiders for Life videos. There's College 137 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: Degrees directed by Hype Williams. The guys are shooting, Moody 138 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: looks at the camera inside a bowling alley and then 139 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: getting hauled off to a jail cell for reasons that 140 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: are never made clear. There's one for Not Enough, with 141 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: the guys in matching black leather outfits. The video features 142 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: each one of the guys rolling around with a model 143 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: on a bed with some aggressively shiny satin sheets, and 144 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: the guys do the very two thousand music video thing 145 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: of getting so emotional they have to rip their jacket 146 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: or shirt off and expose their tank top. Not Enough 147 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: has Todd White singing the lyric You're something special girl, 148 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: you know your shit is tight? 149 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 4: And then there are. 150 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: Two videos for a song called who Are You, the 151 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: original and the Timbaland remix. Both of these songs start 152 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: with a verse from Dave Smith, the Quiet One from 153 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: the group Let's take a listen. Okay, you really have 154 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,559 Speaker 1: to watch out for the Quiet Ones. But I listened 155 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: to this verse again and something jumps out at me. 156 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: Pay attention to these lyrics. You think you're hot shit, 157 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: but you ain't nothing. 158 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 4: Now. 159 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: You went from boys to men, broke to Benjamin's front 160 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: and day by day like we're fucking friend, come up 161 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: with something new because you ain't saying nothing. 162 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 4: Hold on, is who are you a diss? Track? And 163 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 4: if so, who are they dissing? 164 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: January nineteen ninety one, a thirty year old superstar in 165 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: the Christian music world released her first pop single, a 166 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: song whose lyrics are actually about her six week old daughter, Millie. 167 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: The artist was Amy Grant and the song was Baby Baby. 168 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: It went to number one on the Billboard Hot one 169 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: hundred in April, unseating Wilson Phillips You're in Love because again, 170 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety one was a great fucking year. 171 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 4: Anyway. 172 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: If you know the song, which you do, you also 173 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 1: know the video. The video was absolutely everywhere you looked 174 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety one, seismic in our culture. Karen Kilgareth 175 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: herself describes the video as like if Rachel from Friends 176 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: were a music video. It's Amy Grant doing what we 177 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: can only call avoiding in some outfits right out of 178 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: the Elaine Bennis collection, with a guy, a handsome guy, 179 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: a strikingly startlingly seen, stealingly handsome guy, a rare male 180 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: video vixen. Largely because of him, the video for Baby 181 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: Baby made people crazy crazy. It was sweet, aspirational, clean 182 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: enough for a Christian music star. Yet because of this guy, 183 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: undeniably sexy, he was so popular he made the rare 184 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: music video move of reprising his role in a sequel, 185 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 1: the video for Ammy Grant's Good for Me. He was 186 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: one of the faces of nineteen ninety one, but because 187 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: it was nineteen ninety one and there was no Internet 188 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: or social media, and I guess he didn't hire a publicist. 189 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: Nobody knew his name. I did a little digging. I 190 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: found him and I talked to him, and his name 191 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: is Jamie Sin. Yes, sir as I live in breath. 192 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: I can't believe we found you and it's happening. 193 00:09:55,040 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty in shocked myself. I'm in shock. Thirty 194 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 3: years is what I'm in shocked at. 195 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, tell me what you're doing now. You're in Miami Beach. 196 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 3: Well, I'm in Miami Beach and I'm kind of going 197 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 3: back California. In Miami Beach, my son lives here. I'm still, 198 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 3: believe it or not, in the fashion world, modeling at 199 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 3: the age of fifty two. 200 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 4: I can see you. I believe it. 201 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:19,719 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 202 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,839 Speaker 4: This is a video call. I believe it. 203 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 3: Thank you you guys. 204 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 1: Jamie Stein looks good as hell. He's in kind of 205 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: a salt and pepper silver Fox Daddy moment. 206 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 4: It works. Let's go back. Who was Jamie Stein in 207 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 4: nineteen ninety one? 208 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 3: Oh, my god, who was Jamie Stein in nineteen ninety one? 209 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 3: I was. I was just starting in the business of 210 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 3: doing commercials and modeling, just literally fresh into it. I 211 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 3: must have been twenty four, around twenty four years old. 212 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 3: I was living in LA and I was surfing a lot, 213 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 3: and then I got into the fashion world and that 214 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 3: kind of changed the direction on my life for sure. 215 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 4: What did you want out of life at twenty four? 216 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 3: Oh? I mean literally just I wanted to see the 217 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 3: world as I was doing. Even went out before the business. 218 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 3: I was traveling just to go surf and explore. That's 219 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 3: really what my life was about. And all I wanted 220 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 3: to do was surf and travel. 221 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: You can relate to this, right You moved to Los 222 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Angeles to surf and then you find yourself swept up 223 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 1: in the world of high fashion modeling. 224 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 4: Well, that's Jamie's life. He's modeling. 225 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: He's starting to go out on commercial auditions, and at 226 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 1: that time, with four major networks and just a few 227 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: dozen cable channels, a national commercial could make your career. 228 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: The residuals alone could buy you a house, You could 229 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: get discovered and go onto something bigger like Brad Pitt 230 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: and Matt LeBlanc did. Jamie Stein went a different direction. 231 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: So you're going out on commercial castings and whatnot. What 232 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: kind of stuff would you go out for? 233 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 3: Oh my god, from Coca Cola to car commercials. Back 234 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 3: then there was even out cigarette commercials. I mean, it 235 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 3: was such a wide variety of music videos, you know, yeah, 236 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 3: there you go, yeah yeah. 237 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 4: So how did the Baby Baby job come about? 238 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 3: Well, they my agency sent me on a casting to 239 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 3: go see about this video, and I had no idea 240 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 3: what it was about. And I never heard of I was. 241 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 3: I was always listening to reggae music as I grew up, 242 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 3: and that was most of the music I listened to. 243 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: Just breaking in to say that reggae absolutely suits Jamie's 244 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: personal brand. 245 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 3: So I wasn't really familiar with Amy Grant at the time, 246 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 3: and I didn't know how big of the deal she 247 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 3: was back in that time as well. And I didn't 248 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: know that she was a christ Christian gospel singer. I 249 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 3: thought she was just a pop singer. So I had 250 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 3: no idea the whole background of this whole situation, you know. 251 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 3: So I just went in and I casted for it. 252 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 3: They made me dance around and sing to the song 253 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 3: that I never heard of before, which was crazy, but 254 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 3: it was super fun and it felt comfortable and they 255 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 3: liked me. And then they called me back and I 256 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 3: met the director and I did some more dancing and 257 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 3: some more singing, lip singing, obviously to her music, and 258 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 3: uh and there you go. They booked me for it. 259 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 1: You were living in La at the time where we're Yes, yeah, 260 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: I was in La Okay whereabouts. 261 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 3: I was living at that at that time, on top 262 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 3: of the Panga Canyon. Oh wow, yeah, yeah. 263 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 4: Theme themes are emerging here, Jamie stout. Welcome to my world, right, 264 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 4: I love it. Your world is a good place, Jamie steins. 265 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: Panka Canyon, for those who don't know, is just over 266 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 1: the hill from Malibu, and it is exactly the part 267 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: of La you would end up in if you were 268 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: a surfer turned model who listened to a lot of reggae. 269 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: It's perfect. Jamie booked the job. The video came out 270 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: and you've seen it. 271 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 4: So you know he crushes it. So during during. 272 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: Lockdown, we've had a lot of time time to you know, 273 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: to watch things, to binge, watch our thing here. 274 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 4: In our home. 275 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: My partner and I will just go down late night 276 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: YouTube music video rabbit holes, right, and we we got 277 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: into the Amygrant music videos recently, and I said out loud, 278 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: this is a man who understands the assignment. This guy 279 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: has a job and he's doing the hell out of it. 280 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 3: I appreciate that you're I appreciate that. 281 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 1: It's you're you're like you're magnetic, but you're not stealing focus. 282 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: It's like, it is. I hope you're comfortable with me 283 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: saying this. It is you're performing a male Tawny Katain situation. Wow, Wow, Wow, 284 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: all right, kids, gather around again. Tawny Katain was the 285 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: video vixen of the eighties. She appeared on the cover 286 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: of rats breakthrough album Out of the Cellar, but she's 287 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: known for her performance doing the splits and vaults on 288 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: the hoods of luxury cars in White Snakes Here I 289 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: Go Again video. That performance made MTV play that video 290 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 1: a million times a day, and MTV playing that video 291 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: a million times a day made that song an album 292 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: go multi platinum. You're gonna have to take my word 293 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: for it that when I said he had pulled off 294 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: a rare male Tawny Kataine maneuver. Jamie put his hand 295 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: right on his chest like he was really touched. This 296 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: guy gets it. Okay, yeah, Okay, that landed. Wow good 297 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: yeah good. 298 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 299 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 4: So on set, what kind of direction were you given? 300 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I have to say DJ Webster, 301 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 3: who was the director, was just he was crazy but 302 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: so like like he gave me all the energy that 303 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 3: I needed. I was, you have to you have to 304 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: know that I was really raw, like into this business. 305 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 3: So I really didn't know what I was doing at all. 306 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 3: I was just going with how I feel and with 307 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 3: the direction I was And Amy Grant Okay, so I really, 308 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 3: like I said, I don't really don't know anything about Amy, 309 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 3: And she was so sweet and so understanding and so 310 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 3: like I had the lip sync to her her song 311 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:18,119 Speaker 3: and in front of like I don't know, fifty sixties 312 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: people working in front of me. So I was super 313 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 3: embarrassed in the beginning because I didn't want to embarrass 314 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 3: her by me like making a fool myself. She said, 315 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 3: just go with it, just let's have fun. And I 316 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 3: literally just whatever came on the line, I just did. 317 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 3: And with the direction of DJ and and Amy just 318 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 3: like leading it was. It just felt it felt really natural. 319 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: After the video comes out, it explodes and gets played constantly. 320 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god, you have you have 321 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 3: no idea, you have no idea. It was no, it 322 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 3: was it was beyond what I'd ever thought I was 323 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 3: doing at the time. What was going to be the 324 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 3: direction of my life was going after that, Like it 325 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 3: was literally on I don't know, because MTV back then 326 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 3: was playing videos and it was my video, the video 327 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 3: I was in, and the Janet Jackson video at that time, 328 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 3: and it literally was playing probably ten ten times a 329 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 3: day at least. Yeah, and and averywhere I you know, 330 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 3: a lot of places I went, Like I would see 331 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 3: it on like a TV inside a restaurant I would see. 332 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: I would hear the music in like target, you know, 333 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 3: I would. It was and this goes on for years, 334 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 3: you know, for years, and every time someone would look 335 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 3: at me or say something to me, or it caught 336 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 3: me by surprise every single time. And I never ever 337 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 3: got used to that ever, And it happened a lot. 338 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw this video a lot that year, and 339 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: every time it was on, I would watch it all 340 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 1: the way through. Everybody would Jamie's that magnetic. Amy Grant's 341 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: fans ate the video up. Jamie knew a little about 342 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: Amy Grant, but he didn't get how many fans she 343 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: had or what kind of fans they were. 344 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 3: And I didn't realize she had that many followers and 345 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 3: that many fans. The followers fans, like a crazy, crazy 346 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 3: amount of fans. 347 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, she had a lot of fans. 348 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: But then also that song and that album made her 349 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: cross over to the mainstream pop charts, and then then 350 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: it really exploded. 351 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 3: I didn't realize that's what was going on. And then 352 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 3: it kind of got a little controversial, I guess with oh, explain, Yeah, 353 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 3: well she was married and I was playing her love interest. 354 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 3: So the Christian gospel fans, some of them, you know, 355 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 3: were just like, well, what's going on here? You know, 356 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 3: they actually believed I was her boyfriend on the side. 357 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 3: Some people. 358 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,159 Speaker 1: While another guy might have tried to seize that moment 359 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 1: and capitalize on it, try to spin it into a 360 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,199 Speaker 1: movie career or a pop single of his own, Jamie 361 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: just kind of took it in stride. It raised your 362 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:04,439 Speaker 1: profile through the roof. Did it did it change the 363 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:05,719 Speaker 1: way you saw your future? 364 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: I mean day I saw my future. I saw like 365 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 3: I see my future day by day, not like long 366 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 3: long term. But it changed it for sure within within 367 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 3: my within my work, because people started calling for me 368 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 3: because I want that guy in the in the amy gravity, 369 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 3: who's that guy? Let's get him for this, Let's get 370 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:29,399 Speaker 3: him for that. So it opened up huge opportunities for me. 371 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 3: I just went with it, and and from there I 372 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 3: ended up moving to Europe to Paris, and I stayed 373 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 3: in Paris for like almost eight years, working working fashion 374 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 3: in Paris, and I would come back to California and 375 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 3: do jobs through through my agency's in LA and New York, 376 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 3: and and I was getting a lot of work because 377 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 3: of that video of the videos, but first basically from 378 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 3: the first one for sure. 379 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 4: So just as a model, it got. 380 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 3: To yes, yes, okay. But I also think because they 381 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,479 Speaker 3: saw that, they believe that I wasn't just modeling in it. 382 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 3: They believed that the emotions and stuff like that and 383 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 3: in the chemistry, they believe it's real, and so a 384 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 3: lot of those jobs that's what they wanted. And so 385 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 3: they saw that and they're like, oh, let's try this 386 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 3: guy looks good for what we're doing. So I mean, 387 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 3: I can't give enough thanks to aiming for all that. 388 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: So a music video, there are no like residuals or 389 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: anything like that, Like it's you get your day right 390 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: and then it doesn't. 391 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I if there was residuals from that, I would 392 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 3: be a different, different category. But yeah, no, no, it's 393 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 3: it's just it's a it's a one time thing, okay, yeah, 394 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 3: but what it gave me in the future is priceless. Absolutely. 395 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: So he took a big role in a big music 396 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 1: video that he did extremely well, and he used it 397 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: as a way to do more of what he was 398 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: already doing. He got exactly what he wanted from his 399 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: big break, and what he wanted was what he already had. 400 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 4: This goes against everything that you're. 401 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 1: Taught about how you're supposed to live in America in 402 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 1: late capitalism. 403 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 4: But he didn't want to be rich, he didn't want 404 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 4: to be famous. 405 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 3: No, I just wanted to to be to be be happy, 406 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 3: be at peace with myself, enjoy my life. I wanted 407 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 3: I wanted to. I wanted to I wanted to surf, obviously, 408 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 3: and I wanted to travel and and and get different 409 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,359 Speaker 3: cultures and and and experienced life. That's what I wanted 410 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 3: to do, and that's what I was doing and continuing 411 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 3: to do. And I would just pick another place to 412 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 3: go into experience and and and to dive into the culture. 413 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 3: I saw myself doing that until I couldn't do it anymore. 414 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 3: Let's just put it that way. 415 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 4: And and it sounds like that is how it's panned. 416 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 3: Out a little bit. It has it, really, it really has. 417 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 3: I mean since I had my son, it's obviously slowed 418 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 3: me down. It's not slowed me down, it's it's put 419 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 3: me in a different position to be. To be a father, 420 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 3: you have to be there for your for your son 421 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 3: or your daughter. So I'm more focused on being a father, 422 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 3: but also traveling and doing that as much as possible 423 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 3: and actually making him understand, like feel the way I 424 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 3: feel about it as well. That's important to me to 425 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 3: understand that there's a world out there. Yeah, what's he's studying, 426 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 3: what's his marine biology? I mean it's amazing. Yeah. 427 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, the apple has not fallen far from the trade. 428 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 3: No, no, thank god. 429 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: The day after we spoke, he headed to Las Vegas 430 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 1: to do some modeling for a hotel, then off to 431 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: Kona in Hawaii. Than Corus out than Hamburg, Germany. Dude 432 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: has not stopped working or exploring or surfing. He's busy. 433 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 4: Your dance card is full and I love it. 434 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I'm very I'm very happy. 435 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: You've got a great energy. I would if I were 436 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: to in a position to cast you in my music video, 437 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: I would do it in a heartbeat. 438 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I appreciate it truly. 439 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 4: I'm gonna You've made me want to learn to surf. 440 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 3: See, that's all. That's all I want to do. That's 441 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 3: all I want to do, inspire people to get in 442 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 3: the water and enjoy the water. 443 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 1: Just as we were saying goodbye, Jamie remembered a message 444 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: he had just gotten on his Instagram. And it's too 445 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: good not to play for you. 446 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 3: I want to share one thing with you guys really quick, 447 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 3: because I thought this was really special. If someone sent 448 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 3: me this message on Instagram literally two days ago. Do 449 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 3: you mind if I share it with you guys? 450 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 4: Please? 451 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 3: Okay, so let me just put my glasses on because 452 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: I'm flying without him, That's all right, Okay. This is 453 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 3: from Lisa twenty five years ago. My husband and I, 454 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 3: being nine months pregnant and overdue, went on a dancing 455 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 3: date to possibly get things moving. As luck would have it, 456 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 3: the DJ saw my huge belly on the dance floor 457 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,959 Speaker 3: and played Baby Baby and made me feel like a 458 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,160 Speaker 3: star out there. Not only did I love the song 459 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 3: and the artists, but I thought you were perfect in 460 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 3: the role. So now I have an amazingly gifted and 461 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 3: gorgeous twenty five year old son named Jamie. Can you 462 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 3: believe that? It's unbelievable? 463 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 4: How often does that kind of thing happen? 464 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 3: It happens quite a bit, honestly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's 465 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 3: I mean, it makes me feel really good. You know, 466 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 3: if I get if I'm down one day, I'll look 467 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 3: at one of these texts, these messages, I'm like, wow, 468 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 3: that's pretty amazing. So yeah, it makes me happy. 469 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: Jamie Stein has the life he wants. He has a 470 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: chill attitude, and there's at least one child out in 471 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 1: the world named after him. If he's not alongside such 472 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: an impact in the music video co Star Hall of Fame, 473 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't know who is. Now, feel excuse me, I 474 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: need to watch Baby Baby five more times. So there 475 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: is a thing that people do in conversation that really 476 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: jumps out at me and it's starting a sentence with 477 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: the word so. I find myself doing it a lot 478 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: in questions. I'm not sure what it's all about. I 479 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: think it's to reassure the person I'm talking to that 480 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: I've done my research, So tell me about that BBD 481 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: tour jacket. 482 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 4: So what was the super Bowl halftime show? 483 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 1: Like? 484 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 3: Etc. 485 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 1: But often I ask a question and then the answer 486 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: begins with the words so, I've thought a lot about 487 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: what that so signifies, because, as you probably know by now, 488 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 1: I think about a lot of things that can't possibly 489 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: benefit me financially. I think what it says is, Okay, 490 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: here it goes, I've anticipated your question, and you're going 491 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: to get a full and satisfying answer. Jason goes a 492 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: step further. I ask a question and he begins his answer, yeah, 493 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: even if it isn't a yes or no question. 494 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 4: Yeah. And then sometimes so it's next level. 495 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: It's Jason saying, not only have I anticipated this question, 496 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 1: I've answered it in my head a few times already. 497 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: To me, it says, Jason has been ready to talk 498 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 1: about this stuff for a long time. He's just been 499 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: waiting for someone to ask, how does. 500 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 4: That feel to you? 501 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: When you've you've made something, and now it's just you're 502 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,959 Speaker 1: just waiting for strangers to do something with it. 503 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 3: Yeah. 504 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 2: Well, at the time, like it was, it was so gradual, 505 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 2: like our you know, the realization that you're not going 506 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,400 Speaker 2: to get released. 507 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: Once again, the three remaining guys of Sudden Impact, who 508 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: are now recording as Outsiders for Life with Jimmy Marble 509 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 1: and Jason Dowdy, are recording for a hot record label, 510 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: this time Blackground Records, the label launched by Aliah's uncle 511 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: Barry Hankerson, and once again, the finished product never sees 512 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 1: the light of day. 513 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 2: There's probably one moment where, you know, I think all 514 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 2: of our hearts sank a little bit when we were 515 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 2: promoting not Enough, So we got a lot of radio play. 516 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 2: It was trending up. We were on tour like it 517 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 2: was around spring break time. I want to say, I 518 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 2: can't remember if it was ninety nine or two thousand, 519 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 2: I cannot remember. 520 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 5: Somewhere in that time. 521 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: I remember it was spring break time because we were 522 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 2: in Florida and we were, you know, opening for our idols, 523 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 2: you know, like Loud Cruise and Pink and Shaggy, and 524 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 2: we're starting to get some attention, We're starting to gain 525 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 2: some momentum, doing interviews all of that, and then I 526 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 2: guess the single lost momentum and they just pulled the 527 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 2: plug on the tour, so we're off the tour bus 528 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 2: and all that, and I think that was kind of 529 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 2: the moment where like, and you know that boy bands 530 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 2: are about to be over, you know, the kind of 531 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 2: run their course. By the time, I think this was 532 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,159 Speaker 2: in two thousand, so he kind of knew that they 533 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 2: were running their course. And that's probably the moment where 534 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I don't think this. 535 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 5: May not happen. 536 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 1: With the single sputtering out, Blackground pulled the plug on 537 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: the album, an album that was already made, finished, had 538 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: a cover and everything. They did get one song, a 539 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: remix of hell Yeah on the soundtrack of the DMX 540 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 1: Steven Sigall movie Exit Wounds, But as for a full album, again, 541 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: the guys have poured their hearts into a project that 542 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 1: sits in a vault at a record company. Why record 543 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: something and then never give it an opportunity to earn 544 00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 1: a single dollar back? 545 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 2: I think that's just I think that's just part of 546 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 2: the business at the time. There, I mean, there are 547 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 2: so many boy bands and like girl groups from that 548 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 2: time that probably got left on the cutting room floor, 549 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 550 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 5: Like, I bet there are. 551 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 2: Thousands of stories like mine out there, and I think 552 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 2: it was just the way they did business like they 553 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 2: would it was worth the investment to see if it 554 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 2: would happen to get like like, it's kind of like 555 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 2: a gold rush, right instinct. You know, Backstreet Boys are popular. 556 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 2: Everybody's like, let's make the next one. When they all 557 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 2: rushed to it and they all throw money at it, 558 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: and then you know, whoever catches on, great, But if 559 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 2: they don't catch on, it was worth the investment to 560 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 2: seek to get part of that part of that market. 561 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: To your point about boy bands that that don't take off, 562 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 1: Get this, Okay, I'm going to tell you a story. 563 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:54,959 Speaker 1: This would have to have been. In two thousand, I 564 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: hosted the get this you're sitting down, this is good. 565 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: I hosted the press conference the unveiling of the Backstreet 566 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: Boys Burger King Kids Club action figures. 567 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, yeah. 568 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: They flew me down to Orlando, Florida to like to 569 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: some theme park or something, and the Backstreet Boys were 570 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: there and they were unveiling their kids Club, Action figures 571 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: and so and so that's that was going on there, 572 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: which was of course wild. And the night that I 573 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: spent in Orlando, we ended up going to some club 574 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: and the club was literally full. Like everyone that I 575 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: met was like in a boy band or a girl group. 576 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: So it was like they would introduce themselves by name 577 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 1: and then. 578 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 4: Name of group. 579 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: Oh wow, as though I knew like these you know, 580 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 1: second and third tier like groups that Lou Pearlman was, 581 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: you know, was working with, but it was it was insane. 582 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: It would just be like, Hi, I'm Ashley Innocence. Okay, Okay, 583 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. I don't know what 584 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: that means. But there were dozens of them, and it 585 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: was like I am fully in like in like some 586 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: sort of I'm like at Hogwarts for boy bands and 587 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: girl groups, and most of the ones I met nothing happened. 588 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 4: So there you go. 589 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 2: Well, and I think part of the reason we had 590 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 2: some success was like there was some integrity to our 591 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 2: group because we wrote and produced the stuff, and we 592 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 2: like the contracts that we had to choose from. DreamWorks 593 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 2: was one of them, and we could have gone that route, 594 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 2: you know, work with David Foster, you know, with that direction. 595 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 2: But Todd and Alan and Tim really liked the offer 596 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: from Blackground because they were more like our people, you 597 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like they understood the type of 598 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 2: music we wanted to make. They were working with our 599 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 2: ye rows, you know, Timberlance from the Missier Votes, from 600 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 2: that Hampton Roads area, like, you know, it just seemed 601 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 2: like a better fit. So, like, I think the reason 602 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 2: we even caught on some was because there was like 603 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 2: that people can tell genuine from fake pretty easily, right, 604 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 2: and I think at least people could tell that, you know, 605 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: we wrote the song and it's real and we mean 606 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 2: the lyrics and all that. 607 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 1: So in the early nineties, Sudden Impact slash White Guys 608 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: Slashed the Outsiders couldn't get their records released because new 609 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: Kids on the Block were over. In two thousand, Outsiders 610 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: for Life couldn't get their record released because Backstreet Boys 611 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: and in Sync were huge. Sudden Impact got pushed to 612 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: the side because there were no boy bands. Outsiders for 613 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 1: Life got pushed to the side because there were too 614 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: many boy bands. For Jason, this was a disappointment, but 615 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: he was still new to the game. For the core 616 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: group from Sudden impact. This has to have been devastating. 617 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: If this is two thousand, this is nine years into 618 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: a career where this has been happening over and over 619 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: and over. Did you get a sense for how they 620 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: were feeling. 621 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, so Todd. 622 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 2: Todd is definitely the most persistent person in the group 623 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 2: that will do anything to make the dream happen. He 624 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 2: started the group, it's his dream. He is so good 625 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 2: at I don't know, like motivating people and getting people 626 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 2: on board. But his I think his thought process at 627 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 2: the time was this sucks. What can I do next 628 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 2: to make it happen? Like, you know, it was more 629 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 2: like let's do this, let's do that, let's talk to 630 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 2: these people. He's more in like, let's still make it 631 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: happen mode. So I think you'll have to ask Todd 632 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 2: what happened after that. But I think for him it 633 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 2: wasn't quite real yet, and it wasn't real necessarily for 634 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: any of us were But that was kind of a 635 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 2: moment where I was like, oh, yeah, this could be 636 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 2: over soon, you know, like where at least that light 637 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 2: bulb went on, you know, but we weren't ready to 638 00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 2: give up. 639 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 4: Sure, and what does that feel like? 640 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 2: So joining this group has always felt like it's too 641 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 2: good to be true anyway, you know what I mean, 642 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 2: Like I talked in right when everybody did the groundwork, 643 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like everybody had already done 644 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 2: the groundwork, got the contract and all that, and I'm 645 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 2: just like singing songs that other people are writing. Like 646 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 2: so for me it wasn't as bad. I was like, 647 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 2: I can always go back to, you know, performing doing 648 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 2: what I was doing before. So and you know, it's 649 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 2: been a dream of mine, but I'm not like, you know, 650 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 2: there are people who dream and then there's people who 651 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 2: build and do things about it. When I was that young, 652 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 2: I was just dreaming, not doing anything about it. So 653 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 2: I wasn't like invested too heavily. So I probably took 654 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 2: it better than most of the people, like especially Pod 655 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 2: and Allen and. 656 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: Day and Jason had a fallback position doing something else 657 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: that I feel like I'm going to have to explain 658 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 1: to young people, like. 659 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 2: I moved did a cruise ship contract two thousand and 660 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 2: four and moved back to two thousand and five to 661 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 2: make one last go of the group, and then in 662 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 2: two thousand and six is when I moved away started 663 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 2: doing cruise ships again and all of that. 664 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 1: All right, kids gather around one more time. People used 665 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: to go on cruise ships. 666 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 4: That's it. 667 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 2: So I think that's kind of when the realization happened 668 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 2: for Todd and for the guys in the group. I 669 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 2: think we're all slowly accepting it over time. 670 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 1: Now Todd, as I understand it, is still in the business, 671 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: still like writing songs for country artists. 672 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he's still doing that. 673 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 2: He's I think he has a You'll have to ask 674 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: Todd obviously to get the exact thing, but I know 675 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 2: he had a last time I spoke to him, he 676 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 2: said he had a big meeting in Nashville and he 677 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 2: was considering, like there offered him a publishing contract. But 678 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 2: you know, he has a family now, he's got a mortgage, 679 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 2: and he's got all these responsibilities. So in order to 680 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: only focus on writing, like we'd have to take drastic cut. 681 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 5: And pay and so I think he was weighing those options. 682 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 5: You'll have to ask him how it came out. 683 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jason's got a good attitude about the whole thing, 684 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: probably because he remembers why he got involved in the 685 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 1: first place. When you were like starting out as a singer. 686 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: What did what did success in music look like to you? 687 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? 688 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 2: I I didn't really I didn't really think about it 689 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 2: that much. I so my very first job, I got 690 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,880 Speaker 2: it Frontier City in Oklahoma, just singing in some show, 691 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 2: earning minimum wage, you know, and I was selling pictures 692 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 2: at the front of the park before and after, and 693 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 2: like I was thrilled, you know at the time, like I. 694 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 5: Can sing for a living. 695 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 2: Wow, you know what I mean. Like I had that 696 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 2: just attitude or gratitude all the time. So I success 697 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 2: to me was just like the fact that I could 698 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 2: sing and make a living at it. That was number one. 699 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 2: Like in Oklahoma, they don't preach that, like it doesn't 700 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:57,959 Speaker 2: happen because there aren't any performing jobs there obviously, right, 701 00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 2: So you know, if I grew up in La or 702 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,280 Speaker 2: York or something like that, I'd probably have bigger, bigger dreams. 703 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:07,319 Speaker 2: But did that got a job at Busch Gardens. I 704 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,360 Speaker 2: was like, Wow, even a better job. And then you know, 705 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 2: started doing that, and then when this came along, I 706 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,960 Speaker 2: was like, oh, I didn't even realize this could happen 707 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 2: this easily, you know what I mean, Like I was 708 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 2: I didn't build it from scratch or anything like that. 709 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: I just kind of luckily fell into it. So and 710 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 2: then I got out a new vision of success with 711 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 2: the group. I was like, Wow, we could really make it. 712 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 2: We could do this, we could do that. Started to 713 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 2: learn producing and songwriting and all that while while we went. 714 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,879 Speaker 1: And now are you still well nobody's doing cruise ships now, 715 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: But have you had you How long did you continue 716 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: singing on cruise ships and stuff? 717 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, until like twenty thirteen, and then I got another 718 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: regular nine to five job, met my wife, you know, 719 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 2: so now we have kids and all that, so just 720 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 2: doing that. I still write songs. I still put music 721 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 2: out and do some producing and stuff like that, but 722 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: not like I don't have time to pursue it or 723 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 2: anything like that. 724 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:06,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. How many kids? 725 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: Oh? 726 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 5: Oh two? I have two kids? Yeah, three and five. 727 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 5: Sophia's five, Kayley's two. 728 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 4: Congratulations, Oh thank you, thank you. 729 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 3: I love it. 730 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 4: And what line of business are you in? 731 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: I worked for an internet service provider and as a 732 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 2: team manager just for people. We basically give a call 733 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 2: and say, hey, I see you signed up for our internet. 734 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 2: Let's let's get an appointment going that type. 735 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,280 Speaker 4: Thanks good. It's a happy life. 736 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 5: It sounds like, yeah, yeah, it's a happy life most definitely. 737 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 4: Are you glad you took the ride? 738 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely yeah it was. I mean I have 739 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 2: some of my best stories from there. I don't know 740 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 2: if I should share any other I think. I mean, like, 741 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, no, not have it involves other people, 742 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,880 Speaker 2: but yeah, yeah, I would say it's definitely worth the ride. 743 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,800 Speaker 1: Jason Dowdy and Jamie Stein Tiger Beet and the Baby 744 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: Baby Man, two good guys, two living lessons in gratitude. 745 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 4: I check my. 746 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 1: Email after I get off the zoom and there's a 747 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,840 Speaker 1: message from Todd White, the main songwriter for Sudden Impact, 748 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 1: the guy all the way to the right in the 749 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: Motown Philly moment, the driver of the whole project, the 750 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 1: guy who was gonna beat up Aaron Kine but started 751 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: a singing group with him instead. He says he's down 752 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 1: to talk and he wants to know if Alan Healy 753 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: can join the call. I'll talk to two fifths of 754 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: Sudden Impact at the same time, and maybe they'll give 755 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 1: me the dish on who that disc track was about. 756 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: We'll find out next time. On Waiting for Impact, a 757 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: Dave Holmes passion project This has been an exactly Right production. 758 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:47,080 Speaker 1: Written by me Dave Holmes, produced by Hannah Kyle Crichton, recorded, 759 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: mixed and sound designed by Andrew Eapen. Additional engineering and 760 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 1: assembly by Annalise Nelson. Music by Ben Wise, artwork by 761 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: Garrett Ross. 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