WEBVTT - Why is Max Getting Ghosted by Daria?

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Max is on the phone today for a first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daria.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But first, Max, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you talked to Daria?

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<v Speaker 3>It's been eight days? Eight days, okay counting you said that,

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<v Speaker 3>so solemnly, how me reach it out to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? No, I've tried to text her, but I haven't

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<v Speaker 4>heard anything back.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, tell us about your date so we can

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<v Speaker 3>hear about this connection. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So, so we went to this pottery class which was

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<v Speaker 4>which was cool. Yeah, normally it's not like the typical

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<v Speaker 4>Drakes and Naps thing, but she seemed cool and I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to go big or go home for her, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and honestly, she was she was super into it and

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<v Speaker 4>she was good too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we got there.

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<v Speaker 4>I was I was shocked because she made this like

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful bowl that looked like it belongs.

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<v Speaker 3>To the museum.

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<v Speaker 4>And meanwhile, I've never done it before, so mine just

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<v Speaker 4>looks like a squash muffin.

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<v Speaker 3>Cute.

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<v Speaker 4>She left at that too, So but it was fun.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we were really connecting. We had wine, we

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<v Speaker 4>were kind of we got clay. We kind of had

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<v Speaker 4>a little clay fight, so we got clay all over

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<v Speaker 4>each other, and it just seemed like really playful and fun.

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<v Speaker 4>We ended up getting late night food after and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>after that, we ended up back at my place. So

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<v Speaker 4>I you know, I think everything went great according to

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<v Speaker 4>my perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it sounds like it so your place. You

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<v Speaker 3>didn't just like play checkers or did.

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<v Speaker 4>You you call it checkers? Okay, either way, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>just a friendly hug, goodbye. Okay, got it. Did do

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<v Speaker 4>you guys make a plan to see each other again? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>We both expressed that, you know, something that we were

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<v Speaker 4>into and looked, you know, wanted to do again. So

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<v Speaker 4>you know, we didn't make any specific plans, but she

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<v Speaker 4>was definitely into the date, and I absolutely wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>make more plans.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I just don't know what happened. Is there

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<v Speaker 3>anything that you can think of that may have been

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<v Speaker 3>an issue? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I have, Yeah, I've been thinking about it and trying

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<v Speaker 4>to figure out.

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<v Speaker 3>What could have happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, I was at one point I said,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like avocados, and she was really passionate about guac.

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<v Speaker 3>So like we're not like deeply invested in guacamole. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm wondering if that is a thing.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she may not have been into that or

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<v Speaker 4>you know, at one point during the date, we we

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<v Speaker 4>got tacos and I did drop my taco on the

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<v Speaker 4>ground and I called it five second rule, but I

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<v Speaker 4>still laid it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it was the avocado thing. I think

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<v Speaker 3>you're safe there.

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<v Speaker 4>No, okay, Okay, yeah, I mean it's that. I honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>the last thing I could think of possibly was I

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<v Speaker 4>told her that I'm emotionally available. But I texted that

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<v Speaker 4>to her the next day, and up until that, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we'd been kind of texting through the date, and then

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<v Speaker 4>she stayed over at my place and the next day

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<v Speaker 4>I tried to start it again, but you know, nothing,

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<v Speaker 4>if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Had to call it and say one thing, what would

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<v Speaker 3>you think it would be? WHOA? I mean, it could

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<v Speaker 3>have been the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't know, like, I, you know, might have

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<v Speaker 4>waited her out and I said I was emotionally available,

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe it was rushing or something.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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<v Speaker 2>and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.

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<v Speaker 3>You and maybe get you another date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, awesome, thank you, all right, we'll get your

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<v Speaker 2>first day follow up.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>Max is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Darius.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 2>a second date if he wants one. Still, But first

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<v Speaker 2>before we call her, Max, why don't you break down

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<v Speaker 2>your situation again first?

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<v Speaker 3>Real quick? Yeah, So, Daria and I went to this

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<v Speaker 3>pottery class for our first date.

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<v Speaker 4>We ended up getting some late nighte food, ended up

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<v Speaker 4>back at my place, had a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>She stayed the night, and I haven't heard from her since.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought maybe it could be because I dropped my

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<v Speaker 4>taco and still ate it during the date, or because

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<v Speaker 4>I texted her that I was emotionally available next day

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<v Speaker 4>and it weird you're out?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure? So did kiss you after you dropped

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<v Speaker 3>the taco and ate it? That's a good point, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>See if we can help you out. You ready for

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<v Speaker 3>us to call her? Yes? Thank you? All right, here

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<v Speaker 3>we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Daria. Please.

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<v Speaker 5>This is her?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Daria, how are you? This is a radio show.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Daria, I'm Nina. Hi,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Victoria, and I'm Jewel. How are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Up?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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<v Speaker 2>I have?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Dope? Okay. Well, guess what, Daria?

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<v Speaker 5>I always thought these calls for sake?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, yeah, somebody emailed us about you. Apparently you

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<v Speaker 2>went on a date with somebody. This is the first

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<v Speaker 2>day follow up, you know the segment that we do

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<v Speaker 2>that if you go on a date with someone and

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<v Speaker 2>you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us

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<v Speaker 2>to get you on the phone and find out why

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghosting them.

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<v Speaker 5>People actually do actually call it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yep, because ghost sucks, Daria, and you're one of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, it's Max.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have any idea? Who what email us about?

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<v Speaker 5>You. I'm assuming it's Max, right, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes it is Max.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So he literally liked every single photo I've ever posted,

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<v Speaker 5>every single one of them. I woke up, I had

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<v Speaker 5>like a million new notifications from one day. I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>from twenty seventeen that was popping up.

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<v Speaker 3>Because that's the sole reason.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I posted a picture of a broken blender

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<v Speaker 5>in two thousand and eight and he hearted it broken

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<v Speaker 5>Who hearts a broken blender? Why didn't even post it?

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<v Speaker 5>It just it felt like, I don't know, it felt

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<v Speaker 5>like he was like virtually licking my timeline. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>even remember half of the photos that are there, and

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<v Speaker 5>it's not even like he just so like he literally

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<v Speaker 5>like he kind of studied them. It feels like he

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<v Speaker 5>commented on three different ones. I had fire emojis that

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<v Speaker 5>I had a comment that this era h and baby Daria,

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<v Speaker 5>like you really I've met the guy wants any commented

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<v Speaker 5>on a picture of me, like a picture of me

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<v Speaker 5>as a baby, an actual.

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<v Speaker 3>A little bit flattered, I mean flattered.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd be flattered if it was like you know, photo

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<v Speaker 5>or two recently, but like through the whole entire history

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<v Speaker 5>of me. It's a little.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, Daria, thank you for telling us. And

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<v Speaker 2>you probably already know this though, but Max is on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, they're they're on the other line. I

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<v Speaker 5>got it, okay, Yeah, hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Mas hi, Daria. That's why you ghosted me. You go

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<v Speaker 3>to me because I liked your posts.

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, you time travel through my entire Instagram and gave

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<v Speaker 5>me literal chills.

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<v Speaker 3>I just you posted. I was just trying to appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>you in full starry journey. You know. It was meant

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<v Speaker 3>to be a compliment.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like you were in an FBI agent that did

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<v Speaker 5>a deep dive into my life, Like, how about just

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<v Speaker 5>good luck on your midterms instead of the history of Daria.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I got like a little carried away, But it

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<v Speaker 4>was honestly meant to be just positive. I was was

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<v Speaker 4>enjoying getting to know you through your posts, and I

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<v Speaker 4>thought you were so interesting and I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>support your history.

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, you supported it to death.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's just I really like you, Daria, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was having so much fun getting to know you.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a great time doing pottery with you, and

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<v Speaker 4>and after.

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<v Speaker 5>Matt stopped, I'm mad at you. You weren't getting to

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<v Speaker 5>know me. You were creating stories in your head based

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<v Speaker 5>off of what I posted.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's not true.

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<v Speaker 4>I honestly think that you're super witty, beautiful, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sorry if I took it too far with those. And

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<v Speaker 4>also I hearted that blender that broke because I actually

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<v Speaker 4>have the same lender that broke as well.

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<v Speaker 5>Max, you are trying to relate to me, You're you're

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<v Speaker 5>literally creating a scenario in your head. You're trying to

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<v Speaker 5>relate to me like you just need to chill out.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not. I really have that blender. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>take the pictures of it, but I actually I actually

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<v Speaker 3>had it.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess that's another reason why you think we're meant

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<v Speaker 5>to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can, I can dial it back. I

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<v Speaker 3>promise I can. Unlike that baby photo of you. You

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<v Speaker 3>know it's listen. I'm not saying that we're meant to be.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I honestly just think you're dope. And I

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<v Speaker 3>really I really.

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<v Speaker 4>Liked you, and I still like you, and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't think you got to know me by scrolling

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<v Speaker 5>through a lifetime of Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Post Daria, would you like to go on another date

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<v Speaker 2>with Max? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I mean, I I do like when

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<v Speaker 5>someone's into me, but I don't want to feel like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm being digitally followed home.

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<v Speaker 3>I listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I promise I can dial it back. I know I

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<v Speaker 4>came on too strong, but you know, just just give

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<v Speaker 4>me one more chance.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, are you going to find my mom and

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<v Speaker 5>start dming her and stuff like that like other suckers.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be honest. I found Pam's profile, but she look,

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't message Pam.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>He held back to messaging Pam.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonna hit request?

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<v Speaker 3>I won't. I won't. I promise. What do you think, Daria?

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<v Speaker 3>One more chance? He sounds legit to me me too.

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<v Speaker 3>I would love that.

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<v Speaker 5>I did have a good time and you do this

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<v Speaker 5>little cute thing with your pinky. I don't know. Just

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<v Speaker 5>don't like me so much yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Right away?

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<v Speaker 4>I promised to be into you, but but not but

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<v Speaker 4>not that into you.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll do it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>If he if he chilled out a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweet congratulations Max, You got another date. Oh yeah cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm not I'm not that excited about it, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>there you go.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a little left stressful for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Jubile's first date follow up