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Speaker 2: Max is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daria.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Max, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Daria?
Speaker 3: It's been eight days? Eight days, okay counting you said that,
Speaker 3: so solemnly, how me reach it out to her?
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I've tried to text her, but I haven't
Speaker 4: heard anything back.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, tell us about your date so we can
Speaker 3: hear about this connection. Yeah.
Speaker 4: So, so we went to this pottery class which was
Speaker 4: which was cool. Yeah, normally it's not like the typical
Speaker 4: Drakes and Naps thing, but she seemed cool and I
Speaker 4: wanted to go big or go home for her, you know,
Speaker 4: and honestly, she was she was super into it and
Speaker 4: she was good too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we got there.
Speaker 4: I was I was shocked because she made this like
Speaker 4: beautiful bowl that looked like it belongs.
Speaker 3: To the museum.
Speaker 4: And meanwhile, I've never done it before, so mine just
Speaker 4: looks like a squash muffin.
Speaker 3: Cute.
Speaker 4: She left at that too, So but it was fun.
Speaker 4: I think we were really connecting. We had wine, we
Speaker 4: were kind of we got clay. We kind of had
Speaker 4: a little clay fight, so we got clay all over
Speaker 4: each other, and it just seemed like really playful and fun.
Speaker 4: We ended up getting late night food after and you know,
Speaker 4: after that, we ended up back at my place. So
Speaker 4: I you know, I think everything went great according to
Speaker 4: my perspective.
Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like it so your place. You
Speaker 3: didn't just like play checkers or did.
Speaker 4: You you call it checkers? Okay, either way, it wasn't
Speaker 4: just a friendly hug, goodbye. Okay, got it. Did do
Speaker 4: you guys make a plan to see each other again? Yeah?
Speaker 4: We both expressed that, you know, something that we were
Speaker 4: into and looked, you know, wanted to do again. So
Speaker 4: you know, we didn't make any specific plans, but she
Speaker 4: was definitely into the date, and I absolutely wanted to
Speaker 4: make more plans.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I just don't know what happened. Is there
Speaker 3: anything that you can think of that may have been
Speaker 3: an issue? Well?
Speaker 4: I have, Yeah, I've been thinking about it and trying
Speaker 4: to figure out.
Speaker 3: What could have happened.
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I was at one point I said,
Speaker 4: I don't like avocados, and she was really passionate about guac.
Speaker 3: So like we're not like deeply invested in guacamole. Okay,
Speaker 3: So I'm wondering if that is a thing.
Speaker 4: You know, she may not have been into that or
Speaker 4: you know, at one point during the date, we we
Speaker 4: got tacos and I did drop my taco on the
Speaker 4: ground and I called it five second rule, but I
Speaker 4: still laid it.
Speaker 3: I don't think it was the avocado thing. I think
Speaker 3: you're safe there.
Speaker 4: No, okay, Okay, yeah, I mean it's that. I honestly,
Speaker 4: the last thing I could think of possibly was I
Speaker 4: told her that I'm emotionally available. But I texted that
Speaker 4: to her the next day, and up until that, you know,
Speaker 4: we'd been kind of texting through the date, and then
Speaker 4: she stayed over at my place and the next day
Speaker 4: I tried to start it again, but you know, nothing,
Speaker 4: if you.
Speaker 3: Had to call it and say one thing, what would
Speaker 3: you think it would be? WHOA? I mean, it could
Speaker 3: have been the thing.
Speaker 4: I just don't know, like, I, you know, might have
Speaker 4: waited her out and I said I was emotionally available,
Speaker 4: like maybe it was rushing or something.
Speaker 3: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 3: You and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, awesome, thank you, all right, we'll get your
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,
Speaker 2: Max is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Darius.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date if he wants one. Still, But first
Speaker 2: before we call her, Max, why don't you break down
Speaker 2: your situation again first?
Speaker 3: Real quick? Yeah, So, Daria and I went to this
Speaker 3: pottery class for our first date.
Speaker 4: We ended up getting some late nighte food, ended up
Speaker 4: back at my place, had a great time.
Speaker 3: She stayed the night, and I haven't heard from her since.
Speaker 4: I thought maybe it could be because I dropped my
Speaker 4: taco and still ate it during the date, or because
Speaker 4: I texted her that I was emotionally available next day
Speaker 4: and it weird you're out?
Speaker 3: I'm not sure? So did kiss you after you dropped
Speaker 3: the taco and ate it? That's a good point, all right.
Speaker 3: See if we can help you out. You ready for
Speaker 3: us to call her? Yes? Thank you? All right, here
Speaker 3: we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Daria. Please.
Speaker 5: This is her?
Speaker 3: Hey, Daria, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Daria, I'm Nina. Hi,
Speaker 3: I'm Victoria, and I'm Jewel. How are you?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 4: Up?
Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?
Speaker 2: I have?
Speaker 3: Oh? Dope? Okay. Well, guess what, Daria?
Speaker 5: I always thought these calls for sake?
Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, somebody emailed us about you. Apparently you
Speaker 2: went on a date with somebody. This is the first
Speaker 2: day follow up, you know the segment that we do
Speaker 2: that if you go on a date with someone and
Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us
Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and find out why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.
Speaker 5: People actually do actually call it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, because ghost sucks, Daria, and you're one of them.
Speaker 5: Oh, it's Max.
Speaker 3: Do you have any idea? Who what email us about?
Speaker 5: You. I'm assuming it's Max, right, Oh.
Speaker 3: Yes it is Max.
Speaker 2: Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 5: Okay? So he literally liked every single photo I've ever posted,
Speaker 5: every single one of them. I woke up, I had
Speaker 5: like a million new notifications from one day. I'm just
Speaker 5: from twenty seventeen that was popping up.
Speaker 3: Because that's the sole reason.
Speaker 5: I mean, I posted a picture of a broken blender
Speaker 5: in two thousand and eight and he hearted it broken
Speaker 5: Who hearts a broken blender? Why didn't even post it?
Speaker 5: It just it felt like, I don't know, it felt
Speaker 5: like he was like virtually licking my timeline. I don't
Speaker 5: even remember half of the photos that are there, and
Speaker 5: it's not even like he just so like he literally
Speaker 5: like he kind of studied them. It feels like he
Speaker 5: commented on three different ones. I had fire emojis that
Speaker 5: I had a comment that this era h and baby Daria,
Speaker 5: like you really I've met the guy wants any commented
Speaker 5: on a picture of me, like a picture of me
Speaker 5: as a baby, an actual.
Speaker 3: A little bit flattered, I mean flattered.
Speaker 5: I'd be flattered if it was like you know, photo
Speaker 5: or two recently, but like through the whole entire history
Speaker 5: of me. It's a little.
Speaker 2: All right, well, Daria, thank you for telling us. And
Speaker 2: you probably already know this though, but Max is on
Speaker 2: the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants
Speaker 2: to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, they're they're on the other line. I
Speaker 5: got it, okay, Yeah, hi.
Speaker 3: Mas hi, Daria. That's why you ghosted me. You go
Speaker 3: to me because I liked your posts.
Speaker 5: Dude, you time travel through my entire Instagram and gave
Speaker 5: me literal chills.
Speaker 3: I just you posted. I was just trying to appreciate
Speaker 3: you in full starry journey. You know. It was meant
Speaker 3: to be a compliment.
Speaker 5: It's like you were in an FBI agent that did
Speaker 5: a deep dive into my life, Like, how about just
Speaker 5: good luck on your midterms instead of the history of Daria.
Speaker 4: Maybe I got like a little carried away, But it
Speaker 4: was honestly meant to be just positive. I was was
Speaker 4: enjoying getting to know you through your posts, and I
Speaker 4: thought you were so interesting and I just wanted to
Speaker 4: support your history.
Speaker 5: Dude, you supported it to death.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think it's just I really like you, Daria, and
Speaker 4: I was having so much fun getting to know you.
Speaker 4: I had a great time doing pottery with you, and
Speaker 4: and after.
Speaker 5: Matt stopped, I'm mad at you. You weren't getting to
Speaker 5: know me. You were creating stories in your head based
Speaker 5: off of what I posted.
Speaker 3: No, that's not true.
Speaker 4: I honestly think that you're super witty, beautiful, and I'm
Speaker 4: sorry if I took it too far with those. And
Speaker 4: also I hearted that blender that broke because I actually
Speaker 4: have the same lender that broke as well.
Speaker 5: Max, you are trying to relate to me, You're you're
Speaker 5: literally creating a scenario in your head. You're trying to
Speaker 5: relate to me like you just need to chill out.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I really have that blender. I didn't
Speaker 3: take the pictures of it, but I actually I actually
Speaker 3: had it.
Speaker 5: I guess that's another reason why you think we're meant
Speaker 5: to be.
Speaker 3: I mean, I can, I can dial it back. I
Speaker 3: promise I can. Unlike that baby photo of you. You
Speaker 3: know it's listen. I'm not saying that we're meant to be.
Speaker 3: I just I honestly just think you're dope. And I
Speaker 3: really I really.
Speaker 4: Liked you, and I still like you, and you know,
Speaker 4: I just want to get to know you.
Speaker 5: You don't think you got to know me by scrolling
Speaker 5: through a lifetime of Instagram.
Speaker 2: Post Daria, would you like to go on another date
Speaker 2: with Max? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean, I I do like when
Speaker 5: someone's into me, but I don't want to feel like
Speaker 5: I'm being digitally followed home.
Speaker 3: I listen.
Speaker 4: I promise I can dial it back. I know I
Speaker 4: came on too strong, but you know, just just give
Speaker 4: me one more chance.
Speaker 5: I mean, are you going to find my mom and
Speaker 5: start dming her and stuff like that like other suckers.
Speaker 3: I'll be honest. I found Pam's profile, but she look,
Speaker 3: he didn't message Pam.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: He held back to messaging Pam.
Speaker 5: Gonna hit request?
Speaker 3: I won't. I won't. I promise. What do you think, Daria?
Speaker 3: One more chance? He sounds legit to me me too.
Speaker 3: I would love that.
Speaker 5: I did have a good time and you do this
Speaker 5: little cute thing with your pinky. I don't know. Just
Speaker 5: don't like me so much yet.
Speaker 3: Right away?
Speaker 4: I promised to be into you, but but not but
Speaker 4: not that into you.
Speaker 3: You'll do it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: If he if he chilled out a little bit.
Speaker 3: Sweet congratulations Max, You got another date. Oh yeah cool.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not I'm not that excited about it, but yeah,
Speaker 4: there you go.
Speaker 5: That's a little left stressful for me.
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