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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Max is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daria.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Max, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you talked to Daria?

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Speaker 3: It's been eight days? Eight days, okay counting you said that,

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Speaker 3: so solemnly, how me reach it out to her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I've tried to text her, but I haven't

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Speaker 4: heard anything back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, tell us about your date so we can

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Speaker 3: hear about this connection. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So, so we went to this pottery class which was

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Speaker 4: which was cool. Yeah, normally it's not like the typical

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Speaker 4: Drakes and Naps thing, but she seemed cool and I

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Speaker 4: wanted to go big or go home for her, you know,

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Speaker 4: and honestly, she was she was super into it and

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Speaker 4: she was good too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we got there.

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Speaker 4: I was I was shocked because she made this like

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Speaker 4: beautiful bowl that looked like it belongs.

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Speaker 3: To the museum.

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Speaker 4: And meanwhile, I've never done it before, so mine just

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Speaker 4: looks like a squash muffin.

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Speaker 3: Cute.

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Speaker 4: She left at that too, So but it was fun.

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Speaker 4: I think we were really connecting. We had wine, we

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Speaker 4: were kind of we got clay. We kind of had

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Speaker 4: a little clay fight, so we got clay all over

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Speaker 4: each other, and it just seemed like really playful and fun.

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Speaker 4: We ended up getting late night food after and you know,

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Speaker 4: after that, we ended up back at my place. So

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Speaker 4: I you know, I think everything went great according to

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Speaker 4: my perspective.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it sounds like it so your place. You

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Speaker 3: didn't just like play checkers or did.

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Speaker 4: You you call it checkers? Okay, either way, it wasn't

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Speaker 4: just a friendly hug, goodbye. Okay, got it. Did do

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Speaker 4: you guys make a plan to see each other again? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: We both expressed that, you know, something that we were

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Speaker 4: into and looked, you know, wanted to do again. So

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Speaker 4: you know, we didn't make any specific plans, but she

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Speaker 4: was definitely into the date, and I absolutely wanted to

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Speaker 4: make more plans.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I just don't know what happened. Is there

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Speaker 3: anything that you can think of that may have been

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Speaker 3: an issue? Well?

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Speaker 4: I have, Yeah, I've been thinking about it and trying

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Speaker 4: to figure out.

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Speaker 3: What could have happened.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I was at one point I said,

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Speaker 4: I don't like avocados, and she was really passionate about guac.

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Speaker 3: So like we're not like deeply invested in guacamole. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So I'm wondering if that is a thing.

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Speaker 4: You know, she may not have been into that or

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Speaker 4: you know, at one point during the date, we we

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Speaker 4: got tacos and I did drop my taco on the

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Speaker 4: ground and I called it five second rule, but I

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Speaker 4: still laid it.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was the avocado thing. I think

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Speaker 3: you're safe there.

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Speaker 4: No, okay, Okay, yeah, I mean it's that. I honestly,

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Speaker 4: the last thing I could think of possibly was I

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Speaker 4: told her that I'm emotionally available. But I texted that

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Speaker 4: to her the next day, and up until that, you know,

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Speaker 4: we'd been kind of texting through the date, and then

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Speaker 4: I tried to start it again, but you know, nothing,

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Speaker 3: Had to call it and say one thing, what would

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Speaker 3: you think it would be? WHOA? I mean, it could

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Speaker 3: have been the thing.

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Speaker 4: I just don't know, like, I, you know, might have

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Speaker 4: waited her out and I said I was emotionally available,

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Speaker 4: like maybe it was rushing or something.

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Speaker 3: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting.

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Speaker 3: You and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, awesome, thank you, all right, we'll get your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up,

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Speaker 2: Max is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Darius.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date if he wants one. Still, But first

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Speaker 2: before we call her, Max, why don't you break down

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Speaker 2: your situation again first?

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Speaker 3: Real quick? Yeah, So, Daria and I went to this

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Speaker 3: pottery class for our first date.

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Speaker 4: We ended up getting some late nighte food, ended up

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Speaker 4: back at my place, had a great time.

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Speaker 3: She stayed the night, and I haven't heard from her since.

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Speaker 4: I thought maybe it could be because I dropped my

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Speaker 4: taco and still ate it during the date, or because

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Speaker 4: I texted her that I was emotionally available next day

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Speaker 4: and it weird you're out?

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure? So did kiss you after you dropped

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Speaker 3: the taco and ate it? That's a good point, all right.

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Speaker 3: See if we can help you out. You ready for

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Speaker 3: us to call her? Yes? Thank you? All right, here

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Speaker 3: we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Daria. Please.

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Speaker 5: This is her?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Daria, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Daria, I'm Nina. Hi,

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria, and I'm Jewel. How are you?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Up?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to The Jewel Show before?

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Speaker 2: I have?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Dope? Okay. Well, guess what, Daria?

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Speaker 5: I always thought these calls for sake?

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Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, somebody emailed us about you. Apparently you

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Speaker 2: went on a date with somebody. This is the first

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Speaker 2: day follow up, you know the segment that we do

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Speaker 2: that if you go on a date with someone and

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Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and find out why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 5: People actually do actually call it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, because ghost sucks, Daria, and you're one of them.

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Speaker 5: Oh, it's Max.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any idea? Who what email us about?

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Speaker 5: You. I'm assuming it's Max, right, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yes it is Max.

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Speaker 2: Can you tell us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 5: Okay? So he literally liked every single photo I've ever posted,

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Speaker 5: every single one of them. I woke up, I had

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Speaker 3: Because that's the sole reason.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I posted a picture of a broken blender

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Speaker 5: in two thousand and eight and he hearted it broken

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Speaker 5: Who hearts a broken blender? Why didn't even post it?

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Speaker 5: It just it felt like, I don't know, it felt

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Speaker 5: like he was like virtually licking my timeline. I don't

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Speaker 5: even remember half of the photos that are there, and

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Speaker 5: it's not even like he just so like he literally

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Speaker 5: like he kind of studied them. It feels like he

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Speaker 5: commented on three different ones. I had fire emojis that

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Speaker 5: I had a comment that this era h and baby Daria,

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Speaker 5: like you really I've met the guy wants any commented

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Speaker 5: on a picture of me, like a picture of me

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Speaker 5: as a baby, an actual.

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Speaker 3: A little bit flattered, I mean flattered.

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Speaker 5: I'd be flattered if it was like you know, photo

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Speaker 5: or two recently, but like through the whole entire history

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Speaker 5: of me. It's a little.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, Daria, thank you for telling us. And

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Speaker 2: you probably already know this though, but Max is on

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Speaker 2: the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, they're they're on the other line. I

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Speaker 5: got it, okay, Yeah, hi.

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Speaker 3: Mas hi, Daria. That's why you ghosted me. You go

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Speaker 3: to me because I liked your posts.

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Speaker 5: Dude, you time travel through my entire Instagram and gave

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Speaker 3: I just you posted. I was just trying to appreciate

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Speaker 3: you in full starry journey. You know. It was meant

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Speaker 3: to be a compliment.

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Speaker 5: It's like you were in an FBI agent that did

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Speaker 5: a deep dive into my life, Like, how about just

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Speaker 5: good luck on your midterms instead of the history of Daria.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I got like a little carried away, But it

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Speaker 4: was honestly meant to be just positive. I was was

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Speaker 4: enjoying getting to know you through your posts, and I

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Speaker 4: thought you were so interesting and I just wanted to

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Speaker 4: support your history.

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Speaker 5: Dude, you supported it to death.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think it's just I really like you, Daria, and

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Speaker 4: I was having so much fun getting to know you.

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Speaker 4: I had a great time doing pottery with you, and

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Speaker 5: Matt stopped, I'm mad at you. You weren't getting to

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Speaker 5: know me. You were creating stories in your head based

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Speaker 5: off of what I posted.

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Speaker 3: No, that's not true.

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Speaker 4: I honestly think that you're super witty, beautiful, and I'm

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Speaker 4: sorry if I took it too far with those. And

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Speaker 4: also I hearted that blender that broke because I actually

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Speaker 5: Max, you are trying to relate to me, You're you're

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Speaker 5: literally creating a scenario in your head. You're trying to

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Speaker 5: relate to me like you just need to chill out.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I really have that blender. I didn't

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Speaker 3: take the pictures of it, but I actually I actually

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Speaker 5: I guess that's another reason why you think we're meant

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Speaker 3: I mean, I can, I can dial it back. I

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Speaker 3: promise I can. Unlike that baby photo of you. You

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Speaker 3: know it's listen. I'm not saying that we're meant to be.

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Speaker 3: I just I honestly just think you're dope. And I

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Speaker 4: Liked you, and I still like you, and you know,

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Speaker 4: I just want to get to know you.

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Speaker 5: You don't think you got to know me by scrolling

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Speaker 5: through a lifetime of Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Post Daria, would you like to go on another date

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Speaker 2: with Max? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean, I I do like when

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Speaker 5: someone's into me, but I don't want to feel like

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Speaker 5: I'm being digitally followed home.

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Speaker 3: I listen.

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Speaker 4: I promise I can dial it back. I know I

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Speaker 4: came on too strong, but you know, just just give

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Speaker 4: me one more chance.

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Speaker 5: I mean, are you going to find my mom and

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Speaker 5: start dming her and stuff like that like other suckers.

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Speaker 3: I'll be honest. I found Pam's profile, but she look,

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Speaker 3: he didn't message Pam.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: He held back to messaging Pam.

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Speaker 5: Gonna hit request?

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Speaker 3: I won't. I won't. I promise. What do you think, Daria?

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Speaker 3: One more chance? He sounds legit to me me too.

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Speaker 3: I would love that.

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Speaker 5: I did have a good time and you do this

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Speaker 5: little cute thing with your pinky. I don't know. Just

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Speaker 5: don't like me so much yet.

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Speaker 3: Right away?

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Speaker 4: I promised to be into you, but but not but

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Speaker 4: not that into you.

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Speaker 3: You'll do it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: If he if he chilled out a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Sweet congratulations Max, You got another date. Oh yeah cool.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not I'm not that excited about it, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: there you go.

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Speaker 5: That's a little left stressful for me.

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Speaker 3: Jubile's first date follow up