1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: Tampon Rock is a production of Anthem Entertainment and I 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: Heart Radio. Welcome to Tampon Rock, Tampon We Don't want to. 3 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: Previously Tampon Rock, Chloe and Asia pick up the Couch 4 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: from Cougar Amarilla's Deja joins Tender and that came byes 5 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: Asia to do a solo show killing It. Oh look, 6 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: I think we're doing a dating show. Okay, let me 7 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: just hold on, let me just you're switching gears and 8 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: we're backed with another episode of Deja dates women from Tender. 9 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 1: As she battles against our current shows. In love her gina, 10 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: Deja sees how many people she can date at the 11 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: same time. That's right. Now, let's take a look at 12 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: our first contestant, Chastity. Chastity hails from down the street. 13 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: The only things listed in her dating profile are peace, 14 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: love and praying mantis. Well, we're gonna find out what 15 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: that means. So, Chastity, that's a cool name. You know 16 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: what I get called Deja Vu, So I'm sure you 17 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: get called Chastity. Build right, I mean, Cassidy is actually 18 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: my chosen name. It represents my commitment to Christ, our 19 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Lord and Xavior. Speaking of Christ have you been saved? Oh? 20 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: Next this round, we have graph fite Onyx. Is that correct? 21 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: Am I reading that right? Is that her name or 22 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: a writing utensil? Brio indicates she's a witch in the 23 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: sheets and a bitch in the streets. Can't wait to 24 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: hear more from graphitonics. And oh I love her cake? 25 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: So I like your What would you call that a caper? 26 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: It's not a cape, it's a warlock cloak. Okay, okay. 27 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: This next profile seems pretty normal. She likes cheese and 28 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: more cheese, nothing but the cheese, so help her God. 29 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: Because she's also actually intolerant. No, that's my kind of girl, Titto. 30 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: You know I got my fingers crossed for this one. 31 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: All right, let's bring out Angie until next time, Folks. 32 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: Angie her uper is more point nine because she's Angie. 33 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: She wears but doesn't talk about against, and she says 34 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: sorry to people who actually in her way. She's Angie. 35 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: She always as snacking a curse because she's Angie, and 36 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: also because she has a little butcher. Thank you for 37 00:02:55,080 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: getting these, Yeah, no problem, I'll get the next one. Um, 38 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: so we should probably cheers, right, cheers cheers to getting 39 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: into someone new. Alright, perfect, let's lock arms, lock arms 40 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: and six shots. Yeah, it's customary. Is it where Poland? Oh? 41 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: Are you from Poland? No? I'm from Jersey, but I 42 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: just spent like a month in Poland. And honestly, this 43 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: was my biggest takeaway. That sounds about right. Okay, let's 44 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: let's lock arms. Oh, this tequila is a very smooth right. Wow, 45 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: you know this is the fifth time you've checked your 46 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: phone since you sat down. Sorry, okay, let me turn 47 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: it off. It's it's nothing, I mean, if you have 48 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: to go, no worries, we can reschedule. No, No, it's 49 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: it's just my roommate. Well, she's really my best friend. 50 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,119 Speaker 1: It's a long story. We don't have to go into 51 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: it right now. I'm just too bad because now I 52 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: am interested what is going on? I don't know if 53 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: I should talk about it. Actually, look, I have my 54 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: own place now, so I miss roommate drama, give it 55 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: to me please. Well okay if you insist, um, Okay. 56 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: It all started when I thought Chloe, my best friend 57 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: slash roommate, was sleeping with this girl. I like, oh 58 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: the drama. No she didn't though, she she didn't do it, 59 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: and it was just like a big misunderstanding. But then 60 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: that led to us not really talking and we're also 61 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: in this band together, and now that's just getting all complicated. 62 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 1: So I'm kind of in this place. So you play music, Yeah, 63 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: I do, what kind of music? I guess that's a 64 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: part of the issue right now. It's a band kind 65 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: of feels like her band, so it's kind of like 66 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: a Tegan and saravibe. Yeah, and you don't really seem 67 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: like a Tegan and Sarah kind of girl. That's not 68 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: the problem. Just I feel like Chloe wants to be 69 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: Taken and Sarah. I mean, if it were up to me, 70 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: i'ld be making something else like what um like, well, 71 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: I love music that has an alternative electronic and R 72 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: and B field Okay, so basically not taken and stand right. Recently, 73 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: we played this gig and it was going it was bad. 74 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: So anyway, I ended up putting on one of my 75 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: songs and the crowd like loved it, like, oh my god, 76 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah. But then I got asked to do 77 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: this solo show and that's so exciting. Why don't you 78 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: sound excited, all right? Because Chloe don't it's hard. It's 79 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to feel excited about it because 80 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: obviously Chloe's that sounds like her own ship. I mean, 81 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: she should be excited for you. This is a big opportunity. 82 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: What are you supposed to compromise your own career for 83 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: your friends little feelings? You're in charge of your feelings 84 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: and she isn't charge of hers. Okay, thank you, Really 85 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: it's nice hearing that out loud. Actually it's I don't know. 86 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: And then tonight we're supposed to be like having our 87 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: monthly movie night and she hasn't responded to any of 88 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: my text and I just feel I don't know, I 89 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: feel guilty like I'm not being a good friend of 90 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,239 Speaker 1: you should be the one not answering her text Okay, 91 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. It just seems like it's a pattern 92 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,799 Speaker 1: where I'm always the one that's texting and never getting 93 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: a response. I mean, you do give me trick text vibes. 94 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: I keep hearing that phrase, what is that? Is it 95 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: actually a thing? So it's not just with Chloe the 96 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: how did you know? Okay, well there is this girl Gina, 97 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: and well that's the one that I thought Chloe slept anyway, 98 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: we you and I are on a date, so maybe 99 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: we should be No no, no, no, no, no no no, 100 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: don't you stop now, this is juicy sill or. I 101 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: am leaving what no, no, no, no, come on, no 102 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: check les barkie barky. Oh my god. Fine, it's just 103 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: it's complicated. Look, I'm gonna get us some more drinks 104 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: and you're gonna tell me all about this girl. If 105 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: I had known you were going to dress so nice, 106 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: I would have asked the neighbor to look for the 107 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: septic tank instead. I hope your clothes aren't getting too dirty. Well, 108 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I did just get this shirt, 109 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: but I was gonna replace it anyway, So thank goodness. 110 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: I think you're really gonna like what we're doing later. 111 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think I will too. Great you found it. 112 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can look inside the tank for my 113 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: grandmother's ring later. But we should really like get going. Well, yeah, 114 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: we don't want to be late. Oh can I at 115 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: least clean up in your bathroom? You know, I rather 116 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: you didn't. You might track mud inside, and and mud 117 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: just it really activates my sciatica, so you know I 118 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: can just I can give you a quick hose down 119 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: with the actual hoo. Of course, dummy, what else would 120 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: I be talking about? Uh? Yeah, okay, you know what, 121 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: I think. I'm actually good. I'll just wash my hands 122 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: at the restaurant. Restaurant, you're so funny. Oh okay, well, 123 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: I forgot to put gas in my car, so we're 124 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: going to take yours. Sure, Yeah, that's fine. It's in 125 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: San Francisco. Okay, that'll be fun. You are such a doll, 126 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: a big strong doll. Has anyone ever told you you 127 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 1: have gorgeous blonde hair? Well, my mom, it's such a comedian. 128 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: All right, now let's go. I say it again, a 129 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: big dog, do it again? Oh? Whoa, wow, this is 130 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: an I know. We get a really great right here. 131 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: Oh you got a room obviously. Oh so we're not 132 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: having dinner. Itre'll be plenty of food if you're hungry. 133 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: Oh nice, God, I love a good room service. Alice, 134 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: you might it, Stacy Darling, so lovely to see your face. 135 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 1: This is Chloe Cloe is here for the first time. Yeah, 136 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 1: I've I've never been to the Roots before. It's wow, 137 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: It's schoolgious, isn't it. You know you're in for a 138 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: great evening. Let me show you guys to the room. 139 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is such a great service. You 140 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: must be here a lot. Yeah, at least once a week, 141 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: sometimes twice. Are you always bringing new people every time? Yeah? 142 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: I try to, but sometimes to you, I come alone. Cool. 143 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 1: I was so happy to have you here. If you 144 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: go with this name talk, that would be fantastic. Thanks Stacy, 145 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: Um the Amarilla's what is going on? I thought we 146 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: were on a date list? Is a date with your future? Oh? 147 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: Welcome to Botanical Vitality, your future. Always to give it 148 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: up for your fearless leader, Natasha Ja what you have 149 00:10:55,000 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: times times, Thank you and welcome. Let's go find seats 150 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: closer to the front. This is Botanical Vitality so much 151 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: your future. Always welcome to a weekly newcomer initiation ceremony. 152 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: For the next five hours we will be exploring the 153 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 1: only way to true happiness. Shoot, doesn't look like their 154 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 1: seats up front. I guess we can just stand in 155 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: the back. Um, listen, a realists, I think the finest 156 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: is that you in the back is our lead gold status? 157 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: Better give it a faber realist? Yes, stop tell us 158 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: who did you bring today? Don't be shine newcomer. Come 159 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: on up to the stage with me. That's a don't 160 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: embarrass me. No, I don't feel good to go? Do 161 00:11:52,320 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: you mean excuse me? Excuse me? Move? Where are you going? No? No, 162 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: settle down, everyone, it's okay. Not everyone is ready to 163 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: actualize happiness. Oh my god, Oh my god. I can't 164 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: believe this is happening. God, how the fu did you 165 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 1: almost join a cult? And I'm such an idiot, stupid, stupid, Davia. 166 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: But if you're calling in regards to my student loans, 167 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: this is actually Karen. Come on, let's checking on dere 168 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: storyline is so good and that's why I never use escalators. 169 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? I always thought that was an 170 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 1: urban myth. Uh No, it's not, because I am the 171 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 1: barely living truth, So who would have thought honestly? Um, 172 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: all right, so I'm having a great time, and look, 173 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: I can tell yours still figuring it out with Gina 174 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: or whatever whoever. But I'm going to this dope art 175 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: show with a few friends down the street and no pressure. 176 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,559 Speaker 1: But I think you'd really like the crowd and I 177 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: kind of want you to come. It's a really great 178 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 1: intro to the Oakland Queer black art scene. So yeah, 179 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: that sounds really cool, and you know, seriously, thank you 180 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: for being so chill with everything, of course, please, So 181 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:27,119 Speaker 1: does that mean you want to come to the show? Yeah, 182 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm down. Let's go. They're walking to a gallery, but 183 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: you can't see it. They're walking to a gallery, but 184 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: you can't see it. I guess you'll just have to 185 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: believe us because it's a podcast and you better not 186 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: forget it. Okay, god yo, Okay, this place is amazing 187 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: and I'm vibing with this music, like, oh well perfect. 188 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: I'll introduce you to the DJ if you like the 189 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: music so much. I mean, she's a great friend of mine. 190 00:13:57,559 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: You actually see her over there, that woman kissing her 191 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: as her partner, and my best friend t Shaw, who's 192 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: throwing the whole thing that you see here. She actually 193 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: curated all of the art too. Wow, you know so 194 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: many people. I mean, I've lived here for like four 195 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: years now, so yeah, I guess wait, I just realized 196 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: I spent this whole day talking about me and my 197 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: ship and I didn't even ask anything about you, Like 198 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: it's all good. You know, I wanted to know the drama. Okay, 199 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: tell me, what do you do? When I do a lot. 200 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 1: I'm a production coordinator at the radio station. Do you 201 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: know Point six Attempt Yo? I love that station. Is 202 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: that your passion or is that something you've always wanted 203 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: to do? I mean, I mean I just got my 204 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: own radio show, so it's crazy. Whoa, Okay, relax because 205 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: it's at a shitty time slot, but that just means 206 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: I get to do whatever I want, which is kind 207 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: of awesome. Yeah, that's cool. What's your show about? Hmm? 208 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 1: It's kind of a talk show. It's got a little 209 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: bit of everything. The main thing is I'm really trying 210 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: to promote queer artists of color. Come on, you know, 211 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm so what what time are you on? Okay, very 212 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: convenient time every Tuesday and Thursday at two am. Damn 213 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: I would listen, but then that's what that's when I'm 214 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: in my book club every Tuesday and Thursday. I don't 215 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: want to pist those book club ladies off. Thank you 216 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: for inviting me to this event. Really, um, this place 217 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: is like mad dol And what that painting over there? 218 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: Is that so interesting? What is that? M that's my 219 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: friend Majorie Eddie's piece. I think it's called like unfollowed 220 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: me or follow me something about social media? Yeah deep, 221 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: I know. But that one over there is my other 222 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: friend to Vena's self portrait, and that one is one 223 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: of my favorites. So beautiful, right to you. Come with me, 224 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 1: you have to meet you will love her. Girl, I'm 225 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: so happy to see your face. It's such a great 226 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: turn out. Girl. I'm so happy for you. It was 227 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: all thanks to you. Please come on, Dug you promoted 228 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: it on your show. Yes, oh yeah, yeah, all three 229 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: of my listeners came all the way through. Girl, stop 230 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: it it was four because I'm also a listener. You're right. 231 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: Let me introduce you, Todaja. Oh is this the one? 232 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 1: So Deja meet my friend Tsha, my very very best friend. Hi, Tsha, 233 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: it's nice to meet you. This is amazing event. Thank 234 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: you for having me. I'm just s girl. Thanks for 235 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 1: having you. You are too formal. What is this a wedding? 236 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: So getting just kidding, just thank you for coming. Um 237 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: So Angie told me that you curated the aren't it's 238 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: absolutely studying truly so great, Thank you so much. All 239 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: of the artists are sprinkled around here somewhere. Deja's a musician. Yeah, well, 240 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: how to stop stop. She has a solo show coming up. Girl. 241 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: That is so cool. What's the deeds? I definitely come? 242 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: Okay cool, Yeah, I'll send you the details over Instagram. 243 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 1: What's your handle? Damn? Hold on, I turned my phone 244 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: off earlier. Just give me a second to the power 245 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: is that? I wonder if that's Chloe or Gina. Okay, 246 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry your handle? My handle is art in Titia. Awesome. 247 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 1: I'll follow you into the cool. Speaking of cool, where 248 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 1: are the bathrooms? Um? Okay, so you're gonna go straight 249 00:17:56,480 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: back over to the right, uh huh okay, great, I'll 250 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 1: be right back. Guys. Ah, Desa, I think I was 251 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 1: just joined the colt, but I made it to my car, 252 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: so I think I'm saying I'll see you about all 253 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 1: this during your movie Mean Girls again or maybe heavy Land. Okay, 254 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 1: I gotta focus on driving and breathing. I'll talk to 255 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: you later. By oh my god, Desa, I thought you 256 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: were kidnapped by Botanical Vitality. Are you okay? Where are 257 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: you right now? They're not holding you have to somewhere. No, no, no, no, 258 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm fine. I just well, I turned up my phone 259 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 1: and then I turned it back on. It sorry, Yeah, 260 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: no worries. Okay, I've been seven eleven. I'm thinking maybe 261 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: we do kids racings. Oh what's that thing you always want? Yeah, 262 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 1: but I'm also sorry because I'm not going to make 263 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: it to a movie night. Why. Well, my last date 264 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: went well and I think we're gonna be good friends. 265 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 1: And anyway, she took me to this really cool art 266 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:34,120 Speaker 1: event and I think I'm gonna stay and hang. Oh 267 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 1: that sounds cool. Actually, you know, maybe I can come 268 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: meet you. You know, I love arts like all I 269 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: ever talked about. Yeah, well, I mean it's not really 270 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: your space. Oh now it's mostly it's now it's all 271 00:19:52,480 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: queer people of color, so oh cool, Um, okay, totally. 272 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: I'll just I guess I see you when you get home. 273 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: I guess. Yeah, you're good, of course. Everything. It's fine, 274 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: it's so good. But you know what, I'm actually getting 275 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: another call. Okay, so I'm gonna go by Hey guys, 276 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm back. Hey, al right, So this event is over 277 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: in like fifteen minutes, and we're all gonna go to 278 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: this carry. We'll keep all down the street. You're welcome 279 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: to join if you want, but I get it if 280 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 1: you have to head out no, I don't have anywhere 281 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: to be. Desia is confident. Y'all suck her old friends. 282 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: She's not like Drake. She's about to make his new 283 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: friends who aren't fake fake fig gonna hang out with 284 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: all QPOC homies. Welcome to Oakland, Desia, you're a homie. 285 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: You don't need know old friends. Not Chloe. You don't 286 00:20:53,080 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: need know old friends. Fuck Chloe. Excuse me, officer, UM, 287 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 1: what's happening. It's been a break in ship. I live here? 288 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 1: Which apartment? Um? Three? F al right, you're gonna need 289 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: to answer some questions, Okay, I mean is my apartment okay? Though, well, 290 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: your neighbor called us when they heard a window breaking 291 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 1: and a lot of commotion in your apartment. At first 292 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: he called for a noise complaint, but then he realized 293 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 1: you weren't home. Oh my god, oh my god. Anyway, 294 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: we'll need to go in. I DEMI as I's been stolen. 295 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: Hopefully you have rentor's insurance. I mean, does that come 296 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 1: with the apartment, the rentals insurance? Yeah? Is that like 297 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: part of the broker's fee or something? I don't think so, 298 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: ma'am shout are you kidding me? Damn? It. Okay, let's 299 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: go check the apartment so we can follow report. Let's 300 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: check in the apartment. I kind of forgot that they 301 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: had one. Do you know what anything missing? Off hand? 302 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think, Oh my god, my guitar 303 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: is gone. Oh my god, my music career is over. Ship. 304 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 1: What am I gonna tell my mom? God? Oh my god, 305 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: it's over? What about TJA? Fuck? Uh? Okay? Anything else? Um, Honestly, 306 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,959 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. My roommate isn't here right now, so 307 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if anything of hers 308 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: is stolen night, I'm not sure. All right, you should 309 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: try to get your roommate here asap so we can 310 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: follow a thorough board. Okay, come of course. Um, I'm 311 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 1: sorry I can't reach her. She's she's not picking up. 312 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. Ten four. All right, we gotta wrap 313 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 1: this up. If you can't reach her, both of you 314 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 1: will need to come down the station to finish the report. Well, 315 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 1: could you just wait a minute. I mean, I'm sure 316 00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 1: she'll be home soon. She's here's my card technique. Are 317 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 1: you ready to come down the station? OKAYSA, but if 318 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 1: you're calling in regards to my student loans, it's actually caring. Deja, 319 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: come home. This is an emergency. It's not a fucking joke. God, 320 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. I'm so fucked. Hey, han Whoa? Your 321 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: apartment is a mess. Wait, honey, are you crying? Mom? 322 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 1: Just think before you speak. Okay, what the fund does 323 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 1: it look like? Excuse me, young lady, watch your tone. 324 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 1: My apartment was just broken into and all my stuff 325 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 1: was stolen. Oh my god, honey, are you okay? Did 326 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 1: you call the police? Of course I called the fucking police. 327 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,679 Speaker 1: What do I look like? Well, the police, Okay, they 328 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: were here when I got here. That's not the fucking point. Okay. 329 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:51,879 Speaker 1: If you're going to talk to me this way, I'm 330 00:23:51,920 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: going to hang up. Mom. I'm I'm sorry. I'm just 331 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: I'm kind of freaking out. Okay, Okay, Well did they 332 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: take anything? Is Desa there? Is she? Okay? Yeah, they 333 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 1: took my guitar, and no, I'm alone and Deja not 334 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 1: answer my calls, and I just I don't know where 335 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: she is. Okay, Honey, maybe I should come up there. 336 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I'm just having a really hard time 337 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do. Okay, Okay, maybe 338 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: try doing some of your deep breathing exercises. Just just 339 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: try and relax, honey. I don't want you spiraling. You 340 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: pressuring me is actually not helping right now. Okay, my 341 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 1: stuff was stolen and I'm piste off. Okay, I understand that. 342 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: I just don't want this to trigger you. This should 343 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 1: trigger me. Okay, I don't like how you're talking to 344 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: me right now. I'm going to make an appointment with 345 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 1: the therapist Dr Brown recommended. And if you don't go, 346 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,160 Speaker 1: I'm not paying your rent next month. Are you serious? 347 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: You should be consoling me right now. What you're doing 348 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 1: is borderline emotionally manipulative. You realize that, right you do 349 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: know what you're doing. Well, great, then you'll have something 350 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: to discuss with a therapist. Great, okay, honey, go put 351 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: on a nice relaxing movie, maybe something with Sandra Bullock. 352 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 1: And why don't you smoke a little of that Devil's lettuce. 353 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 1: You know we won't tell that obviously, and tomorrow we 354 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: will figure out how to replace all of your stolen items. Okay, honey, yeah, okay, 355 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: and thank you. I love you. I'm I'm sorry I'm 356 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: being such a bit right now, honey. It's fine, Okay, 357 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 1: call me tomorrow. Yeah, sure, great. They took my guitar 358 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 1: and my dignity. The only thing I have left is 359 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: a stupid Cassio keyboard. Paul me, Paul, Why the funk 360 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: aren't you here? Fuck you? Come on? But thanks for that. 361 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: By the way, got hate this. Everybody sucks, Everybody hates me. 362 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: The only thing I have is is Cassio my brother 363 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: Paul gave me. This episode was created and written by 364 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:34,400 Speaker 1: Alicia Brown, Sarah Ahmond, and Sophie dinnacoll, Directed and composed 365 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: by Sarah Ahmad. Music supervision by Alicia Brown and Sophie dinnacoll. 366 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: Executive produced by Brian Walland for Anthem Entertainment, Produced by 367 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: Selena Razak, Audio by Take Gregor and David Ulick. Starring 368 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:53,360 Speaker 1: Rnita Lewis as Desia, Jules Forstberg, Larry as Chloe. Narrated 369 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:58,439 Speaker 1: by Alicia Brown and Sarah Ahmad. Additional voices by Take Gregor, 370 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: Racheld Napoleon and Hi has Wit, Harry Eleanson, Jordan's Sears, 371 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: Lawrench Liner, Lindsay Red, Jeff Juby. 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