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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: Milian bus bus things and it's to be true. Good Steve.

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Speaker 1: Listening to each other for Stu, I don't join Jo.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, got a radio show. Do you understand that?

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you God been big in my life. God,

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Speaker 1: God is a gentleman, you know. I want to I

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Speaker 1: want to point that out to you. God is an

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Speaker 1: He don't just barge into your life. He gives us

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Speaker 1: the power of choice. You know. If you say you

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Speaker 1: If you say I need you, come see about me.

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Speaker 1: He right there. It's just a real simple thing. Man.

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Speaker 1: So always say to people this, if you've gotten yourself

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Speaker 1: that That's why I'm so adamant about it, because I've

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Speaker 1: gotten myself in some circumstances and positions in my life.

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Speaker 1: But I've been I've had some low moments, man, I've

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Speaker 1: had some moments where I did not know what to do.

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Speaker 1: mother kept talking to me about. She said, sometimes when

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Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope, she said,

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Speaker 1: just hope it'll be all right, you know. And what

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Speaker 1: I've learned in my life is that hope. It's the

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Speaker 1: beginning of faith. Hope. It's just is there a possibility

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Speaker 1: hope it's okay, man, Because like I said, for me,

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Speaker 1: the way I've lived my life, hope was the beginning

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Speaker 1: of faith. It was just the idea. It's just the

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Speaker 1: thought that something could change from me, that something could

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Speaker 1: just maybe for some reason, I could be saved, I

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Speaker 1: any other direction. Maybe I could quit messing up. Maybe

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Speaker 1: somebody will forgive me, Maybe somebody will just say all right.

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Speaker 1: been in that position. But then once I hope a

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Speaker 1: most valuable lesson I've ever learned in my life. Nothing

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Speaker 1: has been greater in my life than my faith. She

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Speaker 1: taught me to pray. Mamma used to say, when you

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Speaker 1: You know, when you get a point in your life

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Speaker 1: that hope is the beginning of faith. She said. If

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Speaker 1: See hoping a little bit different from me now, I'm

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Speaker 1: pretty sure. Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot

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Speaker 1: How much do you believe in the unseen? See? Faith

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Speaker 1: is the core of all that is happening to me today.

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Speaker 1: It is the faith that I have in my relationship

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Speaker 1: a lot of people think blessings is money, and now, man,

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Speaker 1: that ain't it it's coverage. It's every time my plane

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Speaker 1: blessings come a lot of ways. But once you tie

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Speaker 1: God can do with you. Man, if you just invite

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Speaker 1: Come on? Why why would you not change? Why would

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Speaker 1: God got some big plans for you. If he didn't,

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't keep waking up. You're listening tow ladies and gentlemen, boys, girls, monkeys,

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Speaker 1: repeat this especial love to them big j'all. Ring of

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Speaker 1: go Well. Yeah, that goes without saying referencing up. Oh good, wow, Shirley, Hello,

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Speaker 1: have several ignite people. I know. They try to just

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Speaker 1: Who is that monkeyess ad Man? It was his name

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I supposed to know that you're still

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Speaker 1: in touch with your friend Cleveland. Hey, oh yeah, Dudded

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Speaker 1: coming up something funny you're listening to show? All right, Thanksgiving? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Did it come fast this year? It's here? Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: all gathering around the Thanksgiving table dinner conversations. It can

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Speaker 1: like for instance, yeah, okay, for instance, Steve Um, when

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Speaker 1: You know, the words should you know can make a

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Speaker 1: with that? To me? Like you should have left somebody

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Speaker 1: not hurt over How about this? I know it's pot look,

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Speaker 1: but you should have just came. There ain't no luck

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Speaker 1: How about this one? You know, the best turkey I

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Speaker 1: that'll set it off, Steve. You don't have to always

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Speaker 1: tell the truth though, No, no, no, no, see Shelly

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Speaker 1: wants again. Well, y'all need to make up y'all, man,

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Speaker 1: ease last? Did we good lying on Thanksgiving? Tell the truth?

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Speaker 1: do that. When you're gonna finally let him go? Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's the one time because you don't want to make

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Speaker 1: using drugs? Wow? Really a little bit question? Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: see like it ain't why. I don't know what's wrong

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Speaker 1: with that, yeah, I believe you, SUSI walking the dope?

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Speaker 1: When is you gonna stop using drug you show up

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Speaker 1: ever you're looking like this. How about this right here?

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Speaker 1: How about this right here? Since some boy where I

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Speaker 1: could see where you going? Where are you going? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: rogue last week, all of us, and we're continuing to

419
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Speaker 1: go rogue by partnering with Nissan to bring you the

420
00:28:55,600 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: ultimate Thanksgiving Rogue trip playlist. With five different drive modes

421
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: and advanced technology, The all new twenty twenty one Nissan

422
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: Rogue is perfect for your family road trip and have

423
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: you seen the features. They're unbeatable, like led lights and

424
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: two tone color options on the exterior. And as we

425
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: head up for the Thanksgiving holiday, we are looking for

426
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: your help to create the Ultimate Rogue Trip playlist. So

427
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: jump on social media and tell us what songs should

428
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: should make our playlist by using the hashtag s h

429
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Speaker 1: M s Rogue Trip. That's s h MS Rogue Trip

430
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Speaker 1: to nominate your favorite song. Thanks to the all new

431
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one Nissan Rogue, your Thanksgiving road trip just

432
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: got a whole lot better. I like, all right, yes, yes, yes,

433
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: let me see Junior. Huh. I wanted to as j

434
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Speaker 1: Junior if you're sen Joe to see and you know,

435
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: he's the whole trip. That's the whole that's the whole trip. Man.

436
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: Some good road trips because Junior is the fifth member

437
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: of Jodah thing. We had some great trips at Thanksgiving.

438
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: I've had some great ones. Yeah. Ten ten years old,

439
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: me high socks, yellows shirt, blue shorts and some kse

440
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: Swiss headed to making Georgia from Houston to see my

441
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: ain't and my family for Thanksgiving. Twelve hour trip took

442
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: sixteen hours because our country behind had to stop at

443
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: every state line signed we saw and get out to

444
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: take a picture. Stop at the Alabama, we stopped, Florida,

445
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 1: we stopped. That's what I first discovered buckets I love

446
00:30:54,160 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, buckets is a truck stop slash walmart, gigantic.

447
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: It's got everything in it. Man, No trucks are allowed.

448
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 1: Ain't no trust in now. My dad had a strict rum.

449
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: You got ten minutes to get what up you got.

450
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,239
Speaker 1: You're getting left if you ain't back in this van.

451
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: It's a truck stop with no trucks. No trucks now.

452
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: But Junior, were you ever late? Did you ever go

453
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: past ten? The ten minutes? Oh, my dad didn't play that.

454
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: You'll be in that truck. You gonna it's two minute

455
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: vans and were passing sandwiches up to the back to

456
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: the front. My grandmother back there making sandwiches, hand them

457
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: over ham salim, a hall head, cheese. Whatever it is

458
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: you want on your sand you can get it all right,

459
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: queen stopping from the back step front though, back to

460
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: the front. You don't eat the one hand until you

461
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: passing forward. I love your family, Junior, I love it

462
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: all right. Jay. It is time for comedy roulette. Please

463
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: at this up quickly. Comedy roulette very simple. You test

464
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: our comedy ability every week. Put five sepjects on the wheel,

465
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: spun the wheel. When stop we can do the damn

466
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Speaker 1: that's it. Let's go Number one. Why don't you get

467
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: yourself a manly dog? Okay, another subject, step right now,

468
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: you need some manly okay. Number two I need that.

469
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, here we go. Number three, we're just being nice.

470
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 1: The preacher's wife can't sing, okay, nice. The preacher's wife

471
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: can't sing? Okay. Number four, what's that thing on your

472
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: neck that ain't can? I just say? Can you you bust?

473
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: And the last one, the last one, These are some

474
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Speaker 1: good ones. The last one, boy, you need a shower.

475
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, shower. Ye, all right, let's go spending cat.

476
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Speaker 1: I don't even want that one stop. The number three,

477
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: we're just being nice to preacher's wife. Can no disrespect,

478
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: no disrespect. You know how I know she can't sing

479
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: because the minute the preacher announces her, everybody started justin.

480
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: They see looking at one another. Oh Lord, here we go,

481
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: Oh God, not again. And she's gonna do a solo. No,

482
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: let the band play, Let the band play. Let's just

483
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: go instrumental. Yeah, that's how you know. The preacher's wife

484
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: can't sing. And everybody in the church notice though, But

485
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: when the piano player does the introduction nine times. Yeah,

486
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: when he just keep playing the introduction, not that she

487
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: so we don't have to hear her saying. We know

488
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: she can't just playing did he play that note? Ever?

489
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: Tell yourself? You know, you know when the preacher White

490
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: can't say? When when she gets up to saying her

491
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: preacher stick his playing there in the air and walk

492
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Speaker 1: out to his office. That you know you know she

493
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: you know how she can't sing? It's when she's singing

494
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: and she missed a note. And everybody in the church

495
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 1: that let him use you, let him let him use you,

496
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: let him use let him. This is I know because

497
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: we got this at our church. I know she can't

498
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: say everybody faked the spirit, everybody pass out and nobody

499
00:34:55,520 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: happens is about the same. We the tigation what everybody

500
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 1: in a quiet and took a knee. But we can

501
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: do this. We can do this. You're listening to the

502
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. We all know the holidays are

503
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: looking a bit different and most of America is planning

504
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 1: on hitting the road instead of the skies to see family.

505
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: You heard us going rogue last week, and we're continuing

506
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 1: to go rogue by partnering with Nissan to bring you

507
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: the ultimate Thanksgiving Rogue trip playlist. With five different drive

508
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: modes and advanced technology, the all new twenty twenty one

509
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: Nissan Rogue is perfect for your family road trip and

510
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: have you seen the features? They are unbeatable like led

511
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: lights and two tone color options on the exterior. And

512
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: as we head out for the Thanksgiving holiday, we are

513
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 1: looking for your health to create the ultimate Rogue trip playlist.

514
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: So jump on social media tell us what songs should

515
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: make our playlist by using the hashtag s h M

516
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: s Rogue Trip. That's s h MS rot Rogue trip.

517
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: To nominate your favorite song. Thanks to the all new

518
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one Nissan Rogue, your Thanksgiving road trip just

519
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: got a little better. All right, Junior, We need one

520
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: song from the nineties that you must have at night

521
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: road trip? Yes, baby, come on now? What that's you? Boo?

522
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: That's you summer right If you ain't got this on

523
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: your playlist for road trip, I am on my way

524
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: to sam Houston to see a girl right now with

525
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: this plan in nineteen ninety eight. What yeah, I'm on

526
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: the way right now. I'll be right there, girl. I

527
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: told him I'm on thirty six. I'm coming through, girl.

528
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: I got this chest for you. Got to see this

529
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: chest up. All right, So Thanksgiving is notorious for over eating. Okay,

530
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: it is the biggest eating holiday of the year. Uh

531
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 1: So we got to talk about your must have Thanksgiving

532
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: side dishes, Steve, kick it off please. First of all,

533
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: just so it's a national known fat. We require sweet

534
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: potato pat not punkin. Don't make us punkin path. We

535
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 1: is sweet potato path. People, sweet potato path. All the

536
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: white people listening sweet potato we eat sweet potato path.

537
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,760
Speaker 1: We don't want you keep it. It probably taste wonderful,

538
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: but it ain't sweet potato path. All right, that's the

539
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: number one. What else? You got to have some greens? Now,

540
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: greens got to be on somewhere. Got to have a

541
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: turkey neck, thank you. Put some turkey neck in there, y'all.

542
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: Turnip or mustard I like, but I mixed. I like

543
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: collar collar. I like a mix, yeah, mix like. I

544
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: like turnips with turnips in it. Oh, I love turn up, Steve. Yes,

545
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: my mom could cook anyway that turkey leg got that

546
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: have it? Got that turkey or gotta have it frightful.

547
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm not an old lady. Down for that turkey yet

548
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: to have got and another fing gravy must have givegards

549
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 1: about gibbs. Yes, yes, yes, so so fried or roasted

550
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: for the turkey? Oh yeah, because I like roasted. We

551
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: fried people now, sure turkey. I'm still roasted and refused

552
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: to be black. Don't work, don't work, Tommy, Tommy, alright, look,

553
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 1: praying for your nesting. Publish your side. Just comments at

554
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Instagram and Facebook. You're listening to all right,

555
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: it is time for juniors truth be told. Yeah, yeah,

556
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: all right, Shirley. Thanksgivings coming up. Yeah, it's almost that.

557
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: We have discussed all of the things we discussed when

558
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: people need to brain food. Yeah, get what time dinner

559
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: start coming. We've discussed all the one thing we have

560
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: not discussed what the one thing where your ass need

561
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: to leave? Oh yeah, yeah, we have discuss not people.

562
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 1: People don't know when to leave. This time you need

563
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: to leave. There are statements that will be made. You

564
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: need to add here there too and understand like, well

565
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: that's it. See when you hear that, start getting your

566
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 1: keys in your hand. He hit some Jane something. It's

567
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: time to go. You can't spend all day here. Didn't

568
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: started too treat it like a restaurant. How long are

569
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: you staying there? You sit down to two by three thirty?

570
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: Same way about I would never have I would hear

571
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: about the game. We can get it. You ain't come

572
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: up here for the game. You came to eat. If

573
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: you full, If I see you kick off the shoe,

574
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 1: your ass got to go. Let me catch your shoe off. Yeah,

575
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: you ain't staying here all day now. My mama tired.

576
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,280
Speaker 1: She didn't cook that thing, and she can fit everybody.

577
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: What else can we talk about? We discussed everything. We know.

578
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: Walter got out of jail. We know hadn had a

579
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 1: hard transplant. We know, yeah, we know. We know Melva

580
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: had another baby. We got all this after we come

581
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: Mail was still having kids. When your name, come on, man,

582
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: your name Meilball? You probably yeah, you probably now you

583
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: probably through haven't been anybody that name Meilball, They too haven't.

584
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: What is the name have to do with the Steve

585
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: got a lot to do with your age. If your

586
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: name is Agnes, you probably didn't had all your You

587
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: probably got your grade. But we hadn't covered everything we

588
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 1: can talk about. No, we know Julia went back into rehab.

589
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: We got that. Everything is covered. Let's just go ahead

590
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: and go home. We just need you to go home.

591
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: Beat She's through. Heaven's Beatrice said Beatrice. Beatrice, Oh, Data,

592
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: it's not Heaven. We got out of that. I'm giving

593
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: you the names where I could assure you, if this

594
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: is your name, you are at an age where you

595
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: are beyond child bearing years. So Journals so Churn is

596
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: through having baby, had when you want another one? Go ahead? Henrietta, Henrietta,

597
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: she through having kids? Heett, Yeah, you know, go ahead.

598
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: Gwen is through because she got a fifty two year

599
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: old names see his names. Once you have an old name,

600
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: you can quit having babies. If your name is Bobara,

601
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 1: you're probably through having kids. I'm just saying, ain't nobody

602
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: named Bob We're still having kids? Not Bob kid, hadn't

603
00:42:51,320 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: have been through having kids? Thro Bern done, Gladys Yeah, yeah,

604
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: that's right up there with Agnes. Yeah, I'll tell you

605
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: who Jackie Eels, I'll tell you that. I'm sorry, we

606
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 1: can always go over there. We can't kids, all right?

607
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: What's this shue with there? Carlo already say Shirley Shirley,

608
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: Betty Shirley I'm next. It is the nephew switching gears

609
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: with a frank phone call for today. Right after this,

610
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: you're listening Stry Morning Show coming up at the top

611
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my

612
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today's subject, will my man choose me

613
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: for the holidays? Right now, we'll get into that. Have

614
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: you is here with today's frank phone call? What you

615
00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: got for his net? Anything with me? Before twenty your

616
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 1: wife gave me a disease? Hulloa crazy you what gave

617
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: me a disase? Yeah? And I'm gonna kill you are

618
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: talking about part two? All right, let's go get Hello. Hello,

619
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out. I'm trying to reach Dante. Yeah,

620
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: this is who this Hey? How you doing? Man? Um?

621
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: I just to be certain you Dante is married to Tammy,

622
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: right yeah, okay, cool? Cool? So listen, man, Uh you've

623
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 1: heard about me, you know, maybe heard my name before

624
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: because I used to day Tammy way before you guys

625
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 1: got married. Uh you know my name is, My name

626
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: is Marcella. So I just want to call and say

627
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Speaker 1: how are you doing? But I need to Okay, Yeah,

628
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: I know she mentioned you mentioned y'all used to be

629
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: together before we Yeah, okay, I've heard about you. What

630
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: was um? What's the phone call for? I needed to

631
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: talk to you, man. And I've been holding this back

632
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: at least four years. You know, I haven't said anything.

633
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 1: And you know I can't hold it no more. Man,

634
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm going through so many issues right now. I just

635
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta get this team. I gotta get this

636
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: the grips on this thing that I'm going through. But

637
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to come to you, man, to man,

638
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: talk to you about this situation. You know. I hate

639
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: to bring it to you like this, but when me

640
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: and Tammy were together, I don't even gonna say when

641
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: we were together, Tammy gave me a disease. Man. So

642
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: you know I've been holding this, you know, And I

643
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: gotta say I wanted to hit you up. I thought

644
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: about it two years ago. I wanted like, what do

645
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 1: you mean like she gave you a disease? She gave

646
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: me a disease about four plus years ago. This way

647
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: before y'all got married. I'm from understanding y'all been married

648
00:45:55,840 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: about three years right, Yeah, oh my god, Okay, okay,

649
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: and you're calling me you're calling me to give me

650
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: the heads up. Oh man, I'm calling because, dude, these

651
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: are the medical bills and all this that's just completely

652
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 1: out of control. I can't even you know, I can't

653
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: take care of myself no more with this, you know,

654
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: and I don't feel like I have to because she

655
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 1: the one that gave me to day I'm to see. Okay,

656
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: So you're calling because you want you want me to

657
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: pay for you. You want you want us to pay

658
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: for your medical bills. The dude, I mean, damn, dude,

659
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 1: I mean put yourself in my position. Mare, I mean

660
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: what the brothers posed you. You know, I'm sitting over

661
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: here with a disease somebody gave me, and you know

662
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: they're going on what they like. Boh yeah, but this

663
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: is so you're calling me telling me my wife gave

664
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 1: you a disease. First of all, she would have told

665
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: me that. Secondly, now you're telling me like I might

666
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: have some. You gotta be kidding me, Well, what did

667
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: she give you? What disease are you talking about? Man?

668
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: At this point, you know, I don't even want to disgusted,

669
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: I just want to get on board. Let's can we

670
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: get some kind of understanding with the medical fields that

671
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: I can't inside of control. Man, I'm not paying, Okay,

672
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pay for your medical bills, especially when

673
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know what those do you mean what

674
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 1: you mean she gave you a disease? Man, I'm over.

675
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: You're freaking out, dude, Dude, I understand you know, Bro,

676
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: I hope you're good. I really you know, But I'm

677
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: just saying, Man, dude, I don't know what to do. No, mom, Man,

678
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 1: I really don't, you know, Like I said, okay, yo yo,

679
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: you need call me all right? You you talking in circles.

680
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: You're telling me something you have you caught four or

681
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: five years ago? Well, what is it? Some it's uncheerable?

682
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: What the disease are you talking about? Man, dude. I'm

683
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: I'm trying, dude, regardless of what it is, I'm trying

684
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: to handle the medical fields on it. Man, That's what

685
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do. Dude, boy, kind of medical bills?

686
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,439
Speaker 1: Could you have for some you caught four years ago?

687
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 1: Like four years ago, you should have been able to

688
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: six sessions? What is it? Dude? She gave me the

689
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: disease and I need somebody to play these damn bills.

690
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying to you. All right, That's all

691
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's dante yo, I'm telling you what I'm

692
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 1: telling you. Marceello. It's quit playing and tell me what

693
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 1: the disease this is. It's Mars Cellers, man, it's mart Sellers. Okay,

694
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm going your name this I'm getting ya, Yo, wife

695
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: gave me diabetes? What the diabetes? Your wife gave me diabetes? Man? Man,

696
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 1: you must be coming to hell. You can't. Can't nobody

697
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: give you diabetes? What you mean she gave you diabetes? Man?

698
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: Your wife cooking, was cooking all them cakes and pies

699
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: and you know all that sugar, you know, and they

700
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 1: just came out. Bro had me thinking, my wife gave

701
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: you her piece or some man. You just don't know

702
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: how to work out, you know how to eat? That's

703
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: on you, man. I'm paying no bills for that diabetes.

704
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: It's wrong with you. Man. Oh so nah Na Na

705
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: not as funny you laughing. You're laughing at me, dunte Jess,

706
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm laughing at you call my phone talking about my

707
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 1: wife gave you diabetes? Bro? For real? Is livid? Bro?

708
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: Can I say something else? No? Dante. What what you

709
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: want to say? I want to say this, Dante, you

710
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: just got frank baby. This nephew till me from the

711
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: CEA Harvey Morning. So your wife Camy got me the

712
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: frank folks. Oh damn yo, oh step I got you

713
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: Bay just twenty twenty I got you. Wow. Okay, See

714
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: she told me about She told me about Marcello, but

715
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: I never heard his voice. Bro, I was on fire.

716
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Uho, you're good man? Oh my god.

717
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: Oh you have me some scary dude talking about the disease,

718
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: especially the disease the four years lingering. It's like whoa, whoa, whoa,

719
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, man, I was you know when she

720
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: got home. I was about to be so man. Bro,

721
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: hey man, you gotta tell me this. Man, Come on,

722
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,879
Speaker 1: John Jake, what is what is the baddest And I'm

723
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio showing the lane? Y'all funny dude,

724
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: this is Steve Harvey Morning. You are you eating right?

725
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: You ain't got no diacreted dude. Now I'm worried. Bro.

726
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: I know you should catch it like that. Brod did

727
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: I go too far? Too fuck? You played both way

728
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: too much? You played way too funny. Come on, mysell

729
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: t me. You make me nervous every time I hear

730
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 1: one of these. Now, no, I'm gonna tell you something, man,

731
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:03,959
Speaker 1: for real, pretty damn brilliant. When you flip your wife

732
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: gave me diabeting. That was that hard left on the

733
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: joke that a lot of people don't know how to

734
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:23,760
Speaker 1: take No manet man, you don't get your that is crazy.

735
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: And you got the sample reproof of approval from your

736
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 1: your uncle and that means a lot to me right there.

737
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: Thank you. Just come here now and then some relash.

738
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 1: Don't don't get used to him much regular at all.

739
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 1: Don't get your not not praise heaping. We fing to

740
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: do a bunch of this. See y'all don't know how

741
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: to work. I'll explained to you all right, all right, nephew,

742
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 1: thank you, great job as usual. Up next Strawberry letter subject,

743
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays. We'll get

744
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

745
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

746
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

747
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: and more, please please please submit your Strawberry letter to

748
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M and click submit Strawberry Letter. We

749
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

750
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

751
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

752
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thanks neph subject,

753
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays? Dear Stephen Shirley,

754
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman,

755
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: and I'm in love with a forty four year old,

756
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: well educated hunk that swept me off my feet when

757
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: I met him. He told me that he was seeing

758
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: someone in a long distance relationship, but I still started

759
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:04,880
Speaker 1: dating this man despite the news. After six months of dating,

760
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: I did some research and found out that he proposed

761
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 1: to this woman and she has set a wedding date.

762
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: I never confronted him about it, but it tore me

763
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 1: apart emotionally. I figured if I started an argument about it,

764
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: I would push him away and his fiance would win,

765
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: so I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying

766
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: my best to make him fall in love with me

767
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: and leave her. I know the old saying if he

768
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: cheats on her, he'll cheat on you, But I believe

769
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 1: in love, and I know we have something special. The

770
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: loving is so good, and he takes me on some

771
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: amazing trips all across the world. We are always together

772
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: when he's not out of town visiting the other woman.

773
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: I am overly jealous, so I just need to know

774
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: how I can win him over before his fiance orders

775
00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 1: the wedding invitations. The holidays are coming up and I

776
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: don't want to spend them without him, so time is

777
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: of the essence. How do I tell this man that

778
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 1: I am in love with him and will take any

779
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: and every risk when it comes to getting him to myself.

780
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: It's totally possible to be in love with two people

781
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: at the same time, so he's probably struggling internally with

782
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: who he should be with. Maybe if I tell his

783
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: fiance about our relationship, she will just break up with

784
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: him and go away. It may make him mad, but

785
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: in the end he will still have me, and I

786
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,760
Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. I'm head over heels

787
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: for this man, and I'm planning to invite him to

788
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner so my family can meet him. How shall

789
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: I handle How should I handle this love triangle? Do

790
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: you hear yourself? Do you hear yourself, because listen closely.

791
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: This is this is the sound of desperation, all right,

792
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: this is the sound of delusion in the letter. So

793
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: I want you to hear yourself. You are so short

794
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: changing yourself in this relationship. You are number two. That's it,

795
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: that's all. You are the side piece. And uh, you're

796
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: okay with that. I think you're really okay with it

797
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: because he told you his status when you, guys, you know,

798
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: first got together. He told you he was in a

799
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 1: long distance relationship. You even researched it, you did your

800
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: research and your words. You still dated him despite the news.

801
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: You started dating him. And that's the problem. I mean, really,

802
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 1: what is his incentive to leave his fiance and get

803
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: with you number two? What is it? He's getting everything

804
00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 1: from you without having to change a thing. He's doing

805
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: win win for him. He's got the best of both

806
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 1: worlds here. I mean the question then becomes, when are

807
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 1: you going to wake up and realize that if he

808
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,040
Speaker 1: was going to leave her for you, don't you and

809
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: he would have waited to propose to her. I mean,

810
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: you know, you did all the research. You know, maybe

811
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: he would kind of see where the relationship could go

812
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 1: with you and him, or maybe that you would have

813
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: won him over by now you think it's a competition

814
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 1: between the fiance and you because you're you're willing to

815
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 1: take any and every risk to get him. You know,

816
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, please, don't bother inviting him to

817
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: dinner because you know where he's gonna be. He's gonna

818
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: be with his fiance and her family kicking it over

819
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 1: there for Thanksgiving because they're planning a wedding, they're getting married.

820
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: You are the side piece, all right, Steve, Well, I

821
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: don't know what Shirley's done a really excellent job with this.

822
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 1: All you can do is just get it worded in

823
00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 1: a different way. So here we go. Well, my man,

824
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: choose me for the holiday. The answer to that question

825
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 1: is no. And the answer to that question no is

826
00:56:56,440 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: simply because number twos don't get holidays. You don't get Christmas,

827
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: you don't get Thanksgiving, you don't get Fourth of July barbeques.

828
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: Those are the holidays. You don't get the whole Valentine's date,

829
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:15,280
Speaker 1: you can't get them days right there. You don't get anniversaries.

830
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: You don't get none of that because you will never

831
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: had an anniversary. Number two don't get anniversary dates. Number

832
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: one get anniversary dates. And you don't even have to

833
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: be married to your number one to have an anniversary

834
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 1: just the third year we've been knowing each other. You

835
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 1: don't do that. To the number twos, you don't go

836
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: we've been seeing each other for three years. Now, let's

837
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: go out and celebrate. No, there's no celebration. You don't

838
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 1: celebrate number twos. When I met him, he told me

839
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: he was seeing someone in a long distance relationship. Then

840
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: you know what you said right after that. But I

841
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: still dated this man despite the news. Okay, so you stupid. Oh,

842
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 1: you just did what you wanted to do. You dated

843
00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: Demand anywhere. Demand told you I got somebody. It's a

844
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: long this relationship. I got somebody. You started dating the

845
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: man anyway. Then after some six months of dating, you

846
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: did some research and found out that he proposed to

847
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: this woman as she has set a waiting date. Okay,

848
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 1: what's the surprise. I never confronted him about it, but

849
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: it told me a party Emotionally, I figured if I

850
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: started an argument about it, I pushed him away and

851
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 1: this fiance will win. The fiance is already went in.

852
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: She the fiance six months in, you found out they

853
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: set a dating for a wed He asked her, she

854
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: just put this date on Facebook. He asked the woman

855
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: to marry him. Has he asked you? Has he mentioned

856
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: marriage to you? He said nothing? By no, damn family

857
00:58:55,640 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: with you. Stupid letter make me sick? Ten to tell

858
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: after this shut up costing you're listening show? All right, Steve,

859
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: come on, Let's recap today's strawberry letters. Subject well, my

860
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 1: man choose me for the holidays? This woman to met

861
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: she thirty, She met just for the year old, well

862
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: for the four year old, well educated hunk swept you

863
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: off your feet when you met him. He told me

864
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: he was seeing somebody. You still dated the man. Bam.

865
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 1: Six months later you I did some research that's social media,

866
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: found out that he proposed to this woman. She even

867
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: set a wedding day. You ain't never saying nothing to

868
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: him about the man. Figure if you started argument and

869
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: push him away. Now you want to know in the

870
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: letter where my man choose me for the holidays. I'm

871
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 1: telling you know because number twos don't get holidays. Holidays

872
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: a reserved for number one. You can't be number two

873
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 1: and get a holiday. You can get some Fridays get

874
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 1: sad to hearing that. Wait, what is that? What do

875
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: they get, Steve? You can get some Fridays and occasional Saturday,

876
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: but that's it. Usually it's the same day of the

877
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: week that he then told his wife or number one

878
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 1: that he does a certain thing on a certain night,

879
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 1: and that turns that night into YO night. I play

880
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: poking with the boys on Tuesday nights and i'd be

881
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: home late. Then that night is YO night. You don't

882
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,919
Speaker 1: get any night you want. Now here's a delusional part,

883
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: like Shirley say, I'm trying my best to make him

884
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: fall in love with me and leave her. What Let

885
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: me ask something, how do you do that? How as

886
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: the number two do you make the man fall in

887
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: love with you and leave the number one? I know

888
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: the old thing. If he cheats on her here cheat

889
01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: on you? That ain't got nothing to do with this. No,

890
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: he's cheating on her with you. You the you tell

891
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: my head cheat on you? Know? You to you, but

892
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 1: I believe in love. Stop it. You just say you

893
01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: believe in love. He's marrying a woman, and I know

894
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: we have something special. You all this is in your mind.

895
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 1: You have nothing special. Your number two two's ain't special.

896
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: Ain't two A and all this here? If they ain't

897
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: no two A two plus? This ain't a seat an

898
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: economy that's ain't it economy super with entry leg room.

899
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: You're still in the back economy plus. You're still in

900
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: the back. But his my ligal room is still good.

901
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: But you in the back though, you're not the first

902
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: class seat and you can't come up here with the

903
01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: economy plus ticket. Can sit on the eggs it wrong.

904
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 1: Get you a little bit astra if that's what you want,

905
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: But look at as a lot of people on the

906
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: eggit row. The loving is so good, and he takes

907
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: me on amazing trips all across the world. You'd have

908
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 1: been to the Bahamas? Who ain't been there? Sound bigger

909
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: than it is? Hers across the world? Stop, San Diego.

910
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: Ain't all across the world. Then here's another line. We

911
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: are always together when he's not out of town. Hello,

912
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: do you understand this? You're always together when he's not

913
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: out of town. You just said he take you all

914
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,479
Speaker 1: around the world, Carol, when are you out of town?

915
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 1: He would hull You ain't been nowhere? Fly to Atlanta.

916
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: Ain't across the world When he's not out of town

917
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 1: visiting the other woman. I'm overly jealous, so I just

918
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: need to know how can I win him over before

919
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: his fiance orders to win the way Too late for that. They'

920
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: the second day. They aren't putting money down on places,

921
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 1: she brent dress shopping. Damn these invitations. The holidays are

922
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 1: coming up and I don't want to spend them without him.

923
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 1: You are, this is your first holiday. It's only been

924
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: six months. You've never been to the holidays before. You're

925
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: spending those holidays alone. You're number two. It's only been

926
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:27,479
Speaker 1: six months. Hell, it's November, so you met him prior

927
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: to the summer. You're not. They don't get holidays, sweetie.

928
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and I don't want to spend them without him.

929
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: So time is of the essence. Girl. Yeah, but they

930
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: said nothing to you about Thanksgiving. Yeah, because he ain't

931
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: gonna feel he he cast to go out of town.

932
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: They gonna tell his fiance I ain't coming to wonder

933
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 1: what did you find to do? Then? How do I

934
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: tell this man that I'm in love with him and

935
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 1: will take every risk of cans to getting him to myself.

936
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: You've already taken and the risk. The man told you

937
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: was in a relationship, and you dated him anyway, you

938
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: took the risk. You've taken all the risks. Now then

939
01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: you go right here. It's possible to be in love

940
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 1: with two people at the same time. So I know

941
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: he's probably struggling internally with who he should be with

942
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: little girl. The struggle isn't with who she should be with.

943
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: The struggle is how to tell you he's with her

944
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: and finning getting married. Remember that he has not told

945
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: you this for a reason, because the only struggle is

946
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:37,520
Speaker 1: when and how to tell you this is over. Because

947
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm finn to move this woman in my house. That's

948
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 1: the struggle to struggle, Am. But you love sister, pack

949
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 1: you bags of He ain't coming over for Thanksgiving, and

950
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: do not call that woman because you could get shot.

951
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: All right, those are my closing remarks today, y'all have

952
01:04:54,720 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 1: a great weekend. All right. You can post your I'm

953
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: a son Today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM on

954
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to check out

955
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,840
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at

956
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 1: forty six after the hour. I think Steve had more

957
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 1: to add to this strawberry letter, write Steve, We're gonna

958
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: do a little bit more. Yeah, let's this. You're listening

959
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: this morning show? All right, Steve, you said you had

960
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 1: some more to add to the strawberry letter subject, will

961
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 1: my man choose me for the holidays? For thold of

962
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 1: you that don't know, this girl is thirty years old

963
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: dating this forty four year old man swept off his

964
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: feet day He told her on day one he's in

965
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,959
Speaker 1: seeing someone in a long dist relationship. But you dated

966
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: this man anyway despite the news or six months of dating.

967
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 1: Did some research? Found out the woman has set a

968
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: wedding date with he proposed to this woman. Now, this

969
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 1: girl who wrote the letter hasn't said anything to him

970
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: about it, but she's torn up. She's scared to start

971
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: argument because it'll push him away and his fiance will win.

972
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 1: So she's kept a new us to the same to

973
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: kept it all to himself. She's trying to figure out

974
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: the best way to make this man fall in love

975
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 1: with her and he leave her. I know the old saying,

976
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 1: if he cheats on her, here cheat on you. But

977
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 1: I believe in love. Now that she's talking about the man,

978
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 1: take on some amazing trips all across the world. The

979
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: girl had been in San Diego and now she been

980
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:23,600
Speaker 1: all around the world. San Diego it's just close to Mexico.

981
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:27,240
Speaker 1: You then you saw the signe, but you didn't actually

982
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 1: go to t your wanna. He don't want to go there,

983
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: No damn way, coach, it's crazy. Now anyway, how do

984
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: I wear him over before the fiance orders to wed

985
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: an invitation? Holidays is coming up. I don't want to

986
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: spend him with him, so times of the elsen. How

987
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: do I tell this man I'm in love with him

988
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: and would take every risk into getting him to myself.

989
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 1: Told the possible. Well, now he's probably struggling with who

990
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 1: he should be with. Then here was the line the

991
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 1: girl said, maybe if I tell his fiance about our relationship,

992
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 1: she would just break up with him and go away.

993
01:06:58,120 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 1: It may make him mad, but in the end end

994
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: he will still have me, and I know we can

995
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 1: be happy together. Pump your brakes, little girl. You've obviously

996
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 1: never gone to a woman to tell her that you

997
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 1: are the other woman. H They do get mad, and

998
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: it do mess the dude up with his girl for

999
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 1: a while, but they usually recover. Now he is going

1000
01:07:20,920 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: to hate you for the rest of your life, and

1001
01:07:24,320 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 1: you will have no relationship with him, none whatsoever. And

1002
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: it is dumed so long as you know that, good luck.

1003
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm planning on inviting him to Thanksgiving. Don't do that.

1004
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: That man can't don't do that. And when I m

1005
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:48,800
Speaker 1: Turkey over there by yourself, they're gonna have a place

1006
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: sitting with somebody. Ass ain't gonna be there. And baby,

1007
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: and when thanks Giving up Thanksgiving? Thanksgiving it to the moment,

1008
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: I can't have Thanksgiving. He said nothing to you about

1009
01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 1: thank you. I like my Thanksgiving on Thanksgi all right, listen,

1010
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,080
Speaker 1: coming up, we're gonna talk about breaking up. It's all

1011
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 1: ties in together. We'll do that right after this. You're

1012
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: listening show, all right, last day to break up. Some

1013
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 1: say if you do not break up with your significant

1014
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: other today, you are stuck with that significant other until

1015
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 1: around Martin lu Okay, you can get out right now.

1016
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,479
Speaker 1: You need to get out today. Well, you should have

1017
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 1: been out. You should have been out. You should have Halloween.

1018
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: Halloween is a great time to league. Yeah, ye's scary Halloween.

1019
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 1: Come back like late February, trying to work it out.

1020
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: If you can't ask you guys. This first of all,

1021
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,760
Speaker 1: this is the best way to break up. Baby, we're

1022
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: breaking up, boot I told you it was scary walk

1023
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: away out that dope, But now it's so, what's the

1024
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: What are you all breaking up for? Though? I need

1025
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,920
Speaker 1: to gifts? You got about gifts? You gotta you know

1026
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: relative you don't want that, but you stud intim you

1027
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: want something. You know it's bad and holiday everybody want

1028
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: to be held. They want somebody to hold, yeah, and

1029
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 1: cuddle the fire and stuff. Yeah, it's really hard to

1030
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 1: be at somebody's house that you want to break up

1031
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 1: with and they family. Yeah, it's so good and they

1032
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 1: like you and like you. Right, you want some power,

1033
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,559
Speaker 1: don't even I don't want to say bye bye. That's

1034
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 1: what I want to say. Not want to say bye bye.

1035
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: And bickups pick ups to all the married dudes that

1036
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: still go by the girl house and visit with the

1037
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: yes up to them. Wait, wait, why are you crazy?

1038
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,040
Speaker 1: For real? I mean they need tips, Timmy, What they

1039
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 1: need is tips. I got a tip. I got one tip.

1040
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:29,640
Speaker 1: Year's a tip. You gonna go over there and she

1041
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: gonna have a plate for you on tig leg all

1042
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: everything you as soon as you get in the car

1043
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: and you drive pass out. You throw that damn plate

1044
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Speaker 1: out the window, right on the highway, on the freeway.

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Speaker 1: Gotta be on the freeway. Gotta be. I have a question.

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Speaker 1: I have a question. If you're going over to the

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Speaker 1: number two's house, thanks give it. What time do you

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Speaker 1: go over there? Oh? But Steve, when you run to

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Speaker 1: the stove, that's part of your run to the stove. Yeah,

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01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: and you've got to come over there like you in

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01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 1: a hurry to lead. See he's going on there. But

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01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: how y'all doing? What's heading to? Wait? Yeah, ain't nothing done,

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01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing done yet, ain't nothing ready. It's nine thirty

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Speaker 1: in the morning. We just yea looking. I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: right back. I just can't. I just can't want to

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Speaker 1: stick my head and do say hate anybody that bay.

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01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 1: I think some more optimal. I think another option too.

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Speaker 1: I agree fellas earlier. Here's another thought. Half time or

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01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 1: the football game. That's a good time too. Yeah, Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's about because you can get out your house clean. Yeah,

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01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 1: and how is that? How's that? I'm trying to figure

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Speaker 1: this out. Yeah, we'll see the stove to get some

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01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 1: liquor and liquor store is opening deep in the hood. Yeah,

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01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 1: but she can't stay that far. You know your two

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01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: got to be two miles away though. You got to

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01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 1: know you can't put You are gotta take ten minutes

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Speaker 1: to get there. See what you ladies that don't understand

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01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,640
Speaker 1: twols are not always women. Sometimes the two is a

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01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,680
Speaker 1: man and it's dealt with different. She'll just call you

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01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:29,920
Speaker 1: on the phone. I don't need you to bring ass

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Speaker 1: over here today. Okay. You mean her approach with it, bro,

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01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: because women are such better cheaters. Yeah, because she got

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Speaker 1: something else going on herself. Straight up? All right, we'll

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Speaker 1: be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show Jamely

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01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: Brown for the Steve Having One a Show. The question is,

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Speaker 1: who's the person in your family or in your life

1078
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:08,719
Speaker 1: does always borrowed money? My sister, she owes your money

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Speaker 1: right now? How much? I'm not even gonna say, my son,

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01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 1: my cousins, my cousin as well, my sister. But a giveaway.

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Speaker 1: You don't even look for it back. No, no, Also,

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01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 1: my brother begging Billy if you could get the money

1083
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 1: back that your brother owes you right now? How much

1084
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 1: would it be? Hundreds of dollars? Hundreds of dollars, thousands

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01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: of dollars? I jam around with the Steve, I haven't

1086
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Speaker 1: mond the show. Who's the person in your family that's

1087
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: always borrowing money? Her answer is, you know what, it's

1088
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 1: not borroed I but I don't give it back. It's

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Speaker 1: not my sister. If she paid you back right now,

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Speaker 1: how much would it be? Who was the ten thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars from my dad? Does he owe your money right now? No?

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Speaker 1: Actually doesn't my sister. If she paid you back right now?

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01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 1: How much would it be? Through? Four hundred dollars? One

1094
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 1: of my uncles? How much does he owe you right now?

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01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 1: Probably a couple of hundred. Do you think you'll ever

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01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:17,120
Speaker 1: see that money? No? He never pays his bets back. Me.

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Speaker 1: You owe your sister money? Yeah, you paid her back.

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Speaker 1: How much would it be now? Five hundred? I'm pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Pretty good? David Brown for the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 1: Who's the person in your family is always borrowing money?

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01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 1: It's Stiles, Steve Harvey. Steve didn't borrow no money from you?

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Speaker 1: The money from me? How much as hell? You're right now?

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01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 1: A lot of money because I said, this suit never

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Speaker 1: come favorite for you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:51,920
Speaker 1: who's the house guest or a person coming by for

1106
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,640
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving that you're not looking forward to? Sing? Who is it?

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01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: My mother in law's sister's husband? What? Who was that? Though?

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01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: I don't even know it's earnest? Why I watched him

1109
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 1: the whole time here? Yeah, your mother in laws a dream.

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01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 1: I love her, We love her man, my mother in law,

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01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 1: my father in law is that bad? Mom and daddy?

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Speaker 1: I got the best. I never had a complaint. Man,

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01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: we're happy. We enjoy each other. They can't stay in

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Speaker 1: my house as long as they were. Ye, I love him.

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01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: But her sister husband, I don't know, that's what that's

1116
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: what's wrong. I don't know. We was having a prayer

1117
01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 1: one time, but mom in law said, let's all whole hands,

1118
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: you know, a huge kitchen. Yeah, about twenty people. Everybody

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01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: go around and say what they think, yes, okay, naw,

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Speaker 1: I ain't like this here because there's too many people.

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01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 1: And I didn't know half the people that was in

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01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 1: the circle. So and I really don't care what you're

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01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 1: grateful for because dinner is ready. And it got around

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01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:57,599
Speaker 1: to everybody, and this one lady took a long time,

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01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 1: but hers what's the best. So I I broke from

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Speaker 1: the circle and started clapping because I wanted to try

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Speaker 1: to end it with applause. Right, And I'm holding this

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Speaker 1: dude's hand. Now, I don't know nothing wrong with him

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01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:13,200
Speaker 1: until it got to him and he started telling about

1130
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Speaker 1: what he was grateful fault. He said, I'm grateful for

1131
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 1: the weather and that we had the jacket's home, and

1132
01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:26,719
Speaker 1: that the fact that you know, everything at the grocery

1133
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: store is fresh, and that we can go go by there.

1134
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: And I think I thank him for my cars too,

1135
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: that come on in the morning and take her safe.

1136
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: Now I'm sitting now, I'm looking upside his head, but

1137
01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: my whole body trimming because everybody got their head down

1138
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:50,559
Speaker 1: except Winting, which is looking up getting full blown hollow

1139
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 1: motive at me face to k I'm over here, my

1140
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: whole body shaking. I'm laughing so hard, trying not to

1141
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:06,920
Speaker 1: blurt it out. He gives my mother in law. She

1142
01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:09,560
Speaker 1: holding my hand on the other side. She squeezes my

1143
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:11,679
Speaker 1: hand to try to help me through it. That ain't

1144
01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:16,000
Speaker 1: stopping nothing I got. Who is this man? Then my

1145
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: other son, Steve, he opens his eyes and he starts

1146
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 1: snickering my sons, Me and my sons is in hollow mode.

1147
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:29,920
Speaker 1: Harvey boys, this to us, yil, and I've given him

1148
01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: full permission that laughing stuff like that. So I looked

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01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 1: over to the left of the circle and my wife

1150
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 1: is glaring at me too, a little green eyes. I'm

1151
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:44,960
Speaker 1: talking about glaring. You don't squitt if you don't pull

1152
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:48,680
Speaker 1: it together like when she said that. And then I

1153
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:54,640
Speaker 1: thank the Lord. I gotta tune up the other day, right,

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Speaker 1: Steve coming up closing remarks right after this. You're listening, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day. Guys. It's

1156
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:08,160
Speaker 1: been a pretty fun, crazy, crazy ignorant day on this

1157
01:18:08,360 --> 01:18:12,679
Speaker 1: Crazy Ignorant show. A lot of fun today. But Steve,

1158
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 1: now it's time to get a little serious. And I

1159
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:19,639
Speaker 1: just want to encourage people to do something really really

1160
01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:23,200
Speaker 1: simple today. And I think this is something that most

1161
01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 1: people would agree to want. It's really this simple. Everybody

1162
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 1: should want more for your life. I'm talking about your

1163
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: life right there, the one that you have. You should

1164
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:43,200
Speaker 1: want more for your life. You should never allow yourself

1165
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:47,719
Speaker 1: to become complacent. Now, I want you to understand something.

1166
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 1: Some people get complacency confuse with they don't want to

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01:18:53,600 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 1: seem ungrateful. Once again, some people get complacent and see

1168
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Speaker 1: confused with not wanting to appear ungrateful. Well, I don't

1169
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 1: want to keep asking God for nothing because I don't

1170
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:09,920
Speaker 1: want him to think I ain't grateful for what I have.

1171
01:19:10,439 --> 01:19:14,720
Speaker 1: Well thanking for it. Then that's really simple. Simply thank

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01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 1: God for what you have. That's the gratitude. But then

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01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:25,320
Speaker 1: it's still okay to want more for your life. Here's

1174
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: the good news. God actually wants you to have more

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01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 1: for your life. God is really looking for people to

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01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:37,600
Speaker 1: show off. He really is. I happen to raise my

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Speaker 1: hand all the time in volunteer I do. I just

1178
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: say God, pick me, come on, do me, use me

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Speaker 1: show me. Now, that doesn't mean I'm perfect. I'm far

1180
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Speaker 1: from it. But I do want God's blessings to be

1181
01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 1: able to flow through me. So I keep an open

1182
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: channel in my life for that stuff to flow through.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I want more, that's the beginning of

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01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: getting it. Then I have the good sense to ask

1185
01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 1: Him for more. You have not because you ask not. Well,

1186
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:22,960
Speaker 1: I happen to be a big asker of stuff. So

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01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:26,719
Speaker 1: now I want more, I ask for more. Now here's

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01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 1: the trick to asking for more and wanting more. You

1189
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 1: have got to be willing to do more. Oh, now

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01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 1: you gotta do more. Now, that's the one thing that

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01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 1: stops so many people from having and wanting more for

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01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:56,800
Speaker 1: their life. If God will give you blessings and God

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01:20:56,880 --> 01:21:01,560
Speaker 1: will increase your measure in life, if God comes to

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01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:05,479
Speaker 1: give you life and give you life more abundantly, if

1195
01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:09,519
Speaker 1: He's promised to do that for you, and what you

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01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 1: have to do in return is you have to be

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Speaker 1: willing to do more. See you, you can't get more

1198
01:21:16,400 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: without doing more. Convenience is built through inconvenience. You can

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Speaker 1: stop warning what you see everybody else with and you

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01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 1: ain't willing to do what everybody else did to get it?

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01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,519
Speaker 1: Quick look at it Oprah's pile over there. If you

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01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:33,040
Speaker 1: ain't willing to do what Oprah did, which Tom an

1203
01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 1: average person is not because the average person wants to

1204
01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:41,960
Speaker 1: be comfortable, and you can't be successful and stay comfortable.

1205
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:45,840
Speaker 1: I was interviewing the wrestler on my show yesterday day.

1206
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 1: But teach a great story man. This camp was really

1207
01:21:48,240 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 1: out of it, really really fascinating story he had. And

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01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: we were talking and he was talking about living outside

1209
01:21:58,040 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: your comfort zone. And I told him one of the

1210
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Speaker 1: things that I've had to learn how to do in

1211
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:07,760
Speaker 1: order to become successful is I've had to become comfortable

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Speaker 1: with being uncomfortable. He said, wow, Wow, that's a great

1213
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Speaker 1: way to put us. Do I have learned how to

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Speaker 1: be comfortable while I'm uncomfortable, Because in order to get successful,

1215
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:30,840
Speaker 1: you have to be uncomfortable. You have to do things

1216
01:22:31,240 --> 01:22:34,600
Speaker 1: that you don't feel like doing all the time. You

1217
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:36,439
Speaker 1: have to show up when you don't want to show up.

1218
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:38,840
Speaker 1: You have to be there when you feel like being

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01:22:38,920 --> 01:22:43,560
Speaker 1: somewhere else. You have to say yes a lot of

1220
01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:48,639
Speaker 1: times when you really want to just say no. That's

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01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 1: where you're at, man, that's how you become successful. But

1222
01:22:53,479 --> 01:22:55,720
Speaker 1: you can't keep asking God for more and you ain't

1223
01:22:55,760 --> 01:23:00,720
Speaker 1: willing to do more. It doesn't make any sense. It

1224
01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: cannot happen that way, folks. So come on, I want

1225
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:09,560
Speaker 1: you to want more for your life. But there's a

1226
01:23:09,600 --> 01:23:13,640
Speaker 1: scripture that that bags that up too. It said to

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Speaker 1: whom much is given, much is required. Now, if you

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01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:24,439
Speaker 1: don't want the requirements, then he gonna have to pull

1229
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:30,120
Speaker 1: up on a given. But if you want the given,

1230
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 1: know that here come the requirements. So one more time,

1231
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:40,920
Speaker 1: if you don't want the requirements, he gonna have to

1232
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: pull up on a given. Do not be the one

1233
01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 1: who blocks your own blessings. Want more for your life

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01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 1: and be willing to do the things to accept and

1235
01:23:55,400 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: receive more. It's just discipline. It's just some more work.

1236
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Speaker 1: But if you just cut out some of the bs, man, Man,

1237
01:24:05,240 --> 01:24:08,240
Speaker 1: just cut out some of the happy hours, just cut

1238
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:11,719
Speaker 1: out some of the drinking. You can't smoke one every

1239
01:24:11,880 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 1: day though, you can't go to all the clubs. So man,

1240
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:20,840
Speaker 1: you're just gonna run all the women that that's that's that's,

1241
01:24:21,040 --> 01:24:25,040
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna do all of them. I got

1242
01:24:25,120 --> 01:24:28,720
Speaker 1: news for you, Man, can't be successful that way. You

1243
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: can't drop it now. For all Steve every contests, no

1244
01:24:52,120 --> 01:24:55,599
Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US

1245
01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:59,160
Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: complete content US rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.