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Speaker 1: Good news everyone, I listen to the Black Guy Who

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Speaker 1: Tips podcast because Rod and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the Black Auteus podcast. I'm your host Rod,

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Speaker 2: joined us always by my co host Aran, and we

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Speaker 2: are live, coming to you for the first time in

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Speaker 2: the new year. Ready to do some podcasts. And I

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Speaker 2: hope you guys all had a great New Year celebration.

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Speaker 2: I hope you guys are ready for whatever you bring

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Speaker 2: into the new year, your resolutions, whatever you're left in

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Speaker 2: the old year, We're ready to go to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all that good stuff.

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Speaker 1: I normally don't do like New Year's resolutions or anything

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Speaker 1: like that, but for some reason this year, I just

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Speaker 1: made a list.

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Speaker 3: I was like, what are there? Because sometimes you have

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Speaker 3: things that you kind of want to prove on, but

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Speaker 3: you don't want like a resolution.

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Speaker 1: You just want to kind of bring it to the

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Speaker 1: forefront so you can kind of be aware of like

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Speaker 1: your own shortcomings, like and like you sit down and

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Speaker 1: don't lie to yourself about things you are going to

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Speaker 1: do and things you aren't going to do and things

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Speaker 1: I be making excuses kind of my own brain about

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Speaker 1: these things. Like everybody else, you have your own anxieties,

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Speaker 1: you know, those things that kind of get in your

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Speaker 3: The best version of yourself. Right, So they're not resolution.

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Speaker 1: They're just like a list of things that I've kind

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Speaker 1: of noticed about myself that I want to improve one.

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Speaker 1: But they don't have to be like giant improvements. I

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Speaker 1: just want to be better today than I was yesterday,

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Speaker 1: or or or even if it's a one to two

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Speaker 1: to five percent increase of betterness, it's better than what

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Speaker 1: I was doing, which was nothing, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: So I because because I feel like that way, I

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Speaker 1: don't put pressure on myself. I don't feel any form

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Speaker 1: of disappointments when I don't hit these marks because I

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Speaker 1: I mean things like that. I just say, Okay, these

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Speaker 3: But I gotta do what I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: What I got, you know, I mean type of thing

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Speaker 3: They can write a resolution and then keep that's great.

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Speaker 3: That's not me. So that's why I just don't do.

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Speaker 1: Them because I personally feel like it's a waste of

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to do these big, grandiocious you know

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Speaker 1: like there are like small little things, you know, because

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Speaker 1: like you do a lot of things, and one of

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Speaker 1: the things I have was to kind of help you

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't have the energy, but I need to

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Speaker 2: And I think a lot of times, like I know,

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Speaker 2: I don't make New Year's resolutions normally, and I think

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Speaker 1: And so you know, for me, I kind of look

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Speaker 1: And so that that's kind of my mind, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And a lot of times they have sales around

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Speaker 2: I was at the gym yesterday and it was crowded,

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Speaker 2: But it was also my first time back in the

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Speaker 4: Because of the injuries.

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Speaker 1: And it's also, like a lot of people, you get

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you lying already. It's day three of

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Speaker 2: New Year's and you I mean, I thought it would

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Speaker 4: It, all right, I am open minded. The official weaponar

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Speaker 4: show is Damn they won, they wont.

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Speaker 2: And the unofficials for it, the bullet Ball Extreme Dream.

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Speaker 4: This is a feedback show. This is when we talk

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Speaker 4: about the things that you.

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Speaker 2: Guys had to say about the things we had to

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Speaker 2: say throughout the week. We only did two episodes last week,

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Speaker 2: so this might be a shorter show. But we did

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Speaker 2: get a lot of stuff in the mail, so we

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Speaker 2: will be talking about the cards and stuff you guys

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Speaker 2: sent us. Also, if you had sent us your holiday address,

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Speaker 2: I went ahead and put in for the cards. I

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Speaker 4: We have fifty four.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they just think the blackout tips and Katie Curritt

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Speaker 4: I think she comes from a conservative family. Sidney Sweeney.

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Speaker 4: Down because it's a law of diminishing returns.

438
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Speaker 2: And so I think a lot of times they start

439
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Speaker 2: doing these things that are a little bit either desperate

440
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,239
Speaker 2: or they just start feeling themselves and be you know,

441
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Speaker 2: And maybe that's why happened with Sidney Sweeney.

442
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Speaker 4: Scar Joe.

443
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Speaker 2: I remember she did, and she's still with this. By

444
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Speaker 2: the way, she came out loudly as a supporter of

445
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 2: Woody Allen. She also did a movie where she was

446
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: gonna play a trans role but then she ended.

447
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 4: Up like people got so upset.

448
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 2: And of course she did Ghost in the Shell, which

449
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: is a movie that is supposed to be about like

450
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 2: a Japanese woman, and she played main character, and it's

451
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Speaker 2: in the script.

452
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Speaker 4: There's ways that it works.

453
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 2: But just remember people turning on her, and I was like, yeah,

454
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 2: this is kind of a pattern. So now you don't

455
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 2: really have this liberal audience that would like to have

456
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 2: be fans, and they don't really have the conservative audience

457
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 2: because this is not the kind of art they fuck

458
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: with anyway, agreed. So it's just kind of yeah, you're

459
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 2: just kind of stuck. And I think Sidney Swingey's the

460
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 2: newest person to go through it, but won't be the last.

461
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Speaker 4: Uh.

462
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 2: The left leaning people don't want to support her, and

463
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: the artists too progressive for the conservatives, So who is

464
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 2: it for?

465
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

466
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Speaker 2: It seemed like she's trying to come back to some

467
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: extent though, because I saw she did an interview where

468
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 2: she was like, I'm against all hate and I don't

469
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 2: know why people even thought that, and I'm like, man,

470
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 2: the box office returns was not returning.

471
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Speaker 3: So somebody got a hold of you, like, bitch, you

472
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up and act.

473
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Speaker 2: Or something, right, yeah, something, And I mean, who knows

474
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Speaker 2: at this point if it's even possible to go back.

475
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Speaker 2: And I've heard people that kind of flow, Like I

476
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 2: listened to Firestarter, and I know Sam is a big

477
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 2: movie person too, and I know him and I think

478
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Speaker 2: he had Chris Lambert and my man from People's tim

479
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Speaker 2: People's Credit who we met out in Seattle, like I

480
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: think they were on and they were kind of talking

481
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 2: about the Sydney twenty thing and feeling like this is

482
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 2: getting overblown and like all things on social media, of

483
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: course is overblown. That you literally everything on social media

484
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 2: is overblown, but the idea of like it, I think

485
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,479
Speaker 2: people have to be careful from turning into like they

486
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 2: ain't do nothing to this is a bit of an

487
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 2: overreaction to what they did. And I think you can

488
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 2: argue that this is an overreaction to what she did

489
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 2: because like you know, like you have MAGA family members,

490
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 2: you registered to vote and as a Republican in twenty

491
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Speaker 2: twenty five, which is a twenty twenty four, which is

492
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Speaker 2: a big like ooh yo, that's Trump's second term, and

493
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: you're in Florida and you're like, I want to vote,

494
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Speaker 2: I want to put my hat in the ring as

495
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Speaker 2: a Republican.

496
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Speaker 4: And I don't know how people found out, but they

497
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 4: leaked that shit.

498
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Speaker 2: And then her statements when she first got confronted about

499
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Speaker 2: her AD and how it had these weird kind of

500
00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: subliminal meanings, was a kind of a dismissive statement, and

501
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 2: so yeah, and also you know, and people are looking

502
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 2: to hate, you know, but the point being like it

503
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 2: wasn't a complete like wow, they just set her up.

504
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,959
Speaker 2: She didn't even do none of this shit. It was

505
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 2: like she kind of fed into it, I think for

506
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: a little bit and then realized, oh, this is not

507
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 2: worth it, and let me walk this ship back. And

508
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: you know, and I do respect and understand she's in

509
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 2: a difficult situation, meaning that what the fuck are you

510
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 2: gonna do after you don't.

511
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Speaker 4: Feel the ad?

512
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Speaker 2: Hey, your AD is racist, and we think it's about

513
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 2: a what you call it, a genetic like white supremacy.

514
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 2: You're not gonna say yes, Like either way, you're not

515
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: gonna say yes. If you're meant to do it, you're

516
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: not gonna say yes.

517
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Speaker 4: And if you didn't mean to do it, you're like

518
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 4: what what what? No, don't say that. So, yeah, you're

519
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 4: just kind of gonna be in the rock between the

520
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 4: rock and a hard place. She'll be okay, she's Sitdney Sweeney.

521
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 2: She's gonna be doing far better than many other people

522
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 2: in this world. But yeah, I think that's kind know

523
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 2: what happened to her. And now we'll see what happens

524
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: with the rest of her career.

525
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Speaker 1: We you know, we, like you said, we will only

526
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: time we'll tell, you know, rolls and and how the

527
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: box office and things continue. And yeah, just like everything else,

528
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: people have these hives, and like you say, a lot

529
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: of those people are like you ain't do nothing wrong,

530
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: and you're like, no, that's not.

531
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Speaker 3: Realistic either, like you said. Like you said, for the.

532
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: Internet, it's always an overreaction either one way or the other.

533
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: There's never there's not really a middle ground online. There's

534
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: not really nuanced. And that's why a lot of times

535
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm grateful and I'm thankful for this podcast because it

536
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't talk about a lot of shit online. I

537
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: just purposely don't because I'm not trying to be funny.

538
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 1: A lot of people there's too many bots A number

539
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 1: one and two.

540
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 3: A lot of people they they when they come to you.

541
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: Most people a high put like this, A high percentage

542
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: of people aren't coming to you with good faith. And

543
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: I don't have the time, nor the effort, nor do

544
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: I care enough to figure out if you're coming to

545
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: me in good faith or not. I rather just not

546
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: interact with you, just to eliminate that conversation because you

547
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: might think as a joke. And I don't like like like,

548
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: I don't like to talk to people who love devil

549
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: advocates like that. That me personally, that pisces me off

550
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: because now you're watching my motherfucking time, and I don't

551
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: like to talk to people we start conversations off and

552
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: not good faith. I like for us to both base

553
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: things in fact and actually have a conversation.

554
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm talking like a real conversation.

555
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: Like Okay, I disagree with you, Okay, you disagree with me,

556
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: and and it is what it is. And we're not

557
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: disagreeing over things that can't be changed with we're talking.

558
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 3: Apps, you know what I mean? You know what I mean?

559
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: Like like it's a difference. And I've realized the internet

560
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 1: doesn't a lot for that. So I like to come

561
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: here and talk to you and have an interaction with

562
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 1: an audience where I know I'm being understood. I know

563
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: that I'm not taken out of context. I know that

564
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 1: because we'res mean things to me and for so many

565
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: people's words don't mean anything, or people just be saying shit.

566
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 2: I just think it's very rare to find that, you know,

567
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 2: like this space that we've made is a rare space,

568
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 2: I think, cause we can come on here, we can

569
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: have discussions and be a good faith disagree, agree, whatever

570
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 2: move on doesn't get disrespectful, no one gets called out

571
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 2: of their name. I've fostered those spaces in my real

572
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: life too, with my friends, and you can tell if

573
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 2: people it's based on trusting safety, and if someone starts

574
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:22,919
Speaker 2: feeling either untrusted, untrusting, or unsafe, it immediately goes to

575
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 2: shit because like you can't. People are not made to

576
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 2: be able to say, oh, we just arrived at different conclusions.

577
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 4: But I respect where you come from and I.

578
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 2: Understand how you got there, and I don't assume you're

579
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: a bad person, because hey, we're both here together to

580
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: try to solve, you know, to try to walk through

581
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: this life together or whatever, and that's not something that's guaranteed.

582
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: So I feel you on that, and uh, but yeah,

583
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: SeeMe Sweeney, I mean, we've watched this happen before, and

584
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: we've also, in my opinion, watched this happen to.

585
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 4: People that literally didn't do anything wrong.

586
00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: I agree, Like I still think people's obsession trying to

587
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: turn Taylor Swift into this like villainous.

588
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 3: I don't understand.

589
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: And I remember when it first started and it was

590
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: like people saying how she wasn't speaking up enough and

591
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 2: all this shit, and then the more she spoke up,

592
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: the more they just moved the bar to like no,

593
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: we're gonna hate her still. Like you know, it just happens,

594
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 2: and the internet kind of goes in these waves and

595
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 2: some you know, it's like forget every good thing this

596
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 2: person's ever done. So you know, I do understand people's

597
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 2: reticence to be like also, now I gotta hate Sidney Swingey.

598
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 2: I do get people who are like I don't want

599
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: to be with that shit either, but you know, case

600
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: by case basis, sometimes it's like and like I said,

601
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 2: I don't hate her either, I just feel like she

602
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: kind of tried to play that that role and they

603
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 2: realize ain't nothing over there for me, and and I'm

604
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: sure with her friends and all that shit and the

605
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 2: coworkers and shit, there's a lot of people.

606
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 4: Like, man, what the fuck do you stand for? So

607
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 4: you know, she got to deal with.

608
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: And it's also when it comes to like the things

609
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: on the INNT looking, I know, I'm not an exception

610
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: to the Internet rules. And that's the thing. Everybody thinks

611
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: that they're an exception to the Internet rules until the

612
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: rules start applying to them and then like, oh my god,

613
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: but you will all all, but You've been on the

614
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: other side with you and I'm guilty of it to

615
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: with your pitchforks, with your knives, claiming blood, wanting.

616
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 3: To take people down.

617
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: And like I said, and this is somebody who I'm

618
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 1: not above this. But if something happens and all of

619
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: a sudden and then it don't matter if it's ten

620
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: people or one hundred thousand people, if you feel like

621
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: whatever the arbitrary number is, the Internet is coming from you.

622
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: For you, your opinion about going after people and the

623
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: nuances of the Internet will change for people who have

624
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: never been on the other side of people just taking

625
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: you in bad faith, not.

626
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: Believe in anything you say is the truth attacking your character.

627
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: If you've never really dealt with that on the internet,

628
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,239
Speaker 1: it's real easy for you to be like, fuck damn it,

629
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 1: don't care, and it's real easy for you to dismiss

630
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: it because you have never been on the other side

631
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: because not trying funy ain't nobody looking for you otis,

632
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: So nobody.

633
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 3: Really cares about your opinion.

634
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: So you can stay in the darkness and you can

635
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: live your private life because nobody's consistently watching you, Nobody

636
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: consistently snapping pictures of you. Nobody consistently is on your

637
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: ass about every mistake and every era.

638
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 3: That you make.

639
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: Nobody's watching you grow in real time, make errors in

640
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: real time. There is a difference, And so to an extent,

641
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 1: no nobody's perfect. But to an extent, I do have

642
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: compassion and empathy sometimes because I'm like, oh, okay, I

643
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 1: understand how you got that. Yeah, you fucked up, but

644
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: we all don't have to deal with the fallout of

645
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: you fucking up in public. When the average person does

646
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: not have to deal with that.

647
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: Michael says, I say, chalk like chalk and walk like walk,

648
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 2: but I would never think those are silent L since

649
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Speaker 2: I know so many people who pronounce the L.

650
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Speaker 4: Yeah. That's what I find interesting is because there's people

651
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 4: who write in it doesn't say you has an L.

652
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 4: It is a silent L.

653
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 2: Look at the diction and I'm like, I don't want

654
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: to be an asshole, but have you met people That

655
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: is not how people are talking?

656
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I'm not even trying. This is not me

657
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 4: trying to pronounce the L. I just said talk. You

658
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 4: can hear the L all up in there, you know it.

659
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 2: If nothing else that L would at least change the

660
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: A to an A that doesn't pronounce like uh and

661
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: then pronounce itself like awe, which is which still.

662
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 4: Changes things anyway.

663
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: Sean says, in Japan we send out ninga jau nin

664
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 2: ninga jaw new Year's cards, and they use special postcards

665
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: that each have a code. On New Year's Day, you

666
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 2: get a bundle of cars and check them against a

667
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: number on the newspaper.

668
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 4: See if you want a prize.

669
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 3: Oh that's sweet.

670
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: Also, I've actually been on TV singing Last Christmas multiple

671
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: times in early odds before the first time when I

672
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 2: was actually also singing it in front of a crowd

673
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: of about two hundred before it went on TV. I

674
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 2: went to the karaoke booth and practice singing it two hours.

675
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: So it's pretty easy for that song to get stuck

676
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 2: in my head, but hard to believe. People were shocked

677
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 2: about George Michael being out of this gay after he

678
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: released a song with a face of a lover with

679
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: a fire in his heart, a man under cover.

680
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 4: But you tore me apart in the lyrics.

681
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: Of course, people don't actually pay attention to lyrics, considering

682
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: how many churches did the Macarena, which is a song

683
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 2: about a woman cheating on her boyfriend with two of

684
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 2: his friends. He was out of town and his two

685
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: friends were so fine. Yeah, I know, I don't even

686
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: know those lyrics. So absent minded, right, saying.

687
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 4: Brother, brother, brother, You're wrong. There is a silent l

688
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 4: n walk.

689
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 2: According to Miriam Webster and Oxford English Dictionaries, walk is

690
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: pronounced walk or walk with a W. Check out the

691
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 2: links below. The pronunciation is the same for chalk, stalk

692
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: and talk.

693
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: You know what, it's a sound beat and comb you

694
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: know what? You don't pronounce that motherfucking bright like it

695
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: ain't no The W mix up for the air, like

696
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: you don't got none of that going on. You know,

697
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: I hate to be like this with y'all, but you

698
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: ain't got none of that going on asign you're with

699
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: the G.

700
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 3: I don't hear no G in that.

701
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: When I mean sound, I mean you not pronouncing it

702
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: on purpose, on accident. You're not substitute another sound for it.

703
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: The English language has inconsistencies and regularities dealing with pronunciations,

704
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: felling and grammar. Happy New York to both of you

705
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: and all the black outis family. Well, thank you to

706
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 2: Sean Big Brain Shane. No, that wasn't who wrote that.

707
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: Oh the absent minded wrote that. Sean replied to absent minded,

708
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 2: And I just want to thank Sean Big Brain Sean.

709
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 4: For coming in.

710
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes a lot of times I feel like we're on

711
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 2: the receiving end of Sean's like here's my correction, or

712
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 2: I gotta be a little pedantic and like get into

713
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 2: the details. But every once in a while he gets

714
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: to y'all before we can, so I don't got to

715
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: do it, and I appreciate it's he helping me out

716
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: around here. He said, yes and no walk and walk

717
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: even for those who do not pronounce that L are

718
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 2: different for a large group of Americans who differentiate between

719
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 2: the A, the R, A I, A H, and the.

720
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 4: Sometimes a W sound.

721
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 2: This lack of differentiation differentiation can be frustrating to those

722
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: who can tell the difference between dawn d A w

723
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 2: N and Don d O N. Walk is more complicated

724
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: in that there are several pronunciations, it goes through all

725
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 2: of them, and because there are many people around the

726
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: world who actually pronounce the L. The inclusion in Connections,

727
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 2: that's so what it's all started, guys, is blasphemous and

728
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 2: an insult to the English speaking world. That's my fucking point.

729
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be in Connections if your personal like predilections

730
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: is like listen, man, I don't I don't even hear

731
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 2: the L when I say it or whatever. Cool if

732
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: you're from Boston and y'all say walk and ki, fine,

733
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: But that the Connections is for the world and so

734
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: for you to be like all these have a sound L,

735
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 2: knowing that a lot of English speakers do pronounce that

736
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: L and it does affect the pronunciation of that L A.

737
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 4: It's some bullshit.

738
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: Also, because dictionaries, even onlinees, have limited space they tend

739
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: to simplify words and the two standard pronunciations. Those pronunciations

740
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 2: often have meant more common pronunciations, especially the lack of

741
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 2: Indian pronunciations. Half a billion of whom speak English as

742
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 2: a native language. Numbers are often misrepresented because even though

743
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 2: they speak it as a native language, they do not

744
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: list it as a first language. Sorry, here is the

745
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 2: rant of the linguists who happens to be cunning.

746
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 4: Thank you. Your linguism came in Your linguistic came in

747
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: the hand.

748
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Because my thing is, like I understand, you know,

749
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: people saying this pronounced this with is pronounced that way.

750
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: I get that, y'all, But there's so many pronunciations of

751
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 1: it that that's the problem. The problem is that that

752
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 1: there's not a standard pronunciation of it. So I'm like Roger,

753
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 1: that's why I should be included in connection.

754
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't just don't put it in a puzzle, right,

755
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: y'all want to argue about amongst yourselves, Fine, But I

756
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: feel the same way if it was, like, uh, if

757
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 2: if one of the connections was like the four word,

758
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 2: the four things that go together are I don't know, lemonade,

759
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 2: sweet tea?

760
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 4: Uh? What else. I don't know, candied apples and grits.

761
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 2: And you were like, what's the thing in common? They said,

762
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 2: all things serve with sugar. I'm like, but then, but

763
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 2: that's not true. Y'all know that that's that people are

764
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,720
Speaker 2: not serving grits with sugar.

765
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 4: That is not a thing that is happening.

766
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 2: You can't go to a restaurant now you might put

767
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: and then people that eat sugar grits were right in like,

768
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: but I love sugar in my grip. Sometimes I thought,

769
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 2: take grits and just put them in sugar, and it's

770
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: like that. It shouldn't be in connections, is my point.

771
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be connections. You know, that's a very specific.

772
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: The point of connections is that we can all do

773
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 2: the logical deductions back to this is why these things

774
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: are in a row? Right and if and if yes,

775
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 2: so in that case it as an apply c Sick says.

776
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 4: If I'm if the.

777
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 2: Len chalk talk and walk is not silent, then neither

778
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 2: is the G in lassan in Lasanya, the G modifies

779
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 2: the end to a yeah sound.

780
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: Uh.

781
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 2: If it was silent, it would be pronouncing it as

782
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: lasagna uh, not lassan.

783
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 4: Yeah. Sorry, weezy, Yeah, that's fine. I don't care.

784
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 2: Don't put I would. I wouldn't put that one in

785
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: there for solid G. I honestly wouldn't. I and I

786
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 2: do recognize that people say the G is silent, especially

787
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 2: after Little Wayne's rap block song, But like if they

788
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 2: said the words for that one are light, night, might

789
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: and lasagna. I can see people missing that. Yes they like,

790
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 2: but but you do kind of the G makes the

791
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 2: end different. It's like, well, no, it's not pronounced. It's like,

792
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I feel like I'm I feel

793
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: like that's different than Mike, you know. Anyway, even he says,

794
00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: I think one of the Nigga's biggest issues is that

795
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: fans enabled her to appoint the psychosis. In my opinion,

796
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 2: she has one of the most toxic fandoms out of

797
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: all the fandoms. And that's saying something considering to be

798
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: high is still putting be emotions in kid Rocks comments

799
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 2: set because he made a snot comment about her years ago.

800
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 3: Damn, Like, no, I forget.

801
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 2: I think she believed most would stick beside her, and

802
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 2: maybe a lot of them still will, but being perpetually

803
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: online has probably not been good. For mental health, which

804
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: could be one of the reasons she's deteriorating. Yeah, I agree.

805
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 2: All right, let's check the comments on YouTube for oh

806
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: this one man, so crowdcast did not record the video

807
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: for this?

808
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, this is the one you say.

809
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I try.

810
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 2: I hit them up and said, hey, this didn't record

811
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: the video. Can y'all send me a copy of the video?

812
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: Can y'all find it is on you?

813
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 4: That was a week ago.

814
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 2: I got a couple replies back that were like, we're

815
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: on vacation, but we're gonna find somebody that can work

816
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 2: on this, and we're gonna get back to you.

817
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 4: They never got They still haven't gotten back to me.

818
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: Maybe they're just I don't know when they're coming back

819
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 2: to work over there. But in the meantime, I went

820
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 2: ahead and I figured a way out where I could

821
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 2: take a picture and make the video so that y'all

822
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: shouldn't get the way I did it last time, where

823
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: it was a ton of commercials that I didn't know

824
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 2: were in there. I think you guys should be okay

825
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 2: this time, like I think there shouldn't have been a

826
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 2: lot of commercials, but you did not get the video

827
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 2: and I'm sorry for that, but it's really beyond my control.

828
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 2: So yeah, Miss TLC says no video. Wanted to see

829
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: the cards and Karen's gift. Yeah, I'm sorry.

830
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 4: I wish I could show y'all that.

831
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 2: Damien says, bruh, why you have me looking down to

832
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 2: catch a peek of at Karen's gift?

833
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no video, so.

834
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 3: Like, hopefully hopefully that ain't came back. It's a new year.

835
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 3: They've had the last two weeks off. Hope we get

836
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 3: a beginning.

837
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I get the video, I will post it,

838
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna be honest. I'm

839
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: not that optimistic that we will ever get that video.

840
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 2: If it's been no over week and eight.

841
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 4: Having some.

842
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 2: Syncro fly says Arby's or Denny's. I want to enter

843
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: subway into the conversation. No, they're not racist, but as

844
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 2: far as gross fast food goes, I'd easily rest a

845
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 2: chance to consume and mystery me at Arby's or Racial

846
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 2: Profile and at Denny's before setting foot into another subway.

847
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 2: After serving twenty plus years in the Navy, believe me

848
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: when I say pretty much every base has a subway

849
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: and that was the quintessential last resort spot to grab

850
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 2: a quick bike during a lunch break, and I've been

851
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:37,720
Speaker 2: scarred for life. The thought of swallowing another sandwich consistent

852
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 2: of slimy, gray, overly processed lunch meat between two pieces

853
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 2: of carboard makes my insides churn every time I drive

854
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: past one of their locations.

855
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 4: Okay, so if I had.

856
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 2: To rank Arby's Denny's Subway, Karen, where are you putting Rby's.

857
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 4: Denny Subway and those three? If you had to rank them.

858
00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: Arby's Denny's Subway, I'm not even gonna lie for me.

859
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: It would be I love subway, meetbout subs. So you do, yeah,

860
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 1: like like like, and I know it's mister Meat smecting

861
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 1: Marrio sauce.

862
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: Like I mean, but if R's and Denni's not mystery meat,

863
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 2: Like what are we doing?

864
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 3: What if I had to, like, like, if I had.

865
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 4: To go, this is up? These three we get it. Yeah,

866
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 4: so I would.

867
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: Go some way only and that's basically the only thing

868
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: I eat there, and then I would go uh uh uh.

869
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: But I haven't had Denny's in forever, so I think

870
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: Arby's Deni's because I haven't.

871
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 4: Had Dennis, Subway, RB's, Denny's for you.

872
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think only because I had, I couldn't tell

873
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 1: you what Denni's tastes like. Child.

874
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 2: I think of those three, i'd go, man, you're right,

875
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 2: that's I think I would go Arby's then, And I

876
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 2: think I'm gonna go Rby's because there's more food on

877
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 2: that menu. I would eat Subway. I think that that

878
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 2: that meatboss, at least the last time I had it.

879
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: It's always been consistent. Yeah, so I think I'm RB

880
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: Subway and Denny's is still last. But because I actually can't,

881
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: and maybe because you was in the military is fine,

882
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,720
Speaker 2: but I can't deal with the racial profile.

883
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 4: And at Denny's I can't.

884
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 2: Every time I ordered, I'm just like, they spitting in

885
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 2: my food, which was microwave.

886
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 3: There's gonna be anigro in the background.

887
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: They spitting in my food and my food was microwave.

888
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 2: Like it wasn't even worth this. This is not even

889
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 2: the I Hop kitchen. They just back their microwave and pancakes.

890
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: In fact, in fact, a few years ago, we literally

891
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: had a Denny's up the street from us, up on

892
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: the Hill, and I never went to.

893
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 2: I went there one time on a whim and I

894
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: regretted it immediately. Everything was just covered in solid The

895
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 2: pancakes sound like it was. It was from frozen to

896
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 2: microwave or toasted and and I left there as hungry

897
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: as I was when I walked in, because I was

898
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 2: just like this, this was not.

899
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 4: Worth it, and that makes it. Yeah, let's see.

900
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: This is from the Lady Frog who says, found your

901
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: podcast at the hearing you on Karen Hunters Show.

902
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 4: Been listening for about a year, So glad I found you.

903
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 4: Love both you and Karen.

904
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: You guys helped me to digest some of the craziness

905
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 2: going on out here in the world. Wanted to wish

906
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 2: you both the happiness year. I would give you five stars,

907
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: but I.

908
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 4: Came on YouTube. It's all good. We'll take that comment

909
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 4: and we appreciate you.

910
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 2: Thank you.

911
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 4: Let's see and on.

912
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 2: Spotify one comment mucho Mama says, hey, hey me again,

913
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: dot dot dot bulk walk walk. I don't know, love, y'all,

914
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: I don't know what this means, but thank you for

915
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 2: chiming in. And whichever way, if that was the support

916
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 2: of us or against.

917
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 4: Us, I'll never know.

918
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: Sean already explained everything I can explain to y'all, So

919
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just move on.

920
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, agree or disagree.

921
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 4: The poll was, is the in words like chalk and

922
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 4: walk silent? Yes?

923
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 2: Twenty three percent. Seventy seven percent say no. Now I

924
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: raised this to make the point. The point is should

925
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 2: it be included in connections? No, anything that is that

926
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 2: fucking controversial should not be That's obvious.

927
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not the whole.

928
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: Even if you completely disagree with us, you know that

929
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 2: should not be included. Where seventy seven percent of a

930
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 2: very smart, savvy audience, if I say so myself is like,

931
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

932
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 4: I think that is not a silent l Then why

933
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 4: is it included in the puzzle?

934
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of the connections because because that's

935
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: what's ROGI was.

936
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: Roger's biggest complaint was like, like, you say something like that,

937
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: you you should have had another word.

938
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, fuck out of here. All right, let's move on.

939
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 4: But first, our first commercial break.

940
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 3: This is commercial.

941
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 5: This is just a commercial break.

942
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 4: Three two oh three. Sitting down with Pete Dominic.

943
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 3: This was fine.

944
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 2: It was a brand new gas. We're gonna be seeing

945
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 2: him in April. In Las Vegas for pot Jam three.

946
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 2: You can get your tickets. It's in the show notes.

947
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 2: I'll be putting the QR code and stuff in some

948
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 2: of our social media posts. Yes, can I remember just now.

949
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 2: I need to send those to you. Sometimes I forget

950
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 2: Rodan Raphael says chose to end twenty twenty five with

951
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: a strong poll.

952
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 4: I see. The poll is do you have hypervigilance?

953
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 2: I want to pull up the video of this episode

954
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: because it feels like I kind of know Pete Dominic

955
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: from probably his CNN days. That was around the high

956
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 2: of my watching the network, So I guess I've been

957
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 2: out of the cable news for a long time. At

958
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 2: the same time, I do enjoy the mysticism of just

959
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 2: hearing his voice and trying to figure out what he

960
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: looks like while the answer is within reach, recreating my

961
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 2: radio days of childhood. All that to say, I enjoyed

962
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: this conversation. I'm excited for Pete's return. I love how

963
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 2: he quickly played white people news and added to.

964
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know like.

965
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 2: I enjoyed that as well. I thought it was a

966
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 2: great guest, very giving, very funny, and.

967
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 4: Like kind like.

968
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 2: I like that he's not afraid to come out here

969
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:40,240
Speaker 2: and like have his opinion, know his shit and bounce

970
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: off of each other, agreed, disagree, all.

971
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 4: That type of stuff. I actually think that's like fun

972
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 4: and important in comedy. And so yeah, I appreciate him

973
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 4: having like perspectives and stories. And I learned a lot

974
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 4: about him.

975
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,280
Speaker 2: I didn't know all that stuff about him and college

976
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 2: and uh growing like going to school and know, like

977
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: knowing all these black people and ship like that. I know,

978
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 2: I didn't know all that about his career. H I mean,

979
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,399
Speaker 2: man has done a lot. So it was very cool

980
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 2: to him to, you know, to to hop on with

981
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 2: us and to have us on his show. And uh yeah,

982
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: I truly enjoyed it. Even says I really enjoyed this

983
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 2: episode and this guest. I hope you have Pete on again,

984
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: especially playing some of the games. Absolutely, yeah, gotta definitely

985
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: do that. He passed the initial background check. You know,

986
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,439
Speaker 2: That's how it feels anyway, right, It's like you gotta

987
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 2: do that initial like let's see what kind of person

988
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 2: this is, you know, see what he come on and say,

989
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 2: see if he.

990
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:40,760
Speaker 4: Passed our the can you be cool? Test?

991
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 2: You know, it's it's a different it's not. I don't

992
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: think it's a difficult test, but I mean, fail it before.

993
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 3: And they feel the easy ship.

994
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'd be like, oh damn no, we can't. We

995
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 4: can't be hanging.

996
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 2: Out with you, you know, so, which would have really sucked

997
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 2: because they were like, what we're gonna do in April?

998
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: You know, he passed the test, so we don't have

999
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 2: to worry about that for now. And then the comments

1000
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 2: on YouTube.

1001
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 4: We got six comments, so people really chimed in on

1002
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 4: the YouTube. Happy New Year, y'all.

1003
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 2: The girl on the other side of the road says,

1004
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 2: and Karen, your hat gave me a headache.

1005
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 4: You look cute though, so that's probably just a joke.

1006
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: Happy New Year riding, Karen says Sydney. Every time Rod

1007
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 2: says back when I had white friends, I die laughing

1008
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:28,720
Speaker 2: every time.

1009
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so.

1010
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 2: Funny because I'm not saying it as a laugh line anymore.

1011
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 2: It's just that is how I think of that era

1012
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 2: in my time of my life. But it is objectively funny,

1013
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: Like when other people laugh at me saying it, I'd

1014
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 2: be like, yeah, that is I guess a funny way to.

1015
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 4: Put it, but that how else could I put it.

1016
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 2: You know, I guess it's it is the quickest, easiest

1017
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 2: way to explain that. And I think also if you

1018
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: listen to this episode, I've talked about it before, but

1019
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,319
Speaker 2: now this should give some of y'all to haven't heard

1020
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 2: it in a long time, like or never heard it.

1021
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: Oh that's what happened, because you know, I don't know,

1022
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,479
Speaker 2: uh not not in a negative way like this isn't

1023
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 2: trying to be dismissive, but I don't think about those

1024
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: people that often, like just because we're not in each

1025
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 2: other's lives as much anymore. I don't have a lot

1026
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 2: of ill will towards many of them or anything like that.

1027
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 2: But it's just that was a time where I, you know,

1028
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 2: I was branching out and I have made these friends,

1029
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 2: and I just think the way that it ended was

1030
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: just one of those like sometimes shit just come to

1031
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: an end, and you hate when it comes to an

1032
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 2: end in a negative way, where like people have negative feelings,

1033
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,280
Speaker 2: but you know, you gotta be honest with yourself.

1034
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 4: And I'm not the kind of person that.

1035
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have been able to live with myself if

1036
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 2: I kept coming around that group. Knowing how casual and

1037
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: cool they are with the idea of like Trump Trump

1038
00:49:56,280 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 2: supporters racism. You you know, I'm not saying they all

1039
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: were racist or anything like that. I'm not even close, right,

1040
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: just the fact that to live in those spaces you

1041
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 2: have to tolerate that stuff.

1042
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:14,240
Speaker 4: I can't live with that, and I don't.

1043
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 2: And it's partially because, like I said, I have something

1044
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 2: in me that does speak up.

1045
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: Man.

1046
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 2: I sometimes I like, I don't always think it's a

1047
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: good thing, but I think it's the best way for

1048
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 2: me to live my life, which is, you know, I

1049
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck if I love you, if you're

1050
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 2: my best friend, if you're my wife, if you're myself,

1051
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 2: If we can't be like, oh but what about this

1052
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 2: thing when we're talking, what are we even doing? Then

1053
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 2: we're not that's not even a real relationship, and we.

1054
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 3: Actually need to have forms of communication.

1055
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: Also, I think I think for me, one part about

1056
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: growing up and being an adult life be life in

1057
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 1: and being black and being in America and being a woman.

1058
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: And you know, everybody have all these boxes they check

1059
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 1: and when you go to your job, your job is

1060
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: paying you to deal with all that motherfucking shit. Like

1061
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: when you walk into the office, place, your office place

1062
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 1: is say, look, you're gonna have to deal with the

1063
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 1: racist cowork You're gonna do make deal with the racist boss.

1064
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna do with the condescending person. You're gonna deal

1065
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: with the press, with the funk like you. We are

1066
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: paying you. We are paying you to show up to

1067
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: deal with this, okay, Like, like your presence here is

1068
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: to deal with certain shit and to navigate this world.

1069
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 1: Why because the contract is payment. I'm not dealing with

1070
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 1: bullshit for free on my own personal time, on my

1071
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 1: free will time where I can be motherfucking sleeping, I'm

1072
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: not dealing with that. So for me, I'm like, no,

1073
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 1: I don't want you around. Why because my time is

1074
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: free and it's important to me.

1075
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 4: I like your defaults, Like when I could be sleeping.

1076
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 1: Right fussing out up here with you got my blood

1077
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: pressure up for what, bitch, I could be doing anything else?

1078
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, So you know.

1079
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: And I think also just there's a level of privilege

1080
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 2: to whiteness that it can be a little exhausting to

1081
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: some of us because like things.

1082
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 4: That are debatable to them.

1083
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 2: And I think that, for the record, I think this

1084
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 2: is of all privilege, my own privileges as well, right

1085
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 2: as like a male, there's certain conversations I can be

1086
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 2: involved in that are more theoretical or less crucial to

1087
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 2: my actual like safety that you know, you get to

1088
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 2: be almost aloof you know, or it's like, oh you

1089
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 2: don't think this and so yeah to some people that

1090
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 2: that that's not gonna that's exhausting to be around. So

1091
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 2: it's just hard to maintain those relationships, and I respect it,

1092
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 2: Like what am I gonna know?

1093
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 4: You do?

1094
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 2: You got so you know, those white people when I

1095
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 2: told them basically like hey, this is some bullshit. You know,

1096
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 2: the ones that understood understood and the ones that didn't,

1097
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 2: they didn't fuck with me anyway, simply say simply SAYEDA

1098
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: says I like him, laughing emoji.

1099
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 3: I got you do, baby.

1100
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 2: Jay Full says, I just gave Jail another donation because

1101
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 2: of how glowingly Pete talked about him. He real I've

1102
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: been I listened as his Patreon podcast and he put

1103
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 2: up like an update on how the race is going.

1104
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 4: And the new year and all that stuff.

1105
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: Just a little quick thing he put out, and you know,

1106
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 2: I think I think he said there's like five weeks

1107
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 2: left in that race, So I guess we'll know sometime

1108
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 2: in February how everything like panned out for him. I

1109
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 2: have no idea where you know exactly I was going.

1110
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: I know there's like twelve people in that race, and

1111
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 2: I want to say maybe Politico or someone did a

1112
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: write up on it and he was one of the

1113
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 2: He was one of the five they chose out of

1114
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 2: the field of twelve. So like he is making some headway,

1115
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 2: but you just never know, because people it's tough to

1116
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 2: change people's minds and hearts, and especially in that short

1117
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,800
Speaker 2: period of time, like you didn't really get a chance

1118
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 2: to do like a full year or two of campaigning

1119
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 2: and ramping your way up and telling people I'm entering

1120
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,399
Speaker 2: this race. It's really like you gotta hit the ground

1121
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 2: running and you gotta like catch fire immediately.

1122
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:12,919
Speaker 4: And I know his.

1123
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 2: Ad came out and it was very funny and very dope,

1124
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 2: So you just hope that it's connecting with people. And yeah,

1125
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 2: we wish him nothing but the best, Jason says, Man

1126
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:26,240
Speaker 2: Pete was amazing. I just started getting into his podcast

1127
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 2: in the middle of last year, so it's great to

1128
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 2: see him on with y'all. I do try to make sure,

1129
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 2: I get props to the white comedians who don't take

1130
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 2: the easy way out, and I have to say I'm

1131
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 2: black and I too remember when I was younger asking

1132
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 2: my older cousins why are we walking so slow?

1133
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I always say.

1134
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 2: I didn't say this on the show with Pete, but

1135
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 2: the joke that I always think of, I think I

1136
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: said it on the show or I don't know, I

1137
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 2: can't remember what I I think I said this on

1138
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 2: the podcast.

1139
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 4: I just don't remember when.

1140
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 2: It had to be a long time ago, probably doing

1141
00:54:56,600 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 2: random thoughts, but I was like, man, ducks walk like

1142
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 2: black people in the parking lot.

1143
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,479
Speaker 1: And they won't like, bitch, I know you're not gonna

1144
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 1: hit me, like like they would literally just look at

1145
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: you like trying me.

1146
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 4: Bitch. Ducks are so fucking like, uh, you gonna.

1147
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 3: Be waiting ducks and yeah these too.

1148
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 4: Well yeah yeah, that whole Like I don't.

1149
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 2: Know who family, I don't know who told them they

1150
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 2: could do that and while we all just stopped for them,

1151
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how that worked, Like does this

1152
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: go all the way back to like when people invented,

1153
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 2: like people was riding horses and buggies and shit, and

1154
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 2: they was like, no, we ducks, slow down, were crossing

1155
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 2: this We're crossing your street, but this used to be

1156
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 2: our ponds, So slow down.

1157
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 3: You can't you came in our territory.

1158
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why, but ducks, I mean, they

1159
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck man.

1160
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 4: So yeah, I always said that like.

1161
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 2: Ducks, it's like they slow down when flower It's like

1162
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 2: they see you waiting.

1163
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 4: They're like, oh cool, we could take even more time.

1164
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 4: They want to.

1165
00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 2: They're gonna get this duck walk. Yeah, it is into

1166
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 2: this walk, get into this waddle. Kevin says on Spotify.

1167
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 2: I've been a fan of Pete Dominic's podcast for some time,

1168
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 2: so I thought I was familiar with his background in

1169
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 2: his career, But I was wrong.

1170
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 4: The interview you.

1171
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 2: Guys did with him was so good and really showed

1172
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 2: size of Pete I was unaware of. It was a

1173
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 2: great interview and you two should be proud of your

1174
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 2: skill as interviewers. Thank you, Kevin, and he put three

1175
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 2: clapping emojis. That means a lot to me. Man.

1176
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 4: We I dearly like.

1177
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 2: No joke, man, we don't be bullshitting with these interviews,

1178
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 2: you know, and we don't be trying to do the

1179
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 2: same interview that you just gonna hear all the time

1180
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 2: from everybody. Yeah, and sometimes you know, I get it,

1181
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 2: like there's only so many answers to your life, and

1182
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 2: when you're somebody like Pete, you probably get asked a lot,

1183
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:50,359
Speaker 2: you know, about your life whenever your own places, and

1184
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 2: sure you almost have canned answers and stuff, but we

1185
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 2: try to get people to like a place like a

1186
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: little bit further and a little bit more raw than

1187
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 2: just what you would hear their places. Man, So it

1188
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 2: means a lot when people are like, man, I've been

1189
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 2: fucking with this dude for years and I did.

1190
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 4: Not know all this shit, and uh man, that thank you,

1191
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 4: and that means a lot to me.

1192
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 2: And shout out obviously to Karen as well, because uh,

1193
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 2: you know, there used to be I always prepare for

1194
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 2: these interviews as if Karen's never gonna say anything, because back.

1195
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,160
Speaker 4: In the day she used to not right, I didn't know. Yeah,

1196
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 4: but but.

1197
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 2: Like lately, when we have people on for the first time,

1198
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 2: you always have amazing questions for him, stuff that I

1199
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: would not have thought of, no matter how much research

1200
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 2: I did or whatever the fuck is just you know,

1201
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 2: this is the differently.

1202
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's important.

1203
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, And sometimes like when people are a lot of

1204
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 1: people don't know how to interview. When somebody is talking,

1205
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: you actually need to listen to what they say versus

1206
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 1: letting the finish and just throwing the knicks can question

1207
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:49,479
Speaker 1: at them.

1208
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 3: So a lot of times when somebody talking.

1209
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: They will give you bits and pieces and clues about something.

1210
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:56,880
Speaker 1: If you're listening, you could be like, as soon as

1211
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: they finish up accing about that, like like like like

1212
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: type of thing. And those are questions that you hadn't

1213
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: wrote down yet because it's like in real time. But

1214
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people I got five questions, I got

1215
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and so they've been gonna say somebody, well, damn.

1216
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 3: Like when we had the other guests on it, the

1217
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 3: one uh uh uh that does the.

1218
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: Uh this on our network that was talking about Jeremy Oldham, Yeah,

1219
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: Jeremy who was Jeremy And he started talking about the

1220
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 1: grocery store incident right and and and he just kept

1221
00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: talking because because when somebody's talking and something is normal

1222
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: than them, they don't think twice about what they're saying

1223
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: because to them, it's just a normal floral conversation. But

1224
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: if you're listening, you kind of pick up on those things.

1225
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: Like when we was doing the marriage show and Kevin

1226
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: went able to make it and his wife was then

1227
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,959
Speaker 1: me and you were just talking about our relationship and

1228
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: us being young, were talking because this is natural to us,

1229
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: and they were like, let's rewind, like that was kind

1230
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 1: of quick and kind of fast, and and for me,

1231
00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 1: I didn't even think about it from that, but I

1232
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh, that would make sense from from somebody

1233
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: else's perspective that these decisions were make in such a

1234
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: type And unless you know that the people interviewing you

1235
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: are listening, they care about your answers, they care what

1236
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: you're saying. So yeah, man, like I said, I appreciate

1237
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: the compliment on the interview because it does mean a

1238
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: lot to us.

1239
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 4: And lastly, the poe is do you have hypervigilance.

1240
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 2: I'm surprised at the results of the poll because it's

1241
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 2: so high yes, seventy two, No, twenty seven, twenty eight percent.

1242
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 2: I really thought it would have been the opposite, because

1243
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 2: I feel like having this is one I don't see

1244
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 2: a lot. I don't feel like it's a kinship with

1245
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 2: a lot of people. Whenever, like whenever I'm in a situation,

1246
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: I'd be like fuck.

1247
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: And also when you say hypervigilance, some people might be

1248
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: like that in one area not another area. And then

1249
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 1: also we say hypervigilance is a difference between being hypovengrigenous

1250
01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 1: online and being hypervengulance in person. Oh yeah, that's true

1251
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: that question. People go, yeah, I'm hypervgeline.

1252
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 4: I'm in real life.

1253
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 2: But you're right because everyone probably thinks that hypervigiline online.

1254
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 4: That makes sense.

1255
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: Yes, so so now, and it wouldn't be surprised if

1256
01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 1: that's why that number is higher. But when you ask,

1257
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: are you have a vision in person that that number

1258
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: right there would.

1259
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 2: Decrease and it's and for the record, it's not really

1260
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 2: good to have it. It can like it can manifest

1261
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 2: different ways, so meaning like some people see threats and

1262
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 2: stuff like that, like like I'm threatened by this or uh,

1263
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 2: you know if every word of your sentence they're looking for, like,

1264
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: oh what does this really mean?

1265
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 4: I don't have that, I don't.

1266
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 2: Think, but I definitely had a thing where I wish

1267
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 2: I could let shit go sometimes and I'm like but

1268
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 2: but but I'm not gonna let this go because it

1269
01:00:57,360 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 2: is important that we understand each other in this moment.

1270
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: And sometimes, you know, sometimes occasionally meet people that appreciate it,

1271
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 2: but a lot of times, you know, people don't appreciate it.

1272
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 2: It's like I just want to say what I have

1273
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:11,919
Speaker 2: to say and I don't want to hear anything else

1274
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 2: in return.

1275
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 4: I don't even really give a fuck if you're listening

1276
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 4: to me. Yeah.

1277
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1278
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 1: And I also I think, for me in my personality,

1279
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: I kind of wish I had more of that in me,

1280
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: because yeah, I'm gonna talk to you for a little bit,

1281
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: but then we get to a certain problem, like oh

1282
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: fuck it.

1283
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm real quick to be like, oh, we're wasting

1284
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 3: time here.

1285
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not making we're not changing things here, you're

1286
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: actually not listening to me. And as as a talker,

1287
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: they talk of their talk of the ass bitch. I've

1288
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: got older and I realized my words are precious and

1289
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't like wasting my words on people. Either you're

1290
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 1: gonna people are grown. You're either gonna listen to me

1291
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: or you're not. And so I've realized a lot of

1292
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 1: times when it comes to things, people come and actually

1293
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 1: for shiit, but they don't really want your motherfucking advice.

1294
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 1: They just want to vent, which is cool, but guess what,

1295
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 1: And this is probably a trumber sponse from from from

1296
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: from people just trauma dumping on me. I'm only gonna

1297
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: take for so much. Then I'm like, oh, you got

1298
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 1: to figure that out on your own.

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01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, nah, that's a lesson.

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Speaker 2: I am still learning to some extent, Like, uh, I know,

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01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 2: the impath part of me doesn't ever want people to

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01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 2: feel alone or like they're talking into a void or

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01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 2: something like that. But I feel like sometimes that leads

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01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 2: people into places where they overstep or they feel like

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01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 2: the like their behavior that I shouldn't normalize, Like like,

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01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 2: if you're talking to me and it's three in the morning,

1307
01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 2: that's not that's not normal.

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01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 4: I'm sleep. You should be sleep.

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01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 2: But there's a part of me that's like, I don't

1310
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 2: want this person to feel alone. So if I see

1311
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 2: it at say I get up at six or something,

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01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 2: or even if I was somehow awaken three, I would

1313
01:02:56,600 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 2: be like, hey, buddy, you know you're good. You know hey,

1314
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 2: oh that's crazy. And now that I've gotten you know,

1315
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 2: older and stuff, I'm like, oh no, no, no, that

1316
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 2: that is a thing that I should be able to

1317
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 2: go this behavior is abnormal.

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01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 4: It's not for me. I don't know what this person

1319
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 4: might be going.

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Speaker 2: Through, but like they they're going, they're going to have

1321
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 2: Like me, replying is not healing this thing. It's not

1322
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 2: helping this thing. It's exacerbating this thing. And I think

1323
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 2: that took me a.

1324
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,840
Speaker 4: Long time to learn. You know, I'm still learning it.

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01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 2: Uh So I feel you like I wish I had

1326
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 2: more of the nah like like you just said, well,

1327
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 2: you can just be like, no, this isn't this isn't

1328
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 2: about me. You got you gotta figure this out by.

1329
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: And the thing is all I And that's something that

1330
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: I personally had to learn as somebody similar to you,

1331
01:03:56,840 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: very caring, very kind, emotionally involved, because this is the thing.

1332
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 1: You have to be truthful with yourself and so you

1333
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: don't know where to set boundaries until boundaries are broken.

1334
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 1: That's what That's what people fail to realize. So a

1335
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: boundary has got to be broken, and you got to

1336
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: be like, oh shit, I need to set a boundary

1337
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: here because if I don't, it's not beneficial to either

1338
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: party and it's not benefit me and it's not beefiting you,

1339
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 1: and there's no reason to get mad at you when

1340
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: I just need to set a boundary exactly.

1341
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 3: And and and and and that's a very hard lesson.

1342
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: But honestly though, I'm I'm there now, Like I'm proud

1343
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 2: of that.

1344
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 3: I am too, Yeah, because I hadn't always been here.

1345
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I make allowances for certain people if

1346
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 2: I if I love them, if they're family, their friends.

1347
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 2: But I'm aware of that behavior on a level now

1348
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 2: that I you can almost see it coming, you know,

1349
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, this is okay, this is not a

1350
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 2: good fit, this is not this is going to head

1351
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 2: to somewhere bad.

1352
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 4: But I think.

1353
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 2: In the past I would have I would be like

1354
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 2: completely blindsided about shit like that. And now I'm more like, oh, okay,

1355
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 2: this is what I thought would happen, all right.

1356
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: And also, like I said, everybody got the Trump and

1357
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: shit like that, Like I told you before, as a

1358
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: talk of the talker, the talka the ass bitch, growing

1359
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 1: up as a child, I was consistently ignored because people

1360
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: think my words, I'm just talking, just to talking, and

1361
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of.

1362
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 3: Just spewing things.

1363
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: And so that's why I said, I had to realize

1364
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: my awards are precious and I.

1365
01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 2: And I think you know, you still do that with

1366
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 2: me a lot, where you just kind of talk to

1367
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 2: you know, in some ways to just be talking. But

1368
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 2: I think you know that's because that's a safe space

1369
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 2: for you to be able to do that.

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01:05:36,960 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 3: Agreed.

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01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,960
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna, you know, go off on you or

1372
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 4: tell you shut.

1373
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 2: Up or raise my voice or some shit, right, And

1374
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 2: that's just you know, part of it.

1375
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I think it is something where, like.

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01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 2: I said, trust and safety and relationships can dictate a

1377
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 2: lot of that stuff too, because like, oh, this is

1378
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 2: a place where you can just talk.

1379
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 4: But also you're an extremely.

1380
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 2: Effective communicator because you will say whatever it is like

1381
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 2: you don't like I very rarely have to feel like,

1382
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 2: oh man, she never said she felt this way.

1383
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 4: You know, it's like, no, if she.

1384
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 2: Let me know the second that she felt this is

1385
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 2: a thing or whatever, like she you know, sometimes you know,

1386
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 2: it's stuff that I'm like, I don't need to know

1387
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 2: because I know you so much that I do know

1388
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 2: it already, and you'll still say it out loud and

1389
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 2: I'm still okay with it cause I'd rather you do

1390
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 2: that than not say how you feel. So it's just,

1391
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 2: you know, different strokes for different folks. There's other people

1392
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 2: that you know that drives them crazy. I already know,

1393
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 2: you know. But for me, it's like, of the two choices,

1394
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 2: i'd rather, Oh, she was speaking too much and I

1395
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 2: know exactly how she thinks. Then I never know what

1396
01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 2: the fuck they think. And and then they just pop

1397
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: up on you.

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01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 3: Yes.

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01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 1: And also I like you said, you have to be

1400
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 1: in a place of trustful, you know, with that. And

1401
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: it's also like I said, for me and just my

1402
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: type of personality, I used to didn't tell people how

1403
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: I feel, and it was to my detriment.

1404
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 3: So I made a thing. I was like, oh, you're

1405
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 3: going to know how I feel.

1406
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 2: Because if you don't do that, first of all, it's

1407
01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 2: gonna come out no matter what.

1408
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 3: Yes it doesn't, it comes out in various different ways.

1409
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 4: And I and that is a thing I don't do.

1410
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 2: Like I'm like, that's the thing I used to deal

1411
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 2: with and I will never deal with for the rest

1412
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 2: of my life of people who harbor shit and then

1413
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 2: pop up on you like out of nowhere and expect you.

1414
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 3: To be like a psychic, Like I can't remind me because.

1415
01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 2: I would never do that to someone, so I will

1416
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 2: never accept it being done to me.

1417
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 4: Period. That's a very dysfunctional way of communicating.

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01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 2: And I deserve better than that, and the same way

1419
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 2: everyone I talked to deserves better than that.

1420
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 4: I don't. There's zero people in my life that that

1421
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 4: could be like.

1422
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 2: And then one day he just was like, actually I

1423
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 2: hate you, or actually I don't fuck with you, or

1424
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 2: actually the whole time you ain't being shit. I would

1425
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 2: never do that, and I like that's so like yeah, anyway,

1426
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 2: all that to say, the hypervigilance thing, in some ways

1427
01:08:02,000 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 2: is my way of letting people know in real time,

1428
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 2: like this is what I'm thinking. And when it's safe

1429
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 2: in a relationship, it's so much easier for me because

1430
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 2: it's not an attack to be like, okay, so what

1431
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 2: do you mean by this? Or okay, so do you

1432
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:21,479
Speaker 2: think this? Or well this is where I disagree. But

1433
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 2: I feel where you're coming from that that I need

1434
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 2: that kind of space to grow as a as a human,

1435
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 2: to flourish.

1436
01:08:29,439 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: Yes, And every and everybody has like spaces that they,

1437
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:35,440
Speaker 1: you know, need and everybody, you know, different people's personalities

1438
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: kind of mess and don't mess. And I'm at the

1439
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 1: age now where a part of being grown is knowing.

1440
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 3: What you will deal with, what you won't deal with,

1441
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 3: what your.

1442
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: Personal boundaries are, and and and and and and knowing

1443
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 1: that you ain't and can't be everybody's friend, you know,

1444
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 1: like and that's just truth.

1445
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,519
Speaker 2: But but you have to reach that conclusion within yourself.

1446
01:08:57,120 --> 01:09:01,919
Speaker 2: All right, that's it for those comments on the website.

1447
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 2: We had no voicemails this week, so the only thing

1448
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 2: we have left is emails and mail mail. So I'm

1449
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 2: gonna play one more beat and then we're gonna get

1450
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 2: into all of that stuff. So we'll be right back

1451
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 2: after this quick this quick break. H all right, last

1452
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 2: thing is emails, right, We got one email and then

1453
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 2: it's a mail mail. The email is just Robert writing

1454
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 2: in saying you might want to consider the mini shot

1455
01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 2: glasses next time you are taking a shot. Every time

1456
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 2: Karen Minch is the Hornets, Amazon has these one out

1457
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: shot glasses.

1458
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 3: Like mini rod Go Minnie your glass was too big, or.

1459
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 4: The disposable ones.

1460
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 3: Oh shit, they got disposable ones.

1461
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 2: And uh, the only problem I have is where's the

1462
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 2: fun in that you already have shot glasses in our

1463
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 2: house and I don't I definitely don't need a twelve pack.

1464
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:28,240
Speaker 3: Oh not the twelve pack.

1465
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 4: I don't know how much you're thinking with drinking. I

1466
01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 4: guess that's the joke, is that Karen Minches is so much.

1467
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:34,559
Speaker 2: I need a new shot glass for every time. But

1468
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna refill the one player. That's how that works,

1469
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 2: and the disposable ones with one hundred shot glasses.

1470
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:43,560
Speaker 4: I definitely can't.

1471
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:45,799
Speaker 3: We having a party.

1472
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 4: I'm not struggling with that alcoholism up in here.

1473
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:52,240
Speaker 2: Players, I think about buy one hundred shot glasses.

1474
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 3: Somebody got a problem. I don't know what's conversation.

1475
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 4: What's worth one.

1476
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 2: Hundred shot glasses or drinking straight out the bottle?

1477
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know what point you get too.

1478
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 3: Much the side classes I finish the bottle.

1479
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 4: I don't know, right, I gotta get some help. I

1480
01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 4: gotta get some help. All right, Let's get to.

1481
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,599
Speaker 2: What you're left in the mail for us guys, once again,

1482
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:19,559
Speaker 2: the Melon address the blackoutips dot com slash about is

1483
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 2: the melon address and our wish list. If you guys

1484
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 2: do want to get us stuff, we have people that

1485
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 2: got us stuff from our Amazon wish list. It's in

1486
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: every single episode show notes, so you can just click

1487
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 2: there and find out. This one is from shin up

1488
01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:41,639
Speaker 2: who right who sends in Merry Christmas with a snowman

1489
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:45,560
Speaker 2: on the front. Inside it says dearest Friden Karen, Happy holidays.

1490
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 4: First of all, thank you for having me on the

1491
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 4: nerd Off.

1492
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:49,280
Speaker 2: I love chopping it up with y'all, and I always

1493
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 2: leave it with the list of stuff to watch second

1494
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 2: life news. I'll leave it my job in a couple

1495
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 2: of months, and I'm going to travel for a bit,

1496
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 2: including visiting Wanga down Under. Looking forward to the twenty

1497
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 2: twenty six and a new annual Animal Crossing update.

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01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:05,800
Speaker 1: Shanna, listen, I know I could gonna love that lord

1499
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: one day, one day one My goal is to get

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01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 1: over there and spend some time with you.

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01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 3: That that'd be fun.

1502
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 2: Every time I think of every time animal Crossing comes

1503
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,599
Speaker 2: up and people like, who is this update for? It's

1504
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: been this many, I'm like, it's for Shanna. Uh huh,

1505
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 2: I know I know who is for.

1506
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:22,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, they gonna come right back.

1507
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:25,400
Speaker 2: And thank you, and uh, you know, safe travels and

1508
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:29,280
Speaker 2: good luck with your job. You know, I know transitions

1509
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 2: can be hard, and I know also her job was

1510
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:35,719
Speaker 2: like helping kids and stuff, so like, yeah, and have fun.

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01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 2: To make sure y'all send us a selfie together or something. Please, dude,

1512
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 2: that's the homie. Oh look at this one. Okay, this

1513
01:12:42,560 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 2: one says slay all day and it's like black Senna

1514
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 2: getting kissed by two little girls.

1515
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 4: Like that's adoor.

1516
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 1: Like we said, y'all be finding the Mahogany cars. I

1517
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: didn't even know these cars existed.

1518
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 2: Copper and brass paper goods is where this came from.

1519
01:12:58,200 --> 01:13:00,760
Speaker 2: It seems deer riding Cam and I just listened to

1520
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 2: the episode three one nine nine with the pole question

1521
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 2: do you send holiday cards, and decided to sing you

1522
01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:09,200
Speaker 2: one from a black woman owned company. I hope this

1523
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 2: car gives you as many laughs as you're given as

1524
01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 2: you've given me over the years. I just found this

1525
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 2: cover art funny and Merry Christmas.

1526
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:21,719
Speaker 4: I can't let me see.

1527
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 2: Uh if the melon tag tell me who was from?

1528
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 1: It?

1529
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:31,759
Speaker 4: Just it don't say the name on it. Seattle, Huh.

1530
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 4: I don't know who is from.

1531
01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 2: I know we know some people in Seattle because we

1532
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 2: went up there, but I'm not sure where's from.

1533
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:42,600
Speaker 4: But yeah, the.

1534
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 2: The sleigh all Day and Santa I getting kisses.

1535
01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 4: We love to see it.

1536
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 2: Okay, uh is as good as my my sweater that

1537
01:13:49,840 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 2: says I got hoes in different area code with Santa.

1538
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 4: I don't know that's my favor.

1539
01:13:58,960 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 3: That's hilarious.

1540
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:04,639
Speaker 2: This one is from Team Kojo, you know. Professor Caritha

1541
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: her and her husband Craig she put twenty twenty five again.

1542
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:12,839
Speaker 2: Craig was in the middle of his second year director

1543
01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 2: of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion and Belonging at the Bancroft School,

1544
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 2: and Caritha was in the middle of her first year

1545
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:23,639
Speaker 2: in the normal rank and status at Boston University after

1546
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 2: being a visiting professor of Twenty twenty five also started

1547
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 2: on a devastating note. Caritha's mother died the day before

1548
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 2: Cariitha walked into classes.

1549
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 4: Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that.

1550
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 2: Craig helped steady her through the entire experience, and their

1551
01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 2: February trip to Kiowa Island proved perfectly timed. But of course,

1552
01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:44,720
Speaker 2: Craig spent much of September twenty twenty five with the

1553
01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:50,760
Speaker 2: other woman. He played on tour basketball on four basketball teams.

1554
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 2: It was a volunteer coach for the school's team. Cariitha

1555
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:55,719
Speaker 2: ran the ten K Columbus with the Black Girls Run

1556
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 2: chapter she found in twenty eleven.

1557
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 3: Okay, what's that? Umsuming that's double five? So what was that?

1558
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:02,600
Speaker 1: Like?

1559
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1560
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, what I do? Need to know what the other

1561
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,719
Speaker 2: woman is. It's all it's in caps, So I'm assuming

1562
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 2: it means something like a book or a job.

1563
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably all that basketball and all that.

1564
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, basketball, Like, I just need to know what the

1565
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 2: other woman is, Like, I don't want to be cheering

1566
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 2: on And then you'd be like and that bitch broke

1567
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:21,759
Speaker 2: my marriage up and I'd be like, I didn't understand.

1568
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 4: I thought it was a joke. I was laughing at

1569
01:15:24,479 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 4: the wrong part.

1570
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:30,720
Speaker 2: Throughout the summer, Credit coordinated meetups, meetups for ADI practitioners,

1571
01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 2: and support of each other In Caritham made progress on

1572
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:35,679
Speaker 2: her next book project. The year's Summer of play theme

1573
01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 2: was uh this was Dens in Paradise. Besides seeing great

1574
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 2: Theater and Boston, Team coach O spent Juneteenth in Galveston, Texas,

1575
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 2: and the anniversary in California breathtaking Sonoma Valley. The fall

1576
01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 2: got off to an amazing start with Credit coordinating the

1577
01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: schools participation in the Worcester Pride March.

1578
01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 4: Oh, that must be the location.

1579
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 2: I was like, like, work Kichester sauce, whatever the worship sire, like, look,

1580
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:06,400
Speaker 2: we're proud of our work, sire. Listen, don't nobody else

1581
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:08,880
Speaker 2: fuck with this sauce. But you put this on the

1582
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:12,879
Speaker 2: right amount of state anyway, So freaking fabulous and corritha

1583
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 2: Rana fall ten k and Houston. We help your twenty

1584
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 2: twenty six full of love and good health to prosperity

1585
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:18,719
Speaker 2: and joy.

1586
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:22,240
Speaker 4: Well, thank you, thank you, appreciate the update. Okay, team

1587
01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:26,440
Speaker 4: told job and I think that's all the cards.

1588
01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:31,840
Speaker 2: But then we got some stuff, some gifts uh Paris

1589
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 2: wats uh Paris onl L Paris ws. I don't know

1590
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 2: if I should say fuu and I don't want you

1591
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 2: to get in no trouble, don't it works, but this

1592
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 2: person got us three different gifts off our wish liss.

1593
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 2: The first was some Gatorades, the zero with the zero sugar,

1594
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:52,719
Speaker 2: because I don't do regular Gatorade.

1595
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 4: It got too much sugar.

1596
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 2: But I do like the electrolytes that I get from Gatorade.

1597
01:16:57,960 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 2: I just don't want to have to go to the

1598
01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 2: store and buy a new one every single time. So

1599
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:03,720
Speaker 2: I know, only just drink water. But now I have

1600
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 2: a big ass thing of Gatorades in there and I

1601
01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 2: will be drinking them because I need. I need to

1602
01:17:09,439 --> 01:17:12,960
Speaker 2: replenish myself. I don't like cramping up. We also got

1603
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:18,120
Speaker 2: another thing from Paris that was Munchkin Deluxe dishwasher basket.

1604
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:25,560
Speaker 4: And it's this thing which we can use in our dishwasher.

1605
01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 3: I for like those small items, right, so like anytime.

1606
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:35,120
Speaker 2: You need to clean, like a sex toy, I'm just

1607
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 2: a cocaine glass apparently, you know what I mean, a razor.

1608
01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:44,479
Speaker 4: Blade, you know that kind of ship. No, no stuff

1609
01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 4: that we all do, all of us put these things

1610
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:53,960
Speaker 4: in our dishwashers. What wow, just watching the on the air. Uh,

1611
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 4: enjoy your gift. This last one is from Paris and

1612
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 4: it is U wait, this one just says deluxe this wash.

1613
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 4: Oh wait, what's the last one? Oh that's right.

1614
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 2: This one didn't say what it what it was, but

1615
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 2: it says on here it's new slip, yoga pilates, bear dance.

1616
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,639
Speaker 4: Aren't these socks or something? What were these?

1617
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,600
Speaker 2: I want to say these were Yeah, they were the

1618
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 2: footy socks. Four slip we have wood floors, and Karen's

1619
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 2: trying to be more active at home with the working

1620
01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 2: out and stuff, and you know you don't want to

1621
01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 2: fuck around slip and fall and fall.

1622
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 4: And then this one.

1623
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 2: I haven't opened it, so it doesn't say who is from.

1624
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:47,200
Speaker 2: But I saw the the like address, and so I

1625
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:48,840
Speaker 2: think I know what's in it. But let me open

1626
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 2: it and see it is ah ah, joyous rose incense.

1627
01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 2: Twenty sticks of that motherfucking fred saw.

1628
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:04,280
Speaker 4: That's my man. Okay, friends off.

1629
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:06,000
Speaker 3: What they do?

1630
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:09,439
Speaker 2: The only one better is And I can't find this.

1631
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:13,519
Speaker 2: I literally can't find it. I've looked everywhere online for this, y'all.

1632
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 2: I I literally can't find it.

1633
01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:21,080
Speaker 4: And it's the the resin on the stick, but it's sticky.

1634
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 2: I used to get these in New York, y'all, because

1635
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 2: the guy who sold the incense it was like a

1636
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 2: couple of blocks away from me, and y'all.

1637
01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 4: Know I love candles and incense, y'all know it.

1638
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:40,680
Speaker 2: So I used to go there after work whenever I

1639
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:43,640
Speaker 2: ran out, and I will always make sure to get

1640
01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:46,560
Speaker 2: the sticky incense. Man. And they burned so slow, but

1641
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 2: they burned so sweet, and they are just they're so

1642
01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:53,080
Speaker 2: perfect but the problem is you can't have they can't

1643
01:19:53,160 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 2: be too hot too cold.

1644
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 4: That they normally don't ship them.

1645
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,479
Speaker 2: I actually emailed that dude to be like, can you

1646
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 2: ship me? And he never responded to he probably he's

1647
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 2: like this hype like no, but man them Fred them

1648
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 2: Fred saw Resin with the sticky the sticky Resin fam

1649
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 2: But listen, he's right.

1650
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,400
Speaker 3: Here, the ones where where if they're not the right temperature,

1651
01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:17,600
Speaker 3: they'll like you crumble.

1652
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 4: Yet this but this ship right here.

1653
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:22,960
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm telling y'all, man putting y'all onto something. Man,

1654
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 2: y'all sleep on it if you want. You can get

1655
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:27,400
Speaker 2: them on Amazon. They're more expensive, but they worth it.

1656
01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:32,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, it says for Melody. So thank you Melody

1657
01:20:32,880 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 2: forgetting this for us. We appreciate you. And like you know,

1658
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:40,160
Speaker 2: the incense is lit because no pun intended. It come

1659
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 2: with instructions like you don't just it's not just it's

1660
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 2: like just okay, like like the tip of the incense,

1661
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 2: blow the flame out quickly in two or three seconds.

1662
01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 2: Continue this procedure until it glow appears. This will help

1663
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:55,880
Speaker 2: the resin not the bubble drip or put itself out

1664
01:20:56,240 --> 01:21:01,040
Speaker 2: place horizontally in the ash Catcher. Occasionally, Fred friend's incense

1665
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:03,559
Speaker 2: may stop burning. We do not add chemicals to help

1666
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 2: it burn. Just rel like and enjoy.

1667
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 3: We do not add chemicals.

1668
01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 4: Man, I got to get the motherfucking if it's gonna

1669
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 4: be weird. I go back to New York, and then

1670
01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 4: the first place I be is at that man's.

1671
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:20,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that man first place we go smoking to.

1672
01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 4: Yeah we're here, Okay, cool man. I was in there

1673
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 4: so often.

1674
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 1: Like we used to have conversations and you might won't

1675
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:28,760
Speaker 1: tell them I'm from North Carolina, like like, can you, like,

1676
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 1: can you send these to me?

1677
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 3: I tried.

1678
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:32,519
Speaker 4: I tried. I emailed him. I tried.

1679
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,719
Speaker 1: He just didn't mean I mean, like face to face.

1680
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:37,640
Speaker 1: Oh maybe yeah, it might be something he's seen that

1681
01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 1: email going with this.

1682
01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 2: But man, that dude, them incense was hitting. Well, he

1683
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 2: probably would tell me you can't mail them, but them

1684
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:45,920
Speaker 2: incense was hitting.

1685
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 1: Man.

1686
01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:48,680
Speaker 2: And we used to have long conversations about incense, and

1687
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,680
Speaker 2: he would always give me, like I would buy a

1688
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 2: bunch of incense and then he would just give me

1689
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:55,600
Speaker 2: like ten dollars worth of other incense.

1690
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:57,120
Speaker 4: Like, oh, well, you have you heard about this?

1691
01:21:57,760 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 3: Nah?

1692
01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 4: I haven't tried that one. Ah, you wait to you,

1693
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 4: I'm gonna put something in here for you.

1694
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, he found him an instant buddy. He

1695
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 3: liked you, plug man.

1696
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 4: That was my man. I missed.

1697
01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 2: That might be the thing I missed the most about

1698
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:12,400
Speaker 2: New York. Du we don't got the same incense plug.

1699
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 2: If he's in, it's cool, but it ain't.

1700
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 3: It ain't like that. Yeah, you would find like ship.

1701
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:19,800
Speaker 3: You be like, what the fuck did you order this

1702
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:21,599
Speaker 3: directly from into yourself?

1703
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: Like this?

1704
01:22:22,640 --> 01:22:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything he had all the like stones and yeah,

1705
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:30,759
Speaker 2: the zodiac shit, that place is neat okay, but listen,

1706
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:34,360
Speaker 2: whoever put whoever melody, Thank you you really you know

1707
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 2: my heart all right, y'all, thank you everybody who took

1708
01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 2: the time out to send us cars, to write emails

1709
01:22:41,040 --> 01:22:44,439
Speaker 2: and leave comments. We should be back to doing shows

1710
01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 2: a little bit more regular, although we still will be.

1711
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:49,160
Speaker 4: Going to Hornets game, so that'll be changing some of

1712
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:51,120
Speaker 4: the schedule. Like y'all know what it is during this

1713
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:52,000
Speaker 4: time of the year.

1714
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, thank you to everyone who took the

1715
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:58,680
Speaker 2: time out, uh to send us something and to think

1716
01:22:58,760 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 2: of us.

1717
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 4: And wishing you all happy New Year.

1718
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 2: I hope you don't bring anything into the new year

1719
01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,840
Speaker 2: you don't need, and help you pick up more things

1720
01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 2: in abundance in this year going forward, and we'll try

1721
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 2: to make it through together, and you know.

1722
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:16,559
Speaker 4: I'm sure we'll have plenty to talk about, because I.

1723
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 2: Think I woke up today and like, Trump done kidnapped

1724
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 2: the president of Venezuela and his wife or something, and

1725
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh yeah, I was like, huh yep,

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Speaker 2: politics will get mad, will be that will continue to go. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: the ghetto all right, y'all until next time.

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Speaker 4: I love you,