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Speaker 1: What time is it, my friends? It is tea time.

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Speaker 1: So the ongoing Jennifer Lopez Ben Affleck drama has taken

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Speaker 1: And Jennifer's taken this really seriously. One of her friends

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Speaker 1: I think this is such a beautiful thing to say.

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday, mister Rob. It's not even nice with roub