1 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: What's up? His way up with Angela Yee and back 2 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: again my girl, Krista Renee hayesl It, welcome back, thank 3 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: you sis, how you doing? And today for the first 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: time you're in the building, but we also know you 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: as one of the best peloton instructors. 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: I'm sorry for what happened on the bike. 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: In history Okay, you and man Yon and welcome to 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: the show. 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. 10 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: And I want to say all three of you have 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: podcasts outside of your day jobs too, you know, so 12 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a great space for people to 13 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: be able to really like have those conversations because sometimes 14 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: we see you on TV and we have to separate, 15 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: like who the human being is from the character that 16 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: you see ya. You're really shaking your nodding yes, because 17 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: we know that your character is a really strong character. 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: On Sisters, you know so and yours is called the 19 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: orbital Tribe. 20 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 4: Yeap research. 21 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: Now, I saw you had Presston on you know. People 22 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: want to see y'all get back to the one. 23 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, truly. He was one of the first people I 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 3: interviewed for season two, so and I knew he would 25 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: have my back, So yeah, he came one and I 26 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:09,639 Speaker 3: knew people would love. 27 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: That, so yeah, we do, you know, because I don't 28 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: like this new guy. Not it's not necessarily new, but Tony, 29 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: I want to ask you all about that. And today, 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 1: I know this is your first season on the show, 31 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: and I cannot wait to hear what this is about 32 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: to be like for you, because season ten is a 33 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: big deal. These women they are sisters for real, like 34 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: they've bonded. It was a huge announcement that two of 35 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: the main characters are leaving this season, and now you've 36 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: joined the cast, and you and Jordan Coleman, which is 37 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: a big deal. But first I want to ask just 38 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: what happened where the character of Tony borrowed ten thousand 39 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: dollars from Danny but really like stole it. I just 40 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: want to I just want to hear your input on 41 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: because that's your character, Mignon, So I just want to 42 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: hear your input on that situation. And then I want 43 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: to say kind of weigh in. 44 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: I mean, Brandon's my boy, but I have to be 45 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: honest about the character, Okay, I mean you borrowing. There's 46 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 3: no such thing as borrowing ten thousand dollars without asking. 47 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 3: That's not a thing. You can borrow a quarter without 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 3: asking quarter? 49 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 2: Maybe about penny, maybe a. 50 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 3: Dolt, But there's no such thing as I saw a 51 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 3: stack of money and I just borrowed it. That's nuts. 52 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 3: There's no way. Yeah, there's we can't. We can't like that. 53 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: What if he had came to you and said, can 54 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 1: I borrow a ten thousand dollars? 55 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 3: That's one thing, But would you say yes, Mignon or Danny? 56 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna hear both because I would to say Mignon, 57 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: got it? 58 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 3: Okay, it's not really about that. You mean my man 59 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 3: or your name in general. That's your man, you know, 60 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 3: are we married or are we boyfriend? 61 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 4: Girl? 62 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: Just like this situation, he's living with you with no job, right, so. 63 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: All the details and it's still no, it's for. 64 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: Me to today. What about you if like you were 65 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: just say, dating somebody like that situation and they needed 66 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: to borrow ten thousand dollars and came to you and 67 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: asked for it. 68 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: Dating is different than it being my man. 69 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 5: So if it's in my man in a tony situation, 70 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 5: who I'm in love with and we're building, it depends 71 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 5: on what he needs it for. 72 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 2: Gambling debt, No, not a gambling debt. 73 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 5: No, if he was trying to build and he's working 74 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 5: on a business and I believe that, you know, I 75 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 5: believe in him in our future, that's a different question. 76 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 5: But for his gimp for his past transgressions, No. 77 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: What about you, Chris? 78 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 4: I agree with her. 79 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, if it's my man and it's towards something that 80 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 6: I believe in as well, I would I've done that. 81 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: He's done it. Okay, that's what I'm talking about. 82 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 6: It. 83 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 3: I think that that's a wifey privileged personally. I don't 84 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 3: think that's a boyfriend girl from. 85 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's how you know why, because money can really 86 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: tear people apart because imagine you lend somebody money and 87 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: they just never pay you back. 88 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, you have to give to by the way, that 89 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 6: part anything you give, I feel like you shouldn't want it. 90 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 5: Bag. 91 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I've done when people have asked 92 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: me for money. I may not lend you the full 93 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: ten thousand, but I will lend out what I can 94 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: be okay with note and then hope and pray that 95 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: I get it back. And sometimes you got to borrow 96 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: it back. You gotta have an emergency and be like, yeah, 97 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 1: you know I have this really huge emergency. 98 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 5: Now. 99 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: I want to ask, I saw your video Tonday of 100 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: when you found out you landed the role on Since 101 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: that was amazing, Like, just looking back at that, I'm 102 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: glad they were able to document that for you. 103 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 5: I think you're talking about the video that I posted 104 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 5: after I shot, but it was a secret and nobody 105 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:40,119 Speaker 5: knew what I was talking about. 106 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 2: Oh right, right with your similar Yeah it was. We 107 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 2: shot the show back in May. We announced it on 108 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: January fifth. 109 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 5: And so for me to have not only something that's 110 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 5: a big secret and something I'm super proud of want 111 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 5: to want to share, but to step so far outside 112 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 5: of the lane that I'm in and to not. 113 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: Be able to, like, ah say it. 114 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 5: But in that video, I was just talking about how 115 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 5: uncomfortable I was going into the situation and how I 116 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 5: love Like it was just like I came to self 117 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 5: in that moment, like I enjoy being uncomfortable. I love 118 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 5: being uncomfortable. And so I'm excited for the growth that 119 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 5: happened in me over the summer, and then the growth 120 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 5: that I know is coming just being alongside such greatness. 121 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 5: And I'm pointing to the two ladies next to me, 122 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 5: like to be in a space with black women like 123 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 5: doing their thing. 124 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: Not just black women who do their thing, but black 125 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 2: women who are. 126 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 5: Like, let me share my secret with you. Like black 127 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 5: women are like, this is how you do. So it's 128 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 5: like it's black women who share. It's incredible and incredible 129 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 5: space to be in. 130 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I mean, I think it's amazing. And I 131 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: saw one thing that people kept asking, like, is that 132 00:05:58,400 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: going to affect the classes? 133 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: Everybody's nervous. 134 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 5: We're still gonna work out like everybody is nervous. 135 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 2: I did. 136 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 5: I saw a lot of people saying, this is what 137 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 5: she's gon leave. So I put up some of the 138 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 5: Instagram so I'm staying. And I also ware shout out 139 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 5: people who said, listen, we hope that you stay. And 140 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 5: if you don't, which I am, I'm staying. But and 141 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 5: if you don't, like, good on you for yet again 142 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 5: putting yourself out there and putting yourself up to be 143 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 5: able to win. 144 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 3: I mean, film in two point seven hours, right, she 145 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 3: has fine, she has done. 146 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: We're working out and see a nice sister's workout too. 147 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: That would that would be one Yeah, yeah, to see 148 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: all y'all doing that together. What's the playlist, because you 149 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: know that playlist one of the most important things. 150 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 6: Comes up with some really great playlists for her workouts. 151 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 4: So yeah, I'd like. 152 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 3: To throw some old school, some gospel, some old school. 153 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: Okay, now, christ So Fatima's character, you know, Fatima be happening. 154 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: A lot going on. But one thing that was brutally 155 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: honest that happened on this last season is Zach overheard 156 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: you on the phone, yeah, saying and you know, the 157 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: main thing on this show was the pregnancy. Karen was 158 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: pregnant two different fathers for her twins, and Zach was 159 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: one of the fathers. And what ended up happening was 160 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: she lost one of the babies. I'm in childbirth because 161 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,559 Speaker 1: of a negligent doctor. And you were overheard on the phone, 162 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: your character, not you, your character, Fatima was overheard on 163 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: the phone. Kind of glad that that happened. How was 164 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: that for you? Because I'm not gonna lie while I 165 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: was watching the show and I was like, what's gonna happen? 166 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: Whose baby is going? Because that's the first thing I 167 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: thought when they said she lost one of the babies, 168 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, which one is going to be the one? 169 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: You know, that's a and I'm sure everybody was like, 170 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: which one. Absolutely, yeah, And so he overheard that how 171 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: do you come back from that? Because that was devastating 172 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: for him. 173 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 6: Actually, when we talked to about it, he was like, 174 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 6: you should have He didn't want me talking to Danny 175 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 6: about it. He was like, that's something you should have 176 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 6: told me, because honestly, I always feel in the same way, 177 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 6: and like feeling guilty for feeling like that, but actually 178 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 6: being honest about how you felt. Because if everything we 179 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 6: had gone through up until that point, it was like, 180 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 6: finally we can be free of all this drama, you know, 181 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 6: because that was the only thing tying him to Karen, right, 182 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. So shout out to Courtney 183 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 6: Glaude and the writer's team who who wrote that, because 184 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 6: as much as I hated to deliver those lines, as 185 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 6: cringe as it was, it was authentic to how people 186 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 6: feel in those situations. 187 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 4: You know. 188 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 6: I'm sure there's a lot of girlfriends or wives whose 189 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 6: husband or whatever has maybe gotten someone else pregnant and 190 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 6: then something happens they're like, okay, like we. 191 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: Don't got to deal with that forever. 192 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was really hard to film that. 193 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I can't even imagine. I feel like this 194 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: last season has been. I'm just curious, you know, for 195 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: Megnona and Krista how filming season nine was for you guys, 196 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: because it was really heavy, a lot that was happening. 197 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 6: That was one of the hardest seasons for me for sure, 198 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 6: and I'm sure you can attest as well. Like Mignon said, 199 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 6: we shoot in two weeks. 200 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 4: So it's crazy. Your body doesn't know that, like literally 201 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 4: my body. 202 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 6: I could you can check me into a psych word 203 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 6: at the end, like clinically crazy, you know, because I'm 204 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 6: going from happy to sad, to crying, to angry to fighting, 205 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 6: like to compassionate in your body. Your brain doesn't know that, 206 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 6: Oh we're acting, we're planning right now. It's like, girl, 207 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 6: what is going on? So yeah, it was definitely tough, 208 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 6: and the topics that we touched on resonated with so 209 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 6: many people. It was it was a nine was one 210 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 6: of my favorite seasons topic wise. 211 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: Okay, now I think that and even just these discussions. 212 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: I just had kJ On for lip service, and I 213 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: know she went through a lot with her pregnancy in 214 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: real life, and we were talking about how she actually 215 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: learned a lot from filming that for when she was 216 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: giving bread. 217 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 6: It put everything perspective and had her start really properly 218 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 6: planning what she really wanted for her child. 219 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: Now to tell me about season ten and what's going 220 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: to be happening with your character Madison, Well, I can't. 221 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: Give it all the way. 222 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 5: What I'm excited about. And I think Manyon said this earlier, 223 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 5: like Madison is very. 224 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: She's got there, Like what was it she got? 225 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 3: I was just sitting Your character is the healthiest. 226 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's a boundary. She's a healthy character. She's a boss. 227 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 5: She's a boss, she makes her own money, like she's building. 228 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 5: She's in a space that I think that many women 229 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 5: are like in this country, Like women are doing their 230 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 5: thing and you kind of take a moment back from 231 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,479 Speaker 5: the thing that you're doing and you say. 232 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 4: Do I want a family? 233 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 2: Do I want kids? 234 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 5: I think that we're in a really beautiful space where 235 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 5: a woman gets to even ask herself those questions. But 236 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 5: with Madison, she is wondering if maybe like she's missed 237 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 5: that mark, and so she is proud of her success, 238 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 5: but also she's like, Okay, if I'm gonna do this, 239 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 5: like the kid thing, the husband thing. 240 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: Maybe I should start doing it. 241 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: I know, because you know, women a lot of times 242 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: we feel like we are on a timer right that 243 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: men don't necessarily have. There'll be seventy like I think 244 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: I'm ready to settle down and have kids now. 245 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 3: They all think they can do what George Clooney did, right, like, 246 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 3: wait till he's at his maybe get the best beautiful, 247 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 3: most beautiful, but also most intelligent woman. 248 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 5: And then. 249 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 1: And you know, it's hard to because I think there's 250 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: a lot of judgment that's passed on women based on 251 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: our decisions on whether or not to get married to 252 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: have children and when we decide to do it. And 253 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: then you know, if you do it when you're older, 254 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,719 Speaker 1: people judge that if you it's just I think, or 255 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: if you're not married, like I know, I'm not married, 256 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: and people will always be like, that's why you ain't 257 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 1: had a husband. But you can be happily in a 258 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: relationship and not married and do it better than somebody 259 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: who's married and miserable. 260 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 4: And happily. 261 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: That's and feeling like this is I'm in a great space. 262 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 1: I sleep good at night. 263 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 4: And we're about nobody cheating. 264 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 3: Me, and I sleep so dire. Oh my god, King Bed, 265 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 3: that's the crazy part. I just think we have to 266 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: step outside the matrix because it's it's as my as 267 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 3: Sky Black likes to say, it's a psia, like a 268 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 3: woman's value has been so long attached to whether or 269 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 3: not there's a man with her, and the more the 270 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 3: training wheels are being taken off of us, we're seeing, 271 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 3: wait a minute, like this is all conditioning, Like that's 272 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 3: that's it's Pavlovian And so I mean, I think more 273 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 3: women when they realize that, and men as well, like 274 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 3: if we can kind of just kind of step back 275 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 3: and get back to who we were designed to be, 276 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 3: just from a divine perspective, we all realize that our 277 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 3: whole is what we have to bring to a relationship 278 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 3: and to families, and it's just it's just it's it's 279 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 3: mind boggling. But it's just all a means of social control. 280 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 3: It's capitalism. 281 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: Like you know, it's interesting, like I also have my 282 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: real estate license and when I take like that, I'm 283 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: extending my license now because it expired. So I'm taking 284 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: the classes and you're really understanding it hasn't been that 285 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: long since women have had their rights and equality, and 286 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 1: we still don't, you know, we still don't fully have equality, 287 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: but to even be able to legally do a lot 288 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: of things. 289 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 3: Because they were trying to prevent this where we are 290 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 3: now where women as single women own house more houses 291 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 3: than single men. They were trying to prevent that because 292 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 3: now they have no leverage, right, And then men who 293 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 3: are single and run around, they spend more money than 294 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 3: happily married men. It's it's capital Like it's really just 295 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 3: all about money and control. And if we could just 296 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 3: step back, I don't know, I just wonder how healthy 297 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: we'd be at a society. Wow. 298 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 5: I go through phases like because I'm just turned forty, 299 00:13:59,320 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 5: I'm single. 300 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: Congratulations, that's the time. 301 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 2: I listen and let me tell you it's true. 302 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 5: Like I woke up on my fortieth birthday and I've 303 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 5: been different ever since. Like I moved differently, I think differently, 304 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 5: I see the world differently. But I kind of go 305 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 5: through through phases where I say like, okay, single, no kids, Yes, 306 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 5: it's amazing, Like nobody have to argue with you know, 307 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 5: I get to do my own thing. I'm independent, and 308 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 5: then the next like I'm great, I'm good, And then 309 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 5: the next day I wake up and I'm like. 310 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 2: You know, so I think there's truth to all of it. 311 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 5: But I do think it is beautiful that we are 312 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 5: in a space where you get to choose, like you 313 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 5: get deciits and you get to pick like why are 314 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 5: you still single because you chose not. 315 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 2: To be with the fool? 316 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 5: Right, So it's like it's beautiful to be in a 317 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 5: place to be able to pick. 318 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and to not be reliant on anyone too, I 319 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: think and kind of what you said Magnan is being 320 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: our I think that's the most important thing when you're 321 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: coming to a relationship. You're a whole person. You're not 322 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: half a person that needs your other half. You are 323 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: both whole people that can really compliment each other and 324 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: do so much for each other. So what is like 325 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: for Danny and therapy because I think a lot of 326 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: this on the show. People love Danny. They love how 327 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: straightforward she is. She's very common, you know, also comic 328 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: coal at times when it's very tense and she can 329 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: break it up. But also sometimes people are reluctant to 330 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: tell her anything because they think she's judgmental in a way, 331 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: like maybe too harsh, too judgmental, to like, you know, 332 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: bang in your face. And I think that's needed sometimes, 333 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: but sometimes that's also tough for people when you just 334 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: want to vent. 335 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 3: She's not judgmental, but she's too harsh. Okay, she's not 336 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 3: gonna tell you what you want to. 337 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: Hear your coding, Yeah. 338 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: I mean, no one has the absolute truth, but she's 339 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 3: gonna tell She's gonna be honest with you as far 340 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 3: as she can see it. But I mean, I think 341 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 3: I think that's necessary. 342 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: You think she's honest with herself. 343 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 3: I think she avoids the truth. She's the type of 344 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 3: person who can't really lie to herself. I mean, at 345 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 3: least I gave her that part of myself, but she'll 346 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 3: avoid it. And she's avoiding it. 347 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: Through weed and alcohol drinks, yeah, where some things might 348 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: happen and then. 349 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 3: So she's not gonna she's not gonna lie to herself, 350 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 3: but she will avoid the truth. 351 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: You did have a great scene where you talk about 352 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: you had the little fling. I don't know if it's 353 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: gonna turn into something more right, but you didn't blame 354 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: the drinking. You said the drinking will like kind of 355 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: let you do things that you were gonna do already. 356 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: Anyway that line, Yeah, because I think a lot of 357 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: times we do, you know, like. 358 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 4: Blaming on alcoholic yeah, vino. 359 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 3: Veritas, right, yeah, isn't it in vino veritas like in 360 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 3: wine the truth comes out? 361 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 362 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, Or a drunk man's speaks a sober man's mind, 363 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 3: that's so. 364 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, what is it drunking thoughts, sober truths or 365 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 1: something like drunking? I forget what it is, but I 366 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: do think sometimes we have regrets after drinking. Oh yeah, 367 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: and maybe it's not necessarily something we in our right 368 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: mind would have done. 369 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 4: It's part of the reason why I stop drinking. 370 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: You don't drink it off. 371 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 6: No, I stopped drinking hard liquor last year. I'll do 372 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 6: wine every now and then. But you think about a 373 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 6: lot of your like poor decisions are made when you're 374 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 6: not sober. 375 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think too, it's important to recognize, like, 376 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with having the thought, but if you 377 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 3: can control it, and if you can say, that's not 378 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 3: who I am. But the problem is with the alcohol, 379 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 3: it takes away that, you know, executive reasoning, that executive functioning. 380 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 3: So it's nothing wrong with that. That's a part of us, 381 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 3: you know. So it's not about judging yourself for that 382 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: being in you. It's just like making a decision on 383 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 3: who I want to be. 384 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 6: And it actually feels really good when you can see 385 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 6: it in real time and it's like I'm making a 386 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 6: conscious effort to not do that. 387 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 4: I thought about it. 388 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 1: It's not going to like being a sober one when 389 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 1: everybody else's baby. That has happened for me often, but 390 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: when it does, I'm like, this is what it's right. 391 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 1: It's interesting also with your character of Fatima Crystal, you 392 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: have kind of I don't even want to use the 393 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: word infiltrated because that sounds bad. But this friend group, 394 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: you're the kind of the fifth member of the friend group, 395 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: and it feels like, you know, everybody's kind of starting 396 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: to embrace you more in real life. How are your 397 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: friend groups. I'm just curious, like because a lot of 398 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: times people will tell you like I've had these same 399 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: friends for a long time, but it is so important 400 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 1: to like embrace new people, and there's sometimes we're friends 401 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: with people out of familiarity. I've been with friends with 402 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: you since I was in eighth grade, and you know, 403 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: we'll be friends forever, but we may have kind of 404 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: grown apart, and then there's times where you meet new 405 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: people and you just click instantly. How has that been 406 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 1: for you, guys, Because I have to imagine being in 407 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: quote unquote Hollywood and being on TV and being visible 408 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: in that way makes friendships a little bit something that 409 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 1: you have to be a little more cautious about. 410 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 4: Absolutely, and man, that's so good for me. 411 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 6: I have friends from kindergarten till now, then I have 412 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 6: friends from college to now, and then I have friends 413 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 6: that I've met in my adulthood. 414 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 4: And honestly, I think it's life. 415 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 6: You evolve, some people evolve differently, and sometimes what used 416 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 6: to do may not be the things that you still 417 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 6: want to do. And sometimes people are stuck in certain 418 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 6: places and you have to know when to say, Okay, 419 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 6: this friendship no longer serves me. I gotta separate myself. 420 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 6: And then where we are now making new friends. I'm 421 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 6: so grateful for the spirit of discernment, because I'm really 422 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 6: I can pick up on energy real quick. I'm like, 423 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 6: I don't know about that, and it always reveals itself later. 424 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:51,399 Speaker 4: So I've learned to trust that you know. 425 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 6: And I've been really blessed to have some amazing new friends, 426 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 6: people that pour into me, that teach me things. So 427 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 6: I feel like every level of your life, God's going 428 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 6: to bring people that can help you navigate that season. 429 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 3: Right. 430 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I'm grateful for everybody. 431 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: But about you today, what's been your experience with friendships? 432 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 5: You know, I mean, I'm new to the TV world, 433 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 5: but I'm not new to the public space world. And 434 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 5: so most of so many of like my people, people 435 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 5: like people. There are people that I've known for over 436 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 5: twenty years, thirty years, and then in terms of the 437 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 5: newer people that I've brought into my life, I think 438 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 5: maybe a lot of a lot of my newer. 439 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: Friends I meet in work settings. 440 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 4: Same thing. 441 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 5: I think that a really good judge of like instantly 442 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,679 Speaker 5: judge of character and why is this person here? And 443 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 5: is this person taking more than they're giving to their friendship? 444 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 2: And so. 445 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 5: I would say that I am a trusting person. I 446 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 5: trust you until. 447 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 4: You show you. 448 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: Start with trust, correct, I always tart. 449 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: Some people start with mistrusts. 450 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:56,719 Speaker 4: You got to prove it. 451 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 452 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 5: I believe in the good. I believe in the good 453 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 5: of people. And once you show me that, you don't 454 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 5: need to show me twice. But I believe in the 455 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 5: good people, but you don't even show me twice Okay. 456 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,360 Speaker 1: And I saw you pointing at yourself Mignon when we 457 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: talked about starting with Truster, starting from a place that 458 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 1: you have to prove it. 459 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to see how much time you got. 460 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 3: I think friendship is like a difficult thing in today's 461 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 3: society with social media. We were talking about that. Oh no, 462 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 3: I just saw them. No you didn't. 463 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 4: You saw a post? 464 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I vote I've outgrown a lot of friendships 465 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 3: and discernment. 466 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: It's like you had this conversation, you know, just. 467 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 3: Needing a discernment and getting new friends. But what I 468 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:56,239 Speaker 3: realize is that you know, real friends, there's only going 469 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 3: to be like two in life. 470 00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: Wow, you think too? 471 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like when like I look at biblical friendships, like 472 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 3: I look at Jonathan and David. That was one of one. Okay, 473 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 3: First of all, Jonathan was one of a million, Like 474 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 3: who would root for someone else to get the throne 475 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 3: when I'm supposed to get it exactly? First of all, 476 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 3: who deserves a friend like that? So to get that 477 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 3: type of friendship has to be freely given the way 478 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: you know, Christ was, like I lay down my life. 479 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 3: They don't take it from me. So that's the thing 480 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 3: about friendship. You have to the same way you choose 481 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 3: a partner, you have to choose a person, and you 482 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 3: have to choose wisely. And so I think that's something 483 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 3: I'm in prayer about. 484 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's I went on a girls tip recently 485 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,880 Speaker 1: with my friends from high school and it was ten 486 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 1: of us and it actually was really nice because we 487 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,439 Speaker 1: never see each other like that. Yeah, and everybody's like 488 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 1: in different places and you know, and everybody's pretty successful 489 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: at what it is that they're doing, so that was 490 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 1: nice to see. And what I loved about it was 491 00:22:55,160 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: that everybody was trying to pay for everything. I got 492 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: to pick up the bill for everything. Everybody's like, no, 493 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: I'm paying for this, No, I'm paying for this. I 494 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: love fighting over the bill with my friends. Yes, Like 495 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 1: I think that is like the best measure of we 496 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: really did this exactly. 497 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's beautiful. 498 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 2: You just have this conversation. 499 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 5: Just have this conversation because like my friend friends, we 500 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 5: fight over the bill or the bill comes and I 501 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 5: never even saw it because I get people a lot. Yeah, 502 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 5: like I got this, I got this, I got this 503 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 5: it's always my real friends. 504 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: We're like, no, you don't. 505 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, you always get it, always let me, and I'm 506 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: happy to get it. Yeah. 507 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 5: But then it also means something when my people people 508 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 5: are like, you know, you get enough. 509 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, please let me do this for you. Christoph for 510 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: your podcast this season, keep it positive, sweetie. You said 511 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,880 Speaker 1: this is all about no more shrinking and no more 512 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: dimming our lights. Yes, so tell me what does that 513 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: look like for you? 514 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 6: Oh man? The theme is unapologetic. You know, I think 515 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 6: that for so long, we as women as a whole 516 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 6: have shrunk when we walk rooms. We let allowed imposter 517 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 6: syndrome to creep in and not take up space the 518 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 6: way we should. So in this season, we are taking 519 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 6: up space walking boldly. I'm excited about it because it 520 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,479 Speaker 6: actually is helping me too. Yeah. 521 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: It feels like therapy sessions when you're sitting there. 522 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 4: Girl. 523 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 6: Every episode conversation when people get the like, oh I 524 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 6: just feel like I got out of therapy. 525 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, it's crazy. 526 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 6: Because it's just conversation and people, they can be themselves. 527 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 4: It's a safe space. So I really enjoy it. 528 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. Safe spaces I think are really important for what 529 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 1: it is that we this world today is so crazy. 530 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: When I get alerts because I have obviously because of 531 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: what I do, I'm always paying attention to what's going 532 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: on in the news, and these alerts pop up, I 533 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: think I got to take this Citizens app off my 534 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: phone too, because it's really driving me crazy. I'm like, 535 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, somebody just got stabbed to make Donalds 536 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: down to black. Look Citizens right here right now popping 537 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 1: up and it's like giving me like I'm nervous about 538 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: every day. 539 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 6: Sometimes you got to disconnect, yeah, because it can become 540 00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 6: too much. 541 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 4: And then sometimes so was it? I know, we end 542 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 4: up getting what's the word for it. 543 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 3: We get desensitized. 544 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 6: It turns into being desensitized because it's like, oh, somebody 545 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 6: else's got stuff. Okay, what damn, what's next? You know 546 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 6: what I'm saying, because you get so used to it. 547 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 6: So sometimes disconnecting helps us with our empathy because a 548 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 6: lot of times we can just be like, gosh, like. 549 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 4: It's happened every day. It's like you just lose the 550 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 4: it used to be. 551 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 6: Now, Like when I got off my phone, I will 552 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 6: look across the room, so it's like, oh my god, 553 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 6: So like I'm like, what is it like everybody's always 554 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 6: like it's always what. 555 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 3: We're dealing with. Now, that's intentional by the news to 556 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 3: keep us distracted, to have us become desensitized. So then 557 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 3: when the big thing comes, like the Handmaid's tel type 558 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 3: thing comes, like we don't we kind of hurt ourselves 559 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 3: into it. So that's that's the whole point of it. 560 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 3: I'm doing the dopamine detalk soon though, Yeah you have to. 561 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm gonna do a dopamine t talk soon. 562 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 1: So what does that entail? 563 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 3: Right when you're not you know, scrolling, get off social media, 564 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 3: don't binge, watch tea, not eating like you know, sugary things, 565 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 3: things that give you quick dopamine, but not things that 566 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 3: create dopamine and sustain it. Like listening to music is 567 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 3: like good dopamine, okay, but scrolling, I gotta look this up. 568 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 1: I never heard of that, like dopamine detas. 569 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: Because if you don't, you get to a place where 570 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 3: you can't enjoy anything because your dopamine circuits. 571 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 4: Are just so fried. 572 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: It's like a drug addict. 573 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 3: It's the same pathways. 574 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,399 Speaker 1: Like I literally be watching like ice stuff on the 575 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 1: news and it makes me want to cry. Everything, Like 576 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: I will literally like break down and cry watching the 577 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: news and I don't understand how Like I had Joanne 578 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 1: read on the show the other day, and every time 579 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: she comes up here to speak, my comments be so wild, 580 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: like the stuff. I'm like, who are these people that 581 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: think it's okay to do stuff like this? Like they're like, oh, 582 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: she tried to run them over, so that's why she 583 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: got killed too bad. I'm like, oh my god, this 584 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 1: is like the fact that people really And I'm like, 585 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 1: are these real people? Trolls that exist? Do people really 586 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,679 Speaker 1: think like this or this online saying crazy things? But 587 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,959 Speaker 1: then in real life because I've never come across somebody 588 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: in real life that would say that to me. 589 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 3: Like the bots are real, But there is such thing 590 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 3: as like being a keyboard warrior and hid behind the 591 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 3: anonymity of a finsta. 592 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: There are times when people, when they watched the show 593 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: get really mad at y'all, like yeah, like and we're like, 594 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 1: you know, I'm acting right. 595 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 6: Every week? 596 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 1: What was the most reaction that you got? Like, what 597 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: would you say? Is something that the scenario that you 598 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: just gave. 599 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 3: Shredds. 600 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 4: I got it. I understood. I was ready for that 601 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 4: because I knew it was coming. 602 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: And listen, I'm not gonna lie because I was at 603 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: home watch and I remember, and the first thing I 604 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 1: said was, but when when I was contemplating, because he 605 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: was like, it's a better plot if he was like, 606 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: it just would cause more controversy if it is his baby, 607 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: like my man was saying. But I was like yeah, 608 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 1: but I was like, they better hope it's you know. 609 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 1: I just felt like for her to at least you 610 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 1: could be with Aaron and like they could be together, 611 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: and you know, yeah, I think that's important, you know, 612 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 1: because she wasn't going to be with Zach right anyway, 613 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 1: so her. 614 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 6: Happiness logistically, yeah, right, ically what you said, right, Listen 615 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 6: for a lot of people that some people totally understood 616 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 6: because they've been on their ride with us, right, so 617 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 6: it's like they're like, we get it, you. 618 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 4: Know, And then other people were like, girl, you wrong. 619 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 4: I understood that too. 620 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: You know. I think a common theme on the show 621 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,360 Speaker 1: a lot of times, you guys will like as the sisters, 622 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: you all will keep secrets from each other at times 623 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: and not want to tell each other things. But our 624 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: friends supposed to tell each other everything. Because I also 625 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: feel like, well, you know, it's not really. I mean 626 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: sometimes things come out, but you don't have to share everything, right. 627 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 5: I feel like different friendships are different. Like I have 628 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 5: the friend that I might go to and tell her 629 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 5: this thing. You know, if I did some ratchet, I 630 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 5: might go and tell that first, so she's not gonna 631 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 5: judge me. 632 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 1: Like, you know, so I ratch sidekick, let's go do this. 633 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 5: I don't think it's about keeping things from friends, but 634 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 5: I think there are some things that you open up 635 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 5: to specific friends about because you know they're the person 636 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 5: to go to. 637 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: Right, Like you and kJ Andy's character have had a 638 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: little bit of a kind of tense relationship. It felt 639 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: like she was a little jealous of you having a 640 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 1: situation where you had these basketball the basketball player as 641 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: a client, but. 642 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 4: You also I was dropping the ball. 643 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: Yes, you also were messing up and not seeing carey 644 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: responsibilities and not really in the position to have a 645 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: client on your own. What are you doing? 646 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 4: What are you doing? 647 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: I got it. 648 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 6: I was like, I really am, and you're just eager 649 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 6: to want to learn and to elevate. But I got it. 650 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 6: I was like, I am messing up, and this is 651 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 6: what she's working on is really important. She's trying to 652 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 6: win this case that's going to protect and save a 653 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 6: lot of lives. That's something word about some basketball. 654 00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: I ain't get all the names. 655 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 4: I'm working on this over here. 656 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: It must be hard, though, to work for your friend. 657 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: I think working with friends and working. 658 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 4: For two different things. Two different things your work for a. 659 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 1: Friend, you know what. I have had friends who work. 660 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 2: For me, and are y'all still friends? 661 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: Some of them. There's a couple of friends that I 662 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: do still have. But then I think sometimes lines can 663 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: get crossed where people want like special treatment or Also 664 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: another thing is sometimes people will think that you have this, 665 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: why don't I have it too? And that's hard too, 666 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: Like when I would I never want to feel bad 667 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: that I'm like, let me go buy myself this, X, 668 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: Y and Z. And then you have a friend that's 669 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 1: like you spend wet on what and you have like 670 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 1: it's just not a good feeling to know that. And 671 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: so I never want to feel like I have to 672 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 1: hide things that I'm doing because I don't want somebody 673 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: else to feel bad. But I never want to throw 674 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: it at anybody's face either, you know what I mean. 675 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 1: But as friends aren't what come on, what's going on. 676 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 3: I just think sometimes it's hard for friends to see 677 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 3: you come up and then might you know, maybe they don't, 678 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 3: especially if you started off together, because it's not that 679 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 3: they're not happy for you, they just don't know why. 680 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 3: It's not them right. 681 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 1: A lot of times it's their own issues, and then 682 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: that gets like misplaced onto you, where it's like, dang, 683 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: she got this, why don't I have that? 684 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 3: And it's something they have to work through on their own. 685 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 3: That's the same thing for family. I mean, it's heavy 686 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 3: is the head that wears a crown. So sometimes people 687 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 3: you'll do your best for them, but because they're just 688 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 3: working out their own self worth issues and feeling enough, 689 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 3: they're not gonna be able to work for you and 690 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 3: truly be happy and right? 691 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: Do you feel was acting what you knew you always 692 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 1: wanted to do? 693 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,239 Speaker 3: Yeah? It wasn't even like a choice, it was it 694 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 3: was a calling. I just knew. Like when I was 695 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 3: three years old and I was watching the title intro 696 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 3: from upp At Babies and you know how much big 697 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: he's an actress, I was like, oh, that's what I do, 698 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 3: Like I remember having. 699 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: That, like I do this already. 700 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 3: Oh, that's and it was very matter of fact. It 701 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 3: was like, oh, this is a this is a flower plant. 702 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 3: Oh that's what. It wasn't like oh I'm drawn to 703 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 3: it and I want to be famous and I want 704 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 3: to be a star. It was just like, oh, so 705 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 3: it's it's just something that I feel like. 706 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 2: It's was. 707 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 3: I feel like it was God's way of reminding me 708 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 3: while I was here, like this is what you're gonna do. 709 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 3: So I think God's doing that with all of us. 710 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 3: He's kind of winking at each of us and trying 711 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 3: to nudge us to the path that he sent us 712 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 3: here to complete. And I think that was just his 713 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: way of being like, hey, remember, this is what you're 714 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 3: here for. 715 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: And tounday for you. The transformation that you've had has 716 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,719 Speaker 1: been amazing. And I saw this Sports Illustrated swim sooners 717 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: talk to me about that. 718 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 5: Yes, okay, So I am the twenty twenty six swim 719 00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 5: Search winners from the twenty twenty six Rookie for Sports Illustrating. 720 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 2: Okay, which is exciting. It's just funny. 721 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 5: It's funny to me because I just you know, sometimes 722 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,960 Speaker 5: you look at where you started and where you are 723 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 5: and you just say like I would have never like 724 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 5: twelve year old, fifteen year old, eighteen year old Tune Day, 725 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 5: thirty nine year old tun Day would have never dreamt 726 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:20,959 Speaker 5: this or thought it was possible. 727 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I always say I was. 728 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 5: The girl who wore a T shirt to the pool 729 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 5: because I didn't wanted people to see me, right. I 730 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 5: didn't learn how to swim until later. Not that I 731 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 5: can't try to still now, but I can float, I 732 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 5: can float, But yeah, I was. I didn't learn how 733 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 5: to swim because I didn't want people to see my body, 734 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 5: you know, swimsuit in the water, and so to now 735 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 5: be like a swimsuit model, it just wild. 736 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: Life be laughing at you. But that's so too. The 737 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: reason I don't know how to swim, well, it was 738 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:53,719 Speaker 1: a lot of reasons. My brother took lessons when we 739 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: were growing up. I didn't, But you're right, like in school, 740 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: we were supposed to learn how to swim to graduate, 741 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: and every time I'd be like, I'm a period and 742 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: es it really would not put on swimsuit and get. 743 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 5: In a letter swimsuit, couldn't get a harroweb, Yeah, I 744 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 5: don't when it was any of those, Yeah, it was 745 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 5: a lot of things working against me. 746 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: So and now look at that, and now look at that. 747 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 5: So the message there for me is or the message 748 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 5: that I hope that people get or see, is it 749 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 5: anything and everything is possible, Like don't count yourself out 750 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 5: of anything of any of it. 751 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 2: I remember when I got the job for Peloton. 752 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 5: I was in my interview and you know, it was 753 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 5: one of those why should we give you the job 754 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 5: types of things, and I said, my hope, like, my 755 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 5: goal is going to be that I want people to 756 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 5: see through what I'm going to do with my life. 757 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 5: I want people to see that they can do it 758 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 5: for themselves too. So going from you know, I was 759 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 5: in the makeup artist for sixteen years. Then I had 760 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 5: this I call it a blue light vision, where in 761 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 5: a matter of five seconds, I had a vision I 762 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 5: saw myself after my very first cycling class. I have 763 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,280 Speaker 5: this vision where I was going to be teaching cycling. 764 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 5: And not only that, I saw myself on a podium. 765 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 5: I knew that I was going to be able to 766 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 5: affect the lives of millions of people by virtue of 767 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 5: a bike. I didn't even know what Peloton was at 768 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 5: the time, but I knew that I was going to 769 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 5: impact millions of lives by virtue of a bike. During 770 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 5: that same interview, they said, you know, where do you 771 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,919 Speaker 5: see yourself in five years? I said, in five years, 772 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 5: I'm going to be an author. 773 00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 2: Three years later I was a New York selling author, right, 774 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 2: And so to like, I just had I. 775 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 5: Do a monthly newsletter, And in my May twenty twenty 776 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 5: three newsletter, I say, you know, I really want to 777 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,399 Speaker 5: try to see if I can tap into the acting world. 778 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 5: I got an acting coach and I'm, you know, going 779 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 5: on auditions. Two years to the day of that newsletter, 780 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 5: I am in Atlanta shooting Tyler Perry's sisters with these 781 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 5: incredible books. So it's just like it's it's put it 782 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 5: out there, speak it, manifest it, pray on it. Like 783 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 5: whatever it is that you believe on, don't shrink yoursel, 784 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 5: don't shrink yourself. 785 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: Listen just hearing both of your stories and talking about 786 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 1: how you saw something and you may not know what 787 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: it means at that time, but a lot of times 788 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 1: we can like manifest these things happening, or you might 789 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 1: have like a little it's like, uh, what is it 790 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 1: called psychic? You might be slightly psychic and knowing what 791 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 1: it is that you want to do, and Christa, like 792 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,520 Speaker 1: we've heard your story about how you really made this 793 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,279 Speaker 1: happen for yourself and I love that for you, and 794 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: like just even seeing the space that you've continue to 795 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 1: grow into because you guys are not in a box 796 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: and just this is not all that you do, Like 797 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: you have so many things going on outside of there. 798 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: I mean you have you know a lot of time too, 799 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 1: because like you said, people laughing, like two weeks, that's 800 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,879 Speaker 1: amazing though, but that's two grueling weeks though. 801 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 4: Oh baby, I need about extra two months to recover 802 00:36:59,520 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 4: from them too. 803 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 3: That's not even an exaggeration. 804 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,399 Speaker 1: What is twenty twenty six looking like for you guys 805 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: so far? Like what are some of these Yeah, it's 806 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 1: all like. 807 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 6: It We're this is the thirteenth day of the year, 808 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 6: and I feel like it has been like NonStop. 809 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 2: It's just really like go, It's like no, let's ease 810 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 2: into it. 811 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 6: It's an amazing if this is any indication of what 812 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 6: the year is going to be, like I'm excited. 813 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:25,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, And how you feeling and young? 814 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 3: I'm feeling like I need to lock in, you know 815 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 3: what I mean? Like twenty twenty five I feel like 816 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 3: was like a rounding of a corner, and twenty twenty 817 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 3: six is like the start of a race. And I 818 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 3: gotta there's some things I gotta go for and get 819 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 3: them because maybe she tied. 820 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 1: Okay, it feels like you I had this competition at. 821 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 3: This No, it's just I mean just hearing her just 822 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 3: now and some stuff I didn't know, like the newsletter 823 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:02,919 Speaker 3: thing like but you have forgive me for a preacher 824 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:03,279 Speaker 3: a little bit. 825 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: But it's just like. 826 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 3: Knowing that if all of heaven is behind you, like 827 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 3: why aren't you going for okay, what it is like 828 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 3: if you either trust God or you don't. And so 829 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 3: it's just like there's just some stuff I gotta do, okay, 830 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 3: And I just feel. 831 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,839 Speaker 1: Like I cannot wait to see it. And I'm gonna 832 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,680 Speaker 1: play this back when we make those announces, when I'm 833 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: reading the press releases and the announces, I'm gonna be like, well, man, 834 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,320 Speaker 1: y'all was on way up and she said this, and 835 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 1: now this announcement came out touch and agree and then well, 836 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 1: congratulations to all three of you. And I love the 837 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 1: Every time I interview like people from the cast, it 838 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 1: just feels like there is such a spirit of like 839 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: togetherness and also that you guys really enjoy working with 840 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: each other, and that's so important because everybody does not 841 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:49,360 Speaker 1: have that luxury. 842 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 4: We are blessed, blessed twice. 843 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, because the first time around it was incredible, and 844 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 3: then Jordan and Tune Day came, and then they came 845 00:38:59,120 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 3: with the right spirit. 846 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 4: I'll like, how do we. 847 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 1: Keep how do they vet these people out? 848 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 6: Right? 849 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 1: Well, listen, you know I'm locked in. You already know 850 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 1: I watched this faithfully, so I'm on it. So I 851 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,720 Speaker 1: cannot wait to see what's going to happen this season 852 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: and what's going to happen with the new characters. I'm 853 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing Cheyenne and Andy and what their 854 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 1: relationship is going to be like with each other because 855 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 1: I know it's going to be spicy, you know. And 856 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 1: Zatima too. You know, I'm locked into that. So congratulations always, 857 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 1: and it's been a pleasure.