WEBVTT - Should You Be Toxic In Your 20s?

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<v Speaker 1>It's topic time called eight hundred five five one five

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<v Speaker 1>one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 2>Morning Everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>It's DJ n V Charlamagne the guy. We are the

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<v Speaker 3>Breakfast Club. Our guest host, Jess Hilarious is back.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, what's that?

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<v Speaker 5>She decided to come spend some time with us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know what I mean. Finally after going on

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<v Speaker 4>the road.

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<v Speaker 2>She was she was in Toronto, North Carolina, was all over.

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<v Speaker 6>The place, and this weekend I'm gonna be in Columbus, Ohio.

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<v Speaker 6>You also get them tickets at the Funny Ball. We

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<v Speaker 6>got two shows Friday and to show Saturday.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so lou to the Funny Bomb. Yeah, I went

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<v Speaker 1>up there a couple months ago. Who was out there?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, I was different my daughter comedy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I was there for my daughter's cheerleading competition and

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<v Speaker 1>he just was in town doing the show that weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh yeah, I like the Funny Bomb.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, the shout out to the Funny Bone and go

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<v Speaker 3>get your tickets to check out just this weekend. Now

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<v Speaker 3>we're talking about Glooriala eight hundred five eight five one

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<v Speaker 3>oh five one. Glorilla posted this yesterday on her social media.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey ladies, now on you.

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<v Speaker 8>What I'm gonna call my twin and I just want

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<v Speaker 8>to let town know, be toxi for the rest of

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<v Speaker 8>your twenties. You only get one life.

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<v Speaker 4>Live your toxic twenties.

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<v Speaker 8>You never get to be twenty years old, twenty three,

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<v Speaker 8>twenty four, none of that ever again in your life.

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<v Speaker 8>Be toxic, because don't get in your thirties thinking you

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<v Speaker 8>could just go surlantentiee and doing all this crazy too

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<v Speaker 8>over there. Now on you too, mach your be toxic

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<v Speaker 8>for the rest of your twenties. And if you delusional

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<v Speaker 8>overnuch and join the rest of your twenties, you don't

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<v Speaker 8>get to do one time.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're asking eight hundred and five eighty five one

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<v Speaker 3>oh five on is this true? Is this something women

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<v Speaker 3>should do? Let's start with you jest. You just jumped

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<v Speaker 3>out of your twenties.

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<v Speaker 5>I did.

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<v Speaker 4>I ain't. I ain't jump.

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<v Speaker 6>I really was out of my twenties before I actually

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<v Speaker 6>got to thirty.

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<v Speaker 5>But you spent ten years in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 6>I spent ten years there, but I wasn't going no time.

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<v Speaker 6>And then like, how do we define toxic these days?

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<v Speaker 6>These toxic is is so broad like cause, because once

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<v Speaker 6>she explained it, it was all right, slashing tires and

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<v Speaker 6>and and you know, breaking windows. Yeah, that's that's part

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<v Speaker 6>of toxicity in relationships. Though I've done that. I've done

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<v Speaker 6>that early twenties. But like, but when she said the

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<v Speaker 6>delusion part, all right, and if you're delusional, turn that

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<v Speaker 6>up a notch.

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<v Speaker 4>Nah, no, no.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, delusion can land you so many different places

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<v Speaker 6>jail or saint asylums, like.

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<v Speaker 2>So you dealt with on that that that energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I don't We shouldn't promote that at all.

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<v Speaker 6>We should be promoting mental healings so we can be

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<v Speaker 6>great for our thirties because, to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of men don't want you add do you

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<v Speaker 6>all used up and all of that at your whole

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<v Speaker 6>twenties and then you want to settle down when you're thirty.

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<v Speaker 6>You ain't got no walls and you burn up from

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<v Speaker 6>all these because you yeah, you're living in toxicity for

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<v Speaker 6>ten years.

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<v Speaker 4>That could cost you a lot more than ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, just said is not as real. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear glorial estate is. But it makes sense. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't turn up the delusion because as you're approaching your thirties,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to start dealing with reality.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, you start being real twenty.

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<v Speaker 4>Before, right, That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 6>I was a toxic teenager, Ilse, I was a rebell

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<v Speaker 6>I was a rebellious teenager. I got it together at

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<v Speaker 6>like twenty so I started getting together at twenty six.

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<v Speaker 6>And now that I'm thirty one, I think I'm I

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<v Speaker 6>still got a lot of growing to do, but I'm

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<v Speaker 6>I'm great.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm way better, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>And I do think women should live a life, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you do meet somebody in your twenties then

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<v Speaker 1>want to settle down and not be toxic.

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<v Speaker 3>You can do that too, but you doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 3>be toxic, like we have to define the toxics, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>What I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care if you're sixteen, twenty one to thirty one.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want somebody breaking windows, can calls and fighting

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<v Speaker 3>fighting each other, like you don't want that.

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<v Speaker 5>What things happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Things happened, Things happened.

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<v Speaker 5>You have a broken window.

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<v Speaker 2>Just absolutely how many times.

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<v Speaker 6>My son's father we become brother and since the overnight shot,

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<v Speaker 6>there was.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot going on.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes he did, he got me locked up twice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>yeah you did. Jerome got me locked up twice.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, good for Jerome.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, take back your power because women do

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<v Speaker 1>that the men all the time. If she out here

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<v Speaker 1>breaking windows and being violent, Jerome, you did what you

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to do.

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<v Speaker 5>Ain't put no hands on you. You called the police.

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<v Speaker 6>Rome tried. Rome can handle man. So yeah, Rome called windows.

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<v Speaker 6>You broke probably like.

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<v Speaker 1>Four Jesus Christ, I'm saying, so you said you broke

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<v Speaker 1>every She said every car you had?

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<v Speaker 5>How many cars you had?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she was mine and then she was his.

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<v Speaker 5>You got so bad you broke your own damn in

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<v Speaker 5>my car.

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<v Speaker 6>He was real life Jody No, so yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 6>that real life sadamn bro.

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<v Speaker 5>What's up, Jazz?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 9>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you agree with Glorilla?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, I agree? Definitely be toxic your thirty.

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<v Speaker 10>Kind of mature?

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<v Speaker 5>You define toxic for me? Man?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, I would take enough cards when she take following

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<v Speaker 10>tasting shadow the toxic.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now?

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<v Speaker 5>How old are you, man?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm thirty three?

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<v Speaker 4>You just thirty three?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>I don't do that right now?

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<v Speaker 5>How many sdds are you allowed in your twenties?

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<v Speaker 6>Jesus tell how many STDs. Are you allowed in your twenties?

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<v Speaker 6>What about that part of it?

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<v Speaker 4>None?

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<v Speaker 9>None.

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<v Speaker 4>You want to be a criminal, but you don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be burning, right, you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to be burning.

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<v Speaker 7>That's your health.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's your health.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay, Lauren, good morning, Good.

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<v Speaker 5>Morning of the club.

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<v Speaker 10>Hi everyone, how do you feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>We're talking about Gloriala. What's your thoughts? Mama?

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<v Speaker 9>I think she's absolutely wrong. The reason is because these

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<v Speaker 9>kids already think being tally cool because of social media,

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<v Speaker 9>and they act in the fool they acting, and then

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<v Speaker 9>when they get older that they're going to regret everything

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<v Speaker 9>the situation that they did.

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<v Speaker 2>Lauren has a point.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, when it wasn't social media when we were younger,

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<v Speaker 3>So if we messed up, if we made a mistake,

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't documented. Now these kids make a mistake, it's documented.

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<v Speaker 3>It's something they got to live with for the rest

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<v Speaker 3>of their lives.

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't think our toxicity was premeditated like that.

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<v Speaker 5>It just happened, you know what.

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<v Speaker 6>I just did dumb stuff, right, you know, And and

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<v Speaker 6>that's what I think that that's what that level of

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<v Speaker 6>toxic we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>That all right?

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<v Speaker 6>If she was promoting that. All right, cool because things

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<v Speaker 6>do happen. Yeah, you you learn to grow. You're immature

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<v Speaker 6>most of the time in your twenties or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 6>they've made it cool on social media, so now people

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<v Speaker 6>do that for attention. Now people go even further and

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<v Speaker 6>they don't have no feelings. It's like no, and people

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<v Speaker 6>try so hard to hurt other people.

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<v Speaker 3>Well eight hundred five ein't five on five and we're

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<v Speaker 3>talking about Glorilla.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what she said yesterday on her social media.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey ladies, now on you.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm gonna call my twin and I just want to

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<v Speaker 8>let time know, be toxi for the rest of your twenties.

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<v Speaker 8>You only get one life. Live your toxic twenties. You

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<v Speaker 8>never get to be twenty years old, twenty none of it.

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<v Speaker 8>And look again, in your life, be toxi, because don't

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<v Speaker 8>get in your thirties thinking you could just go slangis

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<v Speaker 8>and doing all this crazy too over there now you

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<v Speaker 8>too what your be toxic for the rest of your twenties.

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<v Speaker 8>And if you delusional over much and juderies of your twinings,

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<v Speaker 8>you don't get to do one time.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you agree? Disagree?

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<v Speaker 3>Let's discuss when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning, Jessseelarus is here.

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<v Speaker 4>It's topic times.

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<v Speaker 1>The phone call eight hundred and five eight five five

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<v Speaker 1>one to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 5>Talk about it. Good morning everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>It's j N. B.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlomagne the gud We are the Breakfast Club. Now if

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<v Speaker 3>you're just joining us, we're talking about Glorilla. Of course,

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<v Speaker 3>Jesse Larus is here, she's back. Yes, And this is

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<v Speaker 3>what Gloriala said yesterday on her social media.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey ladies, hewn o you.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm gonna call my twin and I just want to

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<v Speaker 8>let time know, be tosi for the rest of your twenties.

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<v Speaker 8>You only get one life. Live your tossy twenties. You

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<v Speaker 8>never get to be twenty years old, twenty three four,

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<v Speaker 8>none of that ever again.

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<v Speaker 5>In your life.

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<v Speaker 8>Be tossy, because don't get in your thirties thinking you

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<v Speaker 8>could just go slashing times and doing all this crazy

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<v Speaker 8>to over there now on you too, what your be

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<v Speaker 8>toxic for the rest of your twenties and if you

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<v Speaker 8>delusional other notch.

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<v Speaker 4>Your twenties you don't need to do one time.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're asking eight hundred and five eight five one

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<v Speaker 2>oh five one. Do you agree now? Just you said

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<v Speaker 2>you kind of agree, get it all out your system

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<v Speaker 2>in in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 4>I did not ever say that. I never said that.

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<v Speaker 6>I said I agree to an extent. Okay, yeah, because

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<v Speaker 6>people have to mature. But I don't agree with the

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<v Speaker 6>delusion part at all. You're gonna get somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>Hurt in these streets, that's right. In your twenties. You

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<v Speaker 5>should be dealing with reality, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>You shouldn't be being delusional on purpose. By the way,

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<v Speaker 5>who's delusional on purpose? Like on purpose?

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<v Speaker 4>That's not That's why I say.

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<v Speaker 6>You say I make certain stuff you like, it's like

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<v Speaker 6>I'm delusional, girl, Like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like no, let's go to the phone. Hello, who's this nameless? Nameless?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up?

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<v Speaker 8>Man? What? What?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your what's your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 1>Bro?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you're gonna get them all this used to

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<v Speaker 3>be run.

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<v Speaker 10>Through the Fellowship, get their passports and get.

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<v Speaker 4>Away from these Western women and find wholesome females abroad.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, get out of America, America, these hoses.

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<v Speaker 7>Dude.

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta keep it the buck, man, you gotta keep

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<v Speaker 4>it a buck. You got to keep it the buck.

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<v Speaker 7>Man who's in.

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<v Speaker 2>This Zakoba? Good morning? What's your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's like I feel like toxic is a

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<v Speaker 7>strong word. You know what I'm saying, man is my

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<v Speaker 7>man is his conies? So like DJ Jessica, man like

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<v Speaker 7>what's shot? Like what's your personal being? And thoughts like

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<v Speaker 7>being in a toxic relationship or.

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<v Speaker 5>Being to run you should not be.

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<v Speaker 4>And like in toxic is not only beating up your

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<v Speaker 4>finding that breaking windows. You can be mentally toxic too.

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<v Speaker 6>You can get a narcissist manipulative, you can you know,

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<v Speaker 6>and that goes on both sides. It's not just the

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<v Speaker 6>physical part of it and being a criminal and try

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<v Speaker 6>to do stuff to get you know, likes and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Toxic people script it with yourself with steam doesn't balance

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<v Speaker 1>of powers because they want all control, like they're jealous.

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<v Speaker 6>Like and it's a lot of twenties people in their

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<v Speaker 6>twenties that don't want to be toxic either because that

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<v Speaker 6>when it starts taking over your mental it's not fun.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't think she used the right word. I

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<v Speaker 5>think she was just trying to say you.

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<v Speaker 4>Should live like your life and.

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<v Speaker 9>Toxic.

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<v Speaker 7>Toxic comes in many like you know, you could, like

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<v Speaker 7>it comes to really many different definitions of it. And

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<v Speaker 7>that's why I'm here, Like for me and my man,

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<v Speaker 7>like you know, he's in his twenties, I'm in mind.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just like when it comes to us, like you know,

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<v Speaker 7>not to with me on caculation because you know, my

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<v Speaker 7>plat bag on phone. And then when it comes to him,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, he's like, Okay, don't feel with me like that.

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<v Speaker 7>But other than that, like toxic, I wouldn't think so.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>So at the end of the day, but being your

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<v Speaker 7>twenties does not mean that you can't mature, like have

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<v Speaker 7>your fun, know what you want.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true exactly, So you're gonna be good by thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>I fail.

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<v Speaker 5>There you go. Mama, Hello, who's this?

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<v Speaker 10>My name is Gina.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Gina, good morning. What's your thoughts? Gina?

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, so my thoughts are that topic behavior could be

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<v Speaker 10>at any age, like when in a relationship or just

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<v Speaker 10>in general. She said, what say that again, Mama, toastic

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<v Speaker 10>behavior could be at any age.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true, That is correct, Yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 10>Know, because it has a lot to do like toxic behaviors,

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<v Speaker 10>not just like fighting and arguing. It contains like lack

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<v Speaker 10>of self esteem, a lot of controls, you don't engage

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<v Speaker 10>in your own self care. There's a lot of us.

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<v Speaker 10>So I feel like at any age, those are major

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<v Speaker 10>factors that people deal with. Teenagers, young kids, Yeah, older people.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. You can at any age. Yeah, any good morning,

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm feeling good.

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<v Speaker 9>I can't believe I got through finally.

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<v Speaker 10>Sorry, No, it's kind of you don't have to apologize.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk to us. What you think about what GLOORIALI sapt.

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<v Speaker 10>So to be honest, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>You got start that around.

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<v Speaker 10>Need everybody to hear that. You gotta throat I'm asthma.

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<v Speaker 9>Listen, I've asthma.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, don't die, don't die on this call now.

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<v Speaker 10>No, no, no, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 9>But my opinion is no, I agree words totally because

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<v Speaker 9>what she's.

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<v Speaker 7>Trying to say, you know, he's gonna be righted out

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<v Speaker 7>here in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 6>It's gonna need somebody's mama.

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<v Speaker 2>He's trying to be professional.

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<v Speaker 10>You know, you get that out the system.

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<v Speaker 7>So you gotta sometimes you know that around and find out.

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<v Speaker 9>Sometimes you really got to let them know.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to live a.

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<v Speaker 1>Regret but it's crazy how we live in this word

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<v Speaker 1>economy world and people don't understand that words matter. So

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<v Speaker 1>when you say words like toxic, you know, it dilutes

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<v Speaker 1>that message of you just saying live your life and

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<v Speaker 1>your tomb, right, that's all.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, yeah, we gotta be kind of specific. I just

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<v Speaker 10>feel like she should get out of her system.

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<v Speaker 9>If you want to let somebody know whe's something wrong,

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<v Speaker 9>you know, you get it out.

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<v Speaker 10>We can't fight when we order.

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<v Speaker 7>You got too much to lose.

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<v Speaker 9>I think that's what she's trying to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, thank you havingy. So what's the morrow of

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<v Speaker 2>the story?

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<v Speaker 5>Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>The moral of the story for me, man is everything

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<v Speaker 1>you do today directly impact your life tomorrow. So being

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally toxic in your twenties is just gonna make it

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<v Speaker 1>harder to heal in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't believe me.

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<v Speaker 1>Britney Spears had a song called toxic in two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and three when she was in her twenties.

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<v Speaker 5>We see how that turned out.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, all right, every day dancing

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<v Speaker 4>like that with them underwear right there?

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<v Speaker 5>She end up with applies though, you think so, I

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<v Speaker 5>do believe that shooting this shot.

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<v Speaker 4>But ain't all right? That's nice?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Cool doctor? Am I not gonna like the applies? Britney

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<v Speaker 1>Spears relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Was she just broke up with her man, damn eight

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<v Speaker 3>five eight five total five one. Now we got rooms

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<v Speaker 3>on the way, but just with the mess on the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Just what it is, just the mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>See, our son had got the teeth and his.

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<v Speaker 6>Mother hope, man, you gotta so we're gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 6>that more when we get back with Get this yea

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<v Speaker 6>some breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning, Jessica, y'all.