1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jane Kramer and I heard radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to wind down today. I'm I'm pumped. 3 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Why you're not excited, but I'm so excited. No, I'm excited. 4 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 1: But I have a confession. I have a confession. I 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: have never watched Are you ready for this? The Bachelor? 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: I have tried, but I've never watched. Why I just 7 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: call me watch sticking it to the man. I think 8 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: part of my problem is I worked in daytime TV 9 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: too long. Yeah, I really do. I mean, is it 10 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: just like the people like the like the actual like 11 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: The Bachelor or the girls, or like who bothers you? 12 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: Who bothers you more? The girls? Or the nobody bothers 13 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: me at all? Nobody bothers me because I just don't 14 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: watch it. But you know what the thing is is 15 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: I love scripted TV. Do you think The Bachelor scripted? 16 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: Scripted with with a storyline like crime or Okay, you 17 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: don't like like like Sharper objects like she's drinking vodka 18 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: all day? Like that's interesting to me. Well, although they're drinking. 19 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: They're drinking vodka all day too, they are and then 20 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: falling into a pool. But I'm just so excited because 21 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: I've I've watched most of the Bachelor, Bachelotte series or 22 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: something that I haven't watched this because I couldn't either 23 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: stand the guy or the girl. And then Mike's always like, oh, 24 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: you're watching this again. But then he'll like walk past 25 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: the room real slow, and then he'll be like and 26 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: then he's intrigued by it. I'll be like, Hey, did 27 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: did Jason forgive Brittany yet? I like to say something 28 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: like that, and she's like, what are you keep paying attention? 29 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm just asking. But we're really excited because we have 30 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: Chris Harrison on the phone so and we do love him. 31 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: He's the beast. I love him. But first I want 32 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: to tell you guys something that I'm excited to use 33 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: after I have the baby. So right now, obviously I'm 34 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: very lucky to not have a period, but when I do, 35 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about Lola because I don't know, I 36 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: just think it's really great that you get to curate 37 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: how many um. 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Visit my lola dot com 56 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: and entered Janna when you subscribe, that's my Lola dot 57 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: com and use promo code Janna to get off all 58 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 1: subscriptions my Lola dot com promo code Janna Christopher, Hello, Hi, 59 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: I love you. You know I love you. What a 60 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: great way to start a conversation. Right, you guys, we 61 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: have Chris Harrison on the phone, and I like the 62 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: the the Chris Harrison. Hey, Chris, you're in studio with me, 63 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: Jen and my husband. Hi. Hello, Hello everybody Hello, counts 64 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: that are out there. I mean, the better not be 65 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: a fake, this better be there was better to be 66 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: the real Chris, because we want to we want to 67 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: ask you like all the all the goods. Um. Jen 68 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: has never watched a Bachelor episode, like ever. I will 69 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: excuse her from the show. I do love you never 70 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: He's never watched it ever. It's been on for seventeen years. 71 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: It's seventeen years. Yes, seventeen years. You've seen a show 72 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: it's been It has been on the air as long 73 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: as I was married. Wow. Yes, well we all make mistakes, 74 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: Um yeah, No. I have my son and all ferousness 75 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: was six weeks old when I got a job. He 76 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: is now a junior in high school. So when he walked, 77 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 1: you know, of course, that's a lot of the people 78 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: have been around for you know, ten, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen 79 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: years on the show, and so when they knew my 80 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: kids babies, and then they walk on set and he's 81 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: six ft one and Big Old Junior and Night School. 82 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: It's crazy to think that's how long we've been doing this. 83 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 1: Did you think, like when you got that gig as 84 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, the host, did you think that it would 85 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: have this longevity that it has? No never you know, 86 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: you can't possibly think that in television if you're niver stupid, 87 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: because you just never know what's going to resonate and 88 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: what's going to catch Because at the time, the Survivor 89 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: had just started, so the whole reality thing really hadn't 90 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: even thought fire yet. It was also new, and this 91 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: concept was completely foreign and new, and so it was 92 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: you know, you never know what's going to catch it. 93 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: And by the way, not only will it catch and 94 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: it was huge for such a long time. But you 95 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: know why it still resonates and why it continues to 96 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: draw and an audience younger and younger, is you know, 97 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: it goes against kind of all convention of conventional wisdom 98 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 1: and television. Why is that, Chris? Why do you think 99 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: this has been able to last so long? Besides you 100 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: being the host? Of course, there's only one content, So 101 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: I would leave. I would tell my agent to sell 102 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: the network. I think it's about and take it a 103 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: little cheesy. It's about that one thing that we can 104 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: all relate to everyone under. Yeah, it is. It's companionship 105 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: love no matter where I travel in the world, where 106 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: you guys go, you know, it's the one thing that 107 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: kind of connects as ault. We all get it. And 108 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: the other thing is the show remains fresh because of 109 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,799 Speaker 1: the bat. Isn't that direct that we have? And so 110 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: you know, the back if we had kept going with Trista, 111 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: for example, who I love from sixteen seventeen years ago 112 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: and she was the only one that we've ever had, 113 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: well she's and I don't I don't mean to out her, 114 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: but she's in her forties now and she probably wouldn't 115 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: be considered as cool to the college kids, to the 116 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: high school kids. But instead it's this new crop of back. 117 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: Doesn't that tourette right? Who's your favorite bacherette of all 118 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: of them? Can you say that or not? You can't 119 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: do that to me. I can ask you anything I want. 120 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 1: I know, it's like who's your favorite child? Well, but 121 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: you know I would go back, honestly just to you know, 122 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: like a Trista, just because life changed so much, and 123 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: it wouldn't just be because of Trista. But because of 124 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: how my life changed and the show was changing, and 125 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: and and so much happened during all that time that 126 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: you know, it's not that I'm not grateful now, but 127 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: it was just a crazy experience to be a part 128 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: of back that Chris, what is that conversation like when 129 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: your son comes to you one day and says, ad, 130 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: I want to be the next Bachelor. I think for him, 131 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:08,599 Speaker 1: I'll never have to worry about it. I could possibly 132 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: see my daughter, Taylor, who was fourteen, who was born 133 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: two years into speaking of like things where I remember, um, Meredith, 134 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: season of the Back Trette was wrapping up and we 135 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: were just about to go out to the desert and 136 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: go to Trista's wedding, and that's when Taylor was born. Um, 137 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: so it's amazing that you know, my kids have grown 138 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: up in this. So I could see my I could 139 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: see my daughter doing it, and honestly, if she wanted 140 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: to good honor, just remember Dad's always watching. I mean 141 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: that's got to be hard for you though, as like 142 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: a dad, to like see some of these girls and 143 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: then you think about your daughter. Yeah, it's just I mean, 144 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: that's gotta be that's gotta be tough for you. I mean, 145 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: do they really kind of look at you as someone 146 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: that they can like a confidante on the show. Yeah, 147 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,559 Speaker 1: well then that's the kind of what I've grown into. 148 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: It's you know, my role has definitely changed over the years. Sure, Um, 149 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: you know I started out really is just the whole 150 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: and reading whatever lines they kind of put in front 151 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: of me, and we're all making it up as we went. Now, 152 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: obviously I've been around for seventeen years. I helped produce 153 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: the show. I know it, you know, as good. It's 154 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: not better than anybody else working on the show now, 155 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: and so it definitely has changed. And you've earned that 156 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: respect with experience and time. So it's definitely evolved over 157 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: the years. But you know, the funny aspect with my 158 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: daughter is the conversation that it has kind of opened up. 159 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: You know, she's at that age, she's fourteen, where dad 160 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: wants to have conversations with his daughter, but it's hard 161 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: because it's awkward and weird. But the Bachelor's kind of 162 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: opened some of those doors to having some pretty difficult conversations. 163 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: I will use the show We'll be watching and I'll say, Okay, 164 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 1: what do you, what do you think of what she 165 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: just did there? What do you think of that guy 166 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 1: and how he's acting? And it's fun to kind of 167 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: allow her to talk about it, and she didn't really 168 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: realize conversation. Yeah, we're a good way to use that 169 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: tool to open up the door. Chris, with your role 170 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: kind of being more of a mentor now in these 171 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: later see s. I mean, do you really find yourself 172 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: pulling contestants aside and being like, hey man, stop being 173 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: a douchebag. Or do do you encourage I mean, not 174 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: encourage it, but you just let it happen because it 175 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: adds to the show. I usually use stronger language than that. 176 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure you do. I'm sure you do. You know, 177 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: it's a little bit of both. There is that fine line, 178 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: if I get it, where we're creating television. But at 179 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: the same time, these argument beings and I do care 180 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: about most of them, not all of them, but most 181 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: of them, and you you do want to help them, 182 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: especially when they are back or back Torett. I feel 183 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: that they are kind of under my care. It's almost 184 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 1: like a coach, you know, taking a kid to college. 185 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: You feel responsible for those kids. Um, you know when 186 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: that is the back toorette. You try and help her 187 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 1: avoid some of the pitfalls. Um, you know, I have to, 188 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: you know, have hands off a little bit because we 189 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: are creating a show and you want her to really 190 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: experience some of these situations. You can't prepare for everything. 191 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: But um, yeah, there is a certain sense of you know, 192 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:57,439 Speaker 1: whether I would like to say it's an older friend 193 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: more than just a dad because that makes me feel 194 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: really old. But I just I love that. But I 195 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: gotta say I do not agree with the Bachelor choice 196 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: that they've just made with Colton. I just don't. I don't. Well, first, 197 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: You're not the only one I've seen that I've I've looked, 198 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: you know, I've looked into it a little bit about 199 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: the kind of backlash for me though, I'm like, don't 200 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: you want to test drive before you buy the car? 201 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: Like you're you're talking about a whole different issue. First 202 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: of all, I don't know which is great. I'm not 203 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: trying to say like virgins aren't like whatever, but for 204 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 1: me personally, like I'd be like, no, I don't want 205 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: to go on the show because I have to. I 206 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: think sex is such a big I mean, if what 207 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: if he sucks at in bed and then you have 208 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: to be married. I mean right, and you you, I 209 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: mean he's gonna lose gusto in the second and it's like, 210 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like what if he doesn't know? 211 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: And it's like then now you're now you're going to 212 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: be married to that. But as a woman, you could 213 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: be opportunistic. But I can mold him, but sometimes you can't. 214 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 1: You can't. I've tried to mold like bad kissers. If 215 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: you are a bad kisser, you are bad. If you 216 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: are bad at sex, you aren't bad. You're also you're 217 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: you're opening a lot of different topics because I agree 218 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: if you and it's not necessarily batist, but it's someone 219 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,599 Speaker 1: who doesn't blend with you if you don't have that 220 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: chemistry when you're kidding. I'm a I'm a firm believer 221 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: that just just cut the cord. You're done, done done, 222 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 1: You're done done. You're not that there's something dramatically off 223 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: now true, But what are they going to do in 224 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: the in the overnights? Are they just gonna hold hands? 225 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 1: I like, what if we watch him lose his virginia? 226 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: Lose it? Like I don't mean to be a creeper. 227 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: But I'll watch that and just want to watch I'll 228 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 1: watch that. Well, then maybe maybe you just reaffirmed our choice. 229 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: I just feel like I will say this, like I'm 230 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: not trying to talk bad about him. I met him. 231 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: He came in the studio because he was he was 232 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: doing another podcast with Ben, and he just seems like 233 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: a baby to me. He's even like his face like 234 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: he's just a he seems very sweet. I think he 235 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: I know he does a lot of good things in 236 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: the community, but she just doesn't seem like a man 237 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: to me. Well, I didn't you just I just I 238 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: watched him on the BECA. He's not like he's not 239 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: a man like Garrett was a man like Garrett like, 240 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 1: and Colton was like just like he hasn't he doesn't 241 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: have the life experience, Like who wants to be with 242 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 1: someone that wants to like not have those life experiences 243 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: and like have been in relationships and done those things. 244 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just me, But good luck to 245 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: the women I'm with you. Look, I'm of a certain age. 246 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to date a virgin. Yeah, if you 247 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,599 Speaker 1: dated a virgin, we'd have major problems with you'd be 248 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: dating the four year old virgin. There's a large misnomer 249 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: out there. Uh, and feel free to back me up 250 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: in there that you know guys like, well, that would 251 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: be a dream to date a virgin. Like, no, it's not. 252 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: There's there's a home list of complications that comes along 253 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: with that. But I think Michael, you could speak to 254 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: this part where it's like, you know, he did say 255 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: on the show too, where he felt like he had 256 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: to like be like, yeah, I'm bang in all these 257 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: chicks because that's like what locker room talk, and that's 258 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: like that's not who he was. But he felt like 259 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: in that lifestyle of football, like he felt like he 260 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: had to like have that he might meet some he 261 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: might meet a woman, hopefully he will on the show 262 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: that is also a virgin. I know I know one 263 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: virgin and I love you because I know she listens. 264 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm not going to say her name, but she's in 265 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: her early twenties, she's waiting until marriage. She's that's okay, 266 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: that's great, But what is what is the reasoning? Yeah, 267 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: you know, is it religion? Is it an issue from 268 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 1: your childhood? Their trauma? There? Is it just to believe 269 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: like there's a lot of different reasons, and that's really 270 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: that's probably what I would want to get to no 271 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: matter who I was dating. Why are you doing it? 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I am thank you this ship 299 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: the show that well, yeah, like it was your wife 300 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: like jealous of all these women that because I mean, 301 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: here's the deal, if you know it is basically, if 302 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: it's a bachelor, you've got all these women that are 303 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: probably trying to flirt with you too. Oh my god, 304 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: I thought radio silence. Wow, no answer your question. You know, 305 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: we were married. I met my wife back in college. 306 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: We were old childhood sweethearts, and you know, we met 307 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: we were eighteen years old and got married very young. 308 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: So she grew up around the show, and she traveled, 309 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: you know, expectly. Again we had young kids, and so yeah, 310 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: they would often come with me when we were in 311 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: Italy or France or whatever, and she was there a lot. 312 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: And you know, when you were around this business, you know, 313 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: like cuntry music or anything else, you realize it's not 314 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: nearly as glamorous as everyone makes it seem. Obviously, Yeah, 315 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: but they'd be crazy not to start with me. I 316 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: think that's what you were getting at. So do you 317 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: kind of now that you're like single? Do you when 318 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: you know this next season it's like, are you kind 319 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: of like taking your picks too? For yourself? I always 320 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: I tell the Batlors, I'm like, Okay, she's off limits. 321 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: She's off limits, but everybody else, you know, I just 322 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: I still limital stuff. Was like, man, she really just 323 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: seems like a bit You're not you would saying some 324 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: stuff behind your back? You bet there? That's amazing, Chris. 325 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 1: Do you you know you've been doing this for so 326 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: long and you've watched all of these people fall in 327 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 1: love or not fall in love. Are you do you 328 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 1: go into a season intuitively, like with the gut feeling 329 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, so and So's they're going to be 330 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: at like that? Not you know, not anymore, just because 331 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: I realized how bad I am at that and and my, my, 332 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 1: my women's intuition is must be really bad because you know, 333 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: you think night one would you would have a pretty 334 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 1: good idea, um, and I will stay for the Bachelorette. 335 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: It's a little bit sometimes. I was going to say 336 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: it's I think it's easier too for the bat because 337 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: I knew day one, I was like Garrett so one, like, 338 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 1: even before I read the reality Steve and all those 339 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: like spoilers, I was like, I know, and even if 340 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: Garrett isn't like the one, I knew he was going 341 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: to be Top four. Yeah. Same thing with Blake, And 342 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: there's just certain guys that really peak early. With the Bator, 343 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: it's a little bit different, a little bit harder to 344 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: break down. And again there's always that one or two 345 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 1: that will kind of you know they're gonna be around. 346 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: But I think the potential for a dark horse is 347 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: a lot higher for in the Bachelor. Michael was going 348 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: to be on the Bachelor, But the Bachelorette, I think 349 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: it's Emily season. Yeah, yeah, I was. I was still 350 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: in the NFL and playing for Buffalo, and you would 351 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: have been what his face this past season, where you like, 352 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: what was his name in the first Yeah. No, no, 353 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: the other football player who actually got hurt playing fall. Yeah, 354 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: I know. I direct message Becca after that, I go, 355 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: were you really that sad that he left? I felt. 356 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: I just felt so bad for him. We're having this 357 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: twof around football game, and you know the guy I 358 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: think it's you know, he's one of those guys and Michael, 359 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's so hard to give it up 360 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: and lea even even when you kind of deep down 361 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: you know it's done, and trying to hold on for 362 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: one or two more seasons, and then he gets hurt 363 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: where I'm just like, oh God, Like on the Bachelor, 364 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 1: that's what ended it. Yeah, how did how did you 365 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: get hurt on the Bachelorette? Yeah? But you did. You 366 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 1: did your interviews and stuff, didn't you. Yeah? I did. 367 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: I don't remember one of the casting producer, whoever it 368 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: was that I met with, I can't remember her name 369 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: right now. But yeah. We had a game actually, we're 370 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: playing the Chargers and came out here because it's West Coast, 371 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 1: came we came in day early, and they came to 372 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: the hotel we were staying at San Diego and took 373 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 1: like still shots they're like an on camera interview, and 374 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: I was good to go. During the off season, even 375 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: the words spread quick throughout the team and organization where 376 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: even had my coaches coming up to me like being 377 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 1: all excited about it. And uh, I ultimately tore my 378 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 1: a c l at the end of that season, so 379 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: I kind of decided not to And my offensive coordinator 380 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 1: at the time came up to me, He's like, hey, man, 381 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 1: I'm really sorry you got hurt. I hope you're doing okay, 382 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: but uh, I just want to know are you still 383 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: going to do the Bachelorette. But that literally came out 384 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: of my offensive coordinator's mouth, and I was like, I 385 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 1: don't know, probably not. They all wanted to buy Curious 386 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: loop through you knowing what you know now thinking back, 387 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,439 Speaker 1: do you regret any decisions are not being on the 388 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: bat to arette. I don't think Emily would have been 389 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: your girl anyway. No, I don't like bonds anyway. But 390 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 1: you would have been competitive and like wanted to be 391 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 1: the winner. I think. I think that's what a lot 392 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: of the contestants just would have been, like, Oh, he's 393 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: gonna be a top four. I'm very confident in that. Wow. No, 394 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:22,399 Speaker 1: but I mean even if I think if I was, 395 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: because I've thought about it, Like when I was single, 396 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: I thought about maybe like you know, either trying like 397 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, or just trying to be like one 398 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: of the girls on the show. But I think I'm 399 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: so competitive where I would even if I didn't like 400 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: the guy. I mean, like there's been so many Bachelor's 401 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: that I've just not liked at all, but I think 402 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: I would have pretended to like them more just so 403 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: I could like be the winner. Is that you see 404 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: that happening? Basically? Yeah, everybody I send to see it 405 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,679 Speaker 1: a little more honestly with the women than I give 406 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: them that. Yeah, I think men are a little bit 407 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: more cut and dry when we like someone or well, um, 408 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: and that typically doesn't change, you know. It's whereas women 409 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: you can see a certain different side of a man 410 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, he can be sweet or romantic 411 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: or whatever it is. Maybe it's competitive and and that 412 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: those feelings can change. Typically for a guy, if you're 413 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: not into a woman, usually that does not change, no 414 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: matter what. I sometimes use the prison or deserted island analogy, 415 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: like you're on a deserted island, only one dude. Suddenly 416 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: that guy. Yeah, especially if he's taking you to like 417 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: funny and cool and he's taking you to eat the 418 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: coconut and you're like yeah, Like that's what in an 419 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 1: athletic world, that's what we called camp eyes. When you're 420 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: in training camp for like six weeks, all you have 421 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 1: is a bunch of testofer and the dudes around you. 422 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: Then the first you're like, lunch lady. You see You're like, 423 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: we call it. Do you guys know office goggles? You 424 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: know beer goggles? So office goggles is why everybody thinks 425 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 1: like the guy by the copier is cute because you're 426 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: in the office a bunch of trolls or the delivery 427 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: man that comes. I heard listening to this right now. 428 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: Do you enjoy Bachelor in Paradise like because you get 429 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: to have like a vacation. Uh? Well, it is. It's 430 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: nice being in Mexico, But it's actually a hardner show 431 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: to shoot. It's a lot it's a lot more condensed. 432 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 1: They don't give us nearly as much money at Summer TV, 433 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: so our budget is aller than we We do a 434 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: lot more work and it's a lot more intensive than 435 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 1: the backturm bat Torette where we have so many more 436 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 1: producers and people and camera operators and crews working. So 437 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: it's it's a tough shoot. But at the same time, yes, 438 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: we're down on a beach in Mexico and it doesn't 439 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: suck right then it's fun for me. It's back to paradise. 440 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,719 Speaker 1: Is you've signed up for, you've come back. You know 441 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: what you're in for, and so we get to have 442 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 1: a lot more fun with us than than than than 443 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 1: the first time around. With the back to bat to Arette. 444 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,479 Speaker 1: I mean, it was pretty coincidental that Colton broke up 445 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: with Tea and then all of a sudden, I don't know, 446 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 1: the editing was interesting for me. Well, we had to 447 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: we obviously they needed to break up before we get announced. 448 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: We were trying to hold it as long as possible, 449 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: but you know it's going to get out, and I 450 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 1: mean it did get out, but um, it's you know, 451 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: at some point we had to announce because we're we 452 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: need to go to his hometown and start shooting the 453 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: packages and let the other guys know. So it's you know, 454 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: a luck goes into it that we kind of had 455 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: to we had to kind of move it forward. So 456 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 1: with all these with the Bachelor, with bachelorm Paradise, you 457 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,959 Speaker 1: know you're doing who wants to be a millionaire? You've 458 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: got your your brewery up in Texas? Like, how are 459 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: you finding time for all of this that you're doing? Um, 460 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: I don't I really, it's that's the longest short that 461 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 1: I wish time for, you know, really in the time 462 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: I want, I don't want for more business. I want 463 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: for you know, hang out with the kids and watching 464 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: the cross and going to sccer games and all the 465 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: fun stuff that you know, this window of opportunity. And 466 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: you guys have a young one, but you know my kids, 467 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 1: you know, my son and two years off to college 468 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: and then you know a few more years. I got 469 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 1: my daughter going off and then I'll have more time 470 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: than I want. But right now I try to be 471 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: as home as much as possible and and just hang 472 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: out with a kid. So like this week, I have 473 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,640 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks before we go back into bathroom production, 474 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: and that's what I'm doing, just making turkey sandwiches in 475 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: the morning, getting kids dinner at night, and front around. 476 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 1: Do you want to be married again? Like is that 477 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: something that you would want that again? No, it's not 478 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: a goal of mine anymore. Um. You know, there's a 479 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: time in your life when that's really importantly. I wanted 480 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: to have kids, that wanted to have a family, and 481 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: I had that, and I had a wonderful marriage as 482 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: well for a long time, and got two great kids 483 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: out of it. And my X and I are still 484 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: very close. We lived very close. Um. But you know, 485 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: the goal is getting married isn't necessarily there. I would 486 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: love to be in love. I would love to meet 487 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 1: somebody special and spend time with them and being that 488 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: committed relationship. If that turns to marriage someday, great, If 489 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 1: it doesn't, I really don't care. It's not it's not 490 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: a big deal to me anymore. Like it like it 491 00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 1: was because you know you need it for that stage 492 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 1: your life. I call it goldie hont Yeah. Yeah. And 493 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: and and they they may be onto something. It's not 494 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 1: such a bad thing. You can you know you're always 495 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: dating and constantly, you know, putting forth that effort, and 496 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: you know you're committed, but you also know that person 497 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: could walk away at any moments. You better kind of 498 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 1: feel like you're in the phase of like just like 499 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: you just want to have fun right now. Um yeah, 500 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: but I mean I think that has the I can 501 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: just sleep around and and all that, and that's that's 502 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 1: not necessarily a case like meeting someone would be wonderful. 503 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 1: And I'm always open to meeting somebody fantastic and have tried. 504 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 1: I've been in relation since my divorce. They've just been quiet. 505 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm not a big, live out loud on Instagram kind 506 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: of goal. But um, you know, if that comes across grain, 507 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: I's not you know, that's the problem is that you 508 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: guys just astutely pointed out. I work a lot, I 509 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,680 Speaker 1: travel a ton when I'm home a lot with my kids, 510 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: So I don't have a lot of that to give 511 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: right now. I don't have a lot of heart and 512 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 1: soul to just devote to somebody else. At this point, 513 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: it's just not the time of my life. But if 514 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: it comes around, you know, I always feel like I 515 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: think something around. You make time for things that mean 516 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: a lot to you. What if you went on the Bachelor, 517 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 1: that would be the most watch season of all time? 518 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: Would you ever consider that? Um? Look, as my mom says, 519 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 1: never say never. There's always that would be so great. 520 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: That's how you end the whole series. It's like the 521 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: last series. There's always the price tag for everything, right 522 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 1: the man, I would be very clear that you know 523 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: when when athletes go up and they signed their hundred 524 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 1: million dollar contracts, that it's not the money. I love 525 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 1: the game. I would just I would hold a press 526 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: conference and I would take my five or thirty million 527 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 1: dollars and I said, guys, I am doing this for 528 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: the money. I'm letting you know. This is my Hawaiian 529 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: vacations on I will never see any of you again 530 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: in about six months. Um. If one of you happens 531 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: to win my heart, cool, but that's not why I'm here. 532 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,959 Speaker 1: That would be my toast on night one. You all 533 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: seem lovely. I appreciate your time. If this works out, 534 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: great is not. I have thirty million dollars in my 535 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 1: life and I'll take you all the Hawaii. Um so, 536 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: what what made you want to get into a restaurant, 537 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: because that's that business is is crazy. Yeah, it's a 538 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 1: really dumb decision. You don't like if anyone will tell you. 539 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: As my financial guy said, when I told him, he goes, 540 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: what do you expect to get out of this? I said, well, 541 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: not money. He's like Okay, good, as long as you 542 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: don't expect to actually, uh, it was this weird in 543 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: all seriousness. Is this amazing kind of timing. And I'm 544 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: a pretty term believer in karma and timing. And I 545 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: was home about three years ago, almost to them to 546 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: the week my grandmother had passed away, amazing woman from Dallas. 547 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm third generation Dallas and years old. And we were 548 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 1: kind of reminiscing one night with a really good family 549 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,959 Speaker 1: friend of mine how I had grown up with, and 550 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: he was he's an amazing chef, an executive chef, and 551 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 1: he was talking to me about how we get his 552 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 1: own place and starting up a restaurant and you know, 553 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 1: this is what they're doing. And um, we talked and 554 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: talked and he's like, you know, the more I seem interested, 555 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 1: he's like, you know, we're actually looking for one more person. 556 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: He's like, you'd be kind of fun to do this with. 557 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: And you know, a long story short, I jumped in it. 558 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 1: Did you know what? It just makes sense, like you know, 559 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:22,199 Speaker 1: my Mi Mimi wouldn't have steered me wrong. Um, you know, 560 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm it's in which part of Texas is it? It's 561 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,160 Speaker 1: down down by downtown and it's a great little area 562 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: called Trinity Grow. Do you ever make any appearances like 563 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: when WHENNY Bachelor people make appearances or yeah, I was 564 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: there for opening night and the opening night was insane. 565 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: It was a packed house. We have it's a working brewery, 566 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: so we have our own bruise. We have this award 567 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: winning brewmaster. We have this executive chef, Michael Weinstein, who's 568 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: been down in Dallas for years. The men look fantastic, 569 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: by the way. You know what they do that I love. 570 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: And this is what Michael said, Texas, you know jealousy, 571 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: didn't think too hard, but it's phenomenal. He does the 572 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: simple really really well. And and it's a seasonal men. 573 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 1: You farmed the table, so it's a little bit different 574 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 1: than your typical you know brou pubs or Castroom pubs 575 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: and um and you know all the Bator people. The 576 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: Elvedalas folks came out. Rachel was there and jo Jo 577 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 1: and Um, Raven and Adam and Sean and Catherine and 578 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: their fifteen kids. Fun. It was fun to see everybody. 579 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: That's really sweet. Hey, when you're doing um, who wants 580 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: to be a millionaire? Do you ever just sometimes look 581 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: at the contestant and be like, man, you're an idiot 582 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: for like not knowing a question. You know, I think 583 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: probably three or four years ago I did, but now 584 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: I realized. And this is one one of my favorite 585 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: lines and I spell it from my executive producer James Raley. 586 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 1: If the trivia is only hard if you don't know 587 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 1: the answer, And it's so true. If I ask you, 588 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: you know, a country music question or Michael, a football question, 589 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: you're like, really, you're asking me how many points a 590 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: touchdown is? But if if you don't watch football, then 591 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 1: that is ridiculous. Then if I turn around and ask 592 00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 1: you a question about Shakespeare or geography and the Middle East, 593 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 1: and your stopped. So it's it's really fascinating to me. 594 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: And that's what's great about the game. Over fourteen questions, 595 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: you're going to run into an area that you are 596 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 1: just not familiar with, and if you want to gamble, 597 00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 1: if you can get by it, that's the big challenge. 598 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: But eventually you're gonna you're gonna get that question, whether 599 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: it's math, geography, pop culture, sports, that is really in 600 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: your blind spot. Do you feel smarter? I feel like 601 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 1: you have all the answers. It's like Alex tra back 602 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: in Jeopardy. It's I have definitely learned a ridiculous amount 603 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 1: of odd, odd trivia questions. For sure. I'm a great 604 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: person to have at a party now, Um, I can 605 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 1: just start throwing out bizarre trivial notes. Um. But it's fun. 606 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: I mean, but there aren't times, especially early on, and 607 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: I feel bad because look, the first two or three questions, 608 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: you expect them to get by, and it's kind of 609 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 1: set up to where they will get by, and you 610 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: just get into the game. And when they get stomped 611 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: on on the first or second question and there is 612 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: a there's a massive clue, you know. You know, the 613 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: sky is what color? And it rhymes with blue, you know, 614 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: and the questions are one, four, six and blue, and 615 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: you're just like, why are you having trouble with this? 616 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: And and but you look the lights, the cameras. People 617 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 1: are nervous, they get in their own head. But it's 618 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: those are the times when I just I cringe. But 619 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: it's also good TV. You know, you had you were 620 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: very um that one bachelor you did not like, and 621 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: you were very vocal about that, and I loved that. 622 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: So I can't even remember his name Wan Pablo Wan Pablo. 623 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,720 Speaker 1: I just I'll never forget watch because I didn't watch 624 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: the season because I thought he was an arrogant prick. 625 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: But I just remember watching like the Final Rows with 626 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: you and you like it was so great because you 627 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: didn't like hide your disgust for with him, and I 628 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: just I just want you to know that I appreciated 629 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: that well. And it wasn't that a I just lost 630 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 1: a lot of respects to the way he was treating 631 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 1: the women, in the way he was talking to the women, 632 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 1: and you know, he was a little bit of a misogynist, sexist, 633 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 1: and he you know, I tried to help him again, 634 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 1: you know, giving him the benefit of the doubt. I 635 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: tried to help him, and you know, like, look, you 636 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: can't you know, maybe there's a language barriers from Venezuela. 637 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: These words aren't coming out like you think they are, 638 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: and so I was trying to help him, and he 639 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: when he started talking third person, That's when I knew 640 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: we were in trouble. You know, anybody who starts referring 641 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: to themselves by their full name, we were in trouble. 642 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: You were in the most amount of trouble. Well, unless 643 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: unless you're baseball legend Rickey Henderson, who famously was great 644 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: at that. For Gretzky, who he can talk the third 645 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 1: person if he wants to, like, I have a great one. 646 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: I know Wayne very well, and he would never do that. 647 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: That's the thing, even even the great one would never 648 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: say the great one on Ever, when one Paplo looked 649 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: at me, is this one Pablo? And they oh boy, 650 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: here we go. Yeah, I said, first of all, you've 651 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: got to stop preferring yourself and the third person. What what? What? What? 652 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: What does this mean? I said, Okay, well, now we 653 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: need to back up. Do you need a little need 654 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: a little English? Now you just need to learn? Um. Well, 655 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 1: I love you so much. Thank you for being so 656 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 1: candid with us and open and honest. And I'm excited 657 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: to watch um everything you do because you're killing it. 658 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: And I will say to the people that are listening, 659 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 1: when I met you, you were just so kind and 660 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: present and sweet, and I just really appreciate that. Well 661 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: touch of music fans, we stick together. We're usually good people. 662 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: Heck yeah, perfectly, but no, I appreciate it. I love 663 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: getting to know you and Michael. Hopefully something are pass 664 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: a cross, but I appreciate the time. I really always 665 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: appreciate the support from you guys. Well we love you, 666 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: and um we're rough back to your dog. He's so nice, 667 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: he's so nice. I mean, I just couldn't imagine like 668 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 1: being around those people, like as people, like all the people, 669 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: they're freaking crazy, the bachelors and Bachelor at Yeah, Oh, 670 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: there's just no way. It's it's the sorority house that 671 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in. Yes, but everybody's going 672 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: for the one guy. And but that's the thing, Like 673 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: that's and that's another reason why again I couldn't do 674 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 1: a sorority or the Bachelor, because I would just be 675 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,399 Speaker 1: the second I got on there, I'd be like, Okay, 676 00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 1: that girl is prettier than me. This girl, like that 677 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 1: girl's funnier than me. And then I would just do 678 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 1: you know they're all doing that, so I don't know. 679 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: Some of them are so overly confident that they're like 680 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: I am the prettiest one in the room. Well, some 681 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: of them. Number one is probably not number two. They 682 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: are narcissistic in a sense and have tendencies and that's 683 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: just the way their ego is. But I guarantee you 684 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: of even the guys are and they're like, this guy's 685 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: a dude, Alan, that guy might be some competition because 686 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: we're competitive people and the girls are the same thing. 687 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 1: So they put on that front, but you know, deep 688 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,239 Speaker 1: down inside, all those little feelings are coming out, Like 689 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,359 Speaker 1: I would have loved him in the Bachelor up maybe 690 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: I think maybe I still could. Well, if you want 691 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: to come he's like staring at me right now, do 692 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,080 Speaker 1: you want to come on and being a contestant trying 693 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: to win my heart back? Yeah, everyone will go to 694 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: sleep and wake up next morning. I'm the only one 695 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: stole a lot where people murdered in the best house, 696 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: the best ratings ever. Okay, I got to talk about 697 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: Third Love because, um, I'm we're actually wearing the bar 698 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 1: right now. It's really comfortable. Um, they just they just Michael. 699 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: They just added twenty four new sizes, making them the 700 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: industry leader with a total of seventy sizes. And what 701 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 1: I love about it too, is because my breast shape 702 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,439 Speaker 1: is changing. Um, they do half sizes. That's so cool. Yeah, 703 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: because sometimes you know, like right now, I'm I'm not 704 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: a full double D, but I'm more than a D 705 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 1: with my and by the way I've never been. I know. Okay, 706 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: the second is Baby's out. It's going to be a 707 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: smalley again. Okay, they're going to deflate like balloons. Some 708 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: girlfriends this weekend who I did not even like tee 709 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 1: it up, who were literally ordering braws on Third Love 710 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: and they were so pumped about the half size. The 711 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: half size thing for people that are changing, it's like 712 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 1: a game changer. Yes, no, I love it and it 713 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: shows up at your door. And for me to like, 714 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what is like whenever I go into 715 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: like a Victoria's Secret, I don't like having to have 716 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: this lady measure me. But they actually for Third Love 717 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: there's a fit finder quiz so you get to find 718 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,839 Speaker 1: your perfect fit with an under a minute um and 719 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,239 Speaker 1: I think that's amazing. So cups from A through H 720 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 1: bands up to forty eight and of women fall in 721 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: between standard cup sizes. So again that's why they invented 722 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 1: the half cup. Third Love knows there's a perfect bra 723 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: for everyone. So right now they're offering my listeners fifteen 724 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: percent off your first order. Go to third love dot 725 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 1: com slash Janna now to find your perfect fitting bra 726 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 1: and get fifteen percent off your first purchase. That's third 727 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,319 Speaker 1: love dot com slash Jana for fifteen percent off. Is 728 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 1: it weird to be a double D? Now? It is? 729 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I know they're gonna be 730 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: o A. That's why I show them off when I 731 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: have it one like, that's why I wear like low 732 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 1: cutting things. And I'm like, I've got boobs right now 733 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 1: and the about eleven weeks I want to do when 734 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: they were as that are like you're noticing or bumping 735 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 1: into them or something. I mean, I know you've got 736 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: your bellies. No, I mean I I do get and 737 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,879 Speaker 1: I will, like I said, I mean, you know, and 738 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 1: Jen can't give me crap for this because she know 739 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,600 Speaker 1: she had her stuff. But I'm gonna I'm gonna get 740 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 1: a I'm gonna get a healthy BC. Just don't do 741 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: agenda and get it done and then come and be like, hey, 742 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: what do you guys think about me getting terrible? Okay, 743 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: I guess I listen. I fully support you because at 744 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: some point I'm going to get a reduction. So in 745 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: your boobs, give me because I'm a double D. And 746 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 1: it's the most annoying thing on the planet when you 747 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: want to wear a jumpsuit or something. So listen, the 748 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 1: trade off isn't always you know, everybody wants what we don't. 749 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: I just personally don't like wearing bras, so but that's 750 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 1: what Also, I will say third Love, they have really 751 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,279 Speaker 1: cool bandos that I wear. So yeah, they've got like 752 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: bando brawlets, which is which are nice because they don't 753 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,919 Speaker 1: have like the pads and wiring and stuff. So that's awesome. Yeah. Yeah, 754 00:37:54,480 --> 00:38:00,720 Speaker 1: what about you, Mike to wear bras Yeah? Oh um, 755 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: we have been binging a show and I binged it 756 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: when we were in Virginia and I'm absolute obsessed and 757 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 1: I need you to start watching an asap. What is Ozark? Oh? 758 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: Are you watching season one or season two? Well? I 759 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: I binge season one and I gave Janet homework. I 760 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,399 Speaker 1: told her at the beginning of August. I was like, look, 761 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,919 Speaker 1: season two of both Stark comes out August thirty one. 762 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm giving you a month advanced noticed to watch season one. 763 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,760 Speaker 1: She waited till the last five days of the month, 764 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: but cranked about but finished season one within before Friday. 765 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: Obsessed and then so now we're on episode we have 766 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,920 Speaker 1: two lefts. Okay, this is this is what I'm debating 767 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 1: about Netflix. I don't personally like the fact that you 768 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,160 Speaker 1: can watch them all at one time because then it's done. 769 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: Now you have to wait a year. Yeah, that's what 770 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 1: I used to do, great debate a month life right 771 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: now gratification. But I want to be able to not 772 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: have to. I don't want a bit because then it's 773 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: like because you binged it all in the beginning, and 774 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: then you kind of forgot like what had happened a 775 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: year ago, which I think is why the advantage to binging, 776 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: because I think if you drag that out, you'd be 777 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: a little confused because you're like, what happens six weeks ago? 778 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:10,399 Speaker 1: But how how hot is Jason Bateman? I just so 779 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 1: you're like, are you so hot for Jason Bateman? No. 780 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,000 Speaker 1: I saw Jason Bateman at the park and it's so 781 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,919 Speaker 1: funny because I don't get starstruck at all. But I'm 782 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: the biggest Jason Bateman fan. I think he's funny. I 783 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,799 Speaker 1: think he can do everything. He's cute, like he's he's 784 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 1: just awesome. I think he seems like an amazing person. Well, 785 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: so he was. We live obviously in the same area, 786 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 1: and I mean, and so he was walking. So I 787 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 1: was playing with Jolie. She was on the slide, and 788 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: he was walking down the which I'm called was that 789 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: thing called sidewalk sidewalk, no sidewalk sidewalk, And he was 790 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,919 Speaker 1: just like walking by himself, like smiling, and I looked 791 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,880 Speaker 1: over and he like smiled, and I was like, and 792 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,320 Speaker 1: I immediately turned my head. And then I took a 793 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: picture and sent it to Michael and are right. I 794 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 1: didn't know what she was sending me a picture of 795 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: because there's just some person a hundred feet way. I 796 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: was like, are you showing me a tree? A bench? Like, like, no, 797 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 1: that's Jason. I have nothing. I barely even see a 798 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: person in this photot. But I was so excited and 799 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 1: I'll never forget too because he does the Ellen Kershaw 800 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 1: things and I saw him at the ping Pong thing 801 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: last year with Clayton Kershaw at the ping pong event, 802 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,080 Speaker 1: and I mean I just stared. I just stared at 803 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,240 Speaker 1: I'm like a freaking creep. So I have a treat 804 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 1: for you. What So I'm not wanting to like promote 805 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: another podcast, and I'm going to Dak Shepherd has a 806 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: podcast and he spent almost two hours with Jason Bateman 807 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: and you know how you are not afraid to talk 808 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: about poop. Yes, they do. Like a twenty maybe twenty 809 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:45,720 Speaker 1: five minute conversation about God. I was like laughing out 810 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 1: loud tears the whole thing. To guys. I love that. 811 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,239 Speaker 1: I actually put I put him on the list of 812 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 1: people I want to interview. I don't know if he 813 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,319 Speaker 1: would ever come on our little show, but he were 814 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,959 Speaker 1: from the same we're from Michigan. He's from Michigan too. 815 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,840 Speaker 1: We're all Metro Detro readers. Yeah, and he's he just 816 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: celebrated his fourteen The thing I will tell you, maybe 817 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: we could get a little closer to Jason Bateman. Justine 818 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: Bateman has a new book coming out. I will promote it. 819 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 1: I just I just love Jason and I just I 820 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 1: just I think he's fantastic. You need to watch Ozark. 821 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: Not even this is not even an ad for my podcast, 822 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,359 Speaker 1: but it's such a great show. You're welcome, honey, Well 823 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 1: I am going to. I wish I would have known 824 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: over that big holiday weekend because I was all by myself. 825 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: I could have been like, I could have watched the 826 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: entire sept It's just so good. I just I can't 827 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,280 Speaker 1: even like, I'll watch one tonight. It's one's I'll watch 828 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,759 Speaker 1: one on my Wednesday night. Okay, is it too early 829 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 1: to talk about Halloween? No? Absolutely not. Halloween decorations in 830 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 1: the trunk of my car right now. One of my 831 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: least favorite holidays. I almost can say I wanted so 832 00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 1: much like my mother. My mom hates Halloween so much 833 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: to the because she always said that I would change 834 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 1: my costume. But I'm like, Mom, like it's whatever. I 835 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,399 Speaker 1: was a kid, but she hates Halloween. So I then 836 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,400 Speaker 1: always really didn't like Halloween because she hated Halloween. So 837 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: I really couldn't have fun with it. But Michael loves Halloween. No, no, no, no. 838 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: You remember. So Jane and I bought our house together 839 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 1: in Nashville. The first house, we both were like, we 840 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: hate Halloween. That's right, neither one of us. Remember who 841 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 1: are you people. Let's just hear me out. Hear me out, 842 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 1: hear me out. So we're like, you know what, we 843 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 1: hate Halloween, So let's just let's do something just crazy, 844 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 1: and let's have the best Halloween party ever, like the biggest, 845 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 1: the best, like everything. And we did, and we went 846 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: out and spent thousands of dollars on decorations. We started. 847 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,320 Speaker 1: The first week in September was draped with like sheets. 848 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: We had like blood spatters, candles. Uh. Cost contest for 849 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,359 Speaker 1: best costumes. We had first, second, third prizes, we had bartenders. 850 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean we did it up. And so 851 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 1: since then we've grown to love Halloween a little bit more. 852 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: Dress up like a couple. Okay, so well we did, 853 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: We've done both times. So but this last Halloween was 854 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 1: by far. Michael had the best costume of all. I 855 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:10,799 Speaker 1: have to I have to bring the photo up to it, 856 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: but go ahead, you can, like you can tell her, 857 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 1: but the photos just so, because I hate Halloween, I'm like, 858 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:16,839 Speaker 1: if I'm going to dress up, I have to have 859 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 1: the best costume, like the one we did. When we 860 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: had the party of the House. I bought like a 861 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,600 Speaker 1: six Batman costume. I could have been in the movie 862 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,399 Speaker 1: That's amazing. So I was a six ft six old 863 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:33,360 Speaker 1: off last year for Halloween, I ordered this costume straight 864 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,759 Speaker 1: from China, and oh my god, so we were so 865 00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,799 Speaker 1: Jana Janna was also the Ice Queen. Naturally, how come 866 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 1: tall because that the head was already six and then 867 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 1: that thing's another foot above my head. It was us. 868 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 1: So we go to this the streets into Luca Lake, 869 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,520 Speaker 1: which has a ton of tricker treaters. Kids are stopping 870 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 1: me to take pictures. I mean he had a I 871 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,439 Speaker 1: literally had an agree. I felt like, Janna, that's true, 872 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 1: charging legit me in great lines. So now I'm like, 873 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: how do you beat the giant ole off? Like? So 874 00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,759 Speaker 1: that's what we figure out, Like what what do we'd be? 875 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: Because I like to do the couple of things, the 876 00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,440 Speaker 1: family thing, to do the family thing. So if anyone 877 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: has any suggestions, email us and yeah, Janna Kramer, I 878 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 1: heart media dot com um soon because I need to 879 00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: find whatever it is. I need to find the best 880 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 1: costume there is. I just I just got Rocco's costume 881 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 1: in the mail. What is it going to be? He 882 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 1: wants to be right now? He wants to be Pikachu. 883 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 1: We usually go through like three or five costumes and 884 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 1: then I don't know, that's normal, that's a normal thing 885 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,840 Speaker 1: to do. Change my mind. Okay, see mom, it's you 886 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 1: just have to go with it because they're going to 887 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: change their minds. Well, I mean my mom make constumes though, 888 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 1: so she would actually at me. Yeah, but that's it 889 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,919 Speaker 1: was her choice she could have bought. Why did y'all 890 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 1: originally hate it? Because my mom hated it, so I 891 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to have fun with it. I love for kids. 892 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 1: I love the decorations. I don't like adults and cost 893 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: That's how That's how I always felt silly. I'm like costumes. 894 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: Why it's like the one time a year you can 895 00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,840 Speaker 1: dress up? Are all of you such an excuse to 896 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: for women to just like, oh, I don't like that. 897 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 1: I do not like to be a sunny. There is 898 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: not a cost thank you. I do not like that, 899 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,160 Speaker 1: and I don't like girls that do that. I don't 900 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: like it at all. I think it's like, okay, we 901 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: get it, like you're trying to show if your body. 902 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,359 Speaker 1: You're trying to be like I'm a sexy made. Like 903 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,720 Speaker 1: be a little bit more creative than a sexy made. 904 00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 1: I'm aware every year, Oh did you like the word? 905 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 1: It's no, it's like pretty pretty well, it's the one 906 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 1: day a year I can really be myself. I love that. 907 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm not a huge fan. I love it for kids, 908 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,719 Speaker 1: but yeah, no, I will. You could not pay me 909 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,760 Speaker 1: enough money to put on a costume. It will not happen. 910 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 1: Oh it's gonna happen. No, it will, Yeah, well happen. 911 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 1: Well why because you think it's so? I don't like 912 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: theme dressing in general, Like I don't like kind of 913 00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 1: I want to do that so bad, the Renaissance Festival. 914 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 1: I want to dress up like one of those fairies 915 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 1: and be like and Michael will be like those Michigan 916 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,600 Speaker 1: when people are in costume around me, like sometimes I 917 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 1: do the I don't see you. I don't see you. 918 00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: I don't see you. I don't I don't like hearts 919 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day. I don't like. Oh, a Christmas sweater 920 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 1: just kills me. It's like even ugly Christmas water, all 921 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,839 Speaker 1: of it. I don't do theme dressing at all. So 922 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: how wween is like that? To the one millionth degree? 923 00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: So and I just don't want someone talking to me 924 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:41,680 Speaker 1: with a mask on. Just put on a Santa Clause hat, 925 00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 1: would you? So? Gosh, I don't like that at all. 926 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 1: Are you talking about Christmas? That's just the I'm starting 927 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:55,560 Speaker 1: that like many months span of holidays. I hate Halloween, Thanksgiving, 928 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,879 Speaker 1: christ Why do you hate thanks in? New Year's Valentine's 929 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,439 Speaker 1: I don't really I will fight you on Thanksgiving? Why 930 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: do you not like Thanksgiving? It's about giving thanks There's 931 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,840 Speaker 1: no presence there. That's my favorite. So much holiday, so 932 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,880 Speaker 1: much family fight and I'm like, let's just get a 933 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 1: kid or kid or kidder and they're like, no, we 934 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 1: gotta cook it. Yeah. I'm so exhausted from all this 935 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 1: cooking and I'm just like, seriously, this is happening to me. Well, 936 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 1: here's the deal. Um, now that I know how much 937 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 1: Amy hates said, I'm going to make sure that she 938 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: has to put everything on. Are you better believe we're 939 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 1: coming in here. I'm going to be a six or 940 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: six turkey coming into her Thanksgivings for every occasion. Yeah. 941 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: And we're going to have an outfit for her and 942 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:36,160 Speaker 1: she's going to have to wear it. And you're gonna 943 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 1: get over this. Yeah. I know. Like my birthday, I 944 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,839 Speaker 1: don't like any of it. Halloween is so much fun. 945 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 1: You could spider cupcakes, all the decorations, pumpkins, carving pap 946 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: for kids. Totally into it for kids and adults. We 947 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: need to help you and find your inner child. Michael, 948 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:53,640 Speaker 1: what do you think you want to be there for Halloween? 949 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't care. I just have again, 950 00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,720 Speaker 1: whatever it is, I have to have the most legit costume. 951 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 1: If you want to be Power Rangers, I'm going to 952 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 1: find someone at that studio who made the movie and 953 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: get the real thing, Like I have to do it. 954 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 1: That's the only way. That's the only way. I dressed 955 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 1: up as if I have the best well, because I 956 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 1: just wanted to be family themes. So again, if you 957 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: guys have any ideas, Jane Kramer at heart Media dot com, 958 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: and I'd like it to be family themes. So it 959 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,560 Speaker 1: needs so like last year obviously he was all off, 960 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 1: I was Elsa and Jolie was on a So we 961 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: need to like have it family themes, Yes, please Easton. 962 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,919 Speaker 1: My wife and I do a couple's costumes every year, 963 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 1: and last year I was the man in the big 964 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 1: yellow hat and uh, she was Curious George and our 965 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: dog was a banana Canada. When year I was a fisherman, 966 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,640 Speaker 1: I had like a one tho the I know you 967 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,359 Speaker 1: did last summer guy at the raincoat with the beard 968 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: and she was a mermaid. And one year I was 969 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,200 Speaker 1: a magician and she was a rabbit. I think this 970 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,280 Speaker 1: year we're going to do She's gonna be the hippo 971 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,840 Speaker 1: from Fantasia and I'm going to be a an alligator. 972 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: Amy is throwing up in her mouth in her corner. 973 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 1: I like, I like the plantation one this year, asked me, awesome. 974 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 1: You know you know what, Amy, I think you're just 975 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 1: homesick and you know what you need homestead candles. Um. 976 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: I like, actually homestick candles. Yeah, I think that's cool. 977 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,920 Speaker 1: I think it's a really neat idea because I miss 978 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 1: I miss Michigan, I miss Nashville, and um, I want 979 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,000 Speaker 1: that reminder. 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That's homesick dot com 998 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:27,080 Speaker 1: and use my code Janna. I can answer that question. Actually, 999 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: it smells like desert sand and midnight air herbs and 1000 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,800 Speaker 1: spices from the finest restaurants and that's not accurate, and 1001 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:41,440 Speaker 1: hints of cold hardcash co. What is Michigan? Michigan smells 1002 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:46,279 Speaker 1: like tart cherries and rich chocolate that sounds honeysuckle and 1003 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: rows balance with cinnamon and a sandal would finish everyone? 1004 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: Do everyone for every major city? Or yeah, so like 1005 00:50:52,040 --> 00:51:01,279 Speaker 1: you'd have like Washington, d c uh live affairs of 1006 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 1: soft downpours, a steeped earl gray tea and mild hints 1007 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,720 Speaker 1: of cedar and pachuli, a touch of maple and Vanilla 1008 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:12,399 Speaker 1: complimented bouquet of rhododendron flower and I would love that. 1009 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:16,240 Speaker 1: Can Yeah, I like, I like more of a manly candle, 1010 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: just like yeah, I like I like, Um, I just 1011 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,400 Speaker 1: like more of a manly or so I don't like flowery. 1012 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: Can we unpack something that we talked about with Chris? Yeah? 1013 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 1: Unpack that's like the lame word. Let's curate this. Um. 1014 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,720 Speaker 1: Can we talk about losing your virginity? Yeah, that seems 1015 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 1: like something we've never talked about. Old were you? I 1016 00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,720 Speaker 1: was sixteen? My boyfriend was fifteen? Oh younger man? Yeah, 1017 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 1: I was fourteen? Was fourteen? Yet less awkward as you 1018 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: get older, because it's like now it seems like no 1019 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,319 Speaker 1: big deal, Like who cares talk about it? Right? Well, 1020 00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,879 Speaker 1: am Michael? How old are you? Sorry? Mom and dad? 1021 00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:59,760 Speaker 1: Did they not know that? Sometimes my mom doesn't listen 1022 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:06,320 Speaker 1: for you? Fourteen? Oh my god? What boend? He was nineteen? 1023 00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,800 Speaker 1: He was in college. That was a freshman in high school. 1024 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:12,400 Speaker 1: That seems like you'd need a note to, like a 1025 00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: parental note. Yeah, it was illegal wait at four yeah, 1026 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,000 Speaker 1: but at fourteen, so that just seems so young. I know, 1027 00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:26,120 Speaker 1: I mean she was uh I was a freshman. She 1028 00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 1: was a junior. Wait you were twenty two when you 1029 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 1: lost region Nate? Why why wait so long? Who was high? Okay? 1030 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 1: Who was the guy? You want me to just name him? 1031 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm not going to fret play. What does it rime 1032 00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 1: with mine's waddy? Well, what's weird is he doesn't want 1033 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 1: we're still friends and he doesn't want to claim it, 1034 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 1: like he knows it was him, but there was sort 1035 00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 1: of like maybe a half one before and he's like, no, 1036 00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 1: what you have did they like go half in so 1037 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 1: um so okay, not not full throttle but likeable the 1038 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:08,040 Speaker 1: but not like I think I messed around with somebody, 1039 00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 1: um maybe a year before this person, and there was 1040 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,919 Speaker 1: like it was close but not really And so then 1041 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,760 Speaker 1: it was like kissing. No, like I'm not an idiot, 1042 00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,560 Speaker 1: Like it was like it was like almost maybe I 1043 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,760 Speaker 1: don't know, you know, I mean the thing was kissing 1044 00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:31,040 Speaker 1: the other thing. I don't know if scrip almost, So 1045 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 1: then it really did happen. And then obviously I talked 1046 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:35,399 Speaker 1: about it with the person and he's like, no, no, 1047 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 1: that wasn't me. It was this one, Like he didn't 1048 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: want to know about the other person. Yea oh, I'm sure. 1049 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm very open with the boys with I'm going to 1050 00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:50,160 Speaker 1: talk about it. Mark, howled were you? I was fifteen 1051 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 1: and like Mike, she was two years older than I was. 1052 00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:59,040 Speaker 1: So young? Is there nobody that was ince like any 1053 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 1: day now, fingers crossed? Christmas is coming. I was seventeen, 1054 00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 1: she was one, and it was my friends, your friends. 1055 00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:19,919 Speaker 1: I want to open the door and see if there's 1056 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 1: anybody that's not well. I will say that I have 1057 00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,400 Speaker 1: one girlfriend that is in her twenties that still hasn't 1058 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,720 Speaker 1: lost her virginity because she is waiting. But um again, 1059 00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:32,680 Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, you know, that's and I have 1060 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 1: nothing against that. I think that's if that's what you 1061 00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,480 Speaker 1: want to do. I just personally think that I wish 1062 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,799 Speaker 1: I would have waited a little longer. Now thinking about it, 1063 00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,359 Speaker 1: I mean I think, well, I mean, I will say 1064 00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:45,320 Speaker 1: this though he was my high school sweetheart, I loved him, 1065 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,440 Speaker 1: you know, and I don't I have zero regrets about it. 1066 00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:52,000 Speaker 1: I will say that, But thinking back, I'm like, yeah, 1067 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,560 Speaker 1: maybe we could have waited, like maybe another year or so. 1068 00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:56,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, but maybe not because we stayed together 1069 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 1: for three and a half four years. I like, I 1070 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,440 Speaker 1: like that so sweet story. Yeah, but I mean if 1071 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 1: losing your virginity for to someone random like that would 1072 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,360 Speaker 1: be I wouldn't have wanted that. I would say. I 1073 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:09,200 Speaker 1: was like, if it's Jolie and she we were talking 1074 00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:12,880 Speaker 1: about this, I would say like, hey, you know, if 1075 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 1: you care about this person, that's who I think you 1076 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 1: should lose your virginity too, is what I would probably 1077 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:19,960 Speaker 1: say to her. I don't want it to just be 1078 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:22,799 Speaker 1: some random because you was your person random. Well, we 1079 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 1: were sort of dating. I mean he was in college. 1080 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:29,360 Speaker 1: I was a freshman in high school. Freshman in college 1081 00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 1: and the freshman in high school is a little creepy 1082 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 1: skied together that's what they call it then. But I mean, 1083 00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,520 Speaker 1: like here's Mike. Like it wasn't like a no, we're 1084 00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,240 Speaker 1: really good friends. Like we were like we were legitimate 1085 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 1: regret about not being with Debt. What was the high 1086 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,719 Speaker 1: school sweetheart Trisia I was going to Debbie Trisha? Yeah, 1087 00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: I know, um, not necessarily because it wasn't because to me, 1088 00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,239 Speaker 1: like I had the person I lost it with. Like 1089 00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 1: we had a very close friendship, Like it was like 1090 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,880 Speaker 1: friends with benefits, but we respected each other and we 1091 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 1: loved each other as friends. Um, so I don't know. 1092 00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,960 Speaker 1: I don't regret it. Does anyone in the room regret it? No, no, 1093 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,839 Speaker 1: because he was my high school sweetheart. If he if 1094 00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 1: he was just a random hook up, and then I 1095 00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 1: would have regretted it. I wouldn't say then I would 1096 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: have for sure regretted it wasn't like, well we got 1097 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 1: now soon afterwards. Yeah, my parents. Yeah, so it was 1098 00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:28,800 Speaker 1: Sadie Hawkins and Michael. Do you know the story? No, No, 1099 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:33,440 Speaker 1: I don't think I do that. No, no, No, it 1100 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:37,880 Speaker 1: was a dance. It was Sadie Hawkins and so it 1101 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,439 Speaker 1: was we were probably like a month into like being 1102 00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 1: like sexual, and so we left the dance to go 1103 00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 1: home because we name his parents were at the movies. 1104 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,440 Speaker 1: So we go back to his house and you know, 1105 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:52,960 Speaker 1: we started having sex or whatever, and then all of 1106 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:57,319 Speaker 1: a sudden, the door opens and his dad saw me 1107 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:02,200 Speaker 1: but naked. I run up stairs and I just start 1108 00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 1: like bawling, crying. Where were you guys in the house. 1109 00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:05,960 Speaker 1: We were in the living room because we thought we 1110 00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,279 Speaker 1: could hear the garage open, but they didn't go through 1111 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:15,239 Speaker 1: the garage, so they through. Like yeah, so so that 1112 00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:19,840 Speaker 1: happens and I'm still but as naked, like in the 1113 00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 1: in the bathroom, bawling my eyes out. He comes and 1114 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 1: he's crying. He's naked, like I think he might might 1115 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:25,840 Speaker 1: have put something like around him or whatever. Like we're 1116 00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:28,120 Speaker 1: just both crying, and his dad comes in. He goes 1117 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 1: go grab the rubber because he had left the gross. 1118 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,120 Speaker 1: I mean, we're using protection. That's good, right, But then 1119 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,920 Speaker 1: but then his mom rest in rest in peace because 1120 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: she was amazing. She unfortunately passed away because the breast cancer. 1121 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: But she, um, she goes, you have twenty four hours 1122 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,800 Speaker 1: to tell your mother. And I was just like so man, 1123 00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 1: so sweating, like I just remember driving home, like just 1124 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 1: like sweating and fallowing my eyes out. So I go 1125 00:57:56,320 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 1: home and I draft this like epic novel, like this 1126 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 1: is no like mom. So I lied to her in 1127 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 1: the letter. Sorry, Mom, I know you listen, but I 1128 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 1: lied to her and I said, this is my first 1129 00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:14,000 Speaker 1: time ever having sex. Please, I'm so sorry, Like that 1130 00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 1: wasn't And I said we were a month into being 1131 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 1: sexually active when we got caught. Yeah, so um, I 1132 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:22,200 Speaker 1: wrote it. I was like, Mom, I'm so sorry, like 1133 00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:23,880 Speaker 1: this is the first time that we had sex and 1134 00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,920 Speaker 1: you know, um mrs and Mr whatever caught us having sex, 1135 00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm so sorry, I'm so ashamed and 1136 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,200 Speaker 1: da da da dada. And what I did was and 1137 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 1: she was in her room and I slid it underneath 1138 00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:36,440 Speaker 1: the door and then I ran back in my room. 1139 00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 1: Was like, mom, you haven't known at anither door, classic 1140 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,600 Speaker 1: me just to run away. So then I'm in my 1141 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 1: room and she like knocks on my door and she 1142 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,520 Speaker 1: was like, do we need to get you on birth control? 1143 00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:49,440 Speaker 1: And I was like, that was like the last thing 1144 00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:50,800 Speaker 1: I thought she would say to me. I thought I 1145 00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:53,000 Speaker 1: was gonna be like grounded for weeks. But she was like, 1146 00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,160 Speaker 1: let's talk about birth control. And I think she was 1147 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: doing good mom job there. But this is why I 1148 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 1: think people should wait till college. Like this should not 1149 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,520 Speaker 1: be happening in high school. I say, I disagree that 1150 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: if it's a relationship though, you know, not even that, 1151 00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 1: but I feel like in college you might be more 1152 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 1: susceptible to the drunk, regretful. Yes, exactly, it's the high school. 1153 00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,280 Speaker 1: It's like you're fooling around, like trying to figure this out. 1154 00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,880 Speaker 1: One point, that's an excellent point. Yeah, that is very 1155 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:18,439 Speaker 1: true because if not, yeah, you're going to be drunk 1156 00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,640 Speaker 1: at some party. It's like whatever, I'm drunk, I'm going 1157 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: to sleep with Joe schmo Is. The number is still 1158 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 1: a thing, like do do people still count how many 1159 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:29,600 Speaker 1: people they've left with? My number is so extraordinarily low. Really, 1160 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,960 Speaker 1: oh it's so low. We don't. We don't. Michael and 1161 00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:35,640 Speaker 1: I have never shared a number because we probably don't 1162 00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:43,920 Speaker 1: know how many? Is that? Like? Yeah? I was like exclusive, Yeah, 1163 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,800 Speaker 1: they don't know their number. We we from the very 1164 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:50,360 Speaker 1: beginning of us stating we agreed, We're like, yeah, people 1165 00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: ask like that in a day. I mean, I don't know. 1166 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:58,080 Speaker 1: Since it's I mean, we twenties. I wanted to know 1167 00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:00,280 Speaker 1: people's like numbers and stuff with them when I just 1168 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,280 Speaker 1: started to have fun in l A and I just 1169 01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:05,439 Speaker 1: told somebody like I don't want to know. Yeah, I'd 1170 01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 1: rather not. I mean, now we know, we know, you 1171 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,520 Speaker 1: know stuff, but I mean it is what is. But 1172 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 1: I would love to hear um losing your Virginia stories 1173 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:17,600 Speaker 1: if you have regrets, Yeah, when did you marry him? 1174 01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:19,640 Speaker 1: Did you did you marry the guy who lost Virginia? 1175 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 1: Which which you know. That's another interesting thing because I'm 1176 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,440 Speaker 1: like when you kind of want to, like, I have 1177 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:27,880 Speaker 1: a lot of friends who numbers too, numbers five. I'll 1178 01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 1: just tell you, guys, I'm hoping for six. Any second 1179 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm working on he's working on the other hand. But 1180 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people to because there's the 1181 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 1: first person and then they married the second. Wow, yeah, 1182 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:49,440 Speaker 1: well not everyone had a fun twenty Yeah, you know 1183 01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 1: what's bad is like my first when you tell me 1184 01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 1: that your story, my first intuition is thinking about Jolie 1185 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 1: and then our son right and putting them both in 1186 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 1: that scenario. How I would react. And if if it 1187 01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,160 Speaker 1: was our son and it was like came home and 1188 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: it was a girl that he was seeing or whatever 1189 01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:09,480 Speaker 1: and they were having sex, yes, I would be I 1190 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 1: don't know how I would react, but I wouldn't have 1191 01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 1: five them or anything. It wouldn't be like that. But 1192 01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:17,000 Speaker 1: I would just be like, what the protection are you smart? 1193 01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:18,960 Speaker 1: If I if we came home and Jolie and some 1194 01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 1: guy got up off of her and was like running away, 1195 01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: I would chase that mother effort down and just like 1196 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,880 Speaker 1: the difference that girl, because there's my baby girl. If 1197 01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 1: I saw some dude on top of her, like and 1198 01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:35,200 Speaker 1: I come in. I don't know, I'll just react, I like, 1199 01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,880 Speaker 1: you come here. But if it's like you know her 1200 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 1: high school, he's high school sweetheart shoes who she's in 1201 01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:46,280 Speaker 1: love with, and like you know that you know Alex, 1202 01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 1: like I don't know, this is his name, and there 1203 01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,000 Speaker 1: would be my reaction wouldn't be as extreme. And I'm 1204 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 1: not saying I would physically harm the person either way. 1205 01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm just saying i'd be like, get the out of here. 1206 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 1: I think that's every dad's worst nightmare. And I don't 1207 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,400 Speaker 1: think any dad should have to walk into that. No, 1208 01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't think so at all. And I hope that 1209 01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:07,000 Speaker 1: Julie is open enough to be able to tell us 1210 01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 1: like when she is starting to be I mean, I 1211 01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:13,560 Speaker 1: know your brother isn't that starting age of sexually activeness 1212 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 1: and how to talk to your parents and stuff. But 1213 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 1: it's you have to you want them to come to you. 1214 01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 1: But it's also that awkward, like god, like my little 1215 01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:25,840 Speaker 1: baby is now having sex. 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We have two sons. I've never really been 1263 01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 1: too concerned about him cheating because he's genuinely a good 1264 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:53,120 Speaker 1: guy and has never given me a reason to doubt 1265 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 1: that he had bad judgment. A few years ago, he 1266 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: went to a strip club for a friends bachelor party 1267 01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,160 Speaker 1: right after I gave birth to our first son. I 1268 01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,360 Speaker 1: was open with how I felt. I thought he learned 1269 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 1: from that. He knows I'm very easily jealous and very 1270 01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: insecure about my body. A couple of months ago, he 1271 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 1: got a vasectomy, and long story short, to get off, 1272 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: he searched Google for pictures to look at. I'm not 1273 01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:15,520 Speaker 1: sure what that has to do with the vasectomy necessarily, 1274 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:21,280 Speaker 1: but maybe she thinks the surgery somehow affected I've had 1275 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: that surgery is fine, well for you, but maybe okay, 1276 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:31,000 Speaker 1: I guess his penis doctor made a mistake. Anyway, that's 1277 01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 1: extremely confusing. So what her point is, and this is 1278 01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 1: kind of sad, the pictures worked and what she has 1279 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 1: to offer didn't is what she's saying. She says, I 1280 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,800 Speaker 1: feel like he cheated even though I know he felt 1281 01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,720 Speaker 1: pressured to perform. I feel like he has betrayed me. 1282 01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:47,200 Speaker 1: I found out about it on his phone. I just 1283 01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 1: can't get over it. I've had two babies in two years. 1284 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm still breastfeeding. I don't want to look at me. 1285 01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:52,880 Speaker 1: I feel like my boobs an't as big as the 1286 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,560 Speaker 1: pictures he saw or I'm not his tan. Am I 1287 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,520 Speaker 1: wrong to feel like I've been cheated on? Should I 1288 01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 1: be okay with this? Because some people would say this 1289 01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,440 Speaker 1: is a normal guy thing. I don't know what to do. 1290 01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 1: It makes me hate myself. Thank you for your time 1291 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:08,840 Speaker 1: reading this. Did I write that email? I think it's 1292 01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,720 Speaker 1: a Jenna, but it was really like I I probably 1293 01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 1: wrote the email in there. Now that's hard. I mean 1294 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,000 Speaker 1: we've kind of talked about this in a relationship to 1295 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,000 Speaker 1: where it's like for us personally, it's just we feel 1296 01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 1: like that's it was a way of taking away romance 1297 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:26,200 Speaker 1: from our relationship. And um, I think he just she 1298 01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: just has to be open and honest with him and 1299 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 1: how that makes her feel because I I do the 1300 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,640 Speaker 1: same thing where if you know, I know Michael's looking 1301 01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,720 Speaker 1: at something and it's like, man, I'm comparing myself to like, well, 1302 01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:36,600 Speaker 1: they've look they've got bigger moves than me, and they 1303 01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 1: look prettier than me, and they're blood or whatever, and like, 1304 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 1: I can't get you off, but she can. Like that's 1305 01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:43,520 Speaker 1: a that's a really hard thing to like swallow and 1306 01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: for a woman to like not feel like they're wanted 1307 01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 1: by their like guy. So I think if she can 1308 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,600 Speaker 1: try to be honest about it. Um, And I think 1309 01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,080 Speaker 1: it sucks in this day age because so many men 1310 01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,240 Speaker 1: are like whatever, It's just it's what guys do. We 1311 01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:57,880 Speaker 1: watch more when we look at pictures like and I 1312 01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 1: don't think that's fair for the relationship personally. Yeah, um yeah, 1313 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,680 Speaker 1: that's a tough subject. And that's something that you know, 1314 01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:08,080 Speaker 1: Jan and I have dealt with firsthand over the last 1315 01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:11,920 Speaker 1: couple of years. And because of all that, because of 1316 01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:15,040 Speaker 1: what we've been through, Man, this went from happy, go 1317 01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:19,160 Speaker 1: lucky to like deep stuff. Thanks Mark, it's great. It's 1318 01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:23,360 Speaker 1: a good email. Um no, at least for for Jana 1319 01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:26,800 Speaker 1: and ized beliefs and and my strong beliefs. Now, I 1320 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:29,640 Speaker 1: don't I think that whole it's a guy thing is 1321 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:33,320 Speaker 1: an overplayed excuse, and that's what it is, is an 1322 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:37,040 Speaker 1: excuse nowadays. And you know, I read something this is 1323 01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: years ago too um about Terry Crews, you know, the 1324 01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,400 Speaker 1: actor Terry Crewise, And in an article he was talking 1325 01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 1: about how he stopped like watching porn and he stopped 1326 01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:48,880 Speaker 1: looking at any of that kind of stuff because he 1327 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,640 Speaker 1: realized and felt like it took away from his marriage. 1328 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,960 Speaker 1: And you know I read that. I was like, man, 1329 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,320 Speaker 1: that kind of started to resonate with me. And I still, 1330 01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, had my issues on even away from that stuff, 1331 01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,760 Speaker 1: because it becomes habit from n because you know, masturbation 1332 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,480 Speaker 1: or porner and all that stuff is becomes a habit, 1333 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,720 Speaker 1: and it's like one of those things that dads might 1334 01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:10,720 Speaker 1: talk to their sons about, Hey, this is a natural thing. 1335 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a natural thing. I don't know. 1336 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure that out. But you know, I 1337 01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:20,240 Speaker 1: will be an advocate to say that I don't think 1338 01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 1: that excuse can be played anymore. I think she definitely 1339 01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:24,599 Speaker 1: has the right to go to him and be like, look, 1340 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:26,400 Speaker 1: this is how it makes me feel. I know it's 1341 01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,200 Speaker 1: not physically cheating. I know it's not physically acting out, 1342 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:32,759 Speaker 1: but it's still emotionally can affect me the same way, 1343 01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:34,800 Speaker 1: and that's something he has to listen to it. Yeah, 1344 01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:37,519 Speaker 1: and totally to that point as well as you know, 1345 01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,760 Speaker 1: just how an an addiction starts. If he's starting to 1346 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,280 Speaker 1: look at that, he's maybe like, oh, maybe this isn't 1347 01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 1: doing enough for me, but now maybe going to find 1348 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 1: this girl in that bar might not give me that 1349 01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 1: high maybe sense timely, and that's that's where the whole 1350 01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,720 Speaker 1: you know, addiction could come in. And that's that's a 1351 01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:57,519 Speaker 1: that's scary. So I think it's important and I hate 1352 01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:58,960 Speaker 1: like kind of like I said, I don't like that 1353 01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:04,200 Speaker 1: stereotype that it's what guys guy talk, guys look at 1354 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,840 Speaker 1: it's it's funny, it's this and that. I was the 1355 01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,679 Speaker 1: stereotype of that for so many years. For so many years, 1356 01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,920 Speaker 1: I was that guy. And just now from the outside 1357 01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,280 Speaker 1: looking in, it's just it's not healthy. Do you think 1358 01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:24,800 Speaker 1: it could be up to the couple, Like, sure, they 1359 01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:26,840 Speaker 1: can totally be subjective based on a couple. I know 1360 01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,120 Speaker 1: we've mentioned that too on here too, where there there's 1361 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 1: couples that do that together and that works for them, 1362 01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,240 Speaker 1: and that is awesome that's totally fine. There's comfortable. There's 1363 01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,400 Speaker 1: there's men out there that can have guy talk and 1364 01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,720 Speaker 1: look at that stuff and did not affect them in 1365 01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,600 Speaker 1: any way, not affect their relationship. That's great. I just 1366 01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:45,679 Speaker 1: want men and couples like these two to be aware 1367 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,720 Speaker 1: that it can affect a relationship and just to be 1368 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:50,559 Speaker 1: open and honest about and not like a hidden thing too, 1369 01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,679 Speaker 1: where it's you know, where she does have to see 1370 01:09:52,680 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: that she's looking at a porn side, he's looking somewhere whatever, 1371 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:57,960 Speaker 1: and vice versa, even if the girl, I don't know 1372 01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:01,320 Speaker 1: if the girls too, but I have a question, honey, 1373 01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:06,720 Speaker 1: answer if say, the same situation is happening, but he 1374 01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:09,840 Speaker 1: has no issue in the bedroom, he's active, he gives 1375 01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:12,800 Speaker 1: her attention to all that stuff, but she still maybe 1376 01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:15,800 Speaker 1: just has an issue with it for whatever reason. But 1377 01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:18,200 Speaker 1: it's not she doesn't feel like it's taken away from 1378 01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:20,680 Speaker 1: or there doesn't seem to be anything on paper that's 1379 01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,240 Speaker 1: taken away from the relationship. What are your thoughts on that. 1380 01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:26,680 Speaker 1: If it still makes her uncomfortable, then that's then that's 1381 01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:28,800 Speaker 1: still something that she has to speak on, because I mean, 1382 01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:32,160 Speaker 1: it's a hundred percent makes it worse when they're not 1383 01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:36,559 Speaker 1: getting off with her, but getting off with the internet. 1384 01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 1: That's hurtful. But if he's fine, like you said, in 1385 01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 1: the bedroom, but it still bothers her, then that's something 1386 01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,200 Speaker 1: that she's still needs to address. It has to be 1387 01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:48,160 Speaker 1: on the same page. Yeah, I mean for me, honestly, 1388 01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:51,240 Speaker 1: it wouldn't. I mean, obviously minus our situation. But like 1389 01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,400 Speaker 1: if I was in a relationship and that was the 1390 01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,880 Speaker 1: case and it was fine in the bedroom, and you know, 1391 01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind. I wouldn't care if the person was 1392 01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:02,439 Speaker 1: watching it as well, because he's not taking away from 1393 01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:05,400 Speaker 1: our our time to well, that's the point, right. We 1394 01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:07,400 Speaker 1: get a lot of emails thing is this normal? And 1395 01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,400 Speaker 1: there is no normal everybody that's your thing, there is. 1396 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 1: You have to establish your own guidelines there and respect 1397 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 1: each other's. Yeah, And I also want to say, and 1398 01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:19,599 Speaker 1: maybe you can back me up, Mike as a guy, Oh, 1399 01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,720 Speaker 1: here goes, we're not comparing you. And I know that's 1400 01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,920 Speaker 1: hard for you to believe. And whether it's porn or 1401 01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 1: it's any movie, or it's somebody on the beach or 1402 01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,320 Speaker 1: somebody walking by in the street in a short skirt, 1403 01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:33,120 Speaker 1: we're not comparing you. 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