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Speaker 1: I ain't got no origines, ain't got no money that

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Speaker 1: runs long, but I got the hardest, strong, and the

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Speaker 1: love is tall. Ain't got no name, I ain't got

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Speaker 1: no offense in education, Sean.

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Speaker 2: But I can see right you a pot of face

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Speaker 2: on the painted fool. I'm slipping home. Why are you

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Speaker 2: trying to welcome back? This is good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. And it's it's Wednesday. Wednesday. No,

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Speaker 2: it's not exact. It's Monday, bitch. Oh wait, Monday. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. We're trying to act like

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Speaker 2: we're recording this on the day, but we usually are.

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Speaker 3: Shit, we're organized this week. It's Monday. It's not late.

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Speaker 3: It's a miracle. It's cold though, it is cold.

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Speaker 4: Oh and before I forget, I just wanted to remind

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Speaker 4: you guys that we have a meetup happening next Wednesday,

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Speaker 4: December twelfth, at Corner Door in Culver City. So make

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Speaker 4: sure you go on our Instagram to check that out.

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Speaker 4: The link in our bio has the event right with

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Speaker 4: all the information. Make sure you are SVP. It's going

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Speaker 4: to be fun and I can't wait to meet you

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Speaker 4: and see all you guys there anyway, what were you saying.

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Speaker 3: That's the only thing about La. It's like hot all

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Speaker 3: year round. My throat, Okay, cough it out. Please excuse

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Speaker 3: Eric's coughing.

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Speaker 2: She's choking. Oh, it's the desert, so it gets fucking

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Speaker 2: cold at night.

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Speaker 3: It's hot all day, warm all day, and then it

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Speaker 3: drops dramatically at night. I'm sure people in the East

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Speaker 3: Coast think we're a little bitches though, because it's only

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Speaker 3: like fifty four degrees.

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Speaker 2: It's cold to me ships sixty one. Yeah, it's cold.

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Speaker 3: We have a special guys.

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Speaker 2: We do hang out hair.

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Speaker 4: Please welcome Carmen Alexandria her Instagram, I'm better known in

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Speaker 4: their instagram as my god. For some reason, when I

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Speaker 4: was reading your instagram all this time, I was I

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Speaker 4: never really.

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Speaker 2: Understood what it was.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I was like, her name's Kakshi or

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Speaker 4: like cash.

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Speaker 2: I ken't call her kashis what time is k And

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Speaker 2: I was like I even read that I am making

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Speaker 4: And then I was like, no, it's it's isn't it

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Speaker 5: She Yeah, it's it's stupid. But then like once I changed,

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Speaker 5: like it's hard to change an Instagram name. Look yeah,

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Speaker 5: and I did it one time and I lost like

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Speaker 5: so many like subscribers, like on my blog when I

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Speaker 5: changed my blog name in my Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Like I really find.

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, and then I get people and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 5: like I've been looking for you, and I'm just like, yeah, my.

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Speaker 3: Bad, Like.

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Speaker 4: Because I will go look up other people's instagrams. You're

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Speaker 4: not missing, but I know they have one, but it's changed, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, before it was she recycles fashion because I was

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Speaker 5: just like, yeah, I like to get stuff and remake it.

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Speaker 5: And I was just like but then I got to

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Speaker 2: Also that's really long. Yeah she recycled all the time.

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Speaker 2: It's fun and hot, Neil.

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Speaker 5: And but that was that was like eighteen year old, like,

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Speaker 5: oh my god, girl, not thinking long term, like just

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Speaker 5: use your name, but I mean I have a personal

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Speaker 2: By AOL email.

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Speaker 4: Okay has crazy check two nine to one, But how

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Speaker 2: Crazy she Okay, So I actually love it's kind of.

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Speaker 4: Hot, but when the actual intention it was mine was

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Speaker 4: little jam jam nine one one little People.

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Speaker 2: I still have people who still call me that to

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Speaker 2: this day, Little jam.

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Speaker 5: Jam Mine Scorpio monkey sixteen monkey. Yeah, what's I liked monkeys?

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Speaker 2: I like, don't even realize that. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I was just like even like, as a small child,

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Speaker 2: Cups like for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then but all my family they'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 5: But I never understood it until like I grew up,

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Speaker 6: You have your collection ready.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. And my mom like she sent me so much

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Speaker 5: sent me my shot glass.

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Speaker 5: And she was out here last week. I was like,

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Speaker 6: I was like, whatever, did your mom live in Georgia

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Speaker 5: She was in Detroit. Okay, yeah, she just moved back there.

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Speaker 5: She retired in Georgia and she moved back to Detroit.

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Speaker 5: And everybody's like, are you coming home for Christmas? I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I went home for Christmas a year before last, and

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Speaker 2: And every I was like, why would I do such

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Speaker 2: We're out here like acting like it's fucking super cold.

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Speaker 2: It's like, where's my pleather jacket? My face? I was

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Speaker 4: I sent Irid to school and just like a long

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, anything in my child.

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Speaker 7: Back up.

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Speaker 8: My child's warner for I left to make here for

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Speaker 8: this specific incidents with the manch hat.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so funny.

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Speaker 4: So what can you tell me more about how you

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Speaker 4: started your brand? And like, you so you moved here

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Speaker 4: six years ago from Georgia, Georgia, but you're born in Detroit.

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Speaker 2: How long did you live in Detroit.

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Speaker 5: For we were only there for like how long were

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Speaker 2: And then like grew up.

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Speaker 3: In Georgia, like high school of Georgia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, middle school, high school. So you said, a little

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Speaker 4: What is it water? Okay, well we'll figure it out. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I'll clean it up, no worry, Okay, okay, thanks for

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Speaker 4: looking at me.

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Speaker 2: If she's an open store, don't don't.

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Speaker 4: I read no, no close that. Go baby, go sit down, please,

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Speaker 2: I love you. Go help Bluna clean up. H My

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Speaker 2: child life loves to clean. Get down, Get down. What

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Speaker 2: was the racist small town?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, when you grew up in like a small racist town,

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Speaker 4: when you say racist, was like a daily thing you

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Speaker 5: I mean like it was really like on like you

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Speaker 5: number one, you see Confederate flags everywhere you go to school,

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Speaker 2: But there were still there's still a lot of black people.

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Speaker 6: It was like half and half. Yeah, there was a

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Speaker 5: And then like you deal with the white girls that

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Speaker 5: like like racism in different ways, and just like it was,

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Speaker 5: it was traumatic. Luckily I wasn't there when like Trump

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Speaker 5: Like I've only been to that tiny town, i'd say

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Speaker 5: it was just a really disgusting place. But I mean,

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Speaker 5: like what Brunswick, Georgia, And it's between Savannah and Jacksonville.

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Speaker 2: I think in the swamp.

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Speaker 5: It's humid, there's a lot of mosquitoes and it's nothing there.

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Speaker 5: But it's right by Saint Simon's Island.

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Speaker 2: That's beautiful. Yeah, it's a little island off of Georgia. Elebata.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard of that. Yeah, So St.

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Speaker 5: Simon's Island and Jacky Island and they're both like touristy.

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Speaker 5: They're beautiful little places.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 3: The more Florida Georgia, right, Yeah, for sure, because they're real.

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Speaker 6: They're not real islands. I think they're like peninsulas.

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Speaker 5: Like I think they might be man made of Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Confederate Island.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a vacation for your vacation, for your.

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Speaker 2: Convederate following KKY.

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Speaker 5: Members the Caucasian family, Caucasian vacation.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to go those Caribbeans and all those

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Speaker 2: All the whites are there waiting for it, open arms.

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Speaker 2: Not if you're black though, not that you're black. Oh

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Speaker 2: my god, it sounds like a war story.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like, but then they're not unless something

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Speaker 5: Open with their racism. But right, like, were you ever

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Speaker 5: like they could use the N word, just like as like.

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Speaker 2: A casual slang. I'm just like l A all day.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, you don't say it, right, you don't have

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Speaker 5: Like yeah, but I know a lot of black guys

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Speaker 6: I hate that shit.

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Speaker 8: Just because you're getting black dick, does not give you

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Speaker 2: Like just like, don't sit on a black and I

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Speaker 2: know they're just not the green lights. And even if

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Speaker 2: you have a little mixed baby, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I had an experience of our friend who has a

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Speaker 3: white baby, mama from fucking Montana or some shit, telling

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Speaker 3: me like, first of all, she is okay, the first baby,

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Speaker 3: he's also black.

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Speaker 2: Both the kids are half black. So she's saying Nika.

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Speaker 3: Nagain, and she's like, yeah, I should Jayden, she'd be

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Speaker 3: able to say nigga because he needs to know he's

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Speaker 3: how does that? How does knowing the word nigga lets

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Speaker 3: him know he's half black? This is why require this

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Speaker 3: is why this PSA announcement. Dumb ignorant white bitches shouldn't

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Speaker 3: be allowed to have black babies because it doesn't make

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Speaker 3: So her defense was, first of all, she told me

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Speaker 6: People, why are you so offended? You guys weren't slaves.

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Speaker 5: Really, like, the whole family is gonna line up, like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Have you had, okay, so growing up and that racist areas,

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Speaker 5: I feel like honestly, growing up, I learned more to.

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Speaker 2: You know what. Also, you probably feel safer doing that

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Speaker 5: And one of my friends, she's like, you hate white people.

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Speaker 5: I see what they're doing here people, and it's so

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Speaker 2: Like you don't you can't put your feet in my shoes. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: But it's just annoying but fun. All that on a

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Speaker 2: Okay, that mine is a racist rant? What else?

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Speaker 4: Tell us more about yourself? Sorry about that? Oh well,

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Speaker 4: Carmen just started a podcast you guys. Guys definitely have

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Speaker 4: to check it out. It's called Dualities and it's with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, SoundCloud.

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Speaker 5: We're working on all the other platforms, but we're still

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, if you need any help, let me know, because

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Speaker 4: I mean, clearly my car setup tonight is not I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, I feel like you teach me how to

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Speaker 5: In and.

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Speaker 2: Whatever.

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, like how did you start your your your

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Speaker 5: So I was just having like the the woes of

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Speaker 5: So then like when I lost my last job, it

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Speaker 5: And my dad was like he was like, you need

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Speaker 2: And I was just like what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Like and then like I'm calling him crying because I

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Speaker 2: Your shit together, Like I don't know what to tell you,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't that's actually good advice to get another

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like that's my mom. Like anytime, like I'm crying

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Speaker 5: like I don't know what to do. She's like, well,

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Speaker 5: I was like, Mom, say no, get your shit together.

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Speaker 5: Like I'm just like, Mom, don't tell me to get

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Speaker 2: New school parents anyway, the new wave.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, and you have a beautiful daughter so cute.

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Speaker 2: I love your photos. It's just like my little cheek.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's like ninety percent of the reason I got

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Speaker 5: But people like my friends come over, they're like, what

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Speaker 5: But now I have to be over here working or

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Speaker 5: you know what, maybe I'm going to go to a

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Speaker 2: Right, mom guilt, yeah, yeah, long gil.

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Speaker 3: Is the real thing which brings us to tonight's topic,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I understand. I think every single mom

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Speaker 4: And it's impossible, you know, But I think a healthy

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we have to put ourselves in check. Right, you

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Speaker 2: have a seat. You're feeling guilty because you're not doing

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Speaker 9: Right when I told you about the prioritizing party last,

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Speaker 2: Let's start next?

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Speaker 4: Baby, baby, No, no, I mean for sure, I like

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Speaker 4: I just I did this panel last week where we

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Speaker 2: What what are tips to mom guilt? And it's like

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Speaker 6: By the way shout out to oh yeah, sala sala.

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Speaker 3: There were a lot of things they were like, uh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: It's hard, you know, But I didn't, like, I understand

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Speaker 2: But I guess, oh, go ahead and go one.

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Speaker 3: Maybe this was your advice, actually mom guilt, like have

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Speaker 3: a routine, start rituals where every day, like there's something

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Speaker 3: and you do something with her, like I think said in.

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Speaker 2: The morning they dance.

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Speaker 3: I used to do that with like Luna a lot

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Speaker 3: But just if you can like save one time a day,

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Speaker 3: then that's you know, huge, and then you get used

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Speaker 2: They used to it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you feel like for me, like you're yeah,

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Speaker 4: Irie listen to music and will dance, and it's like

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Speaker 4: I'm dancing with my child.

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Speaker 2: Amazing.

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Speaker 4: And then also it's a special moment for us and

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Speaker 4: you know, at least like we had. It wasn't like

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Speaker 4: or at least that's what we, like, what we had

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Speaker 4: I'm going to just be like so involved every every moment.

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Speaker 2: And take it in. And like there's a lot of

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Speaker 4: Taking it, but I just you just can't physically take

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Speaker 4: in everything moment.

444
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 2: And then I think about.

445
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 3: The time we live in, like Instagram, social media, our phone,

446
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 3: such and such, energy vampires.

447
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 2: It's so fucking hard and everybody does because that's the

448
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: time we live in.

449
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 3: But like, imagine our moms didn't have this like major distraction,

450
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 3: like you really had what did you don't distraction?

451
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 2: Then do you think we do? You think as humans

452
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 2: we just need distraction?

453
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 1: I know?

454
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 2: Is did they have some other district I mean, yeah,

455
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: I mean big distraction than social media? Like what am

456
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 2: I talking about? No, there isn't.

457
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 3: Like it's so straining, Like even like when I put

458
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 3: my phone on airplane mode to record the like to

459
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 3: record is recording, I'm.

460
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 6: Like, there's times on my phone. Oh yeah, And I'm

461
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 6: like look at it.

462
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:01,959
Speaker 7: No you can't obviously I'm doing something like what the

463
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 7: fuck is it's literally an hour and then like you

464
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 7: freak out again, like yeah, it's like a panic.

465
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: But the other day I was like, Mommy, get off

466
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 2: your phone.

467
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 5: I was like.

468
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 8: Mom I'm like, oh god, I'm a terrible person. I

469
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 8: hope she will.

470
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 5: She will.

471
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 2: On your phone for like one second, right, But I

472
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 2: was really good.

473
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 3: And then doing selfies and ship like little I see

474
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: her and I liked you selfies like how.

475
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 2: Long the hours a day's still on?

476
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 5: Like the ugly triple chin selfies like the angles yet

477
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 5: so like I'm not chirping off of her selfies yet.

478
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 5: But one thing like I like to I like to

479
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 5: capture moments, like I just love taking pictures. So I'm

480
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 5: trying to learn how to be in the moment without

481
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 5: making it like a moment to it. But sometimes it's

482
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 5: so beautiful I want to record it, and sometimes like I.

483
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 6: Don't know, no, yes, there, okay, okay, we gotta wait,

484
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 6: we're still recording.

485
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 2: I'm coming out in a second. Go watch the movie.

486
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: I'll be there in a minute. Thank you for listening.

487
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 3: You're so good when you listen. Up, Thank you you

488
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 3: like that new garbage. Thank you for listening. You're so

489
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 3: good when you listen. Oh my god, I had an

490
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 3: issue and I felt tremendous, tremendous, tremendous, mom girl. I told,

491
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 3: I told Erica, and I talked about it at the

492
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 3: talk too. I spoke some weed and then like it

493
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 3: was really late at night and Luna was up until

494
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 3: two o'clock in the morning. I was just chilling with

495
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 3: me and my friend looking at like she's like, Mama

496
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 3: will get birth on your phone.

497
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 6: I'm look at snakes and I was just letting her.

498
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 2: And then I laid down and it was this the

499
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: same night.

500
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 5: Oh.

501
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 3: She was dellusionally tired, and I was just like, you're

502
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 3: so amazing. I love you, my best friend. You're intelligent.

503
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 3: And I was like you're amazing and she's like.

504
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 10: I am and I was like, oh, yes, yes, you

505
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 10: are amazing. She's like because I Didna's house. He said

506
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,640
Speaker 10: I was being bad.

507
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and I was. I was like, you're

508
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: being a badass. You know, you're not listening.

509
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 3: You're being bad because she was acting crazy and I

510
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, I have to really be

511
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 3: careful what I say. And then I felt even more guilt,

512
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 3: like did that really import right? I was like, oh yeah,

513
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 3: even when.

514
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 10: You don't listen, I still I still think you're amazing

515
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 10: all the time.

516
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 2: But then I had to realize, yeah, like, oh, this

517
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 2: is my friend.

518
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 3: Told me this morning she stopped in town and she

519
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 3: was like, tell him, you're so I like, you're so

520
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 3: good when you listen. I really liked that you listen,

521
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: like I thought you liked listening. Why aren't you listening

522
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 3: to me?

523
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 2: You know, like you're so good at listening? You're bad?

524
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's true because I think also kids don't

525
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 4: understand context, so like you say you're being bad, they

526
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 4: think I'm bad, right, not like that you're being But

527
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 4: even just like the word bad in general, it's not

528
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 4: a good word.

529
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: It's kind of a terrible word.

530
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 3: So why do we even identify our kids as that,

531
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 3: Like even when you're acting your.

532
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: Girls to human, I like that shure.

533
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so I felt that, But I feel grateful

534
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 3: that in that moment, you know, I can reach out

535
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 3: to my friends and I get reinforced me with good

536
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: advice and I can change it and be aware of it,

537
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 3: you know.

538
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: And then even.

539
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 3: Though that she's like intelligent enough to like remember and

540
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,679
Speaker 3: associate and no amazing, like was opposite of bad and

541
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: like that it contradicted and it was just so deep

542
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: to me.

543
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 2: So it's just because it's.

544
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 5: So deep to them, like they're so like they're they're

545
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 5: not afraid of anything, but any type of heart like

546
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 5: stabs deep, like you have to get used to like

547
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 5: sharp things being said to you, and then you just

548
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 5: like start to just like internalize and be like Okay,

549
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 5: well that's just gonna me.

550
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 6: Right, but that's awesome, that's scary.

551
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, they learned so fast, so they really like they

552
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 5: take things literal. When I tell Gray like she can't

553
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 5: get like that she can't wear something that looks absolutely insane,

554
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 5: like she gets so like upset girl.

555
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 6: I would just let her wear it. I let her

556
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 6: wear whatever she wants. She's wearing wigs.

557
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, whatever you want to wear it cool, you

558
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: like it? I love it.

559
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 3: That's yeah.

560
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 5: I don't want to be like I don't want to

561
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 5: be like, man, that outfit is trash, like you know,

562
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 5: like she made She's gonna like really feel like her

563
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 5: outfit is like, dang my mom really thinks my outfits

564
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 5: fucking suck.

565
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 3: Even as I find myself and like I feel looking cute,

566
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 3: if I was like, what the fuck do you I'm

567
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 3: first of all, I didn't ask your opinions like if

568
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: I look good, and then I've then I questioned what

569
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 3: I'm wearing, and I hate that. I don't want to question.

570
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to let somebody else make me question

571
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 3: what I sid. And I want her to be sure

572
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 3: to know, like I don't give a fuck.

573
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 5: Especially not when it's like your biggest fan, like mom,

574
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 5: you like it right this?

575
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: No go sit down somewhere.

576
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 3: Luna one time wrapped herself in pepee pads and like tape,

577
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 3: made me tape it together and insisted to be boxing

578
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 3: ice cream. And I was like, people are gonna think

579
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 3: we're homeless, fucking let's stop. People are looking at her

580
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 3: like he looks so cute.

581
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 2: She had a pumpkin but like it was before Halloween,

582
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 2: was like that's I was really picking about what she

583
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 2: wants to wear too.

584
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 4: Hey, that are getting really rough in there, Like, oh

585
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 4: my god, that was really aggressive.

586
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: Look like they're at work. Hey, no fighting, no wrestling,

587
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 2: no roles, were pushing.

588
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 4: I saw both no wrestling, go sit down both you guys,

589
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 4: y'all are tripping.

590
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: That was really rest push. Luna's strongest buck.

591
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 5: She's like me.

592
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 3: She likes to fight too. She's getting like tom Boys.

593
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 3: She's like very if I'm very aggressive.

594
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: But that's how Gray is.

595
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 6: She likes Ninja ship, like jumping off of ship.

596
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 2: She has climbing ship. Yeah, Gray love She's off of anything.

597
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 5: But then like she wants her pink boots she wants

598
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 5: her nails painted like so girly, but then also will

599
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 5: like run a little freaking marathon like in her same

600
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 5: little gideo but she has kind of like a girly

601
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 5: tomboy style kind of Naturally, I don't.

602
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: I really to wear dresses whatever she wants.

603
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 4: But sometimes but sometimes like it was cold, like should

604
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 4: want to wear like like summer dresses in the winter,

605
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 4: I'm not wearing.

606
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, when it's.

607
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 3: Like their health involved, I'm gonna make it possibly get

608
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 3: pneumonia and I'm dealing with that ship.

609
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: So you don't put these clothes off.

610
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 3: People look at me, fucked up. I let you wear

611
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 3: this you can't read bathing suit. They're gonna look at me.

612
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 2: It's not human to me.

613
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 4: But back to a mom guilt, A straight westraight we have.

614
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: We have astraight.

615
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like, do you do how do you

616
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 4: deal with like, how do you deal with mom guilt?

617
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 4: Do you ever do just kind of push through it?

618
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 2: Or do you ever do you think there's an end

619
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 2: to it? Yeah?

620
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,959
Speaker 5: I don't know, because like I always try to just

621
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 5: be like, you know what, Gray is fine. She doesn't

622
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 5: give a fuck who's watching her as long as she

623
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 5: gets to have fun and do whatever she wants to do.

624
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 5: So you're taking this time to do something for you, you know,

625
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 5: like you don't you don't take this time for bullshit,

626
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 5: You're taking it, I mean. But also sometimes you gotta

627
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 5: taken for yourself some bullshit. Sometimes sometimes it's work. And

628
00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 5: that's another thing I had to balance how to me

629
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 5: and between being so into Gray and so into my business,

630
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 5: like it would be Gray in my business Gray and

631
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 5: my business that I was going crazy because I hadn't

632
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 5: like put time into myself and I had to like

633
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 5: chill out and realize, like you have to find a

634
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 5: balance between all of the things or else you're go

635
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 5: crazy if you're only a mom. I mean, like some

636
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 5: people like can only be a mom and that doesn't

637
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 5: drive them crazy. But with me, I'm not the type

638
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 5: of person that can only be a mom. I'm just like, no, no,

639
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 5: absolutely not.

640
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,959
Speaker 4: It's funny what I'm thinking about what they said at

641
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 4: the at the top, and they were saying, it's funny.

642
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: Like dads don't have dad guilt, not that fucking.

643
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 6: Guilt.

644
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 5: Like when me and baby Daddy were together, I cussed

645
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 5: him out one night. I was just like nigga, like

646
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 5: I'm with her all fucking day. You come in, you

647
00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:01,240
Speaker 5: do five minutes. Daddy loves fucking candy. You did all

648
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 5: this fun shit for five minutes, and you were like

649
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 5: you get praised or like loved by them more because

650
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 5: like you only give them that exclusive five minutes of

651
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 5: free time and fuck the rest of my like twenty

652
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 5: three hours, and like you have to focus. Like they

653
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 5: think it's so amazing. Like when you see a picture

654
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 5: on Instagram of a dad doing a daughter's hair, everybody yea,

655
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 5: oh my gosh, I love it. But when it's a

656
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 5: mom doing it's just like this just what you posted

657
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 5: to do a gold star, Like, isn't that It's so annoying.

658
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 5: It's like the double standard is so real. It's just annoying.

659
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 3: You see a dad at the park because like even

660
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: she said, I mean Brandon Sandy took so loout and

661
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 3: everybody's like, I'll try to take pictures like, oh you

662
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 3: guys taking the.

663
00:32:54,840 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 11: Guy the kids out, Like yeah, Damnage said that on

664
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 11: our last co parenting podcast.

665
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 5: He was like he was like, yeah, I get it

666
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 5: hit on so much when it's just me and my son, and.

667
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck.

668
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 5: Like I remember we were in line to take it

669
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 5: was me and two of my friends. We were taking

670
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 5: gray to take Santa pictures. We saw this finance guy

671
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 5: with a baby strapped to his chest looking amazed.

672
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 2: I was like all of us, and then I said, no,

673
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 2: you gotta do the check.

674
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 5: There's a woman somewhere around here, and that's her man

675
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 5: and she said stand in this line to get pictures

676
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 5: and I'm gonna go do some holiday shopping. And and

677
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 5: then my cousin was like, there's no I said, I said, niggas,

678
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 5: don't walk around with the kid that young strapped down

679
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 5: that chest out a woman being around?

680
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: Who put the baby born on? Here? Where's the paper bag? Like,

681
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 2: I was like a woman somewhere and she's just like

682
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 2: she over there. I was just like I knew it.

683
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: I was like, no, oh my god, no, it's true.

684
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 4: But you know, I think I think because I was

685
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 4: listening to your podcast and you guys are talking about that,

686
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 4: and I think like women are attracted to men with

687
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 4: like who are taking care of.

688
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 2: Their kids because he's there.

689
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 4: Well, they I feel like they feel like, oh my god,

690
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 4: look them, they're like responsible, loving, not knowing about ship.

691
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: Times a year, right, like what if what if our

692
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 2: stock went up? Like a baby has a kid, It's

693
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 2: like baggage.

694
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 5: But then you also get a whole different type of

695
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 5: niggas who's looking at you when they look at you

696
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 5: and see that you have a kid and are still.

697
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:55,439
Speaker 2: With the ship.

698
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, you're like, I'm ready to settle down. Yeah, like

699
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 8: I got mom, what's up?

700
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 2: I'm a grown man. I know I can't waste your time.

701
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, just like the type of man that would hit

702
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 5: on me when I was pregnant.

703
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, you see all this belly. You are so

704
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: fucking discussed.

705
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 5: I know.

706
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm guessing that there's some.

707
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 6: Something moms who break up like pregnant.

708
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 5: I have a friend that had a boyfriend and the

709
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 5: boyfriend wasn't the baby daddy.

710
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 2: Like kind of boyfriend was pregnant, Yes, and they were

711
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: having sex. Mm hmm.

712
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: I've asked men, I think I've asked my guy friends

713
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 3: off how if they could do it? And guys said, yeah,

714
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 3: I always have, Like you had pregnant placy, that wasn't

715
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 3: your baby.

716
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: That's crazy, but it happened.

717
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 4: I think one off, but a relationship like, yeah, I

718
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 4: think pregnant women need dick too, and sometimes it happens,

719
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 4: you really do.

720
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 6: But sometimes I wanted to start, even to begin a relationship,

721
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 6: and I.

722
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 2: Feel like a relationship is a bit much like you

723
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 2: can just wait, you don't need you got all the extra.

724
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 2: I feel like pregnancy it's every now and then.

725
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 4: Okay, well the late whole boyfriends during pregnancy, a boyfriend,

726
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 4: partners or just I don't know. For me, that's that's

727
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 4: just for me.

728
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: I mean that's a lot of energies. I don't really

729
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 2: that's a lot different.

730
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 6: However, I'm sure it exists.

731
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: Like a single woman who's gonna be pregnant for nine

732
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 2: months and she maybe.

733
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 4: You got to keep your numbers down though, okay, like

734
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 4: you can't be pregnant just open ethically.

735
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, some of my guy friends did a podcast and

736
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 5: it's just the title does body Count Matter?

737
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: Like, oh but it's three guys. Oh god, what did

738
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 2: I say for women? For women? Yeah, time or less

739
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 2: makes sense.

740
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 4: Actually, I heard on your podcast he was like, women

741
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 4: like trying to keep their body count down? And I

742
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 4: thought to myself when he said that, I was like, doing,

743
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's true. You want them to

744
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 4: think that, right, you would hope that they do. But like,

745
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 4: if I want for me as a woman, if I

746
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 4: want to have sex, men have sex, I'm not counting

747
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 4: how many. Yeah, I think maybe when we were younger.

748
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 4: I'm right, and you have to like, you know, it's

749
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 4: just that's what point where you're like this list a.

750
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 5: Long time ago, because like, but then, but then you

751
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 5: also have to know that sometimes that was an energy

752
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 5: that I wanted at the time, and it's not like dudes,

753
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 5: I feel like dudes just like gou Like, I feel

754
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 5: like it takes more for a woman to fuck, but

755
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 5: I mean, like then there's women that it doesn't take

756
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 5: them much to fuck, But everybody's entitled to that. Yeah, Like,

757
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 5: and what you're attracted to in that person sexually at.

758
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 6: The time, ye purposes for different times.

759
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 5: Right, Sometimes you just want to see what that dick

760
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,439
Speaker 5: is like, right, and then sometimes you're like.

761
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:04,919
Speaker 8: A lot of time, but what what do.

762
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 5: And then very rare times is because you just find

763
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 5: somebody that's just so amazing and you just want to

764
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 5: be with them.

765
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: It's usually you just want to see what it's about.

766
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: If a man asked me like how many, I'm like,

767
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 3: are you're.

768
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 2: Twelve I would be like, that's the dumbest You're going.

769
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 6: To fuck No matter what the number is you want

770
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 6: to don't you doesn't matter.

771
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 2: I might not. Well, someone asked you that I want

772
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 2: to die? Who keeps? I was just like, I was like, well,

773
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 2: how many do you think? Yes, take a podcast and

774
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 2: then you guess.

775
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,959
Speaker 5: Then it was actually like higher, not that much higher?

776
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 2: You have? Do you know the exact time? Yeah, you

777
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: do not Off.

778
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 6: The top of my head, hoears younger than that.

779
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 2: That's a lot of years. That's about the time.

780
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 3: Like fucking lesson, that's true, you know, like eighteen nineteen twenty.

781
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,760
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm trying for you still have like a rough coat.

782
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: You know, I left my coat a long time ago.

783
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: I think around twenty three. I don't give I talk

784
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 2: about it anymore.

785
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 3: Like men and women, it is the collaboration of because

786
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 3: like because I feel like at first, you just like.

787
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 5: Let me not get into the double digits. I'm like, okay,

788
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 5: well not the teacher will tea.

789
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 4: Well, life is life is long. It's a long life,

790
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 4: all right. It is a long life. And there's a

791
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 4: lot of connections and energies you want to explore. Sometimes

792
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 4: you need to, like our bodies are made.

793
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 3: Well yeah, kind of like the exploration I've been for civilization.

794
00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: We were going to explore this earth. Why can't we

795
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: works for each other?

796
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 5: Right?

797
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? As long as we're being

798
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 2: safe and responsible, right you know? Yeah, you know we're not.

799
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 4: But those we just you know, we try really hard

800
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 4: to be. Oh my god, I just I need to

801
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 4: just you know, we need to. We need to go

802
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 4: somewhere with this Papie s thing we do. Like we

803
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 4: did this episode on birth control. Yeah, the birth control.

804
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 4: I turned into that, so I'm not on it, and

805
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:31,479
Speaker 4: I need to be.

806
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: I'm an advocate. I need to be, but I just

807
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 2: don't want that ship in my body. I just like it.

808
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 5: But I what I use is that I use the

809
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 5: app that tells you when you're fertile.

810
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: So I think, I think Pink Pad. I'm gonna try it.

811
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 2: There's another one called Flow. I had a good luck, but.

812
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 3: Because lucky, I was stemm verse control today. And I

813
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 3: don't know if you since we filed after scription I started.

814
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 4: I was supposed to start mine on you're supposed to

815
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 4: start on Sunday.

816
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: I have seven more weeks until y'all can start yeah,

817
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. I was actually gonna stop till you

818
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: don't have to start. My butt is like getting juicier.

819
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 3: I don't want to fuck to that, But I don't

820
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 3: want to suck my skin up because last time I

821
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 3: sucked it up, it was just a whole time, which

822
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 3: is another reason I don't want to be on that.

823
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 5: One of my friends, her skin got like really fucked up,

824
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 5: and her dermatologist.

825
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 2: Was like, it's your birth control. She stopped taking it.

826
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 3: Clear up, beautiful skin, I know, fucking flawless.

827
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 6: Not one more.

828
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 4: One no, no, find another toy, go find something else.

829
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:51,760
Speaker 2: Different?

830
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 3: U yeah?

831
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh so sweet. They need to go lay down

832
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 4: in the bed. M hm, No, they didn't walk walking around.

833
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 4: You know she's rocking so aggressive the baby rocking her baby?

834
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: Is that how serious I was? But I would just

835
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: be that sleepy, Like did I rocky like that? Oh

836
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 2: my god? I don't know. Should I get grand Ferbie

837
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 2: for Christmas? Yeah? I hate it? Well, I regret the

838
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 2: fuck out of it. That's my first question.

839
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 5: One of my friends, she went over one of my

840
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 5: friends house literally like she's playing She played it for

841
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 5: forty five minutes straight.

842
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 2: I care Yeah, like.

843
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 6: Like girl I wanted just for.

844
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: Forty five minutes, like two years, you.

845
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 4: Know how mu should I could get done. It's true

846
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,399
Speaker 4: at least you're not giving her a phone. In my phone,

847
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 4: Ferbie is still more like in cactile.

848
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, And my.

849
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 5: Friend she was just like and then well, my friend's

850
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 5: daughter was like, oh, she can happen, and she likes

851
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 5: it that much because it was her old one.

852
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: And then yeah, they're still making those girls.

853
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 6: Well I don't know, eBay, Yeah, it's probably four hundred

854
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 6: dollars anything that's.

855
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: No, Like, no, it's twelve dollars. We have to get

856
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 2: it from I'm dying to look it up. I too.

857
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's like dollars. But the fun out of

858
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 2: my parents for that furby, I died. I was going

859
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: to die.

860
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 3: It was like the fourth or third grade or some ship.

861
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 3: I thought I was gonna die if I didn't get one.

862
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: My mom was I think I ever got one. They

863
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: were sold out everyone. My mom was like, you don't understand.

864
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 3: I saw Okay with it and it just snatched it out.

865
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 3: She's been shressing me up.

866
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, okay, and here it is ninety four dollars.

867
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,240
Speaker 4: It's still it's still had thirty six, twenty three, okay,

868
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 4: thirty one. Oh my god, they're so creepy.

869
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 2: So Cy didn't like, No, I love its creepy. This

870
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 2: it's like a zebra. It would be the one very

871
00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: would fucking life and everybody.

872
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 5: He's ugly as well. Basically, so my friend I was like, yeah,

873
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,800
Speaker 5: your daughter said that grey.

874
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 2: Can keep the Ferbie.

875
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 5: She said no, no, no, any child that comes over

876
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 5: my house plays with that Ferbie, and the Ferbie is

877
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 5: the babysitter.

878
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 2: And I was just like, oh my god, the Ferbie is.

879
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 5: These ugly shoes. She wanted them so bad. I was like, baby,

880
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 5: I can't.

881
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 2: They're so cute. Look she's not. I was like, I'm

882
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: sure Target will have something better, and we found.

883
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 4: I let I buy some, really, I let her buy.

884
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 4: I bought some really ugly shoes and I really don't want.

885
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 2: To buy the other day.

886
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 4: And they're like they're like the ones that like, you know,

887
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 4: they like have the bell crow, but they're like multi pink.

888
00:44:56,360 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 4: It's a rainbow and they light up spark enough ones.

889
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, twinkles.

890
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 6: There's just I know know she hates I have it

891
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 6: on an opinion and it's not your cool style.

892
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 2: It's always I don't really care.

893
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 4: It's only like when I'm trying to have choreographed looks

894
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 4: with her and then she's not participating, or we're going

895
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 4: to the event and I'm like, look, this is what

896
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 4: you're wearing, because this one's real fucking cute and we're

897
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 4: about to be too bad for it, right, we need

898
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 4: to put this on to at least once.

899
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 5: I saw I saw an outfit like that because I've

900
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 5: been saving it. I'm like, I'm gonna save that from

901
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 5: when we go to an event or somewhere really cute.

902
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 5: And then I just looked at it yesterday I was like, oh, bitch,

903
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 5: short sleeves and a short skirt, we gotta wear this tomorrow.

904
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 4: Wear this, Like I hate when you like you never

905
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 4: go like I miss outfits like they algorithm.

906
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 3: I know, mom guilt, kind of like I missed the

907
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 3: window for this beautiful out waste, waste of money.

908
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 2: Take it off. You can't even cover your palace. And

909
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 2: we have like we have huge kids. Our kids are

910
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 2: tall and long kids.

911
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 5: They are yeah and great, She's like the height of

912
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 5: most of the three year olds on the playground.

913
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been buying iris.

914
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, I like gray words three t She had on

915
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 5: forty leggings the other day. But she has these juicy

916
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 5: handy thighs, so her thighs than you did you breast food, I.

917
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: Did for a year and a half. I still have

918
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 2: milk in this boob six months, No, like a year,

919
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 2: because she's like almost a year and a half booth

920
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 2: this one. Wow, I want a boob job. I want

921
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 2: you me too.

922
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 5: I just like, but she stuck, like I already had

923
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 5: small boobs and she sucked the life out of them.

924
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 5: And now I'm just like with these little sad babies,

925
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 5: sounds just like they need some love.

926
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 3: Also, I have a theory, a theory about this is

927
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: my six surgery theory for breast treating moms.

928
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 6: I feel like, if you've breastfed and then you want

929
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 6: to get a boob.

930
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 3: Job, it will sit naturally low key because your breast

931
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 3: has already like experienced that that.

932
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 6: Last tisty stretch or whatever. So like look because I mean, I.

933
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 3: Think, like my like, that's the only way I'm to

934
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 3: be able to pull off like fake boobs because I'm

935
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 3: such a small frame.

936
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 2: But you just don't get extra large breast, no, I wouldn't.

937
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 11: Don't my extra mom turn into a bitch?

938
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 5: Well, I my.

939
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 2: Best and that's when I've made I love my boobs.

940
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 2: You have great boobs.

941
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 6: You want to really set off my inspiration.

942
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 5: One one of the girls that I follow on Instagram,

943
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 5: her name is raven Elise.

944
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,879
Speaker 2: But she's just got a boob job. That's too long ago.

945
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 2: Just let me next.

946
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 4: It's scary though, it's scary under search. I don't know

947
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 4: if I had a job.

948
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 5: When she turned fifty it was her birthday time. Oh okay,

949
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 5: she had divorced and she had a boot job. I

950
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 5: was like, okay, Mom, I like this.

951
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: I like this.

952
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 2: You go you happy? Like I was like, okay, she

953
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 2: had a booth job, a divorce and went to Tahiti.

954
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 2: It's best year ever. Wow.

955
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I said, fuck this, I probably need to redo

956
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,919
Speaker 4: my boot job at fifty. No, we probably won't never.

957
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 4: I mean they say that, but like I dubted, that's

958
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 4: a good boot job.

959
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom didn't. My mom had her boobstone and

960
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 2: she didn't. She took him out. But after twenty eight years, Look,

961
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 2: they were like that. The doctor that took him out

962
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,280
Speaker 2: was like, your you're implants in perfect condition. It's crazy,

963
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 2: I've ever seen anything like it. No, yeah, you just

964
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: have to like go for your like check.

965
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 4: And also when she would get mamograms, they wouldn't know

966
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 4: she had a boot job, like she that's how good

967
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 4: this doctor was at the time. Because when I was

968
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 4: in and she's like, you need to go blah blah blah,

969
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 4: I can remember his name and I was like, Mom,

970
00:48:58,800 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 4: he's been retired for.

971
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: You can't see anymore. He now needs a doctor. Fuck,

972
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:13,720
Speaker 2: that's so funny.

973
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 6: We're so stone, We're forgetting the topic. You guys, mom guilt.

974
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 5: I feel like we just keep saying we're just like, well,

975
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 5: mom guilt, mom guilt.

976
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 2: Because everything in life is equal and a.

977
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 5: Coll and sometimes like like you just need to sit

978
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 5: and talk shit about your kids, and you shouldn't have

979
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 5: mom guild about that because they're little assholes and yeah,

980
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 5: like they're amazing, but they push you and they test you,

981
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 5: and they know how to fuck with you and they.

982
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 2: Know how to get under you.

983
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 5: Bet Yeah, and sometimes you just gotta call them a

984
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 5: little asshole, not to their face, but like, sometimes you

985
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 5: gotta talk shit about your kid. It's just like how

986
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 5: you have to talk shit about whatever you guy or

987
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 5: her friend? Can you believe this bitch did this?

988
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 2: Like your boss?

989
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 5: Oh?

990
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 4: Yes, my child? And three two, I don't know what's

991
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 4: happening in two for you or you. I didn't have

992
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 4: terrible too.

993
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 2: She doesn't terrible.

994
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 5: She I mean like she has like her little like fallouts,

995
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 5: but she knows that. I'm just like, okay, girl, bye,

996
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 5: She's gonna be okay, come on like and then she'll

997
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 5: come with me.

998
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 2: Like but three this tantrump ship. My sister has twin girls.

999
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 2: I've been pissing me off.

1000
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 4: But I've been feeling mom guilt too because I'm like,

1001
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 4: am I am I impatient? Or is she crazy as fun?

1002
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, which one's sucking up here? Like you'd be

1003
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 4: having a lot of patience? You're patient?

1004
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:53,760
Speaker 2: Is fine?

1005
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,720
Speaker 4: I have a lot of patience me to be more patient,

1006
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 4: I don't think I have. I think I think you're

1007
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 4: pretty patient. I mean, I think to be a parent

1008
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 4: you have to be patient. But I don't go patient.

1009
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 4: So I'm like, I will funk you up. And I'm like,

1010
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 4: I sit down. I'm saying, but do I fuck her

1011
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 4: up now? Because you know I don't advocate, you know,

1012
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 4: hitting your children but you know, every child needs ass

1013
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 4: thing every now and then to remember is a little

1014
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 4: flip or something.

1015
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 2: Scared, But she's not, but she's crazy crazy. She's yeah,

1016
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 2: like a good pals.

1017
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 6: You know, not all kids, but most kids a little every.

1018
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 5: Now it's just like hey, quit trying me, like remember

1019
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 5: who the fuck I am?

1020
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: And they're just like my bad, my bad. Most things

1021
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 2: you could talk through, but sometimes act like she's deaf.

1022
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 2: Yeah you can.

1023
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 5: You can talk through a lot, but sometimes you just

1024
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 5: have to like just get their attention.

1025
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 2: Just a little bit, just be like, hey, oh no,

1026
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 2: I did a big I scream the other day, like bro, like.

1027
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 4: Play a real quick one. She's like, she's like, mom,

1028
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 4: you're scaring me.

1029
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 2: Like, don't try that. I really like, what is? How

1030
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 2: are you? You're scared? She's like a fucking Disney Commerce right.

1031
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 2: And then I was like, was that too much? Scare her?

1032
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 3: Mom?

1033
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 6: Girls?

1034
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: Did I scare her? And I was like, maybe I'm

1035
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:35,240
Speaker 2: not patient.

1036
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 4: She like tested me forty five times. She said it

1037
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 4: ten for ten thousand forty isn't me? Yeah, I don't know,

1038
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 4: it's you know, it's just like these little babies are

1039
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 4: like reflections of us, and yeah, they like, they like

1040
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,399
Speaker 4: are like a mirror test, and you start to see

1041
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 4: the things that you know you need to that you

1042
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 4: maybe you need to work on or like or like

1043
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 4: that you know you want to pass on to them,

1044
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 4: or the things you said you were going to work

1045
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 4: on like a million years ago. But now you have

1046
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 4: the kids, so now you actually should probably try to

1047
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 4: work on them because now like they're going to copy

1048
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,720
Speaker 4: you and do exactly the same ship you've tried to unlearn.

1049
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 5: And then you're gonna get mad at them for acting

1050
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 5: like you.

1051
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 4: And that's a you're gonna go guilty because.

1052
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 2: I feel you're still a piece of shit and not

1053
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 2: easy that you kids.

1054
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 4: I feel like having kids is like the most like

1055
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 4: like you have.

1056
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 2: It's like forces you to work on yourself. There was

1057
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 2: a boat that's it's.

1058
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 5: Not settled too, because it's just like if I wouldn't

1059
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 5: want this for you, why should I have that for me?

1060
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 5: Like you have to be selfish and good to yourself

1061
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 5: because that's what your kid is seeing.

1062
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 4: So but also like you want like the mom guilts

1063
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 4: thing with work and stuff. It's like I think and

1064
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 4: you know, dads don't have guilt about like going to

1065
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 4: work and you know, providing for their family whatever you

1066
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 4: know that looks like to people, and moms do and

1067
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 4: if anything, I think it's so important for a child

1068
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 4: to see both of their parents, you know, working towards something,

1069
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 4: fulfilling a dream, just just having some sort of you know,

1070
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 4: of something that they're focused on other than just being

1071
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 4: a parent, and you know, just so that they can

1072
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 4: see that too. I think especially girls. I think little

1073
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 4: girls seeing their moms do that because it's so you know,

1074
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 4: in society, it's so typical to see like a man

1075
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 4: that's like, you know, he's a provider, he's the head

1076
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 4: of the household. But things have shifted so much over

1077
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 4: the last fifty years, forty years, and it increases that

1078
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 4: rapid pace, you know now even more so. But I

1079
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 4: think that's what we have to keep in mind too,

1080
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 4: is that like she like she needs to see this.

1081
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: She's okay, she's with someone, she's with someone she loves,

1082
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 4: she's someone safe.

1083
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 2: You know, she's happy.

1084
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 4: You're happy and I's not. And if she's not happy,

1085
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 4: then you okay, what am I doing? How what do

1086
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 4: I need to adjust?

1087
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1088
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 4: Because yeah, kids will be dramatic and but but there's

1089
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 4: also truth that they're trying to tell you, Like Mommy

1090
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 4: like why that's why when she says certain things, I'm like, Okay,

1091
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 4: what are you trying to tell? Are you being dramatic

1092
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 4: or about his mommy been away too much?

1093
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 2: You know, because I don't want that either.

1094
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:27,839
Speaker 5: Balance, But it's hard to balance because, like I feel

1095
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 5: like people have always asked me, like, when does it

1096
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 5: get easier?

1097
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 2: When does like when do things let up?

1098
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 5: I'm like, at whatever age they're that they need something

1099
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,319
Speaker 5: in a different way, and they still like regardless, they

1100
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 5: still need more, and you still have to give them

1101
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 5: more and more and more, and even like continue to

1102
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 5: pay attention to them enough so you know what they

1103
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 5: need to.

1104
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 2: So it's just like, why did Lona, why did you

1105
00:55:56,080 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 2: do that? Will look like an access Why did you

1106
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:04,240
Speaker 2: do that? Why did you draw that baby's face?

1107
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 5: Luna?

1108
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 2: Good? Permanent marker on IRI's baby? Why did they have

1109
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 2: a permanent marker?

1110
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 4: I don't know where's that markby? What else did they

1111
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:15,760
Speaker 4: permanent marker? Where's that marker?

1112
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 2: Go?

1113
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 4: Bring it in here? You better not drawn any more faces?

1114
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 4: No one period?

1115
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 2: Did what else did you draw on? I? O?

1116
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: My god?

1117
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 2: What I have to record this. O my god, Luna,

1118
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:02,479
Speaker 2: where's the marker? Marker? Where is it? Please? Oh my god?

1119
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 2: I wish you guys could see this what we're looking at?

1120
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 3: Oh?

1121
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 2: Is that the wad? Or was that fine? That a second?

1122
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 5: Look?

1123
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 2: I know what is the mark you guys? I need

1124
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 2: more she brought. That's not the marker. That's not the marker.

1125
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 2: Where's the marker? Maybe it's a crayon? Okay, just just

1126
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: all right, okay, go go said please? How am I

1127
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 2: gonna edit this ship? Look how she look? How lotta

1128
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 2: turns out? Oh god, we gotta say wow, okay, all right,

1129
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: we chilled. Should be like that drink you want to

1130
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 2: keep your Okay, never mind, I'm done done. We subs

1131
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 2: cracked up anyway, not get more story.

1132
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 4: Have children to see you working? They need to see

1133
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 4: anything you love it? No, they don't need to see

1134
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 4: you going out every fucking time like all the time.

1135
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 2: There's a balance and you know, like okay you were just.

1136
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 5: Give them like you said, like that like consistent time.

1137
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 5: I think that's like such a good idea, just like

1138
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 5: how y'all dance like do yoga whatever?

1139
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 2: Like that consistent time?

1140
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 5: And I think we struggle with that, but I know,

1141
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 5: like every Sunday, I like to make breakfast for us, like,

1142
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 5: so that's like a big It's not like a daily

1143
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 5: bond because sometimes we get up and we like hit

1144
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 5: the ground running, like going to get like fabric and

1145
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 5: stuff from the fashion district. And then other mornings we

1146
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 5: just chill and watch stuff, or we'll do learning stuff,

1147
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 5: or we just watch movies. But I do try to

1148
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 5: find some type of time daily and I think I

1149
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 5: think that's a great way to balance it.

1150
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 2: And I'm gonna try that more. Yeah, no, for sure,

1151
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 2: but it's never gonna end.

1152
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 5: No.

1153
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 4: And then like one of the women at the panel,

1154
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 4: she has a thirty year old daughter, and she's like,

1155
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 4: my daughter guilds me.

1156
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 2: Now. She'll be like, well, I'm like, can we hang out?

1157
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 4: And you know, and she'll be like, you know, I know,

1158
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 4: I know that I dedicate my time to my daughter, like,

1159
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 4: but I also know, like, you know, she genuinely likes

1160
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 4: to hang out with me too, But I have to

1161
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 4: have I have to have some sort of balance. She's like,

1162
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 4: I don't want to call it boundaries because she's my child,

1163
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 4: but I do there is some there are things that

1164
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 4: I need in order to be a good mom, and

1165
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 4: I have to be like remind myself that I'm more

1166
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 4: I am somebody's mother, and I'll always be that, but

1167
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,760
Speaker 4: I'm also like Erica, you know what I mean, and

1168
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 4: I need to go do you know you could?

1169
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 2: You need to be both. You can't just be mother.

1170
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 3: You can't just be the old you, you know, because

1171
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 3: there's a Blenton, now there's a there's a mommele right,

1172
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 3: So you still have to like add that aspect in there.

1173
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:16,919
Speaker 3: And it's a tiny human and you have to really

1174
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 3: be conscious of you know that you actually have to

1175
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 3: be conscious of the ship you do now because it

1176
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 3: actually matters.

1177
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 6: That same night, like she was up so late, I

1178
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 6: saided like feeling.

1179
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 3: So guilty that I was gonna grow with my child

1180
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 3: because she doesn't have structure and I didn't have structure.

1181
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 2: Now I can't take structure.

1182
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 3: And now we're gonna like be curse for life and

1183
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 3: she has no by time I'm a parent. Oh my god,

1184
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 3: my gosh, she's four or four years my by so

1185
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 3: fast and basically.

1186
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,600
Speaker 2: I can't swalk that weed anymore.

1187
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 3: But I was like crying, like like maybe having a

1188
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 3: small panic attack. But you know that mom GIL was

1189
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 3: getting to me because I know I need to be

1190
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 3: better and because the weed.

1191
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 4: But it's a little bit of both, you know, mom

1192
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 4: guild is like the worst field of all types of rights.

1193
01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 4: It's you're responsible for this like innocent, beautiful, like little

1194
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 4: person that like has no choice but to model after you.

1195
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 4: It's not even like they even have a choice, Like

1196
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 4: I couldn't love it.

1197
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't even have to do it. They just

1198
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 2: love you.

1199
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 12: Oh so, but you know what was the most the

1200
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 12: most important thing we said. That's already I forgot because

1201
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 12: I'm high. But the most important thing that they said

1202
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 12: the meeting was just like the.

1203
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 3: Biggest and best gage is is your kid happy? If

1204
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 3: your kid's happy, you're doing something right. If you can

1205
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 3: be doing shit better, do shit better. Don't make excuses.

1206
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 3: But you know, brush's heade of the GIL when you

1207
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 3: know that your kid is healthy and happy and you know,

1208
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 3: clothing well and you.

1209
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 4: Know, just there's different signs to happy, Like it's just like,

1210
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 4: how's your kid like doing in school? How's your kids

1211
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 4: socializing with people?

1212
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 3: Like?

1213
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 2: How you know, like you'll you'll know the signs you

1214
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: know if your kid is happy? Yeah, yeah, our kids

1215
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 2: are fu happy. They're just fine. Yeah, they're great.

1216
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 3: They're spoiled, wonderful, amazing, great children. They have nothing to

1217
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 3: worry about. Yeah. Like the simplest things make Na happy,

1218
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 3: you know, like I buy all this ship and she likes,

1219
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 3: like the two dollars thing. I got a CBS you know,

1220
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 3: the Vamporina microphone from CBS.

1221
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 11: The other way, Yeah, something random, Like it's like when

1222
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 11: people say you buy them, you buy them on tour

1223
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 11: and they want to play with the box, like the

1224
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 11: box can.

1225
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 2: Be right right, that's a space. She loves boxes.

1226
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, speaking of happiness and crying, Jamila had a little

1227
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 4: emotional moment this weekend called me and was.

1228
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 6: Like, just to be clear, I was on a period

1229
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 6: this week.

1230
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 2: She was like, I just can't. I just got off

1231
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 2: Sierra's Instagram.

1232
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 4: I was like Sierra.

1233
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 2: I was like, who's Sierra?

1234
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 5: You know?

1235
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 3: Why?

1236
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 2: Two steps?

1237
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 4: She's like Sierra And I was like like, is this

1238
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 4: someone we know? She's like, no, like one two steps Sierra.

1239
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 4: Literally that's what she said to me. And I was like,

1240
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 4: oh okay.

1241
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 2: She's like Russell. I'm like, okay, they're perfect. They're in love.

1242
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 13: He's the best stepdaddy all America and she got him.

1243
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 13: There's none less for us to bitch. They're not looking

1244
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 13: for us. What if we don't have a blended family.

1245
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 13: What if he doesn't have a coin.

1246
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 2: I'm crying. If you're if you have if you have blended.

1247
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 3: Family, stepdaddy fantasies, stay away from Russell and Sierra's instagram.

1248
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 2: Well, I don't feel like you would do anything for

1249
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 2: me though.

1250
01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 6: I mean, you know what, it's just like the single

1251
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 6: mom's dream. Like someone's gonna say, isn't nearing, that's unstable?

1252
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, But you know this ship is hard.

1253
01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 2: Having a partner ain't so bad. I'm just gonna sweep

1254
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 2: me off of my feet.

1255
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 3: I'd like to They're gonna have my back. You know,

1256
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 3: I can do somethings. But yeah, I was having a moment.

1257
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 6: I had shed those couple of tears because I was feeling.

1258
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: I get it the eyes.

1259
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 4: When I saw the picture of like the videos of

1260
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 4: like him taking care of her kid and their new

1261
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 4: child together, it's anorable.

1262
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 2: I was like, that's really precious. Wow, and he's only thirty.

1263
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 4: I know he's a baby too, well baby compared to her.

1264
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 4: Oh we're the same age pretty much. Yeah, I don't

1265
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,439
Speaker 4: know thirty Actually she might be the same age too, No,

1266
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 4: she's older, she's like thirty five.

1267
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she just turned thirty five.

1268
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 4: Really, which is much.

1269
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 3: Which also makes me think like maybe we should go

1270
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 3: young and you mold them.

1271
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 2: I don't think. I can't be patient. I don't. I

1272
01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 2: just want attracted to two younger guys. This little I can't.

1273
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 5: Even talk about. We can talk about them. We can

1274
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 5: talk about them later. I shouldn't up m mom guilt.

1275
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

1276
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 11: No.

1277
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 3: But also, anybody who just recently got engaged, like anybody.

1278
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 5: Two people I follow just got engaged in Paris.

1279
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 6: Paris, right, both of them, gotta gage your parents.

1280
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 2: Have two different people?

1281
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 5: Like wait, I was just like it's beautiful, and then

1282
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 5: I was like another one, fine, Like fuck y'all that awesome,

1283
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 5: that's awesome.

1284
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying.

1285
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 5: I'm still like I really am enjoying like my single

1286
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 5: hood though, and dating, like I'm really enjoying that.

1287
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 3: But they think it's fun and sad all the same thing,

1288
01:05:53,040 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 3: like the sun Sons, fun sad burrito, fun fund burrito,

1289
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 3: you know, just rolled together.

1290
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 6: I'm like, I don't know why I made that. I

1291
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 6: don't know why I said ato.

1292
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 5: She wanted to say, because kids pushing, kids push your five.

1293
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 2: Minutes, yeah, five minutes, and then we'll give you a

1294
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 2: piece of candy. Don't ask me why I just said that. Why, like, bitch, like,

1295
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 2: do you have a kid? Are you even a mom?

1296
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 2: Is it real that raspberry?

1297
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 5: No?

1298
01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 2: I just gave her that idea. She was going to

1299
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 2: give them handy. She has them under her pillow, hiding,

1300
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 2: stashing at home.

1301
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 4: What I want.

1302
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 2: To I want to cream. I want that whole thing.

1303
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 4: Our friend made this like amazing dessert with biscuits, like

1304
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 4: the ones that come in like the can and what

1305
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:08,959
Speaker 4: do you like to take the center out and then.

1306
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:10,760
Speaker 3: You just like make up make a whole and then

1307
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 3: you like flash fry them and then you like to

1308
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 3: pop them in the oven for a minute. Then you

1309
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,439
Speaker 3: toss them and sugar and cinnamon and then you dre's

1310
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 3: some fucking caramel and that bitch and ice cream and

1311
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 3: ice cream and strawberries and.

1312
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 6: It's fucking delicious. Did you guys get that biscuits?

1313
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 3: Bottle, flash fry, bake, sprinkle with some cinnamon and.

1314
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 5: God, I was doing something by putting some butter and

1315
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 5: sugar like croissants, the crescent thing.

1316
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 2: Oh that's good.

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01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, that ship was bomb, but I never even thought

1318
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 5: to do all that.

1319
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 2: That's like one of the like a gourmet chef, like

1320
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 2: the pops up like on Facebook. You're like, I'm gonna

1321
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 2: try that.

1322
01:07:54,400 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 5: You never get that ship like the ingredients shout out

1323
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 5: to its fucking dessert.

1324
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 2: I know. I just don't want to make it. It's

1325
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 2: actually so quick I do. What's your go to? I

1326
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 2: always make limon pepper wings.

1327
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 6: Like you find Georgia.

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01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 5: The little ratchet winglets. It's the whole wing a little bit.

1329
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:29,320
Speaker 2: I love.

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01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 5: That's like my go to, and everybody loves my mac

1331
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 5: and cheese. And Gray doesn't eat vegetables, so like lemon

1332
01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:44,600
Speaker 5: pepper wings and mac and cheese with whatever vegetable that

1333
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:45,559
Speaker 5: Gray doesn't.

1334
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 4: See, you, you can disguise things of mac and cheese.

1335
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:52,799
Speaker 2: Flower.

1336
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 5: I've never gotten it, but just cause every time, like

1337
01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 5: if we if we go eat at public color is

1338
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 5: not nutritious at all.

1339
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:07,400
Speaker 2: Okay, well, but it's better than like there some ke cheese.

1340
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:10,360
Speaker 5: When we go to public school. I get her to

1341
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:13,360
Speaker 5: the fried collar flower and I tell her it's chicken

1342
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 5: nuggets and she bucks them up, and I'm just like,

1343
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 5: what like, but there's no nutritional value.

1344
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 2: I don't think there is o.

1345
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 3: Her buttons okay, where she's so tired.

1346
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna go get them in a second. Look

1347
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 2: at her.

1348
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 4: Her pajamas are on wrong, But I did look at

1349
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 4: my tor child, confused and lost.

1350
01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 2: She's so tired. She didn't know what you're talking about anyway,

1351
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 2: So that's we should probably wrap it up. Yeah, so

1352
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 2: what so what we hit on?

1353
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:05,800
Speaker 6: Okay, this is mom girl is everywhere. Beware of it,

1354
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 6: tiding behind corners.

1355
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 2: It's sitting right behind you.

1356
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 5: I saw this meme and it was like somebody standing

1357
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 5: like this and they were wearing all black, and the

1358
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 5: meme said, my depression watching me having fun.

1359
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 2: I love the internet. So that's funny. So we got

1360
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 2: two stones a little Yeah, for sure.

1361
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 5: Obviously hopefully people that are listening smokes along with us,

1362
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 5: so they're right.

1363
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:45,879
Speaker 3: I always encourage me smoking Journey's episodes because we usually

1364
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:46,679
Speaker 3: are stone.

1365
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 2: I'm very sober. I have no idea what.

1366
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 3: You're doing, bullshit. Tell us your handles, tell us your

1367
01:10:55,960 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 3: blog so people can confind you and listen to your

1368
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 3: podcasting Lula Let go the Pillow.

1369
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1370
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:09,599
Speaker 5: So my my blog and Instagram is c A X

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01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 5: s h E.

1372
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 2: And my podcast is called Dualities Podcast. Yeah, I got

1373
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:20,200
Speaker 2: check it out. So basically.

1374
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 5: Damage and I are arguing like male and female point

1375
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 5: of views from different things. Like our last one was

1376
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 5: about co parenting. So he talked about, yeah, I can

1377
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 5: get up and cook breakfast for my son. I'm like, yeah,

1378
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 5: you do that like once a week, twice a week,

1379
01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 5: like you don't have to do it consistently. He was like,

1380
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 5: well I can, and I said, and he was like,

1381
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 5: and I have. I said how many times compared to

1382
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 5: his mom? How many times? And he was like that's true.

1383
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 5: So we're arguing about shit like that, dumb shit the

1384
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:55,720
Speaker 5: dudes do dating that they blow out of proportion or

1385
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:59,280
Speaker 5: lie about. Like I'm calling him out on his shit

1386
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 5: and he's calling women out on our ship.

1387
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 2: So okay, let's go. I love that. I love that concept,

1388
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 2: but women are always right there arguing about.

1389
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:16,679
Speaker 5: Basically telling him why I'm in her trash. Educate you, yes.

1390
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 6: Do you have any horries.

1391
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 2: Stories? I don't, you know what?

1392
01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:30,360
Speaker 5: So I've been listening to your podcast and I listen

1393
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:31,840
Speaker 5: I'm just like, what would be.

1394
01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:35,679
Speaker 2: I'm just like, do I really not have a horry?

1395
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 2: Like I don't, not one single. I don't believe her.

1396
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 6: It's no way rights.

1397
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 2: They don't tell you ship right, No, I don't. I

1398
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 2: don't know.

1399
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 5: I don't know it just but but a whore is

1400
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 5: like a really amazing sex story that goes bad.

1401
01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:57,680
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to go bad. It could just be

1402
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:01,600
Speaker 3: something really horry that you did or really horror, just

1403
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 3: like a slutty slutty thing you didn't want to do.

1404
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 2: You have any recent things or any o G. When

1405
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 2: somebody's getting.

1406
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 4: You're gonna love me and you're just gonna say it

1407
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 4: like you the best horrip.

1408
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 2: I thought about it recently and it still ended good.

1409
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:32,559
Speaker 2: I felt really respected. Horry compilation all of them are

1410
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 2: top like five horries.

1411
01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 3: It's good.

1412
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 2: I mean lokey though, like horror, like we need better.

1413
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 4: Horries are always the best, but I need to work

1414
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 4: on like creating more horror.

1415
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:48,000
Speaker 2: But did I tell you the horror an o G

1416
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 2: horry about the time about the guy who had an

1417
01:13:52,800 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 2: ankle bracelet, No, I love you go on?

1418
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 3: It was like and then about them no, oh god,

1419
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:06,840
Speaker 3: I shouldn't tell myself time.

1420
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 2: Why are my horries always in Philly? I always some

1421
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:11,759
Speaker 2: horses shied peeling because it's a bad idea.

1422
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 3: I went We went out, and then I went to

1423
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 3: blah wah, which is like Local seven eleven equivalent, and

1424
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 3: that's betting sandwich. And I was like, leave it to me.

1425
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:23,880
Speaker 3: The guy the clerk was really cute. So I came

1426
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 3: back around and then brought my numb back anyway could

1427
01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 3: picked me up, and he was like, yeah, like I'm

1428
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:32,639
Speaker 3: kind of like on house to rest, like I can.

1429
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 2: A little bit.

1430
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:37,320
Speaker 3: I could go to work and ship because that's on

1431
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 3: my schedule, and then like I could go make certain stops.

1432
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 2: So I'm supposed to be aplying for some jobs day,

1433
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pick up. We gotta come right outside because

1434
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 2: I gotta keep over. Wait, you've got to keep He's

1435
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 2: supposed to be in transit, like from work or like

1436
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 2: to an interview. Right back. I cannot house.

1437
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 3: So he went to Staples, walked around Staples. He was like,

1438
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:12,240
Speaker 3: whisper and sweet nothings in my ear, like figuring walking yeah, yeah,

1439
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 3: like you know, touching me like pets in my neck,

1440
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 3: like you know, like the old school, Hays High School,

1441
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:17,560
Speaker 3: break behind you walk.

1442
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 2: So then I was like, you know, I'm getting hungry.

1443
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 2: He like, let me run in Boston Market or some shit.

1444
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:30,760
Speaker 2: Oh god.

1445
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 3: So then when we get back in the car and

1446
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 3: he goes to CVS like I gotta get something like whatever.

1447
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:40,400
Speaker 2: So he called me like I think I really like him.

1448
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 2: She's like, do not fuck him.

1449
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 3: I was like, he writes books the black women, he

1450
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 3: writes the black poems about them.

1451
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:52,080
Speaker 2: She's like, whatever, I don't fuck. I'm like, okay. So

1452
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 2: he got the phone.

1453
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 3: Then he texts me like, Whi's past the pharmacy where

1454
01:15:58,720 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 3: I can go, but you can't. Like what's past the pharmacy.

1455
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 2: I was like that I can't go. But it was

1456
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, this is never liked. I

1457
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:15,240
Speaker 2: was like.

1458
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 10: If I got out the car, like obviously that it's

1459
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,240
Speaker 10: a bathroom.

1460
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:23,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1461
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 3: I went into the past the pharmacy, to the men's

1462
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:26,840
Speaker 3: bathroom and.

1463
01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 2: The previous bathroom. Who was then I met He was fine, though, And.

1464
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 3: It's a very questionable story about my character in general

1465
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 3: and my morals.

1466
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,840
Speaker 2: But you're living it was fair. It was not that long.

1467
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:53,880
Speaker 2: It was long ago and not long enough ago. The

1468
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 2: riddle really caught me. Yeah, you know, I'm like, never,

1469
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 2: I don't know love. Yeah, it's clamoring, clever, I always

1470
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 2: have you love it, you love it, I love it.

1471
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what I'd be loving. I'm adamantly confused

1472
01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:19,160
Speaker 3: about the love it because.

1473
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 2: I confuse myself with the fun bitch.

1474
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 3: Anyway that you may.

1475
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:29,679
Speaker 2: Have topped the other one. No, that other one, the top,

1476
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 2: that was the top.

1477
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 5: So many steps, and I was like, okay, okay, like

1478
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 5: every step.

1479
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 2: Holding Friday.

1480
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 3: If you don't know what we're talking about, you gotta

1481
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 3: go back and listen to paid sex, raw sex, something

1482
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 3: like this, paid sex, strange sex.

1483
01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 4: Wait, parad pelegics, we're sex, strange sex, paid sex, something

1484
01:17:56,439 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 4: like that with.

1485
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,639
Speaker 2: There lots of sex is in it. Yeah, it's weezy

1486
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 2: from horrible decisions. Yeah.

1487
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 3: If you're not, if you're just joining us, catch up,

1488
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 3: listen to some previous episodes.

1489
01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 2: There's some goodies and some good stories. Okay, we're coming, babe.

1490
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 4: All right, we're wrapping up here because the children need

1491
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:16,840
Speaker 4: to take the rest of it. But thank you so

1492
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 4: much for coming and joining us.

1493
01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 2: Of course, thank you for having me. Yeah, to get

1494
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:32,680
Speaker 2: on your podcast.

1495
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 5: Bully like, that's why.

1496
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 2: All of this all right?

1497
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 3: Well, come see us on Instagram a good mom center square.

1498
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, bad choices. And then also we are doing an

1499
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:54,160
Speaker 4: event about the top December twelfth, December. Yes, I might

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01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 4: have to slide that into the time. We're having an

1501
01:18:56,840 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 4: event on the twelve at the corner door in Culver City.

1502
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 4: So come hang and have our special good night drinks,

1503
01:19:04,400 --> 01:19:08,799
Speaker 4: good night cocktail in my cocktail. We'll catch you guys

1504
01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 4: next time. Enjoy the rest of your week, have a

1505
01:19:11,880 --> 01:19:15,320
Speaker 4: beautiful weekend, and catch you later.

1506
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:23,080
Speaker 1: I don't we don't worry. Don't worry about people in

1507
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 1: my face.

1508
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,800
Speaker 2: I hit them with the styling freeze and what's the

1509
01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:30,559
Speaker 2: ankles break? I know you wish shine or your wish

1510
01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 2: shine with fade away, but I got water.

1511
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 1: Say lot day crave, Let.

1512
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:41,479
Speaker 2: Me slip through. Why are you trying to hold me back.

1513
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,439
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to move up on little all this

1514
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:48,800
Speaker 2: little less today. Feel me, let me come through. I'm

1515
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:50,080
Speaker 2: trying to be in the back.

1516
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to move up front little more this

1517
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:54,879
Speaker 1: little less daddy yell.

1518
01:19:56,520 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 2: Then tell me I'm could have made up a good

1519
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:07,200
Speaker 2: good thing. The news all day all night, all right,

1520
01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 2: all right, okay h