1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to this Country Life. I'm your host, Brent Reeves. 2 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: From coon hunting to trot lining and just general country living. 3 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: I want you to stay a while as I share 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: my stories and the country skills that will help you 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: beat the system. This Country Life is proudly presented as 6 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: part of Meat Eaters Podcast Network, bringing you the best 7 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: outdoor podcast the airways have to offer. All right, friends, 8 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: pull you up a chair or drop that tailgate. I 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: think I got a thing or two. The teacher, kids 10 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: and outdoors. Summer's coming to an end and just about 11 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,279 Speaker 1: all the kids are back in school. I know it's 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: a relief for some, but with my eleven year old 13 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: Bailey back in the schoolhouse, I am fresh out of 14 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: folks to play with during the day. It got me 15 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: to thinking about all the stuff we've done over the summer, 16 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: and that brought memories of what I used to do 17 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: with my family. We're gonna be talking about the kids 18 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: in the outdoors, but first I'm gonna tell you a story. 19 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: My son Hunter was six years old and it was 20 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: gun deer season in Arkansas. We've been practicing his shooting 21 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: with a youth model single barrel two forty three and 22 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: He'd become very proficient and safe using the scope, holding 23 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: steady aim, thumb, cocking the hammer back, and keeping his 24 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: finger off the trigger until he was ready to shoot. Safety. Safety, safety. 25 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: It was our constant mantra, and he'd dry fired that 26 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: rifle one hundred times before he ever squeezed the trigger 27 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: on a live round with hearing protection in place. He 28 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: watched me shoot several rounds, and I'd explained to him 29 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: beforehand that it was going to be loud, and he 30 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: knew what to expect when it came his turn, and 31 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: he never missed a beat. I was confident in his 32 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: abilities out to about eighty yards, but we drawn the 33 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: line it somewhere around fifty, just to be on the 34 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: safe side. The night before the season opened, we'd all 35 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: gathered at the b and our deer camp for our 36 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: ritual supper. We had a fire going outside and everyone 37 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: gathered in a circle, laughing and talking and anticipating the 38 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: hunt that was kicking off in the morning. Big folks 39 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,679 Speaker 1: and little folks alike, hunting season was here and we 40 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: were all excited, and none more so than the kids, 41 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: and Hunter was one of them. It was his first 42 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: time staying at the camp, and it was his first 43 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: time being a trigger man, and he couldn't wait or 44 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: stop talking about it or anything else. That boy has 45 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: never been shy about talking. He loved to talk, and 46 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: I've said it a hundred times. When he was little 47 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: and couldn't think of anything to say, he'd just pick 48 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: up a stick and whooping on something and hollered to 49 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: make some racket. We liked to have never got him 50 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: to be quiet when it came bedtime. But he wasn't 51 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: the only one talking when we cut the lanterns out. 52 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: My brother Tim, his brother in law Joe, who we 53 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: all counted as a bonus brother. Tim's boys Matthew and Will, 54 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: and Joe's son Daniel were all making their share of racket. 55 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: When it seemed like we'd never get to sleep, Joe's 56 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: alarm clock was going off and waking us all up. 57 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 1: Opening day, somebody stoked that fire is freezing in here. 58 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: I'll tell you all about the deer camp we built 59 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: out of rough olk lumber, a hammer, a square, and 60 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:45,119 Speaker 1: a chainsaw, but that's a story for another day. There 61 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: was no electricity and we heated it with a barrel 62 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: stove and cooked on an old gas stove. Joe had 63 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: a couple of lanterns going, and he was making breakfast, 64 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: and Tim was putting wood on the fire while the 65 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: rest of us got ready. Hunter couldn't get rest fast enough. 66 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: He was excited and talking up a storm already. I 67 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: did not see a change in that coming anytime soon. 68 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: I had already figured that we were more or less 69 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: going deer looking instead of deer hunting, and that was 70 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: okay with me. However long he wanted to be there 71 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: was how long we were going to stay. And I 72 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: might coax him into staying a little past the golden 73 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: hour of the morning if he wanted to leave early. 74 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 1: But I decided that I wasn't gonna make him stay 75 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 1: any longer. That was fun for him, after all. When 76 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: it stopped being fun for him, it wasn't gonna be 77 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: fun for me neither. We parked my truck at Tim's 78 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: house and walked by flashlight in not silence to the 79 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 1: window maker, a big plywood box stand that sat on 80 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,239 Speaker 1: four cross ties overlooking an old patch that we planted 81 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: for deer. About three quarters of an acre in size. 82 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: The stand had a short tin roof and cam o' 83 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: neett and draped over the open airs above the four 84 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: foot wall. Joe or ten one had put an old 85 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: easy chair in there that was perfect for sitting and 86 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: resting your rifle on top of that wall, unless you 87 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: were about the height a hundred at age six, His 88 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: legs barely reached from his butt to the ground, so 89 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: he was sitting in my lap, talking up a storm 90 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: and waiting on daylight, which wasn't that far away. It 91 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: was cold, but I had Hunter bundled up and looking 92 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: like the Michelin man. His rifle was broke open and 93 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: propped up in the corner. I had the shells in 94 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: my pocket, and my job was to help him look 95 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: for deer, loading, handing the rifle when it came time. 96 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: If it came time, I remember the sun coming up 97 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: in a decent frost on the ground, and the camel 98 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: curtains that hung over the windows. We talked about how 99 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: you could see our breath when we talked, and we 100 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: smoked imaginary cigars, taking puffs from limbs. I broke off 101 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: the tree behind us and blowing imaginary smoking the air 102 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: like a freight train. Time had passed quickly and we 103 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: were laughing, giggling and talking and making more racket than 104 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: the chicken house. When Hunter whispered, Daddy, there's a spike, well, 105 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: i'll be a dang Sure was, and he was standing 106 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: broadside right in front of the stand, closer than we'd practiced. 107 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: How that joker got there without me knowing, or more importantly, 108 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: without us scaring him off, It's still a mystery to me. 109 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: But there he stood, and Hunter had gone from bumping 110 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: his gums to a laser focus watching that dear. I'm 111 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: not sure he ever blinked. I used forward and grabbed 112 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: his rifle, loaded it, placed it on top of the wall. 113 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: The barrel was poking out far enough that it wouldn't 114 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: be loud in the stand, but I had his ear 115 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 1: muffs on his head anyway, just like we'd practiced. He 116 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: had a tough time finding him in the scope at first, 117 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: due to his excitement and because he was so close. 118 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: Finally he said, I see I told him whenever he 119 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: felt comfortable, cocked the hammer, wait for his crosshairs to 120 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: settle like we'd practiced, then put his finger on the trigger, 121 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: remembered to breathe and give it a squeeze. It was 122 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: like waiting on water to boil. That spike was slowly 123 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: feeding along the middle of the food plotting, and he 124 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: wasn't in a hurry to go anywhere, and Hunter wasn't 125 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: in a hurry to pull the trigger. It was a 126 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: beautiful morning. It was cold, crisp, zero wind, the birds 127 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: were singing, and that deer was so close. I could 128 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: hear him biting off the green oats he was bunching on. 129 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: I could also feel Hunter's heart beating in his chest 130 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: with the rhythm of a singer sewing machine. And when 131 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: I thought I was going to pass out with anticipation, bam, 132 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: he pulled the trigger. That deer dropped in his tracks 133 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: and never flinched. All the hugging and high five and started, 134 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: and we got our plunder together and more or less 135 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: bailed out of that widow maker to go look at 136 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: his deer. He'd practiced and practiced, he'd learned everything he 137 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: could about safe, proper shot placement, and then demonstrated it 138 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: when it came time to do so. I was proud 139 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: of him, and he was proud too. We looked at 140 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: that deer and we said a little prayer of thanks. 141 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: That was something that we'd started that day and continue now. 142 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: It was the end of an incredible morning of first 143 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: or so we thought. We walked back to TAM's house 144 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: and got his fore wheel and went and got the deer. 145 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: He grabbed a leg and helped me as much as 146 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 1: a six year old boy can load his prize on 147 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: the rack. We got back to TAM's house. He was 148 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 1: waiting for us, and so was my dad. Tim heard 149 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: Hunter shoot and had come off the stand to see 150 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: what he did. My Dad wasn't nothing. He was just 151 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: there waiting on everybody to come out of the woods 152 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: to see what they got, especially the kids. Tim went 153 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: back in the house and brought out his video camera, 154 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: and if he hadn't, I'm not sure I could even 155 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: tell the rest of this story. But Tim starts recording 156 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: and Hunter starts telling the story, beginning pretty much from 157 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: the dawn of time and leading up to where we 158 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: all found ourselves. At that moment, Tim, me and Dad 159 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: standing shoulder to shoulder, watching and listening to the longest 160 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: story that has ever been told on camera. It was 161 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: like the script reading for the Ten Commandments. There was 162 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 1: a lot to get through. At one point, during Hunter's 163 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: defense of his doctoral presentation, I heard my brother say, 164 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: come on, man, like that gun. Breakfast is getting cold. 165 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: And then my dad said, look at that deer. Hunter 166 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: looked over at the one he was standing beside, but 167 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: we were looking at a yearling door that was behind Hunter, 168 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: bounding about sixty yards away at the edge of Tim's yard, 169 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: next to the woods. Tim raised the camera and followed 170 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: that day as she made a big loop around the 171 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: yard and circled back toward the house and where we 172 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: were standing, and then turned and headed right toward us. 173 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: Nobody moved, nobody said a word. There was three feet 174 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: between where we stood looking at Hunter and where he 175 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: stood beside the four wheeler with his dead deer facing us. 176 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: That dough split the difference between us and jumped higher 177 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: than Hunter stood, kicked like a bucking horse, hit the ground, 178 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: and loped back into the woods. From whence it came. 179 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: Nobody but a Hunter said a word when it happened. 180 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: But you can hear him on the tape, as that 181 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: deer was in midair say WHOA about as nonchalant as 182 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: I just did. It was absolutely hilarious. One of the 183 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: most outrageous things I've ever witnessed, and I've seen some 184 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: crazy stuff. I have no explanation for it, but it 185 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: remains a special memory, nonetheless, one I shared with my 186 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: late father, my brother, and my son, all because we 187 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 1: were outdoors, and that's just how that happened. Kids and outdoors. 188 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: Kids and outdoors is like biscuits and gravy. It's hard 189 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 1: for me to think about one without thinking about the other. 190 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: And growing up, if you had time to hang around 191 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: the house, somebody, namely my mama, would find something for 192 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 1: me to do that wasn't nearly as fun or treacherous 193 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: as the things I could come up with on my own. 194 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: So when the opportunity arose, either by finishing my chores 195 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: or climbing out the window, I was gone. Deuces. I'll 196 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: see all as supper time and deal with whatever fate 197 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: awaits me then. But right now I got to go. Now. 198 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: Where I was escaping to wasn't town, or most times 199 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: not even to any of my friends. I didn't have 200 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: any that lived very close. Besides, I had a dog, 201 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 1: a horse, a bicycle, a hairshoes that are wore sometimes, 202 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: and my playground was only limited by how far I 203 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: felt like walking or riding that day. But times have changed, 204 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: and a childhood like mine, for the most part, has 205 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: faded away. I couldn't imagine not knowing where my kids 206 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: or grandkids were. Like when I was a kid, my 207 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: parents weren't neglecting me. They knew I was safe wherever 208 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 1: I was. The times they were just simply different then. 209 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: So guess why it's up to us to get those 210 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 1: little tax deductions of hours off the couch, out from 211 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: in front of whatever hypnotizing screen that they're staring at, 212 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: and into nature. All these grown ups that fight against 213 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 1: everything we all hold so deer were once impressionable children. 214 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: And I wonder if those folks had grown up like 215 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: I had, and like those I grew up with, But 216 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: they still have the same thoughts and ideas. Now, let 217 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: me say this, I'm a steadfast beloe and choosing your 218 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: own path and doing what trips your trigger. But it's 219 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: hard for me to understand the way some folks think 220 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 1: about how we should interact with nature. My wife, alexis 221 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: the quintessential city girl who before we'd met, had no 222 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: preconceived ideas or beliefs about hunting and fishing. She didn't 223 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: grow up around it and had no exposure. It's a 224 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: testament to her parents, my mother and father in law 225 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: both of whom I love is my own, each had 226 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 1: minimal exposure to those pastimes in their lives as well, 227 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 1: but through common sense, they know that we are stewards 228 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: of nature, and while they each choose to abstain from 229 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: participating in the legal taking of any type of game, 230 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: they understand that it's necessary for the overall good of 231 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: the nature and fully support my efforts. Alexis is the 232 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: same way. She doesn't care one thing about doing it, 233 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: but loves to see the joy I get from it, 234 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: and fully supports our daughter's participation because Bailey she likes 235 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: it too. That's fine with me and Bailey. That's three 236 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: less folks we have to beat to our favorite hunting spots. 237 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: The first thing you need to remember when taking the 238 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: little folks is to try and see what they're seeing 239 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: and how they see it. Darkness is especially concerning to 240 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: most kids and a few adults I know, but reassuring 241 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: them if your activities occur at night is a big plus. 242 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: I remember Kyou hunting with my dad, and we weren't 243 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: hunting them to shoot as much as we were letting 244 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: the dogs run them. And if you're unfamiliar with this practice, 245 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: allow me to give you a brief description. My dad 246 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: had a pack of running walker foxhounds. They look just 247 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: like their cousins, the tree and walker, which is what 248 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: my dog wailing is. Anyway, They usually have a leaner 249 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: bill because speed is their game, and they don't have 250 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: the tree and instinct, which is to bark along while 251 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: trailing the scent of a coon, unto the hound finds 252 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 1: which trees climbed and sets into tree in and it's 253 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: usually a totally different kind of barking. We'll get to 254 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: that in the future when the weather cools off and 255 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: we start talking about tree and walkers. But running walkers 256 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: would rather run the sin of a game, trailing it 257 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: over the countryside or through the woods, barking as they went, 258 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: which sounds exactly like a bunch of dogs barking to 259 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: folks that don't get the allure, but to those that do, 260 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: it's a literal symphony of sound, and my dad was 261 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: considered a maestro of the sport. Kylets are most active 262 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: at night, so when the weather allowed, we'd be down 263 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: on the potlatch timber company roads looking for sign where 264 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: they'd either crossed or left their calling cart in the 265 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: middle of the road in the form of a well 266 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: digested sample from last night's supper with fresh sign we'd 267 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: cut the dogs loose and the race would be on. 268 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: Then it could go on for a few hours, and 269 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: my dad would name each hound as it barked and 270 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: his position in the race while we sat or laid 271 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: down on top of the dog box. Sometimes it was 272 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: cold and we'd build a fire. Sometimes other folks would 273 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: hunt with us and bring their dogs, and that was it. 274 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: That is cold hunting. Now. What filled the gaps when 275 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 1: the dogs went out of here and or they lost 276 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: the trail of the colt was conversations about everything in 277 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: the world. He'd let me have a flashlight to keep 278 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: the buggers away, and we'd lay back and look at 279 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: the stars. We'd walk up and down the gravel road 280 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: with me running the light and looking at tracks and bugs, 281 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: and he'd hand me a rock and bet I couldn't 282 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: chunk and hit something. What he was doing was keeping 283 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 1: me entertained and allowing me to participate in a fun 284 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: way while spending time with him and doing something that 285 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: he liked to do too. Those times are burned into 286 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: my memory, and not just hunting fishing memories, cutting firewood, 287 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: having the horse shod, and taking me to work and 288 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: letting me help him. It was all about the time 289 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: spent together and not the activity. I can say with 290 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: one hundred percent certainty that my endearment towards showing youngins 291 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: how much fun can be had without electricity just by 292 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: looking at the natural stuff around him is because he 293 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 1: took the time to show me, and so did my 294 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: brother Tim. A lot of hunting requires stealth and quiet, 295 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: two things most kids ain't real good at, So when 296 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 1: we include them, we need to think about an activity 297 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 1: that they can do well. Sometimes they're just like that 298 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: old coon down pup your training. You need to find 299 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 1: them an easy coon to tree. So you stack the 300 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: deck in your pup's favor and catch a coon in 301 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: a live trap and release it for him to see, 302 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: and then put him on the scent and watch him 303 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: do his thing. Gives him confidence and with praise, he'll 304 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: want to do it again. Same way with kids, picking 305 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 1: activity they can win at, digging for fishing, bait, how 306 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: to build a fire and cook a hot dog, and 307 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 1: if they're responsible enough, how to care for and sharpen 308 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: a good pocket knife. Now you know what kind. But 309 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 1: in case you don't remember, you should go back to 310 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: episode one and review. I figure, if you're still listening, 311 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: you might as well give them a good knife to 312 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 1: start with. Now, squirrel hunting with dogs was what I 313 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: cut my teeth on, and that was an activity numero 314 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 1: uno at Casa Day reeves well, Brenn, I ain't got 315 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: a dog. I ain't got a dog. Ain't no problem. 316 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: Take them with you on a sight seeing journey looking 317 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 1: for squirrels. You don't even need a gun for that. 318 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: Make a list of birds to go look for, and 319 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: then check them off the list as you walk around 320 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 1: your neighborhood looking or just sitting in the backyard or 321 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: just looking out the window. The information available to us 322 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: to the creatures that inhabit where we live, regardless of 323 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 1: where we live, it's tremendous, and there is no excuse 324 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: for saying you don't know. I don't know about other states, 325 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: but I would assume they have similar programs like our 326 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: Arkansas Game and Fish Commission does. We have free admission 327 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 1: to nature centers located all over the state with programs 328 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: and staff, with employees whose job is to educate folks 329 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: of all ages. The displays and activities they host are outstanding, 330 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: and if your state doesn't have them, I'm inviting you 331 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 1: to ours. We'll be glad to have you. I've got 332 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 1: a lot more to talk about on this kids and 333 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: outdoor subject, so let's make this part one. In part two, 334 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: I'm going to share some more stories, but I'm also 335 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 1: going to give you some information that you can share 336 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: with your schools that have a host of great programs 337 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: to get the kids out of the house and into 338 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: the outdoors. There's facts and figures in there that are 339 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: eye opening, at least they were for me. You ain't 340 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: gonna want to miss it. And until next week, I'm 341 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: gonna leave you with this. I was taking the Bailey 342 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 1: at to school this morning and I asked her about 343 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: why she liked to go out in the woods with me, 344 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: whether we were hunting, fishing, or just knocking around just 345 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: getting some info for this podcast. She said, I like 346 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 1: it when we get a deer and we skin it 347 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: and cut the meat up to eat. I like to 348 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: help with that. I like when we go coon hunting 349 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: with Whaling and I get to drive the side by 350 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: side and look for the coon that Whaling's barking at. 351 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: I like it when we fish. I like to help 352 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: you cook them and then we get to eat them. Well, 353 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: I asked her about the times that we were just 354 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: messing around the woods what she liked about that, and 355 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: she said, I just like being with you, Daddy and 356 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: learning stuff. So then I asked her one last question 357 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: before she hopped out of the truck, and that big 358 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: old sc swallowed my baby like a grape. I said, 359 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 1: have you got any advice for grown ups or kids 360 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 1: that might like to start trying to do the things 361 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: that we do all the time? And she put some 362 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: thought into it, and she looked at me and said, 363 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be perfect. You don't have to 364 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: get a deer or catch a fish. Just make memories. 365 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: And with that she gave me some sugar and hopped 366 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: out the door. That's pretty good. Thank y'all so much 367 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: for listening. I sincerely appreciate all the wonderful feedback we've 368 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: been receiving and hope you folks will continue to review 369 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: and share this country life with others you think might 370 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 1: enjoy it. This is Brent Reeves, sign it off, y'all, 371 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 1: be careful the tru