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Speaker 1: What's its way up with angela? Ye, and there's some

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Speaker 1: energy in the room today. Garnie Ambrera is here with

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Speaker 1: us from Real Housewives of Miami. Hello, I mean, this

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Speaker 1: is amazing that you're here. Yes, because I've been following

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Speaker 1: your journey and you even have your husband. Russell's here.

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Speaker 1: He's not gonna say nothing because we know how that is.

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Speaker 1: He's very chill, but he's very supportive.

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Speaker 2: Twenty eight years girl on me. Hello, I know, so

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Speaker 2: you guys.

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Speaker 3: Met in high school.

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Speaker 2: That is so cute to high school that the hallway

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Speaker 2: pass like, oh, who are you?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Who are you?

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Speaker 3: So you so he liked you know you liked him first?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no.

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Speaker 4: He claims that he was always fond of me, and

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Speaker 4: then I thought he was the cutest thing ever. But

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Speaker 4: I had a boyfriend at that time. So after I

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Speaker 4: broke up with my boyfriend, when I started getting a

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Speaker 4: little bit more chatty, and in the hallway, I'm seeing

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Speaker 4: him passing by and I'm like, Hi, Russell, and I

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Speaker 4: don't hear nothing back.

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, god round two, Hi Russel, Like damn,

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Speaker 2: who is this man?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Strike three?

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Speaker 4: I approach him and I go, hey, you get over here.

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Speaker 4: When I say hi to you, you better say hi

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Speaker 4: to me back.

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Speaker 2: That's what humans do. Okay, Next time I see him,

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Speaker 4: Next time I see him, I'm about to say hi,

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Speaker 4: Roso and this one comes up in here and starts

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Speaker 4: giving me a hug, and I'm like, I was like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, okay, we're doing this. Okay. So then he was

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Speaker 2: like love at first sight. We've been together ever since.

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Speaker 3: So wait, did the ex boyfriend go to school with

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Speaker 3: you guys too?

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Speaker 4: Yes, he did, and he was friends with him too,

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Speaker 4: But then he went off to college. He was a

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Speaker 4: year he was a year older than us. He went

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Speaker 4: you know, I broke up with him because he was

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Speaker 4: cheating on me.

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Speaker 2: And then you know, him and I found out. Please, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I like the love story.

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Speaker 1: And people really enjoy watching YouTube on Real Housewives of Miami,

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Speaker 1: and part of that is because there is a lot

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Speaker 2: I want to say, the craziest lives those are my girls. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're crazy, they're crazy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's talk.

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Speaker 1: And your husband also shaved your head he did with

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Speaker 1: you because we found out Unfortunately I saw when you

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Speaker 1: turned out you did, yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't even know I was gonna need chemo,

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Speaker 4: need radiation, got twenty rounds of radiation. This journey has

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Speaker 4: I went for my first mammogram and I got cancer

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Speaker 4: and you saved it because it was stage one so early,

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Speaker 4: you know, early.

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Speaker 2: Is the key.

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Speaker 3: Listen.

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Speaker 1: Everybody has been telling me. A lot of my friends

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Speaker 1: And I keep putting it off, but I I know

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Speaker 4: Was be squeezing your booby into this little thing, like

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Speaker 4: it's like a pancake, but you know what, you have

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Speaker 3: What I'd like to say, did you have a history

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Speaker 4: Complete mutation, not one trace of breast cancer in my family.

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Speaker 2: So this is what's happening.

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Speaker 4: And a lot of times also people doing the you know,

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Speaker 1: Also on the other side, yeah, I see a lot

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Speaker 1: Now, one thing that was very controversial on the show

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Speaker 4: And I said, Larsa, where's the lie?

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Speaker 4: Now there are layers to our friendship where I thought

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Speaker 4: How did you find out? As if she's like a detective,

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Speaker 3: And I want to ask you, how is it for you?

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Speaker 3: But one thing you do have is a great relationship

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Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, but I mean even with your husband,

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Speaker 4: Listen, Now, I apply the method of kiss keep it simple, stupid.

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Speaker 4: I don't bring that energy home because that will take

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Speaker 2: But when I'm home, I can't.

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Speaker 4: Dwell on the bat that Lenny did and look at

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Speaker 4: that's toxic in a way, right. So I don't allow

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Speaker 2: That is a serene place.

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Speaker 4: And that's why I think it works with us, is

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Speaker 3: What about the kids when they ask questions, well, I mean.

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Speaker 4: The thing about it is that when you're planning a wedding,

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Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, what if you

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Speaker 2: He's amazing. You put them together, you speak my language,

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Speaker 4: You give me life and you can't fake emotion on photos,

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Speaker 4: Or when people hire me, I just say it's gerty bitch, like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm a designer, true designer. I own my floral company

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Speaker 1: Now, can you talk about some people you work it?

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Speaker 1: Because you plan events, you've done it all.

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Speaker 2: I will never forget honey.

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Speaker 4: We know that we know what we like any and

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Speaker 3: That's so funny because I really can't stand Scorpio.

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Speaker 2: Man lies lies detail.

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Speaker 2: How there for you?

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Speaker 3: You know it's not it's not across the board.

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Speaker 1: Ye Had there ever been times that you've been like,

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Speaker 4: When I tell you, there was one of the producers

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Speaker 2: They have all been in their own way showed up

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Speaker 3: What did you think about her apper singing so good?

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Speaker 2: I mean, the cohonis of it all. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, I don't I've been to an

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, she did that and it was from

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I hate when people are, well, you're already

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Speaker 2: So I just was being I was being mean. Man,

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Speaker 4: That's I think that I look amazing, and I actually

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I know maybe it wasn't accessory.

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00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:34,399
Speaker 4: I may, I may, you know, do a little role playing,

441
00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,919
Speaker 4: but honestly, like it's too hot, and I still get

442
00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,920
Speaker 4: I'm a minnopause now, girl, Like chemo puts you on minopause,

443
00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,800
Speaker 4: I'm a hormone therapy. And I get half flashes like

444
00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,920
Speaker 4: Lowise Armstrong at a concert, honey, and I'm like, I'm

445
00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,920
Speaker 4: not trying to be dripped drip through them wigs, no,

446
00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,320
Speaker 4: thank you, so baldy girdy coming through.

447
00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,919
Speaker 3: So you guys do do roleplay at home. That's when

448
00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:53,440
Speaker 3: its to this marriage.

449
00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,800
Speaker 4: No, it's not, It really isn't. So it takes a

450
00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,360
Speaker 4: backseat to just having good sex. It's about the quality,

451
00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,240
Speaker 4: not the corner and what you do around that. So

452
00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,200
Speaker 4: to me, it's more about like just you know, he

453
00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:05,480
Speaker 4: knows how to you know, put things down, you know,

454
00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,720
Speaker 4: so you know, Okay, we go to the next question.

455
00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting old, you know, let me see, get a

456
00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,119
Speaker 2: little blush. We're not. Don't look at me like that.

457
00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,960
Speaker 2: Stop looking over here. But so hard Okay when you think.

458
00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,879
Speaker 3: Back to it, you know, you guys, first, was it

459
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,240
Speaker 3: like fireworks at first?

460
00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,240
Speaker 2: From the beginning? So young? Do you understand how old

461
00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:24,680
Speaker 2: were we were? Sixteen?

462
00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,920
Speaker 4: Right, so I don't even know if we're doing. But

463
00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,520
Speaker 4: we got better and better and better, and we are

464
00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:32,000
Speaker 4: experts of this operation.

465
00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,159
Speaker 2: Trust you be me. I mean, it's just that's what

466
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,000
Speaker 2: I love. It's like we grew up together and it's

467
00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,639
Speaker 2: a way that he knows exactly what I like.

468
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,080
Speaker 1: I know exactly what he likes, and he's right to business.

469
00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,399
Speaker 1: It's just right right right to those buttons that you

470
00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:46,720
Speaker 1: know how to push. Yes, who initiates more?

471
00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:47,800
Speaker 2: He does?

472
00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:50,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this man right here every day and

473
00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:54,639
Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, But the thing is that that

474
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,119
Speaker 4: makes that man can get it to worry about your

475
00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:57,919
Speaker 4: hair getting messed up.

476
00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:02,720
Speaker 2: So that is the we're in the rain. It's the.

477
00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 1: No.

478
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 2: But listen, I mean every day, all day, he can

479
00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:07,840
Speaker 2: do this right.

480
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 4: And for me in the beginning before, we've come through

481
00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:15,159
Speaker 4: such a evolution in our relationship and it's better every day.

482
00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:16,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, am I still in love with you? Like

483
00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,960
Speaker 4: we text all day, We're still dating. So I'm dating

484
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,000
Speaker 4: my husband and that is sexy. And when he comes home,

485
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,800
Speaker 4: it's like where and when?

486
00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:30,920
Speaker 2: So it works. I'm blush. I'm a pastest. Daughter's fine.

487
00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,160
Speaker 2: I mean, this is very it's healthy. It's very healthy.

488
00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:38,000
Speaker 1: God is protecting, so you guys are good to go.

489
00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,359
Speaker 1: But what else can we expect from this season?

490
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,080
Speaker 4: By the way, I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say two words,

491
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:45,600
Speaker 4: Mexico City.

492
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 2: Girl. When I tell you, when I tell you, Mexico

493
00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:51,680
Speaker 2: City was a thing.

494
00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:57,080
Speaker 4: It was unbelievable, it was fun, crazy, and it's just

495
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,400
Speaker 4: its moment and it will go down in I think

496
00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,920
Speaker 4: Bravo a stream. All I can say so Mexico City

497
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,720
Speaker 4: and the Mama Sita luncheon that's coming up soon. And

498
00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:08,639
Speaker 4: old boy or boy do some some blasts from the

499
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 4: past come up and start shaking things up and got

500
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:16,880
Speaker 4: people shaking and people running away physically literally.

501
00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 2: It's a thing. So you guys are gonna you guys

502
00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:20,000
Speaker 2: are up for a lot.

503
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 4: And and by the way, what happens with me and Larsa,

504
00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 4: it even gets it gets quote unquote better.

505
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,720
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no no. I'm being very sarcastic.

506
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 2: It's like, it's like the what.

507
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 1: You surprised when her and Marcus started dating, when at

508
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 1: first they were rumors and then it came out that

509
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 1: it was true because I thought they was just mutual

510
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 1: friends and she said she was trying to hook him

511
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 1: up with somebody else, and.

512
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:44,840
Speaker 3: Oh was that a surprise?

513
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 2: Oh liar Arsa.

514
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,959
Speaker 4: Anyway, so I listen, girl, I I'm busy over here.

515
00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:52,960
Speaker 4: I got time to be over there. Next question, girl,

516
00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 4: it can be both places.

517
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,679
Speaker 1: But and you guys are returned from the last season,

518
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,360
Speaker 1: So that's that's a positive thing, because what you say,

519
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 1: you guys are returning from the last season, like for

520
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 1: this new season that's on now. Yes, you guys were

521
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 1: all on the last season. Yeah, we all for the

522
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 1: past three seasons, we've been the same a caount members.

523
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 4: So yeah, it's us. We're I mean, we love each other,

524
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 4: to be honest, and we care for each other. Something

525
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 4: happened to one of them. Of course I'm gonna be like, damn,

526
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 4: that's my step and I'll show up how I need

527
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 4: you as a friend. So that's the thing is that

528
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 4: we were actual friends. And you know that's some other

529
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,120
Speaker 4: franchises that may not have that kind of layered friendship

530
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 4: and a lot of the ogs have ten year friendships, right,

531
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 4: So that really anchors the show in the sense of

532
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 4: like us building on what we had and what we have,

533
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 4: you know.

534
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,119
Speaker 1: So it's great after your franchised, which one do you

535
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,199
Speaker 1: watch the most or do you like the BA I.

536
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 2: Like Beverly Hills.

537
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 4: I'm very close, good friends with Garcel everyone lets guards

538
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 4: and then and then Dolores my girl jersey she rore.

539
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 2: She did a charity baseball game and she wore shirt

540
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 2: with my face on it.

541
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 4: I didn't even I had no idea, and I get

542
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 4: tagged on Instagram with the day they were filming, and

543
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 4: I see her on the field with my short on

544
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 4: my face.

545
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:04,679
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's nice, that's worn. We love loyal,

546
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 1: we love that fors Yes, honey, yes, do you feel

547
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,119
Speaker 1: like it seems to me like because you're saying, you know,

548
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 1: you wanted to show your journey because it does help

549
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: other people.

550
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 3: So and myself and yourself is therapy for you. So

551
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 3: can you see yourself doing more?

552
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you have some things in the works

553
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: as far as breast cancer awareness and organization have been.

554
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 4: On the stumping the road for awareness. I've done a big,

555
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 4: big things with the American Cancer Society bc or F

556
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 4: like just a lot of different organization including the hospital

557
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 4: who brought me back to life, you know, so Memorial

558
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 4: Health shout out, and I have so much more going on.

559
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 4: I feel like I want to do some things in

560
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 4: the industry that will help people. So I alkaline hydrogen

561
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 4: water the most important thing for people who have cancer

562
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 4: to help your brother, you know, your body really stay

563
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 4: in a pH level that's that's not toxic and bringing out.

564
00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 2: More more to you know cancer self that I'm working on.

565
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 4: And also something for the hair, so like you know,

566
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 4: when we're working on a transition and hair grow journey,

567
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 4: there's that awkward phase where it's kind of like I'm

568
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 4: about to grow it up, but it's not looking too cute.

569
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 4: So there's a transitional hair you know, concoction that I'm

570
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 4: working on prototyping. So I can't wait to share more.

571
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 4: So next season, hopefully you'll see me like all on

572
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 4: the show showing everybody.

573
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I want to see the business more too, you

574
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,159
Speaker 1: know right right it's gretty bitch, you.

575
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: Know, honey, I am that bitch.

576
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 4: So I definitely can't wait to see you guys, for

577
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 4: you guys to see me in that light as well.

578
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: Have you got a lot of messages from people who

579
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 3: have a can't?

580
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 4: I still have thousands in my dms. It's so hard

581
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 4: to keep up with and I try to literally reply.

582
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 4: So when I see one says I just got diagnosed

583
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 4: from cancer, I read it and I say, hey, keep

584
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 4: your head up high and always see the.

585
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: Light at the end of the tunnel.

586
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 4: That would be your only way to just mentally psyche

587
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 4: yourself to keep going when the chemo drugs starts coming

588
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 4: in your body and you're shaking at night, know that

589
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 4: you're worth it and your family's worth it, and do it.

590
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: You and them and you will make it. So I

591
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: sit there and I type away. I love the connection.

592
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: So I'm creating a little village. And I like to

593
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: call them the Gerdians of the galaxy. Ooh, I get it.

594
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 3: That name girty is amazing. It goes with so many things.

595
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 2: Wait.

596
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,959
Speaker 4: I did something for by the thirty Rock for Bravo,

597
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 4: and we say it's not thirty Rock is a girdy rock.

598
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: So I could do this all day.

599
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: You could do some girdles exactly.

600
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,439
Speaker 2: I used to hate my name until I realized how

601
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: special I was. I'm like, I'm special, I got beautiful.

602
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 3: Yes, what does it mean?

603
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 2: Nobody knows. I don't know.

604
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 4: People like is this sure for Gertrude? I'm like, you

605
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 4: want to stop me in the face now? I mean

606
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 4: it literally is the I find it to be an

607
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 4: ugly name, sounding like and it's a special name and

608
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 4: it's my name, and I like it.

609
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 3: It sounds like an expensive perfume or something.

610
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 2: Girdy.

611
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess is the way you say, but in French,

612
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 4: because I was raised in France and it's girdy.

613
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 2: So do we like Gerty?

614
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 3: We're like Gerty Gerty. I like that, Eric, but thank

615
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 3: you so much joining us. I'm gonna be following your journey.

616
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,359
Speaker 2: And it was great for you and it will follow

617
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: you on Instagram and did the same.

618
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 4: I'm watching who you know, who you're gonna get with,

619
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 4: because if it's not a Scorpio, I don't know who,

620
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 4: but I'm gonna watch you no moment.

621
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 3: But you know what, you can have it.

622
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: I have it already.

623
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 3: I like you got this girl.

624
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: You can calt it down for the Capacuorians. Thank you

625
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: all right, thank you the way, thank you so much.

626
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: Well