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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Scatilly and Tanya rat and I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcast. UMF why I

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Speaker 1: Mark just suggested that we take off the award winning

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Speaker 1: been enough of that. Maybe are you kidding? From a

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Speaker 1: guy who would vote? When I said, did you? You

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Speaker 1: could vote a lot? But well here's a people that

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Speaker 1: voted a hundred times a day with multiple emails. I

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Speaker 1: think that get a little braggy after a certain point. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, fair enough, Okay, I'm sorry. This is the

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Speaker 1: closest I've ever gotten to winning a Grammy. That's until

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Speaker 1: you're smash hit. Just like that. You just missed the

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Speaker 1: cut off for the Grammys this year. But next year,

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Speaker 1: I guess we could always say it. We could take

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Speaker 1: we want to come across this humble, yeah, humble and modest.

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Speaker 1: So if you think that's but we tell everybody we'd

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Speaker 1: be Oprah. We like lost our modesty on the Oprah thing.

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Speaker 1: That's long gone, we can still remain humble and modest podcasters.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. We're just normal people, do you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like we're like not famous, we're not celebrities.

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Speaker 1: That's why. That's why we weren't. That's why we were

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Speaker 1: it wasn't televised. Yeah, that's why don't. That's why we

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Speaker 1: don't have the people I don't actually don't even have

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Speaker 1: it's so cool, Amy Schumer. One that would have been

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Speaker 1: we're just normal people and we want to freaking People's

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Speaker 1: Choice Award. Like it's pretty legit braggy. It's like, feel

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Speaker 1: and we have the rest of our lives together. But

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Speaker 1: tany haves to fly to New York today. What are

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Speaker 1: you going to New York for the second act premiere?

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Speaker 1: feel good movies. She really is. It makes me just

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Speaker 1: want to watch the wedding pointer as we're sitting in.

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Speaker 1: all times. That's interesting me. I need to rewatch that

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Speaker 1: get to before we get Scott in here. Is that

466
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Speaker 1: fine with you? Yeah, my voice is tired and I'm

467
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Speaker 1: sorry about that. That's okay. It's Monday. Produre at surgery

468
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: on Thursday. What kind of surgery? I deviated septum repaired?

469
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Speaker 1: It's called a scept plastic septo plastic. Wait, Haley's having

470
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Speaker 1: at this Thursdy, she and I should talk. You give

471
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Speaker 1: a whole preview. Yeah, you're you look great and don't

472
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Speaker 1: even look like you had surgery. You know what's funny

473
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Speaker 1: is when people say they have a deviated septum and

474
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Speaker 1: they come back with bruised eyes and everything. They had

475
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Speaker 1: a nose job. The cover for the I did not

476
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Speaker 1: get a nose job, right, you really didn't. But did

477
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: you have to do like the were you drain everything,

478
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: and they didn't doing anything the standard. I went fully

479
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Speaker 1: under but two successful, do we know? Yeah, yeah, he

480
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: said it went great, and I've had so little pain.

481
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Speaker 1: I've been amazed at how little pain I had, because

482
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Speaker 1: they really they go up there and they cut you open.

483
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Speaker 1: They make up the slice right into your septum, and

484
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Speaker 1: then they moved stuff around so it's straight. So I've

485
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Speaker 1: just been resting. Today's my first day back, so I'm

486
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: kind of but I feel I feel good. That is.

487
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Speaker 1: I am. Wow, you have a beautiful nose and after beautiful.

488
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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Alright, So anyway that explains that.

489
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 1: But here's an email we got. I'm twenty five, my

490
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Speaker 1: boyfriend's twenty six. We've been eating for five years and

491
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: have been living together two years. We just got a

492
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 1: puppy and talked about marriage and have a pretty good relationship. Well,

493
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Speaker 1: back in May, my boyfriend's younger brother graduated college. He

494
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Speaker 1: was trying to get a job in floor. I didn't

495
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Speaker 1: want to move back home with our parents, so we

496
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 1: told him you could live with us in Chicago for

497
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Speaker 1: a year if he had a job by July one. Well,

498
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,239
Speaker 1: they got a job and he's been living with us

499
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Speaker 1: on the least paying rent, and it's been a nightmare.

500
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: He's trashed our apartment, has thrown frat parties while we

501
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: were gone. His friends have pete and puked all over

502
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: our bathroom. We've learned he's a liar. He could not

503
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Speaker 1: take criticism. Now what do we do. Do we have

504
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Speaker 1: the right to say you can have people over for

505
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Speaker 1: an after party. Do we have the right to say

506
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Speaker 1: you were not allowed to bring drugs in this apartment?

507
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Speaker 1: What do we do? I'm so uncomfortable with this, and

508
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: so is my boyfriend. Oh my god, you have the

509
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Speaker 1: right to kick him out? Are you kidding that he's

510
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Speaker 1: on the lease. I think she's limited a little bit.

511
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: So his name is on the least Yeah, I mean

512
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: I would just say, hey, um, okay. Personally, I have

513
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 1: my two younger sisters live with me. They don't do

514
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: anything like that, like for the most part. My biggest

515
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 1: complaint is that they don't do the dishes or take

516
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: the trash out, or it's messy, but standard roommate stuff,

517
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Speaker 1: standard mother daughter. Um. But I like when I talked

518
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: to them about it, we have a conversation. They're very respectful.

519
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: They don't do they don't do it, like, they don't

520
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: do anything close to that. But I feel like since

521
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,439
Speaker 1: they did him a favor and he's living with them,

522
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: they may be either need to say, like, you need

523
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: to find a new place, or there has to be

524
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: some changes where there's respect and livestrong. Because I know

525
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: his name's on the lease, but when people are puking

526
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: and throwing up and paying like that is gross and like.

527
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 1: And I think this is also one her boyfriend because

528
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: it's his brother. He needs to say something. I think

529
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: he really does. It's more on him than it is

530
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Speaker 1: on the person who wrote this, whose name is Maybe

531
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: they need to move into their own place or something. Now,

532
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: that's not a bad idea, rather than kick him out,

533
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: say hey, you know, we got our own place. We're

534
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 1: in love, we're gonna do this thing, so we're real sorry,

535
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 1: but you got a deadline in puke stains. You don't

536
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Speaker 1: want to look there anywhere. Yeah, I would say, have

537
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: your brother have a conversation with him, But my biggest

538
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: suggestion is that y'all move out into your own place.

539
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: That's a good one. I like that idea. Bye, yeah bye, Wow.

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00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,959
Speaker 1: Now I have the hiccups, so I apologize. What did

541
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: you wear on your first day of kindergarten? I'm picturing

542
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: like an orange and blue striped polo shirt with what

543
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: kind of pants? Blue slacks? I didn't like jeans at

544
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: the time. They were they were uncomfortable. Why are you

545
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 1: asking me these questions? I was just curious. Probably that

546
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: Bruce Jenner tennis shoes that had a little gold medal

547
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: on the tongue. Those will be worth money, now, wouldn't they. Bruce? Yeah?

548
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,239
Speaker 1: Why did you ask that? If your hiccups are still there? Oh,

549
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: all right, maybe they went away. Maybe that's a technique,

550
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: all right, Steph. I've been married for just over a year.

551
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: I've been with my husband for ten. When we first met,

552
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: I waited about a hundred and forty five pounds. During

553
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: college and after college, I put on a lot of

554
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: weight and I'm not my heaviest one. During this time,

555
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: my now husband broke up with me and started seeing

556
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: someone else. We eventually got back together, but it made

557
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: it very apparent the breakup was due to my weight gain.

558
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,719
Speaker 1: He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. This one

559
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: I'm leading up to our wedding where he threatened me

560
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: two weeks prior to getting married that he would leave

561
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: me if I didn't outline a plan of how I

562
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: was going to lose weight. I was heartbroken. I'm ashamed

563
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: to say I went through at the wedding. I know

564
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: a lot of the repairing process begins with me trying

565
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: to repair my broken self esteem. But how do I

566
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 1: save my marriage? I'm a Christian, I don't believe in divorce,

567
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: and I do truly love him. He as some amazing

568
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 1: qualities and I don't want to lose my marriage over this.

569
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: But the record, I've not lost much weight, but I

570
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: have adopted a healthier life down in the past year.

571
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: We go on hikes together now when we cook healthy meals.

572
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: What else can I do? This is something that I'm

573
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: interested for YouTube to weigh in on as as men.

574
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: If this were if this were your situation, boy, that's

575
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: a tough one because he took it. It's interesting that

576
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: he left in the first place, dumped her over her weight, right,

577
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: But so I'm confused was she's saying this happened? They

578
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 1: he dumped her before the wedding, then they go back together,

579
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: and then they got married. So he dumped her, but

580
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: she hadn't lst weight, but he still got back together

581
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: with certain ultimatums. He put on it that I need

582
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: a plan from you with how this is going to happen.

583
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: This is a tough one for me, I know, because

584
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: I understand all sides everybody in his view. If he's

585
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: not attracted to her anymore, which is her words, why

586
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: did he come back? Why did he still want to

587
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: make this Maybe he loves her and now could it

588
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: be he wants her to be healthy to that's I

589
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: think that might be the wants to keep control over

590
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: her because it's like, hey, if you don't do what

591
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: I say, I'm gonna leave you again like I did before.

592
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: That gives him the upper hand in a big way.

593
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: This is how I feel though about like to be

594
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: together for that long and then leave someone over a

595
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: physical change is so I mean, I get how like

596
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: how maybe you're not like sexually attracted to someone in

597
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: the sense that like you know, you're not you're not

598
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: feeling what you felt because of that change. However, like

599
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: we all get old, all not gonna be like exactly

600
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: how we looked when we were you know, first married

601
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: or first together. So to like leave someone and then

602
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: like give them ultimatums. It just seems really unhealthy unless

603
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: you're doing it in the concern for health, which I

604
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: don't feel like. He Okay, So this one is so

605
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: hard for me because I have so many different thoughts

606
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: on it. Sometimes when someone gains a significant amount of weight,

607
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: there is a reason for it unhappiness. So I'm one

608
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: happiness were happiness but pounds whatever, But if we're talking

609
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: fifty pounds or more, it could be health unhappiness. So

610
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: this specific case is hard for me. But I wonder

611
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: in in a our situation, if that were to happen,

612
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: would you want to figure it out? Because maybe the

613
00:30:55,880 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: person there's an underlying emotional cause or an under lying

614
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: um something going on with them where they're unhappy. So

615
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: it's such not a black and white thing for me.

616
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think it's black and white, but I

617
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: just feel like, especially if she's changed, you know, I

618
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: for her, like she's changed her lifestyle, she's made healthier

619
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: decisions and what she's eating, she's exercising, So now there's

620
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: this sense of pressure of I'm I'm being healthy for

621
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: my you know, my body and my health in general.

622
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: And I still feel the stress in this way that

623
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: he's going to leave me if I don't lose it fast.

624
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: Part's not cool, it's not healthy. It shouldn't be the

625
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: you do this or I'm gone. It should be what

626
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: does she want? If she wants to lose the weight

627
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: to feel good? Because I feel better when i'm active.

628
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: Most people do, so it should be about her. They're

629
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: also I don't fault her if she wants to look

630
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: good for him. I get that. So there's a lot

631
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: of reasons why she could be healthier and is the

632
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: weight right, But it's got to be on her terms,

633
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: and for the reason she wants it to be. It

634
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: can't just be to make him happy because of the ultimatum. Yeah,

635
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I feel like her doing it

636
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Speaker 1: because she wants to do it and feel better is

637
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Speaker 1: totally different than her doing it because she's stressed out

638
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: that he's going to leave. She needs to figure out

639
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Speaker 1: who she wants to be. If she wants to be

640
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Speaker 1: this are they That's the question. Doesn't sound very happy

641
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Speaker 1: from this email, but she doesn't believe in divorce. She

642
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Speaker 1: really wants to make this work. So the question is

643
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Speaker 1: how does she do that? How does she make her

644
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Speaker 1: her marriage work and brighten up her future. I think

645
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Speaker 1: I personally and I'm I'm so far out of being

646
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Speaker 1: in this situation in the sense of I've not been

647
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Speaker 1: with anyone for ten years. I'm not married, I have

648
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Speaker 1: not had anyone giving me an ultimatum in any way

649
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Speaker 1: of like do this or I'm out. But I really

650
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Speaker 1: believe in focusing on yourself and doing what is best

651
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Speaker 1: for you to be happy and healthy, because I think

652
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Speaker 1: when you're happy and you're healthy, your relationship is going

653
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Speaker 1: to prosper. Because I don't think if you're feeling insecure,

654
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Speaker 1: feeling pressure that he's going to leave, it's it's making

655
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Speaker 1: it worse. It's making it worse. Yeah, you gotta love

656
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Speaker 1: you first he leaves, that he leaves because you love you,

657
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Speaker 1: And that's all right. It's not the number on the scale,

658
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Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, she whatever she

659
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Speaker 1: needs to do now, I'm not saying she doesn't need

660
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Speaker 1: to do anything. Something needs to be done, because I

661
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: don't know how happy these guys are. More information. Somebody

662
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Speaker 1: comes to you, you're in a relationship long term, and

663
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Speaker 1: he says, look, I'm really the butter pop tarts and

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Speaker 1: the Dr Pepper and the McDonald's. I can't. I'm worried

665
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Speaker 1: about you. I need you to knock it off. It's

666
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Speaker 1: already any healthy or I gotta go. If he said it,

667
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Speaker 1: I'm worried about you, I'm worried about your health, I

668
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Speaker 1: would say. I hear that, I'm a little concerned myself. Moderation.

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Speaker 1: You could work out and go like, hey, alright, fine,

670
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Speaker 1: let's eat healthy Monday to Saturday and Sundays are cheat day,

671
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Speaker 1: buttered pop charge for everyone. And it sounds like they're

672
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Speaker 1: working together on some of that. They're hiking together. Yeah,

673
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Speaker 1: And I think if he and we don't know, he

674
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Speaker 1: may have approached that way. But if, if, if, that

675
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Speaker 1: would be very different than someone coming and being like,

676
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Speaker 1: I'm not attracted to you, and I think I'm gonna

677
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678
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Speaker 1: go on, how's the healthier lifestyle going? By the way?

679
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Speaker 1: Not great? You know, not great? Do you think it's

680
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Speaker 1: because of like do you run out of time to

681
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Speaker 1: eat healthy? And it's easier and it's so much easier

682
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Speaker 1: to not eat healthy. That's a lot of people because

683
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Speaker 1: when I was like cooking and stuff and like eating

684
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Speaker 1: at home. I was like, oh, like I make it,

685
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Speaker 1: I have to clean it up, Like this is way

686
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Speaker 1: more work than when someone just brings it to my

687
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: door and I eat it throw it away. But I'm

688
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Speaker 1: moving into my new place this week, and so i

689
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Speaker 1: have a bigger kitchen. I feel like I'm gonna I'm

690
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Speaker 1: walkable to stores. I'm hoping that I am a little

691
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Speaker 1: more active and try to eat better. However, I'm gonna

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694
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Speaker 1: Beyond like that would be a great option. So I'm

695
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Speaker 1: I'm hoping that that will help. It's just hard. I mean,

696
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Speaker 1: I know everyone's like it's hard with the holidays. Imagine

697
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Speaker 1: it being hard all the time. The holidays don't help,

698
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Speaker 1: true enough, And here we are, by the way, that's

699
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Speaker 1: what that procedure came in handy because I barely ate

700
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: all weekend recovering from feel like I'm in a deficit

701
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: now going into the holidays, and I feel good about

702
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: what I need that seven pounds two years where I'm

703
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: like seven literally ever since I've met Amy. I just

704
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: have to lose seven pounds and I'm not lie. I'm

705
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: not exaggerating. Probably the first time I've met you told me,

706
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707
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:53,239
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708
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Speaker 1: I always just want to lose seven pounds, like I

709
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710
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711
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712
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715
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716
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Speaker 1: the hugely popular show Gilmore Girls. Amy is fully fan

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Speaker 1: There is something about that dialogue cracks me up, like

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Speaker 1: you know what, genius it's so fast, the back and forth.

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Speaker 1: It was so quick, topical, just like and do you

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Speaker 1: know what? Doing it? It's twice as fast as how

805
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Speaker 1: it comes out in your head when you're doing it

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Speaker 1: inside your body. And the only note you're getting from

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Speaker 1: any director that's working with you, because that's the only

808
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Speaker 1: note they've received from up top, is faster. No. Wait,

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Speaker 1: so I have a question. They just come up to

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Speaker 1: and go, great, it's all great, but just can you

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Speaker 1: like pay ages. Let's say you're doing a scene on

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Speaker 1: Gilmore Girls compared to a scene I watched you on

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Speaker 1: We're like, what would be the comparison of how much

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Speaker 1: Gilmore was an hour. But um, Gilmore is eighty pages

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Speaker 1: and we were going to shoot it at six thirty.

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Speaker 1: And I looked at Lauren and said, well, if we

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Speaker 1: good with that storyline. Um, but it's like I think

845
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: I think the debate going on between the creators and

846
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: Warner Brothers was how to execute that and how to

847
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: you know, how quickly to bring them together. Let's make

848
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: them wait, And you know, I think a lot of

849
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: discussions were, well, the fans are going to defect if

850
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: we don't give them this by season three, and you know,

851
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 1: we're really worried about it. And it's like, no, yeah,

852
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: they'll stick around. I was gonna say, because they're going

853
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 1: to wait until they get the satisfaction. Yeah. Look, I

854
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: was all for no, bring another guy in, make him jealous,

855
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: you know. Well that was what was so heartbreaking at times.

856
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,760
Speaker 1: Keep me around. It was real, Like I can remember,

857
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: like in season one or two, she was engaged to

858
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: that other dude, and at that time you could already

859
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: tell that Luke was a little bit like h And

860
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: I also think God that the Gilmer Girls allowed me

861
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: discover Matt Zukri, Oh my god, Like that was where

862
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: I first learned about him. And he's still just are

863
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 1: you seriously talking about another man in my presence? I'm

864
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: so sorry. My heart is always with Luke. But then

865
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: there's check her. Listen, we don't know, we don't know

866
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: who she is and where she came from. Look, it's

867
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: been real fragile after so else, but we can build

868
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: up as you go again if you want to with

869
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: this email. Yeah, we're here now. We have an email

870
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: to really build you up and mention another actor, Amy

871
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: brought you down, but one of our listeners is here

872
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: to bring you back up. Megan email does this, she said.

873
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: The only thing I love more than the scrubbing in

874
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: podcast is Gilmore Girls. I washed on TV when it

875
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: was on and have binged it on every box set,

876
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: DVD and Netflix ever since. It played a huge part

877
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: in my life growing up and even now as an adult.

878
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 1: That helps me through hard times and good ones. Please

879
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: tell Scott that he and the show have impacted my

880
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: life so greatly. As silly as it is to rely

881
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: on a TV show, it's a big light in my

882
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: life and something I can watch over again without fail

883
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: for comfort and happiness. I've wanted to meet Scott Patterson

884
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 1: my entire life, and having my two favorites merged together

885
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: is making me so happy. Wow. Yeah, that's very nice.

886
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Well, I don't think I am,

887
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,320
Speaker 1: but you know, I I'm just I'm just reading the

888
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 1: words on the page. And trying not to knock into

889
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: the first much I was gonna I've never shared this before.

890
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 1: When I was in sixth grade, our local mall I'm

891
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 1: from Louisian. Originally our local mall had a open casting

892
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: for it was w B shows, but at the time

893
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: w B and Gilmore Girls was one of them, and

894
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 1: I went with my friend who was also trying to

895
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 1: be an actor. I was in. I was in drama

896
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: at this time, and I thought I was going to

897
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 1: be an actress when I grew up. And this was

898
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: when I knew I wasn't going to be was that

899
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 1: this casting call. I waited in line for one time.

900
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:48,959
Speaker 1: I would say thirty seconds. It was quick, but sat

901
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: in line for hours and my friend I was like,

902
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: this is I mean, this is meant to be my

903
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: big break. I'm gonna be on Gilmore Girls. They said

904
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 1: it's very fast dialogue, so think about that when you're

905
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: doing your all edition. They have this like fake set

906
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: set up in like the back of like a Kirklands

907
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: or something, and they started reading the lines. I blacked out.

908
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know how it went, but it was

909
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,959
Speaker 1: just like thank you, And at that moment I walked

910
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: out and I was like, I'm never this is never

911
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: gonna be. This is not it for me. You gotta

912
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 1: hang in there. Didn't want to. It felt horrible, like

913
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: nothing about it felt right. You know. Well, you know

914
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you definitely need a thick skin, There's

915
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: no question about it. And I came into this profession

916
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: um with a very thick skin because I've been through

917
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 1: seven years of professional baseball and I did not know that. Yeah.

918
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: In fact, one of my favorite people was from Louisiana,

919
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 1: Ron Gidrey, from Louisiana Lightning. They called them. Yeah, wait,

920
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: that's so you were. You were in like a very

921
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: different profession, but still a profession where requires discipline and

922
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: get paid nothing, or at least they didn't pay me. Yeah, yea,

923
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: So how that transition? What was? How did you discover? Oh?

924
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: You know, I when I when I walked away from baseball,

925
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: I went to Europe. I've never been to Europe, and

926
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: I spent about a year and a half there and

927
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: sort of trying to figure it out. And I met

928
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: some American tourists and people that were living there, and

929
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: I went to New York with them and got int

930
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: acting and the whole thing and yeah, sorry, this is

931
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: my wheelhouse. I feel like, yeah, you made it to

932
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: the major leagues. I never I never pitched it. I

933
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: never pitched any of the majors. But I was on

934
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: the Yankees major league roster and eighty three. Boy, I'm

935
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 1: dating myself. And I was on the Rangers major league

936
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: roster and a D five, and then I was I

937
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: don't I don't know that I was. I don't think

938
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: I was ever a part of the Dodgers forty man roster.

939
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 1: But I went to camp with them, and that's who

940
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: kind of put me out to pasture. Dodgers, thanks so much.

941
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: Actually they did me a favorite tiler professional baseball players.

942
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 1: To even get on that major league roster, that's impressive,

943
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: that's well. Yeah, I was pretty excited about the first

944
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: time I was on the first couple of times I

945
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 1: was on a major leaue roster, I was pretty exciting. Absolutely. Yeah.

946
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: But um, you make more money, uh you get you

947
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: get to come to big league hit camp and and

948
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,760
Speaker 1: try to impress people if they ever give you a chance.

949
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: Um yeah, it's it's kind of nice. You hang out

950
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: with the big leaguers and then they take you out

951
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: drinking and see if you're a real man, you know

952
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: that kind of a thing. How long is it going

953
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 1: to take him to fall off the bar stool kind

954
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: of deal. Um, yeah, it's kind of it's kind of

955
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: it's kind of neat. It was a neat experience, no question,

956
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: but it gave me a thick skin. And I came

957
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: into Hollywood thinking or I went to New York and

958
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: I was studying, and I was doing theater and you know,

959
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,720
Speaker 1: just trying to get because for me, it was always

960
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: about acquiring skills, and that's really what baseball it was

961
00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: just like, you know, stop stop complaining about you're not

962
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: getting promoted. Just work on your skill set, and once

963
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: your skill set is there, you'll get promoted. So um,

964
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: and I wish I had taken my own advice early

965
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: in my career, which is, stopped complaining and work on

966
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: your damn skill set. You know, you're here for a reason.

967
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: You know you want to go to the next level.

968
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: You need this skill set. You want to go higher

969
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,919
Speaker 1: than that, you need that skill set. So it's really

970
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: all about that and acting. I approached it the same way.

971
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: It's a skill set. You sing, do I sing? Uh?

972
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: Someone on the Facebook group after the body's music. Well, yeah,

973
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: I know, but I didn't know. Are you the singer?

974
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: Are you a right? Right? And saying I write all

975
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 1: the songs. In fact, I have my new single with

976
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 1: me right now. And do you really I can't do

977
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: I actually do? Yeah, Well I don't know. Maybe if

978
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: you want to see it, if you own the publishing

979
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: and of rights to it, Oh sure I do. Oh

980
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: god you well we'll no. I have it on a

981
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: oh even better thumbing I got. I got it on

982
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: a thumbdra Do you really on the publishing? I'm sorry

983
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 1: to be that person, but if you do, then we

984
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: can actually play it. Yeah, but anyway, but you want

985
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 1: to hear it? Seriously, Yeah we were. I was not

986
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: planning on doing this. Actually, well we're gonna talk about

987
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: your coffee in a second, but we want to hear them. Yes,

988
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: we love playing you so long. And it's totally different

989
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: than you would expect. It's a little bit like rock, right,

990
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: it kind of is. This new song is a little

991
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: it's a departure and I just wasn't even gonna well,

992
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: let's do it. Mess with it all right. A lot

993
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: of people that are like, what are you up to now?

994
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: So well, I'm I run my coffee business seven And

995
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: you know, I finished that song a while ago, but

996
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: I haven't done anything with it. But as long as

997
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm here, Well he did a lead a minute to

998
00:51:58,239 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: get it into the system. When I talk about other things,

999
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: you have to delete that as soon as it's the

1000
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: next thing. You know, I was playing on kiss. Yeah,

1001
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it's not a bad thing. Um. Well,

1002
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: since we're since we're talking about what you're doing, do

1003
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: you want to talk about your coffee because I mean

1004
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 1: the fact that you are Luke and you were known

1005
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: for your coffee shop, which Tanya, who is my co host,

1006
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: she had to she left out of town. But um,

1007
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 1: and she's like a huge fan. Like it was like bitter,

1008
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: you know, not the great timing for her italy. Um,

1009
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: but she went to the pop up where she sat

1010
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: in line for I don't even know how many hours

1011
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: to have a cup of coffee. And I said, well,

1012
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: was it was it good? Was it worth it? She

1013
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: was like, it's pretty dang good. I had no regrets

1014
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 1: about waiting. So I just love that you now have

1015
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: a coffee company and it's called Scotty Peace, Scotty peas

1016
00:52:55,600 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: big mug coffee. Uh. We debuted a year ago November

1017
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: two thousand seventeen, and on our website scott ep dot com,

1018
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: we offer twelve ounce ground and five blends, two flavors,

1019
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: and breakfast blend in a French roast in a decaf

1020
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,399
Speaker 1: and hazel nut and French vanilla. And we have cake

1021
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: ups in breakfast blend and French roast. We have whole

1022
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: bean and two pound bags and breakfast blend and dinner

1023
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: blend actually and um French roast. So we're rocking and rolling.

1024
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 1: We're coming out with espresso pods and pretty soon. And

1025
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: you heard it here first. At what point where do

1026
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,439
Speaker 1: you like, I'm gonna this is gonna be I'm gonna

1027
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: transition from Luke's to Scotty Peace. Actually it was in

1028
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: the middle of the music tour that I did a

1029
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: couple of summers ago. I did a tour of twenty

1030
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: seven coffee shops with It was just me and another

1031
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: guitar player. My guitar player. That's why you like laught

1032
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: When I was like, oh, you're like, I just did

1033
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 1: a coffee. I don't know if you could describe it

1034
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: as singing. I don't know that people would identify it

1035
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: as such. No, I feel if you're showing a song,

1036
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: you're a singer. I myself would not describe what I

1037
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 1: do as singing. I'm not one of them. I was.

1038
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 1: I was an athlete, so I played sports. So I

1039
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 1: see you got this nice gene where you were able

1040
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: to do both. I don't have that artistic creative side.

1041
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: Oh I'm sure you do. No, no, no, I I've

1042
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: searched it. I don't. I can't sing, No, I really don't.

1043
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: It's good at fashion, and she's a good dancer, but

1044
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: she's not a good dancer. You're good, well, I mean

1045
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 1: she's not, but in like a concert, she's not embarrassing

1046
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: or anything. Oh I'm gonna take that home to family

1047
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: time for Christmas and fashion and like decore. But she's

1048
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: not a good singer, and neither is Tanya. You know.

1049
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: It's funny though, a lot of my friends, like if

1050
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: I'm singing along to the music, they'll be like, like,

1051
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: you have a great voice, and I'm my mind of thing.

1052
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: I have been told that I'm a terrible singer my

1053
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: whole life, So I can't tell where the line is.

1054
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: Am I so bad that it's like artsy sounding and

1055
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 1: it's good. What do you do? You sound really good? No?

1056
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: I think I can stay on key, But I don't

1057
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: think of my tone. Let me let me a song,

1058
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: Let me hear something, Let me hear a little something.

1059
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: Give me a bar of something, little country song. Think

1060
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: it's like an audition. I have some songs. That's a client.

1061
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: Little crazy current country country, little Elvira, carry Underwood here

1062
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: the American idol. I don't know what a rocket top?

1063
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: Do you know? Rocket? This is not going well? How

1064
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 1: did this become about literally all of a sudden. I'm nervous.

1065
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 1: I can't come on. Take me home, There you go,

1066
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 1: There you go. That's easy. Tag me home to the

1067
00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: place where you know it's a nice time. Nice about it.

1068
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: I could be a country singer. I mean, if you

1069
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 1: committed to it and acquired lit. You have a nice sound,

1070
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: you have a nice tone. Paint app okay I do,

1071
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: because everyone's going to get mad at me if I

1072
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: don't get an answer about this. I know you're probably

1073
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: tired of talking about it. But who do you think

1074
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: the baby daddy is? Rory's baby daddy? You know who

1075
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: I think it is. I think it's buzz Aldrin. I

1076
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: think buzz Aldrin is going to make an appearance. I

1077
00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:38,839
Speaker 1: don't know, but I still think it's him. I think

1078
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 1: it's either buzz Aldrin or it's um it's jay Z.

1079
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 1: I think it might be you. But how about that

1080
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 1: Milo really making a career for himself too. I don't

1081
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 1: know what to say. I'm sorry, I don't mind the question,

1082
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: and you're pursuing here. I'll go to is Milow. I

1083
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: think it's jay Z. It's only two options, Milow, third guy.

1084
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: But let us pray it's not him, that myandom guy,

1085
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: that nerdy guys she was dating in the movies. It's

1086
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 1: not the movies. They kind of were, Yeah, they were

1087
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: just like long episodes a ninety minute. No, they were

1088
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: actually I only saw one of them, and you know,

1089
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: we went to the premiere and they did a whole thing,

1090
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: and I watched it and it did have a film

1091
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 1: quality to it. I mean, it was beautifully shot, and

1092
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: it was like, boy, this isn't really like just a

1093
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: TV episode. It doesn't look like a TV episode. It

1094
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 1: looks like a film. So generally, you don't make a

1095
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: habit of watching your stuff back, and I don't. I

1096
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: don't I've never I saw the pilot and that was it.

1097
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: I swore, really yeah, I did. I did see the

1098
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: pilot when it aired, and I just I haven't seen

1099
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 1: another episode. But then I, you know, during the bing

1100
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: a thon that up TV was doing recently over Thanksgiving,

1101
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: I just sited in all of my wisdom to live

1102
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 1: tweet during a couple of the episodes, and that was

1103
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 1: all my idea. And then I said, oh, I actually

1104
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 1: have to watch the episode to tweet, and I'm like,

1105
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: oh no, But I did it and sort of sucked

1106
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: it up and did it. Any hundred episodes, girls, you've

1107
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: seen one or two I've seen now, well I I've

1108
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: seen three or four now, and that's it. That's all

1109
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: I want to say. I want to get to some

1110
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,919
Speaker 1: of these Facebook questions we got for Scott at first.

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00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: Let's talk about these. I love roth these. So I

1112
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1113
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Speaker 1: which means blister season. With all the heels that I'm wearing.

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Speaker 1: It's quite a painful time of the year. But we're

1115
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Speaker 1: getting through it, especially with Rothy's flats because I can

1116
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: keep them in the in my purse for any occasion.

1117
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: So right after I take off off my heels at

1118
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: a party, I can slip my rath He's on and

1119
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 1: then I can enjoy my night without being in crucial pain. Um.

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Speaker 1: the loafer. What's so crazy about raw these, though, is

1124
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Speaker 1: that they are made from recycled plastic water bottles. It's

1125
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: hard to really wrap my mind around that how that happens,

1126
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 1: but it's cool. Raw The's has almost reached twenty million

1127
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,800
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Speaker 1: I go to sleep, there's a water bottle on my

1129
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: nightstand and that could be used for rothy shoe. That's cool.

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00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: One of the things I don't like about flats um

1131
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: is that my feet do sweat all the time. But

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Speaker 1: with rath these, you can put them in the washer,

1133
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 1: So after I wear them dancing or just walking around

1134
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: all day, I can throw them in the wash and

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Speaker 1: seal well last. It's such a great Christmas gift, it

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Speaker 1: really is. And speaking of Christmas, Thrive Market this box

1148
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 1: that we've been kind of this great stuff in here.

1149
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,439
Speaker 1: I got some taking this catchup home to the family

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Speaker 1: right now. Look at that organic win till I'll be drinking.

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Speaker 1: How about those pickles, Oh my god, yeah, talk about

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Speaker 1: the pickles. We got some pickles, slices, sliced pickled chips

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Speaker 1: from Thrive Market and they haven't even been making it

1154
01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: onto the sandwich. I just come home and crack that

1155
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: sucker up, and and I've just been eating pickles like

1156
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: they were potato chips. I eat pickles like that too.

1157
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: I just got into it. It's a new thing for me.

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Speaker 1: Delicious and nutritious. I have some people coming into town

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01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: and I wanted to do like welcome, little snack. Um.

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Speaker 1: I cannot tell you, guys, this is what blows in

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01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: mind the most about Thrive Market. It is so cheap.

1162
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 1: I did this before and I paid probably four times

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01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: what I paid just last night, ordering like chips and

1164
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: chocolates and some crackers and just like a little snack. Welcome.

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01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: The prices, that is really what blows my mind. Well,

1166
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: the really I know. And it's like they have everything.

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01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: So they have a holiday shop that's happening right now

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Speaker 1: my personal favorite, and organic kimono white robe in honor

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Speaker 1: of Tanya. I actually ordered to um. This is this

1171
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 1: is how I'm working these days because I have a

1172
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: guest bedroom now, so when people come stay, I'm like,

1173
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: everything's ready for you. So I ordered two of the

1174
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: rope so that anyone who comes over can have underwear

1175
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Speaker 1: two because they're so cozy. Um. Thrive Market is a

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Speaker 1: are made from recycled paper and they're all recyclable zero

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Speaker 1: waste from Thrive Market. They are the first company in

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Speaker 1: the country to go zero way. So um Thrive Markets

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Speaker 1: prices are already up to fifty off and now they're

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Speaker 1: with your order. That's amazing. This at the time of

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Speaker 1: year where you have to, like when you have a

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Speaker 1: table of sweets, you really have to prioritize, really what's

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Speaker 1: worth the calories I'm about to ingest. I think those

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Speaker 1: organic chocolate truffles would be at the top of the lift.

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Speaker 1: slash scrubbing in. All right, gorgeous, you guys, that was good.

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Speaker 1: I was kind of impressed. Yeah. A lot of people

1201
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 1: asking about Lauren Graham. They feel like you guys had

1202
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: a great chemistry. Were you friendly off this? Off screen?

1203
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: Are used? Did you stay friends? Afterward? She wouldn't leave

1204
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: me alone. She wouldn't let me go, And do you

1205
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: really have to go home? And I'm like, yeah, I'll

1206
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: get some sleep. Can you just stay And I'm like, no,

1207
01:03:56,040 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: I gotta go. Um Melissa ba Darry the real answer,

1208
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: she wouldn't leave me alone. So you guys enough, I

1209
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 1: get it. He's smiling right now. All right, let's where'd

1210
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: you come back for a second revival? Sure? Yeah, yeah,

1211
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: it was. It's a blast to be with those people.

1212
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: That's a fun show to be on. A lot of

1213
01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: people don't say that after being together for that many.

1214
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of people are kind of like

1215
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: it was, it ran its course and we all were

1216
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: ready to move on. So it's I think it's good

1217
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: to hear that as people who watch shows and then

1218
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 1: they hear like no one got along on set is

1219
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: maybe the most crushing, soul crushing thing ever. But think

1220
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: about it. Do you get along with everybody here all

1221
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 1: the time of the time. I don't know, but I'm

1222
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: saying that Eastern because he looks like he looks like

1223
01:04:52,080 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: silent trouble. I'm to be that's some times there's a

1224
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,320
Speaker 1: little flare uffs. But it's like when you get a

1225
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 1: bunch of people together and it's so collaborative, and it's

1226
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:09,959
Speaker 1: so intensively collaborative, you know you're going to have little

1227
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: dust ups here and there and people getting hurt. I

1228
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:16,200
Speaker 1: loved us. I closed dust ups to entertain myself. But

1229
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like that tumultuous of those. I'm a scorpio.

1230
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: Well On that note, Sarah Wells is wondering who your

1231
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: best friend was on the cast um. You know, Sean

1232
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: Gun was always the most I always found him to

1233
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 1: be the most interesting and most entertaining. Um. He was

1234
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: always reading some obscure novel and then he would read

1235
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,919
Speaker 1: Bill James's Baseball Abstract and throw a question. We talked ball,

1236
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: we talk novels, we talked I mean, he was He's

1237
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: an endlessly entertaining human being. Um, you know, really everybody,

1238
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: I mean everybody's pretty good hang over there. You know.

1239
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 1: We we we sat around and we had a lot

1240
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 1: of downtime, you know, there was we were there a

1241
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: lot um So I don't think the show would have

1242
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: been successful if people really didn't get along, you know,

1243
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:10,920
Speaker 1: I mean it was it was really that kind of

1244
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: a fun, funny, a lot of wit flying around. As

1245
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 1: you can imagine. When Amy came on set to direct

1246
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: an episode, it was really elevated and ramped up and

1247
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: it was just you know, it was it was fun.

1248
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 1: It was like a little circus of trained Performerslyn wants

1249
01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: to know what much living was done. It sounds like

1250
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 1: you couldn't do a lot of ad libbing because the

1251
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: dense Yeah. No, no, that is a good question, because

1252
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: it is. It is like spit fire, it's so fast. No,

1253
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: there's just no ad libbing. In fact, we would do

1254
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: takes on a master shot before we could move on

1255
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: to close ups or coverage, and we really didn't get

1256
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: close ups. We got sort of cowboy shots from waist

1257
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: up um. But you had to really nail that master

1258
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: before we could move on, and it had to be

1259
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: word perfect and calm, a perfect and period perfect and

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Speaker 1: perfect perfect perfect because that was kind of like what

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Speaker 1: it was known for. Yeah, that was that. See, that

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01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: was the pressure is to get it word perfect at

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01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: a pace that is not human. Yeah, we're we could.

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01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: We could actually get jobs on different planets because of

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01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 1: the training and the pace and what we're used to.

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Speaker 1: The marvelous. I have not seen it now, I've been

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01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: really really busy, but I hear it's kind of great. Yeah,

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01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 1: yeah at Gilmore Girls, but it has to write Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Bunheads one to I didn't see that one either for you. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I think I would imagine you sit down for Bundheads

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Speaker 1: like I got my own Bunheads. All right, I don't

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01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:54,240
Speaker 1: need to watch it on TV. Hum. I don't even

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01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: know what that means. Actually I wasn't sure either. I

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01:07:57,280 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 1: just had to just go with it. To go with it, yeah,

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01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: sort of um, but yeah, I mean no, it was

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01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: a good hang. It was a good place to work,

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01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: and especially the revival because you know, it was a

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01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 1: different level with Netflix. Netflix really spent some money on that. Yeah,

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01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: and it felt like we were on a big budget

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01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:22,759
Speaker 1: feature film. I mean it was a whole different experience.

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01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 1: The level of equipment that was available that was being

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01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: deployed trailer size. Oh yes, I'm telling you. It was

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01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: a different trailers, pop out things. I mean it was

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01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,719
Speaker 1: like fancy, fancy time. We felt like fancy movie stars

1285
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 1: for a couple of months there and we're not. I

1286
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, people are so into like the

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01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: Netflix and Binging, and I felt like it was like

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01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: a brilliant move to come back and people were so

1289
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 1: I mean diehard fans of that show that to bring

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01:08:51,160 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 1: it back and then for it to end like that.

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01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:56,600
Speaker 1: If they don't do another series, people are going to

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01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: be ourselves. I just bought the entire our set of

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01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 1: DVDs for my knees for her birthday. I hope you

1294
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: get a dollar. Y'all. Y'all waiting for a wedding. You

1295
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: know you're waiting for a wedding. Aren't you a wedding

1296
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 1: we have? I just need to know who the baby's

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01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:12,640
Speaker 1: dad is. No, no, we gotta we gotta get the

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01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: wedding first. There was no wedding that Mini things. I

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01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 1: don't know your wedding. Yeah, I thought we did it.

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01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 1: I thought there was there was no wedding. We want

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01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: at the end with just like the intimate group, are

1302
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 1: you are you legally married? There? It was being set

1303
01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: up for a massive, entire town wedding that they didn't

1304
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 1: have the budget to do, so they had to cut

1305
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 1: it down. But it's like, you know, come on, we

1306
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 1: did something that like gazebo. That's what the fans wanted.

1307
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 1: What they wanted a massive wedding with all of the

1308
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 1: crazy stuff that would have gone on at a big wedding. Right,

1309
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: all the pratfalls well as far as acting, because I

1310
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 1: know you're doing music, are you doing anything else in

1311
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: the acting work? Because people are like, it's just it's

1312
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,800
Speaker 1: really coffee now, It's just you don't have it like

1313
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 1: you other than Gilmore girls. You're like, I don't really

1314
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:04,120
Speaker 1: have any interest in doing anything else. It's not a

1315
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: question of interest, it's a question of opportunity. I see

1316
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:11,560
Speaker 1: projects on your IMDb. Yeah, they've been on my I

1317
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 1: AMDB for a couple of years. Yeah, those projects you're

1318
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 1: seeing are still waiting for funding. The Rogue is not

1319
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: in pre production. Rogue has been in pre production. Well no,

1320
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: it's not even in pre production. They keep saying they're

1321
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: waiting for I think our government to clear the funds

1322
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 1: that are coming from overseas National to secure all that

1323
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 1: kind of stuff, because like ten million, fifteen million dollars

1324
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 1: and I get updates once in a while and then

1325
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 1: email from as are by John or someplace, and it's like, well,

1326
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:40,679
Speaker 1: you know, we're still working on getting the funds cleared

1327
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:42,599
Speaker 1: and into the United States and that kind of a thing.

1328
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 1: And I'm I'm thinking, well, I'm just gonna move on now,

1329
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,759
Speaker 1: you know, not worry about that one. And the liberty

1330
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:52,280
Speaker 1: is not happening. That's the same company, Sons of Summer.

1331
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 1: Sons of Summer, Where're gonna play a coach? You know?

1332
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:59,560
Speaker 1: I passed on that. Continue to promote that film with

1333
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 1: me attached to it. Um, we could never make a

1334
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: deal with them. And if they're listening, they should really

1335
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: remove me from that project. And any you know, any

1336
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: investors thinking of investing in that project should not do

1337
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: it based on my participation because I will not be

1338
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 1: in the film. I just wanted to make that clear.

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01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 1: That's the only reason I came here. Exclusive Sons of

1340
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 1: Summer will not be featuring me. Two more rapid fires.

1341
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: Where's their coffee in the cups? Was They're always coffee

1342
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 1: in the cups? Oh god? Yeah? And uh do you

1343
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 1: still have the iconic hat. Oh, I have all of them.

1344
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:36,000
Speaker 1: There's a lot of them. There's a couple I have.

1345
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,480
Speaker 1: I have the stunt ones, and I have the originals,

1346
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: and I ain't giving them up for no one. The

1347
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: Smithsonian called, I said, no, no, no, no, no, those

1348
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 1: are mine. You know my boys getting that when I

1349
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 1: when I shuffle off this mortal coil and where's it going?

1350
01:11:54,200 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: Right to? My boy? I have a son, he's four. Yeah,

1351
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 1: he's amazing. Yeah, he's he's really amazing. Are you from here? Originally?

1352
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm from New Jersey. Oh I knew. I didn't know

1353
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 1: if that was an actor? Born in Philadelphia, raised in Jersey. Yeah, yeah, no,

1354
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 1: that's that's how are you Mary? Do you have a girlfriend? No? No,

1355
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: I've been with the same same woman for eighteen years. Yeah.

1356
01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: She ever felt felt threatened by the Lucamarelie connection, the

1357
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:30,759
Speaker 1: hard hitting questions. There weren't any fistfights at all between

1358
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: those two. Those are rumors. There was no high there

1359
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: was nothing. It's all rumors now nothing now. No. She

1360
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 1: she gets along with everybody. She's an amazing woman. Yeah,

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01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: all right, we have to wrap, but I want to

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Speaker 1: play Scott's song. First, we need to thank some people.

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Speaker 1: dot com slash being I think we should hear this song.

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01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is it called? It's called my

1376
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:42,839
Speaker 1: cell Phone? Can we do sound? Are you? Are you similar?

1377
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: You know my cell phones either? Just like Luke, It's

1378
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 1: it's my commentary on on what technology has done to

1379
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,680
Speaker 1: us and how it's sort of separated us. And I

1380
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: never really intentionally set out to to write a song

1381
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 1: that had a message, and I don't think it really

1382
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: has a message, just a little story about about how, um,

1383
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 1: you know, this couple is having some problems and she

1384
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:06,960
Speaker 1: sees something on his cell phone as we see a

1385
01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 1: lot of relationships blow up. Because this is amazing for

1386
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:12,800
Speaker 1: our pod. Who the hell is you know? And I

1387
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:16,120
Speaker 1: was like, bou so, so that's kind of what the

1388
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:18,719
Speaker 1: song is about. It's like some dude getting busted because

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01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 1: he's he's texting, he's being a little shady. Yeah. Yeah,

1390
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: this is a good content for this podcast. Yes, really, Okay,

1391
01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 1: when are you done again coming through the bed door death?

1392
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: I need to find a rest when you just ran around?

1393
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 1: D you know about right to the rivers hard testing

1394
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 1: on the show because I know I don't have a

1395
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 1: tech kids to do it. Just don't when you come

1396
01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: again coming through the bed door through the desk, I'm

1397
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 1: gonna find a rat when I should just run around soon,

1398
01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 1: get on the body, run through the rabbit to jump,

1399
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 1: keep it on the shoe because I don't don't have

1400
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 1: a chance to get to your story. Just don't. Don't

1401
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: don't sounding on the telephone to ride, coming on your telephone,

1402
01:16:54,880 --> 01:17:31,719
Speaker 1: by sounding on the telephone to ride, to tell from

1403
01:17:32,000 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 1: the wall to wall, and don't any more. You watch Wow,

1404
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:15,640
Speaker 1: we imagine we added some country let that um so

1405
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: what I'm taking away from today with you is that

1406
01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 1: there's nothing you can't or don't do well. I look,

1407
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:25,280
Speaker 1: I've been writing music my whole life, right, and I

1408
01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 1: never pursued it. I never ever pursued it. And I

1409
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,760
Speaker 1: decided to pursue it two years ago. Um, and then

1410
01:18:32,840 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: I realized, I don't want to be on the road.

1411
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 1: I don't want to be away from my son. I

1412
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:39,639
Speaker 1: can't do that to him. I was on the road

1413
01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:42,160
Speaker 1: in my early twenties, in mid twenties with the baseball

1414
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 1: and I didn't have a family then. So you can

1415
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 1: do that when you're young, but when you know, you

1416
01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: get a little more, a little longer in the tooth,

1417
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 1: you know, I'm I don't want to miss those moments

1418
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: with my boy because you know, listen, Um, you know

1419
01:18:57,640 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 1: I ain't twenty anymore, right, And and I want to

1420
01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:02,439
Speaker 1: spend as much time with him as possible. There's a

1421
01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:04,640
Speaker 1: lot I want to teach him, um, and there's a

1422
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,760
Speaker 1: lot he needs to teach me as well. It's a

1423
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 1: great way of looking so so, but it's really it's

1424
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:14,679
Speaker 1: just coffee. Coffee, coffee. Now it's speaking of coffee. Scotty

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Speaker 1: p dot com, right, that's what scotty p dot com

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Speaker 1: I mean to get quality coffee. It really is wonderful coffee.

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Speaker 1: It really really right. It smells great out of the box.

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01:19:25,400 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: I just recently started drinking coffee. I've never been a

1429
01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: huge coffee person. Yeah, that's that's a lot dr peppers.

1430
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's time to educate my palace. I get.

1431
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 1: I get a lot of comments, we get a lot

1432
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: of emails from people that say the same thing. They're

1433
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 1: not coffee drinkers, they never work. They smelled this at

1434
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 1: a friend's house and they had to have a cup

1435
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 1: just because it was sitting in the box and it

1436
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 1: smelled so good. And now their devotees. I love that. Well.

1437
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Speaker 1: I cannot say thank you enough for thank you for

1438
01:19:58,040 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: the coffee, thank you for sharing yourself unexpected and luck.

1439
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 1: We'll call the road together. We'll go listen everybody, I'll

1440
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:15,720
Speaker 1: be there, everybody. I'll be happy. Thanks. Thank you so

1441
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 1: much for coming back dot com. Very much appreciate it. Um.

1442
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 1: I'm guess I'm the one calling Time of Death today.

1443
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 1: It seems abrupt, but here we are. Time of Death

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Speaker 1: twelve six