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Speaker 1: First Date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. Bria is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a first day follow up and she's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a guy named Jason. So in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes, we're gonna call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 1: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 1: another date. But first, Bria, how long is the vinceince

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Speaker 1: you heard from Jason?

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Speaker 2: It's been at least god like a week, but he

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Speaker 2: hasn't responded to me. Okay, yeah, I reached out a

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Speaker 2: couple of days ago and yeah nothing.

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Speaker 1: What did you say to him when you reached out?

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Speaker 2: I just was like, hey, love your date. When I

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Speaker 2: go out again?

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Speaker 1: Oh and then nothing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? So how is the date?

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Speaker 3: I done?

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Speaker 2: Went?

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Speaker 4: Really well?

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Speaker 5: You know, before the date, we talked for a while

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Speaker 5: on the apps, and I don't know, it's just kind

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Speaker 5: of like real conversations, really viby stuff, not just like

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Speaker 5: surface level.

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Speaker 6: You know. We talked about how much I love cooking,

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Speaker 6: and he seemed just like he was into that, and

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Speaker 6: so then he came over for dinner so I could

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Speaker 6: make him dinner, and I know, I know it was

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Speaker 6: the first day.

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Speaker 2: It was at my place, which was super scary and risky, but.

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Speaker 1: He came over. Okay, both I like it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think I'm good at reading people, so

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Speaker 2: I think it's fine.

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Speaker 6: You know, Okay, And so I made him a saffron

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Speaker 6: chicken herb rice and a cucumbri yogurt salad, and yeah,

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Speaker 6: he ate everything and poured a lot more wine, getting

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Speaker 6: like super romantic. And then we went to the couch

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Speaker 6: with the line and I don't know, I was trying

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Speaker 6: to figure out how to get to the next step,

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Speaker 6: you know. And I remember this guy friend I had

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Speaker 6: mentioned that if you want to tease a man, you

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Speaker 6: just blow.

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Speaker 2: In the back of his neck. So I did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then you.

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Speaker 2: Jumped up and freaked out like I changed him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it might. It might shock me too. I

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Speaker 1: was just gonna say, jubile, is that a turn on?

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Speaker 1: If you just we were like I was eating and

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Speaker 1: you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of

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Speaker 1: blew on the back of my neck, and probably I

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Speaker 1: probably jumped.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we weren't eating anymore, we but the wine did

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Speaker 2: get everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Were you guys like making out before you did it?

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Speaker 1: Or you just kind of just lean over and he

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Speaker 1: blew on his neck.

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Speaker 2: I did kind of just lean over and blow about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that was shocked.

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Speaker 3: It's like you got to give people grace though, right

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Speaker 3: like right when you start to talk to somebody new,

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Speaker 3: you got to feel him out. So a little neck

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Speaker 3: blow hopefully wouldn't do it. But it is a little surprised.

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Speaker 6: I said sorry, and I explained, like this is something

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Speaker 6: my friend told me to do, and he laughed it off,

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Speaker 6: but then immediately said he had to go.

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Speaker 1: Oh, like I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I thought we had kimished, and he asked me a

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Speaker 6: lot of questions, which like people don't do, you know.

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Speaker 6: He asked me about my childhood and my favorite books,

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Speaker 6: and like I cannot remember the last time a man

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Speaker 1: Well that's good. On his way out, did you guys

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Speaker 1: kiss again to say goodbye? Or was he just like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go, and then he was just gone.

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Speaker 6: He was just like I gotta go, and then he

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Speaker 6: don't just bring anyone to my space and I'll really

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Speaker 6: face with him, and like, I don't know, I know

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Speaker 6: that that was a weird choice. They didn't feel like

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Speaker 6: a deal breaker, you know. Yeah, there was one moment

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Speaker 1: Right, Well, let's see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 1: for you. We'll play a song come back, and then

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Speaker 1: call him and see if he'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 1: ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, great,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 1: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 1: and if you're just joining us at Bria is on

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Speaker 1: the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.

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Speaker 1: So we're about to call him and see if he'll

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Speaker 1: tell us why he is ghosting her and maybe get

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Speaker 1: her a second date. But before we do that, why

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Speaker 1: don't you recap your date for us again? Real quick.

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Speaker 2: We had a great time. He came to my place.

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Speaker 6: I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided

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Speaker 6: to blow on his neck afterwards things going, and he did.

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Speaker 1: Not like that any Think maybe it was the neck

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Speaker 1: blowing that kind of creaked him out and that's why

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Speaker 1: he's ghosting you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta be gotta be.

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Speaker 1: Well, are you ready to go cal him right now?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jason. Please, Hey, Jason,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 1: the Jebil Show. Hi Jason, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria

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Speaker 1: and my name is Jubell. How are you?

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Speaker 4: WHOA? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling good? Have you listened to the

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Speaker 1: show before?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think they know what this is about. Is it

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Speaker 4: about Bria?

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Speaker 1: Yes? It is the first follow up. Yep, you went

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Speaker 1: out with Bria and you're Ghostinger. So she emailed us

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Speaker 1: to see if you will tell us why you're Ghostinger?

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Speaker 1: Do you mind talking about it?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 4: All right? Well what the dinner was incredible, like easily

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Speaker 4: top five meals I've ever had, there's no doubt. But

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Speaker 4: there was no dessert, she said.

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Speaker 1: She tried to, you know, have a little like.

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Speaker 4: So my grandma raised me and she always said real

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Speaker 4: woman sends her man off with something sweet. And that

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Speaker 4: night I kept waiting about maybe it was like chilling

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Speaker 4: in the fridge.

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Speaker 1: Or like you're talking about food. Oh yeah, you're not.

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Speaker 1: You actually mean dessert?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, literally, like desert. And it's not just like you know, dessert,

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Speaker 4: it's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know,

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Speaker 4: like she nailed the Sibery, but there was no sweet.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't balanced, and I just kept like waiting for

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Speaker 4: the meal to end, and it like never did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's why your ghostinger is because the food was good,

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Speaker 1: but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just weird. Like I was just like

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to ask, but I just kept waiting

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Speaker 4: and it was just like my palette was all confused,

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Speaker 4: and it was like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Dude, you have dessert every night? Is that something that

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Speaker 1: you do?

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Speaker 4: I mean, not if I'm just like, you know, eating

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Speaker 4: on the go, but like for a meal, you know, okay,

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Speaker 4: part of like a real I don't know. It's like

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Speaker 4: it's not polite. It's not polite to like not serve

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Speaker 4: the dilrt you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, thank you for being honest with us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, that's that's how I felt about it.

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Speaker 1: And Jason Bria is on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 1: to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you've got to be kidding me. You got to

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Speaker 2: be kidding me. Not polite, you know what you know?

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Speaker 2: Else it's not blighte ghosting someone.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, are you serious right now?

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Speaker 2: Also, what is this nineteen fifty two?

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm

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Speaker 4: It's not about You've got to be kidding about like thoughtfulness,

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Speaker 4: you know, like I don't know, I mean, it's not

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Speaker 4: nineteen fifty two, but my grandma who had to take

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, oh oh good good.

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Speaker 6: So it's done to me like you don't want a girlfriend,

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Speaker 6: you want a grandma with benefits.

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh that just sounds weird.

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Speaker 5: I don't like that.

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Speaker 4: Try to seduce me with a ghost breeze to the

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Speaker 4: jugular Like, that's not care, that's confusion. Ghost.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I was trying to be something sweet and you

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Speaker 2: should have like been an adult and said something. You

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Speaker 2: go to me over a cake.

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Speaker 4: It's not the cake. It's just like my grandma's principles,

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Speaker 4: you know, Like that's like, yeah, it's the fact you

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Speaker 4: don't get the cake, you know.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: I'm not your grandma.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry I'm not your grandma.

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Speaker 4: I am too, honestly, if you really thought you were cool,

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Speaker 4: but I'm not getting grandma vibes. It's just like, it's

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Speaker 4: too bad.

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Speaker 3: You're looking for a grandma. You're looking for grandma characteristics

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Speaker 3: in your woman.

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Speaker 4: I mean in a certain way.

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know you got to tick that box as well.

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Speaker 6: You know this is ridiculous, And yeah, I'm sure you

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Speaker 6: can go to a nursing room bingo night to sign

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Speaker 6: the woman.

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Speaker 1: Jason, would you like a second date with Bria? We'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I am in a past notice are like no direction?

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Speaker 6: Great, you and your grandma can go bake cookies and

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Speaker 6: I asleep over together.

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Speaker 2: How dare you?

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Speaker 4: My grandma's a beautiful woman. Seriously, how dare you?

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Speaker 1: She must be so proud.

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Speaker 4: She's an amazing woman. She's beautiful and honestly, she bed

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Speaker 4: you didn't get a chance to meet her because you

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Speaker 4: could learned a lot from her. Bria Jules first