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Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on

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Speaker 1: iHeartRadio and welcome back to Coast to Coast George nor

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Speaker 1: with you. Vincent Jenna, back with us. Known as the

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Speaker 1: tellent like it Is and truly ethnic spiritual teacher and

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Speaker 1: psychic therapist, He combines his extraordinary psychic abilities with academic

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Speaker 1: credentials and all loving approach to providing healing for the body, mind, spirit.

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Speaker 1: As a psychic therapist, Vincent uses his more than thirty

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Speaker 1: six years of training and research and experience in the metaphysical,

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Speaker 1: psychology and spiritual feels to dive deep into your psyche

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Speaker 1: to release blockage's resistance, self sabotaging beliefs and believes and

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Speaker 1: behaviors so you can fulfill the life of your dreams.

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Speaker 1: Vincent Jenna. The latest book is called The Secret That's

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Speaker 1: Holding You Back? Vincent. Always a pleasure. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing great this morning, George. It's my pleasure. It's

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Speaker 1: you know. I always know I'm going to have a

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Speaker 1: great day after talking with you. Well, how about that?

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Speaker 1: It's very kind of you. Oh, absolutely, I love hanging

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Speaker 1: with you. We have great conversations. I love this new book,

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Speaker 1: The Secret that's holding you back. Tell me a little

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Speaker 1: bit more about it. Thank you well, George. It's an

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Speaker 1: accumulation of over forty years of the work that I

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Speaker 1: have done in the metaphysical, spiritual, psychology, paranormal field. Everything

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Speaker 1: is combined in the book there. And it came to

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Speaker 1: me because I realized in the work that I was

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Speaker 1: doing with the thousands of people that I've done readings

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Speaker 1: for and ad events, that the greatest complaint that people

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Speaker 1: have was that they weren't able to create the lives

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Speaker 1: that they wanted. They weren't able to use the law

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Speaker 1: of attraction concept and theory and principle. And so I

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Speaker 1: just knew that something was going wrong because that's what

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Speaker 1: we are promised, and we see other people being able

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Speaker 1: to do that and manifesting lives that they want. So

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Speaker 1: what is the common denominator for everybody? And what was

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Speaker 1: the problem for everybody else? And so that's what led

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Speaker 1: me into the book, George, and like I said, did

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Speaker 1: a lot of work on putting material in there that

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Speaker 1: would truly help everybody. Everybody who reads this book will

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Speaker 1: get something out of it, especially if you're on any

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Speaker 1: kind of growth journey. You want to grow you want

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Speaker 1: to better your life, you want to enhance it. Things

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Speaker 1: are going great, but you want more. Things aren't going

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Speaker 1: great at all, and you want to start. This is

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Speaker 1: the way to do it. To truly understand the human mind,

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Speaker 1: because that's exactly what it's all about, George, the human mind,

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Speaker 1: that brain. What is it about the blockage vincent that

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Speaker 1: people create for themselves that prevents them from moving forward.

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Speaker 1: They're actually defense mechanisms, George. It's what your brain is

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Speaker 1: supposed to do. So the two highest functions of the

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Speaker 1: brain is one to keep us alive, that makes sense,

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Speaker 1: and then the second highest function is to protect us

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Speaker 1: in order to keep us alive. So we know how

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Speaker 1: it protects us physically. For example, that when we get

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Speaker 1: a bug or a virus, like when we have a coronavirus, right,

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Speaker 1: one of the symptoms was a fever. Well, in actuality,

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Speaker 1: it's not the virus that caused the fever. It's your

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Speaker 1: brain that caused the fever. And it did that intentionally

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Speaker 1: it an unlivable environment for the virus. And so it

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Speaker 1: primary goal get rid of that virus and protect this

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Speaker 1: human being. Well, not only does it protect us physically,

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Speaker 1: and this has been going on for hundreds of years now,

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Speaker 1: I also refer to them as the i'm not you

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Speaker 1: so you've got that growing up. Now, our young minds

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Speaker 1: It's the thing that connects us to power. It's the

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Speaker 1: thing that connects us to the law of attraction. George

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Speaker 1: And so do they even know they're doing this to themselves? Vincent? No, Now,

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