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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go. This is from Kathleen in

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Speaker 1: Saint Louis. Kathleen writes, I'm in a sticky situation because

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Speaker 1: my hubby asks for my pass code to my phone.

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Speaker 1: I've been emailing. I've been emailing my ex in jail,

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Speaker 1: so his emails could pop up at any time. I'm

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Speaker 1: only talking to him to keep his spirits lifted. Should

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Speaker 1: I tell my hobby about the emails because he's gonna slim.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna say, well, well, here's it, here's it now.

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Speaker 2: This is this is act like a lady, think like

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Speaker 2: a man. Advice.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's hear this.

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Speaker 2: You cannot give him your past.

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Speaker 1: Code under no circumstance. How is she gonna get out

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Speaker 1: of that?

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Speaker 2: Give him the wrong digits.

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Speaker 1: And he's just gonna come back, keep coming back.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know we're gonna we're gonna keep getting the wrong.

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Speaker 1: Code every time he asked. You don't know what's wrong?

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Speaker 3: Or take that phone, drive down the street, stop at

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Speaker 3: the corner, and throw it down the sewer.

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Speaker 2: There you go there, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I wonder why he wants her past code. Why do

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Speaker 1: you think he wants.

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Speaker 3: Because she want to see what she wants. He want

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Speaker 3: to see what he's doing. Why is you emailing this

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Speaker 3: boy in jail though.

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Speaker 1: She said to keep his spirits lifted?

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Speaker 2: Ain't no, can't nobody else keep him lifted? I'm what

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Speaker 2: do you touch? See? What?

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Speaker 3: What can you tell me? I'm in jail right? What

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Speaker 3: email you sending me that's gonna lift my spirits? Except

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get something when I get out. That's the

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Speaker 3: only thing you can tell me gonna make me.

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Maybe? Is that what she's telling him that I think

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Speaker 2: that's right.

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Speaker 3: I think she's saying something that can be misunderstood and

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Speaker 3: taking the wrong way. I really really do. And that's

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Speaker 3: what you get because if the shoe was on the

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Speaker 3: other fit, if your man was emailing his axs to

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Speaker 3: keep her spears up, you'd have a problem with that.

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Speaker 3: Get in your car, take that phone, throw it down

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Speaker 3: the sewer.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and then it's over.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't find I don't know where I lost

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Speaker 3: my that's from?

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Speaker 2: And then get you a new phone and do not

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Speaker 2: put email on.

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Speaker 1: It at all.

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Speaker 3: You got to get a burner, baby, You have got

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Speaker 3: to go to Walmart and get a phone, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Joey and Brentwood, Joey writes, my side

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Speaker 1: chick has unreasonable requests all the time. For instance, she

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Speaker 1: wanted a set of tires for her birthday. I can't

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Speaker 1: get her to settle for a purse or a pair

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Speaker 1: of shoes anymore. Can I put her on a budget?

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Speaker 1: Or do I have to keep buying expensive gifts?

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Speaker 2: Well, you go, you gonna keep side chicken hund't you?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like it.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna have to.

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Speaker 3: Keep producing uh side chick duties. Yeah, tires, So you

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Speaker 3: got go get them tires, dog, And I don't know

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Speaker 3: where you're shopping at, but I shall rather go get

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Speaker 3: them tires in the person I promise you.

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Speaker 2: I want to get them tis.

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Speaker 1: Initially discount tired.

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Speaker 3: Somehow somebody somebody got full on sale. She ain't gonna know.

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Speaker 1: All right. Moving on to Alison and Gaithersburg, Alison writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm in love with a guy at my church. He's

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Speaker 1: dating my pastor's daughter that just turned twenty two. He

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Speaker 1: and I both are twenty eight years old, so I'm

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Speaker 1: better suited for him. Why do men prefer the younger

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Speaker 1: women nowadays, what you don't have that we don't?

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Speaker 2: He don't, won't you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So what but he don't? He don't, won't you? See

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Speaker 2: it's always he listened to me, lady, stop this here.

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Speaker 3: When a man don't want you, stop talking about why

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Speaker 3: they always want somebody younger.

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Speaker 2: It ain't somebody younger, he wants somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah that's it. Yeah right, he don't, won't

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Speaker 1: you here?

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Speaker 2: But it's the truth.

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Speaker 3: I would be better suited for him to you. The

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Speaker 3: only problem is he don't, won't you? She twenty two.

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Speaker 1: And move on with your life? Move on all right?

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Speaker 1: This is from Rita and Pensacola. Rita writes, My husband

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Speaker 1: and I walked by a group of guys leaving the

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Speaker 1: gym and one of them complimented me. My husband rusted

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Speaker 1: and blamed me for dressing too sexy at the gym.

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Speaker 1: He wants me to work out in sweatpants from now on.

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Speaker 1: How is this my fault? Because I'm beautiful?

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Speaker 3: Would you have mom talking about when you walked by

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Speaker 3: with your husband he had to.

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Speaker 1: Say something stupid?

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Speaker 2: God, all, look at him, will your wife friend? He

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Speaker 2: must have been bigger than a.

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Speaker 1: Let her husband say something to you haven't got in

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Speaker 1: a car and got mad at her for being fine

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Speaker 1: your wife friend.

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: That was a husband, Thank you, sir.

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Speaker 1: You can do nothing with him.

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Speaker 2: He sure is, mister.

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Speaker 1: So what is she wearing though that? He wants her

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Speaker 1: to work on? Sweatpants?

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Speaker 2: She had it on?

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Speaker 1: What like do that?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I ain't been.

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Speaker 1: Sports bra Uh look like flash dance leo. Man like

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Speaker 1: leg warmers so much. I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 1: Because the legs are warm. They warmed their legs.

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Speaker 2: Pull that living and water came down. She's made. Here

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Speaker 2: she comes. Watch ow boy, she'll chew you up. Oh,

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Speaker 2: here she comes. She's a manie heater. Wow. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: can't help you.

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Speaker 1: You can't help her. No, So she can't keep dressing.

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Speaker 1: The wind wants her dressed.

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Speaker 3: She wants here's the problem, kind of way, here's a problem.

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Speaker 3: Here's a problem. You go to the gym so you

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Speaker 3: can look good. Then you start looking good, so you

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Speaker 3: can wear the clothes you want to wear. He don't

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Speaker 3: want that. Now, he want her down in some baggy sweatshots.

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Speaker 3: That ain't what you're fit to get. She fin to

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Speaker 3: wear this little tight mess home? Back down there.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 1: She just wants to know, how is this her fault?

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Speaker 3: It ain't your fault if your husband is insecure. See,

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Speaker 3: I don't want nobody, don't nobody think for him.

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Speaker 1: Right there you go, Okay, you're listening hard morning show