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Speaker 1: Jubils dirty little secret. Find for your dirty little secret.

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Speaker 1: Remember texting four one O six one. If you have

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Speaker 1: a dirty little secret that you'd like to tell us,

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Speaker 1: you can tell us anything because nobody will know who

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Speaker 1: you are, even we won't. We don't ask anybody's name.

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Speaker 1: That's why everybody gets a fake anonymous nickname. And on

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Speaker 1: the phone right now is Microsoft Excel? What a program? Yeah? Hey,

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Speaker 1: Microsoft Excel, what's up? How are you? Hey? I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: You got a really bad Yeah, you got a really

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Speaker 1: bad nickname. I apologize about that. Well, I don't know

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Speaker 1: is it supposed to be because I'm organized, Because I'm

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Speaker 1: definitely not. I'm definitely not either. But anyway, right now

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Speaker 1: you're stuck being Microsoft Excel. So what's your dirty little secret? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: I am sleeping with my baby daddy. Oh please, that's good. Right.

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Speaker 1: I have to assume that you guys are not together

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Speaker 1: anymore for you saying that otherwise I feel bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so let me I guess I can elaborate. Um, I

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Speaker 1: had a baby with my baby daddy when I was

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Speaker 1: first we were dating and I was sixteen, and so

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Speaker 1: I thought he was, you know, the love of my life,

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Speaker 1: and I thought we were going to be together forever,

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Speaker 1: you know, and he cheated on me after I had

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Speaker 1: the baby. Um, so we broke up and it's been

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Speaker 1: a few years now, and obviously we are in each

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Speaker 1: other's lives. I mean, we have a kid together, and

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Speaker 1: he he ended up marrying the girl that he cheated

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Speaker 1: on me with. Wa. But now he's been like really

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Speaker 1: into me lately and we've actually slept together a few times. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so he's cheating on his wife. So now he's cheating

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Speaker 1: on his wife. Yeah. Does this guy find anybody knew?

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Speaker 1: Nobody knows. But um, I'm I'm really enjoying it. Good

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Speaker 1: for you? Wow? Is he like, is he involved in

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Speaker 1: your child's life? Yeah? Yeah, m he is. We've never

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Speaker 1: had a problem there. You know, he's just a cheater.

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Speaker 1: I guess, well, I'm actually if you're enjoying another Oh,

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Speaker 1: I have another confession. I guess I actually want to

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Speaker 1: tell his wife so that they breakup and he's with me.

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Speaker 1: No wow, No, no, no for a couple of reasons.

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Speaker 1: Because he's a cheater. Well, and he's a cheater, but

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Speaker 1: if you if you love him, no, no, because he's

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Speaker 1: gonna cheat on you too. Yeah. I mean he already

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Speaker 1: did cheat on you. Well, this is very negative thinking

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Speaker 1: what if he's changed. I guess you're right, you know,

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Speaker 1: that's always my mindset is always like, hey, don't worry

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Speaker 1: about the problem. Find a solution, right, Don't be problem

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Speaker 1: based person, because then you're only gonna have problems. If

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Speaker 1: you're a solution based person, you're only gonna have solutions

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Speaker 1: and you'll fix things. Except in this case, I think

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Speaker 1: you've only got problems. I mean we're more grown up now.

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Speaker 1: I mean when we were obviously we were, we were sixteen.

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Speaker 1: But he's cheating right now. And his wife it's a

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Speaker 1: very good point. Well, you know she's so kind. I

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Speaker 1: mean maybe she is, maybe she isn't. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We don't know her personally, you know. But still he's

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Speaker 1: constantly telling me all the things that she does to him.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I can see why he's not happy,

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Speaker 1: and I make him happy. So if he wasn't cheat

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Speaker 1: one you though, again, will you have him stay? No?

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Speaker 1: Of course not. I mean I didn't have him stay

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Speaker 1: the first time. I mean, well, I he kind of

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Speaker 1: left me. I mean I don't know. So he got

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Speaker 1: you pregnant, cheated on you, with now his current wife

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Speaker 1: and is now cheating on his wife with you. And

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Speaker 1: you don't think there's any chance if you guys got

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Speaker 1: back together that he would cheat on you. No, I

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Speaker 1: mean he's clearly still thinking of me. We're still in

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Speaker 1: each other's lives. It's like he knows we're meant to be. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you see it as like a fate thing, like

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Speaker 1: he realizes that he should have been with you, and

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Speaker 1: then he messed up, and now he's ready to come

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Speaker 1: back home. Yeah, I mean we were young. Who doesn't

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Speaker 1: make a mistake when they're young. I mean, we've got pregnant.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa, So I think we'll be fine this time.

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Speaker 1: So I just but I want to get the ball rollings.

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Speaker 1: I want her to know a great time for a

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Speaker 1: sports analogy. Yeah, let's get the ball rolling Come on,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well, good luck to you and let us

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Speaker 1: know how it goes. Okay, thank you. Yep, what's your

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