1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to bat your Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 2: I'm Jail and I'm Serena. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: And we are here with Branden and Christina. 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 3: Welcome to the podcast. 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: Is this your on the podcast? U? 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 3: I think third or fourth? Is this my second? 7 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: No, we've had you. 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: We've had you more. I think we might have had 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you twice during charity season. 10 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: Because we did the mental all, yead you, and then 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 2: you did the vent all and then did we have 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 2: your dream Paradise? 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 3: I don't think you guys did it. 15 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: Oh maybe we did it? 16 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: Did Okay? So this is your third and then Christina, 17 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: this is your first. 18 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 4: Nice to meet you guys, you know. Okay, So I 19 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 4: actually did see you guys briefly in person. Did you 20 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:48,319 Speaker 4: do you know this? 21 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 3: No? No? 22 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So in my head, I'm like thinking that 23 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 4: you saw me and b Line just for the door. 24 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 4: So that's good to know. 25 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: No. 26 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 4: So I was at Tea's rehearsal and I didn't realize. 27 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 4: So I guess you were training it for you to 28 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 4: fly back the next day, Joe or you both did 29 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 4: for your your race or something, so you wouldn't be 30 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 4: at the wedding. But I was there. I saw you 31 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: at the karaoke place. 32 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: In Nashville. 33 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 4: Yeahshville, And so I was like, and so I was 34 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 4: gonna like make my way over, not just like run. 35 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 4: And then before I knew it, you guys were gone. 36 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 4: And then I saw in your socials that you had 37 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: to leave. So that was sad. But you know, Hi, 38 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 4: now we get Hi. 39 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 2: Wait have said that. We didn't get to say Hi? 40 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: Are you there? 41 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: You're friends with your friends with Tia? 42 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that whole group and we all do the 43 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 4: CrossFit stuff together and yeah, so she's she's awesome. 44 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: Did you know Tia before you went on the show? No, Okay, gotcha? Okay, Wow, 45 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: that's awesome. That was a really fun rehearsal dinner party. 46 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. The wedding was I mean, I so 47 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 4: I have a wedding planning company and I've done a 48 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: lot of events, been to a lot of weddings, and 49 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 4: that is by far my favorite. Oh my gosh, Like 50 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 4: it was so personal but let yet bougie but still 51 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 4: like them and it was just incredible. So it's sad 52 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 4: that you guys missed that. But the rehearsal was so 53 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 4: much fun. It was karaoke and I'm sad. I didn't 54 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 4: see you guys up there? But is that why you 55 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 4: guys were not? Maybe that's why you'd be lying for 56 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:10,839 Speaker 4: the door knob. 57 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: Did you do karaoke? Because I was like, I am 58 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: not getting out there doing carry. 59 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:15,519 Speaker 4: I didn't. I didn't there. 60 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: You have an amazing voice. 61 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 5: I get you some franks like some goosebump not. 62 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 4: To interview you. But what would you sing? 63 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: What would I sing? 64 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 2: Oh? 65 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: Gosh, I would sing what's the latest songoke together? 66 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 2: No? Never? I used to I karaoke bard in university 67 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:38,959 Speaker 2: a decent amount because there was like a country bar 68 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 2: that was a karaoke bars. 69 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: I used to say. 70 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 2: I used to sing Stacy's Mom a lot. I used 71 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:51,839 Speaker 2: to sing don't stop Believing. I used to sing, what's 72 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 2: the one that's like this? Here is a tough all 73 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: the fellows try to do? 74 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: What those? Yeah? Is that? 75 00:02:58,600 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 3: What was that? 76 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: Run? Is that run? MC? Yeah? 77 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: I used to sing that those are the karaoke go tos. 78 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: I don't know what I would say now I'm doing 79 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 2: that one together? 80 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: Is that one takes two? Takes two to make them right? 81 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: No, that's a different one. That's also a good one. Joe, 82 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: what would you say, I'm not a singer. 83 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: I just love I do love. 84 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: It hard one to take on Joe. 85 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: When I shoot, I shoot high, you know. 86 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: But TIA's TIA's family, like they have like great voices. 87 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: There was one guy that went where I was like, 88 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: that man is incredible. 89 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: Yea, he was so good. 90 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 3: Thing. 91 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: Here's the thing. So since then, actually we have a 92 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: video we've been to that same It was the same 93 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: place that we went to and they're like, I don't 94 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 4: know if it's Nashville or what, but like their MIC's 95 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 4: and their system is like beautiful. A lot of karaoke 96 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 4: joints will do you wrong, but there's I mean, he 97 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 4: was a lovely singer, yes, but it really did did 98 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: good that but they did Creed and I'm just like 99 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 4: he was Yes, I felt like Creed was there. Yeah, 100 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 4: that was the one were like this man is Creed. 101 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 4: He is Creed. We are all Creed. 102 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: All right, let's let's like we gotta let's get moving there. 103 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: The people are like, please move on. Everyone listens like 104 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: please move on. 105 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: And we're going to do this interview the correct way, 106 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: the way that Serena wants to in chronological order. 107 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: So I just feel like there's so many parts to 108 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 2: your story that need to be covered that I don't 109 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,559 Speaker 2: know about. I'm assuming love our listeners don't know about. 110 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: So we got to start from the very beginning. 111 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: So let's start it from the beginning. Where. How when 112 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: did you guys meet? 113 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 4: Good question? 114 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it was it was still during the airing 115 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 5: of Bachelorette. So I'd been back from Paradise, I had 116 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 5: gone through the whole Bachelorette, and like, the Bachelorette was 117 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 5: airing now, and I think we're on like the last 118 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 5: two episodes that like the Bachelorette was airing. 119 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so Bachelorette was airing, and you already had filmed 120 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise. 121 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 4: So it's like July when we started talking. Yes, had 122 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 4: I already commented on a few of his posts without 123 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 4: reply maybe. 124 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: Okay, bred In you left her hanging. 125 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 3: Well, No, it wasn't like I don't know. 126 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 5: I didn't want to just be like, you know, messaging 127 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 5: on like I don't know, Like I wanted to make 128 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 5: sure that if, like I was pursuing someone that it 129 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 5: wasn't just going to be like I'm not the type 130 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 5: to just flirt with everyone, you know, I mean like, 131 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 5: although I might give off that popular belief, like really 132 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 5: not the type to just go and like flirt in 133 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 5: the dms and slide in and DM everybody like that's the. 134 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: Man went on the most dates in Paradigm. Okay, so yeah, I. 135 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 3: Mean it's just it's just not my. 136 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 4: It's not my like you realized, but you're not going 137 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 4: to actually like take the initiative to message like that's 138 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 4: like blunt. Well. 139 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 2: I said this on the podcast though. I was like, 140 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 2: Brandon's kind of hard to get a read on because 141 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 2: he's so charismatic that he always gives up the energy 142 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: that he's into the person he's with, even though I 143 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: think it's just you're like an engaging personality. So it's 144 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 2: hard like as a viewer to be like, who's he into? 145 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 2: Where's I feel it? Because your personality just gives off 146 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: these like positive vibes whoever you're with. 147 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? 148 00:05:57,960 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 4: It's a good time. If he's out and about, he's 149 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 4: gonna a good time. 150 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: Yes, So I feel like, but it sounds like what 151 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 2: you're saying is you're not necessarily like just pursuing everyone. 152 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: Intention with it. 153 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not like I don't know, like I always 154 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 5: I grew up with sisters too, so it's like, you know, 155 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 5: they would always show me the dms that guys would 156 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 5: send them and stuff like that, and I'm like it 157 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 5: would just. 158 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 3: Seem so creepy to me, so like dming people. 159 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 5: And stuff like that, like I don't really that wasn't 160 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 5: really what I did, you know. And so it was 161 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 5: like when she reached out to me, originally it was 162 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 5: like I saw her like it, and I hearted the post. 163 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 5: I just didn't respond, but I hearted it. And then 164 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 5: and then like some time went by and then she 165 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 5: ended up dming me or no, I ended up finally 166 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 5: damning her like like not responding, but dming her separately 167 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 5: because she like had posted like a video of like 168 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 5: Blakely cutting her Barbie's hair or something like that, and 169 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 5: I was like, oh, please tell me you didn't let 170 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 5: her cut her own hair because I didn't like see 171 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 5: the whole. 172 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 3: And I and also it was like strate change, Yeah, 173 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 3: like I wanted to wait because like. 174 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: You're playing games immediately, we'll not. 175 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 5: Playing games, but like showing intention because I I felt 176 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 5: like if I just like responded to like, you know anything, 177 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 5: like I'm working out yeah, like or sent the fire. 178 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 4: I mean, you know fire emojis. 179 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 5: I don't know, we do love fire emojis, but like 180 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 5: I wanted to show that, like I understood that she 181 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 5: was more than just. 182 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 2: Like you know, you want to send a meaningful message, 183 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 2: just conversation. 184 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 5: And knowing that, yeah, and knowing that she had a 185 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 5: daughter and knowing like, hey, like I'm aware you have 186 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 5: a daughter. I think it's okay. I'm still you know, 187 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 5: like I think it's cute, like you know, and stuff 188 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 5: like that, and I can relate on that too, you know, 189 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 5: sorry getting off this cold but and so yeah, so 190 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 5: that was like our first interaction and then as we did, 191 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 5: we just started dming after that and messaging back at 192 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 5: and then eventually she unsolicitedly while I was at work, 193 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 5: dropped her number to me. 194 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, I'm over this messaging. 195 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 4: Here's my number. And then I said, not me, like 196 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 4: pointing up ero emoji, like not me, unsolicitvely throwing my 197 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 4: phone number at you. And then when he got off 198 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: work he called me. 199 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, And then it was crazy because like that night 200 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 5: I got home and I was literally I got home 201 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 5: around like nine o'clock at night that night. 202 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: And wait, wait, not where you're living where at the time, 203 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: san Diego, San Diego, and Christina, You're in Nashville. 204 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 5: Yes, and so here I was phrased and like I'm 205 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 5: the type of person too, like I don't like I'll 206 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 5: go to bed when I'm like ready to go to 207 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 5: bed because I have work. 208 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 3: I have to wake up at six am, like get 209 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 3: there on time, like all that stuff. 210 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 5: And so here I am like we start facetiming and 211 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 5: like literally like our first FaceTime call win it went forever, 212 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 5: and it was like I didn't even work in the morning. 213 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 5: I didn't even like realize like how long the phone 214 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 5: call went. So I looked down at my phone and 215 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 5: it was like it was five am, and I'm like 216 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 5: I have to be up in an hour for work, 217 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 5: Like what the heck? Like I okay, I have to 218 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 5: go in at this point, Like it was crazy. 219 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 3: Like we talked. It was just like so easy to 220 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 3: talk to. 221 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 5: Her about anything and everything, and it was like I 222 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 5: felt like I didn't have to like I didn't have 223 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 5: to like you. 224 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: Know, say stuff a certain way. 225 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 5: I didn't have to like be prim and proper, like 226 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 5: I just got to be myself and it was just 227 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 5: like it was so refreshing to have a FaceTime call 228 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 5: the first FaceTime call be something like that, and so 229 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 5: that's kind of where it took off. And it was 230 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 5: just like, you know, we ended up just FaceTime me 231 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 5: every night, and like every night it was the same thing. 232 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 5: It was like I would just FaceTime to like and 233 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 5: it would be like, okay, it's three am. Not I 234 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 5: didn't even realize, Like I blinked and it was like 235 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 5: here we are and so and uh, we ended up 236 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 5: like as we kept talking. I know we said it 237 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 5: during the engagement, but I was like I said something. 238 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 5: I made it Tenacious D reference and it's like it's 239 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 5: like it's a pretty bomb band, but I made I 240 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 5: made the reference. She's like, did you just reference to 241 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 5: Nations D? 242 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 4: And it was so like out of it was probably 243 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 4: because it was like three am, and I'm just like 244 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 4: I wouldn't have even normally like said anything because I 245 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 4: would have thought like no, like because it was like 246 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 4: a quote that we can't probably say right now that 247 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 4: was like so deep like Tenacious D like referenced that. 248 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 4: It was like I wouldn't even probably say it because 249 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 4: I'm like thinking, no way no way, no way, and 250 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 4: so I said it and he's like, what, you don't 251 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 4: know nothing about that? And so it was really cool 252 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 4: and like to on top of all of these like 253 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 4: things that I felt like we had in common in 254 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 4: this connection, like as much of a connection that you 255 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 4: can have over you know, electronic devices like that, on 256 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 4: top of it was like really silly but also. 257 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 5: Really meaningful, and it opened up for like my first 258 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 5: reason to go out there too. Or it's like yeah, 259 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 5: I mean we had been talking about me coming out 260 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 5: there to come visit, but it wasn't like you know, 261 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 5: there was no time timeline. But she's like, well, actually 262 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 5: I have tickets next week to go see Tenacious D. 263 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 3: And she's like, so if you're really a fan, like 264 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 3: you should be out here next week. 265 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 5: And so that night on FaceTime, I ended up buying 266 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 5: like a plane ticket and I literally like I called 267 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 5: in sick to work, sorry, work, and I flew out 268 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 5: there that next week to come see her, and it 269 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 5: was just like it was just unreal. 270 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: It was like I've never been treated. 271 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 5: So well by somebody, like like like I've gone on 272 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 5: dates and it's like typically when I go on dates, 273 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 5: it's like all like be the one treating the person, 274 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And it was like I've 275 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 5: never been like treated like and it was just amazing. 276 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 5: Like she picked me up from the airport in this 277 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 5: like rose like she had like last big Odo mustache. 278 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 4: So Paradise hadn't started airing yet at all, but it 279 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 4: was going to and so there can't be any spoilers 280 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 4: or anything. So I'm telling them, I'm like, look, we've 281 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 4: got to be low key like Nashville, like people are 282 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,839 Speaker 4: on the lookout for this, like like my season is 283 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 4: done and gone, but still, like, you know, I get 284 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 4: recognized if I go out and like you like you 285 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 4: have the ear like anyone. It's so funny if you're 286 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: out about you can see people staring and they're like 287 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 4: trying to look in and see the earrings, like yeah, 288 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 4: he is him, and so you know, really recognizable in Nashville. 289 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 4: And so I'm telling him, I'm like, but also we're 290 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 4: so open with communication, like but it's gonna be awkward 291 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 4: if I just pick you up and we're in the 292 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 4: security land and I'm like side hug and then we're 293 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 4: getting yelled at my like a security officer being like 294 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 4: go go go, like in the what is it the rivals? 295 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 4: So I'm like, somebody come in, but we have to 296 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 4: be low key and I'm like being serious about it 297 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 4: but not really. 298 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 3: Like a six ft tall rose and. 299 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 4: Ulous guys. That's what. 300 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: So, how long was the time between you guys first 301 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,839 Speaker 2: started talking to now? 302 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 4: Oh uh so it was August August end of August. 303 00:11:57,040 --> 00:12:00,719 Speaker 4: It's like a month is but like a month now 304 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 4: in the story because we're chronological. 305 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like between like the first d M 306 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 2: and then I like the concert not long. 307 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 4: That's why we it's a tadacious deed because like we 308 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 4: had to get to that ticket, like to the thing, 309 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 4: because I mean, beyond that, I would probably say you 310 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 4: would have come out sooner than later. But still at 311 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 4: the same time, it's like that's there's no time. 312 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: Crunch, Christina when you cause you're you technically you made 313 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: the first move and when you threw that out there, 314 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: did you think he was gonna bite? Did you think 315 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: he was gonna actually come? 316 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 4: I think that I didn't. I didn't have time to 317 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 4: like think he would or not. I think maybe because 318 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 4: of past traumas and being an adult, you know you you, 319 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 4: I would think so, yes, But then it's like, okay, 320 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 4: well let's see, let's call I'm gonna call him out 321 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 4: just no time, no bs, and uh he did and 322 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 4: I was just like, and I think that so in 323 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 4: that sense, I was very surprised, yes, but not because 324 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 4: he was lying about it. 325 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: And we were just like, whow you're actually coming, Okay, 326 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: we're doing this. 327 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 4: And to back up, sorry about chronological order, I will 328 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 4: say since I did like reach out first and so 329 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 4: it's like, how did I even know who he was? 330 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 4: But once it started airing, it was it was really 331 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 4: cool to watch, you know. Of course I wanted to 332 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 4: support charity and watch the season, so I did that, 333 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 4: and he just really very much stood out to me. 334 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 4: So you know, sorry when you went home, but also 335 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 4: I was like, yes, you know, they're not together, and 336 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 4: there was just a few different moments that I just 337 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 4: really felt like connected through this television show that I've watched, 338 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 4: you know, for over a decade that I was like, 339 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 4: I really saw you what I was on. But I 340 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 4: loved this show and I'm just like, wait, I can 341 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 4: do this, and I can I can actually maybe slide 342 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 4: the dms And then took a while to just one 343 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 4: but you know, whatever, we're here now. 344 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So Brandon shows up to Nashville. How do how 345 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 1: does that first first day go? Like the first meet 346 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:00,200 Speaker 1: in person. 347 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 3: It was pretty It was pretty awesome. 348 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 5: It was like so like she bought me, so I 349 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 5: guess she she had reached out to Aaron and like 350 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 5: she had like, oh, yeah, to find out my size 351 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 5: and yeah, she had like called him to find out 352 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 5: my shoe side. And he had called me like a 353 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 5: couple of days prior to He's like, hey, man, he's like, uh, 354 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 5: you know, my buddy needs a pair of surf booties. 355 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 5: Like what what surfboody are you? I'm like, bro thirteen 356 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 5: in the back of your truck, Like what are you 357 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 5: talking about? He's like, okay, just double check it, man, 358 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 5: no problem. 359 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: He had a pair of your shoes and he still. 360 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 3: Want to call. 361 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. I'm like, dude, they're literally like your sisters. Yeah, 362 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 5: and my sisters were asking me what some of my 363 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 5: shoe size was. I was just tripping. I was like, 364 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 5: why does everyone want to know my shoe size? In 365 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 5: the same day and I remember like I had talked 366 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 5: to her about it. I was like, yeah, like everyone's 367 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 5: asking me my shoe side. 368 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 3: It was really weird. 369 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 4: Wait, I don't know if you know this, So I'm 370 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 4: I liked, never messaged him on Instagram or anything, so 371 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 4: it was like me going to message him to get 372 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 4: that I like message, like you know, lots of people 373 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 4: do where you go the separate messages. I'm like, hey, 374 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 4: what are you doing? Blah blah blah like and so 375 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 4: I go hey, and then it doesn't let me send 376 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 4: another message because we don't follow each other, and it's 377 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 4: like or whatever it is, and it's like that's it 378 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 4: into the response. So it just looks like I'm like, oh, 379 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 4: let me try your best friend hey, and I'm like, 380 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 4: luckily he had a story on there, so I was replying. 381 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 4: I got to reply to his stort and I'm like, 382 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 4: you just set this message and I mean to do this. 383 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 4: I'm like panicking. I'm like, oh my gosh, I look, 384 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, this is awful. 385 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 2: I would also that would have stressed me out too. 386 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 2: It's just like, oh my god, it looks like I'm 387 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: sliding into this guy's dam right. 388 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 4: I did. 389 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 3: But it was actually cool because when we ended up 390 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 3: getting in the car. 391 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 5: The reason why she was asked for my shoe size 392 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 5: is because she had a pair of boots for me. 393 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 4: Like it said, you, if you ever come to Nashville, 394 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 4: you need to get some booby. 395 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 3: I did say that, but I didn't expect her to 396 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 3: buy me a pair of boots. And so that's cool 397 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: to walk. 398 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 5: Around new boot goofing around Tennessee. And it was just 399 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 5: like it was amazing. It was like everything. We went 400 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 5: to go get coffee and we were. 401 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 4: Just like made some earrings from my first Yeah. 402 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 3: She made me earrings from our first date. 403 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 5: Like we went skeet shooting, and h I don't know, 404 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 5: like this something about seeing a woman have a better 405 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 5: shot than you. 406 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 3: And I'm like a decent shot when it comes to skeet. 407 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 5: Shooting, but like she could shoot like these discs that 408 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 5: like no problem. I was like it was the most 409 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 5: amazing thing I've ever seen. I was like, I'm so 410 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 5: impressed right now. And then she ended up collecting like 411 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 5: the remains of like the skeets and like ended up 412 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 5: putting in the resin with the beads and like made 413 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 5: earrings out of them. 414 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: And so it's just so thoughtful. 415 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 5: It's just like she had like there's so much consideration, 416 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 5: so much thoughtfulness and so much, just like you know, 417 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 5: like care that she took towards me, that like I 418 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 5: haven't experienced in a relationship before, and so it was 419 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 5: just like, like, to be honest, it was like from 420 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 5: the first moment I met her, like I like, I 421 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 5: mean we had phone calls and like we had talked 422 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 5: on the phone. I knew that I felt a connection, 423 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 5: But it was like once I met her in person 424 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 5: and saw that wasn't just over her phone, it was 425 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 5: in person too, it was like I knew, like wow, 426 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 5: like I actually love I love how she makes me feel, 427 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 5: and I love her like this is amazing. 428 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 3: I've never felt this before, did you? Did you? 429 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 4: Him coming here too? For me, it was like like 430 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 4: you said, like were was I surprised? But like actually 431 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 4: making it happened and coming here and calling in sick 432 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 4: to work, sorry work, and being here and then hugging 433 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 4: you and touching you. You know, it was really cool. 434 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 4: It was all like really surreal. 435 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: And how long How long were you in town for 436 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 1: on that first hangout? 437 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 3: I was only there for four days? 438 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 4: Was that not even like one? 439 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: Okay? So you so so then when you leave, where 440 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: do you where do you guys stand at that point 441 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 1: so and then and then his paradise hasn't aired. 442 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 4: Yet, you know, it's on the horizon. 443 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 5: But so for me, like at this point it was 444 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 5: like after knowing how knowing that I felt this way internally, 445 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:40,880 Speaker 5: it was like, you know, I still understood. 446 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 3: It was like okay, like I can't just go rushing 447 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 3: and like oh, you know, let's do this, you know, 448 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 3: and like stuff like that. But it was like I 449 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,479 Speaker 3: want to do with long distance, like I wanted her 450 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 3: to know, like I'm not going to be talking. 451 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 4: To we went we went exclusive on the track and 452 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 4: so okay, yeah, like the first day, like the sun 453 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,479 Speaker 4: hadn't even gone down yet, and we were like so 454 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,159 Speaker 4: we were talking and he was like oh, and I 455 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 4: was like, just I'm a little bit older than him, 456 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 4: not much at all, but it's an ongoing joke that 457 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 4: I have my insecurity. Well I know, but you said something. 458 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, what do you kids mean by that? Nowadays? 459 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 4: Does that mean like exclusive? And he's like, well, I 460 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,360 Speaker 4: would like to. I was like, okay, me too. 461 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 3: It wasn't an initiative that one was in initiative me. 462 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 3: You gotta let me. 463 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: But and where wait did you stay? Did you stay. 464 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:25,479 Speaker 1: Do you guys stay together when you first went there, 465 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 1: did you like stay? 466 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 4: Okay? 467 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: Yes? 468 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 2: And did he meet did he meet Blakely on this trip? 469 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 3: No? I didn't. 470 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 5: I didn't get to meet Blakely out on this trip. 471 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 5: But we had like like she had her mom watching 472 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 5: her while she was here, so it was like nice, 473 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 5: but we. 474 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 3: Got to focus on getting to meet each other first, 475 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 3: which was cool. And then yeah, but then so we 476 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 3: left that trip. 477 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 5: Being exclusive, and then we had I had gone back 478 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 5: home and I was planning on coming back out to 479 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 5: Nashville again, and then uh. 480 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 3: We had like, uh, what had happened? Oh, it was 481 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 3: the thing that happened next. 482 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 4: Time before I had a thing that happened so before 483 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 4: I had time to go out there, the. 484 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: Both thing where you guys almost died, right, Yeah, huge 485 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: emit Shoe, I think I had on the podcast so 486 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: it was like it was it might have been our 487 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: longest podcast. 488 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,439 Speaker 4: It it was. I was glad the questions you were 489 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 4: asking because. 490 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was sick that episode and Joe came 491 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 2: into like I was in bed. He came in after 492 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 2: he was like, you have to hear this story. Listen 493 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 2: to what these guys went through. I was like, oh 494 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,479 Speaker 2: my god, I goosebumps. I can't even imagine Christina how 495 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 2: you felt. 496 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 4: Like, well, it's hard for me too, because you know, 497 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 4: not that it matters publicly, you know, if we're together 498 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 4: or not. But it's like even more than that, it's 499 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 4: like we were having to hide that we're together. And 500 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 4: so it's just like all of these emotions and all 501 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:43,920 Speaker 4: of that, and I'm like, well, am I even allowed 502 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 4: to be upset? And it's like, I don't know, it 503 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 4: was just really crazy. 504 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 3: But the whole day was kind of messed up too, 505 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 3: So like so she had a parent teacher conference that 506 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 3: same day. 507 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 4: We were on the boat trip, which I was stressed about. 508 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 5: So I sent her like an edible arrangement and so 509 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 5: like on the way out on the boat, I had 510 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 5: like I got a text message and I was like 511 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 5: I called. 512 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, like there's a package in your 513 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 3: front door. Did you see it? And she's like what 514 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 3: is it? 515 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 5: And like she saw it, and it was like like 516 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 5: an edible arrangement for her and Blakely like wishing him 517 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 5: good luck for their parents. 518 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 3: Conference that day, and I was like, all right, I 519 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 3: gotta go on fishing. 520 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 5: Bye, and so like I hung up and like you know, 521 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 5: I went about my day, and so we had been fishing, 522 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 5: and like, I mean, you got to hear the whole story, 523 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 5: so we won't go into that too much, but it was. 524 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: But did you did you think? Did you think? Did 525 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: you think you were going to die? 526 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 3: Wait? 527 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: Just quick pause for anyone that's listening that has no 528 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,040 Speaker 2: idea what we're talking about. You can go and listen 529 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 2: to the aar and S interview and he writes down 530 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 2: the entire story of what happened to them on this 531 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 2: fishing trip. Just because we won't get into it totally now. 532 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 4: But absolutely except one part that no one's really talked 533 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 4: on that is like replague in my head, like crazy, 534 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 4: was the fishing line part, which is like. 535 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 3: So when the boat, so there's two parts. So when 536 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 3: it first happened, I thought I was going to die 537 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 3: right away. 538 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 5: And that was only because so the boat went down 539 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 5: and like originally when the boat went down, we had 540 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 5: tried to go and like it was like sinking and 541 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 5: we were trying I don't know if we were trying 542 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 5: to pull it up. I don't know what we were thinking, 543 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 5: but we were like pulling onto it and like trying 544 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,640 Speaker 5: to see like what we could do to like see 545 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 5: if we can get back on top of it. 546 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: And I think that makes sense. I think that makes 547 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: sense for like an instant reaction, like you think, like, oh, 548 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: let's stop it from going on there. 549 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 5: But yeah, but what happened was when we had wrapped 550 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 5: around the boat, I ended up getting caught in the 551 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 5: fishing line. 552 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 3: That was like all the fishing line. 553 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 5: Was on the boat and so it was on the 554 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 5: real setting, so it was like it was like spooling 555 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 5: out the line, but the line had all wrapped around me, 556 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 5: and so it was like I was actually like so 557 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 5: as we were trying to get our life vest on 558 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 5: and stuff like that, I started getting like pulled down 559 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 5: under like pulled down underwater. 560 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 3: And my dad actually had bought a pocket knife like. 561 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 5: The night before from home depot before you'd like come 562 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 5: on the fishing trip, and he actually was able to 563 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 5: cut me free from the fishing line. 564 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 3: But like this isn't. 565 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 4: This isn't like you can bite it. 566 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like this. 567 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 3: Line is not lining. You could rip with your hands. 568 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: But wire isn't it. 569 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, And so it's like it's wrapped around my body 570 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 5: like pulling me down, and I was like, I was 571 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 5: literally having a panic attack. 572 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,639 Speaker 3: I think he I was gonna die in that moment, 573 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 3: and it was like that would. 574 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 5: Be an instantaneous death, which would I think would have 575 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 5: been better than being if it was yeah. 576 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 3: For longer. 577 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess, yeah, if if you're going to go 578 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: in that in that scenario, I guess that would have been. 579 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 5: The Like in that moment, I thought I was gonna die, 580 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 5: And then like following that, after my dad cut me 581 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 5: free of that, then it was just like being out there. 582 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have a scar from where he cut 583 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,160 Speaker 3: it off, But was. 584 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: There any if he didn't have that pocket knife? Was 585 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: there any way you could get out of it? 586 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 3: No? 587 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 5: Wow, I agree about that one quite a bit, where 588 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 5: like I had cut Like I mean, I've been through 589 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 5: like counseling and stuff like that since because like I mean, 590 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 5: it's definitely come with some PTSD from it, Like it 591 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 5: definitely like stills and you. 592 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 3: Know, it's in your head. It messes with your normality bias, 593 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 3: you know. But yeah, no, it was uh. 594 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 4: And also like the fact that you would stop there 595 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 4: to fish because there was all this activity on the 596 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 4: fish radar. It's like then he's bleeding because of the cuts, 597 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 4: and I'm just like, yeah, that was a lot, a 598 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 4: lot of stuff. 599 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 3: But I mean, by the grace guy, we made it 600 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 3: out of that one man. So it was but I 601 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 3: mean the thing that. 602 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 5: Was crazy about that situation too, is it was like so, 603 00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 5: I mean I was out there and it was like 604 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 5: I'd send her this sedical arrangement and then like I'd 605 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 5: also gotten her something else in the Yeah, I can, 606 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 5: I can tell you that story because this was this 607 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 5: was kind of funny. But I had bought her like this, 608 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 5: she had like been in traffic and she had like 609 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 5: had a piano cut and bought her a female journal 610 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 5: and like amazoned it to her and. 611 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 3: It hadn't been delivered yet, but it was supposed to 612 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 3: be delivered later. It was supposed to be delivered like 613 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 3: in a couple of days because we had a phone 614 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 3: call and say. 615 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 4: Things ended up differently. Thank god they didn't, but that 616 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 4: would have been the last thing you got from him 617 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 4: was dinner at all the evil arrangements on the call 618 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 4: and it's like wow, and it's like, you know, I 619 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 4: can't tell people were together, but it doesn't matter about that. 620 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 4: But it's still like I want to, you know, speak 621 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 4: about how great you know of a man he is, 622 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 4: but like. 623 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 2: And like as your last memory, like if things had 624 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 2: got another way. 625 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 3: But then he sends your urinal and there's a urine. 626 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 4: Female journal and he's like, you know, equality and like 627 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 4: you should be able to pee up and you know 628 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 4: standing up to it was just so nice. But I'm like, 629 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 4: you just look really creepy. If anyone else wouldn't get it, 630 00:23:58,760 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 4: you know, I wouldn't. 631 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 2: Well, like if if something happened to Joe and his 632 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 2: last thing was like a phone call in edible rangement, 633 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 2: then I got a female year in all a few weeks, 634 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 2: I would not tell anyone with the year, but I'd 635 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,400 Speaker 2: be like, oh, this was not included processed that. 636 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 4: I don't know what I've ever peed normal again? 637 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 2: Probably not maybe no, yeah, you might have been traumatized forever. 638 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 5: But no, Besides all that, though, like I mean when 639 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 5: I was paddling back though, like that was probably the 640 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 5: biggest mom where I was like I was really kicking 641 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 5: myself because it was like I was trying to follow 642 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 5: you try to fall this like dating protocol where it's 643 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 5: like like now someone's like, oh, take your time, like you. 644 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 3: Know, wait, but it's like like, if. 645 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 5: You really know you like someone, if you really know 646 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 5: you care about someone, why do and the other person 647 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 5: feels the same way and it's reciprocated. It's like, why 648 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 5: do we feel like we have to follow these like 649 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 5: these timelines that are put in a place if we 650 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 5: have already made the decision, you know what I mean. 651 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 5: And it's like, I mean I understand, like, you know, 652 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 5: you want to let stuff breathe and let it grow, 653 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 5: and I think that that's all important too, But it's like, 654 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 5: I mean, if you know then you know, it's like 655 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 5: then you're just like wasting time and you're you. 656 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 4: Know, things can get messy in the in the meantime too. 657 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, And so it's like, I don't know, I feel 658 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 5: like when you make those commitments, it's like and in 659 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 5: that moment, I was just kicking myself because I was 660 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 5: like here, I was like, I hadn't told her how 661 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 5: I felt I felt this way, and I was like 662 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 5: I was keeping it quiet because I wanted to, you know, 663 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 5: follow that protocol and now I was regretting it and 664 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 5: I was about to die and I was never going 665 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 5: to get to tell her and so when I ended 666 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 5: up getting. 667 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 3: Saved, like and I got back, it was like the 668 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 3: first PHONK. 669 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 5: I ended up making like my phone was at the 670 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 5: bottom of the ocean, so I had I had my dad. 671 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, it still is. 672 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 5: But I ended up I let my dad get her 673 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 5: because I couldn't get all my Instagram or anything because 674 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,679 Speaker 5: it's all like triple verified or whatever for like actually 675 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 5: and stuff. But I like, message him off. I messaged 676 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 5: her off my dad's account. I was like, Hey, this 677 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 5: is braydon please see this. And like she ended up 678 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 5: saying that, which was rare, and then like call the 679 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 5: number because I hadn't remember her number yet and so yeah, 680 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 5: but and so she ended. 681 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 2: Still doesn't know my number. 682 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 1: I don't know. 683 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 2: I know his. I'm not his first call if something 684 00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 2: happens because he doesn't have my number. 685 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm telling you, I believe. I think I see Joe, 686 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 3: and I think Joe would find a way. 687 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: I mean I would, Yeah, I would figure it out. 688 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: But it's just you know, when I was growing up, 689 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 1: you had to you kind of remembered numbers, but that 690 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: but now you just don't have. 691 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 2: To give But I have yours memorized. I like intentionally 692 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 2: memorized something she didn't have to do that. Thank you, 693 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:23,360 Speaker 2: thank you. 694 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,240 Speaker 1: I mean, do you really want me to memorize. 695 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: A little bit after hearing stories like this, memorize the number. 696 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I know enough people that know you, okay, 697 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: like my mom, I know my my parents their home number, 698 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 1: so I would just call them to get a. 699 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,479 Speaker 2: Hold of and then be like call Strina. Yeah all right, 700 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 2: well on the second call, then I guess that's fair. Okay, anyway, 701 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 2: good about you guys. 702 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 3: No, no, you guys are good. 703 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 5: But yeah, so I ended up I ended up calling her, 704 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 5: and then it was just like it was just diary 705 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 5: of the mouth. 706 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 3: At that point, I was just like, hey, listen. 707 00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 4: I'm hearing I don't know any of this going on. 708 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 5: Was like, I was at sea for three and a 709 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 5: half hours time, I have ten lines, I'm still in 710 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 5: my underwear, I'm dripping wet still. 711 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: I just like, I literally like it's a crazy call. 712 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,639 Speaker 5: And I've been thinking about like when I was out 713 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 5: there in the water, I have had no regrets, Like 714 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 5: I know all my whole family that I love them. 715 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 5: I know my friends know I love them and care 716 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 5: about them. I was like, but the one person in 717 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 5: like I love in a way that I haven't loved 718 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 5: ever is you, and I have not told you that, 719 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 5: and so I just want to let you know that 720 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 5: I love you, and I you know, I know it 721 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 5: might be rushing it, and and she just cut me 722 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 5: off and she's like, I love you too. Yeah, And 723 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 5: it was like and it was just like a really 724 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 5: special moment like that I got to have with her. 725 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 3: And I was like are you serious? 726 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 4: Like I was. 727 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,439 Speaker 5: I was like, really, what you have to say that really? 728 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 5: And she's like, no, I really mean it. And it 729 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 5: was just like it was this cool bonding moment and 730 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 5: and then we just. 731 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 3: Were like enjoying that. And I was like, well, I'm like, 732 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,360 Speaker 3: is this is this when I asked you like doing 733 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,120 Speaker 3: with my girlfriend? 734 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 5: Like it was just like I was like, it felt 735 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 5: so like like I felt like I was a kid again. 736 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,679 Speaker 5: I was like I didn't know what to say, like 737 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 5: I was. I mean, granted, I was still in shock. 738 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 5: So it's like all the smoothness of like what people 739 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 5: might have seen on TV was like. 740 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 2: Out the door, you had a lot of adrenaline probably 741 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 2: pumping through you. 742 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 5: I mean I had been I mean, yeah, as soon 743 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 5: as the boat came to it's like the adrenaline starts 744 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 5: pumping off, like wearing off, and so you start just 745 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 5: crying after that moment. So it's like you're just like 746 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 5: you're crying. You're like, holy crap, like I just almost 747 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,120 Speaker 5: died and then didn't helped. The coast guards like wait 748 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 5: are you Yeah. 749 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 3: You guys from the Bachelorette. 750 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,959 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like literally like we were out there 751 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 5: for three and a half hours. No one knew we 752 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 5: were missing, and like the first thing the coastguards say 753 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 5: when they see us isn't like, hey, you guys are okay, They're. 754 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 3: Like, wait, you guys are the guys with a bachelorette. 755 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, I hate you guys. I literally hate you guys. 756 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: You're like, yes, I am, but maybe asked us at 757 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: about ten to fifteen minutes. 758 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah that's crazy story. Okay, so you guys are 759 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: both now you're you're you're in law that day. Yeah, 760 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: so Brandon almost dies but he makes it out, and 761 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: you guys are going to full blown relationship and you 762 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: both love each other and we are going to get 763 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 1: way more into your story part two. So everyone please 764 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: stay tuned because we have Part two of Brady and 765 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: Christina coming out next. 766 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 2: And make sure to subscribe to Bachelor Happy Hour. We 767 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: will have more SIS interviews just like this one coming 768 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: your way. 769 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: Thanks bye,