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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Becca.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: what sells why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Mac, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Becca?

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Speaker 3: Been about a week since I've heard summer.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried to reach out to her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, several times, you know, texting and left some voice.

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Speaker 1: Now nothing, So what was the last interaction you had

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Speaker 1: with her?

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Speaker 3: Like, it was good. We went on a date.

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Speaker 4: We met on him and then we we went to

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Speaker 4: this like little probably a little quiet romantic dinner white

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Speaker 4: qualth type place I like.

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Speaker 3: To go out. She's more of a homebody.

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Speaker 4: So after dinner we went back to her place and

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Speaker 4: you know, we had some wine. You know, we didn't

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Speaker 4: hook up or anything, but like I spent the night okay,

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Speaker 4: and then everything went great.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys in the same bed, Yeah, but nothing.

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Speaker 3: Happened, like we didn't. We didn't look up, like because

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Speaker 3: we were really into each other. We both feel like,

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Speaker 3: you know, you know, agree, like take a little slower

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Speaker 3: because this is this.

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Speaker 4: Is something good, you know, So yeah, I just I'm

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Speaker 4: really competed.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys like make out though, Like did you cuddle?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's important.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so that part happened, So it's a very mutual

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Speaker 5: attraction as well. Right, did anything happen on the date

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Speaker 5: that was like I don't know, weird, awkward.

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Speaker 4: Not that I could think of, Like it just everything

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Speaker 4: went really well. And like I know when when you know,

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Speaker 4: I could be awkward or something happens like I've had

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Speaker 4: bad dates or whatever, but this doesn't didn't fall in

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Speaker 4: that category. So I you know, I thought everything was

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Speaker 3: Well, Like we really hit it off.

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Speaker 1: How were things when you said goodbye to her?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Being fine?

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Speaker 4: You know it seemed like we would uh like we

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Speaker 4: were going to see each other again.

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Speaker 5: So did you stay there the whole night? Like did

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Speaker 5: you see each other in the morning or did you

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Speaker 5: slip out?

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Speaker 4: No? I, uh well, actually I left a note on

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Speaker 4: her pillow, like I slipped out because she's still asleep,

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Speaker 4: and like I had to get up really good work

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Speaker 4: and I didn't want to wake her up, so like

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Speaker 4: I left her note.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's what your not.

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Speaker 4: I just that I had a really great time and

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Speaker 4: looking forward to seeing you again.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Then did you talk to her after that?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah we did have a conversation Okay.

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Speaker 3: I did. We were hanging up.

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Speaker 4: I said, I love you jokingly but like like stare off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mack, you could have started there. Yeah on first.

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Speaker 5: Mean some people would really enjoy that kind of a

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Speaker 5: joke because you're like, you're on the right track.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: What did she do when you said that? She just

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Speaker 1: laughed and you told her it was a joke.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I said, I was like, I love you

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Speaker 3: like it was like a joke.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, maybe that could have been the like.

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Speaker 3: Paul, she knows it was a joke.

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Speaker 1: How was her laugh? Was it like ha or.

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: It?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: I mean we laughed together before and like assume Michael

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Speaker 4: Jenon on my house.

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Speaker 2: Well, trying to figure it out for your play song

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Speaker 2: come back and then call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date. Okay, all right, cool, Okay, we'll play a song.

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Speaker 1: Come back.

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Speaker 2: I can get your first day follow up next friend,

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Speaker 2: your first Day follow up if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a woman named Becca. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Mac, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: us up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on Hinge. We went on a date.

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Speaker 3: Everything was going really well. We went back to her place,

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Speaker 3: had some wine. I stayed the night.

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Speaker 4: We didn't hook up or anything, but we did make out,

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Speaker 4: like you know, it was definitely it comes from there.

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Speaker 4: And when I left, I left her note, you know,

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Speaker 4: just let hern over the pillow. I'll talk her the

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Speaker 4: following day. Everything some fine, and then just haven't heard

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Speaker 4: from her.

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Speaker 5: Since you did tell her that you loved Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, as a joke. My life. She was a joke.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, Well we'll see if that's it

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Speaker 1: or for something else. Are you ready to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi missing Tobecca.

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Speaker 3: Please?

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Speaker 6: This is she?

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Speaker 2: Hi Becca, how are you? My name is Jewbell. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi Beck that I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hi, what's up girl?

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Speaker 6: Thank you? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Not much? Have you listened to the show before?

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Speaker 6: I have? I'm very familiar.

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Speaker 2: Great, Well, thank you. We got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody. That's why we're calling.

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Speaker 6: Oh god, okay, Well.

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Speaker 2: This is a first date follow up the segment where

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Speaker 2: if you go out with someone on a date end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And

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Speaker 2: we got an email from a guy named Mac.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Mac, Okay? What did? What did Mac have to say?

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Speaker 5: That got real serious? He said that you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 5: And he said that he liked you a lot. He

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Speaker 5: thought you guys really bonded. Said that you guys snuggled

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Speaker 5: on your first date. You didn't do, you know, all

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Speaker 5: the way stuff.

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Speaker 1: He said.

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Speaker 5: He did tell us that part, but it was important.

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Speaker 5: We just were doing a chemistry check. That's why we asked.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, So I.

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Speaker 7: Guess we'll just cut to it. I really liked him.

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Speaker 7: Mac seems like a really good guy. It was a

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Speaker 7: great date. I thought we were going somewhere. I thought

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Speaker 7: it had potential, and then there was a phone call,

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Speaker 7: and we hung up, and then like twenty minutes later

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Speaker 7: and I overhear him talking to somebody, and I realized

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Speaker 7: it's a butt dial.

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Speaker 6: Oh right, And so.

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Speaker 7: He's talking to somebody and he's from a lack is

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Speaker 7: better termed very encouraging.

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Speaker 6: He was saying things like that's it baby, just like that? Baby,

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, baby like that. Yes, yes, I'm.

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Speaker 7: Hoping it was a fire and not him like intentionally

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Speaker 7: wanting me to hear him say things to another woman.

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Speaker 6: So I hung up because I don't know what to

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Speaker 7: I was very upset because clearly he's not a good

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Speaker 7: guy and he's a player and fine, like, move on

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Speaker 7: to the next one, leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: You never told him that you heard that?

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Speaker 7: No him?

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Speaker 4: You who?

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Speaker 7: Something he does all the time, Okay, just I guess.

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Speaker 7: I guess this is what he does. He like spend

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Speaker 7: the night, and we had agreed. I think he's just

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Speaker 1: And this was like right after he left. Pretty much,

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Speaker 7: The next morning he called me, so we talked and

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Speaker 7: it was fine and then twenty minutes later you were

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Speaker 7: are you out of your mind?

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Speaker 2: I can understand why you're ghosting him then, because normally

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Speaker 2: that's not like.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't make me. I get that.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us that. Becca also Mac

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Speaker 6: Oh, I'm this is gross. You can't believe this is gross.

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Speaker 6: You spent the night in my house. We had a

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Speaker 6: great date.

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Speaker 7: I thought you have potential and then you but guile.

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Speaker 6: Me or intentionally? Who knows while you're doing who knows what?

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Speaker 6: Who knows you?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 6: Is this a normal grows? I talk to you for

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Speaker 6: one time.

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Speaker 3: I will.

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Speaker 6: Go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I have a puppy.

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Speaker 4: She's been sick, she hasn't been able to eat, and

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Speaker 4: she's a little Maltese puppy named Baby.

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Speaker 3: She was finally starting to eat.

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Speaker 4: And I was encouraging her, like come on, baby, there

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Speaker 4: you go, very good job. I'm gonna teest your picture

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Speaker 4: of baby.

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Speaker 3: Right down here you go.

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I have a puppy. I have a Her name is Baby.

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Speaker 3: Her name is Baby.

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Speaker 1: Does sound believable based on what you heard?

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Speaker 6: I want to I need to see this.

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Speaker 3: I just sent you. I just text you a picture.

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Speaker 1: Can you see yourself doing that to mister Peeves your dog? Yes, baby,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I would cheer him on if

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I would say it. I think

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Speaker 1: is named baby, right.

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Speaker 7: I do remember whom saying get in their baby, but I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, like getting the food.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just really have it. She was eating. I

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Speaker 3: was just trying to cheer on. She hadn't eating like.

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Speaker 4: Today, so I was really happy that she was finally eating.

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Speaker 6: I mean, this is true.

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Speaker 1: That's actually really hilarious.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, okay, I can confirm there's a very cute

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Speaker 7: dog that hasn't the intact it's as baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, well that's awkward.

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Speaker 1: But if that's I mean, that sounds like that's really

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Speaker 6: I am so embarrassed.

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Speaker 5: I mean, in your defense, Becca, I mean, how would

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it didn't sound good. But now yeah, okay,

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Speaker 6: well I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Becca.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Mac.

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it and you can meet Baby.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, I'm is that yes?

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Speaker 3: I would?

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Speaker 6: Is he open to buff?

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Speaker 4: So sorry?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Of course.

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Speaker 4: So I was wondering what happened, Like this is a

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Speaker 4: huge misunderstanding, so I'm glad we got to clear it up.

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Speaker 3: Like, obviously, would love to see you again. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to the girlfriend player. You do have to share

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Speaker 3: me with baby though.

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Speaker 6: That's fair. Jubile's first Date follow up