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Speaker 1: you there? Hello? Hi am, I'm back. Our friend JT

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Speaker 1: I have to turn up that heat. I'm glad I'm

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Speaker 1: talking to you. Mr Hardy. Well, we will make it hot,

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Speaker 1: hot hot time promise because it is. What time is?

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Speaker 1: Do you? Is big exclusive. At the top of the show,

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Speaker 1: Tyra Banks is planning more changes to Dancing with the Stars.

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Speaker 1: Last night was the season finale. We're not going to

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Speaker 1: give away the winner just yet, but can see it

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Speaker 1: everywhere all over online and TV. It's an exciting show.

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Speaker 1: The ratings were up in the key demo, so that's

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Speaker 1: so important for TV. It's not the total number, it's

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Speaker 1: basically young people that they care about. It's terrible bisded

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Speaker 1: they care about that young demographic. She was up in that.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm told next season she's going to put in

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Speaker 1: even more changes. Tyra is not just the host of

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Speaker 1: me the following. I think this is a really good idea.

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Speaker 1: She wants to add more fashion to the show. Obviously

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Speaker 1: She's even going to add maybe a Tyra Banks save.

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Speaker 1: We've seen these saves that they do on American Idol,

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Speaker 1: to have a save. Why not. Tyra is going to

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Speaker 1: try and get some more American top designers doing the costumes,

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Speaker 1: more controversial stars like Carol Baskin, and also, to get

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Speaker 1: this this is so interesting, Tyra wants it to be

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Speaker 1: So she's even thinking about maybe putting all the contestants

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Speaker 1: of them all living together. What do you think, mistery,

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Speaker 1: Are you for the changes or leave it alone? Well,

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Speaker 1: I did watch last night's show, and I have to

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Speaker 1: say I do believe people were tuning in for the outfits.

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Speaker 1: Tara hads on some unusual dresses. Um. At one point

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Speaker 1: I think it's smart. You know, obviously this is going

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Speaker 1: with the Stars. And we know that all ages like it,

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Speaker 1: you know what, Tyra, it's your show. Do what you

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Speaker 1: So you're doing something right. M D and my good self.

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Speaker 1: We're on the TV show for a little while in

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Speaker 1: I love news. However, TV is really a visual medium,

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Speaker 1: of course, it is. How could I not think it

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Speaker 1: to hear your results. MD. What are you working on? Love? Well,

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Speaker 1: with our friend Miss D joining us from Georgia. Hey, Misty,

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Speaker 1: let's get to the poles. So, oh, misd this relates

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Speaker 1: to you, Claire Crawley and Dale Moss, who Miss D

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Speaker 1: has met. Dale are ignoring the cheating rumors. So there

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Speaker 1: was rumors that he was hooking up with other models,

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Speaker 1: and they've decided to just ignore them. They're not even

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Speaker 1: going to issue a response. What do you think about this?

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Speaker 1: Should they ignore the rumors or should they clap back?

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Speaker 1: Sixty six percent said ignore them? Where are you? Misty?

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Speaker 1: I say ignore it? Now. I have met Mr Mars

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Speaker 1: So if somebody is looking from the outside end, it's

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Speaker 1: it's the holiday sea to let this cute little couple

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Speaker 1: think they got to do on her a few episodes

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Speaker 1: little flirtatious. Probably. I'm sure I was batting my eyelies

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Speaker 1: he interested? Is he interested? No? I mean I'm a

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit older than clear, but that's okay. Um,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, no, like I said, he just when he's

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Speaker 1: make sure that he's focused on you. He's just that

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Speaker 1: this is just for me. So go on, Claire and Joey,

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Speaker 1: You're fine. Hey, don't forget to vote on today's poll

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Speaker 1: about Tira Banks making even more changes to Dancing with

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Speaker 1: the Stars on our Twitter page at Naughty Nice Rob.

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Speaker 1: back tomorrow to hear your results. And now it's time

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Speaker 1: for the nicest Nicest. Well I have to say after

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Speaker 1: the American Music Awards, I am now the biggest Justin

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Speaker 1: course he is our nicest of the day because he

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Speaker 1: gave romantic birthday wishes to his wife, Haley Baldwin. Of course,

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Speaker 1: he took to social media and he had a tribute there,

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Speaker 1: and he wrote something yummy. He said, my eyes are

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Speaker 1: for you, my love is for you. I am home

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Speaker 1: wherever you are. You are my safe place. I am

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Speaker 1: completely and utterly obsessed with who you are. My biggest

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Speaker 1: that's a long time too, because he's only like twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: He's still a baby. I gotta say, I don't think

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Speaker 1: I I'm quite as into him as you, Misdy. But

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Speaker 1: he did open the show pretty spectacularly. I forgot what

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Speaker 1: a great singer. Oh my god, I know, I know,

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Speaker 1: too bad. The ratings were not very good, as Misty

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Speaker 1: told us. And now it's time for a naughtiest stuff today.

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Speaker 1: Nought noughty, Prince Harry, it's just lending the cottage from

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Speaker 1: Sexes have loaned it to Eugenie. However, when they are

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Speaker 1: It is owned by the Queen, so the Queen lets

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Speaker 1: them stay there rent free. It's her property. It gets

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Speaker 1: Buckingham Palace. It belongs to the Crown Estates, which basically

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Speaker 1: means the people. So the Queen couldn't decide to put

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Speaker 1: Bookingham Palace up for sale, like if she needed a

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Speaker 1: little extra cash. She can't sell it. It's not hers.

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Speaker 1: She can't sell the crown jewels. They're not really hers,

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Speaker 1: windsor castle is hers. It's a private residence. If she

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Speaker 1: wanted to sell it, technically she could. But the cottage,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a mansion, but they call it the cottage.

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Speaker 1: a Where have you ever given something away, mistery that

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking back to this cottage situation. You know, obviously

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Speaker 1: want to make sure that no robberts popping, So I

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Speaker 1: kind of understand where Harry and Megan are coming from. There, like,

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Speaker 1: just keep an eye on the cottage, you know, run

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Speaker 1: it's still working. I don't know, you're too generous. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's time for a moment of rob You get a rob,

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Speaker 1: get Robb, you get rob you do, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: For twenty minutes, so we try to make you a

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Speaker 1: you need a little help and you have to keep trying.

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Speaker 1: It took the smartest person I've ever met to teach

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Speaker 1: How are you misty at asking for a helping can?

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Speaker 1: I've learned you have to ask for help. And I

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Speaker 1: think back to Gossip Table. You know, it was a

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Speaker 1: She said, make sure each story you give actually gives

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Speaker 1: a payoff. And once she told me that, it changed

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Speaker 1: everything for me. And of course your advice, Rob, that

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Speaker 1: going to be like, oh, are you not smart? You

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Speaker 1: They love to tal walk. I love people asking me

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Speaker 1: Hopefully this helped a little bit today. We run out

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Speaker 1: of time? Is do? We love having you helping us out.

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Speaker 1: Every Tuesday you have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family.

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Speaker 1: Send my love to your mom. You guys, thank you

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