WEBVTT - Live Longer or Fuller?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, the folks. In this episode, Robes and I go

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<v Speaker 1>to Steph Curry's house to see Sabrina Carpenter. Also, we

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<v Speaker 1>sincerely are asking for your help define dates for two

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<v Speaker 1>of our favorite ladies. Plus, we couldn't believe what a

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<v Speaker 1>fellow passenger said to us on our flight this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>We were shocked and flattered. Also, we take a crazy

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<v Speaker 1>ride across the Golden Gate Bridge this weekend in a

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<v Speaker 1>sprinter van with nine oh two one zero, Bachelor Nation

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<v Speaker 1>and iHeartRadio all well represented in that van. And finally,

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<v Speaker 1>which would you prefer live life to the fullest but

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<v Speaker 1>die younger or live longer but maybe not to the fullest?

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<v Speaker 1>And with that we welcome you to this episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Amy and TJ. That question there about living longer or

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<v Speaker 1>shorter was prompted Robes by something you and I had

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<v Speaker 1>been talking about and then something you said to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we are wearing ourselves out here lately.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels, yes, we have not been doing a great

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<v Speaker 2>job at time management, but we've been so excited about

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<v Speaker 2>getting back and being back and being a part of

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<v Speaker 2>the conversation. And so yes, we went from doing nothing

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<v Speaker 2>to having or at least oftentimes putting out eight podcasts

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<v Speaker 2>a week, and that's just we love our iHeart team.

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<v Speaker 2>They're amazing and helping us getting it up and booking

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<v Speaker 2>some of our amazing guests. But for the most part,

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<v Speaker 2>by and large, we are the producers, the writers, the editors,

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<v Speaker 2>and the talent. And so we haven't been sleeping a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>and we've been traveling a ton. Put those two things together,

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<v Speaker 2>that is a very exciting, full purposeful life, but one

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<v Speaker 2>where we aren't maybe taking as good of care of

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<v Speaker 2>ourselves as we should have or could be.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to tell it we're complaining. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to sound like I'm complaining. Now I've said

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<v Speaker 1>this to you the other day. You know, it has

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<v Speaker 1>to get to a certain point for me to say this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna drop dead, right And I said that not

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<v Speaker 1>obviously not joking. Actually I said it when I was

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<v Speaker 1>I think I hadn't slept. I think that was election night.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't sleep at all the night of the election.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of folks go through. But we just have

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<v Speaker 1>been wearing ourselves out with travel and saying yes to

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<v Speaker 1>more things. We just say be saying yes too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, and there marathons in there too, a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>marathons sprinkled in there.

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<v Speaker 1>You mentioned it. So this, this has been our past

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<v Speaker 1>two months. Every single weekend, Atlantic City, Athens, Georgia, Chicago, Seville, Spain, Fadville, Arkansas,

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<v Speaker 1>San Francisco, two marathons, seven to eight shows a week.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we've done since September.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm exhausted just hearing you say that. But it really

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to the price. And we've always lived fast

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<v Speaker 2>lives and we've always worked hard and played hard. That

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<v Speaker 2>has always been what I have done. But you do

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<v Speaker 2>start to worry, especially someone who is a cancer survivor,

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<v Speaker 2>that it could take a bigger toll than we expect.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we asked. I asked the question, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>would you rather live life the way we're living it

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe not have those final ten years, maybe not

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<v Speaker 2>have those final five years. Who's to say? You don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I have always lived my life kind of being

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<v Speaker 2>okay with those odds.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, say now we say the last ten years, if

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<v Speaker 1>it means you won't have the last ten years of

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<v Speaker 1>your life, A lot of people can hear that and go, well,

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<v Speaker 1>those last ten years are going I'm not gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>vibrant anyway. But if you had to put it this way,

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five or ninety, right, that's a big fifteen year gap.

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy five isn't that.

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<v Speaker 2>Old, It's not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So what would you take living a life that's full

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<v Speaker 1>to its fullest, taking those risks, taking those trips, wearing

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<v Speaker 1>yourself out for the sake of a good time. I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>but and everything we've been doing this is we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>this voluntarily. Yes, nobody's making us do anything, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>taking it all on. But if you knew it was

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<v Speaker 1>going to cost, you're gonna life is going to end,

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<v Speaker 1>it's seventy five versus ninety, would that change how you

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<v Speaker 1>were living?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? I think that's the question we were asking ourselves,

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<v Speaker 2>or at least I was asking myself and hearing you

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<v Speaker 2>and seeing you really you know, I do. I do

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<v Speaker 2>make a point to sleep at least probably two hours

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<v Speaker 2>more a night than you do. I would say, But

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<v Speaker 2>I've been making that choice because I'm aware and you're

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<v Speaker 2>aware of how we live now affects how you're going

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<v Speaker 2>to feel later and how long you might be able

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<v Speaker 2>to live later. And so I've been making the choice

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<v Speaker 2>to yes, live perhaps more fully than is recommended, knowing

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<v Speaker 2>that I might be costing myself years. On the backside, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to use two of your quotes. Oh no, two things.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh now, and when you said that I did, I

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<v Speaker 1>picked up my phone. I took a note. This is

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<v Speaker 1>how you put it. This is one of them. Quote

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<v Speaker 1>I would rather live even if that excessive living takes

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<v Speaker 1>away the last years of my life. Okay, that's reasonable.

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<v Speaker 1>The other says, enjoy the hell out of it, even

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<v Speaker 1>it kills me a little bit earlier than it would have.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So there's my answers when without thinking about it,

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<v Speaker 2>without being prompted, that is where my brain is.

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<v Speaker 1>And your doctor and your mama, upon hearing what I

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<v Speaker 1>just wrote, are going to probably message you or call

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<v Speaker 1>you because.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no probably about that might. No, my mom has

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<v Speaker 2>been on to me since the moment. I can't remember

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<v Speaker 2>a time where this wasn't what my mom said to me, Amy,

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<v Speaker 2>please slow down. She has said that to me my

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<v Speaker 2>entire life. Even when I was fighting cancer. The first

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<v Speaker 2>thing I did was go to my oncologists and say,

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<v Speaker 2>but can I still go to Sochi, Russia and cover

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<v Speaker 2>the Olympics? And my parents sat me down like they

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<v Speaker 2>were doing a drug intervention on me because I was

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I am addicted to the life.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, some of that is personality driven. Some of that

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<v Speaker 1>was driven by the business that we're in. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sometimes the mindset you have to have of always saying, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>go go, go, go go. I can be the go

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<v Speaker 1>to person you use the quote from Oscar Wild in

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<v Speaker 1>our Morning Run to live is the rarest thing in

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<v Speaker 1>the world. Most people exist, that is all. That's something

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds so sad about that to each his or

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<v Speaker 1>her own about how they want to go about the life.

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<v Speaker 1>A quieter life, a calmer life, A I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to be traveling and taking risks and doing all these

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<v Speaker 1>things just to be surrounded by family. That's still a

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<v Speaker 1>full in camera.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful life. Yes, And I actually envy, like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to sound patronizing at all, because I

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<v Speaker 2>do not mean it that way. I actually envy the

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<v Speaker 2>ability to feel satiated. And I have gotten more like

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<v Speaker 2>this than I was before. But just for things to

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<v Speaker 2>be enough, you don't you're not on a constant chase

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<v Speaker 2>for something else or for something more, for something new,

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<v Speaker 2>or something different, and yes, you found an amazing quote

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<v Speaker 2>that I've heard before that perhaps we both have chosen

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<v Speaker 2>to live back.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we were in the middle of this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>chatting about this, and the first thing that came to mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot remember. I did a story in New Mexico.

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<v Speaker 1>This had to be at least five or probably six, seven,

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<v Speaker 1>eight years ago, and I was in this family's home

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<v Speaker 1>and talking about something completely unrelated. And I'm sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen and look up and they have this sign

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<v Speaker 1>on the wall. And it struck me so much at

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<v Speaker 1>the time that I took a picture of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it stays in my phone, and it's there right now.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I'll read it. It says life should not

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<v Speaker 2>be a journey to the grave with the intention of

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<v Speaker 2>arriving safely in an attractive, well preserved body, but rather

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<v Speaker 2>to skid in sideways body thoroughly used up, totally worn out,

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<v Speaker 2>screaming woohoo, what a ride. So if you noticed it,

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<v Speaker 2>made a note of it, took a picture, It's in

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<v Speaker 2>your phone. I'm looking at it right now. You live

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<v Speaker 2>by this mantra as well, and I think maybe it's

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<v Speaker 2>part of the reason why there's always been like this

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<v Speaker 2>electricity between us because we both have that same way

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<v Speaker 2>of living.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, nothing's guaranteed and tomorrow. I just I hate saying

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<v Speaker 1>no to opportunities based on I'm a little under the weather,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm a little tired. Oh why and just we

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<v Speaker 1>get and we've been blessed in this life to do

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<v Speaker 1>more than most and the places we've gotten to go

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<v Speaker 1>and people we've gotten to see. But it's I have

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<v Speaker 1>a difficult time passing up opportunity because it just as

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<v Speaker 1>the older we get. I mean, how many times if

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<v Speaker 1>we had an experience that whow I meant to message

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<v Speaker 1>him just the other day, and now I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>a chance because a friend passed away or that's been

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<v Speaker 1>happening more and more in our lives. Yeah, there's some

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<v Speaker 1>balance we have to find between health and that happiness. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the older you get, the more seventy five seems

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<v Speaker 2>really young, you know, And I think when you're in

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<v Speaker 2>your thirties you can say oh please, I'd be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to when you're you know, we have

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<v Speaker 2>been spending time with folks in their seventies, and our

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<v Speaker 2>parents are in their seventies and they're a vibrant My

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<v Speaker 2>dad ran the Berlin Marathon at sixty nine. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>there's so much that you can contribute. And yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>want my parents to be around for me and for

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<v Speaker 2>my children for as long as possible. So you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be selfish in that either, because you obviously

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<v Speaker 2>know there are beautiful relationships to be had in a

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<v Speaker 2>way you couldn't have them when you get older.

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<v Speaker 1>That was part of the thinking and the calculation for

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<v Speaker 1>a trip we just went on this weekend. This was

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<v Speaker 1>one we could have possibly say, you know, we're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take it easy. We're just gonna take a nap

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend and just do nothing. But instead we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up parting our butts off all weekend long. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>we went out to San Francisco. But this trip we

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<v Speaker 1>knew about. We can't. We're sitting here now, only a

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<v Speaker 1>week remove from running in New York City Marathon. After

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<v Speaker 1>we ran that marathon. What five days we got on

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<v Speaker 1>the cross country flight.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and five days earlier we had been on an

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<v Speaker 2>international trans continental flight from Spain seeing.

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<v Speaker 1>The little one over there, your little one, I should say.

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<v Speaker 1>But the trip to San Francisco, this I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we were just so exhausted that there was

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<v Speaker 1>a moment I said, sweetheart, I don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's to cancel this trip. I was exhausted.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's so rare for you, because you're someone who says,

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<v Speaker 2>basically without saying it, you just do it. I'll sleep

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<v Speaker 2>when I die. You will do anything to just still

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<v Speaker 2>be up and be a part of things, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>watching something or anything other than sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>You all used to think I was crazy all the

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<v Speaker 1>time I would come in. I used to I stayed up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, but I will stay up late to watch

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<v Speaker 1>a game and I say this is not the boys

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<v Speaker 1>supporting game in the world. That okay, fine. But then

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning I get up, I'm all excited, saying,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you what you missed, right, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a seven overtime game, or it was a walk off

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<v Speaker 1>field goals or walk there's always some bit of history.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it happens, and I hate every getting up in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, I think I missed something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. Well yeah, and you rarely do, except

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<v Speaker 2>for sleep, which is super important. Yeah, last night I

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<v Speaker 2>believe I went to bed there was some tie twenty

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<v Speaker 2>three to twenty three. I was like, yeah, let me

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<v Speaker 2>know what happens in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You make a good I didn't even think you're right

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<v Speaker 1>that game exactly. We got off a flight that landed

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<v Speaker 1>it to thirty, came here from JFK, exhausted after a

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<v Speaker 1>cross country.

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<v Speaker 2>We got back at eleven PM, got back in at eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>I went straight to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went straight to that game, which was tied

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three, and you know how it was won

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<v Speaker 1>on a walk off field. It was so yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad I stayed up.

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<v Speaker 2>We all have made our choices. I'm so happy I slept.

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<v Speaker 1>But that trip is one. So we end up going

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<v Speaker 1>to San Francisco, and we had some exciting things we

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<v Speaker 1>were planning on doing. But we get on our flight

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<v Speaker 1>and this was a really, really nice moment. We were

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<v Speaker 1>on off flight, folks started to board. Everybody's passing and

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<v Speaker 1>this is kind of one of our favorite pastimes to

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<v Speaker 1>board the flight early and then just you know, do

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<v Speaker 1>some people watching?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I'm sure people are watching us too sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>as they walk on. And we've been greeted many different

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<v Speaker 2>ways and usually very sweetly, but this was a first

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<v Speaker 2>for us. We're sitting there and a woman walks up

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<v Speaker 2>and she points to us. She recognizes us, which isn't

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<v Speaker 2>that unusual, but what she said was a first. She

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<v Speaker 2>said looking at us and said, morning Run my favorite,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was everything. Normally we'll get oh, we miss

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<v Speaker 2>you on TV or you know, some reference to being

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<v Speaker 2>on Good Morning America and about the podcast, yeah with

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<v Speaker 2>Amy and TJ. We love your podcast. But this was

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<v Speaker 2>the first time, and we've really been working hard and

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<v Speaker 2>part of our lack of sleep has been specifically tied

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<v Speaker 2>to getting up early and working on this morning Run.

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<v Speaker 2>By the time we get it out to everyone, we've

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<v Speaker 2>been up for three hours working on it and the

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<v Speaker 2>night before. So just to hear someone recognize that and

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<v Speaker 2>listen to the Morning Run, it absolutely made my whole weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually it did.

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<v Speaker 1>You reacted to it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was sweet. And the ladies. Also in Arkansas,

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<v Speaker 1>when we were on a run there, a group of

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<v Speaker 1>five women were running past me and just started waving

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<v Speaker 1>their arms as they were We were passing each other,

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<v Speaker 1>running in opposite directions, and they were hooting and hollering

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<v Speaker 1>about the Morning Run as well. I kept running. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I should have stopped and talked to them about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But those I mean, that's one woman who say one

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<v Speaker 1>thing to us on the flight and has no idea

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of impact it has. She has no idea

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<v Speaker 1>the hours we put in. She has no idea how

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<v Speaker 1>big of a staff we have.

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<v Speaker 2>She had had no clue staff of two.

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<v Speaker 1>What we had been going. And you know what that

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<v Speaker 1>morning as well, William, Damn you remember Friday morning, But

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<v Speaker 1>we had to get up and do I'm heading over

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<v Speaker 1>to the school. I have to watch a whole dance

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<v Speaker 1>and musical performance. That's the being school. Yep. We switched

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<v Speaker 1>our flights around so that I could stick around and

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<v Speaker 1>make sure we made that. We are just it's constant. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's fun and it's great and it's fulfilling, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're exhausted, and I worry that something's going to have

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<v Speaker 1>to give, and I hope it's not our health.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, obviously that would not be what we would

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<v Speaker 2>want to do, and I think we will. We're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to make tweaks and adjustments in our schedule. But to

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<v Speaker 2>the point you're making, when we love getting on planes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something that we loved doing when we had work trips,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was just like, yeah, let's have fun. We'll

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<v Speaker 2>have like fun conversations and like background movies. Up. We

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<v Speaker 2>fell asleep, at least I fell asleep on that plane,

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<v Speaker 2>which I hardly ever do. For almost the entire flight,

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<v Speaker 2>which spoke volumes about where we were.

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<v Speaker 1>We alternated. I was awake watching you sleep, you were

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<v Speaker 1>awake watching me sleep. And flights are We were talking

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody recently about date nights. Our biggest dates are

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<v Speaker 1>our flights. We travel so much and when we get

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<v Speaker 1>on a plane, we know we're not going to be bothered. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't take phone calls. Sometimes we don't even get

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<v Speaker 1>the full Wi Fi to get emails. We just do

0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the messaging and nobody around is going to be met.

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<v Speaker 1>You around people, but they can't really mess with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is I love flying with you, So for

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<v Speaker 1>us to give up a date night to sleep, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we have to do better. I'm doing a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit better than you, but that's always been the case

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<v Speaker 2>with the sleep, and I'm actually curious we should do

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast on this. You've always been a believer that

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<v Speaker 2>not everybody needs the same amount of sleep, that one

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<v Speaker 2>size does not fit all, and you believe you need

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<v Speaker 2>about four five hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Generally, doctors tell me that's bs that we all do

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<v Speaker 1>need a certain amount of sleep. I start to get

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<v Speaker 1>impacted if I get less than four. But if I

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<v Speaker 1>get four hours, I get a solid four, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you see my behavior and see how I function.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good to go, which is insane to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I get the four if I get the four.

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<v Speaker 1>But we were heading to California. It was a work thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We had some business to tend to out there with

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<v Speaker 1>our iHeart folks, but a part of it was that

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to be going to the Chase Center

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<v Speaker 1>out there in San Francisco, which I had not been

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<v Speaker 1>to yet. But it's the home of the Golden State Warriors, beautiful,

0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:25.920
<v Speaker 1>brand new place. I covered the Warriors for years, went

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<v Speaker 1>to five NBA Finals covering Stephan Crue. So I finally

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<v Speaker 1>get to the warriors new.

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<v Speaker 2>Home to see Sabrina Carf. She Grammy nominated, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a huge, huge, probably one of the biggest singers now

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<v Speaker 2>out there. But we're just not necessarily folks who listened

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<v Speaker 2>to her music. So we were exposed to a whole

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<v Speaker 2>new pop star. And it is funny. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if anyone's ever been to a concert, maybe you've taken

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<v Speaker 2>your kids to a concert where you're not really that

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<v Speaker 2>familiar with the music, but everyone else is. And to

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<v Speaker 2>watch everyone just go gaga over her, know every word

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<v Speaker 2>to every song that I had never heard before in

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<v Speaker 2>my life.

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<v Speaker 1>It was amazing. We we know a couple, the latest

0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:14.439
<v Speaker 1>one Espresso is the one we know. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>incredible to see looks Brenan Carpenter. Clearly we've seen her

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<v Speaker 1>at the jingle Ball, I think, right, we know her

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<v Speaker 1>perform once before the jingle Ball. We didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to expect with this young lady and I was I

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<v Speaker 1>was just taking a bag and I see, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you see this with young fans of a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pop stars. But how must that feel? The entire arena

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<v Speaker 1>was singing every I think we were the only two

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<v Speaker 1>people not singing every single word right to her songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I mean you could see this is she

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<v Speaker 2>and she's young, and she's she owned the stage and

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<v Speaker 2>it was we had fun with the folks backstage, or

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<v Speaker 2>at least with us who probably were in the same

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<v Speaker 2>boat as us, because we were all of a certain age.

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<v Speaker 2>We had some of our iHeart podcasters, fellow podcasters who

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<v Speaker 2>we some of whom we've met, one of whom we

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<v Speaker 2>had not Jenny Garth, who we actually do a podcast

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<v Speaker 2>with I do Part two, we've only actually met via zoom,

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<v Speaker 2>So it was fun to get to meet people in person.

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<v Speaker 2>And her husband and of course the Golden Bachelorette girls.

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<v Speaker 2>We've met them before, but we had extra time with

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<v Speaker 2>them and it was really awesome to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>just share the experiences of what we've all been going

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<v Speaker 2>through as podcasters but just as humans. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>San Francisco, you're all familiar with Scilito.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, yes, Salito.

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<v Speaker 1>We know it's Sauce Allito. I lived out there for

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<v Speaker 1>three years. Actually I know it's Sauce Alito. But last

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<v Speaker 1>year we took a trip that included Sayulita in Mexico,

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<v Speaker 1>so we keep messing this up, so we are being

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<v Speaker 1>very careful when we say Sauce Aleto. But we stayed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gorgeous. It has the best view of San Francisco,

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<v Speaker 1>I think in all the Bay Area over there. But

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<v Speaker 1>we all stayed at the same place and to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the Chase Center. We had to load up in

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<v Speaker 1>a van with these folks and head across the Golden

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<v Speaker 1>Gate Bridge to the Chase Center.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds easy, sounds quick.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't easy. It wasn't quick, and it wasn't quiet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it became a bit of a party van. There

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<v Speaker 2>was some Sabrina Carpenter songs being played just to kind

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<v Speaker 2>of get us in the mood. And yes, that lovely

0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:33.600
<v Speaker 2>San Francisco Friday night traffic bit us And I think

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<v Speaker 2>it took us an hour and a half to go.

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<v Speaker 2>How many miles maybe just a few, maybe four or

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<v Speaker 2>five miles. Yes, but we did eventually get there, and

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<v Speaker 2>TJ was not in his element.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you're a big fan of rowdy bus

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<v Speaker 2>or van trips in any way, shape or format.

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<v Speaker 1>Other people are.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yes, it gets you in the mood. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I mention I'd been awake for twenty out correct?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a couple of pictures, Well, there were a lot

0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:07.480
<v Speaker 2>of pictures being taken that you also love taking selfies

0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:11.200
<v Speaker 2>and it was so funny to watch selfies being taken

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<v Speaker 2>and you being asked to participate in you having to

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<v Speaker 2>say yes, because it wasn't just me asking, it was Susan.

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<v Speaker 1>We love Susan. Susan Knowles from the Golan Bachelor. She

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<v Speaker 1>was competed on that, but she was trying to take

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<v Speaker 1>this selfie in a dark van so hard she took

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<v Speaker 1>at least fifteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I posted the one successful. No, she did get

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<v Speaker 2>one successful, and she sent it to me. I posted

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<v Speaker 2>it on my Instagram because it was after all that

0:20:34.440 --> 0:20:36.960
<v Speaker 2>work and all those attempts, I felt like I needed

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<v Speaker 2>to at least pay homage to the fact that she

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<v Speaker 2>got one good one in and look.

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<v Speaker 1>So this was the whole trip is loud, it's hard,

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<v Speaker 1>It just where is this place? Can we get there?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I finally was able to doze off before

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<v Speaker 1>getting through the Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>You did, I did? Okay, yeah, yep, yes. And you

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<v Speaker 2>know when when you're sleeping on planes and vans that

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<v Speaker 2>maybe perhaps you should focus more on sleeping in your

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<v Speaker 2>bed at some point this week. So we didn't even sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>You slept you I don't even know if you slept.

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<v Speaker 2>You were on the couch last night, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I hate I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, and please know, anybody that tries to take a

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<v Speaker 1>negative headline out, Oh, yes, I slept on the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Call was watching a game and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>disturb my love by having the TV on and the

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<v Speaker 1>refereeze whistle and the cheering while she's trying to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate it. I appreciated that. Yes, that's a good

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<v Speaker 2>important clarification because I know that clickbaits always. I think

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<v Speaker 2>there was one we were talking about a very similar

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<v Speaker 2>situation one night, and I think it said that I

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<v Speaker 2>kicked you out of bed, and that was just like

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<v Speaker 2>a way for someone to click. But it was hilarious

0:21:38.720 --> 0:21:40.680
<v Speaker 2>because you wanted to watch a game. They just took

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<v Speaker 2>something about us you going to the couch that somehow

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<v Speaker 2>I kicked you out of bed and such a rediculouses.

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<v Speaker 2>That was one of my favorite headlines. Yeah. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I passed that along to you sharing now.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you sweetness, but it was. It was. And Susan

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<v Speaker 1>Susan Knowles and Kathy Schwartz are the two who they

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:01.919
<v Speaker 1>have a podcast now with iHeart as well. But they

0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:04.879
<v Speaker 1>are two ladies that we first got to meet last

0:22:04.960 --> 0:22:07.480
<v Speaker 1>year in LA They actually crashed one of our podcast

0:22:07.520 --> 0:22:09.720
<v Speaker 1>recordings and we just had a great time with them

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 1>getting to know them a little more this time around.

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<v Speaker 1>They are two of the most original people I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been been around, and to see their friendship

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<v Speaker 1>and how they play off each other is really fun

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<v Speaker 1>to be heround I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have so enjoyed getting to know them both more. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. I think Susan was quick to say she

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't quite the same age as Kathy, But Kathy's seventy one,

0:22:37.240 --> 0:22:41.680
<v Speaker 2>and these are vibrant, vibrant women who have so much.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're talking about how much you would shave

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<v Speaker 2>off the end of your life. These women are living,

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<v Speaker 2>and they are at an age where they're ready for

0:22:51.000 --> 0:22:55.399
<v Speaker 2>their next chapter and their next man. And they were talking,

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<v Speaker 2>and they've been talking about how difficult it is when

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<v Speaker 2>you're a woman and they have means. They're not looking

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<v Speaker 2>for a sugar daddy or someone to financially take care

0:23:03.320 --> 0:23:06.040
<v Speaker 2>of them. They really just want a wonderful companion to

0:23:06.520 --> 0:23:08.760
<v Speaker 2>do all the fun things they still have left to give.

0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 2>Their children are grown, their grandchildren are even grown in

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<v Speaker 2>some cases, so they want to go out and be

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<v Speaker 2>a part of things, and they want a partner to

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<v Speaker 2>do it with. I understand that, but they point out,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you have another man who is around

0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:26.240
<v Speaker 2>your age and he has means he's going younger. He

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<v Speaker 2>is not looking for someone who is of the same age,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's frustrating and it's tough because there really aren't

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of options. They said, two years, neither one

0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:37.760
<v Speaker 2>of them have had one date.

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<v Speaker 1>See that through me. I didn't know that because they're

0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:42.159
<v Speaker 1>always putting themselves out there. I thought they were bouncing

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:46.520
<v Speaker 1>around and they that was wild to hear, but it's

0:23:47.280 --> 0:23:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I know, I didn't see them on The Golden Bachelor

0:23:49.920 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>at all. I think Kathy made it to the next

0:23:54.000 --> 0:23:57.280
<v Speaker 1>of the last final role of ceremony or something. She says,

0:23:57.320 --> 0:24:01.320
<v Speaker 1>all right, but anyway, they clearly we're looking for love

0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:04.720
<v Speaker 1>and looking today. I did not know this. She says.

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:05.840
<v Speaker 1>She was the villain on the show.

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:08.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's Yeah, there's a name for it. When you

0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:11.480
<v Speaker 2>get like edited as the villain. It's the villain edit.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe, But it was wild to think that, because of

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<v Speaker 1>the way we have gotten to know her one on

0:24:16.880 --> 0:24:20.400
<v Speaker 1>one and in a personal and personable way, to think

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<v Speaker 1>that the woman we know would ever in any context

0:24:23.920 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 1>be seen as a villain through me, because she is

0:24:26.400 --> 0:24:28.960
<v Speaker 1>so sweet to hear her talk about her life, her pain,

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 1>her husband, his passing, where she is now, what she wants,

0:24:33.400 --> 0:24:35.720
<v Speaker 1>that she wants, love, The way she looked at us,

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:36.960
<v Speaker 1>and we were with her a lot, and we were

0:24:36.960 --> 0:24:39.600
<v Speaker 1>always holding hands and all over each other, the way

0:24:39.640 --> 0:24:42.159
<v Speaker 1>she looked and complimented and was so it was a

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<v Speaker 1>little heartbreaking to hear her talk about wanting that or

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:47.159
<v Speaker 1>make sure you hold on to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it was tone.

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:52.200
<v Speaker 1>They're not They're not sad women in any way like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was kind of my heart was breaking for

0:24:54.720 --> 0:24:55.120
<v Speaker 1>them a little.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it creates perspective, you know, especially if whatever

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:01.680
<v Speaker 2>relationship you're in her work, wherever you are relationship wise

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 2>in your life. I think it's this human experience that

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:10.400
<v Speaker 2>we all want that relationship where you've got your best friend,

0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:12.840
<v Speaker 2>your partner, that person you trust, and it doesn't mean

0:25:12.880 --> 0:25:14.960
<v Speaker 2>that it's and I kept saying, and she was being

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.560
<v Speaker 2>very sweet about our relationship, and I said, please, it's

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 2>not always perfect, but you know, we have fought hard

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 2>to be where we are. And it was just another

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 2>reminder not to take that for granted. And I think

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:27.879
<v Speaker 2>anyone who's in a relationship, of course, it's not going

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<v Speaker 2>to be perfect. Of course, there are ups and downs

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:33.959
<v Speaker 2>and you might need to find, you know, the right person,

0:25:34.200 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 2>the friendship that maybe you're missing, and I just think

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 2>we all long for that and supporting each other to

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:43.680
<v Speaker 2>help each other find it is such a big part

0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:46.560
<v Speaker 2>of what we do in life. I mean, isn't that

0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:48.520
<v Speaker 2>what you think of the most? I mean, no matter

0:25:48.520 --> 0:25:50.400
<v Speaker 2>what success you've had in your life, no matter where

0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 2>you've been, or the adventures you've had, or how full

0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:55.720
<v Speaker 2>your life is, if you don't have that meaningful partner,

0:25:56.320 --> 0:25:58.720
<v Speaker 2>for a lot of people, and I would definitely put

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:02.640
<v Speaker 2>myself on this camp, that's what matters the most. It's

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<v Speaker 2>above all else.

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:05.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, people want to say I don't need anybody to

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:07.159
<v Speaker 1>be happy, and I get that nobody needs it, but

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just we're human. Be crave it you do as

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:14.040
<v Speaker 1>a human being. You just that companionship. That friend is

0:26:14.040 --> 0:26:15.719
<v Speaker 1>certainly older in life and to go through it in life.

0:26:15.760 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 1>They're having so much fun together and getting to do

0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of new things and they're excited about and

0:26:20.800 --> 0:26:21.800
<v Speaker 1>that one thing they go.

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:24.719
<v Speaker 2>Back to is just it's someone to share it with.

0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 1>And Kathy is hilarious. If you ever meet her. The

0:26:28.320 --> 0:26:30.240
<v Speaker 1>second thing out of her mouth is going to be

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:31.600
<v Speaker 1>asking you if you've got a friend or.

0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:36.639
<v Speaker 2>A brother an uncle. The next thing's just god. I

0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 2>love those ladies. I love that they're putting themselves out

0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 2>there too and saying, hey, I want this, because I

0:26:41.080 --> 0:26:42.399
<v Speaker 2>think so many of us if you don't have it

0:26:42.400 --> 0:26:44.760
<v Speaker 2>and say you don't need it, or you know you're

0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 2>over it, or you've been there, done that. But no,

0:26:46.760 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 2>they're being vulnerable and they're saying no, we actually want this,

0:26:50.240 --> 0:26:54.040
<v Speaker 2>and so yeah, whatever we can do. Listeners out there,

0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:56.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, anyone, and we're serious.

0:26:56.720 --> 0:27:00.199
<v Speaker 1>You're all. Susan Knowles, Kathy Schwartz are the names, and

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Knowles and Kathy's sports. I can't remember the name of

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:03.280
<v Speaker 1>their podcast they do.

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 2>I think it's called Golden Hour, but.

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 1>They were on this season of The Golden Bachelor and

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>they are out there looking for love and they've put

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>themselves out there and they are hilarious and wonderful and

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:17.439
<v Speaker 1>energetic ladies. And to Kathy, you remember Rues made the

0:27:17.440 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 1>point I'm seventy one and I have all this energy.

0:27:20.040 --> 0:27:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Another seventy one year old person has a difficult time

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:25.159
<v Speaker 1>keeping up with me. Yeah, she does. She says, she

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>can go and go hard. So if you all want

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 1>to reach out to them, or know somebody and want

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 1>to make a connection, or maybe you're listening and you

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:36.919
<v Speaker 1>would like to reach out to these two ladies. They

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 1>are absolutely wonderful and we are rooting for them, and

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:42.320
<v Speaker 1>we are pulling for them, and we are now actively

0:27:42.440 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 1>engaged and trying to find somebody for them.

0:27:45.080 --> 0:27:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and just so you know, their official podcast name

0:27:49.040 --> 0:27:53.360
<v Speaker 2>is Bachelor Happy Hour Golden Hour. It's perfect. But they

0:27:53.400 --> 0:27:56.920
<v Speaker 2>are a hoot and we're rooting for them. All right.

0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>Well, folks, we appreciate you all listening to us as

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>all romes. We are going to get a handle on

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:06.040
<v Speaker 1>this schedule of ours. We are not having to travel

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>until early December, so we have not having to get

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 1>on a plane, I should say, yeah, until.

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 2>We have a couple of road trip plans. Yes, road

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:16.400
<v Speaker 2>trips planned.

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's okay to stay on solid ground for a

0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 1>little while. But it has been great. It's been fun.

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:27.439
<v Speaker 1>And thank you to our listeners. We appreciate not just

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.199
<v Speaker 1>seeing you all out in public, but we're seeing it

0:28:29.240 --> 0:28:31.919
<v Speaker 1>out in other places to where what we're doing in

0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:35.840
<v Speaker 1>the work, we're putting in is resonating in some way

0:28:35.920 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 1>with our listeners, and that is something we appreciate. Never

0:28:38.840 --> 0:28:43.360
<v Speaker 1>could imagine we'd be in this position. But it's fun. Yeah,

0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>had a good time.

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm a little tired, but there's no there's no one

0:28:47.320 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 2>I'd rather lose sleep for than you. With you. How

0:28:53.400 --> 0:28:53.800
<v Speaker 2>about that?

0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 1>You want to try it one more time?

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 2>Did I say it wrong?

0:28:56.760 --> 0:28:58.440
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not saying you say anything wrong, but I

0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:00.600
<v Speaker 1>just want to make sure that's what you meant to say.

0:29:00.760 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, that's another podcast, you know what. That'll be

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 2>a good tease. I think one of the next few

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 2>podcasts we're going to put out there is this notion

0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 2>it's the cult and like men are from Mars, women

0:29:13.520 --> 0:29:16.600
<v Speaker 2>are from Venus where I don't know, ladies, if you're

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:19.680
<v Speaker 2>the same as me. But I've tried to explain that

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:24.520
<v Speaker 2>what I say, oh boy, literally isn't necessarily always what

0:29:24.600 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean figuratively or emotionally, and so I've been trying

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 2>to help with the translations.

0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 1>And so I don't put any emotion into what I'm saying,

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 1>and if I said it, that is literally what I meant, right,

0:29:38.320 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 1>And this makes it difficult to go back and forth

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>in conversations.

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I am the opposite.

0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 1>And now I've been joking with you a little bit.

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Now I have been joking a little bit. You'll say

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 1>something I don't like, or you say whatever I say.

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I know you didn't really mean that, because I have

0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>to interpret and read between the lines.

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:58.120
<v Speaker 2>And that goes over so well with me. All Right,

0:29:58.160 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 2>we'll say that for another podcast. You all can enjoy

0:30:01.280 --> 0:30:04.680
<v Speaker 2>your week and live your life to the fullest.