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Speaker 1: Who do you who? Everyone, Today, we are releasing our

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Speaker 1: live show from this past weekend at SF sketch Fest

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Speaker 1: featuring Mosha Kasher and Jeopardy icon Amy Schneider. We are

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Speaker 1: so gratefully both did the show, and we're so happy

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Speaker 1: you guys sold out Cobb's Comedy Club. We had such

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Speaker 1: a great time in San Francisco. Huge shout out to

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Speaker 1: the whole sketch Fest team for having us, and to

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Speaker 1: motion Amy for being so game and just so funny

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Speaker 1: and generous and smart. It was a really, really lovely

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Speaker 1: night and a great weekend before this insane week And

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Speaker 1: so we hope you enjoy the show. We love you,

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Speaker 1: and we'll be back with normal episodes next week.

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Speaker 2: Bye.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow. Podcast starts starts now.

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Speaker 1: And guess what I did that wrong. Let's take it

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Speaker 1: from the top. Live show starts now. The one thing

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Speaker 1: Sam said to me was, so we're doing live show

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Speaker 1: starts now? I said, correct, correct the window.

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Speaker 3: I meigo, why would I need to ask?

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Speaker 1: Why? Why would you need to tell me that?

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Speaker 3: First of all, how's everyone doing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What's up you guys? I just want to say your

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Speaker 1: city has had such an amazing effect on the world

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Speaker 1: globally and politically, and it is an honor to be

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Speaker 1: here celebrating your achievements tonight. Congrats to us, all, Congrats

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Speaker 1: to us all. Congrats on a TikTok band. You guys

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Speaker 1: did that. You did that, We did that. We're not

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Speaker 1: going back. I can't wait. We're so we're really pro

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Speaker 1: TikTok man on a pod. Is it because we've never

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Speaker 1: quite cracked it?

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Speaker 3: Okaybe no, that's not why it's that. Couldn't be it.

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Speaker 3: It's just because we love Instagram reels so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's I have no hate for TikTok, I just love Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We just think Mark Zuckerberg is like a better entrepreneur

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Speaker 1: and he deserves a success more than whatever that other

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Speaker 3: Plus his makeover is awesome. Yeah wait, that's.

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Speaker 1: Coming up later. But we're so pro Mark Zuckerberg's makeover.

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Speaker 1: He looks so fucking hot, you guys. I wish he

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Speaker 1: was here.

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Speaker 5: I learned something kind of groundbreaking today. George has met

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Speaker 5: Mark Zuckerberg.

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Speaker 6: Yep, better believe it isn't that weird? Yes, real resounding, Yes,

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Speaker 6: you know you know the content. Thank you for having context.

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Speaker 6: Queen in the house. Get this, we have a context, diva.

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Speaker 6: Get this, Diva. I worked at Facebook.

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Speaker 1: He's one of you, over a decade ago, over a decade,

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Speaker 1: back when.

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Speaker 3: Back when Facebook was still.

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Speaker 1: Punk, back when Facebook was still punk. And the big

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Speaker 1: controversy my first week. Let me know if you remember this,

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Speaker 1: I know this is a gen Z slash Gen Alpha crowd.

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Speaker 1: The big controversy in my first week there was the

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Speaker 1: Emotional Contagion study, which is when they gave some people

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Speaker 1: negative content and some people positive content without asking for

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Speaker 1: their consent, and then they like saw how that affected them.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't that seem so quaint? Can you imagine? That was

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Speaker 1: like a month long media cycle. Now now they're murdering

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Speaker 1: people anyway, So how.

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Speaker 3: Did they risk on in the office? What was the

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Speaker 1: Well, I walked in and I said no more of

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Speaker 1: that and not enough, and they made me VP of Emotion.

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Speaker 1: So that's happened. So that happened. So that's happening tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: TikTok is going blank. It's on Sunday whatever, I'm on

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Speaker 1: New York time. It's after midnight for me, and then

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Speaker 1: and then Monday and Monday we have the inauguration. So again,

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Speaker 1: congrats you guys, you guys, congrats all of that. It's

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Speaker 1: going really well. What else was on our mind?

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Speaker 5: It's funny because like I really I still want to

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Speaker 5: dig into this TikTok thing a little.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it. Let's do it.

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Speaker 3: Is anyone here sad about it? Is anyone here happy

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Speaker 3: about it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? The hell I thought this was a tech town.

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Speaker 1: You guys have moved on. You guys are like TikTok

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Speaker 1: is so like it's so like I feel like here

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Speaker 5: George, I have to tell I think, I think I

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Speaker 5: have to tell you something.

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Speaker 3: So what I was about to say was that this

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Speaker 3: that was a very divisive response, and I realized something

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Speaker 3: When someone says, at least I sparked a conversation, they've

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Speaker 5: When someone says, well, I've created a dialogue, yeah, that

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Speaker 5: it as like, well, good or bad? We're speaking, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Good or bad. San Francisco's the land of contrast, and.

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Speaker 3: I find that to be so so powerful. So it's

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Speaker 3: like that TikTok thing. I was like, Wow, no one

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Speaker 1: But don't you think that's like them? That is what

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Speaker 1: social media is. It's like, well, they're all talking, that's

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Speaker 1: what When Mark Zuckerberg is doing his is at the

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Speaker 1: congressional hearings, answering questions, They're like, are they murdering? He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but they're talking. I love that. We're a tech podcast. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: We're a tech podcast and everyone loves it. Wait. We

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Speaker 1: also wanted to talk about how this is so far

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Speaker 1: the worst year ever. Thoughts, how's everyone's year? Is anyone's

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Speaker 1: zero off to a good start? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yes? The context eva?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh do you I'm so shocked that the context

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Speaker 1: eva has had a good year because I feel like

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Speaker 1: it's not a good year for context. Do you guys

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Speaker 1: think twenty twenty five is good for Do you think

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Speaker 1: context is in or out? In twenty twenty five? Out out?

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. To me, the peak of no

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Speaker 1: context was Kamala is Brat And so now I think

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Speaker 1: the fact that the fact that people rejected that means

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Speaker 1: there was hunger for context, but people don't know where

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Speaker 1: to look, so they're like him, like, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, I think, no matter what, no matter who wins

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Speaker 5: the election, at least we're talking about context.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, by the way, yeah, we're still

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Speaker 1: talking about the election as if it hasn't happened. It'll

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Speaker 1: the votes, you guys.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, if we all get on our phones right now,

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Speaker 3: we can change a vote.

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Speaker 1: Who's voting late? Do you guys vote late? So okay,

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, we were literally recently actually having a

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five? And you famously said, I've been sleeping, well.

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Speaker 3: Spilled, I have been sleeping so incredibly well start to finish.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, what else? There was one more thing? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: all right, what context queen?

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Speaker 3: Context Queen says, what context Eva says?

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Speaker 1: What new insult just dropped? Wow? Damn. I like the

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Speaker 1: idea of context Diva being potentially even a government position

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Speaker 1: that you can be elected to. She's running for you know,

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Speaker 1: she's running for context Diva. She was controllers so she

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Speaker 1: would be pretty good at it. She's just used to

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Speaker 1: context and things being in or out of it. So

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Speaker 1: this is actually kind of a big idea. I think

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Speaker 1: context Diva how localize? Are we thinking?

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Speaker 3: Well, I think we need the one on the state

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Speaker 1: No, because here's the thing. Sometimes you know, you'll get

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Speaker 1: Kamala talking, You'll get Frum talking. There's no context. We

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Speaker 1: need someone to come out. She's wearing a pinstripe suit,

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Speaker 1: she's a lesbian, yes, and she opens a book. I

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Speaker 5: I mean, I do think calling you know, essentially we

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Speaker 5: have context Diva's already.

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Speaker 1: In the historians.

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Speaker 3: Sure, but I guess it's like so I hear a

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Speaker 1: What else I do that for journalists? Like context Like

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Speaker 1: who's academic? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: I'd rather jump off a cliff. I'd rather jump off

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Speaker 5: a cliff. But when I hear context Eva, I'm like work.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing, I'm almost like, it ruins it.

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Speaker 1: If she is elected democratically, Not to be anti democracy,

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Speaker 1: but it's like, guess who's else is elected democratically? All

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Speaker 1: the other losers that she's in charge of keeping in

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Speaker 3: Well, there will be no ethics in the context diva industry.

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Speaker 3: I think what it should be it should be, Is

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Speaker 7: Excuse me?

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Speaker 3: Yes, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I think the context diva should be more of a

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Speaker 1: spiritual position.

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Speaker 3: Well, of course, I think you should almost be in churches.

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Speaker 5: And I think when you're speaking like say, like the

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Speaker 5: spirit takes you, you can be context diva.

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Speaker 3: Oh you can be like actually it was like this

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Speaker 1: I see. Well, here's the real dark darkness of all

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Speaker 1: of this. Guess what democratized being a context diva. TikTok

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Speaker 1: you open TikTok, you open one of these social media apps. Folks,

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Speaker 1: everyone thinks they are context diva these days, so much

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Speaker 1: so there's so much context that we exist without any context.

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Speaker 3: Or being overly context being overly.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the issue all along wasn't that we lacked context.

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Speaker 1: It was that we had too much context and not

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Speaker 5: George, can I be completely honest with you? That was

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Speaker 3: But suddenly I saw, because here's the thing kt Tunstaul

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Speaker 3: original context Diva.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for this? Oh? I'm scared? Actually, content creators.

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Speaker 1: All right, get ready, content creators, what are they actually doing?

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Speaker 1: Just commentating? They're not creating anything original. They're actually context creators.

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Speaker 1: What content creators are doing are taking existing content and saying,

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Speaker 1: you know, in the nineties, you know Kate Moss like

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Speaker 1: walked in this runway and then she did this, and

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Speaker 1: that's not content. They're actually just creating context. So all

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Speaker 1: we're doing is we have a pre existing content. No

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Speaker 1: new content is being made, but we're just recontextualizing it

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Speaker 1: and recontextualizing it based on everyone's weird little biases. George,

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Speaker 1: thank you, context Diva.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm like, g George, you're scaring people.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy.

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Speaker 3: There was a moment when it really felt fire and brimstone.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like I'm making a point that felt accusatory? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no, I genuinely can't tell.

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Speaker 5: I think you are making a point. It's just like

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Speaker 5: it's getting complicated because I think we're forgetting that we're

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Speaker 5: at a comedy show.

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Speaker 1: So this is a podcast about straight culture, and what

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Speaker 1: usually happens is we'll think of different topics and I

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Speaker 1: guess you could say contextualize them based on whether they

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Speaker 1: are straight or gay? Would you say that's correct?

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Speaker 3: I would say that's one hundred percent correct. Context Diva.

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Speaker 1: Is that Context Diva? Do you agree?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Shure, they make attention.

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Speaker 3: This has been notarized by the context Diva.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are wh.

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Speaker 3: Well that's crazy.

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Speaker 5: Did everyone see that?

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Speaker 3: That was insane? Not to be a bitch but I

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Speaker 3: Which, so by the way, can be one of life's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and we'll have you know.

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Speaker 3: I'd say, we got more ten minutes, ten more minutes

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Speaker 1: And then I was literally like, all right, what do

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Speaker 5: Like there is something to be like, let's just see totally.

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Speaker 3: I think men's wear is like, okay, so clothes or

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Speaker 5: When a man Like there's this thing happening with men's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to have you have to be egoists.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes it scares me when you predict things because

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have to say we have two

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Speaker 1: Our first guest, you are going to absolutely go hogwild

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Speaker 1: for him. He is in fact doing his own podcast show,

438
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Speaker 1: Endless Honeymoon tomorrow at four pm.

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Speaker 3: As part of this best part of this festival.

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Speaker 1: Even. Please start clapping now, give it up for Mosha cash. Wow,

441
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Speaker 1: grab a chair, grab all Mike.

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Speaker 4: Where is she?

443
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Speaker 1: Where's the queen?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Wyeah context context Eva. I just had to contextualize who

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Speaker 1: you are.

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Speaker 4: Nice to see you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, how's it going? Are you inspired by the context?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: This morning, I mean it was really psychedelic. It was

451
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Speaker 1: really cool. Yeah, any thoughts about any of the amazing

452
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Speaker 1: points we've made so far?

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Speaker 4: I thought you both were charming and killed Oh perfectly. Yeah,

454
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Speaker 4: that was really the scuttle butt up in the green

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Speaker 4: room is these two boys are killing right now.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: I will say it didn't go quite as well as

458
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Speaker 3: it did with our uber driver today, but we still

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Speaker 3: appreciate all the laughs, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I didn't love the points you made about men's wear,

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Speaker 1: but other yeah, you know, I was thinking that as

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Speaker 1: we were saying it, I was like, you are clearly

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Speaker 1: someone who dresses well and likes how you dress.

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Speaker 4: Like I would consider myself an in cell per se.

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Speaker 1: No, I as I was saying it, I said, I

466
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Speaker 1: could see you sort of backstage hovering, And I said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I saw the glimmer of that night.

468
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Speaker 7: Yet.

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Speaker 4: No, it's just I'm not he's probably on Reddit right now. No,

470
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Speaker 4: because like I fucked my wife like all the time.

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Speaker 4: You know, you know, you know what I mean, I'd

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Speaker 4: be like Bob mother my child.

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Speaker 1: You know this is so cool.

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to bring really kind of like dick

475
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Speaker 4: swinging straight energy right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, well there's anything that's dick swinging. It's a

477
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Speaker 1: Japanese cardigan and crossing. You're like, damn, damn, damn got

478
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Speaker 1: his ass so well.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that.

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Speaker 5: I brought it up because men was close to me

481
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Speaker 5: and the siren song always calls, and I always say

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Speaker 5: stop it.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be a part of this world.

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Speaker 4: Oh you want to you want to dress I want

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Speaker 4: sometimes I don't want to say better, but you want

486
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Speaker 4: to dress better.

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Speaker 3: I think we both it calls to us, but I

488
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Speaker 3: know it's bad.

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Speaker 1: I think for us, men's wear is like if we

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Speaker 1: were evangelical Christians, menswear would be porn. Like we're like,

491
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Speaker 1: we want it so fucking bad, but we know, but

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Speaker 1: we think it's immoral.

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Speaker 4: Can I can I tell you something gay?

494
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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 4: I would love the gay straight about porn that happened

496
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Speaker 4: to me very recently, like last night, and it involves

497
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Speaker 4: my wife, who you know, I'd be fucking on a

498
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Speaker 4: regular basis.

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Speaker 1: Fuck man, serious, fuck.

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Speaker 2: She?

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Speaker 4: I think it was. It might have been last night

502
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Speaker 4: actually was like we were talking about something, and she

503
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Speaker 4: was like, and that's why you that's why you exclusively

504
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Speaker 4: jerk off to gay porn. Oh, that's what she said

505
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Speaker 4: to me.

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Speaker 1: Did she mean lesbian porn?

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Speaker 3: No?

508
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Speaker 1: Oh okay?

509
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Speaker 4: And I said what? And I guess early in our

510
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 4: relationship I told her that I have jerked off to

511
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Speaker 4: gay porn and she assumed that that was the exclusive content.

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Speaker 1: We're married ten years. That's wild and she thinks that

513
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Speaker 1: that's the only pornography that I consume. She is so accepting. Yeah,

514
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Speaker 1: you would think it would be a fucking red flag.

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Speaker 4: It's basically you, babe, and then it's gotta be man exclusively,

516
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Speaker 4: like you are gay? You are a gay man.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she thought she turned to that gay.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's cool. Did did did you feel like was

519
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Speaker 3: it hard to dispel this rumor without seeming defensive?

520
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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, you don't want to be all at all, actually, dog,

522
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Speaker 4: because you know it's like I no, I I It

523
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Speaker 4: was so confusing to me that she had taken one

524
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Speaker 4: small detail and superimpose it over what I would say

525
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Speaker 4: is a nightly hobby of mine.

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Speaker 1: Jerking offs are gay porn? Yeah, which is just general general? Sure,

527
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Speaker 1: what percentage are we talking is gay?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

529
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Speaker 4: Wait what percentage?

530
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Speaker 1: What percentage of the porn you jerk off to is gay?

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Speaker 4: It's just the one time I mentioned my wife. Okay,

532
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Speaker 4: I would go ten, I would go ten, I would

533
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Speaker 4: go ten.

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Speaker 1: And can I ask you this is by the way,

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Speaker 1: I'm so glad you brought this to us. What is

536
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Speaker 1: it about it? What is what is context? Diva? Hear

537
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Speaker 1: me out? What is the context here?

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Speaker 4: Well, what do you mean? What's the context? I got

539
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 4: a boner and lotion. I'm horny.

540
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Speaker 2: Sure.

541
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Speaker 4: No, Actually, now that we're bringing this up, it is

542
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Speaker 4: my topic.

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Speaker 1: Uh okay, wait wait, so you said you had a

544
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Speaker 1: bunch of topics.

545
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Speaker 4: No, this is my topic. Jerking off to gay porn

546
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Speaker 4: is straight? No, I'm just kidding. Okay, I fully believe

547
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Speaker 4: what's the content? Why you're saying I guess what I

548
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Speaker 4: mean is.

549
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Speaker 3: Yeah, try to tap into your inner sexuality.

550
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Speaker 1: What what's what's speaking to you about it? Here's what

551
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Speaker 1: I love about this, And this is how this is

552
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Speaker 1: actually very dick swinging of you. I'm asking you what

553
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Speaker 1: is the context of you jerking off to gay porn?

554
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: And you're like, what the fuck do you mean?

555
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Speaker 4: Here?

556
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Speaker 1: You are talking about jerking off to gay porn. You're like,

557
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Speaker 1: what's the issue in which I love?

558
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Speaker 4: I would say the context is I am an officionado.

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Speaker 1: Sure of all porn and it's all hot to me. Yeah,

560
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Speaker 1: well not all.

561
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Speaker 4: There's one category I don't fuck with obviously, that's interracial.

562
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Speaker 4: But no, I just I once in a while, I'm

563
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Speaker 4: in a mood. It's a piccadillo, you know, I would

564
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Speaker 4: say I I would say I'm ten percent gay, ten

565
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Speaker 4: percent trans, eighty percent just meat.

566
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Speaker 1: Meat and potatoes.

567
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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Wow, well that was really amazing.

568
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Speaker 1: Thank you for talking about give me up.

569
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Speaker 4: Thank you, that was vulnerable space. Thank you for opening

570
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Speaker 4: this queer space. Of course, listen, I guess come out.

571
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Speaker 4: I guess yeah, honey, I'm seeing the headlines already.

572
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Speaker 1: I love it to come out and immediately be like

573
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Speaker 1: my wife thinks I only dronk off to gate porn.

574
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Speaker 1: The fuck is her problem? Bitch? Well where else than

575
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Speaker 1: radio la?

576
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Speaker 4: Am I going to admit this?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

578
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Speaker 4: Mosha, I'm Mosha, Mosha.

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Speaker 1: We heard that you actually came with not one topic

580
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Speaker 1: but several that you wanted to run by.

581
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Speaker 4: It wasn't even that, it was that I was struggling

582
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Speaker 4: with my sexuality. Of course, we know to come up

583
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Speaker 4: with every topic that I came up with as uber straight,

584
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 4: immediately felt gay again. And you said that that's an

585
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Speaker 4: ongoing theme.

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Speaker 1: I don't, it's a problem.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I at first I thought about like my hobby,

588
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Speaker 4: which is surfing, and I'm like, actually, there's nothing gayer

589
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Speaker 4: than surfing. You know. It's like you put on like

590
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Speaker 4: a skin tight rubber suit with your buddies and then

591
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Speaker 4: you all lay face down and you get really excited

592
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 4: when there's a big swell, you know, like yeah. And

593
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Speaker 4: then I was like, let me go really straight UFC.

594
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Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, I don't. That's that's as

595
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Speaker 4: gay as anything is. I was like, okay, how about

596
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Speaker 4: like fingering. It only took me a few moments to

597
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Speaker 4: realize the flawed my logic and a few memories from

598
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Speaker 4: the catch on my computer, and then I was like, well,

599
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Speaker 4: how about like come comes pretty straight?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like it shoots, you know, it's like, yeah, it's violent,

602
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: it blasts. You know, it's straight. You're lucky. It's white stains.

603
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's straight, it's white, it's male.

604
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Speaker 7: Wow.

605
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Speaker 1: But I only landed on on intimacy workshops.

606
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Speaker 3: It this is so huge.

607
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Speaker 4: Because I went to one two weeks ago with my wife.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Ah.

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Speaker 7: So cool.

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Speaker 4: Actually it was more it was more of a of

611
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Speaker 4: a porn detox than an intimacy No, it was it.

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Speaker 4: It was a real intimacy workshop. And we noticed that.

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Speaker 4: And this is I'm noticing already that there's a bit

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Speaker 4: of a slant towards gay men on this show.

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Speaker 1: Would we say, oh, oh yeah, yeah, well we try,

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Speaker 1: you know, we used to try to be more inclusive.

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Speaker 1: I think we've sort of given up recently. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, after the.

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Speaker 4: Election, every couple was there were no gay male couples.

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Speaker 4: There were twenty two couples, and there were some lesbian

621
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Speaker 4: couples and the rest were straight couples. And we were

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Speaker 4: Natasha and I were asking ourselves, where is where are

623
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Speaker 4: the gay men? Where where are they? And we were like, oh,

624
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Speaker 4: they're probably like having fun or something somewhere.

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Speaker 1: So we can answer that for you. It's complicated. So,

626
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Speaker 1: as we've said before on the pod, divorce is lesbian

627
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Speaker 1: right and staying together forever, but being violently unhappy as

628
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Speaker 1: game of guys because they're all open. So if they're like,

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Speaker 1: let's say you go home to your husband. You literally

630
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Speaker 1: hate each other, can't stand each other. There's no reason

631
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Speaker 1: to change anything because you're already having the sex you

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Speaker 1: would be having otherwise. You see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're like, you're like, you come home, you throw

634
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Speaker 5: your keys down. Your husband says like, huh, finally you're here.

635
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 5: You pick your keys back up, You're going to the bathouse. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: oh that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: A straight relationship you just go, yeah, I'm here, and

639
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Speaker 4: you sit down on the couch. Yeah, and dig in.

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Speaker 4: What is straight? What's straight?

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Speaker 1: Lesbian is divorce, staying with somebody straight somewhere in the middle. Yeah,

642
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: straight is like being moderately happy in your second marriage.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's sort of like, well

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Speaker 1: I reached, like this is sort of the best that

645
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Speaker 1: can probably get married. Yeah. Yeah. No, Sam is sorry, engaged,

646
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Speaker 1: but in.

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Speaker 3: Like an put it put in like an alternative way.

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Speaker 1: Sam is obsessed with being fully in the price of

649
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Speaker 1: planning a wedding, but not saying that he's engaged. Sorry,

650
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Speaker 1: am I calling you out?

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Speaker 7: No? You do?

652
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Speaker 4: You call him your fiance?

653
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Speaker 1: God? No? Now, how good? That's too basic or something? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what is he a lesbian?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So why weren't they Why weren't they there?

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Speaker 5: They don't no, I think literally George is right, they're

657
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Speaker 5: like out there like spending the money you spent on

658
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Speaker 5: that to like go to fire Island and hook up

659
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Speaker 5: as many people as they Yes.

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Speaker 1: Their therapy is having three or their intimacy workshop is

661
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 1: literally fucking another guy.

662
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 4: Okay.

663
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: I have pitched that to my wife so many times.

664
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Speaker 1: The thing is it does help?

665
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 4: Yeah does it?

666
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: Oh?

667
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:53,800
Speaker 7: Actually?

668
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah? Wait.

669
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 4: You'll have a conflict with your partner and then go,

670
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 4: well when.

671
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 5: You're feeling a little bland and you're like, okay, it's

672
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 5: time to mix it up, Like who are we anymore?

673
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 5: It's like then you have sex with a third person

674
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 5: and you're like, oh, that's who I am.

675
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: That's cool. See I do that, but it's I keep

676
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:12,439
Speaker 1: it a secret from my wife.

677
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 3: Oh wow, yes, that's why it's okay, yeah, wait, don't

678
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 3: you don't put this podcast out.

679
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 5: I'm curious, like, in this intimacy workshop, what we're like,

680
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 5: what were.

681
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: They getting up to? Like, because I actually am also very.

682
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 5: There's an element of this that feels very LGBTQ plus

683
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 5: where it's like, so you're all getting horny together.

684
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 3: Oh, we weren't. No, we weren't.

685
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 4: We weren't fucking each other.

686
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: So here's what Sam is referring to. It's like there

687
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Speaker 1: are actually they're one of the reasons I will say

688
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: you didn't see gay men there is because there are

689
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 1: intimacy workshop adjacent things like that that are like men only.

690
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: There's a lot of like men only things that you

691
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,760
Speaker 1: don't hear about that are like sort of bath house

692
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: adjacent culture. Well, they'll they'll phrase it like reconnect with

693
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: your body.

694
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like it's like a Lingham covering or where

695
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 4: it'll be like everyone is edging right, but like there

696
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 4: is also a psychoanalyst present. I got it.

697
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: He's the guy you come off you do watch.

698
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 4: Can I can? I? By the way, tell you I

699
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 4: don't know this. This is weird. It's back to gay porn.

700
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 4: But I was in a in a circle jerk when

701
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 4: I was a teenager with with one gay man and

702
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 4: a straight friend. Everybody here is just like, Okay, you're gay, Mosha,

703
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 4: that's what's happening. No, you're Oakland. It reads similar, but uh,

704
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 4: it was in the nineties This was in the nineties

705
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 4: and gay I don't know if you remember this gay porn.

706
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,720
Speaker 4: They used to do multiple cum shots of the same

707
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 4: com like it would be a guy like oh, and

708
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 4: then there would be another angle and the same guy

709
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 4: would have uncome.

710
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm familiar.

711
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,920
Speaker 1: Do they not do that in straight porn? No? Multi no?

712
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 4: Oh, we like cinema verite. Okay, you can't come twice?

713
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: Did someone just go awe?

714
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 4: It was between an awe and an eu.

715
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: Context E has thrown out her notebooks. She's like, they

716
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: are all okay, so all right, but I do want

717
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Speaker 1: to get into the specifics of what else happened at

718
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: this workshop.

719
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 4: Okay, well it was. It was conducted by an old

720
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 4: hippie couple and the man. The man started. There was

721
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 4: a lot of funny things that happened. But the man

722
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 4: he had a harmonium. Let's start there. You know what

723
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 4: that is. It's like a It's like a cross between

724
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 4: a It's like an if an accordion was on psychedelic

725
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 4: drugs kind of. It's like a thing that you do

726
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 4: this with and then you play. And he would sing

727
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 4: songs and they were very bad.

728
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: I can see the auronicism in that.

729
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, they were really bad songs, but they were kind

730
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 4: of beautiful too. It'd be like a everybody, hello, love,

731
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 4: and he would say everybody before he had sung the

732
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 4: whole song, so we'd be like, what do we and

733
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 4: it would but they were very basic love hippie kind

734
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 4: of like loving is good, loving is God. You love

735
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 4: love and we would all have to sing together. And

736
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 4: then his wife was there. He was a psychiatrist and

737
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 4: she was a psychiatric nurse. They'd been together sixty years.

738
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: They were all over each other.

739
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 4: Like constant touching, fondling. He mentioned the fact that he

740
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 4: had cheated on her within ten minutes of the beginning,

741
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 4: and that was sort of the That was the table setting,

742
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 4: and then opening night. We went around the room and

743
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 4: everybody said their biggest vulnerability. Everybody, everybody and people we

744
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 4: didn't know would say their biggest vulnerability. And that was

745
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 4: really super intense and once you got really vulnerable. After that,

746
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,760
Speaker 4: I kept thinking we were going to talk about fights

747
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 4: that we were having, and it was It wasn't. It

748
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 4: was really very positive stuff. It was like what do

749
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 4: you love about your partner? What do you can you

750
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 4: your memories when you first met them and and it

751
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 4: was actually a super beautiful experience.

752
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:15,880
Speaker 3: So this is so different than what I was expecting.

753
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: Sam, What did you think?

754
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 5: I'm like, so, when does the porn come on? Okay,

755
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 5: when do you start touching each other?

756
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: Oh? I see what you're saying. You thought it was

757
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: a sexual intimacy work. Yes, Oh okay, okay, this was

758
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: more of a It was like it was therapy adjacent.

759
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 1: It was like, okay, building intimacy with your partner.

760
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 4: I think I figured it out. Emotional intimacy, emotional tea

761
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 4: is straight.

762
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah. I would say there's a spectrum and it's like,

763
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: emotional intimacy is lesbian. Yeah, straight is down the middle,

764
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: right zero. Emotional intimacy is gay guy. Yeah, I think

765
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: there's something to that. Okay, here's my sort of first

766
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: thought about this. The emphasis on positivity to me, feels

767
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: very straight because it feels like a sort of it

768
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: feels like upworthy videos, Like it feels like a cliche

769
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: ridden yeah, Like it's literally like, guess what it is.

770
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: It's literally love wins, Like that's what you're doing. It's

771
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: like you are saying we have issues and someone's.

772
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 4: Like, sh it was sponsored by the Lincoln Project.

773
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 3: Of that.

774
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: That would be iconic if the Lincoln Project sponsored intimacy

775
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: workshops for.

776
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 4: Lesbians not to be not to be too sincere. But

777
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 4: the the the the dodging of conflict was its secret sauce.

778
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 4: I thought, like I said, we were going there to

779
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 4: like work on ways to fight better, and instead we

780
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 4: spent the weekend talking about how much we loved each other,

781
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 4: which wasn't really the primary thing we were thinking about

782
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 4: on the way up there, And it somehow changed the

783
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 4: topic in such a way that it was it was

784
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 4: really healing, and it was.

785
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: It is it the content to keep going?

786
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 4: Is this a form out of your show? I had

787
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 4: this like realization that you would be and you as

788
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 4: a married man and you as a as a fiance.

789
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 4: I was like, why wouldn't you do this once a

790
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 4: year or once every two years, do a tune up?

791
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 4: It was tune ups. I think we can all agree,

792
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 4: very very stressing.

793
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: Well again check the tires, babe.

794
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I yeah, I mean I think I think that's

795
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 5: part of stray cultures I really relate to. Actually, is

796
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 5: there's this thing like I remember one time, like five

797
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 5: years ago, my partner and I were arguing a.

798
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: Lot, and.

799
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 5: My guy, my best guy, and I were arguing quite

800
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 5: a bit, and there was a moment where we're like,

801
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 5: you know what, let's just bury it, like, let's actually

802
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 5: not discuss it anymore.

803
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 3: We're actually just gonna be like enough moving on. And

804
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 3: it helped so much.

805
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So basically, you guys, you guys are repressed. You

806
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: guys are literally rebranding wasp culture to make it more

807
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: like burning Man like it's and I think he's genius.

808
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 4: Literally the opposite of intimacy is that is right, exactly. Yeah,

809
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 4: I'm getting really close to like an emotional truth for you.

810
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 4: So what I'm gonna do is suggest that you build

811
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 4: a callous over it. We never revisit it.

812
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: I think it can be so empowering. Well, here's what

813
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: I'll say. What if the agreement to create a callous

814
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: is the most intimate thing you could do at the

815
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: end of the day.

816
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, But by the way, that should have been my

817
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 4: applause break. I just didn't bring it up quickly enough.

818
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 4: That's how it felt. It felt like, even through the

819
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 4: corniness of the harmonium, even through the like the weird

820
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 4: flakiness of this situation, showing up was like eighty percent

821
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 4: of what this whole thing was. So basically, anyway, that's

822
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 4: the reason I came on the show. I'm actually planning

823
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 4: an intimacy workshop for gay man only.

824
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, And it basically what it is.

825
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 4: You all stand in a circle, you stare at each other,

826
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 4: you say your biggest vulnerability in the and you all

827
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 4: just sort of ejaculate on me.

828
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: Like that, and then you'll get to create some of

829
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: Mosha's favorite videos.

830
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 4: No, that is the video.

831
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 5: Wow, well that sounds amazing. All right, any final thoughts

832
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 5: on an intimacy workshop.

833
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 4: I do have a final thought. This is uh for

834
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 4: the for your audience, We're strugg Our podcast tomorrow is struggling.

835
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,720
Speaker 4: We have sold five tickets. No, I'm joking or very popular,

836
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 4: but but we are doing a dating game segment and

837
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 4: there's a there's a woman coming up that is going

838
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 4: to do like classic dating game but show number two

839
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 4: best or number three. She's queer, and we have two

840
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 4: women and we would love a man if there is

841
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 4: a man that dates women in the audience. So you're

842
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 4: you're like, I'm a man, but you thought I was

843
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 4: just like if there is a man.

844
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: The fingers started flying and if there's only like one.

845
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: You know, come talk to me after the show. But

846
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 4: any further thoughts on intimacy workshops, I honestly think if

847
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 4: you're in a relationship as corny as they are. It

848
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 4: was one of the coolest things that I ever did.

849
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 4: And it was really funny because there were couples in there.

850
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 4: There was one couple that had been together sixty years

851
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 4: the people that were leading it. Another couple been together

852
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 4: fifty plus years, and the woman was in her last

853
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 4: I think two or three months of life and they

854
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 4: were dedicating themselves to put making those last three months

855
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 4: intimate and loving. And I know that's that's getting right

856
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 4: to that callus that you built over with your with

857
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 4: your fella or your guy pal or whatever.

858
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 1: They should have gone to Berlin.

859
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 4: And then there were other another couple was there. They

860
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 4: were like, we've been together since May. Oh yeah, and

861
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 4: they were just high on cocaine the entire time.

862
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 5: Yeah damn well give it up emotion cash everybody.

863
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 1: Thank you, see you later. That was amazing. Wow wow

864
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: wow wow wow wow. That was incredible. That was that

865
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 1: was electric. That was electric. Then narrative to come out with,

866
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: like you know, haha, gay porn and then to end

867
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: on Love Conquers All. I witnessed a sixty year relationship

868
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: like reach its pinnacle in front of me, and then

869
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: she died. God, it would have been so great for

870
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: the story if she died the end. I know, Oh

871
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: that's too bad.

872
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 3: Did you all learn something about intimacy?

873
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,760
Speaker 1: Okay? I want to know, San Francisco, make some noise.

874
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,479
Speaker 1: If you have been in anything that could be called

875
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 1: an intimacy workshop, that's pretty good about Okay, I would

876
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: have thought more.

877
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 5: Maybe I want to say, this thing keeps happening tonight

878
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 5: where like there will be like this. It's sort of

879
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 5: one of my favorite things is where there will be

880
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 5: three people that go like this, and it actually sounds

881
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 5: much sadder and if there was no applause, that's true.

882
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 5: It is genuinely. When I hear that, I'm like, damn,

883
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 5: like queer art of failure.

884
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: Wait, can I'll tell you something? This is so smart

885
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: actually because guess what is like the sign of silence

886
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: is crickets. It's not actual silence, like there's something about

887
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: there's something about are you hearing this something?

888
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 3: Sometimes you can be louder than silence.

889
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,720
Speaker 1: Fuck, like actual silence is in silence.

890
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 5: Damn, George, you are so smart. Wait I also just

891
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 5: confess something. Oh, when Mosha was doing the like fake

892
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 5: straight guy handslaps.

893
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: So you twice to me zero times, there was one

894
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: time where he went like that and I literally didn't

895
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: act fast.

896
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 5: Enough and then was over the way that I genuinely

897
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 5: felt taken taken in that was like, like.

898
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: Oh, I trust he picked favorites and it did not

899
00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: go unnoticed.

900
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 3: Well, maybe our next guest will also pick favorites, but

901
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,959
Speaker 3: the opposite way, so that, Oh my god, let's hope.

902
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 1: So you guys, anyway, I feel like I just sounded

903
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: like Busy Phillips.

904
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: You guys, which would be an honor to sound like Busy.

905
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: That's right, or I or like Rachel Zoe. Okay, I'm

906
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: dad about this next guest.

907
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 3: I'm doad.

908
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 8: I die, I die, I die way out at the

909
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 8: mac Ala in the bathroom, I was literally dad, and

910
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 8: now I'm trying to I'm not talking about my mouth anyway.

911
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: So she is quite literally one of the smartest women alive.

912
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 3: I want to say, that's what they're that's what they're

913
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 3: telling me.

914
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 1: That is what I think. She was voted smartest woman alive.

915
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: She is an absolute legend and an icon. She has

916
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 1: a memoir alcoholed in the form of a question, look

917
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: at us promoting worse. I'm literally so good at promoting.

918
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: Please give it up for Amy Schneider.

919
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 7: Yes, I am the I am the smartest woman alive.

920
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 7: That's true.

921
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, congrats on that, by the.

922
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, because like definitely, you know, knowing the capital of Lichtenstein,

923
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 7: That's that's what smart means. Like, yeah, that's that's why

924
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 7: I am.

925
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: Is the capital of linkedn' signed Lincoln's sign? Or is

926
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: that just Luxembourg?

927
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 7: That's Luxembourg, classic classic trap.

928
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: That's a classic trap lit dudes. Oh of course, Well

929
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:36,439
Speaker 1: that was maybe my second guess.

930
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course it was.

931
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Amy, first of all, how's it going. Yeah, let's

932
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: start there. Let's start there.

933
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 7: Oh, dish, you're still asking people how things are going,

934
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 7: and I know, like the timeline of well, yeah, things

935
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 7: are going fantastic.

936
00:48:55,840 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: Perfect, I'm so glad. Yeah, but this is my new

937
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: my new character. Go ahead, no, please do it?

938
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 7: No, wow, yeah, no, things are going wonderful. I'm trans

939
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 7: I just got you know, this election just happened, and yeah,

940
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 7: this is wonderful. I can't even play college volleyball these days.

941
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: And we know, you know, people don't know that your

942
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 1: passion has always been college volleyball.

943
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 7: I know.

944
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: And you actually did Jeopardy because you were hoping to transition.

945
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 1: That's the real transition is from Jeopardy to college.

946
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,280
Speaker 7: Now that that's been forever taken away from me, apparently.

947
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: That is so sad. I'm so sorry. Yeah, so Amy,

948
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: m hm, did you bring a topic with you and

949
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: can you tell us what it is?

950
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 7: I mean, yes, and yes, okay.

951
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm amazing at my job.

952
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, that was great, well done. It was. It was

953
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 7: a struggle because I was like, at a certain point

954
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 7: dealing with the there's because there's the gay or straight spectrum,

955
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 7: and then there's also the CIS or trans spectrum.

956
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: Correct, right, because a very.

957
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 7: Cis thing to do is to divide things up into categories.

958
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 7: So I had to like work through that.

959
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: And then.

960
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 3: If there's one thing we love, it's putting something in

961
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 3: a box.

962
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: Right. But can I tell you something? Theorizing about categories

963
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:24,720
Speaker 1: is trans.

964
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, you got me, You got me on

965
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 7: that one.

966
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 3: Good job, yeah, yeah, but yeah, I mean.

967
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 7: I had a lot of different ideas, but like I

968
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 7: felt like the one that somehow felt most appropriate to

969
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 7: this venue is colonizing Mars.

970
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 3: Got it, colonizing Mark colonizing Mars?

971
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 5: And what do you you know, feel straight about that

972
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 5: off the bat, before we really get it into.

973
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 3: What it feels straight about it?

974
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 4: To me?

975
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 7: Is that like it is this idea that like, you know,

976
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 7: Elon Musk's specifically and a lot of other people have

977
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 7: this idea that's like we're just gonna go to Mars

978
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 7: and things will answers will happen, We'll figure out a

979
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 7: way to do things there. Everything's gonna work out just fine.

980
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh you know.

981
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 7: And I'm like, I'm trans like nothing works out. I

982
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 7: can't even put on an eyeliner, Like I.

983
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: Don't like, now you want me to do it in Mars? Right,

984
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: what's the gravity even like there? Yeah?

985
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 7: No, I mean, but it is just this like like

986
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 7: bullish confidence, yes that like, Okay, here's what we'll do.

987
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: We'll go to MA And I also think you're pointing

988
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: to the idea of having a big going big without

989
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 1: thinking of the consequences or without thinking of the implications.

990
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 1: It's like literally like doesn't that sound cool? And that's

991
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 1: reason enough to do it.

992
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 7: Right, exactly.

993
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a childishness.

994
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 3: The childish it's a childish just because everyone Quinn people

995
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: have to.

996
00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 1: Grow up and specifically boyishness. Yeah, yeah, there's something also.

997
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 5: You know when people like get a really big house

998
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,800
Speaker 5: but like have nothing to put in it, that is genius.

999
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: That is what Mars is to me. Yeah.

1000
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, where it's like it's like, yes, we could maybe

1001
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 5: get there, well I mean yes.

1002
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 3: Maybe even live there, but what are we gonna put there?

1003
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: Well?

1004
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:19,879
Speaker 7: I mean yeah, I mean exactly.

1005
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, you have three kitchen islands in

1006
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: your kitchen and it's.

1007
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 3: Literally how about you just clean your fucking room?

1008
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah.

1009
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 7: This is my thing about like like the Elon Musk

1010
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 7: of the world being like, oh, we need to be

1011
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 7: a multiplanetary society like even that like on the scale

1012
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,919
Speaker 7: of the galaxy. It's like ants being like, oh, we

1013
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 7: need to also colonize the kitchen as well as the bathroom.

1014
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 7: And now we're like, you know, doing it. No, we're

1015
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 7: still in this tiny little space. And you know what,

1016
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 7: I'll tell you what's on Mars nothing right, there is

1017
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 7: nothing there. But if you're you just assume that something's

1018
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 7: gonna turn up and be good for you. You're gonna

1019
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 7: be like, oh oh, turns out things worked out all

1020
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 7: right for me after all.

1021
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. There's also a way that thinking big, which is

1022
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: so privileged in straight spaces, is actually defense mechanism against

1023
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 1: not wanting to focus on the small. So it's like

1024
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: Elon Musk wants to go tomorrow. It's like call your son.

1025
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 3: Or call your door.

1026
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, question, Oh the context, okay, what is your question?

1027
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 3: What is your question? We always do this with our context, EVAs.

1028
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: Is the American tree straight? Oh, so we're just like.

1029
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 3: So we're just saying whatever we want.

1030
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something for our context. Eva, you

1031
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: sort of missed the boat on how this marked. But

1032
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 1: I but but okay, but here's but okay.

1033
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 7: But I we can relate that to I think this

1034
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 7: is really vold.

1035
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 1: And you're absolutely right, And now I'm and now I'm

1036
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: getting how you made the connection. It's like it's like, well,

1037
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: the American dream, of course, the American dream and also

1038
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: colonizing Mars both built on infinite growth. It's like you

1039
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: can you can do anything.

1040
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, well, and I mean this is the thing too,

1041
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:23,280
Speaker 7: Like again, the you know, the the trans thing, because

1042
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 7: like you know, as as a white trans woman, I

1043
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 7: spent so much of my life in straight land, you know,

1044
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 7: and I've lost my train of thought. Hold on, sorry, yeah,

1045
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 7: but it's like, yeah, these things that uh, you know,

1046
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 7: we we're all on the outcast. We get put into

1047
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 7: these places.

1048
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: Shit, no, no, look, this is no. I love this.

1049
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 5: And we think, you know, we think your life is

1050
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 5: so glamorous as the smartest woman on earth. But there

1051
00:54:58,040 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 5: actually comes with side effects.

1052
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes you can have too many sometimes you can

1053
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: have too many thoughts.

1054
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and people don't talk about that.

1055
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: They only talk that's right.

1056
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't have to do many thoughts right now.

1057
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 7: But what it is like things start out like the

1058
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 7: tech industry, yeah, the American Dream America itself. All the

1059
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:23,359
Speaker 7: outcasts end up out there, and all the outcasts are

1060
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 7: a combination of gays, straights, queers, and also assholes. Sure, right,

1061
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 7: And then what happens is, as it gets more powerful,

1062
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,400
Speaker 7: all the gays, straits and queers get filtered out and

1063
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 7: you're left with just the assholes at the top. And

1064
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 7: that's what's happening with the tech industry right now, is

1065
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 7: that we've just we're just left with the assholes.

1066
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: But here's my question for you. You're saying, initially America was

1067
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: outcasts and then the assholes rose to the top. Are

1068
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 1: the people going to Mars? Is the issue with Mars

1069
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: is that it's not the outcast going there? Oh my god. Okay, hold,

1070
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:10,000
Speaker 1: So the issue with colonizing Mars is that it's not

1071
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: people that are like, I'm so weird, they'll only get

1072
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: me in Mars. It's not that it's actually right, because

1073
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: it's because it's not escaping to a safe space. It's

1074
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: literally colonizing and you playing yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

1075
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah no, because it's like because I chose this

1076
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 7: because I used to I read like the Kim Stanley

1077
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 7: Robinson Mars trilogy and I loved that stuff.

1078
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah mm hmm yeah.

1079
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 7: And it's like it used to be so promising, just

1080
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 7: like computers used to be so promising that you know,

1081
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 7: the Internet used to be so gay and it has

1082
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 7: gotten so straight because like that's what happens, you know,

1083
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 7: we we've come along, all us weirdos have come out

1084
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 7: and done these new weird things, and then a bunch

1085
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 7: of other It turns out some of us were just

1086
00:56:56,360 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 7: like not weirdos. We're just like ass with no constraints

1087
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 7: that are like Elon Musk or Mark Zuckerberg and just

1088
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 7: want to like bang shit up and do shit.

1089
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: What do you think appeals? So the assholds are the

1090
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 1: ones planning to go to Mars?

1091
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1092
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: Fine, But then there are normal people who are excited

1093
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: by that proposition. What's going on psychologically there? Would you say?

1094
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:26,439
Speaker 7: Well, I mean we all, we all wish we could

1095
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Speaker 7: go to Mars. We all wish to Mars, right, we

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Speaker 7: all wish we could have a clean slate and a

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Speaker 7: fresh start.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, Yeah, settle down to the nice alien Sure yeah, sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I moved to Mars. It's just called La.

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Speaker 1: Here's a question. Women are from Mars, men are from Venus.

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Speaker 1: Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus.

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Speaker 3: Who's from where? Who does what?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Was that context eva?

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Speaker 5: But the spirit took over? That's our deputy. Yes, the

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00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 5: context EVA has security.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, got I gotta got it. Yeah okay.

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Speaker 1: So here's my question for you. Colonizing Mars is straight. However,

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00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: sci fi and space exploration in an ideal world should

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Speaker 1: be queer, right, So what is the solution like, how

1110
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:29,919
Speaker 1: do we reclaim the idea of you know, being being

1111
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 1: enraptured by infinity? This is such a tough question now,

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00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: I think it's pretty easy answer.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I mean, I don't know. I feel like this

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00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 7: is another like CIS and trance thing, Like you think

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00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 7: there's an answer like no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: Period like yeah no, But it's like that, it is.

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00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 7: It is just an eternal cycle, right, Like there's always

1118
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 7: going to be like a bunch of us going out,

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00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 7: Like if you don't fit into society, you go out

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Speaker 7: and find new societies that you might fit into, and

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00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 7: that's queer and that's cool and that's great. Also, if

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00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 7: you don't fit into society, maybe you're just a terrible person.

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Speaker 7: You get like cast out and if yeah, I don't

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Speaker 7: know consequences. I feel is like the main issue here.

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Speaker 5: You know what I think would really powerfully LGBTQ plus

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00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 5: getting stuck in space.

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00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: Haven't you seen that Matt Damon movie He had to

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Speaker 1: piss on the potatoes And what's not LGBTQ plus about that?

1129
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: It is a part of kink positive piss play. I

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00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 1: guess I'm a potato pick. He's a potato big he's

1132
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 1: doing intrimidtent fasting. He has a very strict diet.

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Speaker 3: I think there's something about the one the wanting when

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00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 3: you're like, I'm mostly thinking of the film Gravity, but

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00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 3: when you are Sandra Bullock and you are stuck in space,

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00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 3: you're LGBTQ plus Oh you mean stuck literally like you're like,

1137
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 3: how the hell am I gonna get hold?

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00:59:59,080 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 7: Yeah?

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00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: By the way, if you or in orbit, of course

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01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: that's queer. But if you're on Mars, that's straight.

1141
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like you're buying property and it's like, no, no,

1142
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 3: the most queer you can be a Sandra Bullock just

1143
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 3: being like whoa. When I saw that, I was like,

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Speaker 3: I feel so seeen.

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01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah.

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01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 3: Well and and also while we're on space, yeah, I mean,

1147
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:22,880
Speaker 3: have we already discussed whatever.

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01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: Pluto's up to? Wait, you're the person asks what the

1149
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: hell is Pluto up to?

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01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 7: I mean, it is a big chunk of rocks that

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01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 7: is out there in the universe.

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01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 3: Again, it's a chunk of multiple rocks. Yeah, I was going,

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01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 3: see this.

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01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 7: Is this is again the cis trans thing, because it's like,

1155
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 7: oh cares, whether.

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Speaker 1: Is okay?

1157
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 7: I see what you're saying.

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01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: Yes, Pluto is just Pluto is just Pluto. I'm really

1159
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: understanding what's going on here, which is I think it

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Speaker 1: is Mars exists. Okay, let's start there. It is, it

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01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: is cis to try to bring it to human terms. Yeah,

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01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: would you say that's accurate? Yeah, yeah, it was like,

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01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: oh that's nice. It's like, okay Mars. Right.

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Speaker 5: You know what's another LGBT thing would be to go

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01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 5: to Mars and instantly die because you you met it

1166
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 5: where it's at, that's right, said, I see you, thank you,

1167
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 5: I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's like your fault. What are humans do here?

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01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: Oh not not? Okay? Right? See all right?

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Speaker 7: Which is also yeah, I mean where this comes into

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Speaker 7: as my as a lesbian like that, like factors in

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Speaker 7: as well. I was thinking with your like divorce and uh,

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01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 7: because divorce is the lesbianis thing of all? Well of course, yes,

1174
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 7: oh we both hate each other. Let's drag this out

1175
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 7: for years. Yeah. I think the straight thing is having

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01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 7: a mistress. I think that's the yes, that is, of.

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Speaker 1: Course, is having a miss and les I mean lesbian

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01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 1: sometimes get divorced without even getting married first.

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01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, that is real truth.

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01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's that's actually an even bigger form of intimacy.

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01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes on a first date they'll be like, I want

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01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: to get divorced.

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01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 3: God, I wish we could go into a big legal battle.

1184
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1185
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 7: Well so so you see my grinder profile.

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01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm feeling like I understand.

1187
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I actually, but guess what is understanding? Sis?

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01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 3: No, okay, that would be such a funny shape, like no, sweetie,

1189
01:02:40,200 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 3: oh sweetheart, oh sweetie, No, you.

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Speaker 1: Happened out area for a long time. Simple. Okay, Well

1191
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 1: give it up for Amy Schneider. Everybody give it up again?

1192
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 3: From up Chasha.

1193
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: Wow wow wow.

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01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:07,520
Speaker 7: Wow wow?

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01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 4: Can I do two quick updates?

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01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 9: Oh?

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01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: Please please?

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01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 4: I didn't give my final My final takeaway from intimacy

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Speaker 4: works right, And I thought about in the story, and

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01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 4: there is a very cute by man in the audience

1201
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 4: who has DMed me and is down to do the

1202
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:28,439
Speaker 4: dating game tomorrow. So I feel like that's huge. It

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01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 4: was it's it couldn't be huger.

1204
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and what's his name? Because he actually should get

1205
01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: kicked out.

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Speaker 5: You're not suposed to be on your phone. Be here

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01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 5: with us, please, Mosha's not going anywhere.

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01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 4: But okay, my my takeaway that I forgot to say

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01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 4: My real takeaway, because I was so busy trying to

1210
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 4: get this this by male representation, which thank you for participating,

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01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 4: is is that that when you're in a relationship and

1212
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 4: when you're it comes back to, even with what everybody's

1213
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 4: been saying about how hellish the world is, when you relationship,

1214
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 4: not just with another person, but with this hellish world

1215
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 4: it is, you get into this grind of life where

1216
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 4: negativity is the only thing that will raise you out

1217
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 4: of your stupor in order to focus on actually engaging.

1218
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 4: That's why we go to therapy because we're so miserable.

1219
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 4: That's why you go to an intimacy workshock because you've

1220
01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 4: been fighting so much with your partner. And my big

1221
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 4: takeaway was we never take a pause to do something

1222
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 4: intentionally positive. And that was like a giant shift in

1223
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 4: my relationship and in my relationship with the world. And

1224
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Speaker 4: I think as you go to your fiance, fiance, fiance

1225
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 4: and everybody, even if you're even if you're even if

1226
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 4: you're single, taking time in the in your life to

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01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 4: say I'm going to set a date to do something

1228
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 4: that is infused with positivity, it was. It's a huge

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Speaker 4: shift and it's changed my relationship and it can change

1230
01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 4: your life too, and it is the straightest thing you

1231
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 4: can do.

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Speaker 5: Wow, that's nice to say you, but motion we are

1233
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 5: an anti gratitude podcast.

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Speaker 4: I am on a lot of MDMA right now. I

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01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 4: should have said that for context.

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Speaker 1: Mosha, you would love the album Radical Optimism by Dua Lipa.

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01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 3: It's quite a rich text when you really dive into it.

1238
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 1: Well, I think it might be time to do our

1239
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: first segment. I think it is, guess.

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Speaker 5: Our first segment is called straight Shooters, and in this segment,

1241
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 5: we're going to ask you a series of rapid fire

1242
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 5: questions basically this thing or this other thing, to gauge

1243
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 5: your familiarity with and complicity in straight culture. The only

1244
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 5: rule is you can't ask a single follow up question

1245
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 5: or we will be so so upset.

1246
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:46,439
Speaker 1: Go ahead, got it? Yes? Okay, squad AI or gay

1247
01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: guy Gay guy.

1248
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 4: AI is a gay guy If you ask enough questions.

1249
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: That's t actually spilled. Okay. Rejecting the TikTok ban or

1250
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: premiering at Can, premiering it can.

1251
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we're bout forty five, it's going to

1252
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 4: be premiering a can has nothing for us?

1253
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 5: Okay, being lost in music or getting slashed in Munich.

1254
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm a Jew, so I'm gonna go ahead and not

1255
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: do Munich.

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01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 7: Oh. I was gonna say being slashed in Munich. But

1257
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 7: it's just a dream. I haven't achieved it yet.

1258
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: The first step is dreaming. First step is dreaming. First

1259
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: at Munich, next at Mars. Okay, ethical polyamory or congressional gerrymandering.

1260
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 7: Whoa, I hate them both so much. Yeah, I guess

1261
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 7: ethic apology.

1262
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 1: They're both really bad, tough and actually rampant in this state.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna go with unethical polyamories.

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01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: You're saying neither, Oh.

1265
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 7: No, I will settle on ethical polyamory.

1266
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: I have everyone always does.

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01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 7: I have been to an orgy. I get it. I know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the most unexcited anyone who has ever been to

1269
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: sound Everybody here, this is San Francisco.

1270
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 7: Everybody here has been to a boring orgy.

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01:07:33,040 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: And the only person who hasn't is that bye boy

1272
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:36,560
Speaker 1: that's about to be on one tomorrow.

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01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Donald Trump's inauguration or Forrest Gumps jog through the nation.

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01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 7: Of forest Gumps jog through the nation.

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01:07:56,840 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go with the I just really respect intellectual fortitude,

1276
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna go with Forrest Gump as well.

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Speaker 1: Control all delete or lather rinse repeat, Oh, lather rinse repeat.

1278
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 4: Control all delete, because it wouldn't it be nice to

1279
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 4: control all delete? A lot of things that have happened recently.

1280
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 5: Okay, sex positivity or next, you're not for me?

1281
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 7: Uh? Sex positivity? Hey, area, come on, I.

1282
01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 4: Think we've established that I am ashamed of my own sexuality,

1283
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 4: so it's going to be next, not for me?

1284
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: And finally, the Princess Bride done.

1285
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 4: Princess Bride?

1286
01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agree?

1287
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 7: Second, second, yeah, but read it just in care.

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01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:49,759
Speaker 1: The Christ he dies.

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01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 7: That does not affect mine, okay, and I.

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Speaker 1: Do not think that means what you think it means. Okay, Wow,

1291
01:09:02,720 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm excuse me as you will. It's a line from

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01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 1: the movie The Princess. Thank you. Yes, yes, yes, I

1293
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: was so scared. You're about to be a shooter. You

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01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:17,200
Speaker 1: think that's how it happens. They just burst into a

1295
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:20,560
Speaker 1: high school, as you.

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Speaker 3: That was so scary.

1297
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:27,720
Speaker 1: I was like, what is this code? I'm by Wait,

1298
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:30,879
Speaker 1: you think that school shooters are ren fair cause players?

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01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 3: I mean, you have to admit if they're shooting at school,

1300
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 3: there's gonna be some drama.

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Speaker 1: That's the one thing about school shooters. They are addicted

1302
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: to the drama. Literally. Yeah.

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01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 4: No.

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01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 7: My younger brother was like, like goth the emo kid

1305
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 7: when column mine happened, and he's like, I am just

1306
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,959
Speaker 7: being goth and dramatic. I'm not about to kill everyone.

1307
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:57,160
Speaker 7: But everyone's like, oh, you draw weird pictures your notebook

1308
01:09:57,160 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 7: and he was so devastated.

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Speaker 5: God, your your brother literally being like, I'm not dramatic. Yeah,

1310
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 5: I don't know what everyone's saying.

1311
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: I'm dramatic.

1312
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Well that was an incredible performance. I think

1313
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:11,679
Speaker 5: we read our guest on scale of one twent thousand dollars,

1314
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 5: and I think you.

1315
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 3: Both hit nine eighty eight.

1316
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: I agree with it. All right, Okay, we have to

1317
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: keep things moving, you guys, because it's literally three am

1318
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,840
Speaker 1: my time. So our final segment is a second we

1319
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 1: like to do at all our live shows called issue

1320
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: there Yet, and I will explain the story behind it

1321
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: and then and then we'll get to it. So our

1322
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: dear friend, past guests of the podcast, Celesyim. Many many

1323
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 1: years ago, many many years ago, they were at the

1324
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,919
Speaker 1: Toronto International Film Festival, tiff if you're in the industry,

1325
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 1: And they were at the premiere of the Grace Jones documentary,

1326
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 1: and then afterwards there was a talk back with a

1327
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 1: director and the director was saying something along the lines of,

1328
01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 1: you know, they don't make icons like Grace Jones anymore.

1329
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 1: There's no icons anymore. And someone in the audience said,

1330
01:10:55,960 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 1: what about Janelle Manet and the director said, she's not

1331
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 1: there yet. She's not there now. We've never commented on

1332
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: whether or not we agree on that, and we never would,

1333
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: especially in San Francisco, not to be a bitch, but

1334
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 1: from that story, the game issue there yet was born.

1335
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 1: It's quite simple. We're gonna show you a series of people, places, things,

1336
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,839
Speaker 1: and we're gonna basically all have a really open and honest,

1337
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 1: intimacy building conversation and they're gonna be you know, they're

1338
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:32,519
Speaker 1: gonna be barrier themed. I would say, well, of course.

1339
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: So first lide San Francisco legend. N Is she there yet?

1340
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: She's so close, you guys, she's so close. One wrong step,

1341
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: you know, she just took one out step. What do

1342
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 1: you think. No, I've met her. You've met her? Oh yeah,

1343
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: I sworn to secrecy.

1344
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 4: I never met her, but I met her husband late

1345
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 4: one night at their house.

1346
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 1: Ah, that was me. That was after the intimacy workshop.

1347
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 5: That's all right, You're like, I have all this negativity.

1348
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 5: I need to take it out of someone.

1349
01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna say. I mean, I hate to say.

1350
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 1: You know, she looks so happy in that photograph, which

1351
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: was taken many months ago. I am gonna it seems

1352
01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:26,720
Speaker 1: like the consensus is, no, she's not there yet. I

1353
01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: got next line, next line. San Francisco legend Gavin seen

1354
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: here on the cover of the knob Hill Gazette.

1355
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:40,920
Speaker 4: Now he is there. I mean, I can't believe. I

1356
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 4: cannot get over the fact that he used to date

1357
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 4: Kimberly Gilfoil and that Donald Trump Junior now dates Kimberly

1358
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 4: Gilfoyle and they look like the same guy. But if

1359
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:58,559
Speaker 4: one of them went to Slytherin. I completely agree with.

1360
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 1: You, Mosha. My political views is I think he is.

1361
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: I mean, that is the face of someone who is there. Well,

1362
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:06,639
Speaker 1: it's like, I even think.

1363
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 3: The way that he starts a conversation implies how there

1364
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:11,680
Speaker 3: he is.

1365
01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 4: He's there, and by there we mean in the vagina

1366
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 4: of his best friend's wife, Like that's how there he is.

1367
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I guess you know, he is there

1368
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 7: as the avatar of like he's you know, Nancy Pelosi

1369
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 7: is over. He is the next generation of democratic failure.

1370
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 3: He is if Nancy Pelosi took the substance.

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01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 1: He Okay, all right, he's there.

1372
01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 4: He's there as an Adam Michelin star restaurant during a pandemic.

1373
01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 1: Alright, is she there yet? So he unveiled this new version.

1374
01:13:53,400 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 1: It hasn't been beta tested yet. What do we think?

1375
01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,639
Speaker 4: No, no, I pick you guys are misunderstanding the question.

1376
01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:09,839
Speaker 1: It's not Are they good? Yeah? No, no, have they arrived?

1377
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 4: And he's definitely arrived version Absolutely, Darth Zuckerberg is among us.

1378
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: Like he's so.

1379
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 4: I mean, we should have seen it coming when he

1380
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 4: displaced all people in Maui for his mansion.

1381
01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:23,719
Speaker 1: He's there.

1382
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 7: I'm gonna, you know, respectfully disagree because here's the thing,

1383
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 7: Like he's trying to do this whole thing, but like, dude,

1384
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 7: look at your face, look at your hair. This is

1385
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 7: not a thing you can become.

1386
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 1: Right, It's just not possible. I think you're so right.

1387
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 5: I think there's something so like this is the first

1388
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:46,640
Speaker 5: day after Christmas break and he's wearing all his new clothes.

1389
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 3: And it's like you have to slowly roll these things.

1390
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:53,759
Speaker 1: Out totally, yeah, altely.

1391
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 5: And it's like almost implies like in a year he'll

1392
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:58,639
Speaker 5: be something completely different, like next year he's going emo,

1393
01:14:58,800 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 5: Like we don't know.

1394
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 4: He definitely went to like a beta male workshop at

1395
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:05,720
Speaker 4: the same place I went with the same harmonium guy.

1396
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 4: That's like you can be alpha brot.

1397
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys took completely different things out of that.

1398
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:17,719
Speaker 3: So so sorry, are you guys mad at George?

1399
01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: Okay? Next line? Micro climate? Is she there yet?

1400
01:15:27,560 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 7: I mean she has been there in the main area, Yeah,

1401
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:35,599
Speaker 7: but she maybe micro climates this whole time I do, I.

1402
01:15:35,520 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: Mean micro cli. It's so it's sort of like she's there,

1403
01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:39,760
Speaker 1: she's here, Where is she? It's a little bit like

1404
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,719
Speaker 1: I think micro climates are like an alt girl. Yeah

1405
01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: they're Caroline Polochech.

1406
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:49,639
Speaker 3: But even like yeah, maybe, yeah, what do you think

1407
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 3: I do?

1408
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: I do not know what a micro climate is. As

1409
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,679
Speaker 1: a very native to this day, I we didn't talk

1410
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: about things like that back then. Was a gentrifiers term.

1411
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 1: You're absolutely right.

1412
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:08,719
Speaker 7: It did suddenly because this is this is where revealed

1413
01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:11,360
Speaker 7: Mosha is the actual native. I'm the one that only

1414
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:13,840
Speaker 7: moved here in two thousand and nine. Mosha doesn't know

1415
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 7: what a microclimate is, the same way that fish don't

1416
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 7: know what water is. Like, that's just what it is

1417
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 7: out here.

1418
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, interesting, huh so sort of No, everyone's saying no,

1419
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 5: I guess what I'm really saying is what is a

1420
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 5: micro climate?

1421
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 3: Do you all want to say it?

1422
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:32,040
Speaker 1: In Unison?

1423
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 5: Whenever I come to this damn town, everyone's like, well,

1424
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:36,400
Speaker 5: it's because of the microclimb.

1425
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 4: Well, I do actually think it is kind of a

1426
01:16:38,840 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 4: gentrifiers term because similarly to what happened to Oakland, where

1427
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 4: all of a sudden they were creating out of whole

1428
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 4: cloth neighborhoods I'd never heard of before, Like this here

1429
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:51,560
Speaker 4: is not Billy. Will you not heard of that neighborhood?

1430
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:54,800
Speaker 4: This is also phenomenon this maybe this was just rain

1431
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 4: when I was growing.

1432
01:16:55,640 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: Up totally, And I actually think it goes back to

1433
01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:01,479
Speaker 1: your point back categorization, like cutting up a city into

1434
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 1: smaller and smaller and smaller pieces is is heteroizing it.

1435
01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 7: Well, I don't know, I mean, I just like I remember,

1436
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:11,640
Speaker 7: like having lived out here for a while flying to

1437
01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 7: New York, staying at a place that was in like

1438
01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 7: Brooklyn or Queens or something, and being like, well, I'm

1439
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 7: going to Manhattan tomorrow and checking my weather app and

1440
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,560
Speaker 7: being like, no, what's the weather in Manhattan going to

1441
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 7: be like tomorrow? And then realizing, oh, no, this isn't

1442
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:26,679
Speaker 7: the Bay Area. It's just going to be the same

1443
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:30,680
Speaker 7: weather kind of everywhere all around, whereas here, like you

1444
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 7: had to you had to do that. So that's that's microclimates.

1445
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 1: It sounds like it sounds like she's on her way.

1446
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 3: She's still finding her voice.

1447
01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 1: She's finding her voice next time. Micro fucking. I just

1448
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 1: want to say I made this. I just thought. I

1449
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 1: just thought Jared Leto like has the vibe of my

1450
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 1: I've never read anything about it.

1451
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 4: I thought that was Russell brand Man, and she's there.

1452
01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:06,800
Speaker 4: Russell's there in the arms of Christ. He's doing amazing micro.

1453
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, how do you think I did so

1454
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:09,440
Speaker 7: well on Jeopardy?

1455
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:18,800
Speaker 3: Did they drug test you for Jeopardy? No, that's an

1456
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 3: amazing detail. Actually, yeah, were you high?

1457
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 4: For real?

1458
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 3: Will they take away the money? If you say yes, I.

1459
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:32,680
Speaker 7: I spent it, So I hope not not. In my

1460
01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 7: original run, but maybe for some of the later tournaments

1461
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 7: maybe a little bit.

1462
01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well now you're a star, there's more pressure. Yeah,

1463
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:51,519
Speaker 1: you're like, you're like, what is anything that's good? Thanks? Okay?

1464
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:55,720
Speaker 1: So yes, so yes, all right. Next there, next line, microaggressions.

1465
01:18:59,000 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 4: I think she's gone.

1466
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,480
Speaker 1: I think she's was there five years.

1467
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 4: I think we're post to microaggression, microroggressions.

1468
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 7: Nobody needs to bother with them anymore. Just aggressions, aggression.

1469
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 3: Soon to be four white people being like, we're post microaggression.

1470
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:25,000
Speaker 1: Damn, they like don't matter anymore. Man, Yeah, but we

1471
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:25,720
Speaker 1: kind of ate with that.

1472
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:34,719
Speaker 9: Next live, next line, Okay, Well, Apple watches does bring

1473
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 9: us back to my hobby of surfing, of.

1474
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 4: Course, because Tesla finally has integration with surf Line finally,

1475
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 4: and and I can and I can open it, and

1476
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:48,920
Speaker 4: I do drive a Tesla because I support what the

1477
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 4: CEO does politically needless to say, and so I it's

1478
01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 4: very for me personally in my micro climate.

1479
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:04,480
Speaker 3: She's the there Wow, any thoughts.

1480
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 7: I mean to me? No, Like, I mean, that's my

1481
01:20:08,200 --> 01:20:11,639
Speaker 7: own perspective. Every time I see somebody like do something

1482
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 7: with their Apple Watch, I'm always surprised I agree.

1483
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 1: I agree.

1484
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 7: Oh whenever, oh, there's still out there's still out there.

1485
01:20:18,200 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 5: Whenever I see an Apple watch, like I get filled

1486
01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 5: with like a sadness, like I feel like I'm watching

1487
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:26,799
Speaker 5: like a space shuttle not quite take off, because.

1488
01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 3: There's something so like, oh, you almost have us.

1489
01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't.

1490
01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 4: And I don't mean to make this political, but for

1491
01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:35,639
Speaker 4: you to even mention space shuttles not taking off after

1492
01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:40,200
Speaker 4: I mentioned my CEO, I just just that was a

1493
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:41,520
Speaker 4: bit of a microaggression.

1494
01:20:43,120 --> 01:20:45,120
Speaker 3: No, thank you for calling me, and I appreciated it.

1495
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:47,639
Speaker 1: And this is now. Microaggressions are only towards white man.

1496
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 3: Okay, ox next, liidei pants?

1497
01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 1: Is she there?

1498
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:59,400
Speaker 3: You? Who has them?

1499
01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:04,720
Speaker 1: Who has who has? Where is that my sexual guy?

1500
01:21:05,320 --> 01:21:06,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure all his closed are high tech?

1501
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 3: Oh you know they have little events everywhere.

1502
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 1: Bisexuals love wearables.

1503
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 3: Publish that.

1504
01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: Publish that in the San Francisco Chronicle. What do we think?

1505
01:21:22,680 --> 01:21:24,719
Speaker 4: I'm sure they're they're sure they're there there.

1506
01:21:24,760 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 1: Wow, I guess they're on top of a bike.

1507
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, oh I think so, they're they're both.

1508
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:31,200
Speaker 1: They're they're great.

1509
01:21:31,000 --> 01:21:33,879
Speaker 7: Because it's like it's like a day to night outfit.

1510
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 7: They're like both pre and post apocalypse. Ready, Oh, I love.

1511
01:21:38,120 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 1: That they what I am not pre or post sex

1512
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 1: Ready get them.

1513
01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 4: What I have enjoyed about men's fashion in the last

1514
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:49,599
Speaker 4: ten years is that it is shifted from structure to comfort.

1515
01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:52,240
Speaker 4: And I feel like I spent a decade suffering in

1516
01:21:52,280 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 4: red wings and structured genes, no offense at all. But

1517
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 4: now there are events. Now there are there's wind blowing

1518
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 4: through it. She is there.

1519
01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, she's there. Next line, hate Ashbury hippies. Are

1520
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 1: they gonna make a comeback?

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Speaker 7: I mean, hello, hello, Yeah, they are in Oakland.

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Speaker 1: Right, They're They're just not in the hate. Yeah. I saw.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if this answers your question, but I

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01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,760
Speaker 4: saw one of the craziest street fights I've ever seen

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Speaker 4: in my life on Hate.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 4: There, it was all the It was the kids that

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01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 4: lived in there used to be a housing project at

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01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:43,440
Speaker 4: the bottom of Hate and it was them, those teenagers

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01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 4: versus the like like Hemp, homeless, you know, and literally

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01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:53,440
Speaker 4: the wizards were throwing staff they were fighting with staffs,

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01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 4: and they were throwing quarts at the people. They I'm

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01:22:57,040 --> 01:23:01,679
Speaker 4: not joking, like there was there was Hemp weponry and honestly,

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01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 4: the hippies won that afternoon. I'd never seen anything like

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01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 4: it in my life. And it was a bit of

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01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 4: a of a microdose where they are and they're.

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01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:16,400
Speaker 1: Out for blood all next line public issue there.

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01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:21,240
Speaker 7: If she was I would be nude right now.

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01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:24,639
Speaker 1: That's yeah, what do you think?

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Speaker 4: I don't mind public nudity. But I did have a

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01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 4: friend staying with me recently. We went surfing and he

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01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:33,920
Speaker 4: doesn't wear underwear, and we were and we were getting

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01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:38,400
Speaker 4: changed and he and he changed very boldly with like

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01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 4: children about and I was like, you're allowed to not

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01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 4: wear underwear and be that guy, but not you can't

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01:23:44,320 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 4: force everybody to be that guy with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's where it gets really complicated.

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01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:51,680
Speaker 4: Huh.

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01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 1: You're sort of one of these like you're like, no,

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01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:55,919
Speaker 1: I can't get Pride.

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01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:00,000
Speaker 3: You're like, surfers are grooming our children.

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Speaker 1: There children out there.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm a no king.

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Speaker 1: Christian might be okay with me watching gate board, but

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01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 1: he's not okay with someone whipping their cock out on

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Speaker 1: the beach.

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Speaker 4: I'm a no kink at Pride because I work for

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01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:13,160
Speaker 4: Pepsi and we're sponsoring.

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Speaker 1: Wow, and that, you know, brings us to our final segment, thank.

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Speaker 5: You Pepsi, Yeah, where everyone actually says thank you Pepsi one,

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Speaker 5: two three, thank you, You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any final thoughts about public nudy?

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Speaker 5: Well, I I guess I just wanted to say. Sometimes

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01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,799
Speaker 5: I think I'm so chill when it comes to public nudity,

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01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 5: and then i see like a like a nude family

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01:24:41,320 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 5: and I'm like stop it.

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01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 3: Like when I met I was okay with public nudity.

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01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:47,759
Speaker 3: I met gay guys.

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01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:52,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and in my apartment yeah, like not like dad

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01:24:52,960 --> 01:24:59,120
Speaker 1: and son like stop. Yeah. All right, I think next

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Speaker 1: lade as the last. All right, Wow, wow that was

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