Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Happy super Bowl Rams. Welcome to the Give
Speaker 1: Them WHI La Podcast. I had an epic weekend.
Speaker 2: Did you hi, chess Hi everyone, It's me, Yes, I did.
Speaker 1: I mean it was the Super Bowl in LA. I
Speaker 1: went to the Sports Illustrated party, so fun. It was
Speaker 1: so fun, And you know, there there are times where
Speaker 1: I sit there and I commit to going out, and
Speaker 1: then as the time approaches, I usually say, fuck this,
Speaker 1: I'm not going, Like I'm just tired. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: because my mornings start early and the days are very long.
Speaker 1: So when seven o'clock rolls around and an event doesn't
Speaker 1: start until nine, I'm like, whoa, And you don't want
Speaker 1: to be the first person there. But it was a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. I wore this amazing dress by Oceaness.
Speaker 1: I saw it on Instagram, so fantastic. Jack Harlow performed.
Speaker 1: I learned who he was. I go learned who that was.
Speaker 2: Really, you didn't know.
Speaker 1: I'm a ninety year old. I know Tupac Shakur, right,
Speaker 1: I know Britney Spears, the classics, Beyonce, Yeah, Jack Harlow,
Speaker 1: not so much. Eminem I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So you had fun at the party. How late did
Speaker 3: you say I stayed.
Speaker 1: I got home at like two thirty.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's good. Yeah, when did you show up?
Speaker 1: We got there around ten. That's so good. I rallied
Speaker 1: my ass off.
Speaker 2: That's amazing.
Speaker 1: I got pictures, which I never do. I don't like
Speaker 1: taking pictures because I never feel like how I look
Speaker 1: in person translates into a photo, so I don't know
Speaker 1: which is lying to me, the camera or the mirror,
Speaker 1: like which one of you is the liar? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: so I posted main page Grid. I hardly ever do
Speaker 1: that with my fabulous dress, so good, fabulous Dior bag.
Speaker 1: But some people, and of course I fixate on the
Speaker 1: negative comments, and they weren't even very negative. It was
Speaker 1: more just like you look different, okay. And I think
Speaker 1: it could be many things, one of which is I
Speaker 1: have not been injected in like three years. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you're seeing my natural my more natural face, like a
Speaker 1: more watered down injection look.
Speaker 2: Right, three years though, that's like extremely watered down.
Speaker 1: Yes, No, it's a long time to not be injected.
Speaker 1: And also I am really really thin right now, and
Speaker 1: I can't say that I love it. In fact, I
Speaker 1: was talking to a friend yesterday and you know, she's
Speaker 1: on the other end where she's like battling her weight
Speaker 1: after a baby. And you know, I made a comment
Speaker 1: like I'm just really thin right now, and she was like,
Speaker 1: you can't say that to someone. You can't say that
Speaker 1: to me. And I had to open her eyes a bit.
Speaker 1: I was like, you have to validate what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that the stress that I've had since October.
Speaker 1: Because she said, well, then you should eat and it's
Speaker 1: not that simple, and I said, the stress I have
Speaker 1: had since October. It is hard for me to consume food.
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to vomit most of the time.
Speaker 1: I'm under a lot of stress. So validate what I'm
Speaker 1: saying when I say I'm feeling thin and I'm not
Speaker 1: feeling cute. I'm feeling like I look unhealthy. I need
Speaker 1: you to hear me when I say that. And I
Speaker 1: like open her eyes. She was like, I'm so glad
Speaker 1: that you said that, because I always think like I'm
Speaker 1: battling the other side of weight, so I never think
Speaker 1: about what someone like you is going through. So I
Speaker 1: think a lot of people when they say she looks different,
Speaker 1: it's like, well, i've lost about fifteen pounds since October. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not by choice. I don't love feeling this way, you know.
Speaker 1: I like women with curves and for me to like
Speaker 1: put a dress on or literally I can't wear any
Speaker 1: of my clothes. Nothing fits right now. It hangs on me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I look sickly. So yes, I'm
Speaker 1: going to try and eat as much as I'm trying
Speaker 1: to consume as many calories as I can. But it's
Speaker 1: hard when you feel like as quickly as it goes
Speaker 1: in your mouth, you want to throw it up because
Speaker 1: you're just like that much stress and anxiety.
Speaker 3: On you, right, And I mean number one, I don't
Speaker 3: believe you look sickly at all, But it doesn't matter
Speaker 3: what anyone else says.
Speaker 2: When you feel a certain way, that's how you feel.
Speaker 3: And that's but I think that it was good for
Speaker 3: you to open her eyes to that.
Speaker 2: And also, like, I get it, there's going to be trolls.
Speaker 3: It's so so dated to comment on someone's body negatively,
Speaker 3: no matter what.
Speaker 2: Get you know, like get with the times.
Speaker 3: It's so dated. It's so like, grow up. I want
Speaker 3: to say, everyone just grow up.
Speaker 2: Like life.
Speaker 1: And if someone posts a picture on their main page,
Speaker 1: they obviously felt like, they look really great. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: just let them know that they look really great and
Speaker 1: then talk behind their back to your little fucking friends,
Speaker 1: your other troll friends. Yeah, you know, yeah, like you
Speaker 1: don't need to comment on a picture. But for the
Speaker 1: most part, let's fixate on the good part. Right. A
Speaker 1: lot of people were so kind and it looked beautiful.
Speaker 2: The dress was bombed. The shoes, the shoes were great,
Speaker 2: you know, and like fingers crossed Zara.
Speaker 1: A whole vibe. I got them in Paris like years ago.
Speaker 1: Brittany has the same ones in white. She wore them
Speaker 1: I think for her wedding. Oh wow, in one of
Speaker 1: her like for one of her wedding change. Yeah, changes
Speaker 1: that she did. It was great. Yeah, the weekend was great.
Speaker 1: You went out for them?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Oh, you guys, I never go out. I went out.
Speaker 2: I went to a party on Yeah, on the super Bowl.
Speaker 2: It was important.
Speaker 3: I really wanted to see the halftime show on a
Speaker 3: big screen. I was like so excited for it and
Speaker 3: all the people performing, and so got invited to this
Speaker 3: party and I was like yeah, and my a friend
Speaker 3: of mine was going, and I.
Speaker 2: Was like, why didn't I just go?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It was it was.
Speaker 3: Great, and got to see the halftime show on a
Speaker 3: big screen, which was like everything, and then I left
Speaker 3: right after and was home by seven.
Speaker 1: That's what's up. I mean, we were home by eight thirty,
Speaker 1: so you were in good company, did you What do.
Speaker 2: You think about the halftime show?
Speaker 1: Don't even get me started. Yeah, my most favorite halftime
Speaker 1: show that I've ever seen. It's up there with when
Speaker 1: Beyonce performed. Really yeah, probably higher than that because you're
Speaker 1: taking someone like Mary J. Blige and throwing her in
Speaker 1: with like songs that I grew up listening to. And
Speaker 1: I don't think people people don't understand my obsession with
Speaker 1: like West Coast rap music. Yeah granted, like fifty is
Speaker 1: not from the West Coast, Eminem not from the West Coast,
Speaker 1: but they all are under Doctor Dre and he's the
Speaker 1: king of West Coast gangster rap. Like it's just what
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, So I I was going insane and
Speaker 1: I became obsessed with fifty cent when in the Club
Speaker 1: first came out and I was like, like he was
Speaker 1: my second crush next to Kobe Bryant. Really, Kobe Bryant
Speaker 1: was my first crush that I ever had. I was
Speaker 1: like borderline usessed like I created books about him and
Speaker 1: then researched him daily beautiful man, stunning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but when.
Speaker 1: Fifty showed up, I was like, holy shit, Yeah, that's why.
Speaker 1: When like the little beef happened, I was like so sad.
Speaker 1: But then I remember, like it had nothing to do
Speaker 1: with me, so I'm fine with it. I can, you know,
Speaker 1: reclaim my throwback up session with fifty cent, And so
Speaker 1: many people were like, why was he hanging upside down?
Speaker 1: I'm like, are you kidding me? Do you not remember
Speaker 1: when in the club came out and he was hanging
Speaker 1: and doing the little sit up.
Speaker 3: Oh that's why I'm just now And you said that.
Speaker 3: I was like, that was cool. He's coming in different.
Speaker 3: He was a surprise, don't.
Speaker 1: You remember in the freaking music video and he starts
Speaker 1: go shorty and he's freaking hanging upside down while the
Speaker 1: doctor's like making notes. It's fantastic, the whole thing, And
Speaker 1: then Mary J. Blige singing no More Drama for one
Speaker 1: of her songs. I'm like that was the anthem in
Speaker 1: junior high with any heartbreak I ever experienced.
Speaker 2: Looking like a queen, I think she's.
Speaker 1: She's grown and she is stunning. The body was on point.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and I think she's like fifty. She
Speaker 2: just looks insane.
Speaker 3: See it looks amazing like she and like moving like
Speaker 3: I'm thirty, and I'm like no, I couldn't move like that.
Speaker 3: I would be out of breath within ten seconds.
Speaker 2: It just was doing the most. It was amazing Ionic
Speaker 2: and Kendrick.
Speaker 3: Oh, I Hedrick Lamar and I was hoping he performed
Speaker 3: those two songs They're like my favorite, and I went off.
Speaker 3: I was in my own world, just like dancing and
Speaker 3: seeing and I was so happy to be at a
Speaker 3: party because everyone around me was doing the same.
Speaker 1: Right, Like in that during that halftime performance, you forgot
Speaker 1: that anyone was around you and you just were like
Speaker 1: transported to another world that you want to live in
Speaker 1: forever with the best music you've ever heard.
Speaker 3: Right, it was the best. Okay, wait, so what did
Speaker 3: you do for the super Bowl? You went out for
Speaker 3: the Sports Illustrated Right? And then so, by the way,
Speaker 3: so many people that I met that night or saw,
Speaker 3: they'd be like, what's your next stop tonight? Like where
Speaker 3: else are you going? I'm like, motherfucker, my next stop is.
Speaker 2: My beathtub, and my bed like.
Speaker 1: This is this is where it starts and ends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: going anywhere else. Yeah, we went to Jackson, Brits for
Speaker 1: the Super Bowl. Okay, fun we had kids, so it
Speaker 1: was such a vibe. Stossy cried because you know, Bo
Speaker 1: is a huge Rams fan, like beyond It's so funny
Speaker 1: to see Stossy because she's such like this chic bougie
Speaker 1: I don't want, you know, watch sports. She shows up
Speaker 1: into Rams gear, Hartford's got her little romper on with
Speaker 1: Rams patches on her denim, you know romper. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: when they won, she cried because she's the wife of
Speaker 1: a huge Rams fan, like a super fan.
Speaker 2: So she's not really a sports person, but for Bo,
Speaker 2: she's like there, die hard. Oh and was he at
Speaker 2: the part?
Speaker 1: He was at the game. He went to the game,
Speaker 1: got to go to the Super Bowl yes by himself.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: And he got there yesterday. I watched his story. It
Speaker 1: was like maybe eleven thirty in the morning, and I
Speaker 1: think he was thinking, like it'll be on and popping.
Speaker 1: No one was at the stadium, but he located a
Speaker 1: red lobster, which he was really happy about. It was
Speaker 1: just so much fun. Yeah, you know, and Ocean during
Speaker 1: the game like she likes what her mom. Yes, I
Speaker 1: mean when she watches the NBA or the NFL, any
Speaker 1: type of game like that, she is into it. Victated
Speaker 1: and you.
Speaker 2: Said she was dancing during the halftime show.
Speaker 1: Okay, full on fzzle face for those of you who
Speaker 1: don't know what a fizzle face is. I dated a
Speaker 1: guy in high school who was from the Bay. Mac
Speaker 1: dre invented the thistle face, and it's first I do
Speaker 1: like this put a look on my face like a
Speaker 1: smell some piss.
Speaker 2: I never, No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: So that's West Coast as well. And Ocean loves the
Speaker 1: good thistle face. So she had her thistle face on.
Speaker 1: She was in my arms and she had her arm
Speaker 1: in the air with her index finger out and she
Speaker 1: was bobbing her her arm and her head. And I
Speaker 1: was like, this is the proudest moment that I will
Speaker 1: ever my daughter. She's totally her mom's kid.
Speaker 2: Oh that's sweet.
Speaker 1: Yes, it was a super Bowl, like I remember, you know,
Speaker 1: people getting together, cocktails, lots of chips and dip right pizza.
Speaker 2: That's fun.
Speaker 3: So you didn't do you You don't have Super Bowl traditions,
Speaker 3: do you. I mean you said super Bowl like you remember,
Speaker 3: so you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, super Bowl Sunday was football season in general at
Speaker 1: my house was like everything yeah, okay, Like I got
Speaker 1: paid by people to like put their fantasy football leagues together,
Speaker 1: because it was like the NFL Draft is on. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: we know what we're doing tonight as a family. It's
Speaker 1: Thursday night football. We know what we're doing. Saturdays were
Speaker 1: dedicated to college foot like what any day of the
Speaker 1: week that had football involved, that was what we were doing.
Speaker 3: So wait, you got paid by people to put their
Speaker 3: draft teams together. Yeah, you were obviously good at it.
Speaker 3: How did you even get good at it? How did
Speaker 3: you go about picking those people?
Speaker 1: Well, because you know, I liked the man's that plays
Speaker 1: the sports, so it was like that was my recruiting
Speaker 1: process for I can did and then just in exchange,
Speaker 1: I got really good at the game because it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's the dude who's the wide receiver from LSU and
Speaker 1: he's gonna be top pick or whatever. So it was
Speaker 1: like but I know that because he fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you just got good at it, that's yeah.
Speaker 3: So you would watch like the drafts you were in
Speaker 3: it because I always know it what a draft meant,
Speaker 3: and you were just like watching drafts, which is kind
Speaker 3: of crazy.
Speaker 1: Yes, it was a family affair.
Speaker 2: Okay, so top.
Speaker 3: Best looking right now in your brain when I say this,
Speaker 3: who's the first guy that comes up best looking.
Speaker 1: For Odell Beckham? But I mean everyone will say that.
Speaker 1: And not only is he extremely good looking, his girl
Speaker 1: is even more good looking than he is. And they're
Speaker 1: about to have a baby, and I'm like, this baby
Speaker 1: is going to be like the most stunning thing really
Speaker 1: besides ocean that will ever walk the planet.
Speaker 3: I love it Odell Beckham. Wait, he was I'm so
Speaker 3: bad at sports, you guys. He was on one of
Speaker 3: the teams that played right the rams oj.
Speaker 2: The hair with the color.
Speaker 1: Oh, he's so cute, very good looking, like I said,
Speaker 1: at his girls even more fine than he is. And
Speaker 1: he got hurt though, oh during the game, so he
Speaker 1: was obviously not playing, but he scored the first touchdown
Speaker 1: of the game, so man, you know at least he
Speaker 1: got that. Yeah, it was just really cool. It was
Speaker 1: really cool to be here in La. We live here,
Speaker 1: the game was here, our home team takes the super Bowl,
Speaker 1: and it's like just everything was just in line.
Speaker 2: Everything was happened the right way correct, Like.
Speaker 1: That hasn't happened since the Ravens played the San Francisco
Speaker 1: forty nine ers. For me, because the Ravens I grew
Speaker 1: up watching them. I don't know why that was our
Speaker 1: team of choice, but it just was. Yeah, and it
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, my sister in lives from
Speaker 1: San Francisco. We're Baltimore Ravens fans. They're playing each other
Speaker 1: in the super Bowl. Beyonce's performing. This is the best
Speaker 1: day ever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fun.
Speaker 1: It's just a great day. Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was good energy all around. You could feel it
Speaker 3: in La you could feel it, could feel it. Just
Speaker 3: everyone was happy, even like even Cincinnati Bengals fans that
Speaker 3: were at the party I was at, they were just
Speaker 3: kind of like just loving it, just loving the game,
Speaker 3: even though they lost.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it wasn't a blowout. Yeah, you know, it
Speaker 1: wasn't you know? Yeah, Yeah, it was a fun weekend,
Speaker 1: which is always an easy I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: an easier loss to take if it's a blowout or
Speaker 1: that close where you're like, oh, if we would have
Speaker 1: just done that one thing differently, right, Either way, here
Speaker 1: we are it's Valentine's Day. I know this will air
Speaker 1: on Wednesday. It's my little brother's birthday.
Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Easton.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have him on the podcast today, so fun Naturally,
Speaker 1: I love this day because for me, it's never been
Speaker 1: like about a partner. It's just always been Easton's birthday.
Speaker 1: So I ride hard for this day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you?
Speaker 3: Because you said to me the other day, You're like,
Speaker 3: I think Valentine's Day is just about love, like focusing
Speaker 3: on the love you have for all the people in
Speaker 3: your life.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it, Like, I don't think
Speaker 1: it has to be about your significant other that should
Speaker 1: be celebrated daily and if it's just one day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you ever?
Speaker 3: Because I always, yeah, I always thought growing up it
Speaker 3: was more about that because in class you would hand
Speaker 3: out Valentine's to everyone, right, and then I would always
Speaker 3: get on Valentin's Day, I would wake up and there'd
Speaker 3: be like a little box of chocolates from my dad, right,
Speaker 3: and like a little rose, so cute. So I always
Speaker 3: just assumed it was all about love. I was never like, oh,
Speaker 3: it's a boyfriend girlfriend until I got more like high school.
Speaker 3: Did you ever do anything with like family or friends
Speaker 3: on Valentine's Day, that was a thing.
Speaker 1: It was just always Easton's Birthday.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, the part you know.
Speaker 1: So it was like I would take my boyfriend, yeah
Speaker 1: at the time when I like lived back home with
Speaker 1: me to Easton's birthday. But for me, it was like
Speaker 1: me and my boyfriend are banging it out like Jack Rabbits,
Speaker 1: no matter what day it is, you know, we're going
Speaker 1: through a package twelve condoms in a day, you know,
Speaker 1: like in high school, living my.
Speaker 3: Life, yes, living your best life high school. Laala is
Speaker 3: someone that I need to learn about one day because
Speaker 3: I have like these thoughts because I've seen pictures of
Speaker 3: you and you were like pretty honestly you look like it,
Speaker 3: like like you'd be an actress. Like I see your
Speaker 3: you in high school and I'm like, oh, that's like
Speaker 3: a that that girl would be in the movie like
Speaker 3: mean girls.
Speaker 4: Or like I was.
Speaker 1: No, I was a geek. I was a theater geek.
Speaker 2: Yeah you were, but yeah, were you a theater geek.
Speaker 1: I was not a popular kid, really, no, not at all.
Speaker 1: And maybe if you look at pictures, you're like you
Speaker 1: were cute, but like I didn't feel like a cute person.
Speaker 1: I was like bullied by most people. Really, it was
Speaker 1: like never invited to the cool parties with those little
Speaker 1: bitch cheerleaders.
Speaker 2: You know, when did you get well?
Speaker 3: I guess this has been asked before, but like the
Speaker 3: confidence and feeling cool wasn't not until you moved to La.
Speaker 1: No. I didn't get my confidence until I like entered
Speaker 1: Vanderbump rules and had to pretend like I was a
Speaker 1: confident person.
Speaker 3: Wild.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. And you had a boyfriend? Did you
Speaker 2: have same boyfriend all through out high school?
Speaker 1: I had my saying I had a he was my
Speaker 1: high school sweetheart, and we got together when I was seventeen,
Speaker 1: and then we broke up when I was twenty. Oh wow, yeah.
Speaker 2: So that's what's seventeen? Is that like junior, sophomore, junior.
Speaker 1: I was a junior and or was a senior.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's half of high school.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And we moved out to LA together. This was
Speaker 1: like the first time that we like we just had
Speaker 1: been in Utah for however many years and it was fun.
Speaker 1: And then I got word that he was like trying
Speaker 1: to get to this girl I introduced him to. She
Speaker 1: was like my new friend in La Okay, and I
Speaker 1: broke up with him over a text message and said
Speaker 1: I never want to see you again. He was like,
Speaker 1: I was just trying to be your friend, and I
Speaker 1: was like, no, no, I have the pit goodbye. He
Speaker 1: would show up to my apartment and I told the
Speaker 1: gate guy. I was like, do not let him in.
Speaker 1: Don't call me if he shows up. Wow. We right. Yeah.
Speaker 1: We never spoke again. I don't play with the cheating,
Speaker 1: you know, because I once the trust is gone for me, like,
Speaker 1: I have zero interest in keeping you in my life,
Speaker 1: Like yeah, gone. So we broke up when I was twenty,
Speaker 1: and then I found my true love. I found my
Speaker 1: true love. I will not name his name. I'll keep
Speaker 1: him protected. But he was fine as against. He was
Speaker 1: so fine.
Speaker 2: Way at twenty you found your true I think I.
Speaker 1: Was like twenty one after my high school boyfriend is
Speaker 1: when I started going into like okay, we're slipping into
Speaker 1: her face.
Speaker 2: Oh got it? Okay. I thought I'm not kidding.
Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna say found my true love,
Speaker 3: and then there's gonna be a beat, and then you're
Speaker 3: gonna say Harry.
Speaker 1: No, Harry. It became my true love after I got sober. Okay,
Speaker 1: so true love at twenty love that at twenty one
Speaker 1: because I could drink. Okay, I remember feeling cool because
Speaker 1: he'd asked me what I was doing and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm having cocktails at a bar and he was like
Speaker 1: not old enough to drink yet. He was like still
Speaker 1: in college, but.
Speaker 2: Okay, so younger you guys, I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure this out as you are, because
Speaker 3: I have no idea what talking about.
Speaker 2: And I love the mystery.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will never name his name, okay, ever, I
Speaker 1: will keep him totally protected. But he was fire and
Speaker 1: we had really fun sexy time.
Speaker 2: You had sexy time?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know this is spicy. It is spicy.
Speaker 1: I'm going to get back on get back on the horse,
Speaker 1: are you?
Speaker 2: I guess we get back on the dick.
Speaker 1: Are you well? That's good?
Speaker 3: All in due time, all in due time.
Speaker 1: Do you feel pressure?
Speaker 3: Do you feel like, man, I gotta get back at
Speaker 3: it or are you just like take my time out
Speaker 3: into time, take my time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like I'm solid right now. I'm having fun,
Speaker 1: just like texting really good looking men that are tall
Speaker 1: with killer jaw lines and tattoos, like, that's all I want,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Killer jaw lines and tattoos.
Speaker 1: That's solid. Bit needs.
Speaker 3: Love.
Speaker 1: Yes, So we'll take a quick break and we will
Speaker 1: be back with my little brother. I'm not so little anymore,
Speaker 1: brother Easton. We are back with my little bro.
Speaker 4: Heyy Easton, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the hair for a sec.
Speaker 4: It's going soon.
Speaker 1: So Easton has this hair right now, and it's like
Speaker 1: twelve dreadlocks put into one dreadlock and then rubber bands
Speaker 1: all through it. I'm actually kind of digging it. I
Speaker 1: think I'm getting used to it.
Speaker 5: Well, that's how I feel. And I feel like I
Speaker 5: haven't had my hair ever this long.
Speaker 1: No, it's never been that long.
Speaker 5: No, but it's getting to the point where I already
Speaker 5: can't run a come through it, right, and now matting
Speaker 5: is the biggest issue when I sleep. So now I
Speaker 5: got three dreads into one right, and now it's just
Speaker 5: not that fun and drying it in bathing is nightmare.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I like when you have your hair short and it's
Speaker 1: like cute and curly, because Eastern has the curliest que
Speaker 1: hair ever, and then you bleach it out, but then
Speaker 1: you have like a dark root.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so cute.
Speaker 5: I was about to say, because the last time I
Speaker 5: did it, it was like a two and bleached yes,
Speaker 5: and it was too eminem for me. Well, we have ears,
Speaker 5: and that's why I like my hair long right now
Speaker 5: cover they cover the ears right, and I don't fly
Speaker 5: away when it blows.
Speaker 1: I feel the same way, like I never wear my
Speaker 1: hair back because I'm so insecure about my ears. But
Speaker 1: I'm getting them pinned back. I have officially scheduled my
Speaker 1: date for I'm getting my boobs done and I'm getting
Speaker 1: my earspinned back. I've pulled the trigger. It's happening. Don't
Speaker 1: comment on my Instagram telling me I'm crazy because I'm
Speaker 1: doing it. I don't give up.
Speaker 4: If your ears look good, maybe I'll go in second.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I just feel like I've been insecure about
Speaker 1: them for so long, really just the one.
Speaker 5: Well mean, you've tout it since we were in little kid, Yeah,
Speaker 5: junior high.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what the doctor said to mom?
Speaker 1: What you should have had him pinned back when she
Speaker 1: was about five or six because the cartilage is softer.
Speaker 1: My mom's looking at him like, I could not have
Speaker 1: done that to my baby.
Speaker 4: Could you now seeing where Mom's coming from. Would you
Speaker 4: do it if that?
Speaker 1: If Ocean had big years, Oh, ocean has big years. Two,
Speaker 1: we're taking her ride in.
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding, but.
Speaker 1: Are you crazy? I look at Ocean and like the
Speaker 1: thought of her getting older and talking about any insecurity
Speaker 1: that she has. I'm gonna be like, you are the
Speaker 1: most beautiful thing I've ever seen. You're out of your mind.
Speaker 1: You don't need one thing fixed you. Perfection lives on your.
Speaker 5: Face, within you, and that's why people come at you
Speaker 5: on Instagram because that's what they think about you. About
Speaker 5: what Because you're perfect, you don't need it done, you
Speaker 5: want it done. Oh that is That's where I'm seeing Euston.
Speaker 1: How did the girls feel about this hair? Do you
Speaker 1: try to bag bitches? Is that what they say these days?
Speaker 4: I don't maga bitch?
Speaker 5: In all honesty, I'm on a twenty two fuck free
Speaker 5: year working on me.
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty two is a fuck free year. So you're
Speaker 1: practicing abstinence for a whole long.
Speaker 4: Year doing well so far?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 4: Hey looking for me? I love that and I'm serious too,
Speaker 4: I'm going to do it.
Speaker 1: I'm very proud of you.
Speaker 5: Well, thank you. I just feel like I can. There's
Speaker 5: a lot of things that are distractions, and that's one
Speaker 5: of them. So I don't care what my.
Speaker 4: Hair looks like. I don't care what you think of it,
Speaker 4: and I'm gonna just keep going.
Speaker 1: Wow, you're such a bye. How do I embody everything
Speaker 1: that you're saying? I mean, I'm I would like to
Speaker 1: get banged out. I'll be honest.
Speaker 5: I think you need to you too, I'm going to
Speaker 5: I will have been a minute sure when it happens
Speaker 5: for you.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm about to have a six six and
Speaker 1: a half tattoo Superman on top of me.
Speaker 4: Thought you were talking about other ways.
Speaker 1: Well that's that too. Do people listening to this, they're
Speaker 1: gonna be like their brother and sister. I know we're
Speaker 1: like so open as a family, but I feel like
Speaker 1: that's why I didn't like lose my virginity until I
Speaker 1: was seventeen. I didn't have a drink of alcohol until
Speaker 1: I was like literally graduating from high school. Didn't even
Speaker 1: have a puff of weed until I was twenty one.
Speaker 4: I started smoking weed when I was eighteen. That was
Speaker 4: the first time I ever saw.
Speaker 1: Before we were so open, like I didn't need to
Speaker 1: try it actually.
Speaker 4: Sheltered when you are like I'm going to try it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I need to see what it's about.
Speaker 5: Dad were never cared what we were doing, so we
Speaker 5: were like, I don't need to because they don't care.
Speaker 1: Right, And can I tell you? I always remember like
Speaker 1: as I got older, people would talk about drugs and
Speaker 1: I'm like, but they taught us be drug free and elementary.
Speaker 4: Be dare aware, Yes, be dare aware.
Speaker 1: I was like, they must have missed that day.
Speaker 4: They really did, they really? I had a car that
Speaker 4: said that.
Speaker 1: I was all about the dare officer coming in to
Speaker 1: teach us about how to be good kens.
Speaker 5: And Smoky the Bear for do you remember him? He'd
Speaker 5: come in so we wouldn't light fires up in the forest.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we're from Utah, so it's like make sure
Speaker 1: that you keep well. It doesn't even matter if you're
Speaker 1: from Utah. Im in anywhere with the mountains, Yeah for
Speaker 1: sure here. But yeah, I listened to Smoky the Bear.
Speaker 1: I was like all about that life. And Easton and
Speaker 1: I were only a year apart in school, right, no,
Speaker 1: two years, so we got to go to for one year. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and Easton was so small in high school? Did you
Speaker 1: get bullied in high school Easton.
Speaker 4: Yeah, from my height, my size, I mean I'm still
Speaker 4: a twig.
Speaker 1: But no, you look good. You look good.
Speaker 4: Well, thank you?
Speaker 1: Like your body type fits your height, you know, like
Speaker 1: you're not lurpy discussions.
Speaker 4: But no, I mean, I mean, I'd rather be this than.
Speaker 1: That for five futuall.
Speaker 4: I do not want to be five five again.
Speaker 5: I mean I was five or five when I got
Speaker 5: my license, and I was under one hundred pounds.
Speaker 4: I had to sit on a book bag to drive
Speaker 4: the vehicle.
Speaker 1: I remember that.
Speaker 4: It was like back in that time.
Speaker 5: I mean it was kind of like the pull up
Speaker 5: in the crank to lift the chair.
Speaker 4: It wasn't automatic.
Speaker 1: No, you had to do the like I literally would.
Speaker 4: I knew I had my books. I never forgot books.
Speaker 5: I never did my homework, but I can never forget
Speaker 5: my book bag because I couldn't see to get to school.
Speaker 1: No, that's a true story. Easton had a folder that
Speaker 1: my dad would send him to school with and it
Speaker 1: said turn in do your homework. And he would come
Speaker 1: home with the folder with all the papers.
Speaker 4: Oh, and I just wouldn't turn it in, and I
Speaker 4: would look at him.
Speaker 1: I like I've had that teacher. She literally at the
Speaker 1: beginning of class says, turn in your assignments? Where are you?
Speaker 1: When she's asking me, I.
Speaker 4: Was elsewhere, just daydreaming about not being there, I guess.
Speaker 1: So we know that you're going to be uh, you're
Speaker 1: going to be sex free, not necessarily drug free. Easton
Speaker 1: likes is weed. Welcome to California.
Speaker 4: It's fine, a little weed smoker. Yeah, put me to bed.
Speaker 1: But what when when it comes time to pick a
Speaker 1: mate a girlfriend? What are you looking for in a girl?
Speaker 1: By the way, you can find Easton on Instagram at
Speaker 1: e as t O n burning Ham just like you're
Speaker 1: burning Ham.
Speaker 4: I'm looking for somebody that I can spend time with
Speaker 4: that doesn't annoy me. So does that make it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like, I just don't.
Speaker 5: I can sit and not say words for hours and
Speaker 5: be content with somebody.
Speaker 1: And not feel like the presence is there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like I feel like yeah, but like if
Speaker 5: you start talking and I'm not wanting to talk, you know,
Speaker 5: just don't be annoying.
Speaker 4: I'm just looking for somebody who is.
Speaker 1: On my same wavelength.
Speaker 4: Yeah, of just not.
Speaker 1: I don't know you don't want to entertain someone.
Speaker 4: No, I hate entertaining.
Speaker 5: I just want to do my own thing while they
Speaker 5: do their own thing, and we can do our own
Speaker 5: things together.
Speaker 1: Easton's looking for someone where if you're around him, you
Speaker 1: need to make it seem like you're not around to
Speaker 1: thank you.
Speaker 4: So simple, so simple?
Speaker 1: What about facial features? Do you have a type?
Speaker 4: Like what the girl doing? Type?
Speaker 5: But I don't know what that type is because now
Speaker 5: I've been looking around, and I mean.
Speaker 4: I thought I had a type, but now I'm finding.
Speaker 1: Other girls that you're like attracted to.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that I wouldn't find attractive beforehand.
Speaker 1: Oh so you're evolving, You're taste to getting older, I'm
Speaker 1: getting older? I think, well, yeah, Heston just turned twenty nine.
Speaker 4: Thirty comes next?
Speaker 1: I know, you know you can count that.
Speaker 4: Well on my grade, you wouldn't know.
Speaker 1: Wait, is that so weird? Is it weird that this
Speaker 1: is the last birthday you're ever going to have in
Speaker 1: your twenties. I get a lot of people on cameo
Speaker 1: because I'm on cameo.
Speaker 4: Hit it, get your cameos.
Speaker 1: Don't get your cameos that send me messages and they're
Speaker 1: like having a hard time because they're venturing into their
Speaker 1: last year in their twenties and they're kind of freaking
Speaker 1: out and they need words of inspiration and I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 1: thirty is fucking lit.
Speaker 4: That's what I will say that.
Speaker 5: I was talking to Jason, yeah, and he made me
Speaker 5: feel very good about being twenty nine. I was like,
Speaker 5: all right, it's not as bad getting to thirties. He
Speaker 5: was like, you haven't even touched the prime. He goes thirty,
Speaker 5: that's when everything got better. Yeah, I'm now excited.
Speaker 1: And then you look at people like Kim Kardashian and
Speaker 1: she's in her forties and you're like, I can't wait
Speaker 1: to be forty. Then you see Jennifer Lopez at fifty,
Speaker 1: You're like, I get't wait to be fifty. Then you
Speaker 1: realize you're not Kim Kardashian or Jennifer Lopez, and when
Speaker 1: you hit that age, you're gonna look old as fucking
Speaker 1: be like tired.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: Like I look at them and I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 1: even scared of that age. Oh wait, I'm not either
Speaker 1: of those people, so I should be nervous.
Speaker 4: No, you're gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: I'll be fine. I got botox today and.
Speaker 4: Your beauty brand, and you just looking.
Speaker 1: Fresh fresh to give them all the beauty has me
Speaker 1: fresh to death.
Speaker 4: Clean face, looking money.
Speaker 1: Do I look like a teen mom? Because a lot
Speaker 1: of times I'll like get into an elevator or something
Speaker 1: with my baby and they're looking at me.
Speaker 5: Like, if I can be honest, you don't look like
Speaker 5: you're in your thirties. Now, I would say that you could.
Speaker 5: I mean, depending on the day, Yeah, you can look
Speaker 5: like I wouldn't say a teen mom, okay, but I
Speaker 5: was yeah, no, like twenties, you look early.
Speaker 4: You could pull off twenty.
Speaker 1: Okay, because you definitely don't look twenty nine.
Speaker 4: No, god, no look.
Speaker 1: And our older brother, Brandon definitely doesn't look like he's
Speaker 1: forty five.
Speaker 4: No, not even he looks thirty still.
Speaker 1: But what was crazy?
Speaker 4: Baby faces?
Speaker 1: Baby faces? But my dad he always.
Speaker 4: Looked super old, he really did.
Speaker 1: But then like his face never changed, so then he
Speaker 1: started looking really young.
Speaker 4: Wow. I never thought about it like that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like, yeah, he looked fifty when he
Speaker 5: was forty, and then he would but then like sixty,
Speaker 5: he looks.
Speaker 1: Fifty right, Like his face has never changed, so he
Speaker 1: just like didn't ever look like his friends started looking old,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, my dad looks the same as he
Speaker 1: did when he was like young. Right, yeah, just what
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, now I'm worried about how I'm gonna look.
Speaker 1: You're gonna look great. You're gonna look great.
Speaker 4: The ears back like you, then I'll be great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the ears will get pinned back. The thing about
Speaker 1: it is, we gotta get you moved out to California
Speaker 1: because there's moisture in the air. Utah is very dry
Speaker 1: and it goes from like frigid to extremely hot. So
Speaker 1: your face turns into like you know that sand that
Speaker 1: you see and it has all the cracks in it
Speaker 1: because it's so dry. Yeah, that's what your skin starts
Speaker 1: to look like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like the salt flats. It's a rat, That's what
Speaker 4: it is.
Speaker 5: I'm not even I get out of the shower when
Speaker 5: I'm in Salt Lake and I have to immediately put
Speaker 5: on motion because I just start to crack everywhere.
Speaker 4: I'm not even kidding who.
Speaker 1: We have Jessica in the room and she's looking at
Speaker 1: us like like we we are not going to approval
Speaker 1: of everything we say. Okay, before I let you go,
Speaker 1: I just wanted some laughter on the podcast. What was
Speaker 1: your gift you? You're so funny. No one makes me
Speaker 1: laugh like Easton. I'm gonna have another podcast episode with
Speaker 1: you on it, and we're just gonna really I'm breaking
Speaker 1: Easton in slow because I told him I was going
Speaker 1: to have him on the podcast today and he was like, no,
Speaker 1: tripping out. What was your most favorite part of your birthday?
Speaker 1: That was on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 4: Honestly just being able to fly out here and being
Speaker 4: with family. Okay, oh oh no, I'm I just like
Speaker 4: you know me.
Speaker 5: I like chill, I don't like a whole lot of
Speaker 5: nonsense going around, and I like having really close people
Speaker 5: around me. And I had a good friend fly out
Speaker 5: so that I'm around good people, and I'm that's what's
Speaker 5: really good.
Speaker 1: There we go quality time. Then there's my mom who
Speaker 1: wants to drag us to the West Side at four
Speaker 1: pm and make us same traffic for two hours on
Speaker 1: the way home. But it's okay. It was we saw
Speaker 1: the sunset, ocean, loved it. Easton had a great birthday.
Speaker 1: I I love having you on the podcast and I
Speaker 1: love having you here. Easton.
Speaker 4: I'm glad to be on it for the first time.
Speaker 4: And hopefully this is first of many and.
Speaker 1: We're breaking the audience in slow No.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if anyone knows.
Speaker 5: More than you, I hate this type of shit, but
Speaker 5: I feel like I could ease into it.
Speaker 1: It's just, uh, you hate like being on platforms.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, you need.
Speaker 5: To start and then once I figure it out, I
Speaker 5: can ease into it.
Speaker 4: It's just that little anxiety kick at first, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you already seem to be sinking into it, but
Speaker 1: we have to wrap it up. Sorry, I'm just kidding. No,
Speaker 1: but I told Easton, I was like, if you don't
Speaker 1: start posting on social media and I'm unfollowing your ass and.
Speaker 4: I'm private, nobody can follow me. So maybe I'll let
Speaker 4: people start to follow me now I'll stay private.
Speaker 1: Can they slide into your DM though, slide.
Speaker 4: Into the d MS? Yeah, yeah, it's a request. I
Speaker 4: can see it.
Speaker 1: Oh, you can see it. This is I will say
Speaker 1: if anybody slides into your d M with any inappropriate
Speaker 1: pictures because I want to roll, No, I will blast
Speaker 1: your ass on my socials. I really won't, but I
Speaker 1: will be upset you since trying to be abstinate. So
Speaker 1: fighting the d M with appropriate content which you can
Speaker 1: still look.
Speaker 4: Something that.
Speaker 1: Wait, when you're abstinent, are you allowed to like jack
Speaker 1: off and stuff like that. I don't think you're allowed
Speaker 1: to do that, are you?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 1: I'm just not what is abstinent? No sex with it
Speaker 1: someone else?
Speaker 2: But you can be fully the Catholics are supposed to
Speaker 2: be when they're.
Speaker 4: Okay, catch over there, catch me on that side of
Speaker 4: the sun.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Berningham all right, you guys, I hope
Speaker 1: that you had the best Valentine's Day ever, no matter
Speaker 1: how you celebrated. For me, obviously, Valentine's Day is all
Speaker 1: about my my little brother who I love you so much.
Speaker 4: I love you more.
Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this very fun episode of Give
Speaker 1: Them Lala with Easton. Hi, we'll be back next week.
Speaker 1: I love you.