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Speaker 1: Get your heads together, and we're going to start to

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Speaker 1: party and start the party.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to party.

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Speaker 3: The Elvis Duran After Party.

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Speaker 4: The After Party Podcast, How y'all, How y'all doing? Having

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Speaker 4: dinner with a friend, the friend asks me, Hey, did

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Speaker 4: you see that movie with that actor? You know about

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Speaker 4: that that March that they did in Chicago, And I'm like,

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Speaker 4: what are you talking about? So I go on to

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Speaker 4: google a Google actor March Chicago whatever.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I found the name of this movie, some stupid

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Speaker 2: movie from way back when.

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Speaker 4: But I felt rude because I was texting while we're

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Speaker 4: having a conversation.

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Speaker 2: Does it make sense? Yes, you know, it looks like

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Speaker 2: Gandhi was asking.

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Speaker 4: Does anyone else feel weird when you're talking and asking

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Speaker 4: questions when you could just go to Google and ask

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Speaker 4: the same questions.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a weird. It's a weird phenomenon that I

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Speaker 1: feel now a lot where I'll just want to ask

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Speaker 1: someone in the room something because I think someone will

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Speaker 1: know it. But then I kind of hesitate for a

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Speaker 1: second because I don't want someone to be like, why

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Speaker 1: don't you google it? Well, I was hoping that one

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Speaker 1: of you knew it, And it's just conversation, right, And

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Speaker 1: then there are how many times do we have a

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Speaker 1: conversation where someone will bring up a topic and then

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Speaker 1: if you ask a question, they're like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: google it.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I thought you knew if you If you

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Speaker 4: answer I don't know, google it, that kind of ends

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Speaker 4: the conversation.

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Speaker 2: Sort of.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you should really want to continue the conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, exactly. Also you wan to catch them if

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Speaker 2: they're wrong with their answer. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think we rely on Google and everything's just a

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Speaker 4: little too much sometimes when we're going to totally lose

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Speaker 2: Totally if we don't, if we don't stop doing it

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Speaker 2: like that, don't you think?

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Speaker 1: I think so? And I think it's also very indicative

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Speaker 1: of how much people actually retain and know anymore, because

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Speaker 1: so many people bring up a conversation as though they're

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Speaker 1: ready to have this full deep dive into it when

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Speaker 1: they've only read a little bit. So then when you

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Speaker 1: ask them the question, they're not prepared to have an answer,

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Speaker 1: and that's when now you're both googling on your phone

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Speaker 1: and not really talking anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: On the other hand, isn't it nice to someone brings

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Speaker 4: up let's say, a holiday or whatever, and while you're

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Speaker 4: talking about the holiday, you'll actually bring it up and

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Speaker 4: let AI kind of fill in the blanks and you

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Speaker 4: learn more about it at that point.

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Speaker 2: But then it continues the conversation.

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Speaker 4: It adds to the conversation, So it can be a

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Speaker 4: conversation stopper or a conversation starter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a tool, just like everything else. Right, A

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Speaker 1: hammer can either help you build a house or murder somebody,

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Speaker 1: depending on how you use it.

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Speaker 2: Well, exactly, it's versus a little tool.

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Speaker 6: What do you think, Nate, We had this a couple

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Speaker 6: of weeks that we were at dinner, remember, and we

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Speaker 6: were talking about a movie or an actor, and we

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Speaker 6: couldn't figure out who the hell we were talking about

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Speaker 6: or thinking of. Remember this, and both of us look

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Speaker 6: at you. Don't pick up your phone.

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Speaker 2: We could figure this out. Exactly.

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Speaker 6: It went five minutes and finally like, Okay, get your phone.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 6: I think having the ability to look up literally anything

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Speaker 6: can't remember anything. I used to have such a great

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Speaker 2: Actors don't have any of it anymore. Well, is it

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Speaker 2: really if you don't use it, you lose it? I mean,

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Speaker 4: Your head accessing memories in your head because you don't

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Speaker 4: access memories in your head anymore?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Oh that's so sad. You google that find out.

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Speaker 1: Well. I read recently that short form videos in the

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Speaker 1: I can absolutely we can look around and see it

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Speaker 1: every every day. Every conversation you have you're like, oh

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Speaker 5: I also feel like job that we have, we have

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Speaker 5: It doesn't help. What did we talk about this morning?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember mm hmm. Yeah, we're all guilty of that.

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Speaker 2: YI scary.

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Speaker 7: So I'm alone a lot during the day and I

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Speaker 7: feel like those are the times that I just put

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Speaker 7: the AI chat shept on voice and I talked to

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Speaker 7: it back and forth, and I look for things.

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Speaker 8: Because they don't have somebody to converse with. So if

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Speaker 8: I'm looking for answers to things, that's the right time.

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Speaker 2: But I really do.

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Speaker 8: Feel, as you guys have all said, when we're in

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Speaker 8: solve a problem. It's nice to like feel like we

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Speaker 8: still have these old school principles and we don't have

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Speaker 2: We still have old school memory.

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Speaker 4: But see what what Nate and I did the other

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Speaker 4: night where we both went for the phone upon the entry,

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Speaker 4: and we both at the same time went, no, put

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Speaker 4: the phone down. No, we are not going to fall

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Speaker 4: into that trap. Let's talk it through. Something we say

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Speaker 4: will spark the answer. Let's get to this answer. Alas,

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Speaker 4: we never got there until we googled it.

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Speaker 2: We made the attempt.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 5: How many times are you're sitting there and you think, oh,

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Speaker 5: and then you just continue the conversation and then all

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Speaker 5: you what are you even talking about? You totally forgot

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Speaker 5: about you're like evidems, evidence like whate That's what I think.

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Speaker 2: Going through that process is so important. It is important.

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Speaker 4: And hopefully, just as by googling so much we lose

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Speaker 4: those gateways to memories, when we start forcing ourselves to

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Speaker 4: I don't know how it works, but I was talking

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Speaker 4: and we talk about how as I'm getting older, as

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Speaker 2: You can't recall.

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Speaker 4: Things, and it it is frustrating sometimes. Where you know

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Speaker 4: But we do start forgetting things. And I don't think

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Speaker 4: I don't think that our lack of sleep is helping

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Speaker 4: at all. I don't think that all this information that

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Speaker 4: we're crowding in there every day is helping it.

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Speaker 1: All our food and our lack of exercise, everything like.

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Speaker 4: Exercise likes of lack of oxygen and lack of youth

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Speaker 2: But it's just the way it is.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think I've totally lost my mind,

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Speaker 4: but sometimes I do.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm on my way.

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Speaker 5: But they did say, like I was asking my mom,

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Speaker 5: you know, because my grandmother had, you know, Alzheimer's, and

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Speaker 5: my mom said, it's not really when you walk in

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Speaker 2: I'm not there yet, Yeah, that's when, yeah, I'm working

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Speaker 2: my way to there.

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Speaker 1: Off Dave it off.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: But the other day I was trying to remember the

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Speaker 4: name of a really good friend of mine.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I assume I'm still a good friend.

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Speaker 4: I could not recall her name, and it took me

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Speaker 2: Why can you not remember this name? You are losing

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Speaker 2: your mind?

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Speaker 4: And then here it comes, Danielle.

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Speaker 2: Danielle Monaro. That's it.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting too, because I think this notion. I've been

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Speaker 1: what I did, I didn't do anything. I was consuming

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Speaker 1: And I think in the broad picture of what's going on,

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Speaker 1: that's kind of what's happening. Ye. People feel like they're productive,

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Speaker 1: but you're not doing anything. You're sitting around all day

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Speaker 1: just rotting.

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Speaker 6: Terrible.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's not rot Let's try to use our minds

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Speaker 4: as much as possible and use Google secondarily secondarily is

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Speaker 4: that a word? Yes, look google it?

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Speaker 1: I think secondarily is a word?

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Speaker 2: Okay, good what it is? Now? All right? Well, happy

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Speaker 2: healthy day to everyone. I'm glad we could have this conversation.

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Speaker 2: We'll remember it tomorrow, but we had a good time.

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Speaker 5: You'll remember it in five minutes.

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Speaker 3: Wait, the Elster ran after party