WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Tinder Verification 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:01.520 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:03.440 See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.520 --> 0:00:10.560 Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest Seacrest with you, 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:13.120 like if he said that to us, I don't know 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:14.760 if it works both ways. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:16.400 Now you're talking about what. 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:18.720 First of all, I haven't even put my headphones into 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:21.760 the jack, like, my headphones are jackless. 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:22.800 And what did you. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:24.120 Say you look cute today? 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:25.239 Well? 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.080 I think that's I mean, I'll take it as a 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:27.880 friendly comment. 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:29.800 But but I feel like if you said that to me, 0:00:30.000 --> 0:00:35.640 I wouldn't feel weird. I weird, weird. It doesn't work 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:37.720 both ways to me. 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:39.560 It would not like, yeah, say it. 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:44.559 I would say something like no, I'd say you look 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:45.360 different today. 0:00:46.760 --> 0:00:47.600 I'm not great. 0:00:49.520 --> 0:00:50.960 That makes me feel like I don't love you. 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:53.640 What have you done with your hair? I noticed that stuff, 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:54.920 like your hair is longer today. 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:58.000 That's the same thing as calling you cute. 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:00.640 Isn't your hair long? No, it's different. But I wouldn't 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:02.360 say cute in your hair longer today? 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:03.280 Well? 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.640 Like, sure, doesn't your hair grow every single day? 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:09.160 It seems longer, But what is it that strikes you 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:09.680 as cute? 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.960 So I love the shirt and I feel like a compliment. 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:13.920 Your shirts a lot so I wanted to say it 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:15.800 a little differently because it's not just the shirt, it's 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:17.840 the way you have it rolled up, your sleeves rolled up, 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:21.000 and the button's gone down, and the color is really 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:22.080 nice with your complexion. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:23.760 I had no problem with this. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:25.000 That's nice. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:25.840 Cute. 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:28.720 Yeah, I had no problems starting my day off like that. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:29.640 It's cute. 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:31.319 That's fine. I appreciate, thank you. 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.800 Oh wow, it's very unbuttoned. It's good. 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:36.600 I think it's the look. It's spring. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.080 Yeah, and it's brown. You're wearing like a brown. You 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:42.880 don't have your shirt buttoned. Yeah, I do that brown. 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:44.399 Yeah, it's burgundy. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:45.600 It's brown. 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:47.000 It's burgundy corduroy. 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.760 I think it's meant to be one like this anyway. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:53.040 That't button my shirt, button your shirt. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:53.840 Get dressed. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:55.040 It's mad with you, guys. 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:59.400 I just got here and I'm wearing brown too. Well 0:01:59.520 --> 0:02:02.800 you you look different now I'm in my uniform today. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:07.000 Ah. You know I got this this sleep ring. 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:08.079 We see the or ring. 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:12.399 It's great, it's great. I think it looks cool. I've 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:15.680 never won a ring before and I have a black ring, 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:16.760 and I think it looks cool. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.399 Yeah, you look rugged with it. 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.320 Do I a little bit just by putting this orror 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.560 sleep ring on. Rugged's me up. 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:29.560 So let's get back to you liking rings on yourself. 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.720 Yeah, I'd like this ring on myself. Other rings frighten 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.600 me that this one I like anyway, So it registers 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:36.919 my sleep. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:37.560 Here's the deal. 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.200 Yeah, you want to know how the show's going to 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:41.440 go to that I can tell you based on the 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:42.000 sleep I got. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:44.000 Yeah, I want to know how the progress has been 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:45.880 going with this ring because you've been wearing it now 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:46.640 for a few weeks. 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:48.280 Well, no, I took it off. 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:50.920 I mean, this is not hot supposed to go because. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:52.640 I thought in the shower it would get messed up, 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:54.720 and turns out it's fine. The only thing problem is 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:57.480 when I put hair moose in the hair moose gets 0:02:57.600 --> 0:02:59.200 trap it to my finger in the ring. I had 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:01.799 to clean it up. Love that you use moose, Well, 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.000 I called it moose. It's really palmade. Oh okay, that's 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:08.320 different again, it's earlier. It couldn't be that specific, but 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:09.440 you can. 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.200 You say palmade versus Moose. 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:14.079 It didn't come to me. So I was in bed 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:15.040 for eight hours. 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:18.120 Guys, wow, asleep for how many? 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:19.720 Five hours? Forty five minutes. 0:03:19.760 --> 0:03:22.480 What are you doing for the other two and something. 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.840 Trying to get to sleep and peeing and tossing. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:28.200 So I had one hour and thirty three minutes of 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:32.520 rem sleep and I got a sixty percent on my 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:36.400 score than it like a d bad. Yeah, it says uh, 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:41.680 it says Sydney and time should be aware, uh, paying 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:42.360 pay attention. 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:43.840 He might be tired. 0:03:44.080 --> 0:03:45.800 Yeah, so I can't figure out like. 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:48.240 I thought, I slept okay, and then I read this 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:49.360 and think, now I didn't sleep. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:50.760 That kind of puts you in a bummer. 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:51.960 Mood, doesn't it. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.200 It kind of like makes me want to get home 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.280 and go to bed again. I'm competing. Yeah, I can't 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:58.280 wait to go back to sleep. 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:00.280 Okay. I like that broach. 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:02.440 I like that attitude, like the look anyway. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.320 Yeah, go back to the ruggedness. 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.560 That's right. Finally, little ruggedness, some corduroy and an orring 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:09.440 all of a sudden rugged, that's what it is. 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.440 I feel like you need to go like cut down 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:13.120 some lumbers. 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:15.360 What would I do with cut lumber? 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.120 I don't know, Like you needn't a. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:23.680 Fire around here? And ken, why not gas? Only unless 0:04:23.680 --> 0:04:24.800 you've got a grandfathered in. 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:26.440 I have a grandfather into my house. 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:27.160 Do you have a wood? 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:28.200 I do? 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:29.600 Do you know how special that is? 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.120 I know how special it is because when we were 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.320 redoing it, Michael would not let me tear it down. 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:37.160 I wanted. He's right, the smell of. 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.360 The wood, I know. But you know what, we can't 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:41.400 use the switch because it needs to get fixed up 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:41.920 in the attic. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:44.480 It's the attic is broken or they. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.520 So the actual like chimney, the part that's in the 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:48.960 attic and needs to get repaired. 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:51.200 So we actually can't use it right now. It cost 0:04:51.240 --> 0:04:53.359 a lot of money to repair. Oh annoying, I know. 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:55.400 Because it's on the list. 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:56.560 It's on the list. 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.000 All sails get some endorsements, get some appearance, get up, 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:01.480 get the chimney fixed. 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:05.000 Hey, did you guys get the email from Beata? 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:06.320 Yeah? 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:08.680 Yeah, there are twenty five people were on that email 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:10.960 from our program director, our boss, Beata. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.200 You guys got that, And then you replied, all, yeah, 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:14.080 did you see my reply? 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:14.600 Yes? 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:17.640 Nobody else replied, well, what do we do We're supposed 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:18.640 to reply to your reply? 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:21.719 Yeah, we got a staff email from our boss talking 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:22.680 about things here. 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.719 Yes, and it was great, And you replied and it 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:25.640 was great and gave an. 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.039 Inspirational reply and nobody replied back, so what. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:30.159 We read it? 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.520 A good job replying Ryan. 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:35.520 Like I would start a reply string, like people would 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:36.560 start replying. 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:43.240 Nobody like a person that replies all, I know, what. 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:43.960 Are you talking about. 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:47.560 I enjoyed your reply all. I thought, you know, as 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:50.240 like on air host of the morning show. It was 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:53.000 like a good like, yay, try to be a leader. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:57.000 Yeah, people, great, put down the leader. 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.680 What I'm saying is nobody wants everybody then to jump 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:02.120 in and say yanks. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:03.680 Thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks for like. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:08.480 Another reply all, I am the guy that hits reply 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:10.240 all at the office and that I didn't realize there 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.760 are thirty seven people in the email. 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:16.560 But I did give like a hey, pep, pep reply. Crickets. 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:19.800 No one. No one even said yeah, I agree, thanks. 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:22.960 I agree, Like that's such a weird reply. No, it 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:24.040 was fine. We read it. 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:27.880 I said, congrats, here's my email. Congrats Kang, love to 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.479 see the momentum. Well done, and thank you Beauta for 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.960 keeping it fired up. Stay on the game every day. 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:38.599 I was honestly more impressed that you sent an email. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.480 Yeah, I was too. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:43.880 I haven't seen an email from you in years. Usually 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:47.640 get the bounce back. I am not checking emails anymore. 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:48.600 Please contact the Lindo. 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:55.160 Okay, oh all right, how's this weekend? 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.240 Ago? I wonder you have any any ideas how to 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:57.760 help it might go. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:07:04.000 Guys, well, yes, the horoscopes about Pluto. Right, yeah, it's 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:08.720 like in retrograde or something. What's doing? Did you just 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:09.320 make that up? 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.480 No? Google here, I'll google it. Why you, guys see 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:12.640 the horscipes, so I'll take a second. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.360 Okay, we're gonna start with aries. Your concentration is being blocked. 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:19.320 Try your best to compartmentalize. Your week is an eight 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:23.800 point eight uh Taurus. Do your best to remain open 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.680 to options. Your week is a seven point oh Gemini. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:29.120 If you are happy with what you have at the moment, 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.720 you will remain happy in life. Don't get caught up 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:33.400 in what you don't have. Your week is an eight 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:34.600 point oh Cancer. 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.680 You are pushing too hard for something right now, go 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:39.920 with what your heart is telling you to do. Your 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:42.840 week is a seven point seven Leo. Someone in your 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:46.120 life is playing Devil's advocate. Listen to what they have 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:48.720 to say. Your week is a nine point one Virgo. 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:52.080 It's a semisonic vibe for you right now. Every new 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:56.080 beginning comes from some other beginning's end. Your week is 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.679 an eight point six Libra. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:01.400 Someone of authority is pushing your button. Keep your cool. 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.520 Your week is a nine point two Scorpio. 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.800 Faith over fear. It is time to jump. Your week is. 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:11.800 A ten Sagittarius. Ask all the questions that you're feeling 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.600 right now. Your week is a seven point five Capricorn. 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.280 You're about to stumble into a hole in the wall 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.080 that is going to change your life forever. 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:22.000 Okay, Your week. 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.440 Is an eight point one Aquarius. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:26.360 You need to give yourself the pep talk that you 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.440 want and need to hear. Your week is a seven 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:29.640 point seven Pisces. 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:33.000 Strengthen numbers. Look to someone in your life to help 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:34.959 pull you through. Your week is a nine point zero 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:35.440 all right. 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:36.920 So what's going on with Pluto? You might want to 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.800 know if things are happening in your life. Pluto's back 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:41.000 in Aquarius after two and in twenty five years. So 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.319 Pluto now the planet. It's back to being a planet, 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.240 the planet of destruction, death, and rebirth is moving on 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:52.800 from Capricorn and entering into the intelligent airy sign of Aquarius. 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:54.880 The last time Pluto was an Aquarius was from seventeen 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:56.199 seventy eight to seventy ninety eight. 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:57.120 So you know what that means? 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:57.760 What does it mean? 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.080 I don't know. 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:04.679 People are talking about it. 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:06.960 Let me do and aquarius. 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:09.199 Yeah, you researched that for next hour. But people are saying, 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:10.800 you know things about it. 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.560 You know what else? People are saying that both La 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:17.199 and San Diego now have recorded more rain than Seattle. 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:22.319 Well that's Pluto's faults. Back in the clothes, I blame Pluto. 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:24.679 All right, your running hack is next. You gotta If 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.280 you wear this to bed, can improve your brain function. 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.240 The next day, researchers found those who slept wearing it 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:33.640 showed enhanced memory and alertness. And you know what it is? 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:38.520 And I struggle with it myself. A sleep mask. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.960 Oh, I've been wanting to get one. It's not for me. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.160 It's really not for me. I've had to force myself 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:49.160 to do it on an airplane before. Yeah, right, and like, 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:50.520 but I feel it. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.800 It's like pushing on my eyes. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:53.600 I feel it too. 0:09:53.760 --> 0:09:56.240 But you can try, like the really silky ones and 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:57.719 like the puffy silky ones but. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.480 The experts say eliminating light disrupt helps you get uninterrupted 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:06.559 sleep and aligns your circadian rhythm. Darkness also improves melatonin production. 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:07.880 So if you can, you should. 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:10.200 You should try it with your or ring and really 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:11.599 compare the two nights. 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:15.840 It's a great experiment. Very much looking forward to sleeping again. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.679 Try that because you're saying that you only got sixty 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:22.600 percent of sleep last night, So tonight, put the iemask 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:25.280 on and then see how much more sleep you get. 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:26.959 No, report back, first thing tomorrow. 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:31.360 Ooh, I found how Pluto and Aquarius affects every sign 0:10:31.440 --> 0:10:32.120 in the zodiac. 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:33.480 Maybe I do that later this week. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:35.720 What can we feel about that? 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:35.920 Well? 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:37.679 I got to read through and condense. They're very long. 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:40.440 Oh, there's no like generic. Why Pluto people a talking 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:41.480 about Pluto in their lives. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.760 Yeah, there's generic, But don't you who wants generic? 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:45.319 When you want to just give me a little give 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:46.520 me a little carrot? Right now? 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:51.160 Okay, so this is going to it's going to be 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:52.880 a time of radical change and action. 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:54.560 Right So that's the thing. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:57.199 Yeah, that's why people are saying when something goes on 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.240 in your life right now, Pluto is in aquerus. 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.640 Pluto and Aquarius will spur innovation. 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:03.960 Well that's good. So is it a good thing or 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:05.680 a bad idea that Pluto is in aqueri. 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:07.640 It seems like a good thing, but kind of a 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.960 gnarly thing, a good in gnarly. 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:13.200 Yeah, well I'm totally confused then now. Yeah, today's quote 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.840 Free your Monday. The critical judge in your head does 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:18.200 not tell the truth. It does not have your best 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:21.080 interests at heart. The critical judge in your head. This 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.280 FM headlines with siciny Well. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:27.240 The Powerball jackpot is now at eight hundred million after 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:30.720 no one hit all six numbers on Saturday's drawing, but 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:34.040 a winning ticket worth two point four million was purchased 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.640 at a seven to eleven in Sun Valley. The next 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:40.960 drawing is tonight at eight. 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CLA and USC women's teams both played tonight 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.640 on ESPN as they try to reach the Sweet sixteen 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:07.360 and Doctors Superstars show. 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:07.599 Hey O. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.400 Tani will address the media today for the first time 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:13.600 since allegations of illegal sports betting came to light against 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:17.000 his now former interpreter on air. 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:18.760 With Ryan Seacret. 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:24.640 There is no such thing as the conventional scenario in 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:28.559 relationships or in families anymore, is there. I mean, yes, 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:32.120 there's some ogs, but like everything is evolved into so 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.920 many different complexities and that's okay. 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:36.960 Yeah, modern family. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:41.040 Modern families, conscious coupling all these expressions. 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:43.720 Right, it's your story. You get to write it however 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:44.040 you want. 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:47.400 I think people have decided to own it instead of 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:51.040 fight it. So Sarah is on the line, and I 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:54.280 think this is one of those complex situations. Sarah, good morning, 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:54.800 how you doing. 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:56.679 Good morning, I'm good. 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:57.160 How are you? 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:00.160 I'm super good. So we're trying to understand here. 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:05.400 You're getting married, Yes, I'm getting married in November, congratulations. 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:09.520 And your mom is coming, but she's coming with her 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:11.880 new boyfriend that your dad doesn't know about. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.319 Yes, So a few years ago my parents got divorced. 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:20.600 My dad actually cheated on my mom, which they're cordial. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:22.360 Now they're civil. They can be in the same room 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.080 and tolerate each other. But he has no idea that 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:27.679 I'm going to invite my mom's boyfriend. 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:35.199 So the question is, do you tell? Who tells your father? 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:35.520 Right? 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:36.760 Right? 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:36.880 Like? 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:39.520 Is it my responsibility? All my friends say that my 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:42.800 siblings or my mom should tell my dad, but I 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.000 just I don't know how he's going to react, and 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.560 I don't know how to handle the situation. So I 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:50.319 wanted to ask y'all what you think I should do here? 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:52.959 Well, sicany what would you do? 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:57.600 I think that your mom should tell him, because, especially 0:13:57.600 --> 0:14:00.600 if you're saying that they're cordial, I don't see your 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:01.839 dad reacting in a bad way. 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:03.320 Hopefully he's understanding about it. 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.080 And I think you have enough stress as the bride, 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.000 like with all these other things that you're dealing with, 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.320 so why why do you have to deal with that stress? 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.600 I think your mom should definitely one hundred percent tell him. 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.720 I agree, because I don't know how he's gonna react. 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:20.800 And he's also not getting a plus one, so I 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:22.880 wasn't sure how he's going to react about finding out 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:24.800 my mom gets one but he doesn't get one. 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:26.880 Why doesn't he get a plus one, get one. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.960 Well, my siblings think that he's seeing the woman who 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:32.160 he cheated on my mom. 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.760 With, So I just don't want the drama at my wedding. 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:40.680 No. Look, you've already sent out the invite. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:43.280 Right right, I've already sent the invite out. 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:47.320 Okay, so that's done. They've accepted, there are SVP they're 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.320 coming to the wedding. And so I think, yes, now 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.840 it is up to you, said Sysney, her mom, right 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:54.280 the mom. 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:57.000 Yeah, I think it's plus I mean, I'm not trying 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.120 to be like your dad needs to stay in the 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.280 doghouse forever, but like he's the one that cheated. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:04.600 You know, he can fight it. You're right, he kind 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.680 of woke it up, right, so he has to deal 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.120 with it, right. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.240 So I think now I just need to talk to 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:15.600 my mom and see if she's okay having that conversation 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:16.160 with him. 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:20.040 Well she's you said, they're civil, So I think that's 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.320 a fine thing to do. What's done is done. And again, 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:24.760 I don't know that he can be upset because he 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:26.600 broke the trust in the first place. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:30.360 Yeah, right side of like, nobody needs to say anything 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:31.160 like it's your wedding. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.280 You can invite whoever you want. They're divorced, they can 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:35.280 do whatever they want. 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:36.800 I think it's okay to communicate. 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:39.040 Hey, just just just a heads up so you're not 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:43.560 surprised by not asking for permission. Just the heads up, well, Sarah. Anyway, 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.320 the best part of this is you don't need extra drama. 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.440 Good luck and congratulations on your wedding. 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:50.400 Okay, thank you so much. 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:51.600 I appreciate y'all's help. 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:56.640 Okay, bye bye, right by bye. I understand Tony what 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.320 you're saying. You don't need permission for sure, but it 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.280 heads up is a civil thing to do if they 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:03.120 want to keep that communication line that they've got. 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:05.480 So the roses. 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.720 She found a tender verification code that was sent to 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.440 her husband and it does not sound great. 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:15.640 That's its seven forty this morning. Do you remember we 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:16.240 had her on. 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:19.440 A wild back the sol cow gallon TikTok and I 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:22.320 think she talked about riding those it riding swans in 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:23.160 the pond or something. 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:24.320 Oh yeah, an echo park. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:26.400 Ruby. You went and did it, didn't you. 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:28.840 Yes, it's it's really really fun. I also did the 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:30.360 water bikes, which were really fun. 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:34.560 Try sycles on the water. They look so fun. They 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.760 don't move so fast based on your output. 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:38.120 They don't. 0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:40.440 But it was really really fun. I went with my dad. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.400