1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: This is from Melika on Steve Harvey FM. Melika says, 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight years old and I just realized I've 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: literally never spent a Valentine's Day alone in my adult life. 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: I've always been in a relationship or at least casually 5 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: seeing someone. But this year I'm fully single. I don't 6 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: think I'm heartbroken or lonely exactly. I just don't know 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do with the day when there's 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: no one to plan around. I figured I'd treat it 9 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: like any other day, but part of me feels like 10 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: I should still celebrate or recognize the holiday. Is there 11 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: a quote normal way single people spend Valentine's Day? Before 12 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: you go, oh several okay, before I'm living in a car. 13 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't even I couldn't even think of nobody 14 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: who won'ted me. 15 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: So and you were right, Yeah. 16 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: As soon as you meet them. So where you live? 17 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: Here are you sitting on it? Yeah? 18 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: At your car? 19 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: She could get with her girls, right gall Gallentine's Day? Yeah, Yeah, 20 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: it's gonna have to be. 21 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 2: You might want to send herself some flowers though, to 22 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 2: the office. 23 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: You're down to the job. 24 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 3: That's school like that, celebrate your self in yourself. 25 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 2: You don't never hear me talking about getting together when 26 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 2: they buy theyself one Valentine's Day they called. 27 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 3: It never did. 28 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: What would it be Valentine paying talent Ain't nobody mallan 29 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: black people, no, not black people, group. 30 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: Of men get together for Valentine's Day. It'll be a 31 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: galic tag. 32 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 4: That go here. 33 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: Course, well, I'll tell you what. 34 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 4: Next year, you'all gonna have to come up with something 35 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 4: because Valentine's Day. 36 00:01:55,040 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: Super Bowl is on February twenty February February fourteenth, twenty. 37 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 3: Jen alright, later. 38 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: It's gonna be. It's gonna be on Valentine's Day. Yep, 39 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: ye look it up. Sixty one. If I think your 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: good timing, I'm gonna have to commit. We just say 41 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:15,399 Speaker 1: you're gonna kill yourself for your family time. 42 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 3: That What's what's gonna happen? Mister. 43 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: I've seen all sixty uh super Bowl. 44 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: Bowls, and then I live that long I will see 45 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: number sixty. 46 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: One is the thirteenth opening. Yeah, just do it a 47 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: little early. 48 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 2: That's a Valentine brunch. 49 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 3: Hurry your honey, eat that waffle. The game is coming. 50 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 4: Wrap this up. 51 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, check, please check certain you haven't finished eating. We're 52 00:02:58,760 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 2: getting close though. 53 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one. This is 54 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: from Nicole and Steve Harvey FM. Nicole says, my fiance 55 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: and I have been together a little over two years 56 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: and are supposed to get married later this year. We've 57 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: had our issues, but we've been in counseling and I 58 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,239 Speaker 1: truly believed things were improving over the past few weeks, 59 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: though his behavior has shifted in ways that have me 60 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: questioning our future together. During a recent argument, he threw 61 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: something at me in anger, apologized immediately and said he 62 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: didn't understand why he reacted that way. Then, more recently 63 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: I saw him lash up physically at our pet and 64 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: deny it before later admitting to it. He keeps saying 65 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: these fits of rage came out of nowhere and aren't 66 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: who he is, But I can't stop thinking about them. 67 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: Am I overreacting by considering leaving? Or is this the 68 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: kind of warning sign you shouldn't ignore it, especially before 69 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: committing to a life together. 70 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: Oh girl, but listen to me full speed if you 71 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: need counseling to date. Come on, bro, you ain't even 72 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: got to the hard part yet. Y'all need counseling. To date, 73 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: even the dog is saying, this ain't gonna. 74 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 4: Work right, This is bad, This is bad. Wha yo, 75 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 4: don't do it, don't do it, you don't do it? 76 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: All right? Yeah, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 77 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes a ter right 78 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.