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Speaker 1: This is The EDS with Eddie Judge and Edwin Aroyavi

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Speaker 1: the Husbands Know Best two Teas production. All right, we

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Speaker 1: are back for episode fourteen with the EDS podcast.

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Speaker 2: Here.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be an episode with a topic

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Speaker 1: which men don't talk about often, and that is self

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Speaker 1: care and beauty. It's sort of like the secrets behind

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Speaker 1: the mirror for guys. You know, from routines to cosmetic procedures,

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Speaker 1: regimens and fashion. We know women do it all the

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Speaker 1: time and are real critical about what they look like

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Speaker 1: and feel like and where. But what about us men?

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Speaker 1: You know, how do we handle beauty and self care

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Speaker 1: in this day and age. Let's get into it. What

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Speaker 1: do you think? How do we do it? Well?

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Speaker 2: I can tell you I think for me, I used

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Speaker 2: to care about it when I was younger, Like it

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Speaker 2: felt like fashion was a little more more important, like

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Speaker 2: twenty years ago. Like now I just feel it's like

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Speaker 2: everybody's wearing T shirts and stuff and h just T

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Speaker 2: shirts and jeans, and it's so much easier to get

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Speaker 2: dressed now, right whereas before, like you had to dress

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Speaker 2: up a little more like now, you know, just with

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Speaker 2: the whole athletic wear and everything. Yeah, it feels like

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Speaker 2: you don't have to dress up as much. And I

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Speaker 2: think a part of that is maybe that a lot

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Speaker 2: of people are working from home and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, do you remember during the tech rise that

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Speaker 1: all these tech companies started wearing short of I mean

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Speaker 1: they do it now, they wear pajamas, but they were

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Speaker 1: wearing short of pajamas to work and you didn't have

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Speaker 1: I was proud to wear a suit to work. It

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Speaker 1: made me feel really good and important. But it was

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Speaker 1: weird to see all these professional tech guys walking in

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Speaker 1: their jeans and T shirts and you know, loafers to

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Speaker 2: But yeah, definitely, I think feeling good is important, that

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Speaker 2: is for sure. So whatever makes you feel good, I

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Speaker 2: think it is important. So you like, sometimes even where

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna work from home, I'll get dressed up as

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Speaker 2: if I'm going to work, so I could just feel

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Speaker 2: like I'm at work right versus just being in like

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Speaker 1: I agree, one hundred percent. Before we get any further,

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Speaker 1: I want to know because Here's what I know about you, Edwin.

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Speaker 1: You do take care of yourself. You do exercise, you

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Speaker 1: do eat healthy, and you are about good mental health

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Speaker 1: and good emotional health. And you really are doing a

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Speaker 1: lot of self care.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I've also learned that you really dress well. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's certain labels that you wear. I guess a lot

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Speaker 1: of hair stuff products and skin care products and all that.

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Speaker 1: When did that self consciousness of looking good and taking

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Speaker 1: care of myself start for you? Do you remember?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I think after high school, like I want to

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Speaker 2: well let's work out, right. I think now it's more

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Speaker 2: And I think, yeah, like I think at the beginning

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: As you get older, you know, not not as much, right,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean I think, I mean, yeah, what

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm I'm you know, in my fifties, I'm becoming

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Speaker 2: I can't even believe you said fifty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fifty one years old and good for that age.

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Speaker 1: Physically, thank you. Physically, I feel like I've done pretty

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Speaker 1: And naturally that's when it started for me, and I

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Speaker 1: Like you said, Vanity, purposes. I lifted weight to vanity purpose,

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Speaker 1: I discovered Spartan in my older age. But I always

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Speaker 1: And because I was afraid of needles, I said, nah,

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Speaker 2: You know what's interesting about confidence. I remember being eighteen

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Speaker 2: And if I didn't have the haircut, let's just say

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Speaker 1: Well, interestingly enough, I think it's your surroundings that influenced

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Speaker 1: But I think if I didn't live in Orange County,

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Speaker 1: I really wouldn't worry about waxing my eyebrows, because that's

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Speaker 1: So I will wax my eyebrows. I do like waxing

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Speaker 1: And again, some of the things I just take.

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Speaker 1: That's when you know you need to go get a wax.

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Speaker 2: Right now, when you know you got to go get

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Speaker 1: And then more recently, I started noticing, and I don't

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Speaker 1: I you know, I have been waxing my ears as well.

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Speaker 1: it happens as you get older, right, yes, the same ship.

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Speaker 2: Now. I didn't have hair coming out of my ears before,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I have you know, some of my dirt

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Speaker 1: just the.

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00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: Way it is, right.

435
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: So I find myself wearing a hat most of the time.

436
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: And even though I'll get a haircut, lately, it's been

437
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: every other month, so I wait till I start looking

438
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 1: like a chevaka and I'm like, can you get me in?

439
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: So they cut it short and then you know, it's

440
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 1: good for about three weeks and then it just goes

441
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: the hey to hell from there. But that's really my routine.

442
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: I shower, I brush my teeth, I put some lotion

443
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: on my skin because I've always done that most of

444
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: my life, and that's it. If I do fix my hair,

445
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: it's like literally two minutes. And I do use a

446
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 1: blow dryer sometimes depending on how long my hair is.

447
00:23:56,119 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 1: And that's about it. That's all I do for you know,

448
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: beauty stuff. And then, of course, because I wear tank

449
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 1: tops and not tank toss but T shirts and T

450
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: shirts most of my day and I'm in tennis shoes

451
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: most of my day, I try to wear branded you

452
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: know clothes, and I get a hard time for my

453
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: wife and production like, do you wear anything else? Nope,

454
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: That's all I wear. So it's it's been fortunate to

455
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: get to this point. But I used to wear a

456
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: suit to work every day, and I would wear I

457
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: would go to the me too, you do. I like

458
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: to wear suits when we go to red carpet events

459
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: because that's really pretty much the only time I get

460
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: to wear them anymore. I have no reason to wear

461
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:45,200
Speaker 1: you know suits really anymore. But I do feel good.

462
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: I do feel good in having to dress up like that.

463
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 1: So tell me about your daily routine and then we'll

464
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: talk about, you know, our red carpet routine.

465
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: As as soon as I wake up, I thank God

466
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: for my health and I thank God for just another

467
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 2: day of life, and then I drink some water. I

468
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,199
Speaker 2: usually like to keep two glasses of water there, and

469
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: it's like to down at least the first one, right,

470
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 2: I can't tell you, like hydration is so important for energy, right,

471
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:21,239
Speaker 2: So for me it's like just the first hour is

472
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: so important to me, right, it's so hydrated. I have

473
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: a Bible app that I read. I like to read

474
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: at least one little chapter a day. I do a

475
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: little then I go and brush my teeth, and as

476
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: I'm brushing my teeth, I do a little gratitude exercise

477
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 2: that I like to do, which I think I've talked

478
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 2: about it here before. Where what am I happy about?

479
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 2: What am I excited about? What am I proud of?

480
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 2: What am I grateful for? What am I enjoying? What

481
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 2: am I committed to? And what do I love? And

482
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 2: the sub question to that is what about it makes

483
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 2: me feel this way? And I do that typically as

484
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: I'm brushing my teeth, and that kind of gets me

485
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 2: just in a you know, gratitude is just I think,

486
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 2: so important, right.

487
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: It.

488
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 2: I think gratitude and forgiveness are sort of inseparable, right,

489
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 2: And then from there I go down and get my shake.

490
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 2: So usually I like to do a six thirty class,

491
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 2: like a hit class or a hot yoga class. But

492
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: that's kind of my routine in the morning and then

493
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 2: at night time. I love my sleep. I try to

494
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 2: get six hours minimum, but in a perfect world seven

495
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: is like ideal. But in order I noticed that in

496
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 2: order to get that sleep, I gotta wake I gotta

497
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 2: go to bed. Try to start going to bed around

498
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 2: nine thirty, because if I stay up till like eleven,

499
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,959
Speaker 2: it messes up my entire sleep. Like I'm up at eight,

500
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 2: it'll take me Like if I try to go down

501
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 2: by eleven, I won't go to bed till twelve, and

502
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: then I'm up all night and then I'll wake up

503
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: at five. So it messages up the routine. But if

504
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 2: I can go to sleep early, like at nine point thirty,

505
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: I'll sleep the entire night and I'll wake up at five.

506
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

507
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: I almost feel like maybe it's because we're getting older.

508
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 2: But what's that movie called Benjamin Button. Yeah, I feel

509
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: like now that I'm getting old, I feel like I'm

510
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 2: a kid again. Remember when like your kids, right, Yeah,

511
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 2: the earlier you put them to bed, the longer they sleep. Yeah.

512
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:33,360
Speaker 1: Right.

513
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: So that's like one of the things that Teddy's always

514
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 2: done a great job with our kids is she gets

515
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: some trained to go to like our youngest. Right, she'll

516
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: go to sleep at seven, she'll wake up at eight, nice,

517
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 2: and she'll still take a nap from twelve to three,

518
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 2: twelve to four, So she sleeps a ton, right, It's

519
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 2: probably why she's so tall. But if we were to

520
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 2: put her to bed at twelve, she'd still wake up

521
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 2: at eight. Yeah, it's not like, oh, I'm up at twelve.

522
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: I stayed up till twelve, so I'm gonna wake up

523
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: at ten.

524
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: No.

525
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 2: She still wakes up around the same time no matter what.

526
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: So I'm kind of the same way now, like if

527
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: I stay up late. That that's why I hardly like

528
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: going out anymore. That's why my dinner again, I'm like

529
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 2: an old man now, like dinner. You want to have dinner?

530
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 2: I had five thirty six.

531
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: Yep, I'm right there with you.

532
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 2: But it gives me time to digest my food. Right, Yeah,

533
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 2: I sleep better, and yeah, it's it's it's hard to

534
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 2: get me to go out at night anymore, just because

535
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 2: it messes up my sleep so much.

536
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it now too, Like why older people

537
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: when I was young, you know, like why are you

538
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: going to bed starting?

539
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: How?

540
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: What a boring life. And the reality is I'd rather

541
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: have a boring, healthy life than feel exhausted, drained, and

542
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: you know, sick because I'm going out all the time,

543
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: eating out all the time, drinking all the time. I

544
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: just do not desire that at all. Yeah, So tell

545
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: me about some of the products you use in the

546
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: morning to start your day. Do you use a face cream?

547
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: Do you use any anything for the bags under your eyes?

548
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: Do you wax your eyebrows or nose or ears?

549
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 2: So?

550
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: What do you use for a hair stuff?

551
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: The dyes, the odd the eyes. I don't do is

552
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: good of a job with on the cream. I do

553
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 2: like putting creams every morning. In fact, I probably need

554
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 2: a lesser expensive brand. I use this brand called Lamurr

555
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 2: all right. I brought it just in case I think

556
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 2: expensive though. I need to find me maybe or maybe

557
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: they could sponsor me. But do you like it? I

558
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 2: love it? It's just freaking pricing. Yeah, I still use

559
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: good old Murray's. Have you ever heard of Morays? Yeah?

560
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's great. Yeah, yeah, probably three bucks all over

561
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: your body. It clears up dry skin like no other.

562
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, well I don't think it's the same one

563
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,719
Speaker 2: More's is like the it's an orange can.

564
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was thinking about the white bottle. Okay.

565
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: It's for people that have really thick care.

566
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: I have really big care okay, and what you put

567
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 1: on your hair. Yeah, oh okay.

568
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 2: So it's like a palmade right. So that's one product

569
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 2: that will spend a lot of money. And in fact,

570
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: that's that's the same product I used to use in

571
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 2: high school. Okay, I still use it nowt here twenty

572
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: you know, twenty five thirty years later. Yeah, and it's

573
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 2: just my favorite. So you know who also uses that product?

574
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: My father in law.

575
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, is he the one that turned you onto it? No?

576
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: I'd been using it since I was like sixteen fifteen.

577
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: So when I was at his house and saw it,

578
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, we used the same product.

579
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 2: That's pretty cool because it's so inexpensive.

580
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: You know, that's awesome. Cool, So you got hair hair products.

581
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: I do use a palmad in my hair. I've used

582
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: it for many, many, many, mini many years. And I

583
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: discovered it at a salon that I used to go

584
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: to four men only it was what was it called?

585
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: I forgot what it was called, but it was awesome

586
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: because you walk into the salon, they offer you either

587
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: coffee or a glass of cocktail or something right, and

588
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: then they can do your haircut. They can do your

589
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: ear wax, your your nose wax, your eyebrow wax, everything

590
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: that you can do to a guy. Even at some

591
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: point they were doing butt waxes, like they were offering

592
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: to wax your butt. But it was all I think

593
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: they offered facials and stuff like that. It was just

594
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: to pamper men, and I enjoyed it. I didn't go,

595
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 1: you know, any further than just waxing my face and

596
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: getting a haircut.

597
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: You mean you didn't do a butt wax.

598
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: I did not. I contemplated it, you know, because I

599
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: do have a hairy but I don't know why, but

600
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: I definitely thought about it, you know, but I just

601
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: didn't want to show my buttholes to anybody. I don't

602
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: even show it to my wife. But yeah, that was

603
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: my first experience. That's when I discovered palmate, and I've

604
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: been using it ever since. And nowadays. You know, if

605
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm not getting ready for a red carpet event and

606
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: i have to get ready to go out, you can

607
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: ask my wellife if it takes me less than five minutes.

608
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: Even the shower, Like I wait the last minute, jump

609
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: in a shower real quick, and I'm ready to go

610
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: in five minutes.

611
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 2: The hat is so easy, too write, when you just

612
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: wear a hat and boom go.

613
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. If I could wear a hat everywhere, my

614
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: life would be so much easier.

615
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 2: I agree.

616
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: What about your routine when you're going to go on

617
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: a red carpet event or an event where everybody's decked out,

618
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 1: let's say a gala, you know, Okay, what's your routine?

619
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 2: So if I want to have like a good hair day,

620
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: which I'm not having today, I typically well take a

621
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 2: shower about three hours prior. Okay, I'll wear like a

622
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 2: beanie or like a do rag, right, and then I'll

623
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 2: literally wait till the hair gets dry. Right, but it's

624
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: like three hours. I'll just I'll either have a hat

625
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 2: or this when I'll take it out and it's all

626
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 2: straight right, and then I'll just and then I'll just

627
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: mess with it to this, you know, blah blah blah,

628
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: and then then we're out.

629
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

630
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: But I typically because I don't know how to use

631
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: a blow dryer. So because I don't know how to

632
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: use a blow dryer, just slick the hair back, dry it,

633
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 2: then use the palmade and then do the whole like

634
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 2: messy thing. But so sometimes, like if I have a

635
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: morning event, I'll actually sleep with the do rag, which

636
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 2: Teddy hates, or I'll sleep with this sucker, which Teddy hates.

637
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: So where did you learn that routine?

638
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 2: Ah? Man, that's just like younger my hair because it's

639
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: so thick, it goes. Yeah, so that sort of like

640
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: holms it down, straightens it, and then I do my

641
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 2: thing and then it looks like it's dry. Right, So

642
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: I just I should probably learn how to damn use

643
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: the blow dry that'd probably be a lot easier to

644
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: save me three hours of freaking taking a shower three

645
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 2: hours before I go out.

646
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,959
Speaker 1: That's awesome. I still like to wait till the last minute.

647
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: I learned how to blow drying my hair watching the

648
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: hairstylists do it for me. Yeah, So that's that's the

649
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: only reason I use to blow dry. It's so much

650
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: easier too. But you know there's times where let's say

651
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: I'm writing my Harley, I just slick my hair back,

652
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: put a little bit of pomp me to keep my

653
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: hair out of my face. And throw my helmet on,

654
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 1: and I'm off on the off on the races, right.

655
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: But for a red carpet event, yeah, I get ready

656
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,919
Speaker 1: real fast. I usually ask my wife what she wants

657
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: me to wear, because you know, most red carpet events

658
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: are because of her, and I let her decide, you

659
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: know what, what I'm gonna wear, unless I'm in a

660
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: mood and I'm like, I'm gonna wear whatever I want

661
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: to wear. But she usually picks that out for me

662
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: and says, okay, yeah, wear suit or wear jeans and

663
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 1: a nice shirt. I just go based on her opinion.

664
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,959
Speaker 1: And then, you know, I have a couple of pairs

665
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: shoes in my closet that I don't wear often, you know,

666
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: because I just want them to look new for whatever

667
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: red carpet or whatever event we go to. So and

668
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 1: as far as clothing, I don't really pay too much

669
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: attention anymore. You know. I've gone as far as getting

670
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: pants that I wear recently. When I go writing my

671
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: Harley from Costco, I will pay seventeen dollars for a

672
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,720
Speaker 1: pair of pants that I can write on my Harley

673
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: because they need to be baggy, they need to be comfortable.

674
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, They're not one hundred and eighty dollars pants.

675
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: They're seventeen dollars Costco pants.

676
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: I have these like three they are probably four hundred

677
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 2: dollars slacks, but I wear them all the time and

678
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 2: I've had them for like, I don't know, five years.

679
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 2: They are my favorite and they're black.

680
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

681
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 2: The other day I had a heart attack because like

682
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: they threw them in the dryer and I'm sorry they

683
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 2: washed them. Thank god they didn't put them in the

684
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 2: dry because I would have been, like, those are my

685
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: favorite and they don't make them anymore. Yeah, But it's

686
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 2: funny how for me, I always wear the same like

687
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 2: either the same genes or the same slacks. I like

688
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 2: to have two go tos and then that's it. Yeah,

689
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: but they're super company and they look good, you know

690
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: what I've been getting lately. So I'm five nine, and

691
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: I think you're a little taller, what five ten maybe

692
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 2: five eleven?

693
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, five eleven. Yeah.

694
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 2: So now I don't know how Instagram finds this stuff out,

695
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: but I keep getting hit up for like these three

696
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 2: inch souls that are like all the time. Right, So

697
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 2: probably because you're not you're five to eleven, They're not

698
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: marketing to you. But every day they're marketing to me, like, hey,

699
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 2: you need three more inches on your soul, And so

700
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: I keep getting these up and there's a part of

701
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 2: me that wants to buy it. I actually sent it

702
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: to Teddy because I just I was lazy where I

703
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 2: didn't actually want to like buy it, so I was like,

704
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: can you get this? And she still hasn't got it.

705
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: But like technology nowadays, right back in the day, when

706
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: I was single, I had these Ya sell boots and

707
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: they had like a three inch heel. You know, back

708
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 2: in the day there was that boot cut so you

709
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 2: could never see the three inch heels. So I was

710
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: like six foot for a long time, and that that

711
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: was like my going out shoot. I only went out

712
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 2: with my Wi cell three inch heel that no one

713
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: would see. But because I wanted to be like women

714
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 2: that were five to nine but heels were like six

715
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 2: feet yeah, so I wanted at least be six foot.

716
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 2: So it's funny anyway, now I'm getting marketed to all

717
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 2: the time by these like heel things our souls, and

718
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, why the hell wasn't this shiit around when

719
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 2: I was single, right you know? Yeah, now what's the point.

720
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I'm happy, I'm married. I'm happy being five

721
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: to nine.

722
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, our wife accept My license.

723
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 2: Still says five to ten, by the way.

724
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: But okay, I'm getting short. Oh man. So let me

725
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: ask you this. Do you get pampered in any way?

726
00:37:58,880 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: And do you enjoy it?

727
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: Not? Really? You know, I've never been into massages. I

728
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 2: do facials. I like facials. I should do it more often.

729
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: I used to be good with them. Now, I mean,

730
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: I can't think they'll I can't remember the last time

731
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: I got a facial. But I used to be pretty

732
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: consistent with it, like once a month. Yeah, and I

733
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 2: just haven't done it. But I used to like facials.

734
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 2: That's that's as pampered as like I've gotten. I've never

735
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 2: done the whole, the whole massage thing. It's just I've

736
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 2: got a couple, but it's just never been my thing.

737
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 1: Oh.

738
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 2: Teddy took me to that one place where they I

739
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 2: think it's a Korean place, and they scrubbed the shit

740
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:41,919
Speaker 2: out of you. Yeah. Man, they had one in Beverly Hills. Man.

741
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: That felt like reminded me a little bit of like

742
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 2: Saw the movie, Like, am I gonna get murdered or

743
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 2: something like. It's it's how would you describe Have you

744
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: been in one of those? I have not.

745
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: No, I've heard of them, and I've heard some are

746
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: highly traditional where you have to walk around naked and

747
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: from room the room, and you have to be naked.

748
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: They don't allow you not to be naked and it's

749
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: part of the whole experience. So I haven't tried that.

750
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 1: I haven't had the balls to do that.

751
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 2: It kind of felt like a corner's office. Yeah, like

752
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: you know, they got there just like wash these like

753
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 2: all these washed it. They basically washed you like a dog.

754
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

755
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 2: And you're just snaked and you're like, what the hell,

756
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: it's crazy. It took me. I was like, all right,

757
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 2: I'll do it, but.

758
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny. Now I understand Teddy loves to be

759
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: pampered with massages, right, Like that's her thing. That's that's

760
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: one thing my wife mentioned that she loves, and I

761
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: that's one thing I love. That's probably the most I

762
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: spend money on is massages. I used to get a massage.

763
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: At one point, I was getting a massage every week

764
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: and it got to the point where like, okay, I

765
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: got to back off on this because my massage budget

766
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: is getting really big. But I just love the deep

767
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,439
Speaker 1: shoe sports massage that you know, she gets in there

768
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 1: and she just finds the pain or finds the nod

769
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: or finds the issue and it just works it out

770
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: and I feel a million dollars a million times better afterwards.

771
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: Even though it was a little painful, I know that

772
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: in a couple of days, it'll repair itself and I'll

773
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: be I'll get rid of that chronic pain, whether it's

774
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: my back or my neck or my shoulder whatever. Right,

775
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: So those are the kind of pampering massages I like,

776
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even categorize them as pampering because they the

777
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: deeper that the therapists can get, the more productive it

778
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: is for me. So when I have had massages, you know,

779
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: when I'm on vacation and I'm like, I just need

780
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: a massage, and I get a massage at the local hotel.

781
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: Is just one of those little sweetest touch touch, touch touch.

782
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: I hate those massages. They just they don't do anything.

783
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: And I think it was probably a year or two

784
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 1: ago I discovered or I decided to try a facial massage,

785
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 1: and that was pretty freaking awesome. I've never had a

786
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: facial massage or a facial and it's a pretty cool experience.

787
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'd just rather get the whole shebang, you know,

788
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 1: head to toe massage. And I'll tell you, the longest

789
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: massage I've ever had, I think was like six hours.

790
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 2: Wow.

791
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she she worked her ass off, you know, paste herself.

792
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 2: But she just feels like an eternity to me.

793
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I two hours. An hour feels like

794
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 1: a warm up for me. Now, two hours is like

795
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: what I wish. But most massage therapists don't do more

796
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: than ninety minutes because it's a lot of work.

797
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 2: But it was.

798
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: It was incredible, and I felt like a gazillion dollars

799
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: after that was six hours. I don't know how she

800
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: did it, but she's pretty amazing.

801
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: Now I saw Tamera did like, was it a face lift?

802
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, she did something or her face.

803
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:54,480
Speaker 1: She did a brow lift and a CO two skin

804
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: procedure where they basically burn a layer or two of

805
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: your face. Since she did it at the same time.

806
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 2: Oh, by the way, that's what happened to me. I

807
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: did one of those things where they peel your face

808
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 2: and like a dumb ass I got. I got a

809
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 2: facial like four days after. Yeah, that was not a

810
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 2: good combination for my face. Hints that picture that came out,

811
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 2: you know the first year of Real Housewives.

812
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: Was it painful?

813
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the peeling thing. Holy shit, it was again.

814
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 2: You know how everybody gives you free shit back, you know,

815
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: so they're like, hey, come in for this. It's it's

816
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: appealing thing, Teddy approved. But then I got another face

817
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 2: or just because it was for free as well, Yeah,

818
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, I might as well make it look good.

819
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 2: Well yeah, no, it did the opposite for my face.

820
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 2: But anyway, would you ever do something like that? I

821
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 2: would never do it like an eyelid thing like what

822
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 2: camera did.

823
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: No. No, I won't say never because throughout my life

824
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: that I've ever said I'll never do that and never this,

825
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: never that.

826
00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 2: Ye.

827
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: Somehow life just puts it in front of you and

828
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,320
Speaker 1: and it changes things, right, It's all perspective. I would,

829
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 1: for example, my my wife has gotten plastic surgery and

830
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: she's not, you know, hiding it by any means. But

831
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: I've always told myself when I was younger, I would

832
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: never date or marry a woman that has to get

833
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: plastic surgery, because that's just not it's fake, it's phony,

834
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: it's it's it's not a real person. And obviously I'm

835
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 1: in love with my wife and she's a real person.

836
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 1: I love the real woman she is, and that the

837
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: work she has had done on her face has been

838
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 1: very subtle.

839
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,840
Speaker 2: She's done a pretty job of like looking natural, like

840
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 2: I wouldn't Yeah, if she didn wantn't have posted on

841
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: the Instagram, I would have known.

842
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. So so I have a new outlook about it,

843
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: a new respect for it, you know, like, Okay, maybe

844
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: a little tuck here and there, if you can afford it,

845
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,240
Speaker 1: because it's expensive, might do the trick. And the one

846
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: thing that I've always thought I probably would want to

847
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:01,479
Speaker 1: do but I could never afford, was getting my teeth done.

848
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: I have pretty yeah, veneers, I've had. I have pretty

849
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: good teeth. There's a couple of crooked ones and you know,

850
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: chip your down my waist. No, no, but I am

851
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: gonna go. I'm gonna go do that, Edwin, I'm gonna

852
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 1: go get some veneers. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna fly

853
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: to Texas where Smile Texas is. It's one of the

854
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: best doctors. I I did VET a few doctors, and

855
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: I enjoyed the conversations because my biggest fear was they're

856
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: gonna grind your teeth all the way down, you know,

857
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: to the I guess call it the core, and you're

858
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: gonna have these weird teeth and then they're gonna put

859
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 1: some fake teeth on there, right, So I never want to.

860
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 2: Bind you down.

861
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 1: Nowadays, the new technology is they kind of sand it

862
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: a little bit. They just take a very very small

863
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 1: little layer of your teeth and then they'll do the

864
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: cosmetics side. Like my front teeth here are chipped a

865
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 1: little bit, so they'll they'll grind those a little bit

866
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: to their flat or even and then they'll grind a

867
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: little bit this crooked teeth a little bit so that

868
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: the veneer can fit better. But here's the thing that

869
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 1: really convinced me. The doctor was all about function first

870
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: over esthetics, right, because you've seen doctors out there that

871
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: do these veneers and you have this fake white smile

872
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: that the teeth are all close together, it looks like

873
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 1: one piece and it just doesn't look natural at all.

874
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: And that's not what I want. I wanted to look

875
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 1: as natural as possible. So when the doctor mentioned their

876
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: technique is all about a function. First, they have to

877
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: be functional, like you've got to be able to eat,

878
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: you got to be able to bite into an apple.

879
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: You've got to be able to use them like they're

880
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: meant to be. And then we'll talk about esthetics. You know,

881
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: how do we make them a little bit closer together,

882
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: how do we make them a little bit straighter. Do

883
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: we want to widen your smile a little bit or

884
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 1: keep it narrow based on your biology, right so or physiology.

885
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: So after talking to the doctor and doing my research

886
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: and then you know, getting a kind of an idea

887
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: of what's going to look like, I was like, I

888
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: think I want these. I'm sold. I'm sold. So next

889
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: week we're going to go to Smile, Texas and get

890
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: fitted for them and get the temporaries, and then we're

891
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: going to fly home and then fly back and get

892
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: the permanent ones.

893
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: And are you hearing it out on a with towm

894
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 2: at the same time.

895
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, So both my wife and I are going

896
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: to do this and we're going to have million dollar smiles.

897
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: But you know, the thing that other concern I had was,

898
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 1: you know, as you age my grandmother who's ninety nine

899
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: years old. You know, she's been through a couple of

900
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: denture teeth, She's lost a couple of denture teeth, and

901
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 1: that just scares a shit out of me, Like, am

902
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 1: I going to lose my teeth? So I talked to

903
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,320
Speaker 1: the doctor about that, and he says, no, the technology

904
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 1: nowadays is so much better. You will probably have these

905
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 1: veneers until the day you die. So they last about

906
00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: they used to last about ten years and you had

907
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: to get them redone kind of like fake boobs, right,

908
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: But the doctor said, you can get twenty to thirty

909
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: years depending on how well you maintain these, and you

910
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: can get you know, really good longevity on your teeth.

911
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: So I'm going to have a big smile with straight teeth,

912
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 1: the perfect smile, and my wife's going to be happy.

913
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to be happy, and you'll make sure we do.

914
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 2: You're going to be showing off your teeth to us.

915
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: I will, I will.

916
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got that to follow up on that.

917
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably going to be the most superficial thing

918
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: I've ever done to myself is my teeth, because I

919
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: just don't see myself getting you know, nip and tuck.

920
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: I scared my head too. Yeah, it just seems scary

921
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: to me, and I you know, I'm not so worried

922
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: about it. You know, I know who I am. I

923
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: know I'm getting older, and I think the scary part for.

924
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 2: Me is you do it, you don't like it, and

925
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 2: then you try to fix it it, then you don't

926
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: like it, yeah, and then before you know it, it's

927
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 2: just a shit show. So I've made the the decision

928
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: that I'm gonna just let it age. I'll do botox,

929
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 2: so I'll do that kind of stuff. But hey, I'm

930
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: just I'm scared deny it, like I'm scared of cutting

931
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 2: my face like I have. You know, I've never been

932
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: in I've never gone down with oxygen what do they

933
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 2: call it, oh, anesthesia?

934
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,399
Speaker 1: Like you've never been put out?

935
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 2: No, I've never been put out. So that's why I'm like,

936
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 2: probably a good thing that I because of that, I

937
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 2: probably won't do it, or I know I won't do

938
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 2: it because I'm just freaked out about that stuff.

939
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,439
Speaker 1: That's funny. I have been put out a few times

940
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: when I was having my heart issue, and they used

941
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: it was funny. I'll never forget the conversation the very

942
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: very first time I was going to be put out,

943
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know what to expect

944
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: because the last time I was in the first time,

945
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: first and last time I was put out was when

946
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 1: I got my molers taken out, and I was like, thinks,

947
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: seventeen eighteen, and I don't remember the experience. I just

948
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: remember waking up crying and you know, like what happened

949
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: to me? And recently when I had my heart issue,

950
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: I went to the doctors and they were gonna put

951
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: me out, and the nurse was just talking up well

952
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 1: profolo or something like that. Pro profolo, I think it's called.

953
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: It's an anesthesia that Michael Jackson used to sleep and

954
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: she was like, it's the best experience ever. You're gonna

955
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: love it. And I'm like, I'm just getting put out.

956
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: And sure enough, you know, I think I was put

957
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 1: out multiple times that year, whether it was a cardio

958
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: version or actual ablationion, I was put out with that stuff,

959
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you it was pretty awesome. It knocks

960
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 1: you out, you don't even feel it. You wake up

961
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: and you're a little groggy, and it takes about three

962
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: or four hours to really get out of your system,

963
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: but you feel amazing. It's crazy. So I can understand

964
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: the excitement behind you you put out And it's pretty safe,

965
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 1: relatively safe, I think as long as you're pretty healthy

966
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: and the anesthesiologist as they're watching your monitoring, I think

967
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: it's pretty safe. But that's that's yeah, that's my experience

968
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: with that. I do have one more point to make,

969
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: and that's why do you think most guys have the

970
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:30,359
Speaker 1: stigma of not talking about, you know, their self care

971
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: or self beauty. You know, I mean I have a

972
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: lot of friends that do take care of themselves. I

973
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: grew up in the era that was metrosexual, right, you know,

974
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: you take care of your health, you take care of

975
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: your hire, you take care of them. You know, you

976
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: just take care of yourself. What about those guys I

977
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: just don't care, you know, they just so.

978
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: I always often talk about how whatever you don't do

979
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: for a long time, you'll start to dislike it. Right, So,

980
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 2: if you don't do something for a long time, dislike it.

981
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 2: So if you haven't gone to the gym for a

982
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: long time, you probably dislike the gym. If you haven't

983
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 2: really taken care of yourself for a long time, you

984
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: probably dislike having to take care of yourself because whatever

985
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 2: whatever you serve, you'll love. Right. So many times, like

986
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 2: you said, like you just kind of get away from

987
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 2: like taking care of yourself and before you know you're

988
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 2: just like yah, screw it, and before you know it,

989
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 2: you're you just let yourself go, right. So I think

990
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 2: there's a part of you know, if you let yourself

991
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 2: go sometimes it's so hard to get back to where

992
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 2: you want to that it's so discouraging that you just

993
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: take the easier path, right, which is not like I'm

994
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 2: thinking fitness right for me. I've always had an example,

995
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,720
Speaker 2: is fitness right for me? There is a certain point

996
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 2: where I'm like, oh man, I need to get back

997
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 2: to it right, because if I don't, I'm gonna let

998
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 2: myself get to another place that it's harder to recover

999
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: from as far as like it's just hard and it's discouraging, right,

1000
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 2: So I try not to let it get to that place, right.

1001
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 2: So I think with I guess taking care of yourself,

1002
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 2: whether that's your fitness, whether that's the way you dress,

1003
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,919
Speaker 2: whether it's I think it just comes back to when

1004
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 2: you don't do something for a long time, you just

1005
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 2: start to dislike it, and you're like, yeah, I don't

1006
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 2: need that anymore, care about it? So not a bad

1007
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 2: I mean, it could be a good thing in many

1008
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,959
Speaker 2: reasons and in many ways, right, Like if you haven't

1009
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,280
Speaker 2: drank for a long time, you start to dislike alcohol,

1010
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 2: Like I don't really like alcohol anymore, right, But it's

1011
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 2: just I rarely drink now, so I don't really like

1012
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 2: it as much.

1013
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 1: You know. So do you think there's guys out there

1014
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: that talk about it freely because it's a normal I

1015
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: don't even want to stay secure because there's a lot

1016
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: to secure guys out there that just don't do you know,

1017
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: the self care, self beauty.

1018
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 2: It's also pricey, right, so like I guess you pick

1019
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 2: and choose, right, So for women probably a little more important,

1020
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: I would think, yeah, than for men. And for men

1021
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 2: it's expensive. So you're like, yeah, that's not really a

1022
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: priority for me right now. So I'm cool with my

1023
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 2: T shirt, right, I'm cool with not getting a facial

1024
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: and things like that. So that that's kind of the

1025
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 2: way I look at it.

1026
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: What about your nails? Have you ever gotten your nails done?

1027
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 2: Do you get your na?

1028
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: Know? What?

1029
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 2: Nails is one thing I've never my toenails. I'm starting

1030
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:39,359
Speaker 2: to do now just because you know, as you get older,

1031
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 2: your toenails get weird too, So those I'm starting to do.

1032
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 2: But I found like, shit, man, that thing's expensive. Like

1033
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, come on, you're really going to charge me

1034
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 2: eighty bucks for or a hunt? Like haircuts are expensive now,

1035
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 2: like what happened to the five dollars haircuts?

1036
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: Right?

1037
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 2: Like when I was growing up, I was getting a

1038
00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 2: three dollar haircut. Now it's like seventy eighty. I'm like,

1039
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 2: wait a minute, you just freaking run my hair up

1040
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 2: and you're charging me eighty bucks or a hundred bucks

1041
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 2: and then you got a tip on top of that.

1042
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, hund dollar haircut. That's crazy.

1043
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 2: The one I can't justify is my hand nails because

1044
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 2: I could easily just get a clipper. Yeah, do it myself,

1045
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 2: so that I refuse to pay for the toenails I'm

1046
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 2: paying for.

1047
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: Okay, I wouldn't. I wouldn't expose my nail lady to

1048
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 1: my toenails because they're just grotesque. But yeah, I wouldn't

1049
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: pay for that either, because for me, I can just

1050
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: get a clipper and be clip my nails and spiling

1051
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:40,280
Speaker 1: down and be done within a minute. Honestly, it takes

1052
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: that long to just get it done. And I just

1053
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: can't justify paying eighty dollars to get my nails done.

1054
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: But I do know some guys that that's their thing.

1055
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: They really enjoy that and it's their way of pampering themselves.

1056
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, you guys getting circumcised when they're older.

1057
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: I have, I've heard, I have, remember I think I was.

1058
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,320
Speaker 1: It was must have been like twenty years ago. And

1059
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: I don't really know why they would do that at

1060
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 1: that age. I think we were in our mid thirties

1061
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: when this guy was talking about it, and I just

1062
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: didn't understand, you know, why he wanted to do that,

1063
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: you know, but.

1064
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: It makes your penis look bigger. I don't know. But

1065
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 2: I that's a hard one for me. That's a tough thing.

1066
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,359
Speaker 2: That is shage at this age. You know.

1067
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: I I don't want beauty to be painful. I want

1068
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 1: it to be as natural as possible. But sometimes, you know,

1069
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: I don't know how painful this teeth thing is. Going

1070
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: to the doctor said it doesn't hurt at all, But

1071
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: I have no idea because you know, I grew up

1072
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: with the budget dentists that would, you know, stick the

1073
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: needle into your bone and it would just traumatize you

1074
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 1: and you would never want to go back to the dentists, right, dude, I.

1075
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 2: Wore braceists for three years because I couldn't we couldn't

1076
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: afford to take him out.

1077
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 1: Oh that's right, that you know that would traumatize you.

1078
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 1: So it wasn't until my probably early to mid forties

1079
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,759
Speaker 1: that I found a dentist that did not stick the

1080
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: needle into my bone and make me cry. And I

1081
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,840
Speaker 1: had a new new outlook for going to the dentists

1082
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: and getting my teeth clean and getting my teeth worked

1083
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: done because it wasn't painful anymore when they stuck the

1084
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: needle in my mouth. But that's yeah, if it's painful,

1085
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. So anyways,

1086
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm always great chatting with you and catching up. I'm

1087
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 1: glad you're doing well.

1088
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 2: Saying some with you. Man, I'm glad you're doing well.

1089
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 2: Can't wait, just look at your teeth next time.

1090
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited too. I'm actually excited. I always been

1091
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: against it, but I'm actually interested in open to it

1092
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: and excited to see what it looks like all right,

1093
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: till next time, Until next time,