1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: with i R Radio. Oh my gosh, I'm telling you, 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 1: ash you love Napa Valley. I love Napa Valley. This 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: is your new home. I feel like you could actually 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: move here. You and just want to settle here. Honestly. 6 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: This like I'm walking around and it happens every once 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 1: in a while and I fall in love with the place. 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: I've never been to Savannah, Georgia, but I already love it. Um. 9 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: You know, I love Denver, but I'm walking around Napa 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: Valley and I and it feels I'm it feels like home. Yeah, 11 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: I can. I can sense that fast. It's wild that 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: this crazy little podcast. Why haven't you been to Savannah? 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: And if you know that, you think it's going to 14 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: be at home. I just don't want to be disappointed. Well, 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: I my aunt's wedding. This was all the way back 16 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: when I was seventeen years old. She got married off 17 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: the coast of Savannah and one of those islands, and 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: I'll remember it for life. It's one of those places 19 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: I want to go back. And I was just seventeen. 20 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: That was literally half my year, my life late love 21 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: my life ago and you still remember, so I still 22 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: remember it so vividly, and I have a desire to 23 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: go back. There's places like that in Michigan too. Anybody 24 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: out there listening, I want to I want to hear this. 25 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: I think this would be interesting for us to read. 26 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: Sometime emails have been in Ashley, I heart media dot com. 27 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: Where your favorite like hidden, not hidden? Gym's nap is 28 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: not hidden, but like hidden? Jim like, where are your 29 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: favorite gems? Maybe in the world, let's go let's go 30 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: global here, and then also in the US, because if 31 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: this podcast is hitting the road, let's go visit Oh 32 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: my gosh, that would be an amazing idea if we 33 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 1: went on the road. But then we also just went 34 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: to places that you and I had a desire to explore. 35 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: So cool. So I think the first stop should probably 36 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: be Savantage. I think should be Savannah, Georgia. Napa Velli 37 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: has not disappointed. The almost famous podcast continues to take 38 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: us to great places, and it also continues to put 39 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: out incredible content, not because of Ashley and I not 40 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: because of Ashley, not at all, because of listeners like 41 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: you continue to tune in and support us Today's podcast, 42 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: and because of Easton in because of instance of us 43 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: every week and barely ever gets to chime in. But 44 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: you know what we should do and in depth with 45 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: Easton one day. I think it would get I think 46 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: it would get really interesting. Um. But on this podcast 47 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: today we have some massive guests actually, like they're they're 48 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: not almost famous, they're straight up famous. Oh yeah, they 49 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: they It's funny that they're coming in on the almost 50 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: famous podcast. We should like start telling them when they 51 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: come on, like, hey, we're almost famous, you're not like 52 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: you actually help us. It's gonna tell Scott to career. 53 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: That was like, I think you might be the most 54 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: famous person. Let's see how your acts. Um, we have 55 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: Scotting Career on the podcast, Morgan Evans, we have Tassia 56 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: from Colton season. We're gonna talk hot topics. There's a 57 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: big few going down with Kelly Rippa in the Bachelor franchise. Uh. 58 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: And then also speaking of famous Ashley, I didn't get 59 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: to tell the listeners. I want to talk a little 60 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: bit about my time on stage in Marrying Indiana is okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, 61 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: you did a play. We're all really confused. You never 62 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: told me about the And then all of a sudden, 63 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 1: I see on your Instagram story that you're on stage, 64 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: So what was that all about? A big deal? So 65 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: before we bring on our guest today, I teased the 66 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: end of last episode that I talked about this and 67 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: uh my, my promises do come true. Um okay, So 68 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: I'll have been waiting with here's the situation. My cousin, 69 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: Olivia is. Uh. It's just an incredible person who has 70 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: has grown up in in Swazie, Indiana. It's right outside 71 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: of Converse, right outside of sweetzer Um, close to Marion. 72 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: People out there listening, nobody knows any of that because 73 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: it's a very small little area. Anyways, long story short, 74 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: she has been in theater her whole life and I 75 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: went to her her first play years ago and have 76 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: not been able to go back because her first starring 77 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: role was when I was on the Bachelor and I 78 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: was gone filming. And so this is her senior year 79 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: of high school. It's her last time being in this 80 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: community theater. It's called c s A and it's a 81 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: community theater that puts on incredible semi professional um uh 82 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: plays and musicals and this year they're doing Greece, and 83 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: Olivia reached out to me, and this is how the 84 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: conversation went on. Shes Hey, Ben, would you want to 85 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: come being in my play? Would I want to come 86 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: be in my play? In your play is a trick question? 87 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: Should I be? Why should I be in your play? 88 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: She said, it would just mean a lot to me. 89 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 1: I said, okay, you have two options here there. I 90 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: come to your graduation, right, come to your play. Because 91 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: it's a long flight and they're back to back weeks. 92 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: She was much ready to be in my play. So 93 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: I committed to going and being in her community theater. 94 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: It's a three day play. I was Vince Fontaine, which, 95 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: if you know anything about Greece, Vince Fontaine hooks up 96 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: with a high schooler. Is he out of high school? Though? 97 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's like the voice on the radio. Is 98 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 1: he the guy that hosts the dance problem? He hosts 99 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: the dance party. Yeah. So, not only am I asked 100 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: to be in the play, I'm also has to be 101 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: the creepy old guy, which is just fantastic since you 102 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: know my I'm a little beat up already for turning thirty. Um. 103 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: But anyways, I did a three night stand in Mary 104 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: in Indiana, and I just want to give them a 105 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: shout out. They were incredibly kind to me. Uh, Marian 106 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: was incredibly kind. You know who showed up Jenna Cooper's mom. 107 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: Jenna Cooper's mom, Oh my god, she from Indiana. She's 108 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: from Indiana, and she came to say just like thank 109 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: you for like supporting Jenna through like this crazy experience 110 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: and super sweet. Anyways, the fans, the fans in Indiana 111 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: and just the people in Indiana continue just to make 112 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: life warmer. I hope we can go and do it, 113 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: maybe a podcast in India Center so that actually you 114 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: feel the love. I should go to your hometown. Oh yeah, 115 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: you go to mind. That's a great idea. Let's do it. 116 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: We already have three dates. Now we're filling up fast. 117 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: We gotta start selling tickets or it's gonna get expensive. Okay. 118 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: Uh So that was my time on the play. That's 119 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: why you see a post on Instagram with me in 120 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: a pink tutu um supporting breast cancer awareness. Moving on, now, 121 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: we have a really interesting topic that we want to 122 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: talk about before we room Tasha on. We're talking a 123 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: little bit this morning over call Offee about why the 124 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise continues to stay above the fray. Why why 125 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: viewers conttinue to watch really from from all ages. I 126 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: don't know when kids start watching, like fourteen and up, 127 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: and I don't know when the appropriate ages. There's not 128 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 1: really a reason to state it. Fourteen is a good 129 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: age to start. That's when I first watched my first 130 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: couple episodes. But The Bachelor internally, and I think most 131 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: of these rallity shows call themselves like a Tiffany type 132 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: reality show, like the that the peak reality shows. You know, 133 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: your survivors, your amazing races, your Bachelor's, they're Tiffany type shows. 134 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: So let me explain how we got on this topic. 135 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: I have been watching the past week or so of 136 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: Paradise Hotel, and I was just telling then how I 137 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: feel like it's such, it's just trashy. It's a dating 138 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: show and it's trashy. And I was like every other 139 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: dating show I watched other than The Bachelor feels uncomfortable 140 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: for me, Like if I were to put myself in 141 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: their shoes, I would just feel like a fish out 142 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: of water, just very yucky, ikey. I don't know, I 143 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: can't describe I can't really describe it. I wish I could. 144 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: I think like I've always been like a conservative data, 145 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: you know, like I've never been like a party girl. 146 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: So whenever I see like these, um what's the MTV 147 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: show that um X on the Beach and stuff like that, 148 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: other other cable reality shows as well, I'm like, what 149 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: is there about The Bachelor that just feels more tasteful 150 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: and classy and it feels like an environment that I'm 151 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: comfortable watching and being in. What's the difference? And I 152 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: can't exactly pinpoint it, but he goes there's actually a 153 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: term internally for that. It's called a tiffany reality show. Yeah, 154 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: they're staying about the friend. I wonder I'm gonna say 155 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: something absolutely assinine and I think I'm gonna get a 156 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: lot of laughs at because of it. But I wonder 157 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: if there's a level to The Bachelor and to these 158 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: other reality shows that like, even though it walks a 159 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: very thin line, they do it well and it's a 160 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: tad life giving meaning that they're so they are truly 161 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: you're feeling like they're actually celebra writing love. You're feeling 162 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: like there's actually something good that you're getting out of it, 163 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: even though there's moments where like this is trashy, the 164 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: concepts weird. Holy cow, this is odd. There's still something 165 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: to why you're watching the Batchelor Batcher impared, I see 166 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: you go, but there's a reason why, and that reason 167 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: is is worth watching for. I think the undertone, while 168 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: it can get dramatic, is still romantic. The undertone is 169 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: always romantic. The other shows, I feel like the undertone 170 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: is sex great point and as a result, we feel 171 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: like we're intruding on somebody's personal space too much to 172 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: where it makes us uncomfortable. And it starts too and 173 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: I think we can feel this in life, right, We've 174 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: seen this with and I'm not trying to compare these 175 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: other shows to porn. That's a pretty drastic comparison, but 176 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: we know that the studies show that when you watch 177 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: porn that it messes with your mind, it messes with 178 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: your heart, it messes with your your sex sexual function, 179 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: and your sexual instincts. And so as a result, like 180 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: I wonder if when we watch shows that are going 181 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 1: against the grain too much or pushing sex too much 182 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 1: on us, our minds switch to a place of darkness 183 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: and kind of heaviness instead of being able to watch 184 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: it with a lightness, like we watched The Bachelor. Now 185 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: there's moments on The Bachelor. Trust me, I will never 186 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: forget Hannah Gee and Colton's makeout scene last season. It 187 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: made me feel all sorts of weird, but but it 188 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: was a moment in a show on a pursuit in 189 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: their journey, and as a result it made sense. Yeah, 190 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: I was gonna continue by saying, on The Bachelor, we 191 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: see we see a couple, maybe not a couple, but 192 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: we see people date over the course of weeks, and 193 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: we see them on romantic dates, which leads to a 194 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: fantasy suite. And it's even called a fantasy suite, which 195 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: sounds light and like enchanting. Okay, yeah, But then on 196 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: Paradise Hotel, for example, the first day, people have to 197 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: choose a roommate to share there, to share a hotel 198 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: room with, and like that's just the difference a roommate 199 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: to share a bed with versus yes, fantasy suite whatever, 200 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Like you're into it's so far okay, yeah, actually you 201 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: know here And I don't think Jess, we'll get too 202 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: upset with me, for she won't get upset off. I 203 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: don't know if she's ever got upset with anyone in 204 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: your life. Um, but like that would that's that would 205 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: not be where we're in our relationship, and like that's 206 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: a very personal thing for me to talk about. But 207 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: like I know, for Jesse and I six months in, 208 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: like that is that would be an uncomfortable position for 209 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: us because that's not who we like, That's not who 210 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: we are as a couple. That is not a line 211 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: that we've crossed. We've chosen that as a couple right now. 212 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: There's moments that we've had to because of weddings or 213 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 1: you know, hotel like efficiency, but for the most part, 214 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: we we've set up boundary there and as a result, 215 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: like going on a show like that would be completely 216 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: foreign to our relationship now. So you're just because of 217 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: the world, right, she's a lot better of a human 218 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: or has a lot more higher moral standard than I do. 219 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: But the jest because of the world, would never be 220 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: able to operate on that show because think about if 221 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 1: she walked onto it, walked in not knowing maybe what 222 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: the show's concept was, and then they say you got 223 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: to sleep in a bed with the guy and she's 224 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: like who. Immediately, yeah, I'd be like, oh, this is 225 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: not the show for me, I have to leave. I'm sorry. 226 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: That's but she would look crazy because of it, right, well, 227 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: she would look like odd girl out. Yeah, which is 228 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: which is unfortunate because I think there is a level, 229 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: there's definitely a level to life where we need to 230 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: help hold ourselves a higher standards. Everybody else does as well, 231 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: And and somehow some went no, I'm not gonna say. 232 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: And this ties right into our conversation a second with 233 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: with Taysha, we'll talk about Kelly Rippaum. It tries in 234 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 1: perfectly and it is what is the Bachelor that bad? Now? 235 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: I get it, Let's laugh about it, let's make fun 236 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: of it. But is there some good still to it? 237 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: And as a result Ashley again, we'll go back to this, 238 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,599 Speaker 1: the proof is in the pudding. We say this with 239 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: generous all the time. This is our motto because gets 240 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 1: weird in this world is if one person's life's changed 241 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: for the better because of something, then the pursuit was 242 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 1: worth it. You're gonna get married because of this show? 243 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: So is it that disgusting? No? The perfect example was 244 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: just one or two lines that shows the difference between 245 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: the bachelor in this Paradise hotel is that when you're 246 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: in Paradise the morning after, when you're sitting around recapping 247 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: the night before, a lot of people will be like, 248 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: did you guys kiss? Did you kiss? On Paradise Hotel? 249 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: They go, did you guys, do you guys have sex 250 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: last night? I'm like, I'm like, wait a second. You 251 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: guys are legitimately asking if they slept with this person 252 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: the first night they ever met. It was so gross 253 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: that weird. It was so out of my world and 254 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: not and not crazy to have happened, right, Like, it's 255 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: not foreign or or unfamiliar. There's no there's no judgment 256 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 1: to people that do choose to do that. But typically 257 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: isn't something you're talking about with a group of people 258 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: around you and being asked about by everybody. That's a 259 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,839 Speaker 1: private thing. You know, it happened whatever, Like we we 260 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: we move on and sake it like one night stands 261 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: don't happen. I'm not shaming anybody, but you're saying it's 262 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: odd to walk into a room and have everybody go, hey, Jeff, 263 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: sex last night. I hope that question is never asked, never, 264 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 1: even in honestly a marriage. I don't want my sister, 265 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to be Christmas morning. You walked down 266 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 1: to breakfast at mom and Dad and your sister go, hey, 267 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: do you guys have sex last night? Ja gives her 268 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: a high five and says, hell, yeah, we did. Um 269 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: Hey after the breakering, be on to talk a little 270 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: bit more, a lot, a bit more about the Kelly 271 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: Ripper situation and also what's going on in Tasia's life, 272 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: what she thinks of Hannah and everything good and Bachelor Nation. 273 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: As promised, we have Tashie on the podcast today. Tashia, 274 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: welcome on the finished podcast. We just pulled Tasha actually, 275 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: uh from upstairs. She was watching our our guest, Morgan 276 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: Evans perform. Is that you Is that your first time 277 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 1: seen him perform? My first time? And he was unreal? 278 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: So now she wants Morgan Evans to be in paradise, 279 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: but unfortunately he can we make that happen, mar We 280 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: gotta clone him, a single clone. I mean, I'm sure 281 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: we can work something out. Let's talk about this for 282 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: a second, because he has his way about him. Right. 283 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: We're Eastan and I are sitting there listening. Yeah, you 284 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: were charmed. I was charmed. I was charmed. East and 285 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: I both were. We had our hands on our chins 286 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: and we were gazing lonely at each other and at 287 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: the ceiling and around and at a Morgan Evans. What 288 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: is it about it? He has like confidence in a 289 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: little swag to him. I don't know, and he doesn't 290 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: try too hard. I feel like, yeah, guys who like 291 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: are naturally good looking, plus they have the swag and 292 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: they think country music. That's the perfect try factor basically, 293 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: Like that's why Sam Hunt is as famous as he is. 294 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: How does it feel in life when all of a 295 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: sudden you find you have a crush, like you just 296 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: had a crush as of ten minutes ago, Like, do 297 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: you feel a little weird right now? I mean a 298 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: little bit. I'm kind of liked butterflies in my stomach. 299 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: Tasia and I were talking about how it's well Jared 300 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: and I had this argument all the time. I'm not 301 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: sure if we brought this up on the podcast, but 302 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: since I'm such a natural fangirl, I like will be like, 303 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's so cute or he's hot, you know, 304 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: like whatever, and I have to like almost do it 305 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: on this podcast, and we talk about the guys from 306 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: the cast, and I have to be like a little 307 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: giddy over everyone. Right, But Jared is thinks of such 308 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: a double standard that girls can get away with being like, 309 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's so hot, he's so cute, and 310 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: like talk to their girlfriends up there like, you know, whatever, 311 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: no big deal. But if Jared were up there talking 312 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: to guy friends being like, oh, she's still hots, Like, 313 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: it's just not a loud he just doesn't like me say, 314 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: talking like saying complimentary things towards under other guys. But 315 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: it is, overall, in the big picture, something that girls 316 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: get to get away with that guys don't like. Even 317 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: my mom she'll be like, oh my god, he's so cute. 318 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: If ever said oh my god, she's so beautiful, my 319 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 1: mom would look at him and years later, Right, that's 320 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: a good point. How do you feel if Jess we're 321 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: to talk about a guy's appearance, I mean, I don't 322 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: think i'd mind. You don't think anything of it, right, No, 323 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: I mean she was like, oh he's so Yeah, she 324 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 1: does it all the time, like even with her like 325 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: friends boyfriendship. Yeah, he's he's a really good looking guy. 326 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: We can get away with good looking, Like Jared will 327 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: be like, she's just a good looking girl. Okay, well 328 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: she would say I think she would say it and yeah, 329 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't think twice, but you I'm sure she wouldn't 330 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: be down. Yeah, I would never say that out loud, 331 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: like she's a pretty girl, but I would never say, hey, Jess, 332 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: isn't she really pretty? Yeah? Yeah? Or like if we 333 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: sat and up if we sat upstairs and watched Morgan 334 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: Evans perform for brunch and UH say it was reverse 335 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: like it was a woman who was up there doing 336 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: it and we came down and asked if somebody was here, 337 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: and we're like, I was like, oh wow, that was 338 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: good for me. I don't think that he was great though. 339 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: So are two guests uh from country music on this 340 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 1: podcast today, Scott McCreary and Morgan Evans super talented, super charming, 341 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: really great and uh and Tasha, you have all those 342 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: qualities as well. We want to start this uh not 343 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: talking about you, which is unfortunate because it's great to 344 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: talk about you, but we'll get to that. We're finishing 345 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: up a conversation about the Bachelor and why it seems 346 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: to be what we're calling the Tiffany of reality shows 347 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: where it kind of goes above the fray yet walks 348 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: a line where people are criticizing it, and people go, oh, 349 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: this is uncomfortable, this is weird. This concept seems maybe gross, 350 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: but yet it doesn't feel dirty to watch all the time. 351 00:17:56,280 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: There's ultimately a larger love story being displayed now sently 352 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: in the news. If you've been watching Kelly rippap Um, 353 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: the host of The Kelly Ryan Show, trashed the dating 354 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: franchise The Bachelor bachelorrette Um, even though she is part 355 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: of ABC Network. Um. Instead of reading the quote, let's 356 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 1: listen to the clip. I thought that one got married 357 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: to the guy that was here, the guy the guy 358 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: Hulton was here last, that was the best bachelor. But 359 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: they didn't get married. That's a different woman, an entirely 360 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: different You know how I feel about the show. It 361 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: disgusts me. And I thought that I was disgusted because 362 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't stand the idea of exceptional women fighting over 363 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: one ordinary fella. In my opinion, you know how I feel, Ladies, 364 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 1: we are too special to be arguing over a guy. 365 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: You know. The words it disgust me, obviously were said 366 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 1: from Kelly, and it's relating to this sason of the 367 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: Bachelorette with Hannah b Tai. I want to know your 368 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: point on this, what do you think about the show 369 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 1: being disgusting? So so my first point to this, and 370 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: I'm I'm obviously I'm going to take the position of 371 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: being defensive of the franchise at some level. There's obviously 372 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 1: criticisms that you can use and say. One is I 373 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: don't love that Kelly is acting unfamiliar with the franchise. 374 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: She's done her show and had every bachelor and Bachelorette 375 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: on for the last how many years? She knows how 376 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 1: this show works. Like, I hope she knows how the 377 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 1: show works. It doesn't sound like she's really invested any 378 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: time in getting to know the show. So she shocked 379 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: that there's a new bachelorette that's coming from the franchise, 380 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: just amazing, amazed that there's a new girl every year. Well, yeah, 381 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: there's a new girl every year, Like, oh my gosh, 382 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: there's a new one. Another one, Yes, Mrs Rippa, there 383 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: is a new one every year. That's the one thing 384 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: that is surprised to me. The next is her the 385 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: words she used that it's disgusting. Why is it disgusting? 386 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: That word is very harsh, I think, and rude. Yeah, 387 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: she's saying it's disgusting because there are so many people 388 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: going after one person, they're fighting over them. Um yeah, 389 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the appropriate term. I find 390 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: it offensive because obviously there's love stories that come from it, 391 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: mine included. So I hope that the way that my 392 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 1: love story unfolded, even though it didn't happen in like 393 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 1: the traditional bachelor bachelorette stting, it happened in paradise is 394 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: I don't want it to be ever thought of as gross. 395 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: That never would have ever come to my head, right, Um, well, 396 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: I think the biggest issue here is that it's kind 397 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: of reverse sexism because here she is saying that all 398 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: women on this show during the Bachelor's season are extraordinary. 399 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: She doesn't really know them, but they're all exceptional, right, 400 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: and then the guy that they're going after is ordinary. 401 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: Why why is she assuming that he's ordinary? He's not ordinary? 402 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,640 Speaker 1: And I'm taking offense from all of my friends who 403 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,679 Speaker 1: have been the Bachelor that they're not ordinary man, and 404 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,880 Speaker 1: I would never refer to them as that they are 405 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: truly extraordinary. They are not saying anything less than the 406 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: women because all these bachelorettes are fantastic. They're like so strong, 407 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: they're they they had the best personalities, they're beautiful, they're smart, 408 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 1: Like they're wonderful women. But that doesn't mean that the men, 409 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: a good handful of them aren't spectacular. My deserted. Yeah, 410 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 1: and then like she's also basically not even acknowledging the 411 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: fact that it does reverse the situation reverses. And then 412 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: there's twenty five guys after one woman. So is she's 413 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 1: saying that all twenty five of those men are ordinary 414 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: and they're going after one extraordinary woman just because based 415 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 1: on sex doesn't mean you are. You're not extraordinary, right, 416 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think she put her foot in 417 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: her mouth and that on that one. Honestly, equality is 418 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: obviously an important topic today in all matters equality. The 419 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: pursuit of equality doesn't mean that the other side has 420 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: to get out of balance, right, equality is equal, both 421 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 1: sides are equal, or people are humans. I think this. 422 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: I think she's walking a line that she does. She 423 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 1: doesn't exactly know what she's walking into, because, as you said, 424 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: I would hate to be categorized and stereotyped as being ordinary. 425 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm on the belief that there's no 426 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: single human that's just ordinary, that every human has a story, 427 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 1: and that when you know somebody's story, it's complex and 428 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 1: you it's you know, as we say in a few 429 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 1: weeks are a theme with a Man of Stanton is 430 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 1: once you know somebody's story, it's hard to hate them. 431 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: There is not single, one, single person that's been birthed 432 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: and lives on this earth and that has survived and 433 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: thrived on this earth that is an ordinary person. So 434 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: at no level is it fair to categorize me, you, 435 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: anybody else into that, and anybody off of the show 436 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: into that. Now you can criticize the show, I get it. Yeah, fine, 437 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: Like I don't like the structure of people going after 438 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: one person. That's a little bit weird to me and 439 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: it makes me feel awkward. That's one thing. But you 440 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: can't just group these people together and call an extraordinary 441 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 1: ordinary as if she knows everyone the Yeah you can, 442 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: you can. You can criticize the show. The show is 443 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 1: fair game. Do not criticize souls, Do not criticize humans. 444 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: Um because what you're you know, as a as a 445 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: as a woman, what she's trying to protect she's honestly 446 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 1: harming by the words that she's using, and that that's 447 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: just clear that that there is nothing about what she 448 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 1: said that's healthy, that's life giving, life breathing, that's pursuing, 449 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: pushing us in a better position. What does she want 450 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: the show to be canceled? It's not going to get canceled. 451 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: So what is she doing in return? Does she want 452 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: to hurt and affect every person that's on this show? Well, 453 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: good work, Kelly, you have a voice and you've done that. 454 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: And as a result, there's people standing up in favor 455 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 1: of the show and and even non fans of the 456 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 1: show saying, let's watch yourself here. These are real people 457 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: dealing with real situations and we've signed up for it. Right. 458 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:20,439 Speaker 1: Let's celebrate women and support girl power without having to 459 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: bash bash guys, bash guys while doing it. Weird thing, 460 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 1: weirdest part of it. You're on the same network, like 461 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:30,680 Speaker 1: ultimately on the same team. What are you doing anyways? Uh, 462 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: we had to talk about it. It's been a huge 463 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: topic all week. Chris Harrison spoke up about it, and uh, 464 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: and obviously it's all over the airways. US Weekly has 465 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: covered it, people have covered it it will be a 466 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 1: topic for a little bit. I think it's gonna fade soon. 467 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: The point of all this is there's no one uh there, 468 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 1: I think to some all of this up noverybody on 469 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: the table saying is there is not one ordinary person 470 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: that has ever done the show. And I believe there's 471 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 1: not and we believe there's not one ordinary person that 472 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: has ever walked this earth. That everybody is extraordinary, or 473 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 1: at least we should start thinking that way. So with that, 474 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: the extraordinary Tasia is on the podcast. Let's talk about you, 475 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:13,479 Speaker 1: yes years old from California, uh phlebotomist um or at 476 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: least as we talked about in the last podcast, we 477 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: think so um and uh, you're on Colton Underwood season 478 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. Okay, Ashley, I think I want to 479 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: start here. Let's go back to Colton season the Bachelor. Okay, 480 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: after all of it's done, and said, what are your 481 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: thoughts on Colton? Um? I really like Colton. I think 482 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: he was very sweet to me. He has a big 483 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 1: future ahead of him. I do think that he has 484 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: a little bit of growing up to do. Um, but 485 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: I think the world of him. I'm always interested in 486 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: this and I think we've ever asked a guest. You know, 487 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: you had a relationship with Colton, uh during your time 488 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: on this season. It was growing and it was exciting 489 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 1: and you're getting to know each other and you didn't 490 00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 1: know where it was going to end and all of 491 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: this things. And now we're months removed. He is obviously 492 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: with Cassie and they're pursuing their relationship as healthy as 493 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 1: what we hope they are. UM, but now you know 494 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: he let's look at him as an X right, even 495 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: though it might be hard to do. Does it feel 496 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: like another world? Ago? Like, do you feel connected to him? Still? 497 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 1: Does he? Does? He? Does he have an emotional place 498 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 1: in your life? You know, I thought I had moved 499 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: on from it, um, but I'm not gonna lie. I 500 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 1: did see him at stage coach and kind of my 501 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 1: stomach kind of you know, my heart dropped a little bit. 502 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: Not because I missed him or I still am in 503 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: love with him, but it's just he did have a 504 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 1: little I totally get that. It was so weird for 505 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: my women. Tell all, I was like, you know, I 506 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 1: got on the plane the day after I was done. 507 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: I was totally different situation from you. I was like 508 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: seven places you were top three. But I saw crist 509 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: Souls come out on stage four months after, you know, 510 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: I left the show, and like it out like I 511 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 1: was seeing a crush walking down the hallway towards me. 512 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 1: It was so weird. Well, I feel like it's you're 513 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: in such an intimate setting being on The Bachelor. I 514 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 1: feel like you're thinking about this person all day every day, 515 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 1: and you're really trying to see them be in your future. 516 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: Um it's just kind of weird that the second you 517 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 1: get eliminated, it's all cut off, like it's gone. You 518 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: don't really talk to them, you don't have their number 519 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: to text them or whatever. But it's also probably healthier 520 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: that way, much healthy you get over it faster. But 521 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: at the same time, I don't know if you necessarily 522 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: have closure what I mean, no, no closure. So even 523 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: though I did see him at after the final Rose, 524 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: you know, it's we're still on TV. It's not like 525 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm sitting at a booth with him at a restaurant 526 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: and we're just like, Okay, it was good, thank you, 527 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 1: you know. Um so yeah, my heart kind of dropped 528 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: a little bit. What was his reaction to seeing you? Um, well, 529 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 1: I was at a couple of girls, and I think 530 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 1: he said hi, yeah, well you'd expect like he handled 531 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 1: it fine. I mean, to be quite honest with you, 532 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: it would have been nice. It would if he would 533 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 1: have came up and said like, Hi, how are you doing? 534 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: Not that he needs to be interested in me or 535 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: just but we did have, you know, just like and 536 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 1: said yeah. He kind of just through his little peace 537 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: sign up. He's like hey, and I was just like, Hi, 538 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: let's positively let's talk about this for a sake. I 539 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: haven't quite undergot this yet. Is the peace sign like 540 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: a thing or is it just his reaction? Because like 541 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: I do, I do this thing with my hands. My 542 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: buddy Dylan, my best friend from from high school, he 543 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 1: does this weird thing with his hands when he sees people, 544 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: and he like moves his fingers in kind of like 545 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,560 Speaker 1: a creepy wave way, and he doesn't mean to. It's 546 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: just like his reaction, right. So is Colton's reaction like 547 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: a peace sign? Like? Is that like what? He's just 548 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: like his thing? I think it's his acknowledgement. It's like 549 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm acknowledging you hey, peace sign? Huh, Because it's in 550 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 1: pictures a lot doesn't he's saying peace. She's not saying peace. 551 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: That's like his version of going like hi is a 552 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: peace sign. Oh, I didn't know. I see it in in pictures. 553 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 1: I was a little confused because, like, you don't see 554 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people throwing up the peace signing with you. 555 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: I always I used to throw up the piece signing 556 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: quite a bit, and in pictures with like the duck lips, 557 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: that was a big thing back there. Yeah, so he 558 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: threw up the piece sign at you, Um, which is fine. 559 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting this man that you were falling in 560 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: love with him, just a matter of bunths ago a 561 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: little awkward. I just wish he was with Fassi. Yeah, 562 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: and she said hi, and it wasn't like weird. And 563 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how. Yeah, it's a 564 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: good conversation because I don't know how you handle those moments, right, 565 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: I mean, if right now I ran into Lauren with 566 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: Jessica on my arm, I know that's not the same. 567 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 1: That's like you running into a girl from your season, 568 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: hence Amanda, and you would be way cooler with Amanda, 569 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: and you would be cooler with Jojo or anyone. Yeah, 570 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 1: I guess so, yeah, because like it is something you've 571 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 1: shared together, it's something that you know is a little weird. 572 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 1: I wonder if in his head he just did didn't 573 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: know how or what to do. And I think that's 574 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: that's what I mean by I think growing up, you 575 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean? He honestly could have just came 576 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 1: up and been like, Hi, how are you doing. I 577 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: hope you guys are having fun, Like I'm not expecting 578 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: like a huge conversation. But that would have just cut 579 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: the tension, slash the awkwardness, and I'm like, Okay, we're 580 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: cool as opposed to does he hate me? What's going 581 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: on is awkward? You know? Seeing nexs is weird. Next 582 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: shows is odd. I can't imagine that Cassie is putting 583 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 1: pressure on him not to talk to the other women. Yeah, 584 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,479 Speaker 1: I mean she ends with Calin all the time. I think. 585 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: I mean I humped her. I said hello to this 586 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: is uh in batination. You're going to see these people. 587 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: This happens all the time. It's always been an interesting 588 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 1: talk to me, is when you see the bachelor that 589 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 1: is dumped you, what is your reaction? I asked, Amanda, Um, 590 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: she's here in Napple with this, Amanda Stanton Is I've 591 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: asked her, you know, what was it like your thoughts 592 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,959 Speaker 1: on me after the show? Like did you hate me? 593 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 1: Were you angry at me? Um? You know I ended 594 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: up proposing to your best friend, Like were you happy 595 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: for us? Are those things? I think for a while 596 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 1: it is a little confusing because you have a relationship, 597 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 1: you care about this person, and then all of a sudden, 598 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: at a rose ceremony, which this is one part of 599 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 1: this show that is completely odd, you say goodbye and 600 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: you're done, or in the caseta you're done. Yeah, it's 601 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: it's it's a weird deal. I'm sure Colton will navigate 602 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: this thing the best he can. It sounds like he tried, 603 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: but I get it there. The thing that sucks here 604 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: is there's no closure and a piece sign at a 605 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: concert isn't going to help that, not really, but I 606 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: don't know what would. But it's cool. It's cool. I 607 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: know we sound like broken records because every week, whenever 608 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 1: we have a guess that is quite possibly going to 609 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: be on Bachelor in Paradise, we ask, so, who do 610 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: you want to see there? Yeah, but it's a legitimate question, 611 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: and we know the producers are asking you the same thing. 612 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: But isn't it nice that they ask? I mean, it's 613 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 1: that they want to be a little to help abound, 614 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: and you know, they just they ultimately want us to 615 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:04,959 Speaker 1: fall in love and help us out in any way 616 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: they possibly can, which I love, But also I felt 617 00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: it was ridiculous my first time around. To be honest, 618 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not gonna like anyone. I was like, 619 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: if you want me to stick around, you're I don't 620 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: know what you're gonna donna come up with some weird 621 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: method to keep me around because I don't like anyone, like, 622 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't like people like I don't like guys like 623 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: I just I was like, I like a guy once 624 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: every two years, and I'm sure you don't have that 625 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 1: guy in your catalog. Well look a look at the irony. 626 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 1: It could not be more ridiculous. But Tasia, try to 627 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,239 Speaker 1: take it as seriously as possible. Right now, who do 628 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: you actually think that you could be interested in? Well, 629 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: there are some attractive men on Hannaby season. Let's talk 630 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: about that real quick. So a couple names come to mind. 631 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: See if I name any of them? Right, Peter the pilot, 632 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: who's like you been you see the resemblance a little bit. Yeah, 633 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 1: he seems like a better dude to me. He can 634 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: fly a plane. I can, I mean I can mow 635 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: my lawn. Um. Con the Connors, Jed and John Paul 636 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: Jones are some of the names that pop off. Also, 637 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: fans are calling Matt Donald who was really last week 638 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: the new season's grocery storts Joe. I don't think I 639 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: agree with that, but I do think he'll be in 640 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: in paradise. Are any of those names of the guys? Yeah, 641 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 1: you know who else people are talking about who's not 642 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: on our list here that I think last week we 643 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: raved over over and over again. He was super nice. 644 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: Dude is Mike? Yeah, Demi and Katie had really good 645 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: things to say about him, and they are watching him 646 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: in first person. So yeah, I think some of those 647 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: guys are pretty cute. Actually, But which one? Connor s right? Um, 648 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: let's talk about jawlines. I think we can compare them 649 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: by jawlines. Cornor s was like the I feel like 650 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: like that all American guy. He was twenty four. They 651 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: kissed on the couch inside the dining room. I know, Yeah, 652 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:10,440 Speaker 1: it's got to be him. I think you're talking about. Yeah, 653 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,479 Speaker 1: he's able, very adorable. He just has like a cute 654 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: baby face that I just I don't know if you 655 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: can see country. If he can, then it's a game 656 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:22,320 Speaker 1: over see. I love how like not seriously you're taking 657 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 1: this and I can't wait to watch the Week one 658 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: of Paradise and you'd be like, I really like him, 659 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 1: stilly who else? Um? I also think Tyler is pretty cute. Yeah, 660 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: everybody thinks Tyler is cute. Yeah, I mean, how could 661 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,479 Speaker 1: you not though, Yeah, he's a good looking I don't 662 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 1: like the fact that you don't know. I mean, my 663 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: dad always says, I'm like, Dad, isn't that guy attractive? 664 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: He's like, I don't know. I think, what do you 665 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 1: mean you don't know? I'm pretty I think I can 666 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: tell when the guy's attractive, Like, but sometimes it's a 667 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 1: little shocking, like that guy doesn't look like he wouldn't 668 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: stand out to me, like looking to me, then that 669 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: guy like I was upstairs at Morgan Evans with googly eye, 670 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: It's like, I think that dude's good looking. Yeah. Yeah, 671 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: By the way, I just wanna let anybody know that's listening. 672 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 1: If you hear some background noise, people walking through, music, 673 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: playing drums beating. We are live in Napa Valley listening 674 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: to Morgan Evans and Scotty McCoury at a at a 675 00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 1: brunch concert. It's beautiful. There's brunch at the Blue Note 676 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: downtown Napa. It's amazing, just such a beautiful place. Wine 677 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 1: is flowing, drinks are coming in and Morgan Evans and 678 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: Scottie and then also gone West with Colby Calais. Amazing. 679 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: You share your story, your day dreams. Yeah, we'll get 680 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 1: back to Tasia in a second, but let's talk about me. 681 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 1: So I was weird. I walked upstairs. Uh right, now 682 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: we're downstairs, and so it's a little quieter for us. 683 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: But again you can hear some background nowise but he 684 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 1: as we walked upstairs to grab some food and I 685 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: walk into this this woman just started belting from the stage. Yeah, 686 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 1: And I'm like, wow, her voice is crazy. And a 687 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: guy next to me and the brunch line goes, yeah, 688 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 1: that's coolby Calais, and I kind of did your thing. 689 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 1: My heart skipped a little bit because I have for 690 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: a long time dreamed of what like had a fantasy 691 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: and like we're really one of My only fantasies I've 692 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: ever had is waking up with a wife that could 693 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 1: sing to me the way Colby cal A sings, Oh 694 00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: my God. So then I asked, well, does Jess have 695 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: Colby's voice, or saying I don't know if she does, 696 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: it's maybe a day Jannet won't come true for you. 697 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: It's okay. Colby is beautiful. Her voice was magical, and 698 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 1: I never thought I would see her in person. So 699 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: when I was shocked, it was like, there's like a 700 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 1: you know when you yeah, you know, when you fantasize 701 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: about somebody and you make it up in your head 702 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,839 Speaker 1: and you have this crush as a kid, or as 703 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: a high school or as a car or as a 704 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 1: thirty year old, and all of a sudden, like you 705 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: see that person in your like in person for the 706 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,759 Speaker 1: first time, and you're like, I feel like, creepily, we've 707 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: had a relationship for like ten years. That's kind of 708 00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: how I felled upstairs. It's like, why are you up 709 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: there with an other man? Her husband? That hurts me 710 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,800 Speaker 1: and I'm in the audience and I've got to watch. 711 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,720 Speaker 1: It's not cool. Uh So yeah, anyways, gone West, Scotty 712 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: McCary and Morgan Evan's playing upstairs and Tastia sitting down 713 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 1: with us on the podcast. Let's get back to you. 714 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,000 Speaker 1: So we've talked about Hannah Bees, guys and who you're into. 715 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 1: What about from past seasons? Past seasons? Um, let me think, 716 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: Let me think. I think Blake's cute. He's gonna have 717 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: a hard time on Paradise. That dude is gonna be 718 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: I think like the Tastia's um of the world. Okay, 719 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,120 Speaker 1: what's gonna Let me finish this real quick. I think 720 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: Blake is gonna have a hard time because I think 721 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 1: he is a really good dude. He's a good friend 722 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:47,720 Speaker 1: of mine, he's really good looking, and I really like Blake. Um, 723 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 1: I think he's gonna have the dean stuff where some 724 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 1: some women are gonna be after him because he is 725 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: a good guy and he's worth the pursuit. And he's 726 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: going to be into some women as well, and they're 727 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 1: gonna be pursuing each other back and forth, and I 728 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 1: think he's gonna get himself into trouble. My theory. So 729 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: going in to Paradise for the girls, they will only see, well, 730 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: this year is a little bit different because the Bachelorette 731 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: started so early, but normally the girls only get to 732 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:15,720 Speaker 1: see about two episodes of the Bachelorette season before going 733 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: to tape Paradise, so they don't really know the guys 734 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: that well. You know, they've only seen maybe three to 735 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: five minutes of each of them on screen at that point. 736 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,160 Speaker 1: And normally it's the guys from past seasons who they've 737 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 1: looked up to as like almost celebrities, though, the guys 738 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: that they want to see going in because they're like, 739 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, he's like such a big deal. He's 740 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 1: so cute, Like I used to watch him as a fan. 741 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 1: So it's like getting your celebrity crush in Paradise versus 742 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,879 Speaker 1: these guys that you know, they're new and you don't 743 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:45,919 Speaker 1: know anything about. So that's why I feel like Blake 744 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 1: is going to be a big ticket. What do you 745 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: think about that? I do? I really? I mean, I 746 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 1: think I think all the way around, Blake is going 747 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: to be a big deal. I also think you're I 748 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: don't know who else we've talked up being there. I mean, Chase, 749 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: I could see being in Paradise this year. I think, yeah, 750 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 1: he's he's gonna have wouldn't he do it, Like, why 751 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 1: he shouldn't he done it yet? I don't know. I 752 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 1: mean he's done next on the Beach. You should definitely 753 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 1: do Paradise, M Dean. I think we'll probably be there. 754 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 1: We've talked about it before with him, we joked about it. 755 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: He hasn't confirmed, but you know, Blake, like, those guys 756 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 1: are really good dudes who I like, and they're going 757 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:27,840 Speaker 1: to be big tickets. And then you have a group 758 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,360 Speaker 1: of women who are going to be there, who I 759 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 1: think are incredible. So we've gotten to know most of 760 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 1: you through this podcast, and I think this year's Paradise 761 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,279 Speaker 1: will have an incredible cast. Yeah, I'm super excited. Incredible cast, 762 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: So Blake from past anybody else? It's always fun. I 763 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,279 Speaker 1: like this game. You know, were you a fan of 764 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: the show beforehand? I only watched the season with you, 765 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 1: like I watched here and there the others. But yeah, OK, 766 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,320 Speaker 1: so no names really stick out to me anyone else. 767 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:02,879 Speaker 1: Here's my next question for you, because here's one thing 768 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: that I hope doesn't happen, but it's great for us 769 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: when it does. Is we like you. You're a friend 770 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: of ours. You've been on the podcast now a couple 771 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,520 Speaker 1: of times we've traveled to NAPA together. We've spent some 772 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: good time hanging out. Um, no judgment on from this podcast. 773 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: Trust me, we've seen it all, we've done it all, 774 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: we've been in and all. You should ask Ashulely. She's 775 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 1: done some crazy things and you should ask me. I've 776 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,280 Speaker 1: done some wild things as well, some of them. Um, 777 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 1: that's some weird stuff happened. But people come on the 778 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: podcast before Paradise end up going on Paradise and we 779 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:42,480 Speaker 1: see an emotional breakdown. We see we watch our friends 780 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: on television just lose it or flourish into love. If 781 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,279 Speaker 1: you were to predict right now how Paradise plays out 782 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: for you, what would you predict happens? Um, I might 783 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: have a breakdown, I think. So. Really why, I feel 784 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:07,359 Speaker 1: like I'm at a place where I'm really happy with 785 00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: being single and being me, but I want a relationship, 786 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,279 Speaker 1: and so I feel like I'm going to put myself 787 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 1: out there. I'm going to be authentic and myself and 788 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 1: really like lean into the situation. So I'm gonna be vulnerable, 789 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,879 Speaker 1: and I feel like I might just give my heart 790 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,400 Speaker 1: to someone. This is why I kind of laugh, because 791 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: I watch you guys just being so innocent, naive to 792 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 1: the whole the power of Paradise, I've heard. It's just 793 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: different than it is than The Bachelor was because with 794 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,319 Speaker 1: the Bachelor, it was more of a sorority. It was 795 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:47,279 Speaker 1: all about hanging out with your friends, cooking, drinking wine, traveling. 796 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 1: And you barely ever saw the Bachelor, you know. I mean, 797 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,839 Speaker 1: you've got more time with them because you got so far. 798 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 1: But as far as like your day to day activities, 799 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 1: sevent your days was just hanging out with the girls 800 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: in Paradise. It's it's dating experience completely immersed in like 801 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,480 Speaker 1: your it's your whole life because you don't get to 802 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 1: escape the people that you like and the people who 803 00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 1: are trying to date the person. Why am I doing 804 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: this when put myself also like a way for me 805 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 1: if I compared the two experiences, was much more of 806 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 1: a growing and self learning process. Well that's why I 807 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: felt about The Bachelor. Yeah, and that's why I'm thinking 808 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 1: about dating Paradise to because I transformed so much. One 809 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: piece of advice because actually I have been around this 810 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 1: for a while. I've never been a Paradise and um, 811 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 1: but we have done the podcast and talk to many 812 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 1: people and seeing the ups and downs of this franchise, right, 813 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 1: people coming off the show as a villain and being criticized, 814 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 1: and people coming off the show is the beloved and 815 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:52,319 Speaker 1: being celebrated. Don't be scared to be vulnerable and let 816 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 1: your heart go because ultimately, even at the worst case 817 00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 1: scenario ends and heartbreak, I don't think you'll read credit. 818 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: And we haven't seen anybody come on and go I 819 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: regret it what we have heard because people come on 820 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: and say I wish I would have allowed myself more 821 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:12,839 Speaker 1: of an opportunity to explore it. Now, pain can happen, right, 822 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: And that's kind of why I say I think I'm 823 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: gonna have a breakdown, just because like I feel like 824 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be vulnerable and I'm going to put myself 825 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: out there, and I don't mean it in a bad way, like, 826 00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 1: but I just feel like I'm really gonna lay it 827 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,719 Speaker 1: all out there. Yeah, yesterday, you've been saying that you 828 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 1: think you may have been too careful about how you 829 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,880 Speaker 1: appeared on the Bachelor. Well, it's not that I was 830 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: like trying to be something I wasn't. I just I 831 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:39,000 Speaker 1: was a little more reserved. You didn't see my silly 832 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 1: side a bunch um, which, as you all know, I 833 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 1: am pretty loud, outgoing and silly. But um, that's why 834 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: I want to bring to Paradise systemmer. I want you 835 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,279 Speaker 1: guys to see more my fun side as opposed to 836 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: a composed before. We heard this before Dean and then 837 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 1: I was black boxed twice during this season, and I'm 838 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 1: going I'm hearing Dan talking about getting a little Peter touched. 839 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 1: That's so funny. But you're right, you can't hide as 840 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: much in Paradise though. So if you did feel like 841 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: you were reserved in the Bachelor, I think it gives 842 00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 1: you a space of environment you can get away with 843 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 1: being reserved by think in Paradise just like an emotional explosion. Yeah, great, 844 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: it's great. We're going to get to good notation on 845 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,880 Speaker 1: a whole new level. All right, Um, My last question 846 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,720 Speaker 1: before we jump into the recap for this episode, episode 847 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,440 Speaker 1: two of Panic season is, Um, have you been in 848 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: touch with your ex husband at all? Oh? No, so 849 00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,000 Speaker 1: he you don't know how he's been affected or feels 850 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 1: about you being on the Bachelor. Um, he did actually 851 00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,720 Speaker 1: reach out to me once wow the season was playing, 852 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: and he said he was proud of me. That's nice. Yeah, 853 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 1: and he said, um that he was happy that I 854 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,319 Speaker 1: was being myself and he wishes the best for me. 855 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,880 Speaker 1: So that was nice. Um, that was before you know, 856 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: that's probably like the third episode. Ut the know how 857 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 1: far you got? What queen? What he thought? It's are now? 858 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, Tasha. We're gonna take a break here 859 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,680 Speaker 1: for a second. When we come back, we're gonna break 860 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 1: down the second episode of Hannaby season And at the 861 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,239 Speaker 1: same time, we have some reader emails that I want 862 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 1: to discuss with all of you. I will play the 863 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,280 Speaker 1: host and YouTube will play the answer ease. But up first, 864 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 1: let's talk about zipp Recruiter. Hiring is challenging. We all 865 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: know it. But there's one place you can go where 866 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 1: hiring is simple, fast and smart, a place where growing 867 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,760 Speaker 1: businesses connect to qualified candidates. That place is zipp recruiter 868 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: dot Com. 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I want to 905 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: make sure we run through these so short answers preferably, 906 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: but make sure you express your opinions first question or 907 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 1: first emails from Kristen. Kristen says Chasen. We need to 908 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,399 Speaker 1: talk about chasing. I talked about Jason last week a lot, 909 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 1: maybe out here on Access. He seems so sweet, motivated, kind, 910 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 1: carrying the whole package. We need to get him on 911 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:09,279 Speaker 1: the podcast and more more about him. Let's get hashtag 912 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 1: justice for Chasing trending and get this man on parodie. 913 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 1: So he talked a second ago about what's his face 914 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 1: as the next pilot? No, Matt Donald, the next Joe 915 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,360 Speaker 1: is chasing that guy now the most memorable exit. But 916 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 1: I also thought Chason was another memorable exit. Both of 917 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 1: them left too early. They both showed a lot of 918 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: light that day. They stood out, and then they were 919 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,879 Speaker 1: eliminated night one. I missed those old days where you 920 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 1: didn't know anyone who was eliminated night one. Yeah, what 921 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,640 Speaker 1: do you think? I think he is so cute? Yeah, 922 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 1: and he's a pilot. He was so threatened by Peter 923 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: coming in with his his uniform on and giving hand 924 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:56,880 Speaker 1: of the wings. Yeah, really lost the pilot position. I'm surprised. 925 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm really surprised by the chasing. Next. Okay, next one 926 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: is from uh. I'm gonna say lease, it's l I 927 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:04,799 Speaker 1: s E. I want to make sure just to say 928 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 1: the name, because I'm sure she's out there listening, and 929 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,400 Speaker 1: Lice Lease thanks for sending the email. It's called Luke p. 930 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,320 Speaker 1: I haven't heard anyone mentioned that, she says, but my 931 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: husband noticed something right away with Luke P. When he 932 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: came out to comfort Hannah after the Scott things. She 933 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 1: said she was so cold, and then again on the 934 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 1: couch that she was freezing. He never once offered her 935 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 1: his coat. That is someone who was out for himself. 936 00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: She says, I am marrying the man who famously gave 937 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:39,200 Speaker 1: Caitlin his jacket once he was eliminated. I remember that 938 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,640 Speaker 1: moment and everyone was swooning, and I had just gotten 939 00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 1: home from Paradise and he had just like just dumped me. 940 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 1: And I was like, it's so perfect with him, something 941 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,280 Speaker 1: about a guy giving you his jacket. It's just yeah, 942 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: it's nice, Yeah, it is nice. And you know what, 943 00:49:56,480 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 1: perhaps Luke was like, well, this gross, bright blue jacket 944 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 1: of mine would just really clash with her beautiful dress 945 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,640 Speaker 1: in the outfit. Yes, we you know, it's funny. Here 946 00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 1: we have another email from Lauren saying failing at comforting Hannah. 947 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 1: How is no one talking about this? She says, LUKEP 948 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,320 Speaker 1: goes out to comfort Hannah when she needed a break, 949 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 1: and she's sitting there shivering and saying that she's so 950 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 1: cold and that this guy doesn't even offer her his jacket. 951 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 1: This is such a look into Luke's personality, not into him. Now. 952 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,320 Speaker 1: I get that maybe he's just naive to the situation. 953 00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,719 Speaker 1: She doesn't see it, doesn't fully have clarity on what 954 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 1: to do. However, it is a mistake, and I'm telling 955 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,839 Speaker 1: you I in my history of watching the show on 956 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: social media too, have never seen a reaction more against 957 00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 1: a first impression Rose Winner than Luke P this week. 958 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,919 Speaker 1: It was a failure on his part, but I think 959 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 1: it just it was a little bit the other things 960 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 1: that kind of went alongside of it that made people go, 961 00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:03,359 Speaker 1: something's up here. Real moment. Yeah. I think it was Nick, 962 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,560 Speaker 1: who famously always says just the most real thing he's 963 00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 1: really good at. He said something along the lines of 964 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,040 Speaker 1: I feel bad for Luke P. He had so much 965 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 1: sex that God had to intervene. Kind of what he said. 966 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 1: He's like, I was having so much sex that I 967 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:19,799 Speaker 1: was in the shower one day and God was like, 968 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:24,080 Speaker 1: stop having sex. Um. I mean, here's the thing. I 969 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 1: believe fully that God intervenes and comes into our lives 970 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 1: at random times, especially when in moments of like depletion 971 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,719 Speaker 1: or darkness. I do think it was the way it 972 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,799 Speaker 1: was said that was like a little bit off, like, 973 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,080 Speaker 1: you know, like it just made it feel like, what 974 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,759 Speaker 1: are you really trying to tell us, Like, I'm a 975 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,920 Speaker 1: good looking guy? Tell us he was the show. Yeah 976 00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,000 Speaker 1: that was Girls always wanted me, didn't he say that? Yeah? 977 00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 1: He was like, you know, I'm attractive guy. How a 978 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: lot of girls coming after me? It took advantage of 979 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: it in college. Why did he have to tell us 980 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: that he found God while in the shower. It was 981 00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 1: like he was trying to give an image to us. Well, 982 00:51:57,880 --> 00:51:59,160 Speaker 1: he was in the shower when they like did it. 983 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,319 Speaker 1: Then he took a hour it was showering and they're 984 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: filming it. Yeah. Yeah, it's kind of like he's not 985 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,319 Speaker 1: doing a lot to help himself right now. Staying in 986 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:10,480 Speaker 1: the shower so many times. It makes me feel like 987 00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,080 Speaker 1: in Legally Blonde, which she's like, you're washing her hair 988 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 1: in the shower. We all hear hope um that Luke 989 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 1: p has a redemption story coming up, because right now 990 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,400 Speaker 1: he isn't doing a lot to help himself. The fans 991 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: reaction to him hasn't been extremely positive. I don't know, 992 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,719 Speaker 1: I've still stay clear of how this thingen is some 993 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,680 Speaker 1: pump to watch it play out. So far, he is 994 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: the front runner. We all are hoping for a turner, 995 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 1: and we've seen it many times before. The most drastic 996 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 1: turnaround in history is Colton, Right, Colton goes from being 997 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 1: everybody's least favorite to everybody's you know, favorite, within a 998 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 1: few months. He was never at least favorite. He was 999 00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:51,239 Speaker 1: not celebrated for a while after Paradise, he was definitely criticized. 1000 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 1: People were definitely criticizing him. But I never had anything 1001 00:52:54,719 --> 00:53:00,080 Speaker 1: against him. He was confused situation. We're very confused with 1002 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 1: him being the Bachelor. Yeah, there's a lot of confused. Okay, 1003 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,800 Speaker 1: maybe maybe I shouldn't have gone his drastic as everybody's 1004 00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 1: least fairy, people confused. There was things against him. Same 1005 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,360 Speaker 1: with Luke. So we're hoping Luke has his redemption story 1006 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:14,799 Speaker 1: or do we just want to see I don't want 1007 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,919 Speaker 1: to see anybody burn up in flames. But he there 1008 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 1: after the finals or when the Hannah was announced. Yeah, okay, 1009 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,040 Speaker 1: Well I liked him then. I thought he was charming 1010 00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: then like he was very into her, but now I 1011 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 1: kind of feel weird about so it seemed to come 1012 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 1: back right, I mean, we do ultimately and actually not 1013 00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,400 Speaker 1: always say the tasia on this podcast, Like it's the 1014 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 1: part of the fun in the game, and watching the 1015 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,240 Speaker 1: show is like seeing people and then like criticizing judging 1016 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:41,880 Speaker 1: because you're doing it from a distance and we know 1017 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,000 Speaker 1: how it affects you. Ultimately, the best part is when 1018 00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,839 Speaker 1: they walk off of this in good light and like 1019 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,759 Speaker 1: they have like their last week is like one that 1020 00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:53,040 Speaker 1: like the nice celebratory music is playing and they run 1021 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 1: off into the distance, you know, single and go on 1022 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 1: the paradise and find somebody. But sometimes it doesn't happen 1023 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,560 Speaker 1: that way. Yeah, and um has been saying that you 1024 00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 1: can't really hate someone or dislike somebody once you get 1025 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 1: to know them. And I think at this point in 1026 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,359 Speaker 1: the season, it's so easy for us to criticize and 1027 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:14,640 Speaker 1: just make lighthearted fun even like poke out appearances because 1028 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,399 Speaker 1: we don't know them. But the second they come into 1029 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: our studio and we do get to talk to them, 1030 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 1: we never make fun of them again. We just want 1031 00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:22,439 Speaker 1: to talk us fans right now. I want to talk 1032 00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,680 Speaker 1: to you guys. When we were talking about these guys, 1033 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 1: it's earlier on the season, as if I'm sitting there 1034 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 1: on the couch watching with you I don't want to 1035 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 1: be like I don't want to give them too much 1036 00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,399 Speaker 1: credit because then you guys will be bored. So let's 1037 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:35,360 Speaker 1: see what Luke p does coming up next. Jacket decision. 1038 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 1: If he sat in studio right now, I tell him 1039 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 1: that was a really terrible move. Dude, you've got to 1040 00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 1: be better. I hope you get better, and if you don't, 1041 00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,120 Speaker 1: maybe he was just really nervous at night. We'll give 1042 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:48,200 Speaker 1: it to you. Didn't seem like anyways. From not from Dawn, 1043 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,520 Speaker 1: she goes, I'm now a Hannah fan. To our point, exactly, 1044 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,160 Speaker 1: times change, opinions change. I have to say I was 1045 00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,600 Speaker 1: not a fan of Hannah be being the Bachelor, she says, 1046 00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:02,759 Speaker 1: but now I have seen episode one and I love her. 1047 00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to see someone who is so real. 1048 00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: If this is all an act, I don't want to know. 1049 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,479 Speaker 1: She is raw, real and adorable. It reminds me here 1050 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 1: of um an Instagram story I saw with one of 1051 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,279 Speaker 1: our favorite people who also does an iHeart podcast with 1052 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,880 Speaker 1: Becca Tilly called Scrubbing In with Becca Antanya. Tanya had 1053 00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,400 Speaker 1: an Instagram story that says, I want to start a 1054 00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,319 Speaker 1: Hannah by fan club now because I love her. So 1055 00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,520 Speaker 1: much people are loving on Hannah, Tasha, what are your 1056 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:33,880 Speaker 1: thoughts on Hannah be I like Hannah by um. I 1057 00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 1: think that I got to really see her grow Uncleton 1058 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,760 Speaker 1: season and towards the end of the of the season, 1059 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:44,600 Speaker 1: I was a huge fan of her. She is crazy, 1060 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 1: but in a good way. Like she is very raw, 1061 00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,600 Speaker 1: she is very real. She will call you out and 1062 00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 1: she just had a lot of emotion. She has a 1063 00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,719 Speaker 1: lot of emotion, and sometimes I think of the good thing. 1064 00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 1: People will be like, you're crazy. It's like, no, no, no no, 1065 00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:03,560 Speaker 1: let's let's alter the word crazy and call them emotionful. Yeah, 1066 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,040 Speaker 1: it's crazy. Having emotions and displaying them is not a 1067 00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,440 Speaker 1: sign of craziness at all. But I feel in this 1068 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:13,760 Speaker 1: kind of situation, you need to be like that, emotion filled, 1069 00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,239 Speaker 1: like that motionful. I mean, you know, if that's the 1070 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 1: word soa answer us this, you would know. Um is 1071 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,839 Speaker 1: what we're seeing right now in act? Oh definitely not. 1072 00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,879 Speaker 1: We like Hanna, but told you show guys out there 1073 00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:32,640 Speaker 1: who didn't believe that Ashley did less. One's from Lara 1074 00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:39,920 Speaker 1: l a r As Laura Laura Sorry either way, Um, 1075 00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,759 Speaker 1: Hannah's Silence. It's titled What's Up? With the Hannah's radio 1076 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,640 Speaker 1: silence on Instagram. I thought the lead always promotes the show, 1077 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:49,080 Speaker 1: especially premiere, yet we have nothing. Could this mean she's 1078 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:53,760 Speaker 1: completely heartbroken and burned from her season? Ashley have the answers? Okay, okay, 1079 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 1: her season didn't stop filming until last week, so she 1080 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:59,200 Speaker 1: literally didn't get her phone back until like the past 1081 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 1: couple of days, and she did Instagram for the first 1082 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:07,720 Speaker 1: time on Wednesday. How crazy is that? As we're watching 1083 00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 1: her love story begin, it is then ending at the 1084 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,080 Speaker 1: same time. So Banana's like, it's never been like this, 1085 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 1: But I think it's kind of cool, Like she's truly 1086 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:21,160 Speaker 1: experiencing hopefully bliss right now and we're just starting to 1087 00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 1: watch that relationship form. Amazing, amazing, amazing. So actually has 1088 00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 1: all the answers, Tasia has all the answers, and they 1089 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:31,600 Speaker 1: have all the opinions on the second episode of The Bachelorette. 1090 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 1: But before we get there, let's take a break talk 1091 00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:39,800 Speaker 1: about sleep number, sleep number. Hey, Ashley, I love sleep number. 1092 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: Slept in a sleep number bed. I haven't you know 1093 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 1: what there's like people who have slept and sleep in 1094 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:51,480 Speaker 1: her beds and people who haven't, And it's like two 1095 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,800 Speaker 1: different teams. I'm on the team that has and I 1096 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 1: love elevates like I think you can like basically sleep 1097 00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: sitting up, which is really good for drainage of your 1098 00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 1: face in the morning, so you can get away with 1099 00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,640 Speaker 1: the ice cubes that you stick on need cubes anymore. 1100 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,800 Speaker 1: I actually don't do it anymore. That's a shocker. Um. 1101 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:16,040 Speaker 1: Remember when when Actuley and I did Paradise or Paradise? Um? 1102 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: What do you call winter games together? So the first 1103 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 1: time I'd seen her with her face mask and she 1104 00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,400 Speaker 1: walked down with these ice things on her eyes, I 1105 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:28,360 Speaker 1: was like, um, okay, maybe considered a sleep Number bed, 1106 00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:31,600 Speaker 1: but you thought you couldn't afford one. Hey, but here's 1107 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:36,120 Speaker 1: a question, Tasha, can you really afford another restless nice sleep? 1108 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,439 Speaker 1: I cannot. I know you can't, So check out Sleep 1109 00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 1: Number There's never been a better time to save. I'm 1110 00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 1: proving quality sleep now during the Moral Day sale at 1111 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 1: Queen three sixties. Smart bed starts at. So many couples 1112 00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,080 Speaker 1: disagree on mattress firmness. 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No excuses given you cannot afford another restless 1130 00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:54,520 Speaker 1: night's sleep. We don't want that for you. But if 1131 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: you do have a restless night's sleep, make sure you 1132 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,920 Speaker 1: tune into the almost of this podcast on iHeart Radio. 1133 00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:01,440 Speaker 1: Find the one years to you at sleeping dot com. 1134 01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,120 Speaker 1: Back slash Ben Today you know, one fun thing you 1135 01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: could do. One of the cool things is you can 1136 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,280 Speaker 1: go in those matches like shops and just laying a 1137 01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:11,360 Speaker 1: bunch of different beds. Have you're done that? You can 1138 01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 1: actually ask them, but I think they don't hate it. 1139 01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: If you're like, hey, can I just take a nap here? 1140 01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:21,000 Speaker 1: You're yeah, you have not think about how good it 1141 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:22,840 Speaker 1: is for marketing when you have a random dude laying 1142 01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:26,080 Speaker 1: on your bed. It's actually really sleeping. Essentially, the Bachelor 1143 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,360 Speaker 1: just came in to take a nap between meetings. She 1144 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,440 Speaker 1: couldn't go home. So I'm telling you The Bachelor has 1145 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,520 Speaker 1: been really good for me. Now it's like not awkward 1146 01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,680 Speaker 1: and weird for me to walk into a guys. Hey, 1147 01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna take a nap on your bed. Are 1148 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:43,320 Speaker 1: you cool with it? So let's talk Episode two, Taysha, 1149 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:44,720 Speaker 1: let's stick around for that. Is you cool with it? 1150 01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 1: That sounds great? Let's do it episode two to which 1151 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:55,800 Speaker 1: is also episode two. Yeah, we've been talking for a 1152 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:59,640 Speaker 1: long time, guys, and we're still here in Napa Valley 1153 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 1: hang out and here. Let me break down a little 1154 01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:05,440 Speaker 1: bit to get us started here with three people, it's 1155 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:09,280 Speaker 1: always a little difficult. We're now in the Bachelor mansion, 1156 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,680 Speaker 1: so we're this is always an exciting time, right. We 1157 01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,480 Speaker 1: get to see the guys meet the guys who meet 1158 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 1: the ladies. But it's the bachelortte season, so we're talking. 1159 01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: We're meeting the guys really for the first time. Starting 1160 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,800 Speaker 1: to really feel different watching this episode that I did 1161 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:26,160 Speaker 1: last week. You know, I'm so premiers. I know they 1162 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 1: have to happen the way that they happen, but they 1163 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:33,360 Speaker 1: don't get me like jazz Up watched this episode and 1164 01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,400 Speaker 1: now I'm getting excited. I'm starting to feel like I'm 1165 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:39,480 Speaker 1: rooting for some people. I like watching some of the chemistry. 1166 01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,480 Speaker 1: I believe that now she can maybe find a guy, 1167 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,680 Speaker 1: because I know last week wasn't super thrilled about the bunch, 1168 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:48,240 Speaker 1: said there was only like three right, And now I'm 1169 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,479 Speaker 1: looking at this, I'm like, oh, he's cute. I thought 1170 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:54,120 Speaker 1: he was. He's cuter. Okay, everybody's looking better. Everybody's being 1171 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:56,320 Speaker 1: really charming. I said that about a couple of the guys. 1172 01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: I was really taken aback by last week because I 1173 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 1: wasn't thrilled by any one. But this week, I think 1174 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,280 Speaker 1: there's a lot of good contenders. Yeah, they're coming out 1175 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 1: of the woodwork. So the first date card says I'm 1176 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,800 Speaker 1: looking for Mr. Wright. This date card comes following luke 1177 01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: P and we see him say that he's already could 1178 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:17,840 Speaker 1: see himself marrying Hannah and having a family with her. 1179 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,040 Speaker 1: More about luke P later. We all have opinions about 1180 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:25,880 Speaker 1: lup Um. He's definitely a captivating figure this this season. 1181 01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,640 Speaker 1: First date card says I'm looking for Mr Wright. The 1182 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:32,320 Speaker 1: group date includes Grant Lucas, Mike Jed, Jonathan, j P, 1183 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:38,280 Speaker 1: J Dylan, and Luke P. It's accompanied by Drag Queen's 1184 01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 1: Alaska and Alyssa in America's Next Top Model, Miss Jay J. Love. 1185 01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,560 Speaker 1: Here's the thing, I think we can sum this one 1186 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,680 Speaker 1: up by saying that, yeah, luke P, he's he's a 1187 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:58,000 Speaker 1: buff dude. Right, short guy. We saw that luke P 1188 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:03,200 Speaker 1: is short. Yeah, that's why he is so like why 1189 01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 1: it's always my excuse is I'm a tall guy and 1190 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 1: I'm not Jack because I'm tall leans out as opposed. Yeah, 1191 01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,000 Speaker 1: it's hard to get him compact together. You know what, 1192 01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to do a poll on Instagram. Would you 1193 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,240 Speaker 1: rather a muscular guy or a tall guy? And tall 1194 01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: is gonna let Easton who's like also like six three 1195 01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:28,080 Speaker 1: over there is? Yeah, I'm gonna do it right now. Yeah, 1196 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 1: thank you. Let's we'll give an update at the end 1197 01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: of this segment on what people respond with. Um, Tasha, 1198 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you, right, we see these guys walk out, uh, 1199 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 1: kind of showing off their skills and their talents. Did 1200 01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,440 Speaker 1: you enjoy this date? Yeah? Very much so. I think 1201 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,320 Speaker 1: I got to see a different side of all the guys. 1202 01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:55,360 Speaker 1: And I mean, who doesn't want to see guys and speedoes? Yeah? Well, 1203 01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:59,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want to, but the hot ones. 1204 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: It's fun to kind of like judge a little bit 1205 01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:05,200 Speaker 1: when you're on the couch with wine and your girlfriends. Yeah, okay, 1206 01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 1: where do your eyes go like on a guy when 1207 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,680 Speaker 1: he walks out of speedo? Is it like, no, you're 1208 01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,120 Speaker 1: like looking at his face? Look at his face, look 1209 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:15,960 Speaker 1: at his face as his abs? Okay? Did you like? 1210 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 1: I mean like the V like the little sex A 1211 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,960 Speaker 1: good V is what we called that what we call 1212 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,280 Speaker 1: it those sex bones? I call it a V. Yeah, 1213 01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:25,600 Speaker 1: I call it a V two. But like technically, if 1214 01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 1: you wanted to sex bones, I don't know I don't 1215 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:31,880 Speaker 1: think muscle because if you had bones, right, Yeah, you 1216 01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:35,880 Speaker 1: know I'm gonna start. I'm gonna go back to Denver 1217 01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:41,280 Speaker 1: and start really working on my V very fine, Thank you. 1218 01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 1: I need help. UM what we what I think a 1219 01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:50,000 Speaker 1: consensus is is from from social media and um our 1220 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,080 Speaker 1: emails already and the three of us talking. The guys 1221 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:56,920 Speaker 1: are looking better this episode than the last, like like 1222 01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 1: physically right, Like you had both mentioned that there's a 1223 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:04,040 Speaker 1: lot more guys here that you're attracted to than you 1224 01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,919 Speaker 1: were last week. I don't know what happened to them. 1225 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:09,280 Speaker 1: They all drink beauty juice or something, but yeah, I 1226 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:18,360 Speaker 1: can see that also here and then um Tyler Tyler 1227 01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:22,520 Speaker 1: g got better looking and then looking mostly because hearing 1228 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: this rivalry with Cam. Yeah, it's all starting to play out. 1229 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,600 Speaker 1: Stories are starting to unfold. Also, a story that's unfolding 1230 01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 1: is more and more. This loot Peak character continues to 1231 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:38,360 Speaker 1: be a presence on the show where we see him 1232 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,640 Speaker 1: on this day stand up and say, I'm generally starting 1233 01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:44,400 Speaker 1: to fall in love with you. Ridiculous. What's going on 1234 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:48,400 Speaker 1: with that? Too soon? Right week? Too? Have we seen 1235 01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:51,520 Speaker 1: something like that happened, especially from somebody at such a 1236 01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:55,280 Speaker 1: leadership position. This is his first date with her, and 1237 01:05:55,280 --> 01:05:59,120 Speaker 1: this is like their second day filming, So he's literally 1238 01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:01,520 Speaker 1: saying that within forty eight hours because we have that 1239 01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,439 Speaker 1: breakday in between, that he's falling in love in forty 1240 01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:06,880 Speaker 1: eight hours and saying it out. But that's not true. 1241 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:11,120 Speaker 1: That means he watched last season, he did his research, 1242 01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:15,040 Speaker 1: and he was very love the idea. Yes, he already 1243 01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,560 Speaker 1: had an idea of her in his mind, but don't 1244 01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,160 Speaker 1: you feel like everybody else, like all the other guys there. 1245 01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,000 Speaker 1: I mean, he was crowned then Mr. Wright, which I 1246 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:24,840 Speaker 1: think is just going to continue to kind of like 1247 01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,360 Speaker 1: fuel his ego if he has one, he's probably walking. 1248 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 1: I mean, he's now the the first Rose getter and receiver. 1249 01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, it all sounds weird. And then he's 1250 01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:41,439 Speaker 1: also crowned Mr right If, and everybody at the party 1251 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:43,680 Speaker 1: kind of feels it seems like they think he it's 1252 01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: way too soon for him right there, starting to judge 1253 01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:48,320 Speaker 1: him hands down. I mean, if everybody there is feeling 1254 01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:51,080 Speaker 1: like it's too soon, maybe he just really has that 1255 01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:56,880 Speaker 1: connection with her, or is there all tior motives here 1256 01:06:55,880 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 1: yet he's just buttering up simple that, Yeah, do you 1257 01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:02,920 Speaker 1: have more sympathy for her him than I don't know. 1258 01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:06,000 Speaker 1: I just think I think it's a little too soon. Honestly, 1259 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 1: it kind of makes me uncomfortable. It's hard putting myself 1260 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:10,640 Speaker 1: in that position. And there's no way I could have 1261 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 1: said that at the second Road ceremony or if that 1262 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,160 Speaker 1: second week guys that I love you too. Too many 1263 01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:20,360 Speaker 1: girls in his life, clearly, I just I have a 1264 01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:24,000 Speaker 1: hard time. I think there's a level here too that 1265 01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:27,320 Speaker 1: we might not even be speaking about yet. On this show, 1266 01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,000 Speaker 1: emotions happen quickly, right, everything sped up. There's a lot 1267 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:37,720 Speaker 1: of intention, you're isolated, you're pursuing one person. There's wisdom 1268 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:39,440 Speaker 1: and I think we should all watch this as viewers 1269 01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:42,000 Speaker 1: and what you say and what you don't say. Now 1270 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,880 Speaker 1: you might be feeling those emotions like holy cow, I'm 1271 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: feeling a rush of love and of lust and of 1272 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:52,720 Speaker 1: just just so much excitement. But when you're on the show, 1273 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,960 Speaker 1: you have to know that like who you are in 1274 01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,120 Speaker 1: real life as well, and go is this rational? Is 1275 01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,920 Speaker 1: this logical? Is this wise to now express? And I 1276 01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:04,000 Speaker 1: think when we see people express emotions and feelings on 1277 01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,400 Speaker 1: this show too soon or too aggressively or too early 1278 01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,640 Speaker 1: in or in situations that are not ideal. I mean Cam, 1279 01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:11,960 Speaker 1: we've seen artist Cam. We have to ask ourselves. The 1280 01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:14,000 Speaker 1: question is not if he's feeling it or not, because 1281 01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:15,680 Speaker 1: we don't know that, we can't be the judge of that, 1282 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:18,320 Speaker 1: but is it the wise thing to say and do 1283 01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:22,360 Speaker 1: at the time, and if it's genuine and if it's genuine, Ashley, 1284 01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,600 Speaker 1: what do you think? I just don't think it's genuine, 1285 01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:28,400 Speaker 1: and I think that you shouldn't say it until it's genuine. 1286 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 1: It's fair, right, Yeah, I agree? Okay, moving on to 1287 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:37,080 Speaker 1: uh date two. It's the one on one surprise one 1288 01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,160 Speaker 1: on one in my opinion, for Tyler g to get 1289 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:42,360 Speaker 1: the first one on one, right, You know what's sometimes 1290 01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:44,960 Speaker 1: it's a one off that you don't know their name yet. 1291 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,879 Speaker 1: And then sometimes it's like Blake, who was probably a standout. 1292 01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,880 Speaker 1: Who is your first date? Ben? Okay, I look at that, 1293 01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 1: So that one far and so did Blake and who knows? Maybe, uh, 1294 01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 1: maybe Tyler is a sleeper. Hannah Bey got the first 1295 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,599 Speaker 1: one on one day. Oh yeah, that's right. Look at that. 1296 01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:05,479 Speaker 1: It was kind of the markin to Hannah by and 1297 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: also thought Hanna Bey was going home after that, right, Yeah, 1298 01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 1: I think this date went very very well. You guys 1299 01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 1: like Tyler g Yeah, very manly A sweetheart tip? Is 1300 01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:20,599 Speaker 1: that how you would explain like manly um looking at 1301 01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,960 Speaker 1: him like he I think you both as we were 1302 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:24,960 Speaker 1: watching the episode together, you said, he kind of looks 1303 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:27,400 Speaker 1: like a Superman. Yeah, he's like a Superman character. He 1304 01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:29,400 Speaker 1: kind of looks like a bend Zorn, you know, like 1305 01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 1: a little like just like masculine. He'll take care of yeah, 1306 01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:36,840 Speaker 1: like he'll protect you like that. Hug must feel real 1307 01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:40,280 Speaker 1: good because he's like a man. He feels he feels 1308 01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 1: put together, like he feels like he knows what he's 1309 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 1: saying and why he's saying it while he's saying it. Right, Like, 1310 01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:48,400 Speaker 1: when I think about this, dude, I'm thinking about the 1311 01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:51,880 Speaker 1: fact that, like he is wise, he's calm and what 1312 01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:55,559 Speaker 1: he's saying. He's a good listener, he's available and ready 1313 01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:57,200 Speaker 1: to talk to her. But then even like when she 1314 01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:59,760 Speaker 1: gave him the rose, this little comment was, does this 1315 01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:03,400 Speaker 1: mean get to spend more time with you? That's cute. 1316 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,560 Speaker 1: That's cute, which is totally the opposite of Luke, who 1317 01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:11,080 Speaker 1: says stuff like you know, I'm attractive and like to 1318 01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:14,400 Speaker 1: get with me. That's just a lot, so I think 1319 01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,960 Speaker 1: it's so cute. Tyler keeps saying that he's the luckiest 1320 01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 1: man alive, and that is exactly what the bachelor, and 1321 01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,320 Speaker 1: especially Hannah wants to hear, because she's the kind of 1322 01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,519 Speaker 1: girl who doesn't want to play hard to get. She 1323 01:10:24,560 --> 01:10:26,920 Speaker 1: wants to know the guy is happy with her and 1324 01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:30,840 Speaker 1: very into her. Yeah. Moving on now to date card 1325 01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,719 Speaker 1: number three. Man, We're three dates into the season, already 1326 01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:39,960 Speaker 1: moving fast, moving quickly. This day includes Devin, Mateo Connor, 1327 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:44,439 Speaker 1: Darren Kevin, Dustin, Tyler, see Joey, Peter Garrett. The clue is, 1328 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,960 Speaker 1: let's get our love on track. The data is roller skating. 1329 01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:52,920 Speaker 1: It's not just roller skating, but they're competing in a derby. 1330 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:57,520 Speaker 1: Darren starts it out by predicting that chance someone ends 1331 01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:01,800 Speaker 1: in the hospital. I uh, you know what I like 1332 01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:05,880 Speaker 1: about Hannah right now? I really do think that she's 1333 01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:09,200 Speaker 1: doing a terrific job but putting these mento ease because 1334 01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:11,240 Speaker 1: when she says, hey, I don't care if these guys 1335 01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:13,680 Speaker 1: are great. I don't care if these guys are fantastic skaters. 1336 01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't care what they do. I just want them 1337 01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:19,040 Speaker 1: to have fun and be joy filled. That is an 1338 01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:22,960 Speaker 1: expectation that is not heavy. And I think that is 1339 01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:25,080 Speaker 1: such a big role for the lead to do to 1340 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,519 Speaker 1: the contestants, to not make them feel like they have 1341 01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:31,839 Speaker 1: to be something other than themselves and other than joy filled, 1342 01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:35,559 Speaker 1: to have the best experience and the show their best 1343 01:11:35,560 --> 01:11:38,680 Speaker 1: selves to Hannah, she's doing great. It is true. I 1344 01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:41,760 Speaker 1: think sometimes early on in these group dates that are competitive, 1345 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,000 Speaker 1: people are like, well, in order to stand out and 1346 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:47,599 Speaker 1: to get extra time, I need to win, and that's 1347 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,559 Speaker 1: that's not the case. Just have a good time. The 1348 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 1: you know, they were pretty carible, like honestly though, I mean, 1349 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad she said that expectation because I hope they 1350 01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:01,639 Speaker 1: had fun. They're awful scared. I have a roller skating 1351 01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:03,320 Speaker 1: in the years. We used to do these all night 1352 01:12:03,360 --> 01:12:05,400 Speaker 1: skates back in middle school. You guys ever do those? 1353 01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,200 Speaker 1: Had you ever do the like all nighters where you 1354 01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:10,600 Speaker 1: go into like a roller skating rink. They would, they 1355 01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:13,280 Speaker 1: would do it. Middle school is like a way for 1356 01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 1: your parents to get rid of you. I was never 1357 01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:18,479 Speaker 1: I was never allowed, but like my friends would go, 1358 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:19,880 Speaker 1: I was always It was like the thing to do 1359 01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,400 Speaker 1: in seven grade that like I couldn't go to I 1360 01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:23,840 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to, but I would go for like the 1361 01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,280 Speaker 1: first four hours and then have to leave. But yeah, 1362 01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,160 Speaker 1: they do all night skates, and you would hear some 1363 01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,680 Speaker 1: weird stuff go down at all night skates. Yeah no, 1364 01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,599 Speaker 1: I never did that. You know, that doesn't sound like 1365 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:36,040 Speaker 1: my cup of tea. But I like to go to 1366 01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:37,519 Speaker 1: bed earlier, and I don't think my parents would have 1367 01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:40,080 Speaker 1: let me say that. Hey, well, it was a bunch 1368 01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:45,920 Speaker 1: of dudes skating around a rink, falling into each other, fighting, arguing, grappling. Meanwhile, 1369 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:49,240 Speaker 1: back at the house, ABC man, I hope to never 1370 01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:52,240 Speaker 1: hear anybody ever talk to about themselves like that. Again, 1371 01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 1: there's something about this tie. I don't know how big 1372 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 1: a fan you are the podcast, our podcast. You probably 1373 01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 1: listen to it every week. But um yeah, one thing 1374 01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:04,040 Speaker 1: that actually, and I've really started to jump on is 1375 01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: people self describing themselves. Everyone the podcast is probably rolling 1376 01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:10,360 Speaker 1: their eyes right now, um because like here, Ben and 1377 01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:13,439 Speaker 1: I a shtually talk about this every week, Especially Ben, 1378 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,560 Speaker 1: I dislike when people self describe themselves. I think we 1379 01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:18,000 Speaker 1: should allow others to describe us and live a life 1380 01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:21,080 Speaker 1: worthy of being described. And then the second is I 1381 01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 1: don't like people talking about themselves in the third person. 1382 01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:30,000 Speaker 1: Always be Cam? Is that to a t He's literally 1383 01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:34,160 Speaker 1: laid out why did he say ABC Cat always be, 1384 01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:39,479 Speaker 1: always be Cam? And what does that mean exactly? I 1385 01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:40,840 Speaker 1: wonder how long it took him to come up with 1386 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:44,080 Speaker 1: that one, honestly, like it was like his grandma. It 1387 01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:46,759 Speaker 1: sounds like something like a grandma would be likely ABC 1388 01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,440 Speaker 1: always became And he's like, that's my motto till I'm forty, 1389 01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:55,639 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna always be Cam, which means nothing. Really, 1390 01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:57,479 Speaker 1: Like he's saying nothing, Like what does that mean to 1391 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 1: always be Cam? Like as as a viewer or as 1392 01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:02,080 Speaker 1: a friend of his or as a family member. When 1393 01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:05,840 Speaker 1: he says always be Cam, what should we assume Cam 1394 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:09,400 Speaker 1: is Cam as a creeper. I was just gonna we 1395 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:12,559 Speaker 1: don't know him though, so like we don't know him yet, 1396 01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,519 Speaker 1: so like he's actually saying nothing, right if you think 1397 01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,960 Speaker 1: about it, like we don't know Cam. He's not saying 1398 01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:23,320 Speaker 1: always be loyal, always be kind, always be considerate. He's 1399 01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:28,799 Speaker 1: saying always be a name. It's it's it's weird. I mean, essentially, 1400 01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:32,960 Speaker 1: it's like saying, always be true to yourself is so 1401 01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:35,840 Speaker 1: always be Cam sitting back of the house meanwhile saying 1402 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,679 Speaker 1: he's lonely. He hasn't had time with Hannah, he hasn't 1403 01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:41,320 Speaker 1: been invited any of his dates. What he should know 1404 01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:47,240 Speaker 1: is there's a reason. So he decides to be bold. 1405 01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:51,360 Speaker 1: It's a foreshadowing, we see it. It's always dangerous when 1406 01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,599 Speaker 1: you decide. When anybody the show saysn't gonna be bold. 1407 01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:58,200 Speaker 1: What he ends up doing because he shows up to 1408 01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:59,840 Speaker 1: the cocktail party in the group date, we can se 1409 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,840 Speaker 1: at the end of the race, nothing major happens except 1410 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:05,439 Speaker 1: Fred Willard comes back into the picture, which we always love. 1411 01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:08,800 Speaker 1: I just love when Fred shows up, just a fantastic yea. 1412 01:15:08,840 --> 01:15:10,679 Speaker 1: I think it's like a season right, he's a season 1413 01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:13,799 Speaker 1: regular now, Yeah, he's on my season two. Fred Willard 1414 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:17,960 Speaker 1: is a bundle of joy. And Fred Willard continues to 1415 01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,880 Speaker 1: show up in Bachelor Nation. Why and how we don't know, 1416 01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:23,880 Speaker 1: but we don't. We hope he never leaves. So let's 1417 01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,320 Speaker 1: skip to the cocktail party. Cocktail players going fine. Everybody 1418 01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:29,640 Speaker 1: seems pretty happy, right, Nothing that's weird going on there? 1419 01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:32,080 Speaker 1: Little beat up, a little tired, a little exhausted and 1420 01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:36,360 Speaker 1: Cam shows up crashes to get the cocktail party to 1421 01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:40,120 Speaker 1: steal handa away. It never happened, happened this early on. 1422 01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:43,759 Speaker 1: Here's here's a tactic. Cam we all know has something 1423 01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:46,040 Speaker 1: in him that is ticking, right, He's like a ticking 1424 01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,280 Speaker 1: time bomb. We could just see it in his eyes. 1425 01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:51,320 Speaker 1: So I was like, we're gonna test Cam this week 1426 01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:53,920 Speaker 1: and see how he responds to not having a date. 1427 01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:56,720 Speaker 1: He apparently got so fired up that he had to 1428 01:15:56,760 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 1: go crash one. I think he got way too excited 1429 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,280 Speaker 1: personally about getting that very first rose, and he shouldn't 1430 01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:06,960 Speaker 1: have taken as serious as he did. His head is 1431 01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,320 Speaker 1: very big right now. That is like that story of 1432 01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:13,120 Speaker 1: Huberists that we learned about in like ninth grade English. 1433 01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:16,840 Speaker 1: He just just flew too close to the sun. He's like, 1434 01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 1: he's he's going to be on this downfall now because 1435 01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:23,920 Speaker 1: his ego is so big, so big, I think there's 1436 01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how we should play this here, 1437 01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:30,639 Speaker 1: Um what I want to do now, because I don't 1438 01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:32,280 Speaker 1: think the story makes sense unless we tie in what 1439 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:37,840 Speaker 1: Cam does at the cocktail party before the rose ceremony. 1440 01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:44,200 Speaker 1: Cam then continues this these escapades onto the cocktail party 1441 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:48,160 Speaker 1: the rose ceremony when he does something that is might 1442 01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:52,160 Speaker 1: be one of the most egregious moves that I've ever 1443 01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:56,559 Speaker 1: seen anybody make. On week two, he Kevin and Hannah 1444 01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:58,400 Speaker 1: are having a moment and talking. We don't know how 1445 01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:00,120 Speaker 1: good it's really going. We don't see a lot of it, 1446 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:03,759 Speaker 1: but we see it happening, and Cam decides to walk 1447 01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:08,040 Speaker 1: up and says, hey, I actually have something for all 1448 01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:12,439 Speaker 1: three of us. I was weirded out by that. Well, 1449 01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 1: I wasn't at first at first. My first reaction was 1450 01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:20,880 Speaker 1: sounds interesting, maybe creative, maybe cool, maybe something different. Maybe 1451 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:23,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna play a game. And since Cam already can 1452 01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:25,920 Speaker 1: tell that he's causing some issues in the house, made 1453 01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:28,000 Speaker 1: this his way of just saying, hey, let's laugh about this. 1454 01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I want to apologize and let you know, 1455 01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:32,240 Speaker 1: Kevin to continue to have your time, and I'm only 1456 01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:35,720 Speaker 1: to have it like something that is just good and 1457 01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:40,639 Speaker 1: noble altogether. Instead, he literally invites Kevin to sit next 1458 01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:43,920 Speaker 1: to him and Hannah as he gives her chicken nuggets. 1459 01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: I have to say, the chicken nuggets in a ringbox 1460 01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:50,559 Speaker 1: is a nice move. I would have been you know. 1461 01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:54,200 Speaker 1: If it wasn't Cam, it would have been like a great, dude, 1462 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm in love with you, You're fantastic. But being from 1463 01:17:57,800 --> 01:17:59,720 Speaker 1: Cam and the way he did it, it was a 1464 01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,320 Speaker 1: grow this move. It's all about your delivery, right. However, 1465 01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:07,120 Speaker 1: the line was very clever when he asked totally accept this, 1466 01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:10,000 Speaker 1: like honey mustard or something. There was nothing clever. There's 1467 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:13,320 Speaker 1: nothing clever about using a line. That's so I will 1468 01:18:13,320 --> 01:18:16,599 Speaker 1: always accept my cameos every time asked me to tell 1469 01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:19,200 Speaker 1: somebody to accept a rose. It's not that hard. Can 1470 01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:23,479 Speaker 1: you accept this honey mustard? It's not because he didn't 1471 01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:26,320 Speaker 1: say it. I wish that was the case, or Cam 1472 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,800 Speaker 1: has some work to do. Here's the thing I thought, 1473 01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:31,720 Speaker 1: Kevin still handled it well. He was angry, he should be. 1474 01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,679 Speaker 1: He was embarrassed, he should be. His pride was shot. 1475 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:37,519 Speaker 1: I get why he sat next to two people on 1476 01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:40,360 Speaker 1: a date, one guy with his girlfriend. Nothing about that. 1477 01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:42,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just so weird of him to be like, 1478 01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:44,559 Speaker 1: I'm going to include this guy in the date just 1479 01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:47,040 Speaker 1: because I want to be a dick like that. But 1480 01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:50,040 Speaker 1: then he didn't include him in any way, totally boxed 1481 01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:53,160 Speaker 1: out of the entire completely ignored Hyeah. It was nothing 1482 01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:57,439 Speaker 1: about that was inclusive or accepting. Truthfully, cam Is is 1483 01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:59,320 Speaker 1: a target right now in the house. We can see 1484 01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:01,559 Speaker 1: it playing out. It's not gonna end anytime soon, I'm afraid. 1485 01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,200 Speaker 1: The final big moment was when Luke p takes off 1486 01:19:04,200 --> 01:19:06,200 Speaker 1: his shirt gives Hannah massage. I just think it's it's 1487 01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:10,800 Speaker 1: really interesting how well Jed handled it. Jed was a cute. 1488 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,400 Speaker 1: This is when this was the official moment that I 1489 01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:17,639 Speaker 1: picked a favorite this season. My favorite for Hannah is Jed. 1490 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:19,559 Speaker 1: I called him out last week is one of my 1491 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:22,400 Speaker 1: top four, but now he's who I wanted to end 1492 01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:25,559 Speaker 1: up with. Honestly, he's such a gentleman, so cute, and 1493 01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:28,640 Speaker 1: he was genuinely sad when he saw that, and he 1494 01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:30,720 Speaker 1: could have been really awkward when she came to talk 1495 01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:33,040 Speaker 1: to him, but instead he was just like, I get it. 1496 01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:35,880 Speaker 1: He said like, hey, you know what else is awkward? 1497 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:37,840 Speaker 1: That there's twenty five dudes here seemed to be into you. 1498 01:19:38,720 --> 01:19:42,439 Speaker 1: Totally good, totally good. Um, Okay, I'm gonna sum up 1499 01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 1: the episode just for our listeners in one second and 1500 01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:47,599 Speaker 1: for all of us. What we're finding out is these 1501 01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:50,240 Speaker 1: guys are more attractive than we could ever have imagined. 1502 01:19:50,240 --> 01:19:54,080 Speaker 1: We have some standouts coming through, UH that all of 1503 01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:57,520 Speaker 1: us are fans of some of I guess the surprises 1504 01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:00,559 Speaker 1: that we never thought would be popular the show are 1505 01:20:00,640 --> 01:20:03,880 Speaker 1: now popular. We also think that Hannah Bee is doing 1506 01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:07,200 Speaker 1: a terrific job as the Bachelorette. UM. She's being weird, 1507 01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:10,000 Speaker 1: she's being quirky, she's being confident, she's saying things that 1508 01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:12,840 Speaker 1: she shouldn't and saying things that she should, and altogether 1509 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:18,680 Speaker 1: is amazingly entertaining and incredibly authentic. What we want to 1510 01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,439 Speaker 1: find out is where these drama filled stories is going 1511 01:20:21,520 --> 01:20:23,679 Speaker 1: to play out. We will see that in the upcoming 1512 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 1: week of The Bachelorette. We love this season. It's going 1513 01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:28,879 Speaker 1: to continue to stay around. We are going to continue 1514 01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:31,040 Speaker 1: to stay around. Make sure you tune in tomorrow to 1515 01:20:31,120 --> 01:20:34,960 Speaker 1: our in depth episode. It's with Caitlin Bristow. It's just 1516 01:20:35,040 --> 01:20:37,600 Speaker 1: me and Caitlin. We sat down for two hours with 1517 01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,320 Speaker 1: a bottle of wine and had some girl talk. It's 1518 01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:44,200 Speaker 1: one the UH, this season of The Bachelorette is worth watching, 1519 01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:48,800 Speaker 1: but Caitlin Bristow is worth listening to. UM. I think 1520 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:51,759 Speaker 1: here's my prediction next week's episode is going to continue 1521 01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:54,599 Speaker 1: to be that slow fade into drama, and then week 1522 01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:57,880 Speaker 1: four is going to explode with drama on this show. 1523 01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:00,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna see some some personality, which we always do. 1524 01:21:00,720 --> 01:21:03,559 Speaker 1: Week four is always the week that true personality shine. 1525 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:05,680 Speaker 1: Right now, Week two it just felt like a good 1526 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:09,120 Speaker 1: week two episodes as Week four happens in Newport, Rhode Island, 1527 01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:10,960 Speaker 1: which is where Jared and I are getting married. There 1528 01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:14,040 Speaker 1: you go, girl, Hey, um, actually, you know what. I 1529 01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:17,640 Speaker 1: just realized what it's week two, Tasha, listen to this. 1530 01:21:17,640 --> 01:21:21,640 Speaker 1: This is crazy. We survived another off season. Yeah, I know. 1531 01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 1: You didn't realize that. Last week it was so sure. 1532 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:30,439 Speaker 1: Hey uh hey, like we're talking about we're here in 1533 01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:32,960 Speaker 1: Napa Valley. It's my first time in Napa Valley. I 1534 01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:35,840 Speaker 1: don't think I mentioned that before, my very first time. 1535 01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 1: Amy continues to bring me the places for my first time. 1536 01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,160 Speaker 1: I was in for the first time with Amy. I'm 1537 01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:42,360 Speaker 1: in Nappa for the first time with Amy. I feel 1538 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,720 Speaker 1: like you're trying to say something. Maybe I just don't 1539 01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:47,200 Speaker 1: think you spend enough time in California. I don't. But 1540 01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 1: it's beautiful, it's amazing, and we're staying on the same 1541 01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:54,880 Speaker 1: golf course that the Safe Way Open is on and 1542 01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:57,120 Speaker 1: and I love golf, So I'm looking right now at 1543 01:21:57,120 --> 01:22:01,639 Speaker 1: it's this golf course and it's absolutely beautiful. We've brought 1544 01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:06,040 Speaker 1: in probably the biggest star of the weekend. No No, 1545 01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:10,040 Speaker 1: No time out. She's shaking her head. No to the podcast, 1546 01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:14,320 Speaker 1: Bobby Jacobs on the podcast. She is the founder. And 1547 01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:17,200 Speaker 1: what else would you call your title of this event? Um, 1548 01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:23,679 Speaker 1: I am the I'm a mom, mom, I'm a wife. Um, 1549 01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:25,800 Speaker 1: I have four dogs, and I'm the co founder of 1550 01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:27,840 Speaker 1: Live in the Vineyard and the founder of Live in 1551 01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:30,920 Speaker 1: the Vineyard Ghost Country. Bobby lives in Denver. I live 1552 01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:35,040 Speaker 1: in Parker. I live in the Highlands, North Denver. That's amazing. 1553 01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:37,680 Speaker 1: I just was there. Um, going in that area for 1554 01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:43,160 Speaker 1: dinner at Ashcara, the restaurant that I started. My restaurant 1555 01:22:43,160 --> 01:22:44,640 Speaker 1: is right next door. I just started a restaurant in 1556 01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:47,360 Speaker 1: North Denver. Dinners on me for bringing us out here, 1557 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:50,479 Speaker 1: because this event is so great that anybody that, no 1558 01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:51,960 Speaker 1: matter where you're in the country, should come to it. 1559 01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,360 Speaker 1: We've brought in. We still have Tashia with us. Um, 1560 01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:57,840 Speaker 1: she's gonna chime in. She's a big country fan. We've 1561 01:22:57,840 --> 01:23:00,840 Speaker 1: brought in Amy, our producer, who you know very well. 1562 01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:02,960 Speaker 1: Because Bobby and Amy have known each other for the 1563 01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:05,960 Speaker 1: last we were trying to remember fifteen years. We've always 1564 01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:09,280 Speaker 1: worked because Bobby has always worked in music and I've 1565 01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:12,679 Speaker 1: always worked in music with Ryan Seacrest, so we've cross paths. 1566 01:23:12,720 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 1: But then years ago she started this event and this 1567 01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:16,840 Speaker 1: is my first time here. But I have heard about 1568 01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,760 Speaker 1: it forever. People rave about this. I mean, how can 1569 01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:22,960 Speaker 1: you not. It were in Napa Valley at a country 1570 01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:27,080 Speaker 1: music festival. Um, how did you come up with the idea? Well, 1571 01:23:27,120 --> 01:23:30,200 Speaker 1: Live in the vineyar Ghost Country. I love love country music, 1572 01:23:30,320 --> 01:23:33,120 Speaker 1: and my husband always wanted to have Live in the 1573 01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:37,240 Speaker 1: Vineyard be like a twist vineyard what you created for 1574 01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,040 Speaker 1: the live and Live the Vineyard and goes beyond just 1575 01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:43,120 Speaker 1: this festival. Yes, yes, Live in the Vineyard UM was created. 1576 01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:46,559 Speaker 1: And I'm the co creator of the original co founder 1577 01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:49,800 Speaker 1: of Live and the Vineyard UM, which was eleven years ago. 1578 01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:55,599 Speaker 1: And so it was created UM by my friend Claire 1579 01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:58,320 Speaker 1: Parr and myself and then um I have now taken 1580 01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 1: over the business as of a few years ago and 1581 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:04,800 Speaker 1: so now it's mine UM. And so it is just 1582 01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:06,759 Speaker 1: a really it's a labor of love. It was created 1583 01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:10,920 Speaker 1: to help artists market and promote their music because um 1584 01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:13,880 Speaker 1: in today, well eleven years ago, it's it's just a 1585 01:24:13,920 --> 01:24:16,439 Speaker 1: different model. Now it's different, but then it was just 1586 01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 1: one more vehicle to help artists break their music. And 1587 01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:22,000 Speaker 1: so that that's why it was created. Their only moneymaker. 1588 01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:28,160 Speaker 1: Carncerts are merchandise concerts, you know, and then exactly exactly, 1589 01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:31,000 Speaker 1: and so it's a vehicle where the artists are curated 1590 01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:33,759 Speaker 1: based on their current music and the music that they released, 1591 01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:36,560 Speaker 1: and so therefore it's like one big mark. It's like 1592 01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,920 Speaker 1: a marketing opportunity that can add into like being another 1593 01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:43,200 Speaker 1: cog in the wheel um to releasing music. And the 1594 01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:45,200 Speaker 1: thing I love about it, and the reason I wanted 1595 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,360 Speaker 1: Bobby to come on today is because The Bachelor does 1596 01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:52,120 Speaker 1: the same thing, specifically for a lot of country artists. 1597 01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:54,599 Speaker 1: So in a minute, we're going to talk to Scotty 1598 01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:59,400 Speaker 1: McCreary and Morgan Evans. And Morgan was on beccas season 1599 01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:02,799 Speaker 1: of The Bachelor performing at a date with Leo and Becca. 1600 01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,160 Speaker 1: I remember that, so I think, because you know, the 1601 01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,280 Speaker 1: audience is very similar that a lot of the Bachelor 1602 01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:11,519 Speaker 1: audience loves country music, so it's that they use that 1603 01:25:11,560 --> 01:25:13,960 Speaker 1: as the same thing to be able to get their 1604 01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:17,000 Speaker 1: music out there and this little inside baseball. But what's 1605 01:25:17,040 --> 01:25:19,320 Speaker 1: kind of interesting is when when an artist is on 1606 01:25:19,360 --> 01:25:23,439 Speaker 1: The Bachelor, you see their songs, you see everything hit Oh, 1607 01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:28,800 Speaker 1: it translates completely. It's unbelievable. The translation question I had, 1608 01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:31,639 Speaker 1: how many people are we expecting at this it's only 1609 01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:35,160 Speaker 1: it's only eight and thirty people total for the for 1610 01:25:35,200 --> 01:25:37,679 Speaker 1: the theater events. So for tonight at the Uptown Theater, 1611 01:25:38,160 --> 01:25:39,800 Speaker 1: it is going to be eight hundred and thirty two 1612 01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:43,360 Speaker 1: people total. It is it's a private it's a private 1613 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:46,640 Speaker 1: experience and it's been it's basically once in a lifetime 1614 01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:49,680 Speaker 1: and it is I hand picked the artist. I work 1615 01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:52,439 Speaker 1: with all the labels and the managers, and I work 1616 01:25:52,520 --> 01:25:54,960 Speaker 1: with the you know, as far as what's being released 1617 01:25:55,160 --> 01:25:57,960 Speaker 1: and really what works well together for a lineup. And 1618 01:25:58,040 --> 01:26:00,680 Speaker 1: so if there's an artist that might not fit in 1619 01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:03,640 Speaker 1: one particular venue, will put them in another one. So 1620 01:26:03,760 --> 01:26:06,760 Speaker 1: it's highlighted and it's acoustic and there's no there's no 1621 01:26:07,200 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: plugged in you know, perform. It's a it's an acoustic show. 1622 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:13,040 Speaker 1: Yesterday people were just out in the vineyard in Napa 1623 01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:17,160 Speaker 1: listening to country music. We're at Regucci. Yes So yesterday 1624 01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,559 Speaker 1: we started off that we kicked off the week um 1625 01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:24,080 Speaker 1: with Regucci Vineyards and Regusci Winery and it was Walker 1626 01:26:24,120 --> 01:26:27,679 Speaker 1: Hayes and Lanco and Brad Paisley headlines. And what's really 1627 01:26:27,800 --> 01:26:32,160 Speaker 1: really cool about this that was Okay, so you can't 1628 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:36,960 Speaker 1: purchase tickets. So people listening for Bobby's next event, you 1629 01:26:37,200 --> 01:26:39,960 Speaker 1: enter to win and then you get to come. So wait, 1630 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:42,080 Speaker 1: we explain that because you have another one coming up. 1631 01:26:42,080 --> 01:26:44,880 Speaker 1: So people listening you can have this experience like we're 1632 01:26:44,920 --> 01:26:48,200 Speaker 1: having if they get lucky and they win, you can't 1633 01:26:48,439 --> 01:26:50,720 Speaker 1: purchase tickets. And so back to the whole marketing and 1634 01:26:50,960 --> 01:26:53,920 Speaker 1: and the promotion of artists music. So what happens is 1635 01:26:53,960 --> 01:26:55,720 Speaker 1: there's a net. So it's a it's like a four 1636 01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:57,639 Speaker 1: part look at us, like a four part thing where 1637 01:26:57,680 --> 01:27:00,920 Speaker 1: the first part is you basically throw it out there too. 1638 01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:03,839 Speaker 1: There's three to four hundred radio stations in the country 1639 01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:09,880 Speaker 1: promoting this and then and so that's part one. So 1640 01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:12,560 Speaker 1: you entered a win and then there's a huge broadcast 1641 01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:15,120 Speaker 1: across the whole United States where we're in over almost 1642 01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:17,439 Speaker 1: four hundred markets, and then the second part is you 1643 01:27:17,600 --> 01:27:20,760 Speaker 1: win and you come and then you are in it, 1644 01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:22,760 Speaker 1: and then you have the content from it, and then 1645 01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:26,120 Speaker 1: you have the after the pieces afterwards that really like 1646 01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:28,200 Speaker 1: kind of connected all and people can cease a lot 1647 01:27:28,240 --> 01:27:30,640 Speaker 1: of the footage on CMT right. Yeah. CMT is our 1648 01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:32,960 Speaker 1: is our title sponsor. Are there any other kind of 1649 01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:35,680 Speaker 1: concerts out here now but that take pace like this 1650 01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:39,040 Speaker 1: or no? Um I the first that was ever pop 1651 01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:41,120 Speaker 1: music didn't come to NAPA until we brought it here 1652 01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:44,320 Speaker 1: eleven years ago. It was very jazz and very classical music. 1653 01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:46,080 Speaker 1: And so you name some of the artists that have 1654 01:27:46,120 --> 01:27:49,840 Speaker 1: done live in the Vineyard, Rob Thomas, Atlantis, Morris Set, Lenny, 1655 01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:57,040 Speaker 1: Rob Thomas. He's obsessed with Rob and now like I'm 1656 01:27:57,080 --> 01:27:59,759 Speaker 1: finding myself listening to Rob on my own on planes. 1657 01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:05,120 Speaker 1: Really Yeah, So it's funny. I worked um back when 1658 01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:09,040 Speaker 1: Matchbox twenty was started, when it went from Tabitha's Secret 1659 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:11,200 Speaker 1: based on Or They were based in Florida, and they 1660 01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:14,400 Speaker 1: went to Matchbox Swinging signed the Lava records. I broke. 1661 01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:17,720 Speaker 1: I drove them around in a minivan. That's when I met. 1662 01:28:18,320 --> 01:28:22,600 Speaker 1: That's when we met. Ye, That's when we met in 1663 01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:29,080 Speaker 1: San Francisco with Ryan Seacrest. That was the most and 1664 01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:30,920 Speaker 1: so I drove them in a minivan and they all 1665 01:28:30,960 --> 01:28:33,320 Speaker 1: had their twenty first birthdays on the road. I'm driving 1666 01:28:33,360 --> 01:28:35,160 Speaker 1: them in the minivan and I would take them into 1667 01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:37,920 Speaker 1: radio stations and I would beg them, please, please please, 1668 01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:40,200 Speaker 1: can you have us come into the radio station? And 1669 01:28:40,240 --> 01:28:42,360 Speaker 1: they're like, who are you? And who is this band? 1670 01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:44,760 Speaker 1: I go, They're going to be the biggest band. Ryan 1671 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:49,320 Speaker 1: Seacrest and I and then the most their fans, Castic 1672 01:28:51,520 --> 01:28:55,240 Speaker 1: were with Matchbox twenty and probably Bobby on a sidewalk 1673 01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:59,960 Speaker 1: in San Francisco, a sidewalk sidewalk symphony. They were partial 1674 01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:02,960 Speaker 1: worm ing. Yeah, they were performing on the sidewalk. We 1675 01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:06,240 Speaker 1: had like we were just doing local TV interviewing them 1676 01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:09,120 Speaker 1: and having a performance literally in the middle of San 1677 01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:12,120 Speaker 1: Francisco on the sidewalk the psychonic Like, let's pause for 1678 01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:15,520 Speaker 1: a second. Ryan Seacrest in Matt Box on the sidewalk 1679 01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:22,720 Speaker 1: in San Francisco seven for okay, something like that A 1680 01:29:22,720 --> 01:29:28,680 Speaker 1: long time ago. But that's yes, yes, old, thank you 1681 01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:30,880 Speaker 1: very much. I'm just accepted. I'm just keep saying it 1682 01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:33,080 Speaker 1: because I'm um. I just have to be prepared for 1683 01:29:33,120 --> 01:29:36,320 Speaker 1: the next three lines. So what country music? Yeah? What 1684 01:29:36,400 --> 01:29:39,320 Speaker 1: country music are you loving right now? Oh? My goodness, 1685 01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:45,040 Speaker 1: I I love angered Andrews Um she has the song 1686 01:29:45,560 --> 01:29:50,479 Speaker 1: lady Like and She's fantastic. And Kaylee Hammock performed last night. 1687 01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:55,360 Speaker 1: She is on Universal, She's She's unbelievable, angers on Warner Brothers. Um, 1688 01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:58,360 Speaker 1: everybody from like there's no one label, it's everyone. It's 1689 01:29:58,479 --> 01:30:00,640 Speaker 1: you know, like a kind of a universal experience of 1690 01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:03,840 Speaker 1: music with um with all the different labels. Hardy I 1691 01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:07,240 Speaker 1: heard for the first time today. He wrote the number 1692 01:30:07,240 --> 01:30:09,479 Speaker 1: one song that Blake Shelton has right now, God's Country. 1693 01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:13,160 Speaker 1: He just performed at in the Round. Um, Morgan Evans 1694 01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:15,080 Speaker 1: is so. Morgan was the one that was on The 1695 01:30:15,080 --> 01:30:19,280 Speaker 1: Bachelor's amazing And Cody Johnson is my husband's favorite and 1696 01:30:19,320 --> 01:30:22,679 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see him. Um tonight, I mean really, 1697 01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:29,719 Speaker 1: um Landco is lovely here and a little so Yes. 1698 01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:31,840 Speaker 1: So now everyone knows what we're doing in Napa. Yeah. 1699 01:30:32,040 --> 01:30:34,519 Speaker 1: Two questions for you, and they're kind of back to back. 1700 01:30:34,960 --> 01:30:39,639 Speaker 1: One is why NAPA In the second then is why 1701 01:30:39,640 --> 01:30:43,439 Speaker 1: would an artist like Brad Paisley, who is a household 1702 01:30:43,560 --> 01:30:46,640 Speaker 1: name want to do this event, Like what, I know 1703 01:30:46,680 --> 01:30:48,800 Speaker 1: it's for publicity, and I know it's really good for 1704 01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:50,280 Speaker 1: the artist, But why is it good for the artist 1705 01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:52,960 Speaker 1: if only five people could to come and it's on CMT, 1706 01:30:53,479 --> 01:30:56,920 Speaker 1: explain really how it promotes them. So as far as 1707 01:30:57,280 --> 01:30:59,720 Speaker 1: artists are concern, that's a very good question. As far 1708 01:30:59,720 --> 01:31:02,400 Speaker 1: as a sharkncerned like a Brad Paisley, like for example, 1709 01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:06,200 Speaker 1: last year Carrie Underwood, UM started the event like my 1710 01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:09,479 Speaker 1: first event in Carrie Underwood was my headlining artist. And 1711 01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:13,040 Speaker 1: it works. Um, everything we do is not exactly a 1712 01:31:13,080 --> 01:31:16,280 Speaker 1: cookie cutter any like, not even close show cookie cutter experience. 1713 01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:20,680 Speaker 1: Meaning the festivals during the week it's on a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, 1714 01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:23,400 Speaker 1: you know, And so because artists tour in country on 1715 01:31:23,439 --> 01:31:25,519 Speaker 1: the weekends and so they'll never get you know, touring 1716 01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:27,760 Speaker 1: is big for them. And so with Brad, it worked 1717 01:31:27,760 --> 01:31:30,320 Speaker 1: with his schedule and the kids and his wife, and 1718 01:31:30,400 --> 01:31:33,679 Speaker 1: he has new music coming out and the label really 1719 01:31:33,720 --> 01:31:36,559 Speaker 1: wanted him to do something more intimate, UM in an 1720 01:31:36,560 --> 01:31:39,719 Speaker 1: acoustic setting, UM in a winery with a winery backdrop, 1721 01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:41,720 Speaker 1: and so it just really worked the same way I 1722 01:31:41,760 --> 01:31:47,120 Speaker 1: got all y'all here nap and then Napa Valley. It's 1723 01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:50,160 Speaker 1: Napa Valley. Um. You always have to think about the 1724 01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:52,840 Speaker 1: way it sounds on the radio as a promotion. Come 1725 01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:56,200 Speaker 1: to Napa Valley, intimate experience of music, food and wine 1726 01:31:56,200 --> 01:31:59,160 Speaker 1: in the heart of the legendary wine country. So why 1727 01:31:59,200 --> 01:32:01,960 Speaker 1: do you guys right when it's advertised, when it's promoted, 1728 01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:04,439 Speaker 1: why do you guys keep it intimate and exclusive? What's 1729 01:32:04,439 --> 01:32:08,480 Speaker 1: the benefit for you? The benefit is everything in today's 1730 01:32:08,520 --> 01:32:11,840 Speaker 1: society can be bought, and you can't. I just wanted 1731 01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:15,040 Speaker 1: to create something that is so special that no matter 1732 01:32:15,080 --> 01:32:17,880 Speaker 1: you can be standing next to the CEO of a 1733 01:32:17,920 --> 01:32:20,679 Speaker 1: massive billion dollar company, or you can be the winner 1734 01:32:20,720 --> 01:32:24,799 Speaker 1: from El Paso and I I program to everyone equally 1735 01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:28,520 Speaker 1: so everyone can have the same experience and that takeaway 1736 01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:31,519 Speaker 1: is just really exciting. And you're you're never going to 1737 01:32:31,600 --> 01:32:33,840 Speaker 1: see an artist perform in this setting again. Best and 1738 01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:36,519 Speaker 1: nothing repeats, It's always different. What's the best way for 1739 01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:38,559 Speaker 1: people listening to learn more? How do they go to 1740 01:32:38,600 --> 01:32:42,240 Speaker 1: your website? They can as far as socials um, you know, 1741 01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:45,519 Speaker 1: live in the Vineyard on socials um and then also 1742 01:32:45,680 --> 01:32:47,200 Speaker 1: live in the Vineyard dot com Live in the Viney 1743 01:32:47,200 --> 01:32:49,840 Speaker 1: gust Country dot com. And then I also there's also 1744 01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:53,439 Speaker 1: a culinary festival in our portfolio that's Yantville Live, which 1745 01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:56,120 Speaker 1: you can buy a ticket for. UM and it's a 1746 01:32:56,200 --> 01:33:05,479 Speaker 1: very it's a culinary yaunt. Oh but if maybe there's 1747 01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:10,559 Speaker 1: a very exclusive Yantville is in the heart of Napa 1748 01:33:10,640 --> 01:33:13,960 Speaker 1: Valley and so that is it's the culinary mecca of 1749 01:33:14,160 --> 01:33:17,519 Speaker 1: Napa Valley where it's laundry, there's all these really famous 1750 01:33:17,560 --> 01:33:22,840 Speaker 1: Russians from around here. Um, and so Y'auntville Live is 1751 01:33:23,160 --> 01:33:26,160 Speaker 1: basically a publicly ticketed, models very high end ticket. But 1752 01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:30,920 Speaker 1: it's it's all about master classes and um an immersion 1753 01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:33,559 Speaker 1: within the Amanda Stanton's here. You and your sister need 1754 01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:36,040 Speaker 1: to come to that. I just learned Amanda stands sister 1755 01:33:36,120 --> 01:33:38,679 Speaker 1: is a chef. I learned that like eight minutes ago. 1756 01:33:38,800 --> 01:33:41,920 Speaker 1: I know. So, my sister runs a food Instagram accounts, 1757 01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:44,280 Speaker 1: so she posts all her recipes on there. She's amazing. 1758 01:33:44,439 --> 01:33:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not a good cook, but she is. So 1759 01:33:47,920 --> 01:33:50,479 Speaker 1: I'm like the taste tester. Yeah that's a good job. 1760 01:33:50,479 --> 01:33:53,240 Speaker 1: In razzo. Yes, a side note, Amanda's hair looks like 1761 01:33:53,320 --> 01:33:55,640 Speaker 1: Princess Jasmine right now. And I'm super jealous, and I 1762 01:33:55,720 --> 01:34:01,080 Speaker 1: just want to stare well, we will let Bobby get 1763 01:34:01,080 --> 01:34:03,960 Speaker 1: back to planning your concerts and we'll talk to Scotty 1764 01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:06,439 Speaker 1: McCreery and Morgan Evans in just a minute. I just 1765 01:34:06,479 --> 01:34:10,519 Speaker 1: can't believe. Thank you so much for being here. You 1766 01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:14,360 Speaker 1: might be coming back in November constantly, like every time. 1767 01:34:14,400 --> 01:34:18,200 Speaker 1: November is so live in the Vineyard in November is 1768 01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:22,519 Speaker 1: not just country, it's multiformat So it's country, it's hot, 1769 01:34:22,520 --> 01:34:28,400 Speaker 1: a hot, a C singer, songwriter. I love the dog 1770 01:34:28,479 --> 01:34:34,160 Speaker 1: contemper so it's a little bit of everything that cool. 1771 01:34:34,200 --> 01:34:37,360 Speaker 1: So Alry, thank you so much, Bobby. I can't wait 1772 01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:42,760 Speaker 1: to interview an American idol right now. One of the checklists, 1773 01:34:42,840 --> 01:34:44,840 Speaker 1: one of the things on my bucket list is about 1774 01:34:44,840 --> 01:34:47,080 Speaker 1: to be checked off. So it's pretty exciting. Let's go. 1775 01:34:47,400 --> 01:35:02,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. As mentioned one of Bachelor Nation's favorite. UM. 1776 01:35:02,640 --> 01:35:04,320 Speaker 1: We've We've had a lot of artists over the years 1777 01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:08,320 Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise and UH and Morgan Evans definitely stood out. Morgan, 1778 01:35:08,400 --> 01:35:10,519 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the podcast. Thanks man to 1779 01:35:10,600 --> 01:35:12,800 Speaker 1: talk to you. Now. Tell everybody what season you're on 1780 01:35:12,880 --> 01:35:15,639 Speaker 1: and what date you performed on UM it was last 1781 01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:22,400 Speaker 1: year and uh, I was gonna it was the fellow 1782 01:35:22,400 --> 01:35:24,880 Speaker 1: with the long curly hair. Oh, Leo, That's right. It 1783 01:35:24,960 --> 01:35:26,640 Speaker 1: was Becca and Leo and it was the end of 1784 01:35:27,000 --> 01:35:29,479 Speaker 1: a date and his like the After to Dates prize 1785 01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:31,719 Speaker 1: was come to the theater and I was playing there 1786 01:35:32,040 --> 01:35:34,120 Speaker 1: and it was it was, it was. I really enjoyed 1787 01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:36,680 Speaker 1: the experience of doing it, because you always wonder when 1788 01:35:36,680 --> 01:35:39,320 Speaker 1: you watched the show, like how real is that moment? 1789 01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:41,479 Speaker 1: How many times they shoot that? And we shot it 1790 01:35:41,600 --> 01:35:44,360 Speaker 1: once and all the reactions were real. And I mean 1791 01:35:44,439 --> 01:35:46,320 Speaker 1: dancing on a podium and making out in the middle 1792 01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:49,200 Speaker 1: of the crowd maybe the most natural thing, but it was. 1793 01:35:49,439 --> 01:35:51,880 Speaker 1: It was amazing to plays I'll kiss somebody and then 1794 01:35:51,960 --> 01:35:53,760 Speaker 1: watch that will happen with school. I think a lot 1795 01:35:53,800 --> 01:35:56,320 Speaker 1: of people watch those dates and they're like, this must 1796 01:35:56,320 --> 01:35:58,840 Speaker 1: be so awkward to be the Bachelor and her date 1797 01:35:59,120 --> 01:36:02,200 Speaker 1: with everybody watching this. But did you feel it was 1798 01:36:02,280 --> 01:36:05,160 Speaker 1: actually more normal than you would think? No, it definitely 1799 01:36:05,200 --> 01:36:08,040 Speaker 1: wasn't normal at all. I actually I kind of felt 1800 01:36:08,040 --> 01:36:09,439 Speaker 1: for them a little bit because that I mean, they 1801 01:36:09,439 --> 01:36:11,479 Speaker 1: were having a moment or whatever, they're making out on 1802 01:36:11,479 --> 01:36:14,240 Speaker 1: this podium, but then people up on the podium like 1803 01:36:14,880 --> 01:36:20,920 Speaker 1: pushing against them taking a picture whilst making Yes, it 1804 01:36:21,000 --> 01:36:23,800 Speaker 1: was it was a thing to behold. The interesting part 1805 01:36:23,840 --> 01:36:25,400 Speaker 1: is so when you're an artist and you're playing on 1806 01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:27,680 Speaker 1: the Batchel, you're there a few hours beforehand with like, 1807 01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:30,960 Speaker 1: oh yeah, a full crowd in front of you. Because 1808 01:36:30,960 --> 01:36:32,880 Speaker 1: when I was a Batchel, I remember I had I 1809 01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:35,880 Speaker 1: don't know if you know of Amos lee Um, but 1810 01:36:36,040 --> 01:36:38,040 Speaker 1: he was my favorite growing up and so he came 1811 01:36:38,040 --> 01:36:40,160 Speaker 1: in and played on my season the show, which Amos 1812 01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:42,240 Speaker 1: is definitely like the opposite type of person that would 1813 01:36:42,280 --> 01:36:44,439 Speaker 1: you would see on the Bachelor's show, right, Like you 1814 01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:46,960 Speaker 1: would never think Amos would would do this. And he 1815 01:36:47,000 --> 01:36:49,040 Speaker 1: was telling me about like what had happened before I 1816 01:36:49,080 --> 01:36:50,680 Speaker 1: had gotten there, and he was there for hours with 1817 01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:52,360 Speaker 1: a full crowd, and he's like he didn't know if 1818 01:36:52,360 --> 01:36:54,680 Speaker 1: to entertain them to like seeing, so he ends up 1819 01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:57,679 Speaker 1: kind of putting on this private concert for a hundred people. 1820 01:36:58,000 --> 01:36:59,640 Speaker 1: They're hanging out waiting for us to show up from 1821 01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:02,920 Speaker 1: our date to kiss in front of him. I mean, 1822 01:37:03,280 --> 01:37:06,200 Speaker 1: I will say, as this similar experience to that, it 1823 01:37:06,280 --> 01:37:07,719 Speaker 1: was a bigger place, so it was like a Propa. 1824 01:37:07,760 --> 01:37:10,320 Speaker 1: There was a thousand people there and holy cow, and 1825 01:37:10,640 --> 01:37:12,400 Speaker 1: I felt exactly the same way I almost did. I 1826 01:37:12,439 --> 01:37:17,120 Speaker 1: was like, they're here all play and so yeah, we 1827 01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:20,000 Speaker 1: played a show. Oh that's awesome. Alright. So here on 1828 01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:22,600 Speaker 1: the almost in his podcast, you know, we talked predominantly 1829 01:37:22,600 --> 01:37:25,439 Speaker 1: about the Bachelor, talk about a lot of love. You're 1830 01:37:25,479 --> 01:37:30,000 Speaker 1: married to Kelsey Ballerini. You happened since December, hasn't ever seen. Yeah, 1831 01:37:30,160 --> 01:37:32,920 Speaker 1: you got good on the facts that. Um, can you 1832 01:37:32,920 --> 01:37:38,080 Speaker 1: tell us how you propose? Was like bachelor? Was a bachelor? Like? Um? 1833 01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:42,080 Speaker 1: Probably not, but I will say it was a conscious decision. 1834 01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:45,040 Speaker 1: I feel like it was a conscious no to not 1835 01:37:45,080 --> 01:37:47,800 Speaker 1: be like that. I mean, we listen, yeah, we list 1836 01:37:47,800 --> 01:37:50,240 Speaker 1: so much about publicly, you know, when we talked about 1837 01:37:50,280 --> 01:37:53,000 Speaker 1: in interviews all the time, and on the internet people 1838 01:37:53,240 --> 01:37:54,880 Speaker 1: you know, you post photos or whatever, and so it 1839 01:37:54,920 --> 01:37:56,920 Speaker 1: was a cool moment. They just keep ours And it 1840 01:37:57,040 --> 01:38:00,800 Speaker 1: was Christmas morning and she was making pancakes and it 1841 01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:02,559 Speaker 1: was just us in the house, and it seemed like 1842 01:38:02,600 --> 01:38:05,400 Speaker 1: the perfect time. So you hadn't planned the time that 1843 01:38:05,439 --> 01:38:06,960 Speaker 1: you were going to do it. You just we're gonna 1844 01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:10,120 Speaker 1: wait that perfect okay, but we're gonna wait till you 1845 01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:11,880 Speaker 1: felt it was the perfect time, or did you plan 1846 01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:14,800 Speaker 1: Christmas morning. Christmas morning with the plan for sure. Yeah, yeah, 1847 01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:17,639 Speaker 1: I knew we would actually be at home together that day, 1848 01:38:17,680 --> 01:38:21,479 Speaker 1: which is a rare occurrence. Yeah, that's great. I've always 1849 01:38:21,479 --> 01:38:23,920 Speaker 1: been interested. How do you manage because both of your 1850 01:38:23,920 --> 01:38:27,439 Speaker 1: careers have skyrocketed, you're both crushing it, and as that 1851 01:38:27,520 --> 01:38:30,160 Speaker 1: happens in parallel, obviously there's a ton of time apart, 1852 01:38:30,240 --> 01:38:32,360 Speaker 1: and like your your lives are out there all the time, 1853 01:38:32,400 --> 01:38:34,599 Speaker 1: everybody's talking about you. We can google you and find 1854 01:38:34,600 --> 01:38:36,879 Speaker 1: out when you got married and probably how you proposed 1855 01:38:36,920 --> 01:38:39,280 Speaker 1: before this podcast if we wanted to, how do you 1856 01:38:39,360 --> 01:38:42,240 Speaker 1: keep it like real and just like when you go 1857 01:38:42,320 --> 01:38:47,559 Speaker 1: back to be together like just a real, like natural relationship. Now, 1858 01:38:47,840 --> 01:38:50,680 Speaker 1: I feel like there's a couple of things you need 1859 01:38:50,720 --> 01:38:51,960 Speaker 1: to do. One of them is to make sure you 1860 01:38:51,960 --> 01:38:54,200 Speaker 1: see each other. That's the probably the hottest pot, which 1861 01:38:54,240 --> 01:38:56,600 Speaker 1: we just you have to be really proactive about it. 1862 01:38:56,640 --> 01:38:58,840 Speaker 1: Sit down and look ahead in the calendar and and 1863 01:38:59,080 --> 01:39:01,519 Speaker 1: just block out chunks of time. And thankfully all the 1864 01:39:01,520 --> 01:39:03,639 Speaker 1: people we work with know that that's a real priority 1865 01:39:03,640 --> 01:39:06,680 Speaker 1: for us. So um, like just last week we had 1866 01:39:06,680 --> 01:39:08,600 Speaker 1: our first block for the year, and we just disappeared 1867 01:39:08,600 --> 01:39:10,920 Speaker 1: for three days and it was awesome. And I feel 1868 01:39:10,920 --> 01:39:13,880 Speaker 1: like anytime we both get together, it becomes real again. 1869 01:39:13,960 --> 01:39:15,920 Speaker 1: You know, if you're not talking about each other, you 1870 01:39:16,000 --> 01:39:18,679 Speaker 1: just actually get to talk to each other. And somehow 1871 01:39:18,720 --> 01:39:20,719 Speaker 1: I feel like the fact we both do this gives 1872 01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:23,160 Speaker 1: each other a really good understanding of what we're both 1873 01:39:23,200 --> 01:39:25,479 Speaker 1: going through, so there's no we don't have to explain 1874 01:39:25,520 --> 01:39:27,559 Speaker 1: that to each other either, So it's kind of a 1875 01:39:27,600 --> 01:39:29,400 Speaker 1: real connection there as well. Are you still in the 1876 01:39:29,439 --> 01:39:33,720 Speaker 1: honeymoon phase since you do only see each other sporadically? Yeah, 1877 01:39:33,760 --> 01:39:37,160 Speaker 1: I guess so mathematically, so yeah, it's mathematically the amount 1878 01:39:37,200 --> 01:39:38,920 Speaker 1: of days you've had together. Well, yeah, I mean my 1879 01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:42,680 Speaker 1: girlfriend's parents they spend every week apart. He travels and 1880 01:39:42,680 --> 01:39:44,599 Speaker 1: then she comes back on the weekends. And they've actually 1881 01:39:44,600 --> 01:39:46,960 Speaker 1: told me, over the thirty years of marriage, it's actually 1882 01:39:47,000 --> 01:39:49,559 Speaker 1: been a blessing to them because there's this excitement back 1883 01:39:49,640 --> 01:39:52,719 Speaker 1: right where my parents there we live in a small town, Indiana, 1884 01:39:52,720 --> 01:39:54,960 Speaker 1: there together all the time. Every day. My dad goes 1885 01:39:55,000 --> 01:39:56,439 Speaker 1: to my mom's work and says on the couch and 1886 01:39:56,479 --> 01:39:58,960 Speaker 1: watch sports. Is why she finishes up Like they're together 1887 01:39:59,000 --> 01:40:00,439 Speaker 1: all the time, and I don't feel like there's as 1888 01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:03,679 Speaker 1: much of like a blissful excitement maybe when they see 1889 01:40:03,680 --> 01:40:06,839 Speaker 1: each other for the first time in three hours her parents, 1890 01:40:07,040 --> 01:40:11,519 Speaker 1: he's commuted for thirty years, close to it. Yeah, I 1891 01:40:11,560 --> 01:40:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know if that's a bad thing. I think that's 1892 01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:15,360 Speaker 1: just a different dynamic. You might be right. I mean, 1893 01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:17,479 Speaker 1: at the same time, we do get really jealous of 1894 01:40:17,520 --> 01:40:20,719 Speaker 1: some of our other country music friends that like they'll 1895 01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:22,840 Speaker 1: go and their wife or their husband will just go 1896 01:40:22,880 --> 01:40:25,200 Speaker 1: on the road with them every weekend, which they get 1897 01:40:25,240 --> 01:40:27,280 Speaker 1: to do it all together, which would be really cool 1898 01:40:27,280 --> 01:40:30,720 Speaker 1: to do as well. But well, I mean eventually, I 1899 01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:32,880 Speaker 1: guess maybe I will say this summer, she has a 1900 01:40:32,880 --> 01:40:35,000 Speaker 1: lot of time off to to make a new record, 1901 01:40:35,160 --> 01:40:37,080 Speaker 1: which which means that on the weekends I might be 1902 01:40:37,080 --> 01:40:39,680 Speaker 1: able to steal er out and yeah, bring on the 1903 01:40:39,760 --> 01:40:42,680 Speaker 1: road with me. What's your ultimate date together? Like, what's 1904 01:40:42,680 --> 01:40:47,000 Speaker 1: your favorite thing to do? Her ultimate days? Both of them, Um, 1905 01:40:47,040 --> 01:40:49,439 Speaker 1: it would be something by the ocean, for sure. I 1906 01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:52,599 Speaker 1: grew up near the ocean in Newcastle, Australia, so living 1907 01:40:52,600 --> 01:40:54,160 Speaker 1: in Nashville, that's one of the things that I missed 1908 01:40:54,160 --> 01:40:56,200 Speaker 1: the most. And we were just down in Mexico a 1909 01:40:56,200 --> 01:40:58,519 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, actually, and that was kind of 1910 01:40:58,520 --> 01:41:03,760 Speaker 1: the perfect experience of good food. That is really the 1911 01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:06,599 Speaker 1: best day. I just had my best pizza pizza and Nashville, 1912 01:41:06,640 --> 01:41:10,759 Speaker 1: my girlfriend listen, Nashville had best pizza. Ye city House. 1913 01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:13,080 Speaker 1: Have you ever been to City House in Nashville? Yeah? 1914 01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:17,479 Speaker 1: I love? Have you ever been to Jack Browns in Nashville? 1915 01:41:17,720 --> 01:41:21,000 Speaker 1: Jack Brown's burger joint? You have to go. I'm going 1916 01:41:21,080 --> 01:41:25,120 Speaker 1: tomorrow to Actually almost cried that I when I found 1917 01:41:25,160 --> 01:41:28,519 Speaker 1: out that, like, I could have Jack Brown's this this weekend. 1918 01:41:28,640 --> 01:41:30,320 Speaker 1: I've never even heard of Jack Brown. I know. It's 1919 01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:33,160 Speaker 1: a little far out. It's like not on the Broadway air. Okay, 1920 01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:35,920 Speaker 1: just just google it. Where are you from? Are you 1921 01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:37,800 Speaker 1: from Denver as well? No, I'm well I live in 1922 01:41:37,960 --> 01:41:40,000 Speaker 1: l A. I'm from northern Virginia and you're giving me 1923 01:41:40,040 --> 01:41:45,840 Speaker 1: food tastes. Well, it's because this burger chain originated in 1924 01:41:45,960 --> 01:41:49,360 Speaker 1: my college town and then they expanded throughout like that 1925 01:41:49,600 --> 01:41:54,160 Speaker 1: central that like mid Atlantic area. All right, yeah it 1926 01:41:54,240 --> 01:41:56,400 Speaker 1: out anyway, My last question for you, do you have 1927 01:41:56,439 --> 01:41:58,200 Speaker 1: any more questions? I do have one last one. I'll 1928 01:41:58,200 --> 01:42:00,360 Speaker 1: finish up with you. Okay, you are playing a grand 1929 01:42:00,360 --> 01:42:04,360 Speaker 1: old operay on the seventeen. That is gigantic. It's that place. 1930 01:42:04,400 --> 01:42:07,320 Speaker 1: It's the hume of country music, and it's such I mean, 1931 01:42:07,320 --> 01:42:10,000 Speaker 1: it's one of those things that makes country music different 1932 01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:12,040 Speaker 1: to every other genre. We have this kind of family 1933 01:42:12,080 --> 01:42:14,320 Speaker 1: and this kind of hume bise and yeah, it's gonna 1934 01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:17,800 Speaker 1: be great. So my last question, And I've always wanted 1935 01:42:17,800 --> 01:42:19,360 Speaker 1: to ask an artist this and I never have and 1936 01:42:19,400 --> 01:42:21,559 Speaker 1: every time I get really angry with myself when I 1937 01:42:21,600 --> 01:42:25,040 Speaker 1: forget okay. Um, last night we were able to participate 1938 01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:28,640 Speaker 1: in an incredible show here where it was just acoustic 1939 01:42:28,680 --> 01:42:31,120 Speaker 1: and there was like a people and it was super intimate, 1940 01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:33,519 Speaker 1: and every single artist that got up on stage was 1941 01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:35,800 Speaker 1: impressive in my mind because it felt like their first 1942 01:42:35,800 --> 01:42:38,120 Speaker 1: time I ever playing the song. It felt like they 1943 01:42:38,160 --> 01:42:40,559 Speaker 1: were excited to play it. And and I think anybody's 1944 01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:42,439 Speaker 1: a fans loves to hear the music. And I have 1945 01:42:42,479 --> 01:42:43,960 Speaker 1: a point here. I have the questions at the end, 1946 01:42:44,000 --> 01:42:48,080 Speaker 1: but I gotta lead up to it. Um. But uh, 1947 01:42:48,240 --> 01:42:50,240 Speaker 1: we would be naive to think that every time you're 1948 01:42:50,240 --> 01:42:51,920 Speaker 1: playing these songs all the time, you're in front of 1949 01:42:51,960 --> 01:42:55,160 Speaker 1: people every night and you're engaging a crowd, how do 1950 01:42:55,240 --> 01:42:59,439 Speaker 1: you keep yourself staying authentic getting excited and prepping for 1951 01:42:59,479 --> 01:43:01,600 Speaker 1: every show to make sure that the audience has the 1952 01:43:01,640 --> 01:43:04,120 Speaker 1: best time, and also that you're enjoying yourself, so you 1953 01:43:04,160 --> 01:43:08,280 Speaker 1: don't feel like a robot, right right? I I don't. 1954 01:43:08,320 --> 01:43:11,120 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I. I mean, you gotta understand 1955 01:43:11,120 --> 01:43:14,080 Speaker 1: to like, to get to somewhere to play, so much 1956 01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:15,719 Speaker 1: has to happen. You have to get on a plane 1957 01:43:15,800 --> 01:43:18,240 Speaker 1: or a bus and travel all night and and that 1958 01:43:18,280 --> 01:43:21,160 Speaker 1: moment you're on stage that that's the only reason you 1959 01:43:21,200 --> 01:43:23,519 Speaker 1: do it. So I don't know that. Consciously, I have 1960 01:43:23,520 --> 01:43:25,200 Speaker 1: to get myself in that head space. I feel like 1961 01:43:25,240 --> 01:43:27,240 Speaker 1: that is the moment that I'm looking forward to all day. 1962 01:43:27,320 --> 01:43:29,799 Speaker 1: So that's a genuine excitement that you see from everyone 1963 01:43:29,800 --> 01:43:32,000 Speaker 1: on stage, like that's the reason they here to do that. 1964 01:43:32,120 --> 01:43:34,320 Speaker 1: So that's probably the answer to your question. There's a 1965 01:43:34,360 --> 01:43:36,880 Speaker 1: lot of stuff we don't necessarily enjoy doing to get 1966 01:43:36,920 --> 01:43:40,120 Speaker 1: to that moment. So yeah, it's easy to appreciate that. 1967 01:43:40,240 --> 01:43:44,479 Speaker 1: Awesome man cool Well Hey Morgant, Evans considers continues to 1968 01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:49,040 Speaker 1: be a stud. Uh, thanks for coming on, man, Thanks 1969 01:43:48,479 --> 01:43:56,440 Speaker 1: your voice all day long, you're speaking voice or perfect. 1970 01:43:57,320 --> 01:44:02,360 Speaker 1: We're still here at Live in the vineyar Goes Country, 1971 01:44:02,400 --> 01:44:07,760 Speaker 1: which has been a magical experience. Aren't really like, yeah, 1972 01:44:07,840 --> 01:44:10,400 Speaker 1: this is just something special. The wine is flowing, the 1973 01:44:10,439 --> 01:44:14,360 Speaker 1: sun is shining, people are singing, and we're all here 1974 01:44:15,360 --> 01:44:20,840 Speaker 1: enjoying this incredible event. Coming up next to the podcast 1975 01:44:20,960 --> 01:44:24,320 Speaker 1: is somebody who has really been a household name for 1976 01:44:24,400 --> 01:44:27,400 Speaker 1: almost a decade. Which how are you a household name 1977 01:44:27,439 --> 01:44:30,599 Speaker 1: for almost a decade when you are only twenty five 1978 01:44:30,680 --> 01:44:34,280 Speaker 1: years old? I think we need to ask It would 1979 01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:37,240 Speaker 1: be amazing to ask Scottie McCreery how he's been a 1980 01:44:37,240 --> 01:44:40,960 Speaker 1: household name for so long and he's so young. Good 1981 01:44:40,960 --> 01:44:44,679 Speaker 1: thing he's here with us, Scotty, Welcome to the podcast. 1982 01:44:45,360 --> 01:44:48,000 Speaker 1: So we've met last year at August of Georgia at 1983 01:44:48,000 --> 01:44:50,559 Speaker 1: the Masters. My dad is my dad's bucket list. It's 1984 01:44:50,600 --> 01:44:53,880 Speaker 1: good place, like next level, amazing, like it's incredible. You're 1985 01:44:53,880 --> 01:44:57,479 Speaker 1: a good golfer, right, I pretend to be. It's I like, 1986 01:44:57,560 --> 01:44:59,280 Speaker 1: I like it. I was at August a couple of 1987 01:44:59,320 --> 01:45:01,439 Speaker 1: days ago, actually got the chance to play, and it 1988 01:45:01,560 --> 01:45:04,599 Speaker 1: was it was sick. What do you shoot? Augusta? So 1989 01:45:04,800 --> 01:45:06,679 Speaker 1: this is my first time recond ninety but I shot 1990 01:45:06,720 --> 01:45:09,479 Speaker 1: eighty one and eighty one with the eight on the 1991 01:45:09,520 --> 01:45:13,000 Speaker 1: second hole, which is really not good. You and I 1992 01:45:13,040 --> 01:45:15,400 Speaker 1: could talk with gust To all day, but ours something 1993 01:45:15,400 --> 01:45:18,520 Speaker 1: that was really cool about that and and our listeners. 1994 01:45:19,080 --> 01:45:20,760 Speaker 1: I always love to hear this kind of stuff. Is 1995 01:45:20,880 --> 01:45:23,639 Speaker 1: I met your buddies actually first backstage, my dad never 1996 01:45:23,640 --> 01:45:25,920 Speaker 1: standing there, and you're you're on stage and your buddies 1997 01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:29,439 Speaker 1: were talking and you had brought them with you to 1998 01:45:29,560 --> 01:45:33,200 Speaker 1: this amazing experience just to enjoy it with friends, right, 1999 01:45:33,760 --> 01:45:35,280 Speaker 1: That's to me, that's what life is about. I mean, 2000 01:45:35,280 --> 01:45:37,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to go through this stuff just doing 2001 01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:40,320 Speaker 1: things by myself with whether's my wife, my buddies, and 2002 01:45:40,360 --> 01:45:41,920 Speaker 1: I just want to hang out and make membories of 2003 01:45:42,000 --> 01:45:44,800 Speaker 1: moments with people. You know. Yeah, that's what it's all about. 2004 01:45:44,880 --> 01:45:46,439 Speaker 1: You could tell they were just I mean, actually, I'm 2005 01:45:46,439 --> 01:45:49,400 Speaker 1: telling you his buddies were such a big fans of 2006 01:45:49,479 --> 01:45:51,599 Speaker 1: him and as like friends not just like but like 2007 01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:54,960 Speaker 1: just loving it. Like they're like so celebratory. Like what's 2008 01:45:54,960 --> 01:45:57,920 Speaker 1: really cool is when you see a guy, you know, 2009 01:45:58,040 --> 01:46:00,479 Speaker 1: make it who's has friends from the past and now 2010 01:46:00,520 --> 01:46:03,439 Speaker 1: the friends aren't jealous, but they're supportive and like just 2011 01:46:03,520 --> 01:46:05,760 Speaker 1: uplifting and just like that's my dude. Yeah, it's like 2012 01:46:05,800 --> 01:46:08,799 Speaker 1: an Entourage life. You get to just live this awesome 2013 01:46:08,840 --> 01:46:10,640 Speaker 1: life with their friends. You may not be the one 2014 01:46:10,680 --> 01:46:13,800 Speaker 1: the spotlight, but you're still getting perks. We all have 2015 01:46:13,840 --> 01:46:15,760 Speaker 1: a pretty good time. There's there's eight of us and 2016 01:46:15,800 --> 01:46:18,519 Speaker 1: we we we traveled in the pack. Yeah. Hey, to 2017 01:46:18,560 --> 01:46:20,679 Speaker 1: get a start here, we gotta talk music, we gotta 2018 01:46:20,680 --> 01:46:23,719 Speaker 1: talk love. Um, that's what this podcast about. But first 2019 01:46:23,920 --> 01:46:25,840 Speaker 1: we were sitting here talking, we had to google it. 2020 01:46:26,280 --> 01:46:28,720 Speaker 1: You're twenty five years old. This is mind boggling to me. 2021 01:46:28,840 --> 01:46:30,360 Speaker 1: I was like, he was at least eighteen. When you 2022 01:46:30,400 --> 01:46:32,240 Speaker 1: want Idol, you were you were the last season of 2023 01:46:32,320 --> 01:46:37,680 Speaker 1: Idol I ever watched you now, but like you were 2024 01:46:37,720 --> 01:46:40,479 Speaker 1: the last of the Heyday. It was a fun season. 2025 01:46:40,520 --> 01:46:43,400 Speaker 1: I felt like everybody in season ten, like Jago was 2026 01:46:43,439 --> 01:46:45,400 Speaker 1: great at gospel and James was killing it in rock 2027 01:46:45,439 --> 01:46:48,160 Speaker 1: and roll, and like everybody had their thing and it 2028 01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:51,640 Speaker 1: was very unique season. I thought, really awesome. Yeah, we 2029 01:46:51,720 --> 01:46:53,960 Speaker 1: have this deal, right, we come from this crazy reality 2030 01:46:54,000 --> 01:46:59,280 Speaker 1: show called The Bachelor we watch Oh my goodness, Well 2031 01:46:59,280 --> 01:47:02,240 Speaker 1: this is too cool because before there was the Bachelor 2032 01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:04,760 Speaker 1: of my life, there was American Idol. Like the two 2033 01:47:04,800 --> 01:47:07,240 Speaker 1: chapters of my TV life. There you go. So if 2034 01:47:07,240 --> 01:47:10,080 Speaker 1: you don't know Ash, she's a she's a big girl. 2035 01:47:11,840 --> 01:47:14,160 Speaker 1: Makes your wonderful. But so we come from this show. 2036 01:47:14,240 --> 01:47:16,080 Speaker 1: We always talk about like the we have a couple 2037 01:47:16,080 --> 01:47:18,880 Speaker 1: of other Bachelor contestants a man to stand Andasia behind you, 2038 01:47:18,920 --> 01:47:21,720 Speaker 1: and we always talk to them about this, uh, this 2039 01:47:21,840 --> 01:47:24,280 Speaker 1: idea that you go from just being a normal person 2040 01:47:24,400 --> 01:47:26,280 Speaker 1: to be on a show and then you putt put 2041 01:47:26,280 --> 01:47:27,880 Speaker 1: in the spotlight. Now you have a talent. So I'm 2042 01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:29,840 Speaker 1: not trying to compare the two of our world. But 2043 01:47:29,880 --> 01:47:33,320 Speaker 1: at sixteen years old, you win Idle and it launches 2044 01:47:33,360 --> 01:47:36,759 Speaker 1: you into this whole new like planet out of nowhere. 2045 01:47:37,680 --> 01:47:39,439 Speaker 1: How do you handle like, can you help us a 2046 01:47:39,479 --> 01:47:41,679 Speaker 1: little bit relate with where your mind went to, what 2047 01:47:41,760 --> 01:47:44,160 Speaker 1: that was like for you and kind of looking back now, 2048 01:47:44,200 --> 01:47:45,599 Speaker 1: does it feel like a different world? Do you feel 2049 01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:48,720 Speaker 1: like you're in a different world? It's definitely, I would say, 2050 01:47:48,720 --> 01:47:50,439 Speaker 1: when you're in the spot like that like that, it's 2051 01:47:50,479 --> 01:47:52,840 Speaker 1: it's not reality. I mean, there's so much more to 2052 01:47:52,920 --> 01:47:55,320 Speaker 1: life than than cameras and lights and all the craziness. 2053 01:47:55,560 --> 01:47:57,080 Speaker 1: But it took a lot of getting used to that. 2054 01:47:57,160 --> 01:47:59,880 Speaker 1: The first time somebody called my name and it wasn't 2055 01:48:00,040 --> 01:48:01,960 Speaker 1: a friend or a family member. I was like, who 2056 01:48:02,000 --> 01:48:05,040 Speaker 1: are you and how do you know? But uh, you know, 2057 01:48:05,520 --> 01:48:07,360 Speaker 1: it's one of those things that I'm a very laid 2058 01:48:07,360 --> 01:48:09,439 Speaker 1: back guy, just go with the flow and just take 2059 01:48:09,479 --> 01:48:13,560 Speaker 1: things day by day. And but it was very odd 2060 01:48:13,560 --> 01:48:16,040 Speaker 1: at the start, especially that you know, everybody loves going 2061 01:48:16,040 --> 01:48:18,680 Speaker 1: through their awkward teenager years on national television. Right, you 2062 01:48:18,760 --> 01:48:21,840 Speaker 1: still looked very cute doing it. You didn't look stuff. 2063 01:48:21,960 --> 01:48:23,639 Speaker 1: I can't go back and look at I'm like, oh 2064 01:48:23,680 --> 01:48:27,920 Speaker 1: my god. Alright, So the Bachelor, we get the number 2065 01:48:27,920 --> 01:48:30,120 Speaker 1: one question I think we get as Bachelor contestants is 2066 01:48:30,320 --> 01:48:32,400 Speaker 1: how real is the show? Is it scripted? Like? Is 2067 01:48:32,439 --> 01:48:34,400 Speaker 1: it all fake? And you guys are actors. When I 2068 01:48:34,439 --> 01:48:37,400 Speaker 1: look at an American Idol, I think, oh, it's just legitimate, right, 2069 01:48:37,520 --> 01:48:40,160 Speaker 1: just a singing contest. But then when I hear from 2070 01:48:40,200 --> 01:48:43,479 Speaker 1: American Idol contestants, they make it seem like it's much 2071 01:48:43,479 --> 01:48:46,800 Speaker 1: more manipulated and much more reality show than people think. 2072 01:48:46,920 --> 01:48:48,640 Speaker 1: Can you give us a little bit of insight on 2073 01:48:48,720 --> 01:48:51,639 Speaker 1: all this? Yeah, they definitely want to make it very reality. 2074 01:48:51,680 --> 01:48:53,439 Speaker 1: I mean when it comes down on the gritty, like 2075 01:48:53,640 --> 01:48:55,920 Speaker 1: you go on stage, you sing, your song and that's that. 2076 01:48:56,040 --> 01:48:58,840 Speaker 1: But behind the scenes of like producers like, hey, why 2077 01:48:58,840 --> 01:49:00,920 Speaker 1: don't y'all go do this? Well, I mean they were 2078 01:49:00,960 --> 01:49:02,800 Speaker 1: cameras phoning. They would go to the bathroom with it 2079 01:49:02,880 --> 01:49:05,320 Speaker 1: if they could. We ever barely saw that footage. Oh 2080 01:49:05,360 --> 01:49:07,840 Speaker 1: I know, like I feel like they tried to do 2081 01:49:07,920 --> 01:49:09,679 Speaker 1: because they put us in a mansion at first, which 2082 01:49:09,720 --> 01:49:12,120 Speaker 1: sounded amazing until we got in there. It's just like 2083 01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:18,479 Speaker 1: twenty people in like two rooms and yeah, yeah, it's crazy. 2084 01:49:18,520 --> 01:49:20,439 Speaker 1: Like they just want the drama, They just want people 2085 01:49:20,720 --> 01:49:22,639 Speaker 1: to live with each other like that. I always thought 2086 01:49:22,680 --> 01:49:24,920 Speaker 1: American Idols should have a show, like a spin off 2087 01:49:24,920 --> 01:49:28,120 Speaker 1: show where an hour of the week was dedicated to 2088 01:49:28,200 --> 01:49:30,719 Speaker 1: just watching the contestants, like the top ten or twelve 2089 01:49:30,800 --> 01:49:33,439 Speaker 1: interact in the mansion together. But then I thought that 2090 01:49:33,479 --> 01:49:35,720 Speaker 1: perhaps it would sway the vote because I think it 2091 01:49:35,760 --> 01:49:38,800 Speaker 1: would be would be voting based on personality and not 2092 01:49:38,840 --> 01:49:42,320 Speaker 1: on talent. Oh yeah, they're They're definitely a camera on 2093 01:49:42,400 --> 01:49:45,040 Speaker 1: moment to camera off moments for sure. So I gotta 2094 01:49:45,040 --> 01:49:46,920 Speaker 1: tell you a little story here Easton over here, who 2095 01:49:47,040 --> 01:49:49,200 Speaker 1: is one of our producers on the show. He also 2096 01:49:49,360 --> 01:49:51,760 Speaker 1: is a producer with Ryan Seacrest and the Ryan Seacrest Show. 2097 01:49:52,320 --> 01:49:54,479 Speaker 1: So he gets massive people in an at the studio 2098 01:49:54,520 --> 01:49:56,960 Speaker 1: all time, right, I mean every day people are coming 2099 01:49:57,000 --> 01:50:00,599 Speaker 1: in now. Um And we were driving the car here 2100 01:50:00,760 --> 01:50:02,200 Speaker 1: and we got the confirmation that you're gonna come on 2101 01:50:02,200 --> 01:50:05,920 Speaker 1: the podcast, and Eastern freaks out, I mean gets so 2102 01:50:06,000 --> 01:50:08,160 Speaker 1: pump to start playing your music in the car, all 2103 01:50:08,240 --> 01:50:12,400 Speaker 1: five of us driving from Oakland to Napa, just absolutely doing. 2104 01:50:12,439 --> 01:50:14,360 Speaker 1: So my point of this is, you know, we we 2105 01:50:14,400 --> 01:50:17,200 Speaker 1: can laugh and talk about our past on both reality shows, 2106 01:50:17,200 --> 01:50:19,519 Speaker 1: but you have done. You've made this a career and 2107 01:50:19,600 --> 01:50:23,000 Speaker 1: been successful, and so you know, yes, American Idol is 2108 01:50:23,000 --> 01:50:25,120 Speaker 1: is a is a part of your story, but it 2109 01:50:25,200 --> 01:50:27,040 Speaker 1: was not the end. It was not the last chapter. 2110 01:50:27,400 --> 01:50:31,599 Speaker 1: You've done far greater things. How have you done? I mean, 2111 01:50:31,760 --> 01:50:35,040 Speaker 1: obviously because you're talented, but also how have you navigated 2112 01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,760 Speaker 1: to make that happen and kind of separate yourself into 2113 01:50:37,800 --> 01:50:41,320 Speaker 1: a whole different paradigm you have. There's so many people 2114 01:50:41,400 --> 01:50:43,680 Speaker 1: that just know Scottie and they have no idea that 2115 01:50:43,720 --> 01:50:45,479 Speaker 1: you came from idol, and that I think is the 2116 01:50:45,560 --> 01:50:48,840 Speaker 1: ultimate compliment for American Idle contestants. I think it's you. 2117 01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:52,559 Speaker 1: Kelly Clarkson, Uh, Daughtry, Carrie Underwood. Those are like the 2118 01:50:52,640 --> 01:50:54,600 Speaker 1: four that I think of when I think like have 2119 01:50:55,000 --> 01:51:00,000 Speaker 1: separated there not today, because I don't know if that's 2120 01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:03,200 Speaker 1: so you can appreciate it. Yeah, I think the the 2121 01:51:03,360 --> 01:51:05,599 Speaker 1: goal in music is just to get songs out there 2122 01:51:05,600 --> 01:51:08,160 Speaker 1: to connect with people. So it took me a while. 2123 01:51:08,160 --> 01:51:10,160 Speaker 1: In my first few years, I didn't write any songs, 2124 01:51:10,160 --> 01:51:12,240 Speaker 1: and then my next album I wrote a couple. But 2125 01:51:12,360 --> 01:51:15,040 Speaker 1: this last record, I mean, we're every song on the 2126 01:51:15,040 --> 01:51:16,519 Speaker 1: record and just from the heart, and I feel like 2127 01:51:16,560 --> 01:51:18,679 Speaker 1: folks relate to that. They see that and they see 2128 01:51:18,720 --> 01:51:20,560 Speaker 1: themselves in the song. Like man, that song reminded me 2129 01:51:20,600 --> 01:51:22,600 Speaker 1: of the time about my boys. That song reminded me 2130 01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:25,360 Speaker 1: of me and my wife's story. So, um, I think 2131 01:51:25,360 --> 01:51:27,439 Speaker 1: it's just about being relatable, getting music out there, and 2132 01:51:27,520 --> 01:51:29,680 Speaker 1: just being real at the end of the day. Yeah, 2133 01:51:29,720 --> 01:51:32,479 Speaker 1: that's amazing. Yeah, you know you have a speaking of songs, 2134 01:51:32,479 --> 01:51:36,240 Speaker 1: you have a new song out, a new single in between. Uh, 2135 01:51:36,320 --> 01:51:39,639 Speaker 1: so as you think about the idea of being relatable, Sure, 2136 01:51:39,760 --> 01:51:42,240 Speaker 1: what made this song relatable in your eyes to the 2137 01:51:42,400 --> 01:51:45,000 Speaker 1: general public. Yeah, I think the whole song, I mean, 2138 01:51:45,320 --> 01:51:47,080 Speaker 1: in my opinion, we wrote the song just kind of 2139 01:51:47,080 --> 01:51:49,080 Speaker 1: talking about my life and where I'm at. And a 2140 01:51:49,080 --> 01:51:51,479 Speaker 1: lot of times on TV or wherever you only see 2141 01:51:51,479 --> 01:51:53,880 Speaker 1: the extreme crazy people on one side or the other, 2142 01:51:54,040 --> 01:51:56,040 Speaker 1: it's like most of us outs they are just kind 2143 01:51:56,040 --> 01:51:59,040 Speaker 1: of doing our own thing, just chilling, just right down 2144 01:51:59,080 --> 01:52:00,960 Speaker 1: the middle. And one of my favorite lines in the 2145 01:52:00,960 --> 01:52:02,519 Speaker 1: song is the hook. It goes, I ain't all Holy 2146 01:52:02,520 --> 01:52:04,280 Speaker 1: Water and I and all Jim Beam. I'm somewhere in 2147 01:52:04,280 --> 01:52:06,720 Speaker 1: between you. I feel like that's most of us. You know. 2148 01:52:07,160 --> 01:52:10,599 Speaker 1: I can I can calm down and have my Jesus time, 2149 01:52:10,640 --> 01:52:12,280 Speaker 1: but I can also go out and have have a 2150 01:52:12,280 --> 01:52:14,800 Speaker 1: good time as well. So, yeah, how old were you 2151 01:52:14,840 --> 01:52:18,000 Speaker 1: when you met your wife? Five? Yeah? Okay, that's what 2152 01:52:18,000 --> 01:52:20,640 Speaker 1: I thought. I was like, yeah, yeah, okay. So this 2153 01:52:20,680 --> 01:52:22,840 Speaker 1: is why I asked because I remember you being on 2154 01:52:22,920 --> 01:52:25,240 Speaker 1: idol and you said that you had a girlfriend, and 2155 01:52:25,280 --> 01:52:28,360 Speaker 1: I thought, you know, as being like a fan girls 2156 01:52:28,400 --> 01:52:30,400 Speaker 1: like oh no, he should have never said he had 2157 01:52:30,400 --> 01:52:33,479 Speaker 1: a girlfriend because now all these fan girls are gonna 2158 01:52:33,520 --> 01:52:36,080 Speaker 1: be like, oh no, I don't have a chance anymore. 2159 01:52:36,320 --> 01:52:40,280 Speaker 1: But then you end up marrying her. Yeah, how has 2160 01:52:40,360 --> 01:52:42,920 Speaker 1: she dealt with you? Going from somebody that she knew 2161 01:52:42,960 --> 01:52:45,960 Speaker 1: at five years old? Scotty the Winner of America Adolt 2162 01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:49,120 Speaker 1: to Scotty the Country music Sensation. Yeah, you know. I 2163 01:52:49,160 --> 01:52:51,639 Speaker 1: mean she's my best friend, number one. That's that's first 2164 01:52:51,680 --> 01:52:54,240 Speaker 1: and foremost. We just we know all about each other. 2165 01:52:54,280 --> 01:52:57,040 Speaker 1: We're just we're there for each other. So there's that. 2166 01:52:57,160 --> 01:52:59,080 Speaker 1: She's also I would say, my biggest fan when she's 2167 01:52:59,280 --> 01:53:01,800 Speaker 1: always written for me and helping me out. But at 2168 01:53:01,800 --> 01:53:04,160 Speaker 1: the same time it's as cool as it is, it's 2169 01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:06,200 Speaker 1: also like, well, that's just Scotty, Like that's just the 2170 01:53:06,479 --> 01:53:07,800 Speaker 1: kid I knew back in the day and it's the 2171 01:53:07,840 --> 01:53:12,599 Speaker 1: same guy. So she's Yeah, she she's incredible for sure. 2172 01:53:12,640 --> 01:53:14,920 Speaker 1: I got lucky with her. How do you meet at five? 2173 01:53:15,040 --> 01:53:17,400 Speaker 1: Like she the next door neighbor. We met our first 2174 01:53:17,439 --> 01:53:21,800 Speaker 1: day in kindergarten class. You're gonna make Ashley Cross talk 2175 01:53:21,840 --> 01:53:25,320 Speaker 1: about a love story. This is a full circle. Uh. 2176 01:53:25,720 --> 01:53:29,759 Speaker 1: We've brought the bachelor and love into this country music 2177 01:53:30,640 --> 01:53:33,840 Speaker 1: that Scotty, You're a good man. I appreciate you having 2178 01:53:33,840 --> 01:53:36,360 Speaker 1: me own thanks for having on the podcast. When I 2179 01:53:36,400 --> 01:53:37,720 Speaker 1: told my wife we were talking, she was like, oh 2180 01:53:37,800 --> 01:53:41,080 Speaker 1: my god, we really are would be fans of the show. 2181 01:53:41,080 --> 01:53:45,000 Speaker 1: We watch every Monday. So I'll representing Jesus. Well, man, 2182 01:53:45,439 --> 01:53:47,559 Speaker 1: I'm doing it. Get out there, and uh make sure 2183 01:53:47,600 --> 01:53:51,719 Speaker 1: everybody out there listening checks out in between, uh wherever 2184 01:53:51,760 --> 01:53:55,240 Speaker 1: you can listen to music, we're hopefully. Yeah, it's definitely 2185 01:53:55,280 --> 01:53:59,599 Speaker 1: out there. Hey, thanks be a country star, Scotty McCreary. 2186 01:53:59,640 --> 01:54:02,320 Speaker 1: Could you with a more country name? I think you could? 2187 01:54:06,880 --> 01:54:08,479 Speaker 1: All right, Well, that was quite a podcast. I don't 2188 01:54:08,479 --> 01:54:10,639 Speaker 1: know if we've ever had a podcast with so many 2189 01:54:10,920 --> 01:54:14,400 Speaker 1: famousests of famous one and then like to have such 2190 01:54:14,400 --> 01:54:17,320 Speaker 1: a variety of guests. Can you imagine had Tassia here, 2191 01:54:17,800 --> 01:54:19,519 Speaker 1: we're standing here right now, We're sitting here right now 2192 01:54:19,560 --> 01:54:23,200 Speaker 1: looking at like Amanda Stanton, who's famous, and then we 2193 01:54:23,240 --> 01:54:28,120 Speaker 1: have Morgan Evans and Scotty McCoury on Ashley. We're Napa Valley. 2194 01:54:28,200 --> 01:54:31,080 Speaker 1: What as our life became? I don't know, but I 2195 01:54:31,120 --> 01:54:34,080 Speaker 1: just can't believe I just interviewed an American idol, because 2196 01:54:34,320 --> 01:54:36,960 Speaker 1: that would have been my goal ten years ago and accomplished. 2197 01:54:37,360 --> 01:54:40,000 Speaker 1: We just keep crossing off goals on this podcast. Thanks 2198 01:54:40,040 --> 01:54:42,160 Speaker 1: for doing this podcast, and thanks for doing the podcast 2199 01:54:42,160 --> 01:54:44,400 Speaker 1: with me, Ben and doing all the great intros and outros, 2200 01:54:44,440 --> 01:54:46,240 Speaker 1: because you're such a king at that. This is like, 2201 01:54:46,280 --> 01:54:48,720 Speaker 1: I'm really thankful for your skill at intro and outros, 2202 01:54:48,800 --> 01:54:50,560 Speaker 1: and I really get awkward with them. I love a 2203 01:54:50,560 --> 01:54:53,440 Speaker 1: good interview, but like something about saying and here doing 2204 01:54:53,440 --> 01:54:56,080 Speaker 1: the nice flattery thing and then going into the guests. 2205 01:54:56,240 --> 01:54:57,760 Speaker 1: I can't do that, and you're so good at it. 2206 01:54:57,800 --> 01:54:59,640 Speaker 1: I think we're a good team. It might be why 2207 01:54:59,680 --> 01:55:01,640 Speaker 1: this can and use the word I don't know. Hey, 2208 01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:03,920 Speaker 1: and everybody out there, thank you for listening. I hope 2209 01:55:03,960 --> 01:55:07,160 Speaker 1: you've enjoyed this podcast as much as we've enjoyed making it. 2210 01:55:08,200 --> 01:55:11,560 Speaker 1: We love you, we thank you, and we want to 2211 01:55:11,560 --> 01:55:14,040 Speaker 1: come back for more. So please keep listening next week 2212 01:55:14,040 --> 01:55:16,360 Speaker 1: to the Almost Famous Podcast as we break down episode 2213 01:55:16,400 --> 01:55:19,040 Speaker 1: three of Hannah by season. Oh and you guys, let 2214 01:55:19,080 --> 01:55:21,320 Speaker 1: us know if you want this podcast tour to be 2215 01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:23,560 Speaker 1: a thing, because we already have three dates that we 2216 01:55:23,600 --> 01:55:26,200 Speaker 1: really want to hit up. We're s Indiana, you better 2217 01:55:26,240 --> 01:55:33,240 Speaker 1: watch out, and Fairfax County, Virginia and Savannah, Georgia. With that, 2218 01:55:33,360 --> 01:55:35,960 Speaker 1: I've been been, and I've been Ashley. We'll see you 2219 01:55:36,000 --> 01:55:40,160 Speaker 1: in your city very soon. Peace, as cold would say. 2220 01:55:40,480 --> 01:55:43,440 Speaker 1: Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast on 2221 01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:46,720 Speaker 1: iHeart Radio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts,