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Speaker 1: there going on this Big Facts Friday. Big Facts Friday
Speaker 1: is now legendary, is now iconic pop? That motherfucker off
Speaker 1: in like, I gotta hold you up this ship right here.
Speaker 1: This is smoking Jada smoking. Jada smoking, y'all. I don't
Speaker 1: know what it is smoking the same thing smoking on Friday.
Speaker 1: He smoked out. Hey, we hope everybody's doing well out there.
Speaker 1: What do we do? What do we hold it? What
Speaker 1: we do when we discussing today, what we're talking about?
Speaker 1: How is marriage too big of a commitment, but having
Speaker 1: kids together isn't so? How is marriage too big of
Speaker 1: a commitment but having the kids having a kid or kids?
Speaker 1: How is you? How is the nigga not marrying you
Speaker 1: a big deal? But you let the nigga stick your
Speaker 1: dick and you stick his dick in you and give
Speaker 1: you something that you're gonna have to deal with for life.
Speaker 1: Marriage is stretch, but that's deep, you know. I don't
Speaker 1: think it's about being married. Sometimes you gotta put something
Speaker 1: in the job. Do you just talked to the bank?
Speaker 1: You gotta curse to that. Don't don't cry my lane
Speaker 1: no more. Keep Okay, I was I was just gonna say,
Speaker 1: sometimes when it comes to having a kid, it's not
Speaker 1: by choice, you know what I'm saying. You just get pregnant.
Speaker 1: With marriage, you'll kind of decide, like I want to
Speaker 1: be with you forever. Don't you decide to do an
Speaker 1: act to make a kid, you decide to have sex.
Speaker 1: Most people to just piggyback off of what I was saying.
Speaker 1: Most people don't look at sex like a major life
Speaker 1: changing decision. When most people think about sex, they don't
Speaker 1: think about at the time like I could possibly get pregnant,
Speaker 1: or I could possibly impregnate this bitch and make or
Speaker 1: have a kid whatever whatever. They're just thinking like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get a nut, or I'm trying to
Speaker 1: you know, please whatever feeling I'm trying to get out
Speaker 1: of this from this person for whatever reason. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: They don't look at it like a lifetime commitment, like
Speaker 1: how you should technically if you were a sensible person.
Speaker 1: But I'm not one of those people that is big
Speaker 1: on marriage because I understand how we just get off
Speaker 1: me right now. I can't. I can't. How long are
Speaker 1: you're gonna talk? So somebody don't you don't take you,
Speaker 1: you damn officer. I'm just I'm just putting you up
Speaker 1: on the big fat, fucking pop police when you pull
Speaker 1: your money out, yea, because what we're doing fast Friday.
Speaker 1: If I say a particular word or jade or bank,
Speaker 1: then we're gonna put some money in the pot for
Speaker 1: criminal or something like that. Yeah, criminal man, y'all need
Speaker 1: to gonna cash. I'm gonna get y'all the cash we
Speaker 1: keep let people get away like shot away. Like you
Speaker 1: can't say, like my baby told me not to say that,
Speaker 1: say the B words or I ain't gonna see it
Speaker 1: no more. Well I ain't. If I do, I got
Speaker 1: a twenty, he prepared, he prepaid, that's I can spend
Speaker 1: them all night. It's cool. I don't have to say
Speaker 1: like basically, the subject the subject is how is marriage
Speaker 1: too big of a commitment? But having a child with
Speaker 1: a person that you've had sex with not do you?
Speaker 1: Theay man, so commit the energy, you can't commit the
Speaker 1: then but you but but you you commit to parenthood,
Speaker 1: you have a kid. Everybody don't commit you should now
Speaker 1: I said marriage is easily detachable because like when you
Speaker 1: got a human that you gave birth to or you
Speaker 1: were responsible to giving birth to, you know, that's something
Speaker 1: that you really gotta you really got to lock in
Speaker 1: with them. But like when when you're married, if I
Speaker 1: don't like you tomorrow i't like you, we can deal, yeah,
Speaker 1: straight up? But not some is the marriage? What's les
Speaker 1: let's talk about it that marriage. I just think married
Speaker 1: still can get I get what he's saying. You still
Speaker 1: can check out that ship. You can't check out of me?
Speaker 1: And did my son? People don't their kids and they
Speaker 1: your son and your daughter. If I got a wife
Speaker 1: and not divorce her, she's no longer my wife ex
Speaker 1: wife wife, but she's not my wife, no your last name.
Speaker 1: If she wanted to, Hey, that's up to you. But
Speaker 1: you're not. I can say I disown you like you
Speaker 1: can still I do not acknowledge here, so you do
Speaker 1: have to acknowledge her. Yeah, you saying y'all, y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: didn't get what I'm saying, and y'all cutting the nick
Speaker 1: off again. But I give what you're saying. That ain't
Speaker 1: smelling that. Yeah, that ain't the right way to guy
Speaker 1: in the right way to do. How does it not
Speaker 1: like if you have if you give birth to somebody,
Speaker 1: you locked in forever, if you if you can't look
Speaker 1: like people don't be trying to have a kid like
Speaker 1: some people do, some people don't. It's just the power.
Speaker 1: That's what I said, Dave. If you're up, is something wrong,
Speaker 1: don't never cross your hand trying to know what I'm
Speaker 1: trying to tell you. It's the power of when you
Speaker 1: haven't said the power of the trying to get that
Speaker 1: nick him or her. It's adrenaline. You're not thinking about
Speaker 1: nothing but that you don't any metal you come up
Speaker 1: about before me? What about before you do it before
Speaker 1: you even already going. That's al you're making a decision
Speaker 1: when you're saying, I ain't feel about no rubble, I'm
Speaker 1: gon hit this ship row. That's what you're making. You
Speaker 1: can think about it then you think about even control
Speaker 1: that decision or can't even get to that point and
Speaker 1: make a sension. Some bout decisions are like weird niggas.
Speaker 1: I just think y'all missing the point. Raw sex definitely
Speaker 1: feels better than any sex when, of course, so I
Speaker 1: think you're so based onf for that, like I fail
Speaker 1: this wet let's see, want to What I'm saying is
Speaker 1: don't wear your seatbelt. What it is when you have
Speaker 1: an accident, your ass might fly out of the current.
Speaker 1: You need to know that. But like even though even
Speaker 1: though true enough Ross Sex is the best ship ever
Speaker 1: in the world, but you still have to take into
Speaker 1: consideration the baby, the fucking diseases. I mean that's like, no,
Speaker 1: I ain't saying people don't think about thinking all that
Speaker 1: before you think about all that before that come across
Speaker 1: your mind like that we're in front, like like she
Speaker 1: ain't got yeah, yeah, it broke down thinking about everybody
Speaker 1: a lot of people. You don't have to funk a
Speaker 1: lot of people. What are y'all talking about to day?
Speaker 1: What else? Like everybody's not like one person to get
Speaker 1: the break you can one person to catch some ship.
Speaker 1: Two other niggas and three bitches that that stuff talked up.
Speaker 1: What happened. Yeah, that's all getting ready to compliment me.
Speaker 1: That the real definition of no. But I'm saying like
Speaker 1: she's saying, like, you know, you can only fun. You
Speaker 1: can funk with one person or whatever, but that one
Speaker 1: person that you sucked with might only fucked one other person,
Speaker 1: but that one other person that they fucked might two
Speaker 1: niggas and three bitches. That's why you should think about
Speaker 1: that ship. Try not that nothing that's wrong if you
Speaker 1: want but again like yeah, if you want to, if
Speaker 1: you want to do that, it is really like the
Speaker 1: best ship ever. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: you have to be prepared for what comes behind that
Speaker 1: ship if it goes. That's all we're trying to say. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we personally, I just think a lot of funks. How
Speaker 1: people be explaining ship ship having a kid might be
Speaker 1: less stressful than just getting married. But the way to
Speaker 1: look at it, like if they're saying, how you get married.
Speaker 1: When you get married and she like some folks don't
Speaker 1: like that, she will be married something, Yeah, a baby
Speaker 1: and that's my baby, mama. Yeah they're married, but I
Speaker 1: ain't had no wedding. But that's where the bullshit comes in,
Speaker 1: because when you have situations like that and you said
Speaker 1: you want to have a kid with her, but you
Speaker 1: don't want to marry her, then that's gonna lead the
Speaker 1: problems down the line, because your emotions and your feelings
Speaker 1: are still involved. So even if you guys do go
Speaker 1: off and funk with other people and get committed to
Speaker 1: other people or whatever, you're still donna feel like, this
Speaker 1: is my bitch and I can do whatever I wants
Speaker 1: to with her. But they'd be like, it'd be like,
Speaker 1: we're just not married. In your head, you might have
Speaker 1: an idea that you will if I don't have a baby.
Speaker 1: If I have a baby in my head, once upon
Speaker 1: a time that I thought I could marry her. But
Speaker 1: as we don't have history and head that, it's just
Speaker 1: broken up. It's over. I ain't thinking about that. That's
Speaker 1: the definition of toxic. I think we're talking about the
Speaker 1: motherfucker's that just randomly just go out there planning they see,
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. Ain't there for the woman just
Speaker 1: trying to trap. Trying to trap, that's that happens. And
Speaker 1: then on the other end to the women that just
Speaker 1: trying to trap, shout Brittany Renner. It's women out here
Speaker 1: trying to trap me. She trapped the NBA player. Are
Speaker 1: you talking about just not not Coop not Coop uh
Speaker 1: PJ Washington? He played for the Hornets. Yeah, she just
Speaker 1: got two hundred thousand a month allegedly. What does she
Speaker 1: need with two hundred thousand dollars a month? And that's
Speaker 1: all you should think about before you go fucking road
Speaker 1: for show. You got to make sure she here for
Speaker 1: you two hundred thousand a month or more D paying
Speaker 1: more than that, right, ridiculous. Three D ain't no pushing
Speaker 1: in the world on this earth work. And she get
Speaker 1: she get that until she getting another marriage. So if
Speaker 1: the bees decides that, I never want the range marriages
Speaker 1: in the negative right now, like coming up closing, you're
Speaker 1: talking about married baby. This don't concern me really because
Speaker 1: I've been with my wife for twenty six years twenty
Speaker 1: years married. So what about your homeboys out that planning
Speaker 1: seeds multiples? I ain't going new forbidding it, okay, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, right because like that, it don't
Speaker 1: even make no sense. You know, the dynamic of things
Speaker 1: is goodness, You know what I'm saying, but I get
Speaker 1: it because I married. It's marriage tough. Though, marriage is
Speaker 1: tough thought, right, Yeah, you can't answer that you're married. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the ship here, especially when you're being married to
Speaker 1: somebody like me, or to somebody like the person I'm
Speaker 1: married to, like two nuts and the bucket gonna shake it, right,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like marriage or parenthood.
Speaker 1: I think I think I think the marriage the marriage
Speaker 1: is tougher than his parenthood because and the end of
Speaker 1: the day, if it's about the child, for really just
Speaker 1: about the child, you know what I'm saying. So the
Speaker 1: marriage is about us, you know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like it's gonna be always our situation.
Speaker 1: I feel that, But in most situations unless you're dealing
Speaker 1: with two mature adults who mature though, like I tell you,
Speaker 1: try to tell you this at the time, but our
Speaker 1: relationship is really based on a sixteen year that's where
Speaker 1: y'all met. Yeah, I would see teams, she was I
Speaker 1: think something. Yes, she won't yelling at me, So it's
Speaker 1: like we still have those childish values in this relationship.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, Like, like there's no other
Speaker 1: way around it. Like because the same games that that
Speaker 1: you would play, it's kids, Like don't really give a
Speaker 1: funk about you a bitch, fuck you, a nigga fuck
Speaker 1: you or you know what I'm saying, whatever you're playing
Speaker 1: the same ship is sixteen years old, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But you got if I think if I
Speaker 1: for sure, but if I just says about want of
Speaker 1: the relationship and I was grown at nigga already been
Speaker 1: through bitches and did all this, and dood I know
Speaker 1: how they got them. Like like now if I meet
Speaker 1: a bitch, me and a bitch bitch friends, because I
Speaker 1: already know what I want and I can shement it
Speaker 1: on you. I can shement it on you from the beginning,
Speaker 1: like nah, this ain't it ain't what I like. Cool bitches,
Speaker 1: it's cool, Like we're gonna kick shit. You can. You
Speaker 1: can always see man, that other ship nine that ain't
Speaker 1: even for me, That ain't for me. You're gonna smell
Speaker 1: it on the nigga too, exactly. But the women, women
Speaker 1: being but women be naive and they because yeah they changing,
Speaker 1: yeah they think they can change, and they're like, he
Speaker 1: just ain't had me who said the same ship they
Speaker 1: just been done got they dick the never language. But
Speaker 1: niggas felt the same. Niggas felt the same way, like
Speaker 1: she never had a nigga like me. And that's like
Speaker 1: every time you leave the house, you see your type
Speaker 1: on your Instagram, whatever you see, you see somebody that
Speaker 1: you like, no matter if you're in a where you're
Speaker 1: no matter if you're head over heroes. For me, I'm
Speaker 1: not the only person you see. I see a bit
Speaker 1: and she fine, she's fine, right a wrong, you're right,
Speaker 1: I'll I don't care, like, but there's some truth to that,
Speaker 1: and see of truth to that, and see, you can't
Speaker 1: tell me how far to go, like women can't tell
Speaker 1: you what cheating is like, you can't tell me I'm
Speaker 1: cheating if I bust the nut and you lost for
Speaker 1: me what No, I'm just saying, yeah, I'm a nigger,
Speaker 1: yeah on the type of because they didn't get what
Speaker 1: not even just us. I'm gonna gona take us out.
Speaker 1: If your girl, if they sat, if you, if you
Speaker 1: was in a relationship with a girl, my friend, girlfriend,
Speaker 1: married husband, white whatever, and you cheat on right, and
Speaker 1: she can't get over. But then but now hold on
Speaker 1: no that you ain't cheat on it yet she you
Speaker 1: caught this bit like let the first time. I said,
Speaker 1: but nobody, somebody got to call it for you to
Speaker 1: pay it. I don't say you can't call you. I
Speaker 1: called myself. I go ahead. I say, if you and
Speaker 1: this nice young lady it's in a relationship and you
Speaker 1: have seen her, she's the type the dude cheat a
Speaker 1: rish activity act. You know you're right, man, who could juker?
Speaker 1: The girl? Who could juka? Who who could juker? Huh?
Speaker 1: She always in somebody's session with a hook in her mouth. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You ain't paying. You're the
Speaker 1: friend that the nigga can't pay, like saving your girl
Speaker 1: until you let me. Actually, your girl can't tell you
Speaker 1: like deafinite gonna trip by fred her dude paying for it?
Speaker 1: You let your girl go? Fuck No, absolutely absolutely, but
Speaker 1: a woman thanks, a woman would thank you supposed to
Speaker 1: be okay with that and you got something that with
Speaker 1: see the pen. I wouldn't do that with my wife,
Speaker 1: but if I had a just him a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you say my girl, girl, you said, I'm saying, I'm
Speaker 1: saying my girl money should go out to the whoever
Speaker 1: that calls it. Hell yeah, like criminal, that's it's just
Speaker 1: like it's just like we're playing just like overst over
Speaker 1: start over. No, she can't. That ain't my little my little,
Speaker 1: my little snack or whatever. You do. What you do, dude,
Speaker 1: what you do. Go ahead, And I said, with your girl,
Speaker 1: my girl, no baby, we didn't need racking like that.
Speaker 1: But if I don't even tell you that the na
Speaker 1: that's what I was just for to say, that's what
Speaker 1: they do. If you ain't saying it's a girl. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: because I've done this before, like if somebody like I
Speaker 1: tell them they're good. Yeah, and you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that different, Yeah, it is. Bro's different. Ain't gonna be there.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm now that's different, different because I got
Speaker 1: my friends. Then I've got my friend that so your
Speaker 1: girls are gonna be like, hey, roll ro on the
Speaker 1: roll on um she open you feel I say, girls
Speaker 1: trip it's the girl because it's really like my girl.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna stop on that. But he then he
Speaker 1: probably got one of his homeboys not playing on boy
Speaker 1: like they're doing it outside of boats and jokes. Boats
Speaker 1: the girl that all the boats with them big nobody
Speaker 1: smoking bloods but smoking pain on the campaign. I ain't
Speaker 1: never been on a jet ski. I pull you pull
Speaker 1: me the girl pulling the leg on the jet ski
Speaker 1: like drying. But you got dudes that up. You got
Speaker 1: some real dudes. I had to understand that type of stuff.
Speaker 1: What you say that a straight fast understand what you
Speaker 1: didn't have to ask you for the dough to pay
Speaker 1: for it. Oh you can see that broke that you're
Speaker 1: talking about. You're talking about the person. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, y'all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: tell about that. I'm telling my name. You have about it.
Speaker 1: No talking over he might you might. We were talking
Speaker 1: over each other. Bro, You wait, if you okay, if
Speaker 1: you like brother like some brothers already know, like my
Speaker 1: girl cannot let dint turn into a space conversation with
Speaker 1: brothers already know, like my girl is a whole. I
Speaker 1: can't start that. Man, I'm living. I't even to pay
Speaker 1: for stop it, he said, He said, relationship with track.
Speaker 1: It's all he got. He's selling. Please planning nigger brightling,
Speaker 1: nigga setting like you know your girl the whole bro,
Speaker 1: true story. Hold on, hold on, hold on hold, that's sun.
Speaker 1: Think about the niggas they hole saying, they can say.
Speaker 1: They all say I'm going out. They don't tell you
Speaker 1: what they're gonna be backing up. Ain't have fun in
Speaker 1: my car Like it's the niggas like that that exists,
Speaker 1: yo yo. Girl coming home late, she wish get to
Speaker 1: the Club's gonna come back that morning. He got a
Speaker 1: little attitude, what not going on, but they still go together.
Speaker 1: She eat it, bro man. She runs straight to the shower,
Speaker 1: were brushing the teath. She eat nothing she supposed to
Speaker 1: do when you come back from the club. She didn't
Speaker 1: get the band, don't speak know nothing. Straight to the
Speaker 1: shower and brushing your team. You got her mouth wash,
Speaker 1: You gotta wash that sitting off. You know what you're doing.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, just like I have to, but what
Speaker 1: kind of both of you doing? He might some night
Speaker 1: she comes home here, she already in the bad. He's
Speaker 1: doing the same thing. They are already locked then with
Speaker 1: going on like relationship that an't know that's a relationship.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but she know his wife is a
Speaker 1: whole his girl, that is a hold. She knows her
Speaker 1: husband is the same ship, but he ain't. But she
Speaker 1: might be still saying push. She's been on that. She
Speaker 1: she's the one who's saying like, we don't win. The
Speaker 1: last she didn't want who saying open to get on
Speaker 1: the boat, and he said, cool, we don't. Went from
Speaker 1: a vacation. This hall was in a committed situation still
Speaker 1: something the same vacation. Said that all the same ship.
Speaker 1: He puts some mad. No, SHEI ain't skipping off wet.
Speaker 1: What what are they doing? I don't know, but they
Speaker 1: all right, they doing They just they're just doing it.
Speaker 1: They're doing it in a different fashion. They're not not
Speaker 1: that they're not actually standing right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But they adding up how much you to spin any
Speaker 1: time to get him a look some little pussy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I always need something like that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's just how they do. They just always need laughing
Speaker 1: because she knows the truth. They ain't the Nick ain't
Speaker 1: bought the Nick ain't bought nothing, And I ain't sucking
Speaker 1: him till he got ship, thank you. They like that.
Speaker 1: They definitely like that Nick ain't bought me nothing. This
Speaker 1: nick ain't bought me nothing, So I ain't sucking until
Speaker 1: he bought some shots ain't doing that. He got real.
Speaker 1: You don't ran out of credits. Yes, especially especially knowing like,
Speaker 1: all right, I like him. He then hit you with
Speaker 1: the text or hit you was saying like make try
Speaker 1: to act you like he gave me. Then, what you're
Speaker 1: gonna do for me? What else they do you? I've
Speaker 1: never sent that text that's said, damn, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: figure out how to pay the bills. I got nails
Speaker 1: in my hair, deal dig hold whatever you wanna call it.
Speaker 1: Paper kid just said it. Man. The moral of the
Speaker 1: story is that if you go rolled up, you might
Speaker 1: have kids. That's the number one we were breaking it down,
Speaker 1: all right, Marriage he's overrated. Marriage is really marriage could
Speaker 1: be tough. Kid. A lot of Niggers don't care nothing
Speaker 1: about just having a kid in the baby mama. They
Speaker 1: just that's my baby mama. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: which I don't think it's nothing wrong with that. If
Speaker 1: that's y'all agreement, and you taking care of the kid,
Speaker 1: ain't nothing wrong with this. You should have no kid.
Speaker 1: And and I'm gonna say this as a person who's
Speaker 1: happily married, but to the parting, others don't four that
Speaker 1: marriage ship if they don't want to do that ship,
Speaker 1: don't do that ship, don't feel pressure from the woman
Speaker 1: and this and then don't do this ship to you
Speaker 1: ready to do that ship? Well, I look at it,
Speaker 1: and it isn't marriage long time somebody that you want
Speaker 1: to like you said, isn't. Isn't it like somebody you
Speaker 1: want to get old with and take care of? Like
Speaker 1: almost that type of thing shared the business agreement. Man,
Speaker 1: that's a whole episode. All right, Yeah, that's a whole episode.
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