1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Big Bang and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts, the 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: www dot Big Facts pot dot com live for first 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: class sounds. You know who it is. DJ Scream, Big Bangs, 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: Baby Ja, Big homy Cod, that duct tape day Shot 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: Jones and and we're up in here for Big Facts Friday. 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: What's up, everybody, It's up Man's then we're talking about 8 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: there going on this Big Facts Friday. Big Facts Friday 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: is now legendary, is now iconic pop? That motherfucker off 10 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 1: in like, I gotta hold you up this ship right here. 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: This is smoking Jada smoking. Jada smoking, y'all. I don't 12 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: know what it is smoking the same thing smoking on Friday. 13 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:56,279 Speaker 1: He smoked out. Hey, we hope everybody's doing well out there. 14 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: What do we do? What do we hold it? What 15 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: we do when we discussing today, what we're talking about? 16 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: How is marriage too big of a commitment, but having 17 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: kids together isn't so? How is marriage too big of 18 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: a commitment but having the kids having a kid or kids? 19 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: How is you? How is the nigga not marrying you 20 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: a big deal? But you let the nigga stick your 21 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: dick and you stick his dick in you and give 22 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: you something that you're gonna have to deal with for life. 23 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: Marriage is stretch, but that's deep, you know. I don't 24 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: think it's about being married. Sometimes you gotta put something 25 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 1: in the job. Do you just talked to the bank? 26 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: You gotta curse to that. Don't don't cry my lane 27 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: no more. Keep Okay, I was I was just gonna say, 28 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: sometimes when it comes to having a kid, it's not 29 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: by choice, you know what I'm saying. You just get pregnant. 30 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: With marriage, you'll kind of decide, like I want to 31 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: be with you forever. Don't you decide to do an 32 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 1: act to make a kid, you decide to have sex. 33 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: Most people to just piggyback off of what I was saying. 34 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: Most people don't look at sex like a major life 35 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: changing decision. When most people think about sex, they don't 36 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: think about at the time like I could possibly get pregnant, 37 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: or I could possibly impregnate this bitch and make or 38 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: have a kid whatever whatever. They're just thinking like, Okay, 39 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get a nut, or I'm trying to 40 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: you know, please whatever feeling I'm trying to get out 41 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: of this from this person for whatever reason. Blah blah blah. 42 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: They don't look at it like a lifetime commitment, like 43 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: how you should technically if you were a sensible person. 44 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: But I'm not one of those people that is big 45 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: on marriage because I understand how we just get off 46 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: me right now. I can't. I can't. How long are 47 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna talk? So somebody don't you don't take you, 48 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: you damn officer. I'm just I'm just putting you up 49 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: on the big fat, fucking pop police when you pull 50 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: your money out, yea, because what we're doing fast Friday. 51 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: If I say a particular word or jade or bank, 52 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: then we're gonna put some money in the pot for 53 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: criminal or something like that. Yeah, criminal man, y'all need 54 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: to gonna cash. I'm gonna get y'all the cash we 55 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: keep let people get away like shot away. Like you 56 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: can't say, like my baby told me not to say that, 57 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: say the B words or I ain't gonna see it 58 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: no more. Well I ain't. If I do, I got 59 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: a twenty, he prepared, he prepaid, that's I can spend 60 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: them all night. It's cool. I don't have to say 61 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: like basically, the subject the subject is how is marriage 62 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: too big of a commitment? But having a child with 63 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: a person that you've had sex with not do you? 64 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: Theay man, so commit the energy, you can't commit the 65 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 1: then but you but but you you commit to parenthood, 66 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: you have a kid. Everybody don't commit you should now 67 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: I said marriage is easily detachable because like when you 68 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: got a human that you gave birth to or you 69 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: were responsible to giving birth to, you know, that's something 70 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: that you really gotta you really got to lock in 71 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: with them. But like when when you're married, if I 72 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: don't like you tomorrow i't like you, we can deal, yeah, 73 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: straight up? But not some is the marriage? What's les 74 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:55,559 Speaker 1: let's talk about it that marriage. I just think married 75 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: still can get I get what he's saying. You still 76 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: can check out that ship. You can't check out of me? 77 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: And did my son? People don't their kids and they 78 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: your son and your daughter. If I got a wife 79 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: and not divorce her, she's no longer my wife ex 80 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: wife wife, but she's not my wife, no your last name. 81 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: If she wanted to, Hey, that's up to you. But 82 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: you're not. I can say I disown you like you 83 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: can still I do not acknowledge here, so you do 84 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: have to acknowledge her. Yeah, you saying y'all, y'all, y'all 85 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: didn't get what I'm saying, and y'all cutting the nick 86 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: off again. But I give what you're saying. That ain't 87 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: smelling that. Yeah, that ain't the right way to guy 88 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: in the right way to do. How does it not 89 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: like if you have if you give birth to somebody, 90 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: you locked in forever, if you if you can't look 91 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: like people don't be trying to have a kid like 92 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: some people do, some people don't. It's just the power. 93 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 1: That's what I said, Dave. If you're up, is something wrong, 94 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: don't never cross your hand trying to know what I'm 95 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: trying to tell you. It's the power of when you 96 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: haven't said the power of the trying to get that 97 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: nick him or her. It's adrenaline. You're not thinking about 98 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: nothing but that you don't any metal you come up 99 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: about before me? What about before you do it before 100 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: you even already going. That's al you're making a decision 101 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: when you're saying, I ain't feel about no rubble, I'm 102 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: gon hit this ship row. That's what you're making. You 103 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: can think about it then you think about even control 104 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: that decision or can't even get to that point and 105 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: make a sension. Some bout decisions are like weird niggas. 106 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: I just think y'all missing the point. Raw sex definitely 107 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: feels better than any sex when, of course, so I 108 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: think you're so based onf for that, like I fail 109 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: this wet let's see, want to What I'm saying is 110 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: don't wear your seatbelt. What it is when you have 111 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: an accident, your ass might fly out of the current. 112 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: You need to know that. But like even though even 113 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: though true enough Ross Sex is the best ship ever 114 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: in the world, but you still have to take into 115 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: consideration the baby, the fucking diseases. I mean that's like, no, 116 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: I ain't saying people don't think about thinking all that 117 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: before you think about all that before that come across 118 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: your mind like that we're in front, like like she 119 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: ain't got yeah, yeah, it broke down thinking about everybody 120 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: a lot of people. You don't have to funk a 121 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: lot of people. What are y'all talking about to day? 122 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: What else? Like everybody's not like one person to get 123 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: the break you can one person to catch some ship. 124 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: Two other niggas and three bitches that that stuff talked up. 125 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: What happened. Yeah, that's all getting ready to compliment me. 126 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: That the real definition of no. But I'm saying like 127 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: she's saying, like, you know, you can only fun. You 128 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: can funk with one person or whatever, but that one 129 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: person that you sucked with might only fucked one other person, 130 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: but that one other person that they fucked might two 131 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: niggas and three bitches. That's why you should think about 132 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: that ship. Try not that nothing that's wrong if you 133 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: want but again like yeah, if you want to, if 134 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: you want to do that, it is really like the 135 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: best ship ever. But at the end of the day, 136 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: you have to be prepared for what comes behind that 137 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: ship if it goes. That's all we're trying to say. Yeah, 138 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: we personally, I just think a lot of funks. How 139 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: people be explaining ship ship having a kid might be 140 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: less stressful than just getting married. But the way to 141 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: look at it, like if they're saying, how you get married. 142 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: When you get married and she like some folks don't 143 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: like that, she will be married something, Yeah, a baby 144 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: and that's my baby, mama. Yeah they're married, but I 145 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: ain't had no wedding. But that's where the bullshit comes in, 146 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: because when you have situations like that and you said 147 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: you want to have a kid with her, but you 148 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: don't want to marry her, then that's gonna lead the 149 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: problems down the line, because your emotions and your feelings 150 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: are still involved. So even if you guys do go 151 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 1: off and funk with other people and get committed to 152 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: other people or whatever, you're still donna feel like, this 153 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: is my bitch and I can do whatever I wants 154 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: to with her. But they'd be like, it'd be like, 155 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: we're just not married. In your head, you might have 156 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 1: an idea that you will if I don't have a baby. 157 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: If I have a baby in my head, once upon 158 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: a time that I thought I could marry her. But 159 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: as we don't have history and head that, it's just 160 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: broken up. It's over. I ain't thinking about that. That's 161 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 1: the definition of toxic. I think we're talking about the 162 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: motherfucker's that just randomly just go out there planning they see, 163 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: don't give a fuck. Ain't there for the woman just 164 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: trying to trap. Trying to trap, that's that happens. And 165 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: then on the other end to the women that just 166 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 1: trying to trap, shout Brittany Renner. It's women out here 167 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: trying to trap me. She trapped the NBA player. Are 168 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 1: you talking about just not not Coop not Coop uh 169 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: PJ Washington? He played for the Hornets. Yeah, she just 170 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 1: got two hundred thousand a month allegedly. What does she 171 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: need with two hundred thousand dollars a month? And that's 172 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: all you should think about before you go fucking road 173 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: for show. You got to make sure she here for 174 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: you two hundred thousand a month or more D paying 175 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:49,559 Speaker 1: more than that, right, ridiculous. Three D ain't no pushing 176 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: in the world on this earth work. And she get 177 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: she get that until she getting another marriage. So if 178 00:10:55,040 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: the bees decides that, I never want the range marriages 179 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: in the negative right now, like coming up closing, you're 180 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: talking about married baby. This don't concern me really because 181 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 1: I've been with my wife for twenty six years twenty 182 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 1: years married. So what about your homeboys out that planning 183 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 1: seeds multiples? I ain't going new forbidding it, okay, you 184 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, right because like that, it don't 185 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: even make no sense. You know, the dynamic of things 186 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:42,319 Speaker 1: is goodness, You know what I'm saying, but I get 187 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 1: it because I married. It's marriage tough. Though, marriage is 188 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: tough thought, right, Yeah, you can't answer that you're married. Yeah, 189 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: that's the ship here, especially when you're being married to 190 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 1: somebody like me, or to somebody like the person I'm 191 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: married to, like two nuts and the bucket gonna shake it, right, 192 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like marriage or parenthood. 193 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: I think I think I think the marriage the marriage 194 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: is tougher than his parenthood because and the end of 195 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 1: the day, if it's about the child, for really just 196 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: about the child, you know what I'm saying. So the 197 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: marriage is about us, you know what I mean? You 198 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like it's gonna be always our situation. 199 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: I feel that, But in most situations unless you're dealing 200 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: with two mature adults who mature though, like I tell you, 201 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: try to tell you this at the time, but our 202 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: relationship is really based on a sixteen year that's where 203 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: y'all met. Yeah, I would see teams, she was I 204 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: think something. Yes, she won't yelling at me, So it's 205 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 1: like we still have those childish values in this relationship. 206 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, Like, like there's no other 207 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: way around it. Like because the same games that that 208 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: you would play, it's kids, Like don't really give a 209 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: funk about you a bitch, fuck you, a nigga fuck 210 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: you or you know what I'm saying, whatever you're playing 211 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:08,199 Speaker 1: the same ship is sixteen years old, you know what 212 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 1: I'm saying. But you got if I think if I 213 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: for sure, but if I just says about want of 214 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: the relationship and I was grown at nigga already been 215 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: through bitches and did all this, and dood I know 216 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: how they got them. Like like now if I meet 217 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 1: a bitch, me and a bitch bitch friends, because I 218 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,839 Speaker 1: already know what I want and I can shement it 219 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: on you. I can shement it on you from the beginning, 220 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: like nah, this ain't it ain't what I like. Cool bitches, 221 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: it's cool, Like we're gonna kick shit. You can. You 222 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: can always see man, that other ship nine that ain't 223 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: even for me, That ain't for me. You're gonna smell 224 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: it on the nigga too, exactly. But the women, women 225 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 1: being but women be naive and they because yeah they changing, 226 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: yeah they think they can change, and they're like, he 227 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: just ain't had me who said the same ship they 228 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: just been done got they dick the never language. But 229 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: niggas felt the same. Niggas felt the same way, like 230 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: she never had a nigga like me. And that's like 231 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: every time you leave the house, you see your type 232 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: on your Instagram, whatever you see, you see somebody that 233 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: you like, no matter if you're in a where you're 234 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: no matter if you're head over heroes. For me, I'm 235 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: not the only person you see. I see a bit 236 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: and she fine, she's fine, right a wrong, you're right, 237 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: I'll I don't care, like, but there's some truth to that, 238 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 1: and see of truth to that, and see, you can't 239 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: tell me how far to go, like women can't tell 240 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: you what cheating is like, you can't tell me I'm 241 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: cheating if I bust the nut and you lost for 242 00:14:50,000 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: me what No, I'm just saying, yeah, I'm a nigger, 243 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: yeah on the type of because they didn't get what 244 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: not even just us. I'm gonna gona take us out. 245 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: If your girl, if they sat, if you, if you 246 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: was in a relationship with a girl, my friend, girlfriend, 247 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: married husband, white whatever, and you cheat on right, and 248 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: she can't get over. But then but now hold on 249 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: no that you ain't cheat on it yet she you 250 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: caught this bit like let the first time. I said, 251 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: but nobody, somebody got to call it for you to 252 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: pay it. I don't say you can't call you. I 253 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: called myself. I go ahead. I say, if you and 254 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: this nice young lady it's in a relationship and you 255 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: have seen her, she's the type the dude cheat a 256 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: rish activity act. You know you're right, man, who could juker? 257 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: The girl? Who could juka? Who who could juker? Huh? 258 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: She always in somebody's session with a hook in her mouth. Okay, Okay, 259 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You ain't paying. You're the 260 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: friend that the nigga can't pay, like saving your girl 261 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: until you let me. Actually, your girl can't tell you 262 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: like deafinite gonna trip by fred her dude paying for it? 263 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: You let your girl go? Fuck No, absolutely absolutely, but 264 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 1: a woman thanks, a woman would thank you supposed to 265 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: be okay with that and you got something that with 266 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: see the pen. I wouldn't do that with my wife, 267 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: but if I had a just him a little bit. Yeah, 268 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: you say my girl, girl, you said, I'm saying, I'm 269 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: saying my girl money should go out to the whoever 270 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: that calls it. Hell yeah, like criminal, that's it's just 271 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: like it's just like we're playing just like overst over 272 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 1: start over. No, she can't. That ain't my little my little, 273 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 1: my little snack or whatever. You do. What you do, dude, 274 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: what you do. Go ahead, And I said, with your girl, 275 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: my girl, no baby, we didn't need racking like that. 276 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,959 Speaker 1: But if I don't even tell you that the na 277 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: that's what I was just for to say, that's what 278 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 1: they do. If you ain't saying it's a girl. No, no, no, 279 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: because I've done this before, like if somebody like I 280 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: tell them they're good. Yeah, and you know what I'm saying, 281 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: that different, Yeah, it is. Bro's different. Ain't gonna be there. 282 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:08,360 Speaker 1: I said, I'm now that's different, different because I got 283 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 1: my friends. Then I've got my friend that so your 284 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: girls are gonna be like, hey, roll ro on the 285 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: roll on um she open you feel I say, girls 286 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: trip it's the girl because it's really like my girl. 287 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna stop on that. But he then he 288 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: probably got one of his homeboys not playing on boy 289 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: like they're doing it outside of boats and jokes. Boats 290 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: the girl that all the boats with them big nobody 291 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: smoking bloods but smoking pain on the campaign. I ain't 292 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: never been on a jet ski. I pull you pull 293 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: me the girl pulling the leg on the jet ski 294 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: like drying. But you got dudes that up. You got 295 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: some real dudes. I had to understand that type of stuff. 296 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: What you say that a straight fast understand what you 297 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 1: didn't have to ask you for the dough to pay 298 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: for it. Oh you can see that broke that you're 299 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: talking about. You're talking about the person. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, y'all. Yeah, 300 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 1: tell about that. I'm telling my name. You have about it. 301 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:31,640 Speaker 1: No talking over he might you might. We were talking 302 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: over each other. Bro, You wait, if you okay, if 303 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: you like brother like some brothers already know, like my 304 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: girl cannot let dint turn into a space conversation with 305 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 1: brothers already know, like my girl is a whole. I 306 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 1: can't start that. Man, I'm living. I't even to pay 307 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: for stop it, he said, He said, relationship with track. 308 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: It's all he got. He's selling. Please planning nigger brightling, 309 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: nigga setting like you know your girl the whole bro, 310 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 1: true story. Hold on, hold on, hold on hold, that's sun. 311 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: Think about the niggas they hole saying, they can say. 312 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: They all say I'm going out. They don't tell you 313 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: what they're gonna be backing up. Ain't have fun in 314 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 1: my car Like it's the niggas like that that exists, 315 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: yo yo. Girl coming home late, she wish get to 316 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: the Club's gonna come back that morning. He got a 317 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: little attitude, what not going on, but they still go together. 318 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 1: She eat it, bro man. She runs straight to the shower, 319 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: were brushing the teath. She eat nothing she supposed to 320 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: do when you come back from the club. She didn't 321 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: get the band, don't speak know nothing. Straight to the 322 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: shower and brushing your team. You got her mouth wash, 323 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: You gotta wash that sitting off. You know what you're doing. 324 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, just like I have to, but what 325 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:18,479 Speaker 1: kind of both of you doing? He might some night 326 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: she comes home here, she already in the bad. He's 327 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: doing the same thing. They are already locked then with 328 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: going on like relationship that an't know that's a relationship. 329 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but she know his wife is a 330 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: whole his girl, that is a hold. She knows her 331 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 1: husband is the same ship, but he ain't. But she 332 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 1: might be still saying push. She's been on that. She 333 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: she's the one who's saying like, we don't win. The 334 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: last she didn't want who saying open to get on 335 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 1: the boat, and he said, cool, we don't. Went from 336 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: a vacation. This hall was in a committed situation still 337 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: something the same vacation. Said that all the same ship. 338 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: He puts some mad. No, SHEI ain't skipping off wet. 339 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: What what are they doing? I don't know, but they 340 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: all right, they doing They just they're just doing it. 341 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: They're doing it in a different fashion. They're not not 342 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: that they're not actually standing right, you know what I'm saying. 343 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: But they adding up how much you to spin any 344 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: time to get him a look some little pussy? Yeah, 345 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: I always need something like that, you know what I'm saying. 346 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: That's just how they do. They just always need laughing 347 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,640 Speaker 1: because she knows the truth. They ain't the Nick ain't 348 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: bought the Nick ain't bought nothing, And I ain't sucking 349 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: him till he got ship, thank you. They like that. 350 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: They definitely like that Nick ain't bought me nothing. This 351 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: nick ain't bought me nothing, So I ain't sucking until 352 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,360 Speaker 1: he bought some shots ain't doing that. He got real. 353 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: You don't ran out of credits. Yes, especially especially knowing like, 354 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: all right, I like him. He then hit you with 355 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: the text or hit you was saying like make try 356 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 1: to act you like he gave me. Then, what you're 357 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 1: gonna do for me? What else they do you? I've 358 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: never sent that text that's said, damn, I'm trying to 359 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: figure out how to pay the bills. I got nails 360 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: in my hair, deal dig hold whatever you wanna call it. 361 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: Paper kid just said it. Man. The moral of the 362 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: story is that if you go rolled up, you might 363 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: have kids. That's the number one we were breaking it down, 364 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: all right, Marriage he's overrated. Marriage is really marriage could 365 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: be tough. Kid. A lot of Niggers don't care nothing 366 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: about just having a kid in the baby mama. They 367 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: just that's my baby mama. You know what I'm saying, 368 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 1: which I don't think it's nothing wrong with that. If 369 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: that's y'all agreement, and you taking care of the kid, 370 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: ain't nothing wrong with this. You should have no kid. 371 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: And and I'm gonna say this as a person who's 372 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 1: happily married, but to the parting, others don't four that 373 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: marriage ship if they don't want to do that ship, 374 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: don't do that ship, don't feel pressure from the woman 375 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: and this and then don't do this ship to you 376 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: ready to do that ship? Well, I look at it, 377 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: and it isn't marriage long time somebody that you want 378 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: to like you said, isn't. Isn't it like somebody you 379 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 1: want to get old with and take care of? Like 380 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 1: almost that type of thing shared the business agreement. Man, 381 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: that's a whole episode. All right, Yeah, that's a whole episode. 382 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: They check us out online Triple w dot Big Facts 383 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: pod dot com. This is Big Facts Friday's salute. Salute. 384 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: You're listening to get Big Facts with Big Bank and 385 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: DJ scream. 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