WEBVTT - Episode 196: J.W.A. Jackin' With Attitude (Feat. Khadeen and Devale Ellis) 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:03.600 Lips. What's upe of slip service. I'm Angela yee, I'm 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:09.119 Gi McGuire. I'm stopping in Santiagodina Ellis, Cadina Devo, Ellis 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:12.520 out here with us. Ellis's By the way, Married Couples 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.520 I love when We Had Married Couples one. It's always 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:18.200 my favorite episode. It's really thank you because we get 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:21.040 we get both at the same time. Like usually we 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.919 get the man's perspective his relationship is like when we 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:26.040 get the women's perspective. But when we have both of 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:27.560 you at the same time, then we really get like 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:30.240 the real real. So we had Kevin and Drinka Gates on, 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.640 we had and Ronnie de Vote. Okay. I saw Kevin 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:36.920 and Drinka at Ruling Loud in Miami a couple of 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.360 weeks ago actually, and um what, I had saw Kevin 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:41.720 a few weeks before that, but I saw them both 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:44.520 together and they're like, oh, we got to do it again. 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:48.360 So hopefully we'll get them back single, really really good 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:52.760 time everything instead of being married couples and doing all 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:54.680 of this together. I mean, I would hope. So after 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:58.520 seventeen years together, yeah, but we don't do sit down 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:01.240 interviews together and sometimes people you know learn a lot 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:04.160 because I would assume they're doing the YouTube series and 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:08.000 all of that is probably like therapy too. Definitely said 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:09.880 that time and time. It's funny because you feel like 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.320 after seventeen years you should know somebody. You know what 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.960 I mean, But I feel like I'm learning him every day. 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:16.320 So being able to talk about certain things we do 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.240 each other, I mean we did, but we like who 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:21.640 were at three five that we are when we were younger. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:28.760 I'm saying seventeen years though, even though seventeen years we're 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:32.720 all disagreeing on to that I was a different person. Okay, well, 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.680 what we're gonna do And I'm so glad y'all said 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.320 that because we are going to see what you guys 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:38.600 know about each other? So did we need to leave 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:41.240 the room for a minute. This is gonna be fun 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:45.840 from from like a show? But where can he go 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:48.440 that he can't hear because he can't go in that room. 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:51.640 Take somewhere, days somewhere and I'll text you when you 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.680 can bring them back. So we're gonna ask you some questions. 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:56.640 He comes back, he's gonna answer, and then we're gonna 0:01:56.680 --> 0:02:07.920 reverse it. And I say, somebody anywhere. It's been married women. Okay, man, 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:11.640 lord alright, conem what is something that Devout likes to 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:15.720 eat that you can't stand? Oh? Um that I can't 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:19.119 stand cheez And the funny thing is he's the pickiest eater. 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:22.880 I'll be willing to try stuff and whatever. I'm gonna 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:26.919 say pork because I'm not really a pork eater from ribs. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:29.600 He likes all that. I'm like, not so much. Okay, 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:35.040 So who fell in love first? I did about two weeks. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:36.920 I was like, I love you and he looked at 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:41.400 me like it was like, I know, I know. I 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:44.560 was like, damn, just do Okay. Who said they're not 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.480 in the mood more often? Oh, it's me. It's absolutely, 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:49.800 especially after three whole boys, I'm still trying to figure 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:51.959 out who the hell i am. So yeah, I'm definitely 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.480 the one that's like I need a little more coaxing, 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:58.360 you know. Okay, So who's better in the bedroom? I 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:04.280 am down? I put it down May in the mood 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.280 all the time, But when I am in the mood, 0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:09.639 show out because he's absolutely tricks and ship. Okay, what's 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:13.680 your favorite move that Devo does in the bedroom? Oh? 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.440 He has a really good back shot. So that's my 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:19.640 favorite dog. Dorky, what's your least favorite move that he 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:23.239 does that You're like, you gotta do this. I be 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.000 trying to put my legs behind my head and I'm 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:28.440 always just like, dude, like I can. It is uncomfortable, 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.040 and I got the U D N. And I'm like, 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:31.360 I don't know if it's that euden. He's like, I 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:33.200 feel that joint. I'm like, yeah, I just don't put 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.200 my legs behind my head please. And you know I 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:37.760 am flexible as I used to be, so alright, who 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.280 spends more money? I do? Absolutely. He calls me the 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.720 a max killer, just so y'all know. Okay, so I'm 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.480 the a max killer. I'm always finding a way to 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.840 spend money. But I told him it's for his comfort. 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:49.160 So I'm either find buying something for the house or 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.400 something to make myself happy. That's your hoarder, you know 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.600 what I mean? A hoarder what I mean? That's what 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:57.400 he said. Yeah, if you didn't already know, you know 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:04.360 your guys out there, that's true. So guilty too. We 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:10.080 didn't say what the day is. I don't have a 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:12.040 lot of things, though, I like all the things out 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.560 of that way, all of the things, all right? So 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:16.359 who is the giver and who is the taker in 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:20.080 your relationship? Oh? We argue about this a lot. He 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:23.159 feels like he's the giver and I'm the taker. Um 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:28.160 do you agree? Be honest? Yes, okay, Yes, I need 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.279 to do a better job of showing how much I 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.360 appreciate him on a more consistent biasis So yes, listening, Well, 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.560 at least you know that's that one. You go therapy, okay. 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.520 And the last one is what's the most embarrassing thing 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:45.039 that happened while you guys were dating early on? Early on? 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:48.200 You mean embarrassing together or like his embarrassing moment or 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.839 my embarrassing moment. It would be like with something that 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:53.560 stands out as just haven't been embarrassing for both of you? Wow? 0:04:55.040 --> 0:05:00.000 Um damn, I don't know what stands out is embarrassing 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.400 for both of it. This is a time after I 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:04.279 had my first son. I paid on myself in the elevator, 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:08.160 because after you have kids, stable the ladder. It's not 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:09.640 said up the way it was, And I miss judged 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:11.200 the time that it would have taken me to park 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.279 the car and then get upstairs. And the elevator saw 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:15.200 like totally, just like, let it rips in the hedicator 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.640 and I'm sure that's happened to me. It's only gonna 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:23.680 get worse. It gets worse when you're at the door. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:25.480 But yeah, I should have just took the stairs that day. 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:27.480 But I was like, damn, motherfucker's out of breath because 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.440 I just had a baby. I'm not in shape. I 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.440 went to the elevator and I paid myself and did 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:34.800 you just remember you're in the elevator headed up to 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:37.599 your home. I was okay, right, at least I was, 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:39.840 but it has to go back to the elevator out 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.720 and stuff. It was just like it was a hot mess. 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.880 I know they saw me in the cameras. I'm definitely 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:47.640 sure they saw me in the camera. Janitor was probably 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:49.400 looking at me, looking at me sideways like this bit. 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.960 I'm like, at least I cleaned it. You did clean it, 0:05:52.000 --> 0:06:00.080 that's nice, right, Yeah, the bladder is not girl. And 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.400 that's when someone gets in the elevator before you get off, 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.920 and you're like, I don't know. Somebody mustn't exact take 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:08.600 a ship and one store going to and be like, well, 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:09.960 I don't know, who did that in that store? I 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:11.600 just can't find of this store. Like you know, that's 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:13.240 a trick in case you ever got to go really bad. 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.560 All right, well, let's get devil back in here and 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:21.200 see if he knows your answers. All right, I'm scared. Okay, 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.600 you got it. After you hear your answers, the okay, 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:27.720 got it, got it? Somebody, I'm back. I'm gonna try 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:32.720 some angelis shooes. Yeah, okay, here he comes, welcome back. 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:36.640 Let's see if you guys agree. You know, you guys 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:39.000 have been together for such a long time bam here 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:42.640 two decades, so you know each other very well. All right, 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.479 So we asked Dean, what is something that you like 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.320 to eat that she can't stand? That I like to 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:52.440 eat and she can't stand it. She can't stand God, think, 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:54.440 what do I like to eat that you can't stand anything? 0:06:54.520 --> 0:07:00.800 I said, right, because supposedly like she's the you're the eaters. 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:02.760 So I'm always trying to get them trying new things. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:06.920 And he's like, I like to eat that she can't stand. 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:08.400 So if y'all go out to eat, she's not gonna 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.840 pick off your plate when you get this. I know 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.800 if if my hamburger is medium, well, she don't want that. 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:22.120 That's only I can think of mediums and hand not really. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:24.400 You love baking though, see it's not the same though 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:30.400 bork is baking. You want to say pork and you 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:33.120 love bacon. It's a difference. You're the only person that 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.560 put like bacon on your You got to get that 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.160 a pass, all right, you gotta pass for that, Thank you. 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:43.920 That's one wrong. Come okay. Who says they are not 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:48.960 in the mood more often? I ain't even breathe ain't 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.960 even breathe? What about definitely? And jess Ya Buddha who 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:54.560 says that more often? For you guys, he's more he's 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:56.560 not in the mood more than I'm not in the mood. 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:58.040 Because he likes to go to the gym, like in 0:07:58.080 --> 0:07:59.640 the morning. I'm like, what's up? You want me to 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:04.720 suck your yes, And he's like, no, I want to 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:08.960 go to the gym. Wait, I'll be grabbing him because 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.160 it's the morning, so he's like a rocket like crazy. 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.800 I'll be like sucking on him and be like, no, 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:18.360 i gotta go to the gym. After I come from 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:20.040 the gym, I'm gonna sun to shut out of here, 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:27.160 and I'm t ate already, I'll smoke the bloom taking 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:32.120 I'm taking ahead of That's when I'm staying. Go to 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:35.600 the gym after you're busting nuts. But doesn't that make 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.400 your knees weak? Like to say, don't you need that 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:40.080 testosterone before you go? That's what he says. I mean, 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:44.440 I don't know. He's like, I don't care. He's like, 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:47.720 I'm gonna taking it that at this point. Yeah, I'm 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.839 taking that. My son is my son is going to 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:54.160 be thirteen and a couple. But my son doesn't live 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:56.080 with me, and he lives with his father. This isn't 0:08:56.200 --> 0:09:01.000 my son's father. Let's trade. Let me send you my kids. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.880 See how much she was trying to get it. If 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.240 you just say to me, you want to talk about 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:09.360 that's happened. But it's definitely me attacking him, like I'm like, 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:12.080 he are mad horny for him? He makes me mad horny? 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:15.320 What about he leaves and then it goes away. I'm 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:20.360 sorry forgett with her. Man. My birthday turday goes I 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:25.880 turned forty, amazing. I don't think he's ever not been 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:30.560 in the mood, and I'm not in the mood, I 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:33.840 still do it, So I don't know you would say me. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.680 But even if I thought, I'm still going to do it, 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.800 that I've never turned him down on unless you're in 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.400 a fight. Yeah, but even then I'm just like, but 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:46.280 what's the quality of quality? Like if you don't feel 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.719 like doing it? That's the thing, because he can tell 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:52.040 when I don't want it. Starts off like nonchalant, but 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:53.640 then I start to enjoy in it and I kick 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:56.040 it into like my regular self. All right, unless she's 0:09:56.040 --> 0:10:02.320 just tying her badge up words. Yeah, when I have 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.520 a twenty two year old daughter, oh wow, I had 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:09.200 her when I was seventeen, and um, I didn't do 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:11.160 it because I felt like I was all whites outside. 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:16.400 Um I did it because I have like this I 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.640 can't hold my pe problem. And I was told that 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:24.120 it helps, like if i'm if I'm called, if I'm called, 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.160 if I called for a sneeze, I might like drip 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:29.560 a little, and um I was told that that would 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.559 stop it, and it did. It didn't. I haven't fear 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:37.439 to myself set, Yeah, I haven't. Myself always got to 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.800 get up in the middle of right, So if I 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:44.000 just give up a walk away, don't be starting. Yeah 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:49.959 I'm not. I'm just gonna go. But yeah, it made 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:53.520 um so that I haven't pee when Kaufman or sneezing 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:58.480 almost a month, it's like three weeks, and um, it's 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:02.760 definitely tighter and sex he feels better. And because sex 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:07.520 feels better, my body shows through lubrication life screen. She 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.440 got that wet. I might have to get that doctor here, 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:13.680 trapped me. Girl probably coming. I bet if you're dating 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:15.280 a guy with a little dick and you did that, 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:18.080 it probably helps, too well. Too bad, that got it. 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:22.480 We're not him, too bad? Too bad that when I 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:25.680 had a guy with a little dick was yeah, because 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:39.559 I'm sure she'd be like, put some more laser on first. 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:44.800 She did, she said she And what was your response, 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:54.520 bolus romans? Did you love her? Though? Um? At the time, 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:56.080 to be honest, at the time, I didn't know. I 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:57.800 didn't know, I didn't know myself. I didn't know what 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:00.760 I wanted. I wanted to smash. I knew that, so 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:03.000 I was trying to get an up drawers. I was 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:09.400 willing to do whatever I could, but I wasn't gonna 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.880 do that because then if it didn't work, out, and 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:13.320 then I was like, I need to go a separate ways. 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:14.840 I already told you I love you, and I'm gonna 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:20.960 be a scumbaga. My pop's my uncle told me better 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.480 than that. Alright, who's better in the bedroom? You are? 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:33.600 Who's better in the bedroom? Ships? Oh? I would have 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:37.560 to say. I would have to say her, yeah, yeah, 0:12:41.040 --> 0:12:42.720 trying to be honest, what I need to work on. 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:45.439 She'd be like, no, you good, No, this is definitely her. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:52.040 That's why we want to funk all the time. As great. 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:55.840 She put that thing on me too, and she got 0:12:55.880 --> 0:13:03.600 to do the double hand the guard when super Head 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:06.679 did the point with Mr Marks, Mr Market and he 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:11.439 was learning from Yes, that's what listen. I studied that study, 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:17.080 studied do you perfect at the pepper grind? About her 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.320 grinding the pepper? I walked the fool and in the 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:21.520 kitchen and I was just like, yo, what you're doing 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.200 something grinding the pepper? So I was like, let me 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:27.199 see she was grinding it off. She was just like, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.360 get out of here, mad nasty. He goes up on 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:30.520 me when I was cooking. I was like, are you 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:34.360 always thinking about that? Nice? He was like, more pepper 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:42.000 all right now what is your favorite What is Conde's 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:45.040 favorite move that you do in the bedroom at the 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.000 edge of the bed, she throw that left leg up. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:53.439 It's doggy style. I know the minute, the minute she 0:13:53.480 --> 0:14:00.120 wants done, it's over. It's bad for you not do 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:03.360 like like path. Then I back up like I gotta 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:08.840 stretch my leg. I think breathe said a little bit, 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:10.719 you know, then I go back, come back in. But 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.280 I said, well, answer this, then, what is your What 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.280 is her least favorite move that you do? Like that 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:16.760 you do to her when I put her legs all 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:22.440 the way back, I wasn't. I just know her because 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.400 every time I do that, she splits. But why do 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:30.320 you do it? Because in college she used she used 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:35.360 to she's knowledge and that's what college she was, and 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:37.040 it was all good. She used to she used to 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:38.640 come like the minute I do that, and she used 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.280 to come like crazy. Now I when I go to 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:47.880 pub legs and she's like, I stretched like yoga, I 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:53.920 would see yoga. I know I could get it back memory. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:56.960 I'm stretching out a little bit to bring it right back. See. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:59.400 Well that we've seen you falling all over the place 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:02.160 over the weekend. Girl, But I hit my head stand up. 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.280 So I had this vision, I'm gonna show you all 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.240 the picture. I'm gonna show you the inspiration. I had 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:13.400 this vision of UM doing a recreation of this picture. 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.640 And then I had the bright, bright, drunk ass idea 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.520 because we were in a house on Terms and Kicks 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.160 that had a private beach. Um I had on a 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.400 three m bikini, so it was like glowing in the 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:31.840 reflective light. And I'm like, I'm gonna do recreate this picture, um, 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.400 and on the beach with this glow in the dark 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:38.880 bikini on. But then I drank a full bottle of 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:42.400 Hennessey Privilege out of the bottle. That's this picture, not 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:48.160 even the same thing that I did that, and I died, right, 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:51.160 But I still tried to do this testing. So I 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.440 made my sisters and whoever everybody else that was with 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.400 me come down we weren't live, and I made them 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:58.040 come down to the beach with me, and I attempted 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:01.120 to get into this headstand and it was just like 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:02.880 the funniest thing in her I fell in the sand 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:07.280 three times trying to get me to stop, like no, 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:13.040 just another day, Like it's not heaven. Here's the picture 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:17.040 that I was trying to recreate it right. Well, no, 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:21.240 this is a dress. That's a dress hurt. So I 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:22.480 don't know if you'll if you coun show it to 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:27.360 the camera. Okay, So I didn't quite hit the picture, 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.560 but I definitely hit the head stand. Okay, it was 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:39.120 a little sloppy head stand, but I did it. And 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.800 then so I hit the head stand right. But the 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:42.880 reason why there's not a picture of the headstand and 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.480 there's video, and it's because when I hit the know 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.040 his video when I hit the head stand. Um, my 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:50.960 cousin's like, wait, wait, let me get in a let 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.160 me get it in the picture. And then right before 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:55.640 she took the picture, I fell. And then after I fell, 0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.480 because you were upside down to that, I had the 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:03.120 head stand cross my and everything and then I fell. 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:06.600 So after I fell, I threw up and they tried 0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:07.960 to take me into the house and I'm like, no, 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.400 just leave me here, I'll be okay, And they put 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:11.680 me on one of the beach chairs and one of 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:13.239 my friends stayed with me. I woke up at four 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:19.720 o'clock in the morning completely completely covered in sand, completely 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:23.880 covered in sand. I'm talking about my nose. I had 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:26.000 stand in my ears and my body. But I still 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.160 have stand in my hair because I still have this ponytail, 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:30.600 because then all up through my braids and my soul 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:35.320 in child. But when I tell you the beach, listen 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:37.359 when I tell you that I had the time of 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:40.120 my life this night. It was so much fun memorable 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:43.120 and I'm just was Monday night and I'm just now recovered. 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:52.080 Don't be fun time? So you got vomit and the 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:56.919 marathon continues. She didn't talk about it alright, Devout. The 0:17:56.960 --> 0:18:04.720 next one is um who spends my money? American Express 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:10.600 build every time my nickname for me. But the said 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:12.480 I'm a hoarder because she says she was watching the 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:17.399 video you talking about me hoarding and spend money. I 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:20.200 don't get it. Yeah, she's collecting things. These things could 0:18:20.200 --> 0:18:22.320 be working more later. It's an investment. Here you go, 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:25.320 here you go. All right, who's the giver and who's 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:29.440 the taker in your relationship. I'm definitely a giver. She's 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:35.800 a taker. You gotta work on that that I give give. 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:40.360 We had this conversation, like we did, just have this conversation. 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:45.600 I was feeling underappreciated. I'm gonna tell you one thing 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:48.120 I do, I tell exactly I'm feeling. I was talking 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:50.480 to your man's outside and I told her, like part 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.280 of the reason why it works is because I'm not 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:53.560 a dude. I feel like I got to be too 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:56.600 fucking macho. It's like, no, like I wanted to see 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:58.680 you yesterday and you spent mad time with the kids. 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:01.359 I ain't gonna put see him at long, like what's up? 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:04.640 Because the last thing I want is to feel like undappreciated, 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.040 and then we'll not see each other. Then I'll be 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.159 out in temptation catch me at the wrong time, some 0:19:08.280 --> 0:19:10.080 human like everybody else. So I'm like, you know what, 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:12.520 let me just tell my wife exactly how I'm feeling. 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:17.119 She could you know. Yeah, he's like me. He's super 0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:19.640 transparent about the way you feel. Sometimes it's like painful 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:22.000 just to hear I'm just like them. I'm just think 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.200 about temptation. And just because you haven't had sex in 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:33.600 a while, ship, oh my god, like two days you 0:19:39.280 --> 0:19:44.520 let's say Thursday we have sex is Tuesday, But in 0:19:44.560 --> 0:19:46.560 my mind, like to the Thursday, like I blinked in 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:48.919 the Thursday, so like ship hasn't been two days already, 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:51.240 Like I don't even realize them the two days. She 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:55.680 sure doesn't even be counting down, like take care of him. 0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:57.840 You don't tell them to just take care of him. 0:19:57.880 --> 0:20:02.640 So he's not the same jack my deck like the house. 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.679 My wife's in the back, seping legit. Sometimes, especially when 0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:07.280 I was pregnant, I would be like, bro, you just 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:08.879 got to take yourself and he's going to live room 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:09.800 and do it and come back and be like the 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:11.359 ship didn't work. And I'm like, what didn't work? You 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:12.520 didn't come and he was like, no, I did. But 0:20:12.720 --> 0:20:16.199 I'm still horny, and I'm like, you not his hands. 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:20.240 You never watched I watched him once or twice, but 0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:22.160 I feel like you get a little you don't because 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:24.480 back then I'm jacking my dick and you here. I 0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:27.679 don't want you watching me now? Can you imagine jacket? 0:20:28.240 --> 0:20:37.119 You like Jackie j w Right. And then it's like, 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:43.480 especially when you're pregnant, what's the end of pregnancy to 0:20:43.520 --> 0:20:45.280 its like you know, you get locked yall after a while, 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:48.600 your throat be all so just because it's like man, like, dude, 0:20:48.720 --> 0:20:52.000 give me a break everything. Try to like nikes like 0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:54.280 they're digging mad long and You're like, dude, like stop, 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.720 I think he does that sh is punishment sometimes, like 0:20:56.800 --> 0:21:01.600 you baby, do not do it just punishment, like you're 0:21:01.720 --> 0:21:06.760 about to catch your nose bleed, bro, Like I'm never 0:21:06.840 --> 0:21:09.239 killing to you. He's like, And you'd be like, why 0:21:09.240 --> 0:21:11.159 do not even start this ship right? Because now I 0:21:12.480 --> 0:21:21.160 know when she's like that, like she's lazy, like I'm 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:25.679 just having to catch my breast side. I had to like, 0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:31.720 you know, reade again, it's argument. We have arguments watched secnday. 0:21:32.880 --> 0:21:40.119 You'll like bite me right, but we'll be like stop. 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:41.639 I'd be like, are you gonna are you gonna get 0:21:41.640 --> 0:21:43.719 it to your throat at any point during this whole session, 0:21:44.080 --> 0:21:45.800 or you're just gonna keep your lips on on the 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:50.320 head like the hand down here. And at that point 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:51.840 he proceeds to grab the back of my neck and 0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:54.520 it's a rat right, Like I want to hear that. 0:21:54.560 --> 0:22:04.960 Go speak to he blew on it ruined. That was 0:22:05.000 --> 0:22:07.080 the most embarrassing thing that happened while you guys were 0:22:07.200 --> 0:22:15.520 dating early on earlier on the most embarrassing thing to her, Well, 0:22:15.600 --> 0:22:18.040 I'll tell you she said to her something that has easy. 0:22:18.080 --> 0:22:20.080 She was at a pageant. She went to go walk. 0:22:21.440 --> 0:22:22.960 That was early on. I gave him something that was 0:22:23.000 --> 0:22:24.800 a little after but that you can give him that 0:22:24.800 --> 0:22:28.800 funny story stage and she she you know, we was 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.479 having fun in college. She had gained about twenty thirty pounds. 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:33.720 You know, we were doing our thing. Went to Friday's 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:40.880 every Friday because she had to get the baby, get 0:22:41.240 --> 0:22:45.320 get Friday three for three sot smashing a line, eating 0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:47.159 and she had gained some weight. I did. So. She 0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:51.879 had on a slip and dress with the overlay. No, no, penny, 0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:54.320 it was a slip dress with the overlay. So she 0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:56.399 goes up to the pageant to give the girl a 0:22:56.440 --> 0:22:58.800 crown because she had to wait before. Again it's like 0:22:58.840 --> 0:23:01.520 given award. And when she was up, the slip had 0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:03.760