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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 1: two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: As we clop clop.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I too. That's a tone. Yeah, it's a vibe.

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Speaker 2: So, as we said in Monday's episode, we are doing

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Speaker 2: a little continuation of Q and A for the proposal.

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Speaker 4: Quite a deluge of questions.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wow.

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Speaker 2: Well, the thing is is that we weren't anticipating doing

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Speaker 2: a Q and A last week, but you asked the

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Speaker 2: scrubbing in, so they had very limited time to submit

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Speaker 2: their questions. So we got to what we could and

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Speaker 2: then and then we were like, we'll do a part two.

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Speaker 3: So many good ones here, so many good ones, so

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Speaker 3: many good ones.

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Speaker 4: Mark and Easton find out pretty much when the Instagram. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and then I found out when Sam called me. I

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Speaker 4: was driving in for the podcast and Sam the producer

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Speaker 4: called me and told me. Easton saw on Instagram. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 6: I was recording are you a Charlotte and the other

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Speaker 6: and said, oh my god, you have to go to

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Speaker 6: Burbank immediately.

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 3: I Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I It was interesting because when we told we told

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Speaker 2: like called people, and then that was kind of it.

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Speaker 2: We were just like stayed off social media and then

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Speaker 2: we're like, we'll announce it, you know, crying.

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Speaker 5: Oh did you did you hear crack in her voice?

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 1: No, just moving one that really crat.

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Speaker 3: You'll make me cry.

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Speaker 4: Well, they didn't be officiating. I think that's an excellent choice.

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Speaker 3: That's great. Do you feel like I feel like you'd

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Speaker 3: cry the whole time?

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Speaker 6: I came it together. I've done it befo for I've

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Speaker 6: done it two or three times, so I'm a pro.

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Speaker 3: I need some footage. We're gonna need an audition.

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Speaker 2: No, actually I've I've That's been interesting because the actual

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Speaker 2: ceremony feels super far away.

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Speaker 3: But we were thinking, like thinking, you're going to think

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's far You're still gonna like that idea.

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm here, available and willing should you want it.

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Speaker 6: And I'm sure there's a lot of people that might.

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Speaker 2: Be at the wedding regardless of you're if there's a

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Speaker 5: Yes, what other names have you been tossing around?

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Speaker 2: We had a few names we tossed around. Robbie, Yeah, Cigar,

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Speaker 2: that would be great.

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Speaker 2: We tossed around Jordan Rogers. Yeah, we had a few

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Speaker 2: just like names that we th are out there of

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Speaker 2: like people who know us and would be able to

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Speaker 2: make get personable, but also like have the attention of

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Speaker 2: the room and didn't go too deep into like inside

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Speaker 2: jokes or anything. Like I really feel like Ryan did

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Speaker 2: such a great job. It felt very much geared towards job,

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Speaker 2: but not like inside jokes where everyone's like okay.

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Speaker 3: But I don't get it right right, So yeah, I

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Speaker 3: love that idea. Ring bears.

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Speaker 1: On behalf of my husband who is not here. I

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Speaker 1: would like to say I think he would do an

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Speaker 1: amazing job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well listen, there's a lot of time, so there's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if there's someone who can give a good moving speech,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Even on the call to them, Robbie is like I

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Speaker 2: just want to say, oh yeah, and we all are

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Speaker 2: like sobbing, even him, He's like I'm gonna cry.

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Speaker 3: But he was just like the most emotional speech.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what, Well, he did know you guys

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Speaker 1: was just like crying hysterically saying like and he's like,

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Speaker 1: I just want to say all I have y'all, you

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Speaker 1: skipped one that I wanted to get to after calling

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Speaker 1: Tanya and Robbie, who was next on your list to call.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember specifically the order, but it was I

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Speaker 2: called Ali Jojo.

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Speaker 5: Well, if you don't remember the order, then I mean

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Speaker 5: it's allid wash. All I know is that was first.

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Speaker 3: I knew it wouldn't mean as much to anyone else,

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Speaker 3: but you, who is going.

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Speaker 4: To be the most into wedding planning. Does one of

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Speaker 4: you not really care take a back seat and the

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Speaker 4: in the details, Tanya, that's the correct answer.

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Speaker 2: I think there will be more into the details, like

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Speaker 2: the really minute details, I think. But I think we'll

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Speaker 2: both be prett into it in our own ways, Like

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Speaker 2: I'll be curious to see where she did mention wanting

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Speaker 2: to do a choreographed dance and I had.

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Speaker 3: To shut that down, come on together, and then I go.

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Speaker 2: But if you want to do if it feels important

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Speaker 2: for you to do one by yourself, then I have

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Speaker 2: I also bort you.

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Speaker 4: How's she doing by herself?

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Speaker 3: Got some backup dancers? But no, I think we'll both

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Speaker 2: She's more organized than like a planner about things. So

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Speaker 2: if anything, I think she'll have to kind of keep

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Speaker 2: me on track with like the timing and like make delines.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Oh I hated those.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know.

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Speaker 5: I just hated reading the contracts.

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Speaker 3: That was like, didn't Robbie read the contract? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I still had to like look over them and

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Speaker 5: And what do you think about it?

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Speaker 4: Will you coordinate wedding attire? Of course, it's traditional to

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Speaker 4: not see the bridal look before the wedding day, but

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Speaker 4: what if your choice is clash or what if they're identical,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to see each other's looks.

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Speaker 2: Uh No, We'll probably just have someone who who knows

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Speaker 2: do that too similar. But we have such different style

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Speaker 2: that I don't see us gravitating towards the same thing.

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Speaker 4: Tony and Robbie saw each other before their first look. Yes,

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Speaker 4: where you have a first look, or where you see

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Speaker 4: each other at the altar for the first time.

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Speaker 2: I've always been so torn about this because I love

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Speaker 3: Like getting to take it in without having an audience watching.

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Speaker 2: But then there's something about like seeing each other going

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, because it was so I got

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Speaker 3: to watch Altz First Look, which I loved.

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Speaker 1: Popcorn watching Our First Look, you asked us, No, no,

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Speaker 1: I liked it. But I also think that the other

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Speaker 1: everybody is at cocktail hour and everybody is like there

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Speaker 1: waiting for you. That's when I got really nervous. And

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Speaker 1: having Robbie like with me there was like very calming.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, so that will be I I could

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Speaker 3: see us going either way for that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: If Taylor Swift invited to the wedding, She's always invited

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Speaker 4: this show right now invitation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who will walk.

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Speaker 4: Down the aisle first? Or will you walk down together?

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Speaker 3: Good question.

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Speaker 2: This is interesting because I've I've also seen weddings where

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Speaker 2: the people the bride and groom are bride and brider

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Speaker 3: Which I think would be really cool.

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Speaker 2: We might have to come up with something not necessarily

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Speaker 2: the aisle like you know how normally the Yeah, Robbie

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we did it together and it was very Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'll never forget that moment. It was very special.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's something to think about.

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Speaker 4: When my sister married her wife, my sister was in

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Speaker 3: Sister married to a woman.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I never.

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Speaker 4: Talked about this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. When Amy married Emily Amy, my sister was in

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Speaker 4: more of a vest and tie, where Emily was in

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Speaker 4: more of a traditional wedding dress. Do you see that

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Speaker 3: I don't think Hayley wants because I asked.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: She will probably get someone to design something or something

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Speaker 5: Maybe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I did not know that I'll show you some pictures.

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Speaker 5: Wow, you know his wife's name is the same name.

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Speaker 4: Yes. Do they get each other's like Venmo transactions random

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Speaker 4: sixty bucks on Venmo when you off the text mes Thursdays?

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Speaker 4: This for you? Yeah, I think so anyway, because you

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Speaker 4: would think there's want amy moments on Venmo. Right. Oh,

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Speaker 4: well there's the maid of honor conversation. Okay, we had

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Speaker 4: Like it will be a similar competition to be your

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Speaker 2: I don't think anyone will feel competitive over it.

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Speaker 3: Minus Tony, I feel no competition. I don't feel but

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Speaker 5: You could do whatever you wanted.

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Speaker 2: It's giving lies, it's giving trying to convince herself.

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Speaker 4: She's above the phrase.

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Speaker 5: First of all, I've already braced myself for this.

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Speaker 1: I can show you the d MS of people like

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Speaker 1: in my family who have said, oh, are you going

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Speaker 1: to be the matron of honor? And I literally respond

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Speaker 1: and I said, as many sisters. So I'm gonna assume

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Speaker 5: So I've set the bar.

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Speaker 3: You're in the bridal party.

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Speaker 1: Well, you have so many. First of all, you have

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Speaker 1: have so many best friends. Is very lengthy, and I

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Speaker 1: don't see you as someone that's gonna have ten bridesmaids,

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Speaker 1: So the bar for me is very low.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, you'll definitely be in the wedding, in

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Speaker 2: But I also I was telling Haley that even like

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Speaker 2: I wasn't I wasn't JoJo's maid of honor, but I

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Speaker 3: And I feel like you'll be that way whether you

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Speaker 2: But you're definitely You're You've really so far been a

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Speaker 3: So we're just like the three Stewes trying to figure

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Speaker 5: What I thought the same.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what. What's an engagement party?

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Speaker 5: I mean nothing, it's just like more people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that would make sense that after I proposed

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, we never had one.

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Speaker 1: Y'all's like our proposal was kind of like our engagement party.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but not really not an engagement party. What those

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Speaker 5: I thought that's what yours was? I thought so, But

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Speaker 1: You could do whatever you want, Like, if you think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I thought this weekend was my engagement.

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Speaker 1: So it's like kind of one job, yes, because you're

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Speaker 5: Right, you know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, good to know reaching out I can help you.

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Speaker 4: And one more and this is a big one. What

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Speaker 2: Well, Hailey loves coffee cake, like she loves like coffee flavored.

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Speaker 4: Coffee flavored, not like coffee cake, right, I consider coffee flavored.

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Speaker 3: It was really hard.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to get a coffee cake for her birthday,

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Speaker 2: Maybe we'll have something hybrid cake like she loves cake,

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Speaker 5: And they also want to charge you three thousand dollars

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Speaker 5: We all, don't we all?

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Speaker 4: Did you avoid using the word I? Since it's from

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Speaker 1: This is so funny because Robbie had the exact same question.

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Speaker 5: We were doing our card.

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Speaker 1: So I would talk about I, like, Mark, how important

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Speaker 5: Call of to day.

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Speaker 3: Did y'all have anyone there where? Y'all both didn't know

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Speaker 5: Yes, knowing everyone at your wedding is.

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Speaker 1: We had two people that hadn't met like uh like

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Speaker 1: So I still kind of incorporate him somehow. I don't

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Speaker 3: Just like we're so excited that you're here.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah you have to write.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's every individual person. But actually, and after the

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Speaker 1: fact he was like, you were so right. It was

452
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Speaker 1: very special having e for each person. Yeah, it was

453
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Speaker 1: just get your right in writing.

454
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Speaker 4: He would admit that. Let's see, this is from Natalia.

455
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Speaker 4: She's struggling with the secrecy of w l W, High

456
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Speaker 4: Scrubbing and fam twenty seven. I have a wl W

457
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,880
Speaker 4: story similar to Becca's. Raised at a conservative Christian household,

458
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Speaker 4: on navigating love and secrecy. I still have a faith

459
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Speaker 4: of my own. I've been in a relationship for almost

460
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Speaker 4: two years. While I'm out to my friends and publicly.

461
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Speaker 4: My family except for my sister, doesn't know my mom

462
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Speaker 4: was where. I've struggled with my identity in the past,

463
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Speaker 4: but not about my current relationship. My partner and I

464
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 4: are planning to move from LA to New York City

465
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Speaker 4: this fall. Keeping our relationship a secret has been emotionally exhausting,

466
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Speaker 4: but I feel deeply responsible for protecting my parents from

467
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Speaker 4: the truth, like coming out would hurt them. I haven't

468
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Speaker 4: told extended family either, because I don't want to burden

469
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Speaker 4: them with Keeping the secret from my parents beca How

470
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Speaker 4: did you cope with the secrecy, Tanya, I'd love your

471
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Speaker 4: perspective too, being in on the privacy of the relationship

472
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Speaker 4: as well. To tell you navigated that as a support system.

473
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Speaker 4: Part of me feels I should wait until we're engaged

474
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Speaker 4: to come out when it feels more worth it, but

475
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Speaker 4: the weight of hiding is causing me intense anxiety. I'm

476
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Speaker 4: working on becoming more financially independent and finding a therapist

477
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Speaker 4: who specializes in religious trauma and LGBTQ issues. For now,

478
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Speaker 4: I plan to tell my parents that I'm moving with

479
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Speaker 4: my friend and leave it to that unless they ask

480
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Speaker 4: more directly. Thank you, all for sharing your journeys. They've

481
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Speaker 4: given me hope that things will eventually be okay. Deep down,

482
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Speaker 4: I still have faith that the worst won't be as

483
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Speaker 4: bad as I fear. Thank you, Natalia. Ugh.

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Speaker 2: This feeling is horrible, And I didn't really have to

485
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Speaker 2: deal with my family not knowing for too long because

486
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Speaker 2: someone told told my parents before I had the chance to.

487
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Speaker 2: But in hindsight, I hate how it went down, Like

488
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Speaker 2: I wish the person had enough respect for me to

489
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Speaker 2: let it.

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Speaker 3: Be mine to tell.

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Speaker 2: However, there's a part of me that's grateful that they

492
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Speaker 2: told because it just got it like done and out

493
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Speaker 2: of the way and let the like processing begin when

494
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Speaker 2: it did. And I think that the thing is I

495
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 2: had a turning point years in where I was like, oh,

496
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Speaker 2: I'm so worried about other people hurting because of because

497
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Speaker 2: of this, And it feels so crazy because you're you're

498
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Speaker 2: like apologizing for experiencing like love and happiness and like

499
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Speaker 2: falling in love, and it's so it's so crazy to

500
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Speaker 2: me that we have to that people have to hide

501
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Speaker 2: something that should be so joyful as in the effort

502
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Speaker 2: to not hurt someone else. And I think what you're

503
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Speaker 2: doing is you're you're hurting yourself by not telling them,

504
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Speaker 2: And I think it's it's just really affecting you because

505
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Speaker 2: they don't know anything right now. And I think as

506
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Speaker 2: soon as you give them the chance to have a

507
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Speaker 2: reaction that might be better than you think, or maybe

508
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Speaker 2: it will be bad. It starts the process of reparation.

509
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Speaker 2: So if if you tell them and it doesn't go well,

510
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Speaker 2: repairing is that the right word?

511
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Speaker 5: Great word?

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Speaker 3: It starts the healing process. Tells that thank you, because

513
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Speaker 3: if you tell them and they're able to.

514
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Speaker 2: React in the way that is honest for them, which

515
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 2: might be hurtful or it might not be as bad

516
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Speaker 2: as you think, it gives It starts the process of

517
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Speaker 2: you being free and them knowing who you truly are,

518
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Speaker 2: because they don't know a huge part of who you are.

519
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,239
Speaker 2: And I think that's such a loss for parents, and

520
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 2: sometimes they realize it, sometimes they don't. And I think

521
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Speaker 2: for me, I had my sisters who knew, and all

522
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: my friends knew and people that I loved, and I

523
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Speaker 2: think when my family found out, it was not easy

524
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 2: the whole time, but I had such a strong support

525
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: system that I felt very loved and I felt like

526
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Speaker 2: it was so worth it to be with Haley. And

527
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Speaker 2: I also felt like if I just kept this mine

528
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Speaker 2: and made it a secret, then they would never fully

529
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Speaker 2: know who I am, and this feels unfair for them

530
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Speaker 2: to even have that opportunity, And so if they find

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Speaker 2: out and they don't like it, that's on them. That

532
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Speaker 2: was kind of my mentality, But I feel like reading this,

533
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Speaker 2: I feel for you so much, Natalia, and I just

534
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: want you to know that life is so beautiful and

535
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: short and you only get one of them, and it's

536
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Speaker 2: just not worth making yourself small or hiding such an

537
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Speaker 2: exciting part of your life life to protect someone else.

538
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I can't speak to the w WLW side of it,

540
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Speaker 1: but I have had friends who have hid their relationships

541
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Speaker 1: because of xyz, you know, religion, or they'd been with

542
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 1: this person before that broke their heart and they didn't

543
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Speaker 1: want to tell their family or friends again that they

544
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Speaker 1: were back together with them. And I just feel like

545
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Speaker 1: keeping things a secret and dating someone in private is

546
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Speaker 1: just like it's so hard on your relationship and it's

547
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Speaker 1: really hard on you.

548
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Speaker 5: So that would be my advice.

549
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Speaker 2: And it's not a bad it's the thing is is

550
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 2: like you're not doing anything bad or wrong, Like you're

551
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,199
Speaker 2: you fell in love with someone and you're getting to

552
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 2: experience love, and it's like you're harboring something that is

553
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Speaker 2: going to end up.

554
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Speaker 3: It eats at you.

555
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just hope that you let yourself like

556
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Speaker 2: go of the guilt of hurting them, because you're not

557
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: doing anything to hurt them. How they respond is on them.

558
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 2: And if they want to be in your life, then

559
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 2: they're gonna show up for you in the way that

560
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 2: you need to be showed up for.

561
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Speaker 4: They're gonna need time to process it. That might be

562
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Speaker 4: a day, a week, a month, a year, years, who knows.

563
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Speaker 4: But they've had a certain plan their whole life and

564
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Speaker 4: their heads for you. And when you tell them that

565
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 4: that's not your plan, that's gonna take some adjustment. Whether

566
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 4: it and it doesn't have to come in anything but

567
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 4: a place of love, there's gonna be some adjustment to

568
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 4: be had there. I think the sooner you start them

569
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Speaker 4: on that journey, the better, Yes, because who knows how

570
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 4: long it's gonna last. Better to get them going on

571
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 4: it now. And I also think wait until you're engaged

572
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 4: is almost a double whammy on your parents because there's

573
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Speaker 4: gonna be a part of them that's like, oh, she'll

574
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 4: get over it, it's just a phase or whatever. However,

575
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 4: they need to cope with it. Whether that's true or not,

576
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 4: it's probably not, but they need to do that. That's

577
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 4: their coping mechanism. So taking that mechanism away from them

578
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 4: immediately I think will be very difficult for them. Yeah,

579
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 4: make the journey that much longer.

580
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Speaker 2: And also give them the opportunity to potentially be a

581
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 2: part of when you get engaged, Like maybe they'll have

582
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 2: a moment where they've processed it, and so when that

583
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: time comes, they're excited to be a part of that,

584
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: whereas if you just surprise them with that, they might

585
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 2: just be too much all at once. And there's this

586
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Speaker 2: girl who she came from a super religious background and

587
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 2: she's like a TikToker influencer and she did like her.

588
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 2: She cut her parents out because they just they basically said,

589
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Speaker 2: we will not support you. She is not allowed in

590
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: our home. And so she had to set that boundary

591
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 2: and had like a whole wedding all this stuff, and

592
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: her parents weren't there. And then just like last year,

593
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: they came around and we're like, we want to be

594
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 2: in your life, you know, And there was a lot

595
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Speaker 2: of hurt and conversations that were hard and according to her,

596
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 2: but there is hope, even if it takes a really

597
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 2: long time. But you have to give them the chance.

598
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 4: And they could surprise you.

599
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 3: And they could surprise you. I hope they do.

600
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Speaker 4: I hope so too. Maybe they'll love her the same

601
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 4: way you do. Yeah, we should take a break, and

602
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 4: then we have one more. One of the scrubbers kind

603
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Speaker 4: of kept track as stuff we've kind of left hanging

604
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 4: out there that shocked.

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00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 2: All right, we'll get to those when we get back.

606
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 2: All right, we are back with one final email.

607
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Speaker 4: This is from Alexa. I bet it's hard to be

608
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 4: Alexa these days, don't you think? That's a name that

609
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 4: was really cool for a long long time and then

610
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 4: suddenly it was not so cool to be named Alexa. Anyway,

611
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 4: she says, love the pot. A few things we need

612
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 4: to know about or circle back on. First of all,

613
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 4: we need to taste tests of Becca's breakfast burritos. I

614
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 4: am still thinking about.

615
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, that would have been fine.

616
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Speaker 4: I mean, the pie was delicious, but breakfast burritoso had

617
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 4: been fine too, you know.

618
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Speaker 3: I was doing those like every day for a couple

619
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Speaker 3: I got burnt out on that spot. But I haven't

620
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Speaker 3: made a breakfast bread on a minute.

621
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Speaker 1: You burn out way too fast. Yes, I got my

622
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: fried eggs going in a couple of months.

623
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Speaker 2: That new delicacy that no one's ever experienced.

624
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Speaker 4: Let's see, can you do? Can you have someone on

625
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 4: the podcast to do a color theory test on each

626
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 4: of you or do one of the TikTok filters. Color

627
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 4: theory test determines which season of color looks best on

628
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 4: each of you, and we need to know as scrubbers.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would be totally down to do it.

630
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Speaker 2: It's just like, also, I'm just gonna wear sure, but

631
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Speaker 2: I do see sometimes I see photos of me in

632
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Speaker 2: certain colors.

633
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Speaker 3: I'm like, that is not my color.

634
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 4: I would be interested to find out what my color is.

635
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 4: But I don't know that that's an interesting podcast, right.

636
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 3: It's more of a visual experience.

637
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 2: So maybe we have someone come come in and maybe

638
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Speaker 2: one day when we launch a video.

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Speaker 1: Podcast podcast material.

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Speaker 5: If I'm being honest, I'm just gonna throw that out there.

641
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 2: Little maybe we'll get them individually and at'll excuse me, a.

642
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 4: Request for the significant others on the pod including Alison

643
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 4: and Amy, and to play a couple of newly wet

644
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 4: game or just a trivia game. And we did that

645
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 4: once upon a time. Yeah, I gotta tell you my

646
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 4: wife has no interest in being uh, having the spotlight

647
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 4: on her. She's just not a person that's ever craved

648
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 4: the spotlight. Does want to be on the radio, doesn't

649
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 4: min be on podcasts, doesn't want to be on video.

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Speaker 4: She's she's good. If you could pick I think it's

651
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 4: just a random question she has here. If you could

652
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 4: pick just one item or meal for each breakfast, lunch,

653
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Speaker 4: and dinner for an entire week, what.

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Speaker 5: Would it be easy?

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Speaker 4: I already do this basically.

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Speaker 5: Oh, she's saying one item per.

657
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 4: Meal, one item only. For example, eggs for breakfast, club

658
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 4: sandwich on wheat for lunch. Oh okay, that's a little different.

659
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 3: And does anyone have this off the top of your head? Yes,

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Speaker 3: okay for.

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Speaker 1: And this is just like barring all whatever, just eating

662
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Speaker 1: what you want. Breakfast would be three fried eggs with

663
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Speaker 1: Celtic sea salt and black pepper on top.

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Speaker 3: That it's not just an easy, no, it ain't.

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Speaker 1: For lunch, it would be a cheeseburger wrapped in lettuce

666
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Speaker 1: with the side of sweet potato French fries. And for

667
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Speaker 1: dinner it would be gluten free, so wet.

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Speaker 4: So we are keeping in mind dietary restrictions because you're

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Speaker 4: going gluten free, but we're not keeping in mind like

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Speaker 4: health restrictions. Is that we're saying here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like I would need a burger every day, but like.

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Speaker 4: Right right right, like yeah, I hear you.

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Speaker 5: There we go, that's mine.

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Speaker 4: Uh sure, I would have a I love a poached

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Speaker 4: egg records out of a couple of le Mark Post

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Speaker 4: eggs over toast makes me very happy. I think it's

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Speaker 4: a childhood thing because my mom used to make those

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Speaker 4: a lot. For lunch, I would have my wife's panini,

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Speaker 4: which is the greatest sandwich I've ever had my whole life.

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Speaker 4: It's really great.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you should bring those in and.

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Speaker 4: And for dinner, I love it deep dish pizza man

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Speaker 4: with the sauce on top. It's almost like a it's

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Speaker 4: not it's not like not even a pizza. It's so thick.

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Speaker 4: There's so much going on in there, the pie blayered.

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Speaker 4: I love it deep di I cannot find good deep

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Speaker 4: dish pizza out here. It's like a pie it's like

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Speaker 4: a pizza pie with thick. I would get a Chicago

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Speaker 4: style deep dish pizza for dinner, so yummy, deep dish

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Speaker 4: doesn't do it for me. I'm sorry, you're wrong. I

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Speaker 4: am really good girl.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I respect a deep dish love.

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Speaker 6: I guess for breakfast, I too would do fried eggs

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Speaker 6: with the salt and pepper.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Crazy Crazy's wild Celtic Sea salt.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 6: I googled Celtic Sea salt and the first thing that

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Speaker 6: came up is Celtics Salt class action lawsuit.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so maybe not.

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Speaker 6: We'll talk about this later.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to freak you out, but maybe check

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Speaker 4: your lead levels.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, that's amazing salt member.

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Speaker 6: And then for lunch, I think I'll do a roast

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Speaker 6: beef sandwich with cheddar cheese, and for dinner a pepperoni

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Speaker 6: pizza from Round Table Pizza.

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Speaker 4: I could.

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Speaker 6: I did eat that every night for a very long time.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna go pancakes for breakfast.

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Speaker 3: You know, I was thinking about buttermilk pancakes.

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Speaker 2: And then lunch, I love a good sandwich with like

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Speaker 2: olive oil and vinegarette and like soft.

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Speaker 5: Baguette roll like sub Boy Sandy, sub.

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Speaker 3: Boy Sandy, but like that like soft yead just like

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Speaker 3: a sub.

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Speaker 2: Nice little sub sandwich with chips, jalapino kettle chips.

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Speaker 3: And then my dinner, I actually would go Thin Cross pizza. Wow,

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Speaker 3: I love you like New York style pizza.

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Speaker 4: Okay? Is there a specific restaurant or no.

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Speaker 3: Well I'm the one that I've had.

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Speaker 2: They have a Joe's here, which is like yours, but

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Speaker 2: they have they have it here, so it hits different

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Speaker 2: when you're in New York at Joe's.

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Speaker 3: But it's really good here too.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to New York in a couple of weeks

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Speaker 4: a pizza. Maybe we should. My kids have never been there,

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Speaker 4: so we wanted to make sure we get We showed

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Speaker 4: them New York. We're going to Broadway shows. My daughter,

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Speaker 4: the youngest, is going to be doing a dance intensive

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Speaker 4: all week there, and my oldest thought I was gonna

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Speaker 4: be doing a musical theater intensive all week there. So

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Speaker 4: they're going to be performing and oh my god, we

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Speaker 4: leave the twenty sixth oh July. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A couple of weeks, Eson sent me a text message

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Speaker 1: with the.

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Speaker 2: Information what shows are you all going to see.

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Speaker 4: We're going to see and Juliette. We're going to see

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Speaker 4: Death Becomes Her. I want to see Hell's Kitchen. Those

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Speaker 4: are the three we've decided are the buzziest and most exciting.

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Speaker 5: For not what's the Nicole Scherzinger one.

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Speaker 4: She wanted to for that, didn't she?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I feel like that one's super buzzy.

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Speaker 3: And maybe Happen.

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Speaker 4: It's a little I don't love the classics as much.

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Speaker 4: What's the question? What did you say?

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Speaker 3: I said? My friend does is a maybe happy ending?

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Speaker 3: Which is the Darren Chris one that won.

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Speaker 4: Right right right, maybe happy ending?

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Speaker 2: We can't the one that Charlie Demilio is in.

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Speaker 4: Yes, nice, Yes, I love her.

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Speaker 5: When are you going to New York?

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Speaker 3: I'm not just talk about Mark?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're really excited about it.

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Speaker 3: That's fun. I love New York's so fun too.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 4: One more things. She did request to return to the

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Speaker 4: live shows.

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Speaker 2: Consistent one yes, if not now never, never, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: we can't say that one day.

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Speaker 5: If not now when if.

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Speaker 3: Alex Cooper.

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Speaker 2: That's all for now, though, thank y'all for always so

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Speaker 2: many questions. If you have you're ever like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: And I want to ask people who give like mediocre

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Speaker 3: Like two weeks before it. Sometimes the advice is really good.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I think I hope they go to a therapist

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Speaker 2: because we did not help them at all.

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Speaker 3: So all I'm saying is, if you want our advice,

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