Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Ashley is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years, but
Speaker 1: now she thinks something might be going on, so we'll
Speaker 1: see if we can help her out. Ashley, thanks for
Speaker 1: coming on the show. Sorry it has to be this way.
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean honestly, have heard this so many times
Speaker 2: and never thought that I would come in, but.
Speaker 3: Here I am.
Speaker 2: So we've yeah, we've been together four years, you know,
Speaker 2: up and down like anybody else. I mean, not what
Speaker 2: you see on Instagram a couples. But I kind of
Speaker 2: just feel like he's done with the relationship. So it's
Speaker 2: just kind of like heavy on my heart right now.
Speaker 2: So I just want to test it. I want to
Speaker 2: test it. And so basically, what's going on. I used
Speaker 2: to travel a lot for work, but now I'm not,
Speaker 2: and he's been traveling for his job.
Speaker 3: But it just keeps kind of picking up.
Speaker 2: Mike.
Speaker 3: He'll he'll fly off somewhere for a.
Speaker 2: Week, and then he comes home for a couple of days,
Speaker 2: and then he leaves again. And then when he does
Speaker 2: come home, which has been like you know, increasing over
Speaker 2: the last couple of months, Like when he's going away,
Speaker 2: so when he's coming home, he always seems like he
Speaker 2: has something.
Speaker 3: Better to do.
Speaker 2: So it's it's starting to be kind of it feels
Speaker 2: like he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and
Speaker 2: I feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's
Speaker 2: not wanting to be.
Speaker 3: Intimate anymore, which is ever?
Speaker 1: And what does he say? How does he stop that?
Speaker 2: He kind of like when he comes home now she's
Speaker 2: always hiding off in his office for hours.
Speaker 3: It's like he makes a team, Like he's.
Speaker 2: Writing emails, but as soon as I walk away, his
Speaker 2: messenger notification kind of pings over and over and over.
Speaker 3: At least there's a conversation going on.
Speaker 2: You we're always like really owing each other about like,
Speaker 2: oh I'm talking to I'm don Gonco. Like they're so funny,
Speaker 2: and you know it's women's intuition. You just kind of
Speaker 2: feel like he's he's messaging with someone, like we know
Speaker 2: each other's friends. You know each other, so for me,
Speaker 2: like we're really good friends with each other. You know,
Speaker 2: like I care about him and so I did comfort
Speaker 2: him about it. You know, I'm like, you've been going more,
Speaker 2: you haven't really been wanting.
Speaker 3: To touch me, and you're hiding away in your office.
Speaker 3: He legit just shrugged it off.
Speaker 2: He said, he has a new assistant in his office
Speaker 2: since he's been showing her the ropes, so that's kind
Speaker 2: of been taking a lot of time. But I've seen
Speaker 2: I've seen her, and I'm really not the jealous type,
Speaker 2: but she's.
Speaker 4: Legit in his type, So so you think it might
Speaker 4: actually be the assistant that he's talking to.
Speaker 2: I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
Speaker 2: like I just I want to believe that you would
Speaker 2: never shoot on me, because we're really not, Like we've
Speaker 2: talked about that in the past, like we wish how
Speaker 2: we wouldn't do it.
Speaker 3: I hope it's all in my head. I really don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know how a lorble.
Speaker 3: Feeling so here I am.
Speaker 4: I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
Speaker 4: about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
Speaker 4: the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people do that. You know,
Speaker 1: it sucks because I think they think about themselves like
Speaker 1: how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like you're
Speaker 1: someone else's talking to you that you care about, like
Speaker 1: it's about them at that moment, and that's fine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like so anyway, yeah, that sucks the way
Speaker 1: that was handled. All right, Well, you told us what
Speaker 1: a grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So
Speaker 1: we'll do the usual. We'll call and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from the grocery store and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one rewards card member at random who gets
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see
Speaker 1: if he sends those to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm so nervous.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll play a son come back here to
Speaker 1: catch to your next right in the middle of to
Speaker 1: catch a teeter if you're just joining us. Ashley is
Speaker 1: on the phone. She's been with her boyfriend Ryan for
Speaker 1: four years and now she thinks that he might be cheating.
Speaker 1: So in a second, we're going to call him and
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a
Speaker 1: rewards car remember at, and say that he's this month's
Speaker 1: big winner of flowers delivered to anybody that he wants
Speaker 1: from our florial department. And we'll see if he believes
Speaker 1: that first of all, and then if he sends those
Speaker 1: flowers to Ashley or to somebody else. But before we
Speaker 1: do that, Ashley, why don't you catch everybody up in
Speaker 1: your situation.
Speaker 2: So we've been together four years. I used to travel
Speaker 2: a bunch for work. He's the one that's traveling now.
Speaker 2: In his time away just keeps increasing. And then when
Speaker 2: he is home, he's been kind of avoiding me. He's
Speaker 2: been working in his office and you know, big red
Speaker 2: flag for me not wanting to be intimate, which no
Speaker 2: one should ever feel.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had that happen MEO a lot.
Speaker 2: It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
Speaker 2: him about it, like it's not like I'm like, hey,
Speaker 2: did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
Speaker 2: up to him, like this is a really big deal.
Speaker 2: I'm feeling like this and he said, nothing's going on.
Speaker 2: But I still feel like there is with.
Speaker 1: His assistant too. Is who you think it is?
Speaker 2: Yes? Two opposite looking of me, totally his previous type
Speaker 2: before me.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, were you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: I guess Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is
Speaker 1: shorttle calling from I was looking for our rewards card
Speaker 1: member named Ryan.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 2: Hi.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
Speaker 1: your business. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5: Uh okay, where did I win?
Speaker 1: Of the flowers?
Speaker 5: The flowers.
Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
Speaker 1: to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
Speaker 1: It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 1: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 1: be delivered to anybody that you want. It's actually a
Speaker 1: three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 5: Okay, cool?
Speaker 1: Great. Let me let me just give it to tell
Speaker 1: you how it works. Then I can take the information
Speaker 1: over the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can
Speaker 1: call you back if you don't know who you want
Speaker 1: to send them to right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 5: let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 1: Okay, and do you want to send a card along
Speaker 1: with this.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, say something like, uh, I cannot.
Speaker 2: Wait to hold you again.
Speaker 5: And uh the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 1: Okay, got that. And now at this point, I would
Speaker 1: like to tell you that my name is actually Jubil,
Speaker 1: and I'm calling from a radio show that's called the
Speaker 1: Jebil Show, and your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, hold on, yeah.
Speaker 1: Chater, and that's what this is.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, yeah, yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am.
Speaker 3: You know, like I asked you this and you told
Speaker 3: me nothing was going on.
Speaker 2: But I can't believe it. I mean, I I asked
Speaker 2: you about this and you old you know, and now
Speaker 2: it's your assistance. Like I just knew it. I knew it,
Speaker 2: and I asked you and you denied it. Why would
Speaker 2: you do this? But I can't believe it.
Speaker 1: Actually, I asked you this and you did this.
Speaker 5: Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
Speaker 5: It's not it's not something I'm happy about. It's look, Ashley,
Speaker 5: I'm I'm sorry. It's just you're not happy.
Speaker 2: You're so disrespectful. You're not happy about like, what are
Speaker 2: you even thoughting about? It sounds like you you said
Speaker 2: you can't wait to.
Speaker 3: Be in her arms again.
Speaker 2: It sounds like if you want this to happen, you're like,
Speaker 2: what are you even thinking? Look, it's just it's I
Speaker 2: don't I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
Speaker 5: long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
Speaker 5: more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
Speaker 5: So like it's just we have things we connect on,
Speaker 5: the lifestyle, the travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
Speaker 5: made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
Speaker 5: was a distance outside of it, I just I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: Well, it should have broken up with me, then you
Speaker 2: should have told me, and you should have broken up
Speaker 2: with me. We've been together long enough that you could
Speaker 2: have told me, and we could have broken up, and
Speaker 2: then you can do whatever you want love with her.
Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know if
Speaker 5: I want us to be broken up. I just I
Speaker 5: don't know. I'm just trying to figure things out. And
Speaker 5: it's something I just kind of fell into and I
Speaker 5: should have how long is it been going on like
Speaker 5: four or five months?
Speaker 3: Whoa, I thought that.
Speaker 2: This was legit only like two months, and I asked
Speaker 2: you so long ago, like you're so disrecessful to be
Speaker 2: doing that, to mean this slung and I don't even
Speaker 2: know anything about her, you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 2: you have been taking intimacy away from me, which is
Speaker 2: so disrespectful to do to another human being. But you're
Speaker 2: disrespecting my body too. Does she know that you have
Speaker 2: a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 5: Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 5: I mean, I told her about my life, She told
Speaker 5: me about her life, her husband, all that, and then
Speaker 5: we just sort of fell into.
Speaker 2: This her husband, her husband, Oh my gosh, what are
Speaker 2: you doing? Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship,
Speaker 2: You're not like in some fantasy land. She's married.
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
Speaker 1: she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Now I us feel like I should retouch to her
Speaker 2: husband and let him know so that he's not being disrespected.
Speaker 5: As well as come on, come on, you're already doing
Speaker 5: this on the radio. You don't look I get, I
Speaker 5: get while you're there and I care about you, but
Speaker 5: I but if you're going to be vindictive about it,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 2: I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I can't. I deserve,
Speaker 2: I deserve better than this. I am a good person and.
Speaker 3: I've treated them so well.
Speaker 2: For four years. I've always been there for you, and
Speaker 2: I don't deserve to be treated like this. I deserve
Speaker 2: to be loved by a good partner and you should
Speaker 2: be humiliated by what you've done.
Speaker 5: Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, just thank you for four
Speaker 5: years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
Speaker 5: phone call that you're blasting to the world. So I
Speaker 5: get the better that you deserve.
Speaker 1: And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 2: I am too. I mean, I was on our list
Speaker 2: that would end up this way and it did. So
Speaker 2: I just need to go for a walk and clear
Speaker 2: my head right now.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you gotta do,
Speaker 4: but no, this was a two for you did your
Speaker 4: good deed, two for one, two for have of.
Speaker 2: The rest of the day. I'm back going to walk
Speaker 2: in google her husband now that I have her last name, okay,
Speaker 2: so I can let him know the jubile shows to
Speaker 2: catch a cheeter