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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, Lex.

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Speaker 2: Pete, any Sugarl Drey and the.

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Speaker 3: Cold and you are another episode of poor Minds.

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Speaker 2: We're a drunk mind speaks thought.

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Speaker 3: So first of all, let me just give a shout

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Speaker 3: out to Kiki for saving our ass.

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Speaker 1: Per usual. Yes, Drea is still in Houston. So we are.

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Speaker 3: Doing a little virtual poor Mind's episode today.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like it though. Yeah, this is our

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Speaker 1: first time doing like a little.

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Speaker 3: Virtual online poor Mind's episode together. So yeah, so we're

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Speaker 3: gonna just push through the episode to get through it.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be a good episode, per usual. Uh, First,

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Speaker 3: let me just give my quick prayers and love and

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Speaker 3: sending out to the family of Jacob Blake. The police

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Speaker 3: brutality is still crazy, so shout out to everybody who's

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Speaker 3: still been out there protesting and standing up for something

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Speaker 3: because it is a long fight and if you saw

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Speaker 3: the video, the video was crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing that he's still alive.

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Speaker 3: So prayers out to him and his family first off

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Speaker 3: and foremost, So, what's been up with you this past week?

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Speaker 1: Little Drea, who I've.

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Speaker 2: Had a very heavy week. That's why I'm still in Houston.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, at this point, if you

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Speaker 4: follow me on Instagram or Twitter or social media, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm sure you've probably already seen me talking about my

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Speaker 4: father passing away.

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Speaker 2: He passed away two weeks ago, and I didn't.

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Speaker 4: Really want to talk about it when it first happened,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because I just was dealing

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Speaker 4: with all of the emotions and stuff and I feel

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Speaker 4: like it didn't really feel real to me yet, you know,

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Speaker 4: But then coming home and going to the funeral and stuff, like,

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Speaker 4: I really, you know, just had to accept it.

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Speaker 2: That's the reality.

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Speaker 4: Of what things are in my life now. And it's

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Speaker 4: been really really real. If I'm not gonna lie, but

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Speaker 4: you know, I've been making me through. I have great friends.

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Speaker 4: You know, you've been there for me alive.

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Speaker 2: My friends in Houston have been there for me a lot.

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Speaker 4: I have great family as well, so you know, me

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Speaker 4: and my mom are gonna be okay.

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Speaker 2: Just keep us in y'all prayers.

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Speaker 1: Of course, that's why. And let me just add that, like, seriously,

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Speaker 1: I'm not capping. I'm not lying.

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Speaker 3: You had literally found out before we recorded the WAP episode,

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Speaker 3: and that was like one of my favorite episodes that

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Speaker 3: we've done this year as crazy as it sounds. So

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Speaker 3: it was like, bitch, you pushed through the fuck like

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Speaker 3: because I don't I know for a fact if something

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Speaker 3: happened to like one of my like somebody close to

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Speaker 3: me and my family, I can't record.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie to you.

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Speaker 3: So the fact that you did that episode, and not

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Speaker 3: only we did that episode, but that was like one

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Speaker 3: of our favorite episodes that we've done, I was like, Okay, bitch,

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Speaker 3: this is a true professional so.

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Speaker 2: Getting through the episode, but I think it was a

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Speaker 2: good episode.

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Speaker 3: It was a great episode. That episode was fucking good before.

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Speaker 4: We record, like maybe like two hours recording because I

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Speaker 4: was the kiky house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had called me.

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Speaker 3: We were on the phone like right before we recorded,

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Speaker 3: and it was just kind of like a lot. It

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Speaker 3: good episode.

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Speaker 2: So you know, yes, yes, But.

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Speaker 1: How has your going well? First of all, let me

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Speaker 1: just say that life is good right now.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 3: I had a very good month. I had a very

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Speaker 3: blessed birthday. I have been getting the best sex I've

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Speaker 1: I have like my bull is cool, Like that's my nigga.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I just feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: I got everything that I wanted for my birthday, like

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Speaker 3: this week has just been good. My me and my

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Speaker 3: booey cool. We're gonna talk about that in the sex topics.

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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna get to that later on.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, me a throw back Bay is good.

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Speaker 3: He dicking me down, good deck, good times.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, my week has been good.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm just happy.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's all I can say.

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Speaker 2: That's good. That's good. I love when you're in a

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know me, I'm probably gonna get dumped

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Speaker 1: We gon bask in the happiness right now.

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Speaker 2: I don't put out into the universe. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're right, You're right, you're at Okay, So let's

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna lets you bring in the first topics. Go ahead, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So the first topic that I wanted to talk about,

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Speaker 2: About being in a sixtion with women that you don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like it's.

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Speaker 4: Something that we've all you know, had to do before

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Speaker 4: something that we've all experienced, and I just.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes how I pretty could be and how freaching can

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Speaker 4: get started and stuff, because I feel like with me

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Speaker 4: and my homegirls, it's easy for us to be in

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Speaker 4: a section week other women and you don't be no drama.

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Speaker 4: It don't be no issue because we we fun. We

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Speaker 4: Don't nobody want no drama and stuff. So I kind

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Speaker 1: So oh, go ahead, finish.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was just.

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Speaker 4: Gonna give like a little, you know, backstory on why

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Speaker 4: I wanted to talk about this. My friend and I

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Speaker 4: went to the club in Houston the other day.

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Speaker 2: We went to Rolls Gold and it was.

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Speaker 4: Some girls in the I mean, well, first we went

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Speaker 2: A was real cool. It wasn't no issue nothing. So

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Speaker 4: Got to Rolls go to anybody. One of my other friends,

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Speaker 4: Carrie to come out with us. So Carrie he ended

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Speaker 2: Again. They came late, so we was there already. We

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Speaker 4: Then they pulled up and one of the dudes didn't

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Speaker 2: Other, so they talking across all of us to each other.

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Speaker 2: Me and my friend Jasmine.

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Speaker 4: We asked them politely, you know that y'all want to

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Speaker 2: We don't have that issue schooting down. The girl tells me.

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Speaker 4: If I wanted to move, I just moved. You ain't

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Speaker 2: I can move.

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Speaker 4: I know, I know I can move if I want to.

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Speaker 4: I'm good where I'm at, so you know me. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I write, Sea, you need to relax. You need to

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Speaker 4: calm your ass down, because that's unnecessary. I stopped talking

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Speaker 4: the hood, I finished partying. As I'm sitting there with

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Speaker 4: they're sitting on the other side of jazzmineh fuck her men.

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Speaker 2: While they was together.

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Speaker 3: Carrie's man, Yes, while they were together.

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Speaker 4: So she's like, I think that's why she mugging us

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Speaker 4: how she is. So she getting the attitude. She ready

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to calm her down. She goes to the

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Speaker 4: She goes to the bathroom. She comes back from the bathroom,

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Speaker 4: was cool at the other club, blah blah blah. So

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Speaker 4: then I share the other little beach on the side.

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Speaker 2: Of me talking crazy.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, what's us cause she said, oh, these hoes,

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Speaker 4: but they not about to do nothing. The ain't not

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Speaker 4: about the populisty. You not about the populisting. You not

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Speaker 2: Why he kicks out the section.

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Speaker 1: Rightfully? So thank you. I'm glad y'all.

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Speaker 4: Kicked out with a way better BDB. So it was

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Speaker 3: So so first of all, let me say, I'm not

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Speaker 3: speaking to everybody the girls listening. There is section etiquette. Okay,

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Speaker 3: there section etiquette, especially when you're a beautiful young lady

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So first things first, there are gonna be other women

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Speaker 1: Then you don't know these women. Me, y'all know what

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Speaker 3: I'm the shot girl who on shots the bottle com

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Speaker 3: you pour everybody up. That kind of breaks the ice,

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Speaker 3: turn up, good time at the end of the day.

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Speaker 3: Because guess what if y'all bitch is about to start

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Speaker 3: and replace y'all with samo bitches. Now, in your situation,

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Speaker 3: it was probably cool because it wasn't nobody and you

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Speaker 3: I went to LA one time and my friends started arguing.

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Speaker 3: We got kicked out of a very famous person section,

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Speaker 3: a very famous athlete section, and it was very fucking embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I can go to a lava section.

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Speaker 3: No, that's what I'm saying. So, and that's in your situation.

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Speaker 3: Like you know, you're good. But one thing that I've learned,

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Speaker 3: especially as an adult, like being this age, now, I'm

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Speaker 3: not fighting. I'm not saying that you're wrong if you do,

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Speaker 3: you know, cause a lot of times you you a

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Speaker 3: type of person you don't take no shit. I'm a

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Speaker 3: type of person I don't let shit get to me.

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Speaker 3: I don't even give a fuck, So let me finish.

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Speaker 2: I don't fight.

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Speaker 1: No, you know, I'm not saying that you fight. I

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Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is, first things fire, I just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you know what I'm talking about, the little

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Speaker 4: I finished having fun, and you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck are you talking about? What wasn't nobody

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Speaker 2: The strip club. But she's washed up and she's to

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Speaker 4: Off the fucking camera, and that how is looking musky,

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Speaker 1: Oh, shouldn't get that fresh wax.

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Speaker 2: Now, beach. It was a bush. And I ain't talking

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Speaker 1: Right now. I am one nigga. Be down, okay, one

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Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is everybody that all the male

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Speaker 1: Bring y'all girlfriends, y'all wives.

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Speaker 3: Y'all cousins, y'all mothers, y'all grandma. They gonna have a

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be other beautiful women in the section who cares.

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Speaker 4: But then it's like yeah, and also get that ship

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Speaker 2: Thing y'all say. And I feel like I talked about this.

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Speaker 4: And it's like you really have taught me over of

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Speaker 2: It's notice it's really nice and you don't.

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Speaker 4: Need to be putting your energy into this type of

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Speaker 4: I try to carry that we meet everywhere I'll go,

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Speaker 4: But but I was saying that to say, yeah, get

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Speaker 2: She's like, Hey, we're gonna be ready to.

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Speaker 1: Make the fook at you exactly. He gonna run into

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Speaker 1: the wrong bitch one day. And it's like, who wants

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: And y'all already know how I feel about fighting.

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Speaker 1: Most likely I got my Gucci's on. Okay, I'm trying

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Speaker 2: Scuff my shit up, bitch, Okay, I mean, bitch, I

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Speaker 4: I feel you because I but I was about to

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Speaker 2: I wasn't trying to. I wasn't trying to have to

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Speaker 4: But I think that's my thing too, And that's why

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Speaker 4: Get into it with a beach, I can almost nine

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Speaker 2: It ain't met. But I really killing and.

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Speaker 3: You are a chi person. You're not a person that

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Speaker 4: Fucking I really was being genuine when I was asking, like,

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Speaker 2: I know what I can do. What you can do

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Speaker 4: I just have to tell y'all about that little story

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Speaker 3: it's so crazy, Drew, because the girls be asking us

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Speaker 1: When I tell you, these niggas be falling in my lap. Literally,

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Speaker 3: I don't look like a baddie today, because you know

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Speaker 3: So so I'm gonna let you bring in this this

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Speaker 2: An adventurous week. So I wanted to talk about friend first.

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Speaker 4: So, like I told y'all, we was in the section

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Speaker 4: Over in the section, he enrolled up by some beach.

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Speaker 4: I ain't really tripping because I mean, nigga whatever, Like

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Speaker 4: I just mess you.

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Speaker 2: We got six embarrassed the club, I did. I just

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Speaker 2: So we talked about we about to go to the

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Speaker 4: Sounded like all right, cool, so were leaving out the club.

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Speaker 4: He puts me in Jazzmine and Jasmine's friends in a

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Speaker 4: you could tell. At first the nigga had like he

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Speaker 4: So we brawled with him to the strip club and we.

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Speaker 2: Get there, any girl, all of a sudden, the nigga.

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Speaker 4: Me and a nigga was just all of all these

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Speaker 1: Look, I hope you took at least three of them

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Speaker 1: bands home. Now, Oh yeah, I put.

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00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:44,760
Speaker 2: It in the first I took so no you so much.

440
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 2: We just in a club like he rubbing up on me.

441
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,040
Speaker 2: I'm like rubbing out his niggas sheet.

442
00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,280
Speaker 1: You was being pd A. I have never seen you

443
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: be pd A in the club.

444
00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,639
Speaker 4: Every you should have been there, but you would have

445
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 4: been shocked in a pall because.

446
00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:00,800
Speaker 1: It's usually me that's hugging and it's on my nigga

447
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,000
Speaker 1: in the club. You're not that girl.

448
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,159
Speaker 2: We wasn't kissing it. She I ain't take it.

449
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 1: Because I'll definitely girl, I'd be talking my nigga down.

450
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 3: First day we went on, I was tonguing him down

451
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 3: in the middle of instant blue and you know instant

452
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:18,440
Speaker 3: blue be hot bitch.

453
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 2: So I didn't give a fuck bit.

454
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,679
Speaker 4: He was flying fuck he was real icy. He had

455
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 4: the eight young stall sound like you with that Richard

456
00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 4: Milly story.

457
00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,120
Speaker 1: You know I Love you book.

458
00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 2: So you know me in the club, we having fun.

459
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 2: He buy us food and she did. After we leave

460
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 2: the club, he brings me and Jasmine bacon or whatever.

461
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,199
Speaker 2: So then we sit me in the course of Jasmine

462
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 2: coming the house.

463
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,479
Speaker 4: We see me in the car for like twenty maybes

464
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 4: talking like having like a little heart to heart and like,

465
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 4: I guess you know, we're wots to go to dinner

466
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 4: later on tonight, So I guess, like you could say that.

467
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 2: Like I guess I see him now.

468
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 4: But it's so crazy because the brother is the one

469
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 4: who I gave my mother to weed first and one

470
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 4: who I was texting it first, and he the reason.

471
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,520
Speaker 2: Why we was in the six sheep.

472
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: Well, so let me get into the rules.

473
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 3: Okay, So if you just meet Sadie that night, like

474
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 3: we exchange numbers, were trying to go to the club,

475
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 3: this and that.

476
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 1: If you're not attentive and doing what you're supposed to.

477
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 3: Do, and your partner come in and he maybe have

478
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 3: more money or he more fine, or he's paying me

479
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 3: more attention. It's no rules, bitch, Like you're not doing

480
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 3: what you're supposed to do. So I'm gonna go where

481
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 3: I'm wanting. I always go where I'm celebrated. So if

482
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: you're not, if you're not showing me love and attention

483
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 3: that I need, I just met you.

484
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 1: So if you're potna your.

485
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 3: Patna, you look good, but you look better, you know

486
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, I don't care, like if I

487
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 3: just met you, it's no, it's not no loyalty thing.

488
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: Like we just meeting.

489
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 3: Sometimes you meet the wrong friend, it happens, fuck it

490
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 3: turn up. So I don't think that you did anything

491
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 3: wrong personally.

492
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's cool, Like you know, he cool, he's definitely

493
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: a BDB. But he and girl, I'm dead.

494
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: I am dead.

495
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 4: I am dead.

496
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 2: I feel like it's.

497
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 4: Okay, And I guess we both just kind of wanted

498
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,439
Speaker 4: to tell y'all that ladies, you know what I mean.

499
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 4: If you meet one dude firstance, I mean I feel

500
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 4: like as long as you ain't fucking.

501
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 1: Both to me, yeah, you can't fuck them both, can't

502
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 1: fuck them both.

503
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 2: Which I have to try to be building me I

504
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 2: don't want you to be like me.

505
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I think I told y'all this situation when

506
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 3: me and throwback back, Like I used to fuck his

507
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 3: friend like six seven years ago. This was before the

508
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 3: new body and everything. So but yeah, I mean, I'm

509
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 3: fucking on him now and it's leg but it's not

510
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 3: a big deal. It's like it was six seven years ago.

511
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 3: Who the fuck cares?

512
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 2: Like?

513
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: I feel like we everybody does things when they're young.

514
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 3: People be turning up like if I if we would

515
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 3: never do this, but like if Drel wanted to talk

516
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 3: to somebody I fucked with when I was like twenty,

517
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:58,479
Speaker 3: who the fuck cares.

518
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: I'm thirty one now, that was eleven years ago, you

519
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

520
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 3: So I feel like sometimes if you used to be

521
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 3: fucking on somebody but there was no like emotional connection

522
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: and there was nothing deep there. If your friend want

523
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 3: to fuck on them, who cares? Like it's life, and

524
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 3: one thing about it is I know that you like him. Yeah, Like,

525
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: if my friend wanted to like.

526
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 4: Ten years ago, and then one of your homegirls wanted

527
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 4: to fuck on him, you wouldn't care.

528
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: I would not care.

529
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 3: I would not if it was somebody that I like,

530
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 3: it was just like we was fucking on some like

531
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 3: just horny type shit. No, now, if it was somebody like,

532
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 3: but honestly, anybody from ten years ago, I don't fuck

533
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 3: with anybody from ten years ago, like you know what

534
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 3: I mean.

535
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't necessarily care.

536
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 4: But I feel like with your pottners though, you should

537
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 4: just still be a certain how old of effy.

538
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 2: I feel like, like even if you.

539
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 4: Fucked the nigga ten years ago as your partner, like

540
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 4: I still shouldn't even want to. It's so many niggas

541
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 4: in the world, like I should not be fucking o't

542
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 4: want to lick all niggas.

543
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 3: No, I agree with you on that, but some running

544
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 3: in the same like we all running the same circles.

545
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: It's only so many fucking bad b's out here, bitch, Okay.

546
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: It's safe. You better find a different one. But no.

547
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 3: But what all I'm saying is, though if it was

548
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 3: ten years ago and it was somebody that I it

549
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 3: was just sex and we and I don't care. Why

550
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 3: would I block her from getting hershy? You know what

551
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like that's just me personally, it's not locking.

552
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 2: But it's just to me.

553
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 4: As I said, I just feel like like, and it's

554
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 4: different if you don't know versus knowing, like if you

555
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 4: nigga I foked ten years ago and then like, cause

556
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 4: I mean, let's be real, I had a life before

557
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 4: I miss you, So I mean, right, it's niggas that

558
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: I folked that probably ain't even been worth mentioning since

559
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 4: me and you done became free. If you go when

560
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 4: you start messing with one of them niggas and you

561
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 4: didn't even know about them, it's completely different from like

562
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 4: you talking to a dude or start mensa with a

563
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 4: dude that you know I missed, even if it was

564
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 4: ten years ago, but you know I used to look.

565
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: On him, right. But but me, I'm a type of person.

566
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 3: I'm an add if I feel like because sometimes vib

567
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 3: Like if I meet a nigga and I know you

568
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 3: used to fuck with him, I'm like, damn, we really vibing.

569
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, Drea, Yo, what's up?

570
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 3: I seen such and such last night And I'm not

571
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 3: gonna lie like that nigga cool and he fun.

572
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 2: And we was vibing and that's respectable.

573
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: Though Honestly, I'm not gonna hide it from you.

574
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you are pretty honest. If you are pretty

575
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 2: pretty honest when he's come.

576
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 4: I mean, we've never been in a situation like that,

577
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: but I could see you being honest is something like

578
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 4: that was the happy and I'm more than somebody being sneaky.

579
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because even when I went I went on

580
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 3: my first date with Throwback Bay back in October of

581
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 3: last year. I didn't even know if he knew that,

582
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 3: you know, the situation from the past from like seven

583
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 3: years ago.

584
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: But I was like, the vibes was so good and

585
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: so strong.

586
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, I'm gonna just straight up and

587
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 3: let you know seven years ago, me and Yo Padna Usa.

588
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 3: But it wasn't nothing like that, like we cool, we're friends.

589
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 3: It ain't nothing like that at all. I'm not attracting

590
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 3: to him anymore because I had to let you know, Nigga,

591
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 3: I won't choo period. And I'm not trying to hide

592
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 3: nothing because I feel like, yes, there's a billion people

593
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 3: in the world, but sometimes you just can't help pull

594
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 3: you viob with.

595
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 2: I mean, bitch, I don't talk about my little situation

596
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 2: that I was in.

597
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 4: I mean I was literally fucking with a nigga, and

598
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 4: in like two months later, and remember that situation, I do.

599
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: I actually told you to talk to his friends and

600
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: you did.

601
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 2: Lake was actually the person who was advocating for.

602
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 3: Me to do the host she because I don't let brothers.

603
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 3: I don't let brothers, fathers. I don't give a fuck

604
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 3: who how they related to you. If I'm in love

605
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 3: with your daddy, I'm fucking your daddy period.

606
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 2: Daddy.

607
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: I would if I if I fuck with him and

608
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 3: we bobbing right, Hell yeah, you're not about to stop

609
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 3: me from.

610
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 1: Loving I love love, bitch.

611
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: And if your daddy loving me right, your daddy is

612
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 3: loving me right, I ain't gonna lie.

613
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 4: I feel bad about it at first, but then honestly,

614
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 4: I feel I started feeling the same way as what

615
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 4: you just said, like you can't help who.

616
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 1: Who you you can't help?

617
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: Whobbed way better than I was vibbing with that.

618
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: Not little nigga.

619
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 2: And that's another thing.

620
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 4: I moved up to the levels moving down the level.

621
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: You gotta move.

622
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: You gotta go from one extreme.

623
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: Here here. That is definitely true.

624
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 2: Yes, you want to go up and nigga, he ain't

625
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: that bad because.

626
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: I'm dead and he knows that you started sucking with

627
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: his friend too.

628
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: Probably know that I feel was recently fucking with him too.

629
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: You got that wop, Hun, you got that wop. I

630
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: know that's why something.

631
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 2: Huh you.

632
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 1: See me?

633
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 3: Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about talking

634
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 3: to friends. I know we've talked about this before, but

635
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: just letting y'all know ahead of time. If you meet

636
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 3: two niggas in the same night and they friends, and

637
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 3: they both trying to holler at you just make the

638
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 3: best decision. It don't matter who got your number first

639
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 3: or whatever. You gotta choose up sis.

640
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

641
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 3: So I just want to take a little quick break

642
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 3: really quick and tell y'all I always talk about better

643
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644
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645
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Speaker 3: That's the bonus content that we have. We drop new

646
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Speaker 3: bonus episodes every week. So recently I did an episode

647
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Speaker 3: and I talked about my depression that I went through

648
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 3: like the first like two years that I moved to Atlanta,

649
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: and I really got to in depth on how I

650
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: worked through that, and you know, just all the motions

651
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Speaker 3: that I went through. So I want to talk about

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Speaker 3: better Help for a second. So, if you have anything

653
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 3: that's like interfering with your happiness, do you feel like

654
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Speaker 3: something's stopping you from achieving your goal? Better Help is

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657
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Speaker 3: important therapy is and how much it can help you,

658
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 3: like push through things that you're going through. And I

659
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 3: feel like therapy is good for people even if you

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Speaker 3: I n DS. Okay, okay, all right, so let me

689
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 3: get into this next topic. I really wanted to talk

690
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 3: about this because it's kind of really hurt my feelings

691
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 3: this morning. So I'm not gonna tell the whole exact

692
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 3: story because this is a little personal. I don't talk

693
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,479
Speaker 3: about my mom and my family too much on here

694
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 3: because that's something that I really keep private, Like That's

695
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: one thing I don't want y'all being like we'd with

696
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 3: my mom and weird with my fans. I ain't on saying,

697
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 3: so I do keep that personal with me. I don't

698
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: really talk about me and my mom's My mom is

699
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 3: like my best friend, but I do. I don't talk

700
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: about her too much on here because she didn't ask

701
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 3: for this, this being in the spot like kind of shit,

702
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 3: right right.

703
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: She ain't asked for this life. You know, she just

704
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: happened to have a hole for a daughter.

705
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: So so this morning I was talking I'm dead, So

706
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 3: I was talking to my mom this morning, and you know,

707
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: there's a big hurricane coming to Houston and Beaumont Golden

708
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 3: Triangle area.

709
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: So basically, y'all know I'm.

710
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: From Orange, so my mom still lives in Orange, so

711
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 3: she is being forced to evacuate.

712
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: So long story short, she was trying to evacuate with

713
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: her friend or whatever, and it was just a whole,

714
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: big old mess.

715
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 3: So basically I was on some shit like, girl, fuck him, like,

716
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 3: you need to evacuate and take care of yourself. If anything,

717
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,959
Speaker 3: he need to make sure he gets you a hotel,

718
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 3: and you need to do what the fuck you got.

719
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: To do right.

720
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 3: And so my mom just like stopped and looked at me.

721
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: She was like, what is wrong with you? Like I

722
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 3: didn't raise you like this. She was like, you're not

723
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 3: supposed to leave no body behind. You don't treat people

724
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 3: like that, you know. She was like, this is a hurricane.

725
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 3: This ain't no, this ain't no man buying me a

726
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 3: hotel and taking me shot. We are trying to save

727
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: our lives. Like she was really like going in on

728
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 3: me for a second. I was like, hold on, hold on,

729
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 3: hold bring it back now. Let me bring it back though,

730
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 3: because in some ways she is right now. In some

731
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 3: ways she is right because it's not about it's not

732
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: about that right now. It's just about making sure they're

733
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: evacuated and they're safe, you know. And this is just

734
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 3: her friend. This is not a bad be in this situation.

735
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: Like it's just somebody that's her friend. But I said

736
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 3: that to say, yeah, you did raise me right, But

737
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 3: guess what, the men aren't the same anymore.

738
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: Sis.

739
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,239
Speaker 3: So the way you treated men growing up and how

740
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 3: you treat your friends, that's good. Kudos to you because

741
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: you have a great friendship with this man, and this

742
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 3: man shows you loyalty. He's good to you, y'all have

743
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 3: a great friendship. Niggas ain't like that no more. So, Yeah,

744
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: you did raise me, right, but I'm not doing that

745
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 3: for I'm not doing that. So maybe I projected onto her,

746
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 3: you know, things that I experience and things that I

747
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: go through. But it really kind of hurt my feeling

748
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 3: because she was like, I didn't raise you like this.

749
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: No, you did not raise me like that. But you

750
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: also raised me not to be a dummy.

751
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 3: And I'm not out here just giving every man good friendship,

752
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 3: cause some these niggas don't don't deserve that, They really

753
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 3: fucking don't.

754
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: So has your mom ever told you something like why

755
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: are you acting like this? Drea?

756
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 3: You know better as far as how we treat men

757
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 3: and how we are with mend.

758
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 2: Mom actually tells me that because me and my mom,

759
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I don't know. Again, you know,

760
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 2: I'm kind of the same way as you know.

761
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 4: We don't really talk about our families and stuff that

762
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 4: much on the show because we just like that private

763
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 4: and personal.

764
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: But my parents were married for like three years number one,

765
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 2: and my mom.

766
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 4: Was very very faithful to my dad and when he

767
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 4: met him, at a time where, yeah, she met him

768
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 4: at a time where she was actually, you know, doing

769
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 4: better than him and making more money than him. So

770
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 4: she's always kind of told me that, you know what

771
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 4: I mean, Like I didn't raise you like Dad, You

772
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 4: supposed to look at me and for how they treat you,

773
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 4: not what they could do for you.

774
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 2: I can look at them for both of them. You

775
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 2: can do what you like to do.

776
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong.

777
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 4: But but but my dad also and I'll say this

778
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 4: about my dad as well. My dad when they met,

779
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 4: he wasn't making like crazy money and she was making

780
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 4: more money than him. But my dad built himself up

781
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 4: and he got to a point to where he was

782
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 4: making good money and he could provide for his family.

783
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 4: A lot of niggas be trash ass niggas, and they

784
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 4: will allow a woman to say care of him. They

785
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 4: don't be having no drips, They won't try to build

786
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 4: themselves up and get to a point.

787
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 2: To where they're making more money. If I could find a.

788
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: Man like that, I probably wouldn't be opposed to it.

789
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 4: But most of these niggas, who I know that I'm

790
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 4: doing better then.

791
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 3: And you know what it seems like like men like

792
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 3: your dad, like when he met your mama's like he

793
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 3: was good to her and he wanted to become a

794
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 3: better man to provide for her. Men do not have

795
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 3: that mentality no more. They be like, on some fuck

796
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 3: these bitches. I'm not doing shit for a bitch. We

797
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 3: about to split this rent, and you about to split

798
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 3: this rent. We about to split this were about to

799
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 3: split that.

800
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 1: I'm just like, damn, what a real niggas act.

801
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: And see it wasn't no splitting or nothing like that.

802
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 4: And this is something that my mama told me about

803
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 4: my dad too the other day. She said that when

804
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 4: one thing about my daddy, he never if he couldn't

805
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 4: do things for her, He never tried to take her

806
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 4: money or to like need money from her. He would

807
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 4: just be content with what he had. He never X

808
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 4: cup of money. He was never trying to get money

809
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 4: from her. I feel like a lot of the time

810
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 4: he's niggas. They didn't wanting to live above they mean,

811
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 4: they don't want to do shit that they can't afford

812
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 4: to do, and they be wanting to feel comfortable getting.

813
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 2: You from me, And he's just like, well, what are you?

814
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, My daddy. My daddy was

815
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 2: just a real nigga all around. So that's why.

816
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 4: And I'm not just saying it because it's my dad.

817
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 4: Just a lot of things that I know about my

818
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 4: dad and things that.

819
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: I've seen between my parents over the years. My daddy

820
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 2: was just a real nigga. Like he a hard.

821
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 1: Hard That's what I'm saying.

822
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 3: And I feel like, you know, if I came across

823
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 3: a man like your dad or somebody, of course I'm

824
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 3: gonna you know.

825
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: I would be a good woman to him. But I

826
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not gonna sit up here and lie.

827
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 3: I know I'm a good woman when I'm in a

828
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 3: relationship and I have a partner all this, I'm not.

829
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: Gonna lie all this hot girl shit and city girl talk.

830
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: I'll be doing Baby.

831
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 3: We can make this work and all that shit goes

832
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 3: out the window because I love you and you're my

833
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: man like period.

834
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: So you know, I feel like but I feel like

835
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 2: we haven't.

836
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, we haven't found that type of mania. A certain thing.

837
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: Certain people bring certain things out of people, you know.

838
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 3: So when my mom was like, I didn't raise you

839
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 3: like that, Like, no, maybe you did it, but you

840
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 3: have to understand you don't go through the shit that.

841
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: Were going through with these men now.

842
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 2: Now.

843
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong, men ain't being shited for a

844
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 3: long time. But I feel like it's even worse now.

845
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: I feel like, at least then men didn't mind, like, Okay,

846
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 3: I know, I have to save up my money to

847
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 3: get this ring. I have to you know, get us

848
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 3: a house and do this and do that. Men don't

849
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 3: want to do that no more. They want to do

850
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: the bare minimum. And you know what they found.

851
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: They found.

852
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 3: It's like some women are so desperate to have a

853
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 3: man because they're scared of being alone. So they found

854
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: this group of women who are scared pick mees. They

855
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 3: found this group of women who are scared to be

856
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 3: alone and who will.

857
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: Settle for anything. So they found that.

858
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 3: They found these women who will settle for anything, And

859
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 3: then they look at women like us who ain't about

860
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 3: to settle. I could do bad by myself, and you're

861
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 3: not about to make me feel bad because I expect

862
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 3: this and this and that. Yes I do expect unconditional love.

863
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 3: Yes I do expect to be treated like a queen.

864
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 3: Yes I do expect all of that.

865
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 1: I want all of it.

866
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 3: And who's to say I don't deserve it, and then

867
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 3: I can't have it. I'm not about to pick and choose. Okay,

868
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: so he can give me A B and C, but

869
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 3: he can't give me D. No, I want ABC and

870
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 3: D and I don't have to choose, because guess what,

871
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: whatever you want from me, I'm gonna make sure I

872
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: provide that for you.

873
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: Period.

874
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 3: If my man want this, it's getting done. If my

875
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 3: man won't ask, because that's the kind of woman I am.

876
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 3: But I feel like people don't reciprocate that energy. I

877
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 3: need that energy, you know what I'm saying. Because whatever

878
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 3: you want me to do as your woman, I'm gonna

879
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 3: make sure it's done. I don't care what you need,

880
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 3: what you want, I'm going to provide that to you

881
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 3: because that's how I am as a woman.

882
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: But these niggas they not trying to give you that

883
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: same energy. So that's why I don't do it.

884
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 4: But they ma, and I told them that's why I'll

885
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 4: be trying to get my mom to understand too, that

886
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 4: we be having these conversations that should be like why

887
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 4: I didn't raise you like that?

888
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 2: You're not gonna never find a good man adopting that type.

889
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 4: Of the type of mentality that you have about men,

890
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I don't think that that's true because

891
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 4: I feel like the men.

892
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 2: Meet people want different things in life.

893
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,479
Speaker 4: What you wanted in life is not what I wanted

894
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 4: in life, and I feel like it's the same thing

895
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: with you and your mom, you know what I mean.

896
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 4: Different people want to think you might want different things

897
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 4: from a man and which your mom wanted or which

898
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 4: your mom still wants, you know what I mean. And

899
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 4: it's not to say that, yeah, you didn't raise me

900
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 4: like that, but I'm my own person and I want

901
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 4: what I want you and that's what I want. I'm

902
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 4: not saying I don't still want the same things that

903
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 4: you want as far as like love and devotion and

904
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 4: a good man and all that type of stuff.

905
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 2: I want that stuff too, but I also want right

906
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: and I don't.

907
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: Want to have to choose, Like I really don't want

908
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: to have to choose. So let us know.

909
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: Are y'all parents more of the city girl type or

910
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 3: a traditional type, because.

911
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: Don't get it twisted though.

912
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: My mom is, I think, but my mom is a

913
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 3: mixture because sometimes she'd be like, no, like he ain't

914
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: got no money, he she'd be talking her shit too,

915
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 3: because let me, if I ever brought a man home

916
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: that didn't have no money, she about the clown and

917
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 3: act the fool.

918
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: So exactly, Well, no, I don't think.

919
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 4: My mom would clown and at the fool, but she

920
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 4: would just be looking because I'll say this, and I

921
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 4: think I said, people going, So my mama has always.

922
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 3: Told me me laying down with period period, so to

923
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 3: a certain thing, I guess you could.

924
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: Okay, Barbara, No, what's sick?

925
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 4: Like I said, she and like I said, one thing,

926
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 4: And it's a whole different thing to be the type

927
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 4: of woman and make a bigger want to be a

928
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 4: bit of nigga because like I said, well my dady

929
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 4: made her.

930
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,840
Speaker 2: She was do a better than her, but then she

931
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 2: made him.

932
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie like sometimes I mean,

933
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 3: you being around a nigga, he make you want to

934
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 3: step your game up, like damn, Okay, I need to

935
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 3: get on my ship as a woman.

936
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

937
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 3: So I think it's just all it all comes full circle.

938
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 3: It's somebody for everybody. But like I said, I'm not

939
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 3: settling nobody in these comments. Nobody who at me on Twitter,

940
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 3: nobody on Instagram. Y'all can call me ugly, say I'm loud,

941
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 3: I'm noxious. I ain't never gonna find a man. I

942
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck what y'all say about me. I

943
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,879
Speaker 3: know me, and I know myself, and I know I'm

944
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 3: never settling. I don't give a fuck what nobody to

945
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 3: say about Big Mama period. Okay, So now we're gonna

946
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: get into.

947
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: Dub hey, dube, oh dubb oh.

948
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So I really wanted to talk about this. I

949
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 3: know we've talked about toys in the room before, but

950
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,160
Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about especially like toys in the

951
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,439
Speaker 3: room with specifically black men.

952
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: Why are you making that face? Oh, it's about to

953
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: get nasty, y'all. Okay, So.

954
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 3: I've used toys in the bedroom before. I have, but

955
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 3: it was a long I haven't used toys in the

956
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 3: bedroom in a very very long time. But plus yeah,

957
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 3: but that to me don't really count. So I was

958
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 3: I've been actually a conversation with Kiki earlier, and I

959
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 3: was just saying, how like, it's crazy, how I feel

960
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: like a lot of times black men are intimidated by

961
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 3: toys in the bedroom.

962
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: They feel like, oh, baby, you don't need the toy.

963
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: You got this big old ham right here, like, but

964
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 1: toys are fun.

965
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 3: They made and it's like it just makes the sex. Okay,

966
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 3: let me tell you all the story. I told him

967
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 3: I wasn't gonna talk about him the podcast, but I lied.

968
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 3: So I was actually pleasantly surprised because I did not

969
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 3: know he was gonna be into stuff like that. So

970
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 3: throw Back Bay bought me a fucking vibrator and it's

971
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 3: like the Bluetooth vibrator, so it's on his phone.

972
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: Bitch, I've never done this, never had anybody buy me

973
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: a toy. I was just like, okay, you a little freaky.

974
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 3: So it was just I don't want to get into

975
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: details because that's our private life. But basically I put

976
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: the shit in and we was in front of people,

977
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 3: and the toy got play. He was just going hand

978
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 3: on that shit and it was just so much fucking fun.

979
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 3: And it's like when we had sex, it was so

980
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: good because it was just like building it up. I'm like, nigga,

981
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 3: I'm ready to go upstairs, like you need to fuck

982
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 3: the shit of me right now.

983
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, huh.

984
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 3: Yes, Like I was just like, actually, I think it

985
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 3: was more so the mind thing too, Like just the

986
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 3: fact that he knew that he was turning me on

987
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 3: without even touching me, and he knew like he was

988
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 3: in control of my body.

989
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: It was just so much and I'm just like, you

990
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 1: know what, black people need to get more into toys

991
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 1: for real, for real.

992
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 3: It was such a good experience and that sex was

993
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 3: so bomb like, bitch, listen, listen, the hurricane came early.

994
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: Okay, that's all I'm gonna say. That's all I'm a say.

995
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 2: I agree.

996
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 4: I definitely think that, not just with toys, but I

997
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 4: sometimes just think black men needs to just get more

998
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 4: bitter period in the bedroom.

999
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 2: I think I told you that I've done that before.

1000
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: Not I don't have the Bluetooth toy, but I have,

1001
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 2: like you.

1002
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 4: Know, just one of the ones where it's like it's

1003
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 4: the vibrator spefaritely separately from the remote. And I actually

1004
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 4: did that before when I went out to a restaurant

1005
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 4: with a dude. I was saying, I gage from the remote.

1006
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 4: We got to the restaurant, he didn't even know I

1007
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 4: had he already in and stuff, and then I let

1008
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 4: him control the while we was at the table.

1009
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 2: And it was it was it was definitely very fun.

1010
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 4: But me and my ex did an episode on Patreon,

1011
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 4: so y'all follow this on Patreon. Y'all probably already been

1012
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 4: seeing it if you haven't, Shameless Puget subscribed.

1013
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: But I with me and him was talking on the show,

1014
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: and he was just basically saying how he ain't never.

1015
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 4: Let nobody do nothing, so he's like ever like nothing.

1016
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 4: And I just thought that was crazy because I know

1017
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 4: I had never did anything to him, like, you know,

1018
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 4: to his little I was just shocked to find out that.

1019
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: He's never let anyone do that. In mind you this

1020
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 2: man like thirty three.

1021
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a lot of stuff.

1022
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 3: I'm just like a lot of stuff people are missing

1023
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 3: out on because they're scared how it's gonna make them look.

1024
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 3: But I feel like one thing about sex is like

1025
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 3: you're supposed to be free. You're supposed to be liberated

1026
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 3: in the bedroom. You're supposed to be doing trying fun

1027
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 3: shit Like that's how you know you like shit and

1028
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 3: you figure out that you I would have never in

1029
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 3: a million years guess that me and him would have

1030
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 3: used the toy, Like I said, I haven't used a

1031
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 3: toy in the bedroom in years because a lot of men,

1032
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 3: I feel like, especially bdb's, they kind of be like

1033
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 3: a little uptight in the bedroom, like they just you know,

1034
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 3: they be on some chill They just be on some

1035
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 3: chill shit. So I was actually pleasantly surprised when he like, Mommy,

1036
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 3: oh yeah, well no.

1037
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: It's a few. Let me not say all bdbs. Some

1038
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: of them be like on some other shit.

1039
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but for the most part, I feel like they

1040
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: just kind of like vanilla sex is not nothing extra

1041
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: in the bedroom. So I was actually pleasantly surprised. Now,

1042
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 3: I'm I'm not gonna give y'all the link to the

1043
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 3: toy until I can try to get an ad deal

1044
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 3: or a check now, but y'all can google like a

1045
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 3: sex toy that has a bluetooth on it, and I mean,

1046
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 3: I'm sure it'll come up. But but yeah, he had

1047
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 3: it on his phone, so he was like controlling on

1048
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 3: his phone and it actually works long distance, So.

1049
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: So he could be in fucking New York and I

1050
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: could be in.

1051
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 3: Texas and he can make that shit vibrate, which is

1052
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 3: fucking awesome. Yes, Oh, if he and Bally Bitch, I'm

1053
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 3: gonna be with him. Now, hold on, wait a minute, now,

1054
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 3: wait a minute, slow down, slow down. So I just

1055
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 3: think that, like I said, I use a toy for

1056
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 3: the first time in years, and I really think that

1057
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 3: people need to start using toys in the bedroom and

1058
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 3: makes it just brings the sex, like if you are

1059
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 3: having sex with somebody and it's a ten, because I

1060
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 3: feel like our sex is a ten, Like we have

1061
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 3: amazing sex that without all of that that shit brought

1062
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 3: it to like a fifteen.

1063
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: Last night. It was so fucking hold on, let's change

1064
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: the subject now, girl, because I'm about the common man,

1065
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: about the common man.

1066
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 4: I agree with her though, because I feel like I've

1067
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:11,439
Speaker 4: always and we have a lot of personal conversations off

1068
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 4: air as well, obviously, and I think that's something that

1069
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 4: we talked about before, Like I've always been into that

1070
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 4: in the bedroom, I feel like you always have to incorporate.

1071
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 2: Different things because I mean, just the normal typical. It

1072
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 2: doesn't matter how many conditions you try, it doesn't matter

1073
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 2: what you do.

1074
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: After a while it's a normal, it gets very boring.

1075
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 2: It gets boring. You have toporate other things. So I

1076
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:37,280
Speaker 2: love toys actually, and I definitely think that people should.

1077
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 3: So yes, if y'all use toys in the bedroom. Definitely

1078
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 3: let us know and let us know what toys y'all.

1079
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: Use.

1080
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 3: I'm actually interested like any people out there, yes, some

1081
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 3: new ones, Like I'm really gonna get into the toy

1082
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 3: thing with him because, like I said, I didn't know

1083
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 3: he was into that, and it was fucking amazing and

1084
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: he already got amazing dick on top of that, and

1085
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 3: he fine.

1086
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: Dream finally Dream got to beat him. All right, all right,

1087
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: I know that's right, queen. Okay, So now we're gonna.

1088
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 3: Get into the bye adu bye oh. So first of all,

1089
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 3: let me just say I'm in love with this man.

1090
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 3: I'm in love with this man. This man that I'm

1091
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 3: about to talk about.

1092
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: Damn, can I finish?

1093
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm anticipated with you.

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Speaker 1: So let me tell you this.

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00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 3: This is a real ass nigga. He made fire ass music,

1096
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 3: he got bread. He's just a real good nigga. So

1097
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 3: if anybody out there he put me down, I would

1098
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 3: appreciate it.

1099
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 1: And I'm just playing.

1100
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, Young Dolph just dropped the new project and

1101
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 3: that ship is fucking flames.

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00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: Uh, Young Dolph.

1103
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 3: Next to music that you can twerk to and your

1104
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 3: man can ride to, not many people can do that ship.

1105
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1106
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: It's either you gotta listen to your man music or

1107
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 3: you gotta listen to your music. Young Dolph, he bring

1108
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 3: that shit together. Okay, first of all, let me say this,

1109
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 3: this album has no skips none. Okay, it's a sixteen

1110
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 3: song project, sixteen song fire.

1111
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:17,439
Speaker 1: Well, some of them are.

1112
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 3: Skits or whatever, but my favorite song. I got three

1113
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 3: favorite songs on there, So my first one is to

1114
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 3: be honest. I see dollar signs and he got a

1115
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: song called R and B featuring my girl, Megan thee Stallion.

1116
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: Per usual, she came in and she fucks it up

1117
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: like she always do. Realist bitch.

1118
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 3: Ain't nobody playing with my bitch, Meg the Stallion for

1119
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 3: President twenty twenty.

1120
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, Young Dolphson. Young Dolph's new project is called

1121
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: rich Slade.

1122
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 3: Shout out to Young dof you the realist nigga in

1123
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: it Ain't nobody really than you, baby.

1124
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: I just had him.

1125
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 2: I don't even know what else to say.

1126
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 4: I love him.

1127
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm just playing.

1128
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 3: Honestly, how you feel about Drake is really how I

1129
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 3: feel about Young Dolph.

1130
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:14,439
Speaker 1: Honestly, I love him.

1131
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 4: That's crazy because like, honestly, it's really crazy to me

1132
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 4: that you like him, because he's just not my type.

1133
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: That's the only hood nigga that could ever get some

1134
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: pissy out.

1135
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 2: Of me because Lakes do not like her.

1136
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: She don't, but I think.

1137
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, I do like him, but let me not.

1138
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 3: I think he's married, so let me not talk about

1139
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 3: that married man like that. That's rude, queen, know me,

1140
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 3: know me. I'm playing relaxed Okay, bitch, gott y'all, Bapa

1141
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 3: the whip bitch goddamn.

1142
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1143
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: So well, I'm gonna call a beat lotto, beat lotto.

1144
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 2: So she just came out with her album. The album

1145
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: is cool. I like the in and out song with

1146
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 2: Period J. I love that song with her, and see girls.

1147
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: She got a song called pull Up, pull Up, It's Hard.

1148
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 4: I like that song is pull Up It's hard. And

1149
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 4: then of course honorable mention, Yeah.

1150
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: I did, we did.

1151
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 3: I did move up as my bop of the week

1152
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 3: like two weeks ago. I think, okay, okay, so hard

1153
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: like that, she's slid on that hole.

1154
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm a freak. But I can't nigga beat. I can't

1155
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: let her broke nigga ba. So yeah, shout to Molto

1156
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: album is actually hard. I fuck with Big Lotto.

1157
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you have any songs?

1158
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, the twenty one Savage song. That's my ship.

1159
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:00,439
Speaker 1: I've been riding the fun that whole.

1160
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

1161
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the question a

1162
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 3: segment of the show. Make sure if you get want

1163
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 3: your question answered on the show, you email us at

1164
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 3: ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. Y'all, please, y'all

1165
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 3: are doing good. Keep the questions like in a paragraph.

1166
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. If you want your question

1167
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 3: to answered on the show, you have to send it

1168
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 3: to this email address.

1169
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: Okay, please, So.

1170
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 2: Y'all be sending me to there?

1171
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: Are y'all send them to our DMI.

1172
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, so please just send them to Ask Poor mind CEO.

1173
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 3: You are in So it says, hey, Drea and Lex.

1174
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 3: First off, I want to say I love your podcast.

1175
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 3: I have an important question for you, lovely ladies. So

1176
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 3: I'm currently a black college senior and trying to understand

1177
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 3: my whole phase. I grew up in a white community,

1178
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 3: so I wasn't exposed to having sex and was a

1179
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 3: late bloomer. But I'm interested in getting and getting better

1180
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 3: at having sex. Without finding a boyfriend. When I lost

1181
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 3: my virginity, the sex felt great, but I wasn't able

1182
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 3: to satisfy the guy I was with. He told me

1183
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 3: I needed more practice. Unfortunately, the next guy was a

1184
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 3: little too rough and I wasn't used to it. But

1185
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 3: if I can't take dick, I feel like I can't

1186
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 3: satisfy a guy and they won't call me back. And

1187
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 3: I have my eyes set on bdb's whether they are

1188
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,240
Speaker 3: athletes are successful men. But I'm dying to feel confident

1189
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 3: in my sexual performance and in my own skin. Where

1190
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,439
Speaker 3: are some tips to getting used to rough sex without

1191
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 3: embarrassing myself out here and getting the bag? Sincerely, Sincerely,

1192
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 3: the socially awkward virgin.

1193
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: That's actually a good question.

1194
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 4: Okay, well let me say this verse of all, you

1195
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 4: should be having no sticks that you don't enjoy me

1196
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 4: first and foremost. So it's not no getting used to

1197
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 4: russ sticks like if you don't that's not what you like,

1198
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 4: then it's not what you like. And I feel like

1199
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 4: some women. It's not that he's anything.

1200
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 2: Wrong with me, but some women just can't take big

1201
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 2: d and that's fine.

1202
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 3: I don't like big dicks, and I've been fucking since

1203
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 3: I was I've been fucking for eighty years, and I

1204
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 3: do not like no big, big, big old dick.

1205
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't either.

1206
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 4: But let me say this too, because it's crazy, because

1207
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 4: I feel like, but that's something that has changed as

1208
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,320
Speaker 4: I've gotten older, because I will say I feel like

1209
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 4: when I was younger, I used to like this.

1210
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 2: And I actually just recently had a situation that I

1211
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: told you about with.

1212
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 4: A guy that I used to Yeah, a guy that

1213
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 4: I used to have six weed. I hadn't had six

1214
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 4: with him in like two years, and I just cannot even.

1215
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: You can't take that.

1216
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 2: I can't take anymore. I can't, I can't do it.

1217
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 4: So I feel like, you know what I mean, it's

1218
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 4: first of all, takes me to be enjoyable, Like you

1219
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 4: want to have him sick to somebody that you enjoy

1220
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 4: having six to.

1221
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 2: Whether he a BDB or not. You don't want to

1222
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 2: be having sex with no nigga. You don't like to say.

1223
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 2: I was in a situation where I was working with

1224
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 2: a BDB and I was not enjoyed it.

1225
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 3: So for me, my advice I have for you is

1226
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 3: you need to discover what you like, so you need

1227
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 3: to be masturbaby. You need to figure out what are

1228
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 3: your spots and what turns you on? Do you like

1229
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 3: your nipples? So you like your nipples? Peach what makes

1230
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 3: you feel good? Because when you feel good, that's when

1231
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 3: you're gonna feel more confident. So watch porn see find

1232
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 3: out what turns you on.

1233
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: Do you like when niggas hit it from the back?

1234
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: Do you like it on top?

1235
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 3: What is your favorite positions? You need to find out

1236
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 3: all of this stuff. So you need to do research

1237
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 3: on your own. And you need to research your own

1238
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 3: body first, cause if you're not comfortable with yourself and

1239
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 3: touching yourself and figuring out what you like yourself, you're

1240
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:25,959
Speaker 3: not gonna be comfortable with somebody else.

1241
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:26,839
Speaker 1: I'm dead bitch.

1242
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 3: So I will say that you need to discover your

1243
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 3: own body first and then find somebody that you're comfortable with,

1244
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 3: somebody that doesn't mind, you know, taking things slow with you.

1245
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,319
Speaker 3: Find somebody who's passionate in the bedroom and they don't

1246
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 3: mind being a teacher.

1247
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 1: I like fucking with niggas that want to teach me

1248
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: something I love. Ooh the passion.

1249
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 3: They'd be like, no, let me show you, let me,

1250
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 3: let me show you how I'm gonna do you. Okay,

1251
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 3: let me show you how we gonna do this, you know.

1252
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

1253
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 3: So find somebody that you know as not looking to

1254
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 3: be fucked. Find somebody that wants to just have some

1255
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 3: good sex with you. A lot of niggas just want

1256
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 3: to get fucked, you know what I'm saying. A lot

1257
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 3: of niggas want to bust a nut, fuck the niggas,

1258
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 3: and a lot of.

1259
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 4: Niggas is not gonna be really like that, like like

1260
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 4: like they used to be wearing, So niggas gonna be

1261
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 4: having no kind of like moskan no Nizzy. They don't

1262
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 4: care about eyo, please see, they don't care about four play.

1263
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 4: They don't be caring about none of these shees like

1264
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 4: they just be out with.

1265
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 3: Then you want to be so I would say, find

1266
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 3: somebody that you're comfortable with, that you have a good

1267
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 3: friendship with, our relationship with whatever y'all doing, and somebody

1268
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 3: that you don't feel embarrassed within the bed. I feel

1269
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 3: like when I started having great sex is because I

1270
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,720
Speaker 3: learned my body, but I also started fucking with somebody

1271
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 3: that I was super comfortable with. So when we were

1272
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 3: in the bedroom, bitch like I joke a lot during sex. Yes,

1273
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 3: I cracked jokes during because sex is fun. It's supposed

1274
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 3: to be like something we yeah, like we have our

1275
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 3: sexual moments where we're passionate, and then like maybe five

1276
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 3: minutes after we're done, we laughing and cracking up at

1277
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 3: something like. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and it's

1278
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 3: supposed to be fun, you know. So definitely, find somebody

1279
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 3: that you're comfortable with, that doesn't mind exploring with you.

1280
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:09,879
Speaker 1: Find somebody you can explore with. That's what I'll say. Okay,

1281
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: the next move.

1282
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm going to get into the next question.

1283
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 4: It says, hey, ladies, I've been seeing this woman a

1284
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:19,919
Speaker 4: couple of months now. When we first met, she told

1285
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 4: me she was in a relationship and they have been

1286
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 4: together for seven years. Despite her telling me that I

1287
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 4: still wanted her, she says she still craves women.

1288
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:30,240
Speaker 2: Sometimes, so our situation is disguised as a friendship.

1289
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 4: I told her in the beginning, I will not and

1290
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 4: do not want to be in a relationship with a woman,

1291
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 4: but sometimes I just want some pussy. The first time

1292
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 4: we hung out, we fuzzed, and many times after that.

1293
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 4: Every time I'm around her and her men. He feels

1294
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 4: awkward knowing we fucking the same woman. I don't even

1295
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 4: know if he knows about our relationships.

1296
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 2: Although she has a man, she gets jealous and in

1297
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 2: her feelings whenever I feel her I'm.

1298
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 4: Going on dates or around other people. I like what

1299
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 4: we have, but I'm still single. I talked to her

1300
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 4: about her jealousy before, but she's mad.

1301
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to end what we have. What should

1302
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 2: we do about? What should I do about this situation?

1303
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 3: So obviously she is starting to develop feelings because she's

1304
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 3: getting jealous and she's getting mad. So I feel like

1305
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 3: I say this all the time. I don't like repeating myself.

1306
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 3: So you need to have a conversation with her, lay

1307
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 3: it out exactly what you want and what you're expecting

1308
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 3: moving forward, and make her understand that, sister, you have

1309
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 3: a boyfriend. I am single. This is not gonna be

1310
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 3: anything more than sex. I enjoy hanging out with you,

1311
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 3: but the jealousy. You have a whole man that you

1312
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 3: continuously fucking. So I need to go out and have

1313
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 3: my fun and try to find whatever I want to

1314
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 3: find as well. So I feel like, have one conversation

1315
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 3: with her and if things don't change, it's only.

1316
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 1: Gonna get worse. So you're gonna have to dead that.

1317
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 2: I would have to agree, and I get it when

1318
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 2: I needed anywhere ike. I was about to actually say that,

1319
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 2: but I but yeah, it's like, let's see, Slissie, you

1320
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 2: can get that from anywhere.

1321
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 4: I mean, And if it's a crazy beach attached to it,

1322
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 4: I say stay clear of it, because I don't been

1323
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:15,840
Speaker 4: in situations where.

1324
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 2: You know I have been.

1325
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 4: I'm very vocal on the show about me and my

1326
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 4: dating room, my past dating situation where I dated women

1327
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 4: and mixed with women, and women always get emotionally a test.

1328
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 4: She's literally no way to continuously fuck on a woman, and.

1329
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 1: No way you can suck on anybody.

1330
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 4: We talk about women more specifically right now, I feel

1331
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 4: like it's no way around that, you know what I mean.

1332
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 2: Women are emotional creatures.

1333
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 4: And even if you think it's gonna be a casual encounter,

1334
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 4: if you're fucking a beach like, she's gonna start having feelings.

1335
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 4: And I and just being somebody who has been in

1336
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 4: situations with women, I see said if she acting crazy

1337
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 4: and she can't be understanding about the fact that you're

1338
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 4: single and she's in a whole relationship, so you don't

1339
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 4: owe her anything.

1340
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 2: Because she's in a relationship. You need to and find

1341
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 2: you another beach to just get some pussy for him,

1342
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 2: because he's plenty of them.

1343
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 3: When I like that advice, cause Drea has munched in

1344
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 3: the garden before.

1345
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: Okay, let's go to the next question. Hey, y'all, my

1346
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: name is Sam. You guys are great.

1347
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 3: I know how y'all feel about those drawing out dissertation

1348
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 3: you guys get on the regular, so I'm just gonna

1349
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 3: get right to it. An X of mine has recently

1350
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 3: re entered my life. The catch is he's in a

1351
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 3: whole relationship. He stays in my dims talking about how

1352
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 3: I snatched his soul, on how he can't get me

1353
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 3: out of his head, amongst other things. I know all

1354
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 3: he wants is to pussy, which is cool because he

1355
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 3: got some bomb ass dick and we have explosive sexual chemistry. Also,

1356
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 3: a bitch is going through a drop right now, so

1357
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 3: a good old nut would be love. But he got

1358
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 3: a girl. I'm not trying to break up a happy home.

1359
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 3: Help love you, guys. I got the angel saying this,

1360
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: and I got the devil saying this, go ahead, Drean,

1361
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you.

1362
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: It be like that with me too.

1363
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 2: But y'all know me, this is what I'm gonna always say.

1364
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: If it is in a relationship, that's cool, whatever, But

1365
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 2: what am I gonna be getting out of this?

1366
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 4: Because you gotta be eached now. So it's not like

1367
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 4: you single and I'm single, and I understand it. Like

1368
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 4: maybe sometimes a lot of y'all there writing into us

1369
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 4: be like, oh, d's harrd to come by, so you

1370
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 4: don't be wanting to.

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01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 2: Give it up easily. I don't feel that way.

1372
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 4: I feel like good you can come by you, and

1373
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 4: you can come by a niggas whos gonna do some

1374
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 4: shit for you and some good d so a nigga

1375
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 4: who got a beach.

1376
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I.

1377
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 4: Just don't feel like you should be fucking on a

1378
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 4: nigga that has a girlfriend now that you used to

1379
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 4: be fucking with, unless he's about to make it a

1380
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 4: beneficial situation for you.

1381
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 2: Outside of d y'all know my.

1382
01:01:56,680 --> 01:02:00,560
Speaker 1: Favorite saying, you got to pay to play, he just

1383
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: for show that bang bang to look your way.

1384
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 3: I sat at the live show and cottails you got

1385
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: to pay to play just for shot it bang bang

1386
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 3: the look your way. These niggas don't deserve no free pussy.

1387
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 3: He getting pussy from his bitch. He gonna get pussy.

1388
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: From you, girl. He gotta come with something.

1389
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 3: He gotta come with something beneficial, like you are a

1390
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:27,919
Speaker 3: poor girl, your pussy is too good.

1391
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: You a bad bitch. I already know you.

1392
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 3: We ain't going out sass's. We're not giving these pussy

1393
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 3: to niggas just to give it to him. I understand

1394
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 3: that you're horny. I have my moments too, but trust him.

1395
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 3: Believe if a nigga got a situation but he want

1396
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 3: to fuck with me, oh baby, it's coming with some stipulations.

1397
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: Bitch, you need to come with some period.

1398
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 4: I'm just saying like, and that's just how I feel

1399
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 4: about it, that I really don't be liking to miss

1400
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 4: with dudes who be in situations period.

1401
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 2: But it's like, if I am going, he.

1402
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: Gotta be something.

1403
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 2: He gonna be coming. Yeah, he gonna be coming. Weity,

1404
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 2: because why would I just be?

1405
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 3: And not only that he's your ex for a reason.

1406
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 3: Y'all aren't together anymore for a reason, so you're not

1407
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 3: about you don't even want to open them can of

1408
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 3: worms no more, for no reason. You're gonna open a

1409
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 3: can of worms just for some dick, if anything, and

1410
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 3: if he not coming with nothing, Sinis, just gonna find

1411
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 3: you some new dick.

1412
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 2: Because then a fine one thing about the Lord.

1413
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 4: Yes, m M, I think Lex, I think Lex be

1414
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 4: strategically planning how we're gonna We're gonna go first to

1415
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 4: read the questions always.

1416
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: It ain't that long. Go ahead, So okay, the.

1417
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 2: Next question, says missus officer.

1418
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 4: Hey, Lex, Andrea side note, thank y'all for being so responsive,

1419
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 4: greatly appreciated.

1420
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 2: Queen's Drea had me by week as fuck with DT

1421
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 2: and London on the track, on LIX and.

1422
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 1: London on the track.

1423
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 4: I just started as a pharmacy tic, and this annoying

1424
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 4: ass nigga hits on a girl that's twenty years old,

1425
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 4: He said, an alarming statement, how he watched her in

1426
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 4: her card during her fifteen minutie break.

1427
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 2: Of course I told her not to be missy, but

1428
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 2: as a precaution the park somewhere else. I guess he

1429
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 2: accidentally on purpose heard me tell her, because.

1430
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 4: I damn sure didn't whisper the shit he then started

1431
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 4: to talk to her crazy, saying statements like I could

1432
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 4: bully you if I feel like it. So I jumped

1433
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 4: in telling him to stop.

1434
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 2: When I got home, I was still bothered and did

1435
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 2: a background check on his ass.

1436
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 4: My dad works for NSA, so I learned a couple

1437
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 4: of tricks and found out this nigga is thirty four years.

1438
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 2: Old even though he acts twelve.

1439
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 4: My question is should I report him to HR if

1440
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 4: he keeps up this behavior he's jamaking. It makes all

1441
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 4: the females feel very uncomfortable saying disparaging and mean spirited remarks.

1442
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 4: That is, of course, after I subliminately drag his ass

1443
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 4: for eight hours during.

1444
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 2: My shift tomorrow. Play with yourself, not me.

1445
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna touch some of the findings on his

1446
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 4: back so you could see you looking as I tried

1447
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 4: to make it short as possible, y'all please, And so she.

1448
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 2: Attached his she attached his photos, and she attached.

1449
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 4: I guess his Facebook information, and then she also posted

1450
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 4: sent us a video. This is like an hour long,

1451
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 4: so obviously we don't have time to watch it right now.

1452
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 3: I have worked in hostile environments with men before, and

1453
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 3: you know what it's crazy that you actually sent this

1454
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 3: letter in because I was watching what's that show, uh,

1455
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 3: Fatal Attraction last night and this woman kind of had

1456
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 3: the same no the TV show on TV one, So

1457
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 3: and this woman was kind of having the same issue

1458
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 3: with this man and he was just being really aggressive

1459
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 3: and she did a background research and she just found

1460
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 3: some disturbing.

1461
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: Stuff on them. For me, especially in this climate, it's

1462
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: better safe than sorry.

1463
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 3: If he's making you feel uncomfortable and he's making other

1464
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 3: women feel uncomfortable, the best thing you can do is

1465
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 3: start a paper trail. So if you need, if you

1466
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 3: feel like you need to report him to HR, do

1467
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 3: that because the worst thing comes to worst and something happens,

1468
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 3: people will be like, well, why didn't she report it?

1469
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 3: Why she didn't say anything? Nobody knew anything. So my

1470
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 3: thing is, if anybody is bothering me, I'm always reporting

1471
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 3: something because y'all gonna know, Hey, Lex said this on

1472
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:28,920
Speaker 3: this date.

1473
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: Lex reported this on this date. You know what I'm saying.

1474
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 3: So I feel like, if you feel like you're at

1475
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 3: that point to where you need to report it to HR,

1476
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,479
Speaker 3: because your safety comes first, and if you don't feel

1477
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 3: like you're safe, you feel like you're coworker. She's only

1478
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 3: twenty and he's watching her for fifteen minutes. That's not normal.

1479
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: That's very And men. Men are creatures and they're scary. Okay,

1480
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 1: men do some freaky ass shit. Seriously.

1481
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 3: Men are freaking scary, Like seriously, they're horny, they're sexual dbus,

1482
01:06:58,640 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 3: and we need.

1483
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: To protect ourselves.

1484
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 3: I'm so serious, like I'd have been in some situations

1485
01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 3: with some men and I'm just like, what the actual

1486
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:10,439
Speaker 3: fucking fuck you know what I'm saying. So I feel

1487
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 3: like you definitely need to report it to HR if

1488
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,439
Speaker 3: you feel like it's getting to that point to where

1489
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:16,919
Speaker 3: it's he's only gonna if he's telling people I don't

1490
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 3: mind bullying you and he's watching people for fifteen minutes,

1491
01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 3: you know, it's stages. People gonna keep trying and keep

1492
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 3: trying and keep trying till they do something, and it's

1493
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 3: gonna get worse and worse. So yes, definitely report him

1494
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:33,439
Speaker 3: because we want to keep all the poor girls safe.

1495
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, Amans.

1496
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: I am too, because you know, I like some hot

1497
01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: tea we look Okay.

1498
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 3: So I was supposed to say this at the beginning

1499
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 3: of the episode, but guys, uh, we are actually looking

1500
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 3: for a intern, so if you would like to intern

1501
01:07:56,000 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 3: for Poor Minds, please send us your resume to Drea

1502
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 3: and Lex Show at gmail dot com. We are looking

1503
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 3: for an intern like asap. We need one really really

1504
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 3: really soon. So if anybody would like to intern with

1505
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 3: Poor Minds, it's really really fun. We prefer somebody who's

1506
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 3: in Atlanta. It's fun, we have a good time, so

1507
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 3: we prefer somebody.

1508
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:17,879
Speaker 1: Who's in Atlanta.

1509
01:08:17,920 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 3: So if anybody's in Atlanta and looking for an internship,

1510
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:23,200
Speaker 3: you know, we can give you college credits and all

1511
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 3: that shit we got, y'all. We're gonna hook y'all up,

1512
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:29,400
Speaker 3: So make sure it's a real professional over here, hun,

1513
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 3: So make sure y'all email us at Drea and Lek

1514
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 3: Show at gmail dot com.

1515
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: Uh, do you have anything else you want to ask?

1516
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 2: Sister girl, Just to make sure that y'all subscribe to

1517
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:42,440
Speaker 2: the patre.

1518
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 4: We having some hot please. And we're really not saying

1519
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 4: this just because it's place, but the Patreon is really

1520
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 4: lead y'all for real, Like we need dropping hot tea

1521
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 4: on there. Like I said, I just drop part one

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Speaker 4: of the episode I did with my eggs. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: drop part two next week because Le's gonna drop something

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Speaker 4: this week. She already has an episode up with her

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Speaker 4: and I'm actually gonna record an episode while I'm still

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Speaker 4: in Houston with my best friend Jason.

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Speaker 2: And we're gonna do a Patreon as well. So, like

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Speaker 2: we just got to see some of y'all about the Star.

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Speaker 3: Door, Yes, I'm gonna be dropping. I'm gonna start dropping that.

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Speaker 3: Probably I'm gonna drop one sometime this week. But but yeah,

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Speaker 3: we're about to do p Valley reviews. I did an

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Speaker 3: episode on my my plastic surgery. I'm actually about to

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Speaker 3: get some ship done again. I did an episode about

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Speaker 3: my depression. We don't have just a lot of good episodes,

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Speaker 3: so it's a lot of good stuff in there. So

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Speaker 3: make sure y'all get subscribed to our Patreon as always.

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Speaker 3: Send your questions to ask poor Mines at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: And I think that's it.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, so y'all, this is our first virtual

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Speaker 3: uh poor Mines episode.

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Speaker 1: I really liked his site, so yeah, we're.

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Speaker 3: Probably gonna use this a little more often, just in

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Speaker 3: case we gotta go on a trip with our bdb's

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Speaker 3: and we can't make it back home.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and now I got me a mic.

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Speaker 2: Then I see from me because it's.

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Speaker 1: I know they are too big.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank y'all so much for tuning in, and we'll

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Speaker 3: see y'all next week. And for the Patreon members, I'll

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Speaker 3: see y'all Friday, By y'all, by y'all,