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Speaker 1: All right, my love Hello is La La kent Aka.

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Speaker 1: Send it to Darryl and I have my best friend here,

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Speaker 1: Katie Maloney.

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Speaker 2: Hi, wait, what is that truck? Is that all I saw?

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Speaker 2: I saw, irscrim is that.

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Speaker 1: That's like a real truck rolling around. The merched team

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Speaker 1: was like, what do you feel? How do you feel

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Speaker 1: about this? And I was like, that sounds amazing.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love it.

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Speaker 1: And I love that it was the truck because it

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Speaker 1: just goes so perfectly with the fact that it's like

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Speaker 1: a meme. And to see this like little hot rod

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Speaker 1: truck rolling around Los Angeles, it's so funny. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: it's zooming around today.

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Speaker 4: So today we're recording this on Monday, so it won't

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Speaker 4: be zooming around on Wednesday when this comes out. But

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Speaker 4: I'm hoping some of you see it.

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Speaker 2: It should also be like an ad for like legal

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Speaker 2: counsel if you need you need a lawyer called out,

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Speaker 2: just have like Daryl's face on there, like with like

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Speaker 2: two thumbs up.

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Speaker 1: I think Darryl is like, what have you done to me?

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Speaker 1: He seemed hyped about it, though I did ask him.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I said, Darryl, this is really hitting

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Speaker 1: and I didn't realize, like, can I please make merch

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Speaker 1: and he said, as long as you send me one

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Speaker 1: and they put it in an order for like sex.

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Speaker 3: Oh amazing.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: No, he like he's like a lawyer celebrity on like

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Speaker 2: a website, a lawyer website.

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Speaker 1: I know. I saw it was really cute, cute face.

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Speaker 1: Darryl's a savage though, right, I love him. Yes, we're

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Speaker 1: recording today, but this will air on Wednesday. It's my

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Speaker 1: baby second birthday. Yes, I cannot believe she's already two.

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Speaker 1: It's very strange to me because I go from like

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Speaker 1: acting a damn fool on vander Pump Rules to acting

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Speaker 1: a damn fool on social media to put the phone away,

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Speaker 1: and I am like a different human being, like I

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Speaker 1: have to raise a person. And some people would say like, er,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but I feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: doing an okay job. You are you amazing, thanks babe,

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Speaker 1: And you came to her birthday party.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was wild.

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Speaker 2: There's like live music, there was cake.

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Speaker 1: There was Pan Express. Yeah, Panic Express.

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Speaker 3: Was hitting different.

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Speaker 5: Fucked up the Pan Express all of us, Oh, we

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Speaker 5: all fucked it up. Yes, it was good and the

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Speaker 5: beat Buds, by the way, we're the band. I think

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Speaker 5: they're all over the US. They've got like multiple groups,

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Speaker 5: but they're so good.

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Speaker 1: They're so good. I feel like I was in a nightclub.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and might have them for my next party. They

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Speaker 2: bring like instruments is very like you know. Crowd involvement

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Speaker 2: was gradual, but like as I was talking to the

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Speaker 2: other parents, I was like, is it loud in here?

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Speaker 1: Should we turn it down?

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Speaker 3: It was super loud.

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Speaker 1: Did you see Jenna so Jenna who used to be

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Speaker 1: a producer on our show, her son gets so buck

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Speaker 1: wild all that stuff. He no.

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Speaker 2: I saw him afterwards. He was beat red, just sweating.

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Speaker 2: I was like, did he just run a marathon? Like dang,

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Speaker 2: he goes hard.

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Speaker 3: He goes hard at the birthdays.

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Speaker 1: He goes real hard at the birthdays. I have to

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Speaker 1: be honest. The biggest reason why I got live music

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a hit at Hartford's.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so obviously you and I know the drill, Katie.

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Speaker 1: We can't discuss certain things, but I did ask the

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Speaker 1: Graham some questions.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we don't have to.

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Speaker 1: Answer them all, but I do want to ask you,

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Speaker 1: what is your prep like for reunion Day.

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Speaker 2: On the actual day of leading up.

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Speaker 1: To like, let's just say the week, because it does

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Speaker 1: what is the week like? And then the actual day?

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Speaker 1: How do you get amped up? Even like aesthetically how

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Speaker 3: You would think I do more? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I well, this year, I'm using a stylist. This past year,

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Speaker 2: I've never actually even used a stylist, but I am

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Speaker 3: Who's across the hall.

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Speaker 2: Yeah this year, but I used her for Bravo con

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Speaker 2: And then it's like, yeah, get a little spray tan

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Speaker 3: Don't know, try to like.

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Speaker 2: Listen. You can only do so much with everything else.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, maybe maybe do some teeth whitening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I do all this thing pray that the.

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Speaker 2: Skin stays good, drink lots of water. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: like as far as like the mind, getting the mind right,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I try not to get into like

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Speaker 2: wits about myself and be like, Okay, you know what

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Speaker 2: you want to say, you know how you feel, say

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Speaker 2: what you mean, mean what you say, speak from your heart,

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Speaker 2: don't betray yourself.

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Speaker 3: Oh, stand your ground like that's that's just kind of yourself. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Just but the thing is a lot of that goes

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Speaker 2: and you're kind of in the moment.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, and you can't control what other people say.

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Speaker 1: And I noticed that in scenes and even at reunions.

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Speaker 1: Raquel literally I think she like writes down what she's

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Speaker 1: makes sense. It's just because she's not thinking about what

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Speaker 1: the rebuttal.

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Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, so oh.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of people prepare in a lot

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Speaker 2: of ways. You know, they like they're they're like in

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Speaker 2: their comebacks or what they want to bring up and

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Speaker 2: It's like to me, that just seems so like inauthentic,

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Speaker 3: I try not to.

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Speaker 2: It's just like I lived it already. We know I

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Speaker 2: know what's coming. So I'd rather just sort of react

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Speaker 2: and not be in my head and not be too

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Speaker 2: prepared about things.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I wing everything because if I if I prep, it

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Speaker 3: You can't prep.

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Speaker 1: No, do you know?

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Speaker 4: Will you know going into the reunion, how many parts

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Speaker 4: if it's multi parts they plan on it being or no.

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Speaker 2: No, that's the fun of it because Andy will Is

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Speaker 2: be like he'll do his sort of like wildlnes of

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Speaker 2: like welcome back or join us for part two, and

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Speaker 2: then if he says part three, then we're all.

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Speaker 1: Like ooh, We're all like, oh my gosh, I can

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Speaker 1: pay my rent and do some other stuff. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We find out literally that day, the day of the reunion,

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Speaker 2: while he's while he's delivering his sort of wild lines

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Speaker 1: This is the first year that we are going to

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Speaker 1: have a lot of episodes that we're going to have

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Speaker 1: the biggest thing is what people say behind your back, right, Yes,

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Speaker 1: we lived it, but I don't know what people said

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Speaker 1: in their confessionals. I don't know what people said when

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Speaker 1: they filmed without me. So we have to see all

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Speaker 1: the episodes before we go into the reunion. The reunion

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Speaker 1: has not been moved. We're only on episode six.

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Speaker 2: And it's next week, so we're gonna have like eight episodes,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, to cram in a week.

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Speaker 1: And I told them when are we getting these because

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Speaker 1: be so chill. I told Jess, I don't want anything

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Speaker 1: I just want I may do like a little sound meditation,

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Speaker 1: zen myself out. Do you think Riquel's coming to the reunion.

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Speaker 2: I think so. I mean, listen, it's in the contract.

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Speaker 2: If you want, that's sort of like the button on things.

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Speaker 1: Like if you miss it, you're done.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, if you miss it, you're done.

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Speaker 2: But I think it doesn't bode well.

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Speaker 3: No, does not like the.

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Speaker 1: And No, but it was gangster because as the reunion

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I.

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Speaker 2: Started strong, but then just like as like the medicine

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Speaker 1: Should we plan a day to watch the episodes together?

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Speaker 1: I think I need you for like emotional and mental support.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I need something. I've have to sit there and

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Speaker 2: watch alone. I will like be spiraling because this is

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Speaker 2: the first season that I can remember that I've had

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Speaker 2: a hard time watching it back because normally.

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Speaker 3: Because people like is it harder to like watch it.

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Speaker 2: Back or I'm like no, because I've already lived it,

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Speaker 2: Like I do know what to expect, right, Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: even what people say behind my back, I know, I

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Speaker 2: know the drill. I do it, so I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't really take it to heart because it's like I

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Speaker 2: into it. I know when I go to my interviews

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Speaker 2: and I'm sitting in the chair that like that's just

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Speaker 2: like part for the course. We have to be like

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Speaker 2: a little snarky, you know, that is what it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't really take it too seriously. But this year,

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Speaker 2: there was so much happening actually like throughout the actual seat,

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Speaker 2: not just in our interview byes that I was really

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Speaker 2: surprised by, like I and it was hurtful and very disrespectful.

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Speaker 3: I thought so like that.

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Speaker 2: It's been hard for me so and I just know

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Speaker 2: that there's so much more to come and it doesn't

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Speaker 2: get much better so much Jesus, Like I'm gonna need

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna need.

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Speaker 1: Some emotional support. I got your back. I'll be your

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Speaker 4: Think it's interesting though, because you guys have a lot

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Speaker 4: of episodes, like you were saying, Laala to watch before

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Speaker 4: You know, it makes me think of I just thought

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Speaker 1: All help broke Loue. Yes it did.

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Speaker 2: So I mean I'm like, so kind of not much

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Speaker 1: Katie stays even killed. Not many surprises with Katie. What

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Speaker 2: First of all, my mom was the MVP of the episode,

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Speaker 2: Make this like a girl squad of like us having

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Speaker 1: Right, I mean, even Christina Kelly and I were like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah they were, And I was just like, I just

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Speaker 1: See if I were young, yeah, i'd be like a

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Speaker 2: This is why, this is why I can confidently say

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Speaker 1: Like he deserves absolutely.

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Speaker 1: That's what is so crazy to me is that when

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Speaker 1: This was gonna be the storyline. No matter what I think,

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Speaker 2: I think this, okay, this season is gonna be wild

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Speaker 2: But watching it now is gonna just be a treat,

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Speaker 2: And the just the constant blame game, I you know,

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Speaker 2: Like it's just like, how how the hell am I

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Speaker 2: So how the hell I want to know?

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Speaker 2: I've like, I'm so emotionally entitled and it's like ridiculous

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Speaker 1: But I feel like when you're well, he's never gonna

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Speaker 1: I know, but he will never understand that because he's

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean no, but who wants but who wants

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Speaker 1: I just but Katie, not many women are strong enough

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Speaker 2: feel like I had a choice.

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00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 1: Like wh I say that to people when they say

443
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:06,359
Speaker 1: you had a choice?

444
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,919
Speaker 3: No, you know, like you wanted this. No I didn't.

445
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 2: I didn't want this, but I recognized that I was

446
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 2: rotting on the inside, and I wanted to end that rot.

447
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 2: I still was very much like still very much loved

448
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 2: him and wanted to be with him and wanted that

449
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 2: life with him, but like, it wasn't gonna happen. So

450
00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: I had to be real with myself. The choice was

451
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: to get real honest with myself, and that's what I chose.

452
00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 3: You're right.

453
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: There were a lot of things where it was like, Okay,

454
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 1: you fucked up again, Okay you're not coming home and

455
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,919
Speaker 1: you're picking stand of all. Yes, you're absolutely right, but

456
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 1: I do admire your strength. That's something horrific. Didn't have

457
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 1: to happen for you to get that strength.

458
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 3: Yeah.

459
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, let's just be honest.

460
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 4: People stay in those That's a lot of marriages, Unfortunately,

461
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 4: it's people just settling because, like you said, it's comfortable

462
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 4: and it's you can just.

463
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: Because it's it's you have to turn everything on its head,

464
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 2: and you know, then all of a sudden, it's like

465
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: I'm moving out on my own and then I'm unraveling

466
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 2: my life from this person I've been with so long.

467
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 2: I'm selling my house and like this everything that I

468
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: thought I knew was just done and it's going to

469
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 2: be different now. And it's just like unpacking that sod.

470
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 2: And that's why, you know, I've was struggling a lot

471
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 2: when you see in the like this, you know, these

472
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,360
Speaker 2: episodes that you're watching of like trying to navigate this

473
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:26,120
Speaker 2: friendship friends space with Tom is so up and down

474
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: and so difficult. And that's why just being so fresh

475
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 2: and new, Like we just moved out of our house

476
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 2: like a month prior to this, so it's like it

477
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,439
Speaker 2: is still fresh, right, and I don't care that it

478
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 2: was my choice and I shouldn't. I'm not dictating anything

479
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 2: as life. Like, you know, we're trying to figure out

480
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,719
Speaker 2: how to be friends. We're trying to film this show together.

481
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: We still have all the same like best friends, So

482
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 2: let's not complicate it even further by, you know, hooking

483
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 2: up with somebody that's also like right here in front

484
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: of us.

485
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 1: And I know that.

486
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, well, who would you hook up with, Katie?

487
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 2: There aren't any options. I'm just well, yeah, you're right,

488
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: but who knows. Someone could have stepped into the show

489
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 2: or stepped into this quad.

490
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people at the restaurants that are

491
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: like hitten different that you could have hooked right.

492
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 2: Like, just because you don't know exactly who the like,

493
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 2: there's people, there's people around and that's who I'm speaking about.

494
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 2: But yeah, so it's just like, let's not make it toxic.

495
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 2: And it's like, just because people have done this in

496
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: the past for so many years, well, we're not twenty

497
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: six anymore, thank you, And like Tom and I was like,

498
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: we're not. He wasn't just some dude I dated. We

499
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: were married and together for a really long time. And

500
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 2: also like when people were doing that past, that wasn't

501
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 2: fun for anyone. It was very awkward. It was very toxic,

502
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 2: and Tom and I didn't want that for us, you know,

503
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: we wanted to.

504
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:41,439
Speaker 3: I don't know.

505
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 2: Oh, I thought we did honor what we had and

506
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 2: tried to, you know, lay some foundation for a friendship.

507
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 2: So that's what this is about. He understood, like, this

508
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: is what I need to be comfortable. Otherwise it's gonna

509
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: make our friendship very hard and I don't know if I'll.

510
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 3: Be able to do it. So that's what it is.

511
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 2: It's not me trying to control him, just saying like

512
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: I won't. I don't know how we will be able

513
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 2: to maintain friendship if you were to start doing that,

514
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 2: because that's how I'll feel about it.

515
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,360
Speaker 1: Well, it's cool he wants healthy boundaries.

516
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

517
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: I'm just saying it's not like he didn't have like

518
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: the option was still there for him. It's not like,

519
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 2: you know, like, yeah, I mean, and yeah, I was

520
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,959
Speaker 2: doing my own thing, but literally with people that no

521
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 2: one knew and didn't see it and wasn't bringing it

522
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 2: to his door, and he was welcome to do the same.

523
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm really curious to see how people will react to

524
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: tonight's episode, because I feel like tonight's episode is what

525
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: really launches us into like the wild ride. You know, yeah,

526
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:47,439
Speaker 1: it's really funny, but also I'm just very excited tonight.

527
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: It's Vegas. I mean, I know there's like a rundown.

528
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 3: Have a suit.

529
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: We're now in have a suit. We go to have

530
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: a suit, Lake have a suit.

531
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, Arianna has left, and so now it's Katie La

532
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 4: La Christina Raquel.

533
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 1: That's it four of us. Oh boy, I know I

534
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 1: may have to have you back on next week. How

535
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 1: did you feel about the Raquel and all of our

536
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 1: stuff last week's episode? Can we just talk about what

537
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 1: Disco Pussy was actually, like.

538
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,199
Speaker 2: Oh my god, they were like zombies there, like just

539
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 2: people on the dance floor. They were just like like

540
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,159
Speaker 2: they look like they're just like half dead. Honestly, No,

541
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: literally disco Pussy them making out on the dance floor.

542
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: It wasn't like them making out with a bunch of

543
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: people who were like dancing normal and canoodling, and it

544
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, Rihanna's Diamonds is playing in

545
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 1: the background. No, it was music that you cannot dance to,

546
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 1: just like random sal like random beats, people who came

547
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: by themselves and brought their own lights, and they were

548
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,239
Speaker 1: so fucked up on whatever they were on that they

549
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: were literally like zombies banging their heads and glow sticks

550
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: like really close to their eyes. It was not a

551
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: romantic wow situation, but I love the way they made

552
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,360
Speaker 1: it look. No, they made it look interesting.

553
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 4: Why did you go there?

554
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: Okay, out of all the places, A lot of people

555
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: want to know why we went to Disco Pussy and

556
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: why we chose Havasu, And I'm going to tell you

557
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: why we chose these two places because I felt that

558
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: Katie was getting out of something she was very comfortable with.

559
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: So I'm like, what can we do where it is

560
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: so far out of our fucking norm and out of

561
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: our comfort zone? That were kind of like a fish

562
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: out of water. And it was that.

563
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 4: Did you see because I saw you talking to you

564
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 4: and Christina were talking to a couple guys.

565
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: Were you interested in them or were you just like

566
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: it's fun?

567
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: We had seen them outside and I think they were like, oh,

568
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: where there's where are those girls going in this place?

569
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 2: Because they were very much like what is this place?

570
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 5: They were?

571
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 2: I don't I think they were fish out of water too.

572
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: But they were but I think they wanted they were curious,

573
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: so but.

574
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, there they were very sweet. They seemed sweet.

575
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: Is that your type? Do you have a type? No,

576
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 1: he doesn't have a type at all. No, it is.

577
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 2: Like it's random. It's just like if I see and

578
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: I like, then.

579
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: I like, okay, yeah, we've talked about, like dude she's

580
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: hooked up with, and she'll show me and I'm like, wow,

581
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: this one looks very different from the last one. In

582
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: the last one, those two look very different too, And wow,

583
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: we really don't have a type here.

584
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,199
Speaker 4: No, No, but there's not like something specific like a

585
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 4: guy in a band.

586
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: Does that like peak your interests?

587
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 3: For sure?

588
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: Okay?

589
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 2: But also a guy that's I don't know, throwing a football,

590
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: throwing a football, yeah, yeah, okay, or a.

591
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 1: Golf club, all of them playing a band. Joe doesn't fucking.

592
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: Matter selling insurance just like totally yeah.

593
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: Does not insurance man. No, And it's a big he

594
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: had big shoes eyes too. You better get a girl.

595
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't like truly Okay, I don't know. It's

596
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 2: like listen if I don't know, if you make me

597
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: feel kind of some kind of way, then you can look,

598
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 2: I don't.

599
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: Know when the cookie calls. You just answered, right, it's

600
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: just what you do. By the way, can I back

601
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: myself up on the scene where I'm at Raquel's apartment

602
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we don't have the same type, that dude,

603
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: absolutely hysterical. Never, I do not recall ever making that

604
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: comment about Schwortz. Literally don't recall it even the smallest

605
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 1: I remember, but I don't think you would.

606
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 2: You were like seriously wanting to. I think it was

607
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: mostly it was mostly to get at me like that

608
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: you truly wanted to.

609
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: It was me being a drunk and see you next

610
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: to shorts was definitely not your type. You don't say,

611
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: I know.

612
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: But but about Raquel, because I remember, like, yeah, at

613
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 2: dinner you you mentioned like all of us were.

614
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, yes, but can I tell you Raquel

615
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: and I drunk La, La and Raquel may have the

616
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: same type. Sober Lala and Raquel do not have the

617
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,719
Speaker 1: same I do not have the same type. How I

618
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: ever slept with James Kennedy, I will never fucking know,

619
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: and I don't think it ever would have happened had

620
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: I not been intoxicated. Yeah, at the beginning, I really

621
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: don't comfortability. Drinks and comfortability. I've always said that combination,

622
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna be sitting on someone's face. Yeah, sure will be.

623
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: So how wait did you guys?

624
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 4: Were you guys all pushing like you were like this

625
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 4: is Laala and Oliver have to get together?

626
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 2: And then she said listen, I know she wanted to

627
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 2: give me out of my comfort zone and then was

628
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 2: about like Katie divorce whatever. But I also was like law,

629
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: like you're you're finally taking a trip as a girl ship,

630
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 2: like you need to make out someone too. So when

631
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 2: she was like mentioned all of her like, I got

632
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: really excited for her. I would I didn't notice because

633
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: I was unaware of like the point where she tapped

634
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: out of it, because like I noticed, Raquel was like

635
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: parked right in between them.

636
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: I was like, what is she doing?

637
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 2: That was strength, but what is she doing? Like Lala

638
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 2: like finally had some like interest in a guy, like

639
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 2: I wanted her to like have this moment as well.

640
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 3: But I didn't notice.

641
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: That there was a point where Laake was like I'm

642
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 2: not I'm out of this And when was that point?

643
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: Well, so Oliver we started talking. He said he was separated,

644
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: and then he said he was. They were working on

645
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: their footing with co parenting. So I said, oh my god,

646
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: like I'm in a custody battle right now. It's very intense.

647
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: Now keep in mind when he said separated, that for

648
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: me is a trigger and I want to say a

649
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: red flag, but I was like, there's no way, Like,

650
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: it may be a trigger for me, but it's not

651
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: really a red flag in this situation because we have

652
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: a camera crew here. Who would lie about being separated

653
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: on a show that's going to be televised nationwide. You wouldn't. Okay,

654
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: So Raquel's parked in front of us. We go to

655
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: the bar. She's like, you know, I'm kind of into

656
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 1: him too. And honestly, at that point, just with the

657
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: separated comment, and I just I wasn't getting the I

658
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: have to let you smash. It's more was like, I'm

659
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: enjoying this conversation, but like, I ain't popping pussy for you, right,

660
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: I don't need to make out with you. It just

661
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: wasn't That wasn't my vibe. So when she said she

662
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: wanted that, I was like, you should go for it.

663
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: That's why I tell her, I think you're overthinking this,

664
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: just go in for the kill. I have no intention

665
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: of doing anything like someone should.

666
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 3: And you genuinely appure th way.

667
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: It didn't seem like you were like at all miffed

668
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: by it or like put off, like or jealous or

669
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,959
Speaker 2: anything like. I could sense that you were just like,

670
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling this anymore.

671
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: No, I was, by the way, but I didn't see

672
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: that trying to smash. No, you were talking to that

673
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: cute Yeah. If I was trying to smash I promise you,

674
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: I would have said, back the fuck off. Oh she

675
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: she wouldn't.

676
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: It wouldn't even gotten to that point because you would

677
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 2: have punted her out of.

678
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: The no, the seat if it was going that direction,

679
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have even needed to tell her to back off,

680
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: because my energy would have let him know we're doing this. Yeah,

681
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: by the end of that, when Wala turns that shit,

682
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna see nobody else.

683
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 4: Did you look over Katie and see them making out?

684
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: Were you like, what the fuck are you? No?

685
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: I didn't like again, I was. I was very cooless

686
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 2: like I was. I was kind of into my own thing.

687
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: Right, we were all into our own thing. We had

688
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: no freaking clue.

689
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: Also, Christina Kelly had to like basically force me to

690
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 2: go talk to those guys. I was very like shy,

691
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 2: which I'm also like not like I normally like very

692
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: I have no problem going up.

693
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: It was the atmosphere.

694
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 2: It was the atmosphere was like not it And also

695
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: like I think I just gotched it, like kind of

696
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 2: I've never been single on the show, and so that

697
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 2: element of like doing like you know, talking to guys

698
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 2: with like cameras, I don't know.

699
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 3: I was just like this, it's.

700
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: So much pressure. It's a lot of pressure.

701
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: Ah.

702
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that gives me anxiety.

703
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 4: By the way, Christina seems like a surprise, not surprisingly,

704
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 4: but a great wing woman.

705
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, she definitely.

706
00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 4: Seems like it.

707
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: I was like, is everything she like goes up? She talks.

708
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: She was like like triple virgo sign, got a clear head,

709
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: grounded fun. Yeah, she's a good one. No one hangs

710
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: like Katie Maloney, I'll tell you what you're having fun.

711
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: You're single. Yeah, you said, there's there's a guy sitting

712
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: at this table, but he seems to be leaving. He

713
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: looks like you know if.

714
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: You yeah, no, They're like, we have a table available,

715
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 2: but there's a guy sitting at him.

716
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 3: Like what was he?

717
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 5: Like?

718
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 3: Is he sleep or something like?

719
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: What's old man? Yeah?

720
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: Like I thought was just like some old man who's

721
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 2: just been there all night. And they're like he's They're

722
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: like no, like he seems fine, like he's actually really cute.

723
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 3: And I was like, all right, let's go.

724
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: And then we see this guy stay at the table.

725
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yes, I'm gonna go ahead and

726
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 2: just take that seat right there.

727
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 3: H uh huh.

728
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: I was like, la guy, someone she's gonna be up with.

729
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: I think Sophie's got a boyfriend situation.

730
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: Yep. We have so fun maloney. Yeah. By the way, huh.

731
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: If we are so lucky to get a eleven, you

732
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: you will have found your footing. I will have found mine.

733
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: Arian is gonna have some downtime, and she's right, we're

734
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: gonna paint the town fucking red. We're gonna be painting

735
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: the town fucking pussy pink pitch. But god, it's the prettiest,

736
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: the prettiest of the pinks. All right, what are the questions, Katie?

737
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 4: Looking back with a fresh view, do you see a

738
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 4: different slash earlier point?

739
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: You should have called it quits. Oh that's a pretty

740
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 1: good question.

741
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, there's probably multiple times, but I don't

742
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 2: regret it. The similar to you know, giving Raquel every

743
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: opportunity and every you know, you kind of want to

744
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: ride it to the wheels fall off. You want to

745
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: know that you did everything possible. You have to really

746
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,879
Speaker 2: wait till you get to that point that you're like,

747
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 2: it's your breaking point. But yeah, there's I don't think

748
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 2: I would have done it differently, but yeah, obviously, like

749
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: there was cheating, there was other breaking points of just

750
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 2: being you know, upset and devastated, you know, but I

751
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 2: just I wasn't ready then I didn't I didn't get

752
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 2: I didn't see see it for what it was until

753
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: I saw it for what it was.

754
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: So I'm excited for people I've said this before to

755
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,319
Speaker 1: see Katie this season because she and I have the

756
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: similar game face and like our words are very intense,

757
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 1: our presence is very intense. But there's moments this season

758
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: where you see Katie and how she's like vulnerable, moments

759
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: that I think are even tonight's episode there's a very

760
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: sweet moment, and I'm just really excited for people to

761
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 1: see that, Like you really did, like you said, rocking

762
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: until the wheels fell off. You know, you did everything

763
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: that you possibly could.

764
00:35:56,000 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, proud of you, kid, And that was from Katt Eau. Sorry, Ketto,

765
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 4: I don't know how to say that. Kara Jane one

766
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 4: two three one. Do you guys ever want to get

767
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 4: married or married again? What do you want in life?

768
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: What do you want? Katie?

769
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 3: I want at all?

770
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: But listen, I sit there and think, like I don't

771
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: see myself after like planning a wedding and doing that

772
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 2: whole thing again. But I'm not opposed to to marriage.

773
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: Just you know, that's not it. I don't I'm like

774
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: seeking that out again. If if somebody's like I really

775
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 2: want to like marry you, and I'm like love this person,

776
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 2: I'd be like, Okay, I'm down, but I don't know

777
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 2: about the whole like wedding situation.

778
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 3: That's yeah, that feels just weird.

779
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, the wedding dress, the walking down the aisle, I'm

780
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 2: just like I don't know about that, the bride's maids.

781
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: No oh no no no no no no no. Like

782
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 2: it's like but like doing like courthouse or eloping, that

783
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: would be fine.

784
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: I love that obviously. I don't know what my future holds.

785
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: I never thought that this is what my future would hold.

786
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: But as far as like what I want, I am

787
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: alone wolf. I don't know that I want a partner.

788
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: I definitely will never get married. I don't even know

789
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: that I want a partner though what I think, I yeah,

790
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: I've realized that all of my relationships that I've had

791
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: besides like my high school sweetheart, have always been long distance,

792
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: and like that works for me. I don't like someone

793
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: around me all the time. I like to do my

794
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: own thing. I would be completely happy buying a big

795
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: old house, moving my mom and Easton into it, my gays,

796
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: my best friends. Do you know they just bring in

797
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: Dick when I need it. I know that sounds horrible.

798
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: Also having and just having a sperm. Don now that

799
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: like you give me kids.

800
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 2: I feel like now that you're like, you're like, this

801
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: is this is what it is. You're going to meet

802
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: somebody and can completely change. That's usually how it works,

803
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: totally like how it works.

804
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 3: Ye're like, you know what, I don't need anyone.

805
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: I don't want anyone, Like this is what I want

806
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: for myself, and there's somebody that's going like the universe

807
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 2: is gonna be like, oh yeah, sentiment.

808
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 1: Rock her world. I just feel so happy. I loved No,

809
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:11,959
Speaker 1: that's on my own.

810
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: But this means that you like have found like the

811
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: love for yourself and the happy like you you're good.

812
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 2: That's like where everyone should really strive to be.

813
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 1: Thanks, Katie.

814
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, happiness just on your own happiness.

815
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm sheer happy.

816
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 2: You're not looking for it like in a partner with

817
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 2: anyone else. You're like, I'm good on my own. That's

818
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,720
Speaker 2: that's like the that's the dream.

819
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: That is the dream. I'm living the dream right now.

820
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 4: You're you are your biggest love. Okay, sidfreed Rich give

821
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 4: us some specialty sandwich ideas inspired by Slash for something

822
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 4: about her?

823
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: Can I just say this very quickly. We had the

824
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: sandwich tasting that you'll see you'll see at the very

825
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: end of the season. Katie, I can't get them off

826
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: of my mind. They are the most fantastic sandwiches I've

827
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: ever had in my entire life.

828
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, they're they're not like these like the

829
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 2: most innovative, like out of the like the box kind

830
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: of sandwiches, But we really wanted to do, you know,

831
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 2: sandwiches that are kind of classics ones that you've had before,

832
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: but do them well and kind of elevate them in

833
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 2: ways to whether it's like through a spread or you know,

834
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 2: adding a little spice or something. You know, just like

835
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 2: some kind of something to them, like whether it's like

836
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: a spicy like pimento with like a turkey kind of situation,

837
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 2: maybe some jalapenos just to kind of punch it up

838
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 2: a bit. And it's really interesting because there's one that

839
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 2: for most people that you know, when they would go

840
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 2: to order sandwich, they would get something, whether it's like

841
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 2: a like I love a silk or sad, or they

842
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: get a turkey or like some kind of like meat option.

843
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 2: But the one that killed the most was the the

844
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 2: the Greek salad sandwich that was like that was like

845
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: a crowd favorite, which was like so interesting because it's

846
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 2: all like it's a vegetarian.

847
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: We had three, right, there was a.

848
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 2: Spicy turkey, the soaper soda, the the vegan one, the

849
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 2: green that one was really good too, and then so

850
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: there's four so and then the Greek salad.

851
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: That's right, because we had the Greek salad one at

852
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: the actual space and that was hitting all the.

853
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 2: Yes, So it's just gonna be about like having a

854
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: really great bread, which you know, we we haven't settled

855
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 2: on like what kind of like breads just yet, you know,

856
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: but getting like the ingredients of the innerds just yet,

857
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

858
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 1: But are you guys gonna have soup?

859
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 2: I don't know. We were thinking about some like seasonal salads.

860
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 2: I think having like a soup, like a nice like

861
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 2: I love, I like go hard on, like a butternut squash,

862
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: and like a or like a good like I love,

863
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: like a bone broth. I think a turmberic bone broth

864
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 2: would be really beautiful, especially for like fall, Like I

865
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 2: think that's like a cozy thing to have on the menu.

866
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: But what about names? Do you guys have names yet? No?

867
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 3: Like we thought about doing.

868
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 2: I thought something so cute for just to play into

869
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 2: something about her, because I thought it would be like

870
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: you know, the naming things about her. You know this

871
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 2: whatever you know her is to you, but like her

872
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 2: laugh or.

873
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 1: Like her you know mile Okay, I have chills.

874
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 2: But that could be either like for like the drinks

875
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,240
Speaker 2: that we have or the sandwiches or you know, something

876
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: like that.

877
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 3: But like I think that could be fun.

878
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: That's so stinking kill right. I love that, Katie. You

879
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: have to do that charm whatever.

880
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 2: Like the things that just like add up to making

881
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 2: the things about her, you.

882
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 4: Know, goosebumps up to peggyback on that. I mean, we

883
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 4: have a ton asking when will something about her open?

884
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: Do you have a date for something about her? Is

885
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 1: it all just like TVD?

886
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm still TBD are in our meeting with

887
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 2: interior designer.

888
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: Oh, I can't stop smart.

889
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 2: But it's like we're like we are like We're like,

890
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: it's we're making it, making it happen. I mean, like

891
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: I said, we we wanted to be very intentional and

892
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 2: really thought out with everything that we've done, especially with

893
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 2: the pre opening stuff, the budget and all of these things,

894
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: getting all the ducks in a row, because it's not

895
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 2: just about getting location and throwing up some you know,

896
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 2: paint and getting some tables and chairs in there and

897
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 2: just start, you know, throwing sandwiches out.

898
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 3: It's like there's a lot of pre stuff.

899
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: Like when we work to these consultants, they're like, no,

900
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: it's it's like at least a year of this stuff

901
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: before you even work into that. And then you know,

902
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: sometimes it can take a long time to find a

903
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 2: location and you have to like build out a location.

904
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 2: Like it's it's not often that you just.

905
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: Just just looks give me some chain restaurant that's moving in,

906
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: you know, it's.

907
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: Like that already has it's it already has the you

908
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: know right, you're you're starting from the blueprint. Yeah, Like

909
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: we were building our blueprints so that way, like if

910
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: we want to do another location, we already got the blueprint.

911
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 3: We can already you know. But it's like we we're

912
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:01,240
Speaker 3: that's why we want.

913
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 2: We want to people when they do see it, when

914
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: they do open it, they're gonna be like wow, like no,

915
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: I get it, we see it now.

916
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

917
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 3: So but it's just it's taking a lot of like

918
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 3: prep work.

919
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, well you're ensuring success.

920
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 2: I'm so excited for It's just like on the way

921
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 2: over here, the amount of times that people all see

922
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 2: like they're like, so, why sandwiches, as if it's the

923
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 2: most obscure thing ever, And I'm just like, do you

924
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 2: do you not like sandwiches? Like no, I love sandwiches,

925
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: like exactly, Like I'm not opening up a magic shop

926
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 2: like like that would be weird. I would expect people

927
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 2: to like ask about that. But it's like this, people

928
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 2: eat sandwiches like every every day, like multiple times a week.

929
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 3: Like it's again like.

930
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: It's like that is very true. It's like not some

931
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: like wow.

932
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 2: Like sock socks and socks like that, Like it's it's

933
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: a sandwich shop, like it's epic, like like I don't know,

934
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 2: it's like coffee shop. But yeah, like I mean I

935
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 2: guess would it be It's like more surprising if I

936
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: was opening a magic shop.

937
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 3: I don't know, but like I.

938
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: Think it would be rising if you were opening up

939
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: like a witchery shop, it would be like definitely.

940
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess because it's like you don't look at

941
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 2: me think like sandwiches. But it's like sandwiches aren't that obscure.

942
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: It's just like I'm not opening up a restaurant and

943
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 2: like because that's that's a full scale thing. That's that

944
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: is a massive und of taking sandwiches Like it's easier.

945
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: It's what I want to do every day is go

946
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: to a cute sandwich shop and chill and have like

947
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: an iced tea, yeah a lemon, right, And so so.

948
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't I want to like open that and like

949
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 2: be like, feel like I'm like the main character of

950
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: a rom com.

951
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:31,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you're a genius.

952
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 4: Okay, so Jay Felix six seven nine to two Ladies

953
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,479
Speaker 4: tips for dating in your thirties with like a oh, this.

954
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 1: Is a great one. What are your tips?

955
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 2: Have fun and don't take it too seriously. I think,

956
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 2: like you don't have to be out there trying to

957
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: find you know, your husband or your partner. I think

958
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: date all ages, age changes, like honestly, like no, I

959
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: I think it's just indulging in those things to make

960
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 2: you know, just I don't know. I think I think

961
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 2: thirties are seuch like an interesting and cool and special

962
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 2: time in your life, right, and I think while dating

963
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 2: you should kind of honor and explore like this time.

964
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 2: And I think so and I think just having fun, Yeah,

965
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 2: I think that's just I don't know.

966
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: I agree, like thirties is okay, basically twenties. You know,

967
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: Kim K made it cool to be in your forties.

968
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: Jlo made it cool to be in your fifties. Like,

969
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: I can't wait for all stages of life, but like, honestly,

970
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,479
Speaker 1: just go out and have fun, like Katie said, don't

971
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: take it too seriously, don't worry about the age I

972
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: think you go out. I will say I think you

973
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,759
Speaker 1: protect yourself at the beginning. Don't give up too much

974
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: too quickly. Let the other person do all of the talking,

975
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 1: you know, kind of keep a little bit guarded. Start

976
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: making your notes because if there's anything that you see

977
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: that's not really working out, you want to be able

978
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: to like go And even though you're not taking it

979
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: too seriously, you still want to enjoy yourself. And if

980
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: there's little things you're seeing where it's like this would

981
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,959
Speaker 1: never work, don't waste your time going out again.

982
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 2: Well, I mean going on dating is not necessarily like okay,

983
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: well is this.

984
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 3: Gonna be a relationship?

985
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,439
Speaker 2: Like treated as like you might never see the person again,

986
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 2: So just enjoy it.

987
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 1: But babe, most people are going out and they're dating

988
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 1: because they're looking for their life partners.

989
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 2: Well, I know, but if that happens, then great, Like

990
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 2: it's either gonna happen or it's not. So just enjoy

991
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 2: the moment totally. Like stressing about it, is it gonna

992
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 2: change it? You know? Like if they're gonna call you,

993
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 2: they're gonna call you.

994
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: I also think they're gonna call you if they're gonna

995
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: call you, even if you let him hit the first night. Yeah,

996
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: you know, like they just are like men.

997
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 2: Are very simple in that sense.

998
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 3: If they like you, they like you.

999
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 2: If they don't, they don't. And I don't think like

1000
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 2: how things go down is gonna factor into that.

1001
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I actually think it's like the universe intervening. If

1002
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: you sleep with him and he doesn't call again, it's like, well,

1003
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad that that one was checked off the list

1004
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: and crossed off at the same.

1005
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: Time, move on, you know, at least you got a

1006
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 2: good lay onto the next hopefully.

1007
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know.

1008
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: All right. My question for you is what are you

1009
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: most excited for people to see this season that we

1010
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: know is coming up that hasn't aired yet. A moment

1011
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: that you don't tell too much about. Mine's tonight in

1012
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: the hotel room in Vegas. Oh god, I've been looking

1013
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: forward to this, zactly.

1014
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, this one is this is like this episode tonight

1015
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 2: is pretty good.

1016
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 3: I think it might be next week.

1017
00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: Oh no, Lola, Yeah, Lala meets a guy.

1018
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 3: That one's really good.

1019
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 2: And then also I think, oh my god, there's so

1020
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 2: much I think I'm also kind of like forgetting some things.

1021
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 2: I think I kind of turn a corner too, Like

1022
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 2: I think you're saying like angry Katie a lot because

1023
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,399
Speaker 2: I'm pissed off of people, but I think I kind

1024
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 2: of just yeah, I don't know, what do you think?

1025
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: I've said it in a million in one podcast that

1026
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: I am so excited for to just like watch you.

1027
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I had to go back and watch

1028
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: episodes one through five again because I fast forward through

1029
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: anything that has to do with the Toms, Like if

1030
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: a Tom appears in a scene, I'm fast forwarding it, yeah,

1031
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 1: because it's so boring. But now I have to watch

1032
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: because I need to know what they're saying and I

1033
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: need to see behavior. But no, your storyline I'm so

1034
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 1: excited for. I cannot wait for it. And the whole

1035
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: reason I'm most excited for tonight's episode is because of

1036
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: the way the things that you said. It's is very,

1037
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: very amazing. Kitty's a fucking savage anyway, I love you, Maloney.

1038
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for doing my podcast today.

1039
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 3: I love you. Thanks for having me.

1040
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: Well, I'll come back next week and weeks talk about

1041
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 2: all thanks were going to talk about yay.

1042
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: I can't wait, all right, my loves. Thank you so

1043
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: much for listening to another episode of The Give Them

1044
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: While our podcast, and I will catch y'all next week