1 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's to show that she 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: has the secrets of success experience firsthand by marketing and 3 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: advice to many occasions. In the case you didn't notice, 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: I'm not broke, you know he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs, 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: entrepreneurs and industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do, 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: it's what he likes to share. Now it's time to 8 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: hear from my man, Rashan McDonald money Making Conversations. Here 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: we come. Welcome to Money Making Conversation. I am your host, 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: Rashan McDonald. It is important to stop reading other people's 11 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: success stories and really start writing your own. Always typically 12 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: people to leave with their gifts as meaning to leave 13 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,639 Speaker 1: with your passion, your your belief. It's what you want 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: to do and don't let your age, friends, family or 15 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: coworkers stop you from planning or living your dreams. My 16 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: interviews I do on Money Making Conversation consists of celebrities, CEOs, 17 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: entrepreneurs and industry decision makers. My next guest is Lindsay Davis. 18 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: She's a best selling author of the world is Wake 19 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: and One Big Heart. In February, Lindsey was tapped to 20 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: anchor the weekend broadcast of ABC News World Tonight and 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: She's All And She also anchors ABC News Lifetime Live Prime, 22 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: Excuse Me, the network streaming even newscast. She's also correspondent 23 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 1: for World News Tonight, Good Morning in America, and Nightline. 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: Please Welcome to Money Making Conversation. The anchor of ABC's 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: weekend World News Tonight and ABC News Live Prime, Lindsey 26 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 1: Davis Rushan, thank you so much for having me on. 27 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: I try to get it all in. I try to 28 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 1: get it all in because you know the thing about 29 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: our business business long enough to see faces like yours 30 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: that are not normal. They're normal now, but you know 31 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: one Pine in his time and his industry, they weren't normal, 32 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: especially if a female face being normal. You know, Ed 33 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: Bradley was our man at one time, and then so 34 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: as you start ascending. That's why I wanted to make 35 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: sure people saw the body of your work. And this 36 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: is only a small body of your work, but it's 37 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: an important body of work. With yours. You as a host, 38 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: as an anchor, get to articulate our stories. And I'm 39 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: pretty sure in as an African American, as a female, 40 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: and some of the stories that were put out there, 41 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: how are you able to balance the actual reporting of 42 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: the news and then the detachment of what you were reporting? Well, 43 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 1: you know what, Look, it's always about the facts, and 44 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: I think that it's also about knowing what you don't know. 45 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: And so I think that when you don't have a 46 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 1: lot of variation, a lot of variety of perspectives and 47 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: lenses and experiences at the proverbial table, um, then you're 48 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: missing some of the nuance to the story, right, and 49 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: some of the relevant facts, um, get thrown aside. And 50 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: so UM, I don't think that I'm coloring it, if 51 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: you will, with with anything except that I do come 52 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: with the perspective and the experience of of being a 53 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: black woman in America, and so I think that I 54 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: may have certain questions that I'm going to ask or 55 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: that I'm going to lean into based on my own experience. UM. 56 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: And I think of as you talk about how we 57 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: haven't had many people who look like me. That was 58 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: why it was so important on my first night when 59 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: I assumed the chair of Weekend World News Tonight on Sundays, 60 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: I had an interview that I did with Carol Simpson, 61 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: who was the first black woman to anchor any network 62 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: newscast back in the eighties. And you know, I look 63 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: forward to the day my son is seven, and I 64 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: look forward to when he grows up that we won't 65 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: still be talking about, well, this was the first or 66 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: the second, right, because hopefully the idea and the ideal 67 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: will be that enough people at that point would would 68 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: have ascended to various ranks that it just becomes oh, 69 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: another person, right, And and so for my son, I 70 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: really do look forward to where it becomes so commonplace 71 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: that we're not still counting, you know, the first or 72 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: or the second. You know, it's really interesting, especially entertainment. 73 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: You know, I remember when Steve Harvey, now back way 74 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: back in the eighty three, when he had his first opportunity. 75 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: ABC offered the first sitcom. I remember, we came to 76 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: Mr Rajan, ABC wants me to do a sitcom. I went, 77 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: you let up because it was just it was just 78 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: so far I could not even fathom. Somebody I knew, 79 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 1: black Man, he was a comedian poplic Commedia was being 80 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: offered a TV show on ABC. It was a pilot 81 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: at the time, and then I fast forward and as 82 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: you're aspiring to these heights, I wanted to be on 83 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: the news, wanted to deliver the news, being face of 84 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: the news and faced in media. What was that? What 85 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: was that journey like in college and your friends and 86 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: your peer groups, when you're telling them this is what 87 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: you wanted to do. Sure, you know, I think that 88 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: I've had the luxury or the benefit of having especially 89 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: within my own uh my own home, and so not 90 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 1: just my parents, um, but in the extended family as well, 91 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: where there was an expectation that you could do what 92 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: you wanted to do. And so I never felt limited 93 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: or constrained because of my race or gender, because there 94 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: was a mindset that if you want to do it, 95 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: if you want to run for president, run for president. 96 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 1: You know, no one was really telling me the likelihood 97 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 1: of success or how it was going to be so 98 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: much more difficult or so much harder, or no one 99 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: has done this before or whatever. It was just like, hey, 100 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: you want to do that, here's some tools. We're gonna 101 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: give you, some exposures, some opportunities, and you run with it. 102 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: You take it as far as you can. And so 103 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: when I decided when I was in college that I 104 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: wanted to become a journalist at the time, in particular 105 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: a reporter. Um. You know, my parents were just like, Okay, 106 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: what do we have to do? What do you have 107 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: to do? And so at the time, you still had 108 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: to get a college credit for an internship, and I 109 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: had missed that opportunity because I was about to graduate. 110 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: I was at University of Pregunitay. So then I I 111 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: did what I've I've told subsequently that I had my 112 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: parents pay fifty thousand dollars so I could get an 113 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: internship because I went to n y U for for 114 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: grad school to get a master's. You don't need to 115 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: have a master's to be a journalist, but at the time, 116 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: I needed to get that extra year in order to 117 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: get an internship and to get credit for it. Um. 118 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: And so I would say that anything that I needed, 119 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: my parents were there right along with me, anticipating that 120 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: you know, if I wanted to do this, it could 121 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: be done. And my friends never batted. And I I mean, 122 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: I think that there was just this mindset of if you, 123 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: you know, work hard and put your mind to it, 124 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: you know you can achieve. And so I'm glad that 125 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: I didn't have um the naysayers uh too loudly in 126 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: my ear. But they are they are they ever just 127 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: reciting some of my experiences. I remember when I left 128 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: IBM to pursue a career as a stand up comedian. 129 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: Of course it's totally otlers from a news people look 130 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 1: at you're gonna be a comedian. I thought I would 131 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: be the next Eddie murphyus, somebody, somebody great like that. 132 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: Richard Pryor had it. Nobody could ever be him. He's 133 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: like the Michael Jordan of comedy. But then, but you know, 134 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: but it was always you know, people I didn't stand 135 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: in my way, but they always went okay, okay. But 136 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: then you started seeing little little steps well in the way, 137 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: little croms of opportunity became a reality. And then people 138 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: started realizing, and you started and I started realizing, you know, 139 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: I think I can really do this. Because even though 140 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: you can dream something, that doesn't mean it's gonna come true. 141 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: So as you were starting to go up there, like 142 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: you said you did the Intern, you went up to 143 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: n y U and you know, got the masters. But 144 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: when did you start really starting to fall start to 145 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: fall in place? For you, lindsay sure. I mean, you know, 146 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: I think that there are a lot of baby steps 147 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: and milestones along the way. And I was just a 148 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: self starter in a way that I would say, Okay, 149 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm going by the time I five, I want to 150 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: be in the top market. By the time I'm thirty, 151 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: you want to be at the network. And I made 152 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: both of those. One the first goal by the skin 153 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: of my teeth, because I was just about to turn 154 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: twenty five, and I made it to Indianapolis, which was 155 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: the market. Um. But then you know, a few months 156 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: shy my thirtieth birthday, I made it here to BC 157 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: News and I've been here now for about fourteen years. Um. 158 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: And I would say when I was local news, I 159 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: was able to make a lot of jumps. So I 160 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: I started out in Syracuse it was market like eighty one, 161 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: and I went to flit in Michigan it was market 162 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: sixty four that went to Indianapolis market. And so I 163 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: was able to make a lot of those um jumps 164 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: based on you know, my own goals that I had set. 165 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: And I would say, once I got to the network, 166 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: it was a little bit harder to set a milestone 167 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: or set a goal and and then achieve it because 168 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of the people who make it 169 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: here are very talented, right and in some cases there 170 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: are some sharp elbows or in some cases they may 171 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: have better relationships, or they may just be better positioned 172 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 1: for you know, opportunity or for growth. And so I 173 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: think that that did become a struggle for me kind 174 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: of finding my way once I got here to the network. 175 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: But I would say when I was given the opportunity 176 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: in September two thousand nineteen to be one of the 177 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 1: moderators at the Democratic Debate, that was career changing. That 178 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: that moment um. And then I went on to moderate 179 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 1: another debate again with David Neuir and George Stephanopolis in 180 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: February of the following year, and uh, in both cases, 181 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:20,479 Speaker 1: you know, people gave very good feedback and reviews of 182 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: of my work um sitting there at the as a moderator, 183 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: and I think then that was the moment where people thought, oh, wow, 184 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: you know, you could really do this. Now that was 185 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: many years in right uh, into the game that that 186 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: I finally kind of got that recognition that that I 187 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: believed that I was capable of. But you know, it 188 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: was really kind of waiting for the opportunity. Well, you know, 189 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: it's really interesting that we all involved in journeys, and 190 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: we all involved in trying to reach those dreams and 191 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: then but then then their sacrifice, like you mentioned Indianapolis, 192 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: Mrs Syracuse. I remember when I left I I needly 193 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: got married and I moved to New York and my 194 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 1: wife was she still in left time. She stayed in Houston, 195 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: and so so I'm living in New York. And then 196 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: I moved to l A and I lived there and 197 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 1: she still was staying in Houston. So they are sacrifices 198 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 1: we all make. In those sacrifices, a lot of people 199 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: might call them selfish, but they're part of the goals. 200 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: They're part of the path that you gain. And then 201 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: you said, Richard, that was instrumental when you did the debates. 202 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 1: How first of all, how did they how did the 203 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: opportunity come to you? And then how did you prepare 204 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 1: for that opportunity because you knew it was big? Yes, Um, well, 205 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,839 Speaker 1: I think that in part it was due to the 206 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: Democratic National Committee because they had set UH some rules 207 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: basically so that to prevent the moderator panels from UH 208 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: not being diverse. They they set some prerequisites basically where 209 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: you had to have diversity by gender, by race, and 210 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 1: so UM. I think because ABC had already decided that 211 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: they were going to have you know, David and George 212 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: and at first debate in September that we had for 213 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 1: ABC was going to be at an HBCU, and so 214 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 1: I think that there was probably a feeling. No one 215 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: ever told me. I wasn't in the room when the 216 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: decision was made that that I would be, you know, 217 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: the third moderator, but I would have to imagine that 218 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: that both of those played into it. UM. Look, I 219 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: would say that I probably never prepared more for anything 220 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: in my life than I had for that first debate 221 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: in September two thousand nineteen. You know, I I was 222 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: kept trying to minimize it in my mind so that 223 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: I wouldn't over hype myself and and and the let 224 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: the anxiety uh run two wild. Um. But I I 225 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: it was September and so August leading into it. I 226 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: remember I had a pre planned vacation and I was 227 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: on the beach with a big three two three ring binders. UM, 228 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: just studying and researching and reading and preparing and UM, 229 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: it was a lot, but the benefit of it is 230 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: that by the time that date came in September, I 231 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: felt prepared. And I think that that preparation gave me 232 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: confidence that in prayer I gotta say right but um, 233 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: but I felt that I was ready on that day, 234 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: and leading up to it, I wasn't so sure. 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And let 273 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: let me step back and just talk about news in general, 274 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: because I'm kind of confused as to what is news 275 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: and what is commentary, you know, and like what I think, 276 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: this is my perception, what I think what I see 277 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: on Fox is commentary or and I want you to 278 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: educate me too, And it's what I see you do 279 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: what I see you know, do you did it? Let's 280 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: the Holts and the David Muirs of the world. You're 281 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: doing news to me? What I see a lot of 282 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: times on on CNN, and what I see on Fox 283 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: is a lot of commentary. Am I wrong in saying that? 284 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: Or it's a blend of news and commentary, you know, 285 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: I would say, wherever you're hearing a lot of opinions, 286 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: then that's more editorialized, right, that is more commentary. And 287 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: so that's I guess up to the viewers to decide, 288 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: you know, how they want to hear their news presented. 289 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: Do they want to just get the facts, ma'am so 290 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: to speak, or do you want to hear more of 291 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: what you already think? You know, for that to be 292 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: reinforced by the programming that you watch, um. And you know, 293 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: Fox News for example, has great ratings, and so I 294 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 1: think that in a lot of cases, people do want 295 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: to hear and get their ideas seconded and get support 296 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: for you know, certain arguments, um that they believe are true. 297 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: And they may be true. You know that that's again 298 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: up to the viewers to to really decide. But you know, 299 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: my understanding and what I learned in journalism school was 300 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: always about just presenting what cannot be debated really right. 301 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: And so certain facts of let's say a house fire, 302 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: um cannot be distorted or changed based on your opinion. 303 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: You know, it was either a three alarm fire or 304 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: was not. It either went up in flames at twelve 305 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: o'clock on Brady Avenue or did not. And so there 306 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: are certain um uh styles. I guess that that some 307 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: of the networks take, especially the cable news outlet's take, 308 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: but um, but for us, it is very much just 309 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: what the facts, the facts of whatever it is that 310 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: we're presented now I mentioned two of your children's books 311 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: at the top of your intro, and now you have 312 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: a third one. It came out stayed this way forever, 313 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 1: came out in February of this year. How how did 314 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: that develop? How did you know? I want, I'm gonna 315 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 1: just say to your hard charging news that the facts, ma'am, 316 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: just the facts, ma'am to a children was a popular 317 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: bestselling author in the children's genre. How did that come about? So? 318 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: I again, I have a son who's seven, and when 319 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: I was reading books to him early on, I was thinking, 320 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: glad I could do this, and over time that could 321 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: became should I should do this? Because I was having 322 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: a hard time finding books that had characters who look 323 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: like him, and I felt that that was really important. 324 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: And while in general terms, you know, the news industry 325 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: is very different from you know, authoring children's books, at 326 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: the heart, at my center, I consider myself to be 327 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: a storyteller and so um I felt like it wouldn't 328 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: be that much of a stretch for me to kind 329 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: of let my creative juices flow and talk about the 330 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: good news, really and uplifting, because quite often what I 331 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 1: do with news, which was also kind of part and 332 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: parcel to this because my son would want to see 333 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,239 Speaker 1: mommy doing the news, and I felt like, you know, 334 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: quite often the subject matter what we're talking about is 335 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: just too much for um, a young person like he 336 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 1: is at this at this young age, and so writing 337 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: books I felt was something that I could just share 338 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: with him one without any kind of filter or concern 339 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 1: about the messaging that was being you know, instilled in him, 340 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: but I could use it as a tool to inspire 341 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 1: him and so um. Initially I really focused on the 342 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: mirror aspect. There was an essay while ago that talked 343 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 1: about how you need mirrors, windows and sliding glass doors 344 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 1: in all children's books. The idea of mirrors so kids 345 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: can see themselves reflected in the pages of the books, 346 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,120 Speaker 1: windows so they can perhaps pure into a world that's 347 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,400 Speaker 1: unfamiliar to their own, and if that sliding glass door 348 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: is to really be effective, it can serve as a 349 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: way to transport them into an unfamiliar world. So with 350 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: the first book, it was really a matter of okay, 351 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: let me provide more mirrors for my son. But ultimately 352 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: it really became about, and this was before George protests 353 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 1: and the so called racial reckoning, was that the was 354 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: that the One Big Heart or the World is Awake? 355 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: Which one was the was the first one. The first 356 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 1: one was the World is Awake, the second one was 357 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: One Big Heart. And that was where I really talked 358 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: about the need for or I felt the need for 359 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: windows in the books so that kids would be able 360 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: to be exposed to kids who don't look like them, 361 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: because I think quite often parents look at books that 362 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 1: have black and brown characters and they think, oh, they're 363 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: just for black and brown children, And that couldn't be 364 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: further from the truth, really, because it does no benefit 365 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,959 Speaker 1: to your child if they're only seeing mirrors all around them, right, 366 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 1: and they only see their own reflection in their books 367 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: and and their toys and in their neighborhood and their 368 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 1: church and their place of worship or you know, school 369 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: or place of worship. And so I felt like parents 370 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: can start with books and with toys that they're looking 371 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 1: to expose themselves or expose their children to more diverse people. 372 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: And this was something that you heard, especially during the 373 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: summer and the so called racial reckoning, where parents were saying, 374 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: you know, what kind of conversations can I have, How 375 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,679 Speaker 1: can I raise more empathetic children? And I think you 376 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: can start by giving them a book that has the 377 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: character who doesn't look like them. Right. And my son 378 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 1: has such a diverse book collection that he never talks 379 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: about the race of the characters who are in the books. 380 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 1: And I would venture to say that most kids won't. 381 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 1: Your parents will often say like, oh, kids don't see color. 382 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: Kids do absolutely see Do you see color? They just 383 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: don't assign a value to to color. You know. It's 384 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: adults who do that. Um, But I think that early on, 385 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: if they're all used to and accustomed to seeing a 386 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,719 Speaker 1: variety of shades and hair colors and features in their books, 387 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: they're they're not going to point out it is being 388 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: so far and unusual because they're used to being exposed 389 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 1: to it. So that's now what I kind of shifted from. 390 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: In addition to focusing on the mirror, I've found additional 391 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 1: value in the window as well. Now they stay away Forever. 392 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: That's the third book, Stay this way forever? What is that? What? What? 393 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: What lineup communication? Are you trying to get out that book? Yeah? 394 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 1: So so stay this way Forever? Is really any parent 395 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: I think will relate? Who's ever thought? Boy? I wish 396 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: I could just freeze this moment in time and press 397 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: the pause button, and you know, savor these moments that 398 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: you know are fleeting right that are gonna uh leave 399 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: the playground of childhood. And one thing that I would say, there, 400 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: you know half the things that you know your kids 401 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: are gonna outgrow. But I would also venture to say, 402 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: there are a lot of qualities that you hope that 403 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 1: they bring with them into adulthood. So you know, my 404 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: son's curiosity or his creativity and his joy. You know, 405 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: all the nights that he says tells me his plans 406 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 1: for the next day, and sometimes I'll say tomorrow is 407 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: gonna be the best day ever. And I hope that 408 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,120 Speaker 1: he keeps that with him into an adulthood where he's 409 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 1: excited about the possibilities of of tomorrow. But this was 410 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 1: really kind of a way of journaling all the different 411 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: moments because you never know when it's gonna be the 412 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: last time that a child, you know, falls asleep in 413 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 1: your lap or reaches for your hand to hold old, 414 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: or the peter patter of feet before they you know, 415 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: jump in bed with you in the morning. And so 416 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: this was kind of paying tribute to all the different 417 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: stages of childhood and the theme that has kind of 418 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 1: been consistent through my books as the idea of love. 419 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: The first book is basically, know that you're loved by God. 420 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 1: The second one is love each other. You know, love 421 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: your neighbor. And this one is no, you're loved by 422 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: your parents and your grandparents. And I hope that kids 423 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: will read it and not only know that their loved, 424 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: but just how much they're cherished and adored and and 425 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: especially for the cute little little things that they do 426 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: at these various stages of childhood. And my daughter, she's 427 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: twenty three nine, and I always remember, I always tell 428 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 1: her my favorite moment one years old when she was 429 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: just laying on my chest. She hadn't yet had the 430 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: ability to push off. She just fell aslips I knew exactly, 431 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: And listen as you go through that moment, it just 432 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: takes me back to a place where you know, I'm 433 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: glad my daughter has grown. But it's always those precious 434 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: moments of being able to experience when trying to set 435 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: her up to take pictures and the spy, I wasn't 436 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: strong enough and you have pillows on both sides to 437 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 1: get that picture that you want to that they stay 438 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: with you forever. And but I wanted to before I 439 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: get out of here, I wanted to say, like, you 440 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,199 Speaker 1: have a lot of rhymes in your book. Now, I 441 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: grew up with function Function. What's your junk confunction? So 442 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 1: what are these rhymes? And that's that that little flavor 443 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: there that you that we can go read out loud, 444 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 1: your little raps in the book. We're gonna one day 445 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: fun function. Come on, now, come on, let's when we 446 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: got here. I think these rymes, so you're wrapping up 447 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: growing up the books that I read, you know, shel 448 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: Silverstein and Doctor since they were rhyming books. And so 449 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: I just want to I love it my whole thing. 450 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: I just wanted to give my audience a look at you, 451 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 1: your your special talent. Let's let's put that way. And 452 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: then and how did you get that? I wanted. I'm 453 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 1: glad you are willing to share a part of that 454 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 1: story how you get there, because so many people just 455 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 1: see the end results and and the end results doesn't 456 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: really tell the journey. And like I said, I have 457 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: a journey, and uh, Stephen Smith, Jose Harvards, so many 458 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: people that like Nick Cannon has a journey's a great 459 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 1: job you did on Solo Nation with that interview with him, 460 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 1: and that I'd love seeing you and I want to 461 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 1: see more interviews out of you create and pulling out 462 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: information and very uncomfortable information and maintain a very comfortable 463 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: environment when you get in those situations. Telling my audience 464 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 1: as we close out this interview, what are you trying 465 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: to accomplish the most when you're doing to sit down 466 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: one on one interviews. You know, I'm a very curious 467 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: person by nature, and so anybody can go and google 468 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: somebody and kind of see a bio or some statements 469 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: they've made. But I really want to know what was 470 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: beyond that. You know, what motivates you, what caused you 471 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 1: to say that, what caused you to feel that way? 472 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: Help us to understand and explain, you know, beyond just 473 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,400 Speaker 1: the superficial surface stuff that we see. So I really 474 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: want to engage. I want to have in depth conversation. UM. 475 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: I always say in my personal life, I never know 476 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: what questions are appropriate or not, because in in my 477 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 1: professional work life, I'm able to kind of delve in 478 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 1: and ask whatever. UM. But I love having that kind 479 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: of interaction and engagement with with someone just to help 480 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: us as humans just get to understand why people think, 481 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: or feel or say the things that that we do. 482 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: I think that it's a benefit to us all when 483 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,959 Speaker 1: we hear, you know, the diverse um perspectives that are 484 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: out there. Well, I want to thank you Lindsey for 485 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: coming on my show Money Making Conversation and sharing your 486 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: story and again the book. Please tell your people to 487 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,359 Speaker 1: send me some. I got a weekly newsletter goes out 488 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: in eighty thousand people every Thursday, nine am. And I 489 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: got a little popular social media following over a million. 490 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,239 Speaker 1: I'd love to post your book and your banners just 491 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 1: to additionally put out the brand of you, because you 492 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,160 Speaker 1: are a great brand and your brand that a lot 493 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: of young ladies like my daughter look up to. Okay, 494 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 1: thank you so much for Sean. I appreciate you talking 495 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: with me. If you want to hear more a see 496 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 1: any of my Money Making Conversations interviews, please go to 497 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversation dot com or my YouTube channel. I'm 498 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:16,479 Speaker 1: with Sean McDonald. I am your hopes. Thank you. 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