1 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I am Dramas and this is the Street Stoic. 2 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Podcast, bring you your daily dose of timeless stoke philosophy 3 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: remix for the hip hop generation. Now, with that in mind, 4 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 2: let's get things started with your daily shot of inspiration. 5 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 2: Now today we are going to be focusing around the 6 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 2: idea of living with intention, right, and this is something 7 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 2: that The Stoic's really a huge foundation of all that 8 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 2: they talk about, right, the idea of intentional living. And 9 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: I pulled a quote from just one of my favorite 10 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 2: artists in general, Kid Cuddy, and it really just speaks, 11 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: I think, to this this whole idea. And he says, 12 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: my whole thing is just to put out positive messages 13 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 2: in the music, give people something that can change their lives. 14 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 2: And I think this is powerful on a number of levels. 15 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: But for me, it kind of speaks to the idea 16 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 2: that we as humans are always sort of in search 17 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 2: of purpose, right, whether we admit it or not. And 18 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 2: I think this is a natural thing, right, It's it's 19 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: kind of like the age old question of. 20 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: Like why are we here? 21 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: Right, and that is sort of the search that we 22 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 2: innately have as human beings to be a part of 23 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: something that feels bigger than ourselves, right, And I think 24 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 2: having a reason behind everything you do, you know, like 25 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 2: a real reason is you know, the start to kind 26 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: of scratching that itch right to feeling like you are 27 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 2: living a life of purpose and just living in fulfillment, right, 28 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 2: understanding that you are a part of something, right. And 29 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 2: I think that's why things like community are so powerful 30 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 2: in church and all these different things, because they make 31 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 2: us feel a part of something that is bigger than 32 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: just ourselves. And again, I think that's just inherently human, 33 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: you know, so much so that generations ago a bunch 34 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: of old white dudes, we're talking about this, and Seneca, 35 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: one of the Stoics, says, filling our life with activities 36 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: that lead us nowhere is destructive. They just make us 37 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: agitated and restless. We are always busy, but we have 38 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: nothing to show for it. Focusing on actions that are 39 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 2: consistent with our vision as opposed to activities that keep 40 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: us busy, will avoid these problems. And there's a lot 41 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:32,119 Speaker 2: being said in sort of that small statement right there, right, 42 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: But it's the idea of making sure that the things 43 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: that you're taking action on. 44 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: Actually have some sort of deeper value to. 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 2: You than just the present moment, right that anything that 46 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: really has no weight to it, that is not adding 47 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: any value to life, or is not bringing you closer 48 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: to the vision that you have for yourself and your life. Like, 49 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: all of that is just a waste of time. And 50 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: I think so many of us we live restlessly, right 51 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 2: bouncing from one thing to another, you know, just doing 52 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: a bunch of random things to mindlessly past the be it, 53 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: you know, shopping. 54 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: Sprees or sort of this refusal. 55 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 2: Spend time alone with ourselves, and we're doing anything to 56 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: sort of block out that feeling that we're not living 57 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: with any sort of purpose or direction, right, We are 58 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: constantly just trying to fill the time with random things 59 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: that are really just kind of surface. 60 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: Levels, superficial parts of our lives. 61 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 2: And again, I think it is our effort because we 62 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 2: feel like something is missing, it's our effort to sort 63 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: of fill that void. And I think that's why so 64 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: many people feel unfulfilled or empty, because they're not slowing 65 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,679 Speaker 2: down and really taking inventory of what they are, sort 66 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: of spending their time on what they are are really 67 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: you know, prioritizing and how it aligns with what they 68 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 2: want for their life. You know, and I think for me, 69 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 2: I've sort of had to really have a lot of 70 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: discussions with myself around this, right, because I'm somebody who's 71 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 2: like a serial you know, business starter or a serial 72 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: like just idea person coming up with new ideas and 73 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: running with it. And every time that I have a 74 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: new idea or a niche, I've sort of now begun 75 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: to force myself to ask a question, right, and that 76 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: question is what is the deeper purpose behind it? Beyond 77 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: just a surface level enjoyment that I might get out 78 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: of doing this activity this, you know, this business idea, 79 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: this creative project, What on a deeper level does it 80 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: do for me? 81 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: You know, where is it taking me? 82 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: Right? 83 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: And before that, you know, before I began to kind 84 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: of slow down. 85 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: The process and develop that sort of mindset of asking 86 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 2: that question, I would get wrapped up in an idea 87 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: and I would go down the road one hundred miles 88 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 2: an hour, spending money, in time sometimes you know, bring 89 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 2: other people into the fold, only to realize that that 90 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: thing didn't actually make me happy, and then I would 91 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: just kind of abandon it altogether, right, And it's like 92 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 2: a very destructive sort of path to kind of continue 93 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: down and listen. I think a part of it is 94 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: my creative process of trying things, but I also think, 95 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,279 Speaker 2: you know, forcing myself to have to answer some of 96 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: those questions has also allowed me to avoid wasting time 97 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 2: or wasting other people's time. More importantly, right, even with 98 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 2: some of the things that I loved for a long 99 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: time or things that were like my pri I'm very focus, 100 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 2: like something like djaying, I had to eventually sort of 101 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: revisit that and understand what place it would have in 102 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: my life now, right, So I had to change it 103 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 2: from being my focus and sort of the main thing 104 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 2: I was putting all my energy and time into to 105 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: now treating it as a hobby right and recognizing that 106 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 2: the only place that it has in my life right 107 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: now for me that aligns with what I want for 108 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: myself in the long term is in this role of hobby. Sure, 109 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 2: I enjoy doing it, it's some great extra money, but 110 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 2: I can't dedicate any more extra time into it than 111 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: it's worth because it, again is not something that in 112 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: the long term aligns with how I see my life 113 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: playing out right, and I think that is living with purpose, 114 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 2: that is making decisions within intention in mind. Right now, 115 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 2: we have heard words from Kikuti, you have heard from 116 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: one of the stoic Seneca. I've given you some insight 117 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: into my own life and this whole idea of living 118 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: intentionally have applied it to my life. Now let's talk 119 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: about how you can make it your mantra for today. 120 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: The first's take a quick break and then we'll be. 121 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: All right. 122 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: So we're focusing around the idea of living with intention. 123 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: And we've heard the words of Kid Cutti, you know, 124 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 2: sort of talking about his music and always making it 125 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 2: a goal to have a positive message within it. You've 126 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: heard the words of Seneca talking about why so many 127 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: people feel restless and empty in this life because they're 128 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 2: just filling their time with activities that truly don't matter 129 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 2: nor align with the long term vision they want for life. 130 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: And I've given you some insight into my own life 131 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 2: about how I've begun to sort of have a vetting 132 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 2: system to make sure that everything that I do has 133 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: a rightful place and I'm not putting more attention than 134 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: is needed in something that really just does not fulfill 135 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: me in the long run. So now with all that said, 136 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: let's talk about how you can make it your mantra 137 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: for today. And I think at the end of the day, 138 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 2: like the easiest way and probably the starting point should 139 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 2: always be asking why, right, why am I doing this? 140 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: What is my intention behind it? What is the greater 141 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 2: purpose that it is potentially a part of? 142 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: Right? 143 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 2: And I think once you begin to have sort of 144 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: a set of questions you ask yourself before dedicating your 145 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: time to something, before investing in it, I think it 146 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: allows you to begin to weed out the things that 147 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 2: are just there to kind of feel time and space right. 148 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 2: And it's obviously perfectly normal as a human to want 149 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 2: to belong to something bigger than ourselves. And I think 150 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: rather than sort of suppressing the emptiness we may feel 151 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 2: around our lives currently, right if we are sort of 152 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: living without what feels like a purpose, rather than sort 153 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: of suppressing that and just filling it with nonsense, I 154 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 2: think taking the time to really spend that time alone 155 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: with yourself and get to know yourself a bit more 156 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 2: right and figure out what would actually bring you purpose 157 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: in your life, what actually would be a good sort 158 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 2: of way to spend your time that would be valuable 159 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 2: and align with the way you see yourself living in 160 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 2: the future. The life that you want for yourself. Right Again, 161 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: it all starts with asking questions and taking that time 162 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: for yourself to really get to know what you're feeling 163 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: and what you're longing for at the end of the day. Now, 164 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 2: to summarize what we're talking about here, the idea of 165 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: living with intention. You have Kidkati whose main focus is music, right, 166 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 2: and he's also said he's not just making music, but 167 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 2: he's put a purpose behind the music that he makes, right, 168 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 2: saying that his music, he wants it to have a 169 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 2: positive message. Right, So he's setting an intention for every 170 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: single piece of art that he creates. And when we 171 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: talk about Seneca, one of the stoics, right talking about 172 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: not just being busy for the sake of being busy, 173 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: but being busy with things that actually fulfill you and 174 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: actually bring you closer to your purpose in this life. 175 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: And even for myself again, having to slow down, ask 176 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 2: myself a series of questions and then also take inventory 177 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 2: of things that I'm currently doing and adjust and say 178 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 2: this no longer fulfills me, so it can't be a 179 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 2: focus of mine anymore. Right, I have to move it 180 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: to another another part of my life. Right, it has 181 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 2: to be taken down a level to where it's appropriate, 182 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 2: right to where I now can sort of put it 183 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: in autopilot and focus my attention on the things that 184 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 2: are going to bring me closer to the life that 185 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: I'm dreaming about. Right and again, it all starts with 186 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: that internal conversation about what you really want and listening 187 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 2: to that voice in your head rather than sort of 188 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 2: just blocking it out with the noise of everyday life 189 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 2: just as a means to pastime. 190 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: Now, with that said, thank you so much for checking 191 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: out the Street Stoke Podcast. Do your best to. 192 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 2: Apply these concepts that we've discussed, and see you everyday life, 193 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 2: and I'll catch you next time. The Street Stoke Podcast 194 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 2: is a production of Iheart's Microtura podcast network