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Speaker 1: second date Update. We've been doing these second date updates
Speaker 1: for a while now, and we've heard a lot of
Speaker 1: creative excuses to get out of a date. I have
Speaker 1: an excuse that I like to use when I'm on
Speaker 1: a date so I don't hurt the other person's feelings.
Speaker 1: But if I know it's not going well and I
Speaker 1: want to leave, I always use the same excuse. I
Speaker 1: look at them and go, I don't like you and
Speaker 1: I want us to be over. That's actually, that's not
Speaker 1: an excuse, and it seems to work every time, and
Speaker 1: so I think I'm doing it right. But not everybody
Speaker 1: is as smooth as I am. Sensitive and Lisa, who's
Speaker 1: on the phone today to do a second date update,
Speaker 1: believes that somebody use an excuse to get out of
Speaker 1: a date with her. Lisa, how are you Hi, I'm good, Thanks, Jebel,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm pretty good? Thank you for asking.
Speaker 1: So the guy that you met today you met him online. Yes,
Speaker 1: on a dating site. What did you do when you
Speaker 1: went out on your date? We met, just met at
Speaker 1: a bar. It's just simple. When you saw him for
Speaker 1: the first time, what did you feel. Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: There was a little bit of a snag before I
Speaker 1: met him because I knew that I was kind of
Speaker 1: going into it without being one hundred percent truthful because
Speaker 1: I used an old photo on my profile. How old
Speaker 1: are we talking? So they was eight years old? Oh,
Speaker 1: I was honest about my age. Okay, you just weren't
Speaker 1: honest with your picture. Well, I felt really guilty after that,
Speaker 1: and I realized that I hadn't told them and we
Speaker 1: were going out that night. But you weren't honest about
Speaker 1: your picture. Why use a picture from eight years ago
Speaker 1: as your dating profile photo. It's a really good picture.
Speaker 1: It's not that photogenic, and it's just it's really great
Speaker 1: and I feel like it captures my personality. Are you
Speaker 1: much different now than you were eight years ago? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I don't. That's the other thing. I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm that different, But you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Eight years is a long time. Though. We all have
Speaker 1: pictures that we really like and hold onto you don't
Speaker 1: have like one that's made from like two years ago. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just the one I used, okay
Speaker 1: profile up a few years ago, and so you came
Speaker 1: clean about it to him? Yeah, before we went out.
Speaker 1: I mean it was about half an hour before meeting up.
Speaker 1: I texted him and I said, hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: you can totally cancel if you want to, but I
Speaker 1: just want to be honest with you. You know, the
Speaker 1: photo I use is eight years old. Did he ask
Speaker 1: for an updated picture to send to him or now?
Speaker 1: Because it was right before it was literally half an
Speaker 1: hour before we were meeting, he texted that. He's like, hey,
Speaker 1: you don't worry about it's totally okay. Yeah, because he
Speaker 1: was actually driving to the destination. Like, why couldn't you
Speaker 1: should have probably? I mean, I don't know you should.
Speaker 1: I would think you would want to tell him, like
Speaker 1: a day or two before. I know I didn't give
Speaker 1: him much of a leeway. But did you do that
Speaker 1: on purpose? Lisa? No, honestly, I just please that is
Speaker 1: really got lying to me. Do that on purpose? No,
Speaker 1: I swear, I swear to you I'm not. I was
Speaker 1: thinking like, oh my god, I really liked this guy,
Speaker 1: and I was crapp and he doesn't have the right
Speaker 1: picture of me, and now he's gonna hate me. But
Speaker 1: he was like, no, that's cool. Whatever. Have you been
Speaker 1: online dating for a little while, Oh yeah, a couple
Speaker 1: of months. Have other people been shocked when they saw
Speaker 1: you in person compared to your profile photo? Well, nobody would.
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody would, except for Jewil maybe would
Speaker 1: really do that, you know, would be like what you know,
Speaker 1: You're not who I thought you were. You're ugly. I
Speaker 1: gotta get so. Your email said that you think he
Speaker 1: used an excuse to get out of your date. You know,
Speaker 1: we were having a great time and he seemed a
Speaker 1: little bit nervous at first. But after a while he
Speaker 1: got a phone call and he said he had to go,
Speaker 1: and his excuse was I had to go help my
Speaker 1: grandma get groceries. No, it's totally lame, right, Yeah, that
Speaker 1: definitely sounds like a made up excuse. What did you
Speaker 1: say to him? Well, what could I say? It was
Speaker 1: just like, um, okay, you know, I mean I was
Speaker 1: a good sport about it, but I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: it is true, but it sounds lame. Yeah, what if
Speaker 1: his grandma really does need grosses, and you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't care, let her starve. You stay here. Anyway. It's
Speaker 1: been over a week and I haven't heard from him,
Speaker 1: and I'm really hoping it's not the picture thing. I
Speaker 1: guess I didn't ask you how the actual date went.
Speaker 1: Was everything enjoyable? I thought it was good. Like I said,
Speaker 1: he seemed a little nervous at first of maybe it's
Speaker 1: because he was like, oh my god, what she gonna
Speaker 1: look like? But yeah, no, I mean it seemed normal
Speaker 1: and cool, and you know, there's always a little bit
Speaker 1: of adjustment when you're like, oh, here's the real you.
Speaker 1: But I thought it was I thought we were having
Speaker 1: I thought we were connecting. So no awkward moments where
Speaker 1: you think that he got turned off, And he didn't
Speaker 1: seem to be turned off by the fact that your
Speaker 1: picture was eight years younger than you actually are. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Maybe that is what happened,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I said, people don't show up and
Speaker 1: be like, oh, you're not an attractive I thought you
Speaker 1: were gonna you know, they just I mean, right, you're
Speaker 1: kind of polite. But I think we can all agree
Speaker 1: that We're pretty sure that his grandma needs help with
Speaker 1: her groceries is an excuse to get out of the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it is. Well, we're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, you're welcome. Hang on looking Jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning if you're just tuning in for the
Speaker 1: second date update. Lisa is on the phone and she
Speaker 1: wants to call a guy named Nick they met online.
Speaker 1: Her picture that she uses online is actually eight years old,
Speaker 1: so she thinks that might be part of the problem.
Speaker 1: But she did come clean right before their date and said, Hey,
Speaker 1: just so you know, when I show up, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: look eight years older. He seemed to not have a
Speaker 1: problem with that, but she does think that he used
Speaker 1: an excuse to get out of the date because at
Speaker 1: some point he got a phone call and then said
Speaker 1: his grandma needs help with her groceries, so we had
Speaker 1: to leave, and she hasn't heard anything from him since. Lisa,
Speaker 1: you know what I think your problem is what I
Speaker 1: think you need to start dating men. Think Hello, Grandma's boy.
Speaker 1: So his grandma's calling, He's going to get grocery store.
Speaker 1: You really want to be with a guy like that, Like, think,
Speaker 1: look at me. I haven't talked to my grandma in
Speaker 1: like ten years. I am a good grand so you
Speaker 1: know I thought you were met and not make a
Speaker 1: lame excuse like that. Yeah, I say, don't let your
Speaker 1: grandma run you, you know what I mean. Like, he's
Speaker 1: got to own that relationship with his grandma. All right,
Speaker 1: Well we're about to dial the phone him right now.
Speaker 1: Get him on the phone and find out why he's
Speaker 1: not calling you back and if in fact, that was
Speaker 1: an excuse to get out of your date. Okay, all right, awesome,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hey can I speak to
Speaker 1: Nick please? Yeah? It is me, Hey, Nick, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning
Speaker 1: from What Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning
Speaker 1: the radio show. Uh, okay, what are I gonna say?
Speaker 1: What are they gonna do? You don't have to say
Speaker 1: or do anything. I just gotta have a few questions
Speaker 1: for you about a date you recently went on. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's how it works. One of our listeners emailed us
Speaker 1: to call you. You recently went out with a girl
Speaker 1: named Lisa. Okay, right, and Lisa is wondering why you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back? Okay, So, um, well, I just
Speaker 1: tell you what happened or that would be the goal.
Speaker 1: If you just want to straight up just tell me,
Speaker 1: that'd be awesome. Um. Yeah, I don't know what to
Speaker 1: tell you. I mean, it just didn't work out. Well.
Speaker 1: Is there a specific reason? Um? Not much. I mean
Speaker 1: there was way too much hesitation. There's definitely a reason. No,
Speaker 1: I mean she just Yeah. Listen, when you go out
Speaker 1: with somebody, have something in mind, and if they're not it,
Speaker 1: then you move on. Yeah. I like how your voice
Speaker 1: just gets hired. I'm decided. I mean, an everybody for everybody.
Speaker 1: Why waste time? If if enough for you? That's all? Nick,
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. She told us that
Speaker 1: she had a profile picture on the dating website that
Speaker 1: was eight years younger than she is. Does she look
Speaker 1: a lot different now? And is that why you don't
Speaker 1: want to call her back? I wouldn't saying a lot different,
Speaker 1: but somewhat different, like different enough to where you found
Speaker 1: her unattractive when you saw her. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say unattractive, but it's just I'm just particular, you know,
Speaker 1: and she wasn't my type. Exactly. So I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: just looking for miss perfect, and she wasn't it? That's
Speaker 1: all miss perfect? What is miss perfec? And everybody? Isn't
Speaker 1: that what everybody wants? Almost perfect for them? You know,
Speaker 1: I want Miss Willing, That's what I'm usually going for.
Speaker 1: Miss has a heartbeat? Yeah, I guess I just have
Speaker 1: high standards. I don't know. All right, are you wanna
Speaker 1: I got a friend like you? You're one of those
Speaker 1: I only date perfect ten model type guys, aren't you. No?
Speaker 1: I mean not maybe to other people's standards, but to
Speaker 1: my standards. They have to have certain features or attributes
Speaker 1: that I like. So it was all just like a
Speaker 1: look thing like her looks didn't meet what you expected
Speaker 1: and what you like. Look. I'm just saying, you know,
Speaker 1: I've been on a lot of dates. I've done a
Speaker 1: lot of people here and back home, and and just
Speaker 1: I guess I always find something wrong with each of them.
Speaker 1: You know, what do you find wrong? Though? Like all
Speaker 1: her cuticles were a little like too white? Are you
Speaker 1: that picking? If if I noticed that? Sure that could
Speaker 1: be something, but no, no, but aren't usually bigger than that?
Speaker 1: Like this one girl had like really big gums. You know,
Speaker 1: we obviously that when yeah, very gummy. I'm nick, I'm
Speaker 1: with you. I'm with you on the big gums thing.
Speaker 1: It is distracting. It's true, though, Brick, do you want
Speaker 1: a day to dude with huge gums? I don't know
Speaker 1: that I've ever even noticed gums. You know, obviously you're
Speaker 1: looking at their face most of the time, but you know,
Speaker 1: you gaze and you look down and you see the
Speaker 1: you know, the boobs and stuff that say bobs and stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well that's that was one problem with this girl. It
Speaker 1: was just kind of like weirdly shaped or something. I
Speaker 1: just couldn't are we are we talking about a former
Speaker 1: dat of yours or are we talking about Lisa? Oh no, no,
Speaker 1: former data? Okay, okay, We're just going through a list
Speaker 1: of everything wrong with every women in these data. I'm
Speaker 1: just giving examples of why I'm picky, That's all I mean.
Speaker 1: All right, big gums, weird looking boobs, things like that.
Speaker 1: Turning out and they look like that, then you know,
Speaker 1: who knows what they look like when soft? You know?
Speaker 1: So what was the thing that turns you out about Lisa? Well,
Speaker 1: she had like really like the nose part was fine,
Speaker 1: but like the nostrils were kind of small. What you
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, Like they're just like tiny.
Speaker 1: Her nostrils are too small for her nose. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: the holes part. Yeah, I know what a nori. I
Speaker 1: know what a nostril is. I'm just trying to picture
Speaker 1: a big nose. Little It was just like really small
Speaker 1: and like it looked kind of odd. It didn't look
Speaker 1: like that in the picture, which was surprising. Dude, are
Speaker 1: you being serious that small nostrils are a deal breaker
Speaker 1: for you? Look when you're talking to somebody for an
Speaker 1: hour and all you can focus on is the nostrils,
Speaker 1: there's a problem. But you know, well I couldn't. I
Speaker 1: couldn't take it anymore. You know, you probably have a
Speaker 1: lot of your own imperfections too, right, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I don't, But for me, why should I settle if
Speaker 1: if that's not who I you have with you have
Speaker 1: to be one of the most picky dudes I've ever
Speaker 1: talked to. And I know, I know everybody says that
Speaker 1: to me, But that's whoy I am. Why I'm single?
Speaker 1: But what do you want? It definitely is why you're single.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, but you know, I would love
Speaker 1: to find out if Lisa has had any work done
Speaker 1: to her nostrils and make them smaller. Wouldn't you like
Speaker 1: to find that out? Nick? No, No, that's all right,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really care. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: it didn't work out, so it doesn't matter. I'm moving on. Well,
Speaker 1: it's too bad because she's actually on the other line listening.
Speaker 1: What seriously, my nostrils are too small? What do you
Speaker 1: guys doing to me? What do you ambush people like this? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's kind of the point of the whole segment. So anyway,
Speaker 1: I didn't agree to this, I know you didn't, but
Speaker 1: Lisa did, and now she's on the phone, so you
Speaker 1: might as well talk to her about her small nostrils. Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: what kind of freaky thing is that I could see
Speaker 1: if her nostrils were too big? But it's just my thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. I'm just I'm picky,
Speaker 1: that's all. I don't know if you hurt that part,
Speaker 1: but it was very I mean, I'll just stuff in common.
Speaker 1: And now you're saying it's because my nostrils. My nostrils
Speaker 1: are normal, No, they're not really I'm sorry, they're not.
Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of nostrils, and and they're a lot.
Speaker 1: I see at least a dozen nostrils a day. Apparently
Speaker 1: stack up. I'm sorry. I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: what anybody else thinks about them. I know I'm picky,
Speaker 1: and there were some very nice qualities you had, and
Speaker 1: we had some nice conversation. But for me, just me,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm picky, they were just too small
Speaker 1: and it was distracting. I'm sorry, Nick, How do you
Speaker 1: expect to find the perfect woman with like every single
Speaker 1: thing on her face being perfect? I mean, you're not
Speaker 1: exactly mister hottie. You know you're cute, So what are
Speaker 1: you thinking? Look, if I have to be single for
Speaker 1: the rest of my life because I can't find the
Speaker 1: perfect person for me, then then I'll be single. And
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that. But I'm gonna keep trying. That's cool,
Speaker 1: all right, it's dedication. Well, I have to do this
Speaker 1: no matter what, because it is a second date. Update, Nick,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on the second date
Speaker 1: with Lisa? We will pay for both, you guys said.
Speaker 1: Did I hear both of you guys say no to
Speaker 1: a second date at the same time. Yeah, a look,
Speaker 1: you guys have more in common than you think. The
Speaker 1: only thing apparently all right, Lisa, Well, I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: we couldn't make that happen for you. Okay, thanks and Nick,
Speaker 1: I'll keep an eye out for girls with giant nostrils,
Speaker 1: okay in the morning. My deal breaker. Whenever I meet
Speaker 1: a girl perfect teeth, hate it? Why hate them just
Speaker 1: to turn off to menagging? I like that girl to
Speaker 1: just be screwed up. Spreaken jewel in the morning, I'm moving.
Speaker 1: Ninety two point five locks of text messages coming in
Speaker 1: about the second date. Update. The guy didn't want to
Speaker 1: call the girl back because he said her nostrils were
Speaker 1: too small. He's so picky, it's ridiculous. I can't believe
Speaker 1: how many text messages are coming in commenting on his
Speaker 1: man unit though. Yeah, we got a text message about
Speaker 1: her nostrils, says one of my coworkers has slits for nostrils.
Speaker 1: It's really distracting and I can't stop looking at them
Speaker 1: when I talk to her. Apparently it bothers somebody. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I can't stop looking at your guys's nostrils. Now, this
Speaker 1: is weird just judging everybody's nostrils. My husband's nostrils are
Speaker 1: exceptionally large, and it's sometimes distracting, and I think it's
Speaker 1: from a long life of picking your nose. I've never
Speaker 1: paid enough attention to nostrils. I guess, I guess I
Speaker 1: should start. If you want a second day up date,
Speaker 1: I'll have to do his email the show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewili move nine two five dot com. We will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back.