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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show? Man. I love it

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Speaker 1: Then they wink at man, I know they're listening. You know,

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Speaker 1: you have to give God something too, bless you know,

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Speaker 1: the long haul. No matter what happens. Don't turn around.

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Speaker 1: But guess what you'll eventually get through it provided one

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Speaker 1: when I flunked out of college, had I written myself

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Speaker 1: see if it's God's willingness to forgive you and God's

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Speaker 1: But when it comes to God, there's no money required.

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Speaker 1: But you got to be ready. Oh, I want it

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Speaker 1: So you make the mistakes to learn the lessons. Lord.

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Speaker 1: the time is here, another great day, another opportunity. Gratitude

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Speaker 1: Charley Strawberry caller for real Mississippi Monica Junior, better known

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Speaker 1: as Killed Spits or the legend of nephew tommed So, Junior,

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Speaker 1: what's on your mind today? Yeah, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 1: You know, group vacations now kind of mind? I ain't

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Speaker 1: seeing them wound? And uh, he said, man, we should,

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Speaker 1: How do he like to travel? Okay, we are we

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Speaker 1: in a Hawaii. Yeah, why would you go somewhere for

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Speaker 1: give him suggestions on how to do it? Uh? Well,

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Speaker 1: That that dad, damn you got to vote every time, y'all. Everything,

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Speaker 1: Who did you say or jumped on him? My brother Moses. This. Oh,

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Speaker 1: if he kicked Brother Moses and Brother Moses whooped on him,

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Speaker 1: I can safely say Brother Travis is cured. Now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Brother Moses or before and I've seen him whoop ass. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That would be old school? That would be old school pastor.

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Speaker 1: The youngest one is twenty five, so you know, not three. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: big difference. Flave father the child with his former manager,

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Speaker 1: and the little boy is now three years old. Like

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Speaker 1: we said, flav and the woman worked together back in

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Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, and he initially asked for a DNA test,

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Speaker 1: and once it was confirmed that he is the father Flavor,

427
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Speaker 1: Curt just showed me the picture. I'd have told you, now,

428
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Speaker 1: how old is flav gonna be at this baby graduation? Well,

429
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Speaker 1: he's sixty three now, he's sixty three now the babies three,

430
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Speaker 1: So you got fifteen years right, eighteen, So he'll be

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Speaker 1: what seventy eight? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he gonna be

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Speaker 1: after graduation. But they're gonna have to nudge him when

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Speaker 1: he walked by. Did he called Flavor? But he flavor?

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Speaker 1: Flavor is hell Flave. Yeah. But the clock donna change.

435
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Speaker 1: It ain't gonna be around no more. It's gonna be

436
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Speaker 1: when them tall as grandfather clock, the one you stand

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Speaker 1: up on the end of the corner. Yeah, right right,

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Speaker 1: the clock donna look different, but the Roman numerals, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he gonna have on the same clock that's in London. Wow,

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00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: is Drayton having a little boy? Name is Atlas. He's

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Speaker 1: paying child support and that he's worked out custody arrangements.

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Speaker 1: So I do like that about Flame. Yeah, man, Flav'

443
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Speaker 1: always been a good dad. Yeah, So there you go,

444
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: Flavor Flame at seventy eight he's still gonna be flavor. Yeah,

445
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Speaker 1: they're gonna think that's his granddaddy, though I promise you

446
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Speaker 1: they don't think that's his papa. They go do the

447
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: flavor flame days. Iced to do that all the time.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right? Moving on? Well, um wow. A

449
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: year after Bill Cosby was released from prison, he's heading

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Speaker 1: back to trial for an alleged sexual assault. This time

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Speaker 1: he's been the case. Judy Hues alleges that Cosby groped

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Speaker 1: her at the Playboy mansion in Los Angeles. This happened

453
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Speaker 1: fifty years ago when she was just a teenager. She's

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Speaker 1: suing him for sexual battery in a civil case, and

455
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Speaker 1: Cosby has denied all the allegations. Cosby's attorneys took issue

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Speaker 1: with the accuser changing the details of her story from

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Speaker 1: the alleged assault taking place in seventy five, not in

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Speaker 1: nineteen seventy four as she previously reported. Jury selection is

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Speaker 1: set to begin later today. Now Cosby's eighty four. How

460
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: did this all come out? You know, where does this

461
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: coming from? You know, there's a Playboy documentary streaming on TV,

462
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Speaker 1: and a lot of things are coming out, not just

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Speaker 1: about Cosby but for other people as well because of

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Speaker 1: this whole Playboy documentary. So the behavior that went on

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Speaker 1: at the mansion, oh yeah, it was as a Playboy mansion. Yeah,

466
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Speaker 1: they were wilding. Okay, I just don't understand being quiet

467
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Speaker 1: so long. But it doesn't mean that she was or

468
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Speaker 1: that that she didn't try. Maybe, you know, because he

469
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Speaker 1: was so popular and powerful and powerful at NBC at

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Speaker 1: the time, you know, number one show. So you could

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Speaker 1: be under age and get into Playboy mansion. You could

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Speaker 1: be under age and get into Playboy mansion. Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's no telling what went on there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think anything was possible. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, so

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Speaker 1: um yeah. So now, like I said, jury selection is

476
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Speaker 1: set to begin later today. We'll see how this one goes.

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Speaker 1: Bill Cosby is about what eighty four years old. I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't drink water with him. I'm so scared with him.

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Speaker 1: I'm really sad. Is really yeah it is. This is

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Speaker 1: a civil case, so she's looking for money and um

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Speaker 1: in this particular instance. But um wow, yeah, fifty years

482
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Speaker 1: is a long time. You know. I know you're not

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Speaker 1: supposed to comment, so I can't say, but let me

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Speaker 1: ask you a question, ladies, does this seem fair at

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Speaker 1: this point. Um, if he did it, then it's it's fair.

486
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Speaker 1: There's no time limit, right, that's that's exactly right. If

487
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Speaker 1: he did this, I'm sure this woman wants some kind

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Speaker 1: of you know, pa compensation whatever. Yeah, compensation whatever for

489
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Speaker 1: what she had to go through. Um, yeah, all right,

490
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Speaker 1: that's all the time we have coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Are you registered to vote? We

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Speaker 1: sure hope, so we'll talk about that right after this

493
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Speaker 1: you're listening to morning show. Georgia experienced a record number

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Speaker 1: of early voter turnout for the twenty twenty two primary elections.

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Speaker 1: That's great news, right, more than seven hundred thousand people

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Speaker 1: voted early, and the recent surge shatters the twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: early voting total. Voters have several key races to decide

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Speaker 1: on in the US Senate, US House, and Georgia governor.

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Speaker 1: Tomorrow is Tuesday, May twenty fourth. It is the actual

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Speaker 1: election day. Georgia, Alabama, and Arkansas all have primary elections

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Speaker 1: tomorrow Tuesday, May twenty fourth. So if you didn't vote

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Speaker 1: early tomorrow it's the actual election day, you can vote

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Speaker 1: that day as well. Get out and vote, can vote.

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Speaker 1: We have got to get out and vote in Georgia.

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Speaker 1: Stacy Abrams is on it. Oh yeah, yeah, in the

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Speaker 1: primary for the Democratic nod for governor absolutely Alabama and Arkansas.

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Speaker 1: And if you have any questions, let me tell you

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Speaker 1: dot org. Let me tell you how they are, how

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Speaker 1: afraid they are stay Siable. The campaign between Kemp and Perdue,

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Speaker 1: they're saying Kemp beat stay Abrams before, and he can

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Speaker 1: do it again. That's his campaign against the other Republicans.

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Speaker 1: That's how afraid they are of her. She's brilliant too. Well.

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Speaker 1: They need to be afraid because we're voting for her, right.

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Speaker 1: They're not running against each other. They're running to put

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Speaker 1: somebody in there who they hope can beat stay Siable.

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Speaker 1: All We're gonna shock them, yes, sir, yes, I'll come

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Speaker 1: on Georgia. We got work to do. Yes, we do

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Speaker 1: work to do. That's it. But I mean, yeah, good

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Speaker 1: news though that it was a record turnout. Good news

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Speaker 1: for early voting. Let's keep the momentum going, keep it going.

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00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: And again, if you have any questions about voting, your

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Speaker 1: polling places, all of that for Election Day tomorrow, go

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Speaker 1: to when we All Vote dot org. When we All

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Speaker 1: Vote dot org. It's not too late. We need to

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Speaker 1: keep that same energy we have for the presidential election

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Speaker 1: this year. We got to keep the same voting energy.

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Speaker 1: Mid term elections are coming up. Don't slee up every election,

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Speaker 1: stay woken every election. Yeah, every election, I mean, And

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Speaker 1: the same goes for Alabama, Arkansas, every state, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, every state that has elections tomorrow, every single state.

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Speaker 1: Please get out and vote. Get out and vote. We

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Speaker 1: need you, We need you. It's critical. And to young

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Speaker 1: people that may not have voted in the last election,

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00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: may not been old enough to vote, do your homework,

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Speaker 1: give registered. Let's you know, time and see her. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all, here's a deal. The Republicans have all

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Speaker 1: gotten together and decided to ride that lie out about

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Speaker 1: the election being stolen and fraud. No Republican judge or

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Speaker 1: Conservative judge found any evidence of that at all. It's

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Speaker 1: nothing but a lie. They are up to all the

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Speaker 1: tricks on this one, y'all. We just got show up

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Speaker 1: in vote. That's right, that's right, Steve all right. Coming

543
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Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, a Virginia

544
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Speaker 1: mom is suing a school over the critical race theory.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about. Right after this

546
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Speaker 1: You're Listening show, a white Virginia mom says her thirteen

547
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Speaker 1: year old son has changed since he learned about critical

548
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Speaker 1: race theory and now she's suing the school. In an

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Speaker 1: interview with Jesse Waters Primetime, Melinda Riley says she never

550
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Speaker 1: had issues with her son before the Albemarle School District

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Speaker 1: introduced used him to the critical race theory. Because of

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Speaker 1: the information, Riley says her son now identifies as black.

553
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: Now she's white and the child's father is black, so

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Speaker 1: technically he's bi racial. She is the custodial single parent,

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Speaker 1: and she is very concerned now that her son sees

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Speaker 1: himself as just a black man. Take a listen, Well,

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Speaker 1: he's seen himself just as a black man. He's seen

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Speaker 1: things that don't go his way as racism, and he's

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Speaker 1: finding safety in numbers now. So when you're saying he

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Speaker 1: gets a bad grade at school, he blames racism, or

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Speaker 1: a girl rejects him on a date racism, or those

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Speaker 1: the kind of things you're seeing. Yes, I ask him

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Speaker 1: to clean the house. Racism. Yes, you're kidding, right, Are

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Speaker 1: you serious? No, I'm serious. They have totally changed his perspective.

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Speaker 1: They have put him in a box. See see here's

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Speaker 1: what the problem. Yeah, your son is learning things about himself. Now,

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Speaker 1: you're biracial, so you don't want him just to identify

568
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Speaker 1: with the black But I can assure you if his

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Speaker 1: appearance denotes any tones of blackness, that's how he gonna

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Speaker 1: get treated. And now what he's realizing, and it explains

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Speaker 1: a lot to him now by you being his white mom,

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Speaker 1: and I understand, and you're very, very loving and caring

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Speaker 1: of your son. And that's not what this comment is

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Speaker 1: about that I'm making. But your son, because his father

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Speaker 1: is black, he's identifying with that and he's learning what

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Speaker 1: that means because some things has happened to him that

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Speaker 1: you don't know about and that he can't share with you,

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Speaker 1: and you have no answers for. So maybe because of

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Speaker 1: the way he's looked and he's maybe approached the white

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Speaker 1: girl with it and was turned down, maybe he's starting

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Speaker 1: to get the fact. Hey, maybe because my hand looks

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Speaker 1: like this in my skin tone, that might have something

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Speaker 1: to do with it. You can sue the school all

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Speaker 1: you want, but welcome to the world that we live

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Speaker 1: in on a daily basis. Yeah, And I'm sorry that

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Speaker 1: you think this is being taught in school. It's being

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Speaker 1: taught in his life every day. It's just schools now,

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00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: I got a course talking about it. Y'all mad about that?

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Speaker 1: And it's the truth. Sorry, clean room? Then the reporter

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Speaker 1: the purport if he wants to clean your room, he

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Speaker 1: has a problem. That's racism. Are you serious, lady? We

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Speaker 1: already know it ain't that simple. Yeah, ain't cleaning room

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Speaker 1: while asking me to clean my room. So it ain't

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Speaker 1: that simple. And we know that, right, we know an

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Speaker 1: extreme example. But that's how the world is going to

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Speaker 1: treat him as a black kid and a black man.

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Speaker 1: That's how the world sees him. If you have you know, um,

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Speaker 1: so he's acting accordingly. Now she said the boy finds

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Speaker 1: safety in numbers. Boy, how true? Is right there? I'd

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Speaker 1: like to hear what the school thing about her lawsuit?

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Speaker 1: Same over here, we struggling at we don't. I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: about marching down here at this damn school. What they're doing.

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Speaker 1: See what they're doing. They're putting the kool aid down

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Speaker 1: at thee. See they trying to do with dog. The

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Speaker 1: problem is if the mother has a problem with her

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Speaker 1: son identifying with the black father and the black call.

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Speaker 1: That's what it seems to be the problem. That's the

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Speaker 1: deeper problem. That's the issue. Sounds like because every night going,

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Speaker 1: everybody's not gonna turn out like Tiger Woods lady and

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Speaker 1: get to call the self cablination. That's not how this works. Nope. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you have some black in you, it doesn't, all right, Obama? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're moving on. Coming up next, it is

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Speaker 1: the nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to show coming up at four minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, today's strawberry letter is married to a moocher.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a bit, but right

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Speaker 1: now it is time for today's prank phone call with

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Speaker 1: the nephew. Nephew, what you got bad? Let me look

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Speaker 1: in here and see what I have. What's on the menu? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'll be trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: what to gear y'all. I don't never know if y'all

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Speaker 1: won't advertise on trade dessert. You know I have the

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Speaker 1: most praise on yourself. Well I got that for you.

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Speaker 1: This right here, ladies and gentlemen, has pop up pedicule,

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Speaker 1: pop up pedicule and then we'll praise after that. So

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Speaker 1: y'all stick around here. You Hello, Hello, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: reach Dana. Please, yeah, this is what's up, h Dana. UM,

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Speaker 1: I am calling. We're trying to get a um uh

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Speaker 1: schedule an appointment with you. Your husband has purchased you

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Speaker 1: a pedicure uh pedicure spot. So we wanted to see

631
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Speaker 1: what date, if Saturday, would work for you. Um my

632
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: husband wanted to bore for me. I'm I'm I'm actually

633
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: good right now. I'm gonna wait and till i'm ready,

634
00:45:54,680 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: but thank you very much. But no, this is a

635
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: this is a this is a pop up pedicure. And

636
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 1: what we do is we actually cool. Yeah, we come

637
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: to your house. We have gloves and we have masks

638
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: on and you you stick your foot out the door

639
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:19,720
Speaker 1: and we're going to disinfect everything your foot. You're talking

640
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: about putting my foot out the door. Yeah, so just

641
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: for safety, you stick it. I'm sorry. My name is

642
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: Milton with m Precious pop Up Pedicure. We do pedicure

643
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: as we go around because we know a lot of

644
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: people can't get out. So you know, we're small business

645
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,439
Speaker 1: we're just trying to stay afloat right now. So that's

646
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: but your husband called in about you know, he called us.

647
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 1: He wanted to get an appointment for you. And but

648
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: we come to your house and when you stick your

649
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: leg out, we'll do the pedicure, and then you stick

650
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: the other leg out and we'll do that one. Melton, honey, sweetheart,

651
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Speaker 1: I know you've seen a lot of feet and you've

652
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: done a lot of toes and hands. And let me

653
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: tell you something. I put my feet out the window.

654
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 1: First of all, Well, whichever it is convenient, the window

655
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: of the door, I don't care what it is. If

656
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my feet done, I'm gonna have my

657
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: dump my feet done in a chair inside, and I

658
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: would be I'd be out of my head if I

659
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: put my feet out the window. People don't see my

660
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: feet out the window. That is crazy. And I'm I'm

661
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: coming correct as as a businesswoman, woman's a man, Milton.

662
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: I suggest you just you tell her that back in.

663
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: Maybe you can do some some buy me in advanced

664
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: pettitars like that from my feet are too fragile beautiful

665
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: to be putting out there. Well, well, there there's lives

666
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: the problem man, And if you don't mind your your husband,

667
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: Kelvin is the one that called, and he's the one

668
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,839
Speaker 1: that says that your feet look a mess. So that's

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Speaker 1: why we're calling. He's the one that booked the appointment

670
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: for you. You know what, My feet are beautiful. And again, Milton,

671
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: you know they are they beautiful now? Since you've been

672
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 1: in I'm sorry, use me? Are you? Are you the

673
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: person who should be telling me that? That's till my

674
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: husband who I will have a conversation with after this conversation.

675
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: So I guess my question is, man, you're saying your

676
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: feet are beautiful, but are they beautiful now since they

677
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 1: you've been locked up for a month or so. I mean,

678
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: evidently you ever doing your feet are scaring your husband

679
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: because he's the one calling saying, oh my god, I

680
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 1: gotta get my wife's feet done. My feet are gorgeous, tweetheart, Okay,

681
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: they're beautiful, the supple, the beautiful that got a beautiful

682
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 1: tone of caramel to them. They shine at the sunshine.

683
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: Whether they're policed or not. My husband will love them

684
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: whether they're painted clips. Well, I don't think your husband

685
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: loves them because he called us. Obviously, Milton, you're not thinking,

686
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 1: and I think you need to check with your wife, Wendy.

687
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: Do you know that there's no reason you should ever

688
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,919
Speaker 1: have this conversation with a grown woman about her feet,

689
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 1: is what her husband says. I don't know you, and

690
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be as polite as possible. You will

691
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: not be stepping into my window, are you crazy? I'm

692
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 1: not gonna come in your window. You just stick your

693
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 1: foot out of the window of the door, whichever one

694
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 1: is convenient for you. Okay, it's not that hard. It's

695
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: gonna fifteen twenty minutes and we're done. Oh no, no, no, no,

696
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: you are not getting business fifteen or twenty minutes. Do

697
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: you know how much time it takes to get a

698
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: pedicure done? You know this is well, this is a

699
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: pop up. It's a pop up pedicure, pop up down.

700
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna be driving through with freewos at this point.

701
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm not taking that. No, no, no, no no. And

702
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: I'm having a conversation with my husband to never call

703
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: you again. And I do suggest that you have a

704
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: conversation with Wendy, who I don't know, but I think

705
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: she would agree with me. Twenty ten minutes is not

706
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: long enough. My feet are beautiful. And don't ever call

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00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: me again and tell me that you think, for some

708
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: reason that because my husband told you that they were

709
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: bad feet or I needed to get a pedicure, that

710
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: you have the right to tell me that you don't

711
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: know me. And if you do ever come by my house,

712
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: I swear to God I will stick my foot up yours.

713
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 1: And don't ever ever trying to bring that up to

714
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: me again. Don't call my house. This is what this

715
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: is what Kelvin told us. Man, okay, Levin told me

716
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: what you are not supposed to tell a woman that.

717
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: Like I said, I'm done. I'm okay. But you do

718
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 1: you want do you want to know what else Kelvin?

719
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: Do you want to know what else Kelvin told us

720
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: to do? Do you want to know what else Kelvin

721
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: told us to do? No? I don't, okay, okay, but

722
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 1: can I just can I just please tell you what

723
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 1: else Kelvin told us? Seconds then I'm hanging up. Okay,

724
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: this is a moment of true Kelvin gave us a call.

725
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: He gave me a call me nephew Tommy from the

726
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey more on the show. He told me the

727
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: prank phone call his wife. No, I'm serious? Are you serious? Yo?

728
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 1: You know what sweetheart? You're you are so on car

729
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: right now because if this had actually been the fruit,

730
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: I would have been throwing my husband out the door.

731
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: Excuse my frankiness. How are you? How are you doing?

732
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: I mean not going to have you on the phone.

733
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 1: If we have a hard hardest, because I love you,

734
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: we can have heart to heart. How you doing? How

735
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: are you doing? How are you doing? Doing this this

736
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: whole pandemic? How are you doing? I'm okay, I'm okay,

737
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm you know, my feet are looking good. But I've

738
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,399
Speaker 1: been listening to you on the day leave and thank

739
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,320
Speaker 1: you put your voice there we go. I appreciate it.

740
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: I've been staying up to beat and everything. You've been

741
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: putting a smile on my face every day. Um, I

742
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: feel like there's a new life here now. So you know,

743
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 1: thinks are great. I love me from Cattleman. Let me

744
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: tell you that I love you too. I appreciate Hey

745
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: twenty twenty, come on, let the nephew know what's the

746
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

747
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: There's nothing better than the seed Harvard Morning Show, the

748
00:51:47,880 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: Banks Radio showing the man. Hey see, yeah, that will

749
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: give you the most praise and worship. Do we still

750
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: have to do it even though she already needed for Yes, yes, nah,

751
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: I need a little mold in that. Don't leave me

752
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: hanging gious at her feet. My feet are beautiful and

753
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: they are supple and Cara male skin tone. Take listen

754
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: in the sun. If you don't stick your foot out

755
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: that window, that dough so I can get this thing done. Girl,

756
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 1: she was not the one about these toes. Get your

757
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: feet done. Go out and get yourself a pedicure today,

758
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: sometime this week. Get yourself a pedicure. Pamper yourself a

759
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: little bit. It's necessary sometimes you need that. All you

760
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: fellas that have never gotten to pedocute? Who what's wrong

761
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: with you? What's wrong with you? There's a lot of men, Tom,

762
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: I know, man, I know. If you can kick a

763
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: tree and chop it in hand, hey man, it's tip

764
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: you to get down there. Yeah yeah, if you can

765
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: open up a bag of potatoes with your feet, oh,

766
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: because that's a hard ass bad open I'm taking that. Wow,

767
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: all right, nephew, thank you. I think we get it

768
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 1: coming up next. It is a Strawberry Letters subject married

769
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 1: to a moocher, and we'll get into that right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. It is time now for the

771
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And before we get to that, I want

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Speaker 1: to let you guys know that candles, candles, Candle are here.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about my Love Collection Candles. They are out

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Speaker 1: and available now at Love Shirley Strawberry dot com. Love

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776
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Speaker 1: and purchase your candles. Hope you love them as much

777
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 1: as I do. From my heart to yours, Love Shirley

778
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: Strawberry dot com. Nice, Thank you guys. All right, it's

779
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: time for the Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice

780
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 1: on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your

781
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. All you have

782
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 1: to do is click submit Strawberry Letter and we could

783
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

784
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now, right now.

785
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

786
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew,

787
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 1: subject married to a moocher. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

788
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: thirty eight year old married woman and my husband is

789
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: thirty four. We've been married for four years and we're

790
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: getting our first house built, so I've had to put

791
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 1: my husband on a budget to make sure we can

792
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 1: afford to furnish our new house. He is the one

793
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 1: that is always shopping and buying gadgets for the house.

794
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: We are sharing one credit card and I give him

795
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 1: an allowance weekly at his request. His money is usually

796
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: gone within two days because he's forgotten. He's a baller

797
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: on a budget and will splurge on a steak for

798
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: lunch a couple of days a week. I blame it

799
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: on his parents, who still enable him and coddle him.

800
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,479
Speaker 1: He's definitely not a mama's boy, but his mama can't

801
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: stand to hear him complain about money. They're retired and

802
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: have plenty of money saved up, so they give it

803
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: to him if he asks. It's gotten so bad that

804
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 1: his mother called me and said she needs my help

805
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: because her son said he's on a budget and can't

806
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: afford to eat lunch during the week. I reminded her

807
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: that her son is bougie and I can't eat leftovers

808
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: for lunch. So's his fault if he can't afford his

809
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:05,359
Speaker 1: overpriced lunches. That's when she opened up about how much

810
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 1: money they've given my husband in the past month. She

811
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 1: called her own son a moocher, and she blamed herself

812
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: since she spoiled him all of his life. She said

813
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: that I have a problem on my hands if he

814
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: doesn't stop spending. She told me to check his closet

815
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: because he's been buying new shirts and leaving out with

816
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: his t shirt on, then putting the new shirt on

817
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: before he walks into his office. My mother in law

818
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 1: wants me to talk to my husband and tell him

819
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: to stop mooching off them. I think it's their job

820
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 1: to finish raising their son. Should I get into the

821
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: middle of their problem, I'll agree with you, this is

822
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: his parents problem, but this is also you and your

823
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: husband's problem. This is the whole family issue right here.

824
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 1: Your husband wants what he wants and he doesn't care

825
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: where he gets it if he can't get it from you.

826
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: If he spends all the money you give him, then

827
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: he'll go to his mom and she'll give it to him.

828
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: So he is a mama's boy in that sense. I

829
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: think he's immature, and I think his mom, you know,

830
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: keeps giving him money because she obviously can't say no

831
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: to him, even now that he's a grown man with

832
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 1: the family of his own. She wants you to talk

833
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: to him and be the bad guy, so to speak.

834
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: And that's a problem. But you all need to talk,

835
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: all of you. Maybe when he sees that you guys

836
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 1: are all in one accord about saving and sacrificing for

837
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: the new house, he'll get it. Maybe not, but you

838
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: got to do something. You got to put some sort

839
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: of system in place where a certain amount of money

840
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 1: goes into the house account. You know. Try that. I

841
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: think that's a good place to start. His parents have

842
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: to be on board with this in order for this

843
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: to work. Though I do know it can be done

844
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,040
Speaker 1: because people do it every day. It's hard for him

845
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: because he's never had to do anything like this before.

846
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: He's been spoiled. His mom told you that, and you

847
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: probably knew it before you married him, and it's all

848
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: part of growing up and being responsible. He is a

849
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: grown man, but his parents need to put a stop

850
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: to him running to them every time he needs money.

851
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: If they want to give him money, leave it for

852
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 1: him in the will. Okay, that's what I say. From

853
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: now on, they're not teaching him anything if they keep

854
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: spoiling him this way. Steve, this letter. It's utterly ridiculous,

855
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. You're not married to a moocher.

856
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: That's not the problem. Now, I don't need This is

857
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: the wrong title for this letter. You're married to what's

858
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: supposed to be a man who doesn't act like a

859
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: man who hasn't grown up and who hasn't been required

860
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: to grow up. That's not a moocher. That's something totally different.

861
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: We dealer hire. This is really ridiculous. You're thirty eight

862
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: and your husband is thirty four. You already was in

863
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 1: trouble with him. Not only is he younger than you,

864
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: but he acts like kid. That's scary. But he don't

865
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: even act thirty four. See if this letter was from

866
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: a sixteen year old or eighteen year old or twenty

867
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: year old, I could be a little bit more tolerant.

868
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: This guy is thirty four years old. So here's a deal.

869
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: We've been married four years. We're getting our first house,

870
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: so I've had to put my husband on a budget. Okay,

871
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 1: that's a little bit of a problem to make sure

872
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: we can afford to furnish our house. You couldn't just

873
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: tell him that. He don't understand that he is the

874
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: one that's always shopping and buying gadgets for the house.

875
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: We're sharing one credit card. I give him allowance weekly.

876
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 1: That's another problem. That's what you do for teenagers. At

877
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 1: his request. His money is usually gone within two days. Wow, dude, suck,

878
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: that's wrong, cause he's forgotten he's a baller on a budget. No,

879
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: he's not a baller on a budget. He's not a baller. See,

880
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: he's just on a budget because what you're described to

881
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:15,800
Speaker 1: be next just threw me off. And he will splurge

882
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: on a steak for lunch a couple of days a week.

883
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: I'll be damn two steaks through your ass, complete out

884
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: of way, two damn pieces of meat. You s got

885
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: the chicken and your asses out in steak. Hold that thought, Steve.

886
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

887
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after be our today's strawberry letter subject

888
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 1: married to a mucher. We'll get back into it right

889
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, Steve, Harvey Morning Show. All right,

890
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. Finish up

891
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: your response. The subject married to a mucher. You don't

892
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: like that title. I don't like the title because this

893
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: is a thirty four year old dude that can't stay

894
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: on budget and does a lot of other things too.

895
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: We haven't gotten into it, but here we go. She

896
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 1: had to put this dude on the budget because they're

897
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: trying to buy a house and they want to be

898
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: able for furnitures. He's the one that's always shopping, buying

899
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 1: gadgets for the house. We share a credit card. I

900
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: give him a weekly allowance. This is what you have

901
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: to do for a thirty four year old. Like I

902
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 1: said at the top of this letter, this letter was

903
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 1: about a sixteen year old, eighteen year old, a twenty

904
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,439
Speaker 1: year old. I'd be a lot bit or tolerant. He's

905
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: thirty four. He's thirty four. What are we talking about him?

906
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,959
Speaker 1: All right? And because he's forgotten and then the money

907
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: is usually gone that she gives him in two days

908
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: because he's forgotten. He's a ball on the budget. No,

909
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: he's just on a budget. He will splurge on a

910
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: steak for lunch a couple of days a week, So

911
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 1: if you're in the restaurant, they got chicken fishing steak,

912
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: and your decision to go with the steak twice throws

913
01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: your whole budget out of what He's not making smart

914
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: decisions somewhere else, and this guy is just not But

915
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: then you explain it in the letter. I blame it

916
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:12,920
Speaker 1: on his parents, who will enable him and coddle him.

917
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: He's definitely not a mama's boy. But his mama can't

918
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: stand to hear him complain about money. They've retired, They

919
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 1: got plenty of money saved up, so they give it

920
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 1: to him if he asked. It's gotten so bad that

921
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: his mother called me and says she needs my help

922
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:30,959
Speaker 1: because her son says he's on the budget and can't

923
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: afford to eat lunch during the week. So you go

924
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: to your mama for that. And then you said he's

925
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 1: not a mama's boy. Excuse me, excuse me. What do

926
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: you think of mama's boy? Is you put him on

927
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: the budget? He mad, he goes as mama told me,

928
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 1: He get on the budget, he can't even have lunch,

929
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: and then she give him the money. That's a mama's boy. See,

930
01:02:57,720 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 1: you're thinking of mama's boy if he got to be

931
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 1: up under all the time. Now, mama's boy, if he's

932
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:05,000
Speaker 1: totally dependent on his mother instead of the other way around.

933
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: When you grow up, you're supposed to take better care

934
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: of your parents the older you get. They shouldn't still

935
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: be taking care of you the older you get. That's

936
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 1: a mama's boy. I reminded her that her son is

937
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: boogie and ken't eat leftovers for lunch, so it's his

938
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: fault if he can't afford his overpriced lunches. That's when

939
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 1: she opened up about how much money they've give him

940
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 1: my husband in the past month. She called her own

941
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: son a mucha and she blamed herself since she spoiled

942
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: him all his life. She said that I have a

943
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: problem on my hands if he don't stop spitting. She

944
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:41,920
Speaker 1: told me to check his closet because he's been buying

945
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: new shirts and leaving out with the T shirt on,

946
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: then putting a new shirt on before he walks into

947
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 1: the office. I hear women say that all the time,

948
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: because when a man won't give him money, there I'll

949
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 1: see women they really see a man. A matter of fact,

950
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: I don't know any man in that boy, which lets

951
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: me know you have a boy, because I don't know

952
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 1: any man who do this. And you know, I don't

953
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 1: know any man who do this because at this age

954
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: I don't hang out with nobody but men. You got

955
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: a lot on your hand, grown ass man's taking care

956
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: of families were sacrificing, so our families can't have a life. Man,

957
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: get out of here. What are y'all tum on and

958
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: putting up? My mother in law wants me to talk

959
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 1: to my husband and tell him to stop mooching off

960
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: of them. I think it's their job to finish raising

961
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: their sons. Should I get into the middle of day problem?

962
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: What do you mean in the middle of day problem?

963
01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 1: This is your problem. This is your problem, ain't they problem?

964
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 1: You ain't in the middle of day problem. You got

965
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: your own problem. What is the daddy doing? You said, parents?

966
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: Where where is his ass at? Or is he in

967
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: the same position the boy? And maybe the boy is

968
01:04:56,760 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 1: emulating his father. That's why the father ain't stepped in

969
01:04:59,880 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: and said nothing. He got this, He got this behavior

970
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: from somewhere. So the boy's mama been been baby and

971
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 1: the daddy too. Maybe the daddy, saw I promise you

972
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't go over Slick Harvey's house asked for a

973
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: damn thing. Ye boy, boy, are you coming over here

974
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: to eat lunch? What? What? What? Ain't you working? Yeah, daddy,

975
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 1: where your money? I spend it on two steaks? Well, yeah,

976
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna beby steak no more. I'm just telling

977
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: you how smooth it come stake when you go you

978
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: didn't started making some saying when you're taking the work.

979
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: You can't come over here, boy, But man, your mama retired.

980
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: We even to come over here. You what, this doesn't

981
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: make any sense what you're saying. He's thirty four. You

982
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: and them enabled him. He acts like a child. You

983
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 1: all treating him like a child. Now, let me ask

984
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 1: you something in this whole letter between you, the writer

985
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: of the letter, your mama ended daddy as anybody thought

986
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: of mentioning manhood to him. But the only one can

987
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 1: tell him how to man act is his father. And

988
01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: his father is solid because I think he's duplicating what

989
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:25,120
Speaker 1: his father did. But then you say they got a

990
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 1: lot of money and they both retired, so somebody did

991
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 1: something right in their family. Should I get in the

992
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 1: middle of the situation. Girl, you in the middle of

993
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 1: your own mess. Look look what his mama told you.

994
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 1: She said, you got a problem on your hands. If

995
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: he don't stop spending, I leave, He's asked, that's what flash.

996
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey promotes a divorce Why It is up on

997
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 1: Instagram at Steve Harvey Fm. To comment on today's Strawberry Letter.

998
01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,480
Speaker 1: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast demand.

999
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk right

1000
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to all right, Junior, it is

1001
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: time for you and sports Talk. What you got? All right? Surely,

1002
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 1: thank you very much. Okay man, Nick Saban, let's just

1003
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 1: gonna get this out of here. Who snitches? Get stitches?

1004
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 1: What a minute? Dree Man? So Nick Saban had the

1005
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:31,320
Speaker 1: number two recruiting class. Takes him had the number one

1006
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: recruiting class. Congratulations Tommy. And Nick Saban said that an

1007
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 1: l bought all day players name, image, and likeness, and

1008
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: Jimbo said, no, he didn't. But hey, Nick, you might

1009
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: want to stop talking because you know you've been buying

1010
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 1: players illegally. That's the addensation now. Also, he threw prime

1011
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: in there, man, he threw coach prime and he said,

1012
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: Dan Sanders got a player he paid a million dollars too,

1013
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:02,800
Speaker 1: name Travis Yeah acts state. Man. Let me tell you something,

1014
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 1: probles say problems. That can't nobody to play for me

1015
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: making more money than me that party. No, And you

1016
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 1: know I'm not saying like these kids now have a

1017
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 1: right to sell their name into likeness and gonna play

1018
01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: for school. Well, how would you act up if they

1019
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: gave you time, if they gave you a million dollar

1020
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 1: to play ball with? What's gonna happen? I'm playing ball.

1021
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 1: I don't do playing ball when I was that age.

1022
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 1: I'm not only playing ball for a million dollars. I'm

1023
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: not gonna miss I swear to God, I'm not gonna

1024
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: miss yeah Yeah. But I don't. I don't understand why

1025
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 1: Nick saved it upset because hey man, you ain't got

1026
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:54,160
Speaker 1: the number one. He don't get his weight, And it's

1027
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 1: kind of like he's saying that HBCU shouldn't be getting

1028
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: these players. Has been running this game forever. That's why

1029
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: they went on the side to pay these kids. Because

1030
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:08,679
Speaker 1: they're paying them anyway. Y'all need to stop the leaders

1031
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 1: off the man's jaw to due Jim Bow they paid

1032
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: some people. Texas got money, y'all paid some people, timing,

1033
01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 1: Yes she did, said yes, do it now, Mississippi Jackson, Stay,

1034
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:30,720
Speaker 1: we ain't got money for water down that held. We're

1035
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:33,799
Speaker 1: trying to get these kids drinking water, get good dorms

1036
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 1: down there. If the ball want to go play for

1037
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,240
Speaker 1: prime time, so can be around. One of the premier

1038
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 1: coaches in the world to day, who's been in the

1039
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: NFL player can understand all the struggles he going through.

1040
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 1: Why can't he go play for prime Come on? Why not?

1041
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 1: As soon as these black kids start playing for black

1042
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 1: players at black schools now here. Come oh, they paid

1043
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: a million dollars. You have no idea how much Crimson

1044
01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:00,679
Speaker 1: tied and paid over the year of all um damn

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Speaker 1: playoffs man missing All right, junior, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Cardi B

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Speaker 1: talks about how she uses her platform as an influencer.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning Show. In a preview for David Letterman's

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Speaker 1: Netflix series called My Guest, My Next Guest Needs No Introduction,

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Speaker 1: Cardi B sat down with Letterman and admitted that she

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Speaker 1: doesn't discuss politics in her rap lyrics, but she does

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Speaker 1: use her platform to express her views on political issues.

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Speaker 1: Cardi b has always been open to engage with politicians.

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Speaker 1: She sat down for interviews with both Senator Bernie Sanders

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Speaker 1: and President Joe Biden. Cardie stated that she feels like

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Speaker 1: she has a responsibility to speak out. Take a listen.

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Speaker 1: I think people in your position have a strength in

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Speaker 1: terms of political activism and changing the world and changing

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01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: the way people feel and think not only about themselves,

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Speaker 1: but the problem to the world as large as wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I don't really put a lot of political things in

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Speaker 1: my music, but I use the filet on my platform,

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Speaker 1: and I have used my platform even when I was

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Speaker 1: a dancer. Because you might think that people are not looking,

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Speaker 1: but they are. Yeah, people may not understand, people may

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Speaker 1: be ignorant, and so somebody that they admire, somebody that

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Speaker 1: they respect, expresses a viewpoint on something current and controversial.

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Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah, that's that's like being in class. That's

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Speaker 1: a direction. Okay, Karting, all right? Nice? Yeah, I mean, yeah, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you use your platform to speak out when I of course,

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Speaker 1: I mean you know you, I mean, what's it for

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Speaker 1: if you have to do something of meaning with your life,

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Speaker 1: everything can't be ha ha he he. Because people want

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Speaker 1: people want to be inspired, people want to be given hope,

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Speaker 1: people want direction, people want information. Everybody needs that. You know,

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Speaker 1: when you ain't laughing, you know you got to be

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Speaker 1: doing something. So we just always have taking a point

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Speaker 1: on this radio show to be a part of that,

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Speaker 1: to do the things as necessary to help educate, to

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Speaker 1: help motivate, to help, you know, inform our listeners. It's

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Speaker 1: our platform. You know, we stand up and we stand

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Speaker 1: up for justice. Injustice yeah, you know, we call out

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Speaker 1: people we need calling out. Man. What about I think

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Speaker 1: we talked about this last week, did we athletes and

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Speaker 1: actors who use their platform to speak out? I think

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Speaker 1: specifically Lebron's name was used because he's starting to do

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Speaker 1: that more and more. I mean, I think he's done

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Speaker 1: a great job of it. It's not his obligation, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but for them to take it on like a Cardi

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Speaker 1: b or Lebron or Steph and Patrick Beverly and Carmelo

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01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 1: and Colin Kaepernick and all these guys to bring awareness

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Speaker 1: all of the football players and stuff that knelt you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Even though it gathered the wrong attention,

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Speaker 1: and even though they flipped the narrative damn President Trump

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Speaker 1: because he was trying to you know, uh, I man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think, I think. I think it's great when young

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Speaker 1: people take that platform and do something with it. And

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Speaker 1: as far as h shut up and dribble, uh you

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Speaker 1: shut up and just do the damn news right and

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Speaker 1: let them seat. Yeah yeah, see see that's what you do.

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Speaker 1: But see and then I want to say something else too.

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Speaker 1: As black people, we can't afford to just be who

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Speaker 1: we are. We have an obligation to guide, uplift, motivate,

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Speaker 1: to be come role models. Now, it's hard making a

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Speaker 1: person a role model. You know, nobody wants that put

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Speaker 1: on them. You're but it comes with the territory. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're thrust into the into that position, whether you want

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Speaker 1: to be or not. It comes with the package. Man,

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Speaker 1: And people gonna have some expectations of you. And some

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Speaker 1: of those expectations are unrealistic because the person is famous

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Speaker 1: or rich or athlete or something like that. Hell, they

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Speaker 1: just you know, right. But but Muhammad Ali had a

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Speaker 1: lot of flaws. Yeah, yeah, you know, Marl Luther King

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Speaker 1: did it with flaws. The only person did it right

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Speaker 1: with no flaws was Christ Jesus, Jesus, the rest of

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Speaker 1: us all right? Coming up in twenty minutes, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the same Harvey Morning Show. A New

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Speaker 1: York surgeon has a wait list for luxurious Birken Body procedure.

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Speaker 1: That is the new cosmetic surgery that gives patience what's

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Speaker 1: known as the Birken Body. Because it costs a fortune

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Speaker 1: and you still need to know the right people if

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Speaker 1: you want to get one. For seventy five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Seventy five thousand dollars now, doctor Ryan Ninstein has patients

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Speaker 1: picked up from the airport and whisk to his clinic

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Speaker 1: at burged Off Goodman, where they're expertly tweaked and tucked.

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Speaker 1: They're then taken to legendary hotel, the Pierre, two blocks away,

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Speaker 1: where they recover with a twenty four hour nurse and

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Speaker 1: daily visits from the good doctor. Apparently, the procedure is

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Speaker 1: aimed mainly at moms and focuses on postpartum issues like

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Speaker 1: loose skin, muscle damage, hard to loose that and stagging boobs.

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Speaker 1: So there you go, a makeover for if you know

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Speaker 1: the right. Here's the question each person on the show.

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Speaker 1: You have to have plastic surgery. You gonna have to

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Speaker 1: have plastic surgery. What's the one place you're gonna get done?

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Speaker 1: We will have that as soon as we come back.

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Speaker 1: Come back and listen to what the Steve Harvey Morning

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01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 1: Show thinks of themselves. As time spent listening to I

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Speaker 1: know you got to thank you something because you're perfect.

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01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: So you take your time, you'll go last. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with the Morning Show with the crew

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Speaker 1: thirty three after right after you're listening to Steven Show.

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Speaker 1: So the question on the table is what would you

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Speaker 1: have if you had to have plastic surgery? What would

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01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 1: you do? We're gonna start you first. Okay, what I

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Speaker 1: have to have I'm telling you right now, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to get this hairline back. I'm going to get it.

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01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm going I got to get that. I'm tired of

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Speaker 1: everybody thinking I'm always surprised. I'm not. I'm just looking

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Speaker 1: at well, I'm looking at you on the zoom Junior,

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Speaker 1: and I do like to say that your hairline and

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Speaker 1: your head sets. Dude, man, it's just amazing. I love

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Speaker 1: that about you. Dog. I'm concerning the ball. Yeah, okay, caller,

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Speaker 1: you got to get one plastic surgery down. What is it?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, tummy, tuck. Now you'll be

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Speaker 1: able to talk to me, talking to you. I don't

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Speaker 1: have on so many crop tops. Y'all gonna be like

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Speaker 1: put the clothes on, never to church. I probably get

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Speaker 1: my thighs done. My thighs, I'm a little tired of together.

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Speaker 1: Make a noise, get them, get them tightened, a little,

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Speaker 1: tightened a little. Yeah, I'll get my thighs done. You

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Speaker 1: know they got it. What tell me because I wanted

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Speaker 1: I'm doing. I want that on how you're doing? And

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Speaker 1: do they have it for Tommy? Whatever you're about to

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Speaker 1: say Tommy, My real answer you can skip. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: not can't what I got ready to say? We're so

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Speaker 1: hrsh because I said my thighs. Yeah, I can't say nothing, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: big dog, I ain't gonna lie to you. Plastic surgeon

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Speaker 1: for the nephew. What I'm gonna be six foot six,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right, Nah, I'm six. They're gonna be

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Speaker 1: able to do that. They got to glue your ass

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Speaker 1: to them stills. Yeah, I can't get that. I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you thirty two ways thirty eight length. Boy, So you

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Speaker 1: get your stomach done. No, I'm already thirty two. I'm getting.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting. I'm getting more legs shirt. I'm gonna be

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Speaker 1: six foot six. Yeah, they do, they getting Thailand. They can,

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Speaker 1: they can give you two inches, Peter Shirley. You don't know,

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Speaker 1: he says, surgery. Yeah, yeah, he says six six Steve. No,

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Speaker 1: hell no, you had to be no chair, shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: six six. You had to walk around in the chair.

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Speaker 1: What about you? I'm getting a six pack, six pack

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Speaker 1: sh coming up. It's the last break of the day

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Speaker 1: for the New Naked Steve Harvey morn all right, we'll

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Speaker 1: be back in forty nine minutes after. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. Here we are, last

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Speaker 1: break of the day on this Monday. This is the

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Speaker 1: beginning of Memorial week, right, Memorial Morning, Memorial Day weekend, Monday,

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Speaker 1: next next Monday. Yeah. Really, when you here about a holiday?

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Speaker 1: He perk up. I got off family. Few don't know

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01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:37,680
Speaker 1: nothing about no damn holiday. I work one east at

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Speaker 1: one time that I never happened. Resurrection. Yeah, man, i'd

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Speaker 1: be going a little. Y'all got no damn respect. See that,

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Speaker 1: see that, it ain't even off Oh wow, Oh we'll

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Speaker 1: be off day. Yeah we will old birthday. But I'm

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Speaker 1: going somewhere. Ain't going nowhere. Yeah, I'm going somewhere being here.

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Speaker 1: Will you ain't going no, damn, just get some rest.

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Speaker 1: M hmmm. I go fishing. Oh that's nice, let's go

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Speaker 1: fishing fish. Where where you going? Your backyard in the

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Speaker 1: lake he came. Yeah, he's got a lake back there.

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Speaker 1: He got a rible that at that river. You ain't

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Speaker 1: got to do that in the moment. Got a new spot,

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Speaker 1: Doggy come that land a week ago. M you didn't

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Speaker 1: tell us about the new spot. M hmmm, so didn't. Well,

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Speaker 1: a press release came out, so it ain't no secret.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, press release, Yeah, press release came. Well, usually

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Speaker 1: you two tell us first before the release comes out. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, Monica, you know, you know, you know, Mole

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Speaker 1: for the South usually let it all out for anything happened.

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Speaker 1: So I really, I really don't be telling y'all nothing.

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Speaker 1: I just be agreeing with it. So I let the

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Speaker 1: Mole for the South explaining let's let's do some questions

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Speaker 1: on the way out. Anything you've ever wanted to ask, motivational, career, money, relationships, anything,

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Speaker 1: Junior Mississippi Monica, any questions. It might as well include you,

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Speaker 1: you know, Sherley Caller, Tommy, anybody. What's on the menu

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Speaker 1: for a Memorial Day? I just found out it was

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Speaker 1: next week, so I hadn't really planned anything. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: take three complete days off though. I know that because man,

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Speaker 1: Le'm gonna tell you something. Family feud. It's really gotten

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Speaker 1: more difficult for me. It's just got for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think I think the standing in the walking.

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Speaker 1: I've gotten older, I'm in shape, but I just it's

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Speaker 1: a busical it's it's it's a beating. It's a beating, man.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna just probably, Yeah, it's not the shoes that,

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Speaker 1: ain't it? Well, idea where one pair of shoot these

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Speaker 1: old alligator boots I had who they was too tight,

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Speaker 1: They were too tight, They was too tight. I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to interview none of them. Damn families. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: y'all doing whatever? Yes, Steve, I will tell you a

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Speaker 1: little bit about myself. Yeah, Well, we went to a

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Speaker 1: commercial break anyway, any other questions anybody else, tell them,

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Speaker 1: Tell them the story about the limo driver that couldn't

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Speaker 1: get his shoe baf Oh. This was Big Larry, the

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Speaker 1: limo driver. We were in New Orleans and Boomerang has

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Speaker 1: this thing that he traveled with that's made out of

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Speaker 1: wood that helps you take off cowboy boots. You put

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Speaker 1: your heel into it and staying on the back of

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Speaker 1: and then you lift your foot right out the boot.

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Speaker 1: So Boom like this guy, Big Larry weighed about three

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Speaker 1: hundred and seventy pounds, but he was about five ten.

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Speaker 1: He was big guy man, and a Boom gave him

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Speaker 1: a pair of cowboy boots. One time and we were

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Speaker 1: downstairs waiting on the limo. He was our limo driver

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Speaker 1: and he always on time. And we had been downstairs

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Speaker 1: in front of the hotel about ten minutes and we

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Speaker 1: came upstairs because we was looking for and we thought

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Speaker 1: something was wrong, so I had to go back upstairs

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Speaker 1: and get something. So Boomerang one came with me. Boy.

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Speaker 1: We passed by Larry's door and it was cracked and

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Speaker 1: Larry was trying to get the cowboy boot on all.

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Speaker 1: You're not quite sure, but he lost as we was

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Speaker 1: passing by his door. The door was wide open. He

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Speaker 1: lost his balance with that boot in one hand and

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Speaker 1: his big ass starting to fall, and he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to go down. Let me tell you what he did.

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Speaker 1: You know how the TV be on that little turntable

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Speaker 1: in your on your dresser, you know where you can

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Speaker 1: swivel it. Yeah, he grabbed the TV to keep from

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Speaker 1: going down, towed the TV off the swivel head it

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Speaker 1: towards the drapes. You know how they had an air

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Speaker 1: condition to write up under the draper. He grabbed the

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Speaker 1: draper to stay up. He told all the damn drapes down.

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Speaker 1: Then he fell back on the corner of the mattress,

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Speaker 1: but the mattress was on the box, so when he

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Speaker 1: fell on the corner of the mattress, it flipped the

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Speaker 1: whole damn mattress over on top of his ass. He

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Speaker 1: told his hotel room up. In about will seconds were

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Speaker 1: in the doorway. I can't breathe. You try to help him?

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Speaker 1: Hell nah, hell na, I was HOLLI I watched this

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Speaker 1: fat ass te TV off a turnstyle take all the

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Speaker 1: drapes down. After rum fell on the corner the bed

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Speaker 1: and flipped the whole damn mattress. Old it was funny

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Speaker 1: until I got the hotel bill. I old the hotel

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Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars on an eighty dollars room, so crazy.

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Speaker 1: That is so funny to me. I never heard that

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Speaker 1: story before. Well, hey, listen, y'all talk to God. He

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Speaker 1: loved hear from me, y'all be good for all Steve

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