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Speaker 1: It is February the twenty fourth. You are listening right

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Speaker 1: now on February the twenty fifth. If you hear my voice,

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Speaker 1: Willy one Shehelf, I'm also co hosting with Fat Stafford.

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Speaker 1: We got Sherman Young he is. He's sick. He's still

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Speaker 2: Just we're reminiscing, dude. My heart really needed that. That

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Speaker 2: Mom is the rock. Mom is the center of the universe.

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Speaker 1: Trio when we'll get into the zoo thing. But just

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Speaker 2: If she's still on New York listening to them, Oh

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Speaker 2: Really, that's all really wanted to talk to me about,

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Speaker 2: was mama. Oh yeah, how many sleeps until you know

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Speaker 2: mama gets back? This is mama's sweater. Do you think

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Speaker 2: Scarlett would like my mama's sweater? Absolutely? Yeah, show her

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Speaker 2: So that's good to hear too. From Charro's sideev yeah,

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Speaker 2: to dive in. Because you were a solo parent as well.

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Speaker 1: You knocked out the greatest dad game that any father

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Speaker 2: Champion Majong Wine Nights Babies. I mean, we're just talking

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Speaker 1: This is no huddle offense. Yeah, this is like what

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Speaker 1: is it, chip Kelly? You're running like a chip Kelly

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Speaker 2: It's here's the deal with when the end pulls, all right,

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Speaker 2: wine night. Either way, we're getting eight ten yards. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean you would think, you right, you would think

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you would think, now, Papa, you would think maybe

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Speaker 2: Honey, don't forget, I got that Bachelor red party. Hey, honey,

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Speaker 2: don't for don't forget. I got that Bachelor ad party

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Speaker 2: coming up. I don't think I can take a scarlett

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Speaker 2: to that. So I'm really devastated. So maybe you know

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Speaker 1: Don't take the kid. Yeah, don't take the leave me

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Speaker 1: Cold fran hits Nashville. It's really cold.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden, it was really beautiful outside and good,

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Speaker 2: you know good. Oh you're going to West Palm good.

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Speaker 2: Oh good, I bet that's kind of warm. That's kind

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Speaker 2: of nice. Good. Uh, you know, I got I get hit.

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Speaker 1: Let your heart, let your hand down, have a little fun,

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Speaker 1: and hey, hey, I love you to death. We're joking.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're joking. We're having we're having some And

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Speaker 1: you looked beautiful, beautiful with your nice son. Pay from

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Speaker 1: the beach, little party boat. Oh and hey, she deserves it.

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Speaker 2: And here's the actual dad act in the midst of

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Speaker 1: What are we? What are we talking about?

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Speaker 2: Like too many like updates and check ins and stuff

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Speaker 2: from with Mama, Bear with Mama. Yeah yeah, I really

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Speaker 2: tried to just do face times with like, hey, we're

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Speaker 1: Oh, we just woke up.

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Speaker 1: We do like you Mama, and letting.

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Speaker 2: Her because Jill was dying for the FaceTime stuff, which

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Speaker 2: that was great.

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Speaker 3: I would like to add to that, there's nothing better

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Speaker 1: It's the best.

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Speaker 3: Whenever you get to go somewhere and go hey, don't worry,

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Speaker 3: we'll catch up more on Sunday. You just kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, if you feel like call me

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Speaker 1: But you put it on the Yeah, yeah, absolutely, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you what you won't get from Papa Team six.

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Speaker 1: And that's a text message with a question of where

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Speaker 1: the diapers? That's a text message with the question what

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Speaker 1: should I feed her today? Yeah, that's a that's the

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Speaker 1: text message of Hey, how do I do the laundry? Hey,

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Speaker 1: not that I do the lie. I don't really hit

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Speaker 1: getting no text about it, no, sir. And did you

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Speaker 1: see that outfit? Bro? I put that outfit together the

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Speaker 1: zoo crushed it. Yes, And I love because she's growing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I kind of took some crazy shots

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Speaker 2: at scar scar Scarlet's face. Yeah, to her face, say

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Speaker 2: you look, Hey, you look dumb dude. Your dad put

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Speaker 2: you in it?

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Speaker 1: Did you choice that? Yeah? Because you look dumb dude.

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Speaker 1: you can't say nothing, say so just go face dude,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, she's she's grown into the boat and she

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Speaker 2: looks cute as hell. Your kids have done? You get

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Speaker 2: a little water, drip it on her face? Are you even?

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Speaker 2: Are you even doing that at home? Sir? She just

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't know that you were supposed

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Speaker 2: She have a good of a Daniel house in the water,

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Speaker 2: just like dumping water all over her patient. Oh, look

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Speaker 2: at her pantic You don't how used to the water, dude.

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Speaker 2: She's gotta get bullied out the assschool.

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Speaker 1: If you keep this up, what are you doing? You

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Speaker 1: can't bring it to the house. Scotty would eat her up, dude,

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Speaker 1: eat her alive. I don't even want to see it happen.

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Speaker 1: Don't bring her around here. Toughen her up and then

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Speaker 1: we'll talk. But uh, yeah, outfit looked great. Outfit was

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Speaker 1: on fleek. I even sent the outfit to mama's. She said, okay,

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Speaker 1: thatt us, I said, watch me work, watch me work

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Speaker 1: with my family. Pass to the zoo. Didn't forget the stroller.

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Speaker 1: This time brought the stroller. Will and I were trying

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Speaker 1: in the family passed. Yeah, we had a good laugh.

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Speaker 1: He's like, maybe if you want to get on the

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Speaker 1: family paths. Oh, we're gay. Hey, we're together, these are kids.

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Speaker 2: I'm cool with that, you know. Yeah, we were both

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Speaker 1: I still bought it my own tickets, but we're like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, obviously. Yeah, but zoo was great. Well we'll

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Speaker 2: a cold one together. I love that. I yeah, my

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Speaker 1: We have this little mister thing that's like a sailine

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Speaker 1: mister that helps like break up mucus. It's for infants,

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Speaker 1: and it's like, uh, you know those O two tanks

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Speaker 2: You didn't need it. Come on the way you were playing,

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Speaker 2: you didn't need that.

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Speaker 1: Are you all right? What was that? I'm good? That

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Speaker 1: was a loogie?

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Speaker 2: I'm really sorry. Good good. Hey, Hey, dads can't afford

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Speaker 2: to get sick, can't afford to be sick. No, they

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Speaker 2: can afford to get sick. You just can't be sick.

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Speaker 1: You can't be sick. Yeah, I did, I did check.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a fever this morning. Good. Yeah, good,

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Speaker 1: it's been better.

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Speaker 2: If you did it, would it would have been really good.

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Speaker 2: You come in, just get all of us sick. Hell yeah,

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Speaker 2: come on, let's raise our immune system, because that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm all about. I'm like again, don't bring him around

430
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 2: unless you toughing them up. I don't want to see

431
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: my kid boy and you get yeah, oh you want

432
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 2: to come over for a play date. First question is

433
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: you get sick? Oh, he's not staying at home. The

434
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 2: problem is it if my kid's bullying your kid, your

435
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,719
Speaker 2: kid's allowing it. That's the issue.

436
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 1: Okay, But the O two tanks so too, thanks.

437
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 2: Two tank, And then I do it. You know, we're

438
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 2: trying to make Scarlet like it. So it's like, hey,

439
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 2: Mama's and dadas are going to do it. So I

440
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 2: started huffing this thing in front of Scarlet.

441
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is so fun. Oh my gosh,

442
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 1: I have the mask on.

443
00:21:53,840 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 2: I'm just going like, dude, eight legit like broke up

444
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,399
Speaker 2: my mucus and stuff in such a way that like

445
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 2: I started having because I have a ton of chest

446
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: congestion right now. Yeah, I all of a sudden lead

447
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 2: the room and I have a coughing fit where I'm

448
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: having a hard time breathing and I'm like feeling it

449
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 2: in my face, you know when you can kind of

450
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 2: like almost feel it like where your lymph nodes are,

451
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 2: where it's like tight like around your jaw. I could

452
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: feel my face getting red, and I'm like I can't

453
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: really breathe, and I like couldn't yell out to Jill,

454
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: and I'm leaned over the trash can just coughing, slash gagging,

455
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 2: and then I and so sorry for anybody with the

456
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 2: week summit. I just start puking Lougi's, which that was interesting,

457
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden, I just start vomiting,

458
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 2: and then Jill's in the other room like what is happening,

459
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,959
Speaker 2: like Sherman, Sherman, and I'm like unable to say anything

460
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: to her. As she turns the corner, I have this

461
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 2: coughing fit because I'm sure I'm dehydrated that all the sudden, dude,

462
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 2: my entire back just locked up, entire back to where

463
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: I just fall to my knees and like grab the

464
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 2: trash can. And Jill's like, oh my god, Sherman, Sherman,

465
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,399
Speaker 2: and it's like talking to me. I'm on all fours,

466
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 2: just like still coughing.

467
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: And She's like, what is going on, Sherman, What is

468
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 1: going on?

469
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 2: In my mind? I'm going good, God, keep asking, yeah, yeah,

470
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 2: because we'll figure it out through me talking. And I

471
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 2: just go water like SpongeBob asking for water, but like

472
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 2: scream it and I'm still like unable to breathe.

473
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: She just keeps a good you don't need water.

474
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: You're choking, Sherman.

475
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: You're choking. You don't need one water, right God, like.

476
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 2: Visceral scream dude. And she didn't get me water for

477
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 2: like thirty seconds, like still asking me, and I like

478
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 2: start pounding to the ground with my fist and I

479
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: like vomit on the floor again and I'm like, give

480
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 2: me a goddamn water, Like I can't breathe. My back's

481
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 2: locked up. I don't know what's going on, but give

482
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 2: me a water. I'm dehydrated. Bro, It's crazy. And Jille

483
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 2: and I are still kind of on the frame. We're

484
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:24,200
Speaker 2: still in the frints about it. My god, I know

485
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 2: it was crazy, dude, the backlocking up, Like, what what's happening?

486
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 2: Like I've always had really really bad hip flexers from

487
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 2: like tracking soccer days, which like led to my quads, yeah,

488
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: getting tight, and so that whole it band that like

489
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 2: goes into your lower back, like if those two muscles

490
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 2: are causing you to kind of hinge forward because you're

491
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 2: a little tightens sore it my glutes and my lower

492
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: back will tighten up really bad where it's like a

493
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 2: sharp pain, not a sharp pain, but it's like my

494
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: muscles are essentially in like on the sides to where

495
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: I wouldn't I wouldn't say like a sharp pain, like

496
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 2: a structural pain of like nerves, but it's like more

497
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 2: so just those back muscles on the sides of your

498
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: spine just basically saying, bro, sit down, stop trying to stand.

499
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: And that's why I use those KT tape and stuff. Anyways,

500
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: I'm not taking like the best care of myself. I

501
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 2: could stand to lose a good like forty pounds. I

502
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: could stand to lose or I could, you know, work

503
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 2: out way more, get in better shape, stretch way more.

504
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 2: But it's right, but you'd rather take the hard route

505
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 2: good the road less. Take the road less.

506
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: Take it.

507
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: And let's not forget what my new year's resolution is

508
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: to run a four hundred and under sixty seconds. Oh

509
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: that's right, let's not forget about that. But you want

510
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 2: to you know you're waiting. We're starting at the ground level. Yeah,

511
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 2: you're waiting until the week of did you show up world?

512
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: You can. You're a fucking cheetah. You don't need a stretch.

513
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: You don't need exercise and a couple shoulder impingement movements

514
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: and then take off.

515
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 2: Cheetah does not stretch, dude, you make a very good point.

516
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: A cheetah does not stretch. No, all that to say

517
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 2: on a very serious note, I do need to take

518
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: better care of myself. But when I get how you

519
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: get dehydrated. You know I'm drinking water, lollipop. I know

520
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 2: I do drink a lot of water and a lot

521
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 2: of lollipop.

522
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: But I need to drink more. If you drink enough,

523
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be locking up like that. Yes, you know,

524
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: I think they issue it. He gets on a good plan. Yeah,

525
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: we need you.

526
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 2: We need one of those like selfish not team player

527
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 2: blah blah blah.

528
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: Like water. Yeah yeah, when you go and piss in

529
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: the bathroom every morning, every dude, it's not good. It's

530
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: not good letting the team down. I am.

531
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: We need you at a championship level. Yes, where you

532
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 2: were hydrated.

533
00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: P'sing like a light yellow light, dude, because right now

534
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: you would think it's highlighter. It's Gatorade gold gold. It's

535
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: like the the like the no, no, no, no, the

536
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 1: what do you call the embroidery of my hate? A

537
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: nice little Vegas gold? That ain't good, brother, No, not

538
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: at all. Do you have a camera in the living

539
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: room to where you can go back home and then

540
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: watch tape with wifey? Would juck and wish? Dude?

541
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 2: If I had had a name, they remember right here.

542
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: I needed you to get me water. If you're deciding

543
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 1: in your mind you're not getting me water, would I

544
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: rather you have done? Is you start kicking me in

545
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: the face.

546
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: Thank you.

547
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: If you're not gonna give me water, don't just stand

548
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 1: there and you know what's going on, what's wrong? Just

549
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: start kicking me in the face and knock me out. Yeah. Hey,

550
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: I'm glad his eyes were on it though. That's good.

551
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 2: Get something fall out some kind of flipped or fell out, right,

552
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 2: what happened?

553
00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Something the board the SDI just it just stopped recording. Good.

554
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 1: I think that's got disconnected. But we're back.

555
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: That's probably that's probably the PT six gods going a

556
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,719
Speaker 2: Sherman easy because you're still on thin ice with the wifey.

557
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: That could be Jill hacking comes. I really could, Jill,

558
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: I really could. That's that's like you better come correct.

559
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know we had that week with my

560
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 2: friends and I went on the Bacher the baucher atte

561
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 2: party and but like you're using up all your equity

562
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 2: for this moment. That's just you gotta understand.

563
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: There goes the golf trim.

564
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 3: Bye.

565
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 2: But yes, I digress. I digress that that truly is

566
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: the story. Yeah, that's why I'm sitting like an absolute freakazoid.

567
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,959
Speaker 1: Right now, my back. You're Shelley yourself right now, I am.

568
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: We need the pt siccos in the comments. We need

569
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: to get shure them on a plan. We need to

570
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: get them on a plan. Hit me, Hit me with

571
00:28:55,120 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: that Sir Roland meme of just get up, Yeah, get up,

572
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: nine of the seven kingdoms. Everybody go watch it. Great show,

573
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: great show, great show.

574
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 2: I'm truly just sir duncan right now, just beat the

575
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: shit and I can. I you know, I could yield.

576
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: Do you want to? Oh?

577
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: I do have a fantastic tweet from Will Compton really

578
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 2: quick for me. Yeah, but just say like, we need

579
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: to beat these sikhos. We gotta get your mon a plan.

580
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 2: A healthy dad is the right dad. A healthy dad

581
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: is the right dad. And that is like truly something

582
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: I'm striving for, like the I'm eating way better. Okay,

583
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 2: I just want to let anybody know that's willing to

584
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 2: take me on. I am eating way better. We'll get

585
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 2: you right yeah. Yeah, yeah, this is a community driven thing. Yeah,

586
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 2: you have a guy that wants to get better. We

587
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: might have did you start something yeah, which I'm pet

588
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 2: fit Yeah, pt fit okay, pet peta Fit yeah, puppa

589
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 2: team fit movement that was really good.

590
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: Will all right, read your tweet.

591
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 2: All right, this tweet comes from William Compton, William Earl Compton,

592
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: the third Actually, by the.

593
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: Way, put pt fit in the comments. That's the that's

594
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: our comment. Yeah, okay pt fit. Yes, this comes from

595
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: Sir will of House Compton.

596
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 2: On x he said a nine of the seven Kingdoms

597
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 2: I emoji, I emoji and granted this is uh, this

598
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: is like six weeks after the show has you know,

599
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: like the great meme reset of like a nine of

600
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: the seven Kingdoms already took over Twitter. This is like

601
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: a week after he says, a nine of the seven

602
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: KINGDOMSMO finished episode three last night and what on twist

603
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 2: at the end, everybody's on my episod.

604
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: That's six sou.

605
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 2: Hitting for it by tonight, the rolling through the finale.

606
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: What a time to be alive for geod. And he

607
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: provided a nice little duncan egg on therefore a chef

608
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: that was actually found by chef and printed out by chef.

609
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: So I want to give chef his flowers of That

610
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 2: is a hilarious tweet. And you're right, you didn't say

611
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: anything that he directed.

612
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:28,479
Speaker 1: That's facts.

613
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 2: That's facts, dude.

614
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: You're a Game of Thrones fan. What a time to

615
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: be alive.

616
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,959
Speaker 2: It time to be alive, dude. When I learned who

617
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:42,239
Speaker 2: Egg was, what you to like? Put in tweet out

618
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: yere in a week and be like lost, yo, lost?

619
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 2: Have you all been watching shit? What a time to

620
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: be alive? I don't know, John snow was eggon Tugarian?

621
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: What the fuck?

622
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: What Danny's hand you but like she's got not what

623
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: are you all? Sound off in the comment? Sound off

624
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: in the comments, Bro, that was really funny. That was

625
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: really funny. I do have some dad comments, just some

626
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: general comments. If we want to dude, let's engage. Let's engage,

627
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 2: and then you know, we haven't done in a while.

628
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 2: Some of some of the good takes we say, good Carol, Yeah,

629
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: but we'll just get into some good lore.

630
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: We should for dads out there that's thriving, but also

631
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: there's suck. With the thriving, there's a balance. Yeah, we'll

632
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: dive into the to the suck. What does it mean

633
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: to embrace the word good? What does it mean? Yeah?

634
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: Does it mean to enter that mindset I have in

635
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: Woodward on YouTube and where we'd said my fiance has

636
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 2: officially gotten me hooked on the show. We get married

637
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 2: next month we were listening to the episode and Saran

638
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: was talking about his wife's just stational diabetes, and my

639
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: fiance just casually goes, is that what you have?

640
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: Good? Good?

641
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: I'm just now from the wording of this, I'm just

642
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: now figuring out this is coming from this is the girl,

643
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 2: our future, our St. Sixer, just it his betrothed with.

644
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: Is that what you have?

645
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: She replied, Sir, I am not pregnant, nor do I

646
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 2: have diabetes. What in the world that is wild? Future?

647
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: Mt sixer.

648
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: I apologize on the behalf of your ST. Sixer, But

649
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 2: we're just we're figuring.

650
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: We're all figuring out, Hey, you got that right? If anything,

651
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: that just means he's worried about you station divites. Hey

652
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: you have that's what you got. He's just checking in

653
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: on you. Right, What the fuck are you talking talking about? Oh, dyslexia?

654
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: Like you mix up words and said that's what you got? Right? No,

655
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,879
Speaker 1: I got one here from Jorge. This is a new

656
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: dad comment. What's up, gentlemen. Jorge Medina reporting for duty.

657
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,439
Speaker 1: Recently got recruited for the PT six and in boot

658
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: camp right now. He's in budge training. My wife and

659
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: I found out she is pregnant in January and now

660
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: about to finish our first trimester. Let's fucking go like huge.

661
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: I came across your podcast early this month and have

662
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: nothing but tears of joy listening to all the PT

663
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: sixers out there with encouraging messages. Lastly, I want to

664
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 1: give a shout out to my right, to my wife Raquel,

665
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: being the crown on my head and helping me find

666
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: my way back to Jesus.

667
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: Good. Good, that's a great that's a great comment, Jorge,

668
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 2: congratulations to.

669
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: You both, or well done shouting out your future empty

670
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: Siko And he gets it. He's been on for a month.

671
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: He's recently got recruited to BT six in boot camp

672
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 1: right now, so us finish buds training bringing until dad's status.

673
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 1: The seed has been planning.

674
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 2: To be good.

675
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: The heir to the throne might be there.

676
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 2: Oh, he didn't say whether or not.

677
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: He did not say whether. Okay, okay, he did not

678
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: say whether or not. That's what I'm looking for. They

679
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: just finished our first trimester. But he gets it, or

680
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: hey or hey understands the assignment.

681
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: That's a big thing we can get into.

682
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm thinking for our next one that we purely do

683
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: not want to know we legit, want to find out

684
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: delivery date.

685
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 2: I think for the next one. Yeah, fingers crossed that

686
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 2: we even get opportunity. Fingers cross I have a couple

687
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: of general comments. Yeah, money Master twenty one on Spotify.

688
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 2: At what age can will and sums kids start listening

689
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: to the pod? Going to get some good feedback from

690
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 2: the kids crying, laughing emoji. That's a fantastic question by

691
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 2: money Master. Fantastic question.

692
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: I cannot wait for little miss Scarlett to be proud

693
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: of her father. We know at all that he's doing.

694
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: See us cry a lot, oh lot. They'll know how

695
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 1: much we love them, that is true. They'll get to

696
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 1: hear a lot of old stories. Hmm, you know about

697
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: bickering with their sister. Yeah, giving us problems, giving us hell,

698
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: how she struggled with bedtime, missing mama, some of the hacks. Yep.

699
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: I do think of like that age of like eight

700
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 2: nine and eight nine ten range where my mom would

701
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 2: break out the video camera with the red white yellow

702
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 2: chords and plugging into the TV and play some of

703
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 2: my baby tapes. And it was truly like watching a

704
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: bad American idol audition. I'm just sitting there like I

705
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 2: don't want I don't want to see it, put it away,

706
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: and it's like you and I are. That's that's just

707
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: on the internet. Yeah, Scarlet and Rue, not so much

708
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: the videos, but the stories. You're talking about, how I

709
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: shit on you shit on your arm?

710
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: Dad? What do we do?

711
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 2: We got to figure out a way to garden from shockwave?

712
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, damn well we've already done. So what a

713
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 2: great euphemism?

714
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: Yeah? What euphemism? What does that mean?

715
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 3: Uh?

716
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: Euphemism is like a it's like a nice little fun

717
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: code word that you can call something.

718
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that, but it's not a code word. It's a

719
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 2: real roller coaster in Texas. Boom baby, you just boom baby.

720
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 1: Just ephem euphanized, you just euphanized, all over it, all

721
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: over it, Yes, sir, Yes, sir, shockwave baby, shockwave cow pow.

722
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 2: On Facebook. We have a Facebook, Yes we do. Just

723
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 2: learning that yo for the dads, but that makes sense.

724
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 2: You gotta be on Facebook. We're gonna be about the

725
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: dads a lot of that, a lot of the boomer

726
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: generations on face. We're down with the zuck.

727
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: Appreciate you guys, keeping it keeping it real in a

728
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: world where everyone acts as if they have it together.

729
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: So we have a few days when we don't feel perfect,

730
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 1: So we don't feel perfect, can feel alone. You guys

731
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: are bringing the laughs and the feels. Thank you for

732
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: showing the boys our love for the family is enough.

733
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,280
Speaker 1: I'll be shipping out on deployment soon and im thankful

734
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: to have your podcast while I have to be away

735
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: from the family. Thank you for what you guys do.

736
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: It really does make a difference. God bless you gentlemen.

737
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 1: That what was his name, Kyle pout Goal, Thank you

738
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 1: for your service, brother, Thank you for your service. Dude.

739
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 2: We have touched on that so many times, but it's

740
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: worth touch on every single time every time. Dude, to

741
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 2: go and deploy and be away from your family and

742
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: to serve that idea means so much more now that

743
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: I have a family. Yeah, I think to myself, dang, dude,

744
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: that's that's a higher calling that they're wanting to go do.

745
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

746
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: It's a hardship and sacrifice that's involved with all of that.

747
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, man Like having to pull yourself out, essentially

748
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: outside of yourself, to serve something greater than you for

749
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: your country, knowing how hard it is to leave the family. Yeah,

750
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: and put everything in place with a strong rock you

751
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: must have at home with wifey and just man, it

752
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: would be brutal to leave the kiddos.

753
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, didn't grow up with a whole lot of

754
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 2: military families, although there's a really big base in Fort Worth.

755
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 2: But if if anything, every single military mom that I've

756
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 2: met it like, you're exactly right. It's like that rock mentality, dude. Yeah,

757
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: holding it down, dude. Jill's grandmother had eight kids while

758
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 2: dad was out serving.

759
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: What a monster?

760
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 2: What a monster?

761
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 1: Dude? Yeah, Yeah, dude, My grandpa, William Merle Sr. He served,

762
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 1: but he was always one of those guys. He never

763
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: really told you what he did. That's the best, you

764
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like he just told me. He

765
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: was a cook. It's like God, I just cooked for people.

766
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: And uh, he made incredible eggs. You talk about it.

767
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: You talk about this egg recipe. Now you go over

768
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 2: make the scrambled eggs. He put the bacon bits on tie.

769
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 2: He makes some bacon bits, put him on top with

770
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,919
Speaker 2: some cheese. But the secret ingredient, that's a bad dude.

771
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 2: He put a little pack of sugar.

772
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: Sprinkle it on the eggs and every sugar crazy crazy,

773
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 1: I know, but to be egg scrambled eggs, bacon, and

774
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: a pack of sugar that he'd use inside the eggs.

775
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 2: And it was life changing for me. I always used

776
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 2: to always beside myself.

777
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: Like what do you put in here? And he wouldn't

778
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: tell me for the longest time. He finally told me

779
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: when I was in high school so I could show

780
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: off to the boys. I'm like, I'm trying to like

781
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: spread the spread the good word of these scrambled eggs.

782
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: How you doing it? Grandpa? Grandpa? Yeah? We were very

783
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: I guess traditional, Like everybody was just grandma and grandpa.

784
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: Like all the new stuff like Lowlandopa, that Rue and

785
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: Scottie or that Ru calls her grandparents. All the Mama, Papa,

786
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: all that stuff was not formed. But I'm just like, oh,

787
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: isn't that just grandma and Grandpa. Yeah. And then on

788
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 1: my mom's side, it was like Grandma Jerry and Grandpa Charlie.

789
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: Because on my dad's side we saw them all the time.

790
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 1: They lived the town over. That's all. It'd be like

791
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,439
Speaker 1: Sunday we'd have Sunday dinner, so you all after church

792
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: you go over. It'd be either KFC. You get the

793
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: family serve stuff, KFC bro every now and then they'd

794
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: cook if it'd be a holiday, like they would cook

795
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: and my mom would cook, you know, Kentucky Fried Chicken.

796
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 2: Dude, fried chicken dinner. I don't care where it's coming from, KFC,

797
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 2: Chicken Express, you name it, dude.

798
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, after he passed, eventually we find out like maybe

799
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: my brother's knew because my brother Cody, he was number

800
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: I was the oldest, Cody was middle White's the youngest,

801
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: or Cody hung out of grandma and Grandpa's all the time. Yeah,

802
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: but after he passed, you end up learning like we

803
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: found like a gun h'd used over you know, hit

804
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: some Germans damn. Yeah, found some other old stuff. But

805
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,879
Speaker 1: so he just never talked about it. I always thought

806
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 1: he just cooked. And so when people talk about their

807
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: their family serving or whatever, it's not like I left

808
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: at the opportunity to talk about how my grandpa was

809
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: a chef. Yeah, because it's like it's not like, you know,

810
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: as a kid growing up, you're hearing your somebody in

811
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: the family like being a badass overseas. Yeah, you're like

812
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: telling your friends about it.

813
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 4: Did he stand when they did like things at church

814
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 4: or games. Because my grandpa was an accountant in Hawaii

815
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 4: during World War Two and so he like wouldn't stand

816
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 4: up doing military stuff like it was for the army.

817
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 4: But he was like, no, I didn't really like serve

818
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 4: like everyone else.

819
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: But we were never in situations like that because my

820
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 1: grandpa like pretty much the majority of my upbringing. Funny

821
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: the way they worked. My grandma she lost her hearing,

822
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: so she had hearing aids, so she was she had

823
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: a massive hearing brother. She wouldn't fully deaf, but she

824
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: was almost there. My grandpa was legally blind, so he

825
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: couldn't drive or doing it. He couldn't like leave the house.

826
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: But they just the perfect game. They needed each other,

827
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: They needed each needed each other and just be in

828
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: the house every afternoon, Like you know, you drive by,

829
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:53,879
Speaker 1: you see him sitting on the swing on the front

830
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: porch waving. They had a house on the corner on

831
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: the awning. They had an awning over the window, you

832
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: know those old school lawn They had like a sea

833
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: plant that etched like on the awning, so you knew

834
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 1: it was the Compton house just sitting on the right

835
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: down the road from the park. You'd see him wave like.

836
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 1: We'd be over there all the time, especially in the

837
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: summertime when we were out of school. What we'd run

838
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: down to the to the community pull pay a dollar

839
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: to get in. We'd beat We were pull rats growing up.

840
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: He threw me twenty bucks to move the yard no way.

841
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: And he was a craftsman too, like he'd be out

842
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: in his little garage and he built me like this

843
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: wooden wooden bolt action rifle, a wooden't he built it

844
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: and then had a bolt, a bolt in the wood

845
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 1: a bolt action rifle. Well didn't shoot anything. It was

846
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,800
Speaker 1: just a toy because he knew I wanted like a

847
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 1: beyond that. It was like, I'll make you something else.

848
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 1: When we had our first dog. We got our first dog,

849
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:51,720
Speaker 1: he built a doghouse like a dope. Sturdy, lasted forever.

850
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: Chef gave me a and again legally like legally blind

851
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: like he was. He was nice bro in the garage.

852
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 1: A legend.

853
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: He's a true he's a true Willie One show. He is.

854
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: What was actually about it?

855
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 2: Well done? By the way. On social media, when you

856
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 2: posted something from your house and somebody said you hang

857
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: that TV, and you said, I just threw shells. Check

858
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: out the pod.

859
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, buddy, check out the pod. Yeah. I'm a

860
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: shelf guy. One shelf to be exact. I don't do

861
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: more than one.

862
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 2: I audibly chuckled at that comment. I was, well, that

863
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: was really funny.

864
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

865
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 2: I don't know where I was going with that, but yeah,

866
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 2: you were talking about their grandfather serving all that stuff.

867
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 2: We read a military comment.

868
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you kind of just don't know the tails.

869
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: I guess until they share or even after they pass.

870
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: I felt like I learned a lot more stuff about

871
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: him in the military because when he passes, like the

872
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: military comes and does like this, uh has like this

873
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: moment where they fire off the the weapons. Yeah, they

874
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 1: do all these things, and you kind of just learn

875
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 1: more about it because he never really talked about it.

876
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: All the time. They like fold the flag and yeah,

877
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: yeah that's really really cool. Yeah he was a beast though, Bro,

878
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: he was a beast man.

879
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 2: You're making a custom toy bolt action rifle, Like, that's

880
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 2: a guy that I just want to be in his orbit.

881
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. He tell me how to draw and sketch, Like

882
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: he'd take his magnifying glass and he's like, you know,

883
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: he's like drawing foto pictures for me. He was a

884
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: beast man. What a legend. He'd be yelling at my

885
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: grandma because she was hard hearing my grandma, and I'd

886
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: do there was this one story.

887
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: Could you hear? Could you hear the like your own

888
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 2: voice in the hearing aids because they were turned up

889
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: so loud. Oh, I have no clue I've come across that.

890
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes my grandma.

891
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: She'd just be chilling, you know what I mean. She comes,

892
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: she'd want hugs. She'd want to kiss you, like ten

893
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: to fifteen times. Are you'd be leaning down there, all right, Grandma,

894
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: she'd just be sitting in a rock She would just

895
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: be sitting in a rocker. You were never too big

896
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: to sit on her lap. She wanted you just sit

897
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: in her lap so she could do so she could

898
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: balance you on the knee and just back wump diddy

899
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: womp diddy, woo woo woo. I do that with my

900
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: kids now. But even when I was a high schooler,

901
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: she'd want me. She tap her lap, I come in

902
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: said on her last she's back. Want did Want was

903
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: just like an eighteen year old.

904
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 2: Seventeen year old, Oh, Scollie did Nebraska just getting bounced

905
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 2: by my grandma. What a good woman, dude.

906
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: When I was that good, I was gonna tell when

907
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: I was young, my grandpa yelling at her. Oh, when

908
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: I was young. I forget how old it was. I

909
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: was single digits. I was a little jit.

910
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. We're playing checkers. I was playing my

911
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 2: grandma and checkers.

912
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: She was moving. All of a sudden, she stopped moving,

913
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, my grandma, your turn, you gotta go.

914
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: And my grandpa sitting there, her name was Maxine. He

915
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: called her Mac, Mac, you gotta move, and Grandma, it's

916
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: your turn. He beg Mac, you gotta move. The peace.

917
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, Mac, dammit, hey, and

918
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: then my grandma's sitting there.

919
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 2: Her teeth fall out, starts having a stroll. Hey, and

920
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 2: I'm yo, I see her teeth fall out. She plumps

921
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: in the chair, her teeth fall out. I screamed, bloody, murdered,

922
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 2: sprint to the living room.

923
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: Her teeth fell out. Well, what the hell is going on?

924
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: Because he can't fell out of fella.

925
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: Grabbed the phone down nine one one, grabbed the wired

926
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 2: phone off the wall, and.

927
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: Ambulance everybody comes and get at the hospital. She was

928
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 1: good that she was because I know I'm sitting here

929
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 1: having like the cynical humor about it. Grandma has a stroke.

930
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: Don't play, don't play your checkers. Then my dad one.

931
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 2: Time was helping get her in the car because he's

932
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: taking it to her her beauty appointment, her salon appointment.

933
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she'd have this perm and she was like

934
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:00,320
Speaker 1: traditional school.

935
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 2: She roll all the time.

936
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 1: She rocked the perm and wore gowns like you know

937
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: those like prettier gowns or whatever. Oh, you know, you

938
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: had to kind of help them everywhere. Yeah, And my

939
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: dad was.

940
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 2: Helping her in the car one time. And they're Catholic,

941
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: right yeah, oh no, not not not my dad's side.

942
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 2: They're back, sorry, your mom's side.

943
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom's side was like Roman Catholic. Yeah yeah, yeah,

944
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: but my dad has to take her to the to

945
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 1: a salon appointment, helps get her in the car, doesn't

946
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: fully shut the door. My dad walks around to the

947
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: other side, gets in the car, and all of a sudden,

948
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 1: my grandma falls out of the will falls out. There's

949
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: like a little slope in the front yard. She's like,

950
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: she will, what did Bill do? He was shit oh shit,

951
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 1: you get get up. Damn it, Mac get up.

952
00:48:53,320 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 2: You're good. That's gonna be us, dude, Grandpapa, team, that's

953
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 2: gonna be us.

954
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, Bro.

955
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: They sound like legends did They were legends, Man, they

956
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 2: were legends.

957
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: God, I love that.

958
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 2: The only funny story that comes to mind as far

959
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 2: as my grandfather had Parkinson's. Yeah, and so, like I

960
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: didn't really get to know him like you would like

961
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: your typical granddad because you know, he just wasn't talking

962
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 2: at that point. A sentence would take like five minutes

963
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 2: to get out. So I had some talks with him.

964
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 2: One thing he did say to me when he was

965
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 2: watching the Miami Alabama National Championship on his special edition VHS,

966
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 2: and I was at that game and my mom was

967
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 2: tummy by the way, it took him about fifteen minutes

968
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 2: to get it out because he would kind of shake

969
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 2: and he would work the word up into his mouth

970
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 2: that he'd get it out. And basically the sentence he

971
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 2: told me, he said, ain never gonna be a team

972
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 2: better than the Todd told me that took him fifteen minutes.

973
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: Tell me they never gonna be it. He's sitting there

974
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: like better than the Todd, you're right, and I'm like, yes, yes, sir,

975
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 2: cha cha. But he had this wheelchair and they had

976
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 2: a nurse that had to like live in in the

977
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: house to like take care of cha cha. And he

978
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: was obsessed with girl scout thin mints that was like

979
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 2: his poison, dude, Like, and he couldn't he couldn't like

980
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 2: use his hands or anything. Once the Parkinson's got really bad.

981
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: But one night, dude, this is after like him not

982
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 2: being able to really do anything by himself, the nurse

983
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 2: starts hearing stuff in the kitchen and it's like Julie, Julie,

984
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 2: which is my grandmother's name, because obviously it'd be her, yeah,

985
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 2: not Charlie. He can't even get out of bed, yeah,

986
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: And she comes into the kitchen and flips the lights

987
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 2: on and he's sitting in his wheelchair. He can't. He

988
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 2: kept the thin mints in the freezer because he liked

989
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 2: him cold, and the entire bar of thin mints is

990
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 2: sticking out of his mouth and he's sitting there in

991
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 2: his wheelchair just shaking with the thin He was a

992
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 2: sinko for the thin mins. Dude.

993
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: What a legend and big, big, big time right now

994
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: for Girl Scout Cookies, Big Times metals border on the

995
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:12,160
Speaker 1: other side that's sitting in there. Yeah, shout out.

996
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: Shout out the Girl Scout.

997
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: Shout out Brett Maze and his fan. Shout out for hooking. No,

998
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: shout outs to Brett Mazi, He's a beat.

999
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 2: Sicco bring bring us the more girls Scotty, bring us

1000
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: some more Girls Scout cookies. Shout outs. You gotta deliver

1001
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 2: some girl Scout cookies.

1002
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 1: You every day you'd walk in, my grandpa be sitting

1003
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: in his room because he loved the Westerns.

1004
00:51:34,239 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 2: But he'd be sitting there, have this, you know, the

1005
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 2: little box TV.

1006
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: But he'd be sitting there because again he was he

1007
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 1: was he was legally blind, so he could just kind

1008
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: of see the what like the the shade around the

1009
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: shape of you. He kind of just knew based on

1010
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: size who was who. But you'd walk in and bang

1011
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 1: a left and just look in the room and he'd

1012
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: be like, say, this is the TV. He'd just be

1013
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 1: He's just sitting up in his chair. He'd be like

1014
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: this close, this close watching his Westerns. Will you just

1015
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: actively making his site so much more? Dude, parenthood, barhood, parenthood.

1016
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 2: I got one last one from Gibson eighty eight on Spotify.

1017
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 2: Gibson says, Milk Team six here. My husband and I

1018
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 2: are first time parents. Who is six month old little

1019
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: boy and we love listening to your show together on

1020
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 2: drives to Saint Louis. Well no family come home hoping

1021
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 2: to get your uh, hoping to get y'all's thoughts and

1022
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 2: realize it is not medical advice. We were advised against

1023
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:54,839
Speaker 2: circumcision at birth due to most likely needing a procedure later.

1024
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 2: Now the specialist says, we don't have to do the procedure,

1025
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 2: but they can do it if we want him circumcised.

1026
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: Would he be made fun of later in life if

1027
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 2: we don't do it? Help?

1028
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: Do you want my personal opinion that about? So they

1029
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: gotta advise against circumcision. They want our advice if they should.

1030
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 2: Do it now, our wait for later in life because

1031
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 2: now like they were gonna circumcise, whether they're like, hey,

1032
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 2: if we circumcise, there's gonna have to be a follow

1033
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 2: up procedure just because of what's going on. But then

1034
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 2: they are like, hey, what we thought was going on

1035
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 2: isn't going on. It's a normal like everything's good. So

1036
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 2: if you want to circumcize them.

1037
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: Now you can. We can do it.

1038
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 2: So they want our They know we're not medical experts,

1039
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 2: but they want they know we're not.

1040
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: They're basically asking will they be made fun of? You

1041
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: came to the right spot. You can't.

1042
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 2: This could not be a better podcast for this question

1043
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 2: because I got an answer. He's gonna get made fun of.

1044
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 2: We we had a quoteque unquote and eater because we

1045
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 2: had an ant eater on our soccer team in high school.

1046
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 2: And uh, yeah he knew that.

1047
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: We knew that.

1048
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 2: Everybody knew and it was talked about a lot, and

1049
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 2: he was called an eater. He was called an eater. Yeah,

1050
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,800
Speaker 2: I had a D piece, had nothing to worry about.

1051
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 2: But you know it wasn't a German army helmet. It

1052
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 2: was like, do have some some weapons on them? Yeah, dude,

1053
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 2: they got a little extra something something. Of course, it's

1054
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: gonna it's a D piece. Conversation.

1055
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: It's a conversation piece. Yeah, conversation starter. You're in the

1056
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: shower shower with the boys. You just gotta equip him

1057
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: with some some wit.

1058
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 2: And some humor. Yeah, if that's the route you're gonna take.

1059
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, you sit there a shower and you realize the

1060
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: boys everybody's meat peeking in the shower and you just

1061
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: look over you. I gotta clean him. Yeah, I call

1062
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: him the Hooded Strangers. So what yeah, yeah, you know,

1063
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. We play hide

1064
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: and seek every day. Yeah, you gotta name him. I

1065
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: mean he's gotta yeah, yeah, yeah, he's gotta. He's gotta

1066
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: have a name.

1067
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 2: And he also needs to have a superhero name for

1068
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 2: when you know, yeah, it's almost more like a reverse

1069
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 2: because he's got the cape on. But then when he

1070
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Speaker 2: becomes a fucking megas order.

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00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 1: And then when it's like when it's habsy and it's

1072
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: like almost like a turtleneck on him, giving like a

1073
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: professor name. He looks very you know, well educated. Yeah,

1074
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: he came to the right place. Yeah, have a little

1075
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 1: fun with it, you know, bag and tagget if you will,

1076
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: bag and tagget. But yeah, what's the answer? Hey? You

1077
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: do you?

1078
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 2: I don't think we have no fucking clique how to

1079
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 2: handle this question. So we're just going to our defense

1080
00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: mechanism as humor. Who might be think we're being immature

1081
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 2: and stupid about this, Yeah, but you are asking, you're

1082
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 2: asking a podcast producer and a former NFL player, whether

1083
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,479
Speaker 2: or not a lot. But you know it's not his tip.

1084
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: We don't know.

1085
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 2: I know it involves a lot of extra cleaning. It's

1086
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 2: an actually step with hygieney.

1087
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 1: That's a big bis. You close it up being it

1088
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: and drop a piste bomb in the show. Yeah, like,

1089
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: oh yeah, we'd be doings bombs in the shower. Biz

1090
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 1: would not be cut Like that makes all this in

1091
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: the world. That's awesome. Yeah, it's just like and dude,

1092
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 1: our guy that would get the ant eater comments and stuff.

1093
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 2: He was the man.

1094
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: He was the man.

1095
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 2: He owned it. He had a great personality. That's all

1096
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 2: you need, man, a ton of fun. Great dude totally

1097
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,279
Speaker 2: owned it. And like, yes, it was like a part

1098
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 2: of his identity, Like it will be a part of

1099
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 2: your identity. But like to superpower, Yeah it really, it

1100
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 2: kind of is a little bit.

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00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: It kind of is he's got to know you got

1102
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: something that most people don't have. Yeah, and so you're

1103
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: gonna get questions. I'm sure at times are feeling awkward,

1104
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: But that's the moments for you to come in with

1105
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: the ice breakers. Yeah, you just get equipped with the

1106
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: icebreakers and have the personality with it.

1107
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 2: You're gonna own it. He's gonna crush it. He's gonna

1108
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 2: crush it and'll get in college and word will get

1109
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 2: around and blah blah blah. And he's gonna be at

1110
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 2: a party and the girls gonna come up to him,

1111
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: be like the rumors trail. Yeah, yeah, we can find out.

1112
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: Yeah that was the Green Ranger. They were called Megasors, right,

1113
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: powers Ord Megazor. You know when he had the flute.

1114
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: And the gods will of Megazor like comes out of

1115
00:57:55,520 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: the water. Hey, I kind of heard he just pulls

1116
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: out a flute.

1117
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 2: And I know we're talking about your sweet six month

1118
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 2: old baby boy.

1119
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: That I'm sure is just a sweetheart.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, And y'all will make the best choice. Yeah, y'all

1122
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: make the right because you're his loving parents. We're not experts,

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00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: and I think a good job improving. I think we've

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00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,160
Speaker 1: done a good job etching ourselves into how we should

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00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: be perceived in this one. Some public and private school Sherman's,

1126
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: you wouldn't. I got some stories there. Yeah, you get

1127
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: to the right place. Pt.

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Speaker 2: Sikos. We have interrupted this episode for a good reason.

1129
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 2: I promise you you are here because we want to

1130
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 2: talk to you about Ollipop, And I know what you're thinking.

1131
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 2: All you guys do is talk about Ollipop. Well, wouldn't

1132
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 2: you two if you were drinking this stuff.

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00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: We love Ollipop.

1134
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: We love that Ollipop's team has partnered with us, partner

1135
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 2: with this show for the dads, and they have a

1136
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 2: new flavors Shirley Temple that spoiler alert are drank one

1137
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 2: today on today's episode. I'll open up a second one

1138
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: because I'm that much of a Lollipop sicco. The Shirley

1139
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: Temple is an incredible sweet treat that just feels super light.

1140
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: And you could probably like hear a little frog in

1141
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 2: my voice because I'm a little sick.

1142
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: Check this out. How do I sound chef frog gone?

1143
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean that's like, that's real life. I actually needed that.

1144
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 2: This might be the go down as the greatest ad

1145
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 2: read of all time. And it's nothing to do with me.

1146
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 2: It's just the real life results of Ollipop. I'm not

1147
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 2: saying if you're sick, it's gonna make you feel better.

1148
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,960
Speaker 2: Don't don't take that from this. At what I am

1149
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 2: telling you is this stuff is good. It's reflect it's refreshing,

1150
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 2: and it has four grams of sugar per can, and

1151
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 2: it has a bunch of prebiotics. It's got a bunch

1152
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 2: of plant fibers, botanicals, you name it. It's a guilt

1153
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 2: free new kind of soda that just absolutely ribs.

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01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: Dude.

1155
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 2: It tastes incredible. Ollipop, We literally love you, It's insane.

1156
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 2: Get a free can of lollipop when you buy any

1157
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 2: two cans of ollipop in store, and we'll pay you

1158
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Speaker 2: back for one. So get a free lollipop when you

1159
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 2: buy any two cans of ollipop in store, and they

1160
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 2: will pay you back for one. So it's a little

1161
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 2: bogo action going on. Works on any flavor at any retailer.

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Speaker 2: Drinkollipop dot com Forward slash Busting with the Boys. Ollipop

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01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 2: is sold online at drinkolipop dot com plus Amazon and

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01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 2: available in the soda aisle and with the chilled beverages

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01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 2: at thousands of retailers nationwide, including Walmart and Target. My

1166
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 2: local gas station has just started carrying Ollipop. That's a

1167
01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 2: huge win, huge win. They were late in the game, dude.

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01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 2: Everybody's got Ollipop now, and I'm like, what are we doing.

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Speaker 3: I was in I was in a costco and I

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01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 3: saw a sicko little maybe sixty five year old man

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01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 3: had a carton but filled the broom with ollipop.

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Speaker 1: You know that guy's gonna be a teen.

1173
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 2: Case that they got at Costco. It's undeniable. So guys,

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Speaker 2: make sure go to drink oollipop dot com Ford Ford

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Speaker 2: slash BWTB. That's drinkollipop dot com Ford slash bw TB.

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Speaker 2: Please enjoyed the rest of this episode. All Right, I

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Speaker 2: have crack a cold one to zoo and it sounds

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Speaker 2: like it's a collab a cold one, Yeah, colla crack

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01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 2: a cold one. It's a collab a cracker cold one,

1180
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 2: crack one pink. I've been sipping one already. I've been

1181
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 2: sipping one already. Ollipop Hirley Temple.

1182
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: It's a tasty little treat. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Would you say a collab a cold one?

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01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, collab a cracker cold one, Yeah, collabor a cracker

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01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: cold one. The zoo, we had a zoo day, Daddy

1186
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: daughter zoo day. Most unsure them how my wife was

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Speaker 1: out of town. I think it was on Friday when

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01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: we were doing our for the dad's meeting. Shrips like

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm solo too, wife's going off to the Bets

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01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: Red party, and I was like, good for her Man, good,

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01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: good for us? Yeah good, yeah good. And so we

1192
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 1: took it upon ourselves. Saturday, We're gonna do something together.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get out of the house. We're gonna get

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01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: the kiddos out of the house. We're gonna burn some time,

1195
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Speaker 1: have a little bit of fun. We go to the

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Speaker 1: Nashville Zoo Local Nashville Zoo, Phenomenal Zoo, Phenomenal Zoo to

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Speaker 1: take the kiddos. They love absolutely every animal that comes through.

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01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 1: Scarlett was just chilling the entire time, just being a warrior.

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Speaker 1: We're just having fun, checking the vibes. Where are we at,

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01:02:59,320 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 1: what are we doing, doesn't matter. Just give me the

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01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: banky dude. And Rue was really team leader at the

1202
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: end of the day. Yeah, Ru wanted to see certain things,

1203
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: but also like she's helping try and show the kiddos.

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01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: I had Scottie. I brought out the double stroller. I

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01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 1: knew Ru would want to, uh, probably sit in the stroller,

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01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: not walk around everywhere, so that always think on your feet,

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01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 1: bring the double better to have it not need it

1208
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 1: than need it and not have it. Yeah, dude, Scarlett

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01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: was ripping around in the stroller. We're duoing up. Got

1210
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: a couple four of the dad's fist bumps. You at him.

1211
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 2: I had almost six encounter, which, yeah, that'll be fun too.

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01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 2: I hope that who PETI siko that you knocked me

1213
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 2: and did Yeah. I was holding Scarlet up on her

1214
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 2: stroller with both hands to where like she needed to

1215
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Speaker 2: be held with two hands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like the back end. We were finding

1217
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 1: the exit. So yes, getting ready to leave. We've been

1218
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Speaker 1: there a couple hours.

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Speaker 2: And I totally just neglected my daughter to give out

1220
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:50,800
Speaker 2: a little for the dad's fist pump. As soon as

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01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 2: I let go Scarlet, she's almost eats it.

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Speaker 1: It's like stroller goes sideway chef. Hey, buddy, I love

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Speaker 1: your dad.

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Speaker 2: Podcast nuts.

1225
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh let me let me almost kill my kid nuts. Yeah.

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01:04:09,400 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 1: Oh she's good. Good five second roll.

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Speaker 2: You caught it, though, I caught her saved close one.

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Speaker 1: It was closed, dude. But we ripped around, had a

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Speaker 1: great time. I was really engaging with both Scotty and Scarlett,

1230
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: trying to point at all the Oh look at this

1231
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 1: Scotty squealing. She's got this little squeal when she sees.

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Speaker 2: Like birds or any animal, really, Bro, Rue is fully

1233
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Speaker 2: I don't want to speak for you about your daughter

1234
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 2: for her or for her, but my takeaway of Rue

1235
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 2: from that is like she is at the age where

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Speaker 2: she is very much a help. She is not a hindrance,

1237
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 2: and I'm sure she could be if she had an episode,

1238
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 2: but godly, dude, I mean just an absolute tour guide

1239
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 2: through the zoo for Scarlet. I'll be honest, Bro, she

1240
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 2: is an asset.

1241
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: She is an ass when like say, well, I don't

1242
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 1: remember the last my mom was out of town, but

1243
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,919
Speaker 1: days where it's like me and the girl, so maybe

1244
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: Charles out for the day whatever, which is me at home.

1245
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: But when Mom's not there, something goes off in Rue's

1246
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: brain as I have to help this poor old man.

1247
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: Let's go, dude, I have to help that dat, let's go.

1248
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 1: And so she's always she's been helpful every day that

1249
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 1: mom has been gone. Yeah, like on top of it,

1250
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: like she she's one of those, she's very much a firstborn.

1251
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 1: She's very much like an oldest. Yeah, like got some

1252
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: of the type a that she'll have in her very

1253
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: like structure. Needs to understand the mission, understand the rules,

1254
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: and she'll carry it out. She's a stud. She is.

1255
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: She knows when it's time to put Scottie down, and hey,

1256
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: I need you to put on your pj's a night

1257
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 1: and do all the things. Makes your brush is ready

1258
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: when I get back downstairs, Let's draw. Let's let's draw mom.

1259
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: She loves drawing. Mom pictures every day. Big into the

1260
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: arts and crafts. Love that. But she'll just be quietly

1261
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: doing it downstairs.

1262
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 2: Wall. I'm upstairs putting Scottie down and everything I need.

1263
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 2: Can you help me do this? She's yeah, Bro, she's

1264
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 2: been in an asset the entire I'm.

1265
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,919
Speaker 1: Very open to learn too, dude. That was so much

1266
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 1: fun of She would ask me questions.

1267
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 2: There was the tiger thing that you saw where it

1268
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 2: will show the picture of a tiger, but then it's interactive.

1269
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 2: If the kids flip it around, it shows the muscular

1270
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 2: bone structure of the tiger. And so ru was like,

1271
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 2: Uncle Sherman, what's that pink stuff? And the tiger? What's

1272
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 2: that pink stuff? I was like, that's the tiger's muscles.

1273
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 2: She was like inside the body. I was like, yeah,

1274
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 2: she goes, muscles are pink? I go yeah, And she's like,

1275
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 2: I have you know I have muscles, blah blah blah.

1276
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 2: I was like, that's right. And then when she started

1277
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 2: pointing out the bones, she was like, these are bones.

1278
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 2: Tigers have bones.

1279
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: I was like, they do.

1280
01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 2: I was like, and these are ribs. I was like, ru,

1281
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 2: if you feel right there, can you feel your ribs?

1282
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 2: And she started feeling it and she was like, a

1283
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 2: tiger has way bigger ribs than me. And I'm like, yeah,

1284
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 2: it does, totally, dude. She was just such a joy

1285
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 2: to interact. Dude.

1286
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: We got in the truck to drive home after because

1287
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 1: you know how she was having a moment with Scarlet

1288
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 1: where she's doing throwing the SWR mom sweatshirt up in

1289
01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:10,800
Speaker 1: the air.

1290
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 2: I'll give you that video, chef, because that actually is

1291
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:13,919
Speaker 2: very cute.

1292
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Scarlett's laughing because rus like throwing the sweatshirt

1293
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 1: like up in the air and making her laugh. We

1294
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: got in the car and I was like, grow, you

1295
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: were so kind of Scarlet like, thank you, Like that's

1296
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: very helpful for Dad and Uncle Sherman. It's very helpful

1297
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: for us. And she was just super curious and like

1298
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: why it's helpful. I'm like, well, it's always good when

1299
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: Uncle Sherman and I we get to push your showlers

1300
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: and catch up and talk with each other. And sometimes

1301
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 1: the babies, the kiddos, they need us, So we got

1302
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: to be basically at their beck and call all the

1303
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 1: time for whatever they need, if they need a snack,

1304
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: or they need the beanky, or they need this, or

1305
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: they need to be entertained. I was like, and you

1306
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 1: were doing such a great job keeping Scarlet entertained, talking

1307
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 1: with Scottie, pointing at the animals and help sherman dad

1308
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: add a talk and have fun with each other, watch

1309
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: you guys. And then she'd be like, why is it helpful?

1310
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: And she just had you know, they're in such a

1311
01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: why question phase years old and four years old, but

1312
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: everything's a question, and she's just super curious on learning,

1313
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 1: like why was so, why was that good? Or why

1314
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,560
Speaker 1: did that help you out? It helps Sharm, But yeah,

1315
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: it helped Sarm because Sharm, you know, he's their mama

1316
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: is gone for the weekend, just like your mama is

1317
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 1: gone for the weekend. So Sharm is hanging out with

1318
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 1: Scarlet solo. So he's tending to Scarlet all the time,

1319
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: all day long. Yeah, making sure she has everything and

1320
01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 1: probably has to entertain her, make her laugh and make

1321
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 1: her smile. And you were doing that while we were

1322
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: at the zoo with her, So Uncle Sharam got to

1323
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:32,720
Speaker 1: just have fun hang out with you.

1324
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:37,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. I literally leaned up against the car while she

1325
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 2: was doing it. I truly thought to myself, that is

1326
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 2: so awesome. Like I literally was just leaned up against

1327
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 2: your truck with my arms folded, just watching her make

1328
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 2: Scarlet laugh and giggle. Yeah, And I'm like, dude, that's

1329
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 2: so cool.

1330
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:54,800
Speaker 1: That's so cool, just seeing our kids interact. Yeah, and

1331
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 1: like Ru being like, oh Scarlet that you know, Sharm, Sharm,

1332
01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 1: are you watching she I'm making her laugh. I'm like, yeah,

1333
01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 1: you're killing it, like you keep doing it.

1334
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 2: Like she's a showman. She wants people watching. I didn't

1335
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 2: tell you what she told me. When she was like,

1336
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: hold on, I gotta tell Uncle sherman by she came

1337
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 2: up to me and she said, will you tell Scarlett's

1338
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 2: mom that I liked making her laugh with my sweater today?

1339
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: And I said, I will gladly pass out along. I said,

1340
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,440
Speaker 1: thank you so much for sweetheart.

1341
01:09:27,479 --> 01:09:28,600
Speaker 2: That's such a sweetheart.

1342
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: Jesus me up.

1343
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's a good one.

1344
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:35,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's she's a beast. Man doesn't come without trials

1345
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:39,679
Speaker 1: and tribulation a hundred percent doesn't come without trial tributa.

1346
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:45,680
Speaker 1: She dominated the twelve hour travel time to Hawaii, dominating.

1347
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, how was all that, dude?

1348
01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 1: It was because we didn't even getting into that at

1349
01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 1: the zoo, like how the kids did traveling scott Zilla

1350
01:09:56,040 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 1: was scott Zilla. Love it good? She's a beast, dude.

1351
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: Good she during the travel time, it was again, our

1352
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,680
Speaker 1: first flight took off from Nashville at seven thirty in

1353
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 1: the morning, so we had the kiddos up early. And usually,

1354
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: you know, as a parent, you're hopeful that your little one,

1355
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 1: Scotti is around fifteen months old, but you're hopeful that

1356
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: they like you know, they'll eat their food or take

1357
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: their bottle and then like go to sleep or like

1358
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: zonk out, and you're hoping for like an hour at

1359
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 1: a time. Absolutely, out of the twelve hours of travel,

1360
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:34,760
Speaker 1: Scotti probably slept a total of ninety minutes sporadically. Yeah,

1361
01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: maybe like combined. And then outside of that, like, Scotti

1362
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 1: is a busy body. She is like a she's just

1363
01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: she handles herself like a reckless, abandoned bro like has

1364
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: to be moving, has to be doing stuff. What I

1365
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 1: hated too is Mom had to essentially hold her the

1366
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 1: entire time because she's a big she's a big mommy's girl,

1367
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 1: Like she'll play with me, but she'll play with me

1368
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 1: from mama's arms, or if mom's in the vicinity and

1369
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 1: I'm holding her, she just she reaches and like you know,

1370
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: yells and does all this stuff. So you're trying to

1371
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: like you're trying to think about everybody. You're trying to

1372
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 1: think about everybody around you on the plane because it's

1373
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: a long travel time. Like the first flight in Arizona

1374
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,559
Speaker 1: was like four hours. Then you had like a four

1375
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:16,920
Speaker 1: or five or five hour flight to Hawaii from Phoenix

1376
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: after a couple hour layover. Wasn't it wasn't terrible, but

1377
01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 1: it's like there was no Mom didn't get to nap

1378
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 1: at all. I passed out for a few minutes one point.

1379
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, Scotty, Scotty was tough. Scotty was tough. There

1380
01:11:34,280 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: are moments where you're like you want to put a

1381
01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 1: bullet in your head and hey, take the plane down.

1382
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,200
Speaker 1: Were over the water, put in the water, Yeah yeah, yeah,

1383
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 1: that looks good. Yeah right there.

1384
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 2: She seems that age too. Of like Scarlett, I feel

1385
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 2: like is at the tail end of if we hit

1386
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 2: her with a bottle. If we've been playing with her,

1387
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 2: playing with her, playing with her, getting that energy out,

1388
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 2: and then we hit her with the bottle. We can

1389
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 2: then wrap her in a blanket and incentivized sleep and

1390
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 2: she'll take Yeah.

1391
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, You'll be like, yeah, I guess I could conk

1392
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 1: out for two hours.

1393
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, right here.

1394
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 1: But Scotty's in that phase where she's she's curious about everything. Yeah,

1395
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 1: she wants to play, she wants to climb again. It'd

1396
01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: be like Rue in the middle seat, because Scotty's a

1397
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: lap child, so we're sitting in a three piece row.

1398
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: Rue's in the middle seat. We have this cool little

1399
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:27,519
Speaker 1: like suitcase, a roller suitcase where you can take out

1400
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,639
Speaker 1: and kind of turn it into something like four plane seat.

1401
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 2: That's kind of a shut out. That's a dad hack

1402
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 2: right there. I can't really I don't know what the

1403
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 2: product is.

1404
01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 1: If one of you guys can search it up, I

1405
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: have no clue what to call it, but it's like

1406
01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:41,200
Speaker 1: a little kid's roller, like a roller suitcase. We can

1407
01:12:41,280 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 1: turn it into basically an extra little platform. So if

1408
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: rude does want to sleep. She can lay back. We

1409
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 1: have her pillow, she can kind of lay down on

1410
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,560
Speaker 1: the seat and also in that little space next to

1411
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 1: the legs, she kind of sprawl out. But Scotty didn't

1412
01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: want to stand in the middle part and just hold

1413
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 1: the seat and like engage as people behind us. The

1414
01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 1: people behind us were great, everybody around us great. Knew

1415
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: that we were just in a in trench warfare the

1416
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 1: entire time of Scotti. But she wants to climb. She

1417
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 1: wants to do all the stuff.

1418
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 4: It's a suitcase, you said, will right, Yeah, because I

1419
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 4: found one that's like a ride on suitcase.

1420
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:13,880
Speaker 1: It's like a ride on suitcase, a real ride like

1421
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:16,760
Speaker 1: a horse and you'll have this like longer laying yourd

1422
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 1: thing that you're kind of dragging her and moving around

1423
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: the air.

1424
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 2: It might be stoke looks I mean, there's like foot

1425
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 2: pedals and stuff on this.

1426
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: It looks like she doesn't have foot pedals, but it's

1427
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:29,120
Speaker 1: something like that. That sounds unreal.

1428
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:31,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's it. Yeah, Yeah, is there foot pedals

1429
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 2: on it? Now it's more like grooves, I guess, like yeah,

1430
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 2: but it's got like.

1431
01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,639
Speaker 1: Stickers that they can put on on just Yeah, that's

1432
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: it right there. If you want to show the graphic

1433
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: for a that hack, shout out product, shout out to use.

1434
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 1: It works wonders for us. But we'll have like her blanket,

1435
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: stuffed animals pillow, and then like some arts and crafts

1436
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 1: or books or whatever in there. So it's like her

1437
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: little dang like her little setup. But she rude dominated

1438
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:56,639
Speaker 1: very good, very patient, you know, would ask how much

1439
01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: longer we have kind of be bummed every now and then,

1440
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 1: but not she never had any real meltdowns or anything else.

1441
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 1: Scotty was a tough one. Scotty was a tough one.

1442
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 2: Jill said that about Ru when I like described the

1443
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 2: zoo thing. She was like, she's a firstborn. Yeah, girl

1444
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 2: through and through.

1445
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's super helpful. Yeah. And then for any parents

1446
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 1: out there, like thinking about traveling or doing family vacations, dude,

1447
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 1: just do it like it sucks. The traveling sucks. I

1448
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 1: even told my wife when we were talking about doing

1449
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 1: a vaca. Yet good, like doing a vacation, I also

1450
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:29,720
Speaker 1: want to stay somewhere like in like on the mainland

1451
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 1: to where you're not flying that long. Yeah, because I'm like, dude, Scott,

1452
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 1: he's gonna be a nightmare. She is every time we travel.

1453
01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 1: She's talking me in to Hawaii. Love Hawaii. But I'm like, bro,

1454
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 1: it's such a long travel. But they happy wife, happy life.

1455
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: Come on, you want to go to Hawaii. Let's go

1456
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 1: to Hawaii. The resort was beautiful.

1457
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 3: Uh.

1458
01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 1: But my advice for those people, if you have a

1459
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 1: wife who is adventurous and wants to travel and see

1460
01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 1: things in going vacations, dude, just just eat the grenade

1461
01:14:57,280 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 1: and do it. Because as hellish as it was travelveling

1462
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 1: there because we were wiped out, we got there and

1463
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:06,640
Speaker 1: it just when you get to the destination, it's just

1464
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: so worth it, especially when you you know, we had

1465
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: nothing on the schedule because it was kind of a resort.

1466
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't like all inclusive or anything, but it was

1467
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 1: a beautiful resort. We got upgraded when we got there

1468
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 1: the agent. Because everybody, anybody who's followed me for a

1469
01:15:20,120 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 1: long time or a few years probably knows or understands

1470
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 1: the lore of Expedia when we traveled to Italy a

1471
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 1: few years ago.

1472
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 2: Travel has been a nightmare for the Compton family, and

1473
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 2: to nothing that y'all have done right, Like y'all say a.

1474
01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 1: Nightmare situation with Expedia. I took the country to war

1475
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: against Expedia. We got it figured out eventually, but we

1476
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:40,640
Speaker 1: didn't fly to Italy the time we wanted to fly

1477
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,760
Speaker 1: to Italy. We had our bat, we had everything set up,

1478
01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: we had our tickets, but we apparently weren't in the computer.

1479
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: I was going to do that in the computer, and

1480
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 1: that was a nightmare. So from that, we used one

1481
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:57,040
Speaker 1: of Charles's friends who's a travel agent and apparently she's

1482
01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 1: set up for whoever she works with shout out making

1483
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 1: Taylor go check her out on Instagram. But she was

1484
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,960
Speaker 1: our travel agent and whoever she works with, like they're

1485
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: eligible for upgrades like this list of like five to

1486
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: ten upgrades. If the resort of hotel has it available

1487
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: when you're there, she could qualify for an upgrade. We

1488
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:18,479
Speaker 1: got upgraded bro to the most. I mean it's I

1489
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 1: did my best not to flex, yeah, because I just

1490
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:24,760
Speaker 1: had that vibe where you go and you're you're a part,

1491
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: and you're staying somewhere that you feel like you shouldn't

1492
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 1: be here, you don't belong here, where you feel like

1493
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 1: you made it like it was a four bedroom suite

1494
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:38,120
Speaker 1: with a private pool and it was insane. Hello, and

1495
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm grinning here to hear the entire time, just like,

1496
01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 1: how how do we have this? But it was amazing, bro.

1497
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 1: We got to chill, we pool beach every day, Ruth

1498
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 1: swimming like six seven, eight hours at a time. It

1499
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 1: was very relaxing. It was great to get away. But

1500
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 1: it was a phenomenal vacation. Dealt was some jet lag

1501
01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 1: good it looked at dude, just the little outfits, the

1502
01:17:07,400 --> 01:17:10,680
Speaker 1: little outfits for the girls, and those family pictures that

1503
01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 1: you had, just everything that comes with the vacation that.

1504
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 2: Probably is a pain.

1505
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:20,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that is applied across fatherhood of just

1506
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:26,080
Speaker 1: everything's gonna suck to some extent, but all the extra steps.

1507
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,280
Speaker 2: But then the payoff, dude.

1508
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 1: The payoff is huge. And if you're a dad or

1509
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: a parent out there like me, like I, we went

1510
01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:36,559
Speaker 1: on zero family vacations growing up. Yeah, all of our

1511
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 1: stuff basically went into sports for myself, and so all

1512
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 1: of my vacations were essentially like baseball tournaments or football camps,

1513
01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 1: like whenever my parents can muster up and put towards

1514
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 1: that they did. I would also be the kid where

1515
01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: I traveled with a buddy. So say we're on the

1516
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:53,040
Speaker 1: baseball team, I'd be in the car with you and

1517
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,640
Speaker 1: your family going and staying. We'd be sleeping in the

1518
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 1: same bed. I'd be like to tag a long kid.

1519
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: My parents did everything I can. We were middle class.

1520
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:01,599
Speaker 1: They worked hard, but all of it went towards us

1521
01:18:01,640 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 1: with sports, our passions, everything else. But we went on

1522
01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 1: zero family vacations because didn't have the time, didn't have

1523
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:09,559
Speaker 1: the money, and so it just never happened. Charle kind

1524
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 1: of opened my eyes to vacationing, like even growing up

1525
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 1: in the sports world and playing in college in the NFL,

1526
01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:19,640
Speaker 1: Like when I would go on vacations, it would be

1527
01:18:19,840 --> 01:18:22,040
Speaker 1: I never wanted to be anywhere past like three or

1528
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: four days because you feel like you're out of the structure.

1529
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:27,479
Speaker 1: You feel like you're taking away from things you could

1530
01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:29,800
Speaker 1: be getting better at or chasing that one percent to

1531
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:30,240
Speaker 1: get better.

1532
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:32,879
Speaker 2: For Charle, get me to go on week long vacations.

1533
01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 2: Two week long vacations.

1534
01:18:34,360 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: We spent I want to say, five or six nights

1535
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 1: in Hawaii, DoD family vacations, going and seeing going and

1536
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,560
Speaker 1: seeing different parts of the country, seeing different parts of

1537
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 1: the world, Like, dude, it is those are core memories

1538
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:49,200
Speaker 1: that you're gonna have with your kids that you're gonna

1539
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 1: look back on and you're gonna be happy you did them,

1540
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 1: especially at a young age, because we want to get

1541
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:54,400
Speaker 1: them in a rhythm to where we do a family

1542
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 1: vacation every year, or we get to do it a

1543
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 1: couple of times, Yeah, to where they grow up going

1544
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:00,320
Speaker 1: and seeing different parts and being excited. I did to

1545
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:03,760
Speaker 1: see new things and experiencing new things. But man, take

1546
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 1: the family bacon.

1547
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:06,320
Speaker 2: In the shay, and there are so many ways to

1548
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:10,880
Speaker 2: do it from your standpoint of Like you can do

1549
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:15,519
Speaker 2: the family vacations where you are driving to the Grand Canyon,

1550
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 2: you know, Yeah, and you're driving you find the campsite

1551
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 2: that has like some nice little cottages that are affordable whatever,

1552
01:19:23,640 --> 01:19:26,680
Speaker 2: like whatever the trip looks like just going on a

1553
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 2: trip with family, dude.

1554
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're one hundred percent right, Like you don't

1555
01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 1: need much on the family vacation because there could be

1556
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:34,920
Speaker 1: listeners out there. Yeah, it sounds amazing. You get upgraded

1557
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:36,080
Speaker 1: to a four better and sweet. Yeah.

1558
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you got a lot of money, you got

1559
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 2: the world. You can do all these different things.

1560
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:41,600
Speaker 1: But there would be moments where we're sitting there on

1561
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 1: the beach and all rou wants to do is throw

1562
01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 1: rocks into the water. And I'm thinking of my head,

1563
01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:48,880
Speaker 1: you don't need all of these things to have like

1564
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 1: a phenomenal experience. It's nice.

1565
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 2: It's nice that we get to enjoy it, that we

1566
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 2: get to do these things. This privileged life that they have.

1567
01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 1: They have no clue that they're on a beach in

1568
01:19:57,439 --> 01:20:00,639
Speaker 1: Hawaii right now and this is the peak of life.

1569
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 1: They just want a rock and they want to throw

1570
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:04,519
Speaker 1: in the water. They just want you to join them

1571
01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,240
Speaker 1: wherever it might be and throw that rock in the water.

1572
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:11,680
Speaker 2: We like, truly, I was blessed enough to like get

1573
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:14,519
Speaker 2: to go on some vacations and stuff. And my grandmother,

1574
01:20:15,080 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: I told you, lived in Blue Mountain Beach, Florida, like

1575
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:22,320
Speaker 2: right by Grayton and Seaside and stuff, So like getting

1576
01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 2: to go see her was pretty much a vacation. But

1577
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 2: some of my favorite memories were just like going out

1578
01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 2: into the country with my dad, like west of Fort Worth,

1579
01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 2: where people that know Texas are like, yeah, there's not

1580
01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:39,200
Speaker 2: a whole lot out there until you hit Abilene. Yeah,

1581
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 2: and throwing huge pieces of wood into like a stock

1582
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:47,720
Speaker 2: tank so that they would float like battleships, and then

1583
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 2: sitting there with my brother and my dad and throwing

1584
01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 2: rocks at the sticks until you can snap them and

1585
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:55,600
Speaker 2: break them enough that they would sink. Like that is

1586
01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 2: literally one of my favorite memories as a kid is

1587
01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 2: finding a good stick to go throw in this stock

1588
01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:04,280
Speaker 2: tank and then try and sink it with the rocks.

1589
01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:09,600
Speaker 2: And it's like that cost almost negative dollars. Did Like

1590
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 2: that costs nothing, and you can create that any sort

1591
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 2: of way. So to your point, like, yeah, any type

1592
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:17,799
Speaker 2: of travel, dude.

1593
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:20,200
Speaker 1: Like I remember we'd have like a we do like

1594
01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:23,519
Speaker 1: a we go camping after like a baseball season was over.

1595
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 1: So I remember having fond memories just being in the

1596
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:28,640
Speaker 1: sleeping bag, being in the tent. But I'm sitting here

1597
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 1: like as i'm as I'm thinking through it. It's like

1598
01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 1: the parents, you just enjoy watching your kids have fun

1599
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:38,280
Speaker 1: and engaging and playing with your kids because your kids

1600
01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 1: are they're so in the moment that again, all they

1601
01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:43,840
Speaker 1: need is some sticks, All they need is some rocks,

1602
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:46,280
Speaker 1: Like they don't need much. It's just knowing that you

1603
01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:50,280
Speaker 1: guys are embracing the suck together, figuring out learning things

1604
01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:53,200
Speaker 1: in real time about each other getting to the destination.

1605
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 1: You mom and dad, you're kicking back, You're enjoying whatever

1606
01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: you can, because it's still work when you travel, like

1607
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 1: when we went to Destined last year. Like it's constant

1608
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: work when they're at certain ages being young, like under

1609
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:08,599
Speaker 1: three years old. Yeah, but the moments where you are

1610
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 1: finally relaxing, or you are finally playing, or you are

1611
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,080
Speaker 1: just watching your kid play by themselves and the smallest

1612
01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:18,040
Speaker 1: thing entertained them like that is like the joy that

1613
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 1: you have behind going out on any adventure. Yeah, you

1614
01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: don't have to go far. And again I say that,

1615
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:24,720
Speaker 1: it's like I'm sitting here thinking through It's like, yeah,

1616
01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 1: I'm sure people listen to It's like you have the

1617
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 1: means to do YadA, YadA, YadA. That's true. I'm very

1618
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:30,720
Speaker 1: blessed that I get to do that, which is sick.

1619
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 2: Dude, that's nothing. Yeah, yeah, I'm not ashamed of I'm

1620
01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:37,439
Speaker 2: just thinking how it gets to where even it's relatable

1621
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:39,280
Speaker 2: to people that could be feeling that way.

1622
01:22:39,320 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 1: And it's like, dude, it doesn't take much man.

1623
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:44,639
Speaker 2: At all, and it will suck loading up the car.

1624
01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:48,400
Speaker 1: Oh good good, you're gonna forget to pack a couple

1625
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 1: of things for the kids.

1626
01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 3: Go.

1627
01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're screaming the whole time in the car ride

1628
01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:56,000
Speaker 1: because you're not playing the same song over and over. Good.

1629
01:22:56,320 --> 01:22:58,599
Speaker 2: Good, they're not taking a nap when it's finally nap time.

1630
01:22:58,640 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 1: You just want them to relax.

1631
01:22:59,600 --> 01:22:59,760
Speaker 2: Good.

1632
01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:02,200
Speaker 1: Your two year old three year old's fighting you on

1633
01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 1: that time. I don't want to sleep. I don't want

1634
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:05,200
Speaker 1: to sleep. I know you don't want to sleep. I'm

1635
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 1: just letting you know. If you want to close your

1636
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 1: eyes and let your head back and relax a little bit,

1637
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:11,679
Speaker 1: you're more than welcome to. I don't want to. That's good.

1638
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 1: That negotiation, that yelling is good.

1639
01:23:14,040 --> 01:23:16,280
Speaker 2: She keeps on hitting the same drum button on her

1640
01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:19,760
Speaker 2: little Cube game and goes play the dru plate, the

1641
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:23,679
Speaker 2: drop plate, play play play plate bike play plate, play

1642
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 2: the drums. Good, this is life, this is what it's

1643
01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:32,679
Speaker 2: all about. Good. Keep hitting that annoying sound, Scotty.

1644
01:23:32,720 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 1: That hit the little karaoke box out the other night,

1645
01:23:34,800 --> 01:23:36,519
Speaker 1: and Scotty was taking a microphone and just putting the

1646
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:38,920
Speaker 1: next of the speaker, so it's making the.

1647
01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,559
Speaker 2: Blaring, rotten ass noise and Rue's laughing.

1648
01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, Scottie, stop and she just looks up

1649
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: at me as those shit eating grant and keeps doing it.

1650
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:51,120
Speaker 1: Good Scott, this is bro. Scotty's alt.

1651
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 2: Scotti is an animal. You're at whatever hotel you're.

1652
01:23:55,240 --> 01:23:57,040
Speaker 1: At, they have a pool. Your kid wants to swim

1653
01:23:57,080 --> 01:23:58,880
Speaker 1: all day. It's finally time to relax. They don't want

1654
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 1: to go any dinner. They want to go pool.

1655
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 2: Hey, can we go to the pool after you finally

1656
01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 2: just say, oh, okay, fine, we go to the pool

1657
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:07,040
Speaker 2: after for the love of God. Good Scotty get the

1658
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:11,640
Speaker 2: microphone and getting microphone feedback and just evils.

1659
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: Bro. She's a menace. That's incredible. She's a menace.

1660
01:24:17,160 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 5: Bro.

1661
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:19,920
Speaker 1: She'll go and take She'll go and like takes toys

1662
01:24:20,040 --> 01:24:23,960
Speaker 1: like say, Rue, there's this there's this little game that

1663
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:27,519
Speaker 1: we have from from like the Everly the Everly boxes.

1664
01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, where it looks like connect four. That's a

1665
01:24:30,160 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 1: sequence of colors go down the line. So Rue fills

1666
01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:35,800
Speaker 1: them all right, Scotty will come over and grab one.

1667
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,679
Speaker 1: Rue will get pissed. Scotty knows Scott. They'll be sitting

1668
01:24:39,720 --> 01:24:42,559
Speaker 1: there hand fighting. Scotty ends up grabbing one and immediately

1669
01:24:42,600 --> 01:24:45,040
Speaker 1: when she grabs one, turns around and takes off running

1670
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:47,720
Speaker 1: like Scotty, give that back to Rue, and Rue will

1671
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:49,559
Speaker 1: be kind of like crumbling a little bit, standing by

1672
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 1: the toy, like, Ru, you got you can't.

1673
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,000
Speaker 2: I'm like kind of laughing. You just can't let her.

1674
01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 1: She knows you want that, so she sees that you

1675
01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 1: give her a reaction. That's what she wants.

1676
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 2: She thinks you guys are playing and Scotty, as I'm

1677
01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 2: telling Rue that when she's about to crumble by the toy,

1678
01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:08,840
Speaker 2: Scotty standing at about five feet away, just standing there

1679
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:10,560
Speaker 2: looking at Rue, just wanting her to get up to

1680
01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:12,800
Speaker 2: kind of go after Rue. No, I'll beg see if

1681
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:14,320
Speaker 2: Scotty will give it to you. She be Scotty, can

1682
01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:14,760
Speaker 2: you give me that?

1683
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:17,960
Speaker 1: Please? Scotty will hold it out and take three steps

1684
01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:20,080
Speaker 1: and then once re reaches out, she'll drop a no

1685
01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:22,760
Speaker 1: turn and run. No swear, I swear I'll get it

1686
01:25:22,800 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 1: on film for you every all the.

1687
01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:29,120
Speaker 2: All the time, y'all at the zoo. I'm sitting there

1688
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 2: and Scotty was like kind of in her own world,

1689
01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:34,840
Speaker 2: but she was interacting a ton. But she's like kind

1690
01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 2: of in her own world like Scarlett is, but she's

1691
01:25:38,560 --> 01:25:42,639
Speaker 2: able to actually see animals, point at animals and make

1692
01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:43,600
Speaker 2: you know that, like.

1693
01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:48,120
Speaker 1: And like look at me, like look I see it,

1694
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:49,120
Speaker 1: like you look too.

1695
01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 2: So she was kind of sitting there and like eating

1696
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:54,760
Speaker 2: her snacks, and you were interacting with Rue showing them

1697
01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:58,200
Speaker 2: the monkeys, I believe. Yeah, the girl ill looking at that,

1698
01:25:58,800 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 2: and Scarlet and Scotty they are both just kind of

1699
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:03,720
Speaker 2: in their own little world and their stroller. And I

1700
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 2: know that Scotty understands, like y'all talk to her and

1701
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:08,640
Speaker 2: tell her things, and she does so, so I'm like,

1702
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:09,840
Speaker 2: I know she understands.

1703
01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 1: She's great hiking her head no. Yeah.

1704
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,040
Speaker 2: So I was like, I'm just going to talk to

1705
01:26:14,120 --> 01:26:17,839
Speaker 2: her like an adult, and I was like, hey, Scotty,

1706
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,280
Speaker 2: I was like, this is my daughter Scarlet, And I

1707
01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:24,000
Speaker 2: was like, you do a really good job of waving

1708
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 2: at people. I bet that she would like it if

1709
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:31,040
Speaker 2: you waved at her. And Scotty literally turns to me

1710
01:26:31,680 --> 01:26:34,559
Speaker 2: and looks at me like this and just keeps on staring.

1711
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:37,680
Speaker 2: I go, if you want, dude, you don't have to,

1712
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 2: but if you want to wave at Scarlet, you can

1713
01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:41,599
Speaker 2: wave better.

1714
01:26:42,120 --> 01:26:44,320
Speaker 1: She probably like that. And she's still just looking at

1715
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:47,640
Speaker 1: me like this and she looks over her shoulder at

1716
01:26:47,680 --> 01:26:54,479
Speaker 1: Scarlet and she goes, I was like, that was in

1717
01:26:56,120 --> 01:26:58,599
Speaker 1: You're right though, she is like in her own world. Yeah,

1718
01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: most of the time she's so she's she's such a

1719
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 1: joy to be around. Did you see uh the training

1720
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:06,720
Speaker 1: for the A Gap video. We're in our We're at

1721
01:27:06,760 --> 01:27:09,639
Speaker 1: our spot on vacation. No over there going.

1722
01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 2: Oh oh sorry, she justing the doors. You can see

1723
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 2: Ru's reflection in the door.

1724
01:27:17,240 --> 01:27:18,840
Speaker 1: I sent you the video last night to where she

1725
01:27:19,040 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 1: climbs up on her own little slide that where she

1726
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 1: like she like kick her like pull her heels so

1727
01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:26,760
Speaker 1: that way she can get some traction to go down

1728
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:28,599
Speaker 1: on this little I mean it doesn't stand very high,

1729
01:27:29,160 --> 01:27:31,559
Speaker 1: but she like falls down and kind of falls down sideways,

1730
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 1: hits her head against the wall, like falls in between

1731
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:36,559
Speaker 1: like and like bad, Yeah, hits her head. You can

1732
01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:39,639
Speaker 1: hear the thud, falls like in between the beam back

1733
01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:41,479
Speaker 1: a little bit, and she just gets up smiling. Bro

1734
01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:45,160
Speaker 1: gets up smiling and makes like a little like e no.

1735
01:27:45,320 --> 01:27:50,560
Speaker 1: He's like yeah yeah, And I'm like I showed that

1736
01:27:50,960 --> 01:27:53,360
Speaker 1: text you back on that yeah, yeah, okay, because I

1737
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:54,400
Speaker 1: was like that was hilarious.

1738
01:27:54,400 --> 01:27:57,120
Speaker 2: But I showed instantly Jill that video. I was like,

1739
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:01,640
Speaker 2: that's not normal, baby, But I mean, like, that's like

1740
01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:03,759
Speaker 2: pretty fearless, right.

1741
01:28:03,880 --> 01:28:06,479
Speaker 1: She's Yeah, Scotty is that way. She's way different than Roof.

1742
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:08,920
Speaker 1: We would hit her head going down, she'd have been crying. Yes,

1743
01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:11,720
Speaker 1: she'd been like, Okay, maybe I'm hurt here. I'm kind

1744
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:14,600
Speaker 1: of embarrassed that I fell down. Yeah, very much like

1745
01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:18,360
Speaker 1: the first child that thinks about everything. Yeah, but Scotty's

1746
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:20,479
Speaker 1: got like this reckless abandon about her where she is

1747
01:28:20,640 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 1: kind of fearless.

1748
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 2: She is, to Jill's point, because she sees a bunch

1749
01:28:24,520 --> 01:28:27,280
Speaker 2: of toddlers at her job. The only reason that I

1750
01:28:27,439 --> 01:28:30,200
Speaker 2: was interested in hearing like her perspective. And she was

1751
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 2: like yeah, like that's like a high thing that she

1752
01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:37,840
Speaker 2: just was like, I'm gonna climb that and then hey,

1753
01:28:37,880 --> 01:28:40,160
Speaker 2: guess what I think I'm gonna jump off that too.

1754
01:28:40,920 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 2: Oh didn't stick the landing and just like ate it

1755
01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:49,120
Speaker 2: against the wall. Good goods, Like what a stud dude.

1756
01:28:49,240 --> 01:28:50,960
Speaker 1: We were in the because we're at the kids pool

1757
01:28:51,000 --> 01:28:54,559
Speaker 1: most of the time most of the days, and Scotty's

1758
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:56,880
Speaker 1: in like this one where it's like one foot or

1759
01:28:56,920 --> 01:29:02,320
Speaker 1: it might be six inches eight inches foot deep and uh,

1760
01:29:02,520 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 1: you know, she'd be walking and she would literally tip

1761
01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:07,600
Speaker 1: or fall over her slip and she'd be sideways like

1762
01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:10,240
Speaker 1: under the water in the water and I like, go down.

1763
01:29:10,360 --> 01:29:12,120
Speaker 1: I'll be laughing, come over and just kind of pick

1764
01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:16,080
Speaker 1: her up and she's just like ah, and then get

1765
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,439
Speaker 1: back up and just keep it going, bro. Or I'd

1766
01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:21,040
Speaker 1: like throw a little torpedo rocket in the water, shout

1767
01:29:21,040 --> 01:29:22,200
Speaker 1: out JPJP got.

1768
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:25,800
Speaker 2: Root for those are electric and the kids loved them.

1769
01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 1: But they'd be right underwater where Scotty can reach on

1770
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:29,760
Speaker 1: a grab, but sometimes she'd miss and just go like

1771
01:29:29,840 --> 01:29:32,120
Speaker 1: head first down in the water and she's like, you know,

1772
01:29:32,600 --> 01:29:34,599
Speaker 1: reaching and get up and we'd go oh snap.

1773
01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:36,640
Speaker 2: After the first couple of times, she realized like, man,

1774
01:29:36,720 --> 01:29:39,559
Speaker 2: she isn't she doesn't care. She's not even phased, like, bro,

1775
01:29:39,720 --> 01:29:40,439
Speaker 2: you're drowning.

1776
01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:43,679
Speaker 1: That's going to be I mean that's literally like let's

1777
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 1: say she's playing soccer, volleyball or whatever like in high school.

1778
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:51,080
Speaker 1: She's gonna like eat it, like she's gonna get like hurt,

1779
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:53,160
Speaker 1: and she's literally just gonna be like.

1780
01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:57,960
Speaker 2: And just keep going. Just like that was so bad ass.

1781
01:29:58,160 --> 01:29:59,679
Speaker 1: And I even think about anything else.

1782
01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 2: Anything.

1783
01:30:01,240 --> 01:30:05,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that didn't hurt. That didn't hurt. God, dude, Hey,

1784
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 1: by the way, flying back was hell. The worst part

1785
01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:10,040
Speaker 1: about I feel like vacation two is when you're leaving

1786
01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:13,760
Speaker 1: vacation you don't want to leave and you travel back.

1787
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 1: We took a red eye back for so we left

1788
01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,000
Speaker 1: local time in Hawaii. Six point thirty was the flight,

1789
01:30:19,760 --> 01:30:24,439
Speaker 1: and then we flew seven hours to Dallas. Kids slept,

1790
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 1: kids did a great job sleeping. Mom and dad we

1791
01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:28,519
Speaker 1: got zero sleep for whatever reason. I just can't get

1792
01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:30,800
Speaker 1: comfortable on the plane. Yeah, zero, bro.

1793
01:30:31,040 --> 01:30:33,840
Speaker 2: So when we got back, operated after a red eye, good, yeah,

1794
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:35,599
Speaker 2: good operate on fumes.

1795
01:30:35,720 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 1: Charles's parents were over, ol and open were over at

1796
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:40,800
Speaker 1: the house. They helped for a little bit. But transitioning

1797
01:30:40,840 --> 01:30:43,320
Speaker 1: off a jet lag, that's probably the hardest part. Yeah,

1798
01:30:43,960 --> 01:30:45,800
Speaker 1: coming back, because going there it's not that bad. They

1799
01:30:45,840 --> 01:30:48,640
Speaker 1: still fall asleep. They're exhausted, so they're tired. You might

1800
01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 1: have a couple meltdowns right before bedtime, but overall they

1801
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 1: go to sleep fairly quick.

1802
01:30:52,000 --> 01:30:53,960
Speaker 2: And then they're waking up early. You're waking up early,

1803
01:30:54,040 --> 01:30:55,120
Speaker 2: like four or five in the morning.

1804
01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:58,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's a four hours Yeah, but traveling back

1805
01:30:58,840 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 1: is a nightmare. It is, and it hit us on

1806
01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:05,840
Speaker 1: on Saturday. Charles leaves Saturday, I gotta wake up. This

1807
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:08,920
Speaker 1: is my dad lost a guy. Gotta wake up because

1808
01:31:08,920 --> 01:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I'm handling everything for the weekend, weekend activities. Rue had

1809
01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:14,599
Speaker 1: ballet Saturday morning. Rue wanted to go. Her and Mom

1810
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,000
Speaker 1: have me up in Roue's room the night before, prepping

1811
01:31:17,040 --> 01:31:20,040
Speaker 1: me on ballet, like I know the outfit, but it's

1812
01:31:20,120 --> 01:31:22,240
Speaker 1: like she wants a ballet bunch. She gets a ballet

1813
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:24,919
Speaker 1: a ballet bunch every weekend because Mom was a phenomenal

1814
01:31:25,000 --> 01:31:27,719
Speaker 1: ballet dancer growing up, so Mom always has her prepped

1815
01:31:27,720 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 1: and ready to go to the pristine amount like perfect

1816
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:34,320
Speaker 1: little uh ballet bunt. And Charles is showing me the

1817
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 1: bobby pins will be way too hard for you. You

1818
01:31:36,479 --> 01:31:38,680
Speaker 1: can twist it or wrap it around and you put

1819
01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:40,600
Speaker 1: another hair tie in. And Rue's kind of trying to

1820
01:31:40,640 --> 01:31:42,120
Speaker 1: coach me through it too, and I'm like, I got you,

1821
01:31:42,439 --> 01:31:45,240
Speaker 1: I got you, We'll get you right. I'm watching YouTube

1822
01:31:45,320 --> 01:31:49,439
Speaker 1: videos that night before, like I watched episode one and

1823
01:31:49,560 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 1: two of A Night of the Seven Kingdoms. Then I'm

1824
01:31:51,720 --> 01:31:53,759
Speaker 1: watching a YouTube video on how to do like a ballet,

1825
01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:57,200
Speaker 1: watching film, just watching till watch watch you tape, fail

1826
01:31:57,240 --> 01:32:01,280
Speaker 1: to prepare, Prepare to fail. Yeah, dude, I don't set

1827
01:32:01,320 --> 01:32:03,439
Speaker 1: an alarm the next morning because usually the kids are

1828
01:32:03,479 --> 01:32:07,560
Speaker 1: up around six thirty seven all the time. Yeah, And

1829
01:32:07,720 --> 01:32:09,400
Speaker 1: I wake up in a panic because I think the

1830
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:12,960
Speaker 1: monitor dies because I can't hear Scottie. And I kind

1831
01:32:13,000 --> 01:32:15,679
Speaker 1: of woke up on my own at eight thirty after

1832
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:18,599
Speaker 1: Mom comes down, leaves, puts her in the bed. She's

1833
01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:20,320
Speaker 1: got to get mom's shirt, sweatshirt.

1834
01:32:20,560 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 2: We got to talk about what things we love them

1835
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:24,160
Speaker 2: about mom, what we're gonna miss about mom, what we're

1836
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:25,679
Speaker 2: gonna do while Mom's gone.

1837
01:32:25,720 --> 01:32:27,240
Speaker 1: And then we finally get back to sleep around like

1838
01:32:27,280 --> 01:32:30,040
Speaker 1: six fifteen in the morning. And I wake up at

1839
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:32,240
Speaker 1: eight thirty bro in a panic. You know the feeling

1840
01:32:32,280 --> 01:32:34,560
Speaker 1: when you're just like, oh shit, something happened here. And

1841
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm on I'm on the wall, I'm on watch Rue,

1842
01:32:37,920 --> 01:32:39,760
Speaker 1: still passed out my bed. I'm like, okay, she's good.

1843
01:32:39,760 --> 01:32:41,839
Speaker 1: I see that's eight thirty. I'm like, oh shit, ballet's

1844
01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:44,800
Speaker 1: at nine. We're not gonna make ballet. I text my wife.

1845
01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 1: I just text hey, So I just woke up and

1846
01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:51,600
Speaker 1: we're not gonna make ballet. And my wife's like, do

1847
01:32:51,720 --> 01:32:53,040
Speaker 1: you feel like you could just get the kids up

1848
01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:55,000
Speaker 1: and getting ready to go, Scotty can go in to pajamas,

1849
01:32:55,080 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 1: like basically make it happen. Yeah, it's probably not gonna happen,

1850
01:32:58,920 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 1: but I see because I think the monitor might have

1851
01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:03,400
Speaker 1: died because Scotty is usually up crying something. Because she

1852
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:06,120
Speaker 1: went down at normal time the night before, Scotty was

1853
01:33:06,200 --> 01:33:08,440
Speaker 1: face down. She slept about nine fifteen.

1854
01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:09,519
Speaker 2: But she was getting those hours back.

1855
01:33:09,640 --> 01:33:12,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hawaii caught up to us. But Rue was bummed

1856
01:33:12,560 --> 01:33:14,760
Speaker 1: that we couldn't do ballet because we go upstairs. I'm like,

1857
01:33:14,800 --> 01:33:16,680
Speaker 1: let's get dressed, like we're gonna go to the zoo

1858
01:33:16,720 --> 01:33:20,400
Speaker 1: with Uncle Sherman Scarlett. She's like, but what about ballet?

1859
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:21,880
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, sweetheart, I told you we we

1860
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 1: over something. You overslept, you didn't wake you didn't wake

1861
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:31,600
Speaker 1: that up real and uh wait, yeah, what do you

1862
01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:34,840
Speaker 1: feel like we overslept? Dad did a poor job getting up.

1863
01:33:34,840 --> 01:33:36,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't get everybody going like we missed ballet. We

1864
01:33:36,840 --> 01:33:38,800
Speaker 1: can't do ballet today. Yeah, but I want to do

1865
01:33:38,840 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 1: the ballet bun. I want to do ballet and I'm like,

1866
01:33:42,280 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 1: oh shit, and you start feeling that something could be

1867
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:46,760
Speaker 1: coming on if you don't figure out ballet. So how

1868
01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 1: about this, how about we get you ready for ballet

1869
01:33:49,360 --> 01:33:51,679
Speaker 1: and I'll throw on a ballet class downstairs on the TV,

1870
01:33:51,760 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 1: and you can do a ballet class. She's like, I

1871
01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:57,760
Speaker 1: wear the dress or what they call him in ballet too, too,

1872
01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:02,760
Speaker 1: like wear leotard, can wear my leotard like sweeter. Yeah,

1873
01:34:02,800 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 1: let's do the whole get up. I'll put you in

1874
01:34:04,320 --> 01:34:07,559
Speaker 1: a ballet bun. So I'm doing the ballet bun. Brushing

1875
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:10,040
Speaker 1: her out takes me like three or four tries to

1876
01:34:10,120 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 1: get the ponytail on the right spotom twisting around. That

1877
01:34:12,479 --> 01:34:14,280
Speaker 1: failed a couple of times. I'm like, good, you know,

1878
01:34:14,360 --> 01:34:16,920
Speaker 1: I finally just get it good, failing over and over.

1879
01:34:17,000 --> 01:34:18,600
Speaker 1: You're up there, sweating a little bit, trying to do

1880
01:34:18,640 --> 01:34:19,400
Speaker 1: your daughter's hair.

1881
01:34:19,520 --> 01:34:19,720
Speaker 2: Good.

1882
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I get that sorted out. We go downstairs

1883
01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 1: and I turn on the ballet this twenty minute ballet class.

1884
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 1: I kind of moved the living room towards she has space.

1885
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:33,840
Speaker 1: She locks in and knocks it out, focus the whole time,

1886
01:34:33,920 --> 01:34:36,760
Speaker 1: doing everything the person on TV's doing. So she ripped

1887
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:38,720
Speaker 1: an entire ballet class on her own. I was so

1888
01:34:38,880 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 1: fired up in gas that we figured that out. Turn

1889
01:34:40,920 --> 01:34:43,320
Speaker 1: the dad lost into a dad win, parlay it into

1890
01:34:43,360 --> 01:34:46,120
Speaker 1: a zoo Visit gets Scottie up and going. She's eating,

1891
01:34:46,200 --> 01:34:47,920
Speaker 1: having a good time watching Rudu ballet.

1892
01:34:48,560 --> 01:34:50,679
Speaker 2: And I'm telling you, dude, I know for a fact

1893
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:52,360
Speaker 2: that really loved it, because she told me about it

1894
01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:53,280
Speaker 2: at the zoo.

1895
01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 1: Oh doing ballet on TV.

1896
01:34:55,240 --> 01:34:57,120
Speaker 2: Told me about it at the zoo. She asked what

1897
01:34:57,400 --> 01:35:02,760
Speaker 2: Scarlett's leggings were and I said, those are leggings. I said,

1898
01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:05,960
Speaker 2: ballerinas did they wear leggings? And she was like, they

1899
01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:10,320
Speaker 2: used to, but I wear socks. I don't wear leggings.

1900
01:35:10,560 --> 01:35:12,920
Speaker 2: I was like, that's right. The only reason I knew

1901
01:35:13,320 --> 01:35:15,839
Speaker 2: that that was called the leotard is because I blanked

1902
01:35:15,840 --> 01:35:18,920
Speaker 2: at the zoo of what that was called. And I said, wait,

1903
01:35:19,520 --> 01:35:22,679
Speaker 2: what's the pink thing called? And she kind of looked

1904
01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:25,200
Speaker 2: at me, and I was like, I really have forgot,

1905
01:35:25,360 --> 01:35:27,680
Speaker 2: like what was that pink thing that the ballerinas wear?

1906
01:35:28,200 --> 01:35:33,560
Speaker 1: And she goes my leotard? I go, that's that? Is it?

1907
01:35:34,200 --> 01:35:36,479
Speaker 1: Good job row? I was like, that is a hard

1908
01:35:36,520 --> 01:35:39,200
Speaker 1: word to say. Slash. She nailed it. Yeah, she was

1909
01:35:39,280 --> 01:35:40,720
Speaker 1: fired up. She was pumped. We did.

1910
01:35:41,000 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 2: She was pumped, dude. So she was bragging a little

1911
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 2: bit about it.

1912
01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:46,519
Speaker 1: That's a good one. That's awesome to hear. Just a

1913
01:35:46,600 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 1: warning to you.

1914
01:35:47,000 --> 01:35:50,240
Speaker 4: Both were getting close to an hour, getting close to

1915
01:35:50,320 --> 01:35:51,679
Speaker 4: an hour. So if we want to hit some hobby,

1916
01:35:51,680 --> 01:35:53,120
Speaker 4: Wifey shout out and then gets a voicemail.

1917
01:35:53,280 --> 01:35:56,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, good, oh man, We're just dude, we're just going.

1918
01:35:56,760 --> 01:35:57,519
Speaker 2: We're getting close to.

1919
01:35:58,439 --> 01:36:03,320
Speaker 1: Does not mind we we apologize. I hope you've enjoyed

1920
01:36:03,360 --> 01:36:03,839
Speaker 1: the stories.

1921
01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:06,320
Speaker 4: I have a nice little dad hack. You guys, there's

1922
01:36:06,360 --> 01:36:08,439
Speaker 4: some dad hacks. There's some different stuff. Yeah, to rip

1923
01:36:08,479 --> 01:36:09,880
Speaker 4: through some of the comments if you want, and then

1924
01:36:09,920 --> 01:36:11,759
Speaker 4: we can get over. We have two voicemails today.

1925
01:36:12,320 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 2: Let's go. So I have a nice little dad hack

1926
01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:18,320
Speaker 2: because I have a dad hack of my own that

1927
01:36:18,400 --> 01:36:21,000
Speaker 2: I'll parlay after this. It's a very short one, but

1928
01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:26,280
Speaker 2: are uh. Our dad hack comes from Will Shear. Will

1929
01:36:26,360 --> 01:36:29,559
Speaker 2: says Hey, Will and sherm and boys in the back.

1930
01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:34,800
Speaker 2: This is Will Shear from Plumas Lake, California. For the

1931
01:36:34,960 --> 01:36:38,639
Speaker 2: Dads is my new favorite podcast. My wife is amazing

1932
01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:41,519
Speaker 2: and just gave birth to a toddler weighing ten pounds

1933
01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:48,240
Speaker 2: five ounces. Yo, so much jugarnut, God bless me. Yeah

1934
01:36:48,320 --> 01:36:55,680
Speaker 2: for anybody like bounce five ounces, yo, so much for

1935
01:36:56,160 --> 01:36:58,200
Speaker 2: the all newborn clothes in the closet.

1936
01:36:58,320 --> 01:37:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah truly. His name is William Sheer the fourth. Yeah,

1937
01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: he will go by Liam. Got a dad hack for Pt. Six.

1938
01:37:07,560 --> 01:37:11,719
Speaker 1: When changing a newborn's diaper, their hands try to help.

1939
01:37:11,920 --> 01:37:14,479
Speaker 2: That's very true. When the onesie is un zipped from

1940
01:37:14,479 --> 01:37:16,960
Speaker 2: the bottom, pull it up to get it out of

1941
01:37:17,040 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 2: the way, and tuck their arms in the onesie to

1942
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:24,040
Speaker 2: keep them secure. I've never heard this one. That's really

1943
01:37:24,680 --> 01:37:28,080
Speaker 2: that's a great hack. The pod encourages me to stay

1944
01:37:28,160 --> 01:37:29,320
Speaker 2: locked in and present.

1945
01:37:29,560 --> 01:37:32,880
Speaker 1: Keep it up. Boys, I got I gotta, I got

1946
01:37:32,960 --> 01:37:34,920
Speaker 1: a dead hack, right clear. You throw your throat by

1947
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:39,080
Speaker 1: the way. William Sheer the fourth, gonna go by Liam

1948
01:37:40,000 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 1: if if if I get a boy someday my wife

1949
01:37:45,400 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 1: and I are fortunate enough to have a boy one day,

1950
01:37:48,479 --> 01:37:51,160
Speaker 1: William the fourth, because I'm William Earl the third, and

1951
01:37:51,920 --> 01:37:55,320
Speaker 1: in my brain he's gonna go by Liam, So shout

1952
01:37:55,360 --> 01:37:59,080
Speaker 1: out will William. William Sheer is William Shear, williams shere

1953
01:37:59,120 --> 01:38:02,360
Speaker 1: the fourth shout out Williams. Yeah, Liam, dude, just being

1954
01:38:02,400 --> 01:38:04,320
Speaker 1: a torpedo coming.

1955
01:38:04,520 --> 01:38:06,599
Speaker 2: Liam's a great name. I think that's cool.

1956
01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:11,320
Speaker 1: Dad hack right here from Jordan on Spotify, Chase on,

1957
01:38:11,680 --> 01:38:14,360
Speaker 1: Jordan Chase on, come on, dad. Tip if you can't

1958
01:38:14,400 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 1: remember the month, the months sixteen, eighteen, twenty three, just

1959
01:38:18,479 --> 01:38:22,120
Speaker 1: say when their birthday was. Example, they turned two in August,

1960
01:38:22,280 --> 01:38:25,639
Speaker 1: or they will be three in February. Nice hack. That's

1961
01:38:25,640 --> 01:38:27,519
Speaker 1: why I get stuck doing the math. That's why it's

1962
01:38:27,600 --> 01:38:29,400
Speaker 1: Jordan Chase on, not Jordan Chase off.

1963
01:38:29,800 --> 01:38:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, right there, he's locked in.

1964
01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:36,559
Speaker 1: I got Ryan McCollen on X just trying to get

1965
01:38:36,680 --> 01:38:38,480
Speaker 1: that fast pass to the shockwave.

1966
01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:41,040
Speaker 2: So this was sent into our for the dads. This

1967
01:38:41,240 --> 01:38:42,639
Speaker 2: was DM to us, I believe.

1968
01:38:44,360 --> 01:38:44,479
Speaker 1: Uh.

1969
01:38:44,800 --> 01:38:48,200
Speaker 2: This was the message that he wrote on a little

1970
01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:50,920
Speaker 2: breakfast sandwich that he got for the WiFi and a

1971
01:38:50,920 --> 01:38:54,400
Speaker 2: little vanilla latte right there, and he wrote to the world,

1972
01:38:55,040 --> 01:38:58,479
Speaker 2: you are just a mom, but remember to Brooks, you

1973
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:01,120
Speaker 2: are his whole world. Happy Friday and.

1974
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:03,200
Speaker 1: I love you. Hey.

1975
01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:08,200
Speaker 2: That is phenomenal, yo, Ryan, Ryan, shut up. I bet

1976
01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:09,559
Speaker 2: that shock wave hit.

1977
01:39:12,760 --> 01:39:14,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bet that. I got to get down in

1978
01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:15,880
Speaker 1: the bag immediately.

1979
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I dude, I have a little dad hack

1980
01:39:19,520 --> 01:39:22,840
Speaker 2: very quickly. It's called a hook on high chair. You

1981
01:39:22,920 --> 01:39:26,639
Speaker 2: can get them on Amazon for like starting at thirty bucks.

1982
01:39:27,280 --> 01:39:29,840
Speaker 2: And it's a high chair that is portable that you

1983
01:39:29,880 --> 01:39:33,120
Speaker 2: can take to any restaurant and it slips onto the

1984
01:39:33,240 --> 01:39:36,280
Speaker 2: table and you can tighten it and it will hook

1985
01:39:36,360 --> 01:39:40,800
Speaker 2: onto any table. Dude, it's the best. I'm just I'm

1986
01:39:40,880 --> 01:39:43,960
Speaker 2: telling you guys. Hook on high chair look into it.

1987
01:39:44,439 --> 01:39:48,120
Speaker 2: There's some very affordable options on Amazon, and it just

1988
01:39:48,400 --> 01:39:51,840
Speaker 2: it gives the waiters and servers so much more room

1989
01:39:52,200 --> 01:39:52,960
Speaker 2: at restaurants.

1990
01:39:53,000 --> 01:39:53,240
Speaker 1: Dude.

1991
01:39:54,120 --> 01:39:57,320
Speaker 2: You can have it in the booth with you sick.

1992
01:39:58,000 --> 01:40:00,120
Speaker 1: Great dad hack, I got one here from time tell

1993
01:40:00,160 --> 01:40:02,560
Speaker 1: me Bennett on Spotify, Dad act, create a playlist for

1994
01:40:02,680 --> 01:40:06,000
Speaker 1: baby with your favorite slow songs. I included our first dance,

1995
01:40:06,800 --> 01:40:09,280
Speaker 1: what We Walked down the Aisle to, and other special

1996
01:40:09,360 --> 01:40:11,760
Speaker 1: songs for me and wifey. Play for baby when you're

1997
01:40:11,800 --> 01:40:13,719
Speaker 1: rocking them in the early days and they will associate

1998
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 1: those songs with peace and calm. Now at eight months,

1999
01:40:16,320 --> 01:40:19,519
Speaker 1: it has become our bedtime playlist, a car meltdown playlist.

2000
01:40:19,960 --> 01:40:22,280
Speaker 1: Can't wait for baby girl to watch our wedding video

2001
01:40:22,320 --> 01:40:23,960
Speaker 1: down the road and recognize these songs.

2002
01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:24,280
Speaker 5: MM.

2003
01:40:24,680 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 1: That that is heartwarming right there. That's wholesome. That's a

2004
01:40:29,120 --> 01:40:33,760
Speaker 1: wholesome dad hack. We want to get to Collins voicemails if.

2005
01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:36,120
Speaker 4: You want to do hubby and wifey shoutouts for oh Hubby, wifey.

2006
01:40:36,280 --> 01:40:37,920
Speaker 4: We got just three of those, and then let's get

2007
01:40:37,920 --> 01:40:38,720
Speaker 4: into some voicemails.

2008
01:40:39,360 --> 01:40:40,880
Speaker 1: Hubby shot out, I got it right here was hide

2009
01:40:40,880 --> 01:40:43,160
Speaker 1: and mind the hide and bayd the old iPad he'bby

2010
01:40:43,200 --> 01:40:47,799
Speaker 1: shout out from Rebecca Driver on Facebook. Not a dad obviously,

2011
01:40:47,880 --> 01:40:49,519
Speaker 1: but I wanted to give a shout out to my husband.

2012
01:40:49,800 --> 01:40:52,000
Speaker 1: He had a stroke in August, which has taken his

2013
01:40:52,160 --> 01:40:55,000
Speaker 1: mobility and his speech for now, and he still shows

2014
01:40:55,040 --> 01:40:57,679
Speaker 1: up for the kids. He was dancing in a harrisalon

2015
01:40:57,720 --> 01:40:59,920
Speaker 1: today with our three year old. He just lights up

2016
01:41:00,000 --> 01:41:02,599
Speaker 1: when our kids entered the room. He still tries to catch,

2017
01:41:02,880 --> 01:41:04,880
Speaker 1: he still tries to play catch. He still wants to

2018
01:41:04,920 --> 01:41:07,519
Speaker 1: tell them good night. His first real word after a

2019
01:41:07,600 --> 01:41:10,519
Speaker 1: stroke was our son's nickname. He's just so determined to

2020
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:13,200
Speaker 1: let our sens know how much he still loves them,

2021
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:17,000
Speaker 1: even if he can't speak. It's a great shout out, Rebecca.

2022
01:41:18,080 --> 01:41:22,880
Speaker 1: We're all pulling for you? Did she give a shout

2023
01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:24,880
Speaker 1: out his name? She we're all pulling for the hobby man.

2024
01:41:24,960 --> 01:41:27,640
Speaker 4: She sent a really nice video she had recorded him

2025
01:41:27,760 --> 01:41:30,400
Speaker 4: dancing in his chair with the kid that was dancing

2026
01:41:30,439 --> 01:41:31,320
Speaker 4: across the salon.

2027
01:41:32,320 --> 01:41:35,519
Speaker 1: What did you so? We gotta run that video? While that.

2028
01:41:39,000 --> 01:41:42,200
Speaker 2: Rebecca's a good one, dude, that Hobby's a good one too,

2029
01:41:42,960 --> 01:41:43,639
Speaker 2: no doubt.

2030
01:41:45,320 --> 01:41:46,120
Speaker 1: Hobby shout out.

2031
01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:50,879
Speaker 2: This one comes from Ali Seals Ali Seals Richard on Instagram.

2032
01:41:51,000 --> 01:41:55,439
Speaker 2: Good morning. My husband is a big bet BT sixer.

2033
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:58,920
Speaker 2: He tells all his fellow dad friends are soon to

2034
01:41:58,960 --> 01:42:02,679
Speaker 2: be dad friends about y'all's podcast. He has even made

2035
01:42:02,760 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 2: me listen on long drives. He also listens to y'all

2036
01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:08,120
Speaker 2: when he's kindly doing the dishes each night.

2037
01:42:08,240 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 1: Shout out how shout out o hebe?

2038
01:42:10,320 --> 01:42:13,280
Speaker 2: His golden birthday is coming up. It's February twenty eighth,

2039
01:42:13,479 --> 01:42:16,120
Speaker 2: so he's turning twenty eight on the twenty eighth, and

2040
01:42:16,200 --> 01:42:19,320
Speaker 2: I would love if y'all could read my thank you

2041
01:42:19,760 --> 01:42:23,960
Speaker 2: on your nearest episode to his birthday. Well done, Derek,

2042
01:42:24,320 --> 01:42:28,479
Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Happy birthday. He also won't let me get

2043
01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:31,040
Speaker 2: a gift for him, so this would be the ultimate

2044
01:42:31,160 --> 01:42:34,240
Speaker 2: gift for his birthday. We recently moved from Houston to

2045
01:42:34,320 --> 01:42:37,720
Speaker 2: my hometown, Louisiana, which has been an adjustment with our

2046
01:42:37,760 --> 01:42:41,040
Speaker 2: fifteen month old baby boy. Zach goes above and beyond

2047
01:42:41,120 --> 01:42:43,040
Speaker 2: to be a great dad and husband to us. Whether

2048
01:42:43,120 --> 01:42:46,200
Speaker 2: it's a small things like doing the dishes when I cook,

2049
01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:50,040
Speaker 2: or the big things like planning for our future. He's

2050
01:42:50,040 --> 01:42:53,639
Speaker 2: an ultimate superhero dad and husband. I feel so lucky

2051
01:42:53,680 --> 01:42:56,040
Speaker 2: to have him as a husband and dad to our baby.

2052
01:42:56,520 --> 01:43:00,400
Speaker 2: Thankful for y'all's as well, and hope this makes it

2053
01:43:00,600 --> 01:43:03,400
Speaker 2: on the sude well, Zach, I mean.

2054
01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:05,160
Speaker 1: Happy, happy birthday.

2055
01:43:05,760 --> 01:43:08,000
Speaker 2: Sounds like you truly don't need a gift on your

2056
01:43:08,040 --> 01:43:11,920
Speaker 2: birthday because you got a Miss Ali shield seals. Richard's

2057
01:43:12,680 --> 01:43:13,120
Speaker 2: at home.

2058
01:43:13,560 --> 01:43:16,400
Speaker 1: He's not bald, but yeah, hey, he on his birthday.

2059
01:43:17,640 --> 01:43:17,960
Speaker 2: You know what?

2060
01:43:19,320 --> 01:43:23,679
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Okay, maybe a little.

2061
01:43:25,200 --> 01:43:27,679
Speaker 2: Maybe a little extracurriculars before the shockwave.

2062
01:43:29,800 --> 01:43:36,919
Speaker 1: May maybe no shockwave. Maybe. Hey, it is my golden birthday.

2063
01:43:37,240 --> 01:43:39,639
Speaker 2: It is my golden birthday. Sweet hey, put a bow

2064
01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:39,960
Speaker 2: on it.

2065
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:47,720
Speaker 1: Just put a little bow on it. Yeah, something done.

2066
01:43:47,840 --> 01:43:49,400
Speaker 1: Wrap We don't have the ya.

2067
01:43:50,920 --> 01:43:53,080
Speaker 2: Ali's a great gal, great.

2068
01:43:53,960 --> 01:43:56,080
Speaker 1: As a great goal. If we could gift from Papa

2069
01:43:56,160 --> 01:44:00,559
Speaker 1: Team six for the dads to Zach. Yeah, he's got

2070
01:44:01,240 --> 01:44:03,639
Speaker 1: verbally two funk coupons from the boys.

2071
01:44:03,760 --> 01:44:08,880
Speaker 2: He does. He just got two shockway pass yep in

2072
01:44:09,000 --> 01:44:13,080
Speaker 2: a bow pass okay, and that is to be that

2073
01:44:13,320 --> 01:44:17,320
Speaker 2: could be submitted at the same time, both coupons, but

2074
01:44:17,560 --> 01:44:20,080
Speaker 2: he does reserve the right that he could he could

2075
01:44:20,120 --> 01:44:20,880
Speaker 2: spread those out.

2076
01:44:21,080 --> 01:44:22,840
Speaker 1: The bow pass just says put a bow on it.

2077
01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:27,519
Speaker 2: Happy birthdays.

2078
01:44:28,479 --> 01:44:29,599
Speaker 1: Thank you for writing in. Ali.

2079
01:44:32,400 --> 01:44:33,840
Speaker 2: Every mom at home nown was like.

2080
01:44:33,960 --> 01:44:38,160
Speaker 1: It's not right. He cannot shot cannot give him a

2081
01:44:38,200 --> 01:44:38,800
Speaker 1: birthday shout.

2082
01:44:43,640 --> 01:44:43,840
Speaker 3: Oh.

2083
01:44:44,520 --> 01:44:48,200
Speaker 1: So many husbands on the flip side of that, Hey babe,

2084
01:44:48,320 --> 01:44:50,120
Speaker 1: they're just going to write in on behalf of their wife.

2085
01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:57,479
Speaker 1: Hey honey, what's your email password to get it. I'm

2086
01:44:57,520 --> 01:44:59,000
Speaker 1: not going to say that. I mean, but this is

2087
01:44:59,280 --> 01:45:03,439
Speaker 1: wife to Will, wife of Will. This his Will's wife.

2088
01:45:03,520 --> 01:45:05,519
Speaker 1: He doesn't dunst ship around the house.

2089
01:45:05,560 --> 01:45:06,439
Speaker 2: He's a good guy.

2090
01:45:07,120 --> 01:45:11,400
Speaker 1: Wisday do what you did for that Zach guy? Yeah?

2091
01:45:11,800 --> 01:45:14,400
Speaker 1: Week week he's been feeling really dreamed because he does

2092
01:45:14,520 --> 01:45:17,240
Speaker 1: everything around that house. And I'm just wondering if you

2093
01:45:17,320 --> 01:45:19,280
Speaker 1: guys have any advice on what I could do for

2094
01:45:19,400 --> 01:45:21,920
Speaker 1: him to leave him of some stress.

2095
01:45:22,640 --> 01:45:26,760
Speaker 2: He's just just writing in sincerely, zach scerely.

2096
01:45:28,000 --> 01:45:33,439
Speaker 1: The why Yeah, yeah, the wife. God, we have fun

2097
01:45:33,479 --> 01:45:34,200
Speaker 1: on this show. We do.

2098
01:45:34,760 --> 01:45:34,880
Speaker 3: Uh?

2099
01:45:35,720 --> 01:45:36,960
Speaker 2: Do we want to move on? I have I have

2100
01:45:37,040 --> 01:45:38,599
Speaker 2: one more? No, we're pressed on time.

2101
01:45:38,560 --> 01:45:40,800
Speaker 1: Pressed on time. Let's hit the voicemails because you I'm

2102
01:45:40,800 --> 01:45:42,320
Speaker 1: see an email. We do, got I have an email?

2103
01:45:42,560 --> 01:45:45,680
Speaker 1: Have an email too. What time are we at? We

2104
01:45:45,840 --> 01:45:48,040
Speaker 1: are at one. We gotta go.

2105
01:45:48,240 --> 01:45:51,960
Speaker 2: We're over an hour, Yeah, we gotta go. Yeah, we're

2106
01:45:52,040 --> 01:45:52,920
Speaker 2: just a little bit over.

2107
01:45:55,680 --> 01:45:56,000
Speaker 1: All right.

2108
01:45:56,120 --> 01:45:59,839
Speaker 2: This first voicemail comes from Jonah and it's titled ruined

2109
01:46:00,080 --> 01:46:00,839
Speaker 2: whole weekend.

2110
01:46:04,280 --> 01:46:07,719
Speaker 1: Hey, this is Jonah. I missed freaking trash Day, dude,

2111
01:46:08,000 --> 01:46:20,280
Speaker 1: and it ruined my whole weekend. That's all. Hey, this

2112
01:46:20,439 --> 01:46:24,360
Speaker 1: is Jonah. I missed freaking trash day, dude, and it

2113
01:46:24,560 --> 01:46:26,200
Speaker 1: ruined my whole weekend. That's all.

2114
01:46:27,800 --> 01:46:32,840
Speaker 2: No, Jonah, Jonah happens to me too long.

2115
01:46:32,920 --> 01:46:36,880
Speaker 1: You can't blame him, dude. You can't blame him for

2116
01:46:37,040 --> 01:46:41,040
Speaker 1: letting it affect him, you know. No, there's the listen,

2117
01:46:41,200 --> 01:46:43,519
Speaker 1: Mom can come after you, everybody else can remind you

2118
01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:44,559
Speaker 1: that you miss trash day.

2119
01:46:44,680 --> 01:46:48,880
Speaker 2: But there is no harder critic. Yeah, than your own self,

2120
01:46:49,000 --> 01:46:52,800
Speaker 2: than Jonah, than Jonah. That's why, that's why I'm not

2121
01:46:53,080 --> 01:46:55,800
Speaker 2: worried at all, because he's like, I got I gotta

2122
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:57,960
Speaker 2: call the boys. I got to call absurd.

2123
01:46:58,360 --> 01:47:00,639
Speaker 1: He doesn't even need advice, he doesn't need a pep talk.

2124
01:47:00,680 --> 01:47:02,080
Speaker 1: He's already ready for the next one.

2125
01:47:02,240 --> 01:47:05,040
Speaker 2: Jonah's ready. Yeah, he does not need us. He realizes

2126
01:47:05,160 --> 01:47:08,599
Speaker 2: nobody's coming to save his ass. That's an accountability phone call.

2127
01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:11,439
Speaker 2: Can you believe that?

2128
01:47:13,040 --> 01:47:13,479
Speaker 1: Respect?

2129
01:47:13,640 --> 01:47:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeahs again, shout out Jonah for the call. Man. This

2130
01:47:17,800 --> 01:47:25,120
Speaker 2: like gouts from basin uh Saturday Contractions Boys.

2131
01:47:25,920 --> 01:47:28,080
Speaker 6: A week ago Thursday, I was out walking the dog

2132
01:47:29,040 --> 01:47:31,720
Speaker 6: doing the same thing again, listening to the pod, and

2133
01:47:31,840 --> 01:47:32,960
Speaker 6: my wife went a contraction.

2134
01:47:33,840 --> 01:47:34,040
Speaker 1: Good.

2135
01:47:34,200 --> 01:47:38,559
Speaker 6: Well, it's a new Thursday. Six days later, still listening

2136
01:47:38,560 --> 01:47:41,639
Speaker 6: to the pod. But I'm a ficial member of six

2137
01:47:42,320 --> 01:47:47,800
Speaker 6: with little baby boy Baker thirteen. Do you know that

2138
01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:49,360
Speaker 6: man's gonna be a gap demon?

2139
01:47:50,240 --> 01:47:52,920
Speaker 1: Born on Friday the thirteenth, So you know that boy's

2140
01:47:52,960 --> 01:47:54,879
Speaker 1: gonna be an a gap demon? Baker?

2141
01:47:55,800 --> 01:47:57,280
Speaker 6: I just want to call it. They thank you guys

2142
01:47:57,320 --> 01:48:00,560
Speaker 6: so much. Super punk here about all the book right foundations.

2143
01:48:01,360 --> 01:48:04,000
Speaker 6: Mom is doing great. Is Mason from Michigan.

2144
01:48:05,360 --> 01:48:09,000
Speaker 2: Out Mason from Michigan. Let's go shout out you and mom,

2145
01:48:09,160 --> 01:48:14,720
Speaker 2: shout up Baker a little Friday the thirteenth, baby, that's it.

2146
01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:18,120
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope Mason's doing all right. Audrey Remember

2147
01:48:18,680 --> 01:48:21,320
Speaker 1: remember how Audrey left because she wanted to be a mom.

2148
01:48:21,640 --> 01:48:25,639
Speaker 1: Ag Yeah, AUGI a Augie was our nanny. She wanted

2149
01:48:25,640 --> 01:48:28,040
Speaker 1: to be a mom and do that thing, so she

2150
01:48:28,160 --> 01:48:30,439
Speaker 1: had to leave the family. She just had hers as well.

2151
01:48:31,760 --> 01:48:35,160
Speaker 1: First sex from the group chat see that, see that

2152
01:48:35,280 --> 01:48:39,559
Speaker 1: their baby comes. Immediately text the father, immediately text her, Hey,

2153
01:48:39,640 --> 01:48:42,840
Speaker 1: how's dad doing? You know what I mean? Yeah, because

2154
01:48:42,960 --> 01:48:47,920
Speaker 1: dad's need to be Yeah, congrats first a, Yeah, congrats.

2155
01:48:48,000 --> 01:48:49,679
Speaker 1: I hope you're well. How's that? How's dad?

2156
01:48:49,720 --> 01:48:52,880
Speaker 2: How? How's he doing? Is he Is he well rested?

2157
01:48:53,680 --> 01:48:56,479
Speaker 2: Has he been well fed? Did they spoil him? Put

2158
01:48:56,520 --> 01:48:57,800
Speaker 2: him in a chair? Force one?

2159
01:48:57,920 --> 01:49:00,360
Speaker 1: Like? Yeah, how's his neck and back doing being on

2160
01:49:00,439 --> 01:49:04,120
Speaker 1: the couch? Yeah? Yeah, how's dad? But what she said?

2161
01:49:05,000 --> 01:49:08,320
Speaker 2: She laughed like, oh, he's doing just fine, like you

2162
01:49:08,400 --> 01:49:08,880
Speaker 2: were joking.

2163
01:49:09,800 --> 01:49:14,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, those are just gotta laugh. Then I text him

2164
01:49:14,240 --> 01:49:17,519
Speaker 1: on the side, Hey, how you doing? Be real with it?

2165
01:49:18,760 --> 01:49:22,080
Speaker 1: Start anything with Audrey, so you just laugh too. Yeah, yeah,

2166
01:49:22,960 --> 01:49:25,719
Speaker 1: I know, mom and baby's great. How are you because

2167
01:49:25,760 --> 01:49:28,519
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna ask you how you're doing? BET six got

2168
01:49:28,560 --> 01:49:30,040
Speaker 1: your back, dude. Congrats to them.

2169
01:49:30,200 --> 01:49:32,240
Speaker 2: Congrats to them. Massive shout out.

2170
01:49:32,160 --> 01:49:36,639
Speaker 1: The massive shout out to Augy, massive shout out to Mason. Mason,

2171
01:49:36,760 --> 01:49:39,200
Speaker 1: you're in the You're in the gutter now he's he's

2172
01:49:39,240 --> 01:49:43,160
Speaker 1: BET six sleepless nights. Your life is over feeding and

2173
01:49:43,280 --> 01:49:46,920
Speaker 1: a new one has just forgotten. Yeah. Well, maybe maybe

2174
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:49,720
Speaker 1: mom's doing the feedings every time, doing the breastfeeding, and

2175
01:49:49,920 --> 01:49:51,320
Speaker 1: you got to be the one to wake up with her.

2176
01:49:51,360 --> 01:49:52,519
Speaker 2: They want you to wake up with him.

2177
01:49:53,160 --> 01:49:55,479
Speaker 1: Oh, will you wake up with me? Because I don't

2178
01:49:55,520 --> 01:49:57,120
Speaker 1: know if I can do it if you're not awake

2179
01:49:57,200 --> 01:49:57,400
Speaker 1: with me.

2180
01:49:57,520 --> 01:50:00,160
Speaker 2: If I if he's doing the and am I doing it?

2181
01:50:00,280 --> 01:50:00,360
Speaker 3: Right?

2182
01:50:00,400 --> 01:50:02,320
Speaker 1: Do you think this is what the milk precin said

2183
01:50:02,320 --> 01:50:03,080
Speaker 1: when they when we.

2184
01:50:03,400 --> 01:50:06,080
Speaker 2: Did did honey the gray?

2185
01:50:06,439 --> 01:50:12,800
Speaker 1: You do the good job? That's it right? Shut out moms. Bro, God,

2186
01:50:12,960 --> 01:50:18,000
Speaker 1: we're so lame, just like that. Hoy, this is a

2187
01:50:18,120 --> 01:50:20,680
Speaker 1: good joke. I gotta be up with her.

2188
01:50:23,600 --> 01:50:26,360
Speaker 4: Sh sureman, if you promise to go fast. The third

2189
01:50:26,400 --> 01:50:27,680
Speaker 4: one I would like for you guys to just hear.

2190
01:50:27,720 --> 01:50:28,880
Speaker 4: You don't have to react to it. But there is

2191
01:50:28,920 --> 01:50:30,800
Speaker 4: a thirty more that's really nice that I was looking through,

2192
01:50:30,840 --> 01:50:32,439
Speaker 4: which one If you promise to go fast.

2193
01:50:32,439 --> 01:50:36,400
Speaker 1: I will go fast on third voicemail, Okay, promise promise.

2194
01:50:37,520 --> 01:50:41,639
Speaker 5: Hey boys. Twenty six year old female here who watched

2195
01:50:41,640 --> 01:50:46,800
Speaker 5: the pod big fan listening to the episode where Taylor

2196
01:50:46,840 --> 01:50:49,960
Speaker 5: announced it says new baby on the way. Congrats Taylor.

2197
01:50:50,280 --> 01:50:55,000
Speaker 5: Congrest and one forty seven forty eight. You read your

2198
01:50:55,080 --> 01:50:58,000
Speaker 5: lesson of the week about how you never know when

2199
01:50:58,240 --> 01:51:00,760
Speaker 5: your kid agreeed to you about the door for the

2200
01:51:00,840 --> 01:51:03,320
Speaker 5: last time. I just want to say, even as a

2201
01:51:03,360 --> 01:51:06,160
Speaker 5: twenty six year old, I don't live with my parents anymore.

2202
01:51:06,240 --> 01:51:09,960
Speaker 5: I live states away from them, but every time that

2203
01:51:10,040 --> 01:51:12,720
Speaker 5: i'm home, once my dad comes to the door, I

2204
01:51:12,880 --> 01:51:15,400
Speaker 5: still go up and greet him. So it's still in

2205
01:51:15,479 --> 01:51:18,320
Speaker 5: your future. It doesn't go away if you raised right.

2206
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:23,400
Speaker 5: So yeah, I love my dad. I always will have

2207
01:51:23,520 --> 01:51:24,000
Speaker 5: a great day.

2208
01:51:27,400 --> 01:51:33,800
Speaker 1: Sweet sweet Victory. Dude, that felt so good. I'm glad

2209
01:51:33,840 --> 01:51:35,680
Speaker 1: you made us listen to that. Yeah, I am too.

2210
01:51:36,120 --> 01:51:41,440
Speaker 2: That felt so good to hear, dude. She remained anonymous,

2211
01:51:42,240 --> 01:51:46,360
Speaker 2: so to anonymous, his dad shout out, shut out. You're

2212
01:51:46,360 --> 01:51:47,120
Speaker 2: a good one, dude.

2213
01:51:47,479 --> 01:51:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that's again. Shut out moms again, shout out moms again.

2214
01:51:51,520 --> 01:51:52,840
Speaker 1: I know we sit here and act the full and

2215
01:51:52,920 --> 01:51:56,360
Speaker 1: act obnoxious, but moms are great. We know who the

2216
01:51:56,439 --> 01:51:58,320
Speaker 1: real ones are. We we will say we know who

2217
01:51:58,360 --> 01:52:00,839
Speaker 1: the real ones are at all times where we're just joking.

2218
01:52:00,960 --> 01:52:03,000
Speaker 1: We love the bus balls and have fun. We do

2219
01:52:03,920 --> 01:52:04,559
Speaker 1: we're joking.

2220
01:52:07,040 --> 01:52:10,720
Speaker 2: Courtney Strong wrote an email Tourney Strong will and sure

2221
01:52:11,160 --> 01:52:13,639
Speaker 2: advice needed. I'm a twenty nine year old single woman

2222
01:52:13,720 --> 01:52:17,120
Speaker 2: looking to find my Ptsicico. Your show gets me in

2223
01:52:17,200 --> 01:52:19,880
Speaker 2: the feels on every sde hearing the love and grace

2224
01:52:20,479 --> 01:52:22,519
Speaker 2: you have for your wife and kids and all the

2225
01:52:22,600 --> 01:52:26,080
Speaker 2: ptsiccos that share their time in the trenches or their

2226
01:52:26,160 --> 01:52:28,639
Speaker 2: crack of cold ones. I get to live my dream

2227
01:52:28,920 --> 01:52:33,560
Speaker 2: vicariously through all of you killer PT sixers. I was

2228
01:52:33,640 --> 01:52:39,200
Speaker 2: blessed with meeting a superman of a single dad and

2229
01:52:39,479 --> 01:52:43,160
Speaker 2: imagine being his daughter's step MT six in the future.

2230
01:52:43,320 --> 01:52:45,679
Speaker 2: It didn't work out, and that took all the wind

2231
01:52:45,760 --> 01:52:48,360
Speaker 2: out of my sales for that new chapter I desired.

2232
01:52:48,880 --> 01:52:52,799
Speaker 2: As a youngest child of four by over a decade

2233
01:52:52,960 --> 01:52:56,280
Speaker 2: and eight nieces and nephews, there's an unspoken pressure to

2234
01:52:56,320 --> 01:52:59,519
Speaker 2: find my ptsicico before the unthinkable happens to either of

2235
01:52:59,560 --> 01:53:04,320
Speaker 2: my parents. I'm a hardworking, self sufficient, loyal, financially stable,

2236
01:53:04,640 --> 01:53:07,719
Speaker 2: and very laid back, go with the flow type of girly.

2237
01:53:08,720 --> 01:53:13,000
Speaker 2: I was blessed to purchase my own home last August.

2238
01:53:13,720 --> 01:53:17,880
Speaker 2: My nine year old golden doodle dog is the center

2239
01:53:17,960 --> 01:53:20,880
Speaker 2: of my world, as he is all I got for

2240
01:53:21,000 --> 01:53:24,920
Speaker 2: the day today. In parentheses, I have a wonderfully close

2241
01:53:25,040 --> 01:53:28,360
Speaker 2: and supportive family, and as he gets older, the fear

2242
01:53:28,479 --> 01:53:32,439
Speaker 2: sets in. I'll be alone. Advice needed? Where should I

2243
01:53:32,520 --> 01:53:35,360
Speaker 2: be looking to find a good quality man that will

2244
01:53:35,400 --> 01:53:39,160
Speaker 2: be a great ptsiico. I hesitate to go on dating

2245
01:53:39,200 --> 01:53:43,080
Speaker 2: apps and don't go out to bars as often. All

2246
01:53:43,160 --> 01:53:46,280
Speaker 2: my friends are either in long term ships or getting married.

2247
01:53:46,960 --> 01:53:50,680
Speaker 2: This is a Midwestern Michigan girly that needs help from

2248
01:53:50,720 --> 01:53:54,160
Speaker 2: the real ones. Blessed for you, boys, Courtney.

2249
01:53:53,840 --> 01:54:01,840
Speaker 1: Strong Courty sounds like a catch. He sounds like a catch, Dude,

2250
01:54:03,560 --> 01:54:05,400
Speaker 1: We do we need to have our own dating app.

2251
01:54:08,920 --> 01:54:13,000
Speaker 1: There's gotta be an st sixer out there, A little

2252
01:54:13,040 --> 01:54:13,639
Speaker 1: curious wait.

2253
01:54:13,720 --> 01:54:15,559
Speaker 2: She has her own house, she's got a cute dog,

2254
01:54:16,080 --> 01:54:18,320
Speaker 2: she's financially stable, and she's like, go with some.

2255
01:54:19,120 --> 01:54:22,040
Speaker 4: Send your submissions to our email and we'll maybe ford

2256
01:54:22,080 --> 01:54:24,439
Speaker 4: them along. Maybe we'll forward it to Courtney who knows.

2257
01:54:24,760 --> 01:54:27,120
Speaker 4: Send your picture and what you do PT six for

2258
01:54:27,200 --> 01:54:29,360
Speaker 4: a living, and like why you could be her pt

2259
01:54:29,520 --> 01:54:31,400
Speaker 4: Siko or whatever we'll make love.

2260
01:54:31,280 --> 01:54:33,240
Speaker 1: Here or if you're an ST sixer that wants to

2261
01:54:33,280 --> 01:54:38,520
Speaker 1: be a future PT sixer. You know, Yeah, what advice

2262
01:54:38,600 --> 01:54:41,960
Speaker 1: would you give? I feel like it's hard, obviously, what's up?

2263
01:54:42,760 --> 01:54:47,160
Speaker 1: You got advice from our Semen Team sixer advice from

2264
01:54:47,280 --> 01:54:48,200
Speaker 1: Chef our Semen.

2265
01:54:47,960 --> 01:54:52,600
Speaker 3: Team Courtney Codney Courtney. I'm very serious when I say

2266
01:54:52,640 --> 01:54:56,880
Speaker 3: that this. Go find the guy that if you're from

2267
01:54:56,920 --> 01:55:00,360
Speaker 3: Michigan when the Mazon Blue are on, he's screaming at TV.

2268
01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:04,680
Speaker 3: Now that that sounds crazy off the bat, but let

2269
01:55:04,720 --> 01:55:07,800
Speaker 3: me tell you there's no one more loyal than a

2270
01:55:07,920 --> 01:55:11,200
Speaker 3: man who screams at his TV at the TV during

2271
01:55:11,240 --> 01:55:13,720
Speaker 3: a game while his favorite college football team is playing.

2272
01:55:13,920 --> 01:55:15,720
Speaker 1: I will stand by that to the day I die.

2273
01:55:16,000 --> 01:55:18,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you get a guy who is like, I don't

2274
01:55:18,200 --> 01:55:21,600
Speaker 3: care what, No, it doesn't matter if we losing is

2275
01:55:21,640 --> 01:55:24,160
Speaker 3: not an option. That's a guy that's going to stick

2276
01:55:24,160 --> 01:55:26,360
Speaker 3: with you through thick and thin, especially if he comes

2277
01:55:26,400 --> 01:55:29,440
Speaker 3: from I would like to I'm wearing a Nebraska shirt

2278
01:55:29,800 --> 01:55:30,839
Speaker 3: by any corn Huskers.

2279
01:55:30,880 --> 01:55:31,720
Speaker 1: Those are loyal people.

2280
01:55:32,040 --> 01:55:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know any Big ten team, a lot of

2281
01:55:35,120 --> 01:55:37,880
Speaker 3: SEC squads out there that those are the winners right there.

2282
01:55:38,520 --> 01:55:39,600
Speaker 3: And then you just got to put up with the

2283
01:55:39,640 --> 01:55:40,600
Speaker 3: fact they scream at the TV.

2284
01:55:40,760 --> 01:55:43,680
Speaker 1: But that's okay. So a fan of college football, a

2285
01:55:43,800 --> 01:55:49,400
Speaker 1: sicko fan of college football, or good NFL franchise or

2286
01:55:49,520 --> 01:55:53,120
Speaker 1: good NFL the team that they love. Maybe Courtney's not

2287
01:55:53,200 --> 01:55:53,920
Speaker 1: a sports girl.

2288
01:55:54,760 --> 01:55:58,800
Speaker 2: I would say this to Courtney as far as where

2289
01:55:59,040 --> 01:56:02,480
Speaker 2: I found the most success dating slash, how I met

2290
01:56:03,120 --> 01:56:05,120
Speaker 2: Jill because I was set up on a blind date

2291
01:56:06,160 --> 01:56:06,960
Speaker 2: is the go.

2292
01:56:07,360 --> 01:56:09,520
Speaker 1: You were set up on a blind date too, Derek,

2293
01:56:10,520 --> 01:56:11,120
Speaker 1: you were too.

2294
01:56:11,840 --> 01:56:14,160
Speaker 2: I would say friends that you are very close with,

2295
01:56:14,600 --> 01:56:18,160
Speaker 2: that know you know what you love, and love you

2296
01:56:18,600 --> 01:56:20,080
Speaker 2: and want to see the best for you, want to

2297
01:56:20,120 --> 01:56:24,480
Speaker 2: see you succeed. Finding people that are like minded to

2298
01:56:24,640 --> 01:56:27,120
Speaker 2: that friend group that you really resonate with, and being

2299
01:56:27,240 --> 01:56:30,120
Speaker 2: set up I think is a great way to meet

2300
01:56:30,920 --> 01:56:32,280
Speaker 2: somebody that would be awesome.

2301
01:56:32,680 --> 01:56:33,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's great advice.

2302
01:56:34,480 --> 01:56:37,280
Speaker 2: I Yeah, I just I couldn't. I'm not I'm not

2303
01:56:37,400 --> 01:56:39,600
Speaker 2: a gur real, I not a love gurrial.

2304
01:56:39,880 --> 01:56:43,280
Speaker 1: I didn't have a lot of game either. Now I

2305
01:56:43,280 --> 01:56:46,400
Speaker 1: can only imagine what the dating world's like now because

2306
01:56:46,440 --> 01:56:48,520
Speaker 1: a lot of it is, unfortunately on the apps and

2307
01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:50,920
Speaker 1: everything else. I would say, dip your toe in it.

2308
01:56:51,000 --> 01:56:52,720
Speaker 1: You probably don't want to pour a lot of energy

2309
01:56:52,960 --> 01:56:55,280
Speaker 1: into it because you seem like a real one. You

2310
01:56:55,320 --> 01:56:57,160
Speaker 1: don't want to mess around with the nonsense or the bullshit.

2311
01:56:57,200 --> 01:56:59,920
Speaker 1: But maybe there's a gentleman or a pt of potential

2312
01:57:00,040 --> 01:57:03,200
Speaker 1: pet siko on the apps and they you guys just

2313
01:57:03,320 --> 01:57:05,720
Speaker 1: both you haven't found each other yet. Yeah, nothing against

2314
01:57:05,720 --> 01:57:07,560
Speaker 1: the apps, nothing against the apps.

2315
01:57:07,240 --> 01:57:09,920
Speaker 2: At all, but you know, obviously it's like dudes ain't shit.

2316
01:57:10,080 --> 01:57:12,040
Speaker 1: So a lot of times you're on there, guys are

2317
01:57:12,080 --> 01:57:15,560
Speaker 1: trying to get car washed, have a little bit of fun,

2318
01:57:16,280 --> 01:57:18,760
Speaker 1: surface law, you know, keep it service level, maybe go

2319
01:57:18,840 --> 01:57:20,560
Speaker 1: on a date. In that date, they want something to

2320
01:57:20,600 --> 01:57:22,720
Speaker 1: happen that night or that action. Like, you know who

2321
01:57:22,760 --> 01:57:24,880
Speaker 1: you are, you know what you're worth, and so if

2322
01:57:24,920 --> 01:57:27,360
Speaker 1: you're interested in getting to the dating scene, it's just

2323
01:57:28,240 --> 01:57:30,160
Speaker 1: I feel for when she's like, I don't I don't

2324
01:57:30,200 --> 01:57:31,800
Speaker 1: hit the bars at offen, it probably seems like a

2325
01:57:31,840 --> 01:57:34,120
Speaker 1: hassle doing that. I get it. But if that's what

2326
01:57:34,240 --> 01:57:41,480
Speaker 1: you're Opolini calling me, I love that so much. Bo

2327
01:57:41,600 --> 01:57:46,960
Speaker 1: you gotta good lord that actually I kind of mind

2328
01:57:47,040 --> 01:57:50,360
Speaker 1: you to do. Yeah, but if a priority in your

2329
01:57:50,400 --> 01:57:53,760
Speaker 1: life is finding a man, I would say you approach

2330
01:57:53,800 --> 01:57:56,720
Speaker 1: you like anything else, like no, you know, no stone

2331
01:57:56,800 --> 01:57:59,680
Speaker 1: left unturned, Like trying to figure out what the vibes are.

2332
01:57:59,680 --> 01:58:02,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna I hate some of them, but it's worth trying. Yeah,

2333
01:58:03,920 --> 01:58:06,880
Speaker 1: but oh, Courtney finds somebody. She seems like a she

2334
01:58:06,960 --> 01:58:09,000
Speaker 1: seems like a good one, somebody who who's bought their

2335
01:58:09,040 --> 01:58:12,200
Speaker 1: own house, has their own shit together, laid bag vibes.

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01:58:12,960 --> 01:58:17,360
Speaker 4: Bro, she sounds like a chiller. And yeah, twenty nine

2337
01:58:17,480 --> 01:58:20,440
Speaker 4: is nothing. I found mine at thirty one. Loads of

2338
01:58:20,480 --> 01:58:22,640
Speaker 4: time left twenty nine. You got loads of time.

2339
01:58:22,720 --> 01:58:25,160
Speaker 2: I got married at thirty, Courtney, I got married at

2340
01:58:25,200 --> 01:58:25,880
Speaker 2: thirty Yeah.

2341
01:58:26,200 --> 01:58:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Rue is what three?

2342
01:58:29,440 --> 01:58:30,000
Speaker 2: How old am I?

2343
01:58:31,640 --> 01:58:33,160
Speaker 1: You're four years on thirty six?

2344
01:58:33,280 --> 01:58:34,080
Speaker 2: You're thirty six?

2345
01:58:34,400 --> 01:58:35,120
Speaker 1: Rue is three?

2346
01:58:36,040 --> 01:58:38,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, I got married at thirty two. Yeah, you

2347
01:58:39,040 --> 01:58:39,800
Speaker 2: got married a thirty two.

2348
01:58:39,840 --> 01:58:40,480
Speaker 1: You have plenty of time.

2349
01:58:40,520 --> 01:58:43,160
Speaker 2: You got plenty of time. I know those fears are real,

2350
01:58:43,320 --> 01:58:44,920
Speaker 2: but you want the fears to be so real that

2351
01:58:45,080 --> 01:58:47,040
Speaker 2: you're forcing the issue and you settle.

2352
01:58:47,280 --> 01:58:50,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, So continue to pour into things that give you energy, yeah,

2353
01:58:51,120 --> 01:58:52,880
Speaker 1: and the things that don't do away with them. I'm

2354
01:58:52,880 --> 01:58:55,080
Speaker 1: telling you, at some point you're gonna find You're gonna

2355
01:58:55,120 --> 01:58:55,760
Speaker 1: find your person.

2356
01:58:56,040 --> 01:58:58,640
Speaker 2: And if you find your person through things that bring

2357
01:58:58,760 --> 01:59:02,320
Speaker 2: you life and bring you to and happiness, I would

2358
01:59:02,400 --> 01:59:06,240
Speaker 2: say nine times out ten, that's going to be a winner. Yeah,

2359
01:59:06,720 --> 01:59:08,640
Speaker 2: Rather that's Hobby's friends, family, whatever.

2360
01:59:08,880 --> 01:59:10,560
Speaker 1: It was a good question. That's kind of a tough question.

2361
01:59:10,560 --> 01:59:12,920
Speaker 1: That's a tough question, especially without knowing Courtney and knowing

2362
01:59:13,000 --> 01:59:15,520
Speaker 1: you know more context and everything else, and respect to

2363
01:59:15,560 --> 01:59:18,360
Speaker 1: her for trustedness. Yeah with that, Yeah, I have an

2364
01:59:18,400 --> 01:59:22,720
Speaker 1: email here from Hector Santa Maria. What's up, boys, Hector

2365
01:59:22,760 --> 01:59:25,360
Speaker 1: here from Washington State. I'm here watching the Valentine's episode

2366
01:59:25,400 --> 01:59:28,000
Speaker 1: with my five day old on my chest. Good, good

2367
01:59:28,640 --> 01:59:30,800
Speaker 1: wifey next to me, getting the very much needed sleep.

2368
01:59:30,880 --> 01:59:32,560
Speaker 1: I had called in earlier this week saying I was

2369
01:59:32,600 --> 01:59:34,839
Speaker 1: in the hospital with WIFEI while she was getting induced.

2370
01:59:35,200 --> 01:59:37,760
Speaker 1: Let's just say this week has been a very traumatic one,

2371
01:59:38,520 --> 01:59:40,240
Speaker 1: from sitting with my wife in the labor room to

2372
01:59:40,320 --> 01:59:43,160
Speaker 1: getting rushed out due to needing an asap emergency c

2373
01:59:43,360 --> 01:59:47,440
Speaker 1: section and my wife going into full anesthesia. Our babies,

2374
01:59:47,600 --> 01:59:50,640
Speaker 1: our baby girl's heart was dropping low. Not knowing how

2375
01:59:50,680 --> 01:59:53,280
Speaker 1: my girls were doing, all I could do was cry.

2376
01:59:53,680 --> 01:59:56,000
Speaker 1: I hated to help us, feeling or the unknown of

2377
01:59:56,080 --> 01:59:59,440
Speaker 1: what could happen. Thankfully, our little our little fighter pulled through.

2378
02:00:00,160 --> 02:00:02,280
Speaker 1: Hearing or watching you guys every weekends made me feel

2379
02:00:02,320 --> 02:00:04,600
Speaker 1: ready to be in the trenches and raise our first girl.

2380
02:00:05,000 --> 02:00:07,440
Speaker 1: Keep up the hard work boys. You guys are doing

2381
02:00:07,480 --> 02:00:09,920
Speaker 1: the lord's workout here. Rue, Scottie and Scarlet will be

2382
02:00:09,960 --> 02:00:11,720
Speaker 1: so proud of their dads. Ps.

2383
02:00:11,800 --> 02:00:13,680
Speaker 2: Can Andy record himself reading the book so we can

2384
02:00:13,720 --> 02:00:19,480
Speaker 2: play them for bedtime? Shut shout out, Andy.

2385
02:00:20,480 --> 02:00:24,640
Speaker 1: There's right there. We have tier jerkers. I do have

2386
02:00:24,680 --> 02:00:27,880
Speaker 1: a sad alert one. So while I'm just feeling the vibe, like,

2387
02:00:28,080 --> 02:00:33,000
Speaker 1: let's just okay, let's just dive in by the way, hector,

2388
02:00:33,080 --> 02:00:35,600
Speaker 1: shout out you man, there's nothing you know, your little

2389
02:00:35,640 --> 02:00:37,480
Speaker 1: five dale laying on your chest. Will mom gets you

2390
02:00:37,560 --> 02:00:40,280
Speaker 1: much much needed sleep. It's been a grind with the

2391
02:00:40,360 --> 02:00:43,160
Speaker 1: kiddos at times, doing the solo dad parenting with Mom

2392
02:00:43,200 --> 02:00:45,360
Speaker 1: out of town. But it's a grind that's worth it.

2393
02:00:45,440 --> 02:00:49,680
Speaker 1: It's like the diaper, the diaper pel, you know, fills

2394
02:00:49,760 --> 02:00:51,360
Speaker 1: up and you're sitting there pushing on it.

2395
02:00:51,360 --> 02:00:52,520
Speaker 2: And you're like, all right, I gotta take out the

2396
02:00:52,520 --> 02:00:54,440
Speaker 2: goddamn trash. I gotta take out this diaper pel. It's

2397
02:00:54,480 --> 02:00:56,760
Speaker 2: smelling up the place. You got to do all these things.

2398
02:00:57,400 --> 02:01:00,520
Speaker 1: Rue has been we do sleepovers with I'm out of town,

2399
02:01:00,560 --> 02:01:01,880
Speaker 1: or if I'm out of town and real do sleep

2400
02:01:01,920 --> 02:01:03,960
Speaker 1: over with mom, or she sleeps on our bed. So

2401
02:01:04,040 --> 02:01:05,760
Speaker 1: she's been ripping with me for like four nights in

2402
02:01:05,760 --> 02:01:08,320
Speaker 1: a row, and it's some of the best times of

2403
02:01:08,600 --> 02:01:11,520
Speaker 1: my life, dude, of my life. Like last night, I

2404
02:01:11,600 --> 02:01:14,760
Speaker 1: crawled in bed around ten thirty and Rue just rolls

2405
02:01:14,800 --> 02:01:16,960
Speaker 1: over and like lays on my shoulder and I'm just smiling,

2406
02:01:17,040 --> 02:01:18,960
Speaker 1: like kissing her on top of the head, and she's

2407
02:01:19,000 --> 02:01:21,920
Speaker 1: be like, man, this is it's gonna fly by. It

2408
02:01:22,080 --> 02:01:25,480
Speaker 1: is flying by, and it is incredible because some nights

2409
02:01:25,480 --> 02:01:26,880
Speaker 1: that I forgot to tell this. This is actually a

2410
02:01:27,840 --> 02:01:30,720
Speaker 1: fun little update because a while back I talked about

2411
02:01:30,720 --> 02:01:33,240
Speaker 1: how I hadn't read the book that my mom filled

2412
02:01:33,240 --> 02:01:36,120
Speaker 1: out and wrote in for me. Cracked it open. Over

2413
02:01:36,200 --> 02:01:39,960
Speaker 1: these last few nights I did because Rue was missing

2414
02:01:40,040 --> 02:01:43,360
Speaker 1: Mom so much that I was trying to find ways

2415
02:01:43,440 --> 02:01:45,520
Speaker 1: to calm her down. And I'm like, I know, sweetheart dead,

2416
02:01:45,560 --> 02:01:48,160
Speaker 1: I miss his mama too, And I'm like, you know,

2417
02:01:48,520 --> 02:01:51,360
Speaker 1: I missed my mama, and kind of telling her about

2418
02:01:51,400 --> 02:01:53,920
Speaker 1: my mom and talking about what happened on my mom

2419
02:01:54,000 --> 02:01:56,800
Speaker 1: passed away. How'd she show your mom died? I was like, yeah,

2420
02:01:56,880 --> 02:02:00,360
Speaker 1: my mama died, and she's like, cow out, I'm taking

2421
02:02:00,400 --> 02:02:03,800
Speaker 1: her through it. And I was like, Mama, my mom

2422
02:02:04,800 --> 02:02:11,280
Speaker 1: wrote me a little book over here, and and I'm

2423
02:02:11,360 --> 02:02:13,960
Speaker 1: like I miss hey. Look, I miss my mama too.

2424
02:02:14,000 --> 02:02:16,120
Speaker 1: I missed my mama every day. Your mom is going

2425
02:02:16,160 --> 02:02:18,400
Speaker 1: to be back in a couple of days, and that

2426
02:02:18,560 --> 02:02:20,400
Speaker 1: is amazing that mom was gonna get to come home.

2427
02:02:20,440 --> 02:02:21,960
Speaker 1: And you're gonna be so happy when my mama comes

2428
02:02:22,000 --> 02:02:25,080
Speaker 1: home because I miss your mama. I missed mama too,

2429
02:02:25,800 --> 02:02:28,360
Speaker 1: And I empathize with you because I missed my mama.

2430
02:02:28,520 --> 02:02:30,560
Speaker 1: And there are things like you have your sweatshirt right here,

2431
02:02:30,640 --> 02:02:33,120
Speaker 1: you have things to remember by because again she's going

2432
02:02:33,160 --> 02:02:34,360
Speaker 1: to come back, and I have a couple of things

2433
02:02:34,360 --> 02:02:36,480
Speaker 1: that I get to remember with my mama too. You know,

2434
02:02:36,520 --> 02:02:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm showing her a couple of photos, the wedding photos,

2435
02:02:38,640 --> 02:02:40,800
Speaker 1: and telling her how excited she was to meet you,

2436
02:02:41,000 --> 02:02:43,680
Speaker 1: and we're connecting over all this stuff just because of

2437
02:02:43,840 --> 02:02:46,280
Speaker 1: missing mom. And so I pull out the book because

2438
02:02:46,320 --> 02:02:50,760
Speaker 1: we do bedtime stories and it felt like just the

2439
02:02:50,840 --> 02:02:52,920
Speaker 1: stars aligned to pull out the old book, and I'm like,

2440
02:02:52,960 --> 02:02:54,560
Speaker 1: you know what, like I'm going to read this book

2441
02:02:55,360 --> 02:02:56,920
Speaker 1: and she's just filling out a bunch of things where

2442
02:02:56,920 --> 02:02:59,840
Speaker 1: it's like memories and asking questions and my mom growing

2443
02:02:59,920 --> 02:03:03,240
Speaker 1: up up and when I was first born and what

2444
02:03:03,520 --> 02:03:07,760
Speaker 1: she got. I hate crying what she envisioned for me

2445
02:03:07,920 --> 02:03:11,320
Speaker 1: and all these things. And we're just sitting here going

2446
02:03:11,360 --> 02:03:13,520
Speaker 1: through and I'm just reading to her and she'll see

2447
02:03:13,560 --> 02:03:15,120
Speaker 1: tears coming out of my eyes dead while you said,

2448
02:03:15,120 --> 02:03:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I missed one.

2449
02:03:17,560 --> 02:03:17,920
Speaker 3: You know what.

2450
02:03:20,720 --> 02:03:24,160
Speaker 1: I miss mom too. So we can lay here to together,

2451
02:03:24,240 --> 02:03:26,960
Speaker 1: we can cry together, like it's you know, Mama's gonna

2452
02:03:26,960 --> 02:03:27,240
Speaker 1: come back.

2453
02:03:27,280 --> 02:03:30,000
Speaker 2: It's gonna be awesome. Mama loves you so much and

2454
02:03:30,160 --> 02:03:31,920
Speaker 2: it makes dad. I feel good to talk about my

2455
02:03:32,040 --> 02:03:35,080
Speaker 2: mom to you, yeah, because I'm sadly it's like you'll

2456
02:03:35,120 --> 02:03:38,360
Speaker 2: never get to meet her. But so your boy read

2457
02:03:39,320 --> 02:03:42,520
Speaker 2: your boy read the book and Honestly, when I got done,

2458
02:03:43,480 --> 02:03:45,480
Speaker 2: the next night, she wanted to read that book.

2459
02:03:46,240 --> 02:03:48,160
Speaker 1: She's sitting on the bed. I have a photo She's

2460
02:03:48,200 --> 02:03:49,680
Speaker 1: on the bed flipping to the book. I take a

2461
02:03:49,720 --> 02:03:51,640
Speaker 1: picture and send it to Charrow because I'm telling her.

2462
02:03:51,640 --> 02:03:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I read I read the stuff my

2463
02:03:55,120 --> 02:03:59,760
Speaker 1: mom filled out and wrote for me, and it's been

2464
02:03:59,800 --> 02:04:02,360
Speaker 1: all it. It felt like that was like the perfect

2465
02:04:03,360 --> 02:04:06,080
Speaker 1: moment to bring it out and do it because she

2466
02:04:06,280 --> 02:04:08,320
Speaker 1: was just she was struggling with mom out of town

2467
02:04:09,080 --> 02:04:11,440
Speaker 1: because you do FaceTime and Mom's at dinner and it's just,

2468
02:04:11,560 --> 02:04:13,760
Speaker 1: you know, it's just brutal. It's just brutal how much

2469
02:04:13,800 --> 02:04:16,880
Speaker 1: she likes it's sad and miss his mom. And then

2470
02:04:17,400 --> 02:04:19,840
Speaker 1: these last few nights, I've just been We've read different

2471
02:04:19,840 --> 02:04:21,200
Speaker 1: parts of the book. I'll be like, oh, well, here's

2472
02:04:21,200 --> 02:04:23,560
Speaker 1: a question that was asked to mom. Here's what Here's

2473
02:04:23,600 --> 02:04:25,440
Speaker 1: what she said, you bet are those pictures of the

2474
02:04:25,560 --> 02:04:27,640
Speaker 1: of those your brothers, are those your family? And it's

2475
02:04:27,680 --> 02:04:30,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's just drawings and illustrations of other people

2476
02:04:30,720 --> 02:04:33,600
Speaker 1: in the book. And uh, but yeah, dude, each night

2477
02:04:33,600 --> 02:04:35,120
Speaker 1: I've gotten a like crack up in that book and

2478
02:04:35,160 --> 02:04:36,600
Speaker 1: read just a different different portion.

2479
02:04:36,640 --> 02:04:37,400
Speaker 2: Well, I've read through it all.

2480
02:04:37,400 --> 02:04:40,320
Speaker 1: It's not like the longest thing in the world. But uh,

2481
02:04:41,160 --> 02:04:44,240
Speaker 1: it's been a joy, Like it's been fun and we

2482
02:04:44,360 --> 02:04:46,160
Speaker 1: get to connect over it just because of just the

2483
02:04:46,240 --> 02:04:48,800
Speaker 1: fact of like missing mom. So I'm trying to tell her.

2484
02:04:48,840 --> 02:04:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm just like, sweetheart, and you know, I'm thinking, hey,

2485
02:04:50,920 --> 02:04:53,440
Speaker 1: I miss my mom too. That and miss his mama too,

2486
02:04:53,720 --> 02:04:56,920
Speaker 1: your mama. Where's your mama? Beck?

2487
02:04:57,120 --> 02:04:57,240
Speaker 3: Was it?

2488
02:04:57,880 --> 02:05:00,120
Speaker 2: Is it the lady that grandpa's with. I'm like, no, oh,

2489
02:05:00,200 --> 02:05:02,320
Speaker 2: that was that's not mama. You didn't get to meet mama.

2490
02:05:03,280 --> 02:05:05,080
Speaker 1: And we just get to go through. I'm like, that's

2491
02:05:05,120 --> 02:05:07,360
Speaker 1: your grandma. You know the pictures we see. I'm like,

2492
02:05:07,440 --> 02:05:10,200
Speaker 1: that's grandma she wrote in this book. That's her handwriting.

2493
02:05:11,040 --> 02:05:15,920
Speaker 1: But so an update, I did read the book. I

2494
02:05:16,000 --> 02:05:18,680
Speaker 1: love you very much and I'm very proud of you.

2495
02:05:19,480 --> 02:05:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm very happy for you. Thank you, brother.

2496
02:05:23,320 --> 02:05:24,400
Speaker 2: That makes me very happy.

2497
02:05:25,480 --> 02:05:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good man. It's when when I got

2498
02:05:28,720 --> 02:05:30,800
Speaker 1: done and I'm like, you know, sitting there laying through

2499
02:05:30,840 --> 02:05:33,480
Speaker 1: and everything else, I was like, I was like, damn,

2500
02:05:33,520 --> 02:05:36,120
Speaker 1: it felt like this was the moment, like it all

2501
02:05:36,400 --> 02:05:38,160
Speaker 1: this was, this was how I was supposed to go down.

2502
02:05:38,520 --> 02:05:43,800
Speaker 2: So I tell myself anyway, but uh moment, Yeah, so

2503
02:05:43,920 --> 02:05:45,080
Speaker 2: let's dive into this satellite.

2504
02:05:45,160 --> 02:05:50,800
Speaker 1: Lord, dude, I know Grant Overholser on Facebook sad Alert

2505
02:05:51,640 --> 02:05:54,200
Speaker 1: love the content. Here's my story. I'll keep it brief.

2506
02:06:08,680 --> 02:06:11,040
Speaker 1: My daughters and I lost their mom in twenty seventeen.

2507
02:06:13,760 --> 02:06:16,520
Speaker 1: I was stationed in New York and they lived in Arkansas.

2508
02:06:16,920 --> 02:06:19,960
Speaker 1: The military kept us apart. I moved to Arkansas the

2509
02:06:20,000 --> 02:06:28,320
Speaker 1: same day she passed. Guys, what a shock. I took

2510
02:06:28,440 --> 02:06:31,400
Speaker 1: lessons on how to do hair, how to cook, and

2511
02:06:31,520 --> 02:06:37,120
Speaker 1: how to raise girls. And I'm still learning. When I

2512
02:06:37,200 --> 02:06:40,120
Speaker 1: moved to Arkansas, the crew I flew with in the

2513
02:06:40,200 --> 02:06:43,400
Speaker 1: Marines in New York all died in a plane crash

2514
02:06:43,440 --> 02:06:53,120
Speaker 1: five months later. Not only did I have to navigate

2515
02:06:53,200 --> 02:06:57,360
Speaker 1: being a single dad, but I had to figure out

2516
02:06:58,480 --> 02:07:03,840
Speaker 1: figure my shit out mentally. If their mom hadn't passed away,

2517
02:07:04,840 --> 02:07:14,280
Speaker 1: I would have been damn man. He would have been

2518
02:07:14,320 --> 02:07:14,840
Speaker 1: on that plane.

2519
02:07:14,880 --> 02:07:17,480
Speaker 2: He would have been on the plane. Yankee seventy two

2520
02:07:18,040 --> 02:07:22,080
Speaker 2: was the crew. Here I am nine years later. My

2521
02:07:22,240 --> 02:07:26,160
Speaker 2: daughters are crushing it. I'm crushing it, and my wife

2522
02:07:26,200 --> 02:07:27,560
Speaker 2: adopted our daughters.

2523
02:07:30,920 --> 02:07:33,960
Speaker 1: And we have a son. Now. Thanks for being great dudes,

2524
02:07:34,960 --> 02:07:41,200
Speaker 1: and thanks for being a great outlet to escape. Grand

2525
02:07:41,280 --> 02:07:48,280
Speaker 1: hats off to you, brother, I you can't imagine going

2526
02:07:48,320 --> 02:07:48,920
Speaker 1: through something like that.

2527
02:07:49,240 --> 02:07:53,960
Speaker 2: Thank you for considering us as great dudes. Yeah, because

2528
02:07:54,000 --> 02:07:56,920
Speaker 2: to hear that somebody that's been through all that, it's

2529
02:07:56,920 --> 02:07:59,360
Speaker 2: a pleasure to have you listen to our show and

2530
02:07:59,440 --> 02:08:00,280
Speaker 2: five joy of it.

2531
02:08:00,520 --> 02:08:04,600
Speaker 1: It's a pleasure, man.

2532
02:08:04,680 --> 02:08:06,440
Speaker 2: And it's like that now I sit here, I'm like,

2533
02:08:06,520 --> 02:08:08,600
Speaker 2: we talk about put a boat on it and shock Wave.

2534
02:08:11,120 --> 02:08:13,800
Speaker 2: We obviously talk about all you know, great stuff that

2535
02:08:13,880 --> 02:08:21,520
Speaker 2: we love and the passionate about Grant, bro, dude, we

2536
02:08:21,680 --> 02:08:21,920
Speaker 2: love you.

2537
02:08:22,040 --> 02:08:22,320
Speaker 3: That is.

2538
02:08:23,920 --> 02:08:27,879
Speaker 1: It's just another perspective. It's just another story that reminds

2539
02:08:27,920 --> 02:08:30,720
Speaker 1: you that whatever you're going through, there are things out

2540
02:08:30,720 --> 02:08:34,120
Speaker 1: there that people have went through that just that just

2541
02:08:34,200 --> 02:08:36,040
Speaker 1: shock you and then make you think, dude, how lucky

2542
02:08:36,080 --> 02:08:40,080
Speaker 1: aren't we? Yeah, and even Grant, I'm sure there's other

2543
02:08:40,160 --> 02:08:42,600
Speaker 1: perspectives that he finds. He's like, man, it's still how lucky?

2544
02:08:42,600 --> 02:08:47,120
Speaker 1: Am I? You know that sucks? That's brutal, but no one.

2545
02:08:47,200 --> 02:08:52,000
Speaker 1: Nine years later, Yeah, he found a wife who adopted

2546
02:08:52,040 --> 02:08:54,680
Speaker 1: her to his girls who he grinded to help raise.

2547
02:08:55,440 --> 02:08:57,440
Speaker 1: And I'm sure he was super protective along the way,

2548
02:08:57,560 --> 02:09:00,840
Speaker 1: like letting anybody else come into that world, do you

2549
02:09:00,920 --> 02:09:03,320
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, Like you know how hard

2550
02:09:03,360 --> 02:09:06,440
Speaker 1: that would be, just thinking if I was in that situation,

2551
02:09:06,600 --> 02:09:08,480
Speaker 1: how like guarded you'd be for anybody to kind of

2552
02:09:08,480 --> 02:09:10,600
Speaker 1: come into your house or help raise your girls with you,

2553
02:09:10,840 --> 02:09:14,320
Speaker 1: or have other opinions or things that kind of might

2554
02:09:14,400 --> 02:09:16,720
Speaker 1: hit insecurities of yours or triggers or things where you're like, no,

2555
02:09:16,800 --> 02:09:19,960
Speaker 1: I need to protect my daughters with anybody that I

2556
02:09:20,080 --> 02:09:22,120
Speaker 1: bring in my house. Yeah, and to find somebody to

2557
02:09:22,280 --> 02:09:24,760
Speaker 1: like have a family with to feel like, hey, yes

2558
02:09:25,600 --> 02:09:28,640
Speaker 1: I would, I would. It would be an honor for

2559
02:09:28,720 --> 02:09:31,440
Speaker 1: you to adopt my daughters and then you know, have

2560
02:09:31,600 --> 02:09:37,440
Speaker 1: a have a son. That's hard man finding your way

2561
02:09:37,480 --> 02:09:42,600
Speaker 1: with all that going down. He's imagine your wife passing

2562
02:09:42,600 --> 02:09:44,560
Speaker 1: away and you're you're you're off in the military.

2563
02:09:44,840 --> 02:09:47,840
Speaker 2: But that added guilty of like the only reason that

2564
02:09:48,680 --> 02:09:52,360
Speaker 2: he's still here and kicking in his mind is his

2565
02:09:52,480 --> 02:09:55,680
Speaker 2: wife's passing as well. Yeah, added layer is like that

2566
02:09:55,720 --> 02:09:58,920
Speaker 2: has a lot to work through mentally. Yeah, that's crazy

2567
02:09:59,080 --> 02:09:59,280
Speaker 2: on the.

2568
02:09:59,280 --> 02:10:01,520
Speaker 1: Mental side of with your unit being with your team,

2569
02:10:01,560 --> 02:10:04,480
Speaker 1: a team that it's all sacrifice. It's all I'm responsible

2570
02:10:04,480 --> 02:10:07,520
Speaker 1: for the group, not myself, and the guilt that you

2571
02:10:07,560 --> 02:10:10,040
Speaker 1: probably carry, like I should I should be I should

2572
02:10:10,080 --> 02:10:13,680
Speaker 1: have been on that plane. And also like no, God

2573
02:10:13,800 --> 02:10:15,520
Speaker 1: was telling me something because I shouldn't have been because

2574
02:10:15,520 --> 02:10:17,920
Speaker 1: if I was on that plane and both of them

2575
02:10:17,960 --> 02:10:25,200
Speaker 1: were lost, Yeah, like I don't know what happened. I

2576
02:10:25,240 --> 02:10:26,760
Speaker 1: don't know what happened with his wife, but if he

2577
02:10:26,840 --> 02:10:28,840
Speaker 1: goes down on that plane, because Mom's still alive, and

2578
02:10:28,920 --> 02:10:32,840
Speaker 1: then whatever happened to Monta happened after that, and then

2579
02:10:32,920 --> 02:10:37,240
Speaker 1: baby boys not even in the picture. Yeah, man, Golly.

2580
02:10:39,120 --> 02:10:42,280
Speaker 2: Grant Overholzer on Facebook.

2581
02:10:42,480 --> 02:10:44,640
Speaker 4: I crept a very heavy Happy birthday Grant. It was

2582
02:10:44,680 --> 02:10:46,920
Speaker 4: February second, So happy birthday to Grant.

2583
02:10:47,200 --> 02:10:49,320
Speaker 1: Happy birthday Grant and Green.

2584
02:10:49,400 --> 02:10:52,640
Speaker 2: If you've listened to this episode, you get two funk coupons.

2585
02:10:57,680 --> 02:11:01,000
Speaker 1: Got to break up this sadness? Do you want me

2586
02:11:01,040 --> 02:11:04,720
Speaker 1: to put a bow on it with a little Dan Gable? Yeah,

2587
02:11:05,120 --> 02:11:07,240
Speaker 1: please give us a day in Gable quote the BT

2588
02:11:07,440 --> 02:11:09,720
Speaker 1: six So that we've been that, we've been laughing, We've

2589
02:11:09,760 --> 02:11:13,120
Speaker 1: been trying to chime in with opinions, trying to find

2590
02:11:13,160 --> 02:11:16,640
Speaker 1: the next BET sixer for Courtney like feeling all things, crying,

2591
02:11:16,880 --> 02:11:19,879
Speaker 1: being sad, like what are we talking about? Moments?

2592
02:11:20,520 --> 02:11:25,600
Speaker 2: We need a day in Gable quote cerumission dude. In

2593
02:11:25,720 --> 02:11:29,960
Speaker 2: the book it was my mom wrote it was something

2594
02:11:30,000 --> 02:11:33,800
Speaker 2: about when I was born. The first thing my dad said,

2595
02:11:35,120 --> 02:11:37,640
Speaker 2: and it was he was asked to cut the cord

2596
02:11:38,960 --> 02:11:41,080
Speaker 2: and or asked, Hey, do you want to cut the cord?

2597
02:11:41,480 --> 02:11:43,680
Speaker 2: And his first his response that my mom has written

2598
02:11:43,720 --> 02:11:45,879
Speaker 2: in there is do you have somebody more qualified?

2599
02:11:52,600 --> 02:11:52,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2600
02:11:52,800 --> 02:11:53,400
Speaker 2: I believe so.

2601
02:11:56,000 --> 02:12:01,080
Speaker 1: Oh Billy boy, Billy, what a legend. Oh you got

2602
02:12:01,160 --> 02:12:03,800
Speaker 1: somebody more qualify? That's the Duke of Monte right there.

2603
02:12:04,080 --> 02:12:06,880
Speaker 1: I can see him laugh after that joke. I'll cut

2604
02:12:06,920 --> 02:12:09,760
Speaker 1: the gord, go right here, give me that shit? What

2605
02:12:10,280 --> 02:12:10,640
Speaker 1: do I do.

2606
02:12:12,680 --> 02:12:12,720
Speaker 6: This?

2607
02:12:13,120 --> 02:12:16,440
Speaker 2: This comes from a young Dan Gable back in the

2608
02:12:16,520 --> 02:12:20,320
Speaker 2: nineteen seventies. This comes from a very rare source of

2609
02:12:20,400 --> 02:12:23,919
Speaker 2: material of him talking to a wrestling camp of kiddos

2610
02:12:23,960 --> 02:12:28,600
Speaker 2: in the seventies. And I quote everything my high school

2611
02:12:29,320 --> 02:12:33,760
Speaker 2: coach told me was exactly right back then. When I

2612
02:12:33,880 --> 02:12:36,320
Speaker 2: listened to him and he told me you do this,

2613
02:12:36,640 --> 02:12:40,240
Speaker 2: you do that, you'll be a better person, and all

2614
02:12:40,360 --> 02:12:42,640
Speaker 2: this and all that, I just thought it was a

2615
02:12:42,720 --> 02:12:46,440
Speaker 2: bunch of garbage. But everything he said was right. If

2616
02:12:46,520 --> 02:12:48,800
Speaker 2: I would have done what he said, I'd be a

2617
02:12:48,880 --> 02:12:51,640
Speaker 2: lot better off today than I am right now. You

2618
02:12:51,720 --> 02:12:54,680
Speaker 2: don't really learn from the clinics and wrestling by yourself.

2619
02:12:55,120 --> 02:12:58,000
Speaker 2: You learn from watching. I don't care how good you

2620
02:12:58,920 --> 02:13:01,520
Speaker 2: good the guy is or how bad the guy is

2621
02:13:01,640 --> 02:13:05,440
Speaker 2: in wrestling. I can learn things from watching you guys wrestle.

2622
02:13:05,880 --> 02:13:10,080
Speaker 2: Almost every one of you probably have has a certain

2623
02:13:10,160 --> 02:13:14,600
Speaker 2: thing you do differently, or a favorite hold. If I

2624
02:13:14,720 --> 02:13:16,840
Speaker 2: can pick that up, that's just going to add a

2625
02:13:16,880 --> 02:13:19,840
Speaker 2: little bit more to my wrestling knowledge, and it's going

2626
02:13:20,440 --> 02:13:21,040
Speaker 2: to help.

2627
02:13:20,920 --> 02:13:26,880
Speaker 1: Me a lot. Day. Gable was he was a little jit,

2628
02:13:27,040 --> 02:13:29,760
Speaker 1: and he was like, this is garbage. This guy doesn't

2629
02:13:29,760 --> 02:13:30,280
Speaker 1: know what he's saying.

2630
02:13:30,280 --> 02:13:32,520
Speaker 2: He don't know what he's saying. But I should have

2631
02:13:32,560 --> 02:13:35,240
Speaker 2: listened to him. Every single thing he said was right.

2632
02:13:35,720 --> 02:13:38,560
Speaker 1: That's cud, That's that's that's life right there. That's life.

2633
02:13:38,600 --> 02:13:41,240
Speaker 2: That's us right now thinking about everything our parents told us. Yeah,

2634
02:13:41,360 --> 02:13:43,120
Speaker 2: that's going to be our kids thinking about what we

2635
02:13:43,320 --> 02:13:49,920
Speaker 2: tell them one day, what our grandparents were telling us. Yeah, dude,

2636
02:13:50,080 --> 02:13:51,840
Speaker 2: one of my I just want to say this, one

2637
02:13:51,880 --> 02:13:53,840
Speaker 2: of my favorite sades. I try not to do that

2638
02:13:54,880 --> 02:13:56,480
Speaker 2: at the end of sets. But this was truly one

2639
02:13:56,480 --> 02:13:57,400
Speaker 2: of my favorite sets.

2640
02:13:57,520 --> 02:14:01,040
Speaker 1: This is a great so this was. Yeah, it's fantastic.

2641
02:14:01,560 --> 02:14:03,960
Speaker 1: If you got you got something out of it. If

2642
02:14:04,000 --> 02:14:05,840
Speaker 1: you have a win, a loss, something you want to share.

2643
02:14:06,200 --> 02:14:08,880
Speaker 1: Do not hesitate to comment. Yeah, do not hesitate to

2644
02:14:08,960 --> 02:14:10,000
Speaker 1: call in even if you want.

2645
02:14:09,920 --> 02:14:12,840
Speaker 2: To just say, I fucking forgot to take out the trash.

2646
02:14:12,960 --> 02:14:17,120
Speaker 1: See you, Well, don't forget you said the comment to

2647
02:14:17,640 --> 02:14:18,280
Speaker 1: pt FIT.

2648
02:14:18,560 --> 02:14:22,160
Speaker 2: That's why we've covered a lot of this episode.

2649
02:14:22,200 --> 02:14:26,680
Speaker 1: We gotta get pt FIT. God save these people. Are

2650
02:14:28,720 --> 02:14:33,800
Speaker 1: this spot? Hey after four months?

2651
02:14:34,200 --> 02:14:34,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2652
02:14:34,720 --> 02:14:38,320
Speaker 1: What what are the photos called? Transformation? For it? After?

2653
02:14:38,520 --> 02:14:42,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, the transformational photos. I'm a PT fiddo just.

2654
02:14:44,240 --> 02:14:46,520
Speaker 1: Before it is the PT Thiko and then attend to

2655
02:14:49,840 --> 02:14:57,240
Speaker 1: fiddo P thinko is on real Derek, incredible. I love

2656
02:14:57,280 --> 02:14:59,240
Speaker 1: you guys. Take out the trash? Yeah, do it.

2657
02:15:00,080 --> 02:15:02,440
Speaker 2: I gotta give you a hug. That was That was

2658
02:15:02,440 --> 02:15:03,000
Speaker 2: a good job.