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Speaker 1: your TV every Monday night. But I have a question
Speaker 1: since all these young in just doing this now, see
Speaker 1: back in my day, we didn't have only fans. We
Speaker 1: had lastnet CHRISTI, what do y'all think about only fans?
Speaker 1: And where's the line drawn? Because it's like only fans
Speaker 1: for her. They're making money off only fans and you don't.
Speaker 1: And my thing is you don't have to drop your
Speaker 1: drawers to get a hundred thousand like in ten minutes,
Speaker 1: like they promote their music. But in the beginning, that's
Speaker 1: all it was and when it first came out. But
Speaker 1: now bad Boy, she'd have made a million in like
Speaker 1: an hour just off just posting one picture doing her music,
Speaker 1: you know what, would because it gave the name that
Speaker 1: it was only fans to do all that new Yeah,
Speaker 1: like sexual if it came out to promote your business,
Speaker 1: of course I probably would jump on it to get
Speaker 1: how it came out. In the beginning, it was just
Speaker 1: like only fans your boobs, and we just had the
Speaker 1: China's we had all these people were just doing it.
Speaker 1: Not to say that they were showing anything crazy, but
Speaker 1: too much. The thing is like, if you show this
Speaker 1: on only fans, whoever is on your only fans can
Speaker 1: just take it and posted on Twitter. You know what
Speaker 1: you feel about it? Well, in the beginning, you know,
Speaker 1: it was all about nakedness. It's just like but now
Speaker 1: I see people doing like live classes, workouts, go really yeah,
Speaker 1: people making money like differently from it. Now it's branching
Speaker 1: out into being like an actual channel for television and
Speaker 1: they're doing shows on it and stuff. But I still,
Speaker 1: as Vina said, with the name and the notion name, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think I would. Yeah, it's just the name
Speaker 1: that the stereotypic, Like if it was like pretty, we
Speaker 1: got only fans like what where's Pete back? Um, what
Speaker 1: do you feel about it? Would you do it? Oh? No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. Yeah, because of the name. You know,
Speaker 1: it's just like a negative what's the word? Um, I
Speaker 1: was about say condensation, but that since you're constantation connotation,
Speaker 1: conversation constipation. But since you're old, be like you're older
Speaker 1: now and you're thirty four, I think you should how
Speaker 1: it happened to power in the time. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: I think how we shifted the mindset two minutes. I
Speaker 1: think we should like get your wine that and go
Speaker 1: back to pretty v and pull up. I think we
Speaker 1: should get you on there so you could for the crap. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it. But they're playing somebody and when
Speaker 1: they google you, when you're trying to do film and
Speaker 1: make you seriously attached to your name, Google, you will
Speaker 1: be someone only fans pretty many fancies like you can't
Speaker 1: even delete it, you even take it along. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't think I would do it, but y'all, we got somebody.
Speaker 1: I want to hear her opinion this because you know,
Speaker 1: she's so crazy, vibrant, beautiful. I always I told her
Speaker 1: every day, I like, you are the cutest little She
Speaker 1: looks like a cartoon character to me. She does. I
Speaker 1: get that all the time. We got me me. It's
Speaker 1: bringing me me. Yes, it's lovely MEMI come on out, girls,
Speaker 1: I need to feel girl all right now? He so cute,
Speaker 1: so beautiful, happy, vibrant. Okay, we'll welcome to our podcast
Speaker 1: in a while. And now you look so cute. I know,
Speaker 1: cartoon character. So who is lovely me? Who is lovely me?
Speaker 1: MEI I am. Well, if you google the most ratchet
Speaker 1: Asian girl, I pop up. I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: they gave me that name like six seven years ago,
Speaker 1: and I just ran with it. I was like, it's better,
Speaker 1: and I have one titty bitch or something like that,
Speaker 1: A man when I take it. I wouldn't say yetto
Speaker 1: I think, just more a bigger personality. When it comes
Speaker 1: to Asian people, A lot of time we're laid back
Speaker 1: or more reserved, more reserved, and I've just always been
Speaker 1: had this bubbly personality, you know, always been the cost
Speaker 1: count and stuff like that. What vinomes kind of Asian?
Speaker 1: Are you? Yeah? Well yeah, I was gonna say nationality.
Speaker 1: I don't know ethnicity. So you're in Vitnamese. Yes, we
Speaker 1: do the nail honey. Yeah, you still have your salans.
Speaker 1: I actually sold them actually right before the pandemic, so
Speaker 1: it all worked out. Wow, you got out of there
Speaker 1: at a good time, right, perfect time, perfect time. What
Speaker 1: made you tell you? You know, after the divorce and
Speaker 1: stuff like that, I was just ready to move away.
Speaker 1: And I'm so glad you made it through that. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I know you're probably you know, still going through in
Speaker 1: different ways and spaces and but you Yeah, but I know,
Speaker 1: I'm glad you made it through that. Thank you because
Speaker 1: you guys were very supportive things you personal. Now, so
Speaker 1: we were talking about only fans, girl, what's your thoughts
Speaker 1: on that? Only fans? Okay, So it took me a
Speaker 1: long time to want to do it. You know, you're
Speaker 1: only fans. I had only fans. Fans is the whole. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, take me a long time because I'm like,
Speaker 1: like you guys said, like, if you want to get
Speaker 1: into acting, or more professionalism. You had a bad name
Speaker 1: and carried a bad name, especially during the pandemic. You know,
Speaker 1: all the girls, especially dancers at the ship clubs, and
Speaker 1: they couldn't go in and work, so everybody's making their
Speaker 1: money through only fans. So it took me a while,
Speaker 1: and I didn't want it to do it like being single,
Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to be in a relationship and
Speaker 1: actually have it, like we'd be on the same page, like, hey,
Speaker 1: we're doing this against some money, so we you know,
Speaker 1: we do it together. And it's not X rated as
Speaker 1: HBO after Dark. That's you know. Now the creepy guys,
Speaker 1: they're like, you a fucking scammer. Why are you going
Speaker 1: on a scammer? Because you know they're expecting more X
Speaker 1: rated style. But I'm actually putting a lot of hard
Speaker 1: work behind my content, Like I put it together, like
Speaker 1: I have scenes, and I have like different costumes and
Speaker 1: I have slow motion parts. Um, so it's not X
Speaker 1: rating or nothing like that. Actually, before I actually got
Speaker 1: on it, I was like, you know, how about I
Speaker 1: do nail classes and charge people, you know for nail classes,
Speaker 1: like per nail classes. I told all the ladies and
Speaker 1: mature lely in them all my YouTube. I was like,
Speaker 1: come join my only fans. And as soon as I
Speaker 1: made my only fan, I was like, never mind, missure,
Speaker 1: you don't come over content completely. I think I thought
Speaker 1: that I was able to, you know, veer off into
Speaker 1: a different way of my only fans and make money
Speaker 1: different you know. Um, but it's really just sexual. You know.
Speaker 1: I got on the nail classes. Yeah, don't come over here.
Speaker 1: There's nothing over here. So six like, give us an
Speaker 1: example of something. If we went to the only fans,
Speaker 1: what will we see? You see? Just like lingerie picks
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. I deleted like on my main page,
Speaker 1: like any laundry or any sexy picture, you have to
Speaker 1: go to only fans. So you have to go to
Speaker 1: only fans and pay to see the content. So that's
Speaker 1: smart right there. But it's sexual. Like as soon as
Speaker 1: I got on there, you know, all the men were
Speaker 1: like writing me messages like we want to see you.
Speaker 1: Sc'm like, oh my god, I just got here, and
Speaker 1: like why do you today my first day? What do
Speaker 1: you mean when are you going to start sucking? Oh
Speaker 1: my god? Sorry you guys. So it's really intense, but
Speaker 1: I got it got really busy really fast because I
Speaker 1: realized that men been creeping on me for a long time,
Speaker 1: you know, and this has you know, and I never
Speaker 1: showed anything. And I'm always always been goofy, you know,
Speaker 1: I'll shake a little something right here and there, but
Speaker 1: not but nothing in a sexy way. I've always been
Speaker 1: a goofy sexy. So they've been creeping on me for
Speaker 1: a long time. So I did actually only fans. Actually
Speaker 1: the most money I've ever made in anything that I
Speaker 1: have done. Wow, I will tell you that. So it
Speaker 1: persuaded me. Come on, girl, I'm pretty sure I've been
Speaker 1: waiting for you to do that. I couldn't even believe
Speaker 1: the numbers. I was not what my expectation for. It
Speaker 1: was much much lower, about nine lower than what I
Speaker 1: have made. And it's consistent. Yeah, no, not consistent. You
Speaker 1: have to work to work, and I don't. I don't,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't think it's really gonna last long.
Speaker 1: I honestly will see temporary because they expect to see
Speaker 1: more every time they they're expecting. So it's like they
Speaker 1: wanted to build up Like the first month, they wanted
Speaker 1: me to be a whore porn star, like look what
Speaker 1: you see what you get was what you Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't where. I don't think I will go that far. Okay,
Speaker 1: well I'm glad I didn't talk to you about only fans.
Speaker 1: Know you had one girl be on their in granny
Speaker 1: panties in the world, Like, I mean, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: Like I mean the type of content I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 1: getting paid for. It's like stuff that you can post
Speaker 1: on Instagram even when you can get Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: savage originally, like I was pushing for a deal and
Speaker 1: they're like, you know where this and I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to just weird and post it on there,
Speaker 1: like I want to make some money, so I just
Speaker 1: had to go sell it on only fans and it
Speaker 1: makes a lot more. How did your significant other feel
Speaker 1: about it? He's always there with me, so every time
Speaker 1: we're filming something, you know, we're together, so I you know,
Speaker 1: tell him before I post something, and we go every
Speaker 1: over everything together. Yeah, and then you know, you set prices.
Speaker 1: So then we rewatched the video together, like how much
Speaker 1: how much there was a little areola right there? There
Speaker 1: should be more so, but it actually brought us a
Speaker 1: lot closer together. Bars, like, intimately it brought us closer together.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Yeah, what about these foot fanishes because maybe
Speaker 1: I've gotten a few messages about that. Have you done it?
Speaker 1: Would you do it? There? I'll send you for like
Speaker 1: three pictures of your feet. No polish on the truck,
Speaker 1: just like one good foot, all right, a lot of
Speaker 1: corns on the right, three bones on a liot. Al right. Everyone,
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with Women of
Speaker 1: Wild and Out. Um, so may me. So you said
Speaker 1: your significant other, right, so you're dating again? Um, how
Speaker 1: was that for you as far as hopping out of
Speaker 1: your situation and not saying jumping right in because you
Speaker 1: probably took you said you to take time to heal,
Speaker 1: you know, if you to open these doors. But you
Speaker 1: said when we spoke, um, um, outside of all this,
Speaker 1: you said you've already knew him before. Yeah, I dated him.
Speaker 1: Because everybody's like, oh, you only have one type. You
Speaker 1: look like your ex was just more tattoos. I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: I only have one type. Like I'm aware of that, Like,
Speaker 1: you don't got to tell me that you resembles I
Speaker 1: think being from the d m V. Like that's just
Speaker 1: the type we like it, dre Hayes and uh, I
Speaker 1: like I'm tall over six foot and I like I'm
Speaker 1: slim bill. Um, So yeah, I dated him. He's the
Speaker 1: original my type. Okay, So I dated him before I
Speaker 1: dated my ex husband, you know, um, like eleven years ago.
Speaker 1: But back then he wasn't like he wasn't ready like
Speaker 1: I've always been that. I've always been a relationship person.
Speaker 1: So I don't believe in just dating living steparuly and like,
Speaker 1: we're together, ready together. You know, if we're having unprotect
Speaker 1: success work together, you're gonna be with me and we're
Speaker 1: gonna be together. So yeah, I just I don't I
Speaker 1: don't like dating. I don't like dating, and I don't
Speaker 1: like being alone. And I accepted that and I'm okay
Speaker 1: with it. Would you get married again? It's beautiful? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but also you know, um, with your new significant that
Speaker 1: was his name Stretch Stretch so mr Mr Stretch, Mr? Yes,
Speaker 1: So how does that you know now that you have
Speaker 1: grown and he has seen your growth and he has
Speaker 1: involved and he also see the different side that you've
Speaker 1: been through with your husband, how are you feeling with
Speaker 1: him now and your kids? Like, how is he accepting?
Speaker 1: Like you and your kids. And I mean he's spent
Speaker 1: eleven years ago, so things have changed. You're a different person.
Speaker 1: You're different person. I think I'm still growing every day, Like, um,
Speaker 1: he's great with the kids. For me, when I'm dating
Speaker 1: a man, like is my one get too free? So
Speaker 1: it's not just you're not just dating me. So for me,
Speaker 1: you have to get along with my kids. My kids
Speaker 1: have to like you have to see how you are
Speaker 1: and how you interact with them and lifestyle and everything. Um,
Speaker 1: but I still have a lot to grow because my
Speaker 1: last relationship was toxic, Like things that I thought were normal,
Speaker 1: we're not normal. And that's what I'm learning that I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, calling each other out of our names and
Speaker 1: really fighting, throwing things and um me bouncing off the wall,
Speaker 1: squeezing everybody and jumping on people and jumping on people
Speaker 1: like off break that a lot of those things my
Speaker 1: boyfriend now is teaching me, Like that's that's not okay
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Ship Like I don't know what kind
Speaker 1: of relations should you been in, But I don't really
Speaker 1: think you know how to be in a relationship, And
Speaker 1: honestly I don't. I mean I was with the same
Speaker 1: person for like ten years and we were just so
Speaker 1: toxic to the point that we thought I don't know
Speaker 1: no better. Yeah, so he's teaching me how to be
Speaker 1: in a relationship. So I'm growing departments on a nothing though.
Speaker 1: Did you ever think you would be on MTV so wild? Now?
Speaker 1: You know? Now m one? You know what, like my
Speaker 1: first my viral, like in two thousand and fifteen, two
Speaker 1: thousand and sixteen, I always said I wanted to be
Speaker 1: on Wild and Now. Really, somehow I got on Love
Speaker 1: and hip Hop, don't ask. There was no love or
Speaker 1: hip hop with me, but I got on there. But
Speaker 1: originally I've always wanted to be on Wild and Now,
Speaker 1: So I think it's amazing. I'm really excited and I
Speaker 1: love Wild and Girl. This season you've been me me practicing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you aren't killing thank you, thank you. I
Speaker 1: think I'm getting more comfortable and are competent and I yeah,
Speaker 1: more grown up a lot. I see your growth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I see like everything, like when you walked in down
Speaker 1: to the dark, hare down to you just caring yourself.
Speaker 1: It's not like no shade. We used to hear you
Speaker 1: yes from the other room, used to running circles, running
Speaker 1: circles like literally, just you hear me me coming Like
Speaker 1: but I mean that's just your personality. That's our bold
Speaker 1: and like confident you are. But like now that I
Speaker 1: see you, it's like it's like it's at peace, like
Speaker 1: a different side of you and you just really have
Speaker 1: fun and work, you know. Third now, Yeah, one, I
Speaker 1: love I love I love you, I love wild Oness.
Speaker 1: I can say, um, compared to other shows I've done,
Speaker 1: Like we pray together here. I love that. You know,
Speaker 1: we pray before every episode and we together, we pray,
Speaker 1: we work together. It's good bye. Yeah, it's a family.
Speaker 1: We don't come to here fighting and trying to figure
Speaker 1: out who we're gonna fight this episode. The devil don't
Speaker 1: exist here. This is an amazing show. Yeah, and everyone
Speaker 1: and everyone loves each other like it's not like it's
Speaker 1: really no beef on this show. And if we answer,
Speaker 1: we answer like siblings and yeah, you know, yea what
Speaker 1: y'all got going on? Yeah, yeah, it's a really good show. Um,
Speaker 1: I had to ask you another question. Okay, you know, um,
Speaker 1: do you need to talk about you know, how she
Speaker 1: feels about stomach? Um, talk about what you know, you know,
Speaker 1: surroundings that you know that's going on. Honestly feel that
Speaker 1: it is very unfortunate. You know, as much as this
Speaker 1: country deal with um racial injustice and we're having you
Speaker 1: know what, you would think that all the minorities would
Speaker 1: stick together, especially with everything with Black Lives Matter and
Speaker 1: being the minority in this country is very unfortunate and
Speaker 1: seeing it and the saddest part for me is seeing
Speaker 1: the elderly, you know, get attacked because they can't defend themselves.
Speaker 1: These are like ninety year old woman, ninety year old
Speaker 1: men and getting stabbed, getting killed, and it's sad and
Speaker 1: a lot of time, I feel like it became like
Speaker 1: a trend. You know, if people are hop on, people
Speaker 1: can't speak for themselves. They see, oh, somebody bullying, and
Speaker 1: they think it's cool and they want to hop on.
Speaker 1: And this is unfortunate because everything that we have gone
Speaker 1: through in this country, especially with minorities and just fighting
Speaker 1: for our vices, is disgusting. And I wish the mother
Speaker 1: funker would try me. I just said, you know, you're
Speaker 1: you're picking on the older people, you know, and it's disgusting,
Speaker 1: like they can't so they can't defend themselves, and what's
Speaker 1: sad is when people scream, I all, go back to
Speaker 1: your country or go back to where you're from. And
Speaker 1: there's a lot of Asian people that have been born
Speaker 1: in America. Yes, their country, this is where they're born
Speaker 1: and raised, not just the first generation with multiple generation.
Speaker 1: This is their home as much as is somebody else's home.
Speaker 1: You know, So what country you want to go back to?
Speaker 1: You know, like there's people who never even been to
Speaker 1: their country. They don't They wouldn't raise there, they weren't
Speaker 1: born there. Their family been here, they build a foundation here.
Speaker 1: For for people to throw out go back to your
Speaker 1: country is so ignorant. Now it's a lot of your
Speaker 1: family over here. Uh yeah, my family is over here.
Speaker 1: I still have like a sister and stuff over there.
Speaker 1: I'm not the first generation and I was born in Vietnam.
Speaker 1: I came here when so my children are the first generation.
Speaker 1: But I ever go back and visit. I went once
Speaker 1: when I was twelve, but I don't and I haven't
Speaker 1: been since. She's like, yeah, I do. I do want
Speaker 1: to go and actually visit my father's grave. So beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my mom is still alive. She's out in Maryland. Okay,
Speaker 1: she's scared to leave the house, like it's it's sad,
Speaker 1: you know. And she calls me, she's like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: in California now, like be careful. You know. Um, there's
Speaker 1: so much of that Asian hate going on, especially in California.
Speaker 1: She's like, she's scared to leave the house. And it's real,
Speaker 1: it's really sad, it's really unfortunate, and it's happening from
Speaker 1: different races, not you know, it's it's white people, Black people,
Speaker 1: Hispanic people that are committing all these hate crimes. And
Speaker 1: it's just like, we are the minority. Why are we
Speaker 1: not sticking together. People don't realize how important minorities are
Speaker 1: in the country, Like they've tried to, you know, get
Speaker 1: rid of minorities, and then it went a ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and they realized like, oh, we can't really live without them,
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't really make sense. So yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: nothing is we love you down. You bring such energy.
Speaker 1: Energy is amazing, Like you just bring so much to
Speaker 1: the show, Like thank you. So I mean when you
Speaker 1: mess up in like workshops, then when I mess up,
Speaker 1: I feel like we have a connection. We don't just
Speaker 1: really say okay. It was so funny. Connection connections I
Speaker 1: can't relate to maybe not maybe we don't get on beat.
Speaker 1: It's like, yes, you'd be on being you don't say
Speaker 1: no word word. I was making the whole first season. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'd be here. I don't hear
Speaker 1: nothing clips said. You know, it's the same beat for
Speaker 1: the whole. I don't got no excuse. I tried on
Speaker 1: the word what do you killing this season? W down
Speaker 1: to your looks, stay here like just every day, I
Speaker 1: tell you. And I'm like that means a lot because
Speaker 1: I honestly I didn't want to come back and like
Speaker 1: just be at a standstill, like all you gotta you
Speaker 1: gotta do something, like if you're gonna do what you
Speaker 1: need to do it you need to focus. Hotel. I'm
Speaker 1: able to focus because I can't leave because in Atlanta,
Speaker 1: you know, if I wasn't shooting, I go to the shop,
Speaker 1: I go work. I didn't come move around. I didn't work.
Speaker 1: I'm stuck in a hotel COVID. So I'm writing. I'm
Speaker 1: having time sitting down writing. Look at you and that's
Speaker 1: so and how what are you same agey? I'm tourists
Speaker 1: stories in your aries? Yeah, the same age? And how
Speaker 1: many kids. Do you have to want more my daughter seven? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do. I do want one more, just one boy,
Speaker 1: one more. But you say you want one more boy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like what you know? God always give me what I
Speaker 1: want because you know all of my this is some brother.
Speaker 1: Everybody has two boys, two boys, two boys. So when
Speaker 1: it came to my daughter, I was like this, this
Speaker 1: baby going to either be a girl or she gonna
Speaker 1: be a gay boy. I'm not y'all know. Now it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a girl. Like and everybody has two boys
Speaker 1: in my family. So the fact that I went in
Speaker 1: and it was a girl. So I have a really
Speaker 1: deep connection with God. I feel like he spoils me.
Speaker 1: I feel like he spoils me. Like most of the time,
Speaker 1: things that I pray for it they comes out with fans.
Speaker 1: Ya come on, I prayed to get my nails done.
Speaker 1: So what I'm asking you, I don't know her name,
Speaker 1: I don't do I am a only fanhole now I
Speaker 1: don't do nail no more. Well, I'm happy about anything,
Speaker 1: and I'm just happy to her cup. You didn't want water,
Speaker 1: no I drink. So the question is what you're gonna
Speaker 1: get on fans? What what's next? For me, what is next.
Speaker 1: I go with the flow of life and whatever is offered,
Speaker 1: and I try to do my best and everything. Um,
Speaker 1: but I really want to start acting. I want to
Speaker 1: do some type of you know, get my acting out us.
Speaker 1: I feel like Lingling is a great character and I
Speaker 1: can make it into something. And I'm on the West
Speaker 1: coast now. I moved here now, so it's a lot
Speaker 1: more opportunities for acting and stuff is for me. But
Speaker 1: whatever I do in life, for it is as long
Speaker 1: as I make sure that my bills are paid, my
Speaker 1: kids are good. That's all that matter. Whatever I gotta
Speaker 1: do to make sure that my house is paid. You know,
Speaker 1: I was would you ever do stand up? I have? Um,
Speaker 1: I did one with Tyler and them in North Carolina,
Speaker 1: did a little ten minutes. I actually did really good.
Speaker 1: They were laughing. Yeah. Well see they were trying to
Speaker 1: put me out as the first person to open up.
Speaker 1: I said, no, that's the person that sucks or something.
Speaker 1: And everything is practice make perfect. So normally I used
Speaker 1: to when I was hosting comedy clubs, I was just
Speaker 1: going up there staying whatever, talking. Yeah, but when you
Speaker 1: have a set, it's different. The practice. My problem was
Speaker 1: staying on topic, you know, not switching topics so much.
Speaker 1: And I got a d D. This should be like everywhere.
Speaker 1: So once I practiced, I did really good on there.
Speaker 1: So I would actually love to do comedy. I saw
Speaker 1: you doing your tour and turned out really good. I
Speaker 1: love standing. Yeah, yeah, a lot of stories. I think
Speaker 1: it should be good. Yeah, I would love to see you. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: movies toards, no money, no problems. You know, I'm not
Speaker 1: my business, y'all'll never see me under nobody comments like
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't bother nobody. I don't be up
Speaker 1: in the comments section. I don't. I don't bother nobody.
Speaker 1: If I see it and trust me, you know, i'd
Speaker 1: learn and that I Lindsten, but I never replied. I
Speaker 1: don't reply my business. You know, I keep it peaceful
Speaker 1: with people now. But if I have to pull up
Speaker 1: and find I mean, that's no problem too. You know,
Speaker 1: what's the last one you gotta um? Like last week?
Speaker 1: What was your last fight? My last fight? Remember two
Speaker 1: years ago? Have you ever been a fright me either? Girl? Here,
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't just scary fight, you know,
Speaker 1: all like my high school, mid middle school years, like
Speaker 1: and I did. I did Juvie for like four years too,
Speaker 1: So from twelve to sixteen, I was I was in Juvie,
Speaker 1: So I always I never fought for myself though, I
Speaker 1: always fought for other people, Like I don't like bullies,
Speaker 1: so I always found myself fighting from other people, taking
Speaker 1: up for them, taking out for them because I just
Speaker 1: hate which I was doing a Juvie cross puzzle Girl
Speaker 1: playing Space. I played the hell out of some Space
Speaker 1: playing Space all daw nails every time I got place.
Speaker 1: Oh Lord, of course I never wanted to go to
Speaker 1: juvenile and like that. I just really feel like, what
Speaker 1: did you people y'all doing then when you're in there?
Speaker 1: But I know I have a lot of friends and
Speaker 1: people that I watched a lot of like Joe shows
Speaker 1: on Netflix, and I was like, yeah, like what gets
Speaker 1: you there? And I know you were as Juvie that
Speaker 1: um there's d j J and there's DSS. So they're
Speaker 1: so service where you know your family is not fit
Speaker 1: or they want need to put you in the d
Speaker 1: JJ where you actually catch hard, you get in trouble
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, you're bad. But the hardest thing
Speaker 1: about a juvenile is like you don't just do time.
Speaker 1: Like as an adult, Okay, the judge give you a year.
Speaker 1: You do a year, you get out. As a juvie,
Speaker 1: you have to complete a program. So I've been to
Speaker 1: many different programs, like I did a wilderness program live
Speaker 1: outside of the woods for a whole year straight, like
Speaker 1: either three to nine month programs or not nine to
Speaker 1: twelve months to fifteen months. Like you have to actually
Speaker 1: complete the program to get out. And that's where the
Speaker 1: hardest part I had was I took to complete programs
Speaker 1: because I used to. I'd be scared in places and
Speaker 1: I would be right by. When I was just living
Speaker 1: in South Carolina. That ship is country, different different places.
Speaker 1: There's lockdown facilities and there's like group homes and then
Speaker 1: their shelters and then the wilderness program I was at.
Speaker 1: But I did go back to one of the juvies
Speaker 1: and actually want to speak to the girls like not
Speaker 1: to go and that's what I wanted to do. I
Speaker 1: wanted to um talk to young girls that's locked up
Speaker 1: or just have a counseling thing for just girls like sixteen.
Speaker 1: So some of the girls that are that I was
Speaker 1: locked up with, they didn't turn out too well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: now that we're old. I can only imagine. So I
Speaker 1: feel blessed that I've made it out of there, you know,
Speaker 1: on my feet. But I mean after I got out
Speaker 1: at sixteen, I've been in my own never since. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we talked about only fans, Um, how do you make
Speaker 1: money on social media like securing the bag on Instagram, Twitter,
Speaker 1: so media in general outside of only fans because yeah,
Speaker 1: well only fantage that started. It's only been like four months,
Speaker 1: three or four months, hasn't been that long. Um, But
Speaker 1: before that, like, I make money off of YouTube, do
Speaker 1: a lot of cooking and banks. Yeah, a lot of
Speaker 1: cooking and and um, a lot of people. It's actually
Speaker 1: a lot harder on YouTube to build your your followings
Speaker 1: because it's so much harder. It's more personal. You know,
Speaker 1: on Instagram, people get to see you for one minute
Speaker 1: max or maybe I g t V before you know,
Speaker 1: before it was made, it was really just one minute videos.
Speaker 1: But on YouTube, they're there, which you've like over thirty
Speaker 1: minutes for even then sometime they sit with me for
Speaker 1: two hours. But it's it's more of a personal connection.
Speaker 1: You know, they want to see your family, your kids,
Speaker 1: and where you go, your daily life stuff and that
Speaker 1: really like that. They have to like you. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I do make money off of YouTube from cooking and eating,
Speaker 1: you know, eat weird ship and I like spicy stuff
Speaker 1: and keeping that. And then of course any type of
Speaker 1: promo promo is easy money, you know, promoting people business.
Speaker 1: I've always been a small business supporter, like even at
Speaker 1: the nail salons, like outside of social media, like all
Speaker 1: the all the bootleg people. Whatever you got detergent lotion,
Speaker 1: I'm buying it. You got plates, you want to come
Speaker 1: in here and sell it, drinks, sell everything. I bought everything.
Speaker 1: I support everybody, you know, because they were like fake bags.
Speaker 1: Back in one of my shop, my old boss like
Speaker 1: she was, she she was getting mad as this guy
Speaker 1: because he kept coming in and to sell bags, and
Speaker 1: she keep trying to kick him out. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: would you let the people who come sell vegetable when
Speaker 1: fruit come in? You know, I'm like, that's not fair
Speaker 1: because he's just trying to make He's not coming here
Speaker 1: trying to rob us or sell drugs or none of that. Ship.
Speaker 1: He's literally just trying to make an honest living from
Speaker 1: selling some bags, like him self his bag. Let him
Speaker 1: promote it and let him go. He was just a
Speaker 1: little bit loud, so you know, I was just telling
Speaker 1: keep it down so she don't kick you out. So
Speaker 1: I've always supported people in their hustle because I'd rather
Speaker 1: you wake up and do something and do nothing at all. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm hurry. I'm happy that God to took you out
Speaker 1: of some places. I'm glad that you are where you
Speaker 1: are at and you have involved evolved, you have trying
Speaker 1: into a butterfly, you know, still blooming, and you have
Speaker 1: found your prints and I prayed it. God gives you
Speaker 1: unity and your own and you said you are now
Speaker 1: located out here here and on What's coast. So we
Speaker 1: are so happy for you. Thank you, thank you, thank
Speaker 1: you for having me. I'm excited to see what God
Speaker 1: has in story. Yeah, well you ain't leaving yet, because girl,
Speaker 1: every show we do a final, so you have to
Speaker 1: leave us with a positive motivation. Okay, So the full quote.
Speaker 1: I've always had this quote and my sister told me
Speaker 1: and I've always lived by it, and it's um you know,
Speaker 1: be like a lotus. Although it blooms and live in
Speaker 1: the swamp and in the mud, it still blooms into
Speaker 1: a beautiful flower. So it doesn't matter what you've been through,
Speaker 1: what your troubles, and whatever hardship you have in life,
Speaker 1: you can still bloom into that beautiful flower and you
Speaker 1: can still be whoever and whatever you want to be
Speaker 1: in a positible, beautiful way. So we toast to the cup. Cheers.
Speaker 1: It's invisible water. Cheers just a little, this little sid improblem.
Speaker 1: That's some good invisible water. Guys, so much. And if
Speaker 1: y'all you know seeing a side of Mimi hopefully tonight
Speaker 1: that you have not seen before. She Yes, she is loud, Yes,
Speaker 1: she is crazy. Yes, she is vibrant. Yes, she has
Speaker 1: her own, you know, beautiful personality. But she is also deep.
Speaker 1: She's also why she is also a mother, she has
Speaker 1: her business is going on. So I love that people
Speaker 1: can see the side of you too, don't you do
Speaker 1: show this side but people know pick up you. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I love that side too. That's what's balance, balancing
Speaker 1: all the personalities. Yeah, I love it, honest, all the
Speaker 1: personality connection personal And also tell the people where to
Speaker 1: follow you at you can find you. Guys can follow me.
Speaker 1: It's lovingly me me I T S l O v
Speaker 1: E L Y M I M fans. Click the link
Speaker 1: in my bio if you want to see some Texasy
Speaker 1: her name. So thank you. Let a night. All right, everyone,
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere. We'll be right back after this break.
Speaker 1: We are back. Well, I mean me me. She came
Speaker 1: in the building. She uh, we've seen different sides of
Speaker 1: you not know she had only fans. I didn't know either,
Speaker 1: I mean either crazy me so cute and you know,
Speaker 1: I was so intrigued with her cignificant other coming in
Speaker 1: her life from eleven years ago and then her divorce.
Speaker 1: That was a lot for her on the ground. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she handled it well because her stuff was very public.
Speaker 1: It was on the shade un but she really went
Speaker 1: off one's good time though. She really liked something big,
Speaker 1: like she was going back and forth. It was a lot.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, after that, but I deemed her and
Speaker 1: I told her, I said, you know, you need to
Speaker 1: see SISSSS which is a counselor um and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: give me information a therapist. But yeah, I spoke to
Speaker 1: her and I said, do you want to her faith
Speaker 1: based you know, to get right? And she was like
Speaker 1: all right, well, I mean based on her mentor just
Speaker 1: the conversation and it seems like it's in a really
Speaker 1: good place. Yeah, she's in a position where she can actually,
Speaker 1: like based on what I was saying earlier about humilities,
Speaker 1: you know, call her ego aside and say just what
Speaker 1: I need to work on exactly for myself in order
Speaker 1: to move on and get that piece to then invite
Speaker 1: somebody else in my life. Yeah, it made me such
Speaker 1: a good person. Her energy is all the time, and
Speaker 1: I prose we can relate the connection we have. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like, I love Mimi. I think she she's dope
Speaker 1: and like I said, like I said, she's involving, evolving.
Speaker 1: She's out here now at West you know, she she's
Speaker 1: killing it on stage. She is. I mean, if now
Speaker 1: has not tapped you on your shoulder and told your
Speaker 1: bags need to be packed by nine o'clock and you
Speaker 1: have a seat, I promise you you could be replaced,
Speaker 1: and I would think that your ship is safe. I'm
Speaker 1: like I but at least she told us, like apart
Speaker 1: from only fans, like obviously, there's all the other social
Speaker 1: media platforms that we can work for me. It's a
Speaker 1: hustler always, definitely. Yeah. But now this tonight was a
Speaker 1: great show once again, it's what is it the fifth
Speaker 1: sixth show? Yeah about about begetting out um energy was amazing.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know me, I'm gonna leave off for
Speaker 1: the quote um inspire us. You know we're gonna wrap
Speaker 1: this thing up and you're gonna wrap it up like this,
Speaker 1: raise your glasses and we ain't gonna shake gasses, but
Speaker 1: we're gonna raise the glasses. I don't wrote it down,
Speaker 1: so it's all it says, celebrate yourself. Nobody knows what
Speaker 1: it takes to be you a beautiful so nobody knows
Speaker 1: what it takes to have this energy. So no, I
Speaker 1: think sometimes we don't know how to do that because
Speaker 1: we always feel like we're missing out on something. We
Speaker 1: always feel like we have to work so hard because
Speaker 1: we have to get your certain goal. To write the
Speaker 1: little wind, the little ones, the small wings, the big
Speaker 1: thing that I do that I've always tried to celebrate
Speaker 1: my small bing wings, even when it's when I had
Speaker 1: my first magazine cover with High Pair, people was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, that magazine so oh they came out
Speaker 1: of the nineties, but it's so legendary to me that
Speaker 1: I'm inside Angela Bassett and I decide you had to
Speaker 1: pink it and I'm aside Sierra and um um, it's
Speaker 1: just Legends and Ledger magazine and I was now I'm
Speaker 1: one of the faces of them. So why would I
Speaker 1: not celebrate that. You guys don't have to be in
Speaker 1: it with me. But I'm going to get better at that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I celebrate my small wing the
Speaker 1: opinion to the opinion at all. You know, we have
Speaker 1: five points two million followers. They allway, that's something to say,
Speaker 1: but I acknowed it anyway. Yeah, thank you for tuning
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