Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second day. I think one of the best
Speaker 1: things that you can do on a first date is
Speaker 1: take a girl that you don't even know down a
Speaker 1: remote road where nobody's at and it's just you two together.
Speaker 1: That's the most romantic thing that I can think of.
Speaker 1: If you want to get maced. Maybe that's what Kenny
Speaker 1: did on his first date. Yeah, so you guys say
Speaker 1: that now, you say, oh, that sounds super creepy, but
Speaker 1: that's what he did. He took her hiking. It's exactly, yes,
Speaker 1: it is exactly. It really is. That's what Kenny decided
Speaker 1: to do on his first date with the girl that
Speaker 1: he wants us to call today. I don't think it
Speaker 1: was as creepy as I made it sound, unless you
Speaker 1: want to correct me on that, Kenny. No, I mean,
Speaker 1: it was definitely not that creepy. Just checking. I don't know.
Speaker 1: You know, you said you took her hiking in your email,
Speaker 1: so that's all I thought about. Maybe on the problem here, Kenny,
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about the girl that
Speaker 1: you want us to call today. We are we know
Speaker 1: you took her hiking. We'll get into that in a second.
Speaker 1: But where'd you meet her? I met her out at
Speaker 1: a bar. We have some mutual friends, and all I
Speaker 1: heard was that she was recently single, and I was interested,
Speaker 1: and I asked her out. Was it like a setup
Speaker 1: thing where your friends are like, hey, this girl, she's single,
Speaker 1: come to the bar. She's there too. No, not really.
Speaker 1: I mean we all just happened to be in the
Speaker 1: same place at the same time, and I just found
Speaker 1: out to single. Okay, And that's when you said, hey,
Speaker 1: do you want to come down a dark road with me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not exactly how I said it, but yeah, I
Speaker 1: did ask her to go. Okay? And why hiking? I
Speaker 1: think that's a fine first date. I think a lot
Speaker 1: of people would like that. But why choose hiking instead
Speaker 1: of meeting up for coffee or food or whatever. I
Speaker 1: love the outdoors, I love living up here, and I
Speaker 1: just think it's a great first date activity. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, one that's like you relieve stress, you kind
Speaker 1: of relax. Two, you're definitely in beautiful nature. And for me,
Speaker 1: the other thing is it's free. That's another very good
Speaker 1: free Kenny. Do you know, is she an outdoorsy person too?
Speaker 1: Because I know girls sometimes love it or hate it.
Speaker 1: She was into it. I mean, she was certainly keeping
Speaker 1: up with me on the trail. She didn't complain. Yeah. Nice.
Speaker 1: That's the best part when you're in better shape and
Speaker 1: you get like ahead of them and you're just like,
Speaker 1: hurry up, come on, it is your first time. That's
Speaker 1: always fun to do too, you know. Yeah, if they're
Speaker 1: lagging behind, I normally get you know, a little a
Speaker 1: little concerned. But she was keeping up. Okay, I hike
Speaker 1: quite a bit. There's a lot of time for conversation
Speaker 1: or lack thereof. Was it easy to talk to her?
Speaker 1: It was? I mean, I thought she was really funny,
Speaker 1: and you know, I mean I've been on a lot
Speaker 1: of dates where you just go out and have drinks
Speaker 1: and don't you just I don't know, I never really
Speaker 1: know what's really happening, or what's the liquor talking or whatever,
Speaker 1: and up there it's just like you're away from it all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was funny and had a great time, I thought.
Speaker 1: So she's obviously not calling you back. Did anything happen
Speaker 1: on the hike at all that Was there any awkward moments? Yeah,
Speaker 1: not that I had noticed. The only awkward moment I
Speaker 1: noticed was afterwards we went down and we went over
Speaker 1: to this grocery store to get some water, and we
Speaker 1: were just kind of hanging around, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm actually a pretty good chef. I
Speaker 1: like to cook a lot. And I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: now that the hype one, well maybe I'll make a
Speaker 1: dinner or something. So I said, hey, can I cook
Speaker 1: you dinner tonight, thinking we'd just still go out. It's
Speaker 1: a Saturday, right, and she just sort of responded with no,
Speaker 1: I have to get up early. Mike. Well do you
Speaker 1: work tomorrow? She says, no, I just have to get
Speaker 1: up early. I'm like, well, small Sunday okay. Really bummed
Speaker 1: me out. Did she seem upset about something? No, I
Speaker 1: mean it's anything. She's like, well, we'll do it with
Speaker 1: some other nights. Great. I mean we didn't make any
Speaker 1: specific plans, but I don't know. It just seemed weird.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I called you guys, especially if you felt
Speaker 1: like you had a good time in her to just
Speaker 1: be like, no, I gotta get up early in the
Speaker 1: morning on a Sunday, you know, and no excuse, like
Speaker 1: nothing nothing good to say about, like, yeah, I have
Speaker 1: to get up early for church or I have to
Speaker 1: get up early for anything. And there's not a woman
Speaker 1: that I know that would say no to a man
Speaker 1: cooking them dinner. It's a very rare offer, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: I know, I'm like, that's my thing. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: a good cook. She just wasn't into it her, I thought,
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure what she was thinking. How many
Speaker 1: times have you tried to get ahold of her since
Speaker 1: your date? I texted her Sunday kind of like, had
Speaker 1: a great time. I called her Sunday, told her I
Speaker 1: had a great time. Let me know when we can
Speaker 1: get together again. No response. And then I texted her
Speaker 1: on Tuesday, and that was a while ago. How long
Speaker 1: ago was your date? It was a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago. All right, so that's a
Speaker 1: long time to not hear anything from her. All right,
Speaker 1: now we'll play a song, come back, call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date up date? Okay, all right, thanks along,
Speaker 1: all right, man hanging up brooking jubil in the morning, sate.
Speaker 1: All right, Kenny, are you about ready to give Alexa
Speaker 1: a call and find out why you're not getting a
Speaker 1: call back for a second date. Let's do it. If
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in. Kenny took Alexa on a hike.
Speaker 1: After the hike, they were at the grocery store to
Speaker 1: get some water and stuff, and he said, Hey, why
Speaker 1: don't I make you dinner tonight? And she said, no,
Speaker 1: I have to get up early. And he hasn't heard
Speaker 1: from her since, so he's wondering what we're wrong on
Speaker 1: their date. And Kenny, I didn't ask you at any
Speaker 1: point during your date did you show her your junk? Hey,
Speaker 1: you're on a hike, and that's kind of, you know,
Speaker 1: standard operation for me when I'm on a hike. I
Speaker 1: know that. You know, last time I was on a hike,
Speaker 1: I got junk thrown at me left and right, just
Speaker 1: random people out there. So I'm just making sure because
Speaker 1: actually that seems to happen a lot in second day updates.
Speaker 1: We calling, they're like, oh, yeah, they decided to show
Speaker 1: me a picture on their phone. You never did that
Speaker 1: move at any point. No, I didn't pull that one,
Speaker 1: not even like Pete on a tree or anything when
Speaker 1: you're out there. All right, all right, Well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: die the phone emer see if we can get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and get your second day update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Man. Hello, Hi, can I
Speaker 1: speak to Alexa? Please? This is Alexa. How are you.
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Alexa? Okay? All right. The reason why
Speaker 1: I'm calling you, Alexa is because one of our listeners
Speaker 1: emailed us about you. His name is Kenny, and you
Speaker 1: guys recently went on a date and he emailed you
Speaker 1: about it. Yes, he did, because he wants to know
Speaker 1: why you're not calling him back. He would love to
Speaker 1: see you again and says that at the end of
Speaker 1: your date you even said like, hey, maybe we'll go
Speaker 1: out another time, and he hasn't heard anything from you.
Speaker 1: So Kenny emailed us to see if we could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone and ask you if he did
Speaker 1: something wrong. That is incredibly weird. I know, I understand
Speaker 1: this is like a weird phone call to get but
Speaker 1: would you mind telling us if you enjoyed going out
Speaker 1: with Kenny? Well, I guess since you're already calling. I mean,
Speaker 1: we went on the hike and the hike was fine,
Speaker 1: we were getting along, but at the end of the
Speaker 1: date got really weird and so I haven't called him.
Speaker 1: It got really weird because when we talked, we talked
Speaker 1: to Kenny about your date. He didn't mention anything weird happening.
Speaker 1: He had agreed you talk to him on the phone.
Speaker 1: M we did. He said that everything seemed normal. This
Speaker 1: is this is the first in my dating life. I
Speaker 1: gotta say, well, what happened that was so weird? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't so much weird as it was humiliating.
Speaker 1: Whoa he humiliated you? Oh no, what did he do
Speaker 1: that was humiliating? We like got our bottles of water
Speaker 1: and we were walking out of the store and we
Speaker 1: like walked past the pharmacy area and he saw this
Speaker 1: acne medicine and he pulls me over by it. He's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you should really try this. It's it's really good and
Speaker 1: it could really help you. Who are you serious? I
Speaker 1: am you have Wow? What did you say when he
Speaker 1: said that to you? I think like all the blood
Speaker 1: drained from my face and then all of the blood
Speaker 1: came to my face and I was like rushing, like
Speaker 1: beat red, absolutely mortified. I mean maybe yeah, it was
Speaker 1: like the most humiliating experience in middle school. Like it was.
Speaker 1: Do you think he realized what he said to you
Speaker 1: I don't care. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't care either.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, hey, you're an a hole. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I could not believe that happened in real life.
Speaker 1: And it went then and then he's like, oh, do
Speaker 1: you want to come over? I'll make you dinner so
Speaker 1: you can make me dinner, and then like, let me
Speaker 1: try some more your acne products. Yeah, like tell me
Speaker 1: what else I can fix about myself after there. I mean,
Speaker 1: if was there any time during the hike that maybe
Speaker 1: you guys like I don't know, somehow got on the
Speaker 1: subject of how hard it is to have acne or
Speaker 1: something no god first state material like nosh. So you're
Speaker 1: just walking along and he stops and goes, hey, try
Speaker 1: this acne medication. It might work for you. It might
Speaker 1: help you, it could really help you. Is messed up?
Speaker 1: Like what the And then apparently he calls the radio
Speaker 1: station like yeah, if he's not that aware to know
Speaker 1: that that's something wrong to say somebody. I can imagine
Speaker 1: being at your house cooking, like, hey, I'm not using
Speaker 1: butter in this your house? Like what what what would
Speaker 1: you say to him? If you could say one thing
Speaker 1: to him that's direct Alexa would you like to say
Speaker 1: that to him because he's actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 1: I'm so horrified right now. You should be. You should be.
Speaker 1: You should be absolutely mortified, just like I was. In
Speaker 1: all honesty. Can I just tell y'all trying to help
Speaker 1: you out? If anything, you don't need your help. I
Speaker 1: don't need your help. I'm Kenny. You're digging your ditch
Speaker 1: even more right now. My skin is calling that like
Speaker 1: I actually spent time with you, and you think you
Speaker 1: need to help me, Like I just think it's like
Speaker 1: a grooming tip of anything, you know. I don't know
Speaker 1: why everyone is like laughing. It's so horri I mean
Speaker 1: I was in the situation with her, and I saw
Speaker 1: the problem and I was just trying to help. To me,
Speaker 1: it was a positive move. Oh my god, that's not
Speaker 1: the kind of help that anybody really wants or needs.
Speaker 1: Do you have any read on like other people's emotions? Kenny?
Speaker 1: Maybe you're just bad you think I don't know what
Speaker 1: my face looks like, Like, yes, I had a breakout,
Speaker 1: Like I'm pmssing like it happened. I need you to
Speaker 1: tell me that fix me. I mean, I didn't mean
Speaker 1: any harm by it. I was just trying to help
Speaker 1: you out, you know. I mean, you can shove your
Speaker 1: help up here, Kenny. I don't think anybody wants to
Speaker 1: have somebody recommend a skin cream to them to help
Speaker 1: them with whatever acne problems are having at that moment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: even my mom would do that, and I'd be like, hey,
Speaker 1: you're what I mean? I mean, look, I guess I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I just wasn't thinking very clearly, and I shouldn't any saying.
Speaker 1: And I feel like an idiot right now. And good,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. My buddies and I
Speaker 1: we like take care of our skin, we moisturized and
Speaker 1: all that week, and I just trying to like help
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe, oh my God, like can we
Speaker 1: have this because I'm so revolted right now. I mean, look,
Speaker 1: it's not about whatever physical things like if I didn't
Speaker 1: think you were a tractor was called and tried to
Speaker 1: go on a second date with you, coming at himself thrilled,
Speaker 1: do you think I'm attractive? Yeah? He was able to
Speaker 1: look past the still want to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date? Figured monster. All right, Well I've got to
Speaker 1: ask the question, Alexa, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Kenny. No, Kenny, and he's
Speaker 1: already trying to find things to fix about me. Why
Speaker 1: the would I waste time on a second one? Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, I got it, I got it. Okay, Kenny.
Speaker 1: You know what, so you understand what you did wrong? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I do. Do you to tell you the truth? I'm
Speaker 1: a little surprised and shocked that if you make like
Speaker 1: one mistake on a date, then it's like someone can
Speaker 1: be so judgmental and just blow me all. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're still doing it, Kny. You're calling me judgment Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's pretty amazing, Like I can't believe this is reality
Speaker 1: right now? All right, Kitty, Well, better luck next time
Speaker 1: when you're out there in the world dating. Okay, Yeah, thanks, Judd.
Speaker 1: I think we all learned one very important lesson today,
Speaker 1: and that's don't ever take girls hiking, right am? I right?
Speaker 1: Worst dating idea ever, Jewel in the morning, I could
Speaker 1: show you incredible things, magic, madness, heaven since saw you