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Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Man. Welcome back to Coast to Coast George Nori with

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Speaker 2: you Elaine Starling with US international speaker ted ex presenter podcaster.

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Speaker 2: She combines proven business strategies with personal development and spiritual

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Speaker 2: insights in order to help others realize their dreams. Elaine,

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 3: Hey George, I am so happy to join you.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to this and great book, by the way,

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Speaker 2: Five Steps to Activate Your Abundance.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I had such a blast writing that book.

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Speaker 3: It really just poured out of me, and I hope

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Speaker 3: that you heard my voice in every page. I do.

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Speaker 2: Now, and when we talk about abundance, there are different

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Speaker 2: kinds of abundance. One is personal for wealth and well being.

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Speaker 2: There's another spiritual type of abundance. What do you talk

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Speaker 2: about primarily?

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Speaker 3: You know, I talk about all of it because I

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Speaker 3: really want people to be able to unlock their own

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Speaker 3: personal power so they experience abundance in every single area

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Speaker 3: of their life. That's everything from wealth, opportunities, relationships, and

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Speaker 3: personal fulfillment. I cover the entire thing.

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Speaker 2: We're going to go through these five steps as well.

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Speaker 2: But you call yourself the abundance ambassador. How come you know?

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Speaker 3: I love the idea that an ambassador introduces you to

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Speaker 3: new cultures and customs, and I'm really helping people embrace

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Speaker 3: the mindset and habits that lead to an extraordinary and

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Speaker 3: abundant life so they fall in love with their own life.

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Speaker 2: Did you always feel this way, Elaine?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I didn't, you know? It was really interesting. I was

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Speaker 3: blessed on Year's Day two thousand and five to have

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Speaker 3: a stroke, and I always be blessed because during my stroke,

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Speaker 3: I had an incredible conversation with God and I just

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Speaker 3: was blown away because I got this incredible download about

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Speaker 3: how everything works, why we're alive, how we can live

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Speaker 3: our best life, and what happens next after this life.

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Speaker 3: And honestly, George, don't worry about it. It's a graduation,

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Speaker 3: it's not an ending. But at the end of this conversation,

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Speaker 3: I was told to share what I'd learned, and that's

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Speaker 3: what I've been doing ever since. But it's been quite

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Speaker 3: a journey for me because every time I would ask

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Speaker 3: a question, the answer would immediately come into my body.

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Speaker 3: Past present, future colors we can't see sounds we can't hear.

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Speaker 3: It was kind of like swallowing Google holes. All the

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Speaker 3: lights that shares, the videos, the keywords, do everything, and

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Speaker 3: I had to synthesize and summarize and make it actionable

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Speaker 3: for everybody. And that's really what I did with my book.

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Speaker 2: Let's go back to the stroke, if it's not too

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Speaker 2: painful for you, Elaine. Though New Year's Eve, you said.

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Speaker 3: New Year's Day and I was on vacation in New Zealand.

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Speaker 3: It was interesting because I was wandering around. I'd had

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Speaker 3: breakfast and some of the shops were open, were poking

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Speaker 3: in and out of the shop, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 3: I got tunnel vision with little sparkles around the outside.

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Speaker 3: And then my right arm went numb and the right

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Speaker 3: the poster on the wall. And I knew exactly what

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Speaker 3: they said. I knew exactly what was in the poster,

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: I felt great, I felt awesome. It was like a

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Speaker 3: they said, sure, go ahead. So as soon as I did,

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Speaker 3: I found myself inside this massive cloud and I was

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Speaker 3: I felt this cloud expressing so much approval and appreciation

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Speaker 3: multiple languages, I am a fault ruld hunger. Come on,

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Speaker 3: what are you talking about? And I immediately received the message, Oh,

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Speaker 3: you don't understand how this works. See, you're designed with

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Speaker 3: your skills, your abilities, your talents, your interests, your preferences,

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Speaker 3: You are perfect because of your imperfections. And I had

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Speaker 3: Are you sure you're done? And I knew that I

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Speaker 3: I'm not done, and I heard, great, get back and

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Speaker 2: That is remarkable. That's a miracle all by itself. Now,

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Speaker 2: was this the moment of your spiritual awakening?

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Speaker 3: It sure was. It sure was, you know, because before that,

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Speaker 3: every once in a while I would receive a bit

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Speaker 3: of inspiration. But I didn't realize just how completely interwoven

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Speaker 3: our spiritual nature is into everything we do. And that

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Speaker 2: Then nineteen years later you wrote five steps to Activate

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Speaker 2: your abundance. What took you so long?

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Speaker 3: Well man, try to figure out how to explain it

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Speaker 3: to people in a simple way and make it really fun.

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Speaker 3: That is so important. I can't stress this enough, you know, George.

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Speaker 3: I decided a few years ago, I'm not going to

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Speaker 3: word work, it feels heavy, it feels confining, it feels

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Speaker 3: on my own. And so I decided, instead of using

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Speaker 3: the word work, I'm going to use the word play.

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Speaker 3: So now I play with everything I do, and I

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Speaker 3: play hard, but I so much fun and I could

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Speaker 3: play with other people and I get too. It's not

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Speaker 3: I have to. I love too. It was really interesting.

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Speaker 3: I came across some research that was done in the

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Speaker 3: nineteen eighties with children, and they took two different groups

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Speaker 3: a play structure with some kind of interactive game. Well,

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Speaker 3: we're much more receptive and more information comes through. I

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Speaker 3: experienced the divine as a pro restive joy, just over

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Speaker 2: When I was a kiddy lane, I had a motto

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Speaker 2: work hard, play hard, and by that as a teenager,

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Speaker 2: I sold shoes in school, I played football, baseball, theatrics,

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Speaker 2: just never stopped, And to this day I have that

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Speaker 2: same motto, work hard, play hard. That's pretty similar to

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Speaker 2: what you did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, you can have a lot of fun doing

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Speaker 3: what most people think of as work. But when you're

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Speaker 3: make for yourself and for others by sharing your skills

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Speaker 3: and talents, continually being willing to grow and learn, Oh

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Speaker 3: my gosh, you're just on fire, unstoppable, and that energy

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Speaker 3: is so compelling to other people. They want what you've got,

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Speaker 3: all means, play your heart out. It makes a massive difference.

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Speaker 2: How did you come up with five steps to activate

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Speaker 3: It's because I was divinely guided through the whole process.

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Speaker 3: It's really interesting when I collaborate with the divine. I

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Speaker 3: ask questions and then I sit in silence and let

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Speaker 3: the message flow through, and I keep asking questions until

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Speaker 3: nothing else comes through. And so I was really asking,

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Speaker 3: how can we go from where we are now to

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Speaker 3: creating the life of our dreams? What does that look like?

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Speaker 3: And how do we get there from here? And that's

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Speaker 3: when those steps came through.

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Speaker 2: What does abundance mean to you?

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Speaker 3: It really starts as a an inside feeling. It's feeling

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Speaker 3: more engaging. I honestly feel that abundance is gratitude in action.

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Speaker 2: Would you call friends part of your abundance?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely tell me more about that part.

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Speaker 3: Every single relationship you have is designed to reflect and

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Speaker 2: Good for you. Did it take you long to come

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Speaker 3: Well, it only took me, what nineteen years? Eighteen years

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Speaker 3: I articulate this because, honestly, in George, one of the

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Speaker 3: things that I realized is the power of the words

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Speaker 3: A few months ago, I was in my kitchen doing

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Speaker 3: And I immediately felt and heard a very loud, forceful

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Speaker 3: voice in my body that said, when you deny your power,

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Speaker 3: your power is shown to you. You are more powerful

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Speaker 3: than you can imagine. I was like, whoa, dride off

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Speaker 3: And I realized that often it's the words I use,

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Speaker 2: What makes people Elaine in your opinion.

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Speaker 3: Happy, Everyone has as the opportunity to feel blessed. One

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Speaker 2: You might not like the check, but you like it

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Speaker 2: Abundance. There's a definition there too, though, isn't there.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely If you look up abundance in the dictionary, you

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Speaker 3: And I'm going to tell you, George, just about every

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Speaker 3: If they are bored to tears because they've got nothing

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Speaker 3: love how the things that normally bother me or drive

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Speaker 3: or there's a minor I don't even notice it. All

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Speaker 2: Are they always there? Are they always there for you?

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Speaker 3: Always? Always? And in freaky ways too, like all the

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Speaker 2: What is the one thing that you should never do

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Speaker 3: You know? I think one of the things people struggle

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Speaker 3: Whenever you want something like you really really want it,

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Speaker 3: So here's the way to tune down that intensity. Start

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Speaker 3: If you like to travel, you can watch documentary. Surround

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